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Is it legal for my employer to ask me, and only me, to change my hair color? [Texas] I have had blonde hair for 1 and 1/2 of the 2 years that I have been employed by my company. Today a supervisor told me that my hair color was inappropriate, and that I would not be allowed to return to work until I changed it. This caught me by surprise because our official policy vaguely says “no unnatural hair colors” which I, and many others interpreted to mean no colors such as blue, pink, green etc. I have many coworkers who have dyed their hair blonde and other various shades of naturally occurring colors with no issue. The only difference I can see between me and my other coworkers is that they are all white and I am African American (female). My company employee makeup is about 99.5% white, (I did the math), and I can’t help but feel there is racial undertones to why it is inappropriate for me to have blonde hair, but not others. My response to my supervisor was that I was unaware my hair color choice was inappropriate, and I asked why I had never received any sort of notice that it was inappropriate in the 1+ year of having the hair color. My supervisor did not acknowledge my response, and said that I would have to dye my hair to a “naturally dark” shade before being allowed to return to work. I did not want to misinterpret what she said, and so I asked for photos of acceptable hair color for clarification which I am still waiting to receive from her. She said she would need to discuss an appropriate hair color for me with her boss before she got back with me. Her boss is a white woman with naturally dark hair who bleaches her hair to a similar shade of blonde as I do. I also would like to add that in my time with this company I have never had any disciplinary actions taken against me, and I was under the impression - up until this point - that I was in very good standing with my company. | 53af9e7e50a0873a2386fecccce13853fe9aeb5b9879e9b34762bc33b6656bff | [
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Is it legal for my employer to ask me, and only me, to change my hair color? [Texas] I have had blonde hair for 1 and 1/2 of the 2 years that I have been employed by my company. Today a supervisor told me that my hair color was inappropriate, and that I would not be allowed to return to work until I changed it. This caught me by surprise because our official policy vaguely says “no unnatural hair colors” which I, and many others interpreted to mean no colors such as blue, pink, green etc. I have many coworkers who have dyed their hair blonde and other various shades of naturally occurring colors with no issue. The only difference I can see between me and my other coworkers is that they are all white and I am African American (female). My company employee makeup is about 99.5% white, (I did the math), and I can’t help but feel there is racial undertones to why it is inappropriate for me to have blonde hair, but not others. My response to my supervisor was that I was unaware my hair color choice was inappropriate, and I asked why I had never received any sort of notice that it was inappropriate in the 1+ year of having the hair color. My supervisor did not acknowledge my response, and said that I would have to dye my hair to a “naturally dark” shade before being allowed to return to work. I did not want to misinterpret what she said, and so I asked for photos of acceptable hair color for clarification which I am still waiting to receive from her. She said she would need to discuss an appropriate hair color for me with her boss before she got back with me. Her boss is a white woman with naturally dark hair who bleaches her hair to a similar shade of blonde as I do. I also would like to add that in my time with this company I have never had any disciplinary actions taken against me, and I was under the impression - up until this point - that I was in very good standing with my company. | 53af9e7e50a0873a2386fecccce13853fe9aeb5b9879e9b34762bc33b6656bff | [
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[OH] My Wife is attempting to interfere with child custody exchanges with co-parent I have a shared parenting agreement with a woman over our son. We meet a few times a week to exchange, normally everything goes smooth. Occasionally though, the schedule goes awry because of normal complications (traffic, work, etc). However, my wife flips her shit each time and starts harassing me and threatening to harass the other woman. Tomorrow morning I needed to go get my son early in the morning bc the other woman is working, so tonight my wife blocked my car in the garage with her car and is threatening problems if I try to go for my son without her. However, my wife has caused issues in the past and the co-parent has made it clear she doesn’t want my wife there at the exchanges (nor do I, I don’t want any drama, I just want to get my kid and go). Things like this happen all the time with my wife and I’m getting tired of it. Long-term, divorce is looking like the only route out of this, but short-term, do I have any legal recourse against my own wife if she’s continually harassing me and trying to interfere with me raising my other child? | 91460653586e369fba37f5896b5483736a14e73ec995661ca28a7ef6f7758a4e | [
