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DMV took away my license because of a medical condition I dont have. A few days ago, I got a notice in the mail that my license has been recalled and I must surrender it to the state because they received a report that I have a seizure disorder. I do not have a seizure disorder, have never had a seizure, a seizure disorder, or any medical condition that is remotely close. I submitted paperwork from my doctors office attesting to this fact and a letter explaining that this is an error, along with a request for a copy of the initial seizure report. A person I spoke to at the DMV said that this report would have come from a doctor's office, though due to HIPAA, this call center worker couldn't access my report to provide specifics. I called every doctor I've seen in the two years, which is not many, and all of them said they filed no such report (because I obviously don't have seizures). The "DMV medical team" who handles these reports is not taking phone calls, only written requests or emails which takes about 5 days to respond to. I told the DMV I've submitted paperwork to correct my record and reinstate my license they said that'll take about 20 BUSINESS DAYS to process. Meanwhile, in 15 days, the state PD will be notified that my license is to be confiscated if I don't surrender it voluntarily. So during this time, I can't get myself to work, can't drive and I have a pregnant wife who can go into labor any day now. Do I have any legal recourse here? Anything I can do other than wait it out? What the hell do I even do? | 689a0dad629669dadeb6fabb94796ab6722ef29cca3812f0f6e66122eda9940e | [
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My dad was diagnosed with dementia. Mom filed paperwork with DMV to take his license away...Is my mom liable for actions after? (California) My dad was diagnosed with dementia. Prior to the diagnosis, he was involved in 2 hit and run incidents which he has no recollection of. The police have stopped by my parents house twice in regards to those incidents. My mother filed paperwork with the DMV to get his license taken away, yet my dad continues to drive his vehicle. If he gets into another accident, can my mother be liable personally? Together, they own a house, but keep separate bank accounts. My father refuses to go into a nursing home and my mom does not know how to proceed. What steps can I as a son take to help protect my mother? She only has her retirement from being a state employee and I want to make sure she can protect herself. | 67605c738430f6d0004b12c8064aef93094deb74cb040914e61e39b0c8f13359 | [
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[Boston, MA] Customer took rental car and never returned it, we sent her a letter, no reply I work for a rental car business; it's a mom-and-pop business, not a Hertz-type place. A customer rented a Ford Explorer from us, one of them top-drawer versions, and it was for 2 weeks, but since then it's not been returned to us. I've since found out the car's over the state line in New Haven, CT from an email from someone who claimed to know the customer. The car's a three-year-old Explorer, but that's not the point; isn't this effectively theft under another name? The customer told us she was an influencer looking to visit Boston, showed us her IG page and TikTok as proof, but anyway... this is concerning. But the insurance for a rental car doesn't cover out-of-state trips like this. We sent her a formal letter via the mail, no reply or phone call back. I've tried contacting her via email, phone, no real reply. Does my employer need to get the cops involved and treat this as theft, or is there a way of getting resolution without needing theft? Is this the sort of thing we need an attorney for? Incidentally, it's a first for us, not in a good way, and we've never had to deal with anything like this. This is causing us stress and worry, COVID already affected our business since we didn't have the tourists visiting and travel bans being in place, things are picking up again with out-of-state tourists visiting, but it'll take a long time to get back to pre-pandemic levels. What can we do legally? ***Julia (not my real name), 28/F, Watertown, near Boston, MA but commutes into Boston*** | 65cf37b74bc394d1b35e52ecd0f81c349344cb7c0057f0fd343174cf18799f4b | [
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[MA] Unproperly covered/strapped down dump trucks load fell out and damaged my vehicle. All seen on my dashcam. My insurance can’t see license plate on video so the company saying they are not at fault. Do I still have time to claim it with the police? As stated above I was driving and a car away from a dump truck. Their load wasn’t covered properly at all and thing fell out from their truck and damaged my vehicle. It was all caught on my dashcam but I couldn’t see their plate number and my insurance company cannot see it. The company claimed no one reported it (I was on highway I couldn’t pull over) and now I am stuck with the damage cost myself. Do I atleast still have time to go to the police to report it? It happened at the beginning of February. Thank you. TLDR: dashcam caught overloaded/unproperly tied down load of company dump truck that damaged my vehicle when things fell out of their truck on the highway. Unable to locate license plate number. It happened beginning of February. Do I have time to report it to my local police department still? | 19304d6f4370d4a157463224f955c2426c57538d8b15a1e6c2d0abb7c6ae5516 | [
