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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Severe accident caused by drunk driver, could have been prevented by Brevard County Sheriff (FL) Last night, I was rear ended by a drunk driver who fled the scene of the accident. During the hour or so I waited for police to locate him, I heard the county Sheriff telling another officer that he’d spoken with the man earlier that night and told him “not to drive.” After calling and speaking with the State Trooper who had arrived on scene of the wreck, I asked for closure on the incident and inquired as to why the drunk driver was not charged with a DUI in court today. During the phone call with the Trooper, he informed me that the county Sheriff had been called to the man’s residence prior for domestic battery. While the police were there, they determined the man was extremely intoxicated and advised him not to drive that evening. Well, he drove anyways and would have killed my spouse, my dog, and myself if it weren’t for the fact we were driving a tank of a truck. So here’s the kicker, our drunk friend was awaiting trial and already on probation (he’s a real piece of work with multiple felony charges). The State Trooper informed that him being intoxicated means the officers should have arrested him on the spot. If their job had been done correctly, my truck wouldn’t be totaled and my family wouldn’t be experiencing severe pain. However, when making a call to the County Sheriff who had responded to the battery call, he informed me that there was “no probable cause” and therefore he didn’t make an arrest. So my question Reddit dwellers is: What legal actions can I take from here? I feel as though the Brevard County Sheriff’s Department failed and it’s directly effected me financially, physically, and emotionally. | 02429e956262fd97e6dae067e010d86430cdd1ecb7120371d3bde2adc23ba688 | [
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Severe accident caused by drunk driver, could have been prevented by Brevard County Sheriff (FL) Last night, I was rear ended by a drunk driver who fled the scene of the accident. During the hour or so I waited for police to locate him, I heard the county Sheriff telling another officer that he’d spoken with the man earlier that night and told him “not to drive.” After calling and speaking with the State Trooper who had arrived on scene of the wreck, I asked for closure on the incident and inquired as to why the drunk driver was not charged with a DUI in court today. During the phone call with the Trooper, he informed me that the county Sheriff had been called to the man’s residence prior for domestic battery. While the police were there, they determined the man was extremely intoxicated and advised him not to drive that evening. Well, he drove anyways and would have killed my spouse, my dog, and myself if it weren’t for the fact we were driving a tank of a truck. So here’s the kicker, our drunk friend was awaiting trial and already on probation (he’s a real piece of work with multiple felony charges). The State Trooper informed that him being intoxicated means the officers should have arrested him on the spot. If their job had been done correctly, my truck wouldn’t be totaled and my family wouldn’t be experiencing severe pain. However, when making a call to the County Sheriff who had responded to the battery call, he informed me that there was “no probable cause” and therefore he didn’t make an arrest. So my question Reddit dwellers is: What legal actions can I take from here? I feel as though the Brevard County Sheriff’s Department failed and it’s directly effected me financially, physically, and emotionally. | 02429e956262fd97e6dae067e010d86430cdd1ecb7120371d3bde2adc23ba688 | [
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I have sunbathed nude on my patio for 25 years, thanks to an 8-foot privacy fence, and trees that go even higher. The 1-story house next to me was demolished, and replaced with a 2-story house that has several upstairs windows facing my nude sunbathing area. What are my options? (Lee County, FL). I have enjoyed nude sunbathing on my patio for 25 years, thanks to an 8-foot privacy fence, and trees that go even higher. Recently, the 1-story house next to me was demolished, and replaced with a 2-story house that has several windows with a direct line of sight to my nude sunbathing area. 1. If I continue my nude sunbathing and am seen, is this illegal? They're the ones who built windows looking over my fence. 2. For the sake of my own privacy, can I force them to pay for installing trees or shades to block the view? Why should I have to pay for thirty foot tall trees when they're the ones who built the house? Thanks! | b0eabd53b59a42796ea44b9e01f3bc3d3b88ec7174a1cdec4105ad054487a827 | [
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Mother is actively trying to get me committed, she thinks she can cash out my life insurance. So, I'll start off here by saying that I do have an alcohol problem. I have gone to a rehabilitation hospital, and I have a sponsor and I'm completing the steps. I've just had a few bumps along the way. When I began my job here in downtown Chicago, I had been going through the process of moving in with my then girlfriend. Our rent is high, but we took what was available in the small town we live in. We eventually broke up amicably, and parted ways. She however left me on the lease, and moved out. This overnight left me with an additional $600 or so in debt, at least. One thing led to another and I sought treatment but that meant missing out on work. I also was very good at my job and loved it there. So work eventually let me go, because I ran out of FMLA time. I did try and work with them, but ended up getting evicted and that really triggered my habit. My mother had gotten a benefits package from my work when I started. (And she opened my mail.) She was listed as a beneficiary to all my disability benefits, including life insurance. So one day, she decided to start gathering documentation. She told my ex girlfriend who had moved out that she wanted me declared disabled. The motivation on her part is monetary only. She actually has been virtually unsupportive