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What will happen if I file a police report against my husband? This morning we argued and it escalated until i recorded him with his phone and in the process of trying to send the video to my own phone, he twisted my arm and threw me to the ground in order to get his back. I have him recorded admitting to it. This isn’t the first time he’s gotten physical with me and it’s been suggested to me before to file a police report but I’m afraid of opening a can of worms that I don’t know if I’m ready to deal with. I don’t have any actual proof. He’s only ever left small bruises and not often and I didn’t think to take photos at the time. He’s threatened multiple times to keep our 2 year old son from me if I leave, saying things like “go, we’ll be fine without you” or “do you know how easy it would be for me to disappear with him” and has tried to physically wrestle him from my arms on more than one occasion. I just want an idea of what the process will be like if I report him just to get it all on record. I don’t know if I’m ready to leave yet. I don’t even know what being ready would look like. I’m sorry if this isn’t the right place for this. Thank you in advance. | cf1e07d8f07d23008aa66ed26f1285263aef250aef4a621504d19afdc9782f29 | [
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What will happen if I file a police report against my husband? This morning we argued and it escalated until i recorded him with his phone and in the process of trying to send the video to my own phone, he twisted my arm and threw me to the ground in order to get his back. I have him recorded admitting to it. This isn’t the first time he’s gotten physical with me and it’s been suggested to me before to file a police report but I’m afraid of opening a can of worms that I don’t know if I’m ready to deal with. I don’t have any actual proof. He’s only ever left small bruises and not often and I didn’t think to take photos at the time. He’s threatened multiple times to keep our 2 year old son from me if I leave, saying things like “go, we’ll be fine without you” or “do you know how easy it would be for me to disappear with him” and has tried to physically wrestle him from my arms on more than one occasion. I just want an idea of what the process will be like if I report him just to get it all on record. I don’t know if I’m ready to leave yet. I don’t even know what being ready would look like. I’m sorry if this isn’t the right place for this. Thank you in advance. | cf1e07d8f07d23008aa66ed26f1285263aef250aef4a621504d19afdc9782f29 | [
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Dad died in hospital waiting for spinal surgery. They found him dead on the floor in his room. Nursing staff lied about when they last checked on him. Quick backstory: My dad was having serious health problems particularly with his spine. He was scheduled to have spinal surgery the morning he died. A month before he had an extensive spinal fusion. This last surgery was supposed to stabilize the tail bone. Key facts: - He couldn’t hardly walk. He was getting around by wheelchair. He did have his walker with him in the hospital. - They found him around 6 feet or so from his bed seemingly heading towards the door or the sink located towards the door and initiated crash cart procedures shortly after 4 am. - When we got to the hospital the nursing staff claimed they checked his vitals at 3:19 am. - My dad had an apple wrist watch that transmitted his heart rate data to his phone. This data indicated his heart stopped suddenly at 2:45 am. Clearly the nursing staff lied about seeing him at 3:19 am. - The watch has heart rate data going back months and months. He almost never took it off. Additionally, the data shows some heart activity where they were doing cpr on him shortly after 4 am. - Dad was a fall risk. On his board the bed alert was checked as active. Yet nobody found him for about a hour and twenty minutes after he had gotten up, fell and died. - The cause of death is still pending. The funeral director claimed he fractured his neck when he fell, but that doesn’t explain why he felt the need to get up in the middle of the night. Do we have a case against the hospital? Is this worth exploring with a lawyer? | 520110dfce933dbe4891b70a31a1ff4ac79749ca9aa9614454f4891d77c005c7 | [
