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0Xiq9YGRcmHbrChVXHiAQhFUPP1YfJpi | aoixgv | {
"description": "calling someone out on their toxic relationship",
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} | AITA for calling someone out on their toxic relationship | Okay so my friend decided to ask out this girl that I’ve known for a while. And honestly I was happy for them, they seemed cute for the first few months, but after that, he was starting to become very toxic and a hot head. Going off on her with every conversation they have, talking shit about her and her family, how po... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting my bf to look at porn",
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} | WIBTA For not wanting my bf to look at porn | The title is a bit overexaggerated to be far..
Backstory, we have been together 3 years and engaged for 2 years. And I've never had a problem with him watching porn and masturbating while I'm not there, I mean I do it when I'm alone so no problems there. We have each others pascodes on everything and I never feel the... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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CUehWcs4fXqjD3hg7QN2eln5czT9GZ1r | a4gqvw | {
"description": "filing a noise complaint",
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} | AITA for filing a noise complaint. | TL;DR
My neighbours across from my house were being loud and messing around with sparklers after the 11pm curfew on excessive noise which I was going to ignore as it wasn't to much of a nuisance but still pissed me off yet I ignored it.
Then as it passed midnight they set off a firework a whole month after Bonfire Nig... | HISTORICAL | {
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RnvwUjoZCVg9h9ifwdgp7XMdBSyHHo3l | aq4iee | {
"description": "taking food off my friend's plate without asking first",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for taking food off my friend's plate without asking first? | A group of us (all girls) went out for dinner. I sat next to a cool girl I've known for about six months who's pretty playful but with sarcastic side to her. I do enjoy her company after getting to know her better.
I am a pescatarian and I ordered the prawn dish. It was huge and I invited everyone to have a piece. S... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
04jKyDvMxiiYEL77wcCAeTPsnzbNTX1D | a0qmja | {
"description": "getting into an argument with my girlfriend for wanted to get off the phone with her",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for getting into an argument with my girlfriend for wanted to get off the phone with her | My girlfriend always wants to FaceTime me. And yeah it’s nice but it gets so annoying. Like I want to be by myself and actually get stuff done when I at home by myself and not just sit there and FaceTime her. I love her to death but it’s just so annoying. For example tonight, I got home from work and just like that I g... | HISTORICAL | {
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oGedx53lqY3Ceb12kmlOlpvdLGykhOHr | arovfw | {
"description": "wanting the airplane window shade up when I specifically booked a window seat",
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} | AITA for wanting the airplane window shade up when I specifically booked a window seat? | I get a bit claustrophobic on flights and always book a window seat when I travel. I usually only need to take short domestic flights for work and the window shade has never been an issue. A few months ago, I was on a long haul from Europe to the US. I had a window seat in business class. Seats were in a 1-2-1 arrangem... | HISTORICAL | {
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C4F561BZ3gS8NSwxXXZdZu8HMCghELj2 | amfka3 | {
"description": "leaving a job a just started",
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} | WIBTA if I leave a job a just started | So I started this new job a month ago after it was a scramble to find a new job, as the job I was doing before Christmas told me they wouldn’t need me after the 6 week break.
(INFO: I worked at a high school as a Teachers Assistant and the school holidays are 6 weeks long during the Christmas/New Year period.)
Anywa... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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CUXBdupS5mWUuNE1byTwkKLW9c4WGmfi | aznqxk | {
"description": "kissing my best friend",
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} | AITA for kissing my best friend? | Don't know if this really belongs here, but I feel like an asshole and I need some outside opinions. Strap in, this is a long story.
Three years ago, I met a woman online named Amanda. We quickly became close friends, she introduced me to her other friends, and I ended up falling in love with her. She had a boyfriend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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dV4YT64swtIAZxuoe5zK0fAQTWYsES3r | ahf01q | {
"description": "ignoring my friend for talking with a creep",
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} | AITA for ignoring my friend for talking with a creep | Okay so I'm in highschool and one of my best friends (who I'm like a mom friend to) is a freshman at 14 years old but she has autism and tends to act a bit younger than she is,, yea.
Recently she got a new boyfriend, he's a senior and was held back 2 years and is currently 19 years old, they really only bonded over l... | HISTORICAL | {
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M5Koz1T5OKQM8mkLs8yOGJriVPDajiDi | aup2pc | {
"description": "telling my ex to get bent after she requests an apology",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA for telling my ex to get bent after she requests an apology? | Dated this girl for about 6 months nearly 10 years ago. We were both undergrads at the time. She was diagnosed bipolar with a history of substance abuse and risky behavior, and I was not the most stable college kid either. I didn't find out about the diagnosis until after we started dating.
Given this, I'd say the rel... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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QF2mzRZCdXQjr11fgx95bpmGllbwe1Nv | ar7ncm | {
"description": "drinking at work",
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} | AITA for drinking at work? | Throwaway account for legal/work reasons.
Background:
- I work at a bottleshop where it is accepted culture by my boss/manager to drink at work. It is a franchise.
- I live 5 mins drive from my casual job
So I've had a shit day, and I'm on a shift with my assistant manager/good friend. We usually have a beer o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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} | RIGHT |
DxCWb3pVXNVF7lSyslKBEJVtTJS9rXVO | az8s14 | {
"description": "breaking it to my father that his step daughter snuck marijuana into his house and had him unknowingly drive with it",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for breaking it to my father that his step daughter snuck marijuana into his house and had him unknowingly drive with it? | So long story short, my step sister is the epitome of fucked up, had to leave West Virginia and come to her mom's in Florida. My dad, her step father, made a 16 hour round trip drive in one day to pick her up and bring her back. She's supposed to be going into a drug program, but my step mom and step brother caught her... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
6BumIWyPdarYLpBGZYwkkiMQmGHGdNF4 | amaik1 | {
"description": "being mad at my little Sister over a sensitive topic",
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} | AITA for Being Mad at My Little Sister Over a Sensitive Topic? | Hello lovely citizens of Reddit, I am u/SomeColdHuman. To give some context to the story I am about to tell you all: I am 13, almost 14, and I have a 9 year old little sister. We're both huge Nintendo fans, and our Switch, especially Splatoon 2, is a huge bonding point for us. 9 months ago, I came out as gay to my pare... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
79neN5y19UeUrFfUTvmsg5Azq1mWwQc4 | apaf3l | {
"description": "thinking miss-formulating questions to only have 1 acceptable answer is bad for conflict resolution",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for thinking miss-formulating questions to only have 1 acceptable answer is bad for conflict resolution? | Recently broke up with the ex bf who held this belief, but trying to be open minded and see if I really am in the wrong here.
