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"description": "not telling my boyfriend about a month-long trip overseas",
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} | AITA for not telling my boyfriend about a month-long trip overseas? | I’m graduating college in April this year and my best friend of 10 years and I have always dreamed of going on our grad trip together. My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago and in the past few months I’ve casually mentioned a couple of times how I’m excited to be travelling this summer (he knew we would b... | HISTORICAL | {
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UtM288tjmFCGljIEflbqa9pGzubN9jTm | ajkrbv | {
"description": "not wanting to order a bridesmaids dress online",
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} | AITA for not wanting to order a bridesmaids dress online? | TLDR: am I the asshole for not wanting to order a $175 bridesmaids dress from a sketchy Chinese website?
Long time reader, first time throwaway poster, blah blah blah.
Dear friend is getting married. Initially the goal with bridesmaids gowns was to keep them affordable, which is awesome. Then things took a turn to... | HISTORICAL | {
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GsfGUaK04EW0TsCibxlJJD12rsm7ICsf | ay6qzm | {
"description": "not cancelling my post work dinner plans with a friend I work with just because my girlfriend's great uncle died",
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} | AITA (35M) for not cancelling my post work dinner plans with a friend (30M) I work with just because my girlfriend's (27F) great uncle(83M) died? | Last week, a friend (we'll call him Khan) and I made plans to grab burgers after work today. My girlfriend works 10am to 6pm and my friend I work 3pm to 11pm. I should note my girlfriend is not a big fan of this friend due to shady stuff he has done in the past but I've always maintained that he is my friend no matter ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "refusing to plan 2 weddings",
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} | AITA for refusing to plan 2 weddings? | I’ll try to be as brief as possible but there is some background info I think is relevant to understand. Also, apologies for bad formatting, I’m emotional and typing on mobile.
About 18 months ago, my parents announced they were getting divorced. My mum had met someone else and was leaving my dad. But the whole story ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GlxZjfsFpnjD3Flm2pYFMqxqoRW6v4RQ | ab0k74 | null | AITA/ Am i the bully or are the bullies the bully ? | AITA/ I was getting bullied everyday until one day i snapped and began to fight causing injury to them, AITA ? | HISTORICAL | {
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f68GEUxIjcUcOo0nD80S8kzB69lIwNbV | aj9a96 | {
"description": "accidentally stealing my friend's job",
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} | AITA for accidentally stealing my friend’s job (sort of)? | Okay so my friend (let’s call him K) and I have both been working at this caffe for a little over three months now and we are both exceptional workers. He mentioned to me a few weeks ago that he was interested in becoming shift manager when one of the previous shifts announced that he would be quitting. So he starts be... | HISTORICAL | {
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vkrrYWVE2JzHiPpllPYuqAlgEtyDF4Kn | asetoo | {
"description": "getting tired of massaging and cracking my girlfriends back",
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} | AITA for getting tired of massaging and cracking my girlfriends back? | My girlfriend since I met her has had a sore back and shoulders. We started going out long distance so I would massage her when she came to visit or I visited her. I would also crack her back. This just felt like normal relationship stuff.
Now we’re no longer long distance and I see her every day. We’re also about t... | HISTORICAL | {
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CLGS72BQiH6kQRaB5JTzm50CEDgcp3zt | ad2iwv | {
"description": "sleeping with my friend's ex",
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} | AITA for sleeping with my friend's ex | So I'm friends with this guy who we'll call Chris. While we we're good friends in high school, we now we live quite far apart, but we keep in contact through text and the occasional phone call, see each other when ever we're both in town, etc. Anyway, he dated this girl, Anna, for a year or so until they broke up - two... | HISTORICAL | {
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uSSPeGp34nH6vYoXvpDdBhKelqZcR000 | b8mrv2 | {
"description": "telling my roommate her boy had to leave",
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} | WIBTA if I told my roommate her boy had to leave | Roommate - 19
Me -22
My gf -21
So recently my room mate broke up with her boyfriend and since then shes kinda been on this downward spiral of bad habits.but shes constantly getting on our case for stupid things that dont even revolve around our roommate agreement like how long dishes can stay in the dishwasher and wh... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
dQ6RNq9DUqEa1ZRlBwuQwqgiBCh56JB8 | aa236g | {
"description": "getting annoyed at my parents for going into my bedroom",
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at my parents for going into my bedroom? | I'm visiting with my parents for a month. It's nice to stay with them for a whole month, and they often share food and wine with me. No need to pay rent or even for laundry detergent. Thing is, they keep asking me to clean my room and make my bed (I'm a somewhat disorganized 27 y o) and I suspect that they go into my r... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 2,
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CAbEoEYH596v0yzoaNwNn4W685uI9VBZ | b5xzwt | null | Aita or is my teacher the a-hole | So in class we made clay monsters i worked really hard on and we were glazing them and when I was glazing I accentually drew some that looked like a penis and if removed it would of messed it up so I just said I was done placed it down and my art teacher said “you can’t keep this” I tried to explain what happened she d... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
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"description": "asking my roommates gf to stop using my bathroom",
"pronormative_score": 98,
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} | Wibta If I asked my roommates gf to stop using my bathroom? | I just moved into a home with 4 bedrooms, 3 baths where I rent a room. Although I have my own room i have to share a bathroom with another roommate. The other two roommates have their own private bathrooms inside their bedrooms.
One of my roommates (who has their own private bathroom inside their bedroom) has his gf s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 98,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
A7bXpaewTzYBGSvlOsFxVUTerZjCENws | 9wfjea | null | AITA for the way I broke up with my ex-boyfriend? | So I had been dating this guy for a few months. We shared a lot in common and made each other laugh. There were no major issues to speak of. Never had an argument or anything like that. We were both university students in the same city, and spent a lot of our time together in dorms snuggling under the covers, watching ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 13,
"WRONG": 30
} | WRONG |
idu0xvIzqBo2cnGwGMfoagdQPOQMy5xq | b5g5ff | {
"description": "keeping my friend's family from contacting him",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for keeping my friend's family from contacting him? | My (26F) friend's (30M) family is attempting to contact him about a bill for a storage unit that he failed to pay off (\~$700). His mom payed the bill and is threatening to have his stuff auctioned off and keep the money.