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[MA] Unproperly covered/strapped down dump trucks load fell out and damaged my vehicle. All seen on my dashcam. My insurance can’t see license plate on video so the company saying they are not at fault. Do I still have time to claim it with the police? As stated above I was driving and a car away from a dump truck. Their load wasn’t covered properly at all and thing fell out from their truck and damaged my vehicle. It was all caught on my dashcam but I couldn’t see their plate number and my insurance company cannot see it. The company claimed no one reported it (I was on highway I couldn’t pull over) and now I am stuck with the damage cost myself. Do I atleast still have time to go to the police to report it? It happened at the beginning of February. Thank you. TLDR: dashcam caught overloaded/unproperly tied down load of company dump truck that damaged my vehicle when things fell out of their truck on the highway. Unable to locate license plate number. It happened beginning of February. Do I have time to report it to my local police department still? | 19304d6f4370d4a157463224f955c2426c57538d8b15a1e6c2d0abb7c6ae5516 | [
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My ex cosigned for me to buy my car and now she married the guy she left me for. How does this affect my loan? Indiana for context. Long story short, my ex and I bought a car while we were still together. More specifically, she cosigned for me to be able to buy the car. A little over a year after that we were done and she dumped me with the car's financial responsibility and I've been the sole payer of the vehicle for 2.5 years now. If I had to estimate, I've paid maybe 90% of what was paid on the car myself (because it was my car). Unfortunately, she's on the loan too. My bank suggested I trade in the car and have them deal with it. The BMV said I could file a court order to get the title in my name after I pay it off if I show evidence the other lender has abandoned responsibility. Here's the problem though: I was working on option 2 but I didn't want to be dumb and pay it off and drain all my money. But now, she seems to have gone and married the dude she cheated on me with. I guess what I'm asking is: will he have some sort of claim to my vehicle now that they're married? Or am I still safe to proceed with plan B and court order the car in my name. Me and the ex haven't spoken or seen each other for 2 and a half years now. I have the money to pay my car off and have about 2 grand left over. Should I be rushing this now or not? I've no reason to believe she'd suddenly try to come and screw me over now but you never know. | 7ee5c5c8cb45614f104642b5936981558de0ad0e40290e563aa588ee13efaf0b | [
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My ex cosigned for me to buy my car and now she married the guy she left me for. How does this affect my loan? Indiana for context. Long story short, my ex and I bought a car while we were still together. More specifically, she cosigned for me to be able to buy the car. A little over a year after that we were done and she dumped me with the car's financial responsibility and I've been the sole payer of the vehicle for 2.5 years now. If I had to estimate, I've paid maybe 90% of what was paid on the car myself (because it was my car). Unfortunately, she's on the loan too. My bank suggested I trade in the car and have them deal with it. The BMV said I could file a court order to get the title in my name after I pay it off if I show evidence the other lender has abandoned responsibility. Here's the problem though: I was working on option 2 but I didn't want to be dumb and pay it off and drain all my money. But now, she seems to have gone and married the dude she cheated on me with. I guess what I'm asking is: will he have some sort of claim to my vehicle now that they're married? Or am I still safe to proceed with plan B and court order the car in my name. Me and the ex haven't spoken or seen each other for 2 and a half years now. I have the money to pay my car off and have about 2 grand left over. Should I be rushing this now or not? I've no reason to believe she'd suddenly try to come and screw me over now but you never know. | 7ee5c5c8cb45614f104642b5936981558de0ad0e40290e563aa588ee13efaf0b | [
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My ex cosigned for me to buy my car and now she married the guy she left me for. How does this affect my loan? Indiana for context. Long story short, my ex and I bought a car while we were still together. More specifically, she cosigned for me to be able to buy the car. A little over a year after that we were done and she dumped me with the car's financial responsibility and I've been the sole payer of the vehicle for 2.5 years now. If I had to estimate, I've paid maybe 90% of what was paid on the car myself (because it was my car). Unfortunately, she's on the loan too. My bank suggested I trade in the car and have them deal with it. The BMV said I could file a court order to get the title in my name after I pay it off if I show evidence the other lender has abandoned responsibility. Here's the problem though: I was working on option 2 but I didn't want to be dumb and pay it off and drain all my money. But now, she seems to have gone and married the dude she cheated on me with. I guess what I'm asking is: will he have some sort of claim to my vehicle now that they're married? Or am I still safe to proceed with plan B and court order the car in my name. Me and the ex haven't spoken or seen each other for 2 and a half years now. I have the money to pay my car off and have about 2 grand left over. Should I be rushing this now or not? I've no reason to believe she'd suddenly try to come and screw me over now but you never know. | 7ee5c5c8cb45614f104642b5936981558de0ad0e40290e563aa588ee13efaf0b | [
