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{ "description": "getting mad at my husband for wanting to buy my friend's smut", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting mad at my husband for wanting to buy my friend's smut?
Okay, so a little bit of backstory. I've been a model for 4 years (this year will make my 5th) and I've always wanted to do artistic nudes. My husband however is against it and out of respect, I haven't done them even though I know nude models get paid more. It wasn't a big deal at first until I was offered a gig with...
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{ "description": "moving out because my boyfriends dog is going to live with him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for moving out because my boyfriends dog is going to live with him?
Hear me out Ik it’s just a dog but truth is I don’t like his dog and he’s very different around his dog. When I say different I mean he doesn’t cuddle with me. Makes conversation with the dog more of a priority than talking with me. I don’t hate dogs I love them just I’m not a fan of his and I don’t think I should feel...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my cousin's wedding across the country", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my cousin’s wedding across the country?
My cousin is getting married in early june, and it is in the state of washington, while i live in PA. my main reason for not wanting to go is because i want to focus on getting a job back home and take college classes during the summer, yet my family is kinda pressuring me into going. i am a really passive person and i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sell my dad's precious car to help my sister", "pronormative_score": 98, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to sell my dad's precious car to help my sister ?
Hello reddit, this is my first and last post in the website, I saw it on yputube a though this would be a good place, but first a back story. Last year my father died at the age of 63, I'm still not that good, and he 'left' us a couple of things, but the problem here is the car that he left to me, an old BMW 328i. And ...
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{ "description": "getting my coworker's $2,000 vacation taken away", "pronormative_score": 404, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for getting my coworker’s $2,000 vacation taken away?
Some background, my little sister is in the Army. I haven’t seen her since August for a funeral. She hasn’t really been able to take leave because she was flagged for her weight. Finally, she tells me in early December that she got approved to go on leave at the end of January, so I immediately went and put in for my v...
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{ "description": "slut shaming a girl who virgin shamed me", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 103 }
AITA for slut shaming a girl who virgin shamed me?
Hear me out... I [17M] am in high school and I have a few friends. Generally I DON'T have issues with people. I am quite nerdy and a bit reserved and keep to a few close friends. Anyway there is a girl in my class [17F] who is a total bitch, she is a bit nasty to people and stuck up. However she never really spoke d...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to get a tattoo of the date we lost our baby", "pronormative_score": 51, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my Dad to get a tattoo of the date we lost our baby?
My wife and I were scheduled to have a baby late last year. It would have been our first child and we were on top of the world. The pregnancy, however, was a traumatic experience. It was a high risk pregnancy and my wife dealt with health issues throughout. As the pregnancy went on, my wife's health continued to deteri...
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{ "description": "kind of lying to girls by saying I'm an artist", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for kind of lying to girls by saying I'm an artist?
Kind of is a really subjective word, so I'll try to explain what I mean here. I'm [24M] a PhD student in economics, but I just feel like that's not really a 'sexy' or 'cool' career. So whenever I'm talking to a girl I'm interested in, I always introduce myself as an artist. This isn't completely true, but not completel...
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{ "description": "being upset about my fiance for saving someones life", "pronormative_score": 85, "contranormative_score": 125 }
AITA for being upset about my fiance for saving someones life?
Super short background: So I am 6 months pregnant with me and my husbands first child. I work but he is definitely the primary bread winner and we are reliant on his income not mine. Me and my husband were sitting in traffic on a 2 lane highway. The lane going our direction was all the way backed up and at a standstil...
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{ "description": "sending the guy my gf was talking shit about behind my back to a message outlining her lies", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending the guy my gf was talking shit about behind my back to a message outlining her lies
My girlfriend has a close guy friend who she has texted quite a few times talking shit about me and things that she was upset about, but were actually untrue accounts of my character. I sent the guy a message explaining my side, and called her out for being manipulative and gaslighting me, told him to just be aware tha...
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{ "description": "not being happy that my sister is pregnant because she owes me over 5 grand", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being happy that my sister is pregnant because she owes me over 5 grand?
After my sister got married last year, she and I planned our first out of country trip that we took 3 months ago. She also invited 4 of her friends (who Im not close with, but r familare with) to join us, and we all started to save money. I had no trust in my sister/BIL to save money because they are terrible with mone...
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{ "description": "not giving money to the homeless", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t give money to the homeless?
Guam, USA. Our culture here doesn’t actually let the homeless be home-less. I always see money/food etc be given to those on the streets but I personally stopped giving. ( to certain individuals) its more often than not when at any stop light they’re standing there but the thing is- is that almost every single person I...
