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{ "description": "thinking that parents shouldn't influence their child's views on certain topics", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking that parents shouldn't influence their child's views on certain topics? (Ex: Religion, sexuality, gender, etc.)
To clarify, I never voice my opinion on this to other parents. I just feel like a parent should work only on teaching a child how to be a good human being, depending on norms set by the society said parent is a part of. In my opinion, everyone should get the chance to form their own views on things without parental inf...
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{ "description": "being mad that my boyfriend lied about resubscribing to NSFW subreddits", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for being mad that my boyfriend lied about resubscribing to NSFW subreddits?
I have no issue with porn, but I'm not comfortable with the NSFW subreddits, because of the interaction. I made this clear very early on in my relationship. My now-boyfriend (at the time we were seeing each other) was on r/gonewild and I said I was uncomfortable with NSFW subreddits. We had a bit of an argument, but ...
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{ "description": "hanging up the phone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hanging up the phone?
I’ll try to keep this short. My boyfriend was hospitalized last week. This obviously made me upset and I was also home alone the whole time. My parents called to check on me. They asked me when I was going to visit my boyfriend and I told them my plan. I was going to visit him in the morning, hangout with my friend du...
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{ "description": "\"ghosting\" my buddy's older sister", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for “ghosting” my buddy’s older sister?
Ok. I’m a single/divorced 31m teacher. BORING existence; work, grad school, laundry, etc. I had given up on dating in general. I have my shit together in the traditional sense; own my home, nice car, pretty content with my life. Just giving some backstory as to why I wasn’t interested in pursuing anyone necessarily, ki...
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{ "description": "being upset / hurt over my friend cancelling plans", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset / hurt over my friend cancelling plans?
So my main passion is camping and hiking, and I mostly do it on my own since not many of my friends are into that sort of thing. I also don’t have many friends. A couple summers ago, my best friend was expressing an interest in camping and we started toying with the idea of going on camping trip. He started to date som...
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{ "description": "telling a guy I know his girlfriend is catfishing him", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell a guy I know his girlfriend is catfishing him?
My girlfriend has a friend that is catfishing her boyfriend. She told me about it and I feel like it’s a pretty shitty thing to do. We’ve hung out with them as a couple several times. While I don’t really consider him a friend, he seems like a decent enough guy. My girlfriend told me his girlfriend created a fake ...
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{ "description": "telling my uncle how much of a deadbeat my dad is", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my uncle how much of a deadbeat my dad is?
**Context:** As the title says, my [17F] father [55M] is a huge deadbeat. The usual kind: Almost never has helped my mom financially, rarely, if ever calls to check on me, visits even fewer times, etc, the list goes on. And of course, he lies to people about what's up with me, says he sends money when he doesn't, that ...
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{ "description": "taking a shower", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a shower?
Strange title, and that's exactly why we have this nifty box here. On mobile, so if the formatting is a bit wonky, that's why. The apartment my roommate and I are staying in has an issue where the hot water doesn't last very long when taking a showe. (Any tips on fixing that would be nice.) So we wake up yesterday mo...
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{ "description": "wanting to meet my adopted family in a safe place", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to meet my adopted family in a safe place?
So I am adopted and I am on a journey to meet my birth siblings. They grew up in a not so great area of LA and I grew up in the suburbs across the country. I flew out here to visit my brother got an attitude with me because I asked him if the place he wanted to meet up in is safe. I don't want to sound ignorant but als...
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{ "description": "not feeling bad that my ex-housemate is basically homeless", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling bad that my ex-housemate is basically homeless?
Didnt expect it to be this long, but it's long. TLDR at the bottom. Okay to preface this, I just wanted to say that I was never really close friend with this housemate. 3 people from work and I moved into a house together about 2 years ago, but I was only really friends with 1 of them (let's call her A). A couple of m...
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{ "description": "not euthanizing my cat even though she has a physical deformity that is clearly painful", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not euthanizing my cat even though she has a physical deformity that is clearly painful.
I adopted a beautiful, sweet kitty about a year ago. I didn’t notice that she had a mild limp until they brought up the fact that she had a broken front paw when she was given to the shelter at one month old. According to their records, the vet they employed thought it was 50-50 whether she would adapt fully/grow norma...
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{ "description": "being upset that my stepmom went behind my back to feed our cat low quality food", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my stepmom went behind my back to feed our cat low quality food?