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[WI] Ex Wife is attempting to move children from agreed upon school district for daughters (12 and twin 10) without my agreement. The facts of this one is that I have three daughters that are middle school age and the divorce agreement has a school district directly listed as where they are required to attend. There is no "radius" agreement and the school district is firmly stated. I live approx 125 miles from my children and have joint custody, but she has primary placement for the school reasons. She has unilaterally decided to move the children from the agreed upon school to a new school 45 miles from their current school in a very rural area and the children are not happy and neither am I. They are moving from a suburban area into a very rural area. I was not consulted on a major life issue, she went against an agreement and is stating she can do what she wants, because I moved, but my job location was listed in the divorce judgement, so it hasnt changed since the agreement was finalized. My question is what can I do from here to prevent this? | 3ce36b6d1063c3297d617c64fd65540b0056d84ece7cbfb551ae5ed3b7e63908 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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My parents have lived in my home rent free for 4 years. I've asked them to move out. My parents lost their home due to foreclosure in 2010. Since then they have moved around a lot: \- they spent the first winter in an RV parked at a friends house. I don't know why they left, but they don't talk to that friend anymore. \- they spent the next winter at my aunt's house in GA, living in a room in her house. They left suddenly, telling me that my aunt and uncle didn't like them being there. My aunt has said they left without notice and never told her why. \- they lived in their RV for the summers at a campground. Since we lived in WI at the time, the campground closed in winter. \- they moved the RV to a piece of property owned by a friend. It stayed there for the next 7 years. \- they bought a really shitty trailer in a mobile home park. They were gonna "fix it up." \- my dad lived with another woman for awhile. He says it was only friendship. My mom says that woman told her it was sexual. \- my dad then stayed permanently at the camper in the woods, with no running water, sewer or electric. \- my mom moved in with me and my husband just before our daughter was born, 6 years ago. \- my dad moved in with us when we bought a larger house to accomodate everyone. The friend sold the land the camper was on and my parents sold the camper. Since they have lived with my husband, my daughter and I, things have been tense. Our relationships have all deteriorated. My husband and I have been seeing a counselor, me individually and us as a couple, for over a year. Finally, I decided that this couldn't continue. I'm miserable, so stressed and don't like being at home. I told my husband we could sell our house, tell my parents they had to find a new place to live. I also talked to my brother, asking him to help our parents find a place to live. He said he would. I told them in January that we would be listing the house in May. Since then, we have found a new house and are closing on it on April 6. We plan to list our house earlier than we thought, more like end of April. I wrote this down on a list of Spring dates and things to do to get the house ready to sell. I gave this to my mom and she read it. She didn't say much, but handed it back to me. I hung the list on the fridge. This past weekend, while my parents were away, we cleaned our yard (which had lots of my mom's things in it) in order to prepare for landscapers. I did not tell her we did this (I should have) and when she got home she was mad. Last night, while I was sleeping, she moved it all back in the yard and it is totally destroyed now. Today, we argued about it. My husband wants us to throw them out immediately. My mom says we have to give her at least 30 days written notice. If we don't, she'll file a claim in small claims court and put a lien on our house. My question is this: how is our relationship catecorized? We have no written lease agreement and the house is only in my and my husband's name. What rights do we have as far as asking and enforcing them to leave (should it come to that) and what rights do they have? TLDR: My parents live in my home. I am selling my home and they need to move out. What rights do we each have in this situation? | e9bab2e64ebc73f17bdd058f05f57728ac62cd32b7ef3fb1b2118e5d04aed782 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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[Florida] Police officer came to my house saying a neighbor identified me damaging city property Throwaway, sorry if this doesn’t belong here. Please let me know if anything is amiss and I will update/delete the post. About a month ago, city contractors came by and put up a huge, 2 post construction sign at the edge of my neighbor’s lawn - one of those “Road Construction Ahead” type of orange diamond traffic signs. After about 3-4 days, it was taken down by somebody (assuming it wasn’t the city). About 3-4 days afterwards, a new sign was put back up in its place. These neighbors live behind me. My backyard faces a street that houses a row of houses, with their front lawns facing my back lawn. Fast forward to today and I’m in my driveway cleaning out my car. A police officer pulls up, asks to see my ID, what I’m doing, and if my backyard connects to the street the sign was put up. I explain that it does. He then proceeds to ask me about the sign, specifically saying “Why’d you do it?” I asked him to explain, and he said “the sign isn’t even in your yard, why would you take it down?” I told him I had no idea what he was talking about, that the sign was up, then down, then up again. He went on to tell me that a neighbor (he didn’t specify which neighbor) said he could specifically identify me out of a lineup. I told the officer that perhaps the neighbor was mistaken, or perhaps there’s something else going on as I am the only renter in the neighborhood, which has caused some of my neighbors to get miffed (no clue why, but they seem to take issue with it). Before the officer left my driveway he said he would have to follow up with the neighbor for another description of the person who took the sign down. I didn’t say much of anything to the officer, but after he left I started getting a bit worried/anxious. Do I have anything to be concerned about? Do I need to sit down with an attorney? I already have a fear of police and do not trust many of them (I know that one bad apple doesn’t spoil the bag, but I am wary of the entire institution). Basically, do I need to be concerned? And if so, what should I do? | 39d80d6cf5aeda13ec9e87ae3f9a8fa7e45b4f629bc788bc17f2627768d57989 | [
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Bought a car over a week ago from a dealership. Everything was signed, I got insurance for it, and then I got a call from the dealership last night saying I owe them an additional $2,600....... So like the title says, I've been driving the car for over a week now. I paid $2,500 down, and the rest was financed through the credit union I bank with. The car salesperson was in direct contact with my credit union, faxing info to them and speaking with them on the phone the day I bought the car. I was told that everything was approved, and I signed all the papers and happily drove home in my new car. Last night, the dealership calls me and says that actually the full amount was NOT covered and we owe them an additional $2,600. I am panicking because I worked so hard to build my credit and be financed through my credit union. I do not have an extra $2,600. He quickly said that he already found a different bank we could go through, but I told him I would need to speak with my bank tomorrow(now today) and that I would call him back. I don't understand how I could sign all the papers and be driving the car all week if it wasn't fully financed..... Something feels very off here. I sent an e-mail directly to the salesperson I had been working with asking for an explanation. She did not reply, but instead her boyfriend(who also works there, but is not the same person who called me) sent me an email back. This is what it said: "We have a approval for the same payment that you signed up at it is just with a different bank. Columbia Credit union. Just need you sign a membership application. We can e-mail it to you if you do not want to come to the dealership. Thanks Jason " So not only was my question dodged completely, but they are trying to push me to another credit union. Something feels off here. Should I just return the car to them? Is there something they aren't telling me? Any insight is very much appreciated. My stomach has been in knots over this. | c67a9c8f42c56cbd6e1b8ce6aaa5198edce8a86cfeac6ee95ab5f0f584aa5b19 | [
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Mother wants my older brother to move in my house which I do not agree to Sorry if there's bad grammar, English is my second language. The house, in Texas where my mother and I lived, is currently under my name, my mother did help with the down payment, but ultimately only my name is under the house. My brother is apparently struggling ( I do not have empathy for his situation because his past made me hold a deep grudge against him), and my mother wants him to move in with us. I express my displeasure and continuously said "NO. I do not want to live under the same roof with that man". She still express an interest in letting him move in with us even after all the conversations we had. What can I do to prevent him from moving in? thank you | 82384e22b3271b5fcafd4af77aa9f8b1e5157b409f8a76521a03cc9fd89c13ec | [
