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Is there a FL law I can cite to get the HOA manager to stop harassing me about living in my own home? Okay, so I live in Florida. We bought a house in one of those communities where most of the homes are owned by investors and rented to tourists on Disney vacations. The tourists actually make great neighbors, they all tend to be in a good mood because they’re on vacation. Nothing in the HOA rules/covenants/etc forbids living in your house, rather than renting it out. The area is zoned residential, our home is a single family, we have no kids, or parties, and are much quieter than the tourists. We are very, very careful about following all of the HOA rules and restrictions, because we understand that our neighbors are effectively businesses, and we don’t want to be dicks and interfere with their customers. But no matter how nice, friendly, or rule-abiding we try to be, the HOA manager/director/crazy person will not stop giving us shit every single time we have to deal with her. The paint job on our house was getting old, so we popped over to the office to flip through the book of approved paint schemes. She lectured us on the fact that these homes were not intended to be full time residences. We applied to put up a mailbox. Many of our neighbors, full time and part time, have them. She okayed the request in the end because the HOA explicitly allows mailboxes, but it took half a dozen back and forth discussions, because again she wanted us to realize these homes are not intended to be lived in, and we should not expect ‘proper residential’ benefits. Her office is located by the community pool/store, and if I so much as dare my head in that area, she will come by to remind me, YET AGAIN, that what we are doing is NOT OKAY. Needless to say, I have taken to avoiding the place. Having just gotten another lecture from her today when I went to drop off a form she requested all homeowners to fill out, I started wondering. Do I have any sort of legal right to live in my own home, given that it is zoned for you know, living in, and I do not expect special treatment? I have triple checked the documents we signed, and nothing in them says we can’t live here. Is there a law I can quote that will potentially make this woman just shut up and leave me alone? We are not the only permanent residents in the neighborhood, but finding out who the others are seems to require asking LectureLady, so I have not yet gotten up the nerve to find out who they are to see if she gives them the same endless aggravation. | 0d7ff7e042adec781566b50b9778357b2b0e2ed9b640b59402ce3703b5c0bba8 | [
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I want to get a restraining order against my parents after they have continuously harassed me after moving out at 18. Is there any way I can do that? My family is very abusive and controlling, and because of this I moved out at 18 from Austin, TX to Colorado. I sent an email to my mother telling her my reasons for this and that I am moving out. I did not tell them my location. When they saw the email they contacted local police to file a missing person's report, and I had to call the police station to dismantle it. They also took all my money (4k) from my joint bank account right before it would transfer over to my secure one, essentially making me destitute. After this I moved to Colorado, and nearly every day my mother would send me emails to my address, telling me that I should come back. After about a month of these emails I sent her another one back telling her to stop contacting me. After I sent this email my father contacted the Austin police department, trying to file another missing persons report, and when I contacted the new officer to once again dismantle it she said that my dad made it seem I was taken across state lines (kidnapped), and that he would be contacting the FBI. After that they sued my friend who helped get me to the airport for kidnapping and extortion for the 4k *my family* took from my account. My friend's lawyer asked me to send another email in which I said that they never extorted of kidnapped me, and that I moved out of my own accord, and I did. Most importantly, last night around 12:00AM when I was walking home from work my father walked behind me for a block, revealed himself, and when I ran he tackled me to the ground and restrained me so I couldn't run. My mom came out of a car and revealed that they had been in town for a week, and had been stalking me for that time to find my address and work. They said they believed I was kidnapped and didn't write the emails I sent, and that's why they came. I was able to get them to leave after promising to get breakfast with them, which I didn't attend. Afterwards I went back to my place of work and called the police to get a ride home, and the police officer told me that there was little to nothing they could do. I want them gone and to leave me alone. Is there any way to get any criminal charge or restraining order on them in Colorado? | 0703f2c83e58fe0a5bd119436c7e026e30a1cadfcf40e9dc426af01ace7aceb8 | [
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HELP! My landlord added a 1300 charge to our apt, no reason why, and is saying if we don’t pay she will evict Pls pls i really need any help!! my roomates and i received a letter from our property manager saying we have a 1300 charge for rent. But we have been paying and seeing that they cashed our checks; the number doesn’t add up to our individual or combined rents either. The letter says if it isn’t paid in two days, they will start the eviction. This is Somerville, MA. i’m not from MA, I have no friends and no where to go if i get evicted. Is there anything we can do? | f3bb6ea8363bc70812cc004c788ef3d2bceb17aca478d1f83cabce92a226c8c7 | [