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Dad died in hospital waiting for spinal surgery. They found him dead on the floor in his room. Nursing staff lied about when they last checked on him. Quick backstory: My dad was having serious health problems particularly with his spine. He was scheduled to have spinal surgery the morning he died. A month before he had an extensive spinal fusion. This last surgery was supposed to stabilize the tail bone. Key facts: - He couldn’t hardly walk. He was getting around by wheelchair. He did have his walker with him in the hospital. - They found him around 6 feet or so from his bed seemingly heading towards the door or the sink located towards the door and initiated crash cart procedures shortly after 4 am. - When we got to the hospital the nursing staff claimed they checked his vitals at 3:19 am. - My dad had an apple wrist watch that transmitted his heart rate data to his phone. This data indicated his heart stopped suddenly at 2:45 am. Clearly the nursing staff lied about seeing him at 3:19 am. - The watch has heart rate data going back months and months. He almost never took it off. Additionally, the data shows some heart activity where they were doing cpr on him shortly after 4 am. - Dad was a fall risk. On his board the bed alert was checked as active. Yet nobody found him for about a hour and twenty minutes after he had gotten up, fell and died. - The cause of death is still pending. The funeral director claimed he fractured his neck when he fell, but that doesn’t explain why he felt the need to get up in the middle of the night. Do we have a case against the hospital? Is this worth exploring with a lawyer? | 520110dfce933dbe4891b70a31a1ff4ac79749ca9aa9614454f4891d77c005c7 | [
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Dad died in hospital waiting for spinal surgery. They found him dead on the floor in his room. Nursing staff lied about when they last checked on him. Quick backstory: My dad was having serious health problems particularly with his spine. He was scheduled to have spinal surgery the morning he died. A month before he had an extensive spinal fusion. This last surgery was supposed to stabilize the tail bone. Key facts: - He couldn’t hardly walk. He was getting around by wheelchair. He did have his walker with him in the hospital. - They found him around 6 feet or so from his bed seemingly heading towards the door or the sink located towards the door and initiated crash cart procedures shortly after 4 am. - When we got to the hospital the nursing staff claimed they checked his vitals at 3:19 am. - My dad had an apple wrist watch that transmitted his heart rate data to his phone. This data indicated his heart stopped suddenly at 2:45 am. Clearly the nursing staff lied about seeing him at 3:19 am. - The watch has heart rate data going back months and months. He almost never took it off. Additionally, the data shows some heart activity where they were doing cpr on him shortly after 4 am. - Dad was a fall risk. On his board the bed alert was checked as active. Yet nobody found him for about a hour and twenty minutes after he had gotten up, fell and died. - The cause of death is still pending. The funeral director claimed he fractured his neck when he fell, but that doesn’t explain why he felt the need to get up in the middle of the night. Do we have a case against the hospital? Is this worth exploring with a lawyer? | 520110dfce933dbe4891b70a31a1ff4ac79749ca9aa9614454f4891d77c005c7 | [
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Please help. My mom just died a few minutes ago. I will be the one planning the funeral. My dad died when I was 7, so I don't remember much. I basically know my moms wishes, but I need to know any helpful information on making arrangements, or whatever else there is to know. | b57d0aa997e4c3e8e1e8ae0e801decc0898a4351a449d9d4a7421d944da9a150 | [
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My mom died and had set up a trust. The attorney is telling me the house she left will need to be sold. Can this be explained to me and what can I do? My dad (he died 5 years ago) and mom had a horrible and lengthy battle with cancer. I spent the last few months with my mother caring for her under FMLA. I have a brother who just turned 18. My mom told me the house would be mine so that my daughter could experience living in a stable home in Ohio. We had many talks about it. My mother ended up passing on November 16th. In the will, it listed her sister and law as a trustee for a trust. This trust was to keep assets (and listed the house) in a trust for my brother and I until he turned 25, when it would be split. The trustee is listed as having power to do basically anything with the assets. Today my aunt had a meeting with the attorney, which I requested to go to but was not allowed, and afterwards I get a call where she tells me that the house will need to be sold. This is my brother and I’s childhood home and in no way did my mother want this. Can anyone explain why this could be happening and if there is anything at all that can be done? | ffcbaf31136313897b5ad7076708272dbe5cf38929c4cd7c89bd8b3e9d5fb0ae | [