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Mother wants my older brother to move in my house which I do not agree to Sorry if there's bad grammar, English is my second language. The house, in Texas where my mother and I lived, is currently under my name, my mother did help with the down payment, but ultimately only my name is under the house. My brother is apparently struggling ( I do not have empathy for his situation because his past made me hold a deep grudge against him), and my mother wants him to move in with us. I express my displeasure and continuously said "NO. I do not want to live under the same roof with that man". She still express an interest in letting him move in with us even after all the conversations we had. What can I do to prevent him from moving in? thank you | 82384e22b3271b5fcafd4af77aa9f8b1e5157b409f8a76521a03cc9fd89c13ec | [
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Mother wants my older brother to move in my house which I do not agree to Sorry if there's bad grammar, English is my second language. The house, in Texas where my mother and I lived, is currently under my name, my mother did help with the down payment, but ultimately only my name is under the house. My brother is apparently struggling ( I do not have empathy for his situation because his past made me hold a deep grudge against him), and my mother wants him to move in with us. I express my displeasure and continuously said "NO. I do not want to live under the same roof with that man". She still express an interest in letting him move in with us even after all the conversations we had. What can I do to prevent him from moving in? thank you | 82384e22b3271b5fcafd4af77aa9f8b1e5157b409f8a76521a03cc9fd89c13ec | [
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My pre teen daughter's abuser is likely getting offered a plea deal of 20 years, he could be out on parole in just 10 years My ex husband who I have 2 daughters with (ages 9 & 10). We got a divorce a few years ago. I found out December 2021 he has been sexually abusing the 10 year old. Inappropriate things happened with my 9 year old too but nothing like my older daughter. He's been charged with aggravated sexual assault of a child, and 2 counts of indecency with a child- one for sexual assault & the other for exposure. Before he was arrested he threatened suicide, sent me a long text asking to talk to the girls one last time (absolutely not!) & he emailed me a loooong confession. My daughter's forensic interview and his confession pretty well aligned according to several people (like the prosecutor, the CPS worker, detective, etc). A bit more was mentioned in the interview by my daughter. He's been in jail since late December; he does not have a bond amount set so he's stuck there thank god. Yesterday I met with the prosecutor. I didn't know going into the meeting that it was about a plea deal. The prosecutor explained that in cases like these they never want it to actually go to trial bc my daughter will have to testify WITH HIM in the court room. So not only would she have to face him, she would have to testify & be asked a ton of awkward questions in a room full of adults/strangers. As an adult, I wouldn't want to do that, I can't imagine a pre-teen having to do that. So I do understand why they'd present these monsters with plea deals like this. Also, the prosecutor has no control over parole. So even if the plea deal ends up being 20 years, he could be out on parole in just 10 years. The prosecutor told me to take a few days, think about if I'm okay with that plea deal, and let her know what I decide. She said ultimately it's her decision what she offers him, but she always takes the victims family's opinion into consideration. My husband and I spent pretty much all yesterday evening & night talking about it. If he got parole, the girls would only be 20 & 21 when he's released! Still basically a kid in my opinion. I was a mess at that age! Still trying to figure out who I am. At that age they still might not quite understand just how awful what he did is. If I knew there was no chance of parole, I would be okay with 20 years, not happy, but at least the girls would be in their 30s. I want to ask her to increase the plea deal to 30 years. I have a couple questions. 1. Why do they make these innocent children face their abuser like that? It doesn't seem fair or like justice at all that they offer him a good plea deal simply bc his victim was a child. I originally thought the forensic interview was used as her testimony but unfortunately that's not true according to the prosecutor & I confirmed this with employee at the interview place. Why can't they just have the child, an adult they trust (for ex, their parent and/or counselor perhaps?), throw in a therapy dog for good measure, and have the judge & attorneys come talk to the victim in a kid friendly room/environment? It could be recorded for the jury, defendant, and other people who would hear her do the testimony in person. 2. The prosecutor also said I'd have a chance to make a statement to my ex husband at his plea deal (if he takes it). She said my statement is completely off the record and it is different than a victim impact statement. I think it starts with an "A"?? Anyone know what word I'm talking about? I'd like to read some examples and watch videos of this so I can prepare myself the best I can. Thanks in advance! | e31cce8b63235e12455168c230752f53318694087a0c2788a59edb66e72408bc | [
