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{ "description": "telling my pregnant friend she needs to focus more on the baby she has already got", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my pregnant friend she needs to focus more on the baby she has already got?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. My friend has a 5 month old baby and just found out she's pregnant again with her second but she's acting like it's her first pregnancy and the 5 month old doesn't even exist. Bit of background: when her baby was born, let's call the baby summer, she didn't bond very well and didn't even...
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{ "description": "wanting to give up on my sister", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to give up on my sister?
My sister (35 y.o), Anna, and me (23 y.o.) are not very close. But over the years I tried to have a relationship with her. She's lost many friends and family along the way and does not have a job. She stays home all day and chastises my parents, even though my parents have provided so much for her. We did not grow up ...
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{ "description": "not covering shifts at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not covering shifts at work?
I’m a full time college student and I work part time as a Certified Nursing Assistant. I work Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays 2p.m.-10p.m. as that is what I am available to work. I get a call almost everyday around 4 a.m. saying that they need someone to come in for day shift. I have covered shifts before my school te...
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{ "description": "sending a letter to USCIS telling them my husband married me for a green card, potentially resulting in him being deported", "pronormative_score": 88, "contranormative_score": 21 }
WIBTA if I sent a letter to USCIS telling them my husband married me for a green card, potentially resulting in him being deported?
I am American, husband is not. We had our Legal Marriage (LM) in spring '17, and our Wedding Reception (WR) when we began living together in Fall '17. I applied for his green card after our LM. After the wedding it was revealed that he was completely broke, after having told me he was well off. My parents gave him ov...
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{ "description": "asking for a favour", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 26 }
Aita for asking for a favour
I was on a dating site and a lot of the features are paid but it's possible to do some stuff for free.. I was talking to a guy but he lived 5 hours away and distance isn't something I'm wanting to compromise on. There is a guy im very interested in but I can't contact him because I dont have the paid version. I as...
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{ "description": "being against my son becoming child free", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for being against my son becoming child free?
I have only one son, who is 16 years old. I am not that old, only 36 years old. Unfortunately he doesn't want to continue our family tree. Backstory: I love him very much. He was always a good boy. Polite, straight A's, and recently we moved to a different country for him to continue his studies. All of our savings an...
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WIBTA to my Mom If I dont delete my "embarrassing" FB Post
My Mom has always critized my posts on Facebook for being immature and embarrassing for other family to see. I was 13 when I first opened my account so I guess good on my parents for preventing me from posting potentially cringy stuff, but I eventually stopped using social media entirely because I was afraid how judgem...
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{ "description": "not wanting to tell a potential employer that I plan to get pregnant soon", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to tell a potential employer that I plan to get pregnant soon?
I am currently in the process of looking for a new job and have begun very early conversations with a prospective employer. They are a smallish company (about a hundred employees or so), and are currently hiring for a role (this would be the first of its type in the company as they have only recently grown to a size wh...
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{ "description": "losing my shit at one of my flatmates", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing my shit at one of my flatmates
My flatmate (call her person A) has been difficult to live with. Originally it was five of us living together splitting rent evenly so it could be paid off. We all moved together because we are friends. Last month one flatmate had to leave due to money issues (we all agreed to it that we'd pay extra rent even though s...
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{ "description": "feeling wronged by my \"Ex\" dating another person", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Feeling Wronged By My "Ex" Dating Another Person?
Alright, first off, I might make a few mistakes while writing this, that I'll attempt to remedy later. So I was dating this girl for 9+ months, Started January-ish of 2018, and it "ended" around November-ish. Should mention I've never been abusive towards her in any way and I always tried to be the best boyfriend I co...
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{ "description": "not giving my roommate money that would have saved his cat's life", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for not giving my roommate money that would have saved his cat's life?
This was a couple years ago, with a former roommate, F. We lived in an apartment that did not allow pets, as per the lease. Several cats wandered around the complex, and my roommate ended up taking a liking to a kitten. F would take the kitten inside, feed him, and otherwise care for him any time F was home. He was cut...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed by people talking foreign languages and not be able to communicate in the national language", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for getting annoyed by people talking foreign languages and not be able to communicate in the national language?
I live in Europe and in the last years I have seen a recent increase on the amount of people talking other languages, what annoys me it’s not the fact that they talk their native languages between each other, but the fact that they or I try to communicate each other we always have to switch in English because they don’...
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{ "description": "not leaving the dog park when my puppy jumped on a toddler", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not leaving the dog park when my puppy jumped on a toddler?