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My mom died and had set up a trust. The attorney is telling me the house she left will need to be sold. Can this be explained to me and what can I do? My dad (he died 5 years ago) and mom had a horrible and lengthy battle with cancer. I spent the last few months with my mother caring for her under FMLA. I have a brother who just turned 18. My mom told me the house would be mine so that my daughter could experience living in a stable home in Ohio. We had many talks about it. My mother ended up passing on November 16th. In the will, it listed her sister and law as a trustee for a trust. This trust was to keep assets (and listed the house) in a trust for my brother and I until he turned 25, when it would be split. The trustee is listed as having power to do basically anything with the assets. Today my aunt had a meeting with the attorney, which I requested to go to but was not allowed, and afterwards I get a call where she tells me that the house will need to be sold. This is my brother and I’s childhood home and in no way did my mother want this. Can anyone explain why this could be happening and if there is anything at all that can be done? | ffcbaf31136313897b5ad7076708272dbe5cf38929c4cd7c89bd8b3e9d5fb0ae | [
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what type of attorney do I need to talk to in regards to a deed and will being held "hostage"? My grandmother did not have much money so she doesn't have a full "estate" formally established or anything but had a basic will. Additionally we were buying a family home from her when she died. We made the final home payment and paid it to the estate (split it between the surviving siblings), however one of my aunts is executing all of my grandmother's will and paperwork. However, she is not releasing the will to be read by any of the family at all and is refusing to provide the deed to the now paid in full property. Who do I need to reach out to? I hate to do it but I'm fully and without hesitation ready to take her to court if needed. | 2fb9807c3fd563ebde382cf0fbc72b57f1c760c0523aeeb4979aca6c2b5c7adb | [
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My mom had $700 dollars in her account when she died... As the title reads, my mom had $700 dollars in her bank account at the time of her death, but she owes thousands to at least 13 creditors including over $1000 to Chase after they repossessed her car when she passed and sold it at auction. Her personal effects were of little to no value (most were donated to Goodwill) and she was on renters assistance when she had to go into hospice care. I have been contacted by one creditor offering to "help settle" her estate in terms of the money she owes them... but with only $700... and the thousands she owes, it seems ridiculous to send all of that remaining money to one of them - or even to break it up and send $53.84 to all 13 of the creditors leaving me with nothing to help cover the after-death expenses (cremation and whatnot). So... can I just blow these people (companies) off and not respond? Will they be able to find out about the $700 bucks and come after me? I am *not* a co-signer on any of her accounts, there was no Will and as her estate is so meager, there won't be any sort of probate. I am the sole surviving heir. Thanks in advance for your guidance. | e4925fcc62d3dc52c91af4f02892e6200448634569c5e31c84ee134e2a149425 | [
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Dad passed away, apparently he owns land but it looks like homes are built on it although my mom still has to pay the taxes. I'm not sure where to post this or what to do, so please redirect me if this is the wrong subreddit. My dad passed away in August. He and my mother purchased land in PA sometime in the 1970s. We live in AZ. The land had nothing built on it at the time. My mom never handled the finances, so she forgot about the land completely until she got a tax form this year to pay the taxes on the land. There was also a letter from someone else (I dont have it in front of me) offering to buy the land for $4000. Curious, I looked up the address on Google, and it looks like homes are built on the land. How can homes be built on my mom's land if she's still paying the taxes and hasn't sold it? I don't know how to help her or where to start. Thanks for any responses. | 230affbf7805d5468cd0c9d3473c0bd8b20227cb6050e4ee8371c01d6aca0d94 | [
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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. I have no idea where to start, other than making several police calls which didn't prove to be very useful. I have a case number, but I'm not sure what to do with it. The only evidence I have is the video my case manager took of the lady acting psychotic, my case manager's testimony, and pictures I took of my destroyed clothes and electronics. Sorry for the essay, but I want anyone with advice to have all the info. | 4edb8390962e181881846dab4dfe0f8a3f313e3dd3647327c4a52c31d3589459 | [
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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. I have no idea where to start, other than making several police calls which didn't prove to be very useful. I have a case number, but I'm not sure what to do with it. The only evidence I have is the video my case manager took of the lady acting psychotic, my case manager's testimony, and pictures I took of my destroyed clothes and electronics. Sorry for the essay, but I want anyone with advice to have all the info. | 4edb8390962e181881846dab4dfe0f8a3f313e3dd3647327c4a52c31d3589459 | [
