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{ "description": "ghosting a friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ghosting a friend?
I met Alex at the beginning of freshman year of college and we were quick to become friends. We become roommates sophomore year and this is when I started to notice some problems. Alex is an introvert, so she doesn’t like to engage in conversations all the time. I understand this since I’m also introverted, but she wa...
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{ "description": "handing out less candy to trick-or-treaters wearing their every day clothes instead of costumes", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for handing out less candy to trick-or-treaters wearing their every day clothes instead of costumes?
Some people in my neighborhood seem to think so. I don't deny them candy, I would just expect a little more effort on a holiday based around costumes. And by "less" I'm talking one piece of candy versus 2 or 3.
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{ "description": "ignoring my partner and getting upset on valentines", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my partner and getting upset on valentines
I am so sorry guys this is a long one, I’ve never been very good at summarising. So my partner is quite physically fit and this has unfortunately made me very conscious of my body. For Vday I decided I would do something special and bought some lingerie(he always points some out and makes jokes and I was thinking is ...
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{ "description": "giving my brother these instructions", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my brother these instructions
This happened a few months ago but looking back I think I need some outsiders opinions. My grandmother went to the hospital because she wasn't feeling to well. A few hours later she called the house phone and said she was staying the night and wanted my older brother to pick her up because she wouldn't be able to dri...
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{ "description": "telling a kid with a Tourette Syndrome to study somewhere else", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a kid with a Tourette Syndrome to study somewhere else?
I am a college student wrapping up my semester at a large, public institution. Our university has only one library dedicated to 'silent study' meaning no talking out loud, no eating, etc... A kid with loud and verbal ticks sat right next to me. He would shout random words out (sometimes inappropriate) but more often w...
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{ "description": "keeping $100 I found at work", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for keeping $100 I found at work?
I work at a gas station, just found a $100 bill on the ground. Been about 6 hours now and no one’s come for it. Very tempted to just pocket it if I don’t hear anything by the end of my shift. Although I feel like the right thing to do is leave it here with a note in case someone comes for it in the next couple of days...
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{ "description": "telling a shop assistant to leave me alone", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a shop assistant to leave me alone?
I went into my local catalog shop. Recently they've upgraded so that instead of paper catalogues everywhere they now have iPads, and you can look up the item(s) that you want and if they have it in stock you can order it, get a number on your receipt, wait until your number gets called and then collect whatever it is a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to an old friend after he blocked me and my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk to an old friend (18M) after he blocked me (18F) and my sister (16F)
My sister and I have been friends with this guy (I'll call him Ethan) for a few years, mine and Ethan's friendship started when he had a bit of a crush on me when I was still at school and I would help him with his homework, he also became friends with my sister because I think they had a class at school together. We b...
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AITA if he just wanted a drink?
So, this just happened. I'm (28 m) sitting at a bar I spend probably more time in than I should and a kid (19 m) sat down at my table to introduce himself and chat. Bit of a busy night and it's the sort of bar where everybody knows everybody, and everybody calls you friend. We chat about work and turns out he's 19 and...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother and his friends crash at my place for a night", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my brother and his friends crash at my place for a night?
My brother is a couple years younger, still in college, and we have been pretty close our whole lives, especially since I moved out a few years back. He called last night asking if I could hook him up with a place to stay near NYC. He got free tickets to a rap show last-minute, and was hoping to not have to spend ...
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{ "description": "not talking to my dad after he posted something on Facebook that shouldn't really posted", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA- for not talking to my dad after he posted something on Facebook that shouldn’t really posted??
So this was a few weeks ago, but I’m finding myself missing my dad more and more every day but I just can’t find it in me to forgive him. So a few weeks ago I was scrolling through Facebook looking through my feed and as I passed by one of my dads posts. I scroll back and find a picture that he posted of a document w...
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AITA My dad died and I haven't moved home to be with my mum.
Due to uni/career/relationship, both my sister and I moved away from the seaside town we grew up in around 20 years ago. I genuinely excuse my sister- she's thoroughly established in the city she lives in now, which is just about easily drivable to our home town, but is where her job, her children's school & friend...
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{ "description": "confronting our roommate about having her male guest stay over? I mean I just came home at 3:00am to see a strange man sleeping in my living room", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I confronted our roommate about having her male guest stay over? I mean I just came home at 3:00am to see a strange man sleeping in my living room.
