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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my SO's parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my SO's parents
This weekend we're supposed to make the drive to spend the weekend with my SO's parents. I'm a student so I have tons to do always but I've also just been in a bad depression for the last week or so. It's not that I don't want to see them, I just don't think I have the emotional energy to do it right now. I think a wee...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a ride", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not giving my friend a ride?
(Throwaway account) My good friend and I have been known each other for a while (about 4-5 years), but recently, there is a girl that I am interested in now. Because he doesn't like his bus, my friend usually asks for rides before I met her, and I usually drove him. One time, I told my friend I was talking to this gir...
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{ "description": "kinda stealing a parking spot", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for kinda stealing a parking spot
This is my first time posting to this sub. I guess I’m more just wanting to share the story than I am asking for judgement. (17m) I was parking at Walmart and was behind this guy who was just sitting their in front of a parking spot and he wasn’t taking it so I drive on the side of him and took it and then he sat ther...
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{ "description": "hating my sister", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my sister
I come from a family that is very much autistic (literally, I'm not trying to offend anyone) I have a sister that has a very severe case of autism cause by the lack of half her brain. I have lived my whole life with her (I'm 18 she is 22) and I resently moved out with my mum to get away from my dad (different story fo...
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{ "description": "not accepting an apology", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not accepting an apology
TL:DR at bottom So this happened a few days ago, i go to a school were there are public computers not locked behind accounts(just one account with no passwords required) and one day i had to make a slide show with another person and i thought it was easier to do it on google docs, since we could both be writing at ...
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{ "description": "telling my mom about my sister's drinking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my mom about my sister's drinking?
tl;dr at the bottom Hey, so I've been mulling this decision over in my head for some time, and finally decided on it due to my concern for my sister's safety. A bit of background: My younger sister is two years younger than me and a junior in college. We've always been close, but as she's gotten older I've adopted mo...
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{ "description": "my s/o leaving a bad review of a restaurant my father likes to go to", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for my s/o leaving a bad review of a restaurant my father likes to go to?
My father likes to get off of work, and hang out at the bar for a few hours before he comes home. This has lead to some rocky behavior, and he’s come home drunk before, but this time, it’s a long drawn on mess. I (20 F) attended the restaurant for the first time with my boyfriend (23 M) and we ordered some chicken win...
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{ "description": "telling my class that my friend was bi", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my class that my friend was bi?
I was friends with a guy for about 7 years and I suppose over time, I assumed he was straight, especially considering he had a girlfriend at the time of the incident which I will divulge into later. He was quite camp I suppose but most people just thought he was straight. I never talked to him about it but he never see...
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{ "description": "saying recruitment policy at my company is sexist against men", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For saying recruitment policy at my company is sexist against men
So long story short ive been with my company close to 5 years. This job has a through application process and a lenghty training program before you actually start. Entry involves a physical, mental and psych test and you are scored on each. Now in days gone by it was that when a recruitment opened the 20-30 with the ...
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{ "description": "calling neighbors son crazy after he called me racist", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for calling neighbors son crazy after he called me racist
Quick backstory is that I have a black family that is on one side of my property that’s lived there for generations and I’m a white man that bought the property on the street corner. We both have about an acre of land and are well off. Dad and his son are an outspoken black activist and I’m white so we usually disagree...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work at my parent's company", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to work at my parent's company?
I'm an adolescent who's in grade 12 with a half-day all-day schedule. To help my education and just the family in general my parents decided to start a medical laboratory years ago; additionally its to help me& my sister get employed in the future as we'll continue it when get older. Currently they (mostly my mom) ...
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{ "description": "saying my uncle isn't rich", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 95 }
AITA for saying my uncle isn't rich
My uncle has a huge ego. He is 60 and brags about living in a $2 million house and having a $5 million portfolio. He constantly makes my dad (his teacher brother) uncomfortable and says my dad should have studied engineering and been better with money. I make more than my dad. I'm on a career path (Private Equity) wher...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with my friend anymore after she was being a terrible person", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Be Friends With My Friend Anymore After She Was Being A Terrible Person?
So my school went on a ski trip this week. My friend (we’ll call her L) and a girl i was on good terms with but not very close to (we’ll call her Kay) were roommates during the trip. So the trip is going fine, none of us three decided to ski because it was so cold (around the -30s) and we were afraid of getting frostbi...
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{ "description": "wanting to see a friend that two of my other friend's no longer want to be with", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I want to see a friend that two of my other friend's no longer want to be with?
