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{ "description": "not wanting to lend my car to my pregnant SIL because her license is expired", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to lend my car to my pregnant SIL because her license is expired?
My sister in law is 8 months pregnant. She is a terrible driver and gets into accidents frequently. She dropped her car off at the shop to get it fixed and the shop would not rent her a car because her driver's license has expired. I am out of town at the moment and my husband calls me and tells me that she wants to ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to post certain things", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to post certain things?
Things like a letter apologizing or a video I appear crying cause she's leaving to her country. She sais it's beautiful and wants everyone to see it, but I feel it's private and in the end she deletes them cause I tell her I feel uncomfortable and she gets little bit sad after that. I don't like people watch me like th...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate and his girlfriend to be quiet", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking my roommate and his girlfriend to be quiet?
My roommate (24 M) and I (23 F) have known each other for a while and ran in the same social circle in college. We're both pretty quiet and laid back, which worked out really well since I work full time now and he just started grad school this past year. The walls are incredibly thin in our apartment and our rooms sha...
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{ "description": "regarding Americans as isolationist assholes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for regarding Americans as isolationist assholes?
Americans want free trade for others and tariffs for themselves. Every now and then they go into this irritating isolationist mode. And it normally takes some disaster to slap them out if their selfish haze. It took Pearl Harbour to slap America out of the isolationism of the 1930’s and then 9/11 to slap American out o...
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{ "description": "ruining a first date", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ruining a first date.
So last night I met my first girl on bumble at a bar and it went super well. I had so much fun with her and we went dancing, held hands, and just had a super fun time. I really like her a lot. We went back to her place and we weren't comfortable having sex (intercourse). She has never had sex (same with me). She want...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents about my marriage", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for not telling my parents about my marriage?
Lee and I met and immediately knew we were the right fit. We were both 22 and never had such a strong connection. After 8 months together and some trips across the world, he was offered a great job in a foreign country. I decided to follow him and find work there. He was terrified I would be deported if I don't find wo...
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{ "description": "being upset with my partner because he regularly goes 'missing' for a few days", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my partner because he regularly goes 'missing' for a few days.
I've been with my bf for over a year and every so often he'll go missing for a few days. About once a month. As in he won't reply to any messages. He made excuses at first but now nothing. I've not made a fuss but I've said I get worried cause something could've happened. As example one of the excuses is he got mugged....
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{ "description": "nagging my ex about his skateboarding", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I nagged my ex about his skateboarding?
I’m going to try to keep this short. I’m living with my ex, it’s a new situation, and we’re still working out what this means. He has a pretty serious injury that keeps him from skateboarding even though he loves it. When we were dating I was never on board (lol) with him buying a new board and it was a bit of a runn...
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{ "description": "asking him not to smoke pot while I'm pregnant", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking him not to smoke pot while I’m pregnant?
I’m pregnant with my first child. It’s been really difficult. My boyfriend has been doing the best he can to help me through it except for one thing. He won’t stop smoking pot even though I asked him to. We both used to do it fairly regularly. Once I found out I was pregnant I quit immediately. I asked him to a...
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{ "description": "confronting my underage coworker about taking a Jell-O shot in the office", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for confronting my underage coworker about taking a Jell-O shot in the office?
So tonight I walked into the office and saw my high school aged coworker finishing off what was clearly a Jell-O shot (a small plastic container filled with jello and alcohol) so I confronted her and asked if it was what I thought it was. She did not deny that it was, I then basically told her that she was violating th...
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{ "description": "not forgiving this girl", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not forgiving this girl
Ok so this all started when I met this girl through a college activity and she sort of cosied up to me it got to the point where she even kissed me and snuggled into my shoulder on the train ride home so I was starting to think that we were becoming a couple flash forward a few weeks and the activity ends and I ask her...
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{ "description": "getting ready per usual when my girlfriend called into work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting ready per usual when my girlfriend called into work.
My girlfriend & I carpool every morning and have to be at work at the same time. This morning I got up and started getting ready - she’s laying in bed and going back and forth about not going. Finally she decides to. I continue to get ready (our bathroom and bedroom) are attached. I left lights on and went about my...
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{ "description": "no longer wanting to be friends w/ the person dating my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for no longer wanting to be friends w/ the person dating my ex
My Ex and I have not been together for 4 months, but have stayed good friends. I made a friend thru him, who became a pretty good friend of mine as well. Her and I hungout all the time. and since She is also my ex's roommate, I would vent to her about him and she would understand exactly where I was coming from. I r...