I bring my 7 month Irish Setter puppy to a local dog park at least once a week. This one location is essentially two large fenced in areas, one for dogs under 25 pounds and one for larger dogs. There is also a climbing structure and swing set for children outside of the dog park fences. My boy is 50 pounds at 7 months ...
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{ "description": "not tipping a cashier", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping a cashier?
Getting dinner out. Ordered online. Picked up after work. Whenever I go to run my card (before I even swipe) the machine has a question that you must answer: Would you like to tip? And there’s ‘no tip’ and a few other preset options. Before I submit to your judgment, I will say that I absolutely tip in every service ...
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{ "description": "buying pot", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA FOR BUYING POT
Me and my fiancee are just barely scraping by, she cleans houses and I do landscaping part time, we're barely scraping by but we're making it. So I offer her a 20 out of my wallet, she refuses to take it. I keep a 20 (not the 20 I tried to give her) for myself to buy some pot and she's pissed at me. She doesn't smoke o...
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{ "description": "sending a card to my ex GF because her dad died but not telling my current GF I did so", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For sending a card to my ex GF because her dad died but not telling my current GF I did so.
Ok so, this happened a few months ago and let me set up some back ground information. Ex and I had a very serious and long relationship, 5+ years and it lasted through high school and into college. It ended horrifically and we have no talked for years until I heard that her dad passed away, and he was a real stand up g...
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{ "description": "never wanting to see roommate's boyfriend's face again", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for never wanting to see roommate’s boyfriend’s face again?
The title is an exaggeration, but my (22F) roommate’s (23F) boyfriend (23M) is always here, and I’m super tired of it! It used to be much worse — boyfriend was here at least 5 nights a week, and he and roommate effectively took over the common areas (bc we live in a super tiny apartment) every night. It was hard to so...
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{ "description": "not caring that my frend is in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring that my frend is in a relationship
Let me start this by saying I'm fairly certain the answer is YTA, but I want to delve in an see. I made friends with this guy, well call him Tom, a few years ago, and we'd hang out a few times a week. At first things were going well, then he got distant and eventually cut me off. Eventually we got to talking again and...
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{ "description": "offering a hook up after ending things", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for offering a hook up after ending things?
I’m a bi guy and I recently got my heart broken by another bi guy because he left me for my best friend. It’s been rough of course, but luckily my friend group has for the most part had my back. One girl in particular has. One night, she texted me asking if I’d like to hook up. I asked if she wanted to just have sex ...
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{ "description": "pretending to be gay to break up with my ex girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for pretending to be gay to break up with my ex girlfriend?
I'm not actually gay, but I didn't want her to feel bad because I didn't love her anymore
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{ "description": "not talking to my dad", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not talking to my dad?
So here's a little backstory for context. My dad lives about two blocks from me, and for a long time we were really close. We would snapchat, text, or call at least daily, and visit or go on outings about once a week. One day earlier last year, about April/May, he suddenly stopped responding to text messages. He had p...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep things neutral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to keep things neutral?
I work in a family owned seasonal high volume restaurant which is massive. During the summer there are both inside and outside bars and dining areas but during off season we are only serving indoors. We also do most of out hiring and training during our off season so by the time we are in full swing everyone is on the ...
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{ "description": "asking her to stay", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA If I Ask Her To Stay?
**First time poster so Apologies for the Formatting** ​ So, My Girlfriend and i have been going out for around 7 Months now and Things are great. Recently she has had the opportunity to go to Holland to study. I'm Split in two. On one hand i spent alot of my years as a kid moving about to different places...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend cheat off of me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my friend cheat off of me?
So I'm in a prestatistics class with my friend Emma. We've known each other since childhood, live like 5 minutes away from each other, but haven't really hung out much except when our third friend Annie moved back to town. Over group text we had made so many plans about all the girl's nights and outings we'd do when...
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{ "description": "using sick days to actively avoid my sick co workers", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I use sick days to actively avoid my sick co workers?
Basically where I work, everyone came in today sick. Sniffling noses, sneezing, coarse throats etc. I've been lucky and don't have any symptoms... yet. I know if I take the days off, I won't be spending them convalescent, I'll be playing video games all day. But I fucking hate getting sick, and it feels like I'm in a...
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AITA: In-law Crisis
AITA for finally putting my foot down? Backstory: My in-laws are terrible with money to the point that their utilities are shut off regularly. They also argue constantly and have an explosive relationship. Both work, though bills often go unpaid. My husband has paid their mortgage in the past to help and has loaned mo...