of me and my road to recovery. (I understand this is not how things work, she can't cash out on me somehow.) But here we are. I know she's been talking to an attorney and on my latest trip to the hospital for treatment she "petitioned me." which was pretty much them putting me in a room when I asked to leave. I've talked to the social worker that night and she found no reason to keep me. Since then I've decided to go back to rehab to get better. In the meantime, I moved back in with my mom and dad. - My dad has been very supportive. Today when helping me move, she mentioned that she wants me to "sign contracts" before I can stay. I also want to mention, that this isn't the first time she's done things to have me put away. I had talked to a psychiatrist about it who said my best bet is to get an order of protection. So here I am, trying to seek help, trying to recover and I mentioned I'd like to visit the same hospital where I had gotten my inpatient and outpatient treatment. She said that "I may not get to choose." and I'm going to do what my attorney said. I am a fully functioning adult. Today, she told me I shouldn't call my sponsor to talk. My dad thought that she was right somehow and agreed. I'm not sure this is the best environment, but if I leave- there's a possibility I'll either be homeless, or somewhere that I'm far away from the opportunity to work. What would be the best way to approach this. I don't want to burn a bridge with her, and she's done some really serious things that concern me. Example, on a hot summer night I slept in the nude. She took pictures, and sent them to my ex girlfriends. (They were not welcome.) I'm worried about my safety. I also know with the correct support and treatment, I'll be okay. But her negativity is not something I can tolerate for long. Also, my ex girlfriend is out of state, finishing school. She's a psych major, so she knows how to support me. My mom had contacted her, and accused of her of being an enabler and even went to far as to say she gave me pills? It was regular blood pressure medication I had on the counter. It's getting to the point with my mom where she's attempting to control me. I'm 32 years old with a very treatable problem. I know it comes off as "a protective mom." but I've had different people, from police to firefighters that told me to stay away from her. Legally, what can happen- what do I do? What would be the best approach? ​ ​ | b21dca03c6cb8e0259aa2b7e48d04fa581a6fd54fe71515cf174009c85b080d9 | [
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Mother is actively trying to get me committed, she thinks she can cash out my life insurance. So, I'll start off here by saying that I do have an alcohol problem. I have gone to a rehabilitation hospital, and I have a sponsor and I'm completing the steps. I've just had a few bumps along the way. When I began my job here in downtown Chicago, I had been going through the process of moving in with my then girlfriend. Our rent is high, but we took what was available in the small town we live in. We eventually broke up amicably, and parted ways. She however left me on the lease, and moved out. This overnight left me with an additional $600 or so in debt, at least. One thing led to another and I sought treatment but that meant missing out on work. I also was very good at my job and loved it there. So work eventually let me go, because I ran out of FMLA time. I did try and work with them, but ended up getting evicted and that really triggered my habit. My mother had gotten a benefits package from my work when I started. (And she opened my mail.) She was listed as a beneficiary to all my disability benefits, including life insurance. So one day, she decided to start gathering documentation. She told my ex girlfriend who had moved out that she wanted me declared disabled. The motivation on her part is monetary only. She actually has been virtually unsupportive of me and my road to recovery. (I understand this is not how things work, she can't cash out on me somehow.) But here we are. I know she's been talking to an attorney and on my latest trip to the hospital for treatment she "petitioned me." which was pretty much them putting me in a room when I asked to leave. I've talked to the social worker that night and she found no reason to keep me. Since then I've decided to go back to rehab to get better. In the meantime, I moved back in with my mom and dad. - My dad has been very supportive. Today when helping me move, she mentioned that she wants me to "sign contracts" before I can stay. I also want to mention, that this isn't the first time she's done things to have me put away. I had talked to a psychiatrist about it who said my best bet is to get an order of protection. So here I am, trying to seek help, trying to recover and I mentioned I'd like to visit the same hospital where I had gotten my inpatient and outpatient treatment. She said that "I may not get to choose." and I'm going to do what my attorney said. I am a fully functioning adult. Today, she told me I shouldn't call my sponsor to talk. My dad thought that she was right somehow and agreed. I'm not sure this is the best environment, but if I leave- there's a possibility I'll either be homeless, or somewhere that I'm far away from the opportunity to work. What would be the best way to approach this. I don't want to burn a bridge with her, and she's done some really serious things that concern me. Example, on a hot summer night I slept in the nude. She took pictures, and sent them to my ex girlfriends. (They were not welcome.) I'm worried about my safety. I also know with the correct support and treatment, I'll be okay. But her negativity is not something I can tolerate for long. Also, my ex girlfriend is out of state, finishing school. She's a psych major, so she knows how to support me. My mom had contacted her, and accused of her of being an enabler and even went to far as to say she gave me pills? It was regular blood pressure medication I had on the counter. It's getting to the point with my mom where she's attempting to control me. I'm 32 years old with a very treatable problem. I know it comes off as "a protective mom." but I've had different people, from police to firefighters that told me to stay away from her. Legally, what can happen- what do I do? What would be the best approach? ​ ​ | b21dca03c6cb8e0259aa2b7e48d04fa581a6fd54fe71515cf174009c85b080d9 | [
