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(NV) Housekeeper brought a tier 3 registered sex offender to my house to help her clean... We have had a housekeeper for about a year who has been fine -- friendly, does a good job, not too expensive. A few weeks ago she asked my wife if she could have her boyfriend help her out, and my wife just said "fine". The guy arrives at my house with our housekeeper, and we get to talking and he mentions he had spent time in the joint (with no specifics). I relay this info to my wife who first asks the housekeeper what the deal was. The housekeeper says he was in the join in 2005 for a bar fight. My wife googles him and finds out he's a tier-3 registered sex offender with a conviction for sexual assault on someone under the age of 14 in 2015 -- and he's registered at the housekeeper's address. We have a three year old. Needless to say, we fired the housekeeper -- but my legal advice question is -- do we just drop it at this point? Or is his being around our child some sort of violation? The guy didn't do anything untoward when he was in the house, mind you. He didn't approach my child, he just did his job and was pilot to all of us. But, I'm sure the housekeeper has other clients and, given she wasn't upfront about this guy and now realizes that she'll likely be fired if a client finds out, she's likely to continue having him go to houses and help clean without informing he clients of his past. So, drop it or report him? | 3be33b86306cf8fb384139eb09f3b372ce01a36c5ee83edfec9e6580249fa00d | [
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Just found out my tenant sub-let a room to a registered sex offender. Could this potentially effect me in any way? (NC) I'm leasing a single family home to one tenant. When we discussed her leasing, she asked if she could put multiple people (3) on the lease. I told her no, I'd sign a lease agreement with just her and would allow her to sub-let. Provided there were no more tenants than there were bedrooms. My sister called to let me know my house shows up on the sex offender registry now. I'm concerned this could impact me in some way. Any advice? | 7bd49e058c161ac1d2b87a5fd50a4ad9f9960982cae3f42ac56ea94c3c413245 | [
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[PA] Bought a house 1 year ago. Apparently there are neighborhood covenants. Can these be enforced? I bought a house about 1 year ago that is located in a small plan on a dead-end road. There are about 7 houses that were constructed in the year 2000 time frame. There are about 15 additional open lots that have never sold. Recently someone dropped off in my mailbox about 20 rules titled "[Plan Name] Covenants" that l have never heard about. Most of the rules are related to the size and type of houses to be built on the land, which really don't apply to me since I bought a house that was already constructed. However, there are some other rules such as no fences allowed, no animals besides dogs/cats, no sheds allowed which may impact me in the future. I would like to build a fence around my garden... Funny thing is is that there are multiple people in the neighborhood in violation of the rules, some people have fences and others have built small sheds. I think the person who passed out the rules is the owner of the empty lots who still comes by to cut the grass and maintain them. First off, I have looked back through all the documents I signed during the home-buying process. The disclosure forms specifically state that this home is not part of an HOA or other neighborhood organization. There is no mention of neighborhood rules in any document that i signed. I looked back at the deed that I signed. There is no mention of any rules. There is only a generic statement on the deed "Under and subject to reservations, restrictions, easements and rights of way as the same may appear in prior instruments of record". Okay.. So, I looked in county records for every deed for this property dating back to 1970s before this plan was even developed. There is no mention of neighborhood rules in any of the deeds. Only the generic statement that I quoted above appears. I also looked through the deeds of my neighbors and none of their deeds mention neighborhood rules either... The deed references one other document in the "Plan Book". I looked that up and it is an engineering drawing that shows the lot sizes, rights of way, easements, etc. There is no mention of neighborhood rules on this drawing. I am trying to figure out if I am subject to these rules. They came as a total surprise to me. I cannot find them mentioned or recorded anywhere in the county records. Does anyone know where else I can look? I have standard title insurance. Should I contact them? I believe the title insurance company did the closing and these rules were never mentioned. I think this is something that should have been mentioned. | 5ada205ca862dc68ef76e379735283e0dd784348cde02374fe2744e01894e366 | [
