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Trespassing neighbor doesn't like My "abandoned" vehicle I have an old vehicle I plan on restoring, one day, like you do. Shes not much to look at right now, but she's my favorite. I made some mistakes and didn't have it registered when I parked it in my driveway and just threw a car cover over it. Some time passes, and police show up mentioning that someone complained about an abandoned vehicle. Technically, if it isn't registered, hasn't moved in some time, and is not in a garage, it's classified as abandoned. Apparently tho, the request to investigate came from the Mayor at the time to the head of police, and then down the chain. Titled, insured, and plate installed, some years pass. I want to say I'd noticed the trash bins moved or slightly out of place, but wrote that off as racoons, wind, or misremembering. Had a rough year at work and forgot to renew the tags. Still insured, but the sticker was out of date. 5 years pass, bringing us to the present. My son is old enough to start holding the flashlight while I clean it up, so I remove the dry-rotted tires to put new ones on. Police show up the next day and mention that an email was sent to the city manager about the car being abandoned. The plate cannot be seen from anywhere but directly behind the vehicle, within a less than 3' gap. Allegedly, the trespasser is golfing buddies with the former mayor and current city manager. The insurance never lapsed. I know I'm in the wrong for having letting the registration lapse(that has since been remedied), but is there any legel avenue to have this dropped? One to not pay $250, and two, to not pay the fine because the neighbours a nosy asshole. In York county, South Carolina. Thanks. Edit to add I have just only now installed cameras. | ad0ee449f364e989bb6849381de9992474f70289ebd0ebd414477b4d4b2111ba | [
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My girlfriend went to a lash lift appointment and then needed to go to the hospital, and we can't even get a call back from the owner of the business. She went to her appointment and midway through it became evident to her that the worker did not have proper training for what she needed to do, which was made clear by her asking another worker several times if what she was doing was correct, to which the other worker said "No, you used way too much of the fixing lotion", and in an effort to remove it, she got a bunch of it into my girlfriend's eye. Within the hour after her appointment, she lost vision in that same eye, and had to go to the hospital. She now has a $300 hospital bill to pay on top of the $100 for the appointment, and we can't even get a call back from the owner of the business. We were just looking for a refund on the appointment, didn't even ask for the money for the hospital bill, and we've been met with silence. I'm really just frustrated with the way this has been handled and was curious to know if anyone had any ideas. Thank you! | 52c9d6fbc2feb3ccd9cb8a3ae4e973367180ea25adc67d2dadaab9433fe1ece7 | [
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TX - Austin - friend moved internationally, sold her car, and buyer never changed title over. The car got towed. My friend (and old housemate) married a Japanese citizen and moved to Tokyo (lucky). Before she left, she sold her red 2004 Neon to a friend of hers. Apparently, that friend never changed over the title, and the car got towed yesterday. I got a knock on my door this morning from my mail carrier with a certified (and signature-required) letter stating that. I've already sent pictures of the letter to her, and she says she'll inform the friend, but given that the title is in her name, and not the name of the friend, what are the options if the towing company refuses to release it? The fees / fines are already at $240 and tax for one day. | ea8298d0fee20267bde0414a5aababd99271a927cfe272c8206800959170648e | [
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Major bank denied my fraud/identity theft claim of $9k. So, out all my rent money for next year and essentially being accused of being a felon and committing bank fraud. Everyone told me, including bank reps, not to worry. I'll get my money back. I'm being paranoid. But the worst case scenario has played out into reality. I'm on temporary disability while I'm under the care of a doctor at the VA for PTSD and other rehab. About a month ago now, someone hacked into my online account and did two maximum fund transfers of $3k, so, a total of $6k. I immediately put in a claim and have been waiting. During that time, I was told not to worry and that it couldn't happen again while I waited on my new card. I explained to them it didn't happen with my card, it happened online, in the actual account. I spoke to ten people over multiple calls and hours until someone finally understood what I was saying and they said we need to set up over the phone authentication. We did. Or so I thought. One week later it happened again as soon as the 7 day wait period went by to take out another fund transfer. They were able to somehow change all of my security questions and answers and my email on the account to log in. Again. All while my new card was still in the mail, which I ended up getting the next day. By the time I got that next card it had already been cancelled because of this latest incident. I finally got my newest card yesterday and was able to get the last bit of my funds out of the account to another bank. Today, I was told would be the day a decision should be made by on the first claim. It was, and it was denied. They aren't giving me reason beyond just that they see multiple times my email has changed. Yea...whoever did this changed it multiple times and then I also did change it once I found out that I could with them over the phone out of fear that the person was going to keep doing it. I also logged complaints because none of the reps even told me I can and should change my email with them over the phone while my account was locked due to the open claim. I have dealt with nothing but incompetence over the phone with the reps. They didn't listen to me when I told them a new card wouldn't stop it from happening again. They didn't tell me I can and should change my email with them over the phone until it happened again. Multiple reps didn't ask me my security questions on my calls when I called to check the status, and when I called one of them on it and said "Aren't you supposed to ask me some security questions first?" she said "Hang on, let me check..." and then hung up. I don't know what to do. This is all the money I had saved for rent next year when I get out of the hospital. And now the bank is saying they aren't paying me back and are basically accusing me of being a felon. I'm already a broken man from the PTSD and substance abuse issues and I just can't seem to get any positive traction in life. I'm defeated. | fcedf91346355a8f1774a574f0044a8f52fce6058da2046c8167681cdbcb67a4 | [