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Mother is actively trying to get me committed, she thinks she can cash out my life insurance. So, I'll start off here by saying that I do have an alcohol problem. I have gone to a rehabilitation hospital, and I have a sponsor and I'm completing the steps. I've just had a few bumps along the way. When I began my job here in downtown Chicago, I had been going through the process of moving in with my then girlfriend. Our rent is high, but we took what was available in the small town we live in. We eventually broke up amicably, and parted ways. She however left me on the lease, and moved out. This overnight left me with an additional $600 or so in debt, at least. One thing led to another and I sought treatment but that meant missing out on work. I also was very good at my job and loved it there. So work eventually let me go, because I ran out of FMLA time. I did try and work with them, but ended up getting evicted and that really triggered my habit. My mother had gotten a benefits package from my work when I started. (And she opened my mail.) She was listed as a beneficiary to all my disability benefits, including life insurance. So one day, she decided to start gathering documentation. She told my ex girlfriend who had moved out that she wanted me declared disabled. The motivation on her part is monetary only. She actually has been virtually unsupportive of me and my road to recovery. (I understand this is not how things work, she can't cash out on me somehow.) But here we are. I know she's been talking to an attorney and on my latest trip to the hospital for treatment she "petitioned me." which was pretty much them putting me in a room when I asked to leave. I've talked to the social worker that night and she found no reason to keep me. Since then I've decided to go back to rehab to get better. In the meantime, I moved back in with my mom and dad. - My dad has been very supportive. Today when helping me move, she mentioned that she wants me to "sign contracts" before I can stay. I also want to mention, that this isn't the first time she's done things to have me put away. I had talked to a psychiatrist about it who said my best bet is to get an order of protection. So here I am, trying to seek help, trying to recover and I mentioned I'd like to visit the same hospital where I had gotten my inpatient and outpatient treatment. She said that "I may not get to choose." and I'm going to do what my attorney said. I am a fully functioning adult. Today, she told me I shouldn't call my sponsor to talk. My dad thought that she was right somehow and agreed. I'm not sure this is the best environment, but if I leave- there's a possibility I'll either be homeless, or somewhere that I'm far away from the opportunity to work. What would be the best way to approach this. I don't want to burn a bridge with her, and she's done some really serious things that concern me. Example, on a hot summer night I slept in the nude. She took pictures, and sent them to my ex girlfriends. (They were not welcome.) I'm worried about my safety. I also know with the correct support and treatment, I'll be okay. But her negativity is not something I can tolerate for long. Also, my ex girlfriend is out of state, finishing school. She's a psych major, so she knows how to support me. My mom had contacted her, and accused of her of being an enabler and even went to far as to say she gave me pills? It was regular blood pressure medication I had on the counter. It's getting to the point with my mom where she's attempting to control me. I'm 32 years old with a very treatable problem. I know it comes off as "a protective mom." but I've had different people, from police to firefighters that told me to stay away from her. Legally, what can happen- what do I do? What would be the best approach? ​ ​ | b21dca03c6cb8e0259aa2b7e48d04fa581a6fd54fe71515cf174009c85b080d9 | [
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(CA)I paid cash at an EXPRESS retail store and was told I can only receive my change in the form of a gift card... It gets worse. I went to EXPRESS today to buy dress shirts. Due to being 6'5" they didn't have my size in store but they told me they could deliver the correct size to my house. After giving them my info for delivery they give me the total of $242 and change. I give the lady $245 in cash. Apparently, in order for them to complete this trasaction they need to convert the cash into a gift card. She does this but she makes the gift card for the amount of $245 and not the true amount. When she tried to hand me the $2+ back in the form of a gift card (I never wanted a gift card, asked for a gift card, or bought a gift card) I let her know I would prefer to get cash for change instead. She calls her manager over and the manager tells me they can't cash it out and I'll have to just take the gift card with a $2-$3 balance. At this point I ask the manager if I can just cancel my order and get my $245 cash back. She tells me that is possible and that she just needs to make a call. After calling and cancelling the order, the manager finds that she still can't get the cash off of the gift card that I never bought. She makes a few more calls to the store manager and HR and comes to the conclusion that even though the order is cancelled it is impossible for them to give me any cash today, and that if I come back tomorrow they might have a better shot at giving me my cash back. I walk away dumbfounded that I just walked into a retail store, gave them cash, completed no sale, and leave with a gift card for $245 that I never wanted or even tried to buy, with no other options. My feeling is that there is no way this can be legal. How could a retailer as big as EXPRESS have policies that would allow this? Do I have any options or do I just keep going back trying to get cash for a gift card I never bought? | 60550b182fa7521737eb2de325b5df28985068c138785d9028067b0fcd8264fb | [
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