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{ "description": "sending Mother in Law to Assisted Living", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sending Mother In Law to Assisted Living
Little context: My wife has EDS and extreme chronic pain so she only has a limited number of "spoons" every day. My mother in law has suffered a couple strokes and she ended up falling from a balcony after it collapsed and landing on concrete. Because of this she ended up suffering alot of injuries including her right...
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{ "description": "telling his gf to gtfo", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AiTA for telling his gf to gtfo?
I dated this guy and luckiky we remained great friends afterwards. He constantly messages me about his new gf and how she restricts him. He is 30 and went back to school. Idiot took a week away from his studies to give her attention. A week later they are over. She has 2 kids, but doesnt understand his loyalty toward...
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AITA Friend Says I'm Mistreating My GF
We are all in our late 20s. GF of 5 years, friend of 12 years. Friend thinks I am mistreating my girlfriend because she has never said no to sex in our relationship. He says that due to a situation that happened early on in our relationship, it pressures her to never say no. I disagree. He says I should talk to her, I ...
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{ "description": "being late to work too make times", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being late to work too make times?
I’m a graduate student with an internship in the public sector. Yesterday I found out that my boss had called my department head and said I’d been doing good work, but I had excessive absences and tardiness. Here are all the instances of me being absent or tardy this semester: Jan 14: I bought a parking pass for schoo...
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AITA in this breakup?
Relationship of 1.3 years. About a year in due to me feeling as though my needs are not being met I broke up with her. Got back together the day after and then she broke up with me a few weeks ago. We still care for and love each other but because of the break up 3 months ago her family hates me now. She kept us gett...
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{ "description": "keeping Quiet", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- Keeping Quiet
So tonight someone called our store (fast food) and claimed to be our store owner or some corporate something or another and essentially had my manager have a coworker put a few hundred dollars of cash onto gift cards and then had that coworker call him and give him the gift card numbers and tear them up. he claimed we...
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{ "description": "refusing to plan someone's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to plan someone’s birthday party?
So work with this guy who I cannot stand. I have been stuck sitting in the cubicle next to hm for almost two years now. For context, we are both guys. I’m 28 and he is a few years younger. He is very annoying. He has this super smug personality and is constantly trying to prove to everyone how smart he is. He is consta...
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{ "description": "lying to the friend I play with the most to play once with my other friend who I don't want to play with", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for lying to the friend I play with the most to play once with my other friend who I don't want to play with?
I usually play with the first friend almost all the time on Xbox on games like FIFA, COD, etc and he recently gave me some games to play with him and his friend outside school. However, I have this other friend who also has an Xbox who sometimes asks if I want to play with him; I usually try and not play with him or ...
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{ "description": "turning the tv on when my bf has to get up in less than 3 hours", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I turned the tv on when my bf has to get up in less than 3 hours?
I can’t sleep and am crazy bored. The only tv we have is in the bedroom. I can keep the volume low, but there’s not much I can do about the light.
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{ "description": "not getting my brothers gf a cheap laptop", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my brothers gf a cheap laptop
Let me preface this by saying that I'm not a computer or IT professional. I just know my way around a computer. So about a week ago I was asked by my brother's gf to help find a laptop for university. I was given a list of specs and a budget. The laptops that the university recommended were under spec'd and over price...
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{ "description": "not giving my carpoolers a cheaper price", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my carpoolers a cheaper price?
I have a few people I regularly carpool with. Some via the Waze app, some just text me and ask for a ride. The Waze folks, I get paid via the app, the others just Venmo me a few dollars per ride. I’m up from with them that I’m doing it mostly to get the HOV lane for the drive home, but the extra money covers gas, fo...
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{ "description": "not having intercourse with my so for weeks", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not having intercourse with my SO for weeks?
I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and when we first started dating I was a virgin and not on birth control, so we could do intercourse fairly easily without about an hour of foreplay prep. I started BC about 3 months into the relationship, and since then, my libido has just been absolutely crushed and I can rarel...
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{ "description": "cutting my \"friend\" off", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting my "friend" off?
I started my Erasmus experience in October 2018. I met 2 guys and a girl of my same country but from different cities (they are all from the same city expect from me that I live far away from them) and we became friends. Especially with the girl, we just clicked, you know when you meet someone that thinks like you and ...
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{ "description": "calling a gay guy out for using his sexuality as an excuse to say vulgar things", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling a gay guy out for using his sexuality as an excuse to say vulgar things?
