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{ "description": "reaching out to an ex", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for reaching out to an ex?
So I (19M) broke up with my ex in May of last year, after nearly 2 years together (we started dating at age 16). It was clean, and we parted as well as we could have. Didn't talk, because I broke her heart and whenever I'd see her... Well her expression of pain was always difficult to bear. Maybe 5 months after the bre...
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{ "description": "fighting with my landlord against my roommate's wishes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fighting with my landlord against my roommate's wishes?
We've had issues at the apartment that the landlord has known about for over a month but not fixed. The most concerning issue to me is that we've been getting water in part of the basement when it rains. I'm super frustrated because the landlord doesn't return most of my emails and so I called a hotline that's run by a...
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{ "description": "not going to my great grandfathers funeral", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- for not going to my great grandfathers funeral.
This happened a few years back when I was fresh out of high school and was half way through my second semester of college. My grandfather was very old and suffered from a multitude of health problems, everyone in the family knew he didn’t have much time left so they tried to visit him as much as possible. I tried to do...
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{ "description": "resenting my disabled brother", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for resenting my disabled brother
I saw the story about the guy who cares for his sister and thought maybe this would be a good place to vent/get opinions TLDR at the end (Let me preface this with if my family should find this, turn back now. You already know, and making a scene because I told strangers won’t change anything.) A little backstory: my br...
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{ "description": "telling a lady I wasn't in charge of an event", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a lady I wasn't in charge of an event?
Little backstory, I was recently at an autograph signing for a sports team. There were many booths set up that had different players scattered around the mall. I went with my bestfriend & boyfriend but we all wanted to see different players so we split up. I managed to find my line no problem and settled in for a...
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{ "description": "asking someone to give up their spot because I have asthma", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked someone to give up their spot because I have asthma?
It is getting a lot colder and it increases the amount of difficulties that I have. I get dizzy and difficulties breathing. Sitting down helps and makes it easier to take my medication. During rush hour there are little to none spots left. WIBTA if I asked them to please give them their seat?
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{ "description": "moving out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if i moved out?
i’m 18, and i’m considering moving in with my father. i’ve always had a hard life at home, but things went to shit when i was around 16. my mom became abusive and neglectful. she left the family for months to be with her boyfriend and became a crackhead. during that time, i was the head of the household and had to car...
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{ "description": "telling a little white lie so the children feels better about me dating their dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for telling a little white lie so the children feels better about me dating their dad?
I babysit for a client with a two young children (elementary school age). I started babysitting them a few years ago. During this time, my client developed a terminal condition and she passed away recently. Her husband still hires me because I know the children really well, and long story short we are dating. The chi...
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{ "description": "not making up with my best friend after they told me they didnt care about our friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not making up with my best friend after they told me they didnt care about our friendship.
So during secondary (aka middle) school i was best friends with a girl we’ll call L. We had been friends for like 5 ish years and did literally everything together, never have i experienced a friendship so strong and id say she gave me my first experience of love outside my family. I cant really explain how close we we...
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AITA for my dog on her lead biting a dog who wasn't on a lead?
This just happened and I'm seeking some clarity on who the ass hole is in this situation. I was walking my 2 dogs who were both a lead. Another dog (twiggy) appeared and its owners were a good 30 seconds behind it. One of my dogs is nervous around other dogs and was tucked close up to my legs. Twiggy wasn't listening t...
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{ "description": "not eating cake at my mom's birthday party? ft. r/entitledparents", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not eating cake at my mom's birthday party? ft. r/entitledparents
Hello people, So this actually happened today. This is quite important for the story, so I'm terrified of germs, everyone knows it. I avoid human contact, for example when someone greets me with a handshake and then tries to kiss my cheek I'll be like oh fuck no (and no it's not because I feel awkward, I'm just terrif...
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{ "description": "moving all my furniture out of the apartment that ex-girlfriend is staying in", "pronormative_score": 414, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA if I moved all my furniture out of the apartment that ex-girlfriend is staying in.
So girlfriend split up with me a few days ago (I'm 26, she's 25). We will buy out the lease at the end of April but I went to my brothers for the time being till I find a new place. I'm still helping split April's rent and all the furnitiure and items in the apartment is mine or my families (couch, bed, table, TV, etc)...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my friend after he asked me out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I distance myself from my friend after he asked me out?
He’s been my close friend for 3 years. We would hang a lot and he’s a nice guy to talk to, but he keeps trying to ask me out in a roundabout way and now I’m just in a really uncomfortable position. I feel kind of disrespected since I have a boyfriend and all and this just reaffirms my belief that guy friends are almo...