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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. I have no idea where to start, other than making several police calls which didn't prove to be very useful. I have a case number, but I'm not sure what to do with it. The only evidence I have is the video my case manager took of the lady acting psychotic, my case manager's testimony, and pictures I took of my destroyed clothes and electronics. Sorry for the essay, but I want anyone with advice to have all the info. | 4edb8390962e181881846dab4dfe0f8a3f313e3dd3647327c4a52c31d3589459 | [
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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. I have no idea where to start, other than making several police calls which didn't prove to be very useful. I have a case number, but I'm not sure what to do with it. The only evidence I have is the video my case manager took of the lady acting psychotic, my case manager's testimony, and pictures I took of my destroyed clothes and electronics. Sorry for the essay, but I want anyone with advice to have all the info. | 4edb8390962e181881846dab4dfe0f8a3f313e3dd3647327c4a52c31d3589459 | [
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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. 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(USA/CA/Modesto) Rented a room for 6 months with no problems until a new roommate moved in and life at home became a NIGHTMARE...ALL my belongings were stolen, damaged, or destroyed...Need legal help!! Hello. So I found a room for rent on Craigslist a little over 6 months ago and the 5 other housemates and I (including the owner/landlord) all got along and for the most part we all minded our own business, until a little over 2 months ago when the master bedroom became available and was taken by a woman who must be about 50-55 and was supposedly working in real estate. Well quickly she was fired, not long after moving all her stuff in and completely packing the garage with her extra junk, and I mean PACKED. She seemed boisterous but nice enough until only a week had passed and she started displaying psychotic behavior, like drinking malt liquor (She drank Mad Dog 20/20's as if they were fruit juice) as soon as she woke up and stayed boozing it up all day and night, every day. She quickly befriended another housemate (a 25 year old drop out with the mind of a 15 year old who was more than happy to get free booze, weed, and later on harder drugs to simply keep this sad alcoholic woman company...) and it became clear to me she enabled this kid for that very reason. She was loud, obnoxious, and very quick to become aggressive over anything, so I imagine she didn't have too many friends and that explained why she never went out to drink, instead opting to live in squalor. Every time I saw her room it was littered with beer cans, liquor bottles, several plates of half eaten food, and tons of miscellaneous garbage. Although this woman lived like a pig, I was able to avoid her at first. Trouble was around the corner though. The 25 year old roommate informed me that she was asking him to find her other drugs besides the pot she constantly smoked despite a cough that sounded near fatal. All day and night this woman coughed with her door wide open while the landlord was gone. I finally buckled and asked her if she would mind shutting her door while she was sick, since I was starting to catch a cold from her never ending coughing fits (my room was next to hers to boot) I worded this nicely, to which she immediately begins shouting aggressively things like "Why should I close my door? I don't have to do what you say. I'm not sick, how dare you call me sick! Who the fuck do you think you are you - blah blah blah and so on." I dropped the subject, texted the landlord what happened verbatim and put earplugs in. I should make it known that I am a recovering addict with over a year and 9 months clean now, and there were clear rules about drugs (besides pot) not being allowed on the premises, and tenants weren't allowed to be active junkies either, but that goes without saying. The landlord was extremely naive though, and as I noticed more and more red flags (loud snorting all through the night in her room, increased hostile confrontations, and drug baggies in the trash) he would brush me off every time I tried to warn him of drug activity in the house. I believe this is because her rent was twice what mine was, and he was a definite miser when it came to money. The situation got much worse. I left the house one day and came back to find it ransacked. My lock-box which held all my meds was gone. the remotes to my flat screen and bluray were gone. A few random things seemed to be missing, so I called my case manager (I receive mental health services as well as support for my recovery) and she came over immediately. When she walked through the