I don’t know this guy. I live here too. Whose to say he’s not the reason my laptop is missing?! Why do I keep coming home to strange men in my house?! Is informing and asking other common household members of your guest not common curtesy? Is a quick text so hard? Let me hid my stuff like give me a notice! Anyways woul...
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{ "description": "walking during a red light", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for walking during a red light?
Some background info: I walk every day to and from college. I play trombone in the band and I've rented a French horn to learn, which means every Monday and Wednesday I carry a trombone on my right shoulder with my hand to secure the strap (case has backpack straps and I use one since I have an actual backpack too) and...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex after she fakes cancer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ignoring my ex after she fakes cancer
Ok... So this happened a little bit ago First some context. I'm in High School (that seems a bit inconsequential but this story is wack for happening in HS). Last year in April I asked this girl out who I liked for some time. I thought she was perfect and we told each other everything. We also loved theater and did...
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{ "description": "not letting someone in the room we used to share, but no longer do", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not letting someone in the room we used to share, but no longer do
There's a little bit of context to this I guess. I was in a relationship with a guy for the last year and we lived together (cheaper and he had to move cross state for schooling that he ended up not doing), and our relationship was an absolute dumpster fire. We were the kind of couple that was clearly never compatible ...
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{ "description": "not continuing to talk to a girl I've been interested in after being rejected", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not continuing to talk to a girl I've been interested in after being rejected?
Ok so, I've been a little on the weak side when it comes to dating. I've had one real gf and it ended with me finding out that she was cheating on me the whole time, so yeah, not the best track record. Well that was back in highschool and now, nearly 10 years later, When the subject of me trying to date and find a ano...
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AITA son, 28, is cutting us off
AITA I don't want to go pick him up. He is mentally ill and has been in a state of psychosis, he was hospitalized and supposed to get out today. He called yesterday finally after 4 days to tell me that he was cutting his family off and going to live in the streets. He said he wants me to come get him, he wants to get...
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{ "description": "calling out my gf on a bad gift, and telling her what I want", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 48 }
AITA for calling out my GF on a bad gift, and telling her what I want?
Some context: I’ve been with my gf for a year and half. She’s pretty standard for what gifts she likes: clothes/ jewelry. I’m a little more nuanced ( hobbies range from gaming/ reading/ I play guitar and I have a weird thing for hot sauce). Our first bday together she got me some fancy cuff links. It’s a sweet first gi...
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{ "description": "reporting my neighbor's dogs to authorities", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for reporting my neighbor's dogs to authorities?
We moved into this house last year, not caring that the neighbors had two large german shephards (fwiw, I don't think we even knew they had dogs until after we moved in, but it's not like it would have kept us from buying the house). They generally free roam their fenced in backyard, but the fence is only 4 1/2 feet t...
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{ "description": "wanting my fiancé to see me without a mustache before we're married", "pronormative_score": 159, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for wanting my fiancé to see me without a mustache before we’re married?
Like it sounds I’ve had a mustache for the last five years or so, and this is how I looked when my fiancé first met me. But she really doesn’t want me to shave it off. I feel like she ought to see my face before she says I do. I would let it grow back after the initial shave and t wouldn’t take long to come back.
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{ "description": "asking my gf of 3 years for nudes", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my gf of 3 years for nudes?
Quick back story. She has extremely low libido. We have sex about once every 3-4 months. She says she's trying to be "good" and not have sex before marriage and trying to avoid temptation and avoid going to confession too frequently, even though I took her virginity and we had a lot of sex during the honeymoon phase. ...
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{ "description": "causing me and my gf to break up by arguing with her mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for causing me and my gf to break up by arguing with her mom?
So about a week ago I got into an argument with my girlfriends mom over some stuff she posted on facebook. Basically for no reason I can figure out she made a long post about how my mom was drinking and driving, encouraged me and my gf to have sex, etc. None of this was true. She never used names but she was descriptiv...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help a friend with school", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help a friend with school?
I (25/F) am a part-time pre-dental student, currently taking three upper level science classes. I also work an 8-5, 40 hr/wk job and am the sole income provider in my household. I’m very lucky because my work has let me be very flexible with my hours so I can take classes during the day (I start at 7, go to class,...
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{ "description": "ignoring this kid", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring this kid
Ok so a few months ago my friendship group found out this boy in our year (and my maths) was following and posting some wierd shit on intagram. Like literal shit. He had been following girls who post themselves pissing themselves and shiting their pants. He also posted stuff like "any girls up for shitting on my chest"...