Let me start this off by saying that this is in the grand scheme of things relatively minor, but it has been really bothering me for some reason. To start off, I work at a local pet food store. We pride ourselves on having high quality foods at good prices that help pets live good lives. Since I'm an employee, I'm enti...
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{ "description": "skating in a bright area without a light", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for skating in a bright area without a light?
Recently I gotten into longboarding in order to cut travel time around campus. Sometimes I know I'll be working late and so I make sure to wear brightly colored clothes so people can see me and I haven't been able to get around purchasing a good light just yet. But I make sure to either hop off or go super slow in dark...
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AITA in regards to a fight with a mod I had?
For the record, I do believe I am indeed the asshole up until the last comment and when I PMed. Also sorry this is super gotdam long. So at like 3AM last night, I posted (on an alt) in r/needadvice about cleaning my room, mentioning how late it was, and I got 3 comments. One was genuinely helpful! The other two were ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my best friend for hanging out with my ex and constantly inviting me over when he will be there", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for getting mad at my best friend for hanging out with my ex and constantly inviting me over when he will be there?
In mid January, my boyfriend of 4 months and I broke up, it was my longest relationship and I took it very hard (I went to the local inpatient mental hospital, which my best friend recommended). Also note that I'm now in a new relationship, it kind of just happened. Since I got back (i was gone for a week), she has inv...
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{ "description": "yelling at this kid for staring at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 60 }
AITA for yelling at this kid for staring at me
I was getting groceries at stater brothers and this kid kept staring at me. I have gauged ear lobes, a lot of piercings, and I have I'm covered in tattoo's. As a result, it happens. What do you expect? It's just that they usually look away after a while. Nope, he just stared. I told him to look away, he did. He then st...
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{ "description": "essentially kicking my roommate out", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for essentially kicking my roommate out?
Our roommate started living with us about 11 months ago. From the beginning it was supposed to be temporary. We agreed to a roommate because he was going to be homeless and we didn’t want that for him. He’s my husbands childhood best friend and we both felt bad for him. We told him before he moved in that he needed to ...
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{ "description": "being about to take edibles", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I was about to take edibles?
So my other friend was going to get me edibles because I asked him to, he also asked my best friend who I've been friends with since kindergarten, she rejects, but I accept. I was going to eat the edibles alone and not talk about it, but my best friend told the rest of our friend group. The rest of the group is saying...
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{ "description": "asking condo neighbor to ask to keep their dog quiet", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking condo neighbor to ask to keep their dog quiet?
I have a neighbor, who’s condo unit is directly above me that I haven’t really talked to. They have two dogs. For the past few months, one of the dogs has gotten into the habit of howling at the top of its lungs when the owners are out. The dog will howl upwards of a hour or two, only stopping for a few minutes at m...
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{ "description": "saying my religion is the Flying Spaghetti Monster", "pronormative_score": 177, "contranormative_score": 662 }
AITA for saying my religion is the Flying Spaghetti Monster?
So for a class discussion we had to do a short presentation on something we have a strong belief in. Could be religion, politics, etc. I (16M) am an atheist and chose Pastafarianism, which is the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster 👾 as my religion. The whole class was laughing except two students who were stri...
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{ "description": "excluding my EX girlfriend from our group of friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for excluding my EX girlfriend from our group of friends?
We broke up over a year ago, and for a really long time she was horrible to me (bitching to my friends, telling people stuff about me etc) but I would be lying if I said I gave a fuck tbh, I have really thick skin and I had made my peace with it being over, it didn't upset me and she looked stupid so i let it slide. L...
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AITA or am I ashamed for my own reasons?
Alright, disclosure: I have fuckups. I have drank too much and pissed the bed in the past 3x. It doesn't help that I have a very small bladder (medically level small, not just saying that- like I got an exam because I went the bed growing up and my parents wanted to see what could be done to help me) and I sleep DEEP, ...
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{ "description": "using Tinder as my personal Uber Eats", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA because I used Tinder as my personal Uber Eats?
\*I don't post much on Reddit, so I am a little new to formatting. \* I'm having a debate with one of my boyfriend's friends. He thinks ITA, but I disagree. You decide. \  ​ I stopped stripping last year, but I used to travel a circuit between Vegas, AZ, and CA based on what was in season. A f...
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AITA,My friend is a hypocrite?