door all hell broke loose. The alcoholic roomie called my case manager a stupid whore, a dumb drug addict, we were all a bunch of pathetic drug addicts she said, and her animosity was so intense we decided to video record her insane drug fueled ranting, at times worried she was going to become violent as she kept leaning into us and almost lunging...I tried to keep my mouth shut but I told her sternly to leave me the fuck alone, which didn't help. We packed a couple bags and I was put into a short-term safe house for a couple days. I texted the landlord that I would be gone and that I was worried about my stuff, which he assured me would be safe. Well, two days later I came back to pack my stuff...only to realize all my stuff was either stolen, vandalized, or completely destroyed. EVERY item of clothing I own besides the clothes I was wearing had been cut to pieces with scissors, and I had a LOT of clothes. They (The drunk and the 25 year old I assume) cut the cord to my TV, my bluray, my record player, broke my records, stole my massive DVD collection, stabbed my mattress excessively, cut my PILLOWS in half, and even sunk so low as to take pictures of family and of me performing in bands through the years, and CUT MY FACE OUT OF EACH ONE. They stole my vintage keyboard, a basketball, my newest pair of shoes, and I'm probably forgetting plenty of other things. I made an inventory of everything missing or destroyed I could remember and added the estimated value, which came out to $2,075...And that was a very low estimate. I rounded down...So basically, I'm devastated and have no idea what to do. My case manager helped me get into a 30-day stay transitional house run by the county, so for now I'm avoiding the local homeless shelter, but after my time's up at this house I don't know what will happen to me. I need legal aid. 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Someone else's lien on my house Someone else's tax lien in my house There is a tax lien on my house in Florida in my ex's name. We used to own some rental properties in California together, and while they were being sold off during the divorce, I and my ex accumulated some capital gains. As I owned 50% of the properties, I paid my 50% of capital gains taxes. He didn't pay his taxes for several years. I moved to Florida since then and bought a house in my and my new husband's name. Now there is a tax lien on our house in my ex's name. My ex lives somewhere out of country. I don't know where and I have no contact with him because I have a restraining order against him. What can I do to get the tax lien removed? | 12175c1cb873bb2c5165a0a86b0cde102659de0555c20b48f9320d873a142171 | [
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My dad is letting high school students from the school across the street pay to park in our driveway... what issues could we see with that? I used to go to this school (graduated now) and we let my friends park there for free. Word got around and people who weren't eligible for a school pass came to us and offered to pay. Last year we kept 10 cars a day in the driveway and made good money off of it. Students started taking advantage of it and parked without paying, so we're currently trying to come up with a solution by implementing parking passes. Before we put in the overhead, is this a horrible idea leaving us open to a ton of liability? During the day, nobody is home because I'm away at college and my dad is working... what if some kids decided to smoke pot in our shed or got in a fight on our property? How do we separate ourselves from them legally? Could we fix this by making the students and parents sign a simple disclaimer stating we have zero responsibility for what occurs on our property to them? Do we have a legal right to tow a car, boot a car, and revoke a pass at any time? In general, what things are we overlooking? Everything went relatively smoothly last year but we just want to assure that word isn't getting around that anyone can park there for free... and all these questions keep coming up. They're very unlikely to happen, but one incident could leave us with a lawsuit. Edit: Located in Georgia. Thanks LocationBot! Thanks for your time! | 6b9ba64744c4e132daa9ddb27e04cd23dd3f57024edebe1a3830b203e4149149 | [