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WIBTA - Just had one of my [26M] girlfriend's [22F] grandma's [70sF] neighbors hit my rear bumper when parking behind me on a hill, and leave their car contacting mine when they went inside. The grandma is freaking out at me for wanting to file a police report.
Just as it says above. Her grandma is pissed off and freaking out because her house is a low income rental. Nobody besides her is supposed to live there, but she's taking care of one of her granddaughters due to negligent parents, and she's worried she'll get in trouble if the cops are contacted. I want to file a pol...
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{ "description": "arguing with my mother about the needs of my younger brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my mother about the needs of my younger brother?
So here’s a little background: I’m the middle child (19) and I have two brothers (23, 15.) My older brother was raised very strictly and was given almost no freedom. As a result he grew up to be very isolated and and has difficulties with social situations. As a result he pushed for me to have more freedom once I got t...
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{ "description": "forgiving my dad's killer, taking 5k from granddad, and trying to take all my dad's money", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for forgiving my dad’s killer, taking 5k from granddad, and trying to take all my dad’s money?
Dad killed in a t-bone collision. It was a very traumatic situation for all of us. My mother, wife and I live locally while the rest of the family live very far. Taking care of things fell on my shoulders. Not, like, "Diggy, you must take care of XYZ" but more like "Diggy, just make sure Mom's okay." Court date ca...
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{ "description": "stealing my money back", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I stole my money back?
So this started over Christmas eve dinner, when I excused myself from the table to not scream out while friends and family discussed politics. When dinner was finally over, I went back downstairs to see people off, when an aunt told me that she left me $100 because she didn't know what to get me, and that she left the ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend's mom to be involved with everything in our relationship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my (23M) girlfriend's (23F) mom to be involved with everything in our relationship?
So a bit of background, my GF and I have known each other and been good friends since we were 10. I've know her mom for almost as long and we get along incredibly well. GF and her mom are pretty much best friends, and as a result, they tell each other pretty much everything. GF is still somewhat dependent on her mom, a...
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{ "description": "not revealing that I have a disability before a first date", "pronormative_score": 89, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not revealing that I have a disability before a first date?
I've recently gotten back to dating after a serious life-changing event (lost my arm above elbow in 2017). I've met a really cute girl recently and I'm guessing since it's winter and I had my cosmetic prosthesis and gloves on, she didn't notice there was anything wrong with my arm. A week later I gathered the courage t...
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{ "description": "publicly exposing a guy who didn't flush the toilet after him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for publicly exposing a guy who didn't flush the toilet after him?
I'm in a high school dormitory. I'm a year above the guy who decided to leave piss in the bathroom in the morning. Let's call him Piss-boi (17y/o). He's the second party. So I see him walking out of our bathroom and was instantly alerted because his bathroom was on the other wing, so I peek into his stall to see that ...
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{ "description": "putting someone in their place and defending myself", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For putting someone in their place and defending myself?
My sister and I were hanging out in a computer lab. It was us and this other girl. We were playing this game online called territory war or something. My character died in a dumb way and I said "Oh my God that's so retarded!" All of a sudden I hear footsteps come towards me and this girl is in my face screaming at me t...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he was being a dick", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my friend he was being a dick?
I broke my toe, like an idiot, right before a wrestling match, and now I’m out for the season. Not a big deal right? Well I was having a conversation with my friend, and then he brought up my toe. I thought, “Ok, here come the jokes about how much of an idiot I was” He then proceeds to tell me that I’m being dramatic,...
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{ "description": "only helping a girl because I want to sleep with her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for only helping a girl because I want to sleep with her?
I'm a freshman, and at the beginning of the year, I was a completely different person: shy, bo friends, could not talk to girls, overly jealous of people, etc. At this time, among other clubs/sports, i joined mock trial. Being a freshman, I was automatically sent to the jv team. At the end of every year, the JV team ha...
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{ "description": "telling my friend everything that the girls were saying about her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend everything that the girls were saying about her?
Okay so, the girls I previously hanged out with, were talking shit behind my good friends back even though they were her supposed 'friend'. I kept telling my good friend that they were bullshitting her, and she wanted to know what they were saying. So I wrote down exactly what they were saying about her and I showed m...
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{ "description": "agreeing to a morning workout with a friend without running it by my wife", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for agreeing to a morning workout with a friend without running it by my wife
I am married with a 5 year old and a toddler. I am always the one to get up with the kids in the morning. This has been the case for their entire lives. These days the kids are up 6:30-7 most days. My weekday routine is to get up at 5, sneak out to the gym, get back home around 6:30 for a very quick shower, then get th...
