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{ "description": "not covering shifts for my coworker/friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not covering shifts for my coworker/friend?
My boyfriend got in a really bad car accident and broke lots of bones. Everything’s been really stressful (obviously) - it was also finals week and I’ve just never been in this type of situation before. I’m pretty good friends with this coworker too, so she knew exactly what was going on. Unsure if this is relevant, ...
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{ "description": "leaving my employer a year after completing a $240k scholarship they gave me", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my employer a year after completing a $240k scholarship they gave me.
I have been with my current employer for 9 years 3 months. I started out with them as an apprentice which took 4 years to complete, on conclusion I was appointed a tradesman’s position. Shortly after I applied for a scholarship that the company used to offer which provided a wage of $50k per year to study at univers...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mother over finances", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my mother over finances?
I am a minor incase that matter in the story. So a couple months ago I had completed my work for a job over the summer in late August. I had earned a little under $1000 over the course of the 3 months I had worked there, and it being a labor intensive job I felt like that money was very hard earned. Over the course of...
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{ "description": "trying to get revenge on a cheater", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for trying to get revenge on a cheater?
I was a friend with benefits with a guy, we were sex partners but things weren't serious between us. One day, this stranger messages me and tells me that she's his girlfriend and he's been cheating on her with me. I guess she found his texts. I was furious with him, can't believe he did that shit. I wanted some rev...
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{ "description": "cutting off my friend of 7 years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off my friend of 7 years?
I’ve been friends with someone I’ll call H for nearly 7 years now, since we were little kids. We’ve always seen each other as inseparable, until at least 3 years ago. She moved away to a state nearly 700 miles away, and comes to visit every year. However, since then, she’s become increasingly unstable and depressed, to...
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{ "description": "wanting my disabled brother to live in a mental home", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Wibta if i want my disabled brother to live in a mental home
I have a twin brother that has low functioning autism and major OCD. When I'm doing anything I hear my brother squealing eeeeeeeeeeee all day and night. We try to give him an iPad but he knees them in half as soon as he gets flustered, and he's always flustered. If everything is not perfectly place exactly where it nee...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to let me sleep alone once to recover health", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking my gf to let me sleep alone once to recover health
Disclaimer : My english might be a bit chaotic. Context : We're students and both living in really small rooms with a single bed each, one minute from each other. We're back from a one-week holiday week from her parents' home where we slept in a king size bed. I had a terrible night where I slept only 1h and a half, ...
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{ "description": "regifting something as long as I don't tell the gifter", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for regifting something as long as I don’t tell the gifter?
Throwaway here, LTL, FTP, etc. I don’t care about karma or anything, I just need to hear a final judgement from an outside source so that I can see more clearly. The practical background is that my aunt gifted me an Echo Dot (~$25) for my recent birthday. I’m in college and have very little use for one. Even after try...
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AITA for impersonated a character on Internet and made my friends believed he was real?
(sorry for the grammar, English isn't my first language) I was 14 and just discovered Internet. I had a blog where I was writing texts, poetry, sometimes fiction... And one day, I created another blog. With a fake name, email, everything, and start writing like it was a diary. I used this account to sometimes commen...
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{ "description": "bringing my dog home resulting in him getting attacked", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing my dog home resulting in him getting attacked?
this just happened, im in the emergency vet waiting room as i type this. my roommate is watching her friends dog for the weekend and she told me she is watching the dog, Ford, at her friends during the day and will text me when she is bringing him so I can put my dog away since Ford is not good with other dogs. Sh...
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{ "description": "wanting a birthday to myself", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting a birthday to myself?
I have had one birthday party in my life. I've wanted to have a celebration for my birthday for several years now, but I have a friend whose birthday is just a few days after mine, and he always has a party on the weekend before our birthdays. A couple years ago, he suggested that we have a double party, and I accept...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend recommending another person for the same job I'm going for", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad at my friend recommending another person for the same job I'm going for?
My friend works at a growing company that has great pay, benefits, easy workload, all this stuff I've been looking for. I've been down on my luck in the job market, resorting to doing rideshare apps for money. He told me that a position is opening up at his company, and I should apply. I sent him my resume to look over...
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{ "description": "being hurt by my daughter's name change", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for being hurt by my daughter's name change
My wife kept her last name when we married, but we gave my last name to our children. My daughter changed her name to her husband's when she got married. They are now in the process of a divorce. My daughter mentioned today that she wants to change her last name not back to my name, but to her mother's name. She wants...
