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{ "description": "being sick of my Girlfriends Weird 'friend'", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being sick of my Girlfriends Weird 'Friend'
Right so I've been dating this girl for about 7 months now, lets call her M, and I'm like crazy into her. Ever since we got together we had been looking forward to a school dance, The winter formal (basically prom for tenth graders). Now M had this weird friend who had always just been there, we'll call her E. Shes alw...
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{ "description": "wanting to play videogames", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to play videogames?
Hello all. First, sorry for my English. I have a girlfriend for 2 years now. And we are on a trip to the beach. The thing is, we are staying at her father’s house, (only the two of us) and there is absolutely nothing to do here. No internet, no TV, nothing to do in the city at night (everything closes early), I didn’...
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{ "description": "eating old food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for eating old food?
I go to a creative arts high school that has a tech theater program. In our workshop, we have a communal fridge. There have been two packages of noodles in the freezer since mid-November. Fridge rules are that if it’s been in there for over a month, it’s trash/fair game. All my friends are telling me I’m in the wrong f...
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{ "description": "deciding that my gf shouldn't go on vacation with me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for deciding that my gf shouldn’t go on vacation with me?
So little context my gf and I are on spring break rn. A month ago a group of my friends and I rented a small cabin about 5 hours away from where we go to college. My gf made mention that she didn’t feel well at the end of the week, and her sickness got progressively worse over the past 4ish days. Two days ago (the day ...
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AITA for this situation with my roommate
A little background. I purchased a house back in January of 2016. Small 3 bedroom 2 baths split entry. Starter home as I'm only 28 but I hate the idea of renting. I had a roommate move in Feb 2016 and has lived with me since. Overall a decent roommate. Did some thing I didn't like. Like give his GF my house key withou...
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{ "description": "hiding protein bars at my local coffee shop", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for hiding protein bars at my local coffee shop?
At this coffee shop they have a little display of protein bars. I hide my favorite ones at the back of the display so no one can see them unless they look. Is this morally wrong?
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{ "description": "getting a coworker fired over slightly racist and classist comments", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for getting a coworker fired over slightly racist and classist comments?
I have a coworker who is generally friendly and fun to work with, does a good job, and has great customer service (he does treat all customers equally, to the best of my knowledge). However, when he's tired or upset, he'll take out his frustration by making rude comments to us (fellow employees) about how "he wishes he...
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{ "description": "being mad my friend finished in my wife during group sex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being mad my friend finished in my wife during group sex?
**Intro** *First draft was 8,500 char over limit. I will link the full story, here is a poorly edited one trimmed to 3000 ASAP.* ***I'm asking if I'm an asshole for telling my wife I was mad he came in her and also for making him apologize to me.*** *But if I or anyone else is an asshole for another reason I'm interes...
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{ "description": "being a selfish person", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being a selfish person?
I was talking to a friend about future goals. All of mine are selfish and I don’t think about all the wrong in the world. She just made me feel so bad about because I don’t vote, due to a lack of knowledge, and I’m not savvy on anything political. I don’t think about how lucky I am to have food on the table and clean...
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{ "description": "not going to my great-grandfathers funeral", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not going to my great-grandfathers funeral
So I'm torn between the opinion of my mother and my mother in law. Let me explain the situation. Last wednesday, my back hurt terribly. I couldn't walk, couldn't sit. I've honestly never experienced that kind of pain in my life (although I had a pretty painfree life, physically). I went to the doctor and he told me t...
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{ "description": "not believing in the art degree my wife is currently in school for and I think she's a bad artist", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: I don't believe in the art degree my wife is currently in school for and I think she's a bad artist
So, I'm probably an asshole here, but my wife and I have been long distance for the past 3 years while she gets her degree in Illustration at a no name school. She is driven and one of the most determined people that I know of, and I could never tell her how I feel. I hear about how all these artists come out of schoo...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay for prom tickets", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to pay for prom tickets?
Okay so here’s the gist: My boyfriend (18 M) and I (19 F) have been together for 8 months. I love him very much and we were friends for a while before we started dating, so that set up a good foundation for us. Financially, we are very different. His parents help him with the majority of all his payments and I’ve also...
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{ "description": "thinking we shouldn't spend $1k on dinner to treat our relatives' family", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking we shouldn't spend $1k on dinner to treat our relatives' family?
My family's not rich and usually don't eat out (because restaurants are usually very expensive here). We're all very close with our relatives' family since they're all extremely nice people, and exchange gifts often. My husband's planning to treat the relatives out to an extremely fancy seafood dinner in a few days to ...
