id
stringlengths
32
32
post_id
stringlengths
6
6
action
dict
title
stringlengths
4
300
text
stringlengths
0
10.8k
post_type
stringclasses
2 values
label_scores
dict
label
stringclasses
5 values
binarized_label_scores
dict
binarized_label
stringclasses
2 values
Cv97NmFvoWHGV3xeglVAcEoimMW6r1QV
azfpc2
{ "description": "cutting off someone that considers me to be their best friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cut off someone that considers me to be their best friend?
I(23f) have been close friends with a guy(21m) for over a year. We get on well enough; 60% of our friendship is going out and drinking. We've had a few spats that have mostly been me questioning why he assumes I am responsible for him and his wellbeing (as in planning and getting him home, or cooking and cleaning for h...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
JBzbJIbPdgJOVSDfRLUF7U9Ax5blniKz
9wurf4
{ "description": "being mad and ignoring my dad for days when he relapses", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad and ignoring my dad for days when he relapses?
My dad has been struggling with an addiction for a while now and it’s been a rocky road for sure. In the worst times he would lie through his teeth when he could barely walk and continue to lie after being sober that he didn’t do it. The whole thing has been pretty hard on my family and I can’t help but be mad that he...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
wK4CGVR3xxQXTV4XklyLSfj7xQQ1gQUz
aphv22
{ "description": "parking in the handicapped spot for one minute", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for parking in the handicapped spot for one minute
I was at the post office the other day and the parking lot was mostly empty. I was there for a simple pickup, so I decided to park in the spot closest to the door, which happened to be handicapped. My brother was with me that day, and when I got back he got on my case for being an asshole. I thought it was fine because...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 38, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 38 }
WRONG
aCWHTJzEWoBgLd1P5Q9LDwTyK7loPDHQ
b2q3ws
{ "description": "texting someone this \"I had a dream about you last night", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for texting someone this "I had a dream about you last night..
...and you were very patient with me and you were Fantastic." She didn't like it. She said that.." that is inappropriate."
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 3 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 7 }
WRONG
KY4jFjf9hWgEW6qEio8eOg4LjP3AcmEZ
9we6yu
{ "description": "threatening to quit earlier than planned", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For threatening to quit earlier than planned?
I am on a one year work contract. It should end next March but I have decided for my own personal reasons that I will be leaving my work and the foreign country I am in to return home after the new year. Per my contract 3 months is required as notice. I gave 4. I was told I would be missed and would always be welcome b...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
90Aj6SybtPZICRaZ2vU74k3hLc3aytYv
aqg0tb
{ "description": "posting a picture of my ex friend talking about me behind my back online", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I post a picture of my ex friend talking about me behind my back online?
This was made NSFW because of whats in this ​ When I started off middle school, I had like 2-3 friends, including this one kid (we'll name Hayden). Hayden was really tall and I was really short. He was about 5'7-5'8 and I was 4'9-4'10 (I am a guy so short guys got made fun of a lot.) I was mainly teased fo...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 1 }
WRONG
XF6SX2SadYeuM01rc94roSG0kng6Bwy7
abyzzm
{ "description": "not paying a New \"friend\" to watch our Puppy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for Not Paying a New "Friend" to Watch Our Puppy?
Backstory: My husband and I are new (by almost two years) to our area - we moved here so he could attend dental school. He goes to school full time and is an Italian immigrant (relevant). Shortly after moving, we met a woman (50s) in our church who is also originally from Italy and she was delighted to meet, talk and a...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 6, "OTHER": 9, "EVERYBODY": 10, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 16 }
WRONG
4dhtZB2sbAPHoINRg85oCYvM4NrbZMGi
aanajl
{ "description": "telling a complete stranger that someone is posting explicit stories about him and his students online", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told a complete stranger that someone is posting explicit stories about him and his students online?
I read stories on Archive of Our Own. For those of you who don't know about this website, it's basically a repository for fan-created content, mostly of an explicit nature. Now there's a subset of content on this website that is about real people, but this is usually limited to celebrities. I came across this particul...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
awRxME3RXQBAB91QXVjuXSt4Biy2M0qC
ao9pys
{ "description": "letting my niece have a cookie with gluten in it", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 47 }
AITA for letting my niece have a cookie with gluten in it?
My niece, who is ten, hasn’t been allowed to have gluten since she was six and had a “reaction” to it. I love my sister to death, but she can be incredibly gullible. As far as I know, my niece ate a lot of pasta one night and had a rash the next day. My sister’s friend told her that she probably has a “gluten intoleran...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 40, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 7, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 47 }
WRONG
FrCo8ioe8QBVyfylGFdzauM7V9GwknoM
b0o6i4
{ "description": "thinking the nurse was upset at my panic attack", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking the nurse was upset at my panic attack?
Hi Internet. I recently found out I'm pregnant, yay! With this comes a barrage of tests and pokes and prods, a nightmare for someone with a severe anxiety, the majority of which is rooted in a phobia of needles \*coughcough\* ME \*coughcough\*. I have to have a blood test, to make sure my blood type and the baby's are...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
9Lt58k8H34h0WE4efSWMn0fxf8kEbBWL
b22ylt
{ "description": "telling my special needs neighbor to stop coming to my house when I have friends over", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my special needs neighbor to stop coming to my house when I have friends over.
(Sorry for mobile formatting) AITA for getting upset and telling my neighbor who has autism that it is not ok to randomly show up to my backdoor, invite himself in when I have guests over. It has happened multiple times in the past where I have friends over and we are playing video games ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
bar94yDlNPIphzmxVpMB8a1Ik64FTYq8
a1nx6k
{ "description": "sleeping with my best friends boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for sleeping with my best friends boyfriend?
