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Can my[23F]husband[26M]divorce me while he is TDY in Guam? Originally posted in r/relationshipadvice but was told to post here. Short backstory: Married for 6 years, together for 7, 4 year old kid. He cheated on me a few times. We tried to work it out. He is all of a sudden with no discussion saying he doesn’t want to be with me. We were young, in love, best friends, and got married. 4 years ago he joined the Air Force, he got a taste of what “single” life is like (constantly on tdy so basically partying with his bros) and ever since he has been emotionally abusive and cheated (a few times). I told him I couldn’t work this out if he stayed in the Air Force. He agreed and decided to change to part time Guard since it’s not full strung active duty. But now he doesn’t want any of it at all, and he’d rather be in the Air Force then be with his wife and son. Anyways, he’s saying he’s going to see the lawyer on base tomorrow where he is in Guam. He won’t even talk about it with me in person first. Just wondering if he can only get advice there or if he can file for divorce? We reside in Florida, by the way. Also, any divorce advice would be appreciated. I have no idea what I’m doing. | b5853823a6c8623cbcdd9fef3acca4f0eca48e3222613809ff57a50e998d6bd7 | [
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Can my[23F]husband[26M]divorce me while he is TDY in Guam? Originally posted in r/relationshipadvice but was told to post here. Short backstory: Married for 6 years, together for 7, 4 year old kid. He cheated on me a few times. We tried to work it out. He is all of a sudden with no discussion saying he doesn’t want to be with me. We were young, in love, best friends, and got married. 4 years ago he joined the Air Force, he got a taste of what “single” life is like (constantly on tdy so basically partying with his bros) and ever since he has been emotionally abusive and cheated (a few times). I told him I couldn’t work this out if he stayed in the Air Force. He agreed and decided to change to part time Guard since it’s not full strung active duty. But now he doesn’t want any of it at all, and he’d rather be in the Air Force then be with his wife and son. Anyways, he’s saying he’s going to see the lawyer on base tomorrow where he is in Guam. He won’t even talk about it with me in person first. Just wondering if he can only get advice there or if he can file for divorce? We reside in Florida, by the way. Also, any divorce advice would be appreciated. I have no idea what I’m doing. | b5853823a6c8623cbcdd9fef3acca4f0eca48e3222613809ff57a50e998d6bd7 | [
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Can my[23F]husband[26M]divorce me while he is TDY in Guam? Originally posted in r/relationshipadvice but was told to post here. Short backstory: Married for 6 years, together for 7, 4 year old kid. He cheated on me a few times. We tried to work it out. He is all of a sudden with no discussion saying he doesn’t want to be with me. We were young, in love, best friends, and got married. 4 years ago he joined the Air Force, he got a taste of what “single” life is like (constantly on tdy so basically partying with his bros) and ever since he has been emotionally abusive and cheated (a few times). I told him I couldn’t work this out if he stayed in the Air Force. He agreed and decided to change to part time Guard since it’s not full strung active duty. But now he doesn’t want any of it at all, and he’d rather be in the Air Force then be with his wife and son. Anyways, he’s saying he’s going to see the lawyer on base tomorrow where he is in Guam. He won’t even talk about it with me in person first. Just wondering if he can only get advice there or if he can file for divorce? We reside in Florida, by the way. Also, any divorce advice would be appreciated. I have no idea what I’m doing. | b5853823a6c8623cbcdd9fef3acca4f0eca48e3222613809ff57a50e998d6bd7 | [
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Can my[23F]husband[26M]divorce me while he is TDY in Guam? Originally posted in r/relationshipadvice but was told to post here. Short backstory: Married for 6 years, together for 7, 4 year old kid. He cheated on me a few times. We tried to work it out. He is all of a sudden with no discussion saying he doesn’t want to be with me. We were young, in love, best friends, and got married. 4 years ago he joined the Air Force, he got a taste of what “single” life is like (constantly on tdy so basically partying with his bros) and ever since he has been emotionally abusive and cheated (a few times). I told him I couldn’t work this out if he stayed in the Air Force. He agreed and decided to change to part time Guard since it’s not full strung active duty. But now he doesn’t want any of it at all, and he’d rather be in the Air Force then be with his wife and son. Anyways, he’s saying he’s going to see the lawyer on base tomorrow where he is in Guam. He won’t even talk about it with me in person first. Just wondering if he can only get advice there or if he can file for divorce? We reside in Florida, by the way. Also, any divorce advice would be appreciated. I have no idea what I’m doing. | b5853823a6c8623cbcdd9fef3acca4f0eca48e3222613809ff57a50e998d6bd7 | [