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{ "description": "not paying for damage my cigarette did", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying for damage my cigarette did?
So I was at a big party at a stable. At round 1:30 I went outside for a smoke, and started talking to a friend of mine working at the cashier, where you have to pay your entry fee. It wasn't very crowded outside, so I didn't really pay a lot of attention to my surrounding. While talking, and holding my cigarette in the...
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{ "description": "asking one Subway employee to help the other", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking one Subway employee to help the other?
If you don’t know Subway has a new promotional item called ultimate cheesy garlic bread. It takes a minute to make, so you tell the person you want that when you step up. So I tell the girl I want a footlong Italian bmt on ultimate cheesy garlic bread. She then proceeds to look at all the pictures on their side of t...
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{ "description": "letting my mom's dog run out the door", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for letting my mom’s dog run out the door?
I live with my mom and she has a chihuahua she took in as a stray a few years ago. The dog uses our house as his toilet despite being let outside multiple times a day. He gets in the trash, he eats everything, and he is basically a menace. I am the one who always gets stuck cleaning up after him and I have had multiple...
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{ "description": "telling my bf I don't like going to his family gatherings", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my bf I don't like going to his family gatherings?
Typing this up on phone so excuse the formatting. To preface this - I (24F) am the newest addition to my bf (23M)'s family. We live in the UK, but are both foreigners. His family (mother & brother) is portuguese, while I am bulgarian. His brother is married to a nice polish lady. Neither me nor her speak portugue...
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{ "description": "expecting my husband to limit his favourite hobby", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting my husband to limit his favourite hobby?
AITA for expecting my husband to turn off the television whenever our baby is awake & denying him from sharing his favourite hobby with our son for many years? I strongly believe that screen time is unhealthy for infant brain development (the American Academy of Pediatrics recommend zero screen time before 18 month...
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{ "description": "calling the police on my neighbors dogs", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I called the police on my neighbors dogs?
So I have two dogs. have had the oldest since 2011. the youngest since 2014. I've lived in my house since 2009. the house next door to me has two dogs they got as puppies this summer. they moved in back somewhere around the first of the year (it's a rental property). I've never had a problem with either of my dog getti...
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{ "description": "getting impatient during a hypothetical conversation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting impatient during a hypothetical conversation?
I've known my roommate for over a decade, and we don't always mesh personality-wise. He is the type of person who very much enjoys having long drawn out hypothetical arguments about random things. I do not enjoy this. I find arguments, especially hypothetical ones, exhausting. Fast forward to today. I did some yard wor...
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{ "description": "asking my mother to not chew gum around me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my mother to not chew gum around me? (or something like that)
(16) I have some issue for some reason where the sound of chewing from just about everyone causes serious anxiety for me. I get tense, I sweat, I shake, I can't even think about anything if there are some sounds like that going on around me. It's been happening for around 7 years: I'm on the verge of a panic attack on...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit my nephew", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit my nephew
I posted this the other day without a response, so I hope it's okay to try again. My brother-in-law (wife's brother) is deployed overseas. His wife works every weekend in addition to having classes during the week. So what's the problem? Neither one of them can keep their son, my nephew, on the weekend, sometimes even...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that she should stop crying about a dog that died two years ago", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA For telling my girlfriend that she should stop crying about a dog that died two years ago?
Its not everyday but its enough that its become extremely annoying. I understand you had your dog for a long time, i understand you cared about it, but to cry out of nowhere on christmas because you saw a dog mug? Or to burst out crying when you see the same breed on the street? My own grandfather died and i didnt she...
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{ "description": "using my friend as motivation to be a better person", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: I use my friend as motivation to be a better person.
I have this "friend" who has a reputation of being annoying, ask dumb questions, and is known to hit on many guys but have weak game. I use her as motivation because I use to have a similar attitude as her and I want to improve myself. I hang out with her to remind myself to not act like that.
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{ "description": "reporting a statutory rape", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for reporting a statutory rape
This was 5 years ago and the effects of the incident have made a huge impact on several lives. I was over for dinner at my buddy bob’s house. I had known bob for about a year and we hung out every now and then because we worked together and our wives got along and our kids were the same age. We both had girls who were ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my trans friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my trans friend?
So this is a pretty short and simple issue but I'm feeling confused and I'm rethinking my actions in trying to solve an issue in my group of friends. Basically, I have 2 good friends who I have both known for a long time. One of them is more problematic than the other. (Friend A) He's a nice guy and he's smart but I d...