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HELP! My landlord added a 1300 charge to our apt, no reason why, and is saying if we don’t pay she will evict Pls pls i really need any help!! my roomates and i received a letter from our property manager saying we have a 1300 charge for rent. But we have been paying and seeing that they cashed our checks; the number doesn’t add up to our individual or combined rents either. The letter says if it isn’t paid in two days, they will start the eviction. This is Somerville, MA. i’m not from MA, I have no friends and no where to go if i get evicted. Is there anything we can do? | f3bb6ea8363bc70812cc004c788ef3d2bceb17aca478d1f83cabce92a226c8c7 | [
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My stepdaughter trademarked her fiancé's ex-wife's name and filed a lawsuit against her for using it. My stepdaughter doesn't always make the best choices. She trademarked the name of her fiancé's ex-wife. It's not a common name at all, the only people in North America who have her last name are members of her family. No one in America has her first name. After she trademarked the name, my stepdaughter filed a lawsuit against her fiancé's ex for using her name on things like business cards and other documents. r/legaladvice, I'm wondering if my stepdaughter could face any type of legal trouble or consequences for this. I don't think it was the best idea and her mother is worried sick that she will be arrested. My stepdaughter keeps telling us that she will be fine. Her fiancé is going along with it even though it wasn't his idea at all. In theory, how much trouble could she get in? Our location is the state of Florida. | e6f541eb44795037acf887979e6367749117f78938b12017f47d847ee1262c61 | [
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(Utah) Found out yesterday my sister has endured domestic violence for years; need help knowing how to dispose properly of a gun in the house My sister told me yesterday that she called the cops on her husband who was in a violent rage. He did not hurt her or her two kids (ages 5 and 2.5) but physically destroyed several things around the house before she called the police. He was arrested and charged with domestic battery and destruction of property. There is currently a restraining order on him to stay away from her & the kids until his court hearing Monday. I had no idea the extent of it because she kept it all from me (I live several states away so it wasn’t all that difficult), but apparently his anger issues and destructive tendencies have been a reoccurring problem for basically their entire relationship (about 4 years). So this has not been a one-time incident, but rather hallmark DV over the course of several years. Her husband has a gun (my sister thinks it’s a Ruger 9mm but I don’t know for sure) that my dad sold him within the state of Utah a couple years ago. According to my dad, no paperwork/registration was needed for a gun sale of that nature in the state of Utah. During the course of the DV, he would often threaten to shoot himself or harm himself with said gun. My sister told me she would hide it in various places around the house to keep him from getting to it, and would keep the ammo in a completely separate location from the gun. (I know how incredibly dangerous that is with two young kids, even if gun/ammo are separated. If I would have known...) She is incredibly fortunate (if that’s even the word to use in this kind of situation) that no one has been seriously injured or hurt because of the gun [yet]. I know she needs to get the gun out of her house ASAP, but I also know that she needs to make sure it is 100% above the table and also won’t have any repercussions on any future custody/divorce proceedings that could somehow weaken her case or chances at getting full custody of her child. A few questions: 1. What’s the best way to get rid of this gun? 2. Would there be any potential repercussions in divorce/legal proceedings if she sold a gun that was his? 3. Can she even sell it? Not having paperwork for a gun sale or not having to register it at all just seems really weird to me, but I know nothing about gun laws. 4. In the meantime, if she isn’t able to get rid of it altogether, can she give it to a trusted friend for safekeeping until she can speak with a lawyer and figure out how to proceed? He is a legal US resident but does not have citizenship (I don’t know whether this affects anything, gun-wise or otherwise). | eb0f725f74ddda8d55d581bc8362ec088accc4d843bade79a91aecc892b6aeb8 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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"content": "Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pi... | [
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Neighbor backed into my car and wants to pay cash but won't pay the entire price only the original quota on the damage. California. Basically I got my car inspected so I could give my neighbor an idea on the damage which was around $2,200. He hasn't paid me but keeps insisting I come around and pick up the cash but knowing how these repairs go, often times that's not the final price. So I dropped my car off yesterday and get a call that their was more damage than previously estimated and now the repair price is $2,600. He won't pay the full price and is being a dick about it. I'm 21 and he's around 55 if this matters to anyone. | c537e4fa8fd2182875bb7b84e44073a4ff917419730890014efc73b21d7100b4 | [