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My husband raped me when I was unconscious and I can't get any help My husband raped me when I was unconscious and he admitted to it in martial therapy and I cannot get any legal help. After he admitted to it in marital therapy he filed for divorce. I called him for help after drinking too much at a concert, I knew I couldn't drive home. He came and picked me up. The next morning he said he "felt guilty about something" He said a after he picked me up I passed out in the car, head down and drooling. He imitated me. He said he took me upstairs, took off my clothes and "had sex with me." I told him that if I was impaired from alcohol and unable to give consent, that's rape. He finally admitted to the crime in therapy and I promptly filed a police report. I cannot get anyone to represent me. I would like him to be punished for this crime and I would like to sue him civilly. Since he admitted to this in therapy I need the therapists notes and he needs to sign a release for that; at least that is my understanding. This man is a sexual predator. He is also a child 'groomer." What can I do to get legal help? He is now my ex-husband and I still want him held accountable for his sexual assault. | 5afcd9623a2f86c1e8e9bc2c8e66db9f9310fe3364ff0551856079fb22b1b5ed | [
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Landlord threatening to give 3 day notice for noise complaints during a time frame when both my husband and I are sleeping Our downstairs neighbor has been sending complaints to the property manager about an alarm going off early in the morning. We had previously never received a noise complaint in our history of renting. We are asleep at the times of the complaints and have communicated with the management office that we are asleep during that time and the noise is probably coming from another unit. However since the beginning we have taken them seriously. After the first complaint we changed our alarms to just a flashing light. No sound, no vibration, just a bright flashing light. However, the downstairs neighbors has continued complaining about an alarm going off. The neighbor refuses to speak with us and is very adamant that the sound is coming from our apartment. We have written him a note stating that we sympathize with his plight and we take his comfort seriously. We stated that our alarms make no noise and have not made noise since we have received the first complaint. We also included that we are open to communicating with him directly and will happily work with him to ensure peace. My husband and I both wear our Apple watches to bed and they measure environmental noise while we sleep. The range of decibels from the time of the last complaint was 33-46 dB on my watch and 33-44 on my husband’s watch. I don’t remember the specific ranges for the other complaints, but they were similar and if necessary I can pull up that data. Even with our snoring we are quieter than rain and definitely within our local noise ordinances. We have forwarded all this information to the management office. Yesterday I received another noise complaint note from the management office stating that it is our final warning and if the complaints continue they will go through with a three day notice. During our most recent conversation with the management office they stated our neighbor sent them a video time stamped around 4:30 am and there is a clear vibrating noise in the video. They won’t send us the video and state the only noise in the video is that rhythmic vibrating sound. Again, we have no vibrating alarms. They also stated that they offered to move our neighbor into another unit and he refused. I don’t want to get evicted and at this point I don’t know what I can do further to protect myself. | 978ed47fa07fd1115791e0fc31eea563707d2f2ce06b02347e145639c787aaa5 | [
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Parent passed away. How do I handle his house that was in a revocable trust. My father passed away recently and his house was in a revocable trust prior to his passing. My sibling and I are the only heirs for probate as well as documented in trust. He was predeceased by his wife. I did find a quitclaim deed for the house in the name of the trust. I have tried to read up on trusts but get lost in the legalese. My question is what do to get the house in my and my siblings name? Is it part of probate? Do I just have to file a quitclaim deed in our names? Thanks in advance | ad727d4dacfa0d53994ebc08936b3b7d6d9e535986753761e876d4b4700222c3 | [
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Parents invested my inheritance in a beach house for themselves Location: Virginia (original issue). I live in California. My mentally ill and abusive parents live in Virginia and I have lived on the other coast for 11 years. My mother is a family law attorney FWIW, and so she knows the ins and outs of the laws pertaining to family money extremely well. Nine years ago, my great-aunt passed away. She had severe mental illness that prevented her from having children. So, her estate (her father was very successful in business) passed directly to my four cousins, my brother, and myself. I didn't learn this until years later, but at that point, my cousins all boosted their savings and began investing the money. My parents purchased land on the beach in Delaware, demo'ed the existing house, and built a 2 million dollar property to vacation at. It wasn't until I spoke with my cousins after the fact that I realized this was the money that should have gone to my savings. I confronted my father about