Three people are going to be involved in this story. Let's call my current two friends **X** and **Y**, while the friend I'm going to talk about is gonna be called **Z**. Let me start from the beginning. ​ I met all three of these guys back in 2015, in a course that involved TV and Movies. It was one of t...
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{ "description": "using a blender early in the morning", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for using a blender early in the morning?
I start work at 7am on weekends, so I have breakfast just a bit before 6am. I’ve been having meal replacement shakes, and I normally just use a shaker cup to mix them. However, this can get a bit boring so I sometimes switch it up, and morning I wanted to jazz it up by blending some blueberries into the shake. Am I a...
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{ "description": "not trusting my boyfriend over this little lie", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA not trusting my boyfriend over this little lie
My boyfriend was on his phone and I looked over and saw he had 2 Facebook accounts. I asked him what the other one was for and he sai “it’s for my dad” then I said “eh why are you logged into it though” Then I said okay “swear on the baby’s life it isn’t for anything dodgy” he swore on my baby’s life. Then he starte...
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{ "description": "not answering a call to give my \"close\" friend a reference", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't answer a call to give my "close" friend a reference?
Someone that I used to be really close to put me down as a reference (without letting me know) for a new job and I'm feeling hesitant about providing a reference. She started cancelling plans to get together and has been trying to avoid making them for about a year ago. I haven't seen her since May (it was like pulling...
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{ "description": "putting in a complaint about a coffee shop worker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA if I put in a complaint about a coffee shop worker??
This really isn't that drastic or exciting compared to some of the other posts here, so apologies lol. Basically, there's a coffee shop on my university's campus that my best friend, who uses a wheelchair, and I go to almost every day. There's one girl who works there who is a little...weird with him. She's never *sa...
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{ "description": "asking the guy I am seeing to either stick up for me, or cut ties with his female friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking the guy I am seeing to either stick up for me, or cut ties with his female friend?
Backstory: https://www.reddit.com/r/askwomenadvice/comments/atsvq2/should_the_guy_i_am_seeing_25m_have_stuck_up_for/ Given all of the comments on my original thread, I was inspired to stand my ground in telling him it is her or me - Naturally, this did not come out as eloquently as I had wanted. It came out in the for...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off all contact with my father", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off all contact with my father
My mom and dad are divorced and my dad is SUPPOSED to have me every other week (which he never does) and never even makes an attempt to contact me but when I’m forced to go to his house my grandmother (on my dads side) and my dad berate me about not calling them and not wanting to talk to them which is because my dad a...
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{ "description": "saying this to me boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying this to me boyfriend?
Background: I’m 23F and.... tbh, probably mildly autistic. I don’t say that as an insult to myself, it’s just true—my primary school teachers wanted me screened for it and so did my old therapist—I just never got it done. I know I say things or act unemotional and cold often, because I just don’t know how to act and sa...
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{ "description": "being irritated with my partner's mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being irritated with my partner's mental health issues?
I'm trying to keep this as vague as possible because my partner is a reddit user. We've been together for two years now, and since we've started dating, it feels like my SO's struggle with mental health has gotten worse. They used to go to the gym every day, met with a therapist regularly, had a very active social lif...
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{ "description": "leaving my parents in financial need to peruse my career so that I don't end up in their situation in the future", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my parents in financial need to peruse my career so that I don't end up in their situation in the future?
I'm 23F and I'm quitting my miserable office job today to go back to the art studio i was assistant managing. My family lost our health insurance back in late January because my mom left her job. We ended up getting normal health insurance now which is costing my parents a lot of money. At the begining of Feb i got in...
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{ "description": "standing next to tied up dog on a street", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For standing next to tied up dog on a street?
Hello! I feel a lot of guilt for this because I do not know if this was the right thing to do or not. I was walking my dog and came back from the dog park ( I live in the lower west side of NYC). I came across a dog tied up to a bike post, and I have never came across that before. The leash was long enough for her to w...
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{ "description": "staying with Guy Friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA For Staying With Guy Friend?
I \[34f\] went out with friends, my bf \[47m\] stayed home, he is not very social and works early so he went to bed. I ended up doing a little coke (which we are both ok with) and didn't want to wake him so texted him "I'm staying at my place tonight". I then realized I didn't know where my heater was so I went to my f...
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AITA for how I interact with my male friend?