My friend struggles with bipolar and drug addiction and the only means of contact they have with... | HISTORICAL | {
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GzbKiTdHmEZHlUMKeiwOPtiKcsdZ1Z7C | ajnnw9 | {
"description": "not letting go of things that my brother did many years ago",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not letting go of things that my brother did many years ago? | I'm 20 male and my brother is 18. Basically many years ago I used to be bullied verbally but never physically in high-school, I didn't have friends and was alone most of the time, being told that "no one likes me" whenever someone gets upset with me. Which was probably due to my lack of social skills and inability to r... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
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"RIGHT": 8,
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80mHPJaF4kLXyHhCVFdRUM5G2D9XYDPJ | alam1e | {
"description": "wanting to go for a thru-hike alone, without my girlfriend",
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} | AITA for wanting to go for a thru-hike alone, without my girlfriend? | Recently I've developed a good interest for backpacking and camping; hiking trails. In my excitement I've told my girlfriend about my plans, which involves hiking around 10-15 miles per day for a couple of days strait in order to finish a section of a trail I selected.
She was excited about the idea, but didn't feel ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 5,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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2ww67HS1RmpTeeUm3HdBGFcSR5gBRCGx | b6rlyg | {
"description": "not giving someone their shoes back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not giving someone their shoes back? | So, in my friend group a lot of us like basketball shoes. I had some Jordan 3's that my friend (I'll call them aaron) really liked and wanted.
He came up to me at school one day asking if i would be willing to trade them for soldier 11's which he knew i loved. I told him of course and that Saturday we had traded. I co... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
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4tpwjj75FOZo5Utkup1WHor94KEKFzWE | 9vopr7 | {
"description": "denying my friend rides home from work an hour before I get off",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA for denying my friend rides home from work an hour before I get off? | Right now I'm looking for a place to stay and I'm currently living with a group of friends in their apartment. I happen to work with 2 of them. The apartment is less than 5 minutes from where we all work so my friend wants me to give him a ride. No problem I thought until he got off an hour early and asked if I could d... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
MPeRFdzeql5VpZd1jRZKWooyFDKXtTZ2 | axpyqe | {
"description": "telling my flatmates I'm leaving but convincing the owner to kick them out",
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} | AITA for telling my flatmates I'm leaving but convincing the owner to kick them out | I (23M) have been sharing a flat with Alice (F19) and Bob (M19) for about two years. I was in the flat before with some great mates that left the country to continue their studies (we're all college students). I've lived here for 4 years so I like to call this my home. Financially independent just last year. I have gre... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 9,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
doDNlb1w5DXRNoa72h4KXpGjGwVQiKO4 | afsj16 | {
"description": "wanting my girlfriend to stop being friends with her best friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For wanting my girlfriend to stop being friends with her best friend? | To give a little backstory, my girlfriend (who I’ll call Ann) and I have been dating for almost a year now and we’ve been going pretty smoothly. I introduced her to my friend (who will be called Bob) who introduced her to his boyfriend (who will be called Jim,), everyone got along well. One day I get a text from Bob s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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PkXcwfxF6aGd5FrL2OsljdbmUcZVAwH7 | apnrew | {
"description": "hating my forner junior high friends gor moving on in high school",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITAH I hate my forner junior high friends gor moving on in high school | It was the middle of my freshman year of high school and I thought my friends from 8th grade would want to to continue to be friends and one kid even said sure. I asked them to hang out and they were always busy as usual. I've never been great with social queues and hints and they were busy when we were still friends.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
PB3y3n9jq0vBsoh2FLXCYTFjP1Bcmtqn | ac3jm8 | {
"description": "telling my so she needs to get rid of clothes",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling my SO she needs to get rid of clothes | My SO and I share 3 small closets, one dresser and a 6-cubby shelf for clothing. I have one of two smaller closets while she uses the other two, two of three dresser drawers and five of six cubbies. Half of the room's perimeter has her clothing piled up along the wall, including a pile on top of the dresser. I've been ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
gTMjLPpdl1wgs4F12u5dTWxIqKFOwmjE | b4oprn | {
"description": "thinking someone's a terrible driver",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA because I think someone's a terrible driver? | Okay, so me and a couple of coworkers are driving to a mall. We're carpooling in this woman's car, let's call her RL for rude lady. It's seven of us stuffed in a van and RL is driving way too fast. A lady in the back (CW for coworker) tells her to slow down, we won't get there quicker if we're dead. RL shoots back, 'Th... | HISTORICAL | {
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w5xL9vglnqdmLbWavDU51WG1k2p6JFPG | b49fab | {
"description": "telling my friend I'd go home if she bought a bottle of wine",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my friend I’d go home if she bought a bottle of wine? | My friend is a recently diagnosed alcoholic which she’s sort of accepting. She’s had a couple hiccups as obviously it’s incredibly difficult to go completely cold turkey and she’s dealing with other stuff too.
She wanted to have a “weekend off” and drink and I said this was a terrible idea and I would go home if she dr... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
lORhbxDZ75tIZg3w5hijPcazhgmhI2Tp | aco0q0 | {
"description": "not paying my employees more",
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} | AITA for Not Paying My Employees More? | Burner account due to personal details. I was laid off from my corporate job in 2008 and used my retirement savings to start a new business. It was very rough going for a few years (we came close to failing, like most start ups, which means I came close to losing my life savings, but the business finally got traction a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
VyVoBMYui7jT2GmIMY2bIpOMX2VRZ8M1 | a7ys0v | {
"description": "being angry with my friend for not supporting me during my dad's death",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being angry with my friend for not supporting me during my dad’s death? | MY friend has been going through IVF which has led to two miscarriages at a very early stage 3-4 weeks along. She is using a route which she has been warned has 80% chance of miscarriage. She refuses to try other routes with better chances.