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{ "description": "making my special needs friend cry over a prank", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making my special needs friend cry over a prank?
Okay so this happened about 7 years back at school and I still kinda feel bad, found this sub and decided to make this post. My friends still talk about it. I made friends with this weird kid at school (didnt know he had aspergers and might have been autistic), and in class one time I thought it would be funny to prank...
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{ "description": "confessing to my best friend/crush", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for confessing to my best friend/crush
To preface this, I have known this girl for about 4 years up till my confession, and liked her for about 2 of those years. So my best friend and I had been getting really close over the past 2 months or so, and getting far more touchy as a result of this. I had chosen to keep my feelings at bay in the past, but as thin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone after they were in an abusive relationship", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone after they were in an abusive relationship
TL;DR at bottom Hey all.  This has been going on for the past few weeks and I’m feeling really shaken and guilty.  Sorry for the bad grammar and stuff.   So my previous good friend of many years is Tina (not her actual name).  We were reasonably different, but complimented each other.  She’s had some serious famil...
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{ "description": "reminding my mom that I can't stay late at a family wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reminding my mom that I can't stay late at a family wedding
Long story short my relative is having a wedding on Fri and I have work at 9:30 on Sat. In my culture weddings start late like at 10pm and don't finish till well into 3-5 in the morning. I kept on reminding my mom I can't stay there super late so she would get the memo but today she said I was "bitching" for reminding ...
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{ "description": "wanting to buy a motorcycle with MY saved up money", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to buy a motorcycle with MY saved up money?
I am 20M, and I live with my parents. I commute to community college, Monday-Thursday, and I will be graduating after this semester. I have wanted a motorcycle since I was a kid, when my mom had one. I always thought it was super cool, and I wanted to get one when I was older Starting my freshman year of high school, ...
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{ "description": "wanting a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for wanting a girlfriend?
Friend A wants me to meet this girl that's a friend of his step sister But Friend B used to date friend A's sister and they broke up a few months ago but it was not bad at all and they're on fine terms So what was set up was both of our friend groups were gonna meet up this Friday. But now Friend C is saying we aren't ...
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{ "description": "refusing to offer my English student some advice", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to offer my English student some advice?
I'm an English tutor working in Russia. A couple of months back, I was contacted by a businessman looking for "four two-hour classes a week," who wanted to get his level up high enough to live abroad in the foreseeable future. We had some meetings and they went pretty well, but he had a pretty hectic schedule; always h...
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{ "description": "lashing out at my duet partner because she didn't learn her part and got us pulled", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lashing out at my duet partner because she didn’t learn her part and got us pulled?
I’m in highschool rn but not gonna release more than that but I am 18, and this girl is a sophomore. We are in choir together and we were really close, I would get her things she needed that she was too shy to buy, we would talk about our significant others, stuff like that. She says she’s great at piano and that she’s...
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{ "description": "being sad with my ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being sad with my ex?
pretty sure I am, but just want to make sure So, I knew this girl for about 2 years, and we started dating last year, in september. They were mine and her's best months of our lifes, but she suffers from anxiety, and she Always thought that it was just too perfect, and something would go wrong anytime, so she broke up...
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{ "description": "not going on a second date with a larger lady because she doesn't match her tinder pics", "pronormative_score": 145, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I don't go on a second date with a larger lady because she doesn't match her Tinder pics?
I'll try to keep this short. I'm on Tinder and I see a cute chick so I swipe right. In two of her pics it's clear she has a twin. Cool. Not identical, but close enough. They were both above the shoulder shots. We start talking and she's ramping up to be perfect, you know how crushes are yadda yadda. This last weekend...
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{ "description": "messaging my landlord about my roommate bringing over his uncle's dog", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for messaging my landlord about my roommate bringing over his uncle's dog?
My roommate for the past 2 months has been inviting his uncle over every other day (and he often stays the night) and the uncle brings his dog. I didn't think anything of it first but one day the landlord came over midday and got super pissed because apparently he'd already told him not just no dogs inside, but no dogs...
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{ "description": "giving someone the middle finger", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving someone the middle finger?
A little prep on the story - I live in a downtown area that is about 12 square blocks. There is parallel parking on the streets that is constantly filled. ​ Now for the situation. Earlier this year, I was looking for street parking. I found a singular open spot that I could park in. I come to a four-way s...
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{ "description": "telling my boss that my coworker has been lying about her hours after she's been super nice to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boss that my coworker has been lying about her hours after she’s been super nice to me?
