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{ "description": "calling out my dad", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my dad?
Some back story. My parents got divorced when I was 7 or 8 and my brother was 6 (I'm 26 now). I dont harbor any anger for that as shit happens and you aren't always as compatible with someone as you think you are. When I was like 16 or so, I got Leukemia. It was pretty minor as far as cancer goes, but it was still hard...
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{ "description": "having sex", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having sex?
So my gf shares one wall at her apartment complex, she has some issues with expressing herself and she finally started to open up and make noise during sex! It was fucking great until the neighbor started banging on the wall everytime embarassing her greatly. We are not very loud at all, this is not a case of screaming...
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{ "description": "wanting support from my ex after my miscarriage", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting support from my ex after my miscarriage?
My ex and I dated for a year after being best friends for several, I had a miscarriage and it has been really hard for me (19). And I know it must be hard for him (20) too. He broke up with me less than two weeks after we found out about the miscarriage and at first would not tell me why. I ended up having to go to th...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship?
A few months ago, I got myself out of a toxic friendship. They made me feel insecure, and like I had no one else. They’d accuse me of being a bad friend for every little thing I did “wrong”, such as talking to one of my other friends instead of them when they were in the same room. I also didn’t wave enthusiastically e...
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{ "description": "this upcoming argument with my gf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for this upcoming argument with my gf?
So I got off work today and drove 6 hours to visit my gf. She knew I was coming and said she'll leave a key under the mat just in case she falls asleep (I'm 1 hour away when she tells me this). I get there the door is locked and no key. I knock like crazy even making one of neighbors come outside. She's a heavy sleeper...
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{ "description": "allowing my friend to throw himself under the bus for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for allowing my friend to throw himself under the bus for me
My friend and I bought a vape to quit smoking and we were caught with it at school and he took the blame for it so I could walk away free. Aita for allowing him to do so.
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{ "description": "being frustrated at my boyfriend's work schedule", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being frustrated at my boyfriend's work schedule?
So my (25m) boyfriend (30m) and I both work retail jobs. I'm an assistant department manager and he's a customer service manager. I knew getting into the relationship with him that he enjoys and takes pride in his hard work. When I met him we were at the same store and he was regularly putting 10+ hour days often 7 da...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick out my step-son", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to kick out my step-son?
Just curious if I'm the asshole here or not. Sorry for any formatting issues, I'm on mobile. Little back story on this as follows. My step son (22) can not and will not hold a job to provide extra income for the household when he easily eats $100 in groceries per week, has a cell phone on our plan, as well as an X...
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{ "description": "not being able to find my my ride on time, making my driver late for lunch plans he had for a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not being able to find my my ride on time, making my driver late for lunch plans he had for a friend.
Im not sure why but this bugs me. This happened about a week ago, and I got out of school early. Usually I hitch a ride with one of my friend's parents, I'll call him John. But since my school got out 2 hours earlier than normal, John's grandparents were supposed to pick us up. I had no idea who was coming, what car or...
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{ "description": "making my new manager feel attacked over a label I made", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my new manager feel attacked over a label I made?
I work at a small cafe downtown where I live, I've been there for almost 2 years now and we've been cruising without a manager / assistant manager for a few months since the last one took another job. At the beginning of this week we got a new assistant manager, and it's been a rough few days because of it. Day one ...
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{ "description": "telling him it's not his baby", "pronormative_score": 74, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA If I tell him it's not his baby?
Alright, I'll try to keep this short, but it's a very convoluted story, just to clarify I AM NOT THE ONE PREGNANT and I am a witness in all of this, hence the question. Also on mobile so excuse the format My friend (23F) is a very intelligent and beautiful woman. That being said she is also spoiled rotten and very V...
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AITA My moms reactions to my dating preference
- I'm a 30 y/o single white dude from Ohio, now living in Chicago. - My family is wealthy for the area where I grew up, and I have never dated a white woman because I haven't met any that have really clicked. YEARS ago, after a 4 year relationship ended she said > You shouldn't date black women. - Whenever I've ...
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{ "description": "not giving away my concert ticket", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not giving away my concert ticket?
About a month ago, our school student activities board held a small trivia night for teams of six. The prize for the winning team was a set of six free tickets to a local orchestra concert. I was invited to fill in on a team of six really close friends (all of whom I am also friends with) when one of them was sick and ...
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{ "description": "wanting to abort my late husband's baby", "pronormative_score": 361, "contranormative_score": 62 }
AITA for wanting to abort my late husband's baby?