This happened about 4 years ago but my life hasn't been the same since. It has kept me from going to the bar that had been my only social outlet for years. This is because the guy in question is one of the very high status bartenders there. It was the early evening. Only me, the bartender I had a crush on, and the gay...
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{ "description": "wanting more on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for wanting more on my birthday?
I just turned 16 and my birthday is right at tax return time. I've always gotten really nice birthday presents...except for this year. 2 pairs of jeans, some cheap shirts (JCpennys) an xbox 360 game and Panda Express dinner. My little brother (11) got an xbox one, and $100 of games etc. I just asked my mom to order so...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend's ex to back the fuck off", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told my boyfriend's ex to back the fuck off?
So I (23f) have been with my boyfriend (27m) for almost 4 years. Throughout this time we have been bothered by his ex girlfriend from Highschool. The first time was just weeks after my boyfriend and I got together, when she texted him saying she missed him and the old times. He told her he wasnt interested. This happen...
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{ "description": "not cheering up", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not cheering up?
I (26M) recently got a bit upset after a conversation with my parents. It wasn’t much of a big deal, they just left me feeling slightly undervalued and a bit down. When my girlfriend (25F) and I got home she could tell that I was upset and tried to comfort me. I realised that this feeling about my parents wasn’t parti...
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{ "description": "stalking a little old lady", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stalk a little old lady?
Sorry about the click-baity title, but it's a fair assessment of my intentions. Brace yourselves, it's a long one. So last year, I finally built up enough funds to be able to buy a condo. I started looking, and I found a place. I made an offer above the listing price in cash, it was accepted immediately, and I called ...
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{ "description": "insulting my bestfriend's girlfriend and destroyed my perfect friendship with him", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for insulting my bestfriend’s girlfriend and destroyed my perfect friendship with him?
First of all sorry for bad English, it’s not my first language. So here’s some background. Me (22M) and my bestfriend (19M) have a special bound, we’re really close and spend lots of time together. He’s in a relationship with a girl who is very jealous, possesive due to some problem with his dad. In the last months ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my grandparents every week", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my grandparents every week?
Backstory :My parents and youngest sister moved abroad and I live with my 19 year old sister in our old apartment. Ever since we were left alone my grandparents have felt more inclined to know more about our lives and talk to us more than ever before. Look I'm a student(21M), I study computer science and am currently...
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{ "description": "telling him to leave", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling him to leave? (Warning: childish)
AITA for saying that? Ok, I don't really know what happened here... Me and my boyfriend of 3 years are going to college and I still live at home because the campus is really close to my parents house and we don't have a lot of money. My bf spends most of the nights at our house because he lives an hour away, and it has...
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{ "description": "feeling bad about not being able to help my best friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling bad about not being able to help my best friend?
Ok, this is my first time posting but this has been on my mind so I hope this goes well, so basically I've been friends with this guy, let's call him T, for around 6 or 7 years, and we've kept in remarkably close touch throughout most of those seven years, especially since I'm pretty anti social all things considered, ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed when my friend doesn't stay with us when we are out", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed when my friend doesn't stay with us when we are out?
I apologize if this is a bit long, as I want to add enough detail. ​ I am fifteen years old, and my friend group that I normally hang out with is also made up of 15 and 16 years olds. We like to hang out a lot outside of school, and usually, our parents are okay with leaving us to it, as long we're safe ab...
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{ "description": "not wanting for my brother and stepdad to go with me on a trip", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting for my brother and stepdad to go with me on a trip?
I'm gonna try to explain this whole situation as best as I can. Two years ago I got braces. When I had to get them tightened, my mom would drive me to the a local clinic, not too far away from my home. Then, after few months the dentist told me, that she cannot come to my town anymore, because her own clinic is in the...
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{ "description": "not feeling guilty about friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not feeling guilty about friend?
So basically today some of my friends told me that one friend is sad/angry at me for not talking to her as much as I once talked and being 'cold' She (the friend that is sad/angry) is kinda annoying and very loud for my taste and the majority of the time she talks about stuff I don't care. I talked with one of my frien...
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{ "description": "wishing my fiance had done something on my birthday", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wishing my fiance had done something on my birthday?
It's my birthday today and my fiance hasn't really... done anything for it. I don't mean to sound like a spoiled brat but, we live together and he knows it's my birthday. I'd be happy with anything. A homemade dinner, a handmade card, running a bath, *something*. It's making me sad. I know he doesn't have any money, an...