If we were arguing about something, he would always quite aggressively ask me questions that were worded to at the same time support his side and be impossible to answer in any other way. Imagi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
ArR3iRaOmZMT8ypCqMB1iRsQQwGnqG84 | ac6gv1 | {
"description": "blocking my family on social media",
"pronormative_score": 36,
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} | AITA for blocking my family on social media? | Like the title says, I currently have my mom and sister blocked on all social media platforms. I also have blocked all of my sisters friends on social media.
They say it’s rude and disrespectful because I’m not letting them see that part of my life.
When they were my friends on social media, however, they would scree... | HISTORICAL | {
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rAyXXTr1oDg708lTFtmofNvdOl82yxUa | a4fkdv | {
"description": "being upset my partner chose to use a giant picture of his secondary sports team he's on in the acknowledgements of his phd advancement rather than me or his parents or his professors or his study buddies",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for being upset my partner chose to use a giant picture of his SECONDARY sports team he's on in the acknowledgements of his PhD advancement rather than me or his parents or his professors or his study buddies? | I feel kind of petty writing this, but I was totally flabbergasted when he excitedly called me over to show me part of his advancement talk.
(For those not in the know, advancement is a part of getting a PhD, I don't know how it works at all schools in general but in this case it means he's done everything he needs f... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
G3XuRNiXgWDr5KwkzRJc0pVt33WgzVZv | b29f8b | {
"description": "not wanting to be best friends with my best friend anymore",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to be best friends with my best friend anymore? | So before anything I'd like to say that I don't want to cut ties with her completely, I just think maybe being best friends isn't the best idea anymore. Now that that's out of the way, I'll start.
Me and this friend met early last year, let's call her honey, later on we met 2 other people, let's call them jester and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
ORwiwFehJxMQSzeWISvxEGn2e5KFgCYz | am3wu5 | {
"description": "being upset on how I'm treated",
"pronormative_score": 25,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being upset on how I'm treated? | My (34f) husband (44m) got in a huge fight last night and he just doesn't get it.
I've been wanting a dog for awhile now and he's aware. We have 2 cats and 2 ferrets. We had 3 ferrets but 1 was really old with multiple health problems, which he had when we adopted him. He passed away. A week ago. My husband wants to g... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 25,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 25,
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} | RIGHT |
BMJQJez9QxXmzT1VmDIx6oZx2TR1E2Hb | a38059 | {
"description": "wanting to leave my girlfriend and pursue a new life overseas",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | AITA for wanting to leave my girlfriend and pursue a new life overseas? | I'm 39 and she's 31, so we are not young. We have been on-and-off for several years. She's a wonderful person and I live her, but all my life I've wanted to live overseas. My business is finally taking off, allowing me to do it. But I also want to provide for her and help her pursue her dreams.
Part of the joy of liv... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
tQrwkctsyPcLlTa6tbdWs3NUxpsy0TEN | a4yrij | {
"description": "cutting parents out after pregnancy reaction",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA? Cutting parents out after pregnancy reaction? |
Since teenage years, I have always struggled with my relationship with my parents. The maintenance of a relationship and most interactions with them are almost certain to be negative and stressful, which takes a huge toll mentally. I have been in a happy and stable relationship for 18+ months now, with someone I had k... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
F6ZOp0quHZ8rPbcZZMtgP0Tx38kr42L4 | b537l7 | {
"description": "telling my husband I don't want the kids eating my food",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if I tell my husband I don't want the kids eating my food? | I have a pretty restrictive diet because of a medical condition. I am basically on the keto diet with a few additional restrictions. I have been with my husband about a year and a half and we just got married ten days ago. He has two daughters from a previous marriage.
His daughters constantly want to eat what I buy ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
YUruNrsOGog53qDMHYAJVhJ8XxIB5FS6 | b3yo5w | {
"description": "not giving a full two weeks notice to my boss",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not giving a full two weeks notice to my boss | Full disclosure - this is my first post ever. Long time lurker, but due to my situation, I thought this might be a suitable first post. (Throwaway because several people I know scroll reddit and are active on this sub.)
I struggle with severe depression and anxiety. Over the past few months, I have really struggled me... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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k4LRsga7vCKhLA7pYWE6X3NFkTLNvhIG | b4lkzz | {
"description": "not wanting to celebrate my birthday",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to celebrate my Birthday? | Obligatory throwaway cos I have friends who know my main, formatting cos of mobile etc etc.
TLDR at the bottom.
So for most of my teenage and adult life I've hated my birthday, here's a few main reasons why:
No friends and heavily bullied during SCHOOL years which resulted in me being a pretty solitary guy, much bet... | HISTORICAL | {
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ttWqi9H3Z6xL1JNI2mwVtLfEEHTx1RxF | ax1806 | {
"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to go alone to a convention with a man she met online",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go alone to a convention with a man she met online? | A bit more complicated than the title suggests. They have been "friends" for 5 years, and by "friends" that means talking on and off every few months online. She insists she's never found him attractive and they've never flirted. And that's okay. I trust her, I would never expect her to cheat on me. And in probably any... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
USVMLUmdSPLDpeHA1nrJrkxXagYpf4Uk | aqwvb9 | {
"description": "bringing up a conversation about how the Valentine's Day went",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA for bringing up a conversation about how the Valentine’s Day went | Me (20) and my bf (20) have been in a relationship for 2 years. This is my first proper relationship and I like him a lot. For our first valentines, I went over at his uni accommodation and spent the day over at his place and we just chilled inside the whole day.