I've made many online friends and one in particular I made because we had similar political views and shared hobbies he sometimes makes political posts but usually I don't pay much attention to them. Recently he posted about the subject of vaccines and made a couple posts which I ignored until I saw the raggedy Ann pro...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting angry at my girlfriend
I'm on mobile so sorry for formatting So to start, I'm in highschool, this is my junior year and I just got off a call with my girlfriend of about a year. We didn't break up but we did fight. Here's the run down. It's late right now and I have to study for an anatomy test tomorrow. Enter GF. GF wants to call for the ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with someone that gives me a bad vibe", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with someone that gives me a bad vibe
There's someone who always hits me up to hangout to smoke, so I do it, but they give me a bad feeling, I think I should trust my gut feeling but I don't wanna be a rude asshole because I'm paranoid. AITA?
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend who downloaded a dating app", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend who downloaded a dating app
So yeah she downloaded the dating app Bumble, which apparently has a friend finding feature, however she never told me about it and I only found out when I picked up her phone and she had messages from the app on her home screen. I haven't really said anything to her yet I'm just kinda mulling it over tbh. AITA?
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{ "description": "thinking my mom shouldn't be in the Delivery Room", "pronormative_score": 82, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Thinking My Mom Shouldn't Be In The Delivery Room?
So this is about my sister-in-law, let's just call her B. So B is actually uncomfortable about my mom being in the delivery room, but my brother, let's call him D, apparently had a two hour conversation with B on why he wants my mom in the delivery room. B does not like this at all and has confided in me multiple times...
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{ "description": "going out and eating today", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I go out and eat today
I feel terrible for the people who have to work today... but I really don’t have anything to eat here. Would I be an asshole if I go out to eat? I think I Hop is open so I might go swing by there. Imma probably leave a bigger tip honestly.
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to a friend's concert", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not wanting to go to a friend’s concert?
My friend is part of a lot of music groups at our university- jazz, big band type music- and goes to ~3 rehearsals a week. She has a concert tonight and told the group of friends we’re apart of (6 including us) letting them know where, when it was and how much and what they’re playing. The other 4 friends are going to ...
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AITA? Don't want to be involved in my dad's recovery
To preface, I have a good relationship with my dad generally. My parents divorced when I was young, and I'm a lot closer to my mom, but he's always been involved in my life. He got sober (drugs & alcohol) when I was around 10. Recently he had a hard time (divorced my stepmom) and relapsed, this time with gambling ...
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{ "description": "ghosting my gf", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA If I ghost my GF?
Long story short my girlfriend and I had some issues and broke up before. I was being a dick she cheated on me then we broke up. We got back together and I have now found out she is still talking to her ex (The married guy who she cheated on me with the first time) As soon as I can get my exit plan together I'm out...
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{ "description": "throwing a pregnant group member under the bus during peer evaluations", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For throwing a pregnant group member under the bus during peer evaluations?
Just wrapped up fall semester a few weeks ago and in one of my classes I was in a group and we had an older lady in it she's 35 and pregnant. The project for this class had multiple deliverables throughout the term culminating with a final report and presentation. She was having complications with her pregnancy I assum...
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{ "description": "telling my parents to take back the car they bought me", "pronormative_score": 83, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents to take back the car they bought me?
I'm an adult living in a house on my parents property and I pay them rent. For months I've been using uber to get to work to save up to buy myself a car because my last one broke down. My parents surprised me by buying me a used car, nothing fancy but it runs. So of course at first I was happy and thanked them for it. ...
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{ "description": "telling my mother that she is too controlling", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my mother that she is too controlling?
I'm a senior, and in my high school we do this thing where we ask people that were somehow meaningful for us during our school years to write a personal or a good luck message in a ribbon. We then give the ribbons to our representatives so that they can attach them to our school diploma. ​ I gave one ribb...
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{ "description": "letting my dog get fat", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for letting my dog get fat?
Five years ago I bought a puppy to be my running buddy. She was by my side the first two years and then because of an injury I couldn’t run anymore but I still was able to take her for walks daily. I ended up having surgery on my hip but was still fairly active and was able to take her out daily to throw the chuckit an...
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{ "description": "not wanting my stepdaughter at a vacation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for not wanting my stepdaughter(15f) at a vacation?
Before you judge me please hear me out. I love my stepdaughter.She was 12 when we married. I have two children from my previous marriage(16f&12m). We both have a daughter (2f). My husband has full custody of his daughter and her mother has visitation rights. Her mother takes her on these yearly vacations every ye...
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{ "description": "telling someone with a history of being a their to get or of my room", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for telling someone with a history of being a their to get or of my room?