People keep telling me I’m NTA, but I really feel like I am. I am a college student who works as a writing tutor. It’s a pretty chill job, and we have a lot of free time. We aren’t required to clock in or out; we just have to write our hours on a timesheet that gets processed each pay period. I have one coworker (who...
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{ "description": "cleaning my brother's room without his permission when he is out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I clean my brother's room without his permission when he is out.
Both still living with parent because yay, no job! Brother gets SSI cause handicapped from waist down, so wheelchair. He never cleans his room, he usually has a huge pile of clothes next to an overfilled diaper pail. (He usually wants me to take that out, but I make him do that), that gets taken care of super late, so...
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{ "description": "not wanting the father of my unborn baby around until after the pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting the father of my unborn baby around until after the pregnancy?
I dated a man for a month and had the unlucky draw of getting pregnant(we used protection). Before I knew I was pregnant, I ended things with him because I found out that he cheated towards the end. I'm not going to lie, while me and him were together, I talked to my ex but never did anything or said anything beyond th...
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AITA for a story I shared about experiencing prejudice?
AITA for a story I shared about experiencing prejudice? So I'm white, like, see my veins through my skin levels of pale. I'm also double majoring in Criminology and Communications. I want to work within the (US) justice system to help make it better, I think it's currently dysfunctional. Because of all this I took a c...
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{ "description": "taking my things back after my roommate doesn't help me care for them", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking my things back after my roommate doesn't help me care for them?
I've lived with my roommate before in college, and now we are living together as young professionals. We've been living in an okay, but very small apartment; she got the bigger room, but we share rent equally (that was D U M B). She works from home for most of the week, which I thought was going to be great living with...
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AITA for how I moved a trailer that was in my way
I own a 50ft trailer capable of hauling up to 4 cars that I use to support the small used car lot I own as well as to take my jeep and friends on off road excursions. I rent a spot in a storage lot down the street from my office to keep it in, as well as 2 cars I keep behind it. The spots are probably 10ft wide and abo...
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AITA Am I the Xmas Asshole?
AITA I live several hundred miles from parents with my partner (30M) and two dogs. We bought our house last year. Parents due to come to us for Christmas this year but my youngest sister (21F) unexpectedly (for parents, I knew) came home from Australia for Christmas (she's been there just over a year). Partner really...
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{ "description": "telling my gf she couldn't hangout with someone", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my GF she couldn't hangout with someone?
Am I the asshole for telling my girlfriend that I dont want her going to her girlfriends house because her friends boyfriend is abusive towards her friend? My girlfriends bestfriend is dating a man that is, allegedly, taking steroids and very emotionally unstable.. She tells me all the time how this man is abusive to...
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{ "description": "spending valentine's day at the gym instead of with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 99 }
AITA for spending valentine's day at the gym instead of with my girlfriend?
I am a guy who has a committed workout routine, and I go on the same 5 days a week, and my girlfriend knows this. I never skip a workout, and the only reason I would ever miss a scheduled workout is if there were some sort of family emergency. Anyways, my GF and I have been together for 10 months, and this is our f...
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{ "description": "asking a girl who turned me down to set me up with her friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking a girl who turned me down to set me up with her friend?
Ok so I met this girl at collage and she was cool so I asked her out. She said she wasn't interested but she wanted to be friends so we hung out. While we were hanging out we talked about her friend who was in the same class but dropped it early in the semester and she sounded cool and that we had some stuff in common....
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{ "description": "not letting my mother come with me to my surgery", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my mother come with me to my surgery?
This is really weighing on my shoulders and was hoping Reddit could help. Throwaway to maintain privacy. ​ Background: I'm in my mid/late 20's, haven't lived at home in 10 years, financially independent, great relationships with both parents who are friends but no longer together. ​ I have r...
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{ "description": "continuing to go after an achievement/mount after being almost begged not to", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for continuing to go after an achievement/mount after being almost begged not to?
So my best mate and I both play World of Warcraft. I've never been level enough to do raids and things but with BFA I got that boost and have been running current content until recently. He introduced me to Mount Grinding and I'm having a good time. One that I'm running a lot right now, mostly to spite another friend w...
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{ "description": "bringing home a puppy one day without warning my husband", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if I brought home a puppy one day without warning my husband?
So the husband and I have been talking about getting a puppy and I’ve been really excited about it so I’ve been the one doing research and trying to find the best fit for us. Well I found what I believe to be the perfect litter to choose a puppy from so I show my husband all the information I’ve gathered. He didn’t see...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to stop masturbating at night", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my roommate to stop masturbating at night?