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{ "description": "asking my brother not to bring his girlfriend to my birthday meal", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA For asking my brother not to bring his girlfriend to my birthday meal?
Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile. So some context, My SO (F24) and I (M29) both suffer social anxiety. Going to public places, new places and meeting new people are all things that can cause us both some issues. With my birthday coming up, my Dad has offered to take me and my SO out for a meal to celebrate. We ar...
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{ "description": "having sex with a girl who is more interested in me than I am in her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for having sex with a girl who is more interested in me than I am in her?
I am in second year at my uni, and I don’t know what it is called in English but every year there is a team of older students who welcomes the new freshman and does a bunch of social activities with them (parties, trips and other stuff). I am one these “guides” and because of that I also signed a contract saying that I...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad about how I made my mother feel", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not feeling bad about how I made my mother feel?
I'm an athiest. My deeply religious mother isn't aware of this as far as I know, but my father is, so he may have told her at some time. Yesterday, my mother wanted me to go to a Christian band concert a half-hour's drive from where I live. She purchased the tickets for us without asking if I was interested in going...
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{ "description": "telling my so that I don't want him to work at \"his dream job\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told my SO that I don't want him to work at "his dream job"?
Here's a little background: I've been with my SO for 4 years and we have a 2 year old and another on the way. He's been working at a place that he doesn't hate, it just isn't incredible pay but we're getting by with some extra money at the end of the month. Before we met, like two years prior, he'd gotten fired from t...
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{ "description": "parking next to an a who parked like an a", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for parking next to an A who parked like an A?
When I go to work this morning the only spot available was next to someone who parked like an asshole. One of their wheels was completely over the line into the next parking spot, which meant the only way I could pull into that parking spot was to match their angle. Later that day I returned my car to drive home, and ...
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AITA or are my neighbors crazy?
I live in a 1 BR apartment with my bf. There are 2 apartments (the 2nd is also a 1 BR) in the complex & our neighbors moved into the 2nd one in August. A man, his girlfriend, & their kid. Let’s call them M, G, & K. October we got a text from our landlord saying that our neighbors complained we were being ...
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{ "description": "refusing a wooden box I ordered", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing a wooden box I ordered?
Hello people, I went on a vacation to my other country. I wanted a wooden box to store a silver plated 1911, so I asked my uncle if he knew someone who could do that for me. He said to me "I know a guy he's a friend and he does great work". I said great let's go see him. We got to his shop and I gave him the dimensio...
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{ "description": "getting my ex and roommate banned from getting free groceries at my college", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA? I got my ex and roommate banned from getting free groceries at my college
I’m fairly new to reddit and idk if this would be the correct subreddit to post in, but here it goes. Basically my roommate and my ex are currently dating (so there’s tension that has built up from that) but that’s only part of what this story is about. At my college there is a place where people who can’t afford groce...
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{ "description": "refusing to even speak to my father anymore", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to even speak to my father anymore
Sorry for the massive wall a text to truly understand what’s going on you’ll need some context When I was growing up my parents separated when I was like 1ish and they had a agreement that I would see my dad every other week end. So at one point my dad got married to my step mother which she is a total piece of garb...
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{ "description": "not reporting sexual assaults", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not reporting sexual assaults?
Other women could become victims because I didn't ruin this guy's life by getting law enforcement involved. So what happened is I'm dating this guy for two months. lots and lots of red flags. He violates my safe words, intentionally cums in me when I asked him not to, and coerces sex. I have bruises and injuries ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend something my other friend wouldn't", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my friend something my other friend wouldn't?
B - Guy friend G - Girl friend Let me start this off by saying that they're both good friends of mine, and I don't want either of them to get hurt. So a few weeks ago B started talking to G more. B ended up asking her to go on a date with him sometimes, she said yes. It's all well and good until a week ago B told me a...
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{ "description": "cutting off my friend or at the very least expecting an apology before moving forward", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off my friend or at the very least expect an apology before moving forward?
I have known my friend for years and their family treated me as one of their own children and siblings. Last February (2018) my friend met a person on Tinder and they got along well. I liked their significant other (SO). I thought that their relationship progressed very quickly, and soon my friend really stopped seei...
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{ "description": "buying another pet rat when my sister hates them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For buying another pet rat when my sister hates them?
So a little while ago (About a month ago) I posted about how I was struggling to deal with the guilt of getting 2 rats, but now I'm back again with the same problem. This Saturday I went and I got another rat. My sister has no idea that my little rat exists but if she finds out she'll probably never talk to me again. ...