My husband died a week ago and I'm 13 weeks pregnant. My in-laws know and they want me to keep the baby so there's a piece of him alive. When I mentioned I might get an abortion they flipped out on me, called me every name in the book and selfish, at which point I broke down in tears and left. I don't know what to d...
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{ "description": "hitting my friend with a soda can", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hitting my friend with a soda can
Long text. Sorry for spelling I was sitting in my school lunchroom when I feel something hit my back, it was a plastic spoon. I look behind me and I see some classmates that I never really talked to and to the right of the table was my friend. Immediately in my mind I go "ohh he's ducking with me" it seemed like the k...
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{ "description": "telling a black woman that she's the first person of color my daughter has met", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling a black woman that she's the first person of color my daughter has met?
So I'm fairly socially inept and I have no issue with anyone based on the color of their skin. I'm white as can be. This happened awhile ago, but I was only recently made aware of the fallout of this interaction. My SO (now ex), me, and our (at the time) 17mo daughter were invited to dinner with one of his friends an...
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WIBTA My dilemma with my ex.
Okay so here's the story, I used to date this girl, let's call her Kate. Now, I got with Kate about a month before summer started up, and since we're in high-school we wouldn't see each other for a few months. I though,"Oh well, we can still FaceTime and stuff". Oh, but little did I know just how *much* we would FaceTi...
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{ "description": "assuming a girl's costume based in part because of her race", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for assuming a girl’s costume based in part because of her race?
So this happened earlier in the year at Dragon-Con. I was just chilling on a hotel balcony with my brother drinking, laughing, and talking to nearby cosplayers At one point, I went up to get a drink and noticed a petite Asian girl wearing a black tank top and sporting a bowl-type haircut with a blue streak through i...
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{ "description": "not dancing with her at the prom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not dancing with her at the prom?
Ok, Im not good at english (because im pinoy) also [M] as am typing right now. I feel tired, sad and emotionally unstable. Yesterday was gonna be my best night, saw my friends talking to each other at table 3 which is at the far right of the red carpet which connects to the stage. I saw her with her amazing black dres...
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{ "description": "for feeling nothing even though one of my best friends could die any day", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For for feeling nothing even though one of my best friends could die any day?
So, I met my friend (I’ll call her Eli) through one of my classmates who said that we share a lot of interests (Anime, games, music, similar humour etc) and that we could get along well. I’m always up for new friends so I said i’d love to meet her. I meet Eli one day as she was waiting for my classmate outside school, ...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for telling my mom to fuck off
I was at college and accidentally sent some packages home. My mom opened all of them and looked inside. Nothing to be to worried about inside, but I was pissed of that she would invade my privacy like that. I told her she shouldn't do that and she replied that she paid for my college so she's entitled to see how I'm sp...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a friends old crush", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sleeping with a friends old crush ?
This happened awhile ago but I want to know if I was in the wrong here. My best friend throughout college has had her fair share of long term relationships. While she was dating one of her boyfriends she would talk about a mutual friend of ours that she said was cute but couldn’t do much since she had a boyfriend. The...
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{ "description": "going to my teacher's supervisor for an \"accident\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going to my teacher's supervisor for an "accident"
Hello, first post here I'm currently a student (1st year going back into public school after being out due to PTSD) and I have severe PTSD. I tell all my teachers about my condition and the things that go with it, no loud noises/yelling, touching me, so on and so forth. I have a medical pass that means I leave all cla...
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{ "description": "looking out for my customer and not playing dumb like my coworker", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for looking out for my customer and not playing dumb like my coworker
https://m.imgur.com/gallery/C4wSPJt I’m a mechanic at an independent shop, and to keep this post from getting really long I’m gonna do my best to sum it up: 2 months ago I did 2 turbos on a 2011 Ford Flex, one of the new ones took a shit ever since, and now Ford is honoring their warranty on the turbo. The problem is, ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to shut up during sex", "pronormative_score": 50, "contranormative_score": 64 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to shut up during sex?
So last week me (24M)and my girlfriend (22F) getting it on in the bedroom and it was great and all but... she would not just stop talking it really ruined the experience for me and eventually I asked her if she could be quiet and you know what happened? She literally got off top, put on her clothes and left. She texted...