Okay so this person that's in my life has stolen things and money from my family in the past. Whatever. Todsy she was kvsr helping my mother clean and she went into my room when I was in the bathroom and I told her to get out because I don't trust her So aita?
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{ "description": "not wanting to visit my demented grandmother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to visit my demented grandmother?
My grandmother has been going downhill for about 10 years now. Started with forgetting small things to complete short term memory loss to now she's basically nonfunctional, rarely speaks and when she does it's to tell people she doesn't want to go to family events. She lives in a care home about five minutes walk from ...
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{ "description": "treating my friend like this", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for treating my friend like this?
So I have this very good friend who is also my classmate. We are different in many ways but nevertheless we get along great. He's much more extroverted than me, and often this causes some sort of 'conflict' between us, especially lately, when he started to call me on the phone more and more often (even when we don't re...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go back to a local coffeehouse", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA: For not wanting to go back to a local coffeehouse?
Sorry somewhat long, trying to put all the facts out there. Not the most scandalous either, but enough to start a disagreement with my wife. *Obligatory: on mobile, sorry for formatting. Also not a throwaway account because people should be comfortable owning their quirky and weird thoughts and stories. TL/DR at bott...
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AITA my girlfriend fell asleep on the couch eith another man(sorry for the shitty grammer)
So my (16m) GF (15f) stayed with her sister and her boyfriend a few night ago which isn't a huge deal since she does it almost every weekend it does bother me a little cause talk very little when she's there but I keep my mouth shut to make her happy. But one Monday she told me that when she stayed there her sister wen...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to become a stripper", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to become a stripper?
I don't want to be labeled as a control freak. My girlfriend has confronted me a few times now and asked how I would feel if she began stripping at a nice club. She has a close friend that strips and says that if she were to work at the same club she would only have to be shirtless and there is a no touch policy. She ...
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{ "description": "being pissed at my girlfriends drinking habits when Im also drinking", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being pissed at my girlfriends drinking habits when im also drinking?
So, long story shorter - We have 2 kids, i work 7 days a week, shes saying home with the kids. I drink 3-5 beers 2-3 days a week, once a month ill take a whiskey (all after 22-23:00 @ home, everyone else sleeping). She drinks 6-7 alcopops, 2-3 glasses of wine and 10 4cl shots two days (usually sat or frid) a month b...
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{ "description": "having a semi-long distance relationship and being busy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a semi-long distance relationship and being busy?
Ik sounds kinda obvious and maybe been asked before but idk I'm new here. So some backstory, I met this girl, we get along really well, start dating, going 1+yr strong, cool. But we live pretty far away from each other, like 1.5 hr+ drive. I'm the only one with a car so she relies on her parents to meet me on the midd...
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{ "description": "not wanting my ex on vacation with us", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my ex on vacation with us?
Hi all, It's been 5 or 6 years since we started doing this : my two closest friends (brother-like friends) and le go on a hike for a week every summer, and it's something each of us look forward to every year. My then-gf came with us on the last two occasions. She broke up with me in September (we're supposed to stay...
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{ "description": "being upset with my boyfriend for ditching me for his friends on my birthday night out", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my boyfriend for ditching me for his friends on my birthday night out?
Apologies for format and spelling/gramma I’m dyslexic I’ll try not to make this too long but basically it’s my birthday today, as part of my birthday celebrations my partner paid for us to go away to see my favourite band, the catch however was his friends would be there. I didn’t mind too much as I know with his pa...
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{ "description": "getting upset when my girlfriend talked to the man who raped her", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for getting upset when my girlfriend talked to the man who raped her
My girlfriend was raped by a close family friend about a year ago (i was dating her at the time). She refused to press charges or make anything of it because she didn't want to cause divides between their family. Since then she has avoided all events that he showed up to. My girlfriend and I went to a New Years party...
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{ "description": "wanting my youngest sister to know what gay people are", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my youngest sister to know what gay people are?
So I’m 15F and out as a lesbian to my parents and other sister (13), as well as various relatives and friends. My parents are extremely accepting and amazing about it and I really appreciate all they’ve done for me. My youngest sister is 9 years old and I’m talking with my parents about coming out to her in the next ...
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{ "description": "wanting to get my head checked to make sure I don't have a major concussion", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to get my head checked to make sure I don't have a major concussion?
My parents are normally lovely people and I wish this was a shit post. So this morning I was walking the dogs and because everything was made of ice I slipped backwards onto the back of my head. I did not black out bit along with the headache I felt nausea and dizziness. Still... I kept coherent conversation and my...
