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AITA : My Wife Won't Quit Drinking My Tea.
To start, my wife stays home because of medical issues, because of this she typically does dishes, laundry, and cooking, this including making tea. I do not drink soda or alcohol, pretty much exclusively homemade tea and water. When I have a cup of tea, she more often than not, takes my cup and drinks it. I'm tal...
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{ "description": "thinking my mom doesn't deserve the majority of my dad's inheritance", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my mom doesn't deserve the majority of my dad's inheritance?
My mom and dad were married for 20 years before my mom decided she wanted a divorce. I could tell for most of my life that my parents didn't get along, but in my 20's they seemed to be fighting more frequently. I believe my mom was emotionally cheating on my dad and asked for a divorce. Their divorce was not pretty, ...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed when my so calls to vent about work", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting annoyed when my so calls to vent about work
So everyday my boyfriend calls to vent about the stress of his job. He does have a stressful job and is in school full time so I understand. But at the same time he calls everyday and just goes off about every detail about what this person said, what this person is asking him to do. He just called and in the middle of ...
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{ "description": "leaving class early", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for leaving class early?
Today in school, i was in cooking, and our lessons are an hour, for 45 minutes the teacher didn't let me get water, then made us do the dishes during our break, people stayed in 10 minutes, i stayed in 5, doing dishes, then decided any trouble i would get in for leaving to get water would be worth it, Am i the ass hole...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mom for tipping $1k on an $18k bingo win", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA For being mad at my Mom for tipping $1k on an $18k bingo win
Mom is a bingo regular with her husband, they both have an ebay business that pays the bills and allows them a modest entertainment fund. They regularly play bingo (2-3x week) at a couple different places in Vegas. ​ Tonight she hit big, $18k. She immediately called, we were both thrilled, then she reveal...
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{ "description": "laughing at someone's umbrella getting flipped", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing at someone's umbrella getting flipped?
Yeah it's extremely mild, I just want your opinion. Light rain, strong wind, and this couple's umbrella gets flipped. I couldn't stop laughing to myself for like 10 minutes I didn't have an umbrella but that didn't factor into it. I just find the mild suffering of people hilarious. Does that make me an asshole?
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{ "description": "holding onto resentment toward my ex wife", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding onto resentment toward my ex wife?
This is a long one, so be prepared. A bit of background..... My wife and I got married pretty young. We both belonged to a very conservative religion where that was normal. But sexual repression was also a part of the religion, and thus we were both pretty in the dark as to what our sexual needs were/ had some seriou...
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{ "description": "not letting my younger brother get in the shower first", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my younger brother get in the shower first?
My brother (7) and I share a bathroom, meaning one of us showers first, and another one goes to another shower. I already had all of my toiletries in my bathroom (shampoo, soap, etc.) and didn’t feel like moving. In order to determine who gets to go first, we have to call it. I would always respect if he called it fi...
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{ "description": "shorting a tip because the service staff assumed I was someone's mother", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for shorting a tip because the service staff assumed I was someone's mother?
Long story short, my husband and I are in our early 30s. Date night, and looking good, or so I thought. We went out for hibachi and we're sat with a random early 20s couple. The chef assumed I was the mother of the 21 yo, and kept calling me "mama " and excluding me from free shots and catching food thrown off the spa...
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{ "description": "telling my family I'm gay around Christmas", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my family I'm gay around Christmas?
Hey guys! First of all; sorry for posting two AITA in a row, but I just found this subreddit and I do have a few moments of "did I go step to far?" ​ ANYWAY! For a short intro: My family is religious. Very religious! Like table prayers every dinner and church 3 times a week kind of religious. Being Ga...
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{ "description": "refusing to let people pay for my meals", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to let people pay for my meals
I apologize if this is a boring post. I haven't exactly 'lost' friendships or gotten into arguements with people over this issue but it feels like I'm forcing them (and myself) into an awkward situation. There is a old guy at work that's really nice. We have been chatting a bit and it feels nice to have him as a frien...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with the last person that saw my sister alive", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with the last person that saw my sister alive?
Throwaway account for privacy reasons. My little sister committed suicide a year ago. It's been hard and has caused a lot of emotional tension within my family, but we are slowly working through it with therapy and family/grief counseling. My mother and I went to visit my sister's grave yesterday, but we had a last mi...
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{ "description": "fidgeting with something while talking to my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for fidgeting with something while talking to my boyfriend?