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Major bank denied my fraud/identity theft claim of $9k. So, out all my rent money for next year and essentially being accused of being a felon and committing bank fraud. Everyone told me, including bank reps, not to worry. I'll get my money back. I'm being paranoid. But the worst case scenario has played out into reality. I'm on temporary disability while I'm under the care of a doctor at the VA for PTSD and other rehab. About a month ago now, someone hacked into my online account and did two maximum fund transfers of $3k, so, a total of $6k. I immediately put in a claim and have been waiting. During that time, I was told not to worry and that it couldn't happen again while I waited on my new card. I explained to them it didn't happen with my card, it happened online, in the actual account. I spoke to ten people over multiple calls and hours until someone finally understood what I was saying and they said we need to set up over the phone authentication. We did. Or so I thought. One week later it happened again as soon as the 7 day wait period went by to take out another fund transfer. They were able to somehow change all of my security questions and answers and my email on the account to log in. Again. All while my new card was still in the mail, which I ended up getting the next day. By the time I got that next card it had already been cancelled because of this latest incident. I finally got my newest card yesterday and was able to get the last bit of my funds out of the account to another bank. Today, I was told would be the day a decision should be made by on the first claim. It was, and it was denied. They aren't giving me reason beyond just that they see multiple times my email has changed. Yea...whoever did this changed it multiple times and then I also did change it once I found out that I could with them over the phone out of fear that the person was going to keep doing it. I also logged complaints because none of the reps even told me I can and should change my email with them over the phone while my account was locked due to the open claim. I have dealt with nothing but incompetence over the phone with the reps. They didn't listen to me when I told them a new card wouldn't stop it from happening again. They didn't tell me I can and should change my email with them over the phone until it happened again. Multiple reps didn't ask me my security questions on my calls when I called to check the status, and when I called one of them on it and said "Aren't you supposed to ask me some security questions first?" she said "Hang on, let me check..." and then hung up. I don't know what to do. This is all the money I had saved for rent next year when I get out of the hospital. And now the bank is saying they aren't paying me back and are basically accusing me of being a felon. I'm already a broken man from the PTSD and substance abuse issues and I just can't seem to get any positive traction in life. I'm defeated. | fcedf91346355a8f1774a574f0044a8f52fce6058da2046c8167681cdbcb67a4 | [
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Major bank denied my fraud/identity theft claim of $9k. So, out all my rent money for next year and essentially being accused of being a felon and committing bank fraud. Everyone told me, including bank reps, not to worry. I'll get my money back. I'm being paranoid. But the worst case scenario has played out into reality. I'm on temporary disability while I'm under the care of a doctor at the VA for PTSD and other rehab. About a month ago now, someone hacked into my online account and did two maximum fund transfers of $3k, so, a total of $6k. I immediately put in a claim and have been waiting. During that time, I was told not to worry and that it couldn't happen again while I waited on my new card. I explained to them it didn't happen with my card, it happened online, in the actual account. I spoke to ten people over multiple calls and hours until someone finally understood what I was saying and they said we need to set up over the phone authentication. We did. Or so I thought. One week later it happened again as soon as the 7 day wait period went by to take out another fund transfer. They were able to somehow change all of my security questions and answers and my email on the account to log in. Again. All while my new card was still in the mail, which I ended up getting the next day. By the time I got that next card it had already been cancelled because of this latest incident. I finally got my newest card yesterday and was able to get the last bit of my funds out of the account to another bank. Today, I was told would be the day a decision should be made by on the first claim. It was, and it was denied. They aren't giving me reason beyond just that they see multiple times my email has changed. Yea...whoever did this changed it multiple times and then I also did change it once I found out that I could with them over the phone out of fear that the person was going to keep doing it. I also logged complaints because none of the reps even told me I can and should change my email with them over the phone while my account was locked due to the open claim. I have dealt with nothing but incompetence over the phone with the reps. They didn't listen to me when I told them a new card wouldn't stop it from happening again. They didn't tell me I can and should change my email with them over the phone until it happened again. Multiple reps didn't ask me my security questions on my calls when I called to check the status, and when I called one of them on it and said "Aren't you supposed to ask me some security questions first?" she said "Hang on, let me check..." and then hung up. I don't know what to do. This is all the money I had saved for rent next year when I get out of the hospital. And now the bank is saying they aren't paying me back and are basically accusing me of being a felon. I'm already a broken man from the PTSD and substance abuse issues and I just can't seem to get any positive traction in life. I'm defeated. | fcedf91346355a8f1774a574f0044a8f52fce6058da2046c8167681cdbcb67a4 | [
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Major bank denied my fraud/identity theft claim of $9k. So, out all my rent money for next year and essentially being accused of being a felon and committing bank fraud. Everyone told me, including bank reps, not to worry. I'll get my money back. I'm being paranoid. But the worst case scenario has played out into reality. I'm on temporary disability while I'm under the care of a doctor at the VA for PTSD and other rehab. About a month ago now, someone hacked into my online account and did two maximum fund transfers of $3k, so, a total of $6k. I immediately put in a claim and have been waiting. During that time, I was told not to worry and that it couldn't happen again while I waited on my new card. I explained to them it didn't happen with my card, it happened online, in the actual account. I spoke to ten people over multiple calls and hours until someone finally understood what I was saying and they said we need to set up over the phone authentication. We did. Or so I thought. One week later it happened again as soon as the 7 day wait period went by to take out another fund transfer. They were able to somehow change all of my security questions and answers and my email on the account to log in. Again. All while my new card was still in the mail, which I ended up getting the next day. By the time I got that next card it had already been cancelled because of this latest incident. I finally got my newest card yesterday and was able to get the last bit of my funds out of the account to another bank. Today, I was told would be the day a decision should be made by on the first claim. It was, and it was denied. They aren't giving me reason beyond just that they see multiple times my email has changed. Yea...whoever did this changed it multiple times and then I also did change it once I found out that I could with them over the phone out of fear that the person was going to keep doing it. I also logged complaints because none of the reps even told me I can and should change my email with them over the phone while my account was locked due to the open claim. I have dealt with nothing but incompetence over the phone with the reps. They didn't listen to me when I told them a new card wouldn't stop it from happening again. They didn't tell me I can and should change my email with them over the phone until it happened again. Multiple reps didn't ask me my security questions on my calls when I called to check the status, and when I called one of them on it and said "Aren't you supposed to ask me some security questions first?" she said "Hang on, let me check..." and then hung up. I don't know what to do. This is all the money I had saved for rent next year when I get out of the hospital. And now the bank is saying they aren't paying me back and are basically accusing me of being a felon. I'm already a broken man from the PTSD and substance abuse issues and I just can't seem to get any positive traction in life. I'm defeated. | fcedf91346355a8f1774a574f0044a8f52fce6058da2046c8167681cdbcb67a4 | [