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My ex cosigned for me to buy my car and now she married the guy she left me for. How does this affect my loan? Indiana for context. Long story short, my ex and I bought a car while we were still together. More specifically, she cosigned for me to be able to buy the car. A little over a year after that we were done and she dumped me with the car's financial responsibility and I've been the sole payer of the vehicle for 2.5 years now. If I had to estimate, I've paid maybe 90% of what was paid on the car myself (because it was my car). Unfortunately, she's on the loan too. My bank suggested I trade in the car and have them deal with it. The BMV said I could file a court order to get the title in my name after I pay it off if I show evidence the other lender has abandoned responsibility. Here's the problem though: I was working on option 2 but I didn't want to be dumb and pay it off and drain all my money. But now, she seems to have gone and married the dude she cheated on me with. I guess what I'm asking is: will he have some sort of claim to my vehicle now that they're married? Or am I still safe to proceed with plan B and court order the car in my name. Me and the ex haven't spoken or seen each other for 2 and a half years now. I have the money to pay my car off and have about 2 grand left over. Should I be rushing this now or not? I've no reason to believe she'd suddenly try to come and screw me over now but you never know. | 7ee5c5c8cb45614f104642b5936981558de0ad0e40290e563aa588ee13efaf0b | [
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This morning my dog was hit by a car and the driver left. I took my dog to the closest vet on Google, because he looked like he had a broken leg and explained the situation. They performed a ton of extra tests and now won't let me take him unless I pay $300 more. In Missouri. How do I get my dog? I apologize if I forget anything or don't make a ton of sense. I'm so distraught and frustrated by all of this, but I'm trying to stay level headed. This morning I took my dog for a short walk before work. His name is Dobby and he is literally my best friend. A driver who wasn't paying attention drifted off the road and hit my dog. The driver left before I could talk to them or see their license plate. My dog was basically limp walking and I tried to comfort him. I made sure he wasn't seriously injured as best I could. He had a few small cuts and bruises, but nothing significantly bleeding. The leg was the obvious problem, but my vet is in a different city where I adopted Dobby. I feel like I messed up here, but I didn't call the police because I wanted to make sure he was alright as fast as possible. So I picked him up and ran to my apartment. Got in my car and googled the closest vet to take him there. I've never been to this vet before, but they were less that 5 minutes away. Once I got there I explained to the receptionist everything and she got him in right away. I only paid a $150 charge for the emergency visit which sent my bank account negative. I explained to her while waiting that I don't have care credit due to my own financial issues and a bankruptcy last year. She said that it should be fine and that they would work with me. The vet came out after an hour and told me he had a broken leg (duh). They said they would treat him and run a few more tests and let me take him. I asked the vet how much the leg would cost and whether I could be billed for the treatment later. She said that would be fine. She said it would be best to come back in a few hours so I went to work. I went to work and finally called the non emergency police line as well. Other than being told I could file a report they said there wasn't much they could do. Upsetting to say the least. After lunch I called the vet and went to go get him. This is when they inform me my total charges of $3000 for the visit. I kind of laugh because I expected it to be a joke. I kindly explained again that I didn't have care credit, and the receptionist didn't say anything as if she forgot, the vet then said that while the leg did cost $500 the rest was for emergency treatment and tests. I explained that the $150 I paid was literally almost everything in my bank account and I wouldn't have any other money until the following Friday. They then started recommending borrowing from friends or family. I explained that wasn't an option because it isn't, not because of pride or anything. They then offered to let me pay 10% of the $3000 so $300 to take him home today. I tried to beg and plead to let me have him because I could pay it next week and then make payments. However they would not budge. I called my boss to take a half personal day. I work for a smallish company so he definitely understood me needing the day off, but since I've only been there a couple months he couldn't give me an advance. I'm really just confused and shocked by today. I feel like just going to sleep and hoping it will go away. That's just my anxiety and depression kicking into full gear though. Not great at confrontation or the crazy problems life throws at you when you're already down. I know it's not super relevant, but I've spent most of this year trying to get back on my feet after unemployment and losing myself a bit to depression. Today has just been the absolute worse. I can't hold the driver accountable and I feel like the vet lied to me. How can I get my dog back without paying the $300? I can pay it next Friday when I get paid, but I am too broke to pay it now. Is it legal for them to keep my dog and/or overcharge me? How can I prove they overcharged me? Sorry again if I have lots of questions, if I sound stupid, or if I forgot something. I'm just a blubbering idiot right now so I probably sound crazy. Thank you to anyone that reads this though. | 2385da90800a95cbab118eb28b614c5718f12a03d8fc4405c74ad9ebff8295b5 | [
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This morning my dog was hit by a car and the driver left. I took my dog to the closest vet on Google, because he looked like he had a broken leg and explained the situation. They performed a ton of extra tests and now won't let me take him unless I pay $300 more. In Missouri. How do I get my dog? I apologize if I forget anything or don't make a ton of sense. I'm so distraught and frustrated by all of this, but I'm trying to stay level headed. This morning I took my dog for a short walk before work. His name is Dobby and he is literally my best friend. A driver who wasn't paying attention drifted off the road and hit my dog. The driver left before I could talk to them or see their license plate. My dog was basically limp walking and I tried to comfort him. I made sure he wasn't seriously injured as best I could. He had a few small cuts and bruises, but nothing significantly bleeding. The