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(NC, USA) Landlord Wants me to keep utilities on after termination of my lease for inspection My landlord gave us an order to vacate so they could sell the house from under us. Among many other things, they have been generally unpleasant and slow to address problems. My lease ends on the last day of this month. So I will not move out until the last day of this month. I have paid for the month (they won't prorate) and so in my mind, I'm entitled to stay in it until it ends. The lease states: "Upon termination of the tenancy [...] Tenant shall (1) Pay all utility bills due for services to the premises for which he is responsible and have all such utility services discontinued" In the moveout check list the land lord states: "ALL utilities MUST be on at time of inspection. If not, you will be required to PAY a temporary hook-up fee so that the plumbing, appliances, fixtures, heat/cool, and sockets can be checked. Please leave them on for FOUR (4) business days after checkout." They further state that the house must be entirely vacated at the time of inspection. I am moving out on a Saturday and they will not inspect on the weekend. So they will either 1) only inspect after I have moved out past the time of my lease or 2) require me to move out before the period which I paid through. In addition to the reconnect fees, he states there is a $75 re-inspection fee. Can this actually be charged from me or deducted from my deposit if none of it was in the lease or even agreed to and signed on anywhere? If not, how can I go about challenging this? I already told him I shouldn't have to pay for services past my lease, citing the lease itself. | e2b1b32d61289aa3bc246c2d889ab7674af63cefeaeb13ebf3480023435d5147 | [
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My landlord says I have to pay the $750 fee to the furnace company to have my heat turned on for the first time. Is this legal? My two kids and I have been at this rental house for about six months and the house has central air, but the landlord said the heat is from a gas furnace, and that to get it turned on, I would have to pay a $750 fee of some kind to the electric(?) company or whatever the company is called, in order for them to turn it on for the first time. It’s starting to get cold here like 39 degrees last night, and I’m having to use like 9 little space heaters and it’s still not keeping us comfortably warm. Plus I’m sure my electric bill will be insane from the space heaters I’m having to use. Anyways, is it legal for my landlord to not “provide” heat without me having to pay a huge fee to get it turned on? This is in Tennessee. | 2aeaea9cbd6573f69032bc97304f01da85c2fa9c9e87d537f464561a263bed4f | [
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My landlord says I have to pay the $750 fee to the furnace company to have my heat turned on for the first time. Is this legal? My two kids and I have been at this rental house for about six months and the house has central air, but the landlord said the heat is from a gas furnace, and that to get it turned on, I would have to pay a $750 fee of some kind to the electric(?) company or whatever the company is called, in order for them to turn it on for the first time. It’s starting to get cold here like 39 degrees last night, and I’m having to use like 9 little space heaters and it’s still not keeping us comfortably warm. Plus I’m sure my electric bill will be insane from the space heaters I’m having to use. Anyways, is it legal for my landlord to not “provide” heat without me having to pay a huge fee to get it turned on? This is in Tennessee. | 2aeaea9cbd6573f69032bc97304f01da85c2fa9c9e87d537f464561a263bed4f | [
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MN - Can I be required to pay for the birth of my son if my girlfriend is on state healthcare? Alright, so my girlfriend is entering her 3rd trimester of pregnancy. She is unemployed right now and has state health insurance. I work full time and have insurance through my company, however she is not on my plan as we are not married nor do I think she would qualify as a domestic partner as we haven't been living together for 6 months. Yesterday a friend of mine mentioned that I should check into this as he seems to think it's possible that because I'm employed that if I sign the birth certificate the state will come after me to pay the costs of the child's birth. I contacted another friend of mine who went through this exact situation with his gf and he showed me a horrifying bill. But said that neither he, nor she were asked to pay a dime of it, and that the state covered it completely. Now he also mentioned that he wasn't making much money at all during that time. I have no idea how this works, or who to even ask about this. I very much want to be the legal guardian of this child and plan to be a part of my child's life indefinitely, I'm a bit nervous right now however that by signing the paper that legally makes me the father I'm opting into a massive bill that I cannot afford for the birth of the child. I don't need to hear about how signing opts me into child support in the event we split up...I'm not worried about that and understand that. I'm only curious about the birthing bill. Thanks! TL;DR: Girlfriend (legally single) is pregnant, unemployed, and on state healthcare. I (legally single) am employed and on my company's insurance. If I sign the birth certificate can her insurance company come after me to pay the bill for our child's birth? | 43a9b545d9d4786570f55a73db7945626161d52b39e68f2faeaaa4ff839dc40d | [