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Step daughter is missing on opportunities because biological father "doesn't want to drive" I (34M) married my wife (38 F) 8+ years ago and met my now stepdaughter (12F) one year before that and have been in her life ever since. We have a "standard" visitation court order in Texas where he gets her every 1st, 3rd and 5th weekend of the month + some time during vacation periods. My wife always lived very close to her to ex partner, even after separation. Even after we got married we stayed around there, because we couldn't afford anywhere else to live (we were staying at her sister's garage) and I want making great money. My wife and I had a son, and after some years of struggling with money (and our marriage hurt because of it), we finally started making good money, and after being in couples therapy for a bit, we decided that we needed a fresh start. We looked for places to move. We checked the court order to make sure that we were not violating it and decided only based on what we believed was best for everyone in our family. Bio dad is understandably upset, since now it's a 40+ min drive vs 5 min walk but he's making things very difficult... Mainly for her. Step daughter started playing Rugby 2 years ago and has been kicking butt. She's with a great team that are in the top 10 (highschool) I'm the country, or so I've heard. Most seniors are already getting awesome scholarship offers, etc. I've been paying for everything and taken her to all if her practices and games. Sometimes driving 3-4hr to other cities and stood there in freezing weather all day to watch her kick ass. Unfortunately he says he doesn't like to drive and she's staying to miss practices and games that fall on bio dad's weekend. He won't go see her play (even when the games are close to him), practice, or support her in almost any way. We've offered to drop her off after games if he can't drive/won't drive, but he refuses. This is also affecting other school related activities. She's missed cross country practice and choir performances because the events occurred during "dads time". I believe he's just trying to use her as a weapon because he believes we moved just to make him upset. He when won't sign to get a passport so we can travel as a family (he says he's concerned about safety, or that we won't come back to the country (I'm originally from Mexico, now a US citizen). He's never want to discuss any safety concerns, just won't sign to get a passport. Is there anything that can be done so she doesn't miss so much? | a3a59211c512e9a2909e428b9c3ffe3053971551c13634b24ea53a749ec4f3f1 | [
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Step daughter is missing on opportunities because biological father "doesn't want to drive" I (34M) married my wife (38 F) 8+ years ago and met my now stepdaughter (12F) one year before that and have been in her life ever since. We have a "standard" visitation court order in Texas where he gets her every 1st, 3rd and 5th weekend of the month + some time during vacation periods. My wife always lived very close to her to ex partner, even after separation. Even after we got married we stayed around there, because we couldn't afford anywhere else to live (we were staying at her sister's garage) and I want making great money. My wife and I had a son, and after some years of struggling with money (and our marriage hurt because of it), we finally started making good money, and after being in couples therapy for a bit, we decided that we needed a fresh start. We looked for places to move. We checked the court order to make sure that we were not violating it and decided only based on what we believed was best for everyone in our family. Bio dad is understandably upset, since now it's a 40+ min drive vs 5 min walk but he's making things very difficult... Mainly for her. Step daughter started playing Rugby 2 years ago and has been kicking butt. She's with a great team that are in the top 10 (highschool) I'm the country, or so I've heard. Most seniors are already getting awesome scholarship offers, etc. I've been paying for everything and taken her to all if her practices and games. Sometimes driving 3-4hr to other cities and stood there in freezing weather all day to watch her kick ass. Unfortunately he says he doesn't like to drive and she's staying to miss practices and games that fall on bio dad's weekend. He won't go see her play (even when the games are close to him), practice, or support her in almost any way. We've offered to drop her off after games if he can't drive/won't drive, but he refuses. This is also affecting other school related activities. She's missed cross country practice and choir performances because the events occurred during "dads time". I believe he's just trying to use her as a weapon because he believes we moved just to make him upset. He when won't sign to get a passport so we can travel as a family (he says he's concerned about safety, or that we won't come back to the country (I'm originally from Mexico, now a US citizen). He's never want to discuss any safety concerns, just won't sign to get a passport. Is there anything that can be done so she doesn't miss so much? | a3a59211c512e9a2909e428b9c3ffe3053971551c13634b24ea53a749ec4f3f1 | [