For context, I live away from home for uni and he’s mo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
Gixqv7OMYL2vlcG3c26WThsXe0huijJ2 | b6o1zx | {
"description": "asking out my friends crush",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | WIBTA If i asked out my friends crush? | So I be liked a girl for a while now and earlier this week my friend revealed that he also likes the same girl. Would it be wrong of me to ask her out? Some background info is that I asked out his crush before as a joke (ik that's a dick move). WIBTA? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
Kffp9aSVJPKcwbLHZ1T5dfjTlhS4OtVc | b7pbgt | {
"description": "telling my teenage son the real reason I left his father",
"pronormative_score": 220,
"contranormative_score": 54
} | AITA for telling my teenage son the real reason I left his father? | My ex and I split over a year ago. He had been cheating on me. He wanted to and still wants to work through it, but that’s not even a possibility. I have a son who will soon be 16. The divorce was hard on him, especially because he didn’t understand why it was happening. I just told him that his father and I could... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 220,
"WRONG": 54
} | RIGHT |
rXFoiLEPjd9pUrsYCPmKEfGmdtOUKc82 | anl3dy | {
"description": "thinking the allowance situation is unfair",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 14
} | AITA for thinking the allowance situation is unfair? | First post, and I’m on mobile, so excuse my formatting and such if it’s bad.
(To stop people from being biased, who the people are and their genders will be hidden because I know some of y’all are just Like That.)
I, a teenager, live with one of my two parents. (PA.) The house we live in is also occupied by a coupl... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
3hekBJnMdhOyGOGw6EcZHDyG8eUuzswc | aybld8 | {
"description": "refusing to play piano in front of my mother and her friends",
"pronormative_score": 54,
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} | AITA for refusing to play piano in front of my mother and her friends? | Every single time my mum has friends over she talks to them about how great a pianist I am and insists that I play her favourite song (interstellar theme) for her and her company. At first I thought it was sweet that she was proud of me so I happily played, however recently it feels like she has an ulterior motif.
In... | HISTORICAL | {
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3DjnVEZI1kdZVBXz0wH8eWe0gMO27nY1 | anzlje | {
"description": "not wanting my sister to come over",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting my sister to come over. | So just for clarification, I'm 18 and my sister is like 24 (We're out of touch so idrk). Anyways to give some background me and my sister used to be very close back in the day. I still recall memories of when I was like 10 or so and I would follow her around all the time. To say the least, she was a very good older sis... | HISTORICAL | {
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BtYDqnkmbrkrlt0ZuDOX0vW4VvQqawLx | aa4wht | {
"description": "not wanting my boyfriend to indulge in friendly banter with my abusive father",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to indulge in friendly banter with my abusive father? |
Am I the asshole for not wanting my boyfriend to indulge in friendly banter with my father?
My boyfriend and I are visiting my parents over the holidays. By „parents“ I mainly mean my poor mother who doesn’t have the strength to leave my abusive father. They live together.
Although my father is mostly only ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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XDXy0qNqo9EcuWg3sWF4bj6i9GzjVGSc | 9woig5 | {
"description": "asking strangers to let my wife and I ahead of them in the TSA line so Iwe didn't miss our flight",
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} | AITA for asking strangers to let my wife and I ahead of them in the TSA line so Iwe didn't miss our flight? | So backstory: My wife and I went on our honeymoon this summer. This was my first ever time flying, and my wife's first time flying without her parents (except once about 5 years ago). Our naivete is important here.
[Warning: This next two paragraphs are a lot of background that isn't 100% necessary, but provides some ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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FDgsy2aPyhoVGtYeHt2xhJ0bi0576ylU | b9y08r | {
"description": "adding stipulations to how I'd pay for my children's colleges",
"pronormative_score": 89,
"contranormative_score": 95
} | WIBTA if I added stipulations to how I’d pay for my children’s colleges? | I have 2 children, a high school senior and a high school sophomore. The Missus is a cardiac surgeon while I work as a software engineer at a pretty big firm. Needless to say, finances aren’t an issue for us.
Now I’m of the opinion that my kids’ primary focus should be their education right now. They don’t have/need j... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "being bothered by my girlfriend's tattoo that was put there by her ex-boyfriend",
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k3FItis1ZY5yXbdF1NTmfwLhSEBDwbrv | air12s | {
"description": "not driving my friend to Brooklyn",
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} | AITA for not driving my friend to Brooklyn? | So I’ll keep this nice and short. Yesterday my girlfriend and I went on a double date to a comedy club with our friends. This was in NYC, so imagine my surprise when I run into a friend from college I hadn’t seen since winter break. We had already gotten our tickets for the comedy club, and he was heading home so I inv... | HISTORICAL | {
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uvEb5tKBC8HkWRyDxW0q7njtNkMgh2dK | aiarco | {
"description": "being upset my friend is ditching me for her boyfriend",
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} | AITA For being upset my friend is ditching me for her boyfriend? | So, I (15F) And my "best friend" (15F) have been friends for almost a year now. Lets call her Bee. Bee has been dating Tony (15M) on and off for the past 3 months. They broke up for a while because he raised her fist to her, but that's a whole different story.