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Bought a house six months ago, old homeowners are still having packages delivered here and are now demanding that I contact them immediately when it happens. What are my legal rights if they get nasty? Hello! Buckle up, this one’s kinda long. A little background, my boyfriend and I purchased our home in September of 2019. Our experience with the sellers was tense, as they accepted our offer during negotiation and then tried to pass off shoddy repairs that did not pass inspection. Everything was eventually repaired successfully, but we’ve since discovered more things that they falsely represented or outright lied about (i.e. not only was the pool not winterized, it also has a huge leak). Overall our home buying experience was pretty rocky, but we really love the property so we accepted its flaws and moved on. Since we moved in, we have continued to receive mail and packages for the old homeowners, both personal and for a marketing business that the husband ran out of the garage. We have been marking all mail “Return to Sender, No Longer Here” and putting it back in the mailbox, but packages tend to be trickier because we have received them both through USPS and FedEx. At first I scheduled return to sender pick ups, but it started to get extremely irritating, so a few packages ended up sitting in our foyer for awhile. In December, the old homeowners reached out to us through our realtor to say that there would be a large shipment of FOOD arriving at our doorstep within the next few days, and requesting that we text the husband directly as soon as it arrived to come pick it up. My boyfriend and I both work full time jobs, and certainly weren’t going to stay home to watch for this shipment. We do have a Ring doorbell, but aren’t comfortable with the old owners just showing up to wander our property and pick things up off of our porch. We reluctantly agreed that I would text the owner once we put the packages at the end of our driveway, but made it clear that they were not to visit the property without our permission. The shipment turned out to be several HUGE boxes, and we put them all at the end of the driveway (along with the other packages that had accrued). I texted the former owner, he came and picked them up, and we hoped that that was it and we could go on living our happy lives. Since then, the former owner has texted me every so often to inquire about packages arriving. We have only received one package since December, and I did place it at the end of the driveway when he asked. We still receive A LOT of his business mail, including tax documents, but have marked all of them return to sender, and he has never asked about non-package mail before. This morning, he texted me saying that he has attempted to “get his companies to update the address on file,” but that important mail for his business will likely continue to arrive at our home, and that I need to text him and let him know immediately if we receive any so he can come pick it up. I have not responded, as I find his request fucking ridiculous considering that we have lived here for SIX MONTHS on top of how courteous both of us have been to him through this entire situation. I have zero desire to continue to have contact with this man, especially considering what a negative experience we had while buying our home from him. My question is, what legal rights do we have if he continues to have packages delivered to our house? I would really rather not have to schedule FedEx return pick ups for the rest of my life. We are located in a Southeastern Virginia county if that helps. Thank you for any and all advice! TL;DR: bought a house six months ago, old homeowner owns a business and keeps getting packages delivered here, contacted us through our realtor to ask if he could come pick them up. It has since escalated to him demanding that I text him whenever packages or mail arrive. What are my rights? | b2f276802f62dcd1560b26561dc4f84af7391bb4a333d4f7e99abad52d206b61 | [
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My former friend has told me that he has hired a private investigator to investigate me for allegedly hacking into apple ID accounts and selling the nudes I find on the dark web. I clearly did absolutely did not do any of these things. Do I have any recourse? Columbus, Ohio I received text messages from this friend saying he hired a private investigator and "you are fucked". I asked him multiple times what they were investigating me for and he said that he has text messages from me saying I hacked into an apple ID accounts and sold the nudes on the dark web. THIS DID NOT OCCUR. He was blowing up my phone saying he is going to ruin my life, saying I am going to prison. He has had paranoid delusions before and was put in the hospital a few months ago. But his girlfriend contacted me as well and said she sent everything to his parents and they hired the investigator for him. I cannot stress enough, none of this occurred. Can I go to the police station and file harrassment charges? Do I have any recourse? I do not know what to do, it all feels so surreal. I can post the conversation on here if you think it would help, it is mostly me asking what he is talking about and him saying "you are fucked" "man your life is going to suck" "have fun in jail my old friend!" This is unfortunately completely real, please help me | 2401b5b23fb74c00920d16104528d8de5306ac892eb3f24f013d675528e7dad1 | [
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TX I'm a divorced dad with a standard possession schedule to see my only son who is 7. I have observed behavior from him that may indicate some form of physical or sexual abuse, but I am unsure. Is the behavior I'm observing substantial enough to hire a lawyer or to pursue the help of CPS? I'm not an expert and it's entirely possible I'm connecting dots that aren't there. Tonight, I wrestled with him and he wanted to show me the new underwear he bought. I told him that that was inappropriate. We wrestled some more and then he started to kiss me. I stopped that behavior and then we stopped wrestling altogether and he decided to play video games. I doubt he left my house this evening with the impression that I was deeply troubled by this even though I am. For the past few years he has communicated in "baby" talk using a cutesy accent. I always assumed he would grow out of it, but he hasn't. Are these behaviors normal? I certainly do not want to go on a witch hunt, but I also don't want to