About 3 years ago possibly even longer, I slept with my best friends of 17 years boyfriend, before they started dating (note: I also have a boyfriend now, we’ve been together for 2.5 years) It was at a party at her house and we had sex in her bed. For 3 years it was a running joke because he liked her but slept with...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 8, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 8 }
WRONG
l7UIwvREtQr5zeVVtsY9MLCymddxnBxY
ba550m
{ "description": "being upset my husband accidentally broke a lamp of mine he thought was ugly", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset my husband accidentally broke a lamp of mine he thought was ugly?
My husband just came into the room (after I heard a crash) carrying a lamp I loved. He said “I’m in trouble”, set the broken lamp on the counter, and went about his business. I said “oh no! Do you mind throwing it away so I don’t have to look at it there?” He said that he would. He didn’t. Finally, I said “I’ll jus...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
NdTM0jHI8vCFs9IbeeLvP5CVG1BrJSTo
b72elj
{ "description": "going and getting a beer after work by myself", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I went and got a beer after work by myself?
So as the title states I want to relax and have a beer after work today. I feel like my husband will disapprove and it will end up being a huge fight. I don't have any friends that I see regularly and I just started a new job, things have been stressful at home and I just want a little space to be by myself. If I decid...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 12, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 3 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
O7qQaEBojG9Sor9Hm7hvB87fGqlCsVnA
amclpn
{ "description": "snapping at my dad after a very stressful past few months", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping at my dad after a very stressful past few months
So in November (2 days before my 17th birthday), I ended up finding my brother after an accidental OD (only just got the M.E. report back today, before this the cause was thought to be his sleep apnea and so everyone thought he just rolled over and never woke up). I still remember everything about it, it's buried benea...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
fv8VgWoyk8vBz223dBiLr9BjxjhOZIP4
9tzz6d
{ "description": "asking someone that was told to find a new place to live why they are at my house at 9pm", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For asking someone that was told to find a new place to live why they are at my house at 9PM?
So this guy has been staying with me and a friend when he went homeless. Homeboy has stolen from us before so I’m already weary of him. He was told he had two weeks to leave because he is a slob, smokes all the time and he has no respect for anyone but himself. When he was told he had two weeks he told me it wasn’t his...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
NhJhPy9RK1q4rtn9vbBjrazWNuLLl5CK
apooba
{ "description": "firing back at my rude classmate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for firing back at my rude classmate?
So here's how this story goes: I'm in the theatre department at my high school, and many of the upperclassmen are pretty rude. They constantly gossip and ignore people that they aren't friend with, despite the fact that we all have to work together. They also pretend to know more than they do, and undermine people jus...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
NII57iJYvvu8ffifQJVZ3UXNn1RYrCqy
a9zsgd
{ "description": "not caring about other people's lives and not wanting to know about their \"problems\"", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA if I don't care about other people's lives and don't want to know about their "problems" ?
I do not have what one would call a hard life but still I get incredibly bored every time someone tells me about their little or big troubles in life. What I just want is talk about random stuff and not get personal about someones stories. AITA ?
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 13, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 3 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 13 }
WRONG
G0ZMFfWVzd3WeiTTVLRVwqg5YOgkweb4
b33yzr
null
AITA with a new Ex Marine manager at work?
It all started with a new manager at work. He was a young Staff Sargent in the Marine Corp with a few combat tours overseas that managed at a security company after he left the Marines. He was related to the office manager and he was hired to manage the shop personnel and some company drivers. He introduced himself...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 3, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 4 }
WRONG
G3TdMdpkSP7Vaeq553Fom3OocDgOg2U4
a3ebxx
{ "description": "asking a moderately mentally handicapped (and possibly gay) classmate to stop certain things", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a moderately mentally handicapped (and possibly gay) classmate to stop certain things?
Title sums it up. For the most part. You see, this classmate in front of me in class (high school) keeps turning around and trying to talk to me, and occasionally will touch my, or somebody else’s arm or things. Most of the time when he does this (to me at least) I try to tell him to stop, and sometimes he does, and so...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
grnzoWFcwDN8yiGX0COZkGdze4vDRJzy
9z0zen
null
AITA - I've got gastroenteritis but I'm still getting up with our son
This was an actual conversation with my husband (Z) this morning. Our son woke up at 6:30. Z - are you getting up with him this morning? J - like I have every morning this week? Z - well you're off work J - I'm ill! Z - exactly I'm sure there's some logic here?! Sunday/Monday I was up all night myself, then our son ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
1DWnkT6RNYswherMzNNCJ8ywAyGRlX4y
ansz4u
{ "description": "telling my friends to back off", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friends to back off
First off let me start off by saying I've got great friends and I wouldn't change them for the world. I left my family home 8 years ago and pretty much have a non-existent relationship with my mother . I believe it is a relatonship beyond repair (she told my fiance - first time meeting each other - if we invite my f...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
yOH1RjbQ1KjNXA0qfpjHifxejCv2er9b
apbtaw
{ "description": "not wanting my sister to get married a week before me", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my sister to get married a week before me?
I (24f) have been dating my fiancé for two years before he proposed to me last July. We decided to have a year-long engagement and set the wedding date for July 2019. Two months ago, my sister (22) met a guy that she really liked and started dating him. This is the first relationship she has ever had. A week ago, sh...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 9, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
MuRTFgLEkdS1mFUe1QvdJJZGDmL2lq3r
b1n6ms
{ "description": "saying 'Ewww' at an old guy washing his dick in a public toilet", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying 'Ewww' at an old guy washing his dick in a public toilet?
I was taking a walk in the park, when I had to take a dump and an old guy followed in, idk, like 60 or so. It took me 7 minutes in the toilet and when I got out the old guy was washing his dick in the faucet. I was like Ewww and he heard it and glared at me like crazy and said 'Fucking bastard.' Don't know what else I...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
tG1EMxVMXKNVVsyPHdfTTxxkv81j8eDc
arsjfq
{ "description": "cutting off contact with my adopted sister because she \"loves\" my rapist like a \"brother\"", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For cutting off contact with my adopted sister because she "loves" my rapist like a "brother"?
