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{ "description": "being annoyed by how much my friend talks to their dog when we hang out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed by how much my friend talks to their dog when we hang out?
My close friend and I are long distance so we talk on the phone a lot. I am a dog owner too, and I am very guilty of doting on my dog excessively... however, I don’t do it at length when there are other people around or if I’m on the phone. My friend talks to the dog a lot in a very conversational way—even going as f...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop making girls feel uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend to stop making girls feel uncomfortable?
Background: I'm a girl and my friend, who we can call Joe, is a guy. We were best friends in our freshman year of college but drifted apart due to him transferring schools. Since then we hadn't talked in about a year but in November 2018 we got back in touch with each other. Main story: When we first started talking...
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{ "description": "calling an older man 'buddy'", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling an older man 'buddy'?
So, note, I work retail at a shitty gas station. Older man I've seen maybe five times enters the gas station feet away from me. Out of instinct I say "How's it been going, buddy?" He immediately starts asking me questions followed with the word Buddy at the end in a pointed way. He then exclaims, "Don't fucking cal...
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{ "description": "not hiring a potential nanny for my baby after finding out he's a man", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for not hiring a potential nanny for my baby after finding out he’s a man?
I’m in grad school and my husband and I have a 2 y/o baby girl. I was looking for a daytime nanny and figured I would start on my school’s listserv to see if any of the undergrad students would be interested. A 19 y/o student emailed me back and expressed interest. We talked via email over the next few days and decided...
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{ "description": "not inviting my older brother to my graduation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I Didn't Invite My Older Brother to My Graduation?
WIBTA if I didn't invite my older brother to my graduation? So I am graduating from High School in June this year but I don't want to invite my older brother (let's call him OB) because while he was living with us he would occasionally bully me, and take the PC and PS4 literally all day and night. He would yell at me...
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{ "description": "getting into a fight at a house party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting into a fight at a house party.
This happened to me a couple months ago but it's been stuck in my head ever since and I need to get some outside opinions. I was at a bar for happy hour and I was playing pool with my gf and a couple friends. We were down to the 8-ball and as I went to go take the last shot I noticed a group of people sitting/standing ...
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{ "description": "telling my ex to never speak to me again", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex to never speak to me again
He dumped me and i told him to never speak to me again. He really did hurt me, it was my first relationship, we met at freshman year in college during our first semester. We started dating around summer break, then he figured out on his own we wouldn’t work together because “he was too independent”, that he wasn’t as f...
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AITA for throw my ex out of my car?
Hey AITA, long time reader, first time poster. This happened in August last year, but has recently come up in conversation with my friends, so I wanted some outside opinions about it. My ex (let's call her Dani) and I broke up in late May or early in June last year, but we were trying to stay friends after as it was ...
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{ "description": "arguing about my friend's job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing about my friend’s job?
TL;DR: My friend is in an MLM (multi-level marketing) and she feels I belittled her job. She’s called me crazy and I called her out for gaslighting me. Now we’re not talking to each other. Am I the only asshole here for belittling her job and then ghosting her? Some background (sorry if this post is overly long): I’ve...
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{ "description": "letting a year long friendship end over letdowns", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for letting a year long friendship end over letdowns?
TL;DR at the end because this got way longer than intended, but I would really appreciate anyone reading this whole debacle since I am quite conflicted about it. So, I am not the friendliest person and not good with feelings, and I can be kind of an asshole to people that piss me off, but I try to be fair and friendly...
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{ "description": "expecting something for Valentine's day from my so even though he's very stressed and busy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting something for Valentine's Day from my SO even though he's very stressed and busy?
DH knows I love Valentine's Day. But I don't have super high expectations. I just want a little love and acknowledgement. However, he has been exceptionally stressed and busy with work related things lately. I was worried he didn't even know VDay was coming up so I reminded him a few days ago. I told him we didn't have...
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{ "description": "being angry that she took her break with someone else", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being angry that she took her break with someone else?
I have a platonic friend at work, lets call her Pam, we are both married and don't have any romantic feelings for each other. I say that upfront, because I know how it may look like. We don't work in the same department, but still had to work together for quite a while. Think of it like a big project for multiple year...
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{ "description": "assuming a woman wasn't going to stop to let an older lady into a building", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for assuming a woman wasn't going to stop to let an older lady into a building?
I was in my local shop and as I was walking out, an older lady (with a walking stick) was walking in. Now general courtesy in the UK is to give way to the person exiting a building however in this instance I broke convention and made some room for the older lady to get past. As I stopped and allowed her to pass, a midd...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that I hate his friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that i hate his friend?