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{ "description": "being mad my dad doesn't want to be in my son I didn't tell him abouts life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being mad my dad doesn't want to be in my son I didn't tell him abouts life
So I am 20 and my 18 yo gf of over a year ended up pregnant. In our defence the condom broke and she was on the pill so we were like no big deal. Oops. About the time she got pregnant we broke up and I never told anyone she was pregnant. It was easy since she wasn't around so no one noticed her growing belly, and we ag...
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{ "description": "getting a guy fired on his first week of work", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting a guy fired on his first week of work
This happened a few weeks ago but i just dont got the courage to post this, so this happened. I have been a saw operator and newly promoted station manager at this plant for 9 months now and soo far (as what the plant supervisors told me) I am their best worker yet. This newly hired guy was put into my station, as a ne...
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{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to move out of my parents house", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to move out of my parents house?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 7 months now and things moved a bit fast. I live in one city and she lived in a town 1 hour and some change away. We saw each other for about a month before deciding mutually that she could come to live with me at my place until she finds a job and a place of her own. A...
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{ "description": "posting a screen shot of my schools director getting caught by pedo catchers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for posting a screen shot of my schools director getting caught by pedo catchers?
So to start this I'm going to explain that I'm 23 now but I went to school in a small village in the UK which had an infant, juniors and high school meaning I only went to school with people from my village up until high school when kids from other villages travelled to our school. There was a guy who lived in my villa...
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{ "description": "explaining what \"bi\" means to a student of mine who asked if I was gay", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for explaining what "bi" means to a student of mine who asked if I was gay?
This happened a few months ago and fucked me up for a few days if nothing else, but it still sticks around in my mind because although it felt like I did nothing wrong, in hindsight it might have been the wrongest of wrong things. I dunno. So background: I volunteer two days of every school week at a local primary (Au...
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{ "description": "making a comment about something my roommate has in the fridge", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making a comment about something my roommate has in the fridge?
AITA My friend and I were in my kitchen making some food. My friend opens the fridge and notices that my roommate has saved her left over cereal milk and makes a comment about how that’s kinda weird and I agreed with her. My roommate then comes out of her room and starts yelling at us about how we need to respect her...
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{ "description": "not getting him a job", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not getting him a job?
My housemate has been out of work for well over a year and all he does is play his playstation and smoke weed all day. We live in a house share and thats how we met, but i would also consider him a friend. He recently asked if I could get him a job or interview at my place of work, I'm a supervisor so I have a little p...
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{ "description": "not helping to take care of my younger cousin", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping to take care of my younger cousin
So I have been the only child for all my life and never had to take care of someone or give up what I love for them because it’s never been a case of ‘someone needs you at home’. Because of this I always make sure I help out in any way I can so I don’t come across as a snobby Ahole. Recently I have had lot of stuff com...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have a kid while in medical school", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to have a kid while in medical school?
Little backstory: I married my wife roughly a year ago. We've dated for a couple of years before I proposed. While it was clear to me early on that she's more in love with the idea of having kids than I am, we both came to an agreement that we would wait a year or so after marriage to have our own. Flash forward to a ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to spend 160", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my gf to spend 160$
TL;DR: my gf wants to buy me two games that total 160$ and I don't want her to which made her sad Okay so I've been with my gf for 4 years now and one day she was joking about getting me a video game and I was like "Amma hold you up to that" and now she actually wanna pre-order two games for me Battlefield V and Anth...
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{ "description": "exposing a classmate's cutting habit to the whole class", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for exposing a classmate's cutting habit to the whole class?
About 4 years ago when I was in grade 12, during Social Studies one day, I happened to notice a classmate's many horizontal scars on her wrist (let's call her "the cutter"). A few day later in class, before the teacher came in the classroom, I was on the other side of the classroom talking (rather loudly and obnoxiousl...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my roommate over disputes of shared space", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset at my roommate over disputes of shared space?
This one is kind of a doozy, so strap in. I'm (M19) living in a ~1,000sqft. , 3 bedroom apartment with 5 other friends. We are assigned two to each bedroom, and the shared spaces are the kitchen and the living room. One of my housemates (M19) has continually been using the shared spaces as if it was his own. Now, I c...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to pay for my trip", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting my parents to pay for my trip?
Hi there r/AITA, I'm a a college student well into my twenties, i'm a bad student overrall and my parents are paying for me (I live in EU so it's mostly rent, food since I live in another town and some taxes), they are disappointed with me because of this and I am disappointed of myself aswell, it's been an uphiil batt...
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{ "description": "absolutely despising MY Girlfriend's only friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Absolutely Despising MY Girlfriend’s Only Friend?