Anyway, this weekend me, Bee, and another friend, Drew, (... | HISTORICAL | {
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SB4DsUUJfIavPa0spcQnA4oDLpnLzear | an52fr | {
"description": "wanting my girlfriend to keep / maintain a job despite me getting a significant raise",
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​
Recently, m... | HISTORICAL | {
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kOOebRncHOoU5IpXsoMmD8pHrnPYvVAh | aj1noh | {
"description": "telling my friend she crossed the line",
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} | AITAH for telling my friend she crossed the line? | My boyfriend died 57 days ago. You can look through my history to get that history if you like. It was a few days after thanksgiving. So the holidays were super difficult, and then beginning of the year with everyone "new year new me" put me in funk. However, I picked up extra shifts at work, been working out a lot m... | HISTORICAL | {
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8TghQvmTImD1mvvNO2vS7T8SVsb7hURX | auh8so | {
"description": "not getting my laundry",
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} | AITA for not getting my laundry | I’m in a college dorm with a shared laundry room. It’s warm in my bed and I don’t want to walk down three flights of stairs to bring my clothes up that I won’t fold until morning anyways. No one else was doing laundry to the point where I used 4 washers and 3 dryers. It’s late so no one else should be starting loads be... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tsf4w7Zebwm7chRZJB5nGGPtQQM1mYYC | 9yw9ch | {
"description": "lying about my Thanksgiving & Christmas plans to friends",
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} | AITA for lying about my Thanksgiving & Christmas plans to friends? | I am visiting my hometown around the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. I want to spend some much-needed alone time with my family.
I have a couple of old college friends that are also visiting my hometown around the holidays, and they asked me about my end-of-year plans. I told them that I was visiting, but I purpo... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tl5OswqCujBRjItoKg1ortOsILTilTnK | awrzai | {
"description": "never wanting to speak to my friends again",
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} | AITA if I never wanna speak to my friends again? | I moved across the country my senior year of high school and I lost just about all of my friends from the area. There were a handful that I didn’t lose contact with, I’m talking about some “friends” specifically people in this group. I just recently went back, years later I and I knew some of these friends would be th... | HISTORICAL | {
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ec9xleu8oEEyFgxVJeHLMdkjAknEOtxY | absdv3 | {
"description": "not letting my 9 year old cousin choose my new horse's name",
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} | AITA for not letting my 9 year old cousin choose my new horse’s name? | I’m a big time horse rider and had been looking for a new horse for a while when my dad bought me one for Christmas (for any horse fans, it was an Appaloosa) and my cousin wanted to name it and kept pestering me to let him name the hose and eventually I got frustrated and just snapped at him to stop and let me have my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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qi8zFyWv5eUwaj90txaqFxFO17v0pj94 | a6pz82 | {
"description": "not wanting to work the weekend for free during my first week starting at a new job",
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} | AITA for not wanting to work the weekend for free during my first week starting at a new job? | I was offered a salaried position as an executive assistant for a mid sized 6 million dollar company. It was stated as a typical 9-5 M-F availability when I applied.
I was hired because the woman who usually does this job is leaving at the end of the year. After accepting the job, I was immediately told my first da... | HISTORICAL | {
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pJYFo7rmJyJC8TO5er6uxegxcYeSwml3 | avrpht | {
"description": "thinking my mom should drive me to the airport",
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} | AITA for thinking my mom should drive me to the airport? | My bff D and I grew up down the street from each other. Her parents have become like a second family to me. We exchange gifts on holidays and often do little favors for each other. They even used to let me “piggyback” on D’s birthday parties in middle school because they knew my family doesn’t throw me parties, and hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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4MqmsfSgwIbWspOsAcikCtl9twMI6uC2 | akq7pb | null | AITA Bf livid I left to take care of my sick daughter | I went with my boyfriend to deliver a vehicle he had sold. I took off work Friday and drove 6.5 hours to meet him and then spent all day Saturday and Sunday riding with him to deliver the sold vehicle to the buyer who lived 8 hours away. On the way back last night my 18 year old daughter feels really sick and I tell he... | HISTORICAL | {
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afm67mFGEpexuJhN79zXWJ13cBbByFdw | b4nzqy | {
"description": "bringing Jell-O shots to a get together that an recovering alcoholic will be attending",
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} | WIBTA if I bring Jell-O shots to a get together that an recovering alcoholic will be attending? | Tomorrow some friends are having a get together. I made a ridiculous amount of Jell-O shots for it. When my gf found out she asked what was wrong with me, that I knew our one friend was a recovering alcoholic. Honestly it never even entered my mind, I can be pretty dense.
I shot him a text about it and said that ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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P5iLD7lWBRIEydbiH23CSWB1zgWwDSvW | b7btrl | {
"description": "abandoning my friends' get together",
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} | AITA for abandoning my friends' get together? | Hi Reddit. This recently happened and I'm not really sure on how to deal with it. TL;DR at the end.
Here's some back story:
I was a graduating college student (who just graduated last Friday) who had three more weeks to go before the ceremony, but was in a fit due to lack of requirements (both financial and academic ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wOCWQ93JADg63A7npWyenIwysC5OVsQa | 9ytpaf | {
"description": "falling in love with a woman",
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} | AITA for falling in love with a woman? | This happened around a year ago but I'm posting this now because this incident still haunts me every often.
I was in college fresh man year when I met her for the first time. Back then I used be an asshole to any girl who tried to interact with me because of my trust issues and depression. But somehow I let her into m... | HISTORICAL | {
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QKtxZ9KzdAs0seOMF7fCn5m1egPI89tz | b7sd6o | {
"description": "wanting to go to sleep instead of spending time with my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for wanting to go to sleep instead of spending time with my boyfriend? | Hi first time poster on this subreddit on mobile.
My boyfriend and I live together. He works while I go to school. It’s my spring break and he took the week off to spend it with me. He has to work today and last night it was 11 and I wanted to go to sleep. He got upset and wanted me to spend another hour with him. I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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yg7Is0zMQFRjNrWu7jZdurYng9wwvNCY | avny70 | {
"description": "asking my girlfriend to at least shave her bikini line",
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} | AITA for asking my girlfriend to at least shave her bikini line. | We both are females. She prefers to be natural. I never ever asked her to do anything. I respect her choices.