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{ "description": "accadently telling my friend he is annoying, and kinda fucking out relationship up", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for accadently telling my friend he is annoying, and kinda fucking out relationship up.
so one of my good friends is slightly annoying. we where talking about noodles and what type we would buy for dinner, I then had to endure a 5 minute talk about how prisoners only get noodles and how the prison system is fucked. it's like that with EVERYTHING. he is super passionate about the prison system and will ...
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WIBTA if about 10-15 yrs down the line, I never tell my parents about my wedding or invite them
The day after a relative's wedding, we were in the car, and my mom tells me "When you get married, you have to marry a korean catholic woman." I ask "What if I love a chinese woman?" She says it's not okay WIBTA if I plan to not tell them about it, knowing that my mother would be judgmental and WIBTA if I believed that...
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{ "description": "abandoning someone who needed me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for abandoning someone who needed me?
I'm still in high school, and in the beginning of september I started developing a friendship with a girl in my class. We listened to the same music, we had the same style of humor, liked same movies, etc. We were texting a lot, talking about our feelings and our hardships in life. Turns out, she had a really rough lif...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to stop touching me if shes doing something I don't like", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to stop touching me if shes doing something I don't like?
Last night on the couch we are both sitting and watching a show and she goes to grab my hand. I'm thinking she wants to hold hands so I go to grab her hand and hold it but she pulls it away. She does this about 3 more times kind of quickly and I'm getting annoyed so I tell her not to touch me if shes going to do that. ...
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{ "description": "wanting a break before bedtime", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a break before bedtime?
Background: I'm a stay at home mom. My darling husband works full time plus some in tech. He gets home every night around 5:30 or 6. Right when he gets home we all have dinner and then the babies go right in the bath and we start bedtime routines which usually last until about 7:30. My complaint to my husband is that...
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{ "description": "not challenging racist comments from an otherwise friendly shared ride driver", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not challenging racist comments from an otherwise friendly shared ride driver?
I picked up a shared ride drive from an airport in Northern Florida to get me to my destination (about 25 minute drive) . The driver was terrific; friendly, informative, and funny. It was a “big football game” weekend and he offered lots of ideas on how to make the most of my short trip with the family. All was fine...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with a good friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with a good friend?
Okay, so both us are into smoking weed but since we live with our parents it is not possible to do that at home. So we always look for some quiet/chill places in our city where we can smoke weed and get stoned, listen to music and sometimes enjoy a beer. We usually hang out in the evening since during daytime we have t...
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{ "description": "wanting another dog, that attacked mine and wounded him, to be put down", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting another dog, that attacked mine and wounded him, to be put down
Context Moose, (husky) who is my fiancées and my dog, was playing with us and a few of his toys outside when Bolt (Pit-bull) came to have fun also. Things got territorial when bolt was jealous of a toy moose had and went into fight moose. Not a low scale fight either. I tackled moose and pulled him off as my fiancée...
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{ "description": "not sending money or visiting my brother in prison", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sending money or visiting my brother in prison?
So my brother is in prison for the second time. Still love him, and when he calls me from prison I enjoy talking to him. But I don't want to spend a day of my life driving 4 hours to be with him for 1 hour. I've told him this and he brushes it of as if it's just a "dick move" no biggie. I also refuse to send money ...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mom's phone calls", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my mom's phone calls?
my mom calls me at least once everyday even though I've told her that I'd prefer to talk like 3 times a week. I feel bad about screening her calls because I know she's probably lonely. it's mostly because about a year and a half we were arguing and she told me to kill myself. it seems kinda insignificant but I've been ...
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{ "description": "wanting him to show up", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting him to show up?
So slight context: this guy and I have already broken up. But I feel a little bad still... I’m white and I celebrate Christmas. He’s Asian and doesn’t (but used to when he was a kid). Over Christmas I asked if he wanted to come down and spend it with me and my family. He agreed. My parents and I even bought him sever...
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{ "description": "making my younger sister cry", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my younger sister (12) cry?
okay, so this is my first reddit post in general, so i hope i'm doing this correctly. ​ so since my school is on february break, my family, my friends family, another one of my friends, and my mom's friend and her son are staying in our house out near the mountains. My sister and her friend (my friend's yo...
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{ "description": "notifying friend about presence of her adult content in the internet", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for notifying friend about presence of her adult content in the internet?
