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{ "description": "lying to my dad", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for lying to my dad?
So I’m 14 male autistic and work, and my dad is crazy alt right, divorced from my mom.I have made it clear that I do NOT want a girlfriend or boyfriend or get married. My dad chalks it up to me being fat (I’m 215 lb so I am) and “giving up”. He continues to violate that and keeps trying to get me in a relationship. Now...
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{ "description": "using someone who was using me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using someone who was using me?
So rewind back to senior year of high school, there was this SUUPPER fine ass girl (let's call her gisele) who was a junior and I was trying to get with (I would have been down to either date her or smash). So she was single and quite the party girl, and one of her friends was this huge ass dude (call him Dave), who al...
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{ "description": "walking out on a date because she lied to me about having a kid", "pronormative_score": 202, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for walking out on a date because she lied to me about having a kid?
I met this woman Sarah on a dating app a month ago. On my profile I specifically state that I don't want to date anyone with kids. On Sarah's profile there is no reference to her having any children. Sarah and I have gone out 4 times and had our 5th date a few nights ago. Things were great. We have a lot in common...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to work more around the apt", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my gf to work more around the apt?
Gf and I just moved in together in February. It’s been a learning experience for both of us. She doesn’t know how to cook and I took two years of culinary arts so I do all the cooking. Even meal prep our lunches for work. I’m also particular about how I like the dishes washed from working in restaurants so I take...
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AITA introversion or just being a cunt?
So I'm a very anti-social person, but don't get me wrong, I love to chat with the right people. But I find myself being very mentally exhausted from listening to people talk when I don't want to talk. I don't want to be rude & say 'I don't feel like talking right now' or something like that. If I let people cont...
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{ "description": "asking someone to let me in the dog park without my ID", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking someone to let me in the dog park without my ID?
In my town we have a really nice dog park that requires the dog owner pay an annual $400 fee plus provide records that our dog(s) are up-to-date on shots and the like. For the past 4 years I have been a regular at this park, always paying my dues and having the appropriate records on file. So yesterday I put my two d...
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{ "description": "kicking a kid out of his birthday party", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking a kid out of his birthday party?
I work at a laser tag arena as a rule enforcer and often have to remove people from games for breaking the rules. In this particular instance the person removed was there celebrating his birthday. We have 5 simple rules that we require people to follow; no climbing, no running, no physical contact, hold the laser gun ...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay friends with someone who fancies me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to stay friends with someone who fancies me
Dating new lass but prior to this an old female pal broke up with her bf and I was her shoulder to cry on. I invited her to my family meetup, we would be sharing a tent for the night. Fast forward, I'm dating the new lass and the family meetup approaches, new lass unhappy with the tent arrangement. I break it off a...
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AITA? Gf's 'friend' suggests that she should leave me, due to her thinking it's stockholm syndrome. (bad title please read post)
TD:DR read girlfriend's friends dm, about some issue we had, she said that this is 'just like her ex' and from everything she told her, its stockholm syndrome and she needs to end this relationship ​ (16 M btw) (something to note is we both have each others accounts) Also I'll call the friend T, and my gf G. ...
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{ "description": "putting my foot down on my wife's ordering out", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 256 }
AITA for putting my foot down on my wife’s ordering out?
Wife says she’s too tired dealing with the tykes during the day to cook anything. I’ve tried helping out, but the most I know how to make is some hamburger helper. And even that’s usually under cooked. I’m just not good in the kitchen. My wife keeps ordering out. Like almost everyday. It’s already here when I ge...
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AITA if when someone asks for something specific to be put on Netflix, and I have the remote, I pass the remote to them and expect them put it on?
These events took place around a week ago, so the details in this story are blurry and me and my housemate, Darren, couldn’t agree for certain what happened. Two of my housemates and I were sat in our living mindlessly watching something on freeview television. One of them, Darren, suggests that either we watch someth...
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{ "description": "misunderstanding my partner and I's breakup", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for misunderstanding my partner and I's breakup
Me and my ex-partner had a relationship for nearly 6 years, being engaged for two of them. My partner suffers from problems such as social anxiety, depression and attempted suicide, however through the high's and low's we were completely committed to being with each other. This Halloween, my partner asks for us to spli...
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{ "description": "not wanting to to do job description, and not be used as a translator", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to to do job description, and not be used as a translator?