So here’s my dilemma. I live in a college dorm with my roommate. Most every night when he thinks I’m asleep I can hear him masturbating. It’s really hard to tone out without exposing yourself as being awake. I’m not sure if I should say anything or if its any of my business. Something I should point out is that my ro...
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{ "description": "kicking out gross roomates", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA kicking out gross roomates
So here's the thing, where I live rent is 450, Internet is 50, and all the utilities together at most is 350. So roughly 850. Between two people it should be about 425. Well, we had to kick him out because he told everyone he had to pay too much and we were lying to him about rent/utilities. He's lived with us for over...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave my wife of a few years because I'm not attracted to her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to leave my wife of a few years because I'm not attracted to her?
When we got together (dating) she was a little chubby and I was up front that I wanted her to slim down and she said yeah Ive always wanted to get real fit so it was cool. The plan was to work out together, get ripped. Didnt go that way. We both gained weight together sitting around binge eating/watching netflix then...
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{ "description": "getting jealous at my brother for him breaking three pairs of my earbuds and getting two pairs for going to Chicago", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting jealous at my brother for him breaking three pairs of my earbuds and getting two pairs for going to Chicago.
So some context. My school has a big field trip where they go to a big city. It is only for band choir or orchestra. Sorry for spelling and formatting. I'm on mobile. Up at my family's camper my brother kept using my earbuds and breaking them. He broke three fucking pairs. My parents bought him two pairs of earbuds ...
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{ "description": "completely losing it with a lady who tried to cut in front of me TWICE at a large grocery store", "pronormative_score": 509, "contranormative_score": 94 }
AITA because I completely lost it with a lady who tried to cut in front of me TWICE at a large grocery store?
I was at a large grocery store yesterday and I walked up to the butcher area to ask for assistance but there was one person ahead of me. When the person finished, I was just about to ask the butcher my question when a woman cut in front of me and asked him, "Hi, can you please help me in the freezer aisle?" The butcher...
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{ "description": "playing this chick that was using me as a free babysitter", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for playing this chick that was using me as a free babysitter.
Backstory: we were froemds for a year. During the end we often saw eachother when she needed a free baby sitter. One day back in May '16 I was supposed to have her 1 year old sleep over for the whole weekend. She dropped him off Friday night and I watched him till Sunday morning. She picked him up and was going to dro...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for sleeping in bed with her ex", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for sleeping in bed with her ex?
Some backstory. Last Saturday my girlfriend went out to drink with her friends and ended up at her ex’s house. No big deal, I’ve met him and up until then wasn’t worried about him. Flash forward a few hours and she’s been drinking. I get a FaceTime from her where she’s frantically looking for her contact in his bed. Sh...
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{ "description": "getting upset", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset?
A coworker of mine got mad at me for not working fast enough. While I would have taken the criticism had it been dropped after talking about it, he continued to complain and make off-handed remarks about how slow or sluggish I was today. I was working in his department for the third time changing displays, I worked by ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I have no desire to meet her friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend I have no desire to meet her friend?
So my gf (22f) and I (23m) have been together for about a year and a half, and have been long distance for almost a year. She's in her last year of school so when she graduates in a month we won't be doing long distance anymore. We live about two hours apart so we still see each other about once a week. Back in the f...
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{ "description": "occasionally saying \"Mate\"", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for occasionally saying “Mate”?
Let me start this off by saying that I don’t use it all the time, it’s normally just things like “Thanks mate” or “Have a great day mate” something along those lines. It’s simple to say and sounds better than man or dude. My sister came back from college for Christmas break and absolutely despises me using it for som...
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{ "description": "kidding kind of bummed out my husband god a vasectomy like last minute without my knowledge", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTAH for kidding kind of bummed out my husband god a vasectomy like last minute without my knowledge?
I get that it’s his body his choice but I still wanted to have kids. Wish I was in on it and didn’t have it dropped on me last minute. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "kind of ditching a person with a mental disability on the bus", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kind of ditching a person with a mental disability on the bus?
so the other day i was waiting for a bus and someone who clearly had some sort of disability started waiting with me. when he first arrived he asked if he had missed the bus, and i had told him no and then he just kept chatting my ear off. the bus ended up being an hour late (!!!!!) and it was cold so i caught myself g...
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{ "description": "saying that I am better than my friends at video games", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for saying that I am better than my friends at video games?