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{ "description": "telling my grandma to stop", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my grandma to stop?
I’m a 16 year old male. I can do most things by myself. But my grandma won’t let me. (I currently live with my grandma). For example, she won’t let me get my license because she wants to drive me everywhere, and just now, she won’t let me pack clothes for a trip. When I told her I needed to pack my own clothes, she go...
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{ "description": "ribbing my friend about having an accent", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ribbing my friend about having an accent?
My friend is from New Jersey and has a strong accent. This has always been a joke amongst my group of friends. He recently admitted that he wants us to stop making fun of it and that he’s never found it funny. We all agreed to stop. His accent really comes out when he’s mad, so sometimes we joke about that. Someone di...
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{ "description": "not wanting to/being ready to date a friend in a group and expecting the group to stay friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to/being ready to date a friend in a group and expecting the group to stay friends?
Edit: Sorry tripped the auto mod. Only mentioned past struggles, feeling good these days! There's a girl (Sara) in my circle of friends that a couple months back spontaneously told me she had a crush on me. I was taken aback and didn't really sleep that night stressing out about what I was going to do. I like this gir...
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{ "description": "being executor of my grandparent's trust", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being executor of my grandparent’s trust?
About a year ago, I was told by my grandmother that she has made me executor of their estate, during a family get together, she announced this after being pressured by a large portion of family. Since then, her children and step-children have all written me off (including my own mother). My grandfather has dementia and...
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{ "description": "cutting a coworker out of my life over what she claims is a trivial matter", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for cutting a coworker out of my life over what she claims is a trivial matter?
I had an audition about a month ago. Now I have a massive phobia of crowds, and also of performing, and I knew I'd really struggle to do this on my own. My friend offered two weeks in advance to come with me for support, which was much needed and appreciated. The next day, she said she would definitely come. The day ...
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{ "description": "asking my friend why I wasn't invited to her wedding", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend why I wasn't invited to her wedding?
I have a friend from college that I haven't seen in person in a while, but always thought there was an understanding we're still friends despite not spending time together. I actually introduced her to her now husband and encouraged them to get together. I understand that people are allowed to invite and not invite w...
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{ "description": "being upset at my coworker", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my coworker?
(Mobile user) **TLDR**- coworker has been over an hour late 3 days in the past 2 1/2 weeks... AITA for being upset at her, especially because she has small children and an hour long commute? Okay. First things first, I work night shift from 6pm-6am at a group home for males in the IDD community. It’s easy enough but...
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{ "description": "not going to work on my day off", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to work on my day off?
So basically, my job is very weather-dependent. If it’s raining or a darker day out, business ticks up, nice days it stays quiet. This is Florida, so that’s kinda a lottery any given day. We can have vastly different hours, let alone days, but for the most part, we’re well staffed enough. Recently I got called on my ...
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{ "description": "wanting this woman I've been saying to move out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting this woman I’ve been saying to move out
So I was dating this woman for two months, when she got laid off and told me she would have no place to go, and probably would have to go live far away with her parents. I didn’t want to stop seeing her, so I offered her a play to stay until she got back on feet. That was four months ago. It’s become obvious she’s no...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that I was left out of travel plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that I was left out of travel plans?
I am slightly outside of the rules of this sub so I apologize in advance. I haven't had the argument yet, I more just want a little guidance.... ​ My friends and I are late 20's unmarried guys. We did a guys trip a couple years ago to Europe and it was great. Planned it on a budget, stayed in hostels, dran...
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{ "description": "recommending a friend to invest in Bitcoin, only for it to decrease ~50% in value the following month resulting in him losing thousands of dollars", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for recommending a friend to invest in Bitcoin, only for it to decrease ~50% in value the following month resulting in him losing thousands of dollars.
I’m a software engineer that is really excited about Bitcoin and the potential it has. Most of my friend group has heard of Bitcoin, but don’t know exactly how it works/what it is. After a hangout session with all of them, i walked home with one of my friends who wanted to know more about it. I explained at a high le...
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{ "description": "not believing my friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not believing my friend?
So, i have this friend, we're pretty close, and I would consider him one of my best friends. He is "religious",and believes in the energy of the universe and stuff like that. I'm not oppose to this kind of belief, but I'm not a believer myself. This was no problem until recently, when he started saying that his conscio...