Obligatory apology for formatting issues should they exist, posted from mobile. TL;DR at the end. So let me start out by saying that I have already accepted everything about my (20M) girlfriend (19F), including having to deal with her best and only friend (18F). So, with that said, let it be known that I hate my gir...
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{ "description": "jacking off after my significant other didn't want to have sex", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for jacking off after my significant other didn't wanna have sex?
So I've been hanging out with this girl for a while but we aren't officially dating even though she really wants to. We have a fairly active sex life which is quite enjoyable. Earlier this week we were laying in bed watching some Netflix and I noticed I was a little horny, so I indicated I would like to have sex with h...
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{ "description": "freaking out because my family ate all the doughnuts", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for freaking out because my family ate all the doughnuts?
Alright, the title might be a little baity, but just stick with me here. So my family and I are all muslims, and because of that we all dry fast from sunrise till sunset during one of the months of the year (ramadan). It's a religous practice to help an individual cast away some of their material attachements and bri...
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{ "description": "getting into fight with best friend over me not accepting a chocolate bar", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting into fight with best friend over me not accepting a chocolate bar
A little bit of backstory: We're both 17, I'm a male and she's a female. I'm fairly considerate, as in I often give my friends stuff (for example cakes my mother makes), and so does she. A couple of times i asked her if she wanted me to bring her cake or whatever to school, and she always declined. One time i talked to...
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{ "description": "telling my family I feel unwanted", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my family I feel unwanted?
Title says it all. Recently I’ve been feeling as if I’ve been ignored by my family. When I go to tell them about a story idea I have or talk about something I like in general they huff and puff or groan or just straight ignore me. It makes me feel as if what I want to say is unimportant if it isn’t feeding into a const...
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{ "description": "ditching friends during our vacation due to their difficult child", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for ditching friends during our vacation due to their difficult child?
My friend invited a couple of families on a vacation together. We all have kids. Their child is a little difficult, is a bad sleeper and also has allergies. The entire vacation is starting to revolve around their kid. The kid must love playgrounds, because they want to go somewhere with a playground every day. And tha...
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{ "description": "cutting myself off from an old friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting myself off from an old friend?
A bit of backstory: Right out of high school I was going nowhere fast. Drinking, drugs, you name it and I was doing it. I had a friend who I would stay with a lot, getting high and drunk and causing trouble. After I moved to another state, I tried to turn my life around, and so I cut all contact with him. He's tried c...
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{ "description": "parking in a handicapped spot that I had good reason to believe would never be needed", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for parking in a handicapped spot that I had good reason to believe would never be needed.
For years, I have been going to a small local rock climbing gym. Because of government regulations based on the size of business, they had no choice but to provide two handicapped parking spaces right by the front door in the small main lot of about 12 cars. There was also an excess lot for about 40 cars behind the b...
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{ "description": "thinking a mentally disabled student is ruining my college games club", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for thinking a mentally disabled student is ruining my college games club?
**The neutral explanation** There is a games club that I am a member of at my college. Its members consist of about 20 members, both men and women who meet about once a week (usually not all 20 at once) to play various board / table top games. Since my joining the club 2 years ago, I have risen in the ranks to being s...
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{ "description": "not wanting my \"step sister\" and her bikie fiancé at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my “step sister” and her bikie fiancé at my wedding?
Some context. My mum and dad divorced when I was 26, I’m now 38. Dad started seeing a new woman and 13 or so years later they’re still together and I’m happy dad is happy with his partner. Dad seems to see her as my step mother, where as i see her as dad’s partner. She had a daughter from a previous marriage who is...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone that acted weird", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting someone that acted weird?
This happened quite a long time ago (about 4 (??) months back) but now i'm still troubled with the question of whether i was being an asshole in the situation. Sorry for bad English in advance, not a native. Tl;dr: ghosted a person after they started acting clingy and weird. So basically, i know this confession page ...
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{ "description": "hitting on my crushes best friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hitting on my crushes best friend
For context, I was hitting on this girl one day and I was really into her but she didn’t really seem into me. The next day she leaves me on read. I kept trying to talk but she would just leave me on read every time. After two weeks of this and trying to talk to her, her friend (who I didn’t know she was at the time)...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get a puppy with my girlfriend right now", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to get a puppy with my girlfriend right now?
So a little background info, I am 23 and my girlfriend is 21. We moved in together in September and ever since she has been dead set on getting a dog. I work full time in IT and she just received her bachelors in nursing and is going back to school for her masters next semester as well as working part time as a nurs...