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{ "description": "strongly disliking my parents", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for strongly disliking my parents?
I've never really opened up like this to anyone but this bullshit is getting to me. This is gonna be kinda long but i'd really appreciate it if you read it. I used to have a really good relationship with my parents but now things are really shitty. I'll start with my dad. He's been cheating on my mom for a while now o...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "supporting the freedom in this country to be an ignorant moron", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for supporting the freedom in this country to be an ignorant moron?
In another subreddit, Public freakout, there is a video of a white woman sitting at a table who tells the woman recording that she doesn’t want her to sit by her because she had dark skin, and that she would prefer that America be all white. Yes, this white woman is a racist idiot. She is a jerk and a horrible pers...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "getting angry at my roommate for throwing parties and not notifying me in advance", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my roommate for throwing parties and not notifying me in advance?
Hi! A few months ago, I moved into a new apartment with a roommate whom I didn't really know very well before moving. From the beginning, we wouldn't get along, as she would constantly complain about literally any noise in our house (e.g. me making breakfast or some child crying on the other end of the street). Knowing...
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{ "description": "very sternly rebuking a coworker who \"jokingly\" lies to me and other employees", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 41 }
AITA for very sternly rebuking a coworker who “jokingly” lies to me and other employees?
I work as a line cook at a fairly popular restaurant. One of my coworkers is a woman who is for the most part a nice, productive employee, but has an extremely annoying habit: when asked a question, she’ll almost always provide an answer that’s incorrect, and follow it up with a grin and a “just kidding”, and the corre...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "accidentally cuckolding a classmate and not telling him", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For accidentally cuckolding a classmate and not telling him?
This is all college jackassery. I used campus confidentials to meet a cute girl and fellow student. We bang, a casual thing. I see her at the end of my literature class, was gonna approach her. She meets with another dude, a classmate who i havent interacted with. Whatever, its casual. Well as it turns out im a jealo...
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{ "description": "participating in baby shower activities", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for participating in baby shower activities?
Last month, my temporary boss's daughter had a baby. It was the first grandchild on both sides so it was kind of a Big Deal. My boss asked me to help her plan the shower during my work day, which was fine. For clarification, I am her assistant in the business that she owns and runs so I was not collecting a paycheck fr...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "puking in the sink", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for puking in the sink?
So I'm very sick at the moment, apparently with some sort of food poisoning. I threw up in a bucket earlier, but I guess I didn't get everything, so as I went to wash my hands after a bout of diarrhea, I threw up again. My dad asks if I'm ok, then realizes I threw up in the sink, and starts ranting about it. He's tol...
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{ "description": "buying a cheap phone plan with my money, even though my parents said no", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if i buy a cheap phone plan with my money, even though my parents said no?
I'm 17 and have a good amount of money (for my age) saved up. I was going to buy a phone plan that was a good deal (only $15/month), and my parents almost said yes. ​ Then I went to the optometrist. My prescription went up (even though I was warned that this would be inevitable due to most my family having...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my ex-roommate for furniture I don't get to keep", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to pay my ex-roommate for furniture I don’t get to keep?
Oh boy... long time lurker, first time poster. It’s a long one. Sorry. TLDR in comments. Essentially my old roommate Janet (fake names will be used) moved out of my apartment (U.S.) in December and moved to Europe to be with her partner. In an effort to find her replacement for the lease and also get rid of her furni...
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{ "description": "threatening to sue my ex-friend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for threatening to sue my ex-friend?
So, I lived with this girl for close to year and we were pretty good friends. This is one of those situations where living with your friend really ends up ruining the friendship. She was incredibly messy, threw a lot of parties (with really sketchy substances – I’m fine with weed), was generally loud and uncaring. And ...
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AITA: SO and I decide to have a cozy night under the stars...enter roommate
Hello everyone! This has been weighing on my mind, so I figured I would come to Reddit a get a judgement from all of you a**holes that I love for your truthful feedback. This turned out way longer than I expected so tl;dr on bottom. Also on mobile, sorry! Onto the story So a few weekends ago, a group of friends and I...
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{ "description": "kicking my brother out with nowhere else to turn to", "pronormative_score": 44, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my brother out with nowhere else to turn to?
Some context: I'm 27, my brother is 25. We're not close, I hadn't seen or spoken to him in five years. My wife and I have a house, my brother couch surfs from place to place, he "moves" maybe 5-6 times a year. I have newborn twins. My brother contacted me three weeks ago asking if he could spend a couple of weeks with...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 44, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "getting my things destroyed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting my things destroyed?