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{ "description": "cutting someone off even though I was driving like everyone else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For Cutting Someone Off Even Though I was Driving Like Everyone Else?
For a bit of context, I just got my license yesterday after school (I still haven't even had it for 24 hours as of writing this) and I called my friend to see if he wanted to go and get something to eat; my treat. So I was at an intersection that is very strangely positioned with one road (the one I'm trying to turn i...
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{ "description": "pretending to love someone for months", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For pretending to love someone for months?
Look, before you judge me harshly for the title, there was good reason. CONTEXT: This person and I (We will call him George) had just met 2 days ago before we started dating. It was definitely way too fast and I didn't know enough about him to know what he was like. Alright. This all started in August of 2016. I was ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to fill a role for a last minute dropout in my school play", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to fill a role for a last minute dropout in my school play?
This year, with all the new curricular activities and AP classes I’m taking I decided not to participate in the competitive one acts. It was a really hard decision for me as I love acting. My friend just dropped out as the lead role because he says he’s on a “spiritual journey”. The director emailed me and pleaded I c...
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{ "description": "having reservations about adopting a child", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I have reservations about adopting a child?
Some background: My wife and I already have an awesome 4 year old son. We had talked about having 2 kids before we ever had him, but then after he was born everything was so great with just him that we weren't even sure we wanted a second kid anymore. ​ Lately he's been asking us if he can have a baby ...
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{ "description": "buying two seats on Southwest and not giving up one despite the open seating", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I bought two seats on Southwest and wouldn’t give up one despite the open seating?
I’m a nanny, and I fly with babies fairly often (toddlers now). One of things Boss and I did was buy an extra seat even when the kids were flying on our laps so that one/both of us could have a buffer between ourselves and other people. On a flight like Southwest, where seating is open, would it make you the asshole ...
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{ "description": "not standing in my own home", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not standing in my own home?
We are having family over to our house for some pre-christmas things. We arent opening gifts uet or anything,and everyone is pretty relaxed. Until, my Aunt, starts yelling at the "kids" ( everyone under the age of 20 ) for sitting down. A little bit of extra information on this Aunt, shes a huge Narcissist. She micr...
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{ "description": "missing my girlfriend's (now ex girlfriend) birthday party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for missing my girlfriend's (now ex girlfriend) birthday party
I am an engineer a couple of weeks ago I did some improvements on performance of our server which is good but it also crashed other modules. To some extent my job was on the line because of this so called "fiasco" by non tech guys. (I got fired anyway), so I decided to do whatever it takes to fix things up. I'm an ex...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend while at her family's house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend while at her family's house?
Throwaway. So we're both in the same college and our families live several hours apart from each other. There's a lot of reasons I want to break things off but the main one is *I've* become a toxic person (partly due to mental illness and partly just to being an asshole, I can work that out in therapy, preferably witho...
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{ "description": "telling my bf he's made mistakes before in softball", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my bf he’s made mistakes before in softball.
So my family plays softball on a league as a way to hang out together and just have fun. We are not that good but we’ve been getting better and it’s been a fun 3 seasons. My (23/f) bf (28/m) used to play on his own team in a different league and when they were done for the season he joined our team. This is the first s...
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{ "description": "not picking up on my friend's hints", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not picking up on my friend's hints?
I was with my group of friends last night and it was starting to get late so people start leaving one by one. Eventually, it ends up just being me, my friend, and another newer girl to our group. We are all sitting, just talking and listening to music for a while until the girl eventually decided to leave. Right when t...
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{ "description": "yelling at my roommate to be quiet at 3am", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for yelling at my roommate to be quiet at 3am?
So this happened last night with one of my roommates... I went to sleep at around 2am and she knew that as I had told her that I would be sleeping soon. My roommate likes to work from the living room instead of her room since it helps her to be more focused and she sometimes watches Youtube or w/e and I can hear it fr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pitch in for a coworkers farewell party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to pitch in for a coworkers farewell party?
I started working at this company 3 months ago and last week one of the employees was leaving after a few years of working at the company. So, one of my coworkers arranged a fare well party and sent an email invitation to the entire department. (Approximately 70 people) I was busy with work and couldn't attend (althoug...
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{ "description": "not wanting to rekindle a friendship with my former best friend after her abusive ex made her cut contact with me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to rekindle a friendship with my former best friend after her abusive ex made her cut contact with me?
we were tied at the hip since we were 4 and met in kindergarten and I always considered her my best friend in the whole world. no one else even came close. she had a really rough time with mental illness in our teens and attempted suicide multiple times. I supported her through that and was her shoulder to cry on. it w...
