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My wife was killed in an accident and the biological father to my kids wants full custody. My wife has passed away after a drunk driver struck her car days ago. Immediately after, my wife's ex and the biological father of our children (yes, they may not be related by blood but I consider them my kids) has begun to try to take custody of them despite having had no direct contact with them for the past ten years when my wife had been pregnant with the youngest child. The guy has been paying child support but he is otherwise a terrible man that has abused and neglected my wife and kids until he ran off to start a new family with a woman he cheated with (and has now divorced her and abandoned her and their three children too). I have not been able to adopt the children since their biological father is "involved" still. I have no idea why he wants custody but it may have to do with money. I have asked the kids what they want to do, and they say they would like to remain with me, and they don't like or trust their bio-dad. The children are 14, 12, and 10 respectively. Is there any way I can retain custody of them? Will they automatically be placed with their biological father? Or can they remain with me while I fight for them? I live in New Jersey, their deadbeat father lives in Florida and intends to come up to take them with him, or so he claims. Yes, I am also in the process of getting a lawyer but I want to have an idea of how much of a fight I will have to put up...I have some money saved and...my wife has a life insurance policy that might end up paying the court fees... I have barely had time to grieve because their "real" dad sprung this up before the ink on my wife's death certificate dried... On top of this, I am caring for my infant daughter that my wife and I had months prior, adding to the stress and depression over the situation more. | a17dddb893dd24b2822687fc9675234128a44e44cb70ac742aa1ca2325930813 | [
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[PA] My stepdaughter really wants to change her last name to my last name, but the law is unclear to me. Biological father doesn’t consent. My stepdaughter is 11 years old, going on 12. I’ve been in her life since she was almost 2, and I married her mother 5 years ago, at which time her mother’s last name changed to the same as my own. My stepdaughter has the same last name as her biological father, who is still in the picture and has visitation every other weekend. She’s been wanting to change her last name to the same as mine/her mother’s for a while. Her desire to change it has increased a lot since her brother was born a year ago. Recently she’s really been talking about wishing she could have the same last name as the rest of us a ton, but her father still doesn’t consent. We thought that he had to or else it was a non-starter, but after a little research it seems like maybe that’s not the case? Seems there’s a process for a petition, hearing, etc. However, it seems like a lot of the stuff I’ve read surrounds that process occurring when you want to change a minor child’s name to a name different from that of her custodial parent - which is not the case here; it’s just a change to the last name of the other custodial parent. It’s also the same last name as her sibling (she has no siblings from her father and her father has not had any other relationships/marriage, nor was he ever married to my wife). It’s her preference. So I’m unclear on how deep this process actually has to go and how much the other parent can block the change. Any info is appreciated. Thank you! | 52ef695308370798b73c9d290dbf165ef5ce8f7708c6cae6f8c62355809fd9b7 | [
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[NJ] I was arrested for a dui and blood alcohol levels were 0.00 and drug test was negative. Parents don't want to pay attorney fees what can I do? I'm at a loss here. I was wrongly arrested and I had an attorney consultation. The fees will amount to 8,000. The breathalyzer came out as 0.00 and all the drug tests came up as negative. I was arrested for having my headlights off. Although I am completely innocent, I still have to go to court and a lot of money will be involved. I made a huge mistake driving without my headlights and I don't want to stress out my parents. But I also do not want to be guilty for something I didn't do. I am very disappointed in the legal system for causing me so much distress for something that I didn't do. | 6e12b21bd7fb23953210f9c6a72424a4999e19be54390eae4f059d610ff76ae2 | [
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Are my parents legally allowed to get me to care for them when they retire? Hey guys, (20f) here, there’s been something on my mind the last bit and some of the things my parents have said in the past are bothering me. Recently I hooked a really good paying job, I’ll have my own apartment soon and Im Financially well off for the next couple years if not the rest of my life. Problem is my parents have repetitively threatened to legally bind me to keeping care of them after retirement. Even worse is they are divorced and I haven’t had contact with them in the last couple years from some emotional stuff. Do I legally have to keep care of my parents after they retire? Are they entitled to any sort of money from me and can they take legal actions against me? I live in Saskatchewan and as their “retirement” creeps closer it’s scaring me cause I don’t want any contact with them anymore. My money is for me and with how I’ve been treated I’d rather watch them crumble and fall realizing they have no retirement and their kids aren’t going to help them. I’m sorry if this sounds silly but it’s been eating away at me and I can’t find anything reasonable when I search besides people making jokes on how their kids are gonna keep care of them and articles about how to keep care of elderly people. I just want some reassurance if anyone has information… | 906f5e58e7529f69d08ab8d165a36a747860b650f1d2107cdc93240a5d03e044 | [