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[NYC] Call from a stranger claiming I'm the father of her unborn child. This is completely impossible. Best course of action? So I still have no idea how I got caught up in the middle of this, but here we are. On Saturday night I got a call from a local (NY) number. On the other line was a woman who (if I recall correctly) said that she was a day late and that she believed it was mine. This was at 1:30 am so I basically said I've met/heard of you before and hung up the phone. The weird thing is, I believe she knew my name (I don't remember all of the details of this call - it was 1:30 am and I out drinking with friends). I also have a west coast number rather than a NY number so this wasn't completely random - she knew that I was living in NY. The next day I call back to see what in the fuck is going on. The woman will no longer answer the phone (says she's visiting her gran with Alzheimers so can only text) but calls herself Charlene and says that that we met a few weekends back - she saw me stumbling when trying to hail a cab and tried to help. Cabs weren't coming and we started talking and when a cab finally did come we went to her place. Now she says she's pregnant and going to the doctor tomorrow (this was yesterday, so tomorrow would be today). I pushed for more details and again she says we met a few weekends back ("coming up on a month" but still no specific weekend) around "the village, don't remember which bar exactly". I think that this can only mean Greenwich Village. She says she's getting an abortion because she doesn't want to ruin her life or mine. EDIT: While I was typing this she texted me and said that she went to the doctor, who said she's three weeks pregnant and that we met 3-4 weeks ago. She specified that we met on a Saturday (definitely not possible, I spend weekends with the GF who I think would notice if I went home with someone else. Okay but a lot of things don't add up: *Number one, this straight up didn't happen - at least not to me. I have no memory of this at all, I've had a girlfriend for nearly three years and have never cheated. *Number two, for much of December I wasn't in New York, and the weekends that I was in New York I know what I was doing and who I was with. Furthermore, I don't go out drinking alone so either my GF or my roommates would have to have some recollection of this happening. I also have no credit statements from that time from any bars in that area. *Number three, she gave me a fake name. She called herself Charlene, but I reverse searched her phone number against both Spokeo and Intelius and both engines said that the number belonged to a woman named LaShawnda. I also searched my own number to check accuracy and the engines were able to identify me. *Number four, it strikes me as suspicious that I got this call at 1:30 am on a Saturday - that's not how someone normally breaks that kind of news. Furthermore, she's a day late on Saturday night but has an appointment with a doctor on Monday? Doesn't make sense, some cycles are just a day late. I have no idea who this woman is or what she wants; she hasn't asked for money. She hasn't asked for anything. But something is definitely wrong here. If I'm being scammed I want some kind of justice. If it's a mistake I just want this woman out of my life. What do you all think? Sorry for the wall of text! TL;DR: Got a call from a stranger claiming to be pregnant with my child. This is completely impossible. What should I do? | 427d049c3a69b247753eded77054b18e21014d8055135246e60dceee62c48919 | [
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[NYC] Call from a stranger claiming I'm the father of her unborn child. This is completely impossible. Best course of action? So I still have no idea how I got caught up in the middle of this, but here we are. On Saturday night I got a call from a local (NY) number. On the other line was a woman who (if I recall correctly) said that she was a day late and that she believed it was mine. This was at 1:30 am so I basically said I've met/heard of you before and hung up the phone. The weird thing is, I believe she knew my name (I don't remember all of the details of this call - it was 1:30 am and I out drinking with friends). I also have a west coast number rather than a NY number so this wasn't completely random - she knew that I was living in NY. The next day I call back to see what in the fuck is going on. The woman will no longer answer the phone (says she's visiting her gran with Alzheimers so can only text) but calls herself Charlene and says that that we met a few weekends back - she saw me stumbling when trying to hail a cab and tried to help. Cabs weren't coming and we started talking and when a cab finally did come we went to her place. Now she says she's pregnant and going to the doctor tomorrow (this was yesterday, so tomorrow would be today). I pushed for more details and again she says we met a few weekends back ("coming up on a month" but still no specific weekend) around "the village, don't remember which bar exactly". I think that this can only mean Greenwich Village. She says she's getting an abortion because she doesn't want to ruin her life or mine. EDIT: While I was typing this she texted me and said that she went to the doctor, who said she's three weeks pregnant and that we met 3-4 weeks ago. She specified that we met on a Saturday (definitely not possible, I