My (23f) boyfriend (25m) just broke up with me because of how “suspicious” I am with my male friend. He’s met him, they get along great, really like one another. My friend is in full support of us and adores my boyfriend (or I guess ex) . My ex says he’s okay with him but I’m not sure. My friend used a lot of emojis ...
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{ "description": "playing traditional mexican music while cooking on Taco Tuesday", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for playing traditional Mexican music while cooking on Taco Tuesday (but on a Friday)?
So our family likes to have Mexican/Tex-Mex night every week or so. The kids love it, as do my wife and I. Recently, I've taken to loading up some mariachi (or other) music to play while I'm cooking. My wife is now taking offense and hinting "that's a touch racist, no?". AITA? Potentially relevant details: - I am n...
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{ "description": "telling my classmate off for taking photos and videos of me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my classmate off for taking photos and videos of me?
It all started as a joke but then it got really annoying. We had a nice talk before this even happened and he brought up why I didn't like taking pictures. I told him that I don't want to. He keeps asking why and I already gave him reasons. He got out his phone and pretended to take a picture of me. I was okay with it ...
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WIBTA Hostage Vacation
WIBTA if I asked my family to do an activity I wanted on our spring break vacation? We have spent the past few days doing what my dad, my brother, and my mom wants. For some more back ground, I asked a few days ago if we could visit a famous chocolate place a few blocks from our hotel, and we went, but not until 5:30 (...
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{ "description": "yelling at my mom after she became a nurse", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at my mom after she became a nurse?
Not as bad as it sounds, but first, context. My mom is a stereotypical Asian mom, who yells at me for everything and gets mad easily. Yesterday, after giving her RN exam, she came home in a bad mood, but I ignored it. Today, I was plying LoL with my friends (in voice call) when she walks in and starts yelling and goin...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my gf for using her rent money on her little sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting mad at my GF for using her rent money on her little sister?
Throwaway because my friends know my reddit. So my girlfriend (23F) is a student and she lives with me in my house which I (26M) own. I charge her $300 a month for rent, which is a great price for the area. She usually pays rent on the first Monday of the month after getting her paycheck. She texted me today saying...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my boyfriend kept repeatedly waking me up while I was sick in bed", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend kept repeatedly waking me up while I was sick in bed?
I’m (39 F) a horrible insomniac. I’m also a light sleeper, even when ill. It sucks. My bf (41M) has yet to really understand how debilitating this can be. Today I stayed home from work trying desperately to sleep so I could get better. Bf got up, took the dogs out, got ready for work, made me coffee (???), and then po...
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{ "description": "banning my mother from coming to my house", "pronormative_score": 76, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I banned my mother from coming to my house?
I'm almost 30 and I just finished construction on my first house. I have bad history with my mother, love her but she has no respect for my privacy or personal space, since about 12 years old that I can remember she has rummaged through my room(hardcore searched though the room while I was at school multiple times) or ...
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AITA in this friendship.
This is my first post but since it is somewhat personal and the other person in this friendship browses Reddit I made a throwaway. I am online friends with this person. Let's call them Bee. Bee and I have been friends for around \~6 months online and talk daily. We are somewhat close and I care for him as a person. I ...
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{ "description": "being concerned my boyfriend told his ex he likes our relationship because he has control of it and he controls the pace of our relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being concerned my boyfriend told his ex he likes our relationship because he has control of it and he controls the pace of our relationship?
Because I am so into him
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{ "description": "seeing my gfs lack of communication about her sexual harassment by another guy as a red flag", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for seeing my GFs lack of communication about her sexual harassment by another guy as a red flag?
I’m gonna start off by saying that she is now my ex because I found out she cheated on me. However, that’s a story for another day. Anyway, this all goes back to May of 2018. We were both Juniors in High school at the time. I’m guessing I was at work since I wasn’t able to intervene in the situation. She had invited o...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend for sending our dog to overnight dog training", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend for sending our dog to overnight dog training
My bf of almost 2 years had been mentioning for awhile that he wants to send our puppy (1 year old cattle dog) to an overnight trainer for 2 weeks. I’ve always been against it & shut down the conversation whenever it comes up. He has no problematic behavioral issues. The only annoying things he does is chew up sho...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 20 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "warning a guy about his terrible girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for warning a guy about his terrible girlfriend?
So my girlfriends friend is just not a very good person. I have known her for about 4 years and she is as childish and cruel as they come. She has cheated on multiple boyfriends, strung one poor guy along for a few years, cheating on him the entire time. She lives at home, pays no bills and even maintains an expensive...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "kicking out parents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking out parents?