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Parents have taken all of the money out of my bank accounts after I moved out in the middle of the night. This week, I moved out of my parents home and went to stay with my grandmother. This move was done without my parents knowledge, but I’m 18 so it was completely legal. However, last night, when I was trying to put gas in my car to get to work, my card declined. I realized that my parents had taken every penny out of my bank account without my knowledge. The total amount saved was about 2000$ and was all money I earned through my job. However, I believe that they have some joint connection to the account. It is a “student” account through PNC bank, so I believe my father is some kind of manager of it. Is there anything I can do to get the money I need to survive back? I reached out to them and they have not responded. (I can clarify anything in the comments, I apologize but I’m a bit in shock right now.) | 5d78b193f915f73691fc4c4f3c474ea92f79cca141e8f540db9bb5f98ac34410 | [
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Parents have taken all of the money out of my bank accounts after I moved out in the middle of the night. This week, I moved out of my parents home and went to stay with my grandmother. This move was done without my parents knowledge, but I’m 18 so it was completely legal. However, last night, when I was trying to put gas in my car to get to work, my card declined. I realized that my parents had taken every penny out of my bank account without my knowledge. The total amount saved was about 2000$ and was all money I earned through my job. However, I believe that they have some joint connection to the account. It is a “student” account through PNC bank, so I believe my father is some kind of manager of it. Is there anything I can do to get the money I need to survive back? I reached out to them and they have not responded. (I can clarify anything in the comments, I apologize but I’m a bit in shock right now.) | 5d78b193f915f73691fc4c4f3c474ea92f79cca141e8f540db9bb5f98ac34410 | [
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Parents have taken all of the money out of my bank accounts after I moved out in the middle of the night. This week, I moved out of my parents home and went to stay with my grandmother. This move was done without my parents knowledge, but I’m 18 so it was completely legal. However, last night, when I was trying to put gas in my car to get to work, my card declined. I realized that my parents had taken every penny out of my bank account without my knowledge. The total amount saved was about 2000$ and was all money I earned through my job. However, I believe that they have some joint connection to the account. It is a “student” account through PNC bank, so I believe my father is some kind of manager of it. Is there anything I can do to get the money I need to survive back? I reached out to them and they have not responded. (I can clarify anything in the comments, I apologize but I’m a bit in shock right now.) | 5d78b193f915f73691fc4c4f3c474ea92f79cca141e8f540db9bb5f98ac34410 | [
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Have been living in a commercial property with permission from the owners. It sold and I have been given notice to leave, which is tomorrow. Like the title says, we were given permission to live in an old strip club in Harbor City, Los Angeles CA, at the behest of the previous owners. In return for watching the place, keeping homeless out of the lot, painting over the graffiti, small things like that, we were allowed to live here, and were promised 30 to 60 days notice when it was sold. We have proof that we have been here for the last 4 months now, with permission from the previous owners. We (my fiance and I) got a call 3 days ago saying we have to be out tomorrow, as the new owners decided to skip escrow. Is this legal? We will have to take our whole lives outside, not to mention my birthday is 2 days later. Do I have any legal recourse here? There is no shower, but there are restrooms and a bar/refrigerator, and we have hot plates and water boilers and such. They gave us access to the water and to the electricity as well, so we have fully been living here for 4 months. Can they legally throw us out with almost no notice, especially when we were told we'd have 30 to 60 days once the property sold. | c1b69158c483ad206a693768e86dd6731ccd80611211773618739e4401bf316b | [
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Neighbor’s contractor dumped a giant mound of gravel and dirt on my vegetable garden/flower bush. [IA USA] I own my home, and the house next door is a rental. Our garages both open into an alley. There’s some space between our garages, and even though they’re not fenced off, you can tell by where the rest of our fences end where the cutoff is. In that space, I have a vegetable garden that is clearly delineated by a short brick enclosure. In front of it are flowering peony bushes. Two days ago, I walked outside to find my plants buried under a large mound of dirt and gravel. From the looks of it, it’s clear my neighbor’s landlord was clearing away the gravel in front of the garage to make way for a paved section of ground. I talked first my neighbor (the renter), who said she was also surprised by the unexpected construction work. I finally got ahold of her landlord, who assured me it would be taken care of by the contractor. I contacted the city to confirm my property lines— yes, they did dump on them. I then asked if they got a permit, which they said they did. The permit showed where the property lines are. It’s been two days, and there is no sign of the dirt being removed. Even when it is, my plants are toast. They didn’t cost me much to begin with, since I grew them from seeds, but man am i steamed. What, if anything, should I do? | ec9a47310f7dfdbd26f7f644ad7b35ed70e95b512fe802273139f95bd2fbe6e1 | [
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Neighbor’s contractor dumped a giant mound of gravel and dirt on my vegetable garden/flower bush. [IA USA] I own my home, and the house next door is a rental. Our garages both open into an alley. There’s some space between our garages, and even though they’re not fenced off, you can tell by where the rest of our fences end where the cutoff is. In that space, I have a vegetable garden that is clearly delineated by a short brick enclosure. In front of it are flowering peony bushes. Two days ago, I walked outside to find my plants buried under a large mound of dirt and gravel. From the looks of it, it’s clear my neighbor’s landlord was clearing away the gravel in front of the garage to make way for a paved section of ground. I talked first my neighbor (the renter), who said she was also surprised by the unexpected construction work. I finally got ahold of her landlord, who assured me it would be taken care of by the contractor. I contacted the city to confirm my property lines— yes, they did dump on them. I then asked if they got a permit, which they said they did. The permit showed where the property lines are. It’s been two days, and there is no sign of the dirt being removed. Even when it is, my plants are toast. They didn’t cost me much to begin with, since I grew them from seeds, but man am i steamed. What, if anything, should I do? | ec9a47310f7dfdbd26f7f644ad7b35ed70e95b512fe802273139f95bd2fbe6e1 | [
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Neighbor’s contractor dumped a giant mound of gravel and dirt on my vegetable garden/flower bush. [IA USA] I own my home, and the house next door is a rental. Our garages both open into an alley. There’s some space between our garages, and even though they’re not fenced off, you can tell by where the rest of our fences end where the cutoff is. In that space, I have a vegetable garden that is clearly delineated by a short brick enclosure. In front of it are flowering peony bushes. Two days ago, I walked outside to find my plants buried under a large mound of dirt and gravel. From the looks of it, it’s clear my neighbor’s landlord was clearing away the gravel in front of the garage to make way for a paved section of ground. I talked first my neighbor (the renter), who said she was also surprised by the unexpected construction work. I finally got ahold of her landlord, who assured me it would be taken care of by the contractor. I contacted the city to confirm my property lines— yes, they did dump on them. I then asked if they got a permit, which they said they did. The permit showed where the property lines are. It’s been two days, and there is no sign of the dirt being removed. Even when it is, my plants are toast. They didn’t cost me much to begin with, since I grew them from seeds, but man am i steamed. What, if anything, should I do? | ec9a47310f7dfdbd26f7f644ad7b35ed70e95b512fe802273139f95bd2fbe6e1 | [