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{ "description": "keying my shitty boss's car", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for keying my shitty boss's car?
So of course throwaway, altough my boss is a senior off all social medias, so no chance in hell he will ever see this. Happened 3 months ago, land of the free in a medium size town. I (m 38) work as a dentist assistant. Worked the same place for 14 years, pay and work has been pretty nice for the last 13, before new ...
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{ "description": "calling the police on an intellectually disabled Neighbor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Calling the Police on an Intellectually Disabled Neighbor
This happened months ago. A little background on my neighbor I find out after the first incident. The neighbor lives on the street behind me and we share an alley. I'm told by other neighbors that he has sever brain damage, lives alone, and is in his mid 50's. Let's call him John. John lived with his mother until sh...
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{ "description": "not feeding my dog every time she wants food", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeding my dog every time she wants food?
I'm aware dogs can always be hungry, but when I feed her a good portioned size and she starts licking and playing with the bowl like 2 hours later (a way to tell me she wants food), I start feeling bad because of those darn puppy eyes. I don't overfeed nor underfeed her, she's a perfectly healthy size for a GSD her age...
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{ "description": "Making Cookies and teasing my friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Making Cookies and Teasing my Friend?
I am a lady, and have been good friends with a lovely couple for almost 20 years. Let's call them Jake and Barbara. Jake is a computer programmer, and occasionally is a little 'off' in his social interactions. He fits the caricature really well. Barbara is successful in her own field, and gardens and bakes as a hob...
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{ "description": "being in two sexual relationships at once", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I'm in two sexual relationships at once?
I've been doing online dating for a while without anything serious, then ended up meeting 2 interesting women during the same week. Woman "A" I was talking to for a few days before I started talking with "B" but I ended up meeting B first due to our schedules. Anyway, the first date with B went really well but I a...
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{ "description": "not liking my Secret Santa gift", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 36 }
AITA For not liking my Secret Santa gift.
AITA so the office where I work took us all out for lunch and a secret Santa gift exchange. About a week before the lunch we all pick a name out of a hat and that’s who you get a gift for. We also pick 3 things $20 or under that you would like and write them under your name on this list in the break room. We all do thi...
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{ "description": "planning to end my friendship with my friend who is getting too religious", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for planning to end my friendship with my friend who is getting too religious?
Just to begin, I want to make clear that although I am am atheist I respect and support people’s beliefs. As long as someone’s belief doesn’t harm anyone else, I’m fine with it I’ve been friends with this girl in my group for around 6 years now, and she never used to be religious. She was fun and caring and friendly, ...
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{ "description": "pushing getting a place together with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for pushing getting a place together with my boyfriend?
Im 18F and my boyfriend is 23M. Earlier this year our living situation changed and we've been kind of bouncing back and forth between his mom's couch, my aunt's place, and my mom's place. For context, we don't spend a lot of time at my aunt's because she lives a few towns over, about 30min drive away. We mostly stay in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to walk with my girlfriend for graduation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to walk with my girlfriend for graduation?
I am eligible to be a Valedictorian while she is not. The problem is that non-Valedictorians can’t walk with Valedictorians, so I would have to leave her behind for another walking partner. We have a small number of friends so she will be stuck walking with somebody she doesn’t know very well, as will I. This is just t...
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{ "description": "demonstrating what the pics of Joe Biden looked like on my bf", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for demonstrating what the pics of Joe Biden looked like on my BF?
Back story, this isnt political, my bf and I are both Democrats and very interested in politics. I was reading the recent controversy over Joe Bidens rather close creepy contact and came into the room where my bf was playing a video game and mentioned the article and said I thought he'd be out as a viable candidate. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to see my critically ill grandmother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to see my critically ill grandmother?
(Sorry for shitty formatting and writing, I’m on mobile) So for context my grandmother is 82F and I’m 17F. Her health has been declining for the past few years and now she’s been getting blood transfusions about every 2 months and she’s been slowly but steadily getting worse. She’s also in what my brother (doctor) thi...
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{ "description": "telling the truth to my classmate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling the truth to my classmate?
There is a girl in my class, and she is just NOT beautiful. Everyone think so and everyone think that she loves playing-act. Try to show everyone that she is cute, but everytime she does it. Everyone think it is nauseating and myself almost vomit sometimes. And in today's morning. She asked every boys in my class if sh...
