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I got a notice to vacate with no warning 4 days after I asked how to pay rent and I never got a response. What can I do? In Texas by the way. In mid-July my complex closed the payment portal because they said they were going to switch to a new one that should be up in time for August payments. They never sent any other messages about payments, so I waited until 4 days ago when I sent an email asking how I could pay my rent. They didn't respond to my email, didn't call me, didn't communicate with me in any way and today I got a notice to vacate letter indicating my lease was unconditionally terminated and I have to move out by the 13th. Is this legal? Am I totally screwed or should I be able to go talk to the leasing office in the morning and sort it out? Their website has a link to make payments online but it's definitely broken. I'm totally panicked and have no way to contact them yet, can't get this off my mind so I figured I'd ask here. Also worth noting because I know this makes a difference, I paid last month's rent late as it was my first full month and I didn't realize I wouldn't be sent any notices that I had to pay. This is my first apartment so I'm really new to all this. | 0116a2f09bc031060cdb2f6331810d151eca4266672f735c6a9fe29a74cd2e12 | [
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Filed HR complaint about discrimination a week later I was let go with no notice. I’m curious if I have a case here - I was part of a RIF at a tech start up that had around 50-60 employees. I filed an HR complaint about ongoing discrimination based on my sex and no one followed up. They then laid me off without telling me - I received an email that indicated I was eligible for COBRA and I had to press them to tell me that I had indeed been laid off. Hours later they emailed me to “let me know”. I can’t help but feel like this is retaliatory regardless of the RIF. I haven’t signed my separation package yet but want to understand if I have a case worth pursuing. State I live: CO Company HQ state: CA Thank you for any input. | 3739c20064fe04187669c89b6ae599b6bb480e2ffed241d4fd99dc6fc9605037 | [
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(FL) My neighbors are convinced that I have to take care of them after a hurricane. Are there any laws I'm missing? I live next to two siblings. They aren't bright people. Matthew is churning away and might be headed for us, at this point I'd say it's a 50/50 chance but it's been 11 years and people are getting squirrelly. I prefer to be prepared. We're on a backroad, it's one lane and the only way in and out, it also floods during thunderstorms and stays flooded for at least a day. A hurricane would leave it flooded for a week or two. Add in the river,cypress swamp and miles of nothing but forest you have no chance of anyone being able to help you for a while. These two geniuses are very vocal about how they only bought beer and cigarettes for the storm, they have no stock of food or other supplies. This morning I was in my front yard clearing some brush and tree limbs when they came over to speak to me. They wanted to know of the storm would hit us or not. I told them what I wrote here that right now it's 50/50 but they should still stock up on food and supplies. The woman rolled her eyes and said that they don't have to since legally all the neighbors have to help them when they run out of food and water. She even demanded that I let them use my generator after the storm, when I told her no she threatened to call her lawyer and have him force me to. They then toddled off to their cesspool of a house. I'm 99% sure there's no such law and her lawyer can't do shit. But invade I've missed something, is there anyway I'd be legally obligated to help them? | 29cf1dc3ddad7cd24cc06610103cbff6fbfc6471c49e7a06d3dd8c14f0cd5609 | [
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(FL) My neighbors are convinced that I have to take care of them after a hurricane. Are there any laws I'm missing? I live next to two siblings. They aren't bright people. Matthew is churning away and might be headed for us, at this point I'd say it's a 50/50 chance but it's been 11 years and people are getting squirrelly. I prefer to be prepared. We're on a backroad, it's one lane and the only way in and out, it also floods during thunderstorms and stays flooded for at least a day. A hurricane would leave it flooded for a week or two. Add in the river,cypress swamp and miles of nothing but forest you have no chance of anyone being able to help you for a while. These two geniuses are very vocal about how they only bought beer and cigarettes for the storm, they have no stock of food or other supplies. This morning I was in my front yard clearing some brush and tree limbs when they came over to speak to me. They wanted to know of the storm would hit us or not. I told them what I wrote here that right now it's 50/50 but they should still stock up on food and supplies. The woman rolled her eyes and said that they don't have to since legally all the neighbors have to help them when they run out of food and water. She even demanded that I let them use my generator after the storm, when I told her no she threatened to call her lawyer and have him force me to. They then toddled off to their cesspool of a house. I'm 99% sure there's no such law and her lawyer can't do shit. But invade I've missed something, is there anyway I'd be legally obligated to help them? | 29cf1dc3ddad7cd24cc06610103cbff6fbfc6471c49e7a06d3dd8c14f0cd5609 | [