leg was the obvious problem, but my vet is in a different city where I adopted Dobby. I feel like I messed up here, but I didn't call the police because I wanted to make sure he was alright as fast as possible. So I picked him up and ran to my apartment. Got in my car and googled the closest vet to take him there. I've never been to this vet before, but they were less that 5 minutes away. Once I got there I explained to the receptionist everything and she got him in right away. I only paid a $150 charge for the emergency visit which sent my bank account negative. I explained to her while waiting that I don't have care credit due to my own financial issues and a bankruptcy last year. She said that it should be fine and that they would work with me. The vet came out after an hour and told me he had a broken leg (duh). They said they would treat him and run a few more tests and let me take him. I asked the vet how much the leg would cost and whether I could be billed for the treatment later. She said that would be fine. She said it would be best to come back in a few hours so I went to work. I went to work and finally called the non emergency police line as well. Other than being told I could file a report they said there wasn't much they could do. Upsetting to say the least. After lunch I called the vet and went to go get him. This is when they inform me my total charges of $3000 for the visit. I kind of laugh because I expected it to be a joke. I kindly explained again that I didn't have care credit, and the receptionist didn't say anything as if she forgot, the vet then said that while the leg did cost $500 the rest was for emergency treatment and tests. I explained that the $150 I paid was literally almost everything in my bank account and I wouldn't have any other money until the following Friday. They then started recommending borrowing from friends or family. I explained that wasn't an option because it isn't, not because of pride or anything. They then offered to let me pay 10% of the $3000 so $300 to take him home today. I tried to beg and plead to let me have him because I could pay it next week and then make payments. However they would not budge. I called my boss to take a half personal day. I work for a smallish company so he definitely understood me needing the day off, but since I've only been there a couple months he couldn't give me an advance. I'm really just confused and shocked by today. I feel like just going to sleep and hoping it will go away. That's just my anxiety and depression kicking into full gear though. Not great at confrontation or the crazy problems life throws at you when you're already down. I know it's not super relevant, but I've spent most of this year trying to get back on my feet after unemployment and losing myself a bit to depression. Today has just been the absolute worse. I can't hold the driver accountable and I feel like the vet lied to me. How can I get my dog back without paying the $300? I can pay it next Friday when I get paid, but I am too broke to pay it now. Is it legal for them to keep my dog and/or overcharge me? How can I prove they overcharged me? Sorry again if I have lots of questions, if I sound stupid, or if I forgot something. I'm just a blubbering idiot right now so I probably sound crazy. Thank you to anyone that reads this though. | 2385da90800a95cbab118eb28b614c5718f12a03d8fc4405c74ad9ebff8295b5 | [
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OH-Falsely accused my father of sexual abuse when I was a kid. I am in my 20's now and I want to make it right I falsely accused my father of sexual abuse when I was young. I won't go into details but there was just lots of coercion and beatings from a mother who is a diagnosed schizophrenic and narcissist and has made attempts on my life. Criminal charges were pressed and dropped as the police and everyone else could probably tell that I was a confused scared and lying 5 year old. Still my father eventually gave up his parental rights and my mom harassed my dad for years. Everyday I hate myself for this. I don't even live with her and I am still so afraid of my mother but am also afraid of the power she has over my niece to coerce the same accusations against other members of my family and the kid's dad. More importantly I just want to make things right. I am willing to bear the punishment of getting everything in the open but I would like to know what I will be facing. If I got in contact with and told my father, what legal repercussions could I face? | abe0979a851efaf01b32d81edcaad29fa10a828f95bb310f7c1987d9363fcc81 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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I'm being falsely accused of sexual abuse. Please help. This is obviously a throwaway account. My girlfriend is involved in a bad custody battle with her ex husband over their young daughter. In a dirty attempt to gain ground in the battle, he called child protective services to say that I am a risk of sexually abusing their daughter. This has thrown my life into a crazy whirlwind and I really need some sound advise. My girlfriend's ex husband is a really bad person. At 18, he was involved in two porn videos. Throughout my girlfriend's relationship with him, he was high every night (weed), drank and partied excessively and was verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically abusive with her. He made her move out of her parents house and live with him and his family (7 people living in a small, 2 bedroom apartment), and not have any contact with her family. She was 'in love' and this made her abide by his rules. He eventually joined the army for a brief time, but came to her and said he was cheating on her consistently while away. This caused their marriage to begin failing and she was going to leave him. He went AWOL from the army to "save his marriage." When home, all he did was party with friends and continue cheating on his wife (my gf). She eventually left him, so he went to an army psychologist and was deemed unfit for service and was generally discharged from