But last week we were planning to go to the beach. She wore her bikini but it looked so awkward with her pubic hair. I pointed that out to her and she got mad and we ended up cancelling our trip. It looked so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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dSAy7UDsTnphsRqMy0dPtuDTwAy1Rqb0 | a1p4ce | {
"description": "arguing with my boyfriend over true detective",
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} | AITA because I argued with my boyfriend over True Detective | AITA? My boyfriend and I have seen True Detective season 1. I have completely forgotten the entire season... every bit of it. I am fine with it as I get to rewatch a show that I know that I liked. Somehow over the course of watching the show he accused me of being confused and thinks that I am lying about watching the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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oDIUAoyDxW40HWpVBTep3tl8c1PNJJEZ | adc284 | null | AITA My sister's boyfriend | Ok this ones complicated. So my sister (18f) has been in her current relationship for a year or so with ... lets call him joe (17M). All members of my family including her are working and when we aren't we do the usual house clean and general upkeep as you do. We have a happy enough home - we all are different ages and... | HISTORICAL | {
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Sa8RLGQH2dbZT6MHlAAXW5hhq1LcZweQ | a1o7er | null | AITA if my neighbors tree fell on my house and I'm livid despite the laws? | So a little backstory. Lived next door to them for 5 years now. never had any major issues minus when we first moved in and they had 10+ dogs barking in their backyard (they have a dog boarding business, not permitted) and I snapped and told them to get it under control since the permits in our county dont allow this. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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svcalexyHtfMU8gH8ddwhFM6adBstTQm | b1x5ur | {
"description": "thinking less of my friend because he slept with someone",
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} | AITA for thinking less of my friend because he slept with someone? | Ok so the title sounds bad but I didn't know how to phrase it better.
​
So my best friend, let's call him Tom, gets with my other really good friend, lets say Amanda. That's cool, I don't really care, it's their life. This happened on Tuesday, and I went to a party with Tom on Friday. He had a few drinks, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fPTcsvkxrYrMCMWQtx9zl9O9RMjNFFqS | at3tlm | {
"description": "arguing with a classmate about his learning disability",
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} | AITA for arguing with a classmate about his learning disability? | First of all, sorry for my English, my native language is Italian.
Today at school the teacher gave us an IT test, everyone scored poorly. I was complaining with a friend about the fact that the teacher lowered our score for a mistake that even other people made, without getting their score lowered.
This guy (M 16)... | HISTORICAL | {
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nH1gU6Kxx92IAZCXhtoVgcCuMBFk9gXR | azfsua | {
"description": "not wanting to spend time with my parents",
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend time with my parents? | My parents have been fighting constantly as long as I can remember. When I was a child, they would threaten divorce every three months or so. Many fights were mutual, but my father has been more abusive as week. I've heard him lock my mother out in the snow. I also know he knocked her teeth out once. This has been grad... | HISTORICAL | {
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sHWvW8jOLEysAQRbfzAb15rWcEGKIIoS | axri4i | null | AITA My girlfriends mom invited herself to check out my new school | Re-post, I forgot to put AITA in the title
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So I'm flying out to visit a university I am attending this coming fall my girlfriend wanted to come with to check it out and have a break from home... her mom found out and invited herself... now we are going for 3 days longer than I want to, spending way more... | HISTORICAL | {
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HE1SZdRzxv516tkxyayK8np8saehNadg | 9w5be5 | {
"description": "not taking my best friends new religious views seriously",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not taking my best friends new religious views seriously? | My best friend and roommate recently went through a bad break up. Like dumped her in a text before he left for work after dating and living together for 3 years bad. She had also been in a serious relationship for multiple years before that without much time in between. Her long time friend got her to go to church with... | HISTORICAL | {
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IN2shroyGb71vtHEupARr0MGAXzUeElz | aom8wc | {
"description": "thinking my gf is being unreasonable for asking me to talk to her every 20 minutes",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for thinking my gf is being unreasonable for asking me to talk to her every 20 minutes? | My girlfriend can be very insecure at times, and if I don't answer her messages every 20 minutes, she will get very upset and say that answering her takes no time at all. She says she constantly asks me this and I never comply, but I work in a very time demanding job in finance and can't be looking at my phone the enti... | HISTORICAL | {
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bMnKbSrpwkQeOtYxh9x4Vsik8rpDn9mx | b6mlnz | {
"description": "telling my gf that her breathe stinks",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for telling my GF that her breathe stinks? | This happened several years, obviously, and I remembered it just now.
I was dating this girl back in the day, our relationship was in the very early stages, like in the next days after our first nights together.
So we got up, got dressed and went to the store to get some stuff. While at the store we're browsing throu... | HISTORICAL | {
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P9zde9YmiaablAXIe0edfyJAKN793EQe | b8q7t3 | {
"description": "refusing to tell the guy Im dating or anyother potential partner my body count",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | WIBTA if I refuse to tell the guy Im dating or anyother potential partner my body count? | So I am fairly young, 21, and I have been in one relationship for 5 months which ended 6 months ago, I was perfectly loyal and didnt so much as firt with another guy. I do however have what some people would consider a rather high partner count, 25. Most of these guys where short term flings, or FWB. I get std tested ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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v7a1rCPobpdt8GGwm54mShnrk5WRoW7T | adwddk | {
"description": "asking my neighbor ( who is also my ex ) to keep the sex noises down",
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} | AITA for asking my neighbor ( who is also my ex ) to keep the sex noises down? | Long story short I dated someone and we end moving close to each other ( we didn't move in ) but I broke up with him due some complications which I won't get into details.
Basically, we just have a wall separating our studios ( we're both students so we live in relatively small buildings )
I have no anger, jealous... | HISTORICAL | {
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1BYxdxdze9FERbbyrPcCjC3qtowgb3HV | aff41d | {
"description": "ghosting a close, long term friend",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for ghosting a close, long term friend? | So this girl was a very close friend of mine all through high school. I genuinly loved and cared about her, I still do. A part of me feels like she did feel the same, but I can’t be sure.