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Giant tree branch fell onto neighbors home who is responsible for the damage? First time poster here, sorry I'm on mobile too. So just as my title states we had very strong winds the last couple of days. A giant tree branch snapped off of our tree and fell onto our neighbors home (minimal damage). Who is legally liable to pay for the damage me or the neighbor? I have tried to google and from what I found ' you are liable for your own property damage unless damage is due to gross negligence' is this true? Or could I be held liable for the damage? If it matters this is in Colorado and the damage to her home was just her gutter. | 892332f0df1067e4ffb156e12468d3ba2e1eb529e7f7bde57387ecab90dd1d68 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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My neighbor falsely believes my disabled BIL was being creepy and I want to protect him This all just happened today, and I haven’t had great luck googling, so I’m posting here to help myself and my husband calm down. My BIL is physically and intellectually disabled, almost completely nonverbal, and lives with my husband and I. Our apartment complex has a small courtyard with some flower beds and a playground. My BIL’s favorite thing to do after work is sit in the courtyard. He doesn’t pay much attention to the kids on the playground (or anybody else in the complex)—he'll say hi if they do, but that’s it, he’s not chatty—but he really likes the flower beds. He takes a bunch of pictures on his phone of them almost every day (we have an evening routine that includes picking one or two and deleting the rest so his phone can keep any storage space, lol). Today when I went out to get him to tell him dinner was ready, and a woman I’ve seen around but never met before came over to me. She asked me if/how I knew my BIL, and when I answered, she told me he’d been filming her daughters. I was super taken aback, and said I was almost certain there was a misunderstanding and that he was taking pictures of the flowerbeds/garden, maybe even the trees. If her daughters were in the pictures, it was probably accidental, and I said we could look at his phone together and delete any she didn't want him to keep. She said she'd seen him “filming” her kids before, multiple times, and that as soon as she got home she was calling the police. She told me she only stayed as long as she did to make sure he didn't "try anything" with other kids (?!). Look: I will be the first to admit my BIL lacks the capacity to make the best social decisions or understand how he comes off to strangers (he doesn’t “look” disabled, and he has definitely accidentally freaked people out before just because he’s very tall and quiet and doesn’t have really any social skills). But I go through his phone most nights (if I don’t, my husband does), and we’d know if he were filming or photographing children on the playground. He isn’t. I tried to explain this to my neighbor but she left. I did go through my BIL’s phone right after, and it was just the usual flower/tree pics. The back of one girl’s head was in one photo, in the corner. I asked him if he meant to take a picture of her and he told me he meant to take a picture of the tree. I have no idea if this will blow over, or what. My husband is having a lot of anxiety about it, and I won’t lie, I’m kind of stressed too—again, I know my BIL didn’t intend any harm, and I know this woman is almost certainly just a well-meaning mom who didn’t know what my BIL was doing, but I don’t want this to become a “thing.” Are there any steps I should take to ensure my BIL is protected and this all goes smoothly, or should I want to see if anything even happens? We're in New York state. (This is my very first time posting, I hope I flaired it okay/included all the necessary information!) | d08f968599dc56b91c456983e8612af20735b6c788e102412b6bfcea5a7f17b5 | [
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Adult harboring my runaway child falsely claimed to be their caregiver at the ER. We are in Ohio. I apologize in advance for the length of this post. This story is insane and I am still in complete shock. This past Thursday my extremely troubled teenager (14) assaulted my husband when confronted about a stolen vape pen and then fled to the home of a friend. Police were contacted and he told them my husband assaulted him. No charges were filed against either of them because their stories conflicted and they both had injuries (my husband scratches on his neck from where my stepson grabbed his throat and dug in his nails, my stepson bruises from where my husband pushed him to the ground to get him to let go.) We allowed him to stay the night at this friend’s house to cool off, and he texted that he’d be returning in the morning. The next morning he texted my husband that he hated him, that he was not coming back, and accused my husband of “strangling” him. My husband told him that they both knew that wasn’t what happened, that they needed to discuss his behavior and what our next steps were going to be, and that he couldn’t hide from the consequences of his actions, and upon being blocked, reached out to the parents of the friend, who immediately made it clear they believed my child’s claims that he was abused and were extremely hostile, and then hung up on him and stopped returning texts and phone calls. My husband reported him as a runaway to police, and police went to their address and said my stepson was refusing to return and there wasn’t anything they could do. They told us we could file charges against these parents for “interference with custody”, which we did first thing Monday morning, but we were told it could be a month before we got a court date. We called his school and told them he was legally listed as a runaway and to contact us immediately if he showed up. On Saturday we had gotten a notice that due to my stepson's claim that my husband was the aggressor, CPS was coming to our house on Tuesday to investigate him, and on Monday, the caseworker contacted us to move the meeting to her office because my stepson was refusing to cooperate unless this friend's parent was there and she wanted him to participate willingly. We agreed. At 6pm Monday, we got a call from our local hospital to inform us our child was there. Apparently, he was sent to the hospital from the school due to a behavioral outburst. The school never contacted us because they were notified about the CPS case and were "concerned there were safety issues at home". According to the hospital social worker, this friend’s parent showed up at the ER, claimed to be his caregiver, and when it was discovered that she was not, claimed she **would be getting custody of him at any moment**. (This is someone my child has interacted with maybe half a dozen times over a period of years). She was asked to leave, stated she was going to the lobby, and then somehow \*snuck back into his room\*, had to be asked to leave again, and was barred from coming back to the hospital or contacting him. All of this is thankfully documented in his chart online. Because he was now in the hospital, the meeting with the CPS caseworker was moved back to our home. As the caseworker was arriving, she received a call from her office that someone was there waiting to meet with her. It was \*this friend's parent\*. The caseworker was taken aback and clarified with her that she was only notified about the meeting for the purpose of delivering my stepson and now that he was no longer with her her participation was unnecessary. After her interview with us in which we shared a detailed account of his mental health history, the caseworker stated she had no concerns about my husband and she