This is a throwaway account. Idk if any relatives use Reddit, so.. yeah. This is a long story, and has many details that (I believe) all matter, but it is hard to tell it through such a short amount of text, so bear with me. TL;DR at the bottom. I (F20) cut off all contact with my adopted sister (we will call her Rac...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 39, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 41, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
XmG6ic0u90tYLcFvm861wqxvNiEtAQWR
b2c11n
{ "description": "not wanting to go to school", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not wanting to go to school?
I know this sounds like typical teenager talk, and it probably is, but I’m lost and in need of an opinion. I’ve been having a really bad time for a while on account of depression issues to do with a lot of things really, and recently I’ve started to have panic attacks and I’ve been feeling worthless. You see, it is ...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 5, "INFO": 1 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
4R6fzTxf8E8IgtyQlsnirnTNUFDPv97b
b1ygmw
{ "description": "getting mad at my friends for showing people in my class a picture if me I sent them when I was in hospital", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friends for showing people in my class a picture if me i sent them when i was in hospital?
I was in hospital for surgery on my mouth, I was born with a cleft pallet, so they need to take tissue from my cheek to lengthen my pallet to stop air escaping and affecting my speech. While I was in hospital I was texting my friends we were talking about my surgery and I was trying to explain how my mouth looked and...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
pbmxF0arG5tqS1mZYiBaiEcRtrpC12GH
au644y
{ "description": "breaking off a relationship over one big mistake", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for breaking off a relationship over one big mistake?
Me and this girl (I’m going to call her Sabrina) have been hanging out about every other day and it’s pretty obvious to both of us at this point we like each other based on what we do and what we say but neither of us has made a move to be more than “friends” yet. The guy who introduced me to Sabrina (let’s call him ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 5, "OTHER": 68, "EVERYBODY": 3, "NOBODY": 15, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 83, "WRONG": 8 }
RIGHT
z9Q2y9Y5GtTCVVNmr8wIfdFXmpMZaVas
au4o92
{ "description": "considering breaking up with my bf over something hypothetical and unlikely to happen", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for considering breaking up with my(22F) bf(21M) over something hypothetical and unlikely to happen?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. Something I am a little concerned about is the topic of me becoming pregnant. This is totally hypothetical as I am not pregnant, and do not plan on getting pregnant any time soon. The only form of contraception we use is birth control, which I take religiously, so...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 22, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 8, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 30, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
dxyMU1hEQI6J57rj1zzD5OaaHQ6sHhXl
9y1suz
{ "description": "talking to another girl while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking to another girl while in a relationship?
Hey all, as a preface this happened several weeks ago. Anyways let's cut to the chase. ​ I've been dating my girlfriend for more than a year. We both met while in nursing school and as we have gone on to our clinical years, our relationship has transitioned to long distance as she traveled to the west coas...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 9, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
esgk9SbuBxbyxWh1fV7X2B7oKDOkPOMv
ayq93f
{ "description": "asking for petrol contributions", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for petrol contributions?
I’m at university doing a course that requires us to be on placement most of the time. We’re paired with partners on our placements. I have a car and my partner does not. Because of this I give her a lift to placement most days. Over the 10 week placement I would say I average giving her a lift 3-4 days out of 5. We...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
dTaIWpEOobGabQQVwp3HwM3ZDRgsK4i0
b0pga3
{ "description": "calling cps on my neighbors anonymously", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I call cps on my neighbors anonymously?
Throwaway, because I am scared that anyone I know will read this. I live in a very quiet area and a year ago my neighbors moved in. It's a single mother with two children (a new one is coming this year). The children are sweethearts. I often meet them in the backyard. However, my problem starts here: the mom sent...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 17, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 17, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
7ajgaxBCmLq7J5PB1YsA00NVfx9nEAH5
a8xttz
{ "description": "trying to get a my half sisters father out of our house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AitA for trying to get a my half sisters father out of our house?
So obvious context is needed and this one is going to take a bit. And I'm very sorry if time lines make no sense. after having a talk with my mother about getting him out again she told me she doesn't want her year ruined and she's tiredof hearing about it. For names I'll just use letters. (S) is the father of my ha...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
XQPGMAhvQTqYFmuPfaFOOHaNYAbvUvYB
9yks87
{ "description": "trying to help my friend who thought she was pregnant", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to help my friend who thought she was pregnant
So for context I was out with friends at a pub. I had a lot on my mind and I was tired. So I decided to leave to walk to my car because I didn't want to ruin the mood for everyone else and wait for the rest of them because I was doing lifts that night for the ones that were drinking. So anyway I'm dropping off all my ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
vweE50YUudGZhN49HCe28kJwTomIChCS
at8rw5
{ "description": "crossing & getting honked at", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for crossing & getting honked at? (Even if I did take my time)
My late bus stop is maybe a 10 minute walk to my house. There are many crosswalks en route. Most of them don't even have lights--Just a sign telling car drivers to be considerate of crossing pedestrians. All but one of these crosswalks are like this. Today, when I reached the crosswalk with the light, I pressed the but...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
WzDtiZuyjvoJEOlpP7yYZggzQWw6MYzP
arx35q
{ "description": "pretending like nothing happened between a coworker and I, when in reality we slept together a couple of weeks ago", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pretending like nothing happened between a coworker and I, when in reality we slept together a couple of weeks ago?
So I normally operate on the basis you don't shit where you eat when it comes to dating. No-one in your friend group, no-one in your class at university, and no-one you work with. I decided to break the latter rule for a guy I work with. We get on really well, and had spent time together outside of work on a platonic...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
0taHzDdk3MJnh66WN2mZjUgtrR64hTi6
ax2q9a
{ "description": "not taking advantage of a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not taking advantage of a friend?