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{ "description": "suddenly kicking out my uncle", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suddenly kicking out my uncle.
My uncle has been a nuisance in our household ever since he started staying with us in June, this is kind of long so please bear with me. I'm going to give some backstory prior to the event for better understanding. Backstory: My uncle has a personal protection order against him from his wife, and this prevented him f...
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AITA My sister vs her boyfriend
📷 There was an argument that happened yesterday. My sister and her boyfriend moved into an apartment a week or so ago and my sister's childhood friend (female) came to visit (They've been friends since they were toddlers). They bought a mattress and it arrived yesterday and the boyfriend was mad because it ar...
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{ "description": "evicting a girl living in my house rent free", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for evicting a girl living in my house rent free?
So I don't date. Like almost never. Since high school I've had two girlfriends and maybe a dozen first dates. All of them end in disinterest from either her or me. From my perspective the women that I attract are not the highest caliber or class. So here I am at 40 and my life resembles a Steve Carrell movie. So when...
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{ "description": "using \"you\" incorrectly, checking out in the middle of a conversation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA Using "You" Incorrectly, Checking out in the middle of a conversation
I was in conversation with my partner, and we got to the talking point about the Midwest, United States. What started the argument was when I said: "When you decolonize your education, the Midwest is a lot more interesting than what we are told in school." To their reply, they said that "Why are you blaming me?" To tha...
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{ "description": "ignoring guys I meet on tinder", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for ignoring guys I meet on tinder?
I recently downloaded Tinder to see what all the hype was about. I wasn’t really seeking a deep, meaningful relationship. In all honesty, I was just bored and wanted to see if I could meet someone interesting on the off chance that I hit it off with someone. I wasn’t aware that females are supposedly very in demand o...
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{ "description": "requesting my bf to stop playing Apex at 5 in the morning", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for requesting my bf to stop playing Apex at 5 in the morning?
I'll start by saying I (23f) already feel like an asshole, but maybe you guys can set me straight. Last night (friday night) my bf (21) played a bar show, he's a lead guitar player and he absolutely nailed it, it was a great show- everyone had a lovely time and we both got inebriated enough to where we couldn't drive h...
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{ "description": "turning down my boyfriend's Valentines Day plans because they were ambiguous", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for turning down my boyfriend's Valentines Day plans because they were ambiguous?
For context we both drove home from our shared apartment in another state because one of his family members are on their deathbed. I'm saying at my parents house and we drove in his car, but he rented a car when he got here with his family. I've been home this morning/afternoon because he said we would watch the shows ...
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{ "description": "asking roommate to not keep junk food in the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for asking roommate to not keep junk food in the kitchen?
Throw away because roommate is on Reddit. I have self control issues when it comes to junk food, and am trying to lose weight. If I see junk food in the cupboard I will think about it every time I get a craving, and eventually cave. I always replace what I eat but then the cycle repeats. I've asked my roommate to ju...
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{ "description": "asking a gay classmate to be a little discreet about his sexuality for a trip", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked a gay classmate to be a little discreet about his sexuality for a trip?
I have a gay classmate that’s going on a 3 week trip to Abu Dhabi. He’s a really great person, he owns his sexuality, and has no shame in who he is, which is awesome. However though, I’m a bit concerned. I’m Arab, and I’ve lived in Arab countries, and even gone to Abu Dhabi myself. People there are not accepting. They ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help him
I‘m on the phone and English is my second language, sorry for any mistakes! So, I have this classmate that has ADHD and depression. We have some similar interests so we usually got along pretty good. But recently he started taking out his moods on me. One minute he would be having a friendly chat with me, the other ...
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{ "description": "still being upset about an incident 5 years ago", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for still being upset about an incident 5 years ago?
Here’s the deal: My family is very close to our neighbors, they’re pretty much an extension of our family and I personally respect and adore them. In 2015 I joined them for thanksgiving (my whole family out of town, I stayed cuz I had too much hw from college so no issues there) and their 26 year old nephew from NYC j...
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{ "description": "letting an ex-friend end our friendship because of my behavior", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting an ex-friend end our friendship because of my behavior?
Tl,dr: bff has BPD and struggles with depression, I do too. We support each other until she decides to end a friendship with another friend of ours. I ask why, she answers that the other friend lied (she didn’t). I try to talk reasonably with her to no avail. In the end she cut ties with me on the basis that I was “be...
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{ "description": "banning Japanese in my group chat", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for banning Japanese in my group chat?