I didn't officially kick them out. They decided to move out because they didn't like my behavior. I say parents but they're non biological and didn't raise me my whole life. Anyway here goes. Before I (22F) left for college, I inherited a house. A family friend and their partner moved into my house and took care of i...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "telling my friend to get his priorities straight", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend to get his priorities straight?
My friend and I are in the same foreign policy class in college, and he's been struggling with his grade in the class. We have our final test tomorrow, and last Thursday he told me that he desperately needed help because he didn't know how to study for the class, as evidenced by his grades. So, last Friday we studied...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not petting my cat", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not petting my cat?
Am I the asshole when my very standoffish cat comes to me for cuddles and I sometimes deny him? Sometimes after work when I just wanna sit by myself my cat decides he wants to cuddle. Now, my cat is very indepeandt and rarely wants affection. He might want to be petted maybe once or twice per day. When I'm feeling st...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 4 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my tv with my roommates", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share my TV with my roommates?
So i'm moving into a house with three of my best friends. We're all college students. Recently, i found out that my parents are getting a new TV at our house, and they're giving me the old 4k flatscreen we've had for a few years. The problem is that i want to keep the TV in my room (I play a-lot of video games, and i l...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 25, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "calling my asian friend a chink and immitating his accent", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for calling my asian friend a chink and immitating his accent?
The other day I got into a heated argument with my friend in which we were both throwing around insults, and I started to immitate him. I said, "Herro, my name is John. I'm a fat chink." He didn't seem any more offended than after all the other insults I threw at him, but I still feel guilty.
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 31 }
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{ "description": "talking about a future job with a company I'm leaving", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I talk about a future job with a company I'm leaving
This is the situation: I work for campany A. Company A sends me to company B as a consultant. I got a job offer from company C with a lot better pay for the same job (as a consultant). I took this offer and I'm giving my 4 weeks notice in a week. Now I really like working at B, the job and People are great. And my ...
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NOBODY
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AITA Apparently not wanting to be with my girlfriend 24/7 is not caring about her.
This may be a long one... Things to have in mind before you read: \-My girfriend comes from a very toxic household. She´s the youngest of all her brothers and sisters, the only one with no children, at this point in her life her only responsibility should be studying or working. \-Her family seems envious of her bec...
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Aita:Loud a$$ mother in law
I'm trying to get a nap before work and my wife's mother don't call and just show up loud mouth convo, talkin and keeping me awake. AITA is I ask them to get the hell out
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "pretending to be a lesbian to get a guy hitting on me to go away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for pretending to be a lesbian to get a guy hitting on me to go away?
A preface: normally I wouldn’t use a throwaway, this isn’t a huge deal even if I acted like a jerk during it. I’m just on a discord server with a lot of reddit users and if I posted this on my main they would roast the fuck out of me. So, to begin with, I’m a straight, cis high school girl. I’m not bi or trans and as...
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{ "description": "thinking its disgusting that my mom and her boyfriend are always smoking in the house (both cigarettes and weed) everyday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking its disgusting that my mom and her boyfriend are always smoking in the house (both cigarettes and weed) everyday?
To start, I'm 17 and have a 12 year old brother. My mom, no matter what smokes inside. Its currently 40 degrees out and she is still smoking in the house. Whenever I come home especially for when I'm gone for the whole day I become light headed because the cigarette smoke makes me feel that way. We've asked her regul...
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{ "description": "siding with a (kinda) flakey player over my boyfriend and our dungeon master", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for siding with a (kinda) flakey player over my boyfriend and our dungeon master?
Me and my boyfriend play dungeons and dragons with a couple of friends form uni. We are all in our final year apart from one guy (lets call him Joe) who is doing a sandwich year which means he started in the same year as us but is currently doing an internship this year, and will graduate next year. He actually lives c...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to show a prospective buyer my couch when I wasn't home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 42 }
AITA for asking my girlfriend to show a prospective buyer my couch when I wasn't home?
I’ve been trying to sell my old couch for the past 2 weeks. It’s in good condition but my girlfriend hates it and so I posted an ad for it on kijiji. Someone contacted me that they were interested in buying it and wanted to come over to see it. I work 9-6 Monday to Friday and but he only worked evenings so our schedule...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 42 }
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{ "description": "getting mad at my brother's broken foot", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my brother's broken foot
to:dr Little brother breaks foot I get mad at home for using it as an excuse for everything So it may sound bad but let me explain. My little brother who is one year Younger than me broke his foot. But, I know that he has reason for some stuff but i
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my dads girlfriend who I've never seen", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my dads girlfriend who I’ve never seen?