I’ve been to hospital appointments, covered for her in work, been there 24/7.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
3WmjZvQJm1UU3n71P78LhEaCx703bP9d | 9v7y62 | {
"description": "moving out of my dorm without telling my roommate",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for moving out of my dorm without telling my roommate? | Background: My roommate (We’ll call him Cole) is a nice guy, but there are a few serious problems I have with him that I tried and failed to resolve. He snores *so* loud, I wear earplugs and noise canceling headphones sleep and every night for several weeks either couldn’t get to sleep for several hours or was woken up... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Pfaji5C76ssD8S0lCSwfWZGLvirt8plE | b45naq | {
"description": "calling Captain America a bitch to his face",
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} | AITA for calling Captain America a bitch to his face? | The backstory for this is pretty much exactly what it sounds like. I went to a comic con a few months ago in chicago. My girlfriend bought the tickets for me and got me the chance to meet Chris Evans and I was beyond excited as hes my favorite actor portraying my favorite superhero. After I took the picture with him a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
47IsH451Ad04hACyWGdKzeQN9PqIsdVU | aqmj89 | {
"description": "ruining a budding relationship",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA for ruining a budding relationship? | I wouldn’t post this here but I really feel like I’m in the right and my coworkers have told me I’m wrong, so I’d like opinions from people who are removed from the situation. Also, my apologies for how long this is.
I started at a company about 2 years ago. The people in it are very close knit and almost everyone kno... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
z9DfdeTbc46MKpr61z0FKtP7vorklMb6 | as1qop | {
"description": "not wanting to listening to a political tirade from an african american woman at a brew pub",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting to listening to a political tirade from an African American woman at a brew pub? | I live in the northeastern US. My boyfriend and I are both Caucasian.
My were at a local brewery the other night when an African American woman struck up a convo with us. At first, she seemed normal/friendly but quickly became pretty aggressive. She began lecturing us, quite sternly, about the poor state of race rela... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
hg4GqLrTW64IzkdNYY4nDFLBIBAdqek8 | b9qumr | {
"description": "yelling at a 14-year-old",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 25
} | AITA for yelling at a 14-year-old? | Hey guys. On throwaway here.
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For context: I (23f) have been living with a host family for the past four months in a foreign country. This host family had to go through a rigorous selection process with the program I'm currently working with to host me, so it's not like my presence here is any surprise to... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
wRqIkJzkxVRVnc9x1tf2ahKgZTKgri6k | 9u92sx | {
"description": "never giving my brother help/advice, even though my mother gets angry with me when I don't",
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} | AITA If I never give my brother help/advice, even though my mother gets angry with me when I don't? | My (24f) youngest brother (21m) is the baby of the family. Meaning he has gotten away with a ton of stuff I, the second oldest of four, couldn't dream of getting away with.
Of course, now we are older, so he should get himself together right? Wrong.
My mother constantly tells me that I should tell him to clean the kitc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
stzNnWZmuVtjfOIIQ1PIOu84mYCovTqM | aq9cwi | {
"description": "\"stealing\" my friend's crush",
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} | AITA For “Stealing” My Friend’s Crush? | I just made this account because this has been eating me away for DAYS! I literally had to get this out of my system.
Some background- I (F21) have been dating my current boyfriend J (21 too) since we were both sophomores in high school. We are both in our junior year of university (Our birthdays were in January FYI)... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
z5mhro9goVBZFGv7Ekfw8u75n3oilXNT | ajn532 | {
"description": "snapping at my boyfriend for talking over me",
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} | AITA for snapping at my boyfriend for talking over me? | Hello, please be gentle, I'm struggling.
I'm in the process of recovering from (relationship) OCD and I've recently reduced my meds meaning I've had a surge of intrusive thoughts. I've been practising not responding to them for a year and as a result, I now can no longer trust my gut instinct - if I react negatively t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "only giving 2 Weeks Notice",
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} | WIBTA If I Only Give 2 Weeks Notice | So I'm typing this on mobile so I apologize for any autocorrect weirdness.
I work in a company I really like and would like to stay in. My position is stressful, 60 hours a week. come in early and leave late kind of stressful. I've been in my current position for about 7 months. But I have been doing 60 hour workweeks... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "calling a girl 'not girlfriend material'",
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} | AITA for calling a girl 'not girlfriend material'? | So in AP Bio we were doing a lab in a group of 4- Sam, Will, Josh, and I. Sam has a crush on this girl, let's call her Maya, in our grade. He knows I used to hang out with Maya a few months ago. We were waiting around for the lab to complete, so we were just taking about random shit, and Sam asks me about Maya. Now, Sa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to listen to an SJW's demands this morning",
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} | AITA for not wanting to listen to an SJW's demands this morning? | This literally just happened so I’m curious to know who’s the asshole in today’s fight. My boyfriend and I wanted to grab a breakfast sandwich from this little bakery. Street parking in this area is always full so after a drive around we parked at the back of the No Frill’s in the area for the 5 minute run. We get out ... | HISTORICAL | {
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J2CUv70jMqnL0sUlxYaVe74hfYANfaBm | aqtxsa | {
"description": "telling my family I shouldn't be the only child who should help with the house bills because I have the \"better job?\"",
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} | AITA for telling my family I shouldn't be the only child who should help with the house bills because I have the "better job?" | My three siblings and I live with my loving parents in a decent house. I'm the second oldest but the most successful in terms of having a career and making money. (Side note: This doesn't really affect my youngest sister since she just started college and is working on getting a job.)