Me and my close knit friend group of four other people have a discord server where we discuss pretty much everything. Lately we’ve all been drifting apart slowly and not posting as much as we used to, this is mostly because we now all go to different schools. We’ll call everyone involved H, E, F and D. Me and F are...
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AITA? Phone privacy asshole things
AITA? So I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he's cheated on me physically twice, and sexted several hundred women since we got together. I promised like 1 year ago not to snoop through his phone anymore (I know, I'm the asshole there, but it's the only way I ever figured out anything was happening), but recently,...
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{ "description": "\"offending\" a Christian", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for “offending” a Christian?
First post here! Hi, so I’m not Christian, which is gonna be important later on. So I have 2 good friends, Girl A, and Girl B. Both are really Faithful Christians. A and I talk over a small app because she doesn’t have a phone, and B and I text, so I sometimes exchange messages from A to B. One day A was crying abou...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to send me pics of her dying grandfather", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for telling my GF not to send me pics of her dying grandfather?
So my gf’s great grandfather has been in a nursing home for roughly 10 years now. He has sever dementia/Alzheimer’s, and is essentially a shell of a person. He can’t talk, he can’t eat, his mouth just stays open. There’s been no sign of any consciousness for years now. He’s finally “dying” and her family has seen him...
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{ "description": "being upset my wife called me fat", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset my wife called me fat?
Why is it unacceptable for a man to call a woman fat... or ugly... or put them down about their physical appearance in any way but when a woman calls a man fat we're suppose to just "get over it" or "relax"? Is this fair? ​ I have never.... EVER spoken negatively about my wifes physical appearance. Not o...
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{ "description": "making a date split the bill", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making a date split the bill?
Had a tinder date qyite a while back, we text where to meet and when. she also said please let her know a short while in advanced of the actual date itself. So on the day im about 15 minutes away from where we meant to meet, i text her and its very obvious that she has forgotten about it. She sends me a series of tex...
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{ "description": "calling someone a nice guy right next to him", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someone a nice guy right next to him
A little bit of a long post I'm sorry! TLDR at bottom ​ I was visiting my local tabletop/boardgame store in our town with my ex (we're still good friends - were together for 3 years, known eachother for 6+ and broken up almost 2 - 3 months now) because there was a MTG tournament and thought we'd drop by fo...
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{ "description": "dumping out coffee", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for dumping out coffee?
My work provides free coffee. Bless. We brew it ourselves out of those pre-measured packets, have a variety of flavors and roasts, etc. It’s not the best coffee, but I’m not complaining about free. We typically have 3-4 carafes out at once, each with a different roast and we leave the empty coffee bag in front to ind...
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{ "description": "not immediately greeting my mom when she walked in and not hearing her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not immediately greeting my mom when she walked in and not hearing her.
Howdy. So I (M,14) was listening to music when she came home so I couldn't here her saying something . She then said it again and I hear and said "what?". Then she had a fit about my disrespect. Prior to this she'd already rubbed in that she had sushi while going to the grocery store while I stayed home and had eggs, s...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to kick his ex-girlfriend off of his Netflix account", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to kick his ex-girlfriend off of his Netflix account?
Boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. He was broken up with the ex for like a month before he and I became official. My boyfriend and the ex don’t talk, as far as I know. But she’s still on his Netflix account. My thing is, I feel like if you’re no longer in a relationship, you’d probably cut ties like this. ...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my friend?
So there’s this girl who I used to be friends with, let’s call her G. For the past two years, this girl has been going out of her way to stalk and harass me. Some of the things she has done include showing up to my work and trying to get me fired, copying all of my outfits, down to my socks, following all my friends on...
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{ "description": "wanting to walk away when l have just promised not to do exactly that", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to walk away when l have just promised not to do exactly that?
So I (30 F) have been seeing Derek (26 M) on and off for about 6 years. We’ve never been in a committed relationship during this time. We’ve just been in a bit of a cycle of seeing each other for a short time and then things falling apart with me ultimately ending things or even worse just ghosting (I feel just disgust...
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{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "not contributing to my brother's rehab fund", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not contributing to my brother’s rehab fund?
Throwaway bc personal life. & sorry for the long story.. I am the oldest of 5 children. My middle brother (22m) recently admitted himself to a psychiatric hospital for drug use after a friend of his threatened to turn him in if he didn’t seek help for his addictions. Prior to this, he was staying with me, my husba...
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{ "description": "saying I was going to repo car", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying I was going to repo car?