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{ "description": "not celebrating my mom's engagement", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For not celebrating my mom's engagement?
My mom and dad recently divorced after 26 years of being married. Their relationship had always been rocky and anybody who was anybody could see it was on a downhill trajectory. I had spent the majority of my teenage and young adult years being the buffer between them and my mom had agreed to hold out on the marriage u...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed and yelling at my roomate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed and yelling at my roomate?
I’ll try to keep this short and sweet. Me and my roomate, let’s call him Jorge, we’re hanging and playing games until my second roomate got home and asked to use the switch to purchase something. I said sure, and pause the game to exit, and the game I paused instantly. I was like “oops” and went to pause it again and ...
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AITA for how I've treated this guy over the years?
So this shit started all the way back in 2016. I met some people my age online, and we got really close, and even planned to meet up at points. One of these guys was named "Johnny". Now Johnny is gay, and nobody else in the group is, which wouldn't be a problem except that he would constantly hit on us and make sexual ...
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{ "description": "cancelling on a friend to stay in", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for cancelling on a friend to stay in?
The other night a friend and I had plans to go to ballet together since I dropped her class (had feelings for her, she had a bf so I removed myself from the situation, later became friends) and we hadn't actually finished our choreography. We were working on a duet project before I switched classes and had decided we...
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{ "description": "having a problem with my wife and her sister renting a pony for my daughter's bday, but not wanting to tell me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for having a problem with my wife and her sister renting a pony for my daughter's bday, but not wanting to tell me
Wife and I just got into a fight because I heard her and our daughter on the phone with SIL and SIL says "I've got a surrrrprrriiiiise for you for your birthday!!!!!" ​ I gave my wife a curious look and she said she'd tell me later. ​ Daughter goes to bed, wife proceeds to tell me that her sis...
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{ "description": "something saying I already had this present when I was 7", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for something saying I already had this present when I was 7
This just pops into my head every now and then so I’m posting here to ease my conscience with other people’s opinion. So about 10 years ago on my my birthday (let’s call this person daxter) daxter got me a toy, I already had the toy so I went to my parents about it and they told to tell him The next day back at schoo...
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{ "description": "telling my neice to be quiet", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA if i told my neice to be quiet?
So my birthday is coming up and my niece is generally very loud and i wouldnt want to get annoyed by her a bunch while having my birthday because its my special day, WIBTA if i told her to "shut up"?
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{ "description": "ending a relationship the day after it's begun", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA to end a relationship the day after it’s begun?
(im in high school btw) So ive got a friend, call him R. We’ve been friends for about 8 or so months now. He used to be absolutely crazy in love with this girl, and i helped him through the rejection. This was about 3 ish months ago. Just yesterday, R asked me to go out on a date with him on saturday, to which I agr...
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{ "description": "bringing up my suicide attempt", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bringing up my suicide attempt
So, I only bring this up in limited circumstances. I suffer from psychosis. Basically, psychosis sucks. I wouldn't wish it on someone I hate, including someone who makes fun of psychosis, because a reality where people think it is a lighthearted subject is probably better than one where people are able to understand th...
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{ "description": "getting mad and hurt at my husband for trying to be a good son/grandson/great grandson", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad and hurt at my husband for trying to be a good son/grandson/great grandson?
Before we got married (4.5 years ago) we agreed to take care of each other’s parents when the time came. Unfortunately we did not discuss grandparents and great-grandparents, and that is what we are running into. We had our first kid almost a year ago, and I’ve struggled with some PPD. My husband works full time in a...
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{ "description": "ignoring my mother", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my mother
I have had a very strained relationship with my mother my entire life. (I’m 35) I was an accident that occurred during the height of her hoe phase in college. It’s only by the grace of God that I’m not severely damaged because she partied and did hard drugs for the first six months of her pregnancy ( in her defense sh...
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{ "description": "telling a lunch room full of kids that Harry Potter isn't real", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for telling a lunch room full of kids that Harry Potter isn't real?
If there's one thing you should know about me, it's that I'm a realist. I don't pretend that anything is what it is clearly not, and don't subscribe to any mainstream "fantasies". For this reason, Harry Potter p***** me off. Everybody walks around like it's the gospel truth and I'm over here like... are you serious? S...
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{ "description": "blocking her phone number", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITAH for blocking her phone number?