My dad owns a small business an... | HISTORICAL | {
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4ECkNKkAsyCIlxrn2GYanhD5ZGCEnxgM | aj1la2 | {
"description": "eating my housemate's cereal when I was drunk",
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} | AITA for eating my housemate's cereal when I was drunk | Me and my housemate own two types of cereal that are very similar. Even the packets have very similar designs with similar images and colours on them etc.
A couple weekends ago I was out with friends and really overdid it. I don't remember most of the night or coming home, but when I'm that drunk I get the munchies.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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IjKDSTIk0ALXzKeXpZ9CghWANeO0uDUA | b6v1bh | {
"description": "cancelling on a date for being tired",
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} | AITA for cancelling on a date for being tired? | Probably petty but interested in response. Been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, had first date one week after starting to talk went well, had second date on Wednesday just gone (it’s Friday here now (Australia). On the date I said some things he’s said over the last week have been a bit full on (planning way ahead... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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8GUYNw5XiM8QkSBD0KtPE9GLIIcLHnlN | a0wiyo | {
"description": "not wanting a relationship with my mother even if she has cancer",
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} | AITA for not wanting a relationship with my mother even if she has cancer | TL;DR: Am I the asshole for not wanting a relationship with my abusive mother who has cancer?
My mother has borderline personality disorder. My whole life has been filled with psychological, verbal, and monetary abuse, all until last year, when I decided to stop caring for her (she was living with me, not working, no... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being a cleaning nazi",
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} | AITA for being a cleaning Nazi? |
AITA for wanting my roommate to help clean the bathroom we share?
Background: I have been rooming with one of my friends from college since last September and the synergy between the two of us has been fairly strong until it comes to cleaning. Now, I'll be the first to admit I am a bit of a neat freak. I enjoy cle... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting my brother use my car to learn how to drive",
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} | WIBTA for not letting my brother use my car to learn how to drive | Hello, I'm a 20 year old student from Norway. I recently (as in November last year) bought my first "real" car with my own money, an Audi A4 2010 with \~167 000 km (\~104 000 miles). I bought a manual car because it was a good deal on a nice looking used car, I'm used to manuals from my previous beat up car and becau... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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a5Ovz6jfhNvHZAs7j0XxjaujOgfzwMmx | b1occ1 | {
"description": "challenging my mother's spiritual beliefs",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA for challenging my mother's spiritual beliefs? | For background, I'm a college student and my parents divorced somewhat recently.
​
Over the past decade or so my mother has become... increasingly spiritual. In the past 5 years she became more spiritual/religious, and personally, I'm not into it. Of course, she has never forced it on me, but she has becom... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ggp5LZotTf3ZJADKE11G1M2l47AWvZ9B | b0uue1 | {
"description": "being upset that my mom is going back to school",
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} | AITA for being upset that my mom is going back to school? | It’s honestly a little more complicated than that.
My mom has me as a teenager and because of that, had a rough time making a life for herself. She went to a community college when I was younger, my step-dad continued working and one of my older cousins lived with us for a while to help take care of me and my younger ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7PkaQ9hQxEJKgEWiZ3WM4O8tjmwgtLaY | arqh0l | {
"description": "not taking my in-laws to the airport",
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} | AITA for not taking my in-laws to the airport? | Fairly quick story, I am civil but don’t particularly enjoy my sister and law and brother in law for too long at a time. (Neither does my wife, it’s her sister). They usually just try to get us to go to church (even though he’s had multiple affairs) and don’t have much to bring to the table as far as conversation becau... | HISTORICAL | {
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SVCIFZ4Cu5xM2D5xJj4ZdZ6EspFninaR | anij2r | {
"description": "being flirted with, and liking it",
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} | AITA for being flirted with, and liking it? | I broke up with my long term girlfriend of 8 years last December. we are kind of getting along easily now and still living together as were in a lease. she is more broken up about this all than I am, and it's not like I'm over it either, but the other day this guy flirted with me (im bi, she knows) and I mentioned some... | HISTORICAL | {
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yCO7fLFjugjO7AnaCsVa8SOSIMhVCEvC | b28egg | {
"description": "asking to be reimbursed for his food",
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} | AITA for asking to be reimbursed for his food? | So this is all so stupid, but it started an argument and I can’t tell if I’m being unreasonable.
At noon my boyfriend and I were hungry. I was craving Taco Bell and he wanted 5 guys. I offered to go pick them up. I got our meals and came back. I handed him his receipt. He didn’t really get it so I asked him to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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b6RtOO1kbpbyRb1S5ay3aqnd50A58LV5 | b93go8 | {
"description": "leaving my canister with water on the sink in order to remove the fat",
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} | AITA for leaving my canister with water on the sink in order to remove the fat? | I work in a company that has only 10 employees and different from most people here, I bring my food from home inside a little canister.
Usually when I finish lunching I leave my canister with water to remove all the fat that the food leaves in it, alright. Then this guy that is a little bit arrogant sometimes saw... | HISTORICAL | {
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WE3rPo33Qa9zFr71OzcaN9g0VgOiymQA | a8nv8u | {
"description": "not deleting pictures of my ex",
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} | AITA for not deleting pictures of my ex | The other day i let my girlfriend look through my phones pictures, she wanted to send pictures of both of us to her own phone. However, she managed to come across old photos of me and my ex and she got very pissed off, not because she didnt know they were there, Ive been quite open about them before, but because i hadn... | HISTORICAL | {
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2D6fWe12kUWE0sl7xUsh3PgOifeO33Pf | 9up3p5 | {
"description": "not following the rule \"speak only in superlatives or do not speak at all\" after someone's death",
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} | AITA for not following the rule "Speak only in superlatives or do not speak at all" after someone's death? | It happened a while ago, but it still bugs me.
There was a guy, I knew. He was a step father to my ex.