So - had to sell car. Adult family member (FAM), in a different state, needed car, agreed to take over payments. Everything still in my name, as they can't get loans, etc. Payment were made on time, car just got paid off. Haven't signed title over yet. 6 months ago, started getting toll bills. Passed them along, FAM ...
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{ "description": "refusing to have a stranger pray for me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to have a stranger pray for me
This happened a few months ago. Basically, I'm sitting alone at a table outside on campus, minding my own business, eating lunch, playing phone games. Then some dude walks up to me and asks if there's anything that he can pray for for me. I, being somewhat taken aback, and an atheist, said "please don't" and turned aw...
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{ "description": "telling my brother it's weird he still lives at home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my brother (27) it's weird he still lives at home?
I'm terrible in arguments. Palms sweaty, knees weak, puking spaghetti, whatever you get it. I'm trying to piece it together. My brother's 27 and still lives at home. He's totally capable of moving out, he just likes saving the money. Fair enough, I guess. His gf has been telling him she wishes he'd move out, which he...
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{ "description": "starting to resent my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for starting to resent my grandmother
I’m 17 years old and currently staying at my grandmother’s house temporarily. I’ve been in New York for 5 months and I was with my dad, but a CPS case was opened against him and I no longer feel comfortable there. My mom is a narcissist and pretty certifiably insane so my grandma is what I got right now. The house ha...
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{ "description": "refusing to borrow money to my relative in need", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to borrow money to my relative in need?
I have a relative ( 30F) who I used to be close to. Until I noticed she only contacted or visited me when she needed something (most of the time money). She has lost about 5 jobs in the past 2 years and therefore her resident permit has been revoked. There are steps you can take over here to get a proper permit but...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "univniting my mom to my birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for univniting my mom to my birthday dinner?
My birthday is coming up soon and we are currently in Las Vegas for spring break, home to some of the best steakhouses in the world. Because I really enjoy steak, I picked out a first restaraunt to eat at. However, when my mom found out I had picked a steak house with no alternative dishes, she got very angry, as she...
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{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "ending a close relationship to get over a crush", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ending a close relationship to get over a crush?
Over the years I've gotten closer to my coworker as we both progressed through our careers. She is extremely smart and always willing to help whenever I was "stuck", so I built up a dependency on her as we progressed together. Late last year we began meeting on the weekends to play tennis as she was always looking for ...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to go camping with a friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go camping with a friend anymore?
Hi! Three months ago a friend asked me to go camping and I said yes. However many setbacks have occurred to my mental health and my OCD, anxiety and eating disorder are really bad right now. This causes me to have awful stomach aches and migraines as a physical manifestation of my disorders. It’s the day we are meant t...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "being pissed of at a girl for getting her friend to tell me she's bailing on me for prom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed of at a girl for getting her friend to tell me she’s bailing on me for prom?
I had agreed with this girl that we would go to prom together at the beginning of the the school year. We had texted/ talked about it a bunch and I never got any indication that she didn’t want to go with me. All of the sudden, she got a boyfriend, and I didn’t think anything of it because I thought we were going as fr...
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{ "description": "telling my gf to stop smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA if I tell my gf to stop smoking weed?
We’ve been living together for three months now. She didn’t have a job when she moved in. I’ve been waiting for her to get a job and help out, but it’s really just her sitting around all day smoking my pot and watching tv. I feel like a fucking parent. But my instinct is to hide the weed and tell her to get a job...
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{ "description": "not telling my bf about an abortion I had now that we are breaking up", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA For not telling my BF about an abortion I had now that we are breaking up?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. When we met, his recent hook up body had faked a pregnancy and miscarriage after he tried to break things off. It was a bad situation, and he really tried to do the right thing and take her word for it. Indisputably, it came out that she was lying. Fast forward 3 month...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sing at my great-uncle's funeral", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to sing at my great-uncle's funeral?
He was recently diagnosed with cancer and only has a few months left to live. My grandmother is making funeral arrangements at a Catholic Church which I've been attending until recently (1-2 years). I don't feel comfortable singing at the church because I'm an athiest, and that churches have always scared the hell out ...
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{ "description": "taking my dad's side in an argument with a shop clerk", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for taking my dad's side in an argument with a shop clerk?
My dad isn't scared of confronting people and he comes from a different culture that often clashes with where he lives. He means no harm, he just comes off rude. I may be biased because my dad is well, my dad, so I want an outside perspective. I'm not asking if my dad's the asshole, I'm asking if I am for being on his ...