Hi all, looking for input on a work situation which is making me frustrated, but nobody else at the organisation thinks is a big deal. I work for a combined education centre and museum in a country where English is not the first language but is mandatory in schools, and as we have many international groups visiting a ...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to end her friendship because of extreme political beliefs", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my Girlfriend to end her friendship because of extreme political beliefs?
I have Taiwanese ancestry, and am currently living in the west doing my Masters. My girlfriend is friends with another student from the same university, who comes from China. We got along fine, until we were all sitting together eating lunch and one of her friends asked her what she thinks about the conflict, to which ...
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{ "description": "asking my mom why she lets her in-laws stay with her given recent family drama", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mom why she lets her in-laws stay with her given recent family drama?
Generic mobile apology, etc etc My mom has been visiting my family for the last couple of days. While she's been here, she's been complaining about my dad's family. Recently, my dad's mother passed away and my aunt and her family have laid claim to everything she owned--her house, her possessions, etc. My mom is mad b...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother smoke weed with me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother smoke weed with me
I recently just got a dap pen and everything has been going fine, over the summer I tried to get my brother to smoke with me, and he almost did, and now my younger brother (7th grade so hes 13) also knows that I smoke and has been asking me to let him smoke. I havent because my older brother said he would never smoke w...
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{ "description": "refusing to date someone of the same ethnic background as my ex", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to date someone of the same ethnic background as my ex?
Just some background on my past relationship— I was in a year-long relationship with a Filipino guy during college. He was very much a mama’s boy, and his mother was extremely jealous of any time he and I spent together. She also got pissed at him for spending $40 on my birthday gift— she thought he should be spending ...
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{ "description": "not sharing school project", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing school project?
AITA for not sharing school project? I am on my junior year of bachelor of architecture. I have one close friend in my class and we are giving High-Rise Buildings course together but he is not interested with it at all. This course has no exam but three projects and professor has matched students at first project so m...
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{ "description": "wanting to have my graduation party 3 weeks before my sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 188, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to have my graduation party 3 weeks before my sister's wedding?
I (27) will be graduating with my PhD in May. I want to have an afternoon family BBQ at a local park three weekends before my sister's wedding this summer to celebrate, especially since only my parents can attend the actual ceremony due to ticket limits. ​ I told my sister (24) yesterday and she's absolut...
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{ "description": "not getting my sister a burger at the canteen", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not getting my sister a burger at the canteen
My sister is currently in university and I am in high school and she came down for the week since she had to drop off her dog because she is travelling to see her boyfriend in a different state. She dropped me off sometimes and she cooked just about every night and one day she asked if I could get her a burger from th...
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{ "description": "refusing to ignore the world's problems", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA if I refuse to ignore the world's problems
People in my life are starting to see me as a depressing as*hole by pointing out issues in topics. All I want is for people to be more aware of these issues like Amazon's greed and horrendous working conditions or how "you have to suffer for fashion" makes no f*cking sense Should I STFU?
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{ "description": "telling him that I like the sex we have without all the toys, restraints and additional partners? sexual abuse trigger", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling him that I like the sex we have without all the toys, restraints and additional partners? Sexual abuse trigger
First post: feel free to ask for more info if needed. We have been together since we were 18 and 20. Regarding sexual partners, He doesnt keep count but it is significantly more than my partners. I can count the partners I have had on one hand. The penetration is what I have to feel safe about and that is rare with s...
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{ "description": "having an issue with my girlfriends piercing dream job", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for having an issue with my girlfriends piercing dream job?
This situation has be resolved, I’m just more or less curious as to what the internet might think. I’ve been with my girlfriend for over two years, and while we have our troubles, the relationship has been phenomenal. We usually go about fights by talking through them and we try to understand each other. It’s importan...
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{ "description": "confronting my friends about what happened to our plans to move in together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I confronted my friends about what happened to our plans to move in together?
Me [19F] and 2 of my friends [19F and 20M; in a relationship] live in NorCal and were all planning to save money and move to SoCal together. 20M already has a place down there and the plan was for the three of us to find a 2-bed together once his lease expires in about 5 months. we had been talking about it for months ...
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{ "description": "just wanting to look at funny shit on Reddit and not be bummed out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Because I just want to look at funny shit on Reddit and not be bummed out?
So me and a friend both just found out about Stan Lee's death and honesty we're both fans of the guy and everything he's done and we obviously agree it's sad he passed. 95 is good fuckin going but still. I said to my mate *"Looks like I'll have to add a filter for "Stan Lee" for a few days now."* and he gave me this l...