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Are my parents legally allowed to get me to care for them when they retire? Hey guys, (20f) here, there’s been something on my mind the last bit and some of the things my parents have said in the past are bothering me. Recently I hooked a really good paying job, I’ll have my own apartment soon and Im Financially well off for the next couple years if not the rest of my life. Problem is my parents have repetitively threatened to legally bind me to keeping care of them after retirement. Even worse is they are divorced and I haven’t had contact with them in the last couple years from some emotional stuff. Do I legally have to keep care of my parents after they retire? Are they entitled to any sort of money from me and can they take legal actions against me? I live in Saskatchewan and as their “retirement” creeps closer it’s scaring me cause I don’t want any contact with them anymore. My money is for me and with how I’ve been treated I’d rather watch them crumble and fall realizing they have no retirement and their kids aren’t going to help them. I’m sorry if this sounds silly but it’s been eating away at me and I can’t find anything reasonable when I search besides people making jokes on how their kids are gonna keep care of them and articles about how to keep care of elderly people. I just want some reassurance if anyone has information… | 906f5e58e7529f69d08ab8d165a36a747860b650f1d2107cdc93240a5d03e044 | [
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Are my parents legally allowed to get me to care for them when they retire? Hey guys, (20f) here, there’s been something on my mind the last bit and some of the things my parents have said in the past are bothering me. Recently I hooked a really good paying job, I’ll have my own apartment soon and Im Financially well off for the next couple years if not the rest of my life. Problem is my parents have repetitively threatened to legally bind me to keeping care of them after retirement. Even worse is they are divorced and I haven’t had contact with them in the last couple years from some emotional stuff. Do I legally have to keep care of my parents after they retire? Are they entitled to any sort of money from me and can they take legal actions against me? I live in Saskatchewan and as their “retirement” creeps closer it’s scaring me cause I don’t want any contact with them anymore. My money is for me and with how I’ve been treated I’d rather watch them crumble and fall realizing they have no retirement and their kids aren’t going to help them. I’m sorry if this sounds silly but it’s been eating away at me and I can’t find anything reasonable when I search besides people making jokes on how their kids are gonna keep care of them and articles about how to keep care of elderly people. I just want some reassurance if anyone has information… | 906f5e58e7529f69d08ab8d165a36a747860b650f1d2107cdc93240a5d03e044 | [
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Are my parents legally allowed to get me to care for them when they retire? Hey guys, (20f) here, there’s been something on my mind the last bit and some of the things my parents have said in the past are bothering me. Recently I hooked a really good paying job, I’ll have my own apartment soon and Im Financially well off for the next couple years if not the rest of my life. Problem is my parents have repetitively threatened to legally bind me to keeping care of them after retirement. Even worse is they are divorced and I haven’t had contact with them in the last couple years from some emotional stuff. Do I legally have to keep care of my parents after they retire? Are they entitled to any sort of money from me and can they take legal actions against me? I live in Saskatchewan and as their “retirement” creeps closer it’s scaring me cause I don’t want any contact with them anymore. My money is for me and with how I’ve been treated I’d rather watch them crumble and fall realizing they have no retirement and their kids aren’t going to help them. I’m sorry if this sounds silly but it’s been eating away at me and I can’t find anything reasonable when I search besides people making jokes on how their kids are gonna keep care of them and articles about how to keep care of elderly people. I just want some reassurance if anyone has information… | 906f5e58e7529f69d08ab8d165a36a747860b650f1d2107cdc93240a5d03e044 | [
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Husband died several months ago, left this house for me, his kids suiting to get their share? So my husband passed away a few months ago, we were married for 10 years. His kids in their 20s and I don't have any kids. His kids have never talked to me, and they wouldn't talk to their father much either, just like once every other year, since they were against our marriage. Long story short, we bought a small house and now his kids hired a lawyer to get half of it. I don't have family in this country, and this house is the only thing I have. What do I do now? Should I hire a lawyer? Will they force me to sell the house so they could get half of it? | 0b8f2a1dc7ad7636bb41ba009fa563e948fe4de46f686247adf4b2a1c1b3e147 | [
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Husband died several months ago, left this house for me, his kids suiting to get their share? So my husband passed away a few months ago, we were married for 10 years. His kids in their 20s and I don't have any kids. His kids have never talked to me, and they wouldn't talk to their father much either, just like once every other year, since they were against our marriage. Long story short, we bought a small house and now his kids hired a lawyer to get half of it. I don't have family in this country, and this house is the only thing I have. What do I do now? Should I hire a lawyer? Will they force me to sell the house so they could get half of it? | 0b8f2a1dc7ad7636bb41ba009fa563e948fe4de46f686247adf4b2a1c1b3e147 | [