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AITA for how I acted at my "intervention"?
I'm 20, a guy. Really fat. 320 pounds at 6'1''. My family is very skinny and health oriented, I'm not. My parents didn't use to be but they did when I was around twelve and it's sort of been a big tension since. Everyone else in my family is really active into fitness/eating healthy, parents, two older sisters, older ...
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{ "description": "asking my flatmate why she slept with my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for asking my flatmate why she slept with my friend?
I (20M) am friends with a guy (20M), we can just call him James I guess. James is about same height as me (6''1) and a bit lanky, in terms of looks, I'd say we're pretty similar (though James has said himself that I look slightly better than him, but whatever). However our personalities are way different. I'm a bit ca...
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{ "description": "hating my boyfriend for not giving me attention", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my boyfriend for not giving me attention?
I'd like to start this with an apology. This is an emotionally charged topic for me so I'm sorry if my sentences run on or if I say some stuff that doesnt make too much sense. Me(19) and my boyfriend(21) are about to hit 1 year. Our relationship has always been kinda unbalanced, but I never minded till recent because...
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{ "description": "being upset that my wife and dog only seem to care about each other", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset that my wife and dog only seem to care about each other?
Been with wife for 10 years, 5 of which married. Met in highschool, fell in love, spend every minute with each other - almost your standard highschool sweetheart story, couldn't imagine my life without her. Got a dog 6 months ago, not our first but currently our only. Past two weeks I feel like a 3rd wheel in my home. ...
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{ "description": "not supporting my friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not supporting my friend?
Ok, bear with me because this is long and happened 2 years ago but I still think about it. Back in highschool i met one of my best friends and back in the day (16 years back then, 27 now) we were inseparable, we did everything together, went almost every week to the cinema, to have a coffee, etc... 4 years ago she wen...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk to my mom, her husband anf my half brothers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to talk to my mom, her husband anf my half brothers.
I'm on phone sorry about formatting. So, my mom and dad never got along, yet I was still born. When I was 7-9 months old my mom left me and disappeared for 2 years, she came back pregnant and with a new husband. I never liked her husband, I think that goes both ways. I got forced to visit them every 2nd weekend since...
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{ "description": "not wanting to have my inlaws over for Christmas Eve", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to have my inlaws over for Christmas Eve?
Every year my husband invites his parents to our house for Christmas Eve. I have to make dinner and entertain. The problem is, we then see them again on Christmas day because we do Christmas with my side of the family, plus the in-laws come over again. And then we have a 3rd Christmas with his parents when my husband's...
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{ "description": "not telling my family about my pregnancy until after the baby is born", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't tell my family about my pregnancy until after the baby is born?
I'm currently 26 years old, and my family lives in another state. I live my own life and support myself financially 100%. My family consists of my Grandmother, my Mother, and my Mother's sister (my Aunt). My family and I have had some major issues in the past, but I've done my best to move on from them. Last year, I ...
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AITA 'because I don't wanna apologise for calling my MOM a C*NT!
Hold on, let me explain. So I Keep this extremely personal diary full of some of my inner thoughts at the moment when I write them. I let absolutely no one see this book and keep it hidden, due to the fact that it contains some pretty slanderous commentary towards several people in my life which I sometimes write whe...
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{ "description": "complaining about my student teacher to my school", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I complained about my student teacher to my school?
Let me preface this by explaining, I go to a pretty difficult high school where we learn hard courses and are expected to understand everything. While this is difficult we are supported by our great teachers who can teach very well. About two months we got a student teacher for my Literature class, she only teaches my...
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{ "description": "not talking to my friend who has anxiety and did self-harm", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not talking to my friend who has anxiety and did self-harm?
Let me give some context to this first. My friend who I know in real life who's in her late teens, about the same age as me, has anxiety problems she's been dealing with for a couple of years now. Each time that she has a problem she comes on our group chats and basically vents and says all the problems and self d...
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{ "description": "locking my wife out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for locking my wife out?
Context:Door has a couple systems that only engage from the inside, have animals in the house. Try to make it short and sweet, Wife goes out with friends, talk and she'll(as of when we talk, and nothing ends up changing) spend the night(about 45 mins away) avoiding a DUI or driving while sleepy, if it came to it. H...
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{ "description": "being happy about a good grade", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I was happy about a good grade?