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{ "description": "asking to use my brother's next-day shipping", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking to use my brother's next-day shipping?
So first things first, never posted here before so apologies if I break any rules My brother has Amazon Prime, and I had my eye on an item and wanted to see if it went any cheaper in the Black Friday sales today. It didn't anywhere, so I asked my brother if I could use his prime account to get it sooner, rather than ...
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{ "description": "refusing to Christmas shop with my father/brother", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for refusing to Christmas shop with my father/brother?
Every year my father and brother expect me to go Christmas shopping with them to get my mom something. BUT- by ‘Christmas shop’ they mean “I’ll drive while you tell me good ideas for mom’s Christmas” In the past, I’ve been frustrated with this and just let them attach their name to MY Christmas gift- which is almost ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my 18th birthday party with my 1 year old cousin", "pronormative_score": 329, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not wanting to share my 18th birthday party with my 1 year old cousin?
I’m turning 18 on April 1st, but I’m having my party on March 30th. I planned my birthday party three weeks ago, so lots of people had time to work their schedules around it. I planned a nice dinner and invited my entire family and everyone said they would come. Then suddenly, a week before my birthday, my aunt and my ...
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{ "description": "not wanting gf to dance with random dudes on our night outs", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting gf to dance with random dudes on our night outs?
My gf loves to dance as do I. Its something we bonded about as friends when we met. It also something that grew our love. When we dance as a couple now its amazing. I've noticed that I danced to meet people and gain a skill. She danced to get lost in the music. Obviously as friends at dance events I didnt care about h...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends and family to stop buying me gifts", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my friends and family to stop buying me gifts?
X-post from r/confessions I realise it makes me seem super spoiled, but I wish they just wouldn’t buy me presents for my birthday and Christmas because the things they buy me just demonstrate how little they know me, and to be honest I’d rather just have a nice time with no take-homes except memories. They buy me bi...
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{ "description": "not answering a customer and making her wait", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not answering a customer and making her wait
Happened a couple years ago. I was working at an art shop in the city which meant i served alot of entitled people. I would be talking to staff (giving them tasks/ work related) or other customers and people would just walk up to me and start talking at me. I was getting sick of it. I always feel uncomfortable ignorin...
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{ "description": "wanting to clear things up ejth my now ex after she hsd the impression I wanted to cheat on her", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITAH for wanting to clear things up ejth my now ex after she hsd the impression i wanted to cheat on her
Alright guys so this is also kinds to vent because it seriously worked me up, but anyways my ex wanted me to leave her alone even though I wanted to clear up the false impressions she had as to why I wanted to break up with her. I broke up with her because of personal reasons I didn't enjoy about the relationship, as w...
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{ "description": "being frustrated at my gf for sleeping in calls with someone else every night", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being frustrated at my gf for sleeping in calls with someone else every night?
Apologies in advance for both making a long post and my first post ever on Reddit. Anyway, I want to first say that me and my gf have been dating for some years in a LDR (Moving in together was a WIP), and I have complete trust in her, which wasn't easy to get as I'm quite a paranoid and jealous person in general. So...
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{ "description": "possibly revealing my friends crush", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Possibly Revealing My Friends Crush?
Obligatory first post thing blah blah blah. PEOPLE INVOLVED Me: Me E: A friend who has a crush on a guy (M) that I've never met. C: A friend of mine who saw this situation. M: The boy E has a crush on. ​ I know the title makes it sound bad but I don't know how to describe it. Basically, I was talking...
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{ "description": "ghosting my ex but receiving and keeping his gifts", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for ghosting my ex but receiving and keeping his gifts?
My ex and I broke up last summer because he was an exchange student and he moved back to his home country. It was a very hard breakup for me and I really don’t want to have anything to do with him because it’s clear that our futures lie on different continents. I am a very emotional person, and all I want to do is face...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at a homeless man to move on the subway", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed at a homeless man to move on the subway?
This was a couple weeks ago at around 6:30 PM on a Manhattan subway on my way downtown after class. I had just switched trains at Columbus Circle from one packed train to another, almost no standing room. As I'm looking around the car, I spot a homeless man spread out on one section of seats, taking up about 4 spots of...
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{ "description": "calling a woman conceited on international women's day (IWD) while she was on her period", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for calling a woman conceited on international women's day (IWD) while she was on her period?