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{ "description": "ending a relationship via, you guessed it, text message", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for ending a relationship via, you guessed it, text message?
Well, I tried to be concise but failed. Here's my short story about the first time I've broken up with someone and the resulting potential assholery. ​ I've been seeing this guy for just under two months. This is the longest I've ever dated someone because I'm in my early 20s and working through some of my...
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{ "description": "getting tired of taking care of my wife", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Getting Tired of Taking Care of my Wife (Despite not complaining)
So I am trying to word this carefully, as the initial title is going to make most people automatically assume I am an asshole. So before judging please read the full amount. So my wife is 7 months pregnant, and she basically has not had a fun time (obviously being pregnant). So i've taken over I would say 99.9% of the...
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{ "description": "retaliating against my noisy neighbors", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For retaliating against my noisy neighbors?
Im (M27) and have lived in the same apartment for 5 years. I’ve been married for two years. My previous upstairs neighbors were great and I never heard them. In fact if I didn’t occasionally see them I would have assumed the upstairs unit was vacant. 7 months ago however we got new neighbors up there. It’s a single mom...
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{ "description": "I got marrying in the venue my best having to cancel because her fiancé cheated and called the wedding off", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I got married in the venue my best friend had to cancel because her fiancé cheated and called the wedding off?
Some context. My childhood best friend was in a relationship for over a decade and was getting married later on in the year. I was her maid of honour and helped her pick this stunning venue which was local, affordable and just all around beautiful. Me and my SO were actually talking about booking the place for our wed...
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{ "description": "not wanting to walk at my college graduation", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to walk at my college graduation?
I hated going to my high school graduation and would not have attended if I didn't have to give a speech. Now, my parents know that I am not intending to go to my college graduation and are trying to pressure me into going because of family and the fact that this would be the first one that they go to (I am the first p...
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{ "description": "not returning a store key until I receive my paycheck", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not returning a store key until I receive my paycheck?
Hi, I'm going to make this as short as I can. I worked at a very small retail company for one day. After my first shift, I missed a call from my manager (was busy with a family emergency) and she immediately cancelled all my future shifts via the When I Work app. I messaged her as soon as I saw the schedule change and ...
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{ "description": "being suspicious about a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being suspicious about a friend
Right at the start of 2019 I met someone at a new job well call Shelly after about a month of dates we got together and im extremely happy because I’ve been in a emotional draught for years now (I wasn’t the most good looking guy in HS) everything is great except one thing. A friend, who I’ll call Mac is a long time fr...
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{ "description": "wanting an item of inheritance", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting an item of inheritance?
This is a 2-part: and also not understanding my fiancee's point of view on it? A relative passed recently who was a hoarder and she had tons of items she purchased, some of which she never opened. As with hoarding there were bug droppings in some things - for context - but for practically this fact never came up in o...
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AITA: Slow paying a slow payer
A friend of mine is notoriously bad at paying out his losing bets and I've had to "chase" him for months several times to close his bets with me (a few hundred bucks and he can definitely afford it). Finally, pay back presents itself. He's the banker and co-organizer for a bachelor party we are organizing for a commo...
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{ "description": "not being sad about my brother's death", "pronormative_score": 109, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not being sad about my brother's death?
I never knew him. I wasn't born when he died. He died as an infant and as expected my mother is always torn up about it around his birthday and when he passed. Now I feel for my mom, and I'm there for her, but she gets really upset with me for jot being upset that he isn't alive cause he's family. I just find it hard t...
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AITA Peope Accuse Me of Being a Homophobe because I Don't Like My Asshole Gay Brother.
My slightly older gay brother is an asshole. He was the first openly gay kid in our High School. He moved away but is still Facebook friends with the whole town. He is alot of people's token gay. Anyway he is a shit bag of a person. Generally mean, narcissistic, virtue signalling, hypocritical, arrogant, and a snob. So...
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{ "description": "exposing the Mormon church for the fraud it is to my entirely-mormon family", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA If I expose the Mormon church for the fraud it is to my entirely-mormon family?
disclaimer: if you are a Mormon reading this, I genuinely mean no disrespect towards you in any way shape or form and would actually reccomend to stop reading now. without going into too much detail, there is something called the CES letter that essentially proves that Joseph Smith was a complete fraud in 15+ differe...