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{ "description": "eating all the caramel corn out of the mixed popcorn tin", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for eating all the caramel corn out of the mixed popcorn tin?
There are three flavors: white cheddar, butter, and caramel corn. My girlfriend likes all three, but her favorite is the caramel corn. I only like the caramel corn. AITA for eating all the caramel corn and leaving her with the white cheddar and butter flavors?
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{ "description": "not going out with a friend because she wanted to bring her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going out with a friend because she wanted to bring her boyfriend?
To preface: I'm a guy, 17. My friend, X, is 18. So I've been friends with this X for about three years, but we don't see very much of each other because she dropped out of high-school at the beginning of the year, about six months after she enrolled at my school. We've hung out a couple times, and once she brought...
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{ "description": "arguing with someone about pointing an air compressor in their dog's face", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
aita for arguing with someone about pointing an air compressor in their dog's face ?
a post came up on my feed from r/whatswrongwithyourdog that had the op using an air compressor in their dog's face. it made me feel deeply concerned and angry that someone would think this was okay, so i commented several times expressing how wrong i felt this was. i'm really adamant about my opinion; but i'm not sure ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "telling my bf that some things he says and/or does feels demeaning/degrading to me", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my bf that some things he says and/or does feels demeaning/degrading to me?
While there are a couple recent situations that are prompting me to come to this sub, they definitely come from a pattern of behaviors that my BF and I may be engaged in. Also, be warned , these situations probably sound trivial af. Situation/example 1: I have a couple projects that I am working on around the house....
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AITA: someone told me to watch their stuff, but I didn't...
I was on break from my college class (a 15 min. break) and I was sitting at a lunch table just messing around, and this woman asked me to watch her stuff (a laptop, some books, random stuff). Being the nice person I am, I said "no problem" as she ran off to the bathroom (I guess she was having gastric problems or som...
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{ "description": "not being happy by being surprised with a non-running, junk yard car for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being happy by being surprised with a non-running, junk yard car for Christmas?
Hello. So this just happened and I'm feeling very conflicted. I feel terrible, but at the same time justified, so I need an outside opinion. I got a call from my boyfriend of three years this morning. He told me he had a surprise for me, that my Christmas gift came early! I was excited because I told him that I want a...
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{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "being offended at the use of \"faggot\"", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being offended at the use of “faggot”?
Just as the title says. I identify as queer and hearing people use “faggot” or “fag” (not in reference to a cigarette but rather to people and behavior) really makes me uncomfortable. I’ve brought this up, yet there are plenty of people defend the use of these words especially on Reddit. Am I overreacting? Or is this ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that my straight friend was gay, so that she'd get with me instead", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA For telling a girl that my straight friend was gay, so that she'd get with me instead?
Hear me out, this is more nuanced than it sounds. All of us are in the same college, but ive known this girl for much longer. Shes a 10/10, not even exaggerating she could be a model if she wanted, shes from brazil and is studying to be a teacher like me. My friend is a cool guy, known him for years. But hes also a w...
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{ "description": "calling my friend a racial slur", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for calling my friend a racial slur?
I fall under the autism spectrum (I can still fit in well with most people and talk relatively normally but I have some problems with small simple things) and my friends make fun of me for it. I know they’re joking but they do it constantly, pretty much every day and it does bother me. Anyways we got into a conversatio...
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{ "description": "raising legitimate concerns towards management and getting shifts cut as punishment", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for raising legitimate concerns towards management and getting shifts cut as punishment
I've worked at a bar for several years now. Recently, the staff there have started to notice the management were not pulling their weight. For each shift, there is only one duty manager, but we have multiple managers working each day. They all frequently disappear and give themselves easy roles during busy shifts. Aft...
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{ "description": "requesting my gf to get a decent job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for requesting my gf to get a decent job
Hey guys, just got out of an unresolved fight with my girlfriend and wanted to know if I’m being unreasonable. To sketch some context: we recently bought a house together, are both in pur early early thirties and are planning to have kids in the next year or two. My income is I’d say upper middle class and hers is j...
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{ "description": "purposefully getting my neighbor evicted because of their barking dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I purposefully got my neighbor evicted because of their barking dog?
So I've lived in my apartment for 9 months now. It's absolutely perfect except for one thing: my neighbor's barking dog. My neighbor lives in the building next to me, but our buildings are connected and we share a wall on our kitchens, dining rooms (although I use mine as an office), bathrooms, and bedrooms. Their dog...
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AITA For This?