Sex is actually reversed. My girlfriend and I were having a conversation, during which I was standing and reached over to grab my earphones. I started swinging them around while she was explaining something, but I was listening and looking at her while doing so. She got mad, told me I wasn’t paying attention to her, an...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend for teasing me in a mean way on a bad day", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend for teasing me in a mean way on a bad day
For context, this was a really bad day. I had just started that time of the month (I am a girl) during an in-class essay first period. I'm talking really bad cramps, some of the worst I had ever felt. During second period I was talking to the friend I eventually got mad at about the pain since we sit next to each ot...
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{ "description": "wanting a seizure dog and the ability to drive", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting a seizure dog and the ability to drive?
I had my license taken away due to seizures a few years ago, with the help of good meds I've been able to get the seizures down to 12-15/month. These are all around my cycle (known as catamenial epilepsy) and a simple progesterone IUD \*should\* end most if not all my seizures. Hopefully. Maybe. After my body adjus...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend I don't want to pick her up", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend I don’t want to pick her up
So it’s Friday night, I have plans to go over to a friends house, I get ready to set off and I get a call from my girlfriend saying her train is delayed 2 hours and she needs picking up. Ok no problem the train station is about 45 minutes away it’s a 1hr 30 min round trip to collect her and take her home, and then ano...
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{ "description": "disliking the autistic kid at my school", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For disliking the autistic kid at my school
First and probably only post so shit formatting Heres some background There is this one autistic kid who also has anger management issues. here is the problem his a racist and very rude person who gets all the special treatment. once he said to my face that only chinks go to tutoring when me and my friend were tal...
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{ "description": "not getting along with my Step-Mother", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting along with my Step-Mother
I’ve known my step mother (referred to as SM) for 4 years. In that time my reputation of her has gone from indifferent to a perpetual disliking and avoidance. Whenever my dad got remarried to my now SM I tried to be friendly, making casual remarks I thought were funny, playing off mistakes I made as being a goof, and l...
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{ "description": "being upset by an April Fool's joke", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset by an April Fool’s joke?
Mobile post, formatting, blah blah blah. Backstory: I’m currently student teaching high school English and have had issues with my mentor teacher all semester. She sits in the back of the class and texts or distracts kids whenever I try to teach, which undermines me and makes me look like the bad guy when I attempt to...
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{ "description": "going against my parents wishes to go to study medicine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going against my parents wishes to go to study medicine?
So I’m 15 and I have five older sisters, all of which are adults now and have attended the same high school (I’ll call it HS A) that is across the street from us. HS A doesn’t have the best reputation, but has clearly gotten better over recent years. I have always expected to attend HS A, but last minute my parents dec...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for stealing tips when we go out to eat", "pronormative_score": 283, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA if I break up with my girlfriend for stealing tips when we go out to eat?
my girlfriend and I have been dating now for about 1 month. Things have gotten very serious very quickly, and I have met her parents who I get along with very well. We have spent a lot of time together and she has pretty much moved into my place now. We also recently went on vacation together. I give this contact so th...
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{ "description": "not texting a Girl that told me to leave her alone", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not Texting a Girl that told me to leave her alone?
**Long story short, a girl(Whom i have been flirting with recently but am not super like close to) and i had this exchange** Her(to snapchat story): "Leave me alone, no one text me" Me: "Hey you okay? Whats wrong?" (Obligatory Are you okay?) ​ Her: "Leave me alone I don't wanna talk to anyone" &...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend when he cancels/pushes our plans back to accommodate his friends who are late for their plans", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend when he cancels/pushes our plans back to accommodate his friends who are late for their plans?
So my bf and I were supposed to hang out after I worked today. Told him I was leaving work and that I’ll be home soon and then I’ll just have to shower and put some makeup on. Him and his friend had plans to hang out while I was at work, but for some reason his friend didn’t show up until now and now my bf pushed the p...
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{ "description": "asking someone to the ball then saying I wouldn't want to go with them", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking someone to the ball then saying I wouldn't want to go with them?
Hey everyone, Anyway, so I began talking to this girl who was new this year, and she seemed really nice and chill, all in all someone I thought I'd vibe with. Long story short, we began flirting and I asked her to the ball. We were beginning to get to that "more than friends" when I realised that she's very clingy, no...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go my Dad's Christmas", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: For not wanting to go my Dad's Christmas
I begin my tale with the death of my mother. She passed away in June 2018 from a very long battle with MS and other complications. She had been sick for over 10 years and handicap for most of that time. During that time my father took care of her all the way to the end. They would have been married 40 years at the e...