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{ "description": "confronting boyfriend for texting other girl while we're out together", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: Confronting boyfriend for texting other girl while we’re out together
This is a throwaway account. I [24F] just got back from a two week long trip to visit my long distance boyfriend [26M]. This is the second time this year we’ve seen each other and I was really excited to be able to see him again. A thing is that I know he has this friend (who lives in another country pretty far from...
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{ "description": "telling my parents to not be so controlling over wedding plans", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents to not be so controlling over wedding plans?
Bit of background, me and my fiancé are only 19 but have been dating for over two years. We’re also religious which isn’t the reason for this but is necessary for the story. My parents are paying for most of the wedding (They’re well off) and me and my fiancé are paying for the rest (I have savings she doesn’t really b...
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{ "description": "calling someone in game babe", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someone in game babe?
I've been dating my Girlfriend now almost 3 months now, and I think she's amazing. We meet on New Years and we just clicked so quickly it was awesome. We like a lot of the same games, and actually played alot of COD together on PC. During those sessions, she would know how I would be accused of hacking since I would al...
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{ "description": "not meeting with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not meeting with my friend
BACKGROUND INFORMATION: I live 5 minute walk from both of the people in my story. I had plans with my Dexter, which didn't have a time set in stone. He told me he would let me know when he got back from some errands and we would meet up then. He gave me an approximate time of when he would be back, and it was 30 minu...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to a friend who is causing themselves harm since it's too painful to watch", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to a friend who is causing themselves harm since it's too painful to watch?
A close friend of mine, we'll call her Y, that I've known for many years (since we were in our mid-teens and we're both in our twenties now), she is polyamorous and has been seeing a guy for around a year now, let's call him A. A is married. His wife is fully aware of what's going on. For the record, A is in his mid th...
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{ "description": "taking my Niece's Keychain", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for Taking My Niece's Keychain?
I've been staying with my older sister and her family. My car key (single) gets lost often. It just disappears. The young kids take it and leave it somewhere by accident. I don't have any keychains and I can't get one. My time outside of work is limited since I work long hours and bc I'm a busy person. For info, my...
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{ "description": "not asserting myself/alerting my bf when men are being creeps", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not asserting myself/alerting my BF when men are being creeps.
Last weekend my partner and I costumed up and attended renfest with some friends. A female friend and I stepped to the side to take some pictures at a photo op station in the ‘tavern’. A presumably drunk male came up and was hovering around me while I was trying to arrange my skirt and boots talking about how he was ge...
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{ "description": "correcting my friend's grammar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for correcting my friend’s grammar?
I recently made a post about my recent arguments with my “best friend.” We has another argument today. This one started with an argument about playing Minecraft, then it switched to her saying I acted like I was perfect and that I was always right. So, it started out with her accusing me of not wanting to be her friend...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my gf because she doesn't know my friends and family", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for wanting to break up with my gf because she doesn't know my friends and family?
This is a long post and sadly basically a TL;DR version of what happened, so I apologize for that. Me and my gf have been dating for three years now. We are both about to graduate and we live quite far from eachother but still fairly close (30min bus drive). After 3 years of our relationship I know each of ger frien...
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{ "description": "sending faculty members a glitter bomb", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I sent faculty members a glitter bomb?
LTL, first post, yadda yadda yadda. Apologies for typos, I'm so angry that my hands are actually shaking. A note: The faculty members I'm talking about are not ones at my own school. One of my best friends is disabled, and goes to a boarding school that is horribly inaccomadating. For clarification, she's not majorl...
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{ "description": "accepting a job then changing my availability", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA For accepting a job then changing my availability?
So I just started a job delivering pizzas for a pretty popular Pizza Chain last week. So far I really like it, and the tip money is better than I expected it. When I interviewed, they asked about my availability and what type of hours I was looking for. I told the GM that I was looking for somewhere between 35-40 hou...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my bi gf about lgbt rights", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for disagreeing with my bi gf about LGBT rights?
Before you get your pitchforks and tiki torches, please hear me out. Yesterday there was a vote in our parliament about making gay marriages possible, I am all for it. I generally support gay community and think that such law wouldn't hurt anyone. My girlfriend of 9 months is bisexual and I'm one of like 3 people she f...
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{ "description": "telling my new boyfriend that I hate his music taste", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my new boyfriend that I hate his music taste?
Throwaway for personal reasons. My boyfriend [25M] and I [24F] have been together for a few months. It's been going well, but one thing I absolutely can't stand is his taste in music. He really likes bands that are loud and annoying as shit and every time we're in his car I offer to take the aux cable but he declines....