I have an aquaintence I made last summer in a theatre program. I'm an older teenager, and I honestly think she's like.. 12. I absolutely remember being 12, I remember how cringey I was and really regret it but what can you do. This girl is very 12... You know, young enough to pretend she's an animal but old enough to ...
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{ "description": "not moving on easily after my Bf sends his dog back to the shelter", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not moving on easily after my Bf sends his dog back to the shelter
Fist I want to apologize for any spelling errors. English is not my first language! My best friend [M/18] Two years ago his mother died + he has messed up relationship with his father (Important for the story later) A few months ago my best friend said he thought about adopting a dog from an animal shelter. I love ...
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{ "description": "not being happy when my friend dated", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because i cant be happy when my friend dated?
So, my friend, lets call her Annie, was dumped be her boyfriend, but after a conversation, they agreed to be in a open relationship. She started using Tinder, something that i was already doing for some time, but i was not being lucky. Then she told me that she started talking with a programmer (i'm one too), and coinc...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive my boyfriend to work Everyday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Drive My Boyfriend To Work Everyday?
So a little backstory: We took a trip to Glenwood Springs and on our way there he got his license taken away and a whole shitstorm of legal frustration. I blame myself but he says he doesn’t. My Dilemma: My boyfriend’s only decent job is 50-60 mins away from home. he has to be at the job site somewhere in Thornton. ...
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{ "description": "forcing my pizza delivery person to walk up 4 flights of stairs to deliver my food by threatening to tip poorly", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for forcing my pizza delivery person to walk up 4 flights of stairs to deliver my food by threatening to tip poorly?
So I live in an apartment building with 5 floors and a broken elevator. There is a freight elevator operator but overall it’s a hassle to get up and down to my room. I ordered pizza for like the third time this week cuz I’m too lazy to cook. Laziness is important for this story. I ordered the pizza and the guy called...
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{ "description": "beginning to lose feelings for a girl", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Beginning to Lose Feelings For A Girl?
(My first post so please go easy on me) ​ So I've had a crush on this girl I've known for years(Call her Q). Last summer I was pushing myself to tell her my feelings,(especially after at a summer camp, a girl who I thought was out of my league showed feelings for me and I messed it up because Q was on my m...
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{ "description": "not contributing money to my uncle's memorial after I said I would while at his funeral", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contributing money to my uncle's memorial after I said I would while at his funeral?
Posting from a throwaway since the cousin in question here is on reddit. I'll have to do some backstory but don't worry I will try to keep it short. I had a Great Uncle (grandpa's brother) who was essentially the "cool" patriarch of our family. We called him Tio. Everyone in the family adored him since he rode motorc...
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{ "description": "being genuinely exhausted and mad at my wife for refusing to get her drivers license", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being genuinely exhausted and mad at my wife (31) for refusing to get her drivers license.
I will try to keep it short but with all the details My wife is a good person, and pretty hard working in regards to work life balance. She works from home. I have implored through our 10 years together that she needs to get her DL. This is something she hasnt gotten because of fear or dying in a fiery crash ( she ha...
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{ "description": "not over-thanking for a thoughtful, but relatively small gesture", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not over-thanking for a thoughtful, but relatively small gesture?
A neighbor of mine went to a sports event for a team that I have ties to, and brought me some (free to him--he worked the venue) stadium cups. This is how the interaction went: Him: hey, I have some stadium cups from (place) for you.  Me: oh, how thoughtful, thank you! I'll try to grab them when I'm walking (dog) thi...
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{ "description": "demanding that my mom delete a post about me", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for demanding that my mom delete a post about me?
So a little before I start, this is going to be quite a short one (sorry). The post only got ten likes before it was deleted, and mom just shrugged me off. Btw, a kigurumi is an oversized onesie that almost always resembles some kind of animal. Sidenote: yelling=talking harshly I recently got a kigurumi for Christma...
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{ "description": "reporting my flatmate to the housing agency that she lives here with her boyfriend, when its forbidden", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I report my flatmate to the housing agency that she lives here with her boyfriend, when its forbidden
I got a new flatmate from the housing agency and she lives 90% of the time with her boyfriend here. In the rules it is stated that only one person can live in this room. So I dont have any problems if they weren’t so noisy sometimes. The walls are really thin and I can almost always hear them laughing or talking which ...
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{ "description": "possibly putting an end to the start of a relationship between my ex and one of my best friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for possibly putting an end to the start of a relationship between my ex and one of my best friend?