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{ "description": "holding a grudge against my in-laws for not giving a wedding gift", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for holding a grudge against my in-laws for not giving a wedding gift?
I've been struggling with this for awhile and I think I am the asshole, but here goes: My partner has been married before, and previously they were given wedding gifts from their family (parents and siblings) during this first marriage. My partner is one of 4 children and I have no siblings. We had a small wedding, a...
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{ "description": "being honest with a girls bf", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For being honest with a girls bf?
Sorry about the length but I feel like this needs a large amount of context to understand the actions taken at the end. So this happened a while ago (just under a year) and still bothers me to this day because I feel like it m the asshole but I’m not totally sure. Anyways: I (M18) was friends with a girl (F17, We’ll...
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{ "description": "not wanting to apologize and ruining a friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to apologize and ruining a friendship?
There are 4 characters involved. Adam, Sarah, Karen. It's my senior year of college and I'm elected President of my college club. I get pretty close with all of my board members, Adam, Sarah, and Karen. I end up getting vibes from Karen that she likes me. I don't like her back so I maintained a professional relati...
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{ "description": "ditching my boyfriend after his friend hugged him", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For ditching my boyfriend after his friend hugged him
I went out the to college bar part of town with my boyfriend. He has a really bad history of getting drunk and yelling at me, but I was determined to have a good time. After the second bar, where we got kicked out because his friend was too drunk, we were trying to figure out what to do next. We were on the street in...
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{ "description": "being best friends with my ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being best friends with my ex?
This is a crazy long post but I feel like you need the whole picture. TLDR at the bottom. Seven years ago, I met a guy in my college dorm and we quickly became best friends. Toward the end of the year, we started fooling around. I wanted a relationship but he didn’t. Fast forward about 6 months (and a summer apart), a...
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{ "description": "taking a \"sick\" day off work tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking a "sick" day off work tomorrow?
Started the job almost 2 years ago and I really like everyone there. In that time I did take about 4 sick days, one being due to a car accident and another due to them scheduling me on a day I had booked off. I'm in university and as of late I've been quite stressed with exam prep and we are currently in the hiring s...
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{ "description": "leaving dinner with my gf and her parents", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for leaving dinner with my gf and her parents?
I never had the best relationship with the parents of my gf. They are a bit overprotective of her daughter and never attempted to get to know me better. Even my girlfriend admitted, that she is sick of their behavior, so we stopped trying to get better with them. Yesterday I was about to leave with a few of my friends...
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{ "description": "continuing a relationship I know won't last", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for continuing a relationship I know won't last
Me and my girlfriend a both 19 so keep that in mind. I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now and I love her a lot and think she's great. We work really well together and compliment each others personalities really nicely. I enjoy spending time with her and absolutely love dating her. In saying that, we both h...
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{ "description": "calling the fuzz on my noisy neighbour", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the fuzz on my noisy neighbour?
I’m getting old. Making regular plans for 6am on Sunday mornings, going to bed at 10 every night, taking care of my parent old. My wife and I live in apartment. After an exciting night of Mario Party on the Wii we went to bed... only to be woken up at midnight to loud bass EDM from one of the neighbours. This hasn’t...
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{ "description": "just going for world travel (undefined timeline) and stopping taking care of all the admin/financial aspects of my mom", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I just go for world travel (undefined timeline) and stop taking care of all the admin/financial aspects of my mom?
I have been supporting my mom both financially and with admin work ever since my dad passed away, I was 20 by then. 30 now. I lived at home for quiet some time due to that fact. However, I have two older sisters, they both have kids and thus higher expenses in general. But I feel like its not my responsibility to make...
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{ "description": "not giving up my seat to an average person", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up my seat to an average person?
Me and my family decided to take a trip to NYC, I hadonly been once previously when I was very young so I was excited. Everything went well until we got on a subway. I was sitting down, while flipping through my phone. Suddenly a lady approaches me and she begins to stare at me. At this point I didnt know what to d...
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{ "description": "rejecting a guy bluntly instead of saying \"sorry, I have a boyfriend.\"", "pronormative_score": 203, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for rejecting a guy bluntly instead of saying “sorry, I have a boyfriend.”
Hi there! I’m a 21 yr old female who works a part time student job at my school. Basically, while I was working, a man who I had previously helped about 5 minutes prior came back up to me and said “You’re really cute, can I take you out/have your #”. I simply said “no, I’m sorry, im working.” He then said “oh you must ...