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(WV) Neighbor paints curb yellow across from driveway on public street to prevent us from parking there, then paints it white so his wife can permanently park there for weeks. They left for vacation before Christmas and painted it yellow again so we, or our guests, couldn’t use it. We live at the end of a street that wraps around and essentially becomes a rectangle with another street. Our house sits on one side of this corner/“end” and our neighbor is directly across from us. He parks a huge RV/his truck in his driveway so his wife has to park her van around the corner on the other street instead of in his driveway. When we moved in, there was an area outside of our front yard that the curb was clearly not painted and we used it maybe 4-5 times when we had friends visit. This curb is directly across from his driveway. He asked us one day to not park there anymore because it was hard for his wife to get out of the driveway (whose van never moves from the spot around the corner?) and we agreed to avoid it unless we had guests. He didn’t seem satisfied with our answer but left. A day or so later we noticed that he had spray painted (literally) the curb yellow overnight so that we couldn’t park there anymore. We just shrugged it off because parking isn’t a huge deal and I’m not about to go to war with a neighbor over something so silly. However, a few days later he spray painted it white, then parked his wife’s van there and it didn’t move for weeks. They just left for vacation before Christmas and he spray painted it yellow AGAIN, parked the van in their driveway and took the truck wherever they went. This all seems super petty and dumb, but my husband parked there since they were gone last night and this morning we had a parking citation. Our neighbor has a ring on his door and I feel that he saw the movement, saw the parked car, and called the cops. It is painfully obvious he is spray painting the curb (different color yellow, paint sprayed into our grass, cinder blocks just sitting there so he can use them again next paint job). What can I do? Is this behavior even legal? How can I contest the citation? tl;dr: neighbor is painting public curb to his benefit, we believe he called the cops on us for parking there while they were out of town. Can he continue painting the public curb as he sees fit and can I contest the citation we received based on his behavior? | 8a4060d6deb6697aa2bfd4d4f2e5906b796c18e06116c1bc8a24e98fcdecd324 | [
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(WV) Neighbor paints curb yellow across from driveway on public street to prevent us from parking there, then paints it white so his wife can permanently park there for weeks. They left for vacation before Christmas and painted it yellow again so we, or our guests, couldn’t use it. We live at the end of a street that wraps around and essentially becomes a rectangle with another street. Our house sits on one side of this corner/“end” and our neighbor is directly across from us. He parks a huge RV/his truck in his driveway so his wife has to park her van around the corner on the other street instead of in his driveway. When we moved in, there was an area outside of our front yard that the curb was clearly not painted and we used it maybe 4-5 times when we had friends visit. This curb is directly across from his driveway. He asked us one day to not park there anymore because it was hard for his wife to get out of the driveway (whose van never moves from the spot around the corner?) and we agreed to avoid it unless we had guests. He didn’t seem satisfied with our answer but left. A day or so later we noticed that he had spray painted (literally) the curb yellow overnight so that we couldn’t park there anymore. We just shrugged it off because parking isn’t a huge deal and I’m not about to go to war with a neighbor over something so silly. However, a few days later he spray painted it white, then parked his wife’s van there and it didn’t move for weeks. They just left for vacation before Christmas and he spray painted it yellow AGAIN, parked the van in their driveway and took the truck wherever they went. This all seems super petty and dumb, but my husband parked there since they were gone last night and this morning we had a parking citation. Our neighbor has a ring on his door and I feel that he saw the movement, saw the parked car, and called the cops. It is painfully obvious he is spray painting the curb (different color yellow, paint sprayed into our grass, cinder blocks just sitting there so he can use them again next paint job). What can I do? Is this behavior even legal? How can I contest the citation? tl;dr: neighbor is painting public curb to his benefit, we believe he called the cops on us for parking there while they were out of town. Can he continue painting the public curb as he sees fit and can I contest the citation we received based on his behavior? | 8a4060d6deb6697aa2bfd4d4f2e5906b796c18e06116c1bc8a24e98fcdecd324 | [