I found an adult video of my female friend on internet via a friend. I first tried to notify her anonymously because I didn't want to create the awkwardness between us since we meet every day. She didn't do anything about the message and even mentioned to me about getting such spam message. Then I went ahead and told h...
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{ "description": "expecting my mom to pay", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my mom to pay?
So I'm starting esthetician school in a few months, and my grandparents are paying for it on the terms that I go to college after. Last week, my mom got her eyebrows done, and then after she made a casual remark about how soon I'll be waxing and tinting her eyebrows for her. I let this pass, figuring that the materials...
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{ "description": "calling animal control on my irresponsible neighbors", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I call animal control on my irresponsible neighbors?
Their dogs are outside on chains all day long. They have no shelter and it’s cold and might rain tonight. It’s typically not rainy here but it is cold. Dips in the low 30’s at night. I told them if they don’t get the dogs shelter I’m calling animal control. They bought one dog house. They have pit mix, chow/ German Sh...
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{ "description": "explaining point by point exactly what he did wrong", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for explaining point by point exactly what he did wrong?
Hi everyone. My ex and I broke up about three months ago because I felt there were a lot of problems with our relationship - mainly that I was putting in way more effort than he was. Ever since, he's been extremely clingy, trying to stay friends and constantly wanting to talk over what happened. I'm extremely stresse...
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{ "description": "not getting a friend stay with me even though I already said they could", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not getting a friend stay with me even though i already said they could?
It’s my 21st birthday on Monday and I’m having a party. There is a person in my friend group, let’s call him Dave. I’m not as good friends as I used to be with him because I learned that he was really into Jordan Peterson over the summer and I realized that I didn’t really like spending time with him, he was just a bit...
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{ "description": "leaving family behind", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for leaving family behind?
I am graduating college soon. I intend on moving all the way across the country come next year, as I have friends out there and job prospects for my career path are much higher there. I currently live with my niece and mother (her grandmother). My niece lives with us as her mother is an addict and her father an alcoho...
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{ "description": "being slightly annoyed at my friends for calling out my irresponsibility", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being slightly annoyed at my friends for calling out my irresponsibility?
Hi. I am a highschool student working on a science fair project. The databook journal was due a few days but I was sick so I wasn't going to be at school that day. At about 7:05, I told my partner (Friend B) that I wasn't going to be at school and I wasn't going to be about to bring the binder. Someone had an extra bin...
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{ "description": "saying no to driving 2 hours to deliver a video game", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying no to driving 2 hours to deliver a video game
This is between I and one of my cousins. Last week I found out last minute I needed to move apartments early and ended up renting a van to move and asking a few of my cousins to help. This cousin ended up helping that night after work. I went picked him up, he helped move the items from door to car while we all did a...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend why he checks his phone so much while we're at the dinner table", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend why he checks his phone so much while we’re at the dinner table?
So my boyfriend and I (F) were out at one of our favourite casual food places and we planned to see a movie after. While we were eating, he kept going on his phone to check basketball stats. Although I know it’s not a big deal at all, it does bother me when people use their phone at the table. In the past I’ve ignored ...
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriends dad in our house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriends dad in our house?
So my girlfriend moved out of her parents house last year, and her parents had bed bugs, so when moving out she unfortunately brought them with her. Since then we have got exterminators to get rid of them and we have been bed bug free for around 5 months now, but we had to get rid of our couches and our bed, and we wer...
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{ "description": "kissing someone I know I don't want to be in a relationship in", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For kissing someone I know I don't want to be in a relationship in?
So I took a friend out today who I know is somewhat attracted to me. She's pretty cute, but we're very different and I honestly can't see a relationship happening with any success due to our different outlooks (religion, politics, pretty much everything). She's a good person and I wanted to do a nice thing for her bec...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that we are not actually engaged", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend that we are not actually engaged?
Some background: My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) have been dating for one year and 3 months now. Since the beginning to were taking this pretty serious and I always considered us a long lasting couple. All of our friends know we are dating and we met each others parents. Now comes the tricky part. After 8ish months o...
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AITA bf said something very hurtful and I am seriously considering ending the relationship
TLDR at the bottom - \*\*Graphic sexual content warning\* ​ John and I met online 6 months ago and met in person 5 weeks after that - we took things slow, didnt kiss for the first month etc at his insistence. I am a very touch orientated person and he wouldnt even hold hands or hug until that point either....
