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"description": "not wanting to get back with my ex",
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} | AITA for not wanting to get back with my ex | She says that she broke up because the more she likes someone the more anxious she gets, and she wanted a break for a few weeks to get over the anxiousness but she never told me. I thought communication was key!? Now she’s all crying and acting depressed | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not calling my uncle, because the only thing that he does is whine",
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} | AITA for not calling my uncle, because the only thing that he does is whine? | He is in his 70s. Just whines how life sucks, how government is shit, how his car is piece of garbage that he cant sell.... only whining. He doesnt talk about anything else. So I stopped calling him. Maybe once a month to check if he is alive and fine, and after 5 minutes I regret calling.
Oh yeah, he has another reas... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not visiting my grandfather or bringing my two-year-old to see him",
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} | AITA for not visiting my grandfather or bringing my two-year-old to see him | My grandfather still lives at home and is self-sufficient, although he is getting on in years.
I'm currently pregnant, and I have terrible morning sickness. I'm constantly sick and exhausted. I'm avoiding everyone who I don't want to disclose my pregnancy to because I don't think I can hide it without making up an exc... | HISTORICAL | {
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2TH3TGqKqsfYOE06dJQiJYgJJUJlae6L | alld9k | {
"description": "talking back to my parents because they wouldn't let me go on my nightly runs",
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} | AITA for talking back to my parents because they wouldn’t let me go on my nightly runs? |
SOME BACKSTORY: Some things you should know about me, I’m a 17 yr old high school student. I just got my sisters car at the beginning of the school year. I have a somewhat overprotective mom, and a good dad who is a bit bipolar. Anyways, my parents went away on a trip for two weeks, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "thinking that it was wrong of my sister to tell me she bought a vibrator",
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} | AITA for thinking that it was wrong of my sister to tell me she bought a vibrator? | Okay, I know this sounds weird, and not really "fitting" for the sub, but it's been haunting me all day.
​
My sister (20) and I (Male, 18) live together with our (extremely christian) family because college is expensive, and apartments are too. We're kinda close, I guess, in that weird sibling friendship w... | HISTORICAL | {
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wsPx5QrcVnQ65136r1ALRvpShmcXLNBp | awn66c | {
"description": "breaking up with my gf over a 3 hour drive",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my gf over a 3 hour drive? | Gf got a job offer. The problem is it’s in the city. A 3 hour drive away. She didn’t want to break up and is fighting for us. I just don’t want to be that far from a partner. The idea that I have to drive 3 hours just to see her sounds ridiculous to me. She doesn’t drive so we can’t even do a half way thing.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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n112NqzYCeRkyUN8iogVaelSB2APbBUw | awmo8z | {
"description": "ghosting a friend who took me too literally",
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} | AITA for ghosting a friend who took me too literally? | TW: Miscarraige.
I recently went through a terrible miscarriage, far into my pregnancy. When I found out I lost the baby, I had to tell friends since they knew I was pregnant. I texted what had happened and said “I don’t want to talk about it” since I didn’t want everyone calling me and making me say awful things o... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "calling strangers fat in response to them calling me skinny",
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} | AITA for calling strangers fat in response to them calling me skinny? | I’ll keep this short. I’m an extremely underweight female of about average height, I’ve struggled with gaining weight my whole life and have tried almost everything to do so and absolutely nothing has worked for me. At 25 I am finally coming to terms with my weight and am not so aggressively disgusted with my appearanc... | HISTORICAL | {
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csaZ8mAOGLBFROcwrUwVND5MKz8N55wA | b6lgse | {
"description": "saying that my parents should have gotten divorced",
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} | AITA for saying that my parents should have gotten divorced? | My parents had a horribly toxic relationship when I was a kid. Most of my childhood memories involve my parents getting into screaming matches every single night—to the point where I developed a routine on what to do when they fought. I have vivid memories of being 4/5/6 years old waking up to my parents screaming at a... | HISTORICAL | {
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4zUgIQIuNgdd44wAMk9XgOMo2S84mvZw | b8czen | {
"description": "making friendly insults towards my dog",
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} | AITA for making friendly insults towards my dog? | So my grandmother does this thing that really rustles my jimmies. I have a very close relationship with my dog; he's a 3 year old Chug (Pug/Chihuahua). I love him very much and he basically clings to me like I'm life support; but the poor little buddy is UGLY in the most adorable way possible. Due to this unfortu... | HISTORICAL | {
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2O8mREK5OEc4A3EbNExku272CxjgVSiU | azuaku | {
"description": "breaking up my long distance relationship",
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} | AITA for breaking up my long distance relationship | So I've been together with my ex for 1.5 years on a long distance relationship. It was never easy, since we were both pretty inexperienced with relationships and it being long distance definitely didn't help. We met every 1-2 months and it was more than perfect whenever we met and most of the rest of the time also. Thi... | HISTORICAL | {
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sATcjZrjXjGb9aGYp7uOpLeKRkMXKdSY | b61rkm | {
"description": "not wanting my Best Friend date a guy I hate",
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} | AITA For not wanting my Best Friend date a guy I hate. | My best friend, (let’s call him Jerry,) and I have been friends since the beginning of High School we’re in our mid twenties now. Jerry really doesn’t have a good record for dating good people for him. I don’t like to sugar coat things to him. If I feel like something is off towards someone he likes, I let him know, th... | HISTORICAL | {
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gWKpMVNj5PdFtErJWDSA6P6YLtTdABV7 | a8nft7 | {
"description": "not wanting to eat christmas dinner at 2",
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} | AITA for not wanting to eat christmas dinner at 2? | As tradition, my Grandma hosts christmas for the entire extended family and dinner. One of my family members has recently passed but the entire point of eating that early was for him as he didn’t want to stay late or drive at night. Now this wouldn’t be a huge issue if we lived an hour away like everyone else but we li... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
h2VHTDJ6nZh6L3TUQenaGLVkYihQArAI | ak02z6 | {
"description": "inviting my ex'a mother for a brunch",
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} | AITA for inviting my ex’a mother for a brunch? | Over an year ago my most significant (ex)boyfriend and I broke up. Nothing really traumatic, yet we don’t talk to each other and we both moved on on our own ways.