turn a blind eye to what may very well be red flags. Are these even legitimate red flags? I am on amicable terms with his mother, and I truly believe she is a really good mother to my son and would never attempt to abuse him. I am concerned, however, with some of his extended family that he spends time with (his uncle and aunt). I confess I don't really trust them, but again I have zero interest in going on a witch hunt to what very well may amount to baseless suspicions. Is this behavior enough to warrant I contact a lawyer? Please advise. Even if the best course of action is not to pursue this, it would be helpful to know if there are any preventative measures I can put in place to prevent my son from being abused or to pay attention to red flags I may not even be aware of in the future. Thank you for your help. | 050bc1e8deadbb5797da6593de17b14c85119ac3ecf48a22158f4c7ff7c24671 | [
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[CA] I am a male stripper who was hired for a girls 18th birthday, she performed sexual acts on me and video evidence was spread online. I just found out that the girl was actually 17 and her boyfriend is threatening to report me to the police. This was a few weeks back and i just found out about all of this. I got hired for this girl's 18th bday and things got out of hand and a couple of the girls there performed oral sex on me. One of them was recording it and it got posted on what was supposed to be a private snapchat group. A couple of the girls there had boyfriends and after it got out a lot of drama started. I received a call last night from a girl crying telling me all of this information and saying that her life got ruined by her friends for exposing her infidelity. She also told me about the whole underage situation and how the girl's bf is planning on finding me and calling the police. When i got to the party i reviewed all ID to verify everyone's age, i didn't expect there to be fake ID's What steps should i take if the police shows up at my footsteps? Thanks | db04b26379f606c8739774f4591eb32c41ccd1c6d4cab247ce7dfe77f1dd5b38 | [
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[Vancouver/Toronto] Stalker situation turned out to be private investigator following me; mother-in-law admitted via Facebook to hiring PI to follow me. What are my legal options? [long post] For the past three weeks, I've had a problem with a female stalker, this woman kept following my car and she was also filming me in public (from a discreet distance). I know there's laws about privacy and filming in public... but this? This same woman has been following me in a Subway store, and even when I went across the border to the US for the Black Friday deals recently, she even was filming me and some girlfriends who live in Seattle when we ate at a Mexican restaurant there (I could tell it was the same woman, even with the beanie hat she had on). I've removed personal info and just given cities for privacy. I didn't want to confront her in case things turned violent. I'd had issues with a stalker before in my youth (male) but the guy wasn't threatening and didn't really understand he was even stalking me just because we happened to be on the same campus (luckily no harm done) and when I was 20 I had some creepy old guy following me; but that turned out to be a situation where he mistook me for a granddaughter of his (dont really want to talk about this). I'm 31 years old, newlywed, been married for 18 months now, my husband is 32. I told my husband about the stalking issue last week and he suggested we get the cops dealing with it, but then on Wednesday he showed me a message on Facebook from his mother (my MIL) in which my mother-in-law admitted to hiring a private investigator "to get closer to my daughter-in-law find out what makes her tick". My husband showed me a picture of the PI and a link to her website and other related things about her in his mother's Facebook private message. My husband has confronted his mother (who lives in Toronto) over this and told her it is unacceptable but she insists she's done nothing wrong. Since this site asks for location, I'm in Vancouver, BC, Canada. Why would a PI be following me? Surely it can't be legal for a mother-in-law to hire a PI to constantly follow me throughout the day? Also, what's the legal situation about her following me across the border into the US and filming me in a restaurant (isn't that breaking some American law too)? I should add, I've never actually spoken to this female PI in any way. I don't fully understand why a PI would be following me in public or even why my mother-in-law hired a PI ("getting closer to me:" is what my husband had said my mother-in-law claimed was the reason). My husband is *very angry* about this, we're newlyweds and shouldn't have to deal with this sort of thing. Under Canadian law, what offences has this PI committed/laws broken and what action can or should me and my husband do about this "stalking"? I am not a lawyer but need advice from people who know more about private investigators than I do. I'm worried about how the situation will go next; could my MIL continue to hire this PI indefinitely? (I should add, my husband is wealthy so MIL can afford services of a PI and the fees). I'm confused, angry and feel violated. Please help me with this, thanks! I'm emotional, and really don't know what the hell I should do legally here. Sorry if I keep on rambling. 