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{ "description": "trying to apologize to someone who might not want to hear it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA for trying to apologize to someone who might not want to hear it?
So my ex and I haven’t talked since ~late summer 2017. I basically acted like a clingy baby after the break up and have felt terrible about how I acted for a long time now. I sent them a text the other day saying sorry etc. It was to-the-point and I wasn’t trying to justify myself or anything, just say sorry. But, I’m ...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting to wait to get married until my grandma passes away", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to wait to get married until my grandma passes away?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. My brother got married recently and he had to deal with my grandma having concerns about his marriage. Mainly the fact that my new sister-in-law isn't particularly religious. My grandma is a devout Catholic and most of my family is as well. She was hounding my brother about how are the c...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "ending friendships over money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ending friendships over money?
Friend 1 and I were out shopping for tools for work and since he’d forgotten his card, I paid for $40 worth. “I’ll get you cash back at the house bro”. No problem, but months later he’d still been forgetting to pay me back. When I confronted him, he told me that he felt like “all the times he’d fed me” (he ordered pizz...
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{ "description": "masturbating to my ex's nudes", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for masturbating to my ex's nudes?
Basically the title. I broke up with my ex a little over 6 months ago and I masturbate to the nudes. My friend called me creepy but I think it's weird maximum.
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "asking for my jacket back after 2 months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking for my jacket back after 2 months
Weird i know but i left my ex 2 months ago bc she was cheating on me, i texted her nicely and asked for my jacket back and she texted back immediately "my bf and i are fucking on it" and i replied "well i want it back, ill wash it i think it would be best if you have nothing of mine" and she proceeded to get more aggre...
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{ "description": "telling my sister to shut up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for telling my sister to shut up?
My little sister (11y/o) is annoying. She always interrupts people in all kinds of converstations, only to give her irrelevant opinion on the topic. Not only that but she talks so much that sometimes i am getting headaches just from listening to her voice for hours everyday. I hate eating dinner with my family or watch...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my girlfriend's credit card back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting to give my girlfriend's credit card back?
My (F26) girlfriend and I (M26) live together and have for two years. Been dating for about three. We both are do okay and have extra money after expenses each month. I am better with money than she and by such I usually run the books for the household. We each have separate bank accounts but I write the budget. Yeste...
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{ "description": "going to a different discord server today", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? For going to a different discord server today?
My friend invited me to this new discord server. I joined so I wasn't really online this other one as much as I usually am. ONLY FOR TODAY. My girlfriend says she's sick so I immediately start suggesting stuff to help and so on. She explodes at me for not being on the server as much as I usually am. SHE ISNT EVEN ON TH...
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{ "description": "telling the school", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling the school?
Hi! Sorry about dumb title, long story ahead. I was in my last year of middle school. While hanging out w/ 2 of my friends (we’ll call them A and B) on the weekend, they opened up to me about how another friend (C) had exposed himself to them and had also been touching/groping B inappropriately and without her consent....
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{ "description": "being upset about how I am being treated at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset about how I am being treated at work?
I work for a medical supply company that does oxygen concentrator checks at a customers home every six months. I have been working there for 2 years and when I was given the task to do the check ups, shortly after I started I was told by my immediate supervisor that we have a log book that tracks what supplies the cust...
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{ "description": "not always washing before making love", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA I dont always wash before making love
Hello. I am a 22 F dating a 30 F. Am I the asshole because sometimes i am to damn lazy to shower before we go to bed and still expect her to go down on me? I dont think I smell that bad!
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{ "description": "saying my mate is an 'angry, little shit'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying my mate is an 'angry, little shit'?
This happened today, my mate and I were on the bus on the way home after we had lunch together, and we were joking about and saw a couple of small terriers being walked. Growing up I had a Norfolk terrier, and I would love to be able to get one as an adult, and she said I should get a Pomeranian. I said no, they were ...
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{ "description": "moving out when my parents needed me to financially help", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for moving out when my parents needed me to financially help?
I graduated from college about a year ago and got a nice job in my hometown in my field. My parents said that I could move in with them and save up money. About a month into living back at home my father was in a car accident that made his already existing spinal issues worse. He does physical labor and could not do ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "avoiding a mentally challenged coworker and kinda disliking him", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding a mentally challenged coworker and kinda disliking him?