I was supposed to go on a date with a girl. I'm in CT, she's in NYC. I travel 2hrs to get to the city and am staying at my friend's place the night before I'm supposed to go on this date. Have to travel another 30/40 mins to get to her area in the city. I text her that night just checking in to make sure everything is...
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{ "description": "telling my friend it sucks that we all always smoke together and she's the only one who can't roll", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend it sucks that we all always smoke together and she’s the only one who can’t roll
Some background: We have all been smoking at least 4 or 5x a week on and off for the past few months, heavier in the summer, and we all know how to roll. Since we smoke so much our tolerance to weed is higher and it takes more weed or more expensive weed to get us higher- leading to more joints/blunts to be rolled. She...
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{ "description": "insisting on Venmo payment for a trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for insisting on Venmo payment for a trip.
A group of my friends (all college age) and I are planning a short trip for spring break. We are staying in an AirBnB and I offered to book the room, which was a full 690 charge all on my card. I did this because my friend asked me to, not because I wanted to, because I know people can be awful about payment. Most of...
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{ "description": "wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor", "pronormative_score": 172, "contranormative_score": 65 }
AITA for wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor?
My best friend, FRIEND, I‘ve known since I was in diapers. We were neighbors throughout HS, went to college together, and shared an apartment our last year there. He’s been a brother our whole lives; we’re both an only child. We’ve talked about how we’ll be each other’s best man for as long as I can remember. I don’t r...
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{ "description": "not seeing or talking to my friend who was having a bad day", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not seeing or talking to my friend who was having a bad day?
So context: She took acid the night before and I stayed with her and our mutual friend during their experience, everything was fine and I left very early in the morning to sleep at my own house. I woke up to a spam of messages saying how bad she was feeling and that she really needed me, I told her I will come see her ...
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{ "description": "not agreeing with my wife", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not agreeing with my wife
So a bit of a story is needed for context. My house keep ,which in our country it is very difficult to find an honest and responsible one, has been working for our family in different households. In my brother's, my aunt's, and even some friends. During those years she has always been honest, responsible, and helped wi...
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{ "description": "being mad at my fiancé for bringing up something for happening 8 months ago", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being mad at my fiancé for bringing up something for happening 8 months ago?
I [18F] got upset at my fiancé [20M] for leaving something his ex posted on his steam comments up. We get into an argument and he brings up how I was speaking to my ex the very first month of our relationship (keep in mind I wasn’t sure that he was okay with me being friends with an ex, and even then we weren’t officia...
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{ "description": "wanting my mother to create her account by herself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my mother to create her account by herself?
My mother (58), always reaches to me for every little technological problem that faces. I always end up helping her, but I get a bit angry since I believe she should learn to do those things on her own. She replys that since she helps me by cooking and cleaning the house (I'm 19), it's the least I should do for her, ...
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{ "description": "not helping my Co-Worker out who really needs it this week when I will have Downtime", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA By Not Helping My Co-Worker Out Who Really Needs It This Week When I Will Have Downtime
Without divulging too many details, my co-worker and I are the only two attorneys doing a certain type of law in a governmental office. We have been working there almost the same amount of time and have about the same amount of experience but because she started 2 months before me they made her “chief” and me not, so s...
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{ "description": "giving an employee 2 days off without pay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving an employee 2 days off without pay?
Due to lack of engagement and accountability failures from the previous manager and supervisor, I was asked to take over a safety critical team to improve compliance and accuracy. Under the previous leader a particular individual was thought of as a high performer due to his willingness to take on a broad range of tas...
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{ "description": "having to pay less rent", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having to pay less rent?
So I live in a student house, basically just a normal 2 story house with six rooms in total, 2 on each floor, two kitchens, and a large bathroom. The rooms are 20m², it’s close to the train station, close to the city center, and in a relatively quiet neighborhood. I’ve been living here for over a year now, and recentl...
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{ "description": "throwing a jug of fresh pee at my stepdad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for throwing a jug of fresh pee at my stepdad?
Mobile User M:Mom D:Dad SF:Stepfather A month ago I (17M) was diagnosed with stage three Hodgkin's Lymphoma I am currently in the hospital because my entire mouth is covered in mouth sores. This makes it difficult for me to eat and talk, warranting a 1 week+ admission to the hospital. One day I'm in my hospital be...
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{ "description": "trying to lose contact with a good friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to lose contact with a good friend
I met this guy online through gaming over 2 years ago. We quickly became really good friends, to the point where we talked every day, shared our secrets and problems with each other, etc. He probably still knows more secrets about me than anyone else. Due to us living only 2 hours away from each other we spent a new ye...