This won’t be a long post and this is my first time posting here so... please, be gentle. OK! So, long story short, I’m in a Long Distance Relationship and I’m actually thinking of getting married with her because I have never felt such a connection with someone. She told me “I know how hard this can be, so... If you c...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
5vwcWhUHQdwEfZ0Lpc0MmmSVdp9vv1rC
a9zszo
{ "description": "being too lazy to maintain contact with friends and family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being too lazy to maintain contact with friends and family?
I think I need a wake up call... I barely message my friends and usually wait for them to do it. Not entirely sure why... I have noticed a part of me doesn't like getting dragged into conversations I have no interest in but I can quite happily prattle on about myself. It's like... Oh your having a baby... Woop de fri...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
y47y1xDj8X8Eb03UCZOU9U5M0UnQPwAD
b4itfc
{ "description": "getting jealous", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting jealous?
So this probably isn't the juciest story on here but I've been dating this girl for about 3 months and everything has been going good for the most part, we work together which was a big concern for her to be romantically involved with someone at work which is totally understandable. There's this other guy at work who h...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
lg0f6H9ZlSYKkdmlaYcFBstWncEtUrN2
a4ooz8
{ "description": "telling a friend to be straightforward with another friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a friend to be straightforward with another friend?
First off, on mobile so sorry for formatting/spelling/grammer So last night I was txting my best friend, lets call her K. We currently work together at the same store, but she is an advocate and I a manager. Due to unrelated corporate issues, we are both currently putting in applications elsewhere with the understandi...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
F8i2gGbiK2B75zOs6E8InuTmLEHhtNIo
abwzx5
{ "description": "telling my friend I won't be best man at his wedding a week before", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend I won't be best man at his wedding a week before.
Hello reddit! My name is Kyle / Dabstep, and this is a story about the standards of friends and how I believe you should never let people treat you however they like. ​ Here we go! I have had this friend since high school (best friend, even). He is 26 and I am 25. We have been through some thick and some t...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
rnANja91GJDODnjSzG7Pu2c0KVTcoGI2
asc4zv
{ "description": "wanting to drive home alone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for wanting to drive home alone?
So I was walking to my car just this afternoon after my shift, when I heard someone calling my name. I recognized the voice to be that of my workmate. I gave him a ride yesterday and he was... talkative. I kept walking and acted like I didn't hear him at all. When i got into the car, i saw him going the other way until...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 7 }
WRONG
54uWwPqsxKOPmgHcjRP5tu32trpJluD8
adnucn
{ "description": "keeping money recieved from a sexual assult case in a seperate account which my boyfriend thinks he should have since I'm not using it", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping money recieved from a sexual assult case in a seperate account which my boyfriend thinks he should have since I'm not using it?
Some background: I'm with him 7 years, he earns more money than me and never has an issue with me spending his - then again I'm not a big spender. We save my wage and spend his. The credit card is in his name and we both have a card each to use so he isn't tight with cash usually. The assult was a few years ago and I ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 11, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
I5cbelnSHSocI3qxcLJAlb4vgPBtsBrH
9yufdl
{ "description": "not reading a letter written by a coworker discussing his daughter's battle with leukemia", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: not reading a letter written by a coworker discussing his daughter’s battle with leukemia
Disclaimer: I’ve been at this company for about 1 month. I’ve never met this coworker (except a brief “nice to meet you” during orientation) and we likely won’t work directly together at any point. Our COO sent out an email for thanksgiving, thanking us for our contribution to the team and reflecting on trying to be...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
f1Ftpw7Tqfr8Lqph2u0asLqKm0nx5j1m
aflkdo
{ "description": "getting defensive with my (ex) girlfriends nurse for the wrong course of action for treatment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA: Am I the asshole for getting defensive with my (ex) girlfriends nurse for the wrong course of action for treatment?
So I was in a relationship with this sweet girl for six months (I am a 23 year old lesbian), and it was this interaction with the nurse that has put the last nail on the coffin: Short backstory on me: Call me "N". I'm still trying to find out who I really am inside (finding the right job, home, destiny, etc). It was o...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 5, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
dDOKo6w7bBK2wz00JfzsnR9wPCXezRw4
ahbpd0
{ "description": "making my african american intern work on MLK Jr Day? she was one of three picked at random", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making my African American intern work on MLK Jr Day? She was one of three picked at random.
Try to do as much background as relevant. I work for a small engineering firm which subcons for a fortune 500 company which makes parts that go into nearly every mobile device made by one of the biggest companies on the planet. I was promoted to manager back in November and think I'm way over my head because I really l...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 15, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 15, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
Nv6zxf2wOAuT1BM2JdwFFMyz0UkhfvvL
9y4e3p
{ "description": "making a dark joke about the California wildfires", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I made a dark joke about the California wildfires?
Basically I said this would be a great time to kill someone and burn the body and dump the ashes, my friends said that was really fucked up. We were watching a bunch of unsolved murder cases on YouTube so I felt like it was relevant and I was just fucking around but am I the asshole?
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
I3XotxDgHVrgWhFBxGuQllltpn0Mbfnq
b7wjlr
{ "description": "not wanting/letting my dog lay all over me during a fucking car ride? he keeps moving around on me and can never find the most comfortable position", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA? Am I the asshole for not wanting/letting my dog lay all over me during a fucking car ride? He keeps moving around on me and can never find the most comfortable position.
and while I was typing this my dog tried to put his head over my hand as if he was trying to read what I was typing. Cute and all, but dude can I have some own personal space!?
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
VKwrbPMqtEsmYzNFYfPOtPD1kQhSImHO
b6omqk
{ "description": "not going out to dinner with my parents", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not going out to dinner with my parents?