Some background information about me and my situation currently, obvious throwaway So I have a long history of academic dishonesty and laziness because I don't know how to push past obstacles and actually succeeding, and instead taking the short way out and half assing everything or simply getting the answer from some...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "asking my friend to do extra work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking my friend to do extra work?
So to start, I guess I need the obligatory “I’m on mobile,” statement. Now that that’s said, let’s get into the point. So in my English class, we’re reading To Kill a Mockingbird. And my teacher assigned us groups to present a little thing on 2-3 chapters. Tomorrow is when my friend an I are presenting ours. Out pres...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "telling someone their problems are their own fault", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling someone their problems are their own fault
So I’ll preface by saying I’ve gotten mixed reactions from friends and my SO so I’m settling this with a majority rule thanks to Reddit (you guys) I can see both sides of the potential argument, but naturally I think I’m right. Moving forward: So there’s this mutual friend I have that hangs around my friends dorm ever...
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{ "description": "rejecting a reconciliation attempt from an old friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for rejecting a reconciliation attempt from an old friend?
I used to have this friend named Anna that I had known for years. We were very close, to the point that I considered her my best friend, and platonic soulmate. We supported each other through some very tough times. She suffered from severe depression and family issues; there were times when I stayed on the phone with h...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "turning down a tinder hookup's advances that night", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for turning down a tinder hookup's advances that night?
I recently matched with a guy on tinder and we made plans to hook up the following week, but last night he seemed really eager to hook up and asked me over. I didn't want to disappoint but I just ate a huge dinner and was feeling really full.. and uncomfortable so I mentioned that and declined. He seemed upset. I don't...
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{ "description": "confronting my friend​", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for confronting my friend​?
So my best freind lets call her 'Alice' who i have know for some years, and who has helped me with many tough patches in my life has been feeling really down ( and i mean **REALLY** down). I don't know what it's from or how to help her becuase she generally has problems with communicating with people. Right now i keep ...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "letting my sister and her fiance to stay overnight in my apartment while I'm gone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA for letting my sister and her fiance to stay overnight in my apartment while I'm gone?
My sister(23f) and her fiance(22m) are going to be in my city for a wedding in a couple weeks and asked if they could stay the night with me to save costs. I actually have a wedding to go to that same weekend, but in a different state. I told her that it should be fine to stay in my room while I'm gone, but I'll double...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "getting married in a private ceremony with no friends or family", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting married in a private ceremony with no friends or family?
Husband and I (Female) got engaged in July of this year. We live together and own a home together. After a few weeks of half-assed wedding planning, we decided we would rather just have an intimate private ceremony with just the two of us on a beach vacation we had already planned. We hate attention and we're also real...
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AITA: My fiance broke up with me, returned a year later and asked me to take her back. I took her back, but I realized that I couldn’t truly forgive her for what she did to me so I broke up with her a few months later.
Disclaimer: I do not dislike gay people. I am a guy. Apparently, my fiance discovered that she only liked females, but she came back to me after a year of being absent from my life. Am I really the asshole for taking her back and then dumping her? I really thought that I could get over what she did to me, but I just c...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep my baby", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to keep my baby?
So I’m trying to keep this short as I want to meet the 3G # guideline but this is a very complex story so if anyone needs clarification on anything feel free to ask questions in the comment section & I’ll be happy to answer what i can.TL;DR at bottom So my bf A & I agreed years ago that if I were ever accidenta...
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{ "description": "calling my ex out on his manipulative/controlling behavior", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - for calling my ex out on his manipulative/controlling behavior
So he’s not the type of person that apologizes. We had plans to spend the weekend together but he ended up asking me to leave right after getting intimate which I thought was disrespectful. I hear from him the next day and he said he didn’t do anything wrong. We argue for a little while and I asked if we needed time ap...
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{ "description": "advertising money owed", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for advertising money owed?
A while back a 'friend' owed me money, not much, just £10, but if you borrow shit then you return it or pay it back. After dropping hints over text and messenger, I'd finally had enough and just commented on one of their pictures on FB that he owes me money. Fast forward to about a week later he flips out and says I'...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to do sos washing", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do SOs washing?