Still, we would argue. A LOT. It would start as something seemingly innocuos, and often would be something that wouldn’t get on our... | HISTORICAL | {
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sLKFQLjiuoKG1dGiS3bdO2aqBelRDrBb | arfv8y | {
"description": "not helping a 13/12 who had fallen of his bike",
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} | AITA for not helping a 13/12 who had fallen of his bike? | This happend two or three years ago. I was walking towards school, and saw a kid who looked 12 or 13, riding towards me. He tried to ride with his hand crossed, and naturally he fell. I saw him landing on his left side. As he was laying on the ground he cried, and yelled help me, help me.
Before he fell, he was alrea... | HISTORICAL | {
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zgMq1VgQuHTpsYZxC6rP1UyzYSr9HXXy | anqxeb | {
"description": "wanting to sleep and not waking up to help my boyfriend pack",
"pronormative_score": 220,
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} | AITA for wanting to sleep and not waking up to help my boyfriend pack ? | My boyfriend and I planned a group trip skiing out west with some of his friends and some of mine. We got a big house and he and I got our own room to share there. Everyone else was sharing beds also.
It was a very social trip - we all cooked dinner together every night and played games. It was so fun for me beca... | HISTORICAL | {
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lQtPYJYbxAidIQvscnnvYKA8r04MsCLO | b43thb | {
"description": "really hating my birthday gift and regretting getting her a good present",
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} | AITA for really hating my birthday gift and regretting getting her a good present | Start things off with first post, sorry if I’m doing anything wrong and I’m writing this on my phone.
My (id like to say ex) best friend’s 18th birthday was last year. I got her tickets to Twenty One Pilots. Not gonna lie, tickets weren’t cheap. $132 AUD each
I thought it would be fun, we could camp out together, get... | HISTORICAL | {
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T8t9U21ihWDi4sq6ORZ4OqWUw5feX0h1 | a8ha0n | {
"description": "expecting my best friend&fwb to hang out with me at a dance",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for expecting my(18F) best friend&FWB(17M) to hang out with me at a dance? | Alright so some backstory to this is that my school has a yearly winter formal dance and this year I was indecisive on whether I should go or not because 1.) I didn't have an official date and 2.) Only some of my regular friends were going to be there and they were either couples or had dates, so I didn't exactly want ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1Df95L2Z2kn917BOHEt3vTwVnQx56PWD | b8o8ey | {
"description": "not being more considerate of my mums financial situation",
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} | AITA for not being more considerate of my mums financial situation? | Here's some context. . . My mom(53) has worked for the last 10yr+ as a school bus driver. She gets weekends off and has early days as well as major holiday vacations. She makes less than $35,000 annually, but hasn't made efforts to find something to help her sustain her residency in LA County. She lives with my aunt at... | HISTORICAL | {
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d2gTSOo1Hc6iCR5LxtxcOmmdIwVJ40E1 | b0dp9z | {
"description": "calling someone racial slurs for being an asshole",
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} | AITA For calling someone racial slurs for being an asshole | Prologue to this, me and this person have almost gotten in two fights before this incident, but I’ve managed to show self-restraint and not act. Also the bully is latino male and I am a white/asian mixed male.
So today while I was walking to my school’s lunch line with a pal, I see one other friend that’s walking wit... | HISTORICAL | {
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KdRh6OLZlshkTsXCY8qXETJwQDev8ehW | b5oqxj | {
"description": "taking the dog I got back from my ex after she left me without saying anything",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for taking the dog I got back from my ex after she left me without saying anything? | So this happened Saturday I left with a few buddies to go enjoy the day and work on my car. My gf who has lived with me for the last 5 years just up and took everything she owned and some of my stuff and the dog we had gotten together a year or so ago.
Now hear is the juicy part we had broken up 2 summers ago and got... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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5AvYtx0YD4xOuwHEPkGpYyiFwf8zuQLL | aza70l | {
"description": "refusing to clean our House's bathroom",
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} | WIBTA If I Refused To Clean Our House’s Bathroom? | Some background; I live in a house with 3 other roommates, Maria, her adult daughter, Marta, and her teenage son Carlos. (names have been changed) We have 2 bathrooms in our house, Maria’s bathroom in the master bedroom, and the communal bathroom in the hall. Now, I know Maria has nothing to do with this bc her bathroo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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i9b6f0uCmoQosKAKoLNQwoUf11L7WPMA | ayu3c6 | {
"description": "asking my aunt/uncle to step in for my mother at my other aunts wake",
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} | WIBTA for asking my aunt/uncle to step in for my mother at my other aunts wake | tldr; a Chinese funeral ceremony begins with a 3-5day wake of the deceased, so friends/family can all have a visit and say goodbye. the hall is very air-conditioned and I can hear my mum coughing like shit after day 1. her other sisters/brothers barely did anything to help the prep so far
I am currently in Singapore, ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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ZKg02d1VDeqXPlN060B8tgp4IaOqbCWh | b1a12s | {
"description": "writing an open letter telling my fellow club members how I've been badly treated",
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} | AITA for writing an open letter telling my fellow club members how I've been badly treated? | Throwaway because reddit.
Some background: I have voluntarily for the past 5 years designed a massive sports club website from scratch. This website has the usual site promoting the club but also a database managing members details, attendances and all aspects of the running of the club. Prior to me doing this it was ... | HISTORICAL | {
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OY7BDbHv0BiNkOhhak7O1wzNga7mSfGJ | as2001 | {
"description": "changing my valentine's day plans",
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} | AITA for changing my valentine’s day plans? | My boyfriend has been upset with me since Valentine’s day.