This happened ages ago when i started high school but based on my parents reaction i still haven't forgotten it or came to a conclusion. Like i said above, it was the first day of high school which meant new school with new people that i didn't know. All these people were a year older than me and because they did a pr...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
qwlBwMczXna2OVyh1JeArVllaI4xGVd7
axttjp
null
AITA. Mother In Law Pushing the Boundaries
First I want to start with that I am extremly grateful that my in laws watch my kids while my husband and I work. They don't ask us to pay them or anything, but lately I feel like my mother in law is crossing some lines. For clarification, my husband has two kids from a previous marriage that live about 45 minites awa...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 11, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
LUyQ5WKxblpNeE0Vo7SkW5Av9C9avrHk
b8o6ka
{ "description": "not letting my 5 year old neighbor hold my pet hedgehog", "pronormative_score": 65, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my 5 year old neighbor hold my pet hedgehog?
First time poster here with a moral dilemma. *Backstory: I own a pet hedgehog named Loki.He needed to have an eye surgically removed recently and has finally recovered, but needless to say has been through a lot of stress. (Surgery, anesthetics, vet visits, antibiotics, etc.) My vet posted his story to Facebook, wit...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 64, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 65, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
bPYGr4DlW0fPIFDvIWbHA4leUs7MBU4e
az8cg7
{ "description": "breaking up w/ my bf of 8 months (now ex) for telling me he is into incest", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA breaking up w/ my bf of 8 months (now ex) for telling me he is into incest?
I'm 20F, I was dating him for 8 months and after few months dating, he told me some weird fetishes like incest, anal, and threesome. I'm not into any of them obviously, yet incest is ILLEGAL in where I am. After like 2 weeks heavily thinking about it, I decided to break up with him. It's for my future sake because I al...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 4, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 8, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 21, "WRONG": 5 }
RIGHT
HWXNkNh7S3wsrUiZp5HSD3yekDCI3k3O
a58yr1
{ "description": "nearly riding into a woman", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for nearly riding into a woman
This happened quite a while ago but my brain reminds me of it everyday because there's one nagging question AITA? It was my 13th birthday and I had a new bike, hurray! So I decided to ride it through the forest on the bike path. But first to get there I had to go up a large and steep hill. All was well and I had a fun ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
ZjN74ylliosqACeeDIX1tJjHVUEgeLLc
ak7z8k
{ "description": "hitting a parked car and leaving", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for hitting a parked car and leaving?
I arrived at a parking lot really early in the morning and parked within the lines when I came back to my car to leave the car next to me was within my lines and had cramped me in. When was trying to get out I accidentally hit the end of his car I got out and there was no damage but the car alarm was on I’m a new driv...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 11, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 12 }
WRONG
0RDlzXXv397VZOZrcq63YXQAndrPDfFi
ajtdzx
{ "description": "refusing to give my mother money to help with bills", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I refused to give my mother money to help with bills?
I'm 18 and I live at home with my mother and older brother (26). I'm the only one who currently has a job. My mother recives disability, child support and adoption subsidy. She also suffers from chronic pain that makes her incapable of working outside the home. She had a temporary at home job back in October/Novembe...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
IsMHw90QHiP37YD5YBn6ie4FaBs68jO3
asxwxi
{ "description": "getting another kid to set up my tent", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting another kid to set up my tent?
first time, and everyones name is changed, etc. ​ I am in boy scouts, and before each camping outing we set up the tents to see if they work. I was setting one up with another kid, he we'll call Russell. He was playing around, and wasn't trying to set it up. After like 5 minutes a kid we shall call Harry ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 2, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
fsuRzkbn5vxjyDLv6JeCPiDf7kdFMQsI
b1gt9v
null
AITA Senior wanting IP from a class group project
I am a senior in college taking a class with a senior project. I had to pay for the class obviously but I also payed lab fees for this course about $250. As it has been described to me multiple times by the professor the purpose of the lab fees is to pay the necessary fees for the senior project. The class has been spl...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 7 }
WRONG
KN8KUZefCabHAekrAPMiXnKiqQabobHD
b3evle
null
AITA: Yelled at Guy for Returning a misdelivered package?
Some background: I live in an apartment complex where occasionally package deliverers get confused, as my shipping address is not my front door. Its basically a collection of buildings, the shipping address is my mailbox. When getting packages, the deliverers need to find my marked building to bring it to my door. This...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 10, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 11 }
WRONG
ZDP6g1clUt9DxwftHGa7qbl9WlFb412u
aztrqn
{ "description": "telling my parents I won't come to their house unless my brother leaves or gets help", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my parents I won't come to their house unless my brother leaves or gets help
So my brother (30) moved back in with my parents two years ago. He was living out of state and got surgery, and so had to move home because he couldn't work anymore at his former occupation. Things are always fine, but he has very different political views than my other siblings and I. That's fine, everyone is entitled...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 22, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 22, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
crF7hfCryQKO2oS4F6e5Hk8ZaRrrapfe
b8oks3
{ "description": "expecting my friend and her boyfriend to help me pay for my laptop they broke", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my friend and her boyfriend to help me pay for my laptop they broke?
Last post went over the character limit when I added a TL;DR and got deleted, so here it is again a little shorter. A few months ago I was doing homework at a friend's apartment and eating dinner while I worked. I was on the floor, which was carpeted, and had a cup of water with me. Now, I intentionally put the water ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
l1g2Al21cpo3L5Ck2HXcdQZstRtKIYEr
a8jeoe
{ "description": "falling back asleep while my roommate threw up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for falling back asleep while my roommate threw up?