I posted on facebook about people sharing their first memory they had with me, and his mother said “Good memories of a time now passed. 💕” (copied and paste... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
mXGZ2n0kOfsGS7vLdb4jYAfgS8MyIFwq | almh4q | {
"description": "using a shared dinner table as a computer desk",
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} | AITA for using a shared dinner table as a computer desk. | My room is very small, not very much room to hold a desk. I play my computer games in the shared common space on the dining room table that i payed half for. I am here often, on my computer for sometimes 9 to 10 hours if it is my off day. My roomate told me I should get a desk, but that's easier for him to say since hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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ws17maL4kLytgmY2Xzb58jS7qXa2XJfM | b1irla | null | AITA shower extractor bothers my neighbor | Some context - I moved into a new flat a few months ago. A couple days later I meet my neighbour whilst outside in my garden whilst smoking, they come out, interrogate me as to what I'm doing and once I explain that I live here and I'm not up to no good they calm down a little. Next meeting they repeatedly knock on my ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
IrlYcQ2Hix1c3nsa5kJ3HDfzk44K4yZM | a4lwgi | {
"description": "calling my ex a desperate measure",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for calling my ex a desperate measure | I'll keep this short, mostly because I don't entirely remember what happened at the event.
​
Whilst at my friend's party, I stumbled upon my ex. I had been drinking all night and we were mostly having fun. After a while, me and some friends, including my ex, were sat around chatting. As I said, I don't r... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 7
} | WRONG |
BiVeIyIGeIFnBZhKHpJvCQZ8w9hyuygd | 9yq2ri | {
"description": "deleting a friend off fb",
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} | AITA For deleting a friend off fb? | I work in retail, after a long day of dealing with people I just don't feel up to talking to anyone. I need solitude so I can get my energy back.
I had a friend who was older than me, we've known each other for a long time because we went to the same high school, but I recently deleted him from fb.
We were getting a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
y0gkMSecKrFCT8GimHnBYP7qFdDRpvhb | 9tclze | null | AITA in the way I am currently dealing with my SO and a former sexual abuse | I'm not getting graphic here but I marked it NSFW just in case. Consider this a trigger warning if you have any issues.
Here is the story:
I've been with my SO for 5 years. We had a 4 month period where we were completely broken up about 2 years ago. I have a group of close-knit friends I've been with for over a dec... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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} | RIGHT |
rL8K6IkwsK7D4dZ9UrwPDT2dX0H96DiG | asujoz | {
"description": "going postal on my neighbor over Girl Scout cookies",
"pronormative_score": 58,
"contranormative_score": 9
} | WIBTA if I go postal on my neighbor over Girl Scout cookies? | Quick background: Husband, toddler and I recently moved to a very WASPY suburb. We live in a neighborhood that is essentially an enlarged cul-de-sac. So when the weather is decent, we will come into contact with our neighbors a lot.
Now, to the not-so-quick WIBTA issue at hand.
A neighbor (who I have yet to meet in p... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 54,
"EVERYBODY": 5,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 58,
"WRONG": 9
} | RIGHT |
qm33MMg1sLWhLI06B7IGVA5QxLXd6rcK | akvz70 | {
"description": "not needing help",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Not Needing Help? | Sorry if the title is a little weird, I couldn't think of a better way to word it. Also apologies for formatting, I'm on mobile. Tl;dr at the end.
So I have a human anatomy course currently and the teacher is just amazing. I love her to death, she's quirky and funny and she does a really good job teaching what she te... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
609JrBY6Jnb0rcEW03tbmD9G3kcuiCtu | a4xbmd | {
"description": "a friend failing a test",
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} | AITA for a friend failing a test? | So we were both having our speaking test for French and the way the order goes is that the first person is picked randomly then chooses next person
So me and my friend, KT, both have barely studied for this test and my other friend, CJ, who got picked before me hasn’t studied and picked me to cuck me.
Luckily i have... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
XGvx20WFQXXaLttnjszKgTXw9a1OK104 | arlk60 | {
"description": "wanting to divorce my transgender wife",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for wanting to divorce my transgender wife (I’m a lesbian)? [Update] | Original post over [here](https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/araeds/aita_for_wanting_to_divorce_my_transgender_wife_i/)
Firstly, I want to thank all of you who gave your opinions and advice. After reading some of the comments, I realised that I have left this situation for way too l... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
W3p2mVpa8eDjmtDVDfMYPA3Il9fOcHYK | axpinm | {
"description": "trying to get my gf to eat normal",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for trying to get my gf to eat normal? | Throwaway for reasons,
My girlfriend doesn't have the best relationship with food. Shes either eating nothing all day and "fasting" or eating the whole damn fridge. She used to be kind of bigger, which I didn't mind, and now she's in the normal bmi category but she is still saying she's trying to loose weight.
It's c... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 2
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
SnTkd0Ce5CsDPiqopxrjZujAPPJEvcby | b8duyx | {
"description": "leaving my parents shortly after turning 21",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA If i left my parents shortly after turning 21? | so, right of the bat, i have European immigrant parents (serbian), and honestly i hate living with my family. my dad is probe tip getting mad, havibg a short temper, and generally thinking that he is right and because i am his child, i owe my sanity to him. my mother on the other hand, knows all of this and she really ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
XR3sXWy4aqAb5RRgKdCPXyftmTDNP30E | b7j78v | {
"description": "not being into my gfs sexual fantasies even though I used to be",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not being into my gfs sexual fantasies even though I used to be? | My GF and I have been together 9 years we mine as well be married. At the beginning of our relationship we were both into voyeurism type stuff mostly just fucking in front of other people. We live in NYC and there are some pretty cool clubs that we joined where you can do this stuff it's kind of like Eyes Wide Shut exc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Sqsdw9teOj3o4wqNKHjbzjJ2uPDCTSVj | a8eu11 | {
"description": "telling my housemates to pay to keep a tv that my so and I had to replace",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | WIBTA if I told my housemates to pay to keep a TV that my SO and I had to replace? | My SO and I are both 20, and I live in a house with 3 other people who are 19-21. My housemates and I are part of the same social club in college and my SO hangs out there a lot because they like my housemates company. The house that we live in was passed down through the club, so the living room, dining room, kitchen,... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 6
} | WRONG |
TdzN5hSl5ewMWUTUeFkWjcA2v6mDhgXC | a1mxtx | {
"description": "wanting my sister to change her baby's name",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 58
} | AITA for wanting my sister to change her baby's name? | I had a very traumatic experience when I was young witnessing a pet die. Years later, my sister gives that pet's name to her daughter. She says she doesn't remember the pet.