So last week my class got back our math exam. Our teacher told us before that it was horrible exam, and only 5 students got good grades (good grades in my country are A-B). I am naturally expecting a bad grade, but it turned out that I got a A-. It was, of course, a very positive experience which made me cry out “Yes!...
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AITA in this tinder conversation?
Her Tinder bio: "cool and nice" >Me: sus to call yourself nice >Her: that's only for men >also don't go around putting women down you weird ass  >Me: lol you're not helping your case >are you a gemini?  >Her: ? I'm supposed to be nice to someone who's being rude to me? >is tha...
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{ "description": "hating our new dog", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for hating our new dog?
Pretty sure that this will be a RIP account because... animals. Middle-aged, very busy dad with 2 kids, stay at home mom (recently able to afford for her to retire and concentrate on kids.) Finally making enough money to buy nice things. Bought 'dream house' this year, and outfitted it with some lovely, somewhat exp...
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{ "description": "cutting people out of my life", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting people out of my life?
This is addressing many situations, so I'll try to not let this get out of hand. Specifically last year, as I was planning my birthday. People were complaining to me that I wasn't doing enough. I wanted to go to Renaissance festival. I was paying for everyone's ticket but one person (this person I had given cash to for...
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{ "description": "warning my friend that she shouldn't date another friend of mine and spilling everything he confided in me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for warning my friend (F) that she shouldn’t date another friend of mine (M) and spilling everything he confided in me?
My brother (M28) dated IND1 (F 24) for 3 yrs. They had a great relationship & supportive community of friends/fam. My (M30) girlfriend (F25) and I spent a lot of time w them, went on trips (camping , rock climbing etc). Over the last 18 mo, I noticed red flags about my bro’s behavior. I tried reaching out, I didn’t...
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{ "description": "carrying on an argument, when they never appologized", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for carrying on an argument, when they never appologized?
For context, my dad bought me a 1999 BMW m3. It's a nice car and I'm really grateful for it. This weekend he went on an out of state trip and me, my sister, and my mom stayed home. None of us (from my knowledge) touched the BMW. My dad decided to go out to the car and dink around with the CDs since we hadn't tested tha...
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{ "description": "laughing at someone getting pulled over", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing at someone getting pulled over?
It was heavily snowing nickel sized flakes since 1pm here and by the time I was off work there was a good inch of slippery, treacherous sludge on top of the asphalt. I decided to take the boring drive home. One of the big reasons I hate going that way is an intolerably short light where the two big roads cross. It has ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my so' mom to move in our new home with us and for telling him that I don't - after she lost her job and home", "pronormative_score": 87, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for NOT wanting my SO’ mom to move in our new home with us and for telling him that I don’t - after she lost her job and home?
Just to give you guys some very important context / I come from a very wealthy family, my partner comes from quite the opposite. My dad very generously bought me a house at the start of this year which my partner and I have just moved into. My partners (of three years) mom has been going through a bit of a rough spot ...
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{ "description": "missing my grandmothers funeral", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I missed my grandmothers funeral?
TL/DR at the bottom: Grandmother has been pretty bad off and on for the last 12+ years. Beat breast cancer, had a few heart attacks, even had her memory go for a while there and that even started to come back. She just had to be airlifted to a hospital (they live out in the middle of nowhere) because they believe she ...
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{ "description": "baiting a homeless person", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for baiting a homeless person
Yesterday I was sitting on the subway back from practice. I have some noise canceling headphones on, and I was looking straight forward. Then a homeless person came in and started asking everyone for money. I did'nt notice him at first. I wanted to get my phone to check my messages, and when I started to reach for my p...
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{ "description": "kicking out a jobless friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For kicking out a jobless friend?
I live in a 3 bedroom home and we're in the process of having the other two roommates move out and having two new roommates moving in before the end of the month. Roommate 1 has already moved out most of his stuff except as few this. Roommate 2 ( we'll call him Jake) recently lost his job and is starting a new work f...
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{ "description": "thinking my peer at work is a control freak", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my peer at work is a control freak?
I've been on this project at work for a software pilot for months now. Both myself and "Tara" had been assigned to this project as co-managers. I've had bad experiences with her in a past project - she basically pushed me out by withholding info and excluding me from meetings - but I've tried my best to forget about it...