The reason I didn't say the whole thing in the title is because it's long. Basically, my friend threw a rock in a creek, it almost hit my head, I threw a bottle of water at him (don't ask why I had a bottle), yet I didn't throw the actual bottle, but he did. After fighting (verbally), he told me he was trying to hit a ...
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{ "description": "remaining Friendly with my racist coworker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Remaining Friendly With My Racist Coworker?
Now I'm not a particularly passive person, if I see something I think is wrong I tend to point it out. Stand up for what I think is right and all. Now when this young girl started working with us I wasn't sure where I stood with her. We have a small workforce, only about six people, so I work in a close environment wit...
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{ "description": "I was eliminating in fantasy football playoffs in a dynasty league that is disbanding after this season due to low activity/interest. the guy in first place won't be coming over to the new league and has low waiver wire priority, so I dropped Rodgers, McCaffrey, and Barkley. I said nothing", "pron...
AITA I was eliminated in fantasy football playoffs in a dynasty league that is disbanding after this season due to low activity/interest. The guy in first place won’t be coming over to the new league and has low waiver wire priority, so I dropped Rodgers, McCaffrey, and Barkley. I said nothing.
Not super worried about being a dick to that guy on particular, I have nothing against him but I haven’t seen him in so long I don’t remember what he looks like. While those 3 have higher waiver priority it’s possible that teams not in the playoffs may be able to pick up some if those players. Since I’ve been eliminate...
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{ "description": "being honest to my EX (when I was with her) and my GF (now) about her/our pet ownership", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being honest to my EX (when I was with her) and my GF (now) about her/our pet ownership.
A bit of important background information: I grew up in a house with several dogs. my parents tried to keep the house clean but they both worked jobs so unless they were cleaning up and walking the dogs when they could it didnt get done; because of that, the house was messy and sometimes smelly because the dogs were un...
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{ "description": "being mad at my parents because they called me 20 times when my phone was on silent", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my parents because they called me 20 times when my phone was on silent
I'm currently out of town on a business trip. This afternoon I went to watch a movie and put my phone on silent. Checked my phone after the movie and there were 13 missed calls, 7 missed facetime requests, and 3 unread texts within a period of 1 hour and 20 minutes. My parents wanted to chat about a trivial little th...
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{ "description": "uninviting my son and granddaughter to Thanksgiving dinner because he couldn't commit to arriving by a certain time", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 53 }
AITA for uninviting my son and granddaughter to Thanksgiving dinner because he couldn't commit to arriving by a certain time?
I have a 32 year old son and a 4 year old granddaughter. We live in the same town. He is a 10-15 minute drive away. Even though this is true I see my son maybe once a month (or even less sometimes) and my granddaughter on the same or lesser frequency. So obviously getting together on Thanksgiving was important to every...
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{ "description": "not inviting my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting my friends?
I (26F) have 2 main groups of friends, a group that I've been friends with since high school (call group A) and a group of friends that I've known since I was 19 (call group B), and I have one best friend who is part of both groups with me. We do many things with both groups of friends, but it's always been seperate, s...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for kicking a dog that attacked us", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for kicking a dog that attacked us?
So last night my boyfriend and I went to dinner and then had a walk around the park. While on that walk a stray dog run up on us and my boyfriend kicked it. Yes the dog was aggressive and would have probably bit us. But he kicked it right in the head, at full force. It all happened so fast too. But the more I thought a...
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{ "description": "literally not caring about my sister having a baby", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for literally not caring about my sister having a baby?
So, I'll try to add the appropriate details without going too long, but long story short, my(26m) 19 year old sister is having a baby in June and I just don't give a shit. I come from a semi-broken home. My parents split up before I was born and I spent every other weekend visiting my dad from the ages of 5-8, AKA un...
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{ "description": "not paying my friend for breaking his wall", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don't pay my friend for breaking his wall
Ok so for complete clarity my and my friend also neighbor live in a building for homeless youth that takes care of everything in the building. The way I broke his wall was because I fainted due to dehydration. I felt it and immediately got up to get a drink and then fainted. I put a huge dent in his wall. I apologized ...
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{ "description": "washing my gf's kitchen towels with her bathtowels", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for washing my gf's kitchen towels with her bathtowels?
So my gf was out of the house for a few hours today and I decided to surprise her by tidying up and doing some laundry. I almost a had enough bath towels for a full load but decided to throw in a few kitchen towels (used mainly to dry dishes after rinsing) to complete the load. Now here's the thing, I know she wa...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my gf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset with my GF?