By now the baby is almost a year old but she still wouldn't remember a name from this period. Is it wrong to want her to change baby's name? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 58
} | WRONG |
PJ7R3zy54MkdKlYFp1ELwLpsPDL6y3Sp | b07fz6 | {
"description": "excluding my friend",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for excluding my friend? | I’m getting married in a few months, a small destination wedding on a beautiful island. We booked a large Airbnb for the wedding party and some of our guests.
Back when we booked it one of my bridesmaids told me she couldn’t afford a week at the Airbnb on top of the flight, after discussing it with my fiancé we decided... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 18,
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} | RIGHT |
KCzyJ05g6WuB5KOT9V1YRrrD9ZJS6XXY | axhza7 | {
"description": "going to the cottage with the Boys instead of seeing a Baseball Game with the GF",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For Going To The Cottage With The Boys Instead Of Seeing A Baseball Game With The GF? | This scenario dates back from the previous summer but it's still been in the back of my mind because it seems like this was the turning point in our relationship where things got worse and eventually led to us breaking up.
My GF is a big baseball fan and during the baseball season we'd usually go to a baseball game ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
gASQehlejAQbw20Me9LIK8byBiKogl0F | acrhrz | {
"description": "not wanting to continue working as a part-time tutor after being offered a full-time job",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting to continue working as a part-time tutor after being offered a full-time job? | I'm a recent grad and had been on the job hunt for the past 6 months. So, I picked up some part-time gigs, one of which was with a small, independent tutor center.
Since I got hired there, I have functioned as a multi-subject tutor, teaching whatever they asked me to, with a specialty in math and science for all grad... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
1EniYXrjB8zQXFu1cpeTvW5yWffZNOgX | 9zqyo8 | {
"description": "not assuming secrecy about my sister's job offer",
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} | AITA for not assuming secrecy about my sister's job offer? | My sister was offered a job and told me about it. A friend asked how my sister was doing when we were at a party with some of his co-workers and I told them about the job offer. My friend and my sister both work in marketing and we live in a fairly small town, so they have a lot of common acquaintances.
My friend's b... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
6XV124s8H6AEcK8AH8hTfbFGVSuKiiYZ | am8w6f | {
"description": "telling friend he has to get out of my place",
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} | AITA for telling friend he has to get out of my place | I have known this friend for 20 years - I believe he is schizophrenic which he refuses to accept - claims he works for the CIA and at the same time tells me the NSA is torturing him with "electromagnetic brainwaves" - while I am at work he goes on walks and then, when I get home from work, tells me people were surveill... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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iXXkTcAcS9GeKtd0Lzkzd6vDRaN4GoxD | afgkkz | null | AITA for my feelings about my father being in the hospital? | My mum died of cancer a few years ago. She suffered so, but continued to smoke until the day she died (colon cancer so likely related). My father has been grieving for years, rightly so because they were so in love. But hes been a smoker for decades. Hes tried quitting numerous times over the years, but never made it m... | HISTORICAL | {
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qVcY0OoG36kRzc5kCcchjQfXCkRG86lj | 9xlj4d | {
"description": "responding to a guy older than me",
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} | AITA for responding to a guy older than me | I live in a muslim household every week the tutor comes to my house last time he came he started insulting me because i couldn't recite it to him well and this isn't the first time every time he comes he makes fun at me and leaves my brother this last time he started to get angry at me so talked back to him. The conver... | HISTORICAL | {
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EH2e1wjvV9E5YYLA5vW10n1vL7DCAoZ7 | aoirfp | {
"description": "ending it with a girl who didn't find me attractive",
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} | AITA for ending it with a girl who didn’t find me attractive? | Been close friends with this girl for a while now. I think she’s perfect in every way, but didn’t really see her as a girl I could date.
Fast forward to last weekend, I invited her out to a club and we were dancing and making out all night. The day after she says she wants to try dating and I reluctantly agree. I figu... | HISTORICAL | {
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o6del7i1gMlrCkzJ2SyDYRBUvhj9YY3v | anpug1 | {
"description": "not wanting to move out with a friend",
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} | AITA for not wanting to move out with a friend? | Am I the asshole for not wanting to move out with a friend?
I’m a male 24 year old, she is 22. Her and I are extremely close with each other, where we would have some boundary issues and really only have one another to chat and hang out with. She really doesn’t have any friends, and mentions that I’m her closest frien... | HISTORICAL | {
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Iten09xW2DbrPHoIJKa4PrwnTzfjGlFJ | ak4gu6 | {
"description": "getting mad the my mom opened a credit card in my name without telling me",
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} | AITA for getting mad the my mom opened a credit card in my name without telling me? | So about a year ago I was going abroad for a period of time. On the day I was leaving my mom gave me a credit card in my name to use as an emergency. This bothers me because it means she had to use my identity to open the card in my name. This means she gave them my Social number and name, etc. She did not inform me th... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZzsECyY0hnqJ0pjsnP83ljMP0YfSqdfm | akzv72 | {
"description": "insisting on my ex to move out by the end of the month regardless of his financial and home situation",
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} | AITA if I insist on my ex to move out by the end of the month regardless of his financial and home situation? | English isn't my native language so bear with me.