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{ "description": "making my mum wait an extra 15 minutes after school", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA, for making my mum wait an extra 15 minutes after school
I was writing an essay for last class, and I wasn't done, more than half the class wasn't, my teacher gave us an extra 15 minutes to write and I took it all, and still didn't get it done, but that's beside the point. I walk out of school to my see my mum waiting outside the car furious, she's yelling at me and callin...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to play music when her boyfriend is over", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA by asking my roommate to play music when her boyfriend is over?
My roommate is more than welcome to be as intimate as she likes. But I don’t necessarily enjoy hearing it. I asked her to put her tv on louder or play some music or something and her reaction was almost as if I’d asked her to join or something. AITA?
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{ "description": "breaking off a friendship over an ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking off a friendship over an ex ?
So when I was in high school I came out as bisexual an usually hang around LGBTQ+ people and I had a friend who stood out the most (let's call her Karen). Karen was a caring friend who stood beside me on most of my problems (mostly family issues) and I felt like she was a sister to me. About 2 years later I started h...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my half-sibling live a better life", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to help my half-sibling live a better life? (Long post)
I lived in the philippines with my brothers when I was growing up while my parents worked overseas. My mom worked in Canada and my dad worked in Hong kong. When i turned 16 it was time that me and my brothers immigrated to Canada to have a better life with my mom, my dad followed us from hong kong. It was now our first...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be in my friend's wedding party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be in my friend's wedding party?
So recently my friend asked me to a bridesmaid for her upcoming wedding that is less then three months away at this point. Now I'm very flattered she asked, but Bride To Be has informed me that the only reason she asked me to be in the party is because the girl who originally was filling the roll dropped out, and she c...
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b2apr1
{ "description": "not mourning my stepdads death", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not mourning my stepdads death?
So this a long story but I’ll put a TLDR at the bottom. I met my stepdad when I was five, my mum and dad had divorced that year and then my mum met my stepdad (he shall be named Rob). He got cancer so we moved in with him, it was all pretty quick and sudden, my mum, my big brother and me. 2 years later, his cancer wa...
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{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my (ex)friend and her boyfriend a chance", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my (ex)friend and her boyfriend a chance
Some background info as to why I’m really hesitant on meeting them. When I was in my last year of secondary school my friends and I went on this trip with the high school and had volunteer counselors. One of them was a man closer to 30 finishing up his college degree. Initially he seemed ok, we asked him questions ab...
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{ "description": "telling my fiancée that we can't have a wedding", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my fiancée that we can’t have a wedding?
So my fiancée and I have been together almost 4 years now and we are getting ready to plan a wedding. The thing is that we cannot afford it. I make good money but she doesn’t and, while we live comfortably, we aren’t able to really save much money (other than my 401k). So we are heading to the grocery store and she b...
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{ "description": "getting upset that someone wont spend meaningful time with me even though they are really busy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting upset that someone wont spend meaningful time with me even though they are really busy
Some background info, I'm 20 have and live at home with my mom. She is a teacher and currently I have no job and am not going to school (don't know what I'd go to school for and getting a part time job, which is all I could do as I'm relied on to be home during the day, would basically only pay for the transportation t...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 11 }
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{ "description": "shouting at my neighbours after one of them entered my flat without permission", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for shouting at my neighbours after one of them entered my flat without permission.
So I was in a bath the other night and had over filled it. This lead to water spilling out of the bath and apparently into the flat below. They came up the stairs and knocked on the door to inform me. I said I didn't know that and that I would investigate for them and that I was sorry. I went back inside and decided to...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for a \"prank\"", "pronormative_score": 360, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA For breaking up with my girlfriend for a "prank"
Try to keep this as brief as possible. Girlfriend and I have been together 2 years, were recently looking to move in together. She was going to spend the rest of the month in her apartment then move into my place, and she's been spending most days over here anyway gradually moving some of her stuff in. This is fucking...
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{ "description": "ignoring my MIL", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ignoring my MIL(mother in law)
I have been recently informed by my wife, that I ignore my MIL, we live 1 hour away from both families, and visit them once in a month or two. Now this requires a little more backstory and I will request your apology for I am on my phone and on a train. The main story revolves around our wedding and the actors in thi...
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{ "description": "wanting a special proposal", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For wanting a special proposal
My fiancé (NB19) and I (F20) got engaged last September. They proposed during a fight, without a ring. It was a “NB I’m leaving you I can’t do this anymore” and them saying “no I love you, will you marry me?!” I was shocked and of course said yes because in the moment I was .. well shocked?! We drove to the nearest sto...