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Husband died several months ago, left this house for me, his kids suiting to get their share? So my husband passed away a few months ago, we were married for 10 years. His kids in their 20s and I don't have any kids. His kids have never talked to me, and they wouldn't talk to their father much either, just like once every other year, since they were against our marriage. Long story short, we bought a small house and now his kids hired a lawyer to get half of it. I don't have family in this country, and this house is the only thing I have. What do I do now? Should I hire a lawyer? Will they force me to sell the house so they could get half of it? | 0b8f2a1dc7ad7636bb41ba009fa563e948fe4de46f686247adf4b2a1c1b3e147 | [
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Husband died several months ago, left this house for me, his kids suiting to get their share? So my husband passed away a few months ago, we were married for 10 years. His kids in their 20s and I don't have any kids. His kids have never talked to me, and they wouldn't talk to their father much either, just like once every other year, since they were against our marriage. Long story short, we bought a small house and now his kids hired a lawyer to get half of it. I don't have family in this country, and this house is the only thing I have. What do I do now? Should I hire a lawyer? Will they force me to sell the house so they could get half of it? | 0b8f2a1dc7ad7636bb41ba009fa563e948fe4de46f686247adf4b2a1c1b3e147 | [
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I am a boat mechanic living on my boat in Florida. My reputation is being destroyed and I am being evicted because of a lie the marina owner's have chosen to believe. I have lived in this marina for 3 years, paid my rent on time, no problems. The owner called, and told me to get out of her marina immediately, no reason. She refused to talk to me any more. Later that day, when I walked up to her and husband to find out why I was kicked out, her husband stepped between us and screamed at me to get out of his marina. They seemed to be afraid of me. When I got back to my boat there was an eviction notice, giving me two weeks to get out. Then it hit me, someone must have told them something really bad about me. I am a 69 year mechanic on social security. I have never done anything really bad. Someone told them a lie. So I called a customer of mine and asked him to try to find out why i was evicted. He said, after calling the marina owner, that she said that someone had called and said that I had poured lighter fluid on a boat and set it on fire. I have never set a boat on fire. I've never intentionally harmed any boat or person. I'm a mechanic, I live on my reputation. I don't in believe in violence. If a boat mechanic wanted to cause harm to someone or their property I don't think he would do it this way. I went to the sheriff, told him the story. He said that they have to give me 30 days and that there is a Florida law that says they cannot ever tell anyone why I was kicked out, they already have. She told my customer. My ability to make a living is dependent upon my reputation. I'm an independent mechanic. I don't his rank but an officer said he would talk to them. Haven't head anything yet. Talked to the police day before yesterday. What should I do? | 155d93dae67b6856a9097a5abda59eb7c5a2700af8a41397d7355a18ab830d97 | [
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I am a boat mechanic living on my boat in Florida. My reputation is being destroyed and I am being evicted because of a lie the marina owner's have chosen to believe. I have lived in this marina for 3 years, paid my rent on time, no problems. The owner called, and told me to get out of her marina immediately, no reason. She refused to talk to me any more. Later that day, when I walked up to her and husband to find out why I was kicked out, her husband stepped between us and screamed at me to get out of his marina. They seemed to be afraid of me. When I got back to my boat there was an eviction notice, giving me two weeks to get out. Then it hit me, someone must have told them something really bad about me. I am a 69 year mechanic on social security. I have never done anything really bad. Someone told them a lie. So I called a customer of mine and asked him to try to find out why i was evicted. He said, after calling the marina owner, that she said that someone had called and said that I had poured lighter fluid on a boat and set it on fire. I have never set a boat on fire. I've never intentionally harmed any boat or person. I'm a mechanic, I live on my reputation. I don't in believe in violence. If a boat mechanic wanted to cause harm to someone or their property I don't think he would do it this way. I went to the sheriff, told him the story. He said that they have to give me 30 days and that there is a Florida law that says they cannot ever tell anyone why I was kicked out, they already have. She told my customer. My ability to make a living is dependent upon my reputation. I'm an independent mechanic. I don't his rank but an officer said he would talk to them. Haven't head anything yet. Talked to the police day before yesterday. What should I do? | 155d93dae67b6856a9097a5abda59eb7c5a2700af8a41397d7355a18ab830d97 | [
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I am a boat mechanic living on my boat in Florida. My reputation is being destroyed and I am being evicted because of a lie the marina owner's have chosen to believe. I have lived in this marina for 3 years, paid my rent on time, no problems. The owner called, and told me to get out of her marina immediately, no reason. She refused to talk to me any more. Later that day, when I walked up to her and husband to find out why I was kicked out, her husband stepped between us and screamed at me to get out of his marina. They seemed to be afraid of me. When I got back to my boat there was an eviction notice, giving me two weeks to get out. Then it hit me, someone must have told them something really bad about me. I am a 69 year mechanic on social security. I have never done anything really bad. Someone told them a lie. So I called a customer of mine and asked him to try to find out why i was evicted. He said, after calling the marina owner, that she said that someone had called and said that I had poured lighter fluid on a boat and set it on fire. I have never set a boat on fire. I've never intentionally harmed any boat or person. I'm a mechanic, I live on my reputation. I don't in believe in violence. If a boat mechanic wanted to cause harm to someone or their property I don't think he would do it this way. I went to the sheriff, told him the story. He said that they have to give me 30 days and that there is a Florida law that says they cannot ever tell anyone why I was kicked out, they already have. She told my customer. My ability to make a living is dependent upon my reputation. I'm an independent mechanic. I don't his rank but an officer said he would talk to them. Haven't head anything yet. Talked to the police day before yesterday. What should I do? | 155d93dae67b6856a9097a5abda59eb7c5a2700af8a41397d7355a18ab830d97 | [