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{ "description": "saying that just because someone does not believe in Heaven does not mean that they do not go to Heaven? I am an agnostic", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying that just because someone does not believe in Heaven does not mean that they do not go to Heaven? I am an agnostic.
Awhile back, someone commented on a Facebook post about Stephen Hawking going to Heaven, saying that they should be respectful of his beliefs and that he probably did not go to Heaven because he does not believe in Heaven. I am agnostic so I am uncertain, but I said that that is technically not true. Someone can believ...
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{ "description": "wanting to get rid of my wife's great grandparents bed", "pronormative_score": 130, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For wanting to get rid of my wife's great grandparents bed?
My issue specifically is with the mattress. It grosses me out that we have a mattress from 1906 that has had 3-4 generations of people sleeping in it. At least two of those generations were married couples. The mattress weighs literally 200lbs, we're about to move into a new house and I don't want to move that matress...
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{ "description": "wanting more sex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting more sex?
I’ve been in a relationship for a few years now with a girl I’ve known for quite some time. At the beginning of our relationship we had a very active sex life and we would do it almost every day of the week. Being a college kid I felt that was necessary to relieve stress and get my mind off of things. Not to mention th...
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{ "description": "not meeting my new girlfriends parents on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not meeting my new girlfriends parents on her birthday
So some back ground, I had just moved states and met this girl on tinder. I’ve only been dating her for about 3 months and I’ve only know her for about 5. Yesterday my 13 year old sister overdosed on DMX. She’s currently in the hospital and going to a psych ward in the following days. AITA for canceling plans with my g...
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{ "description": "being heated with my friend because of other things going on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being heated with my friend because of other things going on?
So, me and a friend were planning on going to a concert a while back, and we were going to take my car because her car wasn’t exactly the best. However, about a week before the concert I got into a really bad accident, totaled my car, and ended up with a concussion. Not long after the accident happened I texted her sa...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend because she's being very critical of our friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for cutting off a friend because she's being very critical of our friendship?
This might be a bit of a read but I'll try make it as short and to the point as possible. I met a girl on campus (let's call her Jane) and we initially clicked based off similarities we had. We immediately developed a quick bond and friendship, based off honesty and being able to speak freely with one another. She qu...
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AITA: Genuine ask: Reading when Husband wants to sleep?
First post got removed for improper title formatting, this is a resubmit, sorry and thanks all. Little holiday treat for you all: I’m not looking for validation, but for genuine feedback. I’ll trust your consensus and adjust my behaviour accordingly. My husband and I have differing sleep schedules. Often I can’t sl...
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{ "description": "wanting to have my mouse", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to have my mouse.
So recently I have gotten into PC games (CS, Fortnite, PUBG, etc.). My dad is going back to school (he has his own laptop) and we usually play in the same room as our house is small. Recently his wireless mouse broke so one day I notice my mouse for the PC goes missing. At first I thought it was my little sister, wh...
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{ "description": "hating my aunt", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hating my aunt
Okay so context, my aunt is well off. We are not as fortunate however we are still fairly wealthy. Okay so every Saturday or so my family and my grandparents have lunch together (and sometimes with the aunt and her family) now our grandparents have a great time and go after a couple of hours, which is all well and goo...
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{ "description": "being irritated by my neighbor's loud music", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being irritated by my neighbor's loud music?
This morning I woke up to loud music that I could hear pretty clearly from my apartment. I live on the third floor of my building and the walls are pretty thick so I don't usual hear anything from the neighboring apartments unless they get pretty loud. Regardless, I just assumed it was someone in the building and it wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to come out", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to come out?
TL;DR: I'm 31m, in a relationship with 29m, nearing our fifth year together. We aren't out as gay. A few months ago, my partner did a 180 degree turn on his opinions and now he wants to start telling people we're a couple. He's angry with me for not agreeing. Am I the asshole here? Because I feel like I'm going slightl...
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{ "description": "calling out a sonogram thief", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out a sonogram thief?
i’ve been following this girl on facebook for years. we’re from the same county but she’s literally crazy. 2 years ago she posted a sonogram and she was pregnant. i could tell it was falsified but never said anything. well today she announces her second pregnancy. she had a “miscarriage” with the first one. so i rever...