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{ "description": "being upset my late mother left everything to charity", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being upset my late mother left everything to charity?
My mother passed earlier in the year after a long bout with breast cancer. For about the last 8 or so months I decided to leave my job and partially move in with her to take care of her. I have a house with my husband but I spent half the time there (usually nights I'll sleep at home and during the day stay with her wi...
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{ "description": "being mad at my wife for not cleaning the house that we share with her grandmother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad at my wife for not cleaning the house that we share with her grandmother?
So we have a young (6) son and we moved into her grandmothers house because I am the only one working and her grandmother needs someone to take care of her. To be clear, she is not in a vegetative state or anything like that, but she does have dementia badly and recently fell so she needs help moving around the house. ...
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{ "description": "being fwb with a mutual friend of an ex if the ex is fine with it", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being fwb with a mutual friend of an ex if the ex is fine with it?
I(34F) was with my ex(32M) for 11 years and lived with him for the majority of that time. We broke up more or less a year ago. It was an extremely amicable break up (initiated by me, but was one he clearly also wanted and we had near-breakup talks leading up to it some of which initiated by him). We're still really goo...
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{ "description": "not putting a Group Member's name on the Lab Report", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not Putting a Group Member's Name on the Lab Report?
I'm currently a high school senior, and taking physics. My lab group has gone through quite a few people moving and leaving my school, and we currently have 5 people. One of said people is an exchange student from Brazil. She does ABSOLUTELY NOTHING during class except browse social media on her phone and call her mo...
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{ "description": "wanting to distance myself from my high school friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to distance myself from my high school friends
I’m 4 years out of high school and there are several friends I’ve somewhat kept in touch with. We go to school across the state from each other but they come to visit often and we occasionally text/call each other. When we started college, my best friend and I ended up at the same school and had a rather brutal falli...
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{ "description": "being on my phone and listening to music for the entirety of a mandatory to attend special needs basketball game", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being on my phone and listening to music for the entirety of a mandatory to attend special needs basketball game?
At my school, there are events held every so often. One event was a special needs basketball game for mentally challenged and physically challenged individuals. The problem I had with this was that it was mandatory to go into the stands and “watch”. I went to many higher ups requesting myself to be able to not attend a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit anymore & getting mad when family members don't respect me when I say no", "pronormative_score": 72, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit anymore & getting mad when family members don’t respect me when I say no?
If the title was confusing, I’ll explain here (also, I’m on mobile so sorry in advance). I’ll address the family members by A & B. I’ve basically been my family’s babysitter for six years & I NEVER get paid. Even if I ask to be paid my family says “you don’t get paid if you’re family.” There have been countles...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for other people's drinks", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for other people's drinks?
So I went out with a group of friends and one of them invited a friend and that friend brought two other people. So three people we don't all know. No problem, we are just out for fun. So all night the three new people and our friend are throwing back drinks left abs right. So fast forward to the end of the night, the...
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{ "description": "tipping (poorly) when tipping optional", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for tipping (poorly) when tipping optional
I really didn't think this was rude of me but I thought I would consult the almighty internet. The other day I visited a younger friend who was recently hired at Little Ceasars. Another friend of mine had come with me and we both ordered a 5 dollar box. We ate it there and hung out chatting with young friend and t...
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{ "description": "not humoring the dining hall employee", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not humoring the dining hall employee?
Context: I'm a junior in college. I have a partial meal plan on campus that I use to get lunch with my friends in the dining halls from time to time. In the dining hall it's usually a student employee who's swiping people in/ manning the cash register. For a student, it's not really a fun job but it's a lax work enviro...
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{ "description": "wanting to drink one Seagrams during the New Years party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to drink one Seagrams during the New Years party
I'm going to be attending a party for New Years where there will be alcohol present. I have already decided that I am not going to get drunk at this party, as I cannot stay the night. However, I also figured one Seagrams, if drank when I first arrived, couldn't hurt. ​ When I told my girlfriend about this,...
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{ "description": "being pissy over a dinner invite to a friend and only them but they decided to bring their partner", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I am pissy over a dinner invite to a friend and ONLY them but they decided to bring their partner?
They have done this a couple of times. Even with things like "Okay we made reservations for three people." Then last minute, "Oh, I'll be there late I have to get my SO." Uh, no offense but no one invited your SO, we both left ours at home. I would mind less if the SO didn't have meal restrictions that clash hard wit...
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{ "description": "a former-friend refusing to speak to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for a former-friend refusing to speak to me?