He was an extreme alcoholic, who would steal from his own house and family (wife and kids) just to have money for alcohol. His daughters saw him at his worst. He got kicked out of house by wife multiple times after ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NGZ9kbs5BJPRxhK92LDUMENwPgsfM4zC | ah8bn5 | {
"description": "making my sister cry",
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} | AITA for making my sister cry? | So this story is a bit strange. This all starts with Nail clippers, and a bad day Which is too long to pun on here, so I'm gonna start with the clippers. We have 3 Nail clippers in our house. I'm 16, she's 14, btw. Anyway, I need these nail clippers and I've been looking for them for a week. Yesterday I need a Sharpie ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PSUPTOaD0jANyeze2oaVSWBPuk9TfKd5 | azp0jf | {
"description": "cutting out my brothers friend because of what he did to me when drunk",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for cutting out my brothers friend because of what he did to me when drunk? | Ltl, ftp, on mobile.
So my (28F) brother (24M) has a friend (call him Jack(24M)) with a drinking problem that we (my family) have known about for a long time and have tried to give him help to stop it. My brother and Jack are close, and naturally I’m friends with him too due to us all being in the same high school &am... | HISTORICAL | {
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NI9pxfJimI8e4x8ewJwZOjTmZqo6Cdi5 | aes5ip | {
"description": "being angry at my gf for not wanting to have penetrative sex with me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For being angry at my gf for not wanting to have penetrative sex with me. | So I know this is going to sound like a SHP, and I know many are going to call it that anyway, but this is really my life. From a young age I have always been freakishly tall. I was 6'0 at 14. I am now bordering on 7 feet at 22. My growth has slowed down considerably, which I am thankful for, but throughout my life I h... | HISTORICAL | {
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KaoXrvP9wiZoeeHeTZ22MFKLEQUXlTRv | 9x4hdp | {
"description": "telling my supervisor about a coworker taking tips",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling my supervisor about a coworker taking tips | I’ve recently started working at a gas station, the gas station offers a service where an employee will come outside and fill your tank and clean your windshield. It is policy at my company that we don’t accept tips as the service we offer is free of charge. Even when they persist on giving tips we are suppose to hand ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
6UdTvSsQTXdhqvjsMSO6ZTFfLyhliGAt | b7dvis | {
"description": "getting this tattoo",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for getting this tattoo? | A few years back my best friend took his own life, and the last words of his note were "save the world, kill yourself" so I got a razor blade tattoo on my wrist (his method) along with his last words. It was done to honor my friends memory, I asked his parents if itd be alright and they gave me the go ahead, but withou... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
awI0mlmKXnzspMHJmOua41R1pHJ5iphA | a2ttbl | {
"description": "doing drugs even though my gf doesnt want me to",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA For doing drugs even though my gf doesnt want me to? | Ive been dating my gf (we're both 16) for about 4 months now, and its been pretty great, the only downside is that shes really very against drugs, literally anything except alchol, including cigarettes. I dont even do anything that much, but because im attracted to some harder drugs( like molly, coke) she freaks out. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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sAj5hWivf58Tv7uzvUqVblVarLybSPZl | aop40d | null | AITA: Daughter is needy when sick. Dad disagrees. | AITA: My daughter (9) has the flu. This is her first major illness ever. Generally she’s a really independent kid, but since she’s been sick she wants to stay with me all the time. We’ve always been close but this is new. Am I wrong for letting her? I haven’t changed my routine. When I need to do things, I do them. Ag... | HISTORICAL | {
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mjP93ojit6zUXYrTnLmw55Jj7ivAREvi | ayu6lx | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend that her calling me is boring",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I told my girlfriend that her calling me is boring | I have a girlfriend and we work pretty well together. Talking is fun and interesting. However, talking on the phone with her us the most boring thing on earth. We work so well because we feed of the energy we give to each other. When it's on the phone, it's pretty much silence. Save for a few things said every few minu... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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gJuBW1rSnrWGeocyaA9izlBNKLrfOIV7 | aok0gt | {
"description": "not giving Nmom FA info so she can file her taxes",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not giving Nmom FA info so she can file her taxes? | Really not going that much into detail on this sub regarding the relationship of my mother. But recently she’s just been plain manipulative and evil to me and trying to turn anyone that gullible enough to buy into her bullshit stories about me against me. When I was living with her she would just take 60% of my school ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4Cg6uCgojRT4fxWg4t9LMvD4MBDCWbrB | b9agma | {
"description": "denying my mum from seeing my sisters",
"pronormative_score": 81,
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} | AITA for denying my mum from seeing my sisters | I have only just made this account so I could post this but I've been a lurker for a while.
So... this is a very complicated situation but I'm at a loss and been told I am both the asshole and not the asshole for doing this.
Back story here; I currently have full custody of both my little sisters (ages 17 (we'll ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 81,
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5DIrCay7wLs2VlHdGdDbipKKJmkLHV3E | b4r38y | {
"description": "getting offended by and calling out my boyfriend for calling me a pussy",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for getting offended by and calling out my boyfriend for calling me a pussy? | The other night my boyfriend and I were drinking some wine and he was trying to tease me and tell me to drink more to catch up with him. I said I was good at first, and then he said "Pussy." It caught me off guard and I asked if he was being serious and he just laughed and said "dont be a pussy".
I was deeply hurt an... | HISTORICAL | {
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JuH0RYaH8mSY4Q79r4PHdUI0tUkIM3W1 | a47jux | {
"description": "touching someone's crotch during a hookup when they didn't want it",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for touching someone’s crotch during a hookup when they didn’t want it | I know the title may seem incriminating already, but let me get into more detail. Ok so with the me too movement and the accusations against people like Neil deGrasse Tyson, I realize that I may not know exactly what creepy behavior is like. So I am worried that I hurt someone without knowing.