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{ "description": "leaving out my feminine hygiene wash", "pronormative_score": 75, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving out my feminine hygiene wash?
I was complaining to my sister that she went away for about a week and left her underwear (face up :( ) on the bathroom floor and her boyfriend's underwear on the sink. I had just cleaned and bleached the bathroom so I was pretty annoyed. She told me that it was unfair of me to complain because I keep my feminine hygie...
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{ "description": "wanting him to eat his vegetables", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting him to eat his vegetables?
My boyfriend of about 1.5 years, doesn't eat any vegetables/fruits/fresh foods.... And generally eats what most would consider a very unhealthy diet. (Pizza, mac n cheese, pasta, etc). At the beginning of our relationship this wasn't a prevalent issue because, like with most new relationships, we both ate out & at ...
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{ "description": "walking out on a waitress", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for walking out on a waitress?
So I think I had the worst restaurant service ever. I walked in, and it was busy, with no sign. When verbally questioned for take out, I speechlessly gestured to the dining room, and received a nod. I sat down in the dining room, and was speechlessly served water approximately 5 minutes later. About 5 minutes later I r...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend over 1 dollar", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting mad at my friend over 1 dollar?
Im a freshmen in highschool and at my school you can get a meal for 1 dollar for lunch. That day i set down my backback near my friend. I then walked to another table to talk to some friends and while I was doing that he took my money which was only a dollar and spent it on a bag of chips. Someone told me he just took ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be on a vacation with my family", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not wanting to be on a vacation with my family?
Currently, I (15M) am on vacation in Washington, D.C. with my family. I've never really expressed much interest in going here, but I never said anything to the nature of "I don't want to go" because there is no purpose. It would just rile everyone up. Well, earlier today, we went to see most of the major buildings and ...
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{ "description": "not being comfortable with an unleashed dog and yelling at the owner", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not being comfortable with an unleashed dog and yelling at the owner?
Hi all, I live in a condo where pets are allowed. I’m not a big fan of animals as I’ve always been creeped out by them. As long as pet owners are responsible and look after their pets, I have absolutely no problem with them. However, today while I was in the elevator, a woman got on with a giant German Shepard who w...
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{ "description": "never calling my roommate beautiful", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never calling my roommate beautiful?
I'd say my (23F) roommate (23F) has always been a very straightforward and somewhat blunt person. Some relevant examples: once in high school we were at a lunch table with other friends when she out of nowhere remarked that she had never thought I was (physically) beautiful, but she could see it all of a sudden. I was ...
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{ "description": "wanting to go home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go home?
In December, I filled an application for HRT. A few days later, my mom want me to accompany her to Hong Kong to visit relatives. She got a service apartment for a month. I thought A month delay on starting HRT wouldn't hurt, so I agreed to go. On around the 20~th, my dad calls and says he need to come over as well to ...
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AITA: Brother Is Homeless... Stopped talking to him.
The slide started slow? I guess? Hard to make coherent in 300 characters. **Full disclosure:** Older brother(OB) Smokes weed, has done shrooms, and acid confirmed. We don't know our father(BIO)... Around 7-8 years ago OB had started working on building a relationship with BIO. Turns out I have a younger brother...
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{ "description": "being upset my sis didnt take my side in a family issue", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset my sis didnt take my side in a family issue.
I will try to condense this story down. So I (23f) have been caring for my nephew(10m) for the past 6 years and a month ago my brother (28m his father) and his girlfriend (27?f his mother) came back into the mix to try to take him. He expressed he didnt want to leave with them and wanted to stay with me. Me and my br...
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{ "description": "refusing to chip in on household supplies and cleaning for an apartment that I rent at but do not live in", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to chip in on household supplies and cleaning for an apartment that I rent at but do not live in?
tl;dr - I rent a room at in apartment, but due to a new job on the other side of town I essentially am now living at my SO's place 24/7. My roommate still wants me to chip in on toilet paper and other supplies that I won't use, and pay a cleaning lady to come in to clean common areas that I have not used in months. --...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my friend who is cheating on her fiancé", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting ties with my friend who is cheating on her fiancé?
Hey everyone. I’ve been work friends with a girl for two years, we don’t hang out outside of work much but we text/snapchat a lot and used to see each other at work until I transferred stores. I’ve also only met her fiancé a few times so we are not close. She recently told me that she’s been “talking” to a guy we use...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "wanting my GF's Gay Bestie to stop groping her", "pronormative_score": 169, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For wanting my GF's Gay Bestie to stop Groping her.