(This is a throwaway account) My former friend and I would play CS:GO a lot, and recently he got mad at something I did in-game. About 90% of the games we play he calls someone out for hacking that is certainly not hacking and simply hit a lucky shot. Today, we came across someone in a game that was hitting some insa...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at my brother in law", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off at my brother in law?
My (26f) brother in law (31m) has become increasingly more close to me in the last few years. While I consider him a close friend, this new family connection means he treats me more like a younger sister than a friend. He tends to tell me off for things, not apologise for actions and makes me feel like a child in his p...
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{ "description": "complaining to my teacher about feedback on a presentation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complaining to my teacher about feedback on a presentation?
For a little bit of background, I had an important presentation today for my senior design class in university. Now I’ll be the first to admit I’m not the best at public speaking. I get nervous, stutter, and I have a hard time keeping eye contact. In order to do well I need to prepare far in advance, but considering th...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to repeat herself", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to repeat herself?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little less than two years and I've started getting angry at some of the things she does. We'll be talking on the phone and ill have bad connection every now and then, so I ask her to repeat her sentence. When I do this she gets extremely annoyed and her responses become anger...
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{ "description": "running a powerfuld D&D character that made my dm ragequit and kick me from the group", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for running a powerfuld D&D character that made my DM ragequit and kick me from the group
In my now former D&D group i brought a warforged hexblade warlock/sorceror. whole the core of this build using a synergy between those two classes to generate magic with no upper limit the DM signed off on that part of the build beforehand. the thing that made him upset is the fact that with the warforged's natural...
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{ "description": "ending a decade long friendship", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a decade long friendship
So me and \*Liz have been friends for about a decade long. ​ We've mainly had ups for the most part, until the last six months (of last year) when something horrible happened to Liz. That's when everything changed. ​ She didn't open up to me about the events until a couple months afterwards wh...
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{ "description": "not caring about my husband meeting his biological family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not caring about my husband meeting his biological family?
I have a lot to unpack here, so let me start with the basics. My husband and I have been legally married for 8.5 years. We have not actually been living together, or living any semblance of a married lifestyle for the majority of the time. We did not work together as a couple so we parted ways. We have a 6 year old kid...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my pregnancy with in-laws when my father in law might be dying", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my pregnancy with in-laws when my father in law might be dying?
My father in law has had cancer for about a decade. Now he has developed a Xanax (not prescribed) addiction and keeps passing out. He likes to sneak 8 bars at a time. He and I have never been close because long before he met me, he decided he’s dying and shouldn’t start new relationships with anyone. He is very religio...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spending more time helping out with my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spending more time helping out with my grandmother?
My [20s F] maternal grandmother [70s F] has dementia and has been living in a nursing home for the last few months. I often visit my grandmother 3 times a week on average for 1.5 hours each time and am the only family member besides my mother and aunt who visit, who sees my grandmother on a regular basis, none of the o...
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{ "description": "confronting two of my friends for excluding me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I confront two of my friends for excluding me?
Throwaway account because these two friends know my Reddit account. So I (16M) am friends with two other people (15M, 16F). Everything is purely platonic, and we enjoy spending time together. Some context: Two weeks ago, I had a pretty big argument with M about something completely unrelated. Name-calling, shouting, ...
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{ "description": "suing my ex for child support that I don't need", "pronormative_score": 284, "contranormative_score": 92 }
AITA for suing my ex for child support that I don't need
My ex and I split when he was a resident. Now he's a surgeon. I'm a lawyer, so I make good money on my own. I have custody of our daughter and he has visitation every other weekend. He's been paying me a small amount child support that I've been using for treats or putting into a college fund. However, now that he is a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my stepsister and her stoner Dale gribble baby daddy's (3rd) baby shower", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to attend my stepsister and her stoner Dale Gribble baby daddy's (3rd) baby shower?
A little background: My dad married my stepmom when I was 4 years old. My stepmom has a daughter that is 2 months younger than me (now 28). My bio mom and her bio dad were out of the picture for most of our lives. I also have a younger full bio blood sister that I was raised with. I am very close with my bio sister bu...
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{ "description": "being polite", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being polite?
I've been accused of being two-faced, because when I'm around someone I don't like, I'm pleasant with them, we have polite conversation, we joke a little bit, but then when they leave or something somebody always asks "Hey I thought you didn't like that person?" "I don't." "Then why were you nice to them?" "I was...
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{ "description": "not going on my sisters cruise wedding", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not going on my sisters cruise wedding?