would let the hospital know it was okay to discharge him into our care until we can discuss next steps (which will likely involve a referral to residential care), but that she had to let us know that when she interviewed my stepson at the hospital, he told her that as soon as he was discharged he planned to run away to be with this friend's parent. At about the same time, the hospital called to clarify with my husband whether my stepson was allowed to speak with this person, because they apparently tried to tell staff that he had told him it was okay. We expressed our concerns with the hospital and they agreed to hold him another night to allow us to try to get some safety precautions in place. We are absolutely shocked and thoroughly disgusted and honestly beyond disbelief. I can understand feeling protective over a child who has told you they've been abused, but this goes far beyond that into completely unhinged territory. We want to try to file an order of protection against this person on behalf of our child so that if she cannot legally contact him again, but it is difficult for me to determine from just googling what kind of order to file because there are multiple types. What would apply here? Other than the custodial interference, are there any other charges a lawyer could help us file, particularly for this person claiming at the ER to be my child's caregiver? If they were actually delusional enough to try to file a motion for emergency custody (they told my stepson there was an emergency custody hearing today, the CPS caseworker confirmed that nothing to that affect has been filed), would they have \*any\* chance of winning that? Please tell me what book I can throw at this person and how to be certain that if my stepson does happen to try to run away again to her house, there are serious consequences for her. TLDR: my child with significant behavior problems ran away to a friend's parent's house, this friend's parent showed up at the ER with them and falsely claimed to be his caregiver, stated she was going to get custody of him, and tried to involve herself in our CPS investigation. How do I keep her away from my kid/make sure she faces consequences for this? | abb21fcfdbd1b008c6b0bbe8215d72b9c91e5d8fae7877b29b7dbffaadcd276e | [
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Adult harboring my runaway child falsely claimed to be their caregiver at the ER. We are in Ohio. I apologize in advance for the length of this post. This story is insane and I am still in complete shock. This past Thursday my extremely troubled teenager (14) assaulted my husband when confronted about a stolen vape pen and then fled to the home of a friend. Police were contacted and he told them my husband assaulted him. No charges were filed against either of them because their stories conflicted and they both had injuries (my husband scratches on his neck from where my stepson grabbed his throat and dug in his nails, my stepson bruises from where my husband pushed him to the ground to get him to let go.) We allowed him to stay the night at this friend’s house to cool off, and he texted that he’d be returning in the morning. The next morning he texted my husband that he hated him, that he was not coming back, and accused my husband of “strangling” him. My husband told him that they both knew that wasn’t what happened, that they needed to discuss his behavior and what our next steps were going to be, and that he couldn’t hide from the consequences of his actions, and upon being blocked, reached out to the parents of the friend, who immediately made it clear they believed my child’s claims that he was abused and were extremely hostile, and then hung up on him and stopped returning texts and phone calls. My husband reported him as a runaway to police, and police went to their address and said my stepson was refusing to return and there wasn’t anything they could do. They told us we could file charges against these parents for “interference with custody”, which we did first thing Monday morning, but we were told it could be a month before we got a court date. We called his school and told them he was legally listed as a runaway and to contact us immediately if he showed up. On Saturday we had gotten a notice that due to my stepson's claim that my husband was the aggressor, CPS was coming to our house on Tuesday to investigate him, and on Monday, the caseworker contacted us to move the meeting to her office because my stepson was refusing to cooperate unless this friend's parent was there and she wanted him to participate willingly. We agreed. At 6pm Monday, we got a call from our local hospital to inform us our child was there. Apparently, he was sent to the hospital from the school due to a behavioral outburst. The school never contacted us because they were notified about the CPS case and were "concerned there were safety issues at home". According to the hospital social worker, this friend’s parent showed up at the ER, claimed to be his caregiver, and when it was discovered that she was not, claimed she **would be getting custody of him at any moment**. (This is someone my child has interacted with maybe half a dozen times over a period of years). She was asked to leave, stated she was going to the lobby, and then somehow \*snuck back into his room\*, had to be asked to leave again, and was barred from coming back to the hospital or contacting him. All of this is thankfully documented in his chart online. Because he was now in the hospital, the meeting with the CPS caseworker was moved back to our home. As the caseworker was arriving, she received a call from her office that someone was there waiting to meet with her. It was \*this friend's parent\*. The caseworker was taken aback and clarified with her that she was only notified about the meeting for the purpose of delivering my stepson and now that he was no longer with her her participation was unnecessary. After her interview with us in which we shared a detailed account of his mental health history, the caseworker stated she had no concerns about my husband and she would let the hospital know it was okay to discharge him into our care until we can discuss next steps (which will likely involve a referral to residential care), but that she had to let us know that when she interviewed my stepson at the hospital, he told her that as soon as he was discharged he planned to run away to be with this friend's parent. At about the same time, the hospital called to clarify with my husband whether my stepson was allowed to speak with this person, because they apparently tried to tell staff that he had told him it was okay. We expressed our concerns with the hospital and they agreed to hold him another night to allow us to try to get some safety precautions in place. We are absolutely shocked and thoroughly disgusted and honestly beyond disbelief. I can understand feeling protective over a child who has told you they've been abused, but this goes far beyond that into completely unhinged territory. We want to try to file an order of protection against this person on behalf of our child so that if she cannot legally contact him again, but it is difficult for me to determine from just googling what kind of order to file because there are multiple types. What would apply here? Other than the custodial interference, are there any other charges a lawyer could help us file, particularly for this person claiming at the ER to be my child's caregiver? If they were actually delusional enough to try to file a motion for emergency custody (they told my stepson there was an emergency custody hearing today, the CPS caseworker confirmed that nothing to that affect has been filed), would they have \*any\* chance of winning that? Please tell me what book I can throw at this person and how to be certain that if my stepson does happen to try to run away again to her house, there are serious consequences for her. TLDR: my child with significant behavior problems ran away to a friend's parent's house, this friend's parent showed up at the ER with them and falsely claimed to be his caregiver, stated she was going to get custody of him, and tried to involve herself in our CPS investigation. How do I keep her away from my kid/make sure she faces consequences for this? | abb21fcfdbd1b008c6b0bbe8215d72b9c91e5d8fae7877b29b7dbffaadcd276e | [