Oh boy this is rough. One of dearest friends' friends is almost bullying me. everytime I say something she feels the need to respond against that. I literally said "I shower twice a day" and she started debating me about why that's bad for your skin! Lady, I just like bathing. so I told my close friend that I didn't li...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my things with my wife's family", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to share my things with my wife's family
I don't want to share my food or possessions with my wife's family. Food example: I buy deli food for me and my wife only. She says she wants to go visit <insert family member(s)> after the food is already bought, then expects me to share the food with whoever's there. When I say I'm just going to leave the foo...
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{ "description": "only leeching torrents, and never seeding them", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for only leeching torrents, and never seeding them?
Just as law enforcement tends to target drug suppliers, not consumers, media companies tend to target providers of pirated content, not those downloading it. I selfishly leave the seeding to those with the bandwidth and VPNs to do it quickly and discreetly it. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop skiping school and smoking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For telling my friend to stop skiping school and smoking?
Sorry for grammar mistakes im on mobile and English isnt my first language So my Friend is 13 years old he wapes and smokes and wont go to school So basically i try to explain to my Friend that he has to go to school and actualy come to classes or else he wont be able to get a good carrier But he always just say no...
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{ "description": "not wanting to cook in my house when I'm not hungry", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to cook in my house when I'm not hungry?
I live with my boyfriend and our pets, sometimes I get home and I really dont want to cook and sometimes I'm not even that hungry. Ive been cooking predominantly for about a year and although he does help and cooks every so often, the problem is if I decide not to cook one day he wont make himself food and just become ...
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{ "description": "siding with parents over boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for siding with parents over boyfriend?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost seven years now, and we’re getting to the point of marriage. Last week, my boyfriend and I had dinner over at my mom’s and stepdad’s house. We always have a bit of wine during dinner, so it’s not unusual for our conversations to get... unusual. That night, my mom said something ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be asked about my love life", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to be asked about my love life?
(Wasn't sure if this was meant to go in r/relationship_advice. I don't think so but if So, sorry, it's my first time lmao.) Okay. So, compared to most of you here. I'm younger. To the point where I'm not even in college etcetera. So I'm still at the point where adults look down on me/tease me and whatnot. Now I know ...
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{ "description": "pretending to be asleep when a girl invites me over", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I pretended to be asleep when a girl invites me over.
I'm back in town for a couple weeks and this girl has made it very clear she wants to hook up with her. I don't feel that way but I previously hit her up when I was drunk. It didn't work out and I canceled. This morning I hit her up and she said to come over at when she texted me around midnight. I don't really feel ...
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{ "description": "being indignant about the fact that husband is seemingly unconcerned about my feelings", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being indignant about the fact that husband is seemingly unconcerned about my feelings?
Hi everyone! Long time lurker, first time posting. My husband and I (38M, 31F) have a seemingly perfect relationship outside of typical work/children stressors. We've been together and married for approximately 4.5 years after waiting only a few months to get married. We communicate often, and well. We trust each ot...
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{ "description": "telling a guy to leave me alone then cussing him out after he asked me to do one of those stupid snapchat games", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a guy to leave me alone then cussing him out after he asked me to do one of those stupid snapchat games.
So a bit a background: this guy got harshly dumped by his girlfriend about a month ago, hes a huge nude lover, with in the last month hes asked alot of my freinds for nudes (but not me) and he also has a thing for Asians (I'm Asian) So about 2 weeks ago I was playing truth or dare with this guy and he dares me to let ...
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{ "description": "complaining about my best friends distantness", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: complaining about my best friends distantness
AITA? So during Autumn 2018, my best friend (let’s call her S) of about 3 years started being distant, very distant. I chalked that up to her working hard due to upcoming exams and while I didn’t like it, I sucked up my pride and let it be. A few months later, after a couple of instances of my complaining by beating a...
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{ "description": "intentionally deflating a child's ball", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for intentionally deflating a child's ball?
Look, before you click the title and type YTA, let me state my case. I'm an Northern Irish guy living and working with my girlfriend in England and while we have a nice house and a dog, the neighbours kids are terrorising us and getting their parents to threaten us when we don't bow to their every whim. Over the past...
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{ "description": "bailing my friends after they broke into my bathroom stall", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for bailing my friends after they broke into my bathroom stall?