Basically I met up with ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4NQjZoySjxR8xLMn1u2Zg3WJ6zVKJklC | b0lmoo | {
"description": "saying something ingame",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for saying something ingame? | So, this happened about 3 months ago it happened a few weeks before the end of holidays ended (I’m from Australia, so we have just got off summer holidays). A bit of background, I’m 16 and he is 33 ish. Anyway. Onto this amazing story.
What happened originally is we had started playing Rocket League (fairly active com... | HISTORICAL | {
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PQpojUMjpxHL1mbjrys2wlg8YFlkdz9j | asyrsn | {
"description": "not being smart enough for my group partner",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not being smart enough for my group partner. | Hello,
I am a senior in college in a advanced analysis class. My partner and I are in a final group together. We are the only group of 2 while everybody else is in groups of 3. We had a similar interest for our project which is why we were grouped together. I am at a very good university but not very smart, and ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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pdy1nI5xPY54Ey0VujcRiCnhnxkwY2W7 | atot0p | {
"description": "not helping my boss",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for Not Helping My Boss? | So my boss recently got back from a week long vacation. We work retail, so this was a great break for her. Today we had a closer call in because she is stuck in another state. I was called this morning, my boss asked if I could close tonight. I told her I was not available (I am a student). She huffed and said she was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 14,
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4wUn6alT6ATlnDmHvZlpNRrVWNpXLNx8 | b8my1l | null | AITA for my frugality, and trying to impose financial responsibility on my girlfriend? | My girlfriend (24F) and I (25M) live in a 1 bedroom apartment. She’s a student with a part time job that doesn’t pay much, so my full-time job pays for nearly all of our expenses, including groceries, our apartment, and food/supplies for our 3 cats (19F, 1F, 1M).
I have substantial balances to pay off on a personal c... | HISTORICAL | {
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bJLLwNszcXwmZjIvd5bOzvhtNVqhJxKL | b7nyiy | {
"description": "thinking that my bridesmaid owes me for upstaging and ruining my 30k+ wedding",
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} | AITA for thinking that my bridesmaid owes me for upstaging and ruining my 30k+ wedding?? | My now husband and I got married 1.5 months ago. We had 6 people on each side of the bridal party. This wedding took 3 full years to plan and prepare for. When I got engaged, most of the bridesmaids were very single, including Anna, the "star" of this story. Two of them were in long term relationships. I wanted to just... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 365
} | WRONG |
awUmufDDb6WyhpdxWLi897no6eNX1jU2 | 9zz7fr | {
"description": "not wanting to be around my husbands family as much",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be around my husbands family as much | Long post
Honestly I don’t know if I’m the asshole or not
Basically, my husband (31) and I(25) have been together for a few years, but just got married this spring. We have two daughters and we are pretty damn happy IMO. Except for when it comes to his family, particularly his sister.
His sister (27) and her husband... | HISTORICAL | {
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8UlTrcPVsSJ7dMROhLMti4FVVlXmztcp | b6z698 | {
"description": "excluding/not inviting my boyfriend's brother on a trolley/bike pub for my birthday? Boyfriend's brother is a self-admitted alcoholic",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for excluding/not inviting my boyfriend’s brother on a trolley/bike pub for my birthday? Boyfriend’s brother is a self-admitted alcoholic. | Backstory: brother is a self-admitted alcoholic and addicted to being high. He was going to AA for awhile but relapsed and started drinking again.
Like the title says, for my upcoming birthday I reserved one of those bike/trolley pubs for some of my friends. We did a private reservation versus joining a mix group of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
Ti3CVKG4b8IhGlZNoNxese2aRSixPecb | amylvu | {
"description": "not carrying a lazy ass through a group project",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not carrying a lazy ass through a group project? | For context, I'm in my 3rd year of university as an Accounting and Finance student and was at a point where all the following students enroll in a course where a 4-staged project constitutes over 60% of the total course grade.
Because the project is extremely difficult to do alone we get assigned 3 random group membe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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68JBW9IE0PZBK49JPA0Kvqung9IIUjew | ab3p0b | {
"description": "making my coworker stay late with me to clean up",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for making my coworker stay late with me to clean up? | I work in retail and today my other managers left a huge pile of boxes and trash on the floor and asked me and the closing staff to pick them up before we left (why they didnt just do it while they were working, IDK).
It was a rough night because we were down a person and while my coworker was taking out the trash, t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
I5eb6k9WnVsFztyBvWjjwjAVdPfrSrGX | a02xyp | {
"description": "telling my friend (also ex) I'm uncomfortable with his new relationship",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for telling my friend (also ex) I'm uncomfortable with his new relationship | Okay so this is kind of complicated. I'll try to summarize best I can.
My friend and I were in a short relationship, and we weren't that obvious about it, so I don't even think our other friends really knew. It wasn't a very serious relationship. One day he has this heart-to-heart with me and it results in us breaking... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
JMuX9sGAjm0uhwmekDw5iacvXAXqz7h0 | axox98 | {
"description": "notifying a stray cat watch group on my neighbor's cat",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 30
} | AITA for notifying a stray cat watch group on my neighbor’s cat? | In the summer in our fenced in back yard we had a bunny give birth to 4 baby bunny’s. It was super cute. They weren’t even afraid of us. We would throw them baby carrots sometimes. Over the course of the summer I had to clean up their bodies because the neighbor’s cat kept killing them.
I spoke to the neighbor ab... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 25,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 30
} | WRONG |
LuXyb81Ao87srkvFedA7e7Wuab5HBgFw | avw6en | {
"description": "not apologizing",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not apologizing? | Before I start the story, I wanna get some things out of the wat first.
I'm on the bus and I'm on mobile right now, so I'm sorry for any formatting or any spelling mistakes.
I've been depressed lately due to unrelated reasons, this'll be important later.
Now, on to the story!