the army. They still ended up getting divorced. Fast forward some time, I went through a similar situation of. Ring cheated on and divorced, and we found each other again. We knew each other when we were both 13, so we had a history. We fell in love, and I was always there for her and her daughter, whom she has shared custody with her ex. I drive her to meet with him and exchange her daughter every week (and I mean EVERY week). I have a good job, so I can buy my girlfriend and her daughter things. I'll take them to Chuck E. Cheese. I'll buy her daughter cartoon Dvds, toys, and many things that a 3 year old would need. When I'm in the house with my gf and her daughter, I make sure to never put myself in a situation that can be interpreted as a bad situation. I was raised in a Christian home and I spend every weekend playing music for my church on Saturday and Sundays. I created a non profit cancer benefit foundation to raise money for families struggling with children with cancer. I have a bachelor's degree and a great job. I pay my bills on time. I take care of my business. I have a great family with a good background. Getting back to the daughter, if my girlfriend ever bathes her daughter with me in the house, I never enter the bathroom with her in there. When she gets wrapped in a towel and my gf has to carry her to the bedroom, I leave the room. If my gf is changing her daughter, I leave the room and stay as far from it as possible. She's not my kid, so I don't have any reason to be near her when she's being bathed or clothed. I do play with her outside and inside with her mother in the same room. I read to her. I build things with her and her Legos. I play video games with her (Dora games). We hit golf balls outside. We chase the dog. We ride the golf cart; we do light hearted stuff that a child of 3-4 years old does. I feel like I go above and beyond for my gf and her daughter. I would never put myself in a compromising situation with her. I've only had to babysit her one time out of emergency because my gf has to work late and her mother (who always watches my gfs daughter) wasn't around. All we did for the 2 hours was watch TV. If she wanted something, I got it for her. That's it. It was a one time thing about a year and a half ago. There was no more instances after that. Getting back to my girlfriend's ex husband, he got another girl pregnant about a year and a half ago. He left her, so she filed for full custody and he was only allowed to see the child supervised. Eventually they got back together. They're not married, but still dating. His mother, whom he still lives with, is more manipulative than he is. I believe during the time they had the daughter, his mother was coaching the daughter to say things like I made her pull down her pants in front of me. These words would never come out of her mouth without someone making her. Mt gf's mother told her about how the ex's mother acted like her granddaughter was here's. She was apparently always taking her from my gf, and making her feel inadequate as a mother. This shows more of how my gf was controlled by this household. There were a time we had the daughter and my gf was bathing her, and the daughter would say, "Daddy hurts me down there (crotch region)." My gf asked her what does she mean. Then the daughter responded, "But daddy loves me." We should have known to report that but we are both young and would never dream something like this could be going on with her daughter. There was also another time we picked up her daughter and asked her who told her to say that I made her pull down her pants, and she said, "Grandma made me say that, but you didn't make me pull down my pants, (my name). Grandma made me say it." This was suspicious but we were too stupid to realize what was actually happening. Fast forward to last week, her ex had the daughter for a week and was supposed to exchange her Saturday. He called her an hour before we were supposed to leave and says he's gonna keep her til Monday. My gf agreed because he said he wanted to take her to some Sesame Street show. Monday comes around and an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls her saying he's keeping her til my day. My gf was furious, crying like crazy... Being hysterical. He said he was going to give her back that Wednesday, so she sucked it up and made it to Wednesday. On Wednesday, an hour before we were supposed to leave, he calls saying he's keeping her until she gives him an answer about her and her daughter moving back to his area so the daughter can be in school full time starting September. My gf told him that she doesn't have to give him an answer and that we're going to court to her the daughter back. The next day we get in court and get a hearing. The ex shows up 5 mins late with a 'confidential' envelope. He takes the envelope to the judge's office and we find out that he called child protective services saying that the daughter is "at risk" of sexual abuse by me! This is outrageous. I have nothing to do with their custody battle. I was just supportive of my gf in this. We were together for 2 years and I wanted to show her that I support her in getting full custody of her daughter. So, I am being accused of sexual abuse of their 3-4 year old daughter. I never touched her inappropriately. I never put myself in a situation that could be interpreted as inappropriate. I feel he is accusing me to just try and win this court case at any cost. No one else was accused. I received a letter from child protective services saying they have 60 days to investigate. The daughter is apparently 'at risk' of sexual abuse. I see that as it didn't happen, but they are investigating because they got the call. I have my whole life ahead of me. This is outrageous. So, I am currently doing whatever I can to prove my innocence. I will take a polygraph. I have 3 reputable people writing character reference letters describing how good of a person I am. I am actively seeking a good PA lawyer. I want to prove my innocence before the investigation even starts. I am willing to cooperate with any investigation. The letter I received is civil action, not criminal. Please let me know what I need to do to prove I'm innocent and those charges are false. Her ex knows these are false. I want to take the fight back to him. I would love to sue him for false accusations, and build a case for my gf to get full custody. I truly want this bastard to pay. I will answer any question I can as long as it doesn't reveal personal info. Please help! TL;DR Read all of it, but if you don't want to to, I'm being falsely investigated for the risk of sexual abuse of my girlfriend's daughter only because of my association to her. But seriously, read all of it. Thanks. | cf266eda7e38d7a42fad0faff29bf0274d881a70bb8a012d793eab6d137993c0 | [
