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[NY] Psychiatrist keeps in contact with parent despite my insistence that she not talk to him without prior permission Hey all, I've been seeing a psychiatrist for about two years now and I feel like there have been some serious ethical breaches with her lately. There have definitely been times where she misled me about treatment options (like certain programs she wanted me to attend, or people she wanted me to meet), but lately I've been extremely bothered by her continued contact with my father. I'm 25 years old and living at home to save money while attending college, and she's been discussing things from my appointments with my father. I've spoken with her several times about this and made it clear that I do not give her permission to be in contact with him, and that she needs to get my consent first to speak with him, but every few weeks I find out they've been speaking. This has led to an incredibly tense homelife as she's been sharing personal information with him. Is this an ethical breach and should I report it? It's negatively impacting my mental health and leading to a lot of anxiety for me. | 5f18f8d4119b7ffec5db1f445026b3510675b8a0cb8cecc9a6cf08f7c3b6a3af | [
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The post office is holding our mail and won’t let us get it. So, three weeks ago my girlfriend and I got home from a vacation and noticed that new mailboxes were mounted to the wall in front of each apartment. It’s a 2 story, 29 unit apartment complex. Initially there were two mail rooms with mailboxes in the wall where we got our laundry but tenants were leaving their junk mail lying around and our landlord got sick of it and removed the mailboxes (or at least covered them with wood panels). The thing is, she did so without approval from the post office and the post office refuses to deliver our mail because of safety concerns. Today, we went to the post office to get our mail and were told that they would not release our mail or any of the other tenants. We both have valid identification and showed them to the clerk and she said that the supervisor would not release our mail until the landlord put the old mailboxes back. Is this legal? I called the supervisor and they said it is but they couldn’t find proof. What can we do? | f0f020a45e40228e093fc4263e987a8cd579b9c569cd7fa8d991940b820dff7d | [
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My friend's mother is kicking her younger sister out, and is threatening to call the cops on my friend for "kidnapping" if she lets her younger sister move in with her. My friend, "Sarah"'s abusive mother, "Margaret," has just told her younger sister, "Jordan," that she has 6 months to get out of the house. When Sarah offered to let Jordan move in with her, Margaret said that if she did so, she would call the cops on Sarah for "kidnapping" Jordan. Jordan is a minor but does not have long until she is 18. Unfortunately Margaret has Sarah's address, so she could call the cops and direct them to where Sarah lives if she chose. But how much would Margaret's claim hold up to the cops? It's Margaret's word against Sarah's and Jordan's--I suppose big complication here is that Jordan is still a minor. I'm thinking that if Jordan gets documentation somehow of Margaret kicking her out (video/audio, saved text messages, etc) that could be evidence against her "kidnapping" if it comes to that? But what else can be done in this situation to make sure Margaret isn't able to get Sarah arrested (or just make her and Jordan's lives miserable) for taking in her little sister? | 3375165817c2cb025774281792441fd83568fef75d51e2de7f59f9f3115f02a2 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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Father got my sister (14) pregnant and friend's mom wants to go to the news about it. Can my sister keep the baby, will we get taken away from him, and how do we keep our identities out of the news? State is CO. My sister (14) is pregnant and wouldn't tell me who the father is. We have not told our father at all. She finally broke down and told me our father has been raping her for the last four years. I absolutely believe her because it was happening to me to. Our parents divorced when I (17) was three years old and we haven't seen my mom at all. We were always told she was deep into drugs, but my father is really manipulating so I'm wondering if that's true now. We are wondering what happens if she admits to the doctor that our father is the father of he child. I'm assuming they can DNA test it to prove eventually. If he goes to jail as our only caregiver, what happens to us? I know he's a piece of shit but I don't know where else we can go?? Also, can she keep the baby? She really wants to right now but I can't imagine that is healthy and I don't know how she would take care of it with our father in jail. Will the hospital take it away because it's incest? The other part of this legal question is about the news. I made the mistake of confiding the whole thing to a friend, who told her mom. Her mom won't stop contacting me that she's going to the news because "the community needs to know what he did to you guys." Neither of us have any desire for this to get in the news. I feel like if we get identified it will just further ruin our lives. I've told her this so many times but she keeps pushing me to do an interview with the local news. I've never liked her, I think she's crazy and manipulative too and just wants to be in the spotlight for a few minutes of fame for being our "rescuer". How do I make her stop legally? Can I legally force the local news to not do a piece on us???? | 4ce7c41de2a62720245738e7ed1a948b3edf868b5d635d4db68e4a7069e3c4b4 | [
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South Carolina - My sister is 18 and wants to move out of her dad's house- how do we get her in school? My sister's dad has had custody of her for her entire life, with my mom only having visitation. My sister just turned 18 and has a year of school left. She has moved out of her dad's house and is now living with our mother. We took her to her old school today to withdraw her and get her records sent to the school in our district, but the guidance counselor told us that since she's still in school, the custody agreement is still in place which means she can't withdraw herself or transfer herself, 18 or no. Her dad's cooperation is not an option. Are we going to have to go through the emancipation process with her? | ccda3486d06a36bdc06e7a3b1d7b5e6f17a387652db4c3d46f09bd690ecca81d | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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Landlord wants to charge over $11,000 for move out ‘repairs’ Hi! I was living in California, now am out of state. This apartment complex is owned by a big company, not a single person landlord. I got an email stating I owe them almost $20k. I called the apartment complex and the leasing agent I was able to contact said it was $11k (not sure why there’s a mishap.) but $11k is still not something I can afford. I asked why there’s such a big charge and they said there’s cleaning fees for carpet shampooing and they had to repaint. Um…. I was actually a star tenant and did a deep cleaning before leaving, and we only stayed there for a year and kept the place pretty immaculate. So I’m suspecting they want to renovate the place but on my buck. Is this legal? What steps can I take to fight this? I have already asked them for picture evidence of the damage I supposedly incurred which is costing $11k and apparently their specialist will be reaching back out on Monday since her office hours are off on weekends. I plan to ask them for an itemized bill of costs as well but I’m just baffled and honestly panicking. What can I do? Is there even anything I can do or am I just fked ? Thank you in advance. | 009ea687640bf1821921abc7ddc079e1a1fe31701d8a4ee450f0996fd783609b | [
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