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Adult harboring my runaway child falsely claimed to be their caregiver at the ER. We are in Ohio. I apologize in advance for the length of this post. This story is insane and I am still in complete shock. This past Thursday my extremely troubled teenager (14) assaulted my husband when confronted about a stolen vape pen and then fled to the home of a friend. Police were contacted and he told them my husband assaulted him. No charges were filed against either of them because their stories conflicted and they both had injuries (my husband scratches on his neck from where my stepson grabbed his throat and dug in his nails, my stepson bruises from where my husband pushed him to the ground to get him to let go.) We allowed him to stay the night at this friend’s house to cool off, and he texted that he’d be returning in the morning. The next morning he texted my husband that he hated him, that he was not coming back, and accused my husband of “strangling” him. My husband told him that they both knew that wasn’t what happened, that they needed to discuss his behavior and what our next steps were going to be, and that he couldn’t hide from the consequences of his actions, and upon being blocked, reached out to the parents of the friend, who immediately made it clear they believed my child’s claims that he was abused and were extremely hostile, and then hung up on him and stopped returning texts and phone calls. My husband reported him as a runaway to police, and police went to their address and said my stepson was refusing to return and there wasn’t anything they could do. They told us we could file charges against these parents for “interference with custody”, which we did first thing Monday morning, but we were told it could be a month before we got a court date. We called his school and told them he was legally listed as a runaway and to contact us immediately if he showed up. On Saturday we had gotten a notice that due to my stepson's claim that my husband was the aggressor, CPS was coming to our house on Tuesday to investigate him, and on Monday, the caseworker contacted us to move the meeting to her office because my stepson was refusing to cooperate unless this friend's parent was there and she wanted him to participate willingly. We agreed. At 6pm Monday, we got a call from our local hospital to inform us our child was there. Apparently, he was sent to the hospital from the school due to a behavioral outburst. The school never contacted us because they were notified about the CPS case and were "concerned there were safety issues at home". According to the hospital social worker, this friend’s parent showed up at the ER, claimed to be his caregiver, and when it was discovered that she was not, claimed she **would be getting custody of him at any moment**. (This is someone my child has interacted with maybe half a dozen times over a period of years). She was asked to leave, stated she was going to the lobby, and then somehow \*snuck back into his room\*, had to be asked to leave again, and was barred from coming back to the hospital or contacting him. All of this is thankfully documented in his chart online. Because he was now in the hospital, the meeting with the CPS caseworker was moved back to our home. As the caseworker was arriving, she received a call from her office that someone was there waiting to meet with her. It was \*this friend's parent\*. The caseworker was taken aback and clarified with her that she was only notified about the meeting for the purpose of delivering my stepson and now that he was no longer with her her participation was unnecessary. After her interview with us in which we shared a detailed account of his mental health history, the caseworker stated she had no concerns about my husband and she would let the hospital know it was okay to discharge him into our care until we can discuss next steps (which will likely involve a referral to residential care), but that she had to let us know that when she interviewed my stepson at the hospital, he told her that as soon as he was discharged he planned to run away to be with this friend's parent. At about the same time, the hospital called to clarify with my husband whether my stepson was allowed to speak with this person, because they apparently tried to tell staff that he had told him it was okay. We expressed our concerns with the hospital and they agreed to hold him another night to allow us to try to get some safety precautions in place. We are absolutely shocked and thoroughly disgusted and honestly beyond disbelief. I can understand feeling protective over a child who has told you they've been abused, but this goes far beyond that into completely unhinged territory. We want to try to file an order of protection against this person on behalf of our child so that if she cannot legally contact him again, but it is difficult for me to determine from just googling what kind of order to file because there are multiple types. What would apply here? Other than the custodial interference, are there any other charges a lawyer could help us file, particularly for this person claiming at the ER to be my child's caregiver? If they were actually delusional enough to try to file a motion for emergency custody (they told my stepson there was an emergency custody hearing today, the CPS caseworker confirmed that nothing to that affect has been filed), would they have \*any\* chance of winning that? Please tell me what book I can throw at this person and how to be certain that if my stepson does happen to try to run away again to her house, there are serious consequences for her. TLDR: my child with significant behavior problems ran away to a friend's parent's house, this friend's parent showed up at the ER with them and falsely claimed to be his caregiver, stated she was going to get custody of him, and tried to involve herself in our CPS investigation. How do I keep her away from my kid/make sure she faces consequences for this? | abb21fcfdbd1b008c6b0bbe8215d72b9c91e5d8fae7877b29b7dbffaadcd276e | [
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What can I do to make my neighbor stop falsely telling people I'm a pedophile? For a bit of background I'm in Nova Scotia, 28 years old and married to my wife who is 24 years old. She is very petite and has a face that makes her look young but she is certainly 24. I looked online and the best description I can give is that she looks a bit like Miranda Cosgrove except younger looking. Basically what happened is that I moved to my best-friend's hometown to open a business that they needed with him. We have just started and things are looking good except that my neighbour is telling people that I'm a pedophile. This has resulted in me having to show my wife's ID to some customers so they know I'm not some sort of pervert. I had a client tell me that the person who told him I was a pedophile was my neighbour (he gave her name). I'm also sure it's her because I leave for work at 6 am which is the same time my wife goes out for a run, and we always kiss goodbye as I get in my truck. The only other person up at that time is my next door neighbour who walks her dogs then. She never says hello and gives us nasty looks which I never understood until the rumors started. This is something that is a huge issue for me because where I live is small enough for people to know each other and if I get known as a pedophile our business will be done. I haven't ever been in trouble with the law and when me and my wife tried to show the neighbour her ID and explain she wouldn't answer the door. I brought this to the attention to the local police who talked to her but I'm still getting people looking at me with anger and our business is losing customers. Whenever I do talk to someone who seems angry with me and prove to them that I'm not who they think I am they keep either telling me that the neighbour told them or that they heard it from someone else. The police have been nice enough to keep going back to her place but I don't know what else I can do. I wanted to go to a lawyer but if she is willing to ignore what the cops say would she really listen to a letter from a lawyer? I'm at the point where I'm just wondering if I should sue her for slander. What else can I do? She won't talk to me and she won't listen to the cops. Can I, or should I sue? What should I do at this point? | 6201a8aad416ad4be0366c4844ff0b32b22fd9a563caddf1433c1dd424ad87a3 | [