Hey Reddit. So I posted a similar thing on r/advice a month or so ago when this actually happened, but I’ve started thinking that I was kind of a dick. I don’t remember everything since I have pretty bad memory, but it should be enough for you all to make a judgment. Here’s some background information. I am a 13 yea...
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{ "description": "wanting to give up on my family and culture", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to give up on my family and culture
I come from a very conservative Indian family. My parents are both very religious which means they are both very strictly against the idea of drinking and dating and I’m also expected to be arranged to a girl when it comes time to get married. We’re all vegetarians but being that my sister and I grew up in America, we ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take a bunch of junk out of a friends car after she totaled her car", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to take a bunch of junk out of a friends car after she totaled her car?
Ok this is my wife’s friend, she is a very bad driver. She scratch her car up pretty bad parking her car in her garage. She went to the repair shop to pay a grand to fix the car so her dad wouldn’t be mad at her when she returned home from school. She picked it up after the paint job and drove out the repair shop and i...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "refusing to let my mom in the delivery room", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to let my mom in the delivery room?
My mother and I never got along. I moved out of my parents house when I was young due to our toxic relationship. I'm now 29, and my husband and I are expecting our first child. This will be my mom's first grandchild. Long story short, we don't have a mother-daughter relationship. We don't respect each other, and we d...
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{ "description": "telling my mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my mom.
Im not a native speaker so there may be some mistakes, sorry in advance! (Throwaway for obvious reasons) This year has been tough for my family, as im from israel and weve been getting a lot of bombing lately. My cousin (F13) just moved next to me and she moved to my school. I (M14) really didnt want her to move here ...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "scaring girls in the park", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 44 }
AITA for scaring girls in the park
So i (m) was running in the park yesterday around 11pm(i like running latenight because there are less people and the air is better). The park isnt very well-lit and was completly empty except three 16-18y old probably slightly drunk girls sitting on a bench smoking. The first time i passed them they said "hello" and...
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{ "AUTHOR": 44, "OTHER": 13, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 18, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 31, "WRONG": 44 }
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{ "description": "suggesting that my bf would've eaten all the food", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting that my bf would’ve eaten all the food
AITA for predicting that my bf wouldve polished off food that was meant for both of us if I hadnt walked in? Love my bf but he is known to overeat and eat the last of things without offering to others. Yesterday I made dinner. I made enough leftovers of a quinoa salad to have 2 portions to be eaten today for either ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "informing my male house guests that they must pee sitting down in my bathroom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for informing my male house guests that they must pee sitting down in my bathroom?
Backstory: I also have a penis. Urinating whilst standing up splashes piss water everywhere no matter how “accurate” one aims. It’s simple physics that a stream of forced liquid from a height of feet down into the bowl will aerate the water and send tiny droplets flying in all directions. And that’s if it’s 100% perfe...
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{ "AUTHOR": 22, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 22 }
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{ "description": "becoming closer with my friend's brother than my friend over the past year", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for becoming closer with my friend's brother than my friend over the past year?
Tldr at the end Little background; Ive (F 23) known my friend, we'll call her Jane, since we were in kindergarten. We were best friends up until about 2 years ago when our lives took different routes and our paths sort of diverged. Ive known her brother, lets call him John, for just as long. Basically I grew up aroun...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "asking the friend of someone I slept with if she was flirting with me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking the friend of someone I slept with if she was flirting with me?
So, some context: I've made some pretty big changes to my life recently, and I'm feeling pretty good about myself. I'm currently traveling, have a decent haircut, a bit trimmer, and dress a lot tidier than normal. So. I met an old spark while abroad, we had some drinks, her friend was there, and they went off to a show...
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{ "AUTHOR": 3, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "messing up ground rules with MIL", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for messing up ground rules with MIL?
**TLDR: We told MIL she can't watch our son alone because of parenting style/abuse/drinking. SO & I came to this conclusion before our child was born, but neglected to tell her right away & it blew up in our face.** ​ So I have been considering posting this for a while & am genuinely curious to...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 19, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "putting my daughter's children at risk of being taken away", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for putting my daughter's children at risk of being taken away?