I got into a huge argument with a group of friends about a video game (first person shooter) I was trying to explain to them that I didn’t want to possibly lose my rank because I didn’t trust them to perform well at a higher rank. (Rainbow six siege: I am in platinum ranks, they are low gold/silver. *SIGNIFICANT SKILL ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend and starting to date her best friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and starting to date her best friend?
We'll call my current gf A and the girl I want to be with B. I've been with my A for 5 months and met B during Christmas break and we really hit it off. We have so much in common, we're studying the same thing, we both are going to intern at the same company this summer, we like the same TV shows, etc. She's like my s...
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{ "description": "wanting to be paid back", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to be paid back?
Hi all, throwaway account here. My friend (19) recently talked to me (18) and asked me to stop talking to them about money. They said it makes them uncomfortable since I grew up with a lot more than them. This is regarding conversations about houses, cars, apartments, loans, etc. (However, they began a couple conversa...
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{ "description": "blocking my bf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my bf?
When I was 14(F) I had a friend (15F) that we'll call Susie, whom I met online through some mutual friends. We soon became bf, and I was very happy. I almost worshipped her, 'cause I'm not very good at social interaction and she was the only bf I had had in my entire life. Two years later, we talk to each other alm...
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{ "description": "hanging out with my cousin's \"ex\"", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hanging out with my cousin's "ex"?
I'm sorry if this is so confusing. I've made up a few names to talk about who's involved in this situation. I'm 19 and have a cousin 1 year older called Mary. A few weeks ago Mary was asked out by Joe. Joe later said it was stupid of him to ask her out because he doesn't have any feelings towards her and he just jumpe...
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{ "description": "handmaking everyone's Christmas gifts this year", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for handmaking everyone's Christmas gifts this year?
My husband and I are really short on money so i decided to use my hobbies (crochet, cross stitch and baking) to make gifts for everyone. I have spent the last couple of months making personal gifts, mostly consisting of patterns I have designed myself, to include the receivers interests (such as D&D for my brother)...
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{ "RIGHT": 20, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not having a strong opinion on anything", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not having a strong opinion on anything?
So a friend of mine got into an argument with a friend of hers. They argued about whether or not they would break up with someone for what they did in their past. Eventually they came to the agreement that there are limits to each of them. However they decided to drag me into it and asked me as well. I tried to decli...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have combative arguments in a graduate course", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to have combative arguments in a graduate course?
I have been with the same cohort of graduate students for 3 years. This is our last semester and we should in my opinion be cruising to the finish line. This semester we are taking a course together that runs from 9am to 3:30pm because of our professors wishes not to meet on separate days. Starting last semester my co...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for losing my dog", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For getting mad at my mom for losing my dog?
So this just happened and I'm still pretty ticked about it. I was at my mom's and had my dog with me, she's likes having my dog over. I was talking on my computer when I get a random call. I pick up and I hear a stranger say "Hi, I think we have your dog". He's a street over so I run and get him. This happened once ...
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{ "description": "quitting because I was scheduled for Boxing Day", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting because I was scheduled for Boxing Day?
So I work at a jewelry store and while I enjoy the product and the people, I've had a few issues there that have all lead to this moment. This will be quite long as there's a lot of backstory so TLDR at the end. I'm a university student, and have been in school full time up until this point, and working at this store ...
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{ "description": "making my mom pay full price at a spa", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my mom pay full price at a spa?
I was about 10 yo when it happened and there was a discount in the spa that said: under 10 yo the price is half. I was above 10 so the discount wouldn't apply to me. But back then I watched a lot of cartoons and stuff when they said a lot of things about honesty and things like that. And I thought I did the right thing...
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{ "description": "hating my friend and refusing to help her because she's been lying to me and having sex with her husband", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for hating my friend and refusing to help her because she's been lying to me and having sex with her husband?
I have a young friend who has several tiny toddlers including an infant. Because I feel bad for her being stuck at home, whenever she tells me she wants to go clothes shopping or furniture shopping I occasionally babysit all of them, even though they're so little. I'm well enough compensated for it, and I enjoy childre...
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{ "description": "denying someones love", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for denying someones love?
So this is a short AITA . Oh and the formatting and stuff is for mobile so just and FYI. Simple put me and a girl I see every week went on a couple dates and it didn't really click due to conflict in interests. I like video games and western culture and she like art and Korean culture to the point it conflicts. But r...