I do not dislike him because he is mentally challenged. I dislike him and avoid him because he either shits himself or doesn’t wipe at all after he uses the bathroom, it’s a very strong rancid smell that lingers everywhere he goes. I have told both my bosses about it and they haven’t done anything. I’m not saying he sh...
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{ "description": "not liking my family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not liking my family
As a bit of background information, my family is divorced and I am living (90%) of the time with my sister and my mom. I love them, but I feel as if I don't get along with them or agree in their morals or ways of thinking. My mom has a good heart, but she has caused me so much trouble in life when it comes to relations...
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{ "description": "doing this thing", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If i do this thing
My ex and I have the same birthday We got together about this time last year, and during our whole relationship she was actively manipulating me and verbally degrading me, while using me as an ATM We met when we were 15, I'm 22 now. We dated 3 separate times in HS, and admittedly I was an idiot for going back to he...
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{ "description": "agreeing with my girlfriend's cousin and not her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for agreeing with my girlfriend’s cousin and not her?
So just about an hour or two ago, my girlfriend went home and had dinner at her place. Being so tired from school and also our date, she what I assume jokingly asked her mom to prepare dinner plates for her and serve her food or what not. Her cousin (who lives with them) shouted to her mom something about her not being...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not telling my buddy that I used to bang his new girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 12 }
WIBTA if I didn't tell my buddy that I used to bang his new girlfriend?
So a very good friend of mine finally started dating a girl after his very messy ugly divorce. And as it so happens she is an old booty call of mine from like 2 years ago. Things between me and her were nothing other than physical. I actually ended things with her because I fell for another girl that I am now currentl...
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{ "description": "wanting to go home because I'm sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go home because I'm sick?
Backstory: I'm currently in my early teens. I became sick around 2 days ago, and I became slightly better but still sick. I now only have an extremely dry throat. (Sorry for any grammar errors) --- Earlier today went shopping with my mom for new bedsheets. While shopping I finished both of my water bottles, so breath...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "saying that middle eastern people should not be on a game's Europe servers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for saying that Middle Eastern people should not be on a game’s Europe servers?
Basically there is no Middle Eastern server so they are forced to play on Europe. I made a post to the games subreddit asking for Middle Eastern servers as they have a massive advantage over other people due to ping. A mod then banned me for being racist. The make or break sentence I used was “they play like absolute s...
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{ "AUTHOR": 5, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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arlwlx
{ "description": "being upset that my girlfriend lead me on to believe she's broke when she's really making six figures", "pronormative_score": 66, "contranormative_score": 85 }
AITA for being upset that my girlfriend lead me on to believe she's broke when she's really making six figures?
A bit of background here.. we’re both in our mid 20’s and we’ve been together for nearly four years, lived together for the past three. In the beginning of our relationship, I’ve been working a stable, average office job for the past several years, while my gf was working random jobs to get by. She wanted to get into g...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "embezzling from students", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: Embezzling from students
Every year, the upperclassmen at my high school participate in a huge Assassins tournament. It's a great school tradition and I had great fun doing it. Students compete in teams of three, and each team submits a $15 registration fee. With at least 100 groups, that adds up to about $1,500 in the hands of one Senior, wi...
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{ "description": "having Slight Road rage while driving to work during a snowstorm", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Having Slight Road Rage While Driving To Work During A Snowstorm?
I live in Wisconsin and we have a Winter Storm Warning going on currently where we are expected to receive 7-13 inches. The heaviest snow was supposed to fall last night and into this morning which made the roads pretty bad. I was expecting all this going into my drive this morning, so before I begin to complain, I wil...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship feels me drowning for years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship feels me drowning for years
Background: Earlier, in the highscool 1st grade, i make a friend group which i enjoy to be together for a long time. we were playing LoL, cs go and stuff like that. it was pretty much thing for me those times. around the middle of 2nd grade, i felt like i've done nothing but playing games, sitting in class all day, tal...
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{ "description": "not buying into my GF's preferred pronouns", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for not buying into my GF's preferred pronouns
So my gf and I have been together for about 5 years now. They're super into LGBTQ+ culture to the point of "YAAAAAAS QUEEN SLAY" on just about anything that hints queer empowerment. Recently they've confirmed to the world that they prefer "they/them" pronouns and I'm just not into it. The reason being that everything t...
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{ "description": "being mad at my ex boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being mad at my ex boyfriend?