I'm 53, my daughter is 30. My daughter was born with hydrocephalus, a brain disorder. Not necessarily a mental disorder, more a physical one. She wasn't affected mentally beyond missing long stretches of school for surgeries and illnesses. I stayed at home while my husband worked at his request. When she was 17, she ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "leaving the party my gf was to go to another party", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving the party my gf was to go to another party?
I know it sounds bad but let me explain, my girlfriend called me to go to her friend's birthday party and i went with her, i only knew her there but not that big of a deal. I had another birthday party to go but i was planning to go later. I went outside to smoke and called my friend in the other party just to talk, my...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 14, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for ignoring my friend?
I have a friend who loves league of legends and spends a lot of time playing it. Our relationship hasn't been that good for the latter half of this year, but he was wonderful to me for the first half. We mostly communicate online. I know holidays are a pretty shitty time for him due to apathetic family, manic depressio...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 3, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "buying my girlfriend a new car", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA (30M) for buying my girlfriend (26F) a new car?
I’ve been with my girlfriend now for about a year and we recently moved in together. She’s incredible and has made me a much better person in the short time we’ve been together. We do have some disagreements every now and then. We are from very different backgrounds and don’t always see eye to eye. The other week we g...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 17, "WRONG": 34 }
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{ "description": "letting a guy I deemed creepy miss his bus", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting a guy I deemed creepy miss his bus?
TL;DR I met a creepy dude on a bus. I switched buses, and I saw him trying to catch my bus. I didn't tell the bus driver to stop because I worried he was following me. I (17, F) was on the bus to the mall, not for the mall specifically, but because there is a bus loop of sorts there, so I could go on another bus. Ther...
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{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not wanting a relationship with my mom's new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting a relationship with my mom’s new boyfriend
Some context: for the past couple of years my mom was having an affair with a former coworker of hers. Eventually, she divorced my dad and he moved to Montana recently. Her boyfriend comes over quite a bit and she flaunted him around a lot when my parents were married and eventually told me and my sister that she wante...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 12, "EVERYBODY": 2, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 12, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "asking my roommate for more money", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommate for more money?
Background: I'm a university student (19F) and live in an only girl student house where everybody has their own room (mine is fairly small, double bed and a small kitchenette, and we are currently facing a mice problem) Story: A few months ago, one of my roommates (21F) texted she had some friends visiting and asked ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
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AITA? I've been avoiding one side of my family, as not one single one of that side attended my husbands funeral.
My now late husband passed away a few years ago, he was friendly with any of my family he ever met, and good friends with my fahter and one uncle. When he passed, not a single person from my mother's side attended the funeral. I suspect some didn't attend as they didn't want to run into my father, who fell out with my ...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "calling the police/cps on my SIL", "pronormative_score": 826, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for calling the police/CPS on my SIL?
Going to try to make this as short as possible while including details needed. I have been with my fiancé for 6 years. Fiancé has an older sister, we'll call her Sally, who is 28 and has a 5 year old child. I was there the day Sally was in labor and Baby was born, she is my niece. His entire family has referred to me...
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{ "AUTHOR": 19, "OTHER": 824, "EVERYBODY": 4, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 3 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 826, "WRONG": 23 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "leaving my roommate's plant destroyed by my cat after I warned her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA: Leaving my roommate’s plant destroyed by my cat after I warned her?
First time poster so please let me know if I am not following the rules. TLDR; I warned my roommate to close her door to prevent my cat from entering and messing with her stuff. She didn’t and my cat knocked over a plant. Would I be the asshole for leaving it? Importantish backstory: this roommate and I are finishing...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 4 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "blocking my uncle on Facebook Messenger", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my uncle on Facebook Messenger
Me and my uncle are pretty close and not in weird way, since he's only a few years older than me. We both have a lot in common and we have each other's backs, we're more like friends than uncle and nephew to be honest. Last night, we were talking using the Messenger App, talking about memes, joking around and whatnot...
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{ "description": "asking for my money back", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for my money back?
My ex girlfriend and I were together for 3 years, and lived together for nearly the entirety of the last year together. We ended very amicably. The spark just wasn't there anymore and it just died. So, during the time we lived together, we were very much in love and expected a long lasting relationship together. As is...
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{ "description": "not telling my mom that my grandfather passed away because I knew she wanted some of the estate", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my mom that my grandfather passed away because I knew she wanted some of the estate?