Me and my friends went out drinking and were having a great time. We are all great friends and have no drama between us and they know, that I tend to get a bit emotional, especially when I'm drunk. We went to a pub before going to a club, that has a cheaper entrance fee when we get there early, so we wanted to get ou...
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{ "description": "getting back into dating just to have a different kind of \"friend with benefits\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I got back into dating just to have a different kind of “friend with benefits”?
Basically I’m talking about someone who will accompany me to restaurants or other places. So I’m not alone in doing the things I like to do, such as try new restaurants, bar hopping, or going to places like a movie or putt-putt. I’m not ready for dating with strings attached. And I’m not looking into one-night stands o...
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{ "description": "calling out this group of people", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out this group of people?
Ok. some context. There is a YouTuber of this community and they have a following that basically praises them and just talks down on anyone who disagrees with them. Recently they have been getting into me and im starting to doubt myself. So this all started on a thread asking why the youtuber... lets call them S. Gets...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hangout with long-time friends if an ex (of mine) is going to be there", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to hangout with long-time friends if an ex (of mine) is going to be there?
Hey guys, some important information is that my group of friends and I have been tight-knit since the day we started high-school together, respecting each others girlfriends and even watching out for each other no matter what. They are friends with a few of my ex's, but nowhere near close, and more or less only hangout...
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{ "description": "calling and chewing out the Reverend", "pronormative_score": 435, "contranormative_score": 58 }
AITA for calling and chewing out the Reverend
AITA for calling and chewing out the reverend of my wifes church. I was opening the mail and got this letter today https://imgur.com/a/yOlHLXo I was kind of outraged that they sent a letter out almost shaming those that didn't contribute to the church. To me the letter read that he was disappointed in those that gave...
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{ "description": "starting a fight with/getting angry at my boyfriend because he is tired", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for starting a fight with/getting angry at my boyfriend because he is tired?
FIrst, sorry for my english, it is not my first language and I am so rusty So, a bit of context; my boyfriend (22M) and I (19F) have been in a relationship for almost two years, we love each other a lot and are quite clingy, I have anxiety, which sometimes brings up fights like now I guess.I am currently a college st...
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{ "description": "going into a shop shortly before closing", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going into a shop shortly before closing?
So, tonight I went to the local shop to pick up a few beers to chill in front of the TV with once I finished work. Its a 5 minute walk to the shop and I left 12 minutes before the shop closed. Before I continue; I work for a startup and required hours can vary, if things need to be done then they've gotta be done, esp...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mom and brother after leaving them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my mom and brother after leaving them?
To keep it short, i have been verbally and physically abused throughout my childhood by my mom and her boyfriend. My mom would feed me and my brother every other day, once a day. Her boyfriend raped(if she didnt have sex he would bet her or us) beat and verbally abused my mother and verbally and physically abused my br...
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{ "description": "lying to my parents about my new appartments keys", "pronormative_score": 78, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for lying to my parents about my new appartments keys?
Hi guys, Before I start telling you my situation I want to tell you my relationship with my parents: My parents are beautiful people and they really love me. I think that's why I worry so much and why they behave like they do. They were really strict in most of educational things (likes not allowing me to go out as i...
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{ "description": "asking my bf to wear some clothes around the house", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for asking my bf to wear some clothes around the house?
I moved in with my bf in January. Before then I honestly didn't notice his strange habit of constantly being in just his underwear at his place. Since moving in though, it's become an issue for me. As soon as he gets home from work he will take a shower, put on some briefs and stay in them until it's time for him ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that his gf couldn't bring her friend on our trip", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend that his gf couldn’t bring her friend on our trip?
So my group of friends (6 guys ~22-23y/o) has this 2 y/o tradition where we go to Boston for St. Patrick’s day and stay for the weekend, this year being the third time. We always go with the 6 of us and anyone’s gf. My best friend has been dating this one girl for about 8 months now and of course wanted to bring her al...
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{ "description": "keeping being invited out to dinner with a guest speaker from another university by my professor, and being always too busy. he hosts a lecture before the dinner which I have attended three or four times, missing only one", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: I keep being invited out to dinner with a guest speaker from another university by my professor, and I'm always too busy. He hosts a lecture before the dinner which I have attended three or four times, missing only one.
The lecture is on campus, so walking there is convenient, and the lectures are only around 90 minutes. He always asks me at the end of the lecture whether I'll be going to the dinner, to which I reply "I can't," which is true.