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(FL) My neighbors are convinced that I have to take care of them after a hurricane. Are there any laws I'm missing? I live next to two siblings. They aren't bright people. Matthew is churning away and might be headed for us, at this point I'd say it's a 50/50 chance but it's been 11 years and people are getting squirrelly. I prefer to be prepared. We're on a backroad, it's one lane and the only way in and out, it also floods during thunderstorms and stays flooded for at least a day. A hurricane would leave it flooded for a week or two. Add in the river,cypress swamp and miles of nothing but forest you have no chance of anyone being able to help you for a while. These two geniuses are very vocal about how they only bought beer and cigarettes for the storm, they have no stock of food or other supplies. This morning I was in my front yard clearing some brush and tree limbs when they came over to speak to me. They wanted to know of the storm would hit us or not. I told them what I wrote here that right now it's 50/50 but they should still stock up on food and supplies. The woman rolled her eyes and said that they don't have to since legally all the neighbors have to help them when they run out of food and water. She even demanded that I let them use my generator after the storm, when I told her no she threatened to call her lawyer and have him force me to. They then toddled off to their cesspool of a house. I'm 99% sure there's no such law and her lawyer can't do shit. But invade I've missed something, is there anyway I'd be legally obligated to help them? | 29cf1dc3ddad7cd24cc06610103cbff6fbfc6471c49e7a06d3dd8c14f0cd5609 | [
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(FL) My neighbors are convinced that I have to take care of them after a hurricane. Are there any laws I'm missing? I live next to two siblings. They aren't bright people. Matthew is churning away and might be headed for us, at this point I'd say it's a 50/50 chance but it's been 11 years and people are getting squirrelly. I prefer to be prepared. We're on a backroad, it's one lane and the only way in and out, it also floods during thunderstorms and stays flooded for at least a day. A hurricane would leave it flooded for a week or two. Add in the river,cypress swamp and miles of nothing but forest you have no chance of anyone being able to help you for a while. These two geniuses are very vocal about how they only bought beer and cigarettes for the storm, they have no stock of food or other supplies. This morning I was in my front yard clearing some brush and tree limbs when they came over to speak to me. They wanted to know of the storm would hit us or not. I told them what I wrote here that right now it's 50/50 but they should still stock up on food and supplies. The woman rolled her eyes and said that they don't have to since legally all the neighbors have to help them when they run out of food and water. She even demanded that I let them use my generator after the storm, when I told her no she threatened to call her lawyer and have him force me to. They then toddled off to their cesspool of a house. I'm 99% sure there's no such law and her lawyer can't do shit. But invade I've missed something, is there anyway I'd be legally obligated to help them? | 29cf1dc3ddad7cd24cc06610103cbff6fbfc6471c49e7a06d3dd8c14f0cd5609 | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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My former employer tried to pin a crime on me months ago, a detective just called me and asked me to speak with him at the police station, do I go? Throwaway and I am trying to keep this vague as to not give away any personal information. Back around September my boss attempted to pin an embezzlement charge on me. I did not do it, and left my place of employment. I got a lawyer and a case wasnt opened for a couple of months and he just told me not to worry about it, and it would just go away. I got a call about 20 min ago from a local detective saying he needed to speak with me. I let him know that I was working until late in the evening and work all day tomorrow, and he suggested Monday. I said I could tentatively plan on that, and see what my schedule is. He set a tentative time, and then dropped the bomb that he wants to speak with me at the police station. Do I go? Do I have my attorney present? I'm shaking in my boots a little. TLDR: A detective asked to meet with me at the police station, do I go? | 21c3908f343740fbe97740d867f5d4dbff414c34372d473afdda92c77e0b923f | [
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Tried to file a police report when a guy stole $700 from me. Police chief told me they can't do anything because the guy won't answer his calls. um, what? I'm in a one cop town in Illinois. I have very little experience with dealing with the police. This is the first time I've ever had to file a police report. A guy was pretending to be a "licensed and insured" concrete contractor online. We ended up deciding to hire him for a concrete patio. We paid $700 as a deposit. He wrote this up in a contract saying work would begin on a certain day. That day came and went and he never showed up to do the work. He dodged all online communications and all phone calls from my girlfriend's phone number that day, yet answered the phone when I called him from my phone, which he did not know the number of. I told him to come over and give our money back. Surprisingly, he came over, but he didn't have our money. He wrote ANOTHER contract, saying he'd give us our money by 5pm in 3 days. That day also came and went and I never saw or heard from him again. He blocked my phone number. This was over a week ago. We immediately went to the police when he missed the 5 oclock deadline to return our money. I didn't have his date of birth or license plate number at this time. The officer basically said he couldn't do anything without knowing for sure who he was looking for. He said a license plate number would help. We went home and I started digging. He and his girlfriend (his girlfriend claims to be the co-owner of this business) both have their DOB online. Through public record I found their address, confirmed both DOBs, they have an ongoing court case over felony possession of meth, their company name doesn't seem to be registered or insured, and both of their license plate numbers. We filled out a lengthy police report with all of this information, and both of our contracts, screen shots of their ads online. I sent this to the officer and waited a week. I just called and he told me it's a civil matter. (I get that getting my money back is a civil matter, but I also believe these people are hiding behind calling themselves a "contractor" to protect themselves from criminal pursuit while committing fraud, knowing cops will just say "it's a civil matter". The officer told me "He isn't answering my phone calls either. If he won't answer the phone and agree to a line up, there's really nothing I can do." I didn't expect the police to be a whole lot of help, but this seems absurd to me. I know $700 isn't a lot in the grand scheme of things, (though it is substantial to me right now). I realize i'll never see that money again and am chocking it up as a lesson learned. But there's really nothing to be done to keep this guy from scamming others? All you have to do to get away with a crime is put your phone on silent and/or switch numbers? Do I have any options? | 168745e72ded2482d8d6c46fc49867e66fa237251c4dd717ad7816fdb309db4e | [