This story needs a lot of context so buckle up. So my parents have been separated since I was a kid and I grew up with my (awesome) single dad. My mom was (and still is) a crazy narcissist with a bit of redeeming qualities that make her bearable. When my parents were still together she was abusive and living with her ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk or see my dad again", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to talk or see my dad again
To set the scene i live in the uk and my dad wasn't great. He was only home 3-4 days a week, he was not nice to me or my brother( once he called mu bro a c*nt because he ran away when my dad could of hurt him) , my dad may of cheated on my mum and has emotionally and physically abused her. Well in 2016, my dad picked...
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{ "description": "feeling annoyed at my friend for wanting to play a song better than me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling annoyed at my friend for wanting to play a song better than me?
Basically, I showed my friend this piano song I really wanted to learn how to play ( the song is nuvole bianche by ludovico einaudi if you're interested ) but he said he thought I would never be able to play it ( which is not unjustified, as i recently started playing ). So after a while I managed to learn the song a...
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AITA for a silly argument I had with a family member about my music tastes and dress?
This happened a few hours ago and I'm leaving it to reddit's judgement as to who was the asshole. Just for clarification the other person I've called A and they're a family member. I'm also female. I'm a metal fan, and whilst it used to just be a casual thing I have found myself getting more and more into it, to th...
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{ "description": "trying to reject someone in a subtle way", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for trying to reject someone in a subtle way
I’m gay. We’re both girls in this story. There was this girl I went out with uhh like 7 times? And she was okay, but I couldn’t see being her girlfriend. She sent me a text like every day and I was getting kind of tired of it. I wanted to reject her but she was nice enough and we weren’t official so I thought I’d do ...
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{ "description": "making money off a bargain I didn't know about when I bought stuff for a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making money off a bargain I didn't know about when I bought stuff for a friend?
So I'll explain best as I can. Basically I was given 100 bucks to go get 4 grams of something for a friend. Then another friend wanted 4 more. That's fine 100 bucks. So I go there and I had planned to get myself same thing, 4 for 100 bucks. Well upon arrival I was told I could get a different brand but the same quality...
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{ "description": "holding a person's job against them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for holding a person's job against them?
Throwaway cause my main can be easily traced to me and I don't need that. So I'm gay and out for about a decade now. My country is like on the fence about the whole thing, no gay marriage but they're not hanging us so that's something I guess. Our government that is here to stay for a long time is the typical fake rel...
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{ "description": "wanting to get better at a hobby", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to get better at a hobby?
So I have these 2 friends who are around my age. I am a 25[M] and they are also male. We play this TCG called Yugioh. Now my friends have been playing on and off for about 10 years and I just started about a month ago. I tell them that I am interested in playing and they encourage me so I start looking online for kin...
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{ "description": "calling the cops on my friend when I thought they were in danger, and then being angry at her after I found out she was okay", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the cops on my friend when I thought they were in danger, and then being angry at her after I found out she was okay?
Before I went to bed on Christmas night, I was added to a group chat with 3 other people (all men) by my friend (who is also a woman). She messaged us and said, "If I don't get back to you guys at midnight, call the police." She then left an address in the chat. I was very confused and was asked what was going on. One...
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{ "description": "asking loud and all around dickish roommate to shut up", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA Asking loud and all around dickish roommate to shut up
Ok, so there is a lot of backstory on this one, so strap in. Also, FTP and that stuff. Key: R: Roommate M: Me ​ So, I live at a boarding school and recently switched rooms at the request of R into his room because R was a friend, and R didn't want a new kid. I agreed because I thought R would be a fun p...
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{ "description": "doing something my girlfriend hates subconsciously", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for doing something my girlfriend hates subconsciously?
## Girlfriend tends to hit me during arguments. 📷 Me (25M) and my girlfriend (22F) were watching a movie. I was holding her ankle with my hand and without knowing I was rubbing it with my finger, I tend to do that sometimes subconsciously and my girlfriend hates it.She has told me several times to stop doing it, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to burden my gf with my problems", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to burden my gf with my problems?
My girlfriend and I are in a argument right now and she's very upset that I was telling a friend ( a guy btw) about my problems instead of putting them on her. She has lots of stuff to be stressing about already ( school, work, being sick ect) and I didn't want to overwhelm her with my bs too ( emotional problems from ...
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AITA for Friend's Pity Party Ruining My Fun and Me Being Upset?
So Im (f13) and I have a friend a year older than me that lives in my neighborhood. We often hang out. She has severe depression and anxiety. She recently dif some bad things but is overcoming, along with my huge amount of effort to help her. I was enjoying my spring break when she texts me: (Shes H btw) H:You Hom...