So my GF and I have been together for a about a year or so now, we're both in high school - I'm about to graduate and she has another year to go. My GF's best friend is a fuller gay gentleman (we'll call them Norman) who is the same grade as her, they've been friends since grade school, and she was his main support...
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{ "description": "being concerned about attending an all-black event with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being concerned about attending an all-black event with my girlfriend?
My girlfriend is black and I am white (male). She wants me to go with her to a Black Nationalist type event. I am a bit concerned that our relationship with stick up like a sore thumb there. I conceal carry so I am not worried about violence but there is a lot of potential for drama and I don't like drama.
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AITA? Dumped boyfriend for busy work schedule
My boyfriend works 7 days a week, 12 hour days as a drug dealer. He started taking on more shifts recently, and starts work at about 8 am and gets off at 9 or 10 pm and usually pretty tired once he's off. He asks me to hang out almost every day, but I have to wait until he's off (which is 9-10 pm or sometimes even late...
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{ "description": "telling a friend a class was easy and now he's failing it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a friend a class was easy and now he's failing it?
I'm in my first year of engineering and I had a introduction to programming class last semester. The point was to teach how to break down problems into steps and solve them, not really to learn programming. I went to all the classes and the labs, did all the optional homework and only studied for the final exam. The ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to trust/talk to my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to trust/talk to my sister
thanks for all the help in advance and apologies for any if all grammar mistakes haha. Good or bad just need to dialog people. ​ My sister has come to visit me for 3 weeks (i live overseas). She and i have been close for many years, we call each other best friends and we get along very well. I haven't se...
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{ "description": "blaming my S.O. for not booking flights in time", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for blaming my S.O. for not booking flights in time?
TL;DR at the bottom. My apologies for the book that I'm about to write, but there were a lot of events that happened leading up to the situation. **SCROLL DOWN TO SKIP THE BACKSTORY** So I've been trying to plan a trip to Europe in May with a couple friends for the past month. I invited my boyfriend because we've bee...
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{ "description": "masturbating like everyone does", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for masturbating like everyone does
I had an healthy realationship when I didn’t feel uncomfortable by the fact that my gf thinks that I shouldn’t masturbate because she feels insecure and replaced by my sense of pleasure. Note that I don’t masturbate often, only when I feel like it. I feel pretty healthy and I never thought that was something wrong abou...
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{ "description": "rushing my partner this morning", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for rushing my partner this morning?
I've (29m) been with my partner (25f) for 8 months. My one complaint is while I'm generally easy going. I feel like she blames me for things that aren't on me. ​ ​ I've recently moved back in with my mother, I'm close to saving up for a deposit on my own place. My mother has been really accommo...
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{ "description": "not being able to help my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to help my friend?
This story isn't super long but, I met a friend a little over a year ago. He is transgender and our small group really helped him out during his "confession" (i can't think of a better word) and being harassed/bullied about it. We don't hang out very much anymore but still text sometimes. During our text conversations,...
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{ "description": "being mad my childhood friend used my wig party to promote her MLM", "pronormative_score": 204, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being mad my childhood friend used my wig party to promote her MLM
(I’m on mobile so I’m sorry in advance) My best friend Kat and I have been friends since kindergarten so we’re practically sisters. Recently I was diagnosed with a very rare form of brain cancer and while we caught it early enough doctors believe I’m a high risk for relapse in the future. Essentially I have been given...
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AITA - Don't bring up grad school!
I recently started applying to grad school, naturally I was excited and told my family at dinner. Recently my sisters boyfriend mentioned to me (at a bar while drinking...) that I should stop talking about my interest in grad school in front of my family as he thought it was not well received. For me, I was taken aback...
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{ "description": "pulling out of Christmas plans", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pulling out of Christmas plans
Little back story my family and I were meant to spend the holidays together. My family is controlling have informed me my partner is not invited even their partners are. They do not like him. Also my dad has threatened and called me names since we had miscommunication of plans.
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{ "description": "becoming jealous when my best friend tells me about the girls that he's talking to", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for becoming jealous when my best friend tells me about the girls that he's talking to?
Pretty much, the title. I'm 25 years old and do talk to girls, but not as much as my best friend does. We're both currently single. He seems to have more frequent luck than I do, and when he tells me about whatever is going on in this department of his life, I always find myself quickly becoming jealous of him. I'm not...
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{ "description": "telling my GF that I longer want to travel with her", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I told my GF that I longer want to travel with her?