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{ "description": "wanting to ask my mom not to bring her bf to my place", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA? I want to ask my mom not to bring her bf to my place.
So, I recently moved into my own place from my mom's. She asked to come visit, and that's okay, but I'd like to ask her not to bring her boyfriend. He's a nice guy and all, but she acts like a totally different person when she's around him... meaner actually (to me). It's the 'I don't need you now that I have a bf ment...
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{ "description": "throwing my step-moms work clothes in the garage", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for throwing my step-moms work clothes in the garage?
I'm a teenager and I would like to know how I should feel about what I did. Although, I've already decided I was a bit childish. Story: I live with my father, step-mom, younger step-brother, and five year old nephew. Over the years of my father and step-mom being together I have received ...
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{ "description": "banning a special needs adult from my Meetup group", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I ban a special needs adult from my Meetup group?
So yes, based on the title, it feels like I'm an asshole. But I want some outside opinions. I'm going to try to keep certain details vague so that it doesn't give away too much information. ​ I organize an LGBTQ+ social group on Meetup. Its been running for almost 5 years now, and it is my baby. It has...
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AITA or is my son overreacting for me taking a new woman on a cruise for thanksgiving?
I am a 66 year old widower recently retired. My son is 33 and lives 7 hours away. Some backstory. Sorry if this seems disjointed My son was spoiled by his mother who gave him everything he ever wanted as she believed she was unable to have a child for well over a decade. He was her only son. I was largely absent due t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to host everyone for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to host everyone for Christmas
So I'm Jewish, my wife is Catholic. Christmas isn't a holiday that means a whole lot to me but my wife and I have been hosting her immediate family (12 people total when you include SOs) for the past few years, and it's more or less been fine. I've never been into hosting people in general, but it's something my wife w...
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{ "description": "being angry at how I was treated", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at how I was treated?
First the backstory. Everyone involved with this story is over 20 years old. I work with a girl and her mother. Until today I had assumed we were friends. We usually talked in the mornings before work started. Today me and her was sitting in the break room talking and this nosy old harmless man was looking at us. I tol...
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{ "description": "telling my friend about my depression", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend about my depression?
I have (had?) this friend. She's a little older than I am so I always kind of looked up to her. She was like the cool older sister I never had. I finally decided to open up about my depression to her and did not get the response I thought I would. She seemed really angry, like she was yelling at me and belittling my pr...
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{ "description": "being rude and ignoring my autistic possibly trans stalker", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being rude and ignoring my autistic possibly trans stalker.
Ok so just so you know this all happened in middle school and I have felt remorse. I heard from her friends how it impacted her and I feel so bad. I’m now in high school but from November in 7th grade to May in eight I knew this girl. Let’s call her “tia”. So tia was very obviously autistic. She was sweet but very n...
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{ "description": "screaming at my little brother in the middle of a restaurant because I didn't appreciate he and his friends chanting \"this is MAGA country!\"", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for screaming at my little brother in the middle of a restaurant because I didn’t appreciate he and his friends chanting “this is MAGA country!”
I’m not even sure where to begin here. Today at lunch I was out with a friend. It just so happened that my little brother was at the same restaurant (I’m 26, he’s 17 for reference) with a group of his friends. My brother is not a Trump supporter persay but he loves being a jerk to people and where we live outside Por...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for talking about her ex boyfriend's huge penis", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend for talking about her ex boyfriend's huge penis?
Some back story: Me (27M) and my girlfriend (24F) have been exclusive for only about 4 months now. She's an exchange student, and she spent her first year on campus living in the house of a woman in her 40s that hosts many exchange students. My girlfriend became close to her host, so she frequently visits her house to ...
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{ "description": "changing my mind on purchasing a project car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for changing my mind on purchasing a project car?
A good friend and I recently went to a drifting event to see what it was all about... and we got hooked; we wanted to get a project car to drift. Unfortunately, the issue is we are both still college students, meaning that we are POOR (and unemployed). But, recently my friend got a large sum of cash as a gift and I ha...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my mom for her blunt reaction on dementia", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset at my mom for her blunt reaction on dementia?
Hi there! An hour ago my mom and I had a slight argument. All is well now, but I still feel like shit for making her cry, even though I still don't fully understand why she was mad at me. So Reddit, am I the asshole here? Today I went for dinner at my dad's (my parents are divorced and have a very bad relationship rig...