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{ "description": "trying to sell my phone to my gf", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for trying to sell my phone to my GF
Background story: so my GF and I have been together for a little more than a year. We are very much in love and everything is going fine. She also broke af. She has a shitty phone that’s half working and can’t take photo at all. She’s the kind of person that is too kind, giving and giving to everyone everything, the ty...
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{ "description": "supporting an asshole accused on harassment over my friend who accused him", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for supporting an asshole accused on harassment over my friend who accused him?
Honestly I can hardly believe this really happened myself, so I know it probably looks like a shp, but bear with me here. So, my friend, let's call her Kallie, is on the debate team. There's this guy, let's call him Josh, that has a crush on her. I want to outline here that Josh is an asshole (he gossips, backstabs, a...
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WIBTA if I wasn't there when my father died.
I was severely emotionally abused by my father my entire life, until I cut him off 18 years ago. My brother wasn't. Since then, we've spoken minimally when we were both at events related to my only brother's daughters. He's 75 now, and if he has a prolonged death I will not be there. My brother will. I imagine this w...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my dude about our sex life on a constant basis", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for disagreeing with my dude about our sex life on a constant basis?
Alright ladies and gents, I’m here for some advice. My dude and I don’t see eye to eye on our sex life, and here’s why. I have a high sex drive, I have always been like this. My dude does not. It’s few and far between when we actually have sex. And it’s not from a lack of trying on my side. He just isn’t as into it a...
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{ "description": "asking my wife to visit her OBGYN after we have been having trouble conceiving", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for asking my wife to visit her OBGYN after we have been having trouble conceiving?
As the totals suggests, I [28m] and my wife [27f] have been trying for a child for about 6 months. There are a couple factors at play here as to why we may be having difficulties, so my thought is to rule out as much as possible. She has a bleeding disorder and a family history of ovarian cysts, and I am a bit concerne...
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{ "description": "wanting to Grieve Over my Cat and not have my husband make it a Blame Game", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Wanting To Grieve Over My Cat and Not Have My Husband Make It A Blame Game?
Im a 22F and my Husband is a 28M. About 6 months into dating I rescued a kitten someone found in a dumpster where I work (the apartment complex where we live). I tried to rehome him at first but the couple returned him to me after only 24 hours. I became too worried someone would dump him again so I decided to keep him...
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{ "description": "not continuing to help my ex through his abuse", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not continuing to help my ex through his abuse?
I met my ex through steam, and we very quickly become very close friends, and we both admitted that we had a crush on each other, and we were both around 13 at the time. Not too long after that, he came out as trans to his family, and on Christmas, his father did the unspeakable thing that I will never forget to this ...
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{ "description": "not asking what was wrong", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not asking what was wrong
I'm on mobile so bare with me G=girlfriend f=friend So here is some backstory, we had a relationship and I put my effort in and it didn't always work and I was already wanting to break up because I had a suspicion that she was cheating So this happened like a month ago and I felt kinda like a jerk. I and my G had a ...
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{ "description": "not giving my friend a ride", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not giving my friend a ride?
Basically, I was supposed to go to a parade with my friend. My friend sent me a text yesterday saying that their parents aren't able to drive them there, so they needed me to pick them up (Were both 15. We don't have a driving permit and sometimes my parents drive us and sometimes their parents drive us. No big deal) ...
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{ "description": "choosing myself when friend is having a hard time", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing myself when friend is having a hard time?
I am doing a fulltime internship to graduate, doing homework in the evening and dealing with the aftermath of ptsd. I take it slow, plan one or two times a week to meet friends and family. If I do more then I have energy for, my body protests by a panic attack and throwing up. I watch myself, am doing fine 90% of the ...
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{ "description": "rolling through a stop sign in a residential dead end neighborhood", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for rolling through a stop sign in a residential dead end neighborhood?
I live in a quiet neighborhood development a few houses down from a dead end/cul-de-sac. Just before my house is a stop sign where another dead end road intersects. No one ever drives down these streets unless they live here or are visiting and since almost everyone in the neighborhood works, it’s very quiet during the...
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AITA for calling someone very colorful words after they lead me on and left me?
Pretty sure this is gonna land me a nice, smug spot on r/niceguys but whatever So back in high school, I had a friend, let's call her Rose. We were generally close, and often went to each other for emotional support. Being an awkward autistic single high schooler, I was generally insecure about my relationship status ...