Backstory: My husband and I have been married over 3 years and together for 7. I’m 8 months pregnant with our first child. I just finished my bachelors in accounting this month. Info that pertains to the story: My old brother missed our wedding due to him getting the reception and ceremony times mixed up. We got marr...
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{ "description": "hitting a guy who stole a bag of joints out of my pocket at a concert", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For hitting a guy who stole a bag of joints out of my pocket at a concert
Hi all, first post here. As you can tell from this username, I no longer partake in the smoking of cannabis, but I've been thinking about this incident that occurred about 10 years ago. I had recently moved to a new area and was at a crowded outdoor reggae concert by myself. I brought a small bag of joints to share ...
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl and having a new girlfriend the week after", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for rejecting a girl and having a new girlfriend the week after?
Gotta admit there's more to it than the title says. Last semester a new girl (lets call her Sarah) joined our school and she was pretty alone which is why i brought her into my friends circle. I've had a girlfriend at that time and noticed that the new girl was crushing on me. She kept a lowkey flirty attitude and sai...
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{ "description": "blocking a woman I have been talking to for two weeks, asking repeatedly for a little bit of her time to actually go out and do something and she always has a excuse not to", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a woman I have been talking to for two weeks, asking repeatedly for a little bit of her time to actually go out and do something and she always has a excuse not to?
We have been talking for a month total. We met for dinner one time and she seemed to enjoy my company as much as I did hers. That was two weeks ago and she can never seem to find time to do anything since then however we text daily. Last night she sent me a text and a picture of her out with a bunch of friends at a bar...
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{ "description": "leaving my dad and moving to my mom's", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my dad and moving to my mom's?
Recently, I(17M) have moved out of my dad's to go to my mom's. This all happened after multiple arguments with my dad during us moving into a new house. This culminated into a big argument where my dad threatened to beat me if I didn't get out of his way when I was trying to get him to calm down as my stepmom came into...
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{ "description": "telling my parents my little brother will never get better", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my parents my little brother will never get better?
I am a middle school girl with two brothers, a twin brother and a little brother, both with autism. But it's clear to anyone who's known my little brother .5 seconds that he's severely very autistic. He's 9 years old, still watches cartoons on Netflix all day, can't form sentences other than 'Hi' or 'My name is (name)'...
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{ "description": "not telling my dad about the other men my mom slept with", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my dad about the other men my mom slept with?
Sorry for format if anything, on mobile, I'll try and make this short. Some backstory - While I can say my parents love me, they definitely weren't nicest tbh. My mother would psychology abuse me and my dad never payed attention to me when it came to my emotions, telling me to just man up. Both had a rough past cause...
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{ "description": "cutting off a carpool arrangement after a classmate and I were in an accident together", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA For cutting off a carpool arrangement after a classmate and I were in an accident together?
First time poster, and I’m on mobile, so please bare with me. A little background detail: I started school a few months ago and have a carpool arrangement with one of my classmates. This was supposed to make things easier on both of us financially. We had agreed to split gas 50/50 and, because I know he has 3 kids a...
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{ "description": "expecting my wife to pursue a career that pays well", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for expecting my wife to pursue a career that pays well?
When I met my wife, she was pursuing a career as a stand-up comedian. She was constantly going to open mics, writing, and doing shows. She was given a highly sought after but unpaid position at our city's biggest comedy club opening for the touring headlining comic. At the time she was making 2-3k year with comedy and ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help an elderly woman in need", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help an elderly woman in need?
Hello! The header already makes me look like a jerk, but there is a lot of context surrounding this. I am 22F, and my sister is 25F. My mom is an accountant, and her former client is the elderly woman in this story. I have never met this woman before in my life (my sister has met her ONCE), and I don’t even know he...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend a holiday party for my work", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to attend a holiday party for my work?
My workplace does two holiday parties every year. One of them is at the workplace, during work hours (for two hours) about a week before Christmas and cost $20 per person. The other one is hosted at an outside venue on the Friday before Christmas from 7pm-midnight or so and cost $25 per person (plus a cash bar). I do p...
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{ "description": "having a crush on my teacher despite her being a dick to everyone I like", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a crush on my teacher despite her being a dick to everyone I like
I’m a 17 year old female student and I study in an all girls school, and I have a massive idolisation/crush on my 40 smth year old female drama teacher. Problem doesn’t lie in the crush (altho I’m a but of an asshole for having one I know from someone that last time she found out a student liked her she freaked but t...