About a week before Valentine’s Day my bf and I made plans to do a date at his house (I life about 45 minutes away at college and so we see each other about twice a week at most). However on Valentine’s Day I decided that I would rather just stay at my dorm wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
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} | WRONG |
3dj3rD0h1HUojKJ7kwD2PGnTCfr7IQB9 | b3jqwb | {
"description": "denying to do a job for my uncle",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for denying to do a job for my uncle | Hi, so I'm about to graduate college with a degree in Computer Science. My uncle is very aware of this, so during Christmas time he hinted to me in a jokingly fashion that I should make a program for him for some type of price tracking so he can use it to enhance his chances to make a profit off of the stock market I a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
LM4mVwElpn1X25JOgbzo9XmohyM11KgJ | b90nd7 | {
"description": "wanting my ex-roommate to pay me back the security deposit from two years ago",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting my ex-roommate to pay me back the security deposit from two years ago? | two years ago my friend and I decided to share an apartment, but at the time she couldn’t afford the security deposit (1.5 months rent). She always said she would oh me back but it just has never happened and it’s been so long since that it feels awkward to even bring up anymore.
Disclaimer: I’m probably not going to... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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BErQC7Wrf5rZmZJj3GXyx1bgjwy2nUvQ | b2p9re | {
"description": "not inviting my best friend's boyfriend to see her graduate Basic Training",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | WIBTA for not inviting my best friend’s boyfriend to see her graduate Basic Training? | So my very best friend (let’s call her Katie) who I spend every minute of every day with is currently at Basic Training for the Army National Guard. Before she left, she told me to keep up with her boyfriend (let’s call him Nathan) because she was worried he would feel lonely w/o her or cheat on her, either way, I shou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
XK79TCMZLHgpwy9V6phvEM4purPrDQoe | adybvh | {
"description": "expecting my boyfriend to pause the movie when I fall asleep",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for expecting my boyfriend to pause the movie when I fall asleep? | My boyfriend and I sometimes watch movies in bed before we go to sleep. I often fall asleep during the movies. I would like him to press pause when I fall asleep so we can continue to watch the movie the following night. AITA for expecting this? We started watching Ratatouille yesterday and I fell asleep about an hour ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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DIMnZfQyS3jpI14V62Exz1WiuSHSyUMB | awpwmw | {
"description": "being confused",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA I’m confused | So I was with some friends at a cookie dough/ice cream parlor and when we were walking out I held the door for them while one of them was putting on his hood and gloves. These two other girls walked out before my friend did and thanked me; I in turn nodded my head in acknowledgment while waiting for my friend. After th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
GjyS4DKEeY9YI9FyRHzsT1mL08ynlIHI | a496ml | {
"description": "sleeping with a best friend's ex-girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for sleeping with a best friend's ex-girlfriend? | Title says it all really.
​
I was drunk senior year of college and hooked up with my best friend's ex-girlfriend who he had been separated from for 2 months. This best friend had already slept with another woman in the meantime. I didn't tell my friend until tonight, during a drunken spree of Overwatch, at... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
INLpOf5RjZQraPGkpBRYT8WYDwQ29l3C | as9c0f | null | AITA for (more or less) ignoring my best friend who came to see me on my birthday? | I always make a big deal about my birthday *before* the actual day, and often do nothing. I’m talking countdowns when the day is 200+ days away, etc. then pretty much ignore my birthday. One year I invited my friends out and we saw a movie and ate after. But that was it. My last birthday, I still did the whole birthday... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
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6zZZvAAVjPqPhwAkLqiyLBxeFCLBFDcu | aewjb6 | {
"description": "not paying my friend back",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not paying my friend back? | Was traveling through Europe a while ago and I needed to get some cash out from the atm, the credit card I had charged a higher withdraw fee than my friends' card, so I transferred them (100euro) and asked them to get it out from the atm. The atm had an error and it took the money from my friend's account but didn't g... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
M2xxXxZRE1z3gVRh5lmnrgg29DKRfHMw | az1z6u | null | AITA: Have a 7 month old with my partner of 10 years. His family don’t like me. I don’t want to see them as - he does. | I’ll make it short as I can. Been with P for 10 years and I’ve had problems with FIL ever since.
1) Got engaged 3 years ago. FIL decides it’s the right time to take P out and ask him if he’s making the right choice marrying me EVEN THOUGH HE THOUGHT P WOULD PROPOSE EARLIER. Why would he ask AFTER we were engaged and n... | HISTORICAL | {
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mw87d245BlXovP3GY113m0Kmr6RcNXi3 | ax63yc | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because I'm only now starting to realise it's not going anywhere",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because I'm only now starting to realise it's not going anywhere ? | Hey so I've been with my gf for almost 9 months, I'm 21, she's 20, it was serious from the very beginning. We started the lovey-dovey talks after a few days, it was really intense. She has severe anxiety issues and is truly childish, when she's pissed she'll be like a teenager and say " pff, you don't get me " to prett... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 7,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
Eq18W7kcfc6xCwru0YKEA0qqgv2qHqGz | aym36j | {
"description": "trying to repair this friendship",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for trying to repair this friendship? | I was friends with this girl all throughout college, and we shared a friend group. Late in college, I noticed she had seemed to slight me in particular, shutting me down when I offered advice, not responding to friendly messages, and being resistant to making plans to hang out. I reached out to her via email over the s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
QbQhPQtj91CSw5TjStTF5OQtRe0tajy9 | abl7zj | {
"description": "wanting to remove a suicidal person from my life",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to remove a suicidal person from my life. | Throwaway account because I'm 99% sure he uses Reddit.
Also I'm on mobile so apologies for grammar errors.
I've known this kid for quite some time, he has anger issues, is suicidal and has mild autism. In the least mean way possible, me and my friends are sick to death of him. He's violent towards us, seems to think i... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
u6S0UTFWkI5Ljlst3sIhj5gdtiPrk0kh | b4zoi9 | {
"description": "asking my mom to use male pronouns for me",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for asking my mom to use male pronouns for me? | This is a bit of a weird situation and I’m legitimately not sure if I’m in the wrong here.
I’m a trans woman. I recently-ish came out to a handful of people, including my mom, and thankfully everyone’s been pretty understanding and supportive so far. However, I’m not able to socially transition yet and I won’t be for ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
hZv6GQ9HwdG62NuUCOzjAqBi07nOEdhp | az5zbf | {
"description": "resting bitch face",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for resting bitch face? | This is less of an AITA situation and more of an ‘am I generally an asshole’ kind of thing.