What I mean is not the part about moving out, but more specifically me standing my ground and insisting on one specific date that I'm not willing to add more days to. Which is the end of february aka the 28th of feburary to be specific.
**The moment we broke up (17t... | HISTORICAL | {
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wXaW1VzLRqeImTvrn3xd8WiyVbRcKfj1 | avve8w | {
"description": "not constantly telling a group member to do their work",
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} | AITA for not constantly telling a group member to do their work? | I've been in a group at school since the beginning of the Spring semester. Other than one girl (GIRL A), my group is the absolute worst. We had a huge part of our assignment due this past week. For weeks now I've been telling them that we need to get this done and work together. There's two huge components that I felt... | HISTORICAL | {
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8JLAUbOKr1LUBfOvu7aEThchm8pFZ8tD | azwir7 | {
"description": "cutting out two of my bestfriends after they dont show up to my father's funeral",
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} | AITA for cutting out two of my bestfriends after they dont show up to my father's funeral | First time posting on reddit btw
My father ended up getting very sick from cancer and passed within 3 months of finding out. I told my 2 bestfriends (I have known them since middle school) first before anyone else knew, because I trusted them and I wanted them to be there for me.
During that time I didnt get many t... | HISTORICAL | {
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IAzjCnW5UTcznvMPkPcdup28Cbuplpxq | a3rge6 | {
"description": "putting my ex's dog down and not telling him about it",
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} | WIBTA If I put my ex's dog down and didn't tell him about it? | Let's start with the dog. His name is Scooter and he has arthritis and bad legs. We have been through a lot together and I'm not ready for him to cross the rainbow bridge just yet. I just need to have a plan in place for when he does need to go the big farm in the sky. He spent most of his life with my ex and his famil... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Rs7ACrNrn3BtSxJvjL54R6nHYWqCokT5 | agpay4 | {
"description": "selling a second hand computer to someone who though they could get it work but now cant and wants their money back",
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} | AITA for selling a second hand computer to someone who though they could get it work but now cant and wants their money back | So a few days ago I sold an old Computer as I upgraded about a year ago. Before it went I restored the HD to remove any old data.
For those of you not familiar with a Mac when it reboots (me a until a few days ago) you need an apple ID to reinstall the OSX after wiping the drive.
The guy had already agreed to buy t... | HISTORICAL | {
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MrXl39qBYUP7wFlwlKU1FlEXlhHgrn5z | b8lg8r | {
"description": "asking for an apology here",
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} | AITA for asking for an apology here? | A friend of mine recently made a mildly rude joke at my girlfriend's expense via discord. She didn't see it, but it was still a bit of a dick move. It wouldn't have been that bad if it wasn't for the fact that this friend has made jokes like this about my family and previous girlfriends before, despite me expressing ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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Xu5nPutgBApeUwGWbCiTawG4Hoih9PJy | aab03e | {
"description": "denying this guy that needs a job, so that another guy that's a little bit worse can keep his",
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} | WIBTA if I denied this guy that needs a job, so that another guy that's a little bit worse can keep his? | To start, I'm an 18 year old security supervisor. The site that I manage isnt difficult and is very laid back. The only people that work security here are me and one other person, who I manage.
The other security guy i used to work with recently got fired. His replacement was an older guy (late 60s) that I'm going to ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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UnifTz0hlW81SDFqPq0r1LyjAzGZi8c1 | ai1a34 | null | AITA for want my co-worker with mental disabilities to get demoted? | I know, what a clickbaity title.
So I'm gonna start out by saying that I made a post here recently about an issue I had previously at work. This one is a separate issue, but at the same workplace. I honestly just want some opinions and advice on how to handle this.
Just to start off, I work in a kitchen as a Line Coo... | HISTORICAL | {
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OQx99XcxFBsNMYeInLF8jWMfu3XeJMx9 | av0sjc | {
"description": "cutting ties with my friend for feeling like he used me",
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} | AITA for cutting ties with my friend for feeling like he used me? | This happened last year, in December, but I haven't stopped questioning my decision since it happened. I had been friends with this guy for about 4 years. We met in high school and had been close ever since. He moved about 5 hrs away to go to university where I stayed in our town to do community college. At the start o... | HISTORICAL | {
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2b1Qh68nHee8PcXtP3YyQsHB66pC3596 | az921n | null | AITA friend gets me rejected, i get him dumped | Friend - friend (duh)
Elisha - friends girlfriend
Molly - my crush
Hayden - me
ok so this story takes place about a week ago, so, my friend and his gf were having a secret relationship and only i knew, he also said that she said that they would break up if more than me found out, and one day i decided to tell him w... | HISTORICAL | {
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mAMzotIV07lhp6EuIf5vRXn2dyZevq2N | as41ut | {
"description": "wanting my cat back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting my cat back? | So I recently (within a month) ended things with my ex and moved out of our shared apartment, taking my cat with me. We originally got my cat (1Y/O) to be company to my ex's cat (3Y/O) but it was always clear that she was MY cat. Out of kindness after the breakup I agreed to let my ex have her one week out of the month... | HISTORICAL | {
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9dIWTAnKLmfSCDPUR13fhOuAja6qyXTJ | b9vofx | {
"description": "asking my maid of honor to start taking care of herself more",
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} | WIBTA if I (f20) asked my maid of honor (f19) to start taking care of herself more? | Okay reddit, I'm at the end of my rope. I've shopped and shopped for bridesmaids outfits with both my MOH and bridesmaid, and my MOH says no to almost everything. I think this is because she feels self conscious of her weight and has no money.
I've been best friends with both these girls for years. My MOH used to be s... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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hLz8mKJofzi2SKTtG6g6WLiBvX8Zj48d | ardpue | {
"description": "not wanting to have contact with my parents any further",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not wanting to have contact with my parents any further? | Without going into the world's most convoluted family history, at Thanksgiving this past year my father (60s) got drunk and groped me (his 36 year old daughter). I have a 10 year old girl and an 11 year old step daughter as well as a son who is 14. He also acted very inappropriately with the girl children.
