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"description": "not shelling out money to rent a room, knowing all the money is going to drugs",
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} | AITA For not shelling out money to rent a room, knowing all the money is going to drugs? | Ok, as of right now this is hypothetical, well 70% hypothetical. A family member said I could come stay with her. She never said I had to pay a certain amount..."just what you can". Well, after being there a couple months..I found she was three months behind on her rent because all her money was going to drugs. So... W... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making my girlfriend cancel her birthday gift",
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} | AITA for making my girlfriend cancel her birthday gift? | Next Saturday is my Birthday and my girlfriend had planned that we‘d go play lasertag with 8 of my friends. I do however not have 8 close friends and thus she invited a few guys as well that are somewhere in between an acquaintance and a friend. My girlfriend paid €220 and each of my friends would pay only €10. All 10 ... | HISTORICAL | {
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bSnnxCvAZPF1VytOgeDE3K0VVxlvKzBJ | arsh2k | {
"description": "making my fiance wait to get married",
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} | AITA for making my fiance wait to get married? | This is going to be a fairly Catholic question but I am looking for all the advice I can get. (Quick note: I am a confirmed Catholic, but after my confirmation, my parents and I left the church. To the active Catholic community, I am a lapsed Catholic who has become secularized, whereas my fiance and his family have al... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not going to my GF's families' Christmas",
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My GF(25F) and I(26M) agree that her family has issues with picking favorites. The brother has had 2 cars bought for him. My GF's sister has had one car given to her. My GF was the first in her family to have to take a loan out for a car. Oldest brother had 5 years of college paid for, neither of the... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to have sex at the drop of a hat",
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} | AITA for not wanting to have sex at the drop of a hat? | I guess I should preface this with some info. I (20F) have been with my husband (21M) for several years. We got married last summer and live together at university.
We had a healthy sex life pre-marriage, but recently I haven’t been as into it (I don’t know why). My husband is always into it, and it feels like even mi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being pissed that my gf just bought her ex a new car",
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} | AITA for being pissed that my gf just bought her ex a new car? | Throw away account since I have friends who know my main account.
So just a little back story here, my girlfriend works in the medical field and is very successful, and she has no money issues whatsoever, so the price isn't what's bothering me.
My gf and her ex dated over 10 years ago and stayed friends after breakin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not feeling loved from the way my partner loves me",
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} | AITA for not feeling loved from the way my partner loves me? | On mobile sorry - also. First poster but long time lurker.
My (F26) boyfriend (M25) have been together for almost a year now. At first it was amazing (definitely honeymoon phase) and that lasted a while. Lots of cuddling and intamacy (not talking about sexual). My love language is a Physical Touch with a dash of Word... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not picking up coworkers shift",
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} | Aita for not picking up coworkers shift | I work at a very small beauty store and started a few months ago. There are only two other employees, the owner, and an assistant manager. So last week the assistant manager called me and asked me to take one of the workers shift it was like two in the day and I was still in bed so I said “no I’m still in bed” I am fri... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not being open to a last minute surprise change of plans",
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} | AITA for not being open to a last minute surprise change of plans? | My girlfriend left my place moments ago to get space. I think she left feeling hurt that I ruined what she wanted to do and me feeling that she ruined what we had planned with a surprise which could have been pleasant if it had been done differently. Am I the asshole here?
**Backstory:**
I'm 26 and she is 36. We've b... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my friend she's irresponsible",
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} | AITA for telling my friend she's irresponsible? | Both my friend and I are 27 years old. Known each other for almost ten years now. College educated(she's almost done) and both live with our boyfriends. I've been with my guy for almost six years and she's going on only nine months with her guy. Last Sunday we got together, just she and I, and we started talking about ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not putting the umbrella down",
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} | AITA for not putting the umbrella down | I’m on vacation with my family and my sister and I decided to go to the pool at the hotel. We sit down at a pair of chairs under an open umbrella and stay there for a little. There is only two other people at the pool at this time.
My sister and I decide to go into the pool. While in the pool, one of the two other guy... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "blocking my ex-fwb, current friend, without telling him",
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} | AITA for blocking my(28F) ex-FWB, current friend, (36M) without telling him? | Some background...
I met my(28F) ex-FWB(36M) about 2 years ago when I was in an open relationship and well lets be honest, he was stepping out on his own relationship. Long story short we fell in love and I thought we were going to have a relationship. We did not. I got over it and met my current SO who I could not be... | HISTORICAL | {
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r2Esk4V6eLxYcLZ1wKpXmqNIo3SSXTX1 | abaqre | {
"description": "not visiting my dying grandmother",
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} | AITA for not visiting my dying grandmother? | Background: Growing up, my mother and my father weren't the best couple; it was always off and on. I never truly liked my father, but some times were enjoyable. He has never really done anything to support my younger brother, me and my older sister. (i.e. one time he bought us a GameCube for Christmas and took it back ... | HISTORICAL | {
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zx8MKSCe3WYkXquBttHa0hFH7OEOWIU8 | a3lc8f | {
"description": "not giving him another chance",
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} | AITA for not giving him another chance? | My best friend told me that she is getting back with her ex-boyfriend. They broke up about a month ago after dating for six months. He was very sporadic on his feelings towards her. He said “i love you” after a week of initial dating, then said things were moving too fast. He was always flip flopping and she got sick o... | HISTORICAL | {
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JHYBKMOO8w2B44g5Miyd275W2hRz7FRw | auhe0u | {
"description": "walking out on dinner",
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} | AITA??? For walking out on dinner | To start, I married into a large Mexican family and I am the only caucasian and American born woman in this entire family. My husband's family only speak Spanish, which I am not fluent in or even close. I try to communicate with them all but I can only speak very simple sentences and I don't understand most of what is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PKXJ9jSTBlxyliSpPMg3lynYa3l18Z6s | 9u9by1 | {
"description": "not wanting biological kids",
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} | AITA for not wanting biological kids | AITA
I was already 31 when I met my eventual husband. I’ve alway been very vocal about my feelings toward pregnancy and breeding in general. I don’t hate kids. I just don’t want them for many, many reasons. I also don’t understand why other people want them, but that’s off-focus.