Sorry on mobile. AITA for not wanting to do the washing for my SO? We have 2 young kids and in a typical week get through around 6 loads of washing, about 3 of them are purely my SOs clothes. My main issue is he absolutely refuses to put his dirty clothes in the hamper, he just piles up dirty clothes on our bedroom fl...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "feeling really guilty. should I", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? I feel really guilty. Should I?
I had this friend for a for a while, it went really well until he told me that he liked me in a romantic way, not a platonic one. anyway, I had kind of felt the same, but I told him no anyways due to the fact that I had no friends and I'd rather have a friend than a boyfriend. that, and I couldn't decide whether I like...
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{ "description": "making my friend mad because I didn't want to interact with him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my friend mad because I didn't want to interact with him
Essentially what happened was that my friend recently got his Nintendo Switch, to which he earlier called me to play with after school. I replied with a, "Maybe." As school ended, we went to McDonald's to hang around for a while. Then at one point he asked me if I wanted to play with him on his Nintendo Switch, to whi...
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{ "description": "blocking my mom on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blocking my mom on Instagram?
Ok... so I’m going to try to explain this as best I can. My mom and I have an incredibly rocky relationship. She’s been emotionally manipulative to me for a lot of years and I’m only just now realizing it through therapy and moving away from her to another state. But to her I’m just kind of a dick and hurting her beca...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not picking his friend up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not picking his friend up?
Okay so I have known this dude for like 9 months. We hangout a lot and we go for a lot of drives. One time I picked him up and we went to his sisters house. When we got back to the city where we live he asked me if I could pick up a friend of his. He started talking to this girl on some dating site and he really wanted...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "talking while my roommate is trying to sleep", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking while my roommate is trying to sleep
So, my roommate has a really strange sleep schedule. He gets up and goes to bed at random times. Yesterday, he got up at 3 PM and went to bed at 830 PM. Now, I like playing Ps4, with my friends in the USA(I'm American but live overseas to study) and this time at night from 8-11 PM is when they're on, and I really enj...
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{ "description": "refusing to go fishing with my grandpa", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to go fishing with my grandpa?
A little bit context : I'm a teenager (almost an young adult) with divorced parents, have to go with my dad on alternating weekends, and me and my mother live in a house in her grandparent's lot (so, two houses, one lot), and my dad just said he couldn't pick me up on this weekend, so he spoke to my mum about taking me...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my mother during an argument", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my mother during an argument?
I will try and post screenshots of our conversation this morning. My mom and I haven't gotten along for years. We both have mental health issues and tend to take things out on each other, we both recognize that. But lately things have gotten really bad. I went through a traumatic event in december, and when she came wi...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "calling out my sister to my mom", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for calling out my sister to my mom
My 21 year old sister struggles with depression. This is something I've dealt with myself so the last thing I want is to make things worse, which is why I'm asking this. Bear in mind the things I mention in this post have been going on for YEARS and it's only getting worse. As a result of her depression, my sister iso...
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{ "description": "wanting to go on holiday without my stepdaughter", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 217 }
AITA for wanting to go on holiday without my stepdaughter?
Me and my husband have twins who are 4 and he has a 13 year old from his last marriage. We’re planning on going to the Bahamas this year and I really just want it to be my husband, me, and our kids. We’ve never had a holiday with just the 4 of us and she’s a really moody teenager right now and it’s driving me insane. I...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 217 }
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{ "description": "wanting to move out when I know my elderly parents need help", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to move out when I know my elderly parents need help?
My parents are in their late 60s/early 70s. I am 24 and I live with my parents. I recently graduated from school and took job in the city where I work around 60-65 hrs a week. The city is an hour commute there and an hour home. I’m extremely tired with the commute. I can’t have friends over or guys over. I’m also the “...
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{ "description": "confronting my gf with a condom found in her trash", "pronormative_score": 110, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for confronting my gf with a condom found in her trash
So this happened about 6 months ago and isn't a huge deal anymore, but it occasionally comes up and i think about it from time to time wondering if i really am an a-hole for it. Story goes that it was my gf's birthday so i went over to her house so we could celebrate. As soon as i walked into her room i noticed an op...
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{ "description": "not wanting for fiance's pregnant ex-girlfriend to spend a night with us", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for not wanting for fiance's pregnant ex-girlfriend to spend a night with us?
Throwaway. Please let me know if I am the asshole. I am seriously losing my mind over this. I can't sleep. ​ I've been with my fiance for 6 months now. Before we got together, he was in a relationship with X. They broke up and my fiance cut all ties with X. I haven't heard about them or from them until 2 d...
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{ "description": "not stopping a customer to talk with manager", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not stopping a customer to talk with manager .