My mother,... | HISTORICAL | {
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tXpegme6hzHkx0neKnk1Has7IyqqrwUF | b6qeyy | {
"description": "not telling my boyfriend when I would be home",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not telling my (29f) boyfriend (36m) when I would be home? | Apologies in advance for formatting, I'm on mobile.
I organised a charity quiz for my work colleagues that happened tonight. My bf text me around 7.30 asking if I needed a ride home. I said no thanks, I'd make my own way home when I was done as I wasn't sure what time the quiz would finish.
We raised over $400 at the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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WHNzPFoWSFGxlsCVo3YYL3T6z3ckCUDz | ahwwfg | {
"description": "purposely failing to get a scholarship in a city my mom wanted to live in",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for purposely failing to get a scholarship in a city my mom wanted to live in? | So here's the full thing: i was 13 and there was this great school in this way bigger city, my hometown is a calm place with nearly no problems and people i have known for years, it also has some good schools but not as good as the big city ones.
my mom wanted me to get a scholarship in the great school because she w... | HISTORICAL | {
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kIFXU16oKvgg6bSu0ZSVODEJmaxufbqA | a7nlem | {
"description": "reporting someone who faked their address to get into a different public school",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for reporting someone who faked their address to get into a different public school? | I live in a city and my kids go the public school in our neighborhood, it’s a good school and we like it, but like all big city public school systems there can be issues etc. Friends of ours applied for seats there in the summer because it’s in their zone too, got seats, but then decided at the last minute that the sc... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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EVVwSSv3gMTR3D6oRN1hKlxO6I4gi4CB | b0j4z0 | {
"description": "leaving a mean comment on a former friend's social media",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for leaving a mean comment on a former friend's social media | I am in college but I work at a restaurant in my hometown over the summer with three other people I went to high school with. We'll call them Alex, Hayden and Taylor (not real names).
A little background. In high school, Taylor was my best friend. We did absolutely everything together. But towards the beginning of las... | HISTORICAL | {
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hFpecUBUTwN68MWVD1kHE81Y3Cb3zLeK | aiulb8 | {
"description": "not paying for my girlfriend's dinner",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not paying for my girlfriend’s dinner? | I had been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. We both earn a good income. She called me at work and wanted to see if I could have dinner with her and her BFF. I agreed and when I arrived, they had already eaten and had had two drinks. I ordered for me and also ate. When the check arrived, she expected me to pay. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Pk3jE4v0CiW4aptttSYpQ1ylOcQLq2OE | b72njj | {
"description": "kissing a guy when the guy who likes me was there",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for kissing a guy when the guy who likes me was there | I'm in college and was at a closed event for my sorority and one of the fraternities. We were playing dumb truth or dare type games and someone dared me to kiss one of the guys. Of the guys, there were two that I knew well:
1) This guy and I have known each other since move in day. He's a fine person, but I am not eve... | HISTORICAL | {
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SSDM1RdB2wXfwy680zVD36eNAwiK7HQQ | az94al | {
"description": "flying cross country with three kids",
"pronormative_score": 25,
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} | AITA for flying cross country with three kids | I have three kids, one is 4 and two are almost 2. My 4 year old is fine on planes but the younger ones hate takeoff and landing.
My husband is currently working almost all the way across the country, and I take my kids to see him whenever I can. Of course, it’s easier for everyone when he comes to us and that’s what w... | HISTORICAL | {
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dUfmc9M4kRuKqFB7RpDCqjnk7y4fBanH | 9w8z55 | {
"description": "not wanting my so visiting me at work multiple times per week",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not wanting my SO visiting me at work multiple times per week? | I have a fairly rocky relationship with my SO, we hastily and stupidly bought a house together, but I moved out due to many reasons. I'm planning on coming back full time, but for now I spend 3, sometimes 4 nights per week there.
I work in a local cafe that is a short walk from our house and he stops by more ofte... | HISTORICAL | {
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SRfwteqSSqfbSDN82jEx4t3VG72EBLAP | b7ckth | {
"description": "going to the police",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if i went to the police | So, me and DJ moved in together as best friends. Somewhere along the line he stops liking me but gives no indicators. One day we were planning a business together, the next day he told me to move out because I got the wrong off brand coffee before I could get up to the store.
He admitted he hated me, and told me he n... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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mhdy708kL4o2A5JoSitr7aVCC89TkNra | asen3k | {
"description": "wanting my gf to stop being a cam girl",
"pronormative_score": 29,
"contranormative_score": 54
} | AITA for wanting my (36M) GF (26F) to stop being a cam girl? | First of all, sorry for the formatting. I’m on mobile, and feeling pretty upset.
So I started seeing my current GF 2 months ago. She’s an amazing woman, gorgeous and incredibly funny and talented. We get along really well and I honestly think I could marry this girl one day.
Problem is. She is a cam girl. She claims... | HISTORICAL | {
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ilfTTDAr4jFOYBeW1CCq4YRByQb2doqr | ajors8 | {
"description": "not being romantic enough for my boyfriend (ex boyfriend now) even though he knew it since day1",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not being romantic enough for my boyfriend (ex boyfriend now) even though he knew it since day1 | We were friends at first. I really likes everything about him .I tried to do stuff that I'm usually not comfortable with just to make him more comfortable with me. The first weeks were amazing. But somehow he started to transforming to this obsessed jealous guy that I couldn't even talk about male friends in front of h... | HISTORICAL | {
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J9jk35a29YD8bis3M1g5uKokXImzZvHA | b6c6jg | {
"description": "thinking it's weird that an 8th grader is dating a 6th grader",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for thinking it’s weird that an 8th grader is dating a 6th grader? | An 8th grade guy is dating a 6th guy guy at my school, and while I don’t care that it’s two guys dating, I think the age gap is weird, especially since we’re in middle school.