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{ "description": "making a mom joke", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making a mom joke?
me and my SO are going at as people do and we were doing doggystyle. during said doggystyle she says "fuck your dick so big" (im not but she is a sweetheart.) anyways i couldnt pass up the chance and said "thanks my mom made it for me!" and then she stopped and is still mad at me for ruining the mood, despite that bein...
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{ "description": "not paying for my friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for my friend?
Some context: about a year ago a very good friend of mine lost his father to heart related issues. He and his family had been struggling with money for a while well before this; he had told me a few weeks prior that they weren't paying for their house anymore and were refusing to leave until the bank came to take it fr...
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{ "description": "giving 0 fucks", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving 0 fucks?
There's a girl in my school who doesn't get along with many people. She's generally annoying and it seems like she tries so hard to fit in that she doesn't fit in at all. She also seems like a bit of an attention whore, as she's often loud and goes on about her gayness. I'm not homophobic. I don't see straight people b...
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{ "description": "trying to separate myself from my friends for mental health reasons", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to separate myself from my friends for mental health reasons
I am apart of a once tightly knit group who all struggle with mental health issues. Depression, gender dysphoria, suicidal thoughts etc. My issues are probably the least severe in the group, so I don't like talking about my problems, which is why I've been fighting my self hatred by myself since my breakup. It got real...
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{ "description": "telling my current boss a new opportunity became available", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I tell my current boss a new opportunity became available
I am working part-time during college and I’m about to leave my current job for a job that will pay me ~$2 more per hour plus tips. My mom asked me how I plan to tell my boss that I’m going to leave. I said I would say I was grateful for the opportunity to work at _____ Company but a new opportunity became available....
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{ "description": "not paying rent and then getting mad about the eviction notice", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not paying rent and then getting mad about the eviction notice
Okay so it’s kinda a long story but I’ve been living pretty far from my parents since college and I recently moved 10 minutes away into a property they own. They wanted me to move back home so they could get to know their grandkids. I was told that if I moved here I would be GIVEN the house and later that was modified ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for not celebrating my birthday with me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for not celebrating my birthday with me
Hey guys, So back in middle school/high school I didnt have many friends, I was a weirdo, the weirdo that works out and sings pretty darn well and plays the guitar. My sexual experience also only started at 17.6 but since I've been going wild. I didnt have a lot of experience with people nor friendships because I thin...
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{ "description": "clapping back on a woman who turned out to be deranged after she made a huge scene on me buying meat products in a grocery store", "pronormative_score": 234, "contranormative_score": 47 }
AITA for clapping back on a woman who turned out to be deranged after she made a huge scene on me buying meat products in a grocery store?
On Sunday afternoon I was shopping at the grocery store around the corner from my house. I don't want to say the name because I'm worried about this getting on social media and I'm almost positive I saw people filming with their phones (also posting from a one time use account for that reason), but it's a national chai...
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{ "description": "leaving my dad alone on new years ever", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my dad alone on new years ever
My girlfriend and I (24) are going to a NYE party in the city tommorow. We've been dating for a few months, I'm really into her and want to spend Nye with her. I haven't spent the last few new years with my family. I always go somewhere. This year my two sisters are going out v with their boyfriends. So my dad is goi...
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{ "description": "refusing the sexual advances of a trans friend", "pronormative_score": 213, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for refusing the sexual advances of a trans friend?
This situation happened a few days ago, but its spreading rapidly through my friend groups and social media, and I'm kind of at a loss as what to do or if I'm actually an asshole for the way I handled it. Situation starts with me (20M) and my trans friend, let's call her (19 MtF pre-op) Kat. Now Kat and I have been go...
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{ "description": "expecting my partner to offer support when I am unwell", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my partner to offer support when I am unwell?
A little bit of background information before I get into it... My partner and I live together with my three children (11 yo son, 3yo daughter and 20month son) he has two children from a previous relationship also (9yo son and his 7yo daughter) he has them every second weekend from Friday until Monday morning. The ho...
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{ "description": "being relieved my art teacher went to the hospital", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being relieved my art teacher went to the hospital
During photography while trying to make a plastic skeleton do a pose I tried moving it's arm and it just broke off. Now my art teacher was a bit crazy and certainly didn't understand that people are allowed to have different political opinions and would yell at people who express those views. Well the skeleton I broke ...