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{ "description": "telling a trans girl she will always biologically be male", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling a trans girl she will always biologically be male?
About two years ago, one of my close friends, Emma, came out as trans. I've been absolutely nothing but supportive by calling her by her chosen name and her new pronouns. I've never had an issue with her being transgender, she's still the same person to me. ​ We both love debating so we are part of the de...
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{ "description": "leaving my girlfriend at a party alone", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my girlfriend at a party alone ?
So last night I was with my girlfriend at a Spanish night full of people from Latin America and I was one of the 2 people who aren’t Latin American or Spanish speaking. During that event I was left alone most of the time, my girlfriend was talking with all of her Latino friends and when I was with her everyone was talk...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend of 8 years that something happened in my past", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my girlfriend of 8 years that something happened in my past.
I've never actually talked to anyone about this having happened to me, and I never want to be associated with it so... Throwaway account. ​ When I was young, about 6 or 7, I lived in a small village. There was another boy in this village who was about 15 or 16 and he was my "friend". Alot of us playing tog...
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{ "description": "avoiding a (Difficult) Lifelong Friend moving to my city", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Avoiding a (Difficult) Lifelong Friend Moving to My City?
My friend and I have known each other since 7th grade. We’ve been through a lot together and have generally been pretty supportive of one another through some difficult times. She has been through a series of short-lived jobs and experimented with some different careers. Though I feel we do our best to support one anot...
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AITA after my friend flew home early from our vacation?
*NB: This happened in 2016 but its always in the back of my mind, but when I found out about this subreddit I thought I’d post to get some non-biased feedback. Sorry for long post and any grammatical errors!!* \--- A little background: myself (F27) and friend (F35) have been work colleagues and super close for almost...
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{ "description": "trying to get my friend to replace property of mine that he broke", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to get my friend to replace property of mine that he broke?
My friend was over at my house today, and had to piss really bad he speed walked out of my living room toward the bathroom, and in turn bumped into my TV stand and knocking my $400 PS4 pro off. It crashed to the floor, and it is fucked. Will not turn on at all, and I can literally hear the parts inside it rattle. I was...
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{ "description": "kicking out my drunken friend who was newly-released from prison", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for kicking out my drunken friend who was newly-released from prison?
Background. This friend did 6 months for assaulting his girlfriend. We're not particularly close, but we grew up together so I feel some obligation. I visited him almost every week while he did time, and said he could stay at my place when he got out until he figured out housing through his parole. I also warned that ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend one week after a vacation", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend one week after a vacation?
Just to get things straight my girlfriend (24) and I (25) have been together for 4 years and have lived together for about 2 years already. Relationship has mostly been great up till this year when things started to take a dip. The sex life diminished, not much romance between the two of us and we were kind of in cruis...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to a music festival without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to go to a music festival without my girlfriend?
OK this isn't actually me, it's my friend. We're all in our late 20s. A bunch of us are going to a music festival in the sunmer. It's fairly expensive (£250ish). My friend has the money to go, his girlfriend doesn't. Both of them were part of our friend group for years before they got together a couple of years ago. T...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my autistic cousin", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my autistic cousin?
I'm 16, every year for Christmas my cousins from out of town come stay at our house for the week. There's about 5 of us and we usually drive around town and hang out on one of the days. My oldest cousin (21) is the one who drives us so ultimately he gets final say on who gets to come. My youngest cousin (13, only chil...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend posts memes with jokes about being single", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being upset that my boyfriend posts memes with jokes about being single?
On mobile, sorry about format. This has happened twice now, the first meme said “I’m single I can do whatever the fuck I want” and the second said something along the lines of I’m not getting into a relationship until I’ve got my shit together but we can still fuck. We do have an open relationship, so the second part...
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{ "description": "not listening to my family", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not listening to my family?
So, today is my birthday (17, yay). I have spent most of the day at home, celebrating with my friends and family. We had a nice steak dinner, and afterwards, I came downstairs to play video games on my computer with my friends. We agreed that we would have my cake later, and sing and celebrate and whatever. So I was p...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to stop his \"no 'poo\" hair care temporarily", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I asked my boyfriend to stop his "no 'poo" hair care temporarily?
Repost because I didn't spell WIBTA properly in the original title. ​ Since before my boyfriend and I met 3 years ago, he' been using the "no 'poo" technique of hair care. For those unfamiliar, this is when you only utilized shampoo/conditioner every few months. You still wet and hand scrub in the shower ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my friends didn't try to reach out to me when they knew I was trying to kill myself", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset that my friends didn't try to reach out to me when they knew I was trying to kill myself?