I mentioned this to a friend of mine and she seemed offended (although she’s not friends with either of the guys) and she said to mind my own b... | HISTORICAL | {
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EBphsEFGjBIBST7QkAfAQQMb318wcJvj | an17b5 | {
"description": "not considering my husband's opinion in choosing the hospital to have our daughter at",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not considering my husband's opinion in choosing the hospital to have our daughter at? | I'm 36 weeks pregnant with a little girl. There have been some pretty major complications with this pregnancy that were discovered around week 30. She's small for her age and, the most serious one, I have an umbilical cord aneurysm. The small size could have been due to a chromosome disorder, but thankfully it wasn't. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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UGPaSsBxVuEdt0L0Jr0iuqh6vkJtNK7c | aa9hsn | {
"description": "not wanting my in laws to stay with us for my daughter's birthday",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not wanting my in laws to stay with us for my daughter's birthday? | Some backstory...
My husband's mom and step dad live out of state and frequently (99% of their visits) stay with us. I have never said no when asked. I don't like when they stay, I feel like I have no privacy, they never let me know when they are coming or going and I can't feel like myself or even comfortable in my o... | HISTORICAL | {
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iOYOyX4kFonhbM0yyI5iOhpzLeb1CsZ9 | adxxds | {
"description": "humiliating this choir because of posts they made about me on social media",
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"contranormative_score": 7
} | WIBTA if I humiliated this choir because of posts they made about me on social media? | Some time ago, this choir made some rude posts about me on social media. These posts were all things that weren't true and they were things that I would never do. They made me look like a hypocrite.
They were in need of a fifth voice for their performance. of Mozart's "Leck Mich im Arsch". A friend of mine told them t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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jkXoHYOLh6GkjmSpdSXPnm0LoSKwMn4c | as99pm | {
"description": "reporting a family member in multiple games and hoping they get (permanently)banned",
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} | AITA for reporting a family member in multiple games and hoping they get (permanently)banned? | (Idk if many people here are gamers so I'll to keep the gamer lingo down a bit and make it easy to understand for all.)
Slightly long so get ready.
So my brother and I are both pretty hefty gamers. We both spend a good chunk of our days playing games for both fun and competition. Now my brother doesn't consider himse... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "taking bets at a wedding as to what year the couple would divorce",
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} | AITA for taking bets at a wedding as to what year the couple would divorce? (not as bad as it sounds...I hope!) | This happened over the weekend and I feel pretty bad about how it went down, but my intentions were honorable here. I was the Best Man at my pal's wedding.
I got the idea to start up a bet and collect a pool from other people attending the wedding. The basic idea is that participants guess a year in which the couple ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yaq6KChn9fTvnWpP6lb66is3b9jF2sfU | b9fuiv | null | AITA Friend throwing cheese on infants face for FB likes | My friend has a 3-month old. She posted a video of her and her husband throwing a slice of cheese onto the babie's face and leaving it to watch him squirm. All the other comments are laughing emojis and gifs, but I can tell that he's not enjoying himself. He looks away from the mom with a distressed look, but obviously... | HISTORICAL | {
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5EFV6o1ACNhi0bqStfus9jUQGBQypKdk | b9zsf2 | {
"description": "asking my aunt/dad/sister to turn down the tv",
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} | AITA for asking my aunt/dad/sister to turn down the TV | For spring break I'm staying at my aunt and uncles, and I sleep in the office, which doesn't have a door and is connected to the living room. At around 11 PM I was trying to sleep and the TV was really loud, so I asked them to turn down the volume, they said no. I tried some more convincing and just decided to ask if I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting 2 years to myself before I make a career decision of whether I want to get into our family business or not",
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} | AITA for wanting 2 years to myself before i make a career decision of whether i wanna get into our family business or not? | I (F22), just graduated college and took a gap year cuz of reasons I'm gonna enlist below.
So pausing for a minute to give a family BG. I am the youngest out of 5 sisters. So around 4 years ago, around this time, all of my sisters either got married or got incredible career offers and moved away from our not so big, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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S3lBtfUI5G7DERThikE0Go1yizMP4GyB | b6rtgu | {
"description": "wanting my co-worker to pay me back",
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} | AITA for wanting my co-worker to pay me back? | I have break the same time as another co-worker. A couple of days ago, while I was getting ready to go out, she mentioned how she was starving, but she didn't bring any money with her, and therefore wouldn't be able to each lunch. I asked her if she wanted come with me, and I would just pay for her meal (I feel it woul... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z6mn4nGzIjyo4L18lQs6O7LPAuYabpFo | b2lv01 | {
"description": "asking my boyfriend to skip Mother's Day to attend my graduation",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my boyfriend to skip Mother’s Day to attend my graduation? | So to start off, we are a gay couple of almost 2 years. We are both Mexican-American. I have been so blessed to have a family who not only accepts me for who I am, but also welcomes him with open arms. He isn’t so fortunate.
In hispanic culture, homosexuality is not the most popular thing, and his parents are also ver... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "making sarcastic or passive aggressive comments to my boyfriend regarding the way he treats me",
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} | AITA for making sarcastic or passive aggressive comments to my boyfriend regarding the way he treats me? | This is mostly sex based, and probably childish also, but he always seems to think I'm picking on him and I suppose in a way I am but I don't know if it's wrong of me because he won't listen when I try to bring up the real issue.
He essentially treats me like an object. Constantly making comments about how I'm "so hor... | HISTORICAL | {
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Xw9xcKz9AzUAyXk4m03ohjFlMgG54Acd | aka4c1 | {
"description": "saying \"I love you\" to a friend and not to my boyfriend",
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} | AITA for saying “I love you” to a friend and not to my boyfriend? | I have a friend on Xbox that I’ve been talking to for 3, maybe 4 years now. He’s always been there for me, and I’ve been there for him. Him and I have a close friendship, but no romantic feelings for each other.