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{ "description": "telling my gf that I want to be one of my cousin's fiance's groomsman", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my GF [24F] that I want to be one of my cousin's fiance's groomsman?
I \[25 M\] got asked to be a groomsman for a wedding later on in the year, told my GF about it and she gave me an ultimatum of either being with HER or being a GROOMSMAN. Of course I chose being a groomsman because it'll be my first time doing it and the guy is like a big brother to me. Also, I will be walking with one...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for how he handled my abortion", "pronormative_score": 85, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for how he handled my abortion
My boyfriend and I were using the pull-out method and I got pregnant. I know, stupid. We've since started using condoms. I got the abortion pills (which we'd agreed I'd take if it ever came to that) and took them at home this weekend. About 5 minutes after I took the pills, my boyfriend headed out to the gym. He aske...
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{ "description": "pestering someone to deliver on a promise that they repeatedly insist they're going to do, but haven't done for nearly 3 years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for pestering someone to deliver on a promise that they repeatedly insist they're going to do, but haven't done for nearly 3 years?
Okay so, this is a very long story, but I'll try and make it as short as possible (it's still really long) Nearly 3 years ago, one of my doctors noticed that I always brought a handheld game system into the office while I waited. He outright asked me if I wanted some of his video games. He told me that, and I quote, ...
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{ "description": "calling my \"friends\" fake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for calling my “friends” fake.
I was a in High School. I really didn’t have any friends that year, but I found a “friend group” who I usually hung out with. Here are some examples of who they really were. Major event one: I gave a ride to one of my “friends” to one of our other friends show. I agreed, and she came along with my folks who also want...
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{ "description": "making my husband take down his wall mounted guns", "pronormative_score": 119, "contranormative_score": 198 }
AITA for making my husband take down his wall mounted guns?
My husband is a veteran, who enjoys everything that has to do with guns. During the week he goes to the range with his friends around 1-3 times. On the weekends he’ll usually be hunting or participating in his rifle association. He also suffers from PTSD, insomnia, and depression so I try to let him do the things he en...
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{ "description": "telling my would-be girlfriend's ex that she left him for me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my would-be girlfriend's ex that she left him for me?
A couple of months ago I [24M] started developing feelings toward my friend [24F] who happened to have a boyfriend at that time. It turned out that she also liked me and their relationship was going downhill for some time. Finally, she broke up with him (after a 5-year relationship) and we started dating. He never kne...
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{ "description": "making a kid cry by not letting him play with my camera", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making a kid cry by not letting him play with my camera?
In every wedding reception I've experienced there's always a Curious George waiting for me as I take photos. Usually 4 or 5 years old, follows me around everywhere because I'm doing something cool, unlike the adults who are sitting. I'm usually really friendly with them, when I get a chance I'll pop in a cheap lens and...
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{ "description": "wanting to play a flaky friend at their own game", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to play a flaky friend at their own game?
So some friends from work, we (used to, I guess) like to have a get together at this brewery twice a month to play a card game after work. I message one of said friends earlier in the day asking if she is going to be there with us, and I get no reply. I find out later that she went to the same brewery an hour before ...
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{ "description": "taking away my gaming system from the space me and my roommates share", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking away my gaming system from the space me and my roommates share?
Let me start off by saying that I'm not good at being a direct person. I have social anxiety and never have been good at telling people how I feel. So, lets get started. It might be long. I (19F) live with my S/O (21M) and our roommate (21M). the roommate, who we'll call Daniel, is my bfs best friend. They went to midd...
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{ "description": "being really upset at my mom for taking money from me? did I overreact", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being really upset at my mom for taking money from me? Did i overreact?
This happened about a week ago and I'm still kinda pissed about it, sorry for length. Sorry for any formatting issues (I'm on mobile) and spelling/grammar mistakes (im just stupid). I had a snack in my room and the empty bowl was still on my bed, for some reason i had my contact case and $13 inside of it. My grandmot...
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{ "description": "criticising a student about their email style", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for criticising a student about their email style?
Last week, I attended a networking event for university students and professionals in my field. Following on from that, a couple of students emailed me. One of them, who I'll call 'FF' has the wrong idea about how to send a follow-up networking email. In the email, FF brown-nosed in every possible way. They compliment...
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{ "description": "\"annoying\" my fiancee while she trying to work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For "annoying" my fiancee while she trying to work.
I call my fiance from work today because she told me she was having a very bad day. The people below her at work have been doing the wrong thing for 7 months and she just found out (it's not her fault at all). But now she has to fix it somehow. Later when I leave work I talk to her on the way home and she tells me she ...