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AITA for this weird situation
On December 1st I went to a Christmas dance for my school with one of my good friends who had a crush on me( let's call her X). Before we went I clearly outlined how I wasnt going to dance and that we were clearly going as friends. X understood and we went on our merry way. I found out that a girl I really liked( let's...
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{ "description": "Cancelling Commission", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Cancelling Commission
So I recently commissioned an artist and we agreed that they would stream my commission on the 15th. After they started the stream, but before they began my commission I would pay, for the record the price was $300. When the time comes on the 15th, I hear nothing. On the 16th they contact me, and apologize saying they ...
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{ "description": "getting upset over people stealing my art", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset over people stealing my art
I've been sharing my art, graphics and other creative projects for a little over a year now and gathered a decent following, but from day one I've had people steal my art and post it on instagram, twitter etc. without credit. I've spoken out about it on my main platform multiple times but was always met with backlash, ...
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{ "description": "calling my friend out on her excuses for not hanging out with me on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my friend out on her excuses for not hanging out with me on my birthday?
So my birthday was on the 15th and about 2 weeks before that, Maya calls me with Nancy in her car wanting to talk to me and tell me a few things. We were all college friends but I graduated a semester ahead of them and due to my circumstances, I can't go up to meet them regularly. So back to the call, it was a fun talk...
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{ "description": "calling the cops", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling the cops?
brief history. parents have had historically rough and tense marriage. Only reason they're together is to take care of me, my older sister And younger brother. they frequently fight, escalating to shoutfests. However, this time, and the subject of my title, is that mom and dad got heated over dad leaving the car trunk...
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{ "description": "not interfering when my brother \"oopsed\" my sister in law pregnant on purpose", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA I didn’t interfere when my brother “oopsed” my sister in law pregnant on purpose
My sister in law did not want to have kids, at least not until she at a good point in her career, but my brother did not want to wait. So one time when we all went camping together I overheard her tell him they couldn’t do anything because she was in her dangerous time and couldn’t find her todays sponge and using onl...
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{ "description": "not letting a mum in after closing time to buy a loaf of bread", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting a mum in after closing time to buy a loaf of bread?
Am I the asshole for not letting a Mum buy a loaf of bread after closing? This happened a few weeks ago but I was ruminating on it afterwards wondering if I did something shitty. I work in a major retail grocery store which on Sundays is open only from 11-5 (I say only because people regularly wait outside before 11 ...
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{ "description": "not always having time or wanting to hang with my friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t always have time or want to hang with my friends?
Between personal stuff, errands, family, and work I don’t always have time for my friends. And one of them always gives me shit about it. I try to hang out with them 1-2 times a week and whenever I do I feel like a good chunk of it is the one friend always being extremely passive aggressive and manipulative about the...
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{ "description": "not pushing this wonderful woman away from me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not pushing this wonderful woman away from me?
Me: 37/yo guy; had more than my fair share of monogamous relationships. About four calendar years ago, my relationship with the only woman I’ve ever wanted to marry ended. By marry I mean, I (still at some level) love her in the truest sense of the word; exactly the sort of connection you’d hope for in a life partner...
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{ "description": "being unsatisfied with my \"Valentine's day gift\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for being unsatisfied with my “Valentine’s Day gift”?
Let me just preface by saying I didn’t even expect a Valentine’s Day gift (not a big holiday for us). Basically, he got me a fish tank. We went to the pet store a long time ago and I saw a betta I liked, and mentioned I would like to get one sometime. He went ahead and got me a tank, some substrate, and a couple littl...
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{ "description": "asking my dad what about his opinion", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my dad what about his opinion
So today, this incident happens: My boss scolded me for not taking pictures of the event at our center. However, in the "assigned tasks list" file that was sent by her, I didn't get assigned for it and she expected me to "should have automatically get on with it". Mind you, I DID NOT GET UPSET for 3 reasons: (1) I hate...
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{ "description": "telling my Landlords worker to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my Landlords worker to fuck off?
This happened in the summer. I just got home from work, while getting ready for my shower I saw a guy with a ladder and his little daughter trying to get on the roof of my Garage. Naturally I ran outside and asked him what he thinks he’s doing. He then tells me that he’s looking for Hail damage (we didn’t have any hail...
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{ "description": "openly drooling over hot actors in front of my so", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for openly drooling over hot actors in front of my SO?
I’m not currently in a relationship but I have been and I’ve been wondering for a while if this is something I shouldn’t do. I’m quite the fangirl and have an obsession with a male actor for like 3 months or so and then move on to a new one. My latest obsession is Tom Cruise for instant, I love his movies and I have a ...