For reference: I and my ex are both in high school. My ex boyfriend messaged me yesterday saying we should return to being friends after 8 months of dating, and I was okay with that because our relationship had been failing for a few months. When I woke up this morning I found two long texts from his (my ex's) grandmo...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "calling it quits with a guy if he doesn't meet me for lunch today", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I call it quits with a guy if he doesn’t meet me for lunch today?
So I’ve been talking to this guy for about two months now. I have some trust issues, so to cope I start building trust with some smaller stuff. And since texting is a little hard to read subtexts with, I much prefer phone calls. Usually guys either say they aren’t into those, which is fine and I don’t push it. Or they ...
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{ "description": "hating our hotel room", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hating our hotel room?
A throw away cause of course, but AITA for hating the hotel room we are staying at (and currently in) for the last night of our 10th anniversary trip even though I said don't cheap out? So it's the last night and the plan was to stay close to the airport so it's easy to hit our morning flight. But this place sucks......
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "asking my company to remove my regular customer", "pronormative_score": 54, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my company to remove my regular customer?
Hello everyone! Sorry for my English, I’m not a native speaker. I’m not sure if this fits this sub, but I couldn’t think of any better ones so here we go! I am a home cleaner. After every gig, I can go to my work profile to see my ratings. I have lots of regular customers, for example one customer wants a cleanin...
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{ "description": "asking my friend's widow for his writing materials", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for asking my friend's widow for his writing materials.
So my friend and I were both writers (nothing professional or anything). And he very suddenly passed away in his sleep. After processing what happened, I got this itch to get what material he had written for this fantasy novel he was working on and finish it for him in his memory. However, I want to give his wife (who ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting to go out-of-state for college", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to go out-of-state for college?
I just moved to "X" state a few months ago. I'm currently in my senior year and I've had my mind set on a college in "Y" state. I lived in "Y" state for about 4 years and it's where everything I love is. My parents want me to live with them these next 4 years and go to a community college 30 mins away. However, A) I'm ...
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{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to support her campaign", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to support her campaign?
An old friend contacted me a few months ago and told me she is running for local public office. This is someone who I met through dance class about 6-7 years ago, and at the time we would hang out in the same social group, but we were really more on an acquaintance level. We haven’t spoken in years, and we’re Facebook ...
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{ "RIGHT": 12, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "ordering alcohol at a family lunch", "pronormative_score": 37, "contranormative_score": 17 }
WIBTA if I ordered alcohol at a family lunch?
Throwaway account. Can't be too careful. My Husband and I are in our hometown visiting family and one of our favorite ways to see everyone is by going out to eat. Its just so much easier for everyone involved. We have plans to meet my Husbands side of the family tomorrow for lunch. My SIL and her Husband have chosen...
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{ "RIGHT": 37, "WRONG": 17 }
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend tell me what to wear", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend tell me what to wear?
This is a long-standing debate that I’ve (20 F) had with my boyfriend (20 M). Basically, I really like the look of little gold necklaces and was online shopping for a few. I found one I liked that happened to have a little gold cross. As soon as my boyfriend saw what I was looking at, he said something along the lines ...
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{ "description": "calling my spanish teacher rude and obnoxious", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For calling my Spanish teacher rude and obnoxious
I’m currently in high school even though I dislike it I still try to be in the best mood and nice to people. For the past 2 months I feel as if my Spanish teacher secretly hates me and has showed the class for the past month or two. For example I had my papers out and she ether takes them away or announces obnoxiously ...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate no one cares about anyone and that she needs to go outside more", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my roommate no one cares about anyone and that she needs to go outside more?
Okay... So I (22m) have this random roommate (20f) who is a little socially awkward. She is extremely nice, but was home schooled her entire life so there are certain things about social dynamics that just go entirely over her head. A lot of times, I think these misunderstandings cause her to get taken advantage of esp...
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AITA - Mom kicks me out for "not sharing food"
Background: moved out for 2 years and moved back cause college is close. Winter semester rolls around and we're ok for the most part but she seemingly gets more pissy. Part because she'd lost her job because of a bs reason. I tried helping her with job ideas. I suggested a call job, they pay around 11$ an hour, she wa...
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AITA for telling my friend to fuck off after saying that I'm a guy that couldn't let shit go because I'm seeing a therapist.
So this guy has been my friend since elementary school, we lost contact and reconnected in high school, have been friends since then. Fast forward to Anime Milwaukee where I was part of an 18+ panel, we had TWO people overhear him saying "cosplay is consent." He gets banned from the group we're all part of and bitche...