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{ "description": "not standing the sight of my mother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA. I cant stand the sight of my mother.
i cant stand the sight of my mother. I cant look at her face without feeling ill. It ruins my whole day. I dont even think that i have recovered in the next day. I dont know what she did. This was not always the case. I geuss that stranger things have happend. She does not need me. We have our own lives. Is anyone els...
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{ "description": "being angry at my sister for drinking in front of our alcoholic mom, despite me drinking as well", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being angry at my sister for drinking in front of our alcoholic mom, despite me drinking as well?
Ive been called an asshole and a hypocrite over this so lets see what you guys think. My mother is an alcoholic, and a bad one. Shes done terrible things to me and my sister, and we've each experienced emotional, rarely physical abuse from her. My father is a weak man who allowed his drunk wife to abuse his kids becau...
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{ "description": "wanting to end a friendship over being lazy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to end a friendship over being lazy?
I've had a friend for about 13 years. The entire time he has basically been a bum, working off and on, and has quit jobs because child support caught up with him, because he didn't feel like driving, cause it was too hot, cause it was too windy, because he just didn't want to work their anymore. At one point he was g...
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AITA: My sister refuses to pay for her own controller. I also refuse to pay the full cost but I'm ok with sharing the cost. She still refuses.
So, I only have one controller. I paid for this and the Xbox console myself, with my own savings in full. However, I dont mind my family using the console when I'm not using it. Recently, I suggested the idea that we should buy another controller for my sister so that we can play co-op games together. At first, she wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to keep in touch with my ex after we broke up", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to keep in touch with my ex after we broke up?
A little background, I'm a college freshman in the Midwest US and I met this girl at the start of last semester. We hit it off and after being friends for a while we started dating. I thought we both loved eachother but in January she asked for a break because she didn't know if she wanted a relationship at that time, ...
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{ "description": "asking a girl to prom that I know my friend wants", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For asking a girl to prom that I know my friend wants?
We both want to ask the same girl, I've wanted to for a few months, but neither of us knew the other wanted to until yesterday. When we talked about it, we both kind of just brushed it off like "rip, I should've told you" and "what? I thought you liked someone else" then I had to leave. Thing is, he's my friend, but he...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that she's weirdo", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl that she's weirdo
19(M), A while ago some random girl added me on facebook. im kind of person that dont really add people who i dont know even if they were elon musk or my dream girl. so i kindly asked her if she needs something and why she added me. Later i found out that shes a schoolmate 2yrs below my class, however she didnt never...
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{ "description": "not returning a lost pet to an incompetent owner", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not returning a lost pet to an incompetent owner?
I found a lost cat in my neighborhood a few days ago that exactly matches a cat who was reported lost the same day (very recently) However, this cat has all kinds of untreated health issues that go back several weeks at LEAST. The gender of the cats does not match, but other than that they’re identical... same neighbo...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend at the club despite being his DD", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my friend at the club despite being his DD?
A few of my friends and my brother and our mutual friends went out to a club one night. My brother and his friends begged me to DD them so I did. Everything was going really well and the club was closing at 2:00am. At 1:30am all my friends were ready to leave and I was ready to go home. I let my brother know I would be...
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{ "description": "criticizing my friends relationship on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for criticizing my friends relationship on her birthday?
So my friend (F16) has been dating this emotionally abusive guy (M22) since she was 14. The age gap is already weird and creepy but i could look past that if it wasn't for the fact that he's really obsessive, mean, jealous, toxic and treats her like shit most of the time, not to mention he doesn't have a job and droppe...
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{ "description": "sending photos of me and my ex's now deceased cat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I send photos of me and my ex's now deceased cat?
I just got off the phone with her mum, and I have a bunch of photos and videos of the guy when we were together for those years. I want to share the good memories of the little guy but I don't want to come off as a wrong/insensitive gesture. Would I potentially be an asshole if I did this?
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{ "description": "seriously hating my step daughter", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for seriously hating my step daughter
You'll most likely think i am so here's the back story: Partner and his ex have child together almost 15 years ago. Only child is spoilt rotten, never told no, given everything she wants and waited on hand and foot. Child is a brat from a very young age, never disciplined, never punished for bad/rude behaviour, never ...
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{ "description": "contacting my father I've never met, recently discovered through ancestry dna testing", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA For contacting my father I've never met, recently discovered through ancestry DNA testing?
So will try to keep it brief. This is my wife's dilemma. She's not on here but wanted me to ask reddit for advice and if she WBTA if she does what shes thinking. wife age 30 for reference. So she grew up without ever knowing who her dad was. Mom claims she was (the R word) and never knew who he was. Now, we and oth...