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{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend is going to her best friend's lingerie party", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 80 }
AITA for being upset that my girlfriend is going to her best friend’s lingerie party
So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now. But we’ve known each other 10 months. We have a very loving and understanding relationship. I travel for work a lot so we’re often away from each other. The other day, she told me that she should be going to her best friend’s lingerie party. Her best frie...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate not to bring guests", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my roommate not to bring guests?
For background I live in a suite style college dorm with a kitchen and common area. The suite has 5 people and 3 bedrooms. I live in one of the doubles (the rooms are randomly assigned and I wasn’t lucky enough for the single). My roommate is a party person, and I am more of a stay at home introverted type. On weekend...
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{ "description": "wanting my almost 20 year old to kick in for rent", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my almost 20 year old to kick in for rent?
TL:DR - Should 20 yr old in gap years pay some rent AITA for wanting my almost 20 year old to pay rent since he lives here for free? He’s three months shy of 20. I’ve bought him a truck and I pay for his health insurance and mobile phone. At 18 I was out of the house and on my own 100% and in college. My son wo...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to lock the door", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my roommate to lock the door?
Hey everyone. First time posting and I’m on mobile so if the format is weird I’m sorry. TLDR AT END!! I’m (23f) a college student living in a pretty shitty apartment with my roommate (23f). Her and I were random roommates and we get along really well, she’s super cool and chill but she never locks the door. I’m a ...
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{ "description": "getting angry at a club member for leaking the link to our private site", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at a club member for leaking the link to our private site?
I run an anime club, and own a small site with blog posts and video files of the anime we watched that day. One of our more active members ended up sharing the link on quora, and although i told him to delete it, way back in November, I just now found out the link was never deleted. Upon telling him that I may recons...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do optional social things at work", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to do optional social things at work
I like my coworkers as people. We work well together. I love that they like doing stuff like staff birthdays, loosely-organized lunches together, etc. My company even hosts a "fun day" in late summer for staff that includes outings and so forth. None of that interests me. I don't participate, but encourage others to ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over this reason", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over this reason?
I had been dating this girl for a little over a year. We had occasional fights about me not being emotional enough and a couple arguments about my drinking, which I was trying to cut back on. And I'll admit I had a bit of a problem with it at the time. On top of all of that I'm a social person and she wasn't she would ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "cheating on my final exams", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for cheating on my final exams?
SO i have a really bad biology teacher and she didn't teach us much throughout the year. Most of the year i had to go home and revise everything myself and learn from there. I used a lot of youtube videos and online courses to actually learn biology. Then she gave us a our semester finals which are extremely important....
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{ "description": "dumping my husbands loose crap all on his office chair even though I know he doesn't like it", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping my husbands loose crap all on his office chair even though i know he doesn't like it?
Me and my husband have been together a long time and one of our major disagreements over the years have been his lack of give a shit about picking up after himself. Most recently he had taken up the entire kitchen table with bags, clothes and other junk. It is known in the house since we have other roommates that the c...
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{ "description": "laughing at my cat and recording", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for laughing at my cat and recording
This happened yesterday. I have three cats and one of them is your typical cat that is afraid of everything. He does warm up to you after that, but that's besides the point ​ I was playing around with my phone yesterday when my cat got its head stuck on the handle of a paper bag. He ran around the house sc...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not being there for my friend after the guy she loves jumped out of a car on the freeway", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not being there for my friend after the guy she loves jumped out of a car on the freeway?
First post ever so please forgive me if I'm not doing this right. My (21f) friend Sara (21f) tells me that she picked up Guy (fake name) and he then proceeded to jump out of her car on the freeway. He lived but was badly injured and she took him to the hospital. He was on a variety of drugs as the reason for doing what...
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{ "description": "not \"letting\" my brother get married before me", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 68 }
AITA for not "letting" my brother get married before me?
This happened a couple years ago but it's something that keeps coming up & causing me anxiety/discomfort. When my husband & I got engaged (it was like April), we had been dating for about 8 years & it was not a surprise to anyone that we were going to get married. We do the whole tell the parents thing &am...
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{ "AUTHOR": 51, "OTHER": 34, "EVERYBODY": 17, "NOBODY": 7, "INFO": 3 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 41, "WRONG": 68 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not spending more money on my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not spending more money on my girlfriend?
I have two girlfriends I care about very deeply. This is completely in the open and they know about each other - I’m not cheating or hiding it or anything like that. I’ve been dating Kayla for 10 months and Lauren for a year and a half. I’m 24, Kayla is 22, and Lauren is 23. Although I came from a lower-class family, ...