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{ "description": "refusing to participate in my family's religious practices despite working at a church", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to participate in my family's religious practices despite working at a church?
I'll start this out by stating that my family is religious. I am not. I am studying music in university, and to help cover some of my tuition, I have been working part time as a musician and section lead with a local united church. My early music training was largely in the Anglican choral tradition, and much of what ...
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{ "description": "stealing my college roommate's girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for stealing my college roommate’s girlfriend?
I went through high school as a very shy kid who had self-esteem issues and social anxiety. I hoped to break out of my shell in college, but failed and latched onto the first person I was put into a group project with. He asked if I wanted to room with him the next year and I accepted without realizing his new girlfrie...
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{ "description": "upsetting my mother by telling her I had thought about inviting my mil to be at the birth of our first child", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for upsetting my mother by telling her I had thought about inviting my MIL to be at the birth of our first child?
Some context here: first trimester preg with first child, both my mother and my MIL are widwives (I know, please feel sorry for me). MIL works at the local hospital where we will most likely give birth. Mother lives in another city 4 hours away and is no longer working as a midwife, but has probably 2 decades worth of ...
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{ "description": "asking my parents for money", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my parents for money?
I guess this falls more under the category of WIBTA, but basically I (M 21) am a broke college student attending school out of state. I just want to start off by saying that i have outstanding parents who have supported me finically and emotionally basically my whole life, and i acknowledge every day how lucky i am . ...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to a good friend of mine after finding out she likes me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I stopped talking to a good friend of mine after finding out she likes me (read post for more details)
I’m a high school kid, so this might be petty, but bear with me. And sorry for formatting I’m on mobile. I started at a new school about a month and a half ago. According to a lot of my friends, girls find me really attractive, so a new attractive guy at school is really interesting for girls. Anyway, a ton of girls ...
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{ "description": "not helping my sister with a job application", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my sister with a job application?
My (24f) sister is in her forties, she took voluntary redundancey from work when my neice was 5 (shes now 20) and hasn't worked since. I understand returning to work after so long is daunting, I can see she's anxious and scared. The only reason she's doing it now is because the money situation has gotten so bad that ...
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{ "description": "quitting my job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting my job
TLDR at bottom: I’m 30 years old, married for 10 years with two kids. A year ago my wife and I bought a home that didn’t pan out and we ended up financially in the hole. Then we had our newborn and my wife quit working. I stayed at my job for awhile before she decided to move to be closer to family. I’d heard thi...
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{ "description": "not paying rent", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying rent?
Some context, I'm at my bf's a lot, to the point where I cook, clean, buy groceries, etc for them. I don't mind, because I always considered it my form of payment for staying over so much. Their mother is out of town for a few years due to work so I kind of took over as "lady of the house". I've also spoken to their mo...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave a \"restaurant\" due to stomach pain", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to leave a „restaurant“ due to stomach pain?
Okay my family (mother, father, little sister) wanted to go eat out for some weeks now, we discussed many restaurants, but in the end my mom decided on a burger place. I had only heard about the place, that it is good, but definitely not a restaurant and more of a fast food place. Okay before I continue I have to sa...
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AITA for moving
So my husband and I are moving 12 hours away from our families. We just told them and they are pissed. They are pissed for one reason only and that is because they no we are trying for a baby atm. My mom and his do not want to be away from there grandkids. This would be my moms first grandkid so she wants to be around ...
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{ "description": "kicking my gf out after living together for less than two months", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I kick my gf out after living together for less than two months?
Gf moved in in January. We've been dating since August. When we agreed to move in I was over the moon about it. Due to work I didn't get to spend nearly enough time with her. It was a huge mistake though. She's always been this awesome mix of sweet and sarcasm. One of the funniest persons I've ever met and humor ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see a movie with my friend's dad", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For not wanting to see a movie with my friend’s dad?
Me and a group of friends like to go see new movies together, like most friends. We’re all really close and these movies have been a good bonding point. It’s mainly Marvel and Star Wars and that sort of stuff. With Avengers Endgame coming up soon, we had plans to see that together for the longest time, obviously. Out o...
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{ "description": "photoshopping my brother's ex wife out of a funeral program picture", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for photoshopping my brother's ex wife out of a funeral program picture.
My brother and his ex wife recently went through a messy divorce. They stayed together through the last few years because of their kids. Once their kids grew up they decided to split and it was rather nasty. My dad recently passed away and I was tasked with putting the program together. Now I was having a hard time f...
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