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(WV) Neighbor paints curb yellow across from driveway on public street to prevent us from parking there, then paints it white so his wife can permanently park there for weeks. They left for vacation before Christmas and painted it yellow again so we, or our guests, couldn’t use it. We live at the end of a street that wraps around and essentially becomes a rectangle with another street. Our house sits on one side of this corner/“end” and our neighbor is directly across from us. He parks a huge RV/his truck in his driveway so his wife has to park her van around the corner on the other street instead of in his driveway. When we moved in, there was an area outside of our front yard that the curb was clearly not painted and we used it maybe 4-5 times when we had friends visit. This curb is directly across from his driveway. He asked us one day to not park there anymore because it was hard for his wife to get out of the driveway (whose van never moves from the spot around the corner?) and we agreed to avoid it unless we had guests. He didn’t seem satisfied with our answer but left. A day or so later we noticed that he had spray painted (literally) the curb yellow overnight so that we couldn’t park there anymore. We just shrugged it off because parking isn’t a huge deal and I’m not about to go to war with a neighbor over something so silly. However, a few days later he spray painted it white, then parked his wife’s van there and it didn’t move for weeks. They just left for vacation before Christmas and he spray painted it yellow AGAIN, parked the van in their driveway and took the truck wherever they went. This all seems super petty and dumb, but my husband parked there since they were gone last night and this morning we had a parking citation. Our neighbor has a ring on his door and I feel that he saw the movement, saw the parked car, and called the cops. It is painfully obvious he is spray painting the curb (different color yellow, paint sprayed into our grass, cinder blocks just sitting there so he can use them again next paint job). What can I do? Is this behavior even legal? How can I contest the citation? tl;dr: neighbor is painting public curb to his benefit, we believe he called the cops on us for parking there while they were out of town. Can he continue painting the public curb as he sees fit and can I contest the citation we received based on his behavior? | 8a4060d6deb6697aa2bfd4d4f2e5906b796c18e06116c1bc8a24e98fcdecd324 | [
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[FL] A private pre-school opened up across the street from my house and the parent traffic blocks me and my neighbors from exiting our driveways. I purchased a home in Florida a few years ago on a street that dead-ends. The driveway to the house opens directly into the street. Across the street from my house, there was a large plot of undeveloped land. Last year, a woman (I will call her Stacy) purchased the land across the street and built a large house surrounded by several portable buildings. She lives in the house and uses the portable buildings as classrooms for a private pre-school, which opened this school year. The neighbors (I have one on each side of my house) on this side of the street were never informed about the construction of the pre-school. When the school year started, I was greeted by a long line of cars (it is a two lane road with no turning lane) waiting to make the left turn into the pre-school that severely backed up traffic. I tried to pull out of my driveway and onto the street, but the cars refused to move (they are all in park with the parents waiting to drop off their kids) and I had to wait over 45 minutes to simply pull out of my own driveway. This also happens at the end of the school day. My neighbors and I had a meeting and went over and asked Stacy if there was a way to help resolve the traffic problem. My neighbor's wife does not work and she said she would be willing to volunteer as a crossing guard because she loves kids. We thought that would be a great solution, but Stacy told us that a crossing guard would be unnecessary. We explained to her that the parents are blocking our driveways and are not leaving gaps in front of our driveways for us to leave. Stacy became very belligerent and asked us to leave. I decided to purchase some signs that say "Please do not block driveway" and placed them on either side of my driveway on Sunday night. My neighbors did the same with their own signs. On Monday morning, I walked out to my car and my driveway was still being blocked by the parents waiting to drop off their kids. I waited for a few minutes, but after 5 minutes went by and the parents continuing to sit in their unmoving vehicles, I started to lay on my horn. Stacy must have heard me, because when I got home from work, someone had ripped my signs out of the ground and they were gone. I checked my security cameras and they have footage of Stacy destroying the signs. My instinct is to call the police, but one of my neighbors believes that because it affects all three of us, that we might have to escalate this higher. What do you all think? | 90ed10062847fe1d99859ff4dcc1fae3f11eb90f13f0a58e73ba0765d598f286 | [