I'm 15 and I'm a sophomore in high schoo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
3iZAGc7xZnSRYs2ubw7sM7X6VAnwIUp3 | ardftw | {
"description": "wanting to get out of the military early",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for wanting to get out of the military early? | I’m gonna to try to make this short. I joined the USCG over a year and a half ago so I could go to college without obtaining massive amounts of debt, obtain a steady paycheck and serve my country. After I’m out I want to be a police officer. I was told when I got to my unit that I would be set up with an educational se... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
jOxE951yoHoE3k5dDfIXYnSNSQ4m70dd | ayulwq | {
"description": "hosting bbq and being anti-social",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | Wibta if i hosted bbq and was anti-social? | Wibta my wife's family comes over and acts like they like her just to eat her free food and drink her top shelf liquor and I act cold and emotionless? They show no love towards her, they barely invite her to their functions and yet she's expected to host here and there and puts out one hell of a spread. They show up. T... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
0QhNF8tvIJOj1UEwwofC3B67eLqta8Xj | ay0ap6 | {
"description": "not sharing my gram's inheritance",
"pronormative_score": 60,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not sharing my gram’s inheritance? | I have 3 much younger half sisters. They were never very close with my grams. I on the other hand was very close to her. Some of my favorite childhood memories are spending time with her.
She passed recently and left me a fair amount of money. To me solely. Two of my sisters feel really jilted about it. My... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 4
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 60,
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} | RIGHT |
HNa7dq9c6UCzh1IY251yS088EMAfR45f | b5h66x | {
"description": "taking back the offer for my best friend to move in with me",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for taking back the offer for my best friend to move in with me? | So I [m22] will be moving into a house with my good friend Ryan [m23] and his girlfriend. We’ve known each other since childhood and I have no second thoughts on moving in with him.
My best friend Becca [f22] asked if she could move in as well and I didn’t think it through before saying yes. We went 2 months thinking... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
eNGfwRI4x792l4J9bOhGyftIVo4fIhU0 | b7dm07 | {
"description": "not giving some money back to a guy after I sold him a broken lawn mower",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not giving some money back to a guy after I sold him a broken lawn mower? | A little long but I wanted to document the whole conversation for context and to get accurate judgement from everyone.
I had a broken lawn mower that wouldn't run that I got from my mother. I posted a classified ad at my workplace on our internal posting site and had a hit the same day. We met a few weeks later in per... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
tLNPrNLcyp3UKhtW7oa4EbuLnKWg0e5u | ax3sf2 | {
"description": "wanting to cut all contact with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to cut all contact with my parents? | Apologies for long post.
My father was physically abusive to both myself and my mother, my first memory is of him hitting me. After they split he only made one swing at me when I was 15, but acted really creepy towards me, including following all of my buses home from college on his bike without me knowing, and checki... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 14,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
IsWLhKJ5SyVlOPzlzhTF0OPEJF7YcO2f | 9zg4ve | {
"description": "being to confront a friend about being real",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if i were to confront a friend about being real? | So, i have a couple "friends" that i hang out with but they sometimes seem to avoid me or only hang out w/ me when they're extremely bored.
I want to confront them but don't want them to get mad or end it. Wibta?
If you need some more details just ask specifically.
peace. | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | RIGHT |
jtTqT6hOd0RZ0wRdu4eLEaN3KFWsuLIS | aqsq41 | {
"description": "worrying about a kid spending $2000 for roses for the school",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for worrying about a kid spending $2000 for roses for the school | So today is Valentine’s Day, and there was a nice kid who decided that he wanted to get roses for everyone so no one felt left out. Now, he meant EVERYONE. There are nearly 2000 student and staff here, and he bought real roses for about $1 each online.
This seemed fine, until he went around asking for donations and a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
k4hLiRFudrsf6ZgZSQ2aCx2szEgML5Y7 | au6ka7 | {
"description": "not editing a video and asking for a partnership",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not editing a video and asking for a partnership? | I told this guy Bill that i would help him edit a video of his for his youtube channel. He sent me a video of about 18-19 minutes of game-play footage and told me to pick out the most interesting parts of it and sent it back to him, he said he needed it done that day.
I was unable to do it that day because i got ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
mOAGu7Cdqzy0PjA0of5PGwQmq3XbDf9j | atum21 | {
"description": "telling my roommate to be more at her boyfriends place",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I told my roommate to be more at her boyfriends place | So to put this shortly; I live in a shared apartment with a girl. The living room and her rooms is only separated by a glass door with a curtain. So when her boyfriend is here I don't feel like staying in the living room because I'm 10 feet away from them and can hear every thing they say.
Problem is her boyfriend is... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
MX2gRnZu1aFhY1RnqL4ADnmMSkzhMZw9 | b73wgc | {
"description": "cutting ties with a schizophrenic girl that just got institutionalized",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I cut ties with a schizophrenic girl that just got institutionalized. | So I met this F(22) Girl on tinder, and we hit it off really well, she lived a couple towns away from me and we met up not too long after talking. We didn't necessarily have plans to do anything, we just were going to hang out, drive around and talk. So I picked her up and we went to Walmart, I kind of let her call the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
CEMpsu8euWRsBHthueTOfveS88ZwXUhV | amr2i9 | {
"description": "making my boyfriend have lunch with my parents",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for making my boyfriend have lunch with my parents? | My boyfriend and I were supposed to go to lunch with my father, who lives 800 miles away, who I don’t get to see very often. About an hour before were supposed to leave he texted me letting me know my mother, who I don’t get along with, and who dislikes my boyfriend vehemently, is coming too. AITA for being upset that ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 2
} | WRONG |
7yg4rJlg8vBAXEXc8EYLVmwrtpsqxF9l | aoxno7 | {
"description": "telling my roommate that some of her food spoiled in the fridge",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my roommate that some of her food spoiled in the fridge? | I’m 19F and she’s 18F, we’re both college roommates. Small room, and my little mini fridge. Lately, when I open the fridge, the smell wafts out and sits in the room for a fair bit, and because it’s winter, I can’t open a window. It’s pretty bad, and I think the culprit is her tub of yogurt that’s been sitting there for... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
81T4dgQlV7MZUiqaQhYinNZ9xbDF4pM9 | azvg5k | {
"description": "wanting the so to handle the end of day routine for the kid",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting the SO to handle the end of day routine for the kid? | I've been told it is a rehotirc question that I should know the answer to, but I feel that I have at least some reasoning.