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{ "description": "forcing my brother to follow an established system", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for forcing my brother to follow an established system?
My family has had a system for as long as I can remember that works as follows: On a communal device, one can limit the current user's turn to 30 more minutes by giving a warning. My brother is now refusing to follow this system, going so far as to lie and state that the communal device is his personal PC. I do hav...
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{ "description": "breaking up with boyfriend post major operation", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for breaking up with boyfriend post major operation (and not seeing him if he wants me to see him)?
(Obligatory apology for the long post, ended up being a cathartic release to type it all out) Open relationship of 2 months, been relationship like and had sex most of the year. Met all his family etc, basically live with him. I help with house chores and our laundry, etc. He is 25. I'm 21. Incoming third person (Lana...
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{ "description": "reporting a close friend for drug use on the job", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for reporting a close friend for drug use on the job?
Throwaway since I don't want to be connected to this if I do report her. I'm having a small dilemma about reporting a close friend for her use of weed on the job. ​ My friend Ally has a private Snapchat story that's only available to close friends, people she sells weed to, etc. On this story, she often p...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to not microwave smelly foods in the room", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my roommate to not microwave smelly foods in the room?
So my roommate and I live in a small, single room dorm. I purchased a microwave and fridge in the beginning of the school year and allowed my roommate to use them. However, my roommate eats a lot of foods with \*very\* strong smells. Stuff like fishy smelling ramen, frozen Indian food, tamales, etc.. She is also just.....
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{ "description": "cutting ties with a girl that's madly in love with me, even though I think I might feel something for her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for cutting ties with a girl that’s madly in love with me, even though I think I might feel something for her?
Allow me to elaborate. So I’ve been talking to this girl for about 2 months now, and all I can say is I just feel lost with it. She’s absolutely beautiful, like she’s stunning. And on top of that, she has a great personality. We started as FWB, but I don’t know what I’m feeling right now and feel lost. I’ve told her I ...
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{ "description": "moving on without telling my effective-then ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving on without telling my effective-then ex-girlfriend?
My previous girlfriend and I met in college. We were together for a little over a year and a half. I ended up landing a career job that I really enjoyed; I worked in the city, she lived in the suburbs (my actual home was about an hour drive away). We agreed that I'd stay at her apartment a night during the week and ...
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{ "description": "snitching on a drug addict", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I snitched on a drug addict?
We’re in 9th grade, and I heard a rumor about that he did a ton of drugs so I asked him about it, and he spent about 10 minutes describing how he does adderall and lsd and he smokes weed. He wasn’t really discrete about, just instantly said it. Afterwards he asked me not to snitch because somebody already had once befo...
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{ "description": "not helping someone save money", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping someone save money.
So a guy was selling a piece of equipment that I was interested in buying due to hydraulic line failures causing a large (10+k)enviro cleanup cost. He was upfront and honest wth me about cost, issues, etc and This was a problem I’m familiar with. The problem can be solved by using enviro friendly oil instead of the ...
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{ "description": "making fun of my girlfriend's unhealthy food cravings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA: For making fun of my girlfriend's unhealthy food cravings?
My girlfriend will sometimes want unhealthy food like Taco Bell and McDonald's. It has gotten to the point that she will cry probably once a month if we don't get a shamrock shake or a big mac. Recently, I have been making fun of fast food restaurants for her health (we can afford healthier food). For example, I sent h...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate to pay more in rent if his girlfriend sleeps over frequently", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my roommate to pay more in rent if his girlfriend sleeps over frequently?
My roommate and I have a 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom apartment. Recently, his girlfriend has been sleeping over almost every night and I can't help but feel a little salty. Anyways, I jokingly told him (back in the beginning when it was once a week) that I have to charge him for her staying over. He argued that: (1) she wa...
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{ "description": "getting my younger daughter massages", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting my younger daughter massages?
I have two daughters, one is 4 years older than the other. The younger one had back issues which made it really easy for her to pull muscles in her back and neck. The doctor basically said that massage therapy once a week would help, or she could get surgery. I didn't like the idea of my 4 year old getting major surger...
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{ "description": "not involving my fiancee's family in the proposal", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not involving my fiancee's family in the proposal
Months before I proposed, I told my fiancee's family that I was ready to propose to her and the day I was planning to do it. On that day my fiancee's mom asked me to include her younger daughter, my fiancee's sister (in her 20s), in the proposal. I said something like "Okay, I'll get in touch with her." Months pass an...