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Got injured at work, boss wants to pay for the X-ray out of pocket and bypass workers comp- is this insurance fraud? In CT: yesterday I (25) hurt my hand at work, it wasn’t bad at first but overnight it swelled and bruises appeared. I didn’t report it to the office right away because it seemed minor, just informed my direct field supervisor. Today it was worse so I called my doctor and they advised an X-ray, which I scheduled. I then told the office/upper management and asked what the policy was for being injured at work. They offered to write me a check for the cost of the X-ray and not report to workers comp. I told my parents this, as I am on their insurance. My mom called her lawyer and her friends that work in insurance and now believes my boss is trying to commit insurance fraud. She is worried if I accept the check and not go through workers comp then she might get in trouble for fraud as she in the primary holder. Is this fraud? If so, What is the likely hood of the insurance company finding out and going after those involved? Thanks | 49990e7620d15fe54962b0275db30ac82543df07d3b2f9f55e310afe0b633af6 | [
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Got injured at work, boss wants to pay for the X-ray out of pocket and bypass workers comp- is this insurance fraud? In CT: yesterday I (25) hurt my hand at work, it wasn’t bad at first but overnight it swelled and bruises appeared. I didn’t report it to the office right away because it seemed minor, just informed my direct field supervisor. Today it was worse so I called my doctor and they advised an X-ray, which I scheduled. I then told the office/upper management and asked what the policy was for being injured at work. They offered to write me a check for the cost of the X-ray and not report to workers comp. I told my parents this, as I am on their insurance. My mom called her lawyer and her friends that work in insurance and now believes my boss is trying to commit insurance fraud. She is worried if I accept the check and not go through workers comp then she might get in trouble for fraud as she in the primary holder. Is this fraud? If so, What is the likely hood of the insurance company finding out and going after those involved? Thanks | 49990e7620d15fe54962b0275db30ac82543df07d3b2f9f55e310afe0b633af6 | [
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Got injured at work, boss wants to pay for the X-ray out of pocket and bypass workers comp- is this insurance fraud? In CT: yesterday I (25) hurt my hand at work, it wasn’t bad at first but overnight it swelled and bruises appeared. I didn’t report it to the office right away because it seemed minor, just informed my direct field supervisor. Today it was worse so I called my doctor and they advised an X-ray, which I scheduled. I then told the office/upper management and asked what the policy was for being injured at work. They offered to write me a check for the cost of the X-ray and not report to workers comp. I told my parents this, as I am on their insurance. My mom called her lawyer and her friends that work in insurance and now believes my boss is trying to commit insurance fraud. She is worried if I accept the check and not go through workers comp then she might get in trouble for fraud as she in the primary holder. Is this fraud? If so, What is the likely hood of the insurance company finding out and going after those involved? Thanks | 49990e7620d15fe54962b0275db30ac82543df07d3b2f9f55e310afe0b633af6 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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"content": "Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a ... | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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"content": "Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a ... | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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"content": "Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a ... | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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Late dad’s girlfriend won’t leave house. What are my options? Hello all. To make this short, my(26)father passed away and left his home to me under his will. In this house, we used to live as 4. My dad, his girlfriend, her son, and me. She’s been living here for about 5 years, but I do not have a good relationship with her as I have never had a liking to her. (Destroyed my late mother’s property when she moved in) I want her out, but she is refusing saying I can’t because she is a resident here now and her son is also in her care. What are my options to get her out? I don’t know the situation arrangement of how my late father and her split the bills previously, but since it is under my name now, that shouldn’t matter right? Thank you for your advice and I really do appreciate it and looking for help and guidance.. | ca4070914e30fe220cc604cda77f7cf3ad81b7d2590ddca1936a8fa6cfab6633 | [
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