First and foremost, I am not looking for sympathy. Long story short, I had told my friends the week prior that I would be killing myself on this one particular date because I always hear people saying that they wish they could have had that last goodbye, or they wish they could have done one last thing, so I wanted to ...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend can't usually cum in me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend can't usually cum in me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We have a good amount of sex, probably PIV 3/4 times a week and 'other' ie oral/touching, about the same. The issue is, he only cums in me about a quarter of the time when we have PIV sex. It makes me feel useless and like my body is broken. I get upset and I try not t...
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{ "description": "going against my parents wishes by not giving my kids traditional names", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I went against my parents wishes by not giving my kids traditional names?
So I don't have kids yet, but recently I brought it up to my parents that I don't plan on giving my kids traditional names from their culture when I have them. This conversation started because recently I had legally changed my own name from the name I parents had originally given me. My parents are immigrants here but...
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{ "description": "not even wanting to try an aesexual relationship", "pronormative_score": 523, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for not even wanting to try an aesexual relationship?
My gf since June just “came out” to me as aesexual. I knew the term and honestly never thought about how their lives are. I guess I just figured they lived alone. My gf however just told me that she was aesexual. I asked her about our sex and she said she had been faking it. That she didn’t want to lose me. ...
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{ "description": "being reluctant to compromise on my appearance", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being reluctant to compromise on my appearance?
Been with my husband for over a decade, we met as teenagers and grew up together. I've always dressed and presented fairly androgynous. At various points in my life i'd play up my femme side more and my masc side more. usually i just dress in jeans and a tshirt. femininity always felt performative and a bit uncomfortab...
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{ "description": "saying no to celebrating my nephews birthday at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 140, "contranormative_score": 52 }
WIBTA If I said no to celebrating my nephews birthday at my wedding?
My soon to be sister in law has asked me and my H2B if during our reception party, we can pause everything to sing Happy Birthday to her son who will be 6. Firstly, she doesn’t really make an effort with her sons birthdays any other time apart from getting the family round for a meal, so it strikes me as the only reas...
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{ "description": "having my sister let my wife know my mom was out of surgery", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having my sister let my wife know my mom was out of surgery?
This will be a short one folks as I'm still at work and mostly venting. So my mom had surgery today to install a plate in the base of her skull. My mom has a very bad history with routine surgeries going wrong so needless to say we were all a little nervous. My wife is very close to my mom and my sister called me abo...
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{ "description": "cutting a guy off so bad he followed me to school to yell at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cutting a guy off so bad he followed me to school to yell at me?
Okay so my town has this intersection, it's a three way of two of the busiest roads in town and the cars on the part that goes straight across go 55mph and don't ever stop, while if you are trying to make a left on to the road you could sit here for 40 minuets. The road was curved and wrapped a hill so visibility was r...
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{ "description": "asking a student to leave after walking in on a confidential study", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a student to leave after walking in on a confidential study?
Throwaway account because this is a sensitive topic, I feel at least. So I have gotten mixed feedback on my actions. I'm a psych student, running my thesis study. Now my topic is extremely sensitive, I had to go through the university IRB, not just my professor, to get approval. I can't even know the name of my partici...
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{ "description": "asking out an 'ex' of my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking out an 'ex' of my friend
Hello /r/AmITheAsshole, I am currently having some trouble determining if I would be the asshole in a certain situation and thus deciding what I should do in the situation. First some backstory: Slightly more than 1 year ago in my second year of uni a friend of mine told me he liked someone in our friend group. So I ...
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{ "description": "cussing out my friend and now rejecting her wedding invitation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cussing out my friend and now rejecting her wedding invitation?
So, for context, I had two friends that I traveled with for 3 days to a new city. Before the trip, I was already lukewarm about them because I was pretty sure they were talking about me behind my back. They're closer with each other, so I didn't really mind. My whole thing is if you're not fucking me, financing me, or ...
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{ "description": "asking a store to carry through with a policy when a cashier made a mistake", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking a store to carry through with a policy when a cashier made a mistake?
I initially posted this to a different sub, and was referred to post here for professional asshole checkers. Here is the story as it was laid out there: So, our local liquor store chain has a policy where they card everyone under 40. They also have signs all over the store stating that if you are under 40 and they...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to contact her Ex about his deceased Father", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting my GF to Contact Her Ex About His Deceased Father?