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What can I do to make my neighbor stop falsely telling people I'm a pedophile? For a bit of background I'm in Nova Scotia, 28 years old and married to my wife who is 24 years old. She is very petite and has a face that makes her look young but she is certainly 24. I looked online and the best description I can give is that she looks a bit like Miranda Cosgrove except younger looking. Basically what happened is that I moved to my best-friend's hometown to open a business that they needed with him. We have just started and things are looking good except that my neighbour is telling people that I'm a pedophile. This has resulted in me having to show my wife's ID to some customers so they know I'm not some sort of pervert. I had a client tell me that the person who told him I was a pedophile was my neighbour (he gave her name). I'm also sure it's her because I leave for work at 6 am which is the same time my wife goes out for a run, and we always kiss goodbye as I get in my truck. The only other person up at that time is my next door neighbour who walks her dogs then. She never says hello and gives us nasty looks which I never understood until the rumors started. This is something that is a huge issue for me because where I live is small enough for people to know each other and if I get known as a pedophile our business will be done. I haven't ever been in trouble with the law and when me and my wife tried to show the neighbour her ID and explain she wouldn't answer the door. I brought this to the attention to the local police who talked to her but I'm still getting people looking at me with anger and our business is losing customers. Whenever I do talk to someone who seems angry with me and prove to them that I'm not who they think I am they keep either telling me that the neighbour told them or that they heard it from someone else. The police have been nice enough to keep going back to her place but I don't know what else I can do. I wanted to go to a lawyer but if she is willing to ignore what the cops say would she really listen to a letter from a lawyer? I'm at the point where I'm just wondering if I should sue her for slander. What else can I do? She won't talk to me and she won't listen to the cops. Can I, or should I sue? What should I do at this point? | 6201a8aad416ad4be0366c4844ff0b32b22fd9a563caddf1433c1dd424ad87a3 | [
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Given the wrong injection at a clinic Hello! I would like to start off by saying I understand that medical malpractice can be difficult to prove in some cases but this seems fairly cut and dry to me, and I’d appreciate some insight. I’m a 30-something woman in the state of Virginia. I went into a clinic for a routine Pap smear about a month ago. The doctor and I discussed the normal things one discusses at these visits - general health and activities, birth control, pregnancy, etc. I mentioned that I did not want to be on hormonal birth control as it causes issues and that I am sexually active with a partner I trust. I also said that if I get pregnant, I am keeping it. They gave me prenatal vitamins. They also asked me if I’d like to get the HPV vaccine and I said yes. They administered Gardasil via injection and I made another appointment for a booster shot one month later. Fast forward about a week - my pap comes back normal. Fast forward a month and I go to my next vaccine appointment. When I show up, they ask me to pee in a cup. I ask them why and they say for a pregnancy test. I told them I didn’t know I had to take one for a vaccine and that I would have prepared because I just peed. I ask for water and proceed to drink tap water for about 15 minutes until I can give them enough urine for the test. My pregnancy test comes back negative according to the nurse and she administers the injection. I still thought it was odd that I needed a pregnancy test since they didn’t test me on the first visit. Upon leaving the room, I turn around and jokingly say to the nurse “you gave me the HPV vaccine right? Haha” and she laughs and says “haha yeah”. I then proceeded to make my third and last appointment to finish the series of vaccinations at the front desk. I confirmed that I needed my last HPV vaccine two months from now and they made the appointment. I then went home and started working. When I finished work, I checked my phone and I had two voicemails from a doctor at the clinic saying it’s very important that we talk about my visit today. I haven’t been able to reach them after hours so I logged into the patient portal and downloaded my records. It shows that I was injected with Depo-Provera birth control instead of Gardasil. Is this malpractice? I will speak to the doctor soon but is there anything I should avoid here from a legal perspective? Should I consult a lawyer? Is it worth it? Thank you! | 7bf2e4ce409a7435fdb84715da7fcf83d1e99e0042d61863f873793471279f63 | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Bank refusing to return a large wire transfer which was deposited to the wrong account I wired a large amount of money from my account to a family member's account (the intended account is also part of the same large US bank so it's effectively an internal transfer). I used the wrong account number but the correct family member's name. The wire was deposited to the (wrong) account and this beneficiary has refused to return it when the bank requested my money back. The bank says I have no recourse and they won't divulge the details of the beneficiary they say that's protected information. I don't know if there is anything I can do in this position? Pretty desperate. | b7b71c13ad7e89e83173d27f15d575efeb95a62c983203e6128186c16974131e | [
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Fertility Dr. is charging us for her own mistake. (U.S.) My wife and I are doing invitro fertilization in the U.S. with a fertility doctor. In January 2022, the Dr. told my wife she has a mis-shaped uterus and recommended a surgery to correct it. This surgery was not required, the Dr. said, but recommended because the shape of my wife's uterus could cause complications in child birth. My wife had the surgery done in Feb. 2022, performed by the fertility Dr. Fast forward nine months later to today. We have spent an additional \~$20k on the IVF process. It came time to implant the embryos and the Dr. just informed us that the surgery she performed correcting the shape of my wife's uterus didn't completely fix it and she needs to do it again. She now wants to charge us to do the surgery again is not willing to move forward with the IVF process until it is done. The Dr. wants to do the surgery at a surgery center where we would have to pay cash. The surgery would not be covered by insurance at this surgery center. We keep trying to get the surgery scheduled at a hospital so insurance will cover it, but the Dr. is making that difficult. She really wants to do it at this surgery center where we will have to pay cash. In my opinion, the Dr. should do the surgery for free. We already paid to have it done once, she didn't do it correctly, and now we're being held in a position where the $20k we've spent so far goes to nothing if we don't pay the Dr. again to do the surgery. Do I have any recourse here? | 57860fe380e039d8d8688b5d1f3e56a7f7c77505b4702a2b6ff8429e4a2d6830 | [