AND I WAS CLEAR. This has always be... | HISTORICAL | {
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0L1q6Zgj3bpdV4mKSVKM9RnyhJ4x9KC7 | ahd1q2 | {
"description": "not agreeing with my mom",
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} | AITA For Not Agreeing With My Mom? | So a little bit of context, I’m a junior in high school. I’m in a government class and I’m discovering my own opinions on politics as I learn more about government and political parties. I live with my mother because I’m a high schooler and my dad works weird hours because of his job so he’s asleep when I’m at school a... | HISTORICAL | {
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3cuU4IUjiUbLqKWGKUpbK3o7tEgXoA6i | abofir | {
"description": "moving on quickly from a girl I was extremely hung up on",
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} | AITA For moving on quickly from a girl i was extremely hung up on? | So context is I was talking to this girl for about 6-8 months and her and i were pretty complicated... we flirted a ton and she told me how much she wanted to be with me and we would hook up and do stuff together on weekends but then she would go talk to this guy during the week and go on dates and talk about how she w... | HISTORICAL | {
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0KTZNesKu95hdwQq8QSukJ6jKDdIOcP1 | aj445r | {
"description": "wanting to invite this girl out, that both me and my friend is crushing on, him for over two years, me for about 4 months",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for wanting to invite this girl out, that both me and my friend is crushing on, him for over two years, me for about 4 months? | So there's this girl, as the titles says. The girl goes in his class so he has been crushing on her since we started high school, a little over two years, but he has never done anything about, asked her out or told her. For the past 6 months I have started to have classes with her as well, and I have too developed feel... | HISTORICAL | {
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mOVxfXOhTdfXSTzHI3cEOAFEoxh747Cw | a9dd9v | {
"description": "kicking a \"customer\" out of the restaurant I work in",
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} | AITA for kicking a “customer” out of the restaurant I work in? | So, it’s Christmas Eve and that means that it is literally not busy at all. We’re located in a highly populated city, and the restaurant I work in is downtown. Instead of restaurants that wait your table, we are like Chipotle or Panda Express when it comes to serving them. We have all of the food ready, you just need t... | HISTORICAL | {
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MhgsKJe8s50rJspU1BTh2ihl0QNhkke9 | aqt3pc | {
"description": "picking up my gf from school with a friend on Valentines day",
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} | AITA by picking up my gf from school with a friend on Valentines day? | Today's Valentines Day, as some may know. Now, besides never really celebrating it, I thought to myself it'd nice to pick up my gf from school, and give her a card that I've made her. I thought we were celebrating Valentines Day Saturday;we had planned to go to a ballet and get something nice to eat. But okay, today I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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P9Mr1GCNpzzisZQo5jfeOEJ7kWFoDnWP | b454wj | {
"description": "getting defensive and maybe crossing a line",
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} | AITA for getting defensive and maybe crossing a line? | Hi all,
So for background, I work for a company as a junior IT person with 4 people IT people (one being my manager), all of which are more experienced than me by at least 3 years. They are all pals and are very much "lads lads" in that there is a lot of slagging eachother and "banter". I don't necessarily fit that cr... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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bWnlK7HtIKcroYDUnntISHjkHFwxF7Qp | anj2zb | {
"description": "asking for a Wi-Fi password at a museum",
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} | AITA For asking for a Wi-Fi password at a museum? | I went on a class trip to a WWII museum on a very famous WWII battle ground. We were in a large group and the museum was already pretty full so they crammed our group into a small room with a room with a pretty sad exhibit about the battle that had happened there. After reading through the whole exihibt we were still s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
CDGuMBLJsJcyTLwgqqOiGlXh5OEerJON | at4ppb | {
"description": "telling my best friend that I don't care if she's cold",
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} | AITA for telling my best friend that I don't care if she's cold? | I'm(20F) currently attending university in the US northeast, and I share a townhouse style dormitory with 7 other girls. The A/C in the house is controlled by 3 thermostats, one per floor. My best friend recently got a boyfriend, and he sleeps over in her room every night of the week (we have single rooms).
Some new ... | HISTORICAL | {
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iIlz1DM3W3DHz0sFjIvBNaTH06nZQct8 | amoq89 | {
"description": "destroying my clasmmate reputation when he threw bleach at my right eye",
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} | AITA for destroying my clasmmate reputation when he threw bleach at my right eye? | So first of all to clarify everything, this happened back in 2011 when I was still on Elementary School. This kid that I'm gonna name Mario was one of my only two friends at school, I'm gonna call my other friend Luigi. So the reason I had only two friends on my last year of elementary school it's because I'm on the sp... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to listen to my dad's rants about his work every night",
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} | AITA for not wanting to listen to my dad’s rants about his work every night? | He’s had a job working in a lab for over 7 months now. Every single evening he raises his voice and complains about his boss, incompetence of his coworkers, his stupid newest project that he got assigned, etc etc etc.
It’s always him screaming at us (my mom, bro, and I) and 99% of the time it turns the mood from happy... | HISTORICAL | {
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q1DJyEKdxCwuBxKwTPydZbknTTLN6Q5t | awv297 | {
"description": "telling her to give the money back",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for telling her to give the money back? | Gf and I just moved in together. We both knew money would be tight. She only works part time.
Her father gave her a lot of money just to get us by. We were getting by just fine. We had a budget and went out 4 times a month on it.
I asked her to give it back. She thinks I’m being stupid. I don’t like being inde... | HISTORICAL | {
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OavbBR1z9X53GcCYOLh3wuLADA4D04ka | b62sur | {
"description": "dating and breaking up with one of my patients",
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} | AITA for dating and breaking up with one of my patients? | First time poster, long time reader
Bit of background info: I'm a doctor working in ER (Emergency Room) and as you can imagine it is busy at the best of times. It is hard to maintain a social life and go out to meet people.
A while ago, I treated a patient who had a benign condition (was discharged within 3 hours).... | HISTORICAL | {
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ghTlAnLKuUSRpFu4SkjS16UM2d1qvYlV | aaswk0 | {
"description": "resenting my best friend",
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} | AITA for resenting my best friend | This is a throwaway. Me and him have been friends for years and we've been through a lot. We know everything about each other and until recently, i've never even had a negative thought regarding him.
I think it's important to note that ive had feelings for him for a good while (im a male, we're both bi). I've generall... | HISTORICAL | {
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bmGB6MxG4J3AVgGJDFyLQoqqsstfmztu | ao3zhy | {
"description": "taking issue with my boyfriend's family being racist toward me",
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} | AITA for taking issue with my boyfriend’s family being racist toward me? | So I (27, Chinese-Malay) have been dating my boyfriend (24m, White British) for a few years now and things have been going well. His parents live up north so I had only met them on Skype.
The weekend before last we travelled up to meet them at their house (Big beautiful converted farm house. They’re loaded.) to have d... | HISTORICAL | {
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3b8KzavW0fUztiCUCa74NfyXc2CgWhLm | b2g077 | {
"description": "wanting my brother to buy me a new laptop",
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} | AITA for wanting my brother to buy me a new laptop? | Hey guys, so this actually happened a few months ago. My mom was babysitting my brother's twins. I love those little boogers but don't like them in my room! One day I let them come in so we could watch TV together. I fucked up and placed my laptop on the floor right next to my bed next to the wall so that they wouldn't... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "refusing to pay for a jacket I lost",
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} | WIBTA if I refused to pay for a jacket I lost | It’s more complex than the title suggests.
A few weeks ago I went out to a popular West Hollywood club with several friends to celebrate a friend’s visit to LA from NY. I stupidly drank that night for the first (and last) time in many years. I have absolutely zero tolerance for alcohol so an immediate black out ensue... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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mpG6gDjBRY9FNjm90L8SNpmzfnBC1nFF | arllsg | {
"description": "wanting my busy bf to help clean",
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} | AITA for wanting my busy bf to help clean? | The title may make things sound a little obvious but, there are some caveats to my scenario.
My bf and I are in our mid-20s, living together for a year now. We first had an apartment, then, I bought a house that we moved in to together. We had talked about this for 3 months beforehand and agreed on this process, him b... | HISTORICAL | {
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qXrv8utlUZZ2hL3z4qmNEIMFkSilKzJL | aku41k | {
"description": "'stealing' my friends prospective girl",
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} | AITA for 'stealing' my friends prospective girl? | Yeah I know weird title.
So my issues is as follows:
A very good, longtime (since 1st grade) friend (we’ll call him M)of mine, recently (about a month ago) introduced me to another one of his friends (lets call her F).
I found out that my friend fell hard for F some years ago, and has just not worked up the courage ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5BVriH9bcVxK2PcC8ifni8R2Fe1DEK2y | ak50if | {
"description": "feeling like my girlfriend doesn't appreciate me and telling her that",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for feeling like my (20M) girlfriend (28F) doesn't appreciate me and telling her that? | We both have gotten new jobs recently, me a few weeks before her, and I get paid weekly while she doesn't get paid for the first month. Almost every dollar I have earned the past two months has gone into our living arrangement, finding a new car after my old one died, paying for groceries, basically taking care of eve... | HISTORICAL | {
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USGGHrKiTmtQxfpPLpHvgZQZ67uCOOEC | a00x5o | {
"description": "not driving my family around",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not driving my family around? | Background info: I'm in the US, 17 and I have my 6 months on my license. Ever since I got my 6 months, my younger sister (15) has been asking me to drive her to and from:
-Choir
-School
-Church
-Home
-etc
The problem is, I hate driving and it terrifies me. I feel extremely uncomfortable driving anywhere because I'm c... | HISTORICAL | {
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lRe0jUkQjM2BrW0qM6Jip1Lb9qMWvDK0 | al14l2 | {
"description": "not saying \"bless you\" to the girl in the cubicle behind me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not saying "bless you" to the girl in the cubicle behind me? | I just had this encounter not even 5 minutes ago at work with the ceo of this company i'm currently doing some work for. I was minding my own business zoned out working on some code(industrial robot programmer) when this guy comes into the area and this conversation basically goes down:
​
CEO: Bless you su... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y9k6JRxQvPvynquvLBsg4TNzMAGVL4gY | a1zpb8 | {
"description": "not helping my brother move into a new house",
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} | AITA for not helping my brother move into a new house? | I'm 19M and he's 21M. Today he's moving out from our family house and asked me to drive my own car up so that I could help him unpack. I agreed but asked if he could pay for my fuel since it's 50km away and I just got my first job and barely get any shifts, and am low on money. He's currently working full-time so I did... | HISTORICAL | {
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TMmx7dCXh8NHW9TI2gw6hhvk3QDoghev | aq9kyh | {
"description": "being angry towards my father because he did not reimburse me",
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} | AITA for being angry towards my father because he did not reimburse me? | So, it is agreed between me and my father that he buys me the bus passes I use, and most of the time it goes well. Except, sometimes we don’t have time/forget to buy them, in those cases, I am forced to buy them myself, we have not any precise agreement about those cases, but we pretty much agree that he should give m... | HISTORICAL | {
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1LTyhFj8BixsIeqHq5EYbpYH9e6r3t74 | b16jhx | {
"description": "not wanting to sit through a graduation ceremony",
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} | AITA for not wanting to sit through a graduation ceremony? | I'm graduating from University this coming May. I've told my family that I don't want to participate in the graduation ceremony. My basic reasons are
1. It's in southern California in hot weather for some hours. School doesn't do shade since it gets in the way of photos. My family would have to sit in the sun, and so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3Uzf7TqC5K6O53t6usRN8Qz0qOaiI5dJ | ajh1oc | {
"description": "letting people at work struggle a little before fixing something for them, hoping they'll figure it out themselves",
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} | AITA for letting people at work struggle a little before fixing something for them, hoping they'll figure it out themselves? | I work in IT, and I'm often just walking through the office, and I see someone struggling to get something working. A printer, connecting a new monitor, navigating our intranet to reset their password, etc.
My instinct is to tap them on the shoulder and fix the problem for them, be the hero. It's not like I push t... | HISTORICAL | {
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XRkm99kM5ezupV0BjNDMebWaWlhkhaJ8 | az0r3g | {
"description": "ghosting a girl after I saw her using tinder",
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} | WIBTA for ghosting a girl after I saw her using tinder? | First time posting and long time lurker and on mobile so sorry for formatting issues.
Anyways this happened really recently as in last night. I've been going out with this girl since valentine's and I feel like we've really hit it off. Our convos are fun and I feel like there's no boring parts or downtime.
So I took... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rTWZqgGeZ3gWlZrW6O7uT8T8HAqEZlco | av1ugy | {
"description": "lying to get out of a coffee date with a guy after finding out he's not as tall as I'd like",
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} | WIBTA if I lied to get out of a coffee date with a guy after finding out he’s not as tall as I’d like? | Hypothetically speaking: I met a guy on Bumble. We had a few sexy flirts by text and his pics look really great in his profile. We set up a coffee meet and greet this Thursday afternoon, with the understanding that I’m looking for an FWB. I found out his name so I did a little social media investigation. Looking throug... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
Va3VE3FYPwhghv5jTMM1HA9Nzzlj0z6Z | a9gm7d | {
"description": "being sensitive about D&D characters",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for being sensitive about D&D characters? | I haven't confronted my friend about this yet, because I'm not sure if I'm just being a fucking idiot. This has been going on for a couple years now.
Whenever we start a new campaign, I almost always announce my character first. Then, when my friend announces his, it's always like he's trying to build into the same ni... | HISTORICAL | {
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Cy1Rb5l8E8m18ziG6kterD8VOh9a7Tke | a4f1fy | {
"description": "making him quit",
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} | AITA for making him quit? | I had a co-worker, let's call him Tim, and Tim is annoying. Very very annoying.
Background: We work in customer service and Tim has to follow every single female customer he sees around. He flirts with them outrageously, and doesn't back off when they ignore him or ask him to stop. He has gotten write ups for doing t... | HISTORICAL | {
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CNeZ9AVAfPKJKuJvoMFX9Fw3m38ocyN4 | a2htdm | {
"description": "returning a neighbor's tree limb",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for returning a neighbor's tree limb? | This morning there was a sizeable limb of a tree that had fallen down in our yard. It was very obvious that it was from our neighbor's tree that partly towered over our backyard. This wasn't just some easy limb to throw out, so we returned it to their backyard, considering it is their tree. They came back over to our h... | HISTORICAL | {
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Hdn1uCeZdu5HdOLaFypAiSeJJMMLbDuS | 9tj844 | {
"description": "thinking that black characters wouldn't fit in the new witchers series",
"pronormative_score": 87,
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} | AITA for thinking that black characters wouldn’t fit in the new witchers series? | I get why it’s being done. It’s produced in the US and has to appeal to the whole population, which includes a lot of POC.
What bothers me though is that it’s something based on slavic/europan folklore, which is a white culture, and I’m pretty sure that if it was a fantasy series based on african cuture people would ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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aJiFtbNiZmL44ZP8XlwAIKZlCjObVcGu | 9vp38s | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after she took me on a really fun trip",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she took me on a really fun trip? | Hey so this is fuckinggg me up mentally and I really need to know what other people think, although I’m pretty sure I have a good idea of my standing.
Essentially I met this beautiful girl on tinder, she was really cool, had a couple dates, met her friends. She was REALLLY into me (told me first date felt like a movie... | HISTORICAL | {
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bSrKxJt2VSgUGk2AHW1qPHnXpKE6orw8 | a9rwur | {
"description": "refusing to be around drunk adults at a party",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for refusing to be around drunk adults at a party? | I’m currently sitting upstairs away from everyone while everyone is downstairs with loud music being obnoxiously loud. Let’s start the story.
I’m a 16 year old autistic girl, so I am sensitive to noise by default. My family wouldn’t let me stay home, I was forced to go to this Christmas party at my cousins and stay fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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vZbwAQ3iD5NdnPOvuA08kRiNbojb7WmS | aniu61 | null | AITA Car Dealer couldn't wait 4 days for a 90% down payment? | My wife got into a car wreck on an icy road when a little old man (82) tagged her in the passenger-side back wheel. No injuries, everyone was going like 5mph. Her car was 15 years old so it was totaled out for about $1900. More than we deserved to get, lemme tell you, for that old 2003 rust bucket of hers.
&#x200B... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 15
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B0iAQGROMj4vPRnOpu4Wv2cBAYlU0ejN | apxzj2 | {
"description": "asking my mom to ask me before spending my money",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my mom to ask me before spending my money | So just for some background, I'm a minor but I have a job, paid for my car, and was paying for this. I need to do some relatively normal maintainence on my car and buy a part that costs about $100. I chose one from a manufacturer that I know would work and was ready to buy it last night from a website that I trusted bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
uDEVmJTu3wavco65ZjQuZkc3CcIkaBHt | acdb29 | {
"description": "wanting to end things with my fwb because I dont have sex with her Anymore",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for Wanting to End Things with my FWB Because I dont have Sex with Her Anymore | Known each other for a year. To paint you a picture, she will call/text me over really weird things, like tell me that she's on a bus or randomly tell me about random things happening in her life.
This wasn't like this at all in the beginning of us talking. She said she was crazy at the beginning...and boy was she not... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
iiKR3aYaeGD3djOIwRrPKwe8G6lAVdpX | 9v6zoc | {
"description": "almost getting my \"friend\" fired",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for almost getting my “friend” fired??? | To go into some detail me and the friend in mention (F) lived together last year, go to the same university and work at the same place (a very well known pub chain) hence we’re quite good friends.
A couple of nights ago I was working with F and her boyfriend and friends came in, nothing out of the ordinary they come ... | HISTORICAL | {
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CG3h91wTZMV7XvQtL9rI5Iv74MOUBA73 | ab988y | {
"description": "not letting my fiance take a loan out in my name",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not letting my fiance take a loan out in my name? | My fiance wants to buy a new computer, so he can stream on twitch. He's found a deal he's set on, but his credit is low due to some unfortunate circumstances, so he got denied. He asked me if I would take the loan for him, with him paying it all, not expecting me to pay any. The main problem is, I don't really want him... | HISTORICAL | {
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kXoj2vcWEYdhh0lik0MEiUqBZbRxMa9f | afsn8r | {
"description": "trying to distance myself from one of my friends because of my feelings for her",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA For trying to distance myself from one of my friends because of my feelings for her. | I have this one friend who I haven’t been friends with for very long (4 months) and I started to have feelings for her but I know she doesn’t have the same feelings for me. So every time I see her I get really sad and I always feel down on myself when we hangout. Lately I’ve been talking to her less and not hanging out... | HISTORICAL | {
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9xc9KwTSBCgJtb89fQIKvq2QABnSAkGY | a1d56i | {
"description": "not wanting to talk about horses",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk about horses | A friend a mine I’ve know for around 3 years has this strange obsession with horses. You may think I’m exaggerating, but I’m not. She’s completely obsessed. I overlooked it for a long time as we generally talked about other things but lately, she’s started trying to force me into talking about horses with her, even tho... | HISTORICAL | {
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OCx7th28XfxI4WBp1SsRKaK4ASN8TunX | apo418 | {
"description": "continuing to see my sugar daddy knowing that he's married",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for continuing to see my sugar daddy knowing that he’s married.... | Recently got a sugar daddy and he didn’t tell me at first that he was married. He said they weren’t together but that our relationship would need to stay private for various reasons. I was completely fine with this and wanted it to stay private too, Anyway, he told me the other day he lied and they actually are togethe... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 14
} | WRONG |
6XeOMs201E2BeGNbnHGwIaDqgg8ERyKf | apm1s8 | {
"description": "trying to help a friend out of a potentially abusive relationship",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for trying to help a friend out of a potentially abusive relationship? | Using a throwaway because these friends know my reddit account.
For some perspective, my friends and I are all college students and are majority sophomores that all met here. At the beginning of our friendship, one of the couples in the group, let’s call them Jack and Jill, seemed to have an unhealthy relationship. Ji... | HISTORICAL | {
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bIeByZbwvmQZ7Ov59uDGAvFSD4xL2lDs | b0moec | {
"description": "asking my new neighbors to keep their kids out of my fields even though it hasn't been an issue yet",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | WIBTA If I asked my new neighbors to keep their kids out of my fields even though it hasn't been an issue yet? | I live on a private lane with 5 houses, the one directly across from me just sold to a young couple with smaller (6 to 10 years old maybe) children. My property totals 10 acres split into 3 fields with a pond, a rather deep creek during the wet season, a dilapidated barn and a newer livestock barn. Also 6 horses and tw... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 26,
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} | RIGHT |
VZgOy9JNu0h1hu74ql8DKF5HF7fYSwHb | 9um6bu | {
"description": "calling a girl a slut",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 63
} | AITA for calling a girl a slut? | So this happened a decent amount of time ago but I finally want to get a definitive answer from randoms because people I know will just side with whoever they are friends with.
So basically, there is this one girl at my school, we'll call her L. L has basically continuously had a boyfriend since age 13. She sent nud... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 17,
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} | WRONG |
a8I0qWKj4sAXmZvzmDOohBr0KFcJgOe5 | a9hwe0 | {
"description": "not talking to my aunt because she sometimes acts mean to me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not talking to my aunt because she sometimes acts mean to me? | Most of the time my aunt and I get along and she can be nice even though she's really self absorbed but whenever shes tired and stressed she gets really mean and says hurtful things. When I was younger and used to stay at my grandparents she used to call me fat for no reason and she would just stare at me as I broke in... | HISTORICAL | {
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xdUW8iTlXpt3vEIzDg1hNceC8UScS7Ov | axblle | {
"description": "trying to help my cousin have a normal high school experience",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for trying to help my cousin have a normal high school experience? | I (20F) am in my third year of university. I have a cousin (17F) (I'll call her "V") who lives with her parents (my aunt and uncle) about a 15 minute walk from my apartment. I've been in university for the last two years, while V is still in high school.
We both have parents who are culturally and religiously conserva... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
4H82bITKKmxEyOCXR8OxCMv0mopeH7zk | akllbh | {
"description": "making my Grandmother Cry",
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} | AITA For Making My Grandmother Cry | So my family is a bit broken. My grandma guilt trips me into spending time with her and constantly plays the victim as well as being a massive control freak. So last time I visited her she kept going on about how I am lazy and that I don't spend a lot of time with her and I snapped. I told her that she always annoys m... | HISTORICAL | {
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"WRONG": 1
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61PtOq0B2VUotK9bHtGOjp5ADx4mUvXG | 9z96u3 | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend whether she's still willing to work on us",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my girlfriend whether she's still willing to work on us | I'd like to preface this with a little disclaimer. I'm not trying to make either me or her the "asshole" I just want to know where a third party, aka relentlessly honest reddit, stands on this. This way I can find out where the problem lies so I can try to fix this.
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Me and my long-distance girlfriend are... | HISTORICAL | {
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2abbXkb67wYyrUxIKx9cXc38sYVpRSu2 | ai69m5 | {
"description": "being mad at my boyfriend for not sticking to our Christmas plans",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for not sticking to our Christmas plans? | So i know we are like nearly a month post-christmas but i have literally been stewing on this since then and I am no closer to figuring out if I am an asshole or not?!
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My partner and I have been together for nearly 3 years(anniversary in March) and he has lived with me in my parents' home since 6 months.... | HISTORICAL | {
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YdnHLf7LaJaqZt9KlfAejkW92ejxP6NO | avbxtw | {
"description": "choosing to cut ties with a friend for not liking dogs",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | WIBTA if I chose to cut ties with a friend for not liking dogs? | A friend of mine (not very close) told me around the first time we met that she didn't like dogs because I was showing pics of my dog around. I'm a huge dog person, dogs and my dogs especially mean a lot to me and as someone who also doesn't plan on having kids ever, dogs are like my children and I have such an endless... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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96FWPliM9NwEfg1B9AK6NSUbPxDDGKEQ | 9zgozu | {
"description": "not wanting my older brother and his friends in the house when they're drinking",
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"description": "helping my oldest sister with her wedding and not helping my other sister",
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} | AITA for helping my oldest sister with her wedding and not helping my other sister? | Many years ago I was a drug addict. I ended up homeless, penniless and majorly depressed. My older sister, Jane, told me to figure my life out and hung up on me. My oldest sister, Ann, drove down to pick me up and she gave me a place to stay. I think she saved my life that day. I ended up staying with her rent free for... | HISTORICAL | {
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8VMxd3mPrOaocCxsZC1RigfqIEWudfew | a8u57y | {
"description": "not introducing myself to our new neighbors",
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} | AITA for not introducing myself to our new neighbors? | Not long ago, my (now) ex-girlfriend, me and her teenage daughter were playing badminton in our front yard one night when someone pulls up in their vehicle. We come up to them at the end of our driveway and chat for a while. They're a middle-aged couple who just moved in a couple houses down, and they have a teenage da... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not going to my sister's wedding",
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} | WIBTA if I didn't go to my sister's wedding? | A few years ago, my sister watched some documentary about cows and decided she's not going to eat meat anymore. Okay, whatever, she'll get over it. But it's 4 years and she's more fanatical than ever. She doesn't drink milk and eggs either. I think it's stupid and dangerous for your health, and she's obviously missing ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "making my husband go out on his only day off in a month, while he has a toothache, b/c it's a national holiday here + my birthday",
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"description": "not wanting to forgive my parents and maintain a close relationship with them",
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} | AITA for not wanting to forgive my parents and maintain a close relationship with them? | I’m a 26 F and Indian. I grew up in a culture that prioritizes family above all but I’ve never been close to my parents. My mom used to abuse me physically, verbally, and emotionally everyday growing up and my dad would occasionally stop it but overall still let it happen. He was too worried about his own problems. I f... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "only marrying muslim girls",
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I’m from a very traditional background where it’s generally accepted you can date and fool around with non-Muslim girls but only Muslim girls are for introducing to your family and marrying
Since I’m still in university I’m obviou... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to invite my fiancees friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to invite my fiancees friend? | Me \[33m\] and my fiancee\[30\] have been together for 5 years. I recently proposed and we are currently working on a guest list. She has a friend who has never really been nice to me, barely acknowledging me or speaking to me. My fiancee has been trying to distance herself from her, as she has demonstrated toxic beha... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being a single, 40 yr old guy who refuses to be in a committed relationship",
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} | AITA for being a single, 40 yr old guy who refuses to be in a committed relationship? | I'm 40, and though I have had some relationships, I've never really felt comfortable in them. I enjoy the company of others, and I enjoy intimacy and sex, but I'm a huge introvert that likes to spend much of my time alone. When I'm in a relationship, I start to feel bogged down and a desire to free myself.
In the pas... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "threatening to show everyone nudes of my ex when she showed another guy nudes of her",
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} | AITA for threatening to show everyone nudes of my ex when she showed another guy nudes of her? | So this happened years ago when I was 18 and she was 17. (I'm 22 now)
I found out she showed another guy nude pictures of herself when I wanted to prank a coworker of hers by pretending to be her on her phone. Except there was a conversation above about how he appreciated that she showed him nude pictures of herself (... | HISTORICAL | {
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TcJy4MoBtN7SCqKVDIzbjr72nr59AVY2 | b2l7zi | {
"description": "unintentionally calling my maths teacher stupid",
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} | AITA for unintentionally calling my maths teacher stupid? | A few weeks ago I was in maths class and was asked to go up to the board. My maths teacher was correcting the way I was laying out the sum, and I wasn't sure why. She gave me some explanation that I didn't fully understand, and so I jokingly went "So I have to appeal to the examiner's stupidity?" Bear in mind, this tea... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "considering giving away a friends furniture",
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} | AITA Considering giving away a friends furniture | This story starts two years ago, I was moving into a new place and so was my friend's ex. Her ex had been using her patio furniture because she lives in an apartment with no outdoor space, but now he was moving and could no longer keep the furniture. She was feeling stressed because she was going to need to put it in s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "cutting a person out of my life because she keeps making the same mistakes",
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} | AITA for cutting a person out of my life because she keeps making the same mistakes? | So there’s this girl, I’ll call her A, that lied about this guy sexually harassing her I think for attention. So she said in a GroupMe or 20 that this guy was harassing her and stuff, but we eventually found out she was lying. She even admitted it herself. Now she has lied in the past too, about what I honestly don’t k... | HISTORICAL | {
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V1aJLo7fBxonnvORJVNHUdnyOMOmRSv0 | ayz8ic | {
"description": "telling my classmate to \"chill the hell out\"",
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} | AITA for telling my classmate to "chill the hell out"? | I'm taking an upper division philosophy course at university right now. We had to get into small groups and present our essay ideas (for our final projects) to our groups for about 10 minutes. After this is a round of feedback from each of us to the presenter. I am arguing in m essay of how ugly people count as an oppr... | HISTORICAL | {
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JD7bCVyryvLLehV1sI6elD8UDvmGXj2a | a5txtr | null | AITA for how I park at work? | My office has a parking garage with slanted spaces which makes the rows one way lanes. I typically arrive earlier than most, so I take my choice of the spaces usually leaving one space between me and another car. I do this because I park better like this rather than trying to slide between or next to other cars. But I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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4leK7sR3jzx1qRlB36kUyxGNdnWp2c8E | azmphl | {
"description": "being upset about the house my mom let me buy for 1/4 of the value",
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} | AITA For being upset about the house my mom let me buy for 1/4 of the value | I don't want to sound ungrateful, my mom let me buy a house worth 100k for 25k and I really appreciate that. When we went through the house everything looked okay, the house needs some paint and some TLC. No Problem it's such a generous offer. My mom never told me that one of the bedrooms doesn't have electric ran to i... | HISTORICAL | {
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GDr0Fik3aRfoBkYz1sBZkSNcUrynGh9c | aufx2e | {
"description": "calling my bf out on his gaming habits",
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} | AITA for calling my bf (M32) out on his gaming habits? | Throwaway account. And on mobile. My apologies.
So my bf and I have been dating for about 8 months now, and things are going pretty well. His new job, however, leaves him tired pretty much all the time. He works early mornings (3am-11am) on weekdays, and I work as a bartender on Thursday-Saturday nights. I'm also a co... | HISTORICAL | {
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4PO3c0v0Ch4unWsHNT5RJyBdWQUtl0J4 | a2tn0v | {
"description": "getting upset over cancelled plans",
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} | AITA for getting upset over cancelled plans | AITA ? This is pertaining to two separate incidents over the past 2 weeks. Incident # Uno:
Its the first day off I've had since we moved in together a month ago and I've spent the whole day cleaning the house and preparing a romantic candlelit dinner for the two of us. 6:30 rolls around when he should be getting home... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "re-taking 'my place' in the HOV lane",
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} | AITA for re-taking 'my place' in the HOV lane? | This happened yesterday. Driving to a destination an hour away along a busy 2+hov road during rush hour. I'm in the HOV lane and things are moving slowly but they are moving.
We hear sirens and soon see a police SUV coming from behind in the HOV lane with us. This HOV lane is to the far left.
Everyone knows what... | HISTORICAL | {
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F6zguKXX2ox6k0BYeBxaFpPLrQfdaYIW | b4rb8y | {
"description": "moving out of my parents home",
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} | WIBTA For moving out of my parents home. | I am two weeks shy of 16, I have a part time job that earns me about $425 a week.
My parents are planning on moving into a tiny house this summer, and the one they are looking at is not one I want to live in. I would be in a twin sized bed in a loft with only a curtain for privacy. I am a light sleeper and my father is... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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yw3lhihbZV0TQVn3UHqh4nJissaYx95O | acgmu8 | {
"description": "changing the locks on my 23 year old sister and kicking her out of my house",
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} | AITA for changing the locks on my 23 year old sister and kicking her out of my house. | In May 2013, my husband and I agreed to let my then 18 year old sister live with us while she went to college. We are both 10+ years older than her and worked two jobs while going to school so we know how hard it can be. We told her she had five years max to get a degree and move out. No rent or utilities were ever cha... | HISTORICAL | {
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Gc0rDCTU1v1wBKiYQ2AvifYB4z7g7vBj | ata3zl | null | AITA for feelig hurt when my boyfriend criticizes my gameplay? | I’m gonna try and keep this kind of short.
I started playing Overwatch a couple months ago and I’m around level 90 or so now, not fantastic but I was pretty proud of myself for getting this far.
My boyfriend has been playing for a long time and video games are something that he loves a lot and are very important to h... | HISTORICAL | {
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VHLwiU2qkoMOowOnWqTzqtWBECqYW53m | al6w8x | null | AITA for think my gf doesn’t care? | So recently it seems as if nothing I do or accomplish means anything to my gf. I recently underwent a procedure that she definitely knew about. We had talked about it a bunch. It wasn’t t anything serious but she hasn’t reached out at all. This is just one example. AITA for feeling hurt and unappreciated or am I overre... | HISTORICAL | {
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PtZDNwJ3ubFmgCYrLcmwbn8f2V7N6njP | b3q7ap | {
"description": "being uncomfortable with my dad's insistence regarding religion in our household",
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} | AITA for being uncomfortable with my dad’s insistence regarding religion in our household? | For clarification, I’m 17, and I’m not a militant atheist, I’ve just never been interested in religion. My dad has been increasingly insistent regarding my “relationship” with God, and although I’ve told him gently before that religion is not for me (never resulting in a full-blown confrontation), he continues to almos... | HISTORICAL | {
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Auj7qZzFRBKTRVg8br3yt9o9xrlN7zRq | 9w5pci | {
"description": "not encouraging my gf to get plastic surgery",
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} | AITA for not encouraging my gf to get plastic surgery? | I just don’t really like the idea of her getting a nose job, I think she is beautiful and I hate the idea of her permanetely changing the look of her face. She says she’s had confidence issues about her nose and that if she got the surgery, she’d be more confident about herself, but I just think we have all gone throug... | HISTORICAL | {
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KbY79JaTtPFYTM5cEwgH3pSjZfaKjCcv | auay21 | {
"description": "being angry at my dad's rule",
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} | AITA because I'm angry at my dad's rule? (And confronted him about it) | Sorry for vague title, I'll try to explain.
I argued back to my dad about a rule he has that I don't like. I didn't yell at him or anything but he definitely didn't appreciate me arguing back. I'm wondering if his rule is actually pretty reasonable and I was being a lil bitch by arguing back, or not...
I'm a 19 year... | HISTORICAL | {
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JiKI5grwwAcSMek6boq6i3TsRkSaruZG | 9wcttt | {
"description": "finding it weird that my so stopped initiating texts",
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} | AITA for finding it weird that my SO stopped initiating texts? | It’s long distance, we were having a super lovey dovey 3 weeks of texting back and fourth planning about the future. Sometimes she would initiate less sometimes I would, that’s fine.
Though for over a week I noticed she stopped wanting to advance convos and replies with one liners, additionally there was no imitation ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y9rywyL8wXL7a1h12EyoAzPrZn06whGm | ayk81r | {
"description": "not stopping to get my neighbor's dog",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not stopping to get my neighbor's dog? | So I'm driving home and see my neighbor's dog roaming the neighborhood. I barely hesitated before just driving home. The dog is kind of a douche and is usually left outside all the time, barking.
Of course when I get home I see my neighbors not looking for their dog at all or even worried that he's gone. I'm kind of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Bf4AwgqzGB2sNZfeIPRXP9kANOfcRszD | aoagje | {
"description": "not doing super-easy tasks for my sister",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not doing super-easy tasks for my sister? | My sister is almost always in her room and is super lazy, she asks me to do her stuff for her and even gets angry when I don't turn off her lamp next to her BED! When I was younger she took advantage of me asked me to bring everything to her. One time she even asked me to bring her the bathroom, SHE WAS THAT USED TO IT... | HISTORICAL | {
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KbhI8lzJaKaETFYxp1Yh8KP553RQWmjC | b1kg3r | {
"description": "getting mad at people that tell me to donate my hair",
"pronormative_score": 38,
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} | AITA for getting mad at people that tell me to donate my hair? | I have a fairly long hair. It’s a bit up my waist and it’s also one of the few things I am confident with in my appearance. For the standards of the place where I live, it stands out a lot.
So, every now and then, people talk to me about it and the subject of cutting it always comes up. There’s two scenarios that migh... | HISTORICAL | {
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oD8qIYu4CvJJsE8hSqTx4xsBdLRFGxJl | as91gm | {
"description": "possibly rejecting one of my closest friends",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for possibly rejecting one of my closest friends? | Backstory:
Me and my friend, who I will call Emily, have been best friends for 2 years now and there has always been something between us. Up until a couple months ago when we kissed (FYI I'm 14 so yeah kissing is a lot more of a big deal then it normally is, and yes it was a proper kiss, not just a peck). Anyway she ... | HISTORICAL | {
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oDwYKt8EceNiv2nfNbbAatUStTrxivjQ | 9ucli6 | {
"description": "not reconciling with my abusive husband after 4 months of the 8 month restraining order even though he's been going to church and cries every time I see him and says he's super sorry",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not reconciling with my abusive husband after 4 months of the 8 month restraining order even though he's been going to church and cries every time I see him and says he's super sorry? | He is a narcissist. He was verbally, emotionally, then physically abusive to me through our entire 7+ year marriage. He knows all the cops and judges in our small town and I'm an outsider. Even had his name removed from police reports and got the early heads up about being served restraining order.
Now he claims h... | HISTORICAL | {
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iY4pwkMA5oeRlHvuZASCKocHBHEJNzaP | a44bai | {
"description": "thinking that my classmate is faking/exaggerating depression",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for thinking that my classmate is faking/exaggerating depression? | I sit next to a dude in class, and all he does most days is try to initiate conversation with people who are working. If someone asks him to leave them alone, he goes into tangents about how he is remembering "repressed memories about being bullied in school". He asks things like "do you think I'm depressed because of ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LXltc6igUStXEuXMAlOyT8q43C410jFR | b4yanv | {
"description": "asking a stranger to not publicly berate his girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for asking a stranger to not publicly berate his girlfriend? | Me: Male, in my hometown to help my mom do some stuff, decided to go to a local watering hole to see some familiar faces.
Other Guy: Male, off-duty bartender at said local watering hole, inebriated, seems to be well socially connected, at bar with some of his friends.
Other Guy and I have no previous history.
Other ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
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