My roommate drank too much the night before, then woke me up (a few hours before my alarm) by puking into his garbage bin. I knew that throwing up the morning after drinking was definitely a bad sign but I honestly had no sympathy towards him just because he didn’t know when to stop. I just went back to sleep because I...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
Yc71bL6MbIiDdp7bIp6KzYI8XweA6ia2
b8u4a7
{ "description": "refusing to kiss my gf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to kiss my gf
We've been going out for about a month now and have talked about my dislike of kissing many times. It confuses a lot of people. I just don't like kissing. It's gross to me. I've never enjoyed it. There's exceptions. I'm okay with a playful kiss to the cheek and such but actual kissing is gross. The idea isn't. And I...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
TejRCXO8dCMUPWtdcyeLw9gfLRXY0CYy
b285zg
null
AITA? While we were in a room alone together, husband started touching himself. It pissed me off. NSFW
Throwaway. I’m trying to leave out the editorial and just state the facts. Husband (M 40s) and I (F late 30s) have been married 20 years. I think we have a healthy sex life (multiple times a week, sometimes multiple times a day, even). There are errands we need to run today. I asked him if how soon we were leaving ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 4 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 7 }
WRONG
eXA2v7vbyT6r6f4DmY4886A8cuGQH8dY
b7y70e
{ "description": "wanting to see my boyfriends text messages", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to see my boyfriends text messages?
is it wrong to ask to see text messages as proof? boyfriend is housesitting and said he doesnt want to be out past 930PM. I dropped him off after hanging at like 925 and go to get gas, but he left his phone in the car and his friend texted him saying "hey so sorry im so beat :(" at like 930ish and so when I saw him dro...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 5, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 2 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 5 }
RIGHT
WMQLfFBW5OQYAQymbU8WGUaHnfMXaG58
b5dlne
{ "description": "wanting my girlfriend to go to the gym", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting my girlfriend to go to the gym?
I'm sure this has been answered here before but I guess every situation is different. My gf has put on a bit of weight over winter and has repeatedly said she'll go to the gym before summer to get back in shape. Well, she's yet to go even though I've tried to encourage her and help wherever possible. I should add t...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 6, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 2 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 12, "WRONG": 6 }
RIGHT
GBVYP8rr9Msevo86nYbrVVjIN7wviWk5
9zmq9a
{ "description": "kicking my friend out of my apartment", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for kicking my friend out of my apartment?
Okay so this story happened years ago but still eats away to me to this day... I have a solid friend group that goes back since early college (we're in our mid 20's). Some of our friend group has left our city, but will usually come back to visit. Our one buddy, "Jim" was hoping to move back to our city and asked to c...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 4, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 4 }
RIGHT
uuApHOsR4RalKpkdfEg5z7UzZzU3J9Fx
am01fh
{ "description": "breaking our lease because my sister in law moved her cousins in without notifying me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking our lease because my sister in law moved her cousins in without notifying me?
This happened around November but has still caused a riff between my brother and I. My sister in law is from Boston and in October my brother, my niece, and her took a vacation out to Boston. They had a great time, and my sister in law was glad to see her family again. About a week later, there is an unfamiliar car i...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
sazLIbi2jC7Ll3rKoXZXujfPLd21jiUF
b19mfl
{ "description": "not making up my mind wrt a girl", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not making up my mind wrt a girl?
I (21M) go to a small college where attractive girls are hard to come by, and I'm in my third year now without having kissed a girl since high school. So a few weeks ago I met a girl (20F) briefly, and she asked for my snapchat. The next night my fraternity had a party and she drank a little more than she could handle...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
NyT0VrTEWPAc4l5EYx7MX338UACQJQ0C
apo15j
null
AITA Because it was my turn to use the parking spot?
So I live in some townhomes with very limited and assigned parking. I live with two roommates and my wife. We all have an agreement that whoever is the last person home, gets the parking spot. Our neighborhood is hard to find parking in when you come home late, so that was why we made the deal. It's been like this sinc...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
nqEfhmwguglW9Mi3qauhH4exF3RlpFXT
9yy492
null
AITA - (Old) Close friend contacts me after several months
Ok, this is my first time making a post on the subreddit so don't hit me too hard. ​ This wasn't super long ago (about 1 month ago) but a girl I had a huge crush on since we knew each other for a really long time and there was a lot about her that attracted me to her. Anyways, I confessed to her and got fr...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
aLhTpeW3PezPuB3pvaBzZHmjgpdtOjrl
ausa48
{ "description": "asking my roommate to get a handle on his lose hair in the apartment", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For asking my roommate to get a handle on his lose hair in the apartment
My roommate and I are both men. He has extremely long hair (longer than my girlfriend’s for reference). We’ve now been in the same apartment for a few months, and I’ve noticed he does not clean up his hair. I find long loose hairs throughout the apartment, but as you could imagine, The bathroom is the real ground zero....
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
MjxdoYwpquaW9qdjX1BO3l2IjRruEhpw
b3y5rf
{ "description": "refusing to train(boxing) with one of my closest friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to train(boxing) with one of my closest friends?
Background: 2 years ago, my wife forced me into one of those cheesy cardio boxing classes, because I was weightlifting exclusively. Long story short, I fell in love and my wife and I turned it into something we do together. I ended up loving it SO MUCH SO, I hired a trainer to truly teach me the sport technically. Not...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
WRONG
LZwzZJwdMLNyMUAbfkMDQRFqjuqPuxev
ba8yv4
null
AITA for my birthday gift to my wife
My wife and I are tight on money right now and thus, we didn't have anything in the budget for my wife's birthday gift. Instead, I sent her to her friends house for a few hours and my kids and I did all the household chores. When she got home, we showed the clean house off to her and told her it was her birthday gift. ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 398, "OTHER": 147, "EVERYBODY": 16, "NOBODY": 76, "INFO": 41 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 223, "WRONG": 414 }
WRONG
rmezpBiKbMKTYSK3XOqMYPWwXEhoRNcs
akxn6a
{ "description": "staging a asshole intervene", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for staging a asshole intervene?