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I am a boat mechanic living on my boat in Florida. My reputation is being destroyed and I am being evicted because of a lie the marina owner's have chosen to believe. I have lived in this marina for 3 years, paid my rent on time, no problems. The owner called, and told me to get out of her marina immediately, no reason. She refused to talk to me any more. Later that day, when I walked up to her and husband to find out why I was kicked out, her husband stepped between us and screamed at me to get out of his marina. They seemed to be afraid of me. When I got back to my boat there was an eviction notice, giving me two weeks to get out. Then it hit me, someone must have told them something really bad about me. I am a 69 year mechanic on social security. I have never done anything really bad. Someone told them a lie. So I called a customer of mine and asked him to try to find out why i was evicted. He said, after calling the marina owner, that she said that someone had called and said that I had poured lighter fluid on a boat and set it on fire. I have never set a boat on fire. I've never intentionally harmed any boat or person. I'm a mechanic, I live on my reputation. I don't in believe in violence. If a boat mechanic wanted to cause harm to someone or their property I don't think he would do it this way. I went to the sheriff, told him the story. He said that they have to give me 30 days and that there is a Florida law that says they cannot ever tell anyone why I was kicked out, they already have. She told my customer. My ability to make a living is dependent upon my reputation. I'm an independent mechanic. I don't his rank but an officer said he would talk to them. Haven't head anything yet. Talked to the police day before yesterday. What should I do? | 155d93dae67b6856a9097a5abda59eb7c5a2700af8a41397d7355a18ab830d97 | [
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Do I (a 16 year old) have the right to decide what parent I live with? To preface I as of recently moved to Oklahoma, I lived in Alaska the majority of my life and it is where my mom lives. My mom had a lot of issues when i was little, despite this she loved me enough to know that I needed to stay with my dad as she wasn't in the right head space to raise me at the time. I'm 16 now, since then I've moved away from the state she's in and have stayed with my dad basically my entire life. As per how things have been going with him for the last few years (constant fighting, refusing to let me get a job despite getting good grades and doing all of my chores, forcing me to spend what is essentially 100% of my free time baby sitting my brother, refusing to let me go to the gym, not letting me go to church, not letting me see friends most of the time, etc etc etc.) I've decided it would be better for the both of us if I was able to live with my biological mom where none of that would no longer be an issue. I'm 18 in one and a half years and i'd like to spend that time working on myself and setting myself up mentally and financially to go to college and make something of myself one day. My mom is completely willing to let me live with her, but I haven't brought it up to my dad yet. In the event he says no what steps do I need to take to be with her? Am I even allowed to choose custody this late into my life? Am I screwed? Somebody please help me, I can't sit back and watch my life fall apart anymore | 9afff870735cc1deeea8739319368d62c3d91916c235d8d82e4f8f7a23e2b9d9 | [
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Do I (a 16 year old) have the right to decide what parent I live with? To preface I as of recently moved to Oklahoma, I lived in Alaska the majority of my life and it is where my mom lives. My mom had a lot of issues when i was little, despite this she loved me enough to know that I needed to stay with my dad as she wasn't in the right head space to raise me at the time. I'm 16 now, since then I've moved away from the state she's in and have stayed with my dad basically my entire life. As per how things have been going with him for the last few years (constant fighting, refusing to let me get a job despite getting good grades and doing all of my chores, forcing me to spend what is essentially 100% of my free time baby sitting my brother, refusing to let me go to the gym, not letting me go to church, not letting me see friends most of the time, etc etc etc.) I've decided it would be better for the both of us if I was able to live with my biological mom where none of that would no longer be an issue. I'm 18 in one and a half years and i'd like to spend that time working on myself and setting myself up mentally and financially to go to college and make something of myself one day. My mom is completely willing to let me live with her, but I haven't brought it up to my dad yet. In the event he says no what steps do I need to take to be with her? Am I even allowed to choose custody this late into my life? Am I screwed? Somebody please help me, I can't sit back and watch my life fall apart anymore | 9afff870735cc1deeea8739319368d62c3d91916c235d8d82e4f8f7a23e2b9d9 | [
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