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{ "description": "showing up late to date night", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
Aita I showed up late to date night
My gf and I were supposed to have a relaxing night I was cooking dinner, she spends the night and we watch our favorite shows. I worked in the morning and afterwords I went home to clean my apartment before she came over. Before I left a old friend who I haven't seen in a few months asks me to lunch having not eaten ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to ky parents house on Christmas morning", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to ky parents house on Christmas morning?
I'm 28. I just got married this year. I've lived outside of my parents home for years now. My mom wants me and my sisters to come over every Christmas morning and do Christmas like we always do. But I am tired. All the time. And I have my husband and his family to think about too. Christmas Eve is spent with my family...
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{ "description": "telling a classmate they smell", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling a classmate they smell
I've been in the class 10 weeks. This person next to me smells really bad and I've managed not to say anything so far. Recently however it's gotten worse. I've mentioned it to other people in the class to make sure I'm not crazy and they smell it too and know it's this classmate in particular. Do I just stick it out fo...
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{ "description": "having a hypothetical conversation about 9/11", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having a hypothetical conversation about 9/11?
I’m a New Yorker. I’ve had many friends who have lost loved ones to the terrorist attacks on 9/11. I was engaged in a conversation with an ex-NYPD officer about retaliation on Muslim nations and I said that at the time when I was11 years old I would support a retaliatory bombing but now I realize that the civilian los...
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{ "description": "smoking with my boyfriend and not my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for smoking with my boyfriend and not my friend?
Hi, Reddit. Sorry for the long post, but I want to provide clear details. TL;DR at the bottom. I'm a sophomore in college. In my freshman year, I made very close friends with the girls that lived on my hall. There were 5 of us in the group total, and we all live on the same hall in our sophomore year. Out of us five, ...
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{ "description": "defending my Grandfather who fought with the nazis", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for defending my Grandfather who fought with the Nazis.
I am from Lithuania however my grandfather is of mixed Lithuanian and Latvian heritage and has lived in Latvia most of his life. During WW2 he joined the Latvian Legion, 19th Waffen Grenadier Division of the SS. He fought bravely against the red devils to protect the baltic region from communism and Soviet occupation. ...
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{ "description": "not showering them with praise and gratitude", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not showering them with praise and gratitude?
Ok so for starters, there's a bit of information about myself/my in-laws(who this pertains to) that will perhaps help you better understand both sides, but isn't absolutely necessary to the story so feel free to skip to the ~~ break if you don't want to read it. Alright. So I'm a "Third Culture Kid"(TCK) who was born...
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{ "description": "demanding money from my dad", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for demanding money from my dad?
This post is going to be long as some context is required. Also, I'm really sorry for an inconvenience or grammatical errors as I'm on mobile. Also, I'm using a throwaway account for obvious reasons. My dad and I have never been on good terms with each other, due to past falling outs and him being unjustly cruel, phy...
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{ "description": "getting turned on by my boss' boss", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting turned on by my boss' boss
My boss' boss is an older guy, probably in his 50s. He scheduled a meeting with me to discuss a technical part of a project I'm working on. I've never thought about this dude before, but after two hours of a very technical conversation I realized that this dude is at another level intellectually. So fucking smart. For...
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{ "description": "stating double standard while GF was upset", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for stating double standard while GF was upset?
So this stemmed from a conversation my GF and I were having last night. We’re both 22 years old and we’ve been together for 7 months. We’ve always had very open conversation about our past, including relationships and such with no issues. Shes been with a lot more people than me so usually she’d be the one talking abou...
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{ "description": "avoiding my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding my grandmother?
Let me preface this with the fact that I'm trans and my grandmother is openly anti LGBT, which is the reason I'm avoiding her. I haven't seen her in several months and I'm afraid of dealing with the fallout of her finding out. I previously hid my transition from her by wearing my old guy clothes around her, but as my b...
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{ "description": "swatting at a woman for grabbing my necklace", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for swatting at a woman for grabbing my necklace
I take my great grandmother (gg) to church every Sunday since she cant drive, I also happen to have a handmade necklace made from a piece of Amber and silver that my grandfather made for me for my birthday. I was getting my gg seated in the front where she likes and as I turn to leave the woman sitting next to her reac...
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AITA - want to call animal control on neighbor who throws his barking dog outside in freezing temperatures
Obligatory first time poster, on mobile, etc. TLDR in the title So this is clearly not as bad as some posts on here, but I recently bought a house (first-time buyer, yay!) and almost immediately started having trouble with this neighbor and their dog. Anytime this animal is outside it barks. Not just a little, but n...