it, and he told me that their beach house is 49% in my name, 49% in my brother's name, and 1% in each of my parents' names. It is clear what they did is shitty. But now my brother and I have a huge amount of money tied up in a home we don't visit or want (I live in California, the house is in Delaware). Neither of us can afford to buy the other one out, and neither of us wants the house; we want to sell it and liquidate the value back into our savings. My parents (who I have been no-contact (mom) and low-contact dad) with for 5 years) regularly vacation at the Delaware home. It is extravagant and as they get older I can't help but fear that they will retire there. Could my brother and I sell the house without their consent? Could we take legal action against them for investing our money for us without informing us we were receiving it (we were both above 18 when my great-aunt died)? Any relevant advice is very appreciated. Happy to add more details if something is missing. Thank you. | 5ab36b8d64d8d626d1ec27e2b55439567a3f3f889ac01dfec6698ad54deb67fc | [
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Parents invested my inheritance in a beach house for themselves Location: Virginia (original issue). I live in California. My mentally ill and abusive parents live in Virginia and I have lived on the other coast for 11 years. My mother is a family law attorney FWIW, and so she knows the ins and outs of the laws pertaining to family money extremely well. Nine years ago, my great-aunt passed away. She had severe mental illness that prevented her from having children. So, her estate (her father was very successful in business) passed directly to my four cousins, my brother, and myself. I didn't learn this until years later, but at that point, my cousins all boosted their savings and began investing the money. My parents purchased land on the beach in Delaware, demo'ed the existing house, and built a 2 million dollar property to vacation at. It wasn't until I spoke with my cousins after the fact that I realized this was the money that should have gone to my savings. I confronted my father about it, and he told me that their beach house is 49% in my name, 49% in my brother's name, and 1% in each of my parents' names. It is clear what they did is shitty. But now my brother and I have a huge amount of money tied up in a home we don't visit or want (I live in California, the house is in Delaware). Neither of us can afford to buy the other one out, and neither of us wants the house; we want to sell it and liquidate the value back into our savings. My parents (who I have been no-contact (mom) and low-contact dad) with for 5 years) regularly vacation at the Delaware home. It is extravagant and as they get older I can't help but fear that they will retire there. Could my brother and I sell the house without their consent? Could we take legal action against them for investing our money for us without informing us we were receiving it (we were both above 18 when my great-aunt died)? Any relevant advice is very appreciated. Happy to add more details if something is missing. Thank you. | 5ab36b8d64d8d626d1ec27e2b55439567a3f3f889ac01dfec6698ad54deb67fc | [
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Parents invested my inheritance in a beach house for themselves Location: Virginia (original issue). I live in California. My mentally ill and abusive parents live in Virginia and I have lived on the other coast for 11 years. My mother is a family law attorney FWIW, and so she knows the ins and outs of the laws pertaining to family money extremely well. Nine years ago, my great-aunt passed away. She had severe mental illness that prevented her from having children. So, her estate (her father was very successful in business) passed directly to my four cousins, my brother, and myself. I didn't learn this until years later, but at that point, my cousins all boosted their savings and began investing the money. My parents purchased land on the beach in Delaware, demo'ed the existing house, and built a 2 million dollar property to vacation at. It wasn't until I spoke with my cousins after the fact that I realized this was the money that should have gone to my savings. I confronted my father about it, and he told me that their beach house is 49% in my name, 49% in my brother's name, and 1% in each of my parents' names. It is clear what they did is shitty. But now my brother and I have a huge amount of money tied up in a home we don't visit or want (I live in California, the house is in Delaware). Neither of us can afford to buy the other one out, and neither of us wants the house; we want to sell it and liquidate the value back into our savings. My parents (who I have been no-contact (mom) and low-contact dad) with for 5 years) regularly vacation at the Delaware home. It is extravagant and as they get older I can't help but fear that they will retire there. Could my brother and I sell the house without their consent? Could we take legal action against them for investing our money for us without informing us we were receiving it (we were both above 18 when my great-aunt died)? Any relevant advice is very appreciated. Happy to add more details if something is missing. Thank you. | 5ab36b8d64d8d626d1ec27e2b55439567a3f3f889ac01dfec6698ad54deb67fc | [