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{ "description": "not giving my seat up for a lady", "pronormative_score": 64, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not giving my seat up for a lady?
Went for brunch today and checked in for a 45 minute wait. Me and my boyfriend (we’re gay) sat down in some chairs to wait to be called back. Some straight couple comes in and is clearly upset that the wait is so long. The guy asks me to stand up so his girl can sit. I say no, a little shocked that someone would ask a ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend before a series of important job interviews", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend before a series of important job interviews?
Throwaway. Background: My (now ex) girlfriend and I are both studying to be clinical psychologists. The final year of our program requires us to do a year-long internship. Most people apply to sites around the country. This is an extremely stressful time, as you’re essentially competing with other doctoral candidates...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to go down on me every so often", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to go down on me every so often?
We’ve been together for 5 years now and in that time she (F22) has been down on me (M23) probably 10 times - 3 times just a BJ and not foreplay to anything else. On the other hand I go down on her before PiV sex every single time until she orgasms. We will be making out and she’ll turn on to her back to wait for me to...
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{ "description": "getting screaming at an autistic person", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting screaming at an autistic person.
Let me start off with saying, I completely understand he's autistic and has a problem with going against borders and such. I also am completely fine with it but... I'm mourning my grandma at her wake and he's being completely annoying and rude to everyone around him and then his circle of people tell me to go get som...
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{ "description": "faking an emergency in order to leave my friends house shortly after arriving to spend the weekend with her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for faking an emergency in order to leave my friends house shortly after arriving to spend the weekend with her?
So my friend and I made plans for me to come to her house this weekend, she lives about 2 hours away from me. For context she is married with a baby, and I, being single, have come to her house to spend the weekend many times before. I have always knows that she is not the cleanest person out there, and her house is ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom's boyfriends around", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mom's boyfriends around?
Okay so some backstory is necessary. I am a 17 year old girl and I live with my mom because my parents recently got divorced. My mom gets lonely easily so she dates lots of guys, but it doesn't really bother me. What bothers me is that she takes advantage of the fact that I'm dependent on her. The first one was a POS...
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{ "description": "refusing to buy back my friend's share in our business", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to buy back my friend's share in our business?
They say the fastest way to lose a good friend is to start a business together, and I now know it's true. So I have a (former) close friend, let's call her K. We, from what I gathered talking to her, have a pretty close understanding of how to work a business. So we, together with 2 more good friends of mine, started ...
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{ "description": "causing my roommate to get kicked out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for causing my roommate to get kicked out?
This story goes back far so I’m going to do my best to summarize it. One of my best friends has been my roommate for years. I do love the guy, he’s clean, organized, and honestly a great guy to hang out with. However, recently he’s become more of a burden because he doesn’t understand how to budget his finances. He is...
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{ "description": "only being sexually interested in my own race", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for only being sexually interested in my own race?
I've stated on a few occasions to girls who've had crushes on me (they were different races) that I was only sexually interested in people of my race. They called me racist. AITA?
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{ "description": "asking my in-laws to pay me back", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my in-laws to pay me back?
So 3 months ago I (20/F) went on a 3 week vacation trip to Mexico, with my boyfriend (21/m), my BIL (16), and my SIL (10). I paid my expenses, boyfriend paid for his, my parents in law (PIL) paid for BIL & SIL. I left over some money so when I would come back to USA I would have money for my bills and I would...
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{ "description": "being hurt my friend always makes fun of me and I fake laugh with her and she says some kind of mean things (that are true) but says she does it cause she loves me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being hurt my friend always makes fun of me and I fake laugh with her and she says some kind of mean things (that are true) but says she does it cause she loves me?
She also is very sweet and wants to hangout with me and gets me presents and food. I’m kind of hurt because I felt like she said I was her best friend when she had no one and now she has people around and she has withdrawn from me.
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{ "description": "still being friends with a girl I had sex with once", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for still being friends with a girl I had sex with once?
I have a friend that I enjoy being with, let's name her K, and I have known her for longer that my current gf, we had casual sex once half a year ago and that didn't affect our relationship, but we agreed to not doing it again. My current gf had a disagreement with K and she hates her now, and K kind of stopped talkin...
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{ "description": "designing a tattoo for my sister commemorating our late grandpa then, after she got it, telling her I hate it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for designing a tattoo for my sister commemorating our late grandpa then, after she got it, telling her I hate it?