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{ "description": "cutting my friend off \"cold turkey\" for continuously saying they want to date me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my friend off “cold turkey” for continuously saying they want to date me?
Made a friend roughly 6 years ago and we hung out all the time. At one point, about 3 years ago, I brought up the idea of us dating. She turned me down politely because she just entered a new relationship. Things continued on as normal. Now, 3 years after, we’ve drifted a part a bit. We only really each other up maybe...
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AITA - Not really cheating?
So I'm seeing this girl and y'know were doing stuff in the bedroom and so on, and while we were playing video games, she introduced me to this other dude. We're now good friends and chat and play video games a lot. The guy is from a city pretty far away, and we all know that he has feelings for her. I too, have feelin...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for wasting money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting mad at my girlfriend for wasting money.
My girlfriend and I have been together almost 10 years and have a 3 year old together. She works part time at the moment so money is a little tight. We're basically living paycheck to paycheck. This month my gf got paid a little less than usual and won't be able to pay her half of rent and daycare. Which normally woul...
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{ "description": "wanting a life of my own away from my parents", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a life of my own away from my parents?
My parents have coddled me and my brother for our whole lives. We're both undergrad college students right now. They also are super overprotective of us and didn't let us hang out with our own cousins or neighbors for long periods of time when we were children, so they were selective of who we were around or were influ...
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{ "description": "not tipping my hairdresser", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not tipping my hairdresser
I couldn't get ahold of my regular hairdresser I go to since she was out of town, so I decided to stop at one of the chain haircut places (the in and out places that a mall would have). At the time (M21) my hair normally was about 3 inches long, I told the woman I just wanted to trim it up to look more presentable, I ...
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{ "description": "being the side ho", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being the side ho?
About um... at least two months ago (time is not my strong suit) a girl confessed to having a crush on me. She had a boyfriend at the time, but we're both polyamorous so that didn't really matter. She told me that she had asked her boyfriend if she could ask me out, and he had said yes. So, we started dating. It was j...
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{ "description": "giving my bed to my \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving my bed to my "friend"?
So what happened was me, my friends and my gf were out for New year's, counted down the new year at the club and went home, me and my gf went back to my flat and my 2 friends followed 15mins later, (they don't live in the same town as me so they were going to take my 2 couches) my "friend" met a girl and took her to mi...
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{ "description": "not talking to my mum for two years", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not talking to my mum for two years?
Background: I was around 16-17 when I stopped talking to my mum verbally. I forgot why, but I guess something inside me just went off. I live with her and have for a while. I have two younger sisters and a father. A few months before I stopped talking to my mum, she kicked out my sisters without any notice, just as th...
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{ "description": "ditching my family's plans for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ditching my family’s plans for my birthday?
TLDR at end Background: currently in New York with for spring break. I transferred to a college in LA for this past year; previously I went to one an hour away from home for two years. So my 21st birthday is coming up, and I’m planning on spending with Thursday night to Saturday morning with my friends over at my ol...
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{ "description": "sitting in the passenger seat of my Uber", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sitting in the passenger seat of my Uber
I don’t use Uber much except when I’m ubering to the bus/train station to go home from school. I’ve been in an Uber with other people and have had to sit in the front with no problem. As I’m ubering today i went to go sit in the front seat the driver kind of snapped at me and said “No you can’t sit there!” is this a ...
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{ "description": "accidentally triggering a sexual trauma victim", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accidentally triggering a sexual trauma victim?
So I'm horny and home alone, I go on Grindr, see a hot guy, invite him over and we start messing around and whatnot. Well, his profile was hot, but in person, he wasn't someone I would normally go after. But he said he was just visiting, and my other FWB was out of town, so I knew this was just gonna be a one time thin...
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{ "description": "mocking a cheater who then was broken up with by her BF", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for mocking a cheater who then was broken up with by her BF (not because she cheated)?
I talk to this girl online who I know cheated on her boyfriend with a boy she met at an event a few weeks ago. When she got back she then moved in with her boyfriend (around 300km) and has lived their for a few days/weeks (not exactly sure) and the boyfriend suddenly told her that he wants to end it and told her to pac...
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{ "description": "naming a DoorDash employee in a review", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for naming a DoorDash employee in a review?
Sorry for the formatting, on mobile. I don’t normally name people in reviews. I’ve only done it this one time and that’s it. I didn’t want him to get fired, I just wanted him to get reprimanded. He arrived with my food forty-five minutes later than scheduled. Thirty minutes after it was scheduled to arrive, I called hi...