3:30 in the afternoon and I'm having to do this. I need some advice from people who know more than me so I know where to go next, or rather, so we know where to go next (my husband wants to try and work out how to resolve this). | d4d1c92f34cbd009d98e167cd840d5bd36ef96759fae17358cd4bfb43c7125c6 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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[Kansas] I reported my rapist and he hired a PI. The PI has gone into my work, called my job, called me, etc. The PI wants to talk with me today. I posted earlier on TrollX and they advised me to post here. I'm trying to get a restraining order but his defense attorney that he hired said that the PI is perfectly legal. I was fired from my job because my manager was fed up with dealing with this so she waited until a customer complained about me and used that as an excuse to let me go. On paper "customer complaint" was why I was let go from my job as a waitress. The first time the PI came to my work we called the cops. The second time she was asked to leave. At my first hearing his attorney said that I could have just asked the PI to stop calling my job and that "you are not being followed". So I'm jobless and hopeless. I need financial help and a new job, plus I have court soon for the restraining order. This is really hard! My Story of what happened: I was training animals as my job and I wanted to be an advocate for them as a career, so I posted an ad online looking for people to help me make a film raising awareness about animal abuse. My rapist(who we'll call D) signed up to help me saying it was a good project. D is a much older man(I'm a young woman in my 20's and he's in his 40's) with a wife and kids, I thought he was the family man type when I first met him at his studio. We worked together for a long time-a couple years on the film. We traveled over the country filming at various places, and he seemed nice. On October 30th of last year I went over to his studio. We worked for a bit, then decided to get lunch. We went to a bar/restaurant place and I got a pint of beer. D started saying weird stuff to me and I felt uncomfortable so I called my then boyfriend. BF came and had lunch with us and I felt fine. I thought I was being paranoid, so when D said let's go back to the studio I thought nothing of it. He took me back to his studio and showed me videos of him having sex with his wife-in one video she was asking him to stop filming and saying, "Please, D, stop". Then he showed me vids of him having sex with passed out chicks. I became very upset and asked to go home. Only, I wasn't myself. I felt more drunk than I have ever felt in my life-and I was having trouble moving. D told me he wanted sex and I said no, he got mad and said, "Oh come on, I though today was the day we were gonna fuck!" I asked to go home. He drove me into a field in the middle of nowhere and raped me in his car instead. I tried calling my boyfriend buy D took my phone away after telling me to tell my boyfriend NOT to come to the studio. D has also made sexual remarks about children and how sexy they are to him. He told me a 12 year old girl at his son's Bday party bent over getting into a jacuzzi and accidentally flashed him, and he told me "she had the body of a woman" and talked about how sexy she is. He dropped me off at home and acted like nothing had happened. I was too afraid for the longest time to go to the police. I used to work with animals which was my dream and I thought my life was on the right track, but then everything got pulled out from under me and I was waiting tables to get by. I attempted suicide a few months back because of the rape. I got the courage to report him after my attempt. I'm lost, please help. | 33ced2f68358d8a85d42b5ed259cba3f6b8454112f9595f0089f9c12f5eba1e1 | [
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My boss hired me a lawyer when my previous boss tried to sue me. I left the company and she wants me to pay for it. This is my first time posting so forgive me if I do anything wrong! I have to be a little vague about some details because of legal reasons. I am in my early 20s and worked with Company A for about 8 months. My first boss was absolutely crazy and I did not realize it until it was too late. I left there and took a break for 4 months from working and then went to Company B. Boss A then sent me a legal notice that I was violating a non compete contract and I needed to end my affiliation with Company B or he would take me to court. Company B is a main competitor of Company A and the two owners have had previous issues before I even came along. My boss at Company B encouraged me to fight Boss A and told me she would contact her friend that is a very well known lawyer. I am very non confrontational and wanted nothing to do with a legal battle but Boss B was extremely encouraging. We went to court and won one part (there was no non compete) but Boss A would not give it up so we settled with some small terms. The whole thing made me very uncomfortable and I told everyone from my friends to my lawyers and Boss B that I felt weird about the whole thing. The lawyer she got is apparently a very pricey one and I had no say in it. My anxiety and depression from not only that but personal and family matters made it to where I couldn’t even function at this new job without getting sick to my stomach. The environment was not good and I felt trapped. I told Boss B I wanted to leave the company for now and take time off from working to spend more time with my family who are hours away. She is now saying I have to pay the legal fees. I don’t remember signing a contract with the lawyers and was never told I would be responsible for it. I did not want to go to court in the first place. This bill could be $10,000 - $20,000. I am just now getting my credit and my life on track. I don’t know what to do. The lawyer has asked me to call her and I have put it off for tonight because I’m sick to my stomach about it. I do not make a lot of money at all and all parties involved know this. Do I have any protection against this bill being put on me? I of course realize now that I should never let someone talk me into this but I felt very pressured. I’m not naive(or so I’d like to think so) so I’m really beating myself up over this. I’m sorry if this is confusing! Just ask if you need any clarification. | cf8cf7e96c01dfd6278ce72769e2ab87c8a7ef90ac1690cbe3c8fac56e2ab214 | [