I am working in a tourism agency as an agency representive . They are sending me to hotels to help our guests ( which is customers staying in the hotel ). I'm in same hotel since one year and my work is not hard .I have permission to benefit from nearly all the facilities of the hotel. Everyone loves me cause when I am...
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{ "description": "trying to get my Dog back", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For Trying to get my Dog back?
Backstory (timelapse 1.5 years): Ex-Fiancé & I were looking at buying a home together. We moved into her parents place and they did not let me bring my Husky (I raised her from 2 months old), so my Dad and his wife agreed to foster her until I got bought a house. Ex cheats on me and I lose my job (due to a comp...
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{ "description": "smacking the car that almost ran me over", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA, for smacking the car that almost ran me over?
I was walking into Target yesterday to grab some coffee and then household items. Outside the front doors I waited to let someone drive past, then I started walking up to the entrance. Some young guy coming from the opposite direction who I assumed saw me since he had PLENTY of time before he reached me, apparently did...
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{ "description": "cutting out self-involved friends who might have disorders that make them this way", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting out self-involved friends who might have disorders that make them this way
I feel very conflicted about this. I’m a bit of an introvert but have always been quite socially/self aware. I feel like I go out of the way to check up on people and get to know them. Being an introvert, I find this very emotionally draining so as of recent, I’ve slowly started to cut away friends who I feel do not do...
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{ "description": "giving my manager a verbal 18-month commitment for a salaried job and then applying for another job 2 months into it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving my manager a verbal 18-month commitment for a salaried job and then applying for another job 2 months into it?
I have been working at a corporation for 12 months in a contract position. My manager offered to make me a salaried employee in the same role with a salary jump and the applicable benefits. She asked for a verbal commitment from me to stay in the position for 18 months. I was really uncomfortable with the idea since I ...
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{ "description": "not helping someone up", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not Helping Someone Up?
This happened years ago and I have always wondered if I was the asshole. Among my friends and the few who witnessed it the verdict is split. I'm at a tradeshow one day, a fairly busy one, and a girl with one leg goes by on crutches. Sure enough just a few feet from me, she falls. She was in decent shape, young (i'd g...
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{ "description": "not getting an Uber to pick up my girlfriend and drive her car home because she had been drinking", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not getting an Uber to pick up my girlfriend and drive her car home because she had been drinking?
My gf decided to drive to a trivia night at a local bar and was not going to drink so she could drive home. As sometimes happens to us all, she ended up drinking and could not drive home. I received a call whilst in my car asking me to come and pick her and her car up and drive her home. I said no, because I would ...
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{ "description": "not letting a friend I've seen maybe 4 times since high school crash at my place on a last minute's notice so she could see an 80s cover band at a local bar", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a friend I’ve seen maybe 4 times since high school crash at my place on a last minute’s notice so she could see an 80s cover band at a local bar?
Friend recently moved to the same county from another state and is known to be a bit of a gypsy flake who disappears a lot. We’ve only hung out MAYBE 4 times since HS, we’re 30 now. I have a well-established life with a set routine on the weekends that helps me rest up for the work week. She texts me around 1pm under t...
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{ "description": "picking up my check on a day I called in sick to work", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for picking up my check on a day I called in sick to work?
I called in sick to work yesterday (food service and I had a nasty cold) but still went to pick up my check because I still have bills to pay. The manager that was in the office when I got there told me "you called in sick, that's not how this works", and took me to task on it. Then when I insisted I need my check beca...
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{ "description": "stopping being friends with someone, partly because of her depression", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I stopped being friends with someone, partly because of her depression?
I'm still at school, and I've been friends with this girl for a few years now. Anyway, she told me she has depression. I know, not from experience however, that mental disorders are very difficult to get through and it helps to have someone there to be with you. That is what I'm trying to do, seeing as I'm her friend a...
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{ "description": "telling my parents I don't need them and not wanting to help with money anymore", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents I don’t need them and not wanting to help with money anymore.
I’m Hispanic, female, and 22. That doesn’t sound important but trust me it matters in this case. My parents don’t have a lot of money. We live in a low-income type neighborhood. Our house needed a lot of remodeling, which I helped with financially. If my parents need it, I always help out with bills and paying off t...
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{ "description": "not being happy that my mom has taken my room", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy that my mom has taken my room?
A little backstory: my mom is currently sick and if she smells anything too strong, bad or good, she’ll throw up. Her bedsheets got washed a couple days ago so she’s sleeping on my bed. My dad asked me if when something is being cooked downstairs, I can smell it from my room. I said no, and he said my mom felt the same...