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Dentist sent refund check to incorrect address, someone forged my signature and cashed it. Trying to figure out how screwed I am. Location: Austin, TX So I was owed a $847.00 refund from my dentist (located in Houston). There was some back and forth, and the day I received an email stating they were agreeing to give me the refund, I called the dentist's office. They said they had already sent out the check...to my previous address. They said they would reissue the check and I also requested copies of my x-rays. I received my x-rays but no check. I emailed to check on the status of it and they said it had already been cashed. They never put a stop payment on the check, or reissued me another one, and apparently someone had gotten a hold of it, forged my signature and cashed it at a check cashing place. According to the front desk person, putting a stop payment on the check was "never discussed" and they were going to send the check to me after it had been returned. Which doesn't make any sense but ok. They did send me a copy of the cashed check but made it clear that it was my responsibility to keep my records updated with them, and that they had never agreed to stop payment or reissue the check (not true, but kinda my word against theirs at this point). I looked at the cashed check copy. It has the specific check cashing place and also the date it was cashed as well as some type of serial number on the back. It also has stamped "pay to the order of Bank of America for deposit only." I don't understand how the thief cashed a check without ID, unless they had a fake one with my name. I have submitted a police report but haven't heard back yet and to be honest I am not counting on them making an $847.00 check a big priority. Is there any hope at all for me getting my money back? The dentist's office is not willing to budge, period, from their perspective they already paid. Could this possibly be recovered from the check cashing place? I'm guessing it's probably gone for good but I've been in a really rough financial spot lately and this has been a real blow. | 6e0fd891ac53530dd895f5ad1b6edc084d75aa0f0f19ea828e4db12f73c4c521 | [
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Mentor did my taxes, now refuses to give me my refund check crosspost from /r/tax In the summer of 2015, my mentor offered to do my 2014 taxes for me. This is when I was living in CT. I didn't know how to do taxes, so I took them up on the offer because I thought they were someone I could trust. They told me they got the check in March 2016, but keeps making excuses. They said they've mailed it to me several times, but keeps getting mailed back. Then they claimed that they lost the check and can't find it. Now they are ignoring my calls and texts. I have sent messages on a nearly daily basis, but get no response. I really need the money, and have no clue what to do. I don't have the tax refund amount, so I can't look up the status online. What are my options? | 79203c7813189d8c7c484cd09e08bcd418dbe2ed44271fe7d3c543161a462fec | [
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Neighbor came onto my property, cut down tree, and crushed 20 foot section of fence as tree fell... now what? I live in Massachusetts and my yard is about an acre. A chain-link fence goes around the entire backyard and several smaller properties surround my property. I had a healthy 40-50 foot tall tree (not sure of type...oak?, elm? ...not pine) toward the back edge of my property, the trunk was about 4 feet inside the chain link fence. Essentially, the neighbor came onto my property, cut down the tree (at about waist high), and in the process crushed 20-feet of fence. Then they kept the logs and main trunk on their property (maybe for their use or sale) and threw all the branches back onto my property. I was away for two months at a military school and only learned of it through my finance. She said the neighbors never talked to her before or said anything afterwards. I had her take pictures a few days later. When I got back a few weeks later (Mid-March) I took more pictures and talked to the homeowner. They said a part of the tree landed on their roof (didn't see any damage), which is why they took the tree down, and that they would repair the fence. I'm fairly sure Massachusetts law says you can cut off parts of a neighbors tree hanging over your property, but only if it doesn't kill the tree. To do that they would have needed a bucket truck, cause the tree didn't start leaning until 20+ feet up. If they actually fix the fence then I would be... okay with that, but I have the feeling it won't go that way. Guessing this is probably small-claims type stuff. Would the police do a report or anything for documentation? Any ideas on how I stop this from happening again and can cover my a$$ in case I need to go to court?? | f28c09995f7c209590f1ab634d34d50686634dd33b38757f24d5380099d3e328 | [