So I feel like this is gonna take a little bit of backstory. We have a friend, Billy. He’s a cool guy but the whole friend group (late 20s to early 30s) has one big problem, Billy’s mouth. If Billy doesn’t like something you like he will go off on a tangent about how terrible it is. Never the you shouldn’t like this be...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
epOhVJ6JgsPy76yLWnsPFGqwMotiNVTG
am3qpr
{ "description": "freaking the fuck out on a FWB for acting so gloomy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for freaking the fuck out on a FWB for acting so gloomy
Was gonna use a throwaway for this, but fuck it I don’t care We were having an innocent (well, kind of kinky tbh) conversation beforehand, and then when I asked him a random dumb question (it was kind of kinky so I low key don’t wanna share it here) he responded with - *you ever like take a shower and start thinking ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 6, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 6 }
WRONG
PNBwaPoOxrxpeST7KNIaA9VN8Y0tyTPp
b7vpd3
{ "description": "stopping a man from hiring staff", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Stopping a man from hiring staff
Some background, I live and work as a bartender in Korea but I am originally from the states. We have a frequent customer at the bar called J. He owns an English teaching business in the area. I really don't like J. First, during every shift I work he calls me over and asks me if I want a job with him. While I'm at ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 10, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
2ND5QlBrU1z0RkiH1JhpQZrRfXHCuTRl
arbky4
{ "description": "changing my mind about roles", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing my mind about roles?
(I posted this on r/acting and decided it would probably work well here too. I added to the story so it was more interesting) Hello! Let's just have some background on this story. I've gotten a role for my first play ever. It's at my school, so it's not the most professional. I'm not super picky with roles. There w...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
owJdAj4WvPSr4g9Wqyii0d0Y1Mob9KvW
aq7o0p
{ "description": "ghosting my autistic 'friend'", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTAH for ghosting my autistic ‘friend’
I know that sounds so bad, but let me explain!! Please keep in mind that through out this story I’m 19 at the time and she in her 30s. While I was working at my old job, I met a woman who immediately took a liking to me. Obviously I was extremely nice because that’s what’s expected of me and she took that as me wantin...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 12, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 16, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
m5DvgwSOywUZSh4Oon6ocLTciBklVUH1
9tzp5m
{ "description": "calling out a guy for parking in front of a fire hydrant", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out a guy for parking in front of a fire hydrant?
Guys parks in front of fire hydrant. I say dude you can’t park there. He asks if I’m the cops. I say no and call him an asshole. Calling him an asshole was unnecessary.
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
CinTAR98QjMWgscASqUZJyBC47xvChF1
amfr9s
{ "description": "not wanting to volunteer with my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to volunteer with my family?
For some context, my mom asked me a while ago if I would like to join her and my sister for a volunteer activity they were doing. I said no, but told them it was a good idea to go. It just isn't something I would like to do with my time, I'm sorry. So today rolls around, I'm organizing some things for my mom and my ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
BmSei9MLHf7mKs0Ge3Vri5PYRVGqTGIL
b7mk5p
{ "description": "thinking that Looks and character are equally important when u start dating", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for thinking that Looks and character are equally important when u start Dating?
Ok so a few months ago i met this Girl online and we started texting and, after a while, hang out a couple times. now at first i was interested in her because i liked her character and the way she thinks but after we met that Feeling vanished because i didnt like how she looked. By that i mean that i have a few very sp...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 7, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 8 }
WRONG
9qkeHUZHunj9Og6D9h3R3yMSXPnHRgOo
b1g9xt
null
AITA For my reaction to a mental health service being closed ten minutes into my appointment time?
I've been experiencing some symptoms of depression that I wanted to discuss with a professional. My workplace offers a program that allows me 3 free visits with their provider (hereby referred to as "they" or "provider"), so I chose to schedule an appointment with that provider. The times available conflicted with my ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 7, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
aXfQqui3fZtY0HgFdNu4s21HyLCRlShN
b9h00e
{ "description": "letting a child laugh at a foreign name", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for letting a child laugh at a foreign name?
Okay so I know this is very small compared to most of the things on this subreddit, but I was just wondering whether I did anything wrong here. I’m a personal tutor, and I teach Maths and English to a 9-year-old girl who I’ll call Emily. Today we were reading a passage from a story, and taking it in turns to read. The...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
k25EJtffMOPirKgAy9eJHBW73157X8EX
9zgd5n
{ "description": "not responding to an ex friends nice text message", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for not responding to an ex friends nice text message?
I had this best friend in high school and we basically spent most every day of 3 years together. I’m not going to lie and say it was all bad, she was one of the first people to make me feel special. But I was only special in a “ I make your life better” way, I really had no identity that was just my own. But also she w...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 5, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
AjgRaNoEErtEprS6rL43JplueExzVYNV
a5cz5b
{ "description": "questioning a co-workers lunch break", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning a co-workers lunch break?
My co-worker recently had an appointment (did not disclose the type) at 12:30 and had taken their hour lunch break from 11:30 until 12:30. Once the hour lunch break was over they left for their appointment in which they returned an hour later with no apologies or anything for leaving for an extra hour and pushing back...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 2 }
INFO
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
CwvtJHtjWzhs9FjQ54V0H4tmFSARJIvY
ba7r5r
{ "description": "spending my tax return on myself instead of a ring to propose to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I spent my tax return on myself instead of a ring to propose to my girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I have been talking about getting married. I was very excited for this and was going to set aside my tax return to buy her a nice engagement ring. However, the other night while we were out with some friends, I noticed she was texting someone from work the whole time. That's not super surprising, they...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 6, "INFO": 1 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
YlHE6h7PdnxBwfGMdkglfgJVQ2Iswzyz
9u8kes
{ "description": "leaving my bf after he let this girl beat me up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 75 }
WIBTA for leaving my bf after he let this girl beat me up?
We were out last night, I got drunk and was out of character. I ran into a girl I didn't like and we started arguing. My bf tried to pull me away but I got mad at him and told him to let me go. We continued arguing and then I hit her. This bitch must be an experienced fighter because she grabbed my hair and threw me on...
HYPOTHETICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 75, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 75 }
WRONG
fQtvJuQ8xf5hIdcSOCplGUReZnubNYZd
9tme7h
{ "description": "telling a transgender person to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a transgender person to leave me alone?