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{ "description": "telling people to stop trying to preach to me to be a Christian again", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told people to stop trying to preach to me to be a Christian again?
So I’m going to try and keep this short, TLDR at bottom, but I’m an LGBT person and Wiccan. I left the Christian faith after being kicked out of a church (and eventually getting my family kicked out) for being transgender. I am not open about this detail in my public life, but I am open that I do have a boyfriend, but ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "feeling hurt and betrayed when my girlfriend went on a date with another person", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling hurt and betrayed when my girlfriend went on a date with another person?
Sorry, this is going to be long. This happened earlier this year and we recently broke up. ​ When we were together, I was 24F and she was 19F. We'll call my partner 'Sarah' ​ I'm confused as to how I should feel about this. We had a rocky relationship. ​ It got to the point where ...
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{ "description": "missing plans with my roommate because I was at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for missing plans with my roommate because I was at work?
My roommate and I made plans to go out to dinner, and I told him Id probably be off work at around 7:30. At around 6:40, I called my roommate saying I wouldnt get off for another hour at the most and he didnt seem too happy. I finally got off at around 8 and received a text from my roommate saying “I can’t believe you”...
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{ "description": "telling a guy in the Navy that I don't want to go on a date anymore after getting to know him", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling a guy in the Navy that I don’t want to go on a date anymore after getting to know him?
So it’s literally only been 5 days since I was talking to this guy. In my opinion that isn’t even enough days to catch ‘hard feelings’. Keep in mind we have NEVER met either. He wanted our first date to be before he leaves for the navy. He’s in there for 5 years and already served one year. Today I REALLY thought abou...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "making inappropriate jokes about my own life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making inappropriate jokes about my own life
I literally have one friend (we’re both female mid 20s), we are usually super close but we hadn’t spoken for two weeks or so, we had a conversation about why we haven’t spoken for a while - we both hadn’t had the best of weeks. I have had a really bad week depression wise (said friend hasn’t spoken to me in a depress...
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{ "description": "turning the heating on despite my flatmate complaining", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for turning the heating on despite my flatmate complaining?
This is probably fairly mundane, but I'm really stumped as to whether I'm in the wrong here. A bit of background, first: I'm a second year university student living in a five bedroom house with four other flatmates, and we all get along reasonably well with each other. I have the ground floor bedroom, which is the larg...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "purposely avoiding my grandma", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for purposely avoiding my grandma?
!!! Before this begins I'm sorry for any grammar mistakes, english is not my first language !!! My dad's mom was my favorite grandma when I was a kid. I used to go to her house every single weekend because it was always fun and games and I loved it there. I loved her and saw her as an amazing grandma. That's until I g...
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{ "description": "charging to babysit my grandson", "pronormative_score": 90, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA I charge to babysit my grandson
Sorry it's so long. I've have a close, but often contentious relationship with my daughter. When she became a mom, I became a full time babysitter for my grandson. She has to be at work by 7am and lives 30 minutes from me so I have to get up by 445am. Thankfully it's usually only 3 days a week, and btw, I ABSOLUTELY A...
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{ "description": "getting pissed and honking at a cyclist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed and honking at a cyclist
A couple of days ago I was leaving my school with my and drove past my school where a lot of cyclists come onto the road. I had right of way, however I was very careful because a lot of cyclists don't know or ignore traffic rules and just think they have right of way because they're a cyclist (which frustrates me quite...
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{ "description": "trying to get my roommates emotional support dog removed", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to get my roommates emotional support dog removed?
I live in dorm style, on campus housing at a University with 3 other girls for 6 months now. It’s tight quarters, but things have generally been very chill and we’ve all become good friends. One roommate “M” has an emotional support dog who is two years old. The first week we moved in, the dog shit all over my rug an...
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{ "description": "moving out if my husband doesn't stop smoking", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for moving out if my husband doesn't stop smoking?
Married for four years but together for 12 and we have a young child together. A couple months ago my husband suddenly started smoking cigarettes again. I say again because he was a smoker when I met him 12 years ago but managed to hide it from me for almost the first entire year of dating -- I know, great way to start...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 10 }
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{ "description": "saying my husband absolutely can't get a motorcycle", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for saying my husband absolutely can't get a motorcycle?
Throwaway in case he sees this. He may anyways but I'll deal with that if it happens. Husband is 34, smartest guy I know academically but common sense challenged. He's a geologist for a major oil company and works very, very hard and makes a good living. But we have had to live in some real shit holes over the years (...