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Neighbor came onto my property, cut down tree, and crushed 20 foot section of fence as tree fell... now what? I live in Massachusetts and my yard is about an acre. A chain-link fence goes around the entire backyard and several smaller properties surround my property. I had a healthy 40-50 foot tall tree (not sure of type...oak?, elm? ...not pine) toward the back edge of my property, the trunk was about 4 feet inside the chain link fence. Essentially, the neighbor came onto my property, cut down the tree (at about waist high), and in the process crushed 20-feet of fence. Then they kept the logs and main trunk on their property (maybe for their use or sale) and threw all the branches back onto my property. I was away for two months at a military school and only learned of it through my finance. She said the neighbors never talked to her before or said anything afterwards. I had her take pictures a few days later. When I got back a few weeks later (Mid-March) I took more pictures and talked to the homeowner. They said a part of the tree landed on their roof (didn't see any damage), which is why they took the tree down, and that they would repair the fence. I'm fairly sure Massachusetts law says you can cut off parts of a neighbors tree hanging over your property, but only if it doesn't kill the tree. To do that they would have needed a bucket truck, cause the tree didn't start leaning until 20+ feet up. If they actually fix the fence then I would be... okay with that, but I have the feeling it won't go that way. Guessing this is probably small-claims type stuff. Would the police do a report or anything for documentation? Any ideas on how I stop this from happening again and can cover my a$$ in case I need to go to court?? | f28c09995f7c209590f1ab634d34d50686634dd33b38757f24d5380099d3e328 | [
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[CA and NV] Had to rescind apartment contract due to medical uncertainty/roommate issues, landlord then went back on his word I was in **California** when I signed the contract. I was originally told by one of the employees that I had 72 hours from the signing period to cancel my contract. I did not get this in writing, which is my mistake. On Oct. 04 at 5:15 PM I signed the contract. On Oct. 06 at 8:45 PM I messaged the landlord to withdraw my contract. I was living there because I was going to college in Nevada, but due to surgery waitlists (and many other reasons), I will not be returning to that school. The person who I was going to room with actually decided to withdraw their application before I did, but that's a whole different story. The roommate is completely fine with me backing out. I was told by multiple employees that I had 72 hours to back out of the contract. If there was not that 72 hour grace period, I would not have signed the contract. My roommate was also told they had 72 hours to withdraw their contract, which they signed in Nevada. IIRC, in Californian tenants have a 72 hour grace period to cancel their contracts with no penalty. In Nevada, it does not seem that they have this grace period. Right now the landlord is telling me that he can put me on a reletting list, but this requires me finding someone to take my place as well as introducing them to the landlord, which I physically can't do seeing as I'm back in California. Given that I signed the contract in California, does the landlord have to give me the 72 hour grace period? Or, since the landlord and apartment are in Nevada, am I out of luck? Do I have any other options? | deadfa97c8abde1fba0f97b012aa49a6dc48ba1e460c4973baa3b4f28a8182db | [
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(IL) An undocumented co-worker's (F,40) daughter (F,16) is dating and has been in a relationship with a 33 year old man. More details inside. Co-worker is worried for her daughter what can she do? Sorry if its the wrong sub. I am writing because I am also concerned about the legality of their relationship. Basically my co-worker and her daughter moved to the United States 3 years ago from Europe because her then 13 year old daughter was accused of molesting their neighbor's pre-adolescent daughter. I don't know if she's innocent or guilty, but their lawyer advised them to move to the US. They obviously moved here and have found a house to rent about 2 years ago. They both got a job at the food place where I work, that's how I know them. As I worked with them more and more I learned that my co-workers daughter has not been attending school at all, but I think 16 is the age one can decide to drop out. I also learned that the father/husband is absent from their lives. At this point their documents have expired and they are here illegally. Anyway, this 33 year old regular customer kept coming in occasionally and always requested to be waited by my co-workers daughter. After some time they exchanged numbers and began dating. Initially with my co-workers permission. I don't know much about their relationship, besides the ridiculous age and illegal? age difference. I don't know if they engage in sexual activity. I do know that he promised her everything she wants if she stays with him. Recently my co-worker became worried because of her daughter's boyfriend's increasingly controlling behavior. The other day he berated her for wearing high heels to work. Recently he also picked her up unannounced from work and wouldn't let my co-worker know where they are going or where they are when she called after them. That day he dropped her off at home after midnight. She obviously wants this relationship to end. However she doesnt know what to do. She is worried about going to the police because of her illegal status. Her daughter is also young and thinks she knows best so any attempt to get to her is a failure. She is also worried because the daughter's boyfriend might use their illegal status as leverage for to continue the relationship. What can I advise my co-worker to do? | 341d8b09c555b9c5ad503a0f3ba1584a83b5014de095c78c1f66717c76b468ad | [