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Is there a FL law I can cite to get the HOA manager to stop harassing me about living in my own home? Okay, so I live in Florida. We bought a house in one of those communities where most of the homes are owned by investors and rented to tourists on Disney vacations. The tourists actually make great neighbors, they all tend to be in a good mood because they’re on vacation. Nothing in the HOA rules/covenants/etc forbids living in your house, rather than renting it out. The area is zoned residential, our home is a single family, we have no kids, or parties, and are much quieter than the tourists. We are very, very careful about following all of the HOA rules and restrictions, because we understand that our neighbors are effectively businesses, and we don’t want to be dicks and interfere with their customers. But no matter how nice, friendly, or rule-abiding we try to be, the HOA manager/director/crazy person will not stop giving us shit every single time we have to deal with her. The paint job on our house was getting old, so we popped over to the office to flip through the book of approved paint schemes. She lectured us on the fact that these homes were not intended to be full time residences. We applied to put up a mailbox. Many of our neighbors, full time and part time, have them. She okayed the request in the end because the HOA explicitly allows mailboxes, but it took half a dozen back and forth discussions, because again she wanted us to realize these homes are not intended to be lived in, and we should not expect ‘proper residential’ benefits. Her office is located by the community pool/store, and if I so much as dare my head in that area, she will come by to remind me, YET AGAIN, that what we are doing is NOT OKAY. Needless to say, I have taken to avoiding the place. Having just gotten another lecture from her today when I went to drop off a form she requested all homeowners to fill out, I started wondering. Do I have any sort of legal right to live in my own home, given that it is zoned for you know, living in, and I do not expect special treatment? I have triple checked the documents we signed, and nothing in them says we can’t live here. Is there a law I can quote that will potentially make this woman just shut up and leave me alone? We are not the only permanent residents in the neighborhood, but finding out who the others are seems to require asking LectureLady, so I have not yet gotten up the nerve to find out who they are to see if she gives them the same endless aggravation. | 0d7ff7e042adec781566b50b9778357b2b0e2ed9b640b59402ce3703b5c0bba8 | [
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Is there a FL law I can cite to get the HOA manager to stop harassing me about living in my own home? Okay, so I live in Florida. We bought a house in one of those communities where most of the homes are owned by investors and rented to tourists on Disney vacations. The tourists actually make great neighbors, they all tend to be in a good mood because they’re on vacation. Nothing in the HOA rules/covenants/etc forbids living in your house, rather than renting it out. The area is zoned residential, our home is a single family, we have no kids, or parties, and are much quieter than the tourists. We are very, very careful about following all of the HOA rules and restrictions, because we understand that our neighbors are effectively businesses, and we don’t want to be dicks and interfere with their customers. But no matter how nice, friendly, or rule-abiding we try to be, the HOA manager/director/crazy person will not stop giving us shit every single time we have to deal with her. The paint job on our house was getting old, so we popped over to the office to flip through the book of approved paint schemes. She lectured us on the fact that these homes were not intended to be full time residences. We applied to put up a mailbox. Many of our neighbors, full time and part time, have them. She okayed the request in the end because the HOA explicitly allows mailboxes, but it took half a dozen back and forth discussions, because again she wanted us to realize these homes are not intended to be lived in, and we should not expect ‘proper residential’ benefits. Her office is located by the community pool/store, and if I so much as dare my head in that area, she will come by to remind me, YET AGAIN, that what we are doing is NOT OKAY. Needless to say, I have taken to avoiding the place. Having just gotten another lecture from her today when I went to drop off a form she requested all homeowners to fill out, I started wondering. Do I have any sort of legal right to live in my own home, given that it is zoned for you know, living in, and I do not expect special treatment? I have triple checked the documents we signed, and nothing in them says we can’t live here. Is there a law I can quote that will potentially make this woman just shut up and leave me alone? We are not the only permanent residents in the neighborhood, but finding out who the others are seems to require asking LectureLady, so I have not yet gotten up the nerve to find out who they are to see if she gives them the same endless aggravation. | 0d7ff7e042adec781566b50b9778357b2b0e2ed9b640b59402ce3703b5c0bba8 | [
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