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{ "RIGHT": 15, "WRONG": 19 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for taking 6 hours to have dinner with friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for taking 6 hours to have dinner with friends?
This is currently happening and I’m still waiting for him to come back actually. I’m really upset and angry that my (19f) boyfriend (22m) went out for dinner with his mates tonight, no problem at all, he said he wouldn’t be long. Text me when he got to the restaurant was busy so he’d be back a little bit later than pl...
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{ "description": "hooking up with my ex's close friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if i hooked up with my ex’s close friend?
20/f. so my ex and i dated for three years. we broke up like 9 months ago. it was a very amicable/mutual breakup. it’s not that we didn’t love each other anymore, there was just a lot of differences we could never settle between us and we decided it was better to just end things. that being said, we didn’t speak to eac...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "getting pissed off about my new loud neighbours", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting pissed off about my new loud neighbours?
Hi, my first post on here but I've used Reddit lot before this, this is just a new account. Recently, my one of my neighbours (a quiet old lady) died and a new family moved in. For the first few days, they weren't actually living there (they were moving things in, but staying somewhere else) so things were quiet like u...
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{ "description": "not backing up in a dark parking lot", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not backing up in a dark parking lot?
This happened last night and it's still bothering me a little this morning, so y'all tell me if I was the asshole. Last night I went out to dinner. It was after dark by the time I was done and the parking lot for this restaurant is poorly lit and the lanes are only one car width wide. Basically, it's one way through t...
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{ "description": "running away from a guy trying to follow me and talk to me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for running away from a guy trying to follow me and talk to me?
(G,17) I was in comic book shop this evening with my friend and was talking about japanese mangas. In that moment we passed through this guy bit older than us who must have overheard us. Me and my friend splitted for a moment and this guy followed me around saying out loud names of manga comics, like he was looking for...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not showing up for work tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I didn't show up for work tomorrow?
I'm scheduled to work tomorrow morning. I'm a security guard at a mall in a really good part of town. Good coverage on a normal day is three people and we will have double that the next few weeks for no immediately discernible reason. This for shift is also an overtime shift, so I'd be getting paid time and a half. I'v...
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{ "description": "saying f you to my mom and hanging up during a fight when she was upset", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for saying f you to my mom and hanging up during a fight when she was upset?
Hi all, long time lurker without an account until now. About a month and a half ago, my mom (62F) and I (28F) had a \~2 hr long fight over the phone. It started with her accusing me of making up stories to try to make her look and feel bad---I showed her written and picture proof of the event I was talking about (I w...
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{ "description": "letting my friend get quarantine at my job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting my friend get quarantine at my job?
So I work as a bartender in a pretty busy bar. Our clientele is 25+,but since we are located in the suburbs, we get a lot of young guests on Friday and Saturday nights (in Denmark, it's legal if you're 18). We were out drinking on my day of, and my friend D was getting super drunk. He was really embarrassing the whole...
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{ "description": "yelling at a motoecicylist who cut me off to get in line to exit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for yelling at a motoecicylist who cut me off to get in line to exit
As I was exiting with my turn signal to get off the highway this motorcyclist swiped in without enough room and made me slam my brakes. I had the window down when this happened and yelled at him when he got next to me in the double lane exit ramp he just flipped me the bird and took off when the light is green sorry fo...
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "being busy and getting annoyed with my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being busy and getting annoyed with my friend
So this is a little complicated. I have a friend who I'm very close to, and we have dated on and off so it's still kinda Inbetween friends and more than friends. I'm 17, in college, and I'm generally fairly busy. I've known him since I was 13, so he knows me generally fairly well. Now I like double texts such as peopl...
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{ "description": "thinking he used me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking he used me?
Sorry for long story but I’m super emotional right now and not in the best mindset. I have been seeing this guy for the past couple of months. We’ve had sex (my first time) but we’ve never gone on any dates. I expressed that I wanted him to meet my father and he said he would. But every time I try to plan something f...
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{ "description": "cutting my cousin out of my life", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my cousin out of my life
I grew up being very close with my cousin. We spent every holiday together and made snow creatures every winter; one year he just stopped coming. We were young (hes a year older) but it still made me sad As we got older it got more awkward. Id try to talk to him but in middle school he was the cool kid, I was the emo ...
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{ "description": "checking games on the tv turned into getting kicked out of a friend's house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? Checking games on the tv turned into getting kicked out of a friend’s house.