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{ "description": "ghosting my former friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for ghosting my former friend
In college I had a friend named "Jane". I miss her, but I stopped talking to her because of two incidents. ​ The 1st one was dealing with her long time crush, "Stan". She had already told to him that she liked him. He never responded to her so she moved on and still was friends with him. Good for her, righ...
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{ "description": "getting haircut", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting haircut?
I have been at my job for about 6 months now and have never been late or taken any sick days. Last week I started feeling lousy near the end of the day. About 10 minutes before the day was over I said to my boss “Hey I’m not feeling well and have like 30 minutes of overtime. Mind if I head out a bit early?”. Now just a...
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{ "description": "not being able to change plans to meet a friend who was willing to drive 100's of miles to see me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to change plans to meet a friend who was willing to drive 100's of miles to see me?
First, she is more of a lady I used to hook up with then a friend. She is someone I met on a holiday resort and she lives a few hours away from me, so it was never anything serious. It ended badly but we recently got back in contact and agreed to put water under the bridge and try and be friends. She had a bit of a ner...
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{ "description": "getting pissed off for my boyfriend calling me by his ex's name on accident", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting pissed off for my (F18) boyfriend (M19) calling me by his ex’s name on accident
Today my boyfriend (let’s call him Joe) of four months said “I just want to have some Joe and Shannon (ex’s not real name bc don’t wanna expose or anything) time!!”. Immediately I got upset and he apologized and said he meant to say my name. They broke up like 8 months ago and supposedly haven’t been talking. I was up...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my gf's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my gf's birthday party
I got into a heated argument with my gf over her birthday party , she planned her party at her friend's house out of town with all her bestfriends and she wanted me to go. I told her that I was too uncomfortable around her friends because they are not part of my social circle and that I would basically be alone. ( I ...
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{ "description": "cutting of my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting of my friend
This happened way back in 2017 and I have not seen him since. But I wanted to ask this anyway So around 9th Grade (Canadian guy) in the fall of 2016 I met this guy, who we’ll call M. Now at first, he seemed like a really cool guy and we immediately became friends. And we hung out a lot. However, around the beginning ...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend take our son too far away from me to his parents or other places", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend take our son too far away from me to his parents or other places
Hello everyone, I would like your opinion on this matter as I am at my wits end lately. My bf (m32) and me (f30) have a son (19m) together. It has always been a rocky relationship and our son was not planned but very much welcomed by me and the bf didn't want him, had abortion in mind but when he realized I was keepi...
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{ "description": "breaking up my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for breaking up my friends?
So for some back story, I’m gonna try to make this as less confusing as possible. I have a group of 3 friends and we all work together and live in the same area: Let’s call them: Chris Lisa John Chris and Lisa are my best mates in the city I live in, but they aren’t close with each other. Chris and John are goo...
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{ "description": "telling my nephew he's not my favourite", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my nephew he's not my favourite?
Asian-Australian household. We're about to have dinner and the only ones seated at the table are nephew and his mother. Nephew must **ALWAYS** sit next to grandpa at dinner or he will have the biggest whinge and throw a hissy fit. To have a bit of fun I decide to sit down next to nephew. He immediately begins bawling...
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{ "description": "charging people for notes", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for charging people for notes?
In my English class, we have only a select few people who actually take notes during class. We were told to watch a movie and take notes on it as we had a test on said movie. During the movie, no one except a select few bothered to even watch the movie and decided to go on their phones and play iMessage games. Toward t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to donate", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to donate?
I have worked at a very small company (3 locations, less than 30 people total) for about 1.75 years. It is owned by 3 partners; 1 of them is in a General Manager role, 1 in an Occaisional Pain in the Ass role, and 1 that never really comes around. Recently our bookkeeper went around to collect donations for the General...
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{ "description": "not instantly stopping being upset after my wife says terrible things", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA If I can't instantly stop being upset after my wife says terrible things?
Maybe a couple of times a year my wife will say something really hurtful and it will upset me. Then she'll realize that what she said was mean and apologize but I can't just be like "Oh, you apologize, cool. All better now!" Then she blames me for making her feel bad by being upset. The latest example just happened. T...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to finally take my sister-in-law off of our phone plan", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my wife to finally take my sister-in-law off of our phone plan?