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{ "description": "feeling worse after visiting my psychiatrist", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling worse after visiting my psychiatrist?
Apologies for the format; on mobile. It started smoothly enough. My psychiatrist was asking how I've been, which aspect of my life appeared to have improved, etc. He made me rate from 1-10 my low mood, low energy, and lack of motivation; 1 being the normal and 10 being the absolute worst. I said that my mood was aroun...
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{ "description": "wanting nothing to do with my sister", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting nothing to do with my sister?
So, me and my little sister have always had a rough relationship. We've fought since she learned to talk and walk, and it's been going on for close to 15 years now. We don't physically fight anymore, since I'm a grown man, and she's 15 years old, 5'8 and maybe at most 120lbs. Her attitude however is toxic. When she get...
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{ "description": "putting the brightness all the way up when it was night so then the guy sitting next to me wouldn't be able to sleep", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for putting the brightness all the way up when it was night so then the guy sitting next to me wouldn’t be able to sleep
So, let me explain. Yesterday I took a seven hours bus and it’s already long on its own, let alone when you’re sitting next to someone obnoxious. This guy next to me was spreading his legs on my side more than necessary. He did not need all of that space, and he was also sitting in the aisle seat so he could have leane...
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{ "description": "resenting my sister and some friends encouraging and enabling each other's drug use", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for resenting my sister and some friends encouraging and enabling each other’s drug use?
So, my sister and two of my friends smoke, drink, and vape rather frequently. Sister and one friend have a literal nicotine addiction because it’s their only coping mechanism. This stems from major depression, but neither of them try to make steps to help themselves outside of getting high or drunk. My sister is only 1...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "fishing for compliments online when my boyfriend is busy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for fishing for compliments online when my boyfriend is busy?
Let me clear the air: IM NOT CHEATING OR THINKING OF CHEATING. So, I love my boyfriend, he’s the best but sometimes he doesn’t compliment me at all. I have low self-esteem and am very insecure, I don’t need constant compliments but whenever we see each other and he doesn’t say “you look pretty” or something like that...
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{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 6 }
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for waking me up", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for waking me up?
So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and living with each other for about 1.5 years. We both work full time and do a bunch of extra curricular activities together. I love him to pieces and we have gotten along pretty well. So to start off, I have always been a night owl. I just don't function well in...
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{ "description": "taking my friends names off our \"group\" project", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for taking my friends names off our "group" project
My group of 3 friends and I got assigned a group project for our AP biology class. We worked on it a bit in class on Friday and I was the only one doing anything. It wasn't a hard project, just a table, a chart, and a few questions. I finished the table and asked the others if they could do the chart over the weekend...
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{ "description": "only helping servers who tip me out", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I only help servers who tip me out?
So I've been hosting at a restaurant on the weekends. It's only been for a few months and started as a favor, but I do more than just host. Hosting isn't very demanding so I have downtime, and during that time I like to help out by busing tables or helping the servers with what is supposed to be their job in a variet...
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{ "description": "being cold towards my dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being cold towards my dad?
I'm M18 and moved in with my dad and stepmom back in November. This is going to need a bit of background though I think before I start. My dad has always been a drug user, from very heavy stuff back in the day to now only weed and alcohol. He's aggressive and abusive but also caring. Very narcissistic and outright stu...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off at my grandma for giving my dog chocolate", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed off at my grandma for giving my dog chocolate?
She feeds my dog chocolate. Way too often. My dog is just a tiny, 12 lb chihuahua. He’s been given half of a thin mint, multiple bites of chocolate candy bars, and just today, a large piece of a chocolate donut. That’s what prompted me to post this. I tell her all of the time that she really needs to stop and that it...
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 1 }
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alfuio
{ "description": "wanting to go to art School", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Wanting To Go To Art School
This is my first post so don't attack me \----------------------------------------------------------- So, I have a girlfriend and we have been thinking about which high school to go to lately. Both of us like art and drawing, I want to do it as work while she wants to keep it as a hobby. I really want to go t...
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AITA In This Interaction
Read down in the thread I link. The comments are between me and the guy I linked too. Is there something I'm missing? If I'm so blind as to what decency and good behavior is then I'd really like to know so that I can change. http://reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/b22lgp/never_going_to_get_married/eiptt5z
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AITA For not doing all of my wife’s online class work?