Hello, before I start my story, I just want to point out that I’m Danish, so English isn’t my first language so I’m sorry for any grammar mistakes, also this is a long story, TL-DR in bottom, thank you. This happened some time ago, but I’ve had a bad feeling about it ever since. **People involved:** (all names h...
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{ "description": "completely cutting my problematic sister out of my life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for completely cutting my problematic sister out of my life?
I have a sister who's been nothing but trouble the entire time i have known her. Previously i would put my life on hold out of feeling obliged- calling off work, missing class- to deal with her drama that she brought onto herself. And afterwards have it thrown in my face by her. I havent seen or spoke to her in over ...
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{ "description": "not telling my father's family about the real reason he is in a coma", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i didn't tell my father's family about the real reason he is in a coma?
I wanna preface this by saying that english isn't my native langua and i'm an emotional mess rn so please forgive if there are mistakes or incoherences. ​ My father got admitted into the hospital on thursday by me and my sister and it turns out that his liver is failing and not working anymore.(he also has...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I do not want to date them due to their weight", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling my friend I do not want to date them due to their weight?
I feel like a bit of a shallow asshole, but physical attraction and intimacy feels like something I need to have in a relationship, and I know sex is also very important for them. They are quite significantly overweight - not quite morbidly obese, but well into obese. There are a few complicating factors. The first...
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{ "description": "secretly chipping my dog", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If i secretly chipped my dog?
Throw away account, mobile, I'm exhausted excuse the mess. On with the issue... So mid December my boyfriend and I got a puppy, it was his friends, so there's no papers on who's pet, but I paid for her. $200 to be exact. We've been fighting alot, and talking about breaking up, he say's he'll take her. Cause his son ...
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{ "description": "not forgiving my mother and my brother", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not forgiving my mother and my brother?
AITA for not forgiving my mother and my brother? I have really bad trust issues and my brother and my mother have broken them. I love everyone in my family but it's hard for me to just forgive people when they just hurt me emotionally repeatedly. My brother is 5 years older than me but for the first 11 years of my li...
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{ "description": "cutting off family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off family?
Background My dad was emotionally abusive to me literally everyday ​ Story When I was traveling abroad with family I had the chance to meet my dad's side of the family but I never did. AITA?
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{ "description": "not wanting my BFs brother to be part of his life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my BFs brother to be part of his life?
BF (24M) and I (25M) have been together a little over three years now and have known each other for around 5. For all of that time I have known that BF has an older brother who is now 32 but until around nine months ago, I hadn't met the guy. He was estranged from the family because he'd done some really shitty things...
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{ "description": "fedding my dad's dog [legal] CBD dog treats without him knowing", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
WIBTA if I fed my dad’s dog [legal] CBD dog treats without him knowing?
My dad is very conservative and uptight. We live in a state where CBD products are now legal. He and my stepmom have 3 dogs, the oldest of whom seems to be 18-19. He was a rescue so everything is based on vet estimates. He’s a great dog but he’s old. He obviously has arthritis. They don’t give him baby aspirin becau...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my father after college", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If i cut ties with my father after college?
Sorry for bad format, im on mobile Ever since I could remember my father would consistently criticize whatever I did. Ranging from the way I joked to what I did. Basically every day of my life has been being blamed for his misdeeds or getting yelled at, or just getting criticized on everything. I'm now a senior ...
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{ "description": "walking on yards", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for walking on yards?
took my 3 kids trick or treating last night, and a few times i walked across someone's grass going from the sidewalk to their front door. I only did this a few times and only when it was grass. ​ Probably not relevant i was carrying my 3 year old daughter (a house with some big spiders scared her a b...
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{ "description": "making offensive jokes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making offensive jokes?
Hi, I’m having some trouble and I just want an opinion because I’m being told things from both sides of this situation. Firstly I would like to mention I am not trying to be insensitive or hurtful or troll anyone, im just a young guy who is trying to figure out if I’m being a major asshole or not. So, I was browsing ...
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{ "description": "leaving my family in the middle of my sister's dancing contest", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my family in the middle of my sister's dancing contest ?
So this happened yesterday, and I'm feeling crappy ever since.I'm from the Caribbean,we're celebrating "El carnaval".Last night was my sisters dancing contest. My cousin and I arrived pretty early to save us some seats, (contest was supposed to start at 8pm we arrived a little before 6).We got a row of seats (8 seats) ...
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{ "description": "not paying for my employees travel arrangements to go to his father's funeral", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for my employees travel arrangements to go to his father's funeral?