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My 16 year old niece (USA) is having an online relationship with a “25” year old man (Turkey) I have recently made contact with my niece whom I haven’t spoken to since she was a baby. However she and I live on opposite sides of the country. She told me she is dating an older man and said he is 25. They met online when she was 14 and kept contact for the last two years, she showed me his fb and he looks at least mid 30’s. He lives in Turkey and she lives in the USA. I asked if her mom knew and she said yes, when I spoke to her mom she confirmed that she knew and is fine with it because he makes her feel loved. I’ve tried speaking to my niece myself about how dangerous this could turn out and she should date someone her own age, but she refuses to recognize this isn’t normal. Is this legal? Could this be considered child neglect? | c70365f5345e56f20bf0ee39355027e5dad68f66272713c9a8f7e1a44c13f1e0 | [
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I had a legal 28 days to move out of my apartment and the landlord changed the locks today Hello, so I’m in a very messy situation right now with everything going on. I broke the lease by not paying because he wouldn’t fix the dishwasher and I told him I wouldn’t pay until it was fixed and he ignored me and now this has happened. I’m staying with my parents for now but so much is going on and this is pushing me over the edge. I didn’t get an eviction notice I don’t think just the 28 day lease breakage that said I had till January 14th. The landlord texted me that if I try to go into that apartment he will have me shot because it’s breaking the lease In Colorado | 27c1d12077a13f90bcd39a320e9e34a51b87c61812cae12ff2e4aaf8917422c5 | [
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[MI] Parents Divorced: Mom who is receiving thousands in child support abandoned her 15 YO daughter at home alone; Dad travels for work and is sole income, any steps to helping dad get custody and cutting mom off from cash? An involved story, and posting for a family friend. Dad (family friend) and Mom divorced 2 years ago and since Dad is the sole breadwinner and works in solar so is constantly traveling Mom got custody, lived in the house, with 15 YO daughter and was awarded \~$5,000 a month in child support. Around 6 months ago, Mom started leaving daughter home alone for long weekends, with no money and only the food in the house to go party. Recently, Mom called to say she wasn't coming home at all and she was moving in with her boyfriend. Of course, she didn't tell Dad about any of this, and a 15 year old being 15 kept it from him as well. Dad was on a 4 month stint in TX and only learned what was happening when Daughter finally let him know she was out of food and there was no money in the house. Currently the situation is that Dad is back in Michigan trying to get the daughter out of the hole she is now in (grades went from As and Bs to Ds and Fs) but he will eventually have to either quit his job ( not a great option: High school diploma education only, no experience in anything else and pays the mortgage) to return to MI, or leave on the road again. Right now when he does go out of town on the small jobs he is taking the daughter stays with a neighbor family My question are as follows: 1. Is there a way he can prove neglect and abandonment on Mom's part to get full custody even if he is not able to be there full time? 2. Is there a way of reclaiming the last few months of child support if you can prove that the money was not used to support the child? 3. Is there a legal way to arrange/ grant partial caretaking to the neighbor family who are looking after daughter? I don't want this girl to end up in foster care, and I really don't think that Mom should be collecting money for a child she left with no money or food for weeks. Additionally if anyone knows of tutoring resources in Michigan to help her get her grades up and maybe a good child and family therapist in Huron county that would be helpful. | 95daf8739634af5a335fbbd59156d09fd0bb7d2321d75e9c07cc411f2acb6008 | [
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[MI] Parents Divorced: Mom who is receiving thousands in child support abandoned her 15 YO daughter at home alone; Dad travels for work and is sole income, any steps to helping dad get custody and cutting mom off from cash? An involved story, and posting for a family friend. Dad (family friend) and Mom divorced 2 years ago and since Dad is the sole breadwinner and works in solar so is constantly traveling Mom got custody, lived in the house, with 15 YO daughter and was awarded \~$5,000 a month in child support. Around 6 months ago, Mom started leaving daughter home alone for long weekends, with no money and only the food in the house to go party. Recently, Mom called to say she wasn't coming home at all and she was moving in with her boyfriend. Of course, she didn't tell Dad about any of this, and a 15 year old being 15 kept it from him as well. Dad was on a 4 month stint in TX and only learned what was happening when Daughter finally let him know she was out of food and there was no money in the house. Currently the situation is that Dad is back in Michigan trying to get the daughter out of the hole she is now in (grades went from As and Bs to Ds and Fs) but he will eventually have to either quit his job ( not a great option: High school diploma education only, no experience in anything else and pays the mortgage) to return to MI, or leave on the road again. Right now when he does go out of town on the small jobs he is taking the daughter stays with a neighbor family My question are as follows: 1. Is there a way he can prove neglect and abandonment on Mom's part to get full custody even if he is not able to be there full time? 2. Is there a way of reclaiming the last few months of child support if you can prove that the money was not used to support the child? 3. Is there a legal way to arrange/ grant partial caretaking to the neighbor family who are looking after daughter? I don't want this girl to end up in foster care, and I really don't think that Mom should be collecting money for a child she left with no money or food for weeks. Additionally if anyone knows of tutoring resources in Michigan to help her get her grades up and maybe a good child and family therapist in Huron county that would be helpful. | 95daf8739634af5a335fbbd59156d09fd0bb7d2321d75e9c07cc411f2acb6008 | [
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