I love my wife. She is fun, caring, and does a lot more for me than I do for her. That being said, she is currently enrolled in an online graduate program. The course work is not too difficult for me, who in general has an easier time in school than her. My wife uses that fact to say things like “if you would just do t...
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WIBTA if I asked my neighbours to can it?
Hey y'all, ​ ​ Long time sub lurker here. TL;DR at the bottom. I need advice on the level of douchebaggery I would display if I asked my neighbours to stop singing. For context: \- the singing is loud enough to be heard with TV on, but not so loud that is heard over headphones. \- our bu...
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AITA for wanting to break up with my bf?
I’m sick of never having sex, but he can jerk off to porn. I’m sick of him never helping around the house. And I’m fucking sick of every time he walks behind me he tries to stick his finger in my butthole! And every time I’m like leave my asshole alone. But he never listens! Am I the asshole?
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AITA for cutting someone out of my life?
About a year ago, I met a woman at a party and we hit it off. In fact, we slept together on the night we met. In the course of this, I discovered that she was significantly younger than me (she's 19, I'm 35). Some time after we met, she reached out to me on social media, wanted to meet again in a more dating context. ...
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{ "description": "hating my sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hating my sister?
I(21m) have lost all respect for my sister (26). It started when she moved down to Columbus to attend CCAD for animation and failed her first semester.... and then decided she needed to introduce more stress into her life by buying a dog. A large, expensive, high-maintenance dog, an Afghan hound, saying she “needs” a...
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AITA for not letting my friend know our class was coming up?
So context: A buddy and I were sitting in a study hall waiting for the bell to ring, mindlessly doing work and occasional chit chat here and there. After mulling over some work the bell rings, and I see him continuing to do his work with his earbuds in. I think to myself that 1) he probably still heard it because I’ve...
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{ "description": "turning of the home internet off during the day on a 21 year old daughter who refuses to work", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - For turning of the home internet off during the day on a 21 year old daughter who refuses to work?
I am trying to figure out a way to get my daughter to work, she is 21. She worked a Halloween store for the past 2 years and this year she worked target also. She just was no longer assigned at target and stopped calling or asking for hours. its only been 3 weeks, but all she does is lay in bed and watch her phone. She...
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{ "description": "wanting to meet with my friends without my GF when back for a month being in a long distance relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to meet with my friends without my GF when back for a month being in a long distance relationship
Hi guys, it's my first post here and I'm really curious if AITA. Just before you read, I checked the relationship posts post and believe this is unique enough to post it. Background: I (21) live in Britain and migrated from Poland for University. I have been with my GF (20, Polish) for 2 years now and for 1y9m we've ...
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AITA for wanting a different table?
Backstory: My family moved from Alaska to the lower 48. We sold our house for a huge loss and planned to rent until we could reestablish our savings and financially swing the big move. My husbands family, however, was pressuring us to move sooner than later. So much so, that they offered to help us get set up. We move...
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{ "description": "getting defensive about my weight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting defensive about my weight?
Was in a big discussion about a video game, one thing lead to another, (as they do) and I expressed how I loved that one of the characters is overweight, being a plus sized person myself. Another participant asked somewhat bluntly why I don’t try losing weight. The question frustrated me, and my response was along the...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf for saying I'd be uncomfortable if two of our friends paid her to make out with her friend", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my gf for saying I’d be uncomfortable if two of our friends paid her to make out with her friend (a girl)?
A bunch of our friends were at a house party the other day and two people mentioned as a joke they would pay to see her and a friend make out, and then she asked me if I would be ok with it. I told her it would make me uncomfortable and she called me a control freak for saying that.
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{ "description": "advising one friend to break up with another friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I advised one friend to break up with another friend?
This is my first post, so I apologize if I give too much, or not enough, information. My friend, A, has been one of my dearest friends for several years. We have been close since our freshman year of university. I have a great deal of love towards her, but the way she has been carrying on with another friend of mine,...
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{ "description": "turning down my sisters music and taking her earbuds", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for turning down my sisters music and taking her earbuds?
(Sorry on mobile) So the other day my little sister (11) was asking if I wanted to use her other earbud to listen to a song with her. I put in the earbud and immediately turn the music down since it was wayyyyy too loud (I’m talking more than 3/4 of the way up on an iPhone). My sister gets mad and turns it back up...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated with a waitress at my job for constantly singing", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting frustrated with a waitress at my job for constantly singing?