The design itself had many details that were very specifically important. For example the plane was designed as a B-52 (a very distinct shape) and instead looks like a jet liner (or a butt plug w wings...). And the necklace was something our grandpa made for us as kids using mountain laurel BEANS and some beautiful st...
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{ "description": "expressing genuine concern over local vigilante group", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expressing genuine concern over local vigilante group?
My home estate/neighbourhood is quite a nice place, and unfortunately that attracts burglars and vandals, loitering and antisocial behaviour. A friend of mine’s husband and 3 other residents proposed we as an estate come together to form a private security firm, run by residents, staffed by residents, and each househo...
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AITA: Haven't spoken with my mother since Christmas because of some fighting
I'm a M 17 and as the title suggests I haven't spoken with my mom at all recently because of a string of things that have gone down. I feel I might be stubborn, but I feel like I should stand with my conviction. Let me know, am I the asshole? ​ Warning, this is a bit of a read. For background, my mom isn'...
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AITA, Planned wedding for over a year, sister gets pregnant and mad at me because she can't go
Hi all! LTL, FTP. Excuse formatting, on mobile. I've been planning my wedding with my fiancee for over a year now. My family and his family both live in different countries, so I set up an affordable midpoint for our wedding. It's supposed to be small and intimate, parents, siblings, grandparents. I have had a round a...
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{ "description": "never wanting to see my brother again", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never wanting to see my brother again?
TL;DR at the end. Pretty much what the title says, I (21 M) never want to see my brother (23 M) again. My brother is a bipolar schizophrenic, and this has made my life hell for as long as I can remember. I understand that strictly speaking his illnesses are to blame for his behavior and it’s not *actually* him who has...
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{ "description": "saying I would call the police on my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying I would call the police on my friends?
So, my friends were in a group chat and were talking about assaulting someone as “revenge”. Now the person they were talking about did some seriously messed up stuff and so they viewed it as a form of revenge. I became upset because my view is it would solve nothing. They said they wouldn’t actually do it. But when i...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend my money for something for me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to spend my money for something for me?
So, I made a throwaway for this, just in case. Sorry if it gets too long. I've been dating my BF for almost 3 years. He's in college and works part-time, I've been a teacher working full-time for 1 year now. While the salary is not great, I get by (I still live with my parents and so does he). Well, he is about to ch...
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{ "description": "lashing out at my partner and calling them an absolute disgrace after they interrupted me while I was browsing YouTube", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for lashing out at my partner and calling them an absolute disgrace after they interrupted me while I was browsing YouTube?
My partner and I know one another's reddit and browsing it I saw they made a post about me into a subreddit...so I feel like I need to know. I was pretty much intensely into what I was watching at that point and they interrupted me about three times, asking what I was watching. The first two times I just told them to...
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{ "description": "asking when my boyfriend is sexually ready", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking when my boyfriend is sexually ready?
My boyfriend (28M) and I and I (24F) have been going out for around three weeks now. However he’s sexually inexperienced (only had sex once, and never done any foreplay). That doesn’t bother me, but I do have a high sex drive. He told me before that he wants to wait until I meet his mum at the very least before we have...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend and to change our lifestyle", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend and to change our lifestyle?
All we do is sit around and do nothing all day. She's gone back and forth with me over working out and being healthy. One day she's all for it the next it's lets stay home and eat junk food. I found out I actually enjoy going and wanna keep going. She asked "why am I trying to make her do this?" Or "do you want me to j...
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{ "description": "hiding a spider from my boyfriend as light hearted revenge for him being messy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for hiding a spider from my boyfriend as light hearted revenge for him being messy?
Yesterday morning, my boyfriend and I were waking up when I saw a scary black spider scurrying across the floor. I'm pretty scared of spiders, and I think he's about the same level of terrified of them. Also somewhat relevant, he is between housing situations and staying with me in my studio for a month until he moves...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends to host a troubled person", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my friends to host a troubled person?
Please read. Sorry for my English, length and format. Here we go: my BFF (f) decided to help one of her friends (M) and to let her move into her flat. So far, so good, but I don't want it. I'm worried because, well.... M is a fucking train wreck. Let me explain: l already feel like a complete cunt to say this because ...
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Neighbors called animal control on me for informing them that the breeding colony of feral cats would have animal control called to remove them from my property. They carry diseases, poop everywhere, tear open any loose garbage, sit underneath your car etc. Said that I threatened her "free range pets". So I put racoon ...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she looks for excuses to get upset", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my sister she looks for excuses to get upset?
My sister is 30 years old and graduated with a Liberal Arts degree from a local university. ​ Today she sent me, my mom, and my dad a pdf of a letter from some of her old professors saying that they reject the "disinvitation" of a speaker to the graduating class of the English Lit/Social Science program. H...
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{ "description": "campaigning fiercely to outcast someone from our social circle", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for campaigning fiercely to outcast someone from our social circle?
I'll call him Richard. ​ This all began the summer before my junior year. My friends and I have been going into town after school on Friday since eighth grade, and over the summer we'd gang up if folks were in town. The summer before junior year, Richard, a mutual friend, was inducted into the group. He w...
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{ "description": "insisting that my friends should try harder at school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for insisting that my friends should try harder at school?
I've been studying at my current school for 6 years now, and though I had a rocky relationship with everyone at first, I made friends with 4 other girls who I consider best friends: A, B, C and E. A and B are probably the most intelligent students in our class and the ones I'm closest to, and C and E are not exactly h...
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{ "description": "turning on my friend who wouldn't leave her abusive partner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning on my friend who wouldn't leave her abusive partner?
Now I'm aware that sounds very assholeish but hear me out. My friend (Jane) was in an abusive relationship. Throughout the relationship myself and several other friends had continually supported her. I don't believe it was Janes fault she got abused and I never pressured her to leave. I know leaving an abuser is no...
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{ "description": "taking too long to change clothes and making my sisters late for school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking too long to change clothes and making my sisters late for school.
Context: I(M) usually wait for my sisters fir like an hour before we get dropped off to our different schools (They go to College while I go to High School) So what happened is: Apparently their schedule changed and they needed to be in school early (Yeah, Both of them!) and they didn’t inform me. And today in partic...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my step-sister", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my step-sister?
1 year before my parents even dated, my father had a child with another woman. Thing is, everyone except him completely ostracized her from the family my entire life so I didn't know she existed. Only since last year did my parents tell me about her. She fell sick and now want to help her out. I, on the other hand, sim...
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{ "description": "telling my wife I was away for a business trip, when really I went on a city break on my own", "pronormative_score": 167, "contranormative_score": 324 }
AITA for telling my wife I was away for a business trip, when really I went on a city break on my own?
I love my wife but she is awful to travel with. She's a bit of a princess and she doesn't care about art or architecture. She wears stupid shoes and walks too slow, but gets tired of places too fast. I did originally have a meeting in London but it got cancelled and I still wanted to go, so I booked myself into a fanc...
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{ "description": "cutting my brother, sister-in-law, and potentially parenting out of my life out of nowhere and over some things that happened years ago", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut my brother, sister-in-law, and potentially parents out of my life out of nowhere and over some things that happened years ago?
So, my brother (Sean) has a long-term partner (Melissa). I see them regularly as I still live at home for university. \*\*On 3 separate occasions, she stole from me.\*\* In my own home. She stole some makeup from me, then $30, then $40. This was about 1-2 years ago, and I know it was her; I'm not proud of it and am aw...
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{ "description": "questioning my boss about literally everything", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my boss about literally everything
I work for a small facility Maitenance start up company (~10 employees) that started around 3 years ago. My 1 year was this month. To simply put it we are middle men, bigger company’s need there properties taken care of and we find people to do it. I should also note one of my best friends for the past 10 years got me...
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{ "description": "accusing my friend of putting his discord server before his friends birthday party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for accusing my friend of putting his discord server before his friends birthday party?
My friend who was having the party doesn’t have a lot of friends so he invited 3 other people and me. I was the only one that came to the party, one of the people wasn’t allowed to go because of his parents(I heard his parents yelling at him over the phone saying he can’t go) the other person couldn’t come because he w...
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{ "description": "not inviting her to my birthday party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not inviting her to my birthday party?
Alright, I know I already sound like a dick but this requires a full on explanation. So for the longest time I was friends with this girl who we'll call Janice. Janice and I got along fairly well. After speaking with her for a while, we started to talk over text. These texts involved a lot of guilt tripping if I didn...
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{ "description": "not liking the off regestry stroller I got at my baby shower", "pronormative_score": 101, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for not liking the off regestry stroller I got at my baby shower?
I feel super conflicted about this, I can't tell if I'm justified or being a hormonal brat. I'm a soon to be first time mom, over 8 months along and going through a rough pregnancy. We drove a very long way to get to the shower hosted by my in laws.(not an easy or fun drive, 8 months pregnant with GD,swollen running...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom because she worroes about me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my mom because she worroes about me?