I started a company 6 years ago and this is the first time i've ever had to deal with something like this. He came into my office and said his dad died and I just said the usual sorry for your loss and I told him to take as much time off as he needs and he asked if I could pay for his flights and I politely said I coul...
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{ "description": "selling a gift from a friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I sold a gift from a friend?
To start off, the obligatory mobile user set up stuff. Ok so I have not done this, but was considering it. Around a month or two ago me and my friend were very into CounterStrike Global Offense (CSGO for short). In CSGO, you can open cases and get skins for your items. The rarest skins you can get are for your knife....
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{ "description": "watching less scary movies with my bf who scares easily", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for watching less scary movies with my bf who scares easily?
He hasn't complained or anything, he doesn't have nightmares and he's always down, but I know that they still scare him. Before I realized it was a true phobia from a childhood trauma, I kind of teased him and would try to "scare" him. Since I found out though, I've dialed them back to genres he agrees on (like alien o...
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{ "description": "not telling my mom details about therapy and my mental health", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my mom details about therapy and my mental health?
I’m 19 years old going on 20 in a few months. I still live with my parents because I attend community college in my hometown. I’ll be transferring and going to college a couple of hours away in the fall. I’ve started going to therapy after I asked my parents if they would let me go (aka let me use their insurance and...
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{ "description": "ignoring a beggar", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring a beggar?
So, this was really weird for me and I can't shake the feeling that I was being the asshole in the situation. I was leaving the bank after taking some money out, and a kid asked if I had any money. I literally ignored him and didn't look in his face because I had no "low-value" note on me, only I couple 20's that I c...
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{ "description": "letting a date/ons share my bed", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for letting a date/ons share my bed.
I split up with my ex in September and sometimes during but always after our relationship I said if she wanted to stay over she Had to take the sofa (or the floor which she preferred to the sofa). There were 2 reasons for this 1. I am a large man in a small bed so I couldn't sleep well at all if she is in my bed 2. We ...
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{ "description": "installing a plastic cage over the thermostat", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 22 }
WIBTA if I installed a plastic cage over the thermostat?
I live in a house with two other people. The agreement was in exchange for exclusive use of the garage and driveway I would pay the electric. It worked out fine in summer and fall, but since it’s gotten cold the electric bill has gotten ridiculous. Last month it was $162. I’ve talked to the roommates about it and...
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{ "description": "not bringing my nephew with me to his grandparents house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't bring my nephew with me to his grandparents house?
My family (my husband and my two kids, age 3 and 5) live in the same city as my husband's sister and her family (her, her husband, their 2 kids, age 6 and 9). My older son (5), and my nephew (6) are really good friends. However my nephew and my little guy (3) don't get along at all and when the three boys are togethe...
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{ "description": "having a supposed autistic person banned from a discord", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I had a supposed autistic person banned from a discord?
I am a moderator in a small hangout discord, currently waiting for training to be promoted to Admin, and there is this user in the server who I honestly despise. Let's call him Red. Red when he first joined demanded to know what my sex is, because I go by he/him but would mention things about my female body to friends ...
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{ "description": "wanting to invite a friend to my birthday that another friend doesn't get along with", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to invite a friend to my birthday that another friend doesn't get along with?
So I have a friend (we will call her OF for Old Friend) and I've been friends with her and two other girls for four years now. OF has issues with her mom and only tells certain people about it. Fast forward a few years, OF and I have two classes together in school (lucky us) and we make a new friend at our lunch table....
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{ "description": "wanting to become a better artist", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to become a better artist?
I’ve been a part of a small group of friends for a couple years now, but I feel as though we aren’t as equal anymore. There are 3 of us and we all share an undying passion for art. I usually refrain for caring much about others’ artwork unless I’m critiquing something as I feel that indulging other’s art can be harmfu...
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{ "description": "hating the ocean that killed my family member", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hating the ocean that killed my family member?
So hear my out guys. Throw away account for obvious reasons. I am a 30 year old male living in new york. My great grand father was an italian fisherman. Of the coast of italy he was fishing during the great storm of Sergio (in 1828). The storm took his boat down, he was never heard from again. I resent the ocean for...
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{ "description": "impersonating my friend online to get him a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for impersonating my friend online to get him a girlfriend?
So my friend, let's call him Mike, is kinda awkward. He got his crush's snapchat, but doesn't know what to text her to get her to fall for him. So I told him to give me his snap password, so I could pretend to be him and text her. He was a bit hesitant, but agreed. I logged onto his snapchat and started texting his cru...
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