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Hello community. Just recently started renting a house, but we had some people visit, saying they saw the house posted for rent still. That they'd been talking to the owner about the house being available next month. I've gotten no indication that they want us to leave or an eviction notice. | 0d6a8d7eef3b3dc39cf2fd423a9d98bde1842e3915cefafc70383003df3d243f | [
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Hello community. Just recently started renting a house, but we had some people visit, saying they saw the house posted for rent still. That they'd been talking to the owner about the house being available next month. I've gotten no indication that they want us to leave or an eviction notice. | 0d6a8d7eef3b3dc39cf2fd423a9d98bde1842e3915cefafc70383003df3d243f | [
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Hello community. Just recently started renting a house, but we had some people visit, saying they saw the house posted for rent still. That they'd been talking to the owner about the house being available next month. I've gotten no indication that they want us to leave or an eviction notice. | 0d6a8d7eef3b3dc39cf2fd423a9d98bde1842e3915cefafc70383003df3d243f | [
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Uncle is dying in prison My uncle(38/M) is in prison in GA (no violent crimes he’s in for drug related charges) We just found out he has terminal cancer he has less than a year to live. We want to bring him home so he can live out his last days with family. What do we do? How do we get him out ? I read somewhere about “compassionate release” Does anyone know the laws about this in the state of Ga? Who do we talk to to get paper work started? Thank you to anyone who replies back to this. My uncle has been in prison for these charges for over 3 years and is set to be released in 2 years. | c9acf4eefe62d1502c344c5eccd62cebe032cc64ab2279c7284e6f8c1cf41fcf | [
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[MN] The bank is trying to repo my camper. They have tried 9 times, all failing due not a big enough vehicle. I offered to help but was turned down. Title says it all. They have tried 9 times. The thing weighs 16k pounds. I have no issue with them taking it. Offered to help move it. They keep sending small trucks that nearly break when lower the weight onto it. Am I legally required to do anything? Bank won't take my money at this point ether. I'm just trying be done with the thing, get my bill for the remainder balance and move on. | 2c5373c4ed423ba67c98c377aa88ea3cd1bf25e065ccab555a43f4284891f4a6 | [
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A hotel we staid at had a pet friendly policy on their website. They kicked us out early because we had a cat and changed their policy later to dog only. Is this fraud and anything legal to do with it? Or false advertising? Thanks We have screenshots of their policy before they changed it after they kicked us out and it just specified "pet friendly" and pet size which our car fit into. The manager seemed to have a vendetta against cats and kicked us out when she came in to work one day and they changed their policy on their website a few days later It was in Colorado and the cat is also a emotional support animal if that has any value | b413cc83fbe244e83500a5d821beca7fcd13c2a5647f7b195c73f28a84d73816 | [
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CEO sending nudes in company email as a joke, what should I do? Title pretty much says it all. There was no context, it just looked like a link to something work related. There is a constant theme of inappropriate jokes but this has crossed the line in my opinion. It's a pretty small business so there is no real HR department and anyway it's the CEO so I doubt they would help even if they existed. I'm not even sure if I would want to sue for harassment or anything like that but if I did try it would likely be played off as an accident or a compromised account. Throwaway account for privacy reasons. Thanks in advance. | 0766b3d412b5941fff5c36e9ee94179e3707887040876324ee9d4ab9a1173378 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 8.5 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 8.083333 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 7.612903 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 6.625 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 2.25 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 2.25 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | 10 | 0 | {
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Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. He said either I come back or he’s coming here and will make things bad. Even if I file a restraining order, can’t he still fly here..? Plus doesn’t it take a while to get it approved? Does it take money? (I don’t have much.) And he’s also in another country so how would that work? I’m pretty freaked out because my “deadline” to return or not according to him is soon. | cbaafdae68a37e3f516ca5f709d00713f9f1c92dd0278ff015fd109f19986db3 | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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"content": "Left my husband. He’s threatening to fly to me if I don’t return. What can I do? My husband is in a foreign country. I left him and came to live with parents. He will not accept that I’m not coming back and has started threatening me and my family, blaming them for the state of our relationship. H... | [
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