She works a somewhat graveyard shift but is home by 1am. We have a small child that wakes up early (what child doesnt). I work a regular 7am-4pm job so my days start at 5:30am and I'm usually up w... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 3
} | INFO | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
5YkRqcR7D57GyxBlndVEETAaY2Huej3v | b3e02v | {
"description": "atealing this kid's bag",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 16
} | AITAH for atealing this kid's bag? | BACKGROUND:
I am 13 and on an exchange trip with my school, in Germany. In the school we normally Josh around and call eachother names and steal each others stuff but then give it back, but everyone seems cool with it.
C=kid F1=friend 1 F2=friend 2 M=me
STORY:
Today, we went to a mountain to climb up, it's a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 16
} | WRONG |
dlSaDKWbRyQaOApuZ4AGo09V9LhWscZz | anbyrj | {
"description": "thinking a guy in my community needs immediate and impactful intervention",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for thinking a guy in my community needs immediate and impactful intervention? | TL;DR: first semester freshman (18M) at my (20F) uni./church has been physically violent towards women (including me), stolen alcohol from church sponsored events, and attempted to break into a locked cabinet that he didn’t have permission to open. AITA for wanting to tell his family and possibly our priest before he p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
ZXPw2FV2YgpN80eJDZcsjoQyRGiykBc7 | 9tinrp | {
"description": "wanting some consistent sleep",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting some consistent sleep? | I am using a throwaway with no identifying information.
I just graduated school and am between jobs. My significant other is the breadwinner of this relationship and is currently working 10 hour days.
I have a known sleep disorder brought on by multiple medications and also anxiety. I have a very hard time falling a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 4,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Gt8BqzG0bPuodxTNRqFfIJsjIAN7kEbY | asj23o | null | AITA asked to officiate a wedding, but not sure the couple is ready. Want to sit them down and ask some questions | Hey guys. I need some help. I was asked by a very good friend of mine to officiate a wedding for a couple that have known each other for less then six months. Some back story. So this couple met in August, moved in together in October and proposed on Christmas Day. I was asked last week to officiate the wedding. Initia... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
zb11MmaHGGU21ntUVjgX5kUpVUdObIuc | abah1e | {
"description": "not opening the door for an elderly man",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not opening the door for an elderly man? | First, some context.
​
I worked out this morning at mesh fitness, and they have a specific policy rule written on their entrance door that states, "For the safety of our members, please do not open the door for anyone", which makes sense. People could barge in the gym all the time if members opened the doo... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
NyaTEAcjYhUn6UY5IxsnEmj1DwGY4f20 | b4za79 | {
"description": "expecting so to set boundaries",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for expecting SO to set boundaries? | SO goes to school full time, we are old enough to be the parents of most people he has classes with. One girl (19 yo) in particular calls at midnight, texts constantly, and tries to join every group he's involved with. I've found photos of them together alone at restaurants, and honestly I'd have no problem with it, if... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
IYwA9FP764LHBI2WxkmRY1U7g0msOLmy | ahcy74 | {
"description": "leading on a boy from a foregin country",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for leading on a boy from a foregin country | Alright based on this title, it seems obvious that I’m a girl, but I’m actual a guy. Anyways, December of 2017, I went to India with my family, cuz my parents are immigrants and my maternal cousins stil live in India.
For this first few days, one of my favorite cousin was in a different city because her mom was getti... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 9,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
a63kq0ZIXWvimOXIl09IhaqNJFxD4Jgj | akk11k | {
"description": "suggesting to my fiancé that his mother is on the autism spectrum",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for suggesting to my fiancé that his mother is on the autism spectrum? | My fiancé came from a pretty difficult childhood home. His parents fought a lot, and eventually divorced. His father was an alcoholic and kind of just asshole-y in general, but he’s not the reason for my post. His mother has always been extremely neurotic: high strung, always frantic, very very very set in a routine, s... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
TLHSgjencJObv4kzMSCivttg1lJZh6ne | aqbugh | {
"description": "getting annoyed with my friend who is extremely tight with money on a night out",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for getting annoyed with my friend who is EXTREMELY tight with money on a night out | My friend is one of those people that whenever we go out for a beer together or as a group they are always saying ‘I can’t spend loads of money/It’s well expensive in here/I can’t afford it/I’m not buying drinks all night’
Whenever we try and invite him out he always promises us he will come and then we get ‘sorry I c... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
BBVYALc1qx7h2wbtIbKY1zBtnSYyXQhr | a23wfc | {
"description": "declining my (caring) mother visiting me because she's clingy and I don't like living with her",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for declining my (caring) mother visiting me because she's clingy and I don't like living with her. | So today in my daily call with my mom I just told her to visit me less (she lives in another close country) because I can't stand living in close proximity with her even just for a week. She cried on the phone and I feel bad, but living with her even just for a week drove me to hurting myself and raised my suicidal t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
cMp4Nt485SfwrTFs3PTr8yWIQOgufOXl | ad1kpx | null | AITA for this restaurant manager exchange? | Preface: I sound like I smoke a lot of weed because I do.. usually talk pretty mellow.
He was taking my order and said "can you say dude for me?" I thought ahh lighthearted little observation friend. So I said "can you say do you want fries with that?" he seemed upset | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
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