We all constantly see people preaching about being nice to strangers. You never know what someone’s been through, what their day’s been like, etc. I wholeheartedly agree with this. Under no circumstances have I intentionally b... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZrI2rwulddHRCxheyqnPc18a4FhEZMeA | awacge | {
"description": "telling my friend that many of the fictional characters she believes are real don't actually exist",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for telling my friend that many of the fictional characters she believes are real don't actually exist? | Throwaway.
​
So I (13F) have a friend (Also 13F) who we'll call Emma. I was hanging out with Emma and my two other friends (12M & 12F). We'll name them Zack and Julia, respectively. For some background info, Zack really didn't like Emma and Julia was cool with her. Emma also *really* likes Disney. This... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
zVeYzxLcQxrVxUAimSE83zeoKWE39GqE | a4do1j | {
"description": "being angry at my gf for drinking something she already swore off",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for being angry at my gf for drinking something she already swore off | Alcohol is a big issue for me in our relationship. She's currently studying for her masters and go for occasional drinking with her classmates. It made me uncomfortable because she never introduced me to those classmates and she got really tipsy a few times going home, at very late hours. This made me upset quite a lot... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 3
} | WRONG |
QYIVXE9yCUXrqj3JsY1W8qpmTc59NVdk | at5xws | {
"description": "eating an ice cream bar out of my friends fridge",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for eating an ice cream bar out of my friends fridge? | This happened a few years ago but I still think on it time to time as an instance where I totally misread a situation. Backstory: My neighbor and I became friends, know each other about a year at this point. Been over to his house quite a bit, have house sat/watched his cats for a day or two on occasion. One time, he t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
dQEV2dgQWFksrfINCaIwMCAGMfc940bD | a1vjww | null | AITA at a dog park | This morning I took my dog (chewy,1 year old 25 lb) and my 1 year old daughter to the dog park. Which was normal but a small teacup sized dog was attacking bigger dogs closer to Chewys size. While I had my daughter in my arms the small dog came and confronted chewy and nipped at him. Than chewy(my dog attacked the smal... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
nphyFSrOnb5jtnp8mHaXhTwOKA51MNcZ | a73h8q | {
"description": "not sharing my inheritance with my sister",
"pronormative_score": 17,
"contranormative_score": 10
} | AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister? | My dad passed away a few months ago. His death wasn’t a surprise (he was very ill for quite some time) so he was able to draft a will well in advance of his passing.
He and my older sister got into a big disagreement before he died and he ended up writing her out of the will.
The biggest issue was that my dad didn’... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 17,
"WRONG": 10
} | RIGHT |
F6IQ4HRHhVueOMM6yZz9bBzmy765YHAC | akkgf8 | {
"description": "wanting to move on from a fight",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to move on from a fight. | This story is long, but I need to get it off my chest and know if I am looking at this all wrong. I am a 2nd year university student involved in a fairly tight-knit nonprofit oriented club. As has happened many times before, I was in a friend's room Thursday night playing a few drinking games and generally just hanging... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
mxrwuGyEKGLOwJA78KrTlDYU9bgdZed1 | ad1czg | {
"description": "not buying anything at the club",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not buying anything at the club? | There's a local bar/club where I live that has free cover for people over 21 before a certain time (10 or 11). This is obviously because people over 21 are probably going to be buying alcohol.
Is it rude to go to the club, take advantage of free entry, and then not buy any drinks while I'm there? Obviously it isn't r... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ttq6O0N7mXR5yv4pwzrHx3tYYc6GonkP | b2mr16 | {
"description": "not wanting to go out with a girl I previously was interested in",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not wanting to go out with a girl I previously was interested in. | Throw Away because peeps know my account
I used to be a scrawny dude and basically looked like Shaggy from Scooby Doo.
So last year I went to a party. My friends encouraged me to talk to this girl. I've heard about her as we have a few mutual friends. ( let's call her Kaitlyn ) I saw her and let's just say I was in... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
CNbh3QTJl9k7oHgPKG3ctphWl3rr14kg | aztnyp | {
"description": "not walking the dogs with my dad",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not walking the dogs with my Dad? | This is just today and i know this is a little petty. I just feel a little guilty and was wondering.
My dad and I, while we both were unemployed, would walk the dogs every morning a long morning walk then a shorter afternoon walk. The morning one is not quite an hour and the afternoon thirty minutes.
I began workin... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
ZbE1Mprjfg3G9WglEOFMRUH2sL8S0nFU | asi1nt | {
"description": "being angry they didn't order food",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for being angry they didn't order food? | Context, just finished year twelve with my partner of a few years, and went on a trip to Europe to celebrate. They are French, so we were going to visit their grandparents in Brest and Paris, before going to London, Berlin and Rome. I'm am Aussie so I was freaking out as it is so far away and so much colder than we get... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 4,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | EVERYBODY | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 4
} | WRONG |
iE4JrRk5Ymbho2ftBiEgN37FaFDWwDkX | b5e0z9 | {
"description": "asking my neighbor to use different laundry detergent",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I asked my neighbor to use different laundry detergent? | I’m not usually smell sensitive, but my downstairs neighbor uses some kind of floral laundry detergent that is so pungent and overwhelming, the smell comes up through the floor. It’s like a flowery Agent Orange, I’ve never smelled anything like it. I can barely stand in my laundry room (which is above his) because the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
vxIxxGJrpMp4ZnVvk2KPTNi87dXkCNMw | a5ytrt | {
"description": "not inviting my stepmoms mom to my wedding",
"pronormative_score": 12,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I didn't invite my stepmoms mom to my wedding? | **For background**
My stepmoms (we'll call step mom K for ease of reading) mom has always rubbed me the wrong way. She always seems to be nice, but kinda fake nice, like she's just tolerating me because my dad married her daughter. K and i have a great relationship, no issues to date (abiut 11 and half years.) A few y... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 11,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 12,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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