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{ "description": "telling the bride I'm having trouble affording her wedding", "pronormative_score": 132, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling the bride I'm having trouble affording her wedding?
So I am a bridesmaid in a wedding party of two. Now I've never been to a wedding, let alone been in a wedding so I didn't know what it all involved. Long story short bride has expensive taste due to wealthy fiancé, and I am in the poor income range. So far I have had to pay for half of a bridal shower plus take home gi...
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{ "description": "always keeping money found on the ground", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for always keeping money found on the ground
Of course, this isn't a regular occurrence. But whenever I see money on the ground it's going straight in my pocket, no second thoughts. Finders keepers, right? One of my mates is a real hard-core ethical type and he says it's wrong. So, I figure I'd make a quick throwaway post to settle it - AITA?
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{ "description": "moving away from home", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving away from home?
I left home to go to college in another state. I ended up marrying someone I met there, and we made our home in that state. We now have children. We visit my family twice a year for holidays. It is hard to go more often because traveling with children is hard and expensive. My uncle passed away recently. After he pass...
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{ "description": "going to the Camp fire in Paradise, CA to do some amateur photography", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I went to the Camp fire in Paradise, CA to do some amateur photography?
It’s a hobby of sorts and the wife and I always love a little trip but the optics feel a little bad..
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{ "description": "burning my house down", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for burning my house down
I consider myself a religious person who believes there is a spiritual side to our world beyond nature. But **I don't believe in ghosts**. Once a person dies, they go onward, they do not remain earthbound. Yet this is why I am still left searching for an explanation to a series of strange encounters my family experien...
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{ "description": "moving out because my roommate is self destructive", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I move out because my roommate is self destructive?
I don't know if this breaks the rules or not, but here it goes anyway. Also sorry if I make mistakes, I am not natively English. I live with a friend of mine that I have known for about 4 years. We have now been living as roommates for 2 years. But ever since we moved in together, she had started to become more and m...
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{ "description": "telling my coworkers not to touch me", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my coworkers not to touch me?
I'm just some dude who works at a place. I'm mildly attractive, I work out, but I absolutely HATE being touched. I'm not autistic or OCD I just like my personal space very much. If I'm in a committed relationship then of course I like to be touched by my SO and that's it. Well where I work, years ago, a co workers tr...
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{ "description": "not wanting kids in my realm", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting kids in my realm?
So recently a few friends and I got a realm for Minecraft (I pay for it) and I don’t really like inviting kids as we are all older and they don’t really fit in due to the age gap. Anyway I added someone’s brother to give him a chance as all kids can’t be that bad. Wrong, first place he saw he completely destroyed and ...
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{ "description": "leaving my mom and my sisters to go live on my own", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I leave my mom and my sisters to go live on my own?
God I have a couple of AITA's so here's one of them. A little context. My mom (44) recently exited a very toxic relationship with my dad that lasted for a little over 22 years, and when I was around 16 I told her that as soon as I was of age I'd work and get her out of there since she never worked because of her being...
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{ "description": "not giving up my seat to a parent on the train", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up my seat to a parent on the train?
I'm not sure if anyone has posted this one here before but here goes. So I'm on the train and there's a 2 seater seat which is empty. I go sit in the inner seat so there's an empty seat beside me. The next stop loads of people get on and a mother daughter duo comes up and the girl sits on the empty seat beside me. She'...
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{ "description": "thinking Chris Benoit deserves to be in the hall of fame", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking Chris Benoit deserves to be in the hall of fame?
Okay so I know what he did was absolutely abhorrent, but I personally believe that the hall of fame should be about CAREER ACHIEVEMENTS only. Not what one does in their personal life. I’ve been called an asshole for being able to look past his actions to see what he did for the wrestling business. I know he’ll never ac...
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{ "description": "not coming back to care for my parents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn’t come back to care for my parents?
Ok, so this will be in the very very very very far future. I’m currently studying to become an English teacher in a foreign country. Once I have my degree and TEFL certificate, etc, I plan on finding a teaching job in a foreign country, moving there, and staying for at least a while, if not the rest of my life. I ha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my girlfriend clean up her room in her apartment", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to help my girlfriend clean up her room in her apartment?
My girlfriend isn’t the most organized. She’s absolutely brilliant, she is one hell of a hard worker, and she makes my heart so happy, but she is very messy. I’ve helped her clean her room to pristine condition two previous times, and told her that if she let it get to the way it was again I wouldn’t help her, and she...
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