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Fertility Dr. is charging us for her own mistake. (U.S.) My wife and I are doing invitro fertilization in the U.S. with a fertility doctor. In January 2022, the Dr. told my wife she has a mis-shaped uterus and recommended a surgery to correct it. This surgery was not required, the Dr. said, but recommended because the shape of my wife's uterus could cause complications in child birth. My wife had the surgery done in Feb. 2022, performed by the fertility Dr. Fast forward nine months later to today. We have spent an additional \~$20k on the IVF process. It came time to implant the embryos and the Dr. just informed us that the surgery she performed correcting the shape of my wife's uterus didn't completely fix it and she needs to do it again. She now wants to charge us to do the surgery again is not willing to move forward with the IVF process until it is done. The Dr. wants to do the surgery at a surgery center where we would have to pay cash. The surgery would not be covered by insurance at this surgery center. We keep trying to get the surgery scheduled at a hospital so insurance will cover it, but the Dr. is making that difficult. She really wants to do it at this surgery center where we will have to pay cash. In my opinion, the Dr. should do the surgery for free. We already paid to have it done once, she didn't do it correctly, and now we're being held in a position where the $20k we've spent so far goes to nothing if we don't pay the Dr. again to do the surgery. Do I have any recourse here? | 57860fe380e039d8d8688b5d1f3e56a7f7c77505b4702a2b6ff8429e4a2d6830 | [
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Fertility Dr. is charging us for her own mistake. (U.S.) My wife and I are doing invitro fertilization in the U.S. with a fertility doctor. In January 2022, the Dr. told my wife she has a mis-shaped uterus and recommended a surgery to correct it. This surgery was not required, the Dr. said, but recommended because the shape of my wife's uterus could cause complications in child birth. My wife had the surgery done in Feb. 2022, performed by the fertility Dr. Fast forward nine months later to today. We have spent an additional \~$20k on the IVF process. It came time to implant the embryos and the Dr. just informed us that the surgery she performed correcting the shape of my wife's uterus didn't completely fix it and she needs to do it again. She now wants to charge us to do the surgery again is not willing to move forward with the IVF process until it is done. The Dr. wants to do the surgery at a surgery center where we would have to pay cash. The surgery would not be covered by insurance at this surgery center. We keep trying to get the surgery scheduled at a hospital so insurance will cover it, but the Dr. is making that difficult. She really wants to do it at this surgery center where we will have to pay cash. In my opinion, the Dr. should do the surgery for free. We already paid to have it done once, she didn't do it correctly, and now we're being held in a position where the $20k we've spent so far goes to nothing if we don't pay the Dr. again to do the surgery. Do I have any recourse here? | 57860fe380e039d8d8688b5d1f3e56a7f7c77505b4702a2b6ff8429e4a2d6830 | [
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Fertility Dr. is charging us for her own mistake. (U.S.) My wife and I are doing invitro fertilization in the U.S. with a fertility doctor. In January 2022, the Dr. told my wife she has a mis-shaped uterus and recommended a surgery to correct it. This surgery was not required, the Dr. said, but recommended because the shape of my wife's uterus could cause complications in child birth. My wife had the surgery done in Feb. 2022, performed by the fertility Dr. Fast forward nine months later to today. We have spent an additional \~$20k on the IVF process. It came time to implant the embryos and the Dr. just informed us that the surgery she performed correcting the shape of my wife's uterus didn't completely fix it and she needs to do it again. She now wants to charge us to do the surgery again is not willing to move forward with the IVF process until it is done. The Dr. wants to do the surgery at a surgery center where we would have to pay cash. The surgery would not be covered by insurance at this surgery center. We keep trying to get the surgery scheduled at a hospital so insurance will cover it, but the Dr. is making that difficult. She really wants to do it at this surgery center where we will have to pay cash. In my opinion, the Dr. should do the surgery for free. We already paid to have it done once, she didn't do it correctly, and now we're being held in a position where the $20k we've spent so far goes to nothing if we don't pay the Dr. again to do the surgery. Do I have any recourse here? | 57860fe380e039d8d8688b5d1f3e56a7f7c77505b4702a2b6ff8429e4a2d6830 | [
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Fertility Dr. is charging us for her own mistake. (U.S.) My wife and I are doing invitro fertilization in the U.S. with a fertility doctor. In January 2022, the Dr. told my wife she has a mis-shaped uterus and recommended a surgery to correct it. This surgery was not required, the Dr. said, but recommended because the shape of my wife's uterus could cause complications in child birth. My wife had the surgery done in Feb. 2022, performed by the fertility Dr. Fast forward nine months later to today. We have spent an additional \~$20k on the IVF process. It came time to implant the embryos and the Dr. just informed us that the surgery she performed correcting the shape of my wife's uterus didn't completely fix it and she needs to do it again. She now wants to charge us to do the surgery again is not willing to move forward with the IVF process until it is done. The Dr. wants to do the surgery at a surgery center where we would have to pay cash. The surgery would not be covered by insurance at this surgery center. We keep trying to get the surgery scheduled at a hospital so insurance will cover it, but the Dr. is making that difficult. She really wants to do it at this surgery center where we will have to pay cash. In my opinion, the Dr. should do the surgery for free. We already paid to have it done once, she didn't do it correctly, and now we're being held in a position where the $20k we've spent so far goes to nothing if we don't pay the Dr. again to do the surgery. Do I have any recourse here? | 57860fe380e039d8d8688b5d1f3e56a7f7c77505b4702a2b6ff8429e4a2d6830 | [
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Is it legal for my employer to ask me, and only me, to change my hair color? [Texas] I have had blonde hair for 1 and 1/2 of the 2 years that I have been employed by my company. Today a supervisor told me that my hair color was inappropriate, and that I would not be allowed to return to work until I changed it. This caught me by surprise because our official policy vaguely says “no unnatural hair colors” which I, and many others interpreted to mean no colors such as blue, pink, green etc. I have many coworkers who have dyed their hair blonde and other various shades of naturally occurring colors with no issue. The only difference I can see between me and my other coworkers is that they are all white and I am African American (female). My company employee makeup is about 99.5% white, (I did the math), and I can’t help but feel there is racial undertones to why it is inappropriate for me to have blonde hair, but not others. My response to my supervisor was that I was unaware my hair color choice was inappropriate, and I asked why I had never received any sort of notice that it was inappropriate in the 1+ year of having the hair color. My supervisor did not acknowledge my response, and said that I would have to dye my hair to a “naturally dark” shade before being allowed to return to work. I did not want to misinterpret what she said, and so I asked for photos of acceptable hair color for clarification which I am still waiting to receive from her. She said she would need to discuss an appropriate hair color for me with her boss before she got back with me. Her boss is a white woman with naturally dark hair who bleaches her hair to a similar shade of blonde as I do. I also would like to add that in my time with this company I have never had any disciplinary actions taken against me, and I was under the impression - up until this point - that I was in very good standing with my company. | 53af9e7e50a0873a2386fecccce13853fe9aeb5b9879e9b34762bc33b6656bff | [
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