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AITA - Friend being Secretive
Hello everyone! This is my first post to this sub-reddit, actually first post to reddit ever (excluding dumb stuff), so go easy on me. ​ Anyway, so I have this good friend who we'll call Candice. So Candice and I essentially talk all the time in Bio class, when we pass by each other we always say hi or sta...
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AITA My Gf is mad at me because my Friend try to set me up with another girl
(Shit format cuz mobile sorry) My gf of almost a year refuse to talk to me for almost a week because my friend texted me asking if I was still in a relationship because she’s wants to set me up with one of her friends. I rejected and joked about it and that was the end of that. However my gf found it unacceptable tha...
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{ "description": "telling my niece she looks like my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my niece she looks like my sister?
My niece is visiting from out of town for a few days. When I first saw her at the airport, I thought it was my sister. It’s surreal how much she looks like her. So I told her that she looks like her mom, and my niece was... horrified? She said, “But I don’t want to look like her!” Over the course of the visit, a c...
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{ "description": "asking my so to get a paternity test", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for asking my SO to get a paternity test?
I think I fucked up but I'm still confused. ​ Okay so my girlfriend (F22) and I (M22) were talking, and it came up that she was late. This is no issue, it happens. We've been together for 4-ish years now, but we've been long distance for a few months. I know she's (almost certainly) not pregnant, and I kno...
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{ "description": "getting mad my so because he won't stop watching me do chores", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad my SO because he won’t stop watching me do chores
Specifically what I don’t want him to watch me do is wash dishes, although other cleaning chores cause a similar issue. It’s not that he can’t be in the same room as me while I do it but I don’t like it when people just stand there and watch. I’ve told him many times the specific reason I don’t like this is because my ...
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{ "description": "threatening to sue my parents for taking out student loans in my name", "pronormative_score": 168, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for threatening to sue my parents for taking out student loans in my name?
I graduated college 4 years ago and I rarely speak to my mother or father. Maybe 2-3 times a year and even then it’s only for a few minutes, they refused to let me play sports in high school or have a social life and they’ve basically cut me out of their lives since I and about 75 other people got a city drinking ticke...
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{ "description": "being disappointed I didn't get valentines day sex", "pronormative_score": 47, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being disappointed I didn't get valentines day sex?
So, my wife and I don't get to see each other very much due to the hours we both work, we get about 2 hours together after I get home at night, so I really value my time with her. So, tuesday afternoon, she sends me a text saying she'd like to have a date night thursday, which is my day off and conveniently also vale...
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{ "description": "not standing my best friend's obsession with Queen anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not standing my best friend's obsession with Queen anymore?
Me and my best friend have known each other for 4 years and we've gone through a few phases. For some reason, most of the things we liked overlapped at some point, but she tended to be the first to get into them. Lately, I've been really into Sherlock and she was really into the series as well a few months ago, but n...
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{ "description": "standing up for myself at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Standing Up for Myself at Work?
I work at a place on the overnight shift. There are a few people at this place that honestly should have been fired years ago. A little information, I work at a place that has two separate buildings. I am in the second building and this person called Joe is in the first building. I've been warned about how lazy Joe is,...
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{ "description": "having a fake Instagram to check up on my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for having a fake Instagram to check up on my ex-girlfriend?
CONTEXT: I made the account over a year ago when the girl I had dated for about 2 years unexpectedly blocked me on IG. Yes, we had broken up but we were on good terms and I thought she was hiding something. I’m now with an incredible woman who I hope to someday marry but she can get very jealous. I told her about the...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for a birthday present", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for a birthday present?
Okay so, I’m 17 and attending high school, a girl in my class (we’ll call her S) has a birthday coming up and another girl in my class set up a group chat with every girl in the class and announced that we all had to bring in €10 to go towards getting airpods for S’s birthday. For a bit of background: I go to a very sm...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate that she doesn't care about her job", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my roommate that she doesn't care about her job?
My roommate recently started a new job, so we've had to start coordinating usage of the bathroom/shower in the morning. I used to finish getting ready around 8:00, and we agreed that now I would try to finish at 7:40 so that she could get ready after me. The other day I woke up at 7:35, so I skipped my shower because ...
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{ "description": "snitching on my coworker", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snitching on my coworker
Throwaway account, posting via mobile, I’m going to try to give enough information. This happened today. I work at a daycare. My job is incredibly diverse, and we have kids, parents and staff of all walks of life. My bosses realize we all have lives outside of work, and as long as it doesn’t not affect our work, they...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for saying he'd trade me for $2 million", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad (26F) at my boyfriend (37M) for saying he'd trade me for $2 million?