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{ "description": "pushing my mother to get her own apartment so I can move on with my life, knowing it causes her stress", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pushing my mother to get her own apartment so I can move on with my life, knowing it causes her stress?
I want to make something very clear right off the bat,  my mom and I have an amazing relationship and I love her with all of my heart. Myself (F21) and my mom have lived in the same apt for over a decade.  It's a kinda crappy little spot, but when we first moved to the city it was necessary and we made it our home. Our...
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{ "description": "getting rid of a female friend after she told me she had a boyfriend while we netflix and chilled", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting rid of a female friend after she told me she had a boyfriend while we netflix and chilled.
Some background info: I met this girl playing video games with her cousin. She lives in the East Coast, I live in Colorado (so does her cousin). We had been talking for over 6 months, had a 130 day streak on snapchat, and were facetiming almost every day. We had shared a lot of deep stuff and been quite open with each ...
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{ "description": "being angry at boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITAH for being angry at boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for a while, both him and I knew this. We were talking about moving into together, (he brought up the topic) then he started to be visibly upset. When I asked what was wrong, he got sorta sad and explained he thought he’d let me down. I was taken back by this, and ...
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{ "description": "not immediately cutting off an ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not immediately cutting off an ex?
To start: I have friendly relationships with all my ex boyfriends. I honestly wouldn't have dated them if I didn't think they were great guys and everyone is an adult (late-20s). ​ Because of this, I didn't think twice about continuing to talk a bit more often to one of my exes even though he has a girlfr...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend he has a small penis", "pronormative_score": 233, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend he has a small penis?
I know the title itself makes me sound awful but hear me out. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he's small down there, like 4 inches give or take. He constantly asks me if it's big enough, if I can feel it, and I always reassure him and tell him he's fine. I tell him I'm not with him for his penis and he ha...
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{ "description": "refusing to drive my girlfriend to work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to drive my girlfriend to work?
My girlfriend is a very bad backseat driver. She yells at you whenever basically anything happens, tells you what gear you should be in/how fast you should be going (often when she's objectively wrong) and sits there 'panicking' about perfectly normal things that happen all the time. I'm not the best driver in the worl...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my gf for doing Cocaine from a stranger", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset at my GF for doing Cocaine from a stranger?
My gf is 29 I’m 25. Yesterday we were all out for SPD we had brunch and were all having a good time. One girl in the group ran into this guy she knew. I’m not sure of their relationship but he said he had coke. A few people from the group go over to him in broad daylight on a busy street in front of a bar and start...
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{ "description": "not minding my business and repeatedly chastising people at my local Barnes and Nobles book store for being morons", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not minding my business and repeatedly chastising people at my local Barnes and Nobles book store for being morons?
Specifically, going to a table at the coffee shop with a bunch of books and magazines gathered from around the store---frequently not buying anything at the shop--reading for a while (free) and leaving all their stuff at the table. Sometimes a pile of 12-15 magazines. And regularly leaving s--t they brought in from ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mother-in-law to come on our family vacation", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my mother-in-law to come on our family vacation?
Background: This past fall my parents asked if we (my family and my sister and brother-in-law) wanted to go on a vacation with them. We are all very close and it was a no-brainer to say yes. My dad had been sick with cancer for years, was getting worse, and wanted one last trip all together. My dad had the reins - it w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick up after my dog", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not wanting to pick up after my dog?
Just for a little context, I personally believe that dog owners should pick up after their dog because I like a clean neighborhood...but here’s my problem. Everyday when I get off from work (usually around 10:30PM), I take my dog out for a walk. I usually like to not have poop bags in my kitchen garbage so I walk to...
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{ "description": "playing games near an open casket", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for playing games near an open casket
Ok so obligatory sorry, I'm on mobile. Okay so 2 days ago my cousin's grandfather passed away and everyone is distraught. I was at the open casket when a family friend asks me to watch his kids as he went in and paid his respects. Obviously I agreed and I went to go watch the children who were 5 9 10 and 11. As I was...
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AITA? Politeness losses me friends
Sorry bit of a long one and first time posting Little back story two friends of mine only see their child once a week, child lives with one of their mothers (due to personal reasons) , I'm a godparent to said child. F1 = Friend 1 F2 = Friend 2 Me / I = you guessed it Me! This happened over a matter of months, I wa...
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