This requires a little backstory: It's coming up on two years since my girlfriend had her ex-boyfriend's father die while they were in a relationship. It was obviously a traumatic experience for both of them. They had a messy breakup months later (He was caught talking intimately with another girl). A couple month...
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{ "description": "having a lady friend so soon after my SO's sudden and tragic death", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a lady friend so soon after my SO's sudden and tragic death?
This is one of my first ever posts, so I hope I'm doing this right. In mid-October my girlfriend (let's call her Emily) of almost 5 years died with her friend from using tainted drugs. I found both of them, hours dead, first thinking they were just drunk. To be clear my girl hadn't used heroin in several years, she kn...
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{ "description": "playing rugby", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for playing rugby?
So I'm 29, probably not important. Am I the asshole for wanting to keep playing rugby despite having 2 young kids? Bit of context, 2 kidss, ones 2 and ones just about 4 months. Misses is still on maternity, I work full time, and as much on call and out of hours work in IT as I can. Makes for a fairly hefty schedule and...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to hang out with another girl", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Not Wanting My Boyfriend to Hang Out With Another Girl?
obligatory first time poster/on mobile apology. My current boyfriend (18m) and I (16f) dated back in May of last year for a few months, until I ended things in August. While we were broken up he had a flirty kind of relationship with another girl. We just got back together a few weeks ago, and she's coming over to h...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with a friend of mine because I love her and she doesn't feel the same", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut contact with a friend of mine because I love her and she doesn't feel the same
Two years ago I met this girl, let's call her Elise. We hung out a lot and eventually made out and had sex. The making out kept happening but sex didn't happen anymore. I specifically told her I was not looking for a relationship and she agreed with my decision. Later she got into some relationships with other guys and...
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{ "description": "asking my mum for advice about how to help my cheating sister", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my mum for advice about how to help my cheating sister?
My sister was with her ex fiancé for 7 years. They were engaged for two years before all this mess. 6 months towards the end of their engagement, my sister hooks up with an old school mate. She started sleeping with this guy while still engaged. She told me not to say a word to anyone, not my boyfriend or my mum or i...
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{ "description": "hurting my mom's feelings", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for hurting my mom's feelings?
My mom's going through a divorce, and someone committed arson and burned down the house right before it was to be split in the divorce. She's been working with the insurance company on a settlement. My mom's lawyer called me earlier this week. He expressed concern about my mom's mental state--she has not returned any ...
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{ "description": "not sending thank you notes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA For Not Sending Thank You Notes?
So, my husband and I got married about six months ago. It was a very small affair, practically an elopement, with just immediate family and a few friends each. I also didn't plan on having a bridal shower or a bachelorette party either, considering how low-key the wedding was going to be. But then one of my best friend...
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{ "description": "putting my in-law in a headlock", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for putting my in-law in a headlock?
So this happened back in May. Let me preface this by saying that my brother in law is 16, I'm 20, and I'm married to his sister who's 21 (20 at the time). They are 4 years apart and grew up really close, as they live up in the mountains, about 30 minutes away from any other civilization. Since we met and started dati...
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AITA for what my auntie did.
so I always wondered if my auntie was a asshole for doing this or not. so I hate boats but decided to tough it out and go on the family cruse trip to Australia. about 4 days into the boat trip I have a panic attack. I happen to be sitting next to my dad and auntie, both brother and sister. I get up and run behind...
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{ "description": "not letting an employee with a mental disorder train new hires", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting an employee with a mental disorder train new hires?
The situation isn't exactly how the question makes it sound, I promise. So I work in a call center and I oversee a fairly large group of people who are part of a special program. The people in this group are some of our top performers, so we use them to train new hires by having them sit with the new people and listen...
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{ "description": "sending screenshots of texts to my friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For sending screenshots of texts to my friends?
So one of my mutual friends and I got into an argument recently. For context, this guy had a habit of sometimes getting agitated for no reason and lashing out. So he and I get into an argument about luxury clothing brands. I was arguing that they are overpriced junk and he felt that it was a personal attack. He then ...
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{ "description": "telling my mom off", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my mom off?
So I just got home from work and was talking to my family about how I might need to use one of their computers because I'm waiting for my my next pay check to buy a new one (my current one's battery doesn't hold charge anymore and is very slowly dying) and I need to contact my last boss to write notes for a letter of r...
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