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{ "description": "calling a group of girls 'hoes'", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for calling a group of girls 'hoes'?
I (20M) at university and went on a night out. Got into an argument with a friend while on the night out and decided to leave early. Anyway as I'm heading home I see a pair of 2 girls outside my acommodation block. I remembered now that my friend in my block was also having a party and given it was 2am these girls wer...
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{ "description": "telling a furniture salesmen I just wanted to look around the store", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a furniture salesmen i just wanted to look around the store?
My wife, FIL, and I went shopping today as we need two beds. We walk into a store and this interaction take place: "Hi welcome, can I help you find something?" "No thanks, we're just gonna look around" "Ok, so you know what you want?" "Not yet... We're just browsing right now" Dude gets annoyed "Well have you re...
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{ "description": "not going on a date with a guy in a wheelchair even though we had really good chemistry", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not going on a date with a guy in a wheelchair even though we had really good chemistry?
This happened a few weeks ago: I have not had much luck with online dating. Guys on apps are either creepy right off the bat or slowly become creepy as the conversation gets deeper. So, in comes this guy, let's call him Jackson. I matched with him and we spoke for several days and he seemed to be the only dude that...
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{ "description": "feeling suicidal because of my mom but she is self destructive and blames herself", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I feel suicidal because of my mom but she is self destructive and blames herself
The morning started with a confusion, I've mistaken the time my school bus comes to the morning and so my mom goes nuclear because of that, understandably. She threatens me of beating me up and stuff over the phone and I texted her "Mom, please stop. You're making me angry. You know I have depression, all the stuff you...
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{ "description": "reconsidering a new friendship", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reconsidering a new friendship?
So I'm new to my town and making new friends as an adult is hard. I feel good about one woman I work with, let's call her Jane. Jane and I have a lot in common and we've gone for drinks a few times. Cut to today. I find out she's an anti-vaxxer. She's smart, funny, educated, and we have a ton of interests in common. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to join my family group chat", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to join my family group chat
My bro and his gf just got engaged and I have a group chat with them and what will also be my brother in law. My girlfriend of about 2.5 Years was telling me she felt left out and wants me to add her. I’ve know my in laws for 8 years and for some reason I kinda just wanted to keep the chat private between us until we a...
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{ "description": "not caring my best friend cut ties with me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring my best friend cut ties with me?
I had a +15 year friendship with a girl who we'll call B. She dated a guy called L who used to be a bully to me in HS but I thought had matured. B had an issue with going to L's house every weekend and leaving her washing in the machine. I'd tell her to remember since it isn't our job to clean up after her, but it wa...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that BF wants newly dumped friend to join us on our Valentines weekend away", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that BF wants newly dumped friend to join us on our Valentines weekend away?
Me (23) and my partner (26) of 6months have been planning a weekend away to his parents holiday home for a while. We do not get to spend any time together in the week because of his job, and rarely for long at all on weekends because of both of our social schedules. I often get frustrated by this but he doesn’t see it...
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{ "description": "flaking on friendsgiving", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for flaking on friendsgiving?
Hey guys. Bit of context... i'm 23 M and so are my 3 room mates. We're all really good pals from HS and have stayed really solid friends since, even though we all went elsewhere for college. In HS we conveniently all had girlfriends from the same friend group - so we chilled with that friend group all the time doing ...
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{ "description": "shaking my leg \"chronically\" in class", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for shaking my leg "chronically" in class?
So I've had some controversy in my class about my leg issue. I got anxiety and depression and barely find a way to get my depression out. To not get overrunned by my voices (Yes that too), I got used to furiously shaking my leg. Depending on the shoes im wearing, that doesn't make too much noise but the issue is that t...
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{ "description": "selling my business", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA by selling my Business
Hi first time posting on this sub. English is not my first language so please go easy on me. 1. A = business person 1 2. B = business person 2 I own a small local cafe. On the first week when I start out the cafe, I was approached by B saying he wants to buy the business. I decline since I was just starting out, but...
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{ "description": "despising my mother for not letting me visit my grandfather while he was on his deathbed", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for despising my mother for not letting me visit my grandfather while he was on his deathbed?
I know this sounds like one of those, "you know your NTA," post but I'm genuinely mixed about the situation and need to see what people think. If I get what I want, I'll delete this post. For background history, my first memory is being woken up and told that my father is dead. I was not aware that he was dying. Maybe...
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