Just tonight, my xbox friend said, “I love you. Have a goodnight!” I replied back, “I love you, too. You h... | HISTORICAL | {
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udRSYJhcg3rszVlI0okQnlWP3fCSjYjf | apyt7i | {
"description": "not wanting to go out",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go out? | I like being alone. Don't get me wrong, I like going out without my friends, but I prefer spending time just by myself. My friends are cool with that, but my parents can't understand that. They keep telling me to go out with my friends od socialize in general, even though I don't feel like it. Am I the asshole because ... | HISTORICAL | {
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FV3xcnWZOFJ7aIXZGdvvb4b0EVug7r3F | azcuyp | {
"description": "accidentally outing someone to their friends",
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} | AITA for accidentally outing someone to their friends? | Just want to start off by saying this happened over a year ago so the exact details of how this went down are hazy. Also forgive my formatting, I’m on mobile. TLDR at bottom
So this all happened during my freshman year at college. It all started when I used a hookup app on either the first or second day I had gotten t... | HISTORICAL | {
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XOxY3gbKO0vKHLxB3dbYxqnUgxYrxgeo | apt5b0 | {
"description": "not caring about my community",
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} | AITA for not caring about my community? | I’m FTM and if you’re trans, you know what this is about. I just don’t wanna be ”a trans guy”, I’ve never gone to a pride and I never will. I feel, or at least the community makes me feel, that I should be more active in LGBTQ stuff and be more thankful for the work in equality that others have done before me.
I just ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jO2GVHBVpMULxI8Y6hMHbzgSWz1DjiDw | aeg8lt | {
"description": "telling my husband I don't want him to have contact with a \"friend\" he was in love with a long time ago",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | WIBTA if I told my husband I don't want him to have contact with a "friend" he was in love with a long time ago | So this will be long. I posted parts of this over time in advice subs but now I’m at a point where I need to find out if I WIBTA. I'm marking as NSFW, but admittedly I don't think it's too bad.
I posted this first part elsewhere originally asking whether I should be worried or not. I’ll try to do the abridged version ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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TyMDCAYwUb4kKT1I7C67k8NdwuIkRgUW | amask4 | {
"description": "waking my roommates up to pay rent",
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} | AITA for waking my roommates up to pay rent | It's the first of the month. My landlord is texting me because I haven't sent him rent. It's due at midnight. I've been waiting all day for my roommates to send it. I was away at work. I just tried texting them and no response. They both work early in the morning so I think they are already asleep. I'm planning o... | HISTORICAL | {
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o2kYVGCo6vtfaxE4KQGRA9kPnwpgxtPd | aebfa1 | null | WIBTA if my friends and I set up an intervention for another friend that has become *too* religious? | So in my friend group is John, Joe, and May. Joe and John are roommates, and May goes to a different university (she spends a good amount of weekends at our college town though).
Because of my involvement in different organizations, I haven't had the chance to have a regular talk with John in a while. So one night, I ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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BlTWVFPvMfu8A3Z9pwnIOcyPZWnpBehl | a1ncbn | {
"description": "going over to my parents house while my in-laws came over",
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} | AITA- For going over to my parents house while my in-laws came over? | This happened just a little before thanks-giving. My GF is from out of town and moved here for work. We currently live together in an apartment that's just a little over 700sqft.
Her parents were planning on coming to visit her for her birthday/early Thanksgiving since we wouldn't be able to go to theirs out of state. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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56u8Rn1IvAvi9lddIVciuvBKzGSMrSJF | asfd12 | {
"description": "cutting my friend with poor mental health out of my life",
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} | AITA for cutting my friend with poor mental health out of my life? | I've been friends with Tim for 20 years. We grew up together and have always been best friends. We went to different colleges and during that time he was diagnosed with depression and bipolar. I stuck with him, helped as much as possible. During this time he would have meltdowns and run away from campus, destroy his ro... | HISTORICAL | {
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iV3oUta5sMsMNbUjKr0ACtd4FnPousxv | b7r2bz | {
"description": "wanting my boyfriend to cut ties with his best friend",
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} | AITA-Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to cut ties with his best friend? | I know it sounds bad, but I have my reasons! My boyfriend (m 21) of 6 months and his best friend (let’s call him H- m 21) are really close. They have known each other since they were kids and their friendship has always been closer then the average friendship. They hang out all the time and can be very touchy-feely. Th... | HISTORICAL | {
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JzLPMhr5m8BY0nP2BwiTZAThuDeoQIom | 9z6ehy | {
"description": "burying my neighbors driver's side door in snow",
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} | WIBTA if I bury my neighbors driver's side door in snow. | I live in a townhouse and my immediate neighbors have three cars but only two driveway spots. In the winter (Nov 15 - April 1) we have street parking restriction where you cannot leave your vehicle on the street between the hours of 2am - 6am due to street ploughing. They have neglected this rule and done just that on ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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xYeauSolV3qRbx3XtQ5SOMJ9MFCL5ru4 | b2nq6e | {
"description": "telling my asian female co-worker that I'm not really that attracted to asian women",
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} | AITA for telling my Asian female co-worker that I’m not really that attracted to Asian women? | I am an early 30’s, married, Caucasian male. I work with a 30ish, engaged, Asian female. We started working at our current job at the same time, are work buddies, and I think we’re relatively close as far as co-workers go. We’ve hung out outside of work a few times, met each others significant others, and talk about ou... | HISTORICAL | {
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hGU6T5udpmXR8kyPSWLy8JX8Gx9eNa5r | 9wncxx | {
"description": "refusing to serve a customer during the minutes silence for remembrance day",
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} | AITA for refusing to serve a customer during the minutes silence for remembrance day? | So I got called into my managers office today for a serious sit down about my "customer service skills". Which was interesting enough. But then I found out exactly what the "incident was".