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[FL] A private pre-school opened up across the street from my house and the parent traffic blocks me and my neighbors from exiting our driveways. I purchased a home in Florida a few years ago on a street that dead-ends. The driveway to the house opens directly into the street. Across the street from my house, there was a large plot of undeveloped land. Last year, a woman (I will call her Stacy) purchased the land across the street and built a large house surrounded by several portable buildings. She lives in the house and uses the portable buildings as classrooms for a private pre-school, which opened this school year. The neighbors (I have one on each side of my house) on this side of the street were never informed about the construction of the pre-school. When the school year started, I was greeted by a long line of cars (it is a two lane road with no turning lane) waiting to make the left turn into the pre-school that severely backed up traffic. I tried to pull out of my driveway and onto the street, but the cars refused to move (they are all in park with the parents waiting to drop off their kids) and I had to wait over 45 minutes to simply pull out of my own driveway. This also happens at the end of the school day. My neighbors and I had a meeting and went over and asked Stacy if there was a way to help resolve the traffic problem. My neighbor's wife does not work and she said she would be willing to volunteer as a crossing guard because she loves kids. We thought that would be a great solution, but Stacy told us that a crossing guard would be unnecessary. We explained to her that the parents are blocking our driveways and are not leaving gaps in front of our driveways for us to leave. Stacy became very belligerent and asked us to leave. I decided to purchase some signs that say "Please do not block driveway" and placed them on either side of my driveway on Sunday night. My neighbors did the same with their own signs. On Monday morning, I walked out to my car and my driveway was still being blocked by the parents waiting to drop off their kids. I waited for a few minutes, but after 5 minutes went by and the parents continuing to sit in their unmoving vehicles, I started to lay on my horn. Stacy must have heard me, because when I got home from work, someone had ripped my signs out of the ground and they were gone. I checked my security cameras and they have footage of Stacy destroying the signs. My instinct is to call the police, but one of my neighbors believes that because it affects all three of us, that we might have to escalate this higher. What do you all think? | 90ed10062847fe1d99859ff4dcc1fae3f11eb90f13f0a58e73ba0765d598f286 | [
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[FL] A private pre-school opened up across the street from my house and the parent traffic blocks me and my neighbors from exiting our driveways. I purchased a home in Florida a few years ago on a street that dead-ends. The driveway to the house opens directly into the street. Across the street from my house, there was a large plot of undeveloped land. Last year, a woman (I will call her Stacy) purchased the land across the street and built a large house surrounded by several portable buildings. She lives in the house and uses the portable buildings as classrooms for a private pre-school, which opened this school year. The neighbors (I have one on each side of my house) on this side of the street were never informed about the construction of the pre-school. When the school year started, I was greeted by a long line of cars (it is a two lane road with no turning lane) waiting to make the left turn into the pre-school that severely backed up traffic. I tried to pull out of my driveway and onto the street, but the cars refused to move (they are all in park with the parents waiting to drop off their kids) and I had to wait over 45 minutes to simply pull out of my own driveway. This also happens at the end of the school day. My neighbors and I had a meeting and went over and asked Stacy if there was a way to help resolve the traffic problem. My neighbor's wife does not work and she said she would be willing to volunteer as a crossing guard because she loves kids. We thought that would be a great solution, but Stacy told us that a crossing guard would be unnecessary. We explained to her that the parents are blocking our driveways and are not leaving gaps in front of our driveways for us to leave. Stacy became very belligerent and asked us to leave. I decided to purchase some signs that say "Please do not block driveway" and placed them on either side of my driveway on Sunday night. My neighbors did the same with their own signs. On Monday morning, I walked out to my car and my driveway was still being blocked by the parents waiting to drop off their kids. I waited for a few minutes, but after 5 minutes went by and the parents continuing to sit in their unmoving vehicles, I started to lay on my horn. Stacy must have heard me, because when I got home from work, someone had ripped my signs out of the ground and they were gone. I checked my security cameras and they have footage of Stacy destroying the signs. My instinct is to call the police, but one of my neighbors believes that because it affects all three of us, that we might have to escalate this higher. What do you all think? | 90ed10062847fe1d99859ff4dcc1fae3f11eb90f13f0a58e73ba0765d598f286 | [
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