spend weekends with the GF who I think would notice if I went home with someone else. Okay but a lot of things don't add up: *Number one, this straight up didn't happen - at least not to me. I have no memory of this at all, I've had a girlfriend for nearly three years and have never cheated. *Number two, for much of December I wasn't in New York, and the weekends that I was in New York I know what I was doing and who I was with. Furthermore, I don't go out drinking alone so either my GF or my roommates would have to have some recollection of this happening. I also have no credit statements from that time from any bars in that area. *Number three, she gave me a fake name. She called herself Charlene, but I reverse searched her phone number against both Spokeo and Intelius and both engines said that the number belonged to a woman named LaShawnda. I also searched my own number to check accuracy and the engines were able to identify me. *Number four, it strikes me as suspicious that I got this call at 1:30 am on a Saturday - that's not how someone normally breaks that kind of news. Furthermore, she's a day late on Saturday night but has an appointment with a doctor on Monday? Doesn't make sense, some cycles are just a day late. I have no idea who this woman is or what she wants; she hasn't asked for money. She hasn't asked for anything. But something is definitely wrong here. If I'm being scammed I want some kind of justice. If it's a mistake I just want this woman out of my life. What do you all think? Sorry for the wall of text! TL;DR: Got a call from a stranger claiming to be pregnant with my child. This is completely impossible. What should I do? | 427d049c3a69b247753eded77054b18e21014d8055135246e60dceee62c48919 | [
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Can I get legally married in Missouri to someone if I am already legally married (to that same person) in a different country? [MO, USA] My husband and I just eloped in Jamaica a week ago, legally binding, it was at a resort so they have people who sorted out all the paperwork for us. However our marriage certificate will apparently take “16 weeks” to get to us. I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant (we weren’t trying but still happy) and I need my husbands health insurance as my current insurance through my work is garbage. We need proof of the marriage as a qualifying life event to add me. THe temporary marriage certificate we got after the ceremony as a placeholder until the official one doesn’t count as an official document. Could we just go get legally married in Missouri this week? Or might that create legal problems down the line since we are already technically legally married in Jamaica? Sorry if this question is dumb. Thanks guys. | 3d98a6b89f3f8205093d53d34c8d316daa5a5dcc91cb042cb02e71c8a3536c60 | [
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[PA] How Do I Adopt A Child I Currently Care For? Long story short, I met my girlfriend when she was pregnant. The baby’s biological father passed away before he was born. The child has my last name & Ive raised him as my own. We have another on the way, and I consider this one my son and first born just as much as his sibling to be, period. I’ve been told by an attorney that I have no legal rights. I want to cover my ass if something were to happen to his mom, or between me & his mom. What are the steps I need to take to legally adopt him and have official rights as his parent? | 61609798610b3bdcb0e35a1aea86123776b74df019992b90482b70e46206cdea | [
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My wife was killed in an accident and the biological father to my kids wants full custody. My wife has passed away after a drunk driver struck her car days ago. Immediately after, my wife's ex and the biological father of our children (yes, they may not be related by blood but I consider them my kids) has begun to try to take custody of them despite having had no direct contact with them for the past ten years when my wife had been pregnant with the youngest child. The guy has been paying child support but he is otherwise a terrible man that has abused and neglected my wife and kids until he ran off to start a new family with a woman he cheated with (and has now divorced her and abandoned her and their three children too). I have not been able to adopt the children since their biological father is "involved" still. I have no idea why he wants custody but it may have to do with money. I have asked the kids what they want to do, and they say they would like to remain with me, and they don't like or trust their bio-dad. The children are 14, 12, and 10 respectively. Is there any way I can retain custody of them? Will they automatically be placed with their biological father? Or can they remain with me while I fight for them? I live in New Jersey, their deadbeat father lives in Florida and intends to come up to take them with him, or so he claims. Yes, I am also in the process of getting a lawyer but I want to have an idea of how much of a fight I will have to put up...I have some money saved and...my wife has a life insurance policy that might end up paying the court fees... I have barely had time to grieve because their "real" dad sprung this up before the ink on my wife's death certificate dried... On top of this, I am caring for my infant daughter that my wife and I had months prior, adding to the stress and depression over the situation more. | a17dddb893dd24b2822687fc9675234128a44e44cb70ac742aa1ca2325930813 | [
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