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{ "description": "cycling on the sidewalk", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for cycling on the sidewalk?
I want to start off with saying that I know it's not a proper thing to do. But I didn't know people felt this strongly about it. Today I was cycling omw to the store, a street I had to go through was blocked by several cars. No biggie right? Just take the sidewalk, there was nobody there anyway. As I turn the corner ...
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{ "description": "being physical in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being physical in a relationship?
So I dated a girl for about a month and we ended it on decent terms. I think the main reason it didn't work was personality incompatibility, but one of the things she wasn't comfortable with was how physical I was. I respect that, but I'm skeptical to see if she will ever find a guy that doesn't have physical needs (be...
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{ "description": "not looking for the original owners of a lost cat", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not looking for the original owners of a lost cat?
Throwaway just in case. I moved in to the neighborhood I'm currently living in about 3 months ago. From the get go I noticed a pretty cat around the neighborhood. I just assumed he belonged to one of the neighbors, but I noticed on several occasions how far of a range I would spot him at. The thought "Wow, they rea...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my roommate who's constantly noisy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my roommate who's constantly noisy?
She constantly move stuff around that sounds like she's moving furniture and she hits the walls and it's super loud. Then she turns the TV up super loud when she watches it and yells because of the basketball games and the golf that she's watching. I don't care that she's watching it but I find the noise highly disrupt...
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AITA? My GF maybe pregnant and I'm not keen on paying for the abortion...
This is my first proper post so go easy on me. I am notorious for run-on sentences Context: I'm 19 Uni student GF 21 senior at my Uni We aren't living together. ​ My GF and I have been dating for about 4 months now and we're both quite serious hoping this relation ends in marriage. We had been having un...
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{ "description": "asking my gf to pay", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for asking my gf to pay
Last night, I was cramming for a test in the morning. I was facetiming my long-term girlfriend (temporarily long distance) at that time while finishing up a practice problem, and I decided I was too tired to focus so I would take a 20 minute nap. My girlfriend decided that she would wake me up from my nap instead of h...
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{ "description": "not telling the girl I'm dating that I was kissed by a crush", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not telling the girl I'm dating that I was kissed by a crush?
I asked out my crush a month ago and she said no. So I was trying to avoid it and asked out another girl (because I just did not want to be single anymore). So I've been dating the other girl, and I've really come to like her a lot, she is pretty and has a good sense of humor. Well a little less than a week ago, I was...
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{ "description": "not wanting to get a job right now", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to get a job right now?
My parents want me to get a job. I completely get that, no problem. The problem is, I currently feel like it'll completely overwhelm my schedule. I'm a homeschooled senior, but I still have an online full-time course load, with band practice, gym, and flying lessons (which I'm pursuing as a career) on top of that, and...
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{ "description": "not telling my mom's fiancé I love him or not wanting to hangout with him", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling my mom’s fiancé I love him or not wanting to hangout with him?
I lost my dad at a very young age and have been raised by my mother my whole life pretty much. Went through tons of hardships along the way to get into a stable environment we live in now and I’m very grateful. She met a guy 3 years ago and he recently proposed which is cool because it makes my mom happy and whatever. ...
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{ "description": "asking to be paid extra for taking care of the family pets", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I asked to be paid extra for taking care of the family pets?
Honestly not sure if this goes here or in an advice sub. If it doesn't belong here, let me know where it would be most appropriate and I'll take it there. I just figured that since I'm personally conflicted on whether or not it's an a-hole move, then there's no harm in seeing what the judges of this sub think. * I'm 2...
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{ "description": "complaining to Chipotle customer service", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for complaining to Chipotle customer service?
I order from chipotle online a couple times a week. Almost every time I do, my order is 15-20 minutes late, and the restaurant isn’t always that busy. They just have only one person working the online orders, while everyone else stands around waiting for customers to walk in the door. So, I’m pretty broke and sometim...
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{ "description": "checking the $ amount I won for an award is correct", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for checking the $ amount I won for an award is correct?
TL;DR, won an award for a project, was listed in am email and on the prize site as $1000 but got $666. Want to email to confirm amount. Hello, first time posting and I'm on mobile, etc. Anyways... For a post-graduate certificate, I had to do a major research project. We put in a lot of work, and we ended up with one...
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{ "description": "spreading the rumor that a teacher was quitting", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for spreading the rumor that a teacher was quitting
i was in my study hall class and i heard my teachers talking about a teacher that was quitting this year. (the sign language teacher). i joined in by saying he was going to quit by signing middle fingers and the teachers laughed. i know this could be seen as offensive but they were fine with it so i didn’t feel bad. ...
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{ "description": "telling a flirty married woman that I would sleep with her if I had the chance", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA For telling a flirty married woman that I would sleep with her if I had the chance?
Me and my older brother are in business together, though he is pretty much understood to be in charge. He frequently takes me to restaurants and clubs to meet clients. I find these boring but I so enjoy socializing and having a few drinks. One of these clients is an old guy, pushing 70, with a smoking hot young wife...
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{ "description": "continuing to be with my s/o", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for continuing to be with my s/o
this one is quite a big read so I’ll be sure to put a summary toward the end, while explaining the entire situation I’ll try to be as clear and unbiased as possible (we all like to play the victim and I’m here to figure out if I’m in the wrong, doing that wouldn’t help me) let’s start this off at the beginning, I was...
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{ "description": "wanting more time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more time?
My ex and I of almost 2 years got together and talked about our relationship and what went wrong. At many times during the relationship I put a lot of blame on her and it wasn't until this discussion she threw it all back and made me rethink everything. Want to know your opinions. I met this girl at her senior year o...
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{ "description": "trying to reach out and help this girl receive proper help", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to reach out and help this girl receive proper help?
i found this [twitter account](https://twitter.com/kittycataddy) a month ago and thought she posted some decent content. also thought she was p cute. but then i discovered that she was a girl from the css community back in 2012 and mysteriously disappeared in 2014. she had a lot of problems and controversy surrounding ...
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{ "description": "repeating comments made about a friend's gf by a mutual friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for repeating comments made about a friend’s gf by a mutual friend?
For some background my (17M) friend John has been dating this girl named Mallory (18F) for about 6 months now. Our friend Keith (17M) said some things like that Mallory “isn’t that bright” and stuff like that. AITA for telling John that Keith said those things?
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{ "description": "tampering with our allotment produce", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tampered with our allotment produce?
tldr at the bottom Last year we got an allotment offer after a 3 year wait, it was late in the season and totally overgrown but we paid and took it. It was a lot of hard work for my partner and I to get it to a state of planting but we knew it'd be worth it as we don't have a garden and are limited to how much we can ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my dogsitter for their dog attacking mine", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my dogsitter for their dog attacking mine?
I'm worried the title is misleading so I'll explain. We had to head out of town on short notice and couldn't board our dog for irrelevant reasons. We asked a friend who also has a dog to watch ours for a few days and they were okay with it. Our dogs have played together a lot and always seemed to get along, though the...
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AITA Follow up to my parents
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ain315/aita_for_telling_my_parents_that_i_want/?utm_source=reddit-android Original post there basically talking about my boundaries. Just talked to my mom and well it went as expected she shut me down by saying I'm the kid in the situation and how could I insinuate that...
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{ "description": "breaking my brother in laws remote control car", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for breaking my brother in laws remote control car
So I've never liked him too much, and he knows that. He used to ignore me but lately he's been very passive aggressive to me. He recently got a remote control car, a loud one. So today we are my parents house and I'm watching the game and this fucking jerkoff decides to play with it In the living room. I ask him to not...
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{ "description": "giving hr a heads up on my boss lying to employees", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For giving HR a heads up on my boss lying to employees?
So, I got laid off of my job as a cashier/stocker for "not having to pay rent" when they were cutting hours. The store manager told me this when he let me go. Him and I had already been butting heads, and I had worked there for 10 months. Let's call this boss George. George started lying to me about what he thinks ...
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AITA She won't let me text her
AITA So this girl and I met on bumble and she even took the initiative to set up a date. Given that it was December and Xmas was coming up and everyone needs some distance to be with their families etc. I didn't think much of it. The issues didn't really start till till I want led to get the second date. It took me a w...
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{ "description": "not visiting my boyfriend at college for my schools events", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not visiting my boyfriend at college for my schools events?
My boyfriend is a senior in college and I am a sophomore who just transferred to another college. I wanted to visit him my first semester away at college and we had a weekend I would come up for a big day drink at his school. It’s his last semester and he wanted me there at the last day drink. I had recently found out ...
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{ "description": "asking a coworker about her dad's reaction to finding a rip in his pants", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA asking a coworker about her dad's reaction to finding a rip in his pants?
Backstory about myself: I'm more than happy to make a fool of myself and can wind up other people a bit sometimes - but never in a mean way. Sometimes people aren't sure if I'm joking around or being serious and the coworker in question has a habit of getting offended over really minuscule things (in my opinion). Anyw...
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{ "description": "wanting my grandmother to tell her friends that I am trans", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For wanting my grandmother to tell her friends that I am trans?
Hi! This is my first post so sorry if it’s not long enough or if it’s too long! A little background information: My grandparents are my legal guardians since my father is a bipolar drug addict and my mother is just not fit to be a parent. I am openly transgender (ftm) and when I get misgendered it makes me feel horrib...
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{ "description": "playing music at full volume to my parents having sex", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for playing music at full volume to my parents having sex? (NSFW)
Info: I talked to my parents before about it before, they said they will stop having sex loudly at the middle of the night but they didn't. I'm 16 years old and correctly sleeping in the room right next to my parents, I have no other. The wall and the door block no noise at all. So the other night my parents were hav...
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{ "description": "picking sides between my separated parents", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for picking sides between my separated parents?
Firstly a bit of backstory: - my parents have been separated for several years now and we've all come to accept it. At first, I was terrified that I would never see my dad again (it wouldn't be the first time, more on that in a bit.) However, my parents defied the odds and remained friends, despite all of their hardsh...
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{ "description": "never wanting to hang out with my best friend because they're socially needy", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I never want to hang out with my best friend because they’re socially needy?
We’ve been friends for almost a decade and they know I don’t like going out much. But since we’re best friends, we eventually do make plans to hang. Lately they want to hang out all the time and they get upset when I turn down most plans. I hate it and I wish we would fight badly so I never had to see them again. I d...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother in law use my credit card to buy an iphone xr", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother in law use my credit card to buy an IPHONE XR?
My wife and I got the new IPhones a couple months ago and we financed them by applying for a credit card at the apple store that we have 18months to pay off before the interest kicks in. Today my wife texts me that my brother in law wants to get a new IPhone as well, and wants to use the credit card we got at the store...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out because me and my mom fight too much", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to move out because me and my mom fight too much?
English is not my native language bear with me guys please. First off, In my country simply moving out of parent's house is a big deal (unless you get married or something) and it's mostly considered disrespectful to parents. I am 23 and still live with my mom and her husband (a very good person) but me and my mom figh...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to meet my parents", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to meet my parents?
Might be kinda long I apologize. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and he hasn’t met my parents yet because of my own personal issues with them. About a month ago I asked my boyfriend to marry me he said yes but in the condition that he gets to meet my parents beforehand. I don’t want him to meet them ...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off about a joke", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed off about a joke?
I had to do an activity for class with these two guys. It involved having to run back and forth. While we were deciding who was going to run, one of them goes like 'Can you even run? Like are you physically able to?" I knew it was a joke but I got pretty annoyed so I retaliated lightly, "Fuck you, of course I can." It...
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{ "description": "calling in a noise complaint on my upstairs neighbor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for calling in a noise complaint on my upstairs neighbor?
My husband and I have been living in the same apartment complex for about four years now. Last summer, someone new moved in upstairs from us. This person plays an electric guitar. Over time, the amount of time they play has gone up a lot. The thing is, this person has their amp turned up. Way up. They also have an anno...
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{ "description": "considering breaking up with my boyfriend for something he said", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for considering breaking up with my boyfriend for something he said?
Sorry in advance, this is kind of a long story. So Friday night, my boyfriend spent the night with the intention of us spending the day together Saturday morning because I didn’t have work and he didn’t have to be at his job until 5. Fast forward to Saturday morning at 10am. I wake up to him gathering his things and ...
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{ "description": "trying to talk about an issue the group I volunteer with has and she began yelling in my face", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I was trying to talk about an issue the group I volunteer with has and she began yelling in my face.
Some background: I’m an 18 year old high school student. I’ve been volunteering for a children’s program at my old church for 10 years. Today I was volunteering for the children’s program at my church as I’ve done almost every Sunday for 10 years. For the past 10 years we’ve had lots of issues with our room being lef...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend that her six y/o stinks and needs to be taught proper hygiene", "pronormative_score": 330, "contranormative_score": 168 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend that her six y/o stinks and needs to be taught proper hygiene?
First time poster here and I’m on mobile so I hope this goes well. Anyways, let’s jump right in to the stank! Me (24M) and my girlfriend (24F) had a baby boy one month ago today, and things have been pretty awesome. We’ve really come together as a couple and our communication has been healthier than ever; even our lev...
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{ "description": "not wanting to see my sil when she visits", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to see my SIL when she visits
My twin brother, who I love very dearly, recently married a woman whom I absolutely despise. She is someone who thinks the world revolves around them and doesn’t care for anybody else. For instance, for Christmas she got my brother tickets to a play she really wanted to see, and actually did not get him a gift. Her ...
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{ "description": "snooping through my friend's phone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA: For snooping through my friend's phone?
Well I probably am but I need some opinions. This happened long ago, but a few months back my friend lent me his phone because he needed me to fix something on it. I kept having this urge to snoop a little bit and eventually gave in. Unfortunately, I ended up reading one of the group chats he's in, because I wanted t...
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{ "description": "not wanting my wife to go through my phone", "pronormative_score": 36, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my wife to go through my phone?
My wife is mad at me for not allowing her to go through my phone. She is determined that because I won't let her dig through my messages and web history that I must be cheating and hiding it. This is simply not the case. In fact I have allowed her to go through it in the past only for her to find something insignifican...
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{ "description": "not trying to pick up my dog's liquid poop", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA when I don't try to pick up my dog's liquid poop?
I dogsit a lot and some of these dogs get extremely liquid poop. When I try to pick it up, I can barely scoop anything up. It's like trying to pick up spilt smoothie. After attempting it multiple times and never being able to pick up much, I've gotten to the point where sometimes I won't even bother trying now if it's ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with GF of 2 years", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with GF of 2 years?
Names : K - Guy, Me - me, S - GF S is a really cute, attractive girl in the conventional way, most people would find her cute as well, so did I. She have good personality as well, very friendly, I'd be crazy to not be attracted to her. Unlike me, S is very much an extrovert. So, she have a lot of rather close...
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{ "description": "waiting on apology from motherinlaw", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for waiting on apology from motherinlaw?
My motherinlaw is in her late eighties. Though we have had disagreements in the past, I always make my very best efforts to mend things and keep open communication. A few weeks back we went to visit during a blizzard, and as I was bringing things in from my car, the garage door stopped working in the open position. I l...
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{ "description": "not doing work around the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not doing work around the house?
So, a little setup. I (21M) work a full time night shift, have two house mates (23F and 24M), and I pay a little over half the rent. Rent is $680 AU a week and I pay $350 of it. My two housemates are a couple and have the master bedroom that has an ensuite and a walk in robe. I have two small bedrooms that are roughly ...
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{ "description": "telling wife to stop complaining about my job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling wife to stop complaining about my job?
Burner account. My wife and I have been married for 1.5 years. She has a child from a previous relationship. We got pregnant before the wedding and had a child 4 months after we got married. After we got married, but before the child was born, my job found out about a relationship I had with a subordinate while my w...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for poor shaming and bullying", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For calling out my friend for poor shaming and bullying?
Ok so some context. I have this friend named....Fred and he’s a grade 8 hype-beast. Always wearing champion and beats and gets really upset when his clothes get dirty. I generally like him! He is fun to be around and the life of the party but he is poor shaming and bullying my other friend a lot lately and I called him...
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{ "description": "not eating my boyfriend's grandmother's food", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not eating my boyfriend's grandmother's food
So my boyfriend and his grandmother live together in an apartment and sometimes I'll stay the night because it's more convenient to get to work from his place than mine (I only work 2 days a week since I'm a full-time student). However I don't know what I did but my bf's grandmother gets upset at me for both eating and...
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{ "description": "being annoyed to have to be responsible for a dog I didn't want", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed to have to be responsible for a dog I didn’t want?
For the past few months my stepmother has been complaining to my father how much she wants a new dog. Recently she decided to adopt a 3 month old puppy, which I had no idea she was going to do until 3 hours before the dog was going to come to our house. Since then my stepmother has forced my sister, stepbrother, fath...
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{ "description": "not piggybacking through the gate of a gated community when I'm making a food delivery and that customer didn't give me a gate code", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i dont piggyback through the gate of a gated community when I'm making a food delivery and that customer didn't give me a gate code?
Customer gives you everything you need to make the delivery except the code to the gate and then they don't respond to messages or answer calls. Should I just follow someone else through the gate if I can or does the onus fall on the customer for not providing critical information and it's ok for me to cancel the order...
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{ "description": "calling my friend (and team captain) a hypocrite", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friend (and team captain) a hypocrite?
(To preface, I'm a part of an engineering club at my school and have been given a title pertaining to leading the design process for our projects. I've known the team captain for a little more than four years now, though only got to be close friends in the last year after I joined this club.) ​ To the actu...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that a mutual friend of ours made out with his ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend that a mutual friend of ours made out with his ex?
Disclaimer 1: This happened three weeks ago. Disclaimer 2: Fake names. My friend, Anthony, was in a relationship with Amelia that ended about two weeks ago. Since then, Anthony has told most of our friends that he would be uncomfortable with anyone getting with Amelia while the wound was still fresh. A little piece ...
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{ "description": "leaving my mother with her abuser", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - for leaving my mother with her abuser
I'm going to try and keep this short but there is a lot of details this all started a few months ago but for context ill start about two-ish years ago when my mother began divorcing my stepfather. when he first got the news from my mother that they were getting divorced he got pretty violent initially when he was liv...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend in my house", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my friend in my house?
So I live in an apartment with two roommates, we'll call them Tina and Kacey, names changed for obvious reasons. They're both girls and I'm a guy, this is relevant later. So for the past few weeks or maybe a few months, one our friends Jack started to have interest in Kacey, he would always ask her to go eat with him...
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AITA for my actions?
Hey guys, that argument sounds really silly and I just need some judgement, about those actions that were made. Well I was playing with a friend some games while talking on a discord server. We got asked by someone if we wanted to play Divinity II and I declined and said, that I have currently enough to play. Said fri...
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{ "description": "telling my mom my little brother is faking his anxiety", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA if I tell my mom my little brother is faking his anxiety?
Obligatory Sorry For Formatting Because I Am Posting This On My Mobile Device tl;dr at bottom My brother (11) had a couple panic attacks in the past week or two. My mom got super worried and got a therapist and all that jazz. She (the therapist) gave my brother some breathing exercises to calm him down. My brother ...
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{ "description": "wanting another babysitter besides my mother in law", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting another babysitter besides my mother in law?
My mother in law has always hated me. She’s very intrusive in our relationship, constantly critical of me, and over all a negative influence on our relationship. My wife needed a lot of help when our daughter was born so I sucked it up that she was around a lot. I’ve been nothing, but respectful to this woman even ...
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{ "description": "telling a homeless person to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling a homeless person to fuck off
It was close to midnight and I fancied a pizza. Head down to the local pizza place and grab my order. As I'm walking home a homeless guy shouts over at me. HL guy : give me some of your pizza Me: why? HL guy : because I'm homeless Me: that's not my fault HL guy: fuck you Me: fuck you too I just went home and enjoyed...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to my friend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I stopped talking to my friend?
Hey everybody. I’m 24, my spouse is 27, and the friend in question is 20. We’ll call her Abby. I met Abby in class at college; then further talked to her when I was tutoring her for a class. Abby is very needy. She constantly sends messages to myself and my spouse about her issues. Which is fine, 20 can be a shit ag...
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{ "description": "putting my friend on his ass when he grinded a breadstick in my ear", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for putting my friend on his ass when he grinded a breadstick in my ear.
TLDR at the end. Ok this is from Christmas day, had a few friends over and we were all fairly drunk by the evening. I am making drinks when my flatmate comes up to me and starts grinding a breadstick in my ear into dust like my ear is a novelty pencil sharpener. I am irritated by this already, then he grabs another one...
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{ "description": "feeling bad when my girlfriend masturbates to porn", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling bad when my girlfriend masturbates to porn?
My girlfriend frequently masturbates to porn, despite us having a very active sex life. She says that I am the best sexual partner she ever had. But she constantly fantasizes about getting fucked by the pornstar she watches. Am I the asshole for feeling bad or gettong frustrated whenever she does this? Don't get me wr...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend's house after one of his buddies used the word \"gay\" as an insult", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friend's house after one of his buddies used the word "gay" as an insult?
I've created a throaway account for this question. Also sorry if I make any mistakes, English isn't my first language. So, a little bit of info about me: I grew up in a rural area where most of the people are rather conservative and whatnot. As a young kid / teenager it wasn't very easy for me to make friends and g...
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{ "description": "not telling my so that I am a millionaire", "pronormative_score": 99, "contranormative_score": 116 }
AITA for not telling my SO that I am a millionaire?
For reference, I’m an attorney and my SO is a software engineer. We’ve been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old daughter and live a comfortable upper middle class life. I won the lottery to the tune of 8 figures in my senior year of undergrad. After taking some friends on a 2 month European vacation, setting up ...
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{ "description": "still hanging out w my male friends", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for still hanging out w my male friends
So I have mostly male friends for a variety of reasons: they like more of the same games as me, children of family friends, they’re less likely to hang out in groups that are harder to break into, etc. My boyfriend doesn’t like me hanging out or even talking to my male friends too much and says I should just get more f...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to get a job", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for wanting my wife to get a job?
My wife and I have been happily married for 2 years. We recently had a baby (5 month old) and I feel a lot of pressure to move our station of life to something better. We have a list of about 100 things we want and need to save for, but I feel like she doesn't have the same financial goals as me, or doesn't understan...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for always helping his dad", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for always helping his dad?
Yeah, the title might sound like im the asshole, but please read the text first. (sorry for the kind of long post) So, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, so our relationship is really serious and all, and I won't leave him for this of course, but it's still something that makes me angry from ti...
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{ "description": "not apologizing", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not apologizing?
I live at home with my parents and my oldest brother (I'm 19, my brother is 28). Oldest brother has a girlfriend of 3 years and about 2 months ago, she was threatening to break up with my brother. She isn't abusive but she treats my brother like an option, and is semi-high maintenance (very self absorbed). I tried to m...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "calling mother out on what I do for a living", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITAH for calling mother out on what I do for a living.
So a little bit of background on my career for the last 10 years. For 8 years I worked in TV/Live Sports Productions. I was a replay operator. For anyone who doesn't understand, I was the guy who would show the slow motion instant replay and make halftime highlights among other things. During this 8 years my mother alw...
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{ "description": "insisting my GF take care of her weight", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for insisting my GF take care of her weight?
The title might be misleading, but hear me out. My GF comes from a family that is mostly overweight. I told her that I’m worried and didn’t want the same to happen to her. I think it’s reasonable to ask that she exercises and takes care of her health now before it’s too late. She refuses to do so and says that I’m be...
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{ "description": "not telling the guy I'm kind of dating that I kissed someone else", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not telling the guy I'm kind of dating that I kissed someone else
Throwaway cuz they reddit. So in December I(24F) started dating a guy(24M) that I briefly dated a solid 10 years ago (when we were teens) We stopped dating end of January because I'm a big dumb dummy but a few weeks ago started dating again. Things have been okay, hes moving away from the country in June for 2 years s...
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{ "description": "refusing to get an abortion and telling my mom she can't meet my son", "pronormative_score": 139, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for refusing to get an abortion and telling my mom she can't meet my son.
Let's start this off with a bit of backstory. I don't want mom or my brother to find this. ​ My girlfriend and I( both 19) have known eachother for 9 years and been together romantically for 5 of them, we love each other. We fight and make fun of each other but we're in love. My mother however, dislikes my...
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{ "description": "saying bad things about my parents, in a speech where I have to be truthful", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for saying bad things about my parents, in a speech where I have to be truthful?
context: I was invited to share my testimony at a church. If you don't know what this means, I'm basically giving a speech about how my life was changed by knowing God. I'm not here to argue about God's existence, that should go without saying. Anyway, because of the nature and importance of this speech, I cannot lie. ...
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{ "description": "not helping dad get a divorce", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping dad get a divorce
I am very close with both my parents, however they absolutely hate each other. They have been separated for about ten years now, but are still legally married. My dad wants to remarry but says my mom won't sign the divorce papers to spite him. He has asked me (22M) to talk to my mom about it and to ask her to sign th...
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{ "description": "calling out and humiliating somebody who reposted my post", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA If I called out and humiliated somebody who reposted my post?
Throwaway for reasons. Several days ago, I submitted a text post to an unnamed sub that in turn was well-received. Today, I was browsing through a different sub when I saw the repost. Being me, I called the user out for it. Twenty minutes later, I received a DM from the user apologizing and that the repost was deleted...
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{ "description": "not spending time with family outside of work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not spending time with family outside of work?
For context, I am a 20 year old college dropout who is living with his parents. I am working basically full time hours at a fast food job where I talk to people constantly, despite the fact that I consider myself very introverted and socially anxious. I also do a lot of moving around and lifting in my job, to the point...
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{ "description": "pressuring my girlfriend to break off her friendship with her bestfriend cause he bullied me and forced me to a different school", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pressuring my girlfriend to break off her friendship with her bestfriend cause he bullied me and forced me to a different school?
Tdlr at the bottom. So me and my girlfriend have been going steady for about 2 months now. I told her about how I was forced to go a different school because of a kid who we will call M. She told me that M was her best friend and that he would never do that. Well I'm a 17 year old mtf transgender person who has Asper...
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{ "description": "forcing my mother to talk to my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing my mother to talk to my girlfriend
To start some background information. My girlfriend and I live with my parents in a 5 bedroom 2 bathroom house. Been that way for 3 years now. GF and mother never really had the best relationship they barely talk at all. So bad that at some points my GF has said she feels like an "unwelcome guest". I've never had the ...
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{ "description": "taking my cat from my dad and his cat who she's bonded with", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I took my cat from my dad and his cat who she's bonded with?
TL;DR My dad has been watching my cat for the past year and it's time that I can take her back, but shes became good friends with my dad's cat. He said I cant take them both if I want, but he lives alone and I know that he doesnt actually want me to take his cat. Would it be a dick move to separate them? About a year ...
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{ "description": "refusing to meet up with a friend despite not being busy", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For refusing to meet up with a friend despite not being busy
So this is extremely small fry compared to some of the stuff on here but I had to vent. So a buddy of mine called me up an hour ago saying he'd just finished work and was at a pub that's about an hour walk away. II honestly don't have much going on but he'd invited a bunch of his work friends that I don't mind but I ju...
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{ "description": "not wanting my brother to adopt another cat", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my brother to adopt another cat?
So how do I start, My brother really likes cats and that's the only positive I can say bout his feelings towards cats, He doesn't care about the cats he doesn't feed them, he doesn't give them any attention, Hell his own damn cat loves me more than him just because I actually acknowledge that cats are LIVING beings th...
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{ "description": "wanting to report my father for using my social to take out cable accounts in my name", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to report my father for using my social to take out cable accounts in my name?
When I was a minor my father took out lines of credit in my name to include several cable accounts and a furniture rental account. I, being a young minor, had no idea what a credit score was but I knew that my father would NEVER pay off these accounts so I just let him do it. Now I have a family of my own and my credit...
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{ "description": "not renting out my spare room", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not renting out my spare room?
Backstory: My mom died in 2012. My dad went completely off the deep end and got into drugs and alcohol. I was out of the house by then, but he and my younger sister got evicted from our apartment. My 15 year old sister (we'll call her Ashley) had nowhere to go. She stayed with one of her best friends (Kelly) for about ...
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WIBTA if. Well would she be the asshole if she has a go at my uncle for neglecting to tell her that my cousin isn't coming for Christmas dinner
Sorry for formatting, on mobile yada yada yada. So it's the 23rd of December and my mum has just spent the entire day slaving over the oven, creating a vegan nut roast for me, my 8 year old pescatarian brother and my vegan cousin. Which many would consider a pretty tough challenge. My entire family has spent weeks pre...
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{ "description": "setting a mental \"deadline\" for my bf to propose", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for setting a mental “deadline” for my bf to propose?
I’m 25, he’s about to be 26. We’ve been together for a little over 2 years and have lived together for a little more than 6 months. I have a deadline of sorts, in my mind, that I’ve set. I was hesitant to move in together before being engaged so I told myself that if a year goes by and my bf hasn’t committed to buildi...
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{ "description": "not tipping the beer can stand worker", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping the beer can stand worker
I recently went to an arena that has little stands that sell canned beers. The beers themselves cost $12, so I went, ordered one and when asked to tip I declined, but when I left my friend said the worker seemed insulted that I didn't tip, but we literally had a two second interaction where they asked me what beer, I s...
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{ "description": "drunk texting my ex while in a relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for drunk texting my ex while in a relationship
I certainly feel like the asshole. Nothing was done just... I miss you stupid drunk shit. By the end of the night when i sobered up some I realized my dumb ass mistake and tried to tell her I just wanna be friends. But the damage was already done and she had already told my girlfriend. AITA?
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{ "description": "being upset that my dad won't do anything to fix our problem that caused humane services to give us a complaint", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset that my dad won’t do anything to fix our problem that caused humane services to give us a complaint?
just to note here, i’m still a kid, i’m unemployed because no where around here is hiring 15 yr olds for work. plus i have really bad mental health issues that prevent me from working at the moment. anyways, i have no money, and i don’t have the skills or experience to fix the fence, or buy a tarp and/or an actual tet...
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AITA? Theatre Deama OFFSTAGE.
I made a new account to get honest feedback, and who better to brutally judge me than Reddit? The story: my teenage kid was recently cast as a lead in a play set in the 1890’s. I’m a pretty competent sewer, so they asked me to make one of the dresses for the show, which would be shared between my kid and another girl ...
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{ "description": "questioning my friend's religious reasonings", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For questioning my friend’s religious reasonings?
As background, my friend is a zealous Christian. I’m Christian to but I’m better described as an agnostic that chose a god. And I’m gay. So polar opposites on that front. However he just keeps becoming more and more zealous and I try to be supportive but he’s not really thinking for himself anymore which is what bugs m...
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{ "description": "insulting my grandmother after she patronized me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for insulting my grandmother after she patronized me?
I graduated college about 4 years ago in computer science and got my masters after that. For anyone who has any knowledge of computers and computer illiterate relatives know what comes next. I was relegated to "The IT guy" in the family. For the most part I don't really mind it. Most of the family at least knows only t...
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{ "description": "hating my step-dad and his family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my step-dad and his family?
When my mom was 18 she hooked up with a guy named Bryan who was 17 and together they had me. Bryan didn’t want to be a father so he left my mother. Years later my mom met a guy named Ryan and had a kid with her named Ellie. Then later my mom gets with another guy named Kyle and they have a kid named Laurie. Ryan, my fi...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with my so for suspicious activity", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For breaking things off with my SO for suspicious activity?
TLDR at the bottom. I’ll try to keep this short and sweet. My SO and I (we will call her “Alex”) we’re seeing each other for about 6 months. Things were perfectly fine, we got along great with each other’s family/friends, our personalities/hobbies/interests coincided with one another’s very well, and we both had stab...
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{ "description": "blocking someone for making advances on me, but spending a lot of time and money on me", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I block someone for making advances on me, but spent a lot of time and money on me?
Hey everyone, first time poster and I’m on mobile, so sorry for any issues that come up. For background, I’m a 16 year old girl on the west coast (will be important later), and I was playing League of Legends by myself a couple months ago when I met C. C had a falling out with his previous friend group on league, and...
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{ "description": "telling my parents they could have taken the dog out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my parents they could have taken the dog out?
TL;DR at the bottom, didn't realize I would ramble this much. This happened an hour ago. Being in university, and with midterms coming up, I am completely swamped between completing assignments and studying for the tests. So, around this time in the semester, my day is spent mostly in my room studying, only leaving ...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay for a service I didn't ask for", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For refusing to pay for a service I didn't ask for
I moved into an apartment recently and the dial mechanism for the stove was broken. I called a repair company to come look at it, and asked what the cost of the service was. They told me it was $60 for a diagnosis, and then they give a quote for how much labor and replacement parts cost. The repair guy takes a look at...
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{ "description": "not calling my uncle", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not calling my uncle?
For a bit of context my uncle lives in the opposite side of the country from where I live so I don’t see each other often but his side of the family and well both sides of my family tend to favor toward my brother (this will be important later). My brother is a college student who lives alone and always gets on...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to give me the money I owe the dentist for missing my appointment due to his own fault", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to give me the money I owe the dentist for missing my appointment due to his own fault?
I had a dentist appointment on December 29 at 10am. I’m in college and so my dentist is in my hometown an hour away. I live with my boyfriend, and the alarm clock is on his side of the bed. My phone is broken and doesn’t have audio so I can’t set an alarm myself. I asked him to set an alarm early for me (7ish) and stre...
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{ "description": "cancelling monthly donations", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cancel monthly donations?
A little bit of background: I am a University student in the Bay Area, California. I work part time and I am mostly supported by financial aid. Today, I was walking to class and I make eye contact with someone campaigning for the trees in California. He walks up to me and says, "Wow! Thank you for noticing me! People ...
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{ "description": "not covering rent when my housemate's so refused to pay their share", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not covering rent when my housemate's SO refused to pay their share?
Throwaway as I know my flatmate browses. **TL;DR** - moved into a new house with best friend, their SO is living with us and is meant to pay a third of the rent from 2nd month but at the last minute refused to. I said I wouldn't cover the shortfall and now (because of bullet 1 below) they are acting rudely toward me i...
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{ "description": "addressing a store employee with 'yo'", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for addressing a store employee with 'yo'?
A few weeks ago, I was in a store looking at some bagels. I had heard the bagels there were good, so I was really inspecting them, hoping to find a choice pack of bagels, but I was having a hard time evaluating their freshness. ​ There was a store employee stood right next to me, facing outwards, not perfo...
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