So this happened about an hour ago so I’m still a little shocked, but ill try to explain in as much detail as I can. Tonight, I decided to drop in on some friends and they were watching some football. We ended up deciding to go to the bowling alley and we were out there for about an hour, had two beers and left. Ended ...
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{ "description": "forcing a free resize on a ring", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing a free resize on a ring?
Long story short, I got engaged. I told my S/O I wanted a particular style stone from a particular small jeweler I found on Etsy. Their reviews were great and I had good contact with the owner while trying to decide what I wanted. My S/O and I went to the jewelry store and got my ring size. Voila magic I’m done. ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed at my bf for treating my venting like an opening to a debate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting annoyed at my bf for treating my venting like an opening to a debate?
This is not a fundamental one, just something that I could use a level-headed perspective on. My bf and I listen to political podcasts frequently. Eventhough we agree on most big topics, there are some things we see differently and we have discussed them fiercely but lovingly in the past. He is a little more on the rig...
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{ "description": "getting with the girl my friend has had a crush on for a long time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting with the girl my friend has had a crush on for a long time?
My friend has had a crush on this girl for like 7 months or so and I've been talking to her like 3/4 months and she's dropping hints all the time but I'm scared to act because it would be disrespectful to my friend who has had a crush on her for a longer time. But the thing is; my other friends say that my chances with...
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{ "description": "cutting off a once close friend who basicslly forgot me while I was busy", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a once close friend who basicslly forgot me while I was busy?
So a little background info; I was dating this girl about a year back and we had a mutual friend whom she had introduced me to. This friend, let's call her Stephanie, was down with clinical depression and dropped out of school so she didn't have any friends except for the girl I was dating back then. However the girl a...
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{ "description": "pretending to love my bf for a year then dumped him", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA: I pretended to love my bf for a year then dumped him.
So I dated this guy for 2 years, we have some great times and he made me happy. But last year 2017 he went to America to work at a camp and when he was away he got drunk and made out with a girl. When he came back I found out, it really hurt me but I pretended to be fine. But I no longer trusted him and would get upset...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time in the presence of other girls", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time in the presence of other girls?
I know this isn’t a relationship sub, but I really need to know who is in the wrong here. Title sounds bad, but here’s some backstory. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship since freshman year of high school, and we are now both living together as adults in college. Throughout high school, he cheated on ...
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{ "description": "ghosting an old friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting an old friend?
10 years ago I was a freshman in college. I lived in a small dorm with about 40ish other freshman. We were all kinda friends and knew each other, and for most of the year all of us would host or show up at the same parties. After freshman year we all moved into other dorms, a lot of us transferred to other schools, and...
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{ "description": "not wanting a friend to travel with me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for not wanting a friend to travel with me?
So there’s always more to the story than the title implies. Here’s the gist: my friend and I are uni students who live on campus. I went to school far from home, so I’ll be flying back to campus. To get to campus from the airport, I’ll take an airport shuttle, which you book a ticket for by giving your flight informati...
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{ "description": "not apologizing to my girlfriend for misinterpreting her words", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not apologizing to my girlfriend for misinterpreting her words
My girlfriend and I seem to be at a cross roads with this and I am not sure if ITA or just losing my mind. First of I do not clam indemnity in any of this, I know I can and have misinterpreted what she has said to me in the past, however there are times like last night that I am not sure what I am to do. She will o...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my 'whole' break up in New York with family", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend my 'whole' break up in New York with family?
I'm a 25 male. Recently, this year, got my first full-time job and I moved out of my parents' into a house with a few friends. I have a long break(12 days or so) coming up in about a week. My mom asked me if I wanted to come with her to visit her family in New York but it would be for basically the majority of my br...
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{ "description": "telling my friend and her family to move out", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my friend and her family to move out?
So I have a situation, and I'm unsure if I'm the asshole here. Tl;dr: a friend of mine and her family live in my apartment-basement rent and utility-free, and are upset that I'm not paying for their vacation to Disney; expect me to pay for everything; am I the asshole for telling them it's time for them to go even th...
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AITA My friend ditched me to go hang with his gf, now I’m a little pissed at him and started being a d*** to him on sc
So I went over to his house for the afternoon. We had a generally good time. After a while he called his parents to ask if he could hang out with his gf, which I didn’t mind cause I thought she could’ve given me a ride back to my house. 10 minutes before my parents are going on a “date night” he said ‘oh sorry, guess...