We were talking about movies and an Indecent Proposal came up. I told him I would never give him up or break up with him for money. He stayed quiet and then told me he wouldn't want to be broke though. Now it's awkward because I'm upset at a hypothetical situation and he keeps insisting that it's important to stay real...
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{ "description": "not tipping pickup food orders", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tipping pickup food orders?
Title says it all. If I’m picking up food at the restaurant, I don’t leave a tip because I feel at that point it’s like fast food. If it’s delivered or I eat at the restaurant, I always tip above 20%. So AITA or is that normal?
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{ "description": "thinking my alcoholic coworker should be fired", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my alcoholic coworker should be fired?
My coworker has had addiction problems in the past which have gotten her fired from this job before. My work rehired her once they found out she was doing better. In the last couple months, she has started drinking again and it has seriously affected her work. She comes into work maybe three or four times a week for a ...
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{ "description": "calling a woman ugly", "pronormative_score": 50, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for calling a woman ugly?
I know what the title says but let me elaborate: I was walking down the street and my phone got a notification. There was a woman in front of me who turned around and said that's disgusting. I was extremely confused so asked her why she was so offended and she said "Dont you fucking dare whistle at me like that". I in...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend on snapchat for putting conditions on our friendship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my friend on snapchat for putting conditions on our friendship?
So long story short, in real life I have trouble making friends because of autism and I made a friend in community college that I valued deeply. His family enjoyed my company (I think) and we had many memories together that I still cherish to this day. However, we are from cultures that one can say are stereotypically...
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{ "description": "asking my insanely kind, yet terribly toning deaf, roommating to stop singing", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA if I asked my insanely kind, yet terribly tone deaf, roommate to stop singing?
Okay so this dude is legit the nicest guy on the planet. Not only would he not hurt a fly, he'd sit down with the fly and ask how his days going. It's like living with pooh bear if he tossed on pants. He's just a downright great bud. However, he sings like a walrus being slowly sliced from the tail up with a dull butte...
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{ "description": "lifeguarding a pool and told someone not to be an idiot", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Lifeguarding a pool and told someone not to be an idiot
This is my first post ever on reddit, so be gentle, but I just have to know if I'm the asshole here! So, I worked as a lifeguard at a local pool in my late teens. It was a shit job and we were always understaffed, especially in the summer season, so we are normally pretty stressed out and tired. I'm quite jokey with a...
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{ "description": "holding the door open", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for holding the door open?
I was walking into a restaurant for lunch and held the door open for a small group of people behind me. The three of them proceeded to walk to the hostess and didn’t let me get seated before them even though I was technically first. Is this an expected consequence of me holding the door open?
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{ "description": "ending a friendship over her cat obsession", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship over her cat obsession?
This happened 4 years ago. I've always been conflicted about whether I was overreacting or not. My mother was diagnosed with inoperable cancer 4 years ago, and passed away within 5 months of diagnoses. It was a rough 5 months as my father and I did the majority of the caretaking for her. At the same time a woman I've...
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{ "description": "bringing up the Football Team's Record", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Bringing Up The Football Team’s Record?
So my friend group [High School] consists of some that play golf (me) and a large amount that play football. We’re all pretty close and our differences in sports never usually comes up, but one day I was in a conversation about the school locker rooms. In a half-joking, somewhat serious and provocative way, my friend ...
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{ "description": "breaking a friendship over a few dollars", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for breaking a friendship over a few dollars?
I have two close friends, Joe and John. A week ago they wanted to catch up over dinner in a local restaurant. I don't have a lot of spare savings. But I don't see them often, and there's never much opportunity to hang out so I decided to just go. The dinner was nothing special, came down to about $10 each. Joe forgot...
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{ "description": "excluding my coworker from a party after she has been invited", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I excluded my coworker from a party after she has been invited?
I currently work at a retail joint with a small group of coworkers who all get along well. I decided to invite them all over to my place for a dinner party and reluctantly invited L, one of my coworkers. L is extremely hard to spend time with. She shows up late to her shifts as well as any event we have. She believes i...
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WIBTA if my fiance and I got diamond earrings for her sister?
My fiance's (I'll call her MF) sister is graduating from law school this May, and she has a boyfriend who she met at law school graduating with her. They've told us they're planning to get married once they settle into their professional careers and save up a some money, so it's definitely a serious relationship with a...
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