Hey everyone, so my BF and me were planing a 3 week trip to Vietnam for half year and now were flying on March 10th. An hour ago, my mom called me crying telling me that she was worried and had nightmares and migraine because of our trip. She told me that there are so many dangerous things over there and portrais thi...
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{ "description": "being mad at friend who lied to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at friend who lied to me?
I know I’ve been posting on here a lot but this is really bothering me. My friend and I were gonna join accelerated Arabic next year. Schedules just came out. We agreed we were both doing it. Your supposed to join in pairs so you have someone to work with. Well he told me that he swapped yesterday into French. Well he ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my grandma around my service dog", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my grandma around my service dog?
So. I’m 16. I have a service dog (who’s older but isn’t fully trained socially, meaning she can kind of get distracted easier then other service animals) it’s a smaller dog, but she does her tasking perfectly. She’s for Psychiatric needs. Well it’s cold where I live so I have her wearing sweaters because she gets so c...
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{ "description": "seeking other options after my friend asks for split payment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for seeking other options after my friend asks for split payment?
So along with studying i am doing logo design in my own time, using my friends account on software. I asked him if i could use it 6 months back and he said i could because his account has 2 available screens. Fast forward and in that 6 months i have progressed alot with software knowledge and experience, and my friend ...
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{ "description": "trying to step into my friends relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to step into my friends relationship?
Today my online friend of 2 years sent me a message saying they would be deleting the app they had originally started text based role-playing on. When I asked why, they responded that their boyfriend didn't really trust they wouldn't get into a romance based role play, and that he viewed it as cheating on him. I pers...
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{ "description": "not wanting visitors at the hospital", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Am I the asshole for not wanting visitors at the hospital?
I am about to have a baby and have let my family and close friends know that I won't be having any visitors while at the hospital. I hope, if all goes well, to be there for as short of a visit as possible. I have a midwife and am going to try to have the baby naturally, which means a release home hours after delivery....
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{ "description": "shutting down a bigot by mentioning his trans status", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for shutting down a bigot by mentioning his trans status?
I knew this person in college. At the time, this person appeared to be a woman. We've kept up over time on Facebook. Eventually, "she" became "he". He adopted a new male name, started taking hormone supplements, had surgery, and even grew a beard. For the most part, mutual friends seemed pretty supportive, as did his f...
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{ "description": "almost talking smack", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for almost talking smack?
Let me make it clear that I am in high school. So we have this program at my school where we get a free hour after fifth period to eat lunch or go tutorials, and I would typically sit with my friends in the debate room. While I was away at a Speech and Debate tournament, some assholes got into a fight during the fre...
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{ "description": "making him close", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making him close
For context: I’m a dishwasher in a restaurant, and there are two main dishwashers: Myself, and a guy named Alex (not his real name) I just started recently, but since I’ve started working there, Alex has been shoving all of his closing shifts on to me and calling into work sick, among other things So, it all started ...
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{ "description": "refusing to make Sexual Jokes about my Ex", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Refusing to Make Sexual Jokes about my Ex?
Weird title, but exactly that. To 99% of people I am an immature guy with a terribly inappropriate sense of humour. I have a very special and rare talent. I am capable of finding something sexual in nearly any sentence that can be said by a human being. Of course to not use such a gift would be irresponsible, so I do....
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off the contact with a traumatized girl I didn't know how toxic she really was", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off the contact with a traumatized girl I didn‘t know how toxic she really was?
She was in high school, the ,,take drugs and look down on people“-type so she wasn‘t really my friend then. But I always thought she was somewhat interesting/ secretly a good person, because she had a rough childhood after all (no excuse though) and something told me she wasn‘t that bad after all. Years later I met h...
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{ "description": "not giving all my nephews a gift for their birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving all my nephews a gift for their birthday?
Beforehand I want to apologize for my grammar mistakes and bad English for it is not my mother tongue. I (20)come from a weird family structure. My mother remarried and her husband already had 3 kids. Two of those kids got children in time span of me knowing them. Oldest one is now four years old. Both those family's...
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{ "description": "telling my friends who have been staying with me that they need to get a hotel for the rest of the trip", "pronormative_score": 80, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA if I tell my friends who have been staying with me that they need to get a hotel for the rest of the trip?
A few weeks ago a friend of mine from another state said she wanted to visit me and asked if she could stay at my place if her stay situation falls through. I say yes. She says she has a surprise for me. I pick her up at the airport and the “surprise” is another friend of mine. Which I’m happy about but I immediately a...
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