So for some context, I am in high school and my sister was a senior last year. She made a club in school called the fitness club. I was forced to join (parents btw) and I was the only male there. Little did I know that there was another fitness club for males. Yearbook pictures came in and there are two pages for fi...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 14, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
Sl9AiSCc4qjQRYQOTMfOOzzgJMfqMZ1W
an9ide
{ "description": "kicking my tinder date out for getting her period", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my tinder date out for getting her period
A few weeks ago I matched with a cute girl on a dating app. I got her number and we texted back and forth for a few weeks. Finally after a few plans to hang out fell threw she texted me ‘why don’t you just come over’ I was cautious but also excited so I decided screw it and went over to her house. She turned out not to...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 5, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 18, "WRONG": 3 }
RIGHT
S9GkkzQ46L3QTs795nTpSKSWQ2Ki7SYR
a6s6kv
null
AITA My cat killed my roommate's bird.
So this started a while ago and there's a lot of context. I've lived with my roommate for over 3 years now, and I've wanted to have a cat pretty much the entire time. He didn't want to live with a cat though, so I didn't get one out of respect for that. (He doesn't like cats. and also has mild allergies) But it was...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 8, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
m1de1KnwQ9uflR1A6sOTIMhEFH7VNQxK
ahout6
{ "description": "asking my dad for money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my dad for money?
I'm currently a student in college, and my dad offers and pays my rent. It is $1000 a month, but my dad only gives me $750. During a discussion with my parents, they said they would transfer me the difference, so my dad sent me $1500. Over Christmas I got $500 from family (I have a massive extended family). I gave the ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
6jDvTJoCHJP8ITUdpBXNLQVx3d2s9gOS
au7hkb
{ "description": "looking for a new nanny because my current (but new) nanny has updated her profile and logged in most days to the nanny website where I found her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for looking for a new nanny because my current (but new) nanny has updated her profile and logged in most days to the nanny website where I found her?
So my new nanny for my 3yo and 1yo has a lot of positive traits and has seemed really good in almost all ways. However I have felt that she has not bonded with my 3 year old and frankly seems to think he is a bit of an asshole. I have explained many times that he is struggling with starting kindergarten, potty training...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 4, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 4 }
WRONG
LHQWZeA3SviOTZyMjR6DSKYjP3kM6DGj
9y3hgw
{ "description": "expecting my spouse to do more around the house than me", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for expecting my spouse to do more around the house than me?
Me and my spouse have been living together for six years and both have worked/ been in school full time up until September when she got a job as a supply teacher. Being a supply teacher means her work is not always consistent, if she doesn’t get a call that day she doesn’t work. Last week for instance she only worked ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 4, "OTHER": 26, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 26, "WRONG": 4 }
RIGHT
OqW5V3OmdLbqiXqUoiAoxPET7xyvt3Wl
9wvqju
{ "description": "telling my mom that if I had kids, that I would never let her see them", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom that if I had kids, that I would never let her see them?
Context: this was about a year ago, but I still think about it a lot. AITA for telling my mom that she wouldn't be allowed to see my kids if she continued down her road of alcoholism? I told my mom this in a therapy session. She had emotionally abused me for years, and from time to time would get physical. From yell...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
a3anp1tJQOdOP2HvNIT8PUYljzyb32dB
acdpf6
{ "description": "not seeing my husband play live music frequently", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not seeing my husband play live music frequently.
Just to preface this, I'm not mad and him and he's not mad at me. There isn't a problem I'm just wondering if I am not being the best husband I can be. My husband is a musician and has a gig almost every night of the week. I love him. He's a wonderful musician. I'm glad he does this for a living and wouldn't want it ...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 5, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
OSAxSVu9JAupupMduQ5mJD5jPHChNR8B
b19f62
{ "description": "being upset that I keep getting woken up at night by fiance and sisters", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA (M27) for being upset that I keep getting woken up at night by fiance (F24) and sisters?
My fiance and I have been dating for five years now and engaged for one. We recently bought a new home about six months ago after dealing with communal living for the previous four. I was under the impression that we'd be moving out together and alone to start our new chapter together, just us. I found out that this wa...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 3, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 6 }
WRONG
167ekDEiDA8oVrk97YytGKId4e60wzqS
a92o9c
null
AITA: My SO says his alone time is a "privilege"
My SO brought up that his alone time feels like a "privilege" now that I've moved in (he invited me). The moment he made that comment using those particular set of words, I got triggered. He has mentioned multiple times that his ex never gave him his space. She wanted to see him every night and wanted to go wherever h...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 10, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 3, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
hvHEjNaY30cn4KXNlxUywBZMYlcw06b7
afeogq
{ "description": "being mad at my girlfriend for wanting to do something else the weekend of my sisters wedding", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for wanting to do something else the weekend of my sisters wedding?
Today I asked my girlfriend of a few months to be my plus one to my sisters wedding. It's in September, my sister had to know right away for planning reasons or whatever. Anyways I asked her this morning, she said yes. Then an hour ago she texted me asking the date, because she was invited to some sort of convention i...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 5, "OTHER": 1, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 1 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 5 }
RIGHT
CwPxm85DfXUjMjfqozmPA13XhzGZfe6i
a4tyly
{ "description": "knowing exactly how much money my girlfriend owes me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for knowing exactly how much money my girlfriend owes me?
I'd like to preface this by saying that I've always been very good with numbers. I'm extremely analytical and have often been told that I have traits resembling that of Asperger's, though I'm not on the spectrum. Two weeks ago, my girlfriend (18) and I (17) went out to a night market with some friends. My girlfriend h...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 7, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 4, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
MWLE63CtPMryH4HyR8ecPmx6YjJFLejg
b73y6u
{ "description": "leaving a Pan out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Leaving a Pan Out?
Hello fellow asshole enthusiasts I have a quandary for you today. I (21f) live with my parents (48F and 52M) my 3 siblings (20M 18M and 10M) and my boyfriend (22M). Both parents have work from home desk jobs. I work from 4 am - 1 pm stocking shelves. My parents go out to a nice restuarant with their friends every T...
HISTORICAL
{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 4, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT