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{ "description": "not going to a relative's funeral", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for not going to a relative's funeral?
My uncle was diagnosed with cancer a couple years ago, had a few treatments with chemo therapy and was weak all the time but never close to die. Last week though, he was infected with the flu, was sent to the hospital and because of his weak immune system he did not make it. He was my sister's godfather and she had a g...
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{ "description": "asking my coworkers why hating America is suddenly so cool", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my coworkers why hating America is suddenly so cool?
At work there was a conversation going on about the song "This is America" in the slack channel that includes everyone in the company (about 500 people). I observed that I really hate that song, and that while America has lots of problems, that I'd rather have those problems in America than anywhere else in the world....
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{ "description": "refusing to allow someone I never met at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for refusing to allow someone I never met at my wedding?
My husband and I never wanted a big wedding so we just married with a wedding officiant. My family was ok with it. His family really wanted us to have an actual wedding party and to plan one for a few months after we married. Since I can remember I have always thought marrying in front of people was awkward and somethi...
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{ "description": "accidentally finding my boyfriends throwaway account but not telling him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for accidentally finding my boyfriends throwaway account but not telling him?
He was addicted to porn and cheated on me (by telling online girls he wanted to fuck them etc). He stopped watching porn but I accidentally found his account by a post in a sub. I haven’t told him because I wanna know how he feels about porn/about me because he posts about us. I want to tell him but at the same time it...
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{ "description": "trying to get my sister to respect me and my house after letting her stay with us after she broke up with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to get my sister to respect me and my house after letting her stay with us after she broke up with her boyfriend?
Okay so a few days ago my sister calls me asking if she can stay with my partner and myself for a night if anything happens to her and her boyfriend of 5 and a half years. Not thinking anything would happen soon I said yeah sure, she then called half an hour later saying she's on her way as she just broke up with him. ...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell my ex husband to tell him mother to stop sending over food when he drops off our daughter", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for wanting to tell my ex husband to tell him mother to stop sending over food when he drops off our daughter?
So my EXMIL used to make my husband food for his lunches and send them home with at the end of each weekend when we would go over to do laundry. They are from Romania and she has 2 sons, one of which is my ex husband. She told him it was because she knew I didn’t know how to cook and wanted to make sure I wasn’t feedin...
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{ "description": "feeling like my BF is lazy", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling like my BF is lazy?
My (30) BF (33) and I have been together for 5 years but this has only become a problem for the last 2 and I'm pretty fed up with it. The only chore my BF will do without being asked (or nagged, in his opinion) is laundry. Not household laundry, just his (not to include sheets, blankets, basically anything that isn't ...
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{ "description": "asking my ex not to consider me her friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my ex not to consider me her friend anymore?
Backstory: She and I met under similar circumstances. Both of us were lonely and we jived really well. We started dating a month after we met. Found out that she had been trying to move on from her ex who ghosted her which hit her really hard. Anytime we became intimate, she would start crying and apologize over and ov...
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{ "description": "always giving Uber drivers 4 stars", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for always giving Uber drivers 4 stars?
Even if the Uber driver is perfectly friendly and a great driver, I find it really hard to justify giving out a 'perfect' rating. You get me?
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{ "description": "being upset at my boyfriend for telling an old co-worker where I now work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset at my boyfriend for telling an old co-worker where I now work?
When I (18F) was 17, I worked as a cashier at a grocery store while I went to college. A bagger who was an older male (in his 60s?) liked to make comments about the young girls who worked there being "beautiful", called us all "sweetheart" and was constantly hugging us and kissing us on the cheek. On my 18th birthday (...
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{ "description": "shoving my cat into the hall while I'm eating", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for shoving my cat into the hall while I'm eating
I live in one room in a shared house with 5 housemates. We can have pets as long as their food/litter is kept inside our rooms, and they don't make a mess of the house. Ever since I first got my cat (3 months ago) he has used his litter box every time I bring food into my room. He doesn't use it for hours, but as soon...
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{ "description": "wanting to skip work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to skip work?
Tl;dr at the bottom This may not be as severe as most other posts on here, definitely not life changing, not really, but here we go anyways. And, since there’s no need for me to be anonymous with where I work, I’m not gonna be, I work at Walmart, unloading trucks and stocking shelves. Now, I’m not good at my job. At...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help a half sibling out financially", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to help a half sibling out financially?
Parent 1 cheated on Parent 2 when i was younger which led to a the a half sibling. Said Half sibling's mother is very poor, and my father is also not financially well off. Friends and family are saying I have an obligation to help out my half sibling, but I don't feel like I should be responsible for a child parent 1 h...
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{ "description": "getting upset every time a roommate brings up an awkward lunch with her parents", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset every time a roommate brings up an awkward lunch with her parents?
So for some clarity, the name of my roommate and most people in this will be changed for the sake of annonimity in this, since I live with multiple and it will get confusing at some point. This event happened a few months ago, but I was invited to an all paid lunch with my roommate, Samantha, her parents, and her boyf...
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{ "description": "not giving a lady something free because her husband is disabled", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a lady something free because her husband is disabled?
AITA for not giving away my product for free... So the backstory is I own a small business with my mom, where we sell accessories at concerts (hats, sunglasses, headbands, jewelry, etc). The only employees are my mom and I and sometimes my sister. So last night on NYE I was at the booth selling when this man came up a...
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{ "description": "wearing a MAGA hat to work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for wearing a MAGA hat to work?
Full disclosure, this wasn't me this was a friend of mine, but I feel it would be a good addition to this sub. But for the sake of the sub I will write it as if it was me. So I work for a tech company in Utah, and despite Utah being a red state the tech industry is still very liberal. So during lunch there are a group...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend how sick I am", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling my boyfriend how sick I am?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we don't live together. I am a nurse and he has a hospital phobia (romcom writers everywhere are salivating). He's had some terrible experiences having to do with hospitals that have jaded his views, and while they've mellowed out some since we've been together, he sti...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because of her past", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend because of her past?
Maybe this is more appropriate for /r/relationships or /r/sex but whatever. So i've been with my girlfriend for just over a year now, it's been by far the best relationship of my life in terms of being in love, stress free, sharing interests, sex life etc it's been a total unicorn relationship. Anyway, I have only ha...
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{ "description": "not wanting neither helping my brother getting a motorcycle", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting neither helping my brother getting a motorcycle
My brother (18Y) keep wanting a bike from my parents, Everytime he speaks about it the talk is going pretty bad my brother keeps swearing at my parents and annoying while I (16Y) won't interrupt or join in. A little bit of background my brother works 3-2 times a week in a fast food place to get money for the bike but...
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{ "description": "not allowing my friend to stay with me so he can go to school", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I didn't allow my friend to stay with me so he can go to school.
Sorry for any formatting issues or grammar I'm on mobile and its 3 in the morning. We are seniors in hs and his parents are leaving this weekend for the whole week. He currently lives about 40 minutes from school and does not have a car. His mom is overprotective of him and babys him too much and is a hypochondriac w...
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{ "description": "wanting to hike Mt Kilimanjaro when I have a newborn", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to hike Mt Kilimanjaro when I have a newborn?
I have wanted to hike Mt. Kilimanjaro ever since I was a kid. My wife is 1 month pregnant and her EDD is sometime early July. I was invited to hike Mt. Kilimanjaro with a group of friends that I am very close with next September. Figuring this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, I asked my wife if I could go. Her ...
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{ "description": "calling my girlfriend hypocritical for staying friends with a guy who professed his undying love for her, after she stopped me from staying friends with a former fwb", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling my girlfriend hypocritical for staying friends with a guy who professed his undying love for her, after she stopped me from staying friends with a former FWB?
Sorry, this is a long one but some back context is necessary. I've been with my girlfriend coming up on 2 years - she's my first serious relationship (I'm 29, she's 30). However, in college I met a girl who became a sort of an on again/off again FWB. She was originally from the city I was in, but went to a different s...
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{ "description": "going off on my now ex-girlfriend after she lied about the reason we broke up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going off on my now ex-girlfriend after she lied about the reason we broke up?
For some context, me and my girlfriend had went out for five months, pretty stable all through out. Three weeks ago she started getting really distant, so I figured 'no biggie, she wants space' so those three weeks pass until yesterday. She told me she had been feeling 'depressed' for the last two weeks and wanted a br...
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{ "description": "cancelling a meetup with my boyfriend and then refusing to return his things the next day", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cancelling a meetup with my boyfriend and then refusing to return his things the next day.
So I (M23) have been dating this guy (M27) for about 6 months, I'm really committed to him as this is the first serious relationship I have ever been in. Around 3 days ago, I and a few of my classmates decided to go grab lunch at a shopping complex a few minutes away from school. This complex is very close to where my ...
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{ "description": "just wanting to sleep", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: For just wanting to sleep
So my husband and I aren’t speaking right now. He is mad because most of the time in the middle of the night/early morning (11pm-4am) he gets...gropey and I tell him to staaahhhhp because sleep is life. He doesn’t even want the sex, just to feel me up. I’m exhausted. We have a good sex life so it’s not anything in rela...
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{ "description": "refusing to clean my hair out after I shower in a shared apartment", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 85 }
AITA for refusing to clean my hair out after I shower in a shared apartment?
My roommate always complains, but she showers right after I do and always cleans the hair out, so it seems like a waste of time and paper towels for me to do so 10 minutes before she does. I've offered to shower after her so I can clean both of our hair out, but she always wants to shower late in the night for some rea...
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{ "description": "looking a gift horse in the mouth", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for looking a gift horse in the mouth?
Throw away account, sorry I’m on mobile. So this happened sometime ago, during Christmas. My husband and I are not well off. We both came together at a point in our lives So this happened sometime ago, during Christmas. My husband and I are not well off. We both came together at a point in our lives where we had nothi...
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{ "description": "taking somebody this seriously", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking somebody this seriously
So I roleplay on roblox a lot -- yeah yeah, get your cringes out now -- and I was on a Steven Universe Homeworld roleplay game. It's a relatively serious game, so it's not a fun lighthearted roleplay. People play as noncanon gems in this game, which adds to its seriousness in a strange way. Anyways, I was roleplaying....
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{ "description": "cutting off an ignorant friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off an ignorant friend?
Okay, story starts a year ago. Both friend in question - Ann and I move into our college dorms. We meet on the first day since we were on the same floor and hit it off really well. Initially, we'd share stories about highschool and talk about light-hearted stuff so everything was cool. She told me that she was lonely i...
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{ "description": "covering the cameras at home while my mother is in Thailand", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for covering the cameras at home while my mother is in Thailand?
I know I probably the asshole here but I need to hear it from others If i am (i can be biased). My grandfather died a week ago while my mom was traveling for work. My mom immediately made a trip back to a Thailand to mourn and take care of my grandmother, who has severe memory issues. Although I didn’t do anything “bad...
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{ "description": "not wanting a close family friend to have my baby bird", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting a close family friend to have my baby bird?
First post and ya. Also on phone. So I basically have 2 budgies which have gave birth to 3 little budgies and IM IN LOVE WITH THEM me and my brothers decided to name 1 each. I called the oldest one Blast, my brother Susan and last one stare (idk that's my lil bro) my dad then said that we will give one of the birds to...
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{ "description": "being hurt at my mother's threats, and doing what I did", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being hurt at my mother's threats, and doing what i did?
English is my third language, so apologies for any forthcoming mistakes, and feel free to correct me. So a little back story, this summer my gramps had a knot in his digestive system and he had to be in the ICU (and still is) but his situation is going better, they're both old (over 75) and because of their health ...
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{ "description": "partway pulling into a parking spot when the car adjacent had its passenger door open", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for partway pulling into a parking spot when the car adjacent had its passenger door open?
I'm not sure if maybe I missed out on unspoken parking lot etiquette, but basically this happened to me and my friend near christmasttime and the parking lot was absolutely full. After driving around a while, we finally managed to find a spot. We noticed the car adjacent had its passenger door open into the spot we w...
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{ "description": "telling off coworkers at work after they equated menstrual cramps to my illness", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling off coworkers at work after they equated menstrual cramps to my illness?
I 26M have Crohn's disease and work in graphics. My boss is great. She lets me work from home when I'm sick and has been very sympathetic sticking up for me. One day I was a mess and in a lot of pain. My boss sent me home and offered the option of working from home for the next 2 days until I get better. I like wo...
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{ "description": "giving away my ps4 which had a save me and my friend worked hard on", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving away my ps4 which had a save me and my friend worked hard on.
Basically i used to play Minecraft allot on my ps4 and had this particular world that we spent around 30 hours on once i bought a nice gaming pc for around £850 I’m an asshole for giving my ps4 which I wasn’t going to use to my sister who really wanted one
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{ "description": "not being happy with a surprise birthday party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being happy with a surprise birthday party?
So I turned 18 the last week and well, instead of a small party like I hoped (and asked) for every person in the family showed up. I enjoyed seeing them but really would have enjoyed a much smaller party.
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{ "description": "catching my so watching porn in the early morning and going through his phone when he finally went to bed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for catching my SO watching porn in the early morning and going through his phone when he finally went to bed?
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{ "description": "going to a party when my friends didn't want my girlfriend to come", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for going to a party when my friends didn’t want my girlfriend to come?
For NYE I went to a friends house for a party with three of my friends. They didn’t want my girlfriend to come. Was I an asshole for going? I haven’t seen these friends in months, so I wanted to reconnect with them, but my then-girlfriend got pissed at me for going and broke up with me so I’m wondering if I’m an asshol...
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{ "description": "telling guys that I become friends with that I have ptsd", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling guys that I become friends with that I have ptsd.
so when I become friends with a guy I will mention that I have ptsd, this is because I can flinch when guys go to touch me. because of this I feel it helps them understand that if I flinch it's not there fault or if I panic it's got nothing to do with them. I never go into detail i just say that I have ptsd and if I ...
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{ "description": "not giving my mom more time to process my sister coming out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving my Mom more time to process my sister coming out?
Throwaway account, fake names, kind of a long post. If you’re someone I know irl please have integrity and don’t read, thanks So my (f18) sister (f15) has been out as a lesbian to me and most of her friends/teachers/peers etc. for a little over a year now, but she’s always been afraid to say anything to our mom (f58)...
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{ "description": "blocking a girl who I dated a couple weeks ago, because she said that she was going to overdose", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking a girl who I dated a couple weeks ago, because she said that she was going to overdose.
I recently dated a girl and it didn't really work out. This was mainly because we lived particularly far away from eachother and she was not mature enough for me. When I explained this she didn't take it well and said she was going to cut herself. I then tried to stop her saying I still want to help her. She then kept ...
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{ "description": "not removing beer mugs from my wedding registry", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not removing beer mugs from my wedding registry?
Hello all! I (F, 22) Finally made a wedding registry to put on our website (yay!) and mailed it out about two weeks ago. A week ago, my fiancé’s mom says that her church has offered to host a bridal party and tells me to stay clear of plans on that date. I don’t even go to this church or know these people so I think i...
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{ "description": "ghosting my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting my ex?
On mobile so sorry for formatting and I’ll try to make it as brief as I can. So I broke with my ex about 2 weeks ago after the situation of our relationship started to affect me at work, school, and just in general as she would always turn any problems we had and try to pin it on me somehow, which in turn would make m...
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{ "description": "getting banned from a Discord server for *starting a riot", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA Getting banned from a Discord server for *starting a riot*
Alright so this might be a bit confusing to read but that's because I'm confused as to what happened to me, this all took place over the course of two weeks but mostly in the last two days. It all started with a girl, let us call her Dee, Now Dee has had a pretty shitty life, without giving away too much personal infor...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad that my dad is in jail", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling bad that my dad is in jail
So some context, I'm 16M Asian, Hmong to be specific, but anyways my dad has a history of cheating on my mom, (he has done it twice) and he tends to be verbally abusive when drunk. (also kinda alcoholic) The reason why he's currently in jail is because he was caught transporting weed a while back. When my dad first ch...
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{ "description": "leaving two girls at a restaurant", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving two girls at a restaurant?
I went out to drink with 3 people tonight. My friend Steph, Steph's best friend Vic, and her other friend, Jane. Steph and Vic were visiting for a concert happening in my city and Jane is a local friend she met a few years ago. Steph asked me to come out with her since it'd been a few months since she was in town. I ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend when he brings up his ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend when he brings up his ex?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. In the beginning, he’d constantly bring up his ex. He’s accidentally call me her name. It made me upset but I figured since it was his last real relationship, it was bound it slip out every once in a while. I talked to him about it and he apologized. (I’m not goi...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my partner stays up until 3am playing computer games on the nights we spend together", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I (26F) get mad when my partner (31M) stays up until 3am playing computer games on the nights we spend together?
We have been together for 8 months now, but don’t live together so I usually stay with him 3-4 times a week. When I stay over I go to bed earlier than him (10pmish) and he is a bit of a night owl so agree he will come in for snugs a little later. The thing is, time and time again, on the nights we have together he ...
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{ "description": "spending too much time with our rat", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spending too much time with our rat?
So in my school we have a class where we take care of a rat, take notes and what not. You can partner up or be alone for this. Ever since last year my friend and I have been really excited to take this class and to be “rat parents” together. We both agreed that I would take Grim (our rat) during the first weekend ...
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AITA in this disagreement?
I'm not really sure how relevant this is, since the fallout has already occurred, but I'd really like some impartial judgment. I had a very close online friend. We used to hang out and game together all the time, though less so recently; she got very into VR Chat as part of practicing being better at socializing and s...
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{ "description": "getting fed up with my dad painting my apartment for \"free\" but it's taken almost 4 weeks and h constantly disregarding me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting fed up with my dad painting my apartment for “free” but it’s taken almost 4 weeks and h constantly disregarding me?
Trying to gather my thoughts.. We’ve always had a strained relationship for many reason and one of them is him not listening to me. Because we’ve never seen eye to eye, I can’t tell when I’m over reacting because my baggage with him or he’s just being a dick. So... 1. Originally for my upcoming birthday we were going ...
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{ "description": "taking my mini-fridge from my roommate who doesn't shower", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I took my mini-fridge from my roommate who doesn't shower?
I go to school that guarantees housing. However, my current roommate's inability to compromise and empathize has driven me out of my dorm that I am paying for, and instead, live with my very-understanding bf whose apartment is an hour away from school. However, the commute is nothing compared to having to live in the d...
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{ "description": "breaking things off with a guy that freaked me out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking things off with a guy that freaked me out?
So about six months ago I went on a few dates with a guy. At face value he seemed pretty normal and was easy to talk to. I met him on a dating app, and I started chatting with him. By our second conversation, he started asking how much sex I wanted, and told me details about his previous sex habits with prior girlfrien...
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{ "description": "not letting someone into building", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting someone into building?
Ok so kinda a boring post but this interaction really bothered me. Around 4am, I couldn’t sleep so I decided to get a coffee from Tim Hortons (Canadians amirite??) I’m a little out of it due to the little to no sleep I got in the past 2 days (a lot on my mind) and when I got out of the elevator I saw a guy just standin...
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{ "description": "not attending my grandparents' lunch event", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not attending my grandparents' lunch event
It is my grandmother's birthday and she wants to go to a restaurant for lunch. However, most of my family has something on and this kept making her messed up since everyone was saying they were not free at the time. I was kind of free, but I wanted to go eatch a live event and I also would be very busy (have to be down...
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AITA for gettin upset with my gf snap chatting her exes?
Me and this girl have been dating for a year and a half now, and I’ve expressed my concern with her messaging multiple of her exes. Not only do I feel like I have to compete but it’s scary thinking that any given moment she would leave me for someone she was screwing moths before our relationship. I don’t wanna come o...
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WIBTA for telljng my friend group about how my EX manipulated me?
So me, my Ex, and my friends are all exchange students in country X (it has no relevance) and most of the people in our group chat are American including me and my Ex. We have a few get togethers throughout the year that we're here so we can see each other. (We're all in different cities miles apart) After a few meet ...
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{ "description": "my breaking up with my ex, because of Instagram issues", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for my breaking up with my ex, because of Instagram issues?
Still a bit conflicted on this. Broke up with my ex GF about a week ago. Dated for about 6 months. Basically, we met, went on a few dates and things became serious quickly and we sat down and had the “ground rules” chat before we became official (no talking to exes, hitting on girls, etc). Which is totally fine wit...
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{ "description": "wanting to hang out with my coworkers", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to hang out with my coworkers?
I’m a 23 year old female software developer who moved to the Bay Area from Chicago about 8 months ago for a job at a startup. I’m currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years who still lives in the Chicago area. My company is around 30-40 people total and we only have 5 female employees. All...
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AITA for "bullyng" an girl?
Okay so this is more kinda an confession tbh. There's an girl at my school who is always so freaking annoying and very sensitive, she always wanted to bring the attention to herself and said stuff that would sound like something from r/facepalm so I kinda bothered her and did stuff that I wouldn't consider bullyng but ...
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{ "description": "loving my dad so much but I wish he didn't make me so uncomfortable", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I love my dad (61) so much but I wish he didn’t make me(16f) so uncomfortable
My father(61yo) and I(Im 16yo) were going to go somewhere. I had period cramps so I just simply said “I have cramps.” I just thought it would’ve been awkward and be like oh I understand, bye and then he would leave me alone. Instead, he had a weird smile (idk if it was creepy or mocking) on his face and said “you’re on...
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AITA: 34M hesitant to ask a girl out do it personal issues
Long story short. My wife of 13 years passed almost a year ago. It was looking like a devorce was on the way (from me and not related to health issues). I work with this girl (mid to last 20s), that I'm interested in great personality and some similar interests. but she has some health issues (bad back is all I know) ...
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{ "description": "ignoring reserved parking signs at super markets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for ignoring reserved parking signs at super markets?
So this one is pretty stupid I apologize. I work in food and bev distribution which means I visit several grocery stores daily. I began to get annoyed when I noticed they all seem to have reserved parking for just about everybody. Shop from home customers only, veterans only, expectant mothers only, mothers with small ...
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{ "description": "making a joke about this guy's kid", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for making a joke about this guy's kid?
I met the guy on tinder and we went out to a bar. While we were out, he tells me he has a son from unprotected sex with a woman he had a one night stand with when he was 18. Doesn't bother me at all, we hit it off and go back to my apartment. Things heated up and he wanted to put it in without a condom. I said "you al...
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{ "description": "giving my father the finger", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for giving my father the finger
My father was "knocking" on my window, he has done this in the past when he's been locked out and needs me to let him in. He had just stepped out of the door. He did it to intentionally startle me, which it did. He then walks around to the other window, which he could see me from, and bangs on that one too. I give him ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to game share with my older brother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to game share with my older brother
So here’s a bit of a background. Basically, about a year ago I (21) had just got pub g and I only had my brother and my cousin to play with. We really wanted a 4th player that wasn’t a random and we wanted with my older brother(25) because he lives with my mom in Texas and I moved to Maryland so we don’t see eachother ...
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{ "description": "being angry about an old friend coming to Xmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry about an old friend coming to Xmas
Bit of a long story. My mother has a positive humanist tendency to try to make Xmas good for as many people as possible, which has meant that she has often invited people we barely know over for Xmas lunch if they have been in need. The rest of the family totally gets it, it's a good thing to do, but it can lead to so...
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{ "description": "spitting cold tea back in the tea pot during breakfast", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for spitting cold tea back in the tea pot during breakfast?
So about a week ago my parents, my sister (21) and I (17M) were having breakfast. I went to pour myself a cup of tea. I didn’t realise at the time that the tea had been left sitting for at least an hour. So when I went in for a sip I was soon hit with the brutal fact that the tea had gone completely cold. In hindsight ...
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{ "description": "bailing on my friend's birthday event", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for bailing on my friend's birthday event?
One of my friend's requested our friend group to go to a sporting event or participate in a physical activity for their birthday this month. At that time, I had said that my S/O and I would join at the sporting event and not the physical activity. It gets closer to my friend's birthday, and they ask our friend group ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help pay for a hotel room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help pay for a hotel room?
Throw away account. My (27M) gf (28F) is the Maid of Honor for a wedding in February. Right now we live about 2.5 hours apart and the wedding location is closer to me than her. The drive for me would be about an hour. Some backstory: I have never met the bride, groom, or anyone involved in the wedding. The only perso...
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AITA Step Dad didn't acknowledge my son on his second birthday
To keep this story short here is a little back story. I've had a falling out with my mom 6 years ago and we haven't spoken much. This is due to actions on both sides. Over the past year we have been working on getting back in each others lives and have both stated we want to make things better and recognized that w...
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{ "description": "deliberately being cold towards my mentally disabled aunt", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for deliberately being cold towards my mentally disabled aunt
My aunt who is significantly older than me is mentally disabled since birth and not capable of living alone or performing many basic tasks. She is currently living with me and my parents which is a temporary situation that will probably continue for a month or two. To me she is a one-dimensional character. Within the...
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{ "description": "not responding to a Team Lead's chats", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not responding to a Team Lead's chats?
So I got some pretty bad social anxiety. I can't hold a conversation to save my life. So this usually leads to be leaving people on read a lot. So at my job we claim accounts from a queue, and if we cannot finish an account (Need help or waiting for a supervisor, etc.) We have to put the account on hold in order to cl...
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AITA
So it’s Valentines today and my girlfriend decides to prank me. I had bought her a huge stuffed bear, and didn’t expect anything. She however gave me a whole lie about how my best friend snitched on me and got me a 3 pg paper on child abuse. (Basically we’re doing that baby project, everyone does at one point, where ...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for never letting me know he made other plans", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out my friend for never letting me know he made other plans?
Background info: this person has consistently agreed to plans, the time passes, and he’s made other plans/cancels without letting me know as if he assumes I’m just aware of everything going on in his life. So my friend told me we should do stuff today during the week. I agreed and we said we go get smoothies before 3 ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my fuck buddy for messaging my best friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset with my fuck buddy for messaging my best friend?
About a year ago, my best friend (31f) and I (27f) were casually hanging out at a bar with a guy (43m) we had just met who happened to be a friend of a friend. We all ended up drinking too much and ended up back at his hotel room (his occupation involves a lot of traveling, and he comes through my area a few times a ye...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend for driving intoxicated", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry at my friend for driving intoxicated?
I know at first glance I am very obviously not the asshole, but the situation is a bit nuanced. My friend started texting me at about 1:45 in the morning, very obvious drunk texts. He said that he drove to the bar, and I told him to walk back instead of driving. I offered him a ride, but he wanted me to walk to the ba...
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{ "description": "not letting my parents search theough my phone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not letting my parents search theough my phone?
so the other night my parents got back the phone bill and got mad at me because my phone had been charged a fee because i was texting a friend who lives in a different country. i didnt know it would charge me to text someone far away (i know im stupid). they rightfully got mad we got into an argument but now they rando...
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{ "description": "threatening to leave my boyfriend if I ever got pregnant", "pronormative_score": 290, "contranormative_score": 75 }
AITA for threatening to leave my boyfriend if I ever got pregnant?
My boyfriend isn’t the best at respecting my boundaries when it comes to sex. The only birth control we use is condoms. I refuse to go on the pill for a number of reasons. He used to pressure me to let him have sex with me without protection because condoms don’t feel good despite me always telling him no. This was eve...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for talking on the phone in the library", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for talking on the phone in the library.
I have been dating her for 1.5 years. She’s a great person and all, but she is one of those girls who don’t seem to understand that libraries are for studying. She’ll regularly go to the library with several of her friends, take up a table, and treat it like the coffee shop. She’s been told off by people trying to stud...
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{ "description": "having a serious conversation with a friend about her and others hurtful behavior", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for having a serious conversation with a friend about her and others hurtful behavior?
Alrighty Reddit, long time lurker, first time poster, on mobile, formatting tips appreciated. People involved: Myself, about 6 months older than T. Female. T, my closest friend. Female. L, a good friend of T's who I do not like. 5 years older than me. Male W and S, T's two brothers. W is 4 months older than me, S almo...
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AITA for my (25F) boyfriend (26M) completely dropping the ball for valentine's day
I've been dating my boyfriend for only 3 and a half months. He gave me a really sweet and thoughtful Christmas present that overwhelmed me because we had been dating less than 2 months (and only actually met a few weeks before officially dating). So I was worried about Valentine's Day and that he would go all out again...
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{ "description": "ignoring and blocking my mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring and blocking my mother?
Ive always had a rocky relationship with my mom but i kind of faked liking her at all just because she buys affection. I havent told her i loved her or even hugged her in over a decade. Im 23 years old and engaged living independently. The last time i spoke to her was when she came to my house and brought her dog unin...
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{ "description": "not telling an ex-boyfriend who I'm with now", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling an ex-boyfriend who I’m with now?
So, I‘m from a small town in the heartland, the kind where everyone knows everyone else. I moved away after school, got married, then divorced, yadda yadda. This was well before the advent of social media, and I didn’t really keep up with everyone; howeve, many of us are connected now. (Thanks Zuckerberg!) A couple o...
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{ "description": "ghosting on a 15-year friendship", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for ghosting on a 15-year friendship?
WIBTA for deciding, after 15 years, that a friendship has run its course? I’ll try to keep this short. Throughout the life of my friendship with J, she’s had a charming habit of absolutely blowing up at me out of the blue every couple of years. The first time was two days before Christmas, about six years ago, when s...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my tv account passwords", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share my tv account passwords??
A friend of mine is always asking to use my Netflix, Cable, Audible passwords and I really want to say no so I usually just try not to respond to her messages when she asks me. I feel like it’s not like socially acceptable to say no lol. AITA for not wanting to share them though?? And if not how can I *nicely* get her ...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend for 'disrespecting' a family tradition", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for ‘disrespecting’ a family tradition?
Hey guys, So I’ve just immigrated to another country from the UK with my long term boyfriend, and I’ve really been struggling to adjust and I’ve been feeling quite down. Something that brought me comfort today, was talking about an English tradition we have on Shrove Tuesday called “pancake day” - which is pretty se...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to art school despite my family's financial situation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go to art school despite my family's financial situation?