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{ "description": "not going to my boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see a concert", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not going to my boyfriends grandmothers wake so I can go see a concert? (Update)
I fucked up and forgot to mention one part. My boyfriends grandmother died in December. I bought tickets in January to go to a concert in July (which is also my little sisters 18th birthday). The other day I mentioned how excited I was about my July concert/Little sister birthday. My boyfriend tells me they are ha...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for getting drunk", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for getting drunk?
Today was the day of my aunt's memorial service. I'm not saying that to garner any pity, just for context of where my head was at today. It was very emotional especially for myself, my sisters, my dad, and our cousins. We all grew up next to each other so it was like losing my other mom. I've been very good about hid...
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{ "description": "getting a girl with a bf jewelry", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a girl with a bf jewelry?
I met a girl through my classes and quickly became good friends with her. Her birthday was about a week ago and I got her earrings. She’s been in a committed relationship since long before we met. AITA?
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{ "description": "asking my wife to help clean up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for asking my wife to help clean up?
This happened a few weeks ago. ​ While at my dads' place, I was busy playing video games with him and my two much younger brothers when my dad accidentally knocked a cup of milk over and it spilled onto the floor. Since we were in the middle of a game, I asked my wife if she could come and clean it up. ...
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{ "description": "trying to avoid being with a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to avoid being with a friend.
For context I'm 16. Like most classes, throughout the world, during high school, ours is divided in smaller groups. Since last year this "friend", I will call him Max (not real name), he has been manipulative and annoying. As I mentioned my class was divided in groups, and ours was the smallest, it consisted of me, M...
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{ "description": "thinking of seizing contact with best friend months after she did the same to me. * ed trigger warning", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: I'm thinking of seizing contact with best friend months after she did the same to me. * ED Trigger Warning*
Background: Best friend suffered from anorexia, but began recovering in spring of 2018. I began recovering in fall of 2018. Our friendship has always been supportive, and we never saw our EDs as competition to see who could be thinnest- or so I thought. ​ I began recovering in October. She cut contact with...
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{ "description": "blocking a parking exit on purpose", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for blocking a parking exit on purpose?
Hello everyone! I'll be using a throwaway account because I have coworkers that know my regular account. I work at a local hospital where we have our own staff parking. The gate is opened with a card that we pay for monthly. We also need the card to exit the parking lot. There is no one at the gate, only a speakerphon...
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{ "description": "telling my gf I'd leave her if she uses drugs", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my gf I’d leave her if she uses drugs?
I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost a year and I love her to death from earth the the endless sky above, but while talking with her on the phone she mentioned her manager, at the restaurants she works at, she said her manager showed her what Ecstasy looks like, it was her first time seeing what it looks like and he...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my dying grandfather", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my dying grandfather?
I'm gonna try to keep this short. My grandpa is dying. He was moved to hospice care, has been hallucinating, is off all his medicines, and just keeps getting sicker. The last time I saw him, maybe a month or two ago, he was happy and eating and alert and it was honestly the most alive I remember seeing him in years (he...
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{ "description": "telling my bffs ex the real reason she broke up with him", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my bffs ex the real reason she broke up with him
I've been best friends with my bff for about 12 years now. I love her to death, but she has really bad commitment issues. She's been off and on with this guy for years and so I've become friends with him. Strictly friends, he has my blessing for my best friend. Generally a great guy, but my bff keeps screwing him over ...
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{ "description": "calling a girl a bitch for her drunk actions", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For calling a girl a bitch for her drunk actions?
I’m at university and am living in halls of residence currently with some of the best people I’ve ever met (I’ll call them A, J, and Z). My flat and I went out to a club last night in a large group of about 20 people. It’s Z’s first night out in about a year (in which time she hasn’t had any alcohol for medical reaso...
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{ "description": "calling out people who wore Ku Klux Klan costumes in a public Halloween party", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for calling out people who wore Ku Klux Klan costumes in a public Halloween party?
The title pretty much tells the basic story. Detailed version: My friends and I went on Halloween to a public party at our town. It’s a quite big party with over 1000 people I guess. After a while I saw some people coming in with realistic Klan costumes and was a bit shocked. When I was outside smoking I saw them st...
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{ "description": "ordering pizza in a snowstorm", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ordering pizza in a snowstorm
Pretty self explanatory, its snowing super hard where I live and I dont want to go out in the snow so I ordered pizza to be delivered to me.
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