3 days ago was remembrance day and at 11am we observe a minute silence for those who have passed. Seems like a simple enough conce... | HISTORICAL | {
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aDqYZtygovtazqBzgNxrofYbgjoFKa9w | ady0xw | {
"description": "dropping this friend over winter break",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for dropping this friend over winter break? | going to try and make this quick
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i met this friend (I'll call him R) through my friend/roommate/teammate during college. me and the original friend drifted apart and we don't talk anymore, but R and I continued to hang out a little. In the beginning he was fine, a loud person and kind of immature. I had... | HISTORICAL | {
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dAihcgt7ADS9jTV28P7n9CQk1D7FECYD | arp3w9 | {
"description": "refusing to see my brother's baby",
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} | AITA for refusing to see my brother's baby? [UPDATE] | Original post here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/al7ftg/aita_for_refusing_to_see_my_brothers_baby/?utm_source=reddit-android
Hi everyone,
So my post really opened my eyes to a lot of things. I tend to be a very stubborn, protective sister and I was realizing I was letting this get in the way of m... | HISTORICAL | {
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ENQMcnjFgL70YjU3vmf0tae5UkihInB0 | a1lcwo | {
"description": "asking for a refund when the seller needed the money",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for asking for a refund when the seller needed the money? | I purchased a good/service from a person online in June via Paypal, and at the time they told me it would take a while and I understood and asked them to let me know when they were getting close to doing so and to update me. Months go by passively until I notice they deleted their social media accounts that I was commu... | HISTORICAL | {
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nGwhsqX0PHTq4IQAQDO6VjitjBHji3QJ | 9zwavk | {
"description": "going in a men's single-occupancy bathroom when a girl was waiting",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for going in a men’s single-occupancy bathroom when a girl was waiting? | Couldn’t figure out a good way to write the title, but let me explain. I was at a restaurant with two bathrooms: one for men and one for women. They were both the type of bathroom that only has one toilet and is meant for one person at a time. Anyway, both bathrooms were occupied and one girl was waiting to go (I’m a g... | HISTORICAL | {
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RAQaMpdjE84S2SL2VyADrfyGDE95xfYQ | aix3ty | {
"description": "creating boundaries between my little brother and I",
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} | AITA for creating boundaries between my little brother and I? | TLDR at the bottom;
​
First post here!
​
My brother and I basically grew up together (my parents split up so I had to babysit him a lot as a kid). When we were growing up, my mom essentially had us share everything together from rooms, toys, books etc. Now as an 8 year old kid, that ticked me... | HISTORICAL | {
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9z1456KoVn155DE3EvI4W9n0vrwyAu6t | abkzdh | {
"description": "backing out of being in someone's wedding party",
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} | AITA For backing out of being in someone's wedding party? | So a couple of really good friends got engaged recently. I was asked to be one of the groomsmen, and I happily agreed. However that happiness as waned of late.
As they have been planning the wedding, I've noticed that the cost has been spiraling out of control, a cost that I doubt they are able to afford. Now that usu... | HISTORICAL | {
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QybIYdt5ZWJkOnnCKLRrS5p3q6SjCjX9 | ah5ifa | {
"description": "being miffed at my friend for not showing up on time",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being miffed at my friend for not showing up on time? | This kid, let's call him Joe, agrees to play video games with me at 3:20. Joe and I get home from school at around 3:00. Then, right on 3:20 I send him a message asking if he's ready to play.
I wait until 3:25, with no response. So I decide to go and play a different game by myself. Half and hour later, I check my mes... | HISTORICAL | {
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2DY77IITEInrLAOFTPuNgIMyUPy19GyZ | a6tehl | {
"description": "accidentally punching a gay person",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for accidentally punching a gay person? | At school last week a gay person (who I have never had a problem with)in my school who has been bullied quite a bit was having an argument with someone who was calling him a degenerate. They got into a physical confrontation and the gay person hit me by accident (I don't like being touched).
Reacting instinctively, I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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RovMUMKUuVtdlJjJSXxoKES6ruxd7WZs | abw6dm | {
"description": "telling my wife's family that they're cutting into my time with her",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling my wife’s family that they’re cutting into my time with her? | A little background: I work for my mother and father-in-law. I live with them 700 miles away from my wife(married 3 years) while I finish college (I stopped going for a while and finally decided to finish). They run their own business and therefore it needs to be open almost all business days except major holidays. Dur... | HISTORICAL | {
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ky5MVMVg8Zo4yyl87itfoXHkSfh9TPqO | 9z5x2m | {
"description": "calling out a trans person on being overly sensitive",
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} | AITA for calling out a trans person on being overly sensitive? | I've known this guy (now a girl) for about 15 years. He/she has always been a strange person, but seems to have over the last year or two developed some really strange narcissistic/paranoid type behaviors. For example, she is utterly convinced that Lady Gaga is cyberstalking her to steal her "art" (she cuts the heads o... | HISTORICAL | {
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LAnSa91dB6B5rG5H5xuFl7FpuBdITAoL | aem1zd | {
"description": "not letting my so of 6+ years have a mini-affair with a girl who works for him",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for not letting my SO of 6+ years have a mini-affair with a girl who works for him? | I'm sorry, guys, I don't think there's a tl;dr for this one. Basically, he willing set up a handful of mfm threesomes about 4-5 years ago; our initial plan for equal fun was to also find an fmf threesome, and we've failed. They don't call them unicorns for no reason.
So, his current expectation is that logically, he's... | HISTORICAL | {
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HolxI5Mtr9rm6SBBBg7jCzbKqkitEQ7x | aiufv3 | {
"description": "wanting to ditch someone I have considered a good friend for 15 years",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for wanting to ditch someone I have considered a good friend for 15 years | I have a friend that has stood by me for 15 years and, more recently, has called me his "brother" after having moved in with him after ending an 8 year relationship. All too often little things I ask seem to be major inconveniences to him, and I'm sick of being treated as though I'm just here to make him look like some... | HISTORICAL | {
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1RsMYBaqLo6FrKqGsJDo6PXPcTHixAFp | b6nlep | {
"description": "going through my wife's phone",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for going through my wife's phone? |
We've been married for three years, dated for another three before that.
A year before our marriage, she broke things off with me and admitted she had a thing for a friend. We talked things out, fast-forward and we're happily married.
Three years into our marriage, she joins an art group online. So far so good, sh... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 3,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
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