So for the past week i've been dealing with depression and anxiety. I take medication for my anxiety but not my depression and i feel like the intervals between depression is too large to warrant me getting medication for it. - Because of our work schedules (me working night shift at a factory and her working 8am-5pm ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend with benefits for having sex with another dude whilst we are on vacation", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for being mad at my friend with benefits for having sex with another dude whilst we are on vacation?
Sorry English isn't my first language, I'm on mobile 😅 So I took some friends from school to my vacation house for a weekend, amongst those people was said friend with benefits So she had told me that we were going to sleep together when we stayed there, so that evening I was on my room watching YouTube and she comes ...
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{ "description": "being pissed that my step daughter told us to keep it down in our bedroom", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed that my step daughter told us to keep it down in our bedroom
First off she moved back here. She didn’t have any place to go, so whatever. Did I want her here? Nope, but she is my step daughter so I will accept her since she’s in a time of need. You know, one of the great things about the kids not being here is the sex, not going to lie. Just not having to worry about the kids ...
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{ "description": "not letting a kid win", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting a kid win
For some background and context: I know this 9/10 year old kid who sometimes comes over. Usually we play games together, whether it be on the Wii U or his Switch. One game we play is Smash Bros on the Wii U which is a competitive game. Anyway, whenever we play together I always win because of course I'm better than him...
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AITA Boyfriend mad at me for not buying him a festival ticket when I bought one for myself
Context: My boyfriend and I are in our 30s, both middle class and make around the same salary (i somewhat more). I was working from home today and saw the new lineup for a summer music festival that costs around $200. I bought tickets for myself on layaway as I make decent wages but didnt feel super comfortable throwin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay with a dying relative in the hospital", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to stay with a dying relative in the hospital?
A close relative is near to death due to a chronic and severe health issue (staying vague, because Reddit). I don't feel as though I'm mentally or emotionally strong enough to sit in the hospital room watching said relative slowly die. For context they are comatose, breathing very slow and shallow, and on multiple medi...
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{ "description": "wanting my cousins as my bridesmaids but not wanting their mother at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for wanting my cousins as my bridesmaids but not wanting their mother at my wedding.
So backstory first, my aunt has hated me since the day I was born. I don’t know why but it’s always been this way, she’s always hated my mom too. Again idk why she’s this way but she is. She always has some drama with a different family member and has kept my cousins away from all of us, growing up. Every holiday or...
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{ "description": "not wanting my sister to bring her black boyfriend to christmas as just a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting my sister to bring her black boyfriend to christmas as just a friend?
My sister has been dating this guy for about a year but has been keeping it a secret from our parents and grandparents because he's black and she's worried how they would feel. She wants to bring him over for christmas but introduce him as just a friend and she's been priming for this by bringing a white female friend ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be in one of my best friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to be in one of my best friend’s wedding?
TL;DR at the bottom. A bit of backstory: My friend, I’ll call him Fred, would hang out with this girl, we’ll call her Wilma, in high school during junior and senior year. He’d spend way more time with this girl than with his guy friends, even though they weren’t even dating. She sibling-zoned him (essentially a friend...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ended a friendship?
For context I have two friends (who we will call Steph and Lola) who recently started hanging out more. Now Steph is very self centered and attention seeking. One of Lola's friends has compared her to a leech or a parasite. Steph picks very specific people,to be her friends. If you are friendly but a pushover she makes...
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{ "description": "claiming my computer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for claiming my computer
This is a small one, but basically i bought a computer, it is mostly owned by me but my parents helped out a little bit in paying for it. My brother often has a friend over and has had this same friend over 2 times in the past 2 weeks, every time he comes in and asks to use my computer, i said yes for both of those as ...
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{ "description": "telling my friends that I think my gf is going to leave me for a guy, shes incredibly defensive about", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my friends that I think my gf is going to leave me for a guy, shes incredibly defensive about?
I was talking to a couple of my friends about my relationship, and her and I aren't doing well right now, and that's shes talking to a guy and tells me how it reminds her of our early conversations, because now we usually go to bed annoyed with what one another said, but anyway, I mentioned that she might leave me for ...
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{ "description": "spending $600 to get away from my dad a week early", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for spending $600 to get away from my (19f) dad (55m) a week early?
This will be a bit lengthy. Tl;dr at the end. My dad is kind of a jerk. He never really treated me or my siblings well, especially after my parents divorced. He constantly would blame all of his problems on us, hit us, tell us we were nothing, etc. for years. He's since calmed down and has only hit me once in the pas...
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