My (25M) sister-in-law (18F) has been on my wife's (24F) phone plan for years now. I have a separate plan, mostly just because we came into our marriage with separate plans and never changed that. That said, we've always shared our finances, since before we were married, so for all intents and purposes, our plans may a...
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{ "description": "feeling my mum was insensitive", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling my mum was insensitive?
Try to keep it short. My mum is normally a really love, kind and caring person but as she is hitting menopause is getting a bit funny. Have I been too sensitive in this situation and acted like an asshole? If my brother sees this he will know its from me so hi! Im currently having a miscarriage. I was at my parents...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend that I'll break up with him if he doesn't get rid of the dildo he got from one of his Instagram followers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend that I'll break up with him if he doesn't get rid of the dildo he got from one of his Instagram followers?
My boyfriend like the title says got a gift from one of his Instagram followers. He often gets gifts from them. Drawings, other art and random things. He posts a lot on Instagram like gayinsta "influencer" type of thing. I don't judge him for it but it's not my thing and dms he gets can it weird and sexual. We have had...
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{ "description": "telling a person a pretty bad secret about my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a person a pretty bad secret about my friend.
My friend was bothering me a lot today, or a lot in the past week. He kept on bothering and throwing me so I got pretty ticked off. He's an 8th grader and thinks an 11-year sixth grader is really hot. I told her brother who's in our grade that my friend thinks that. He was upset but not too upset at him, so after he pu...
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{ "description": "wanting space and time away from friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting space and time away from friend?
I have a friend. We were once very close, but the past 8 months or so we’ve been butting heads and fighting. About a month ago I told him I don’t think we should be friends. This bothered him. He agreed to work harder on our friendship. So far so good. I am still upset and just tired of everything. I noticed myself get...
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{ "description": "honking at someone blocking an entrance way", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for honking at someone blocking an entrance way?
It was one business in its own parking lot, the lot was full but easy enough to maneuver around in. I am trying to turn into the business, lady pulls up and blocks the entrance and exit by stopping parallel to it and lets someone out very slowly. After about 10 seconds I let out a light honk and give the "what the fuck...
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{ "description": "rejecting my friend twice and then bailing them during a mental health crisis", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting my friend twice and then bailing them during a mental health crisis?
When I was in highschool I was best friends with this guy. We got on so effortlessly well, had the same sense of humour and just felt so comfortable in each others company. We were both kind of awkward teenagers and so we found solace in each other. He was my first major crush and I got the impression that he liked me ...
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{ "description": "not letting my husband use our cooking utensils for fish care", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my husband use our cooking utensils for fish care
So he has been using our measuring spoons for fish stuff for awhile, mostly measuring feed, mediations, water etc. I wash them but it does bother me. We got a whole new set this Christmas of cheaper stuff for a white elephant present. I told my husband this was great because he now has fish specific stuff for him. I...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to my cousin's wedding which is on my fiancee's birthday", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go to my cousin's wedding which is on my fiancee's birthday?
My Cousin, who I'm very close with, is having a wedding this year. My fiancee's birthday coincidentally falls on that same day, and she's upset that I would want to go to this wedding instead of celebrate her birthday with her. Am I being an asshole for wanting to attend my cousin's wedding over my future wife's birthd...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my friends", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for being pissed at my friends?
So I am in group chat with 2 other good friends of mine and today was good weather where I live, so I texted them after school If they wanna hang out. I've waited an hour and a half without them replying or reading it until I said "Okay I guess". Then one of them answered with no, the other didn't. It is really importa...
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{ "description": "doubting whether I like a girl and not talking to her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For doubting whether i like a girl and not talking to her
So recently I met a girl online and we hit it off quite well. I live about 3 hours from her and I met up with her during the weekend. We barely talked but we did end up kissing. I now am having second thoughts about the whole thing and have told her I need time to think about it. She didn't take it well and I am worrie...
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{ "description": "telling my fiance his mother is a sack of shit", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my fiance his mother is a sack of shit?
For context, we've been together for over two years. I adore this man. He's so loving, caring and overall amazing. Unfortunately, he has a major fault, though: his spine is rubber when it comes to himself and Mommy dearest. He'll make a very visible effort to stand up to her miserable ass if she fucks with me, but he w...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut my grandma out of my life", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to cut my grandma out of my life?
So hear my out. My dad’s mom has always been a little weird. She is from the south of Italy so from starters she has a very peculiar character, but she was a really warm and loud grandma when I was a kid. As I grew older I realised things she was doing, such as always talking shit about my grandma even in front of me, ...
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