I work at a busy restaurant and I have one waitress who constantly insists on singing every song she hears on the radio. She is a good singer but it becomes very distracting and honestly annoying when my crew is trying to call tickets and she is standing there screaming out song lyrics to every song that comes on the r...
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{ "description": "not accepting the wrong food my waiter gave me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not accepting the wrong food my waiter gave me?
The restaurant is fairly small and a bit busy at the time. I ordered my food and when "my" food came out, I told him I didn't order this and asked again for my order. Everyone at my table told me I should just have accepted it. AITA?
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{ "description": "wanting to meeting a friend for coffee", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to meeting a friend for coffee?
I really need some perspective here, because this is causing a huge problem in my relationship. I have a friend that I used to be best friends with in elementary school. About 4 months ago (when I was single) we found each other on Tinder and decided to hang out and catch up. We had a really great conversation for abo...
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{ "description": "turning down a Drunk girl", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Turning Down a Drunk Girl?
So first things first, I'm married. So there was no chance at all I ever entertained the idea of talking to someone else, this also isn't a super serious post like all the other relationship ending ones. Ok, on to the story. This past weekend a friend of mine invited my wife and I to go eat out with him and his wife...
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{ "description": "not being ok with my wife ex lover visiting my place", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not being ok with my wife ex lover visiting my place.
Story: Wife and SIL grew up with this dude. He was my wifes friend through high school years and same with my SIL. SIL is is one of those female who keeps getting in an out of a relationship (not that I really care). He also used to hook up with my wife before me. I have told her I am not comfortable with her have any ...
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{ "description": "not volunteering", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not volunteering?
Ok, I was recently “shamed” by a coworker for acknowledging the fact that I refuse to volunteer at the rescue mission or food pantries. Here’s the thing. I have no problem donating money and items to local shelters and charities. I have a portion of my paycheck deducted each month just for that. That being said, I re...
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{ "description": "cutting all contact with my mother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting all contact with my mother?
Very long. TL;DR at the end. Backstory, my mom has been a vicious drug addict for her whole life. She started drinking when she was 11, and doing drugs when she was 13. She moved out when I was 15, about 5 years ago. She had been cheating on my dad with two of our neighbors, and smoking meth. Not only that, but she ...
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{ "description": "dumping my bf without giving him a chance to explain", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I dumped my bf without giving him a chance to explain
So awhile ago I got with a person who came from a poly relationship then got with me and we agreed it was a mono relationships. We shared a discord server we both were on. So I knew there was a hot guy at his school but he reassured me I was better. Then he started posting about the guy from his school in the discord. ...
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{ "description": "choosing to see my family over going to a wedding", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for choosing to see my family over going to a wedding?
Some background information; I live about a 13 hour drive from my parents and immediate family. Due to my job, I only get to see them 2-3 times a year and next year I’ll see them even less. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year, I see her family almost every weekend. Her older sister will be getting ...
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{ "description": "taking a break from my relationship of 6 years because of my GF's brother", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a break from my relationship of 6 years because of my GF’s brother
Let me just start out with saying I love my GF, and don’t want our relationship to end. About 4 months ago, I found out my GFs brother (18) was moving in with us, as his mom could no longer deal his poor attitude and hatefulness towards her. I was reasonably upset that I wasn’t consulted first, but I knew my GF was j...
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{ "description": "ghosting my mentally ill mother and grandmother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my mentally ill mother and grandmother
I’ve lived with my schizophrenic mother until I was 18 when I finally moved out. I used to visit her a few times a year but I gave up on dealing with her when she keeps on asking when I move back in again after I told her repeatedly I wouldn’t come back. My mother is a special person thanks to her illness that makes h...
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{ "description": "changing my roommates computer background when she leaves her laptop open", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for changing my roommates computer background when she leaves her laptop open?
I'm writing this on mobile, so apologies for any wonky formatting! I'm a college student and I live with three other amazing girls, including one girl who's been my best friend since we were 12. We're all really close, more like sisters than friends. My best friend has a bad habit of leaving her laptop open and runni...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do a bunch of errands for my family the last week before I move", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do a bunch of errands for my family the last week before I move?
So here's the situation, I am moving across the country this weekend. I'm currently finishing up packing, donating old things to goodwill, getting organized, so all I have to do is load my moving truck up and leave. I'm hustling to get it all finished. Now in this last week two family members suddenly have all these th...
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