My girlfriend (lets call her D) and I both love to travel and have taken about 4 major trips together. Although I cherish our experiences and memories, I've concluded after our last trip that I don't particularly enjoy traveling with D and feel that I'd be better off traveling alone or with a friend who shares simila...
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{ "description": "telling her that I don't care for her \"world famous alfredo\"", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I tell her that I don’t care for her “world famous alfredo”?
My girlfriend is really proud of this alfredo dish she makes. She makes it once a week for us. I absolutely hate it. It’s got this weird sour taste and the bacon in it is like rubbery instead of crispy. I’ve been choking it down with a smile so far, but I dread when Sunday dinner time comes around.
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{ "description": "wanting my roommate to take the trash out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my roommate to take the trash out?
So me and three others live in a dormitory together, and while it used to be a tight ship (rotating duties on bathroom cleaning and emptying the trash) it has since fallen to a bit more of a relaxed state, which means the trash has overflowed. This is gross, so I took some initiative and took it out and replaced the li...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she's getting defensive", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my roommate she's getting defensive?
Hey, it's me again. Sometimes I have trouble judging situations, so this subs is really helpful. Anyway, my roommate asked me to get her credit card from her car to pay for something online. I did, and came back in and we talked a while. The conversation turned to the weather, and I told her that I heard that it was ...
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{ "description": "not understanding a joke I saw as serious", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not understanding a joke I saw as serious?
Hi AITA for understanding a joke I saw as serious? My friend and my best friend planned to mess with me and they did by saying they had a secret between them and I couldn't find out about it. Curious to know what it was I insisted that I would find out, my friends got a kick off of seeing me irritated like that, but ...
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AITA My best friend is upset with me because I said I like seeing black people prosper
AITA??? My best friend and I (both 20F) and we mostly have similar views when it comes to controversial topics such as politics, guns, race, etc. She comes from a slightly wealthier neighborhood in Florida and her parents have a business. She is half white and half middle eastern so she does consider herself a minority...
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AITA my cat escaped when I was closing the garage door, didn't notice the cat was outside meowing until 2 hours when I went to look
I feel pretty bad, traffic wasnt bad a few cars every minute or so. My cat was meowing outside my garage the entire time, she isn't injured or anything. But I feel pretty bad as the cat was scared SHITLESS
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{ "description": "not wanting to reconnect with an old friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to reconnect with an old friend.
This is kind of a situation that has spaned over most of my life so sorry for the long read. So this all started when I was in 5th grade. Our neighborhood didn't have a lot of kids and A new kid moved into the neighborhood. Wasn't long before we because friends and eventually best friends or so I thought. We had a re...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be on a profit-share team with my coworkers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be on a profit-share team with my coworkers?
Throwaway account.. Some context: I am in sales but I don't get a commission, I get a profit share where I get a % amount of profit after exceeding a certain threshold. Prior to December, I was on my own team and if I billed out more than, let's say $50,000, I made a % profit on the excess. So I billed out $60,000, I w...
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{ "description": "getting really annoyed when the parents of the kids did not acknowledge that I gave up my seat for their kid", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i got really annoyed when the parents of the kids did not acknowledge that I gave up my seat for their kid?
I had boarded the train prior to the family of four ( the parents, a girl and a boy both around 5 years old) and managed to get a seat from a corner seat. The train was quite full but there were about 2 more seats at the other door. However, the family squeezed on the train at the last second & went over to the emp...
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{ "description": "suggesting a 'curfew' for my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for suggesting a 'curfew' for my boyfriend?
My (21f) boyfriend (21m) and I have been together for four years. We are about to move out together, after basically living with my parents for 18 months or so. ​ We have discussed potential compromises (chores, house decorations etc.) and are agreed on 99% of things. We made an agreement for him to be hom...
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{ "description": "firing a pregnant employee", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for firing a pregnant employee?
Today I had to fire I pregnant woman. She’s been with my company (an at home care company) for 2 months today. She has called off a total of 4 times, 1 no call/no show, had to have schedule adjustments, and had to be removed from a household due to sleeping on the job-the client caught her sleeping. All her call offs...
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{ "description": "talking to my fiancee's friend about my fiancee's new self-harming habit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to my fiancee's friend about my fiancee's new self-harming habit?
A little backstory: my fiancée and I have been together about 8 years. However, for the past year and a half, we have been doing long distance due to me getting experience in my field of discipline and her moving away to go to medical school. Back in the fall of last year, she started her second year of med school. Sh...
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{ "description": "telling my fiance that my best friend is my best friend, and not her", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For telling my fiance that my best friend is my best friend, and not her?
Ok, so first off I want to say that irregardless of me being an asshole or not, I WAS AMBUSHED. SHE TRAPPED ME. My fiance and I are in the middle of cuddling and watching some stupid horror b-movie on our bed. Its shit so we're not really watching it. Out of nowhere, she asks me if I love her. Sometimes we have some ...
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{ "description": "telling my friends to either leave their relationship problems at the door or not come over at all", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my friends to either leave their relationship problems at the door or not come over at all?
Here's the scenario from a week ago. They're over at my house smoking. I was holding onto the blunt too long so my friends girlfriend (also my friend) says I need to pass it. Completely valid. He says "he paid for it don't tell him what to do" I honestly agreed with his GF because I like to keep things fair as far as...
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{ "description": "having no sympathy for my flatmate's social situation", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for having no sympathy for my flatmate's social situation
I'm currently a first year at uni, and live in university accommodation with 5 others. Whilst everyone in my flat is definitely less close with each other than what I've seen with other people's flats, we all get on well and have no issues with each other at all. Upon meeting my flatmate (Let's call her A) she was pre...
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{ "description": "complaining about my upstairs neighbor's loud music during the day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complaining about my upstairs neighbor’s loud music during the day?
I know that it’s the middle of the day and it’s not like they’re keeping me from sleeping or something, but the bass from their shitty rap music is so loud that I can’t think straight. I have a huge test to study for tomorrow but I’m so pissed from the loud music that I can’t think or focus. Am I the asshole if I com...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get in an ill-begotten car with my college girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to get in an ill-begotten car with my college girlfriend.
A little bit of context: My senior GF in college was recently given a car by her parents. We both go to an expensive North East private college, and we both have our rent and tuition paid for by our parents. That's fine, right? Well, the issue is her grades are **low**... **Low** to the point where she might not ...
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{ "description": "having some friends over that I knew my roommate has issues with", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I had some friends over that I knew my roommate has issues with?
Bit of background: I had a pretty solid friend group throughout two years of college. We all got along fairly well within our core group, and though issues arose, the close proximity meant these things usually had to be dealt with amicably. Present day, nearly a year after graduation: I'm living with two of my former...
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{ "description": "expressing my feelings to long time friend/fwb", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expressing my feelings to long time friend/fwb?
I need some clarification here, personally I don't think I'm the asshole but maybe I'm wrong. I 27/m have been friends with 27/f for about 5 yrs now and we seem to be getting closer as the years go by. Friday night I stayed the night with her and left early Saturday morning for work. We ended up having a great time ta...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to smoke less of my weed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my friend to smoke less of my weed?
Sorry I’m doing this on mobile so please forgive any autocorrect or formatting errors. My best friend and I smoke together a lot. For the last year, I have always been the one to buy for the two of us because I’m the only one with a job and I come from a rich family while he is lower middle class and a college studen...
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{ "description": "rejecting someone in a direct manner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting someone in a direct manner?
In all fairness I believe I am free of guilt, but I want outside assurance that I wasn't mean in any way. So at some a point I went out with friends, we went back to a friend's place to chill, a girl took particular interest in me, and then started insulting me throughout the night and throwing stuff at me when I told ...
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{ "description": "having sex with a woman who is in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for having sex with a woman who is in a relationship
First time post with english not as my native language so I want to apologize upfront for my mistakes. So I worked at a Book Store and met my coworker there who was a very cool person. We got along very well and after I quit the job there we stayed in contact. I liked her but never wanted something from her but tbh sh...
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{ "description": "blowing up at my son after he failed to meet my expectations by not getting into UC Berkeley or UCLA", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 68 }
AITA for blowing up at my son after he failed to meet my expectations by not getting into UC Berkeley or UCLA?
My personal background (this is relevant, I promise): I’m the youngest of 4 brothers and the first in my family to go to college. My parents have retired from rust belt factory jobs, and my 3 older brothers currently work at similar jobs. Meanwhile, I obtained a doctorate in experimental physics and currently work a...
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{ "description": "calling myself a marathoner or saying that I completed a marathon", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for calling myself a marathoner or saying that I completed a marathon?
Using a throwaway since I moderate a few other subs. A few years ago I ran in a marathon close by my hometown. I ran the mini-marathon which I think was 5k. My tshirt says marathon, my finishers medal says marathon as does my beer glass they gave me. To me, I ran a marathon. I'm a good athlete but in things like yoga...
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{ "description": "not giving my college partner money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my college partner money???
So, yesterday I was waiting for the bus with a college partner (x) very late in the night. There were few people and the lighting was poor. A homeless guy who wanders frecuently around the bus terminal asked me two pesos for his ride and I gave them to him. He left in his bus inmediately. My bus came and I board it ...
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{ "description": "needing help to park my vehicle", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for needing help to park my vehicle?
I was in a new city for work and was going out to eat some place. When I arrived at the place the parking was horrible and I'm in an awkwardly big vehicle. So I see a man that was guiding cars to be parked. He motions me into a spot and I try to park. The spot is a narrow and I run into difficulty parking. So the man ...
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{ "description": "being upset over not being a Bridesmaid", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA For Being Upset Over Not Being A Bridesmaid
Throwaway here because people know my regular account. I’m getting married in June. I’m going to have my friend Jim as my dude of honor, and my friend Jane as my bridesmaid. Jim and I have been friends since college, but my friendship with Jane is longer and a bit more complicated. We started to be friends in h...
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{ "description": "demanding my full security deposit back", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for demanding my full security deposit back?
In my state the landlord has 90 says to either return the security deposit in full it a partial with an itemized list of deductions. Knowing that I set a Google calendar alert for 90 says after my lease termination. After I got my alert, I waited a few more days, then sent an email asking about my deposit. The LL the...
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{ "description": "waiting to meet my long distance girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for waiting to meet my long distance girlfriend?
I’m in a long distance relationship with me living in Australia but my girlfriend living in Canada. We made a plan that she would leave her family (which was somewhat abusive) and come back to Australia with me, but before this I’d live in Canada near her since I’d be 18 waiting for her to turn 18 so we can leave (she’...
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{ "description": "yelling at my Sister and Father, who came to pick me up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Yelling at my Sister and Father, who came to pick me up?
I asked my father to pick me up from high school today because he didn't have work, so he drove with my sister to do just that. So my sister texts me telling me that they've arrived and are parked near an elementary school across from Store 1. She also tells me shes on the road perpendicular to a large, main road. Howe...
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{ "description": "getting pissed that my boyfriend has avoided me while I was sick and alone", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting pissed that my boyfriend has avoided me while I was sick and alone?
I have had the flu for the last week and have been doing horribly. High grade fever for two days straight, weak and fatigued, just super shitty in general, missed 4 days of work. My boyfriend, who I don’t live with but have been dating for about a year and a half, is a foreman in the construction industry, and has know...
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{ "description": "using an offensive word that I was confused about", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using an offensive word that i was confused about?
Throwaway because I’m pretty sure they use reddit, In a discord server we were talking about stuff and i said become a trap (in the way like in animes where the boy looks like a girl, such as felix from rezero) then one of the mods said that trap was offensive and i was a little confused because i didn’t truly know ho...
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{ "description": "planning to propose to my gf without telling my group of friends", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for planning to propose to my gf without telling my group of friends?
I've been with my girlfriend for close to a year now, it's not a perfect relationship but i fell as though we've sorted our issues with each other. I know a year is a little too soon but she's my other half, we're perfect for each other and she has given off some hints that she wants this as well (maybe not this soon)....
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{ "description": "leaving work on time", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving work on time
So I work at a Mexican grill and Sundays are understaffed because you know labor. So to make sure the schedule gets passed by the district manager my manager schedules me from 11 to 2. Now I already have an ankle injury so my goal is to get out of there but he expects me to stay until 5. So basically I finished washing...
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{ "description": "keeping the baby", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I kept the baby?
TL;DR I might be pregnant. I want the maybebaby, so does SO. But I’m clinically depressed and have a moderate drinking problem. The highlights are that we’re a “stable” (stable in that our relationship is strong and we’ve been together for 10+ years), suburban couple in our mid 30s. We have 2 other kids in the house,...
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{ "description": "not caring about what my friends say", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about what my friends say?
I've lost interest on lot of my friends as I grew up, especially classmates, they would oconstantly talk about topics that I'm no longer interested on, I couldn't just stop being friends with them, that would mean losing almost all of them, whenever I'd bring a conversation about something I love, they'd still listen a...
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AITA cause of my "masculinity"?
I'll keep this short as I can and I am typing on my phone so please bare with me. so I'm in a relationship with a women and last few days she seems to keep having digs about men . Granted where she lives guys are genuine dicks and toxic with their masculinity. I have 2 examples to give of recent digs in the last 2 day...
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