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{ "description": "buying a second vehicle while my live-in girlfriend doesn't have one", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For buying a second vehicle while my live-in girlfriend doesn't have one?
Basically, I'm going to buy a second car (with cash) to play around with and am going to loan my daily driver to my live-in girlfriend while she saves up to buy herself a vehicle. She moved in after having to get rid of her vehicle because of it being a pos and not being able to make it from her place to mine (\~100 mi...
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{ "description": "not skipping a school activity to attend my friends 18th birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not skipping a school activity to attend my friends 18th birthday (debut)?
Okay, so the story goes like this. My friend and I have known each other since we were like 4 and have been close since then. She is going to have her debut in a few weeks but it is going to happen on the same day a school activity my grade and I have been preparing for a month or so now. When i told her this, she got ...
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{ "description": "cutting off my good friend of 3 years, who has admitted his romantic feelings for me, because I've started seeing someone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting off my good friend of 3 years, who has admitted his romantic feelings for me, because I’ve started seeing someone?
TLDR: I’m letting the behavior of a close friend who has unrequited feelings for me cause negativity in my life and potential future relationship. I want to burn the bridge. AITA? Backstory: “R” and I have been friends since 2015. We get along great and have similar personalities/moral compasses/interests and just gen...
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{ "description": "wanting my my flatmate to have his girlfriend round less", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting my my flatmate to have his girlfriend round less?
Context: I own a 2 bedroom flat and rent out a room to another guy (found him online), he's been living here for a year now. Overall he's a chilled person and I have no real issues with him. Recently his girlfriend has been over a lot. There was a point last month where she was round 9 days in a row. I said something...
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{ "description": "making my flatmate pay rent while she is overseas", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my flatmate pay rent while she is overseas?
My university friend and I have been living in a very nice apartment for the past 2 years, especially for 2 people who have recently graduated. This is because my grandparents own the apartment. However, I do not currently pay rent. The average flat costs in my city around $180-250 usually not including expenses or w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my housemate to come to my birthday celebrations", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my housemate to come to my birthday celebrations?
One of my housemates may or may not be joining me for my birthday celebrations. I'm having a night out with 5 of my friends from school. I do like the guy and we've become pretty good friends, but I don't want him to join for two reasons: ​ * I see the guy every day. My school friends I see only a couple o...
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{ "description": "limiting the time my children spend around their toxic maternal grandmother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for limiting the time my children spend around their toxic maternal grandmother?
My MIL has always belittled my wife. For example, my wife only recently obtained her drivers license with my help. She had never obtained it before due to everytime shed talk about it, her mother would make comments like "I dont know why you want your license, you'll probably just get in a wreck." When she wanted to g...
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{ "description": "not talking to someone who led me on for almost 8 years, but told me was pregnant", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to someone who led me on for almost 8 years, but told me was pregnant.
This girl I've been friends with for about 14 years has been occasionally leading me on. I told her how I felt about her and she will randomly tell me the same or we will kiss or whatever. We don't really want to date right now, but I feel this weird borderline relationship type deal. After finding out she's pregnant, ...
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{ "description": "telling the girl Im not sexually attracted to her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told the girl Im not sexually attracted to her (details)
I have this girl currently who treats me amazing, and it is a nice change of pace from my last gf. And so it really makes me want to stick around, but she just isn't "doing it" for me. We've had convos multiple times before but we always wind up back together because we click mostly. But I am not sexually attracted to...
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{ "description": "telling my mother I can't handle her when she's off her meds", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mother I can't handle her when she's off her meds
My mother came to visit for Christmas and we generally have a good relationship, I'm only 19 so we're still pretty close as I haven't been living alone for many years. My mother is bipolar. She takes pills for adhd and depression. When she's on the pills she's one of the best people I know, when she's not I can hardly ...
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{ "description": "telling my sister she shouldn't have told me a family secret", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my sister she shouldn’t have told me a family secret?
My sister recently went on a “ladies trip” with our stepmother, aunt, and a few close family friends. Apparently she found out some pretty juicy gossip on this trip whic our stepmother explicitly told her not to tell anyone (I know this bc she made a comment to my sister about not telling anyone in front of the whole f...
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{ "description": "not tipping my hairdresser", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not tipping my hairdresser?
Okay so let me start this off by saying I have never gotten my hair done ever. I know tipping is expected and I already had a $20 in my purse for the tip (and I had extra money just in case). My appointment was set at 3:15 and I got there at 3. My hairdresser greeted me shorty and was super friendly. I told her that I ...
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