It's been my dream to be a professional illustrator all my life. I've drawn ever since I was a kid and my family has been very supportive up until now. However, recently my mom lost her job, and she was a big breadwinner in my family. We have significantly less money now. I'm a junior in high school and this has really...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate he needs to go", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my roommate he needs to go?
Last fall, we (myself and fiancee) offered up our basement room (with its own private full bathroom) to a friend in desperate need of a place to stay. He doesn't make a lot and also has a dog, which made finding an affordable place difficult. I felt bad and let him stay with us which was a move that I now think I made ...
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{ "description": "moving out of home", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving out of home?
Throwaway account cause I don't want this getting linked back to me irl. I'm 18, and as the title suggests, am in the process of moving out of my house. To make a long story short, I'm doing this because my parents have, since I started school, put an immense amount of pressure on me, which has resulted in some fucked...
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{ "description": "letting my girlfriend choose whether she's going to watch the Endgame with me or with her friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for letting my(M21) girlfriend(F23) choose whether she's going to watch the Endgame with me or with her friends?
So, my girlfriend and her life long friends agreed to watch the Avengers: Endgame a year ago together. Now flash forward to November last year. We got together already and I met her friends also. Her friends were nice, they're cool to get along with. Now flash forward to today, it turned out that the Premiere night of...
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{ "description": "being upset when my school allowed students and teachers around toxic gas", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset when my school allowed students and teachers around toxic gas?
Sorry about any errors im on mobile and this is my first post here So a little backstory. I was in my science classs when some kid whipped out a crushed iphone. A few people (including myself) would check it out when the teacher wasnt looking. The battery was already messed up, like bent and whatnot so inevitably...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that I'm not her personal therapist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend that I'm not her personal therapist?
So this happened just an hour ago. My (m) female friend is super toxic. We met a year ago and used to talk a lot during the beginning but over the months we talk maybe once a month or something. I don't consider her a close friend, she's between an acquantince and a friend. I just see her on the regular cause we have c...
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{ "description": "telling their friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling Their Friends?
This has been bugging me for awhile and after lurking Reddit, I decided to finally get this off my chest. I'm in a relationship when this happens. There's a small character cast: Me: A trans-demi male artist. Rose: My best friend of 12 or so years. Steve Mc'Tits: You'll understand why. I'm a member of (Insert writing...
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{ "description": "thinking about leaving my wife because she is adopting her nieces and nephew", "pronormative_score": 646, "contranormative_score": 120 }
AITA for thinking about leaving my wife because she is adopting her nieces and nephew?
Obvious throwaway because I have friends who know my personal account. ​ So I've known my wife for 9 years, we dated for 5, and we've been married for just under 6 months. She comes from an insanely toxic family, she was emancipated at 16 and to this day refuses to speak to any of her family. They are all...
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{ "description": "getting into a fight with my gf about sticky fingers", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting into a fight with my GF about sticky fingers?
Recently I found out my GF has throughout the past stolen small value items in large name brand stores. When I found out about it I was not okay and said it changed how I thought about her. she got very mad saying it has only been items of incredibly low value from corporations sporadically. I said that the principal o...
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{ "description": "upsetting my gf by hanging out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for upsetting my gf by hanging out with my friends?
So this actually happened today. Last week I( m21) told my gf (22) I was gonna spend the friday with my bois, and that we were going to have a lan party. She really doesn't like me gaming or having a lan party, but I guess that is because she doesn't like gaming overall. So everything was fine and all that, the lan par...
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{ "description": "not giving a women my seat on the tram", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving a women my seat on the tram
So basically I woke up late for tafe. I suffer thalasima major and I just get so tired. There was only once seat left on the tram and I always stand cause I hate disturbing people this time I decided to sit next to someone. The next stop a women gets on my tram and sais “excuse me can I sit down you’re a male and so y...
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{ "description": "not caring about a local issue my government class voted on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not caring about a local issue my government class voted on?
So to give some background, I'm a senior in high school. I have a government class and my teacher got some new curriculum called Generation Citizen. The whole point of it is to have students vote to work on a local issue and then work towards talking to local politicians and people in power to make some sort of change ...
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{ "description": "wanting new friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting new friends?
Okay so short story I'm 20 now I've been friends with this group of friends since I was 13, they've been there through ups and downs, we've had our own ups and downs, I've been a lending hand for them as they had for me when we're down. Overall this is a group of brothers and I wouldn't call it anything else. Even peop...
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