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(Missouri) My ex boyfriend committed suicide last week and his father is publicly blaming me- defemation of character? His father and I work together and its come to my attention, after telling me I am like a daughter to him, that he is telling people at work that it is my fault. I dont actually want to sue but is there any clause or protection that I can use to claim he needs to stop or I could take action? Work is moving him to another location but that hasnt stopped the talking behind my back | 35c88376b3dab8c977746b4c63d63ed5b62dc1c836d19779b06036b82da436b2 | [
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USA, GA - My friend's boyfriend transferred all of his funds into his girlfriend's bank account before he committed suicide. Is she legally entitled to the money? GA, USA. They were not married. They were both over 18 years old. He left no will. He gifted her the money on the pretense that his bank account had been compromised and that he was moving the money into hers for safe keeping. His family has not asked for the money back outright, but they are pressuring her into giving it to them to pay for funeral services, among other things. If she elects not to give them the money, does his family have the right to sue her for it? I am worried if she withholds the money, they will threaten legal action in order to coerce her. | 06cd0b9a661938de23bed60135f8d80d9ceb6c3c969b8a46b63f559a2820863d | [
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[Va.] Boyfriend committed suicide and believed he was leaving his phone in my possession. His family took the phone and will not let me have access to it, even temporarily. My boyfriend of 8 years committed suicide in December. We were no longer dating or living together. He had developed severe opiate addiction in the course of law school (he graduated with honors in May 2014), and I had moved out. He wrote a holographic will leaving almost all of his possessions to me, including our dog and our house. In the will, he also left me instructions. He wanted me to get his guitars, violin and accordion out of pawn; he gave me pawn slips with which to retrieve them. He left a play list of songs (both his own and by other musicians) that he wanted played at his funeral. And he asked me to retrieve music (his own recordings) from his cell phone and give those files to his parents. To that end, he left his cell phone with the will and he wrote the passcode down so that I could open the phone. On the day that his father and I discovered his body, the police took the phone briefly then handed it over to his father. He took the phone away. I would not have stopped him, but I did expect to borrow the phone in the future. I did not tell him that, though; I just let him go. It was not appropriate to the time and it was not on my mind. I borrowed the phone for one day, to organize a wake at home, because Cayman's funeral was going to be held in his home town. His family wanted a private funeral and excluded me from it. So his cousin stole the phone from Cayman's mother's possession, let me use it to call people, and she knew that I planned to take all of the information regarding Cayman's drug dealers to the police--that I had further plans for the phone. Then at the wake, she and Cayman's sister took the phone away claiming they would return it later. But no one ever returned the phone. No one ever shared the music on the phone with me. And despite being the administrator of Cayman's estate (he named no executor), I have not received any cooperation from his family regarding my using the phone to identify his debts to friends who loaned him money, to have his friends phone numbers, to have any kind of information at all that is contained in the phone. What breaks my heart is that I want to have his musical recordings. His will tells me to share the music with his parents. Surely his intent, in leaving the phone in my possession, among everything he owned and specifically giving me the passcode, is that I would have access to the music, too. And photos that he took of the two of us together. His phone (an iPhone) was acquired as part of a family plan, and it was discounted as an upgrade for signing another two-year contract. That is what his family says when refusing to let me borrow the phone. He received the phone around Christmas of 2012, so there was only one month remaining on the contract when he killed himself. **tl;dr** My boyfriend killed himself and his will leaves his cellphone in my possession, along with the passcode to allow me to execute instructions to give musical files to his parents. I want those files for myself, but his parents simply took the phone and refuse to share. How can I get the phone? I am administrator of his estate, and I have been settling his very small estate without a lawyer. Thank you. | ea34dee6c064533b541fb28010e20d3ae25af92d105101d350639a906f9d6733 | [
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[Va.] Boyfriend committed suicide and believed he was leaving his phone in my possession. His family took the phone and will not let me have access to it, even temporarily. My boyfriend of 8 years committed suicide in December. We were no longer dating or living together. He had developed severe opiate addiction in the course of law school (he graduated with honors in May 2014), and I had moved out. He wrote a holographic will leaving almost all of his possessions to me, including our dog and our house. In the will, he also left me instructions. He wanted me to get his guitars, violin and accordion out of pawn; he gave me pawn slips with which to retrieve them. He left a play list of songs (both his own and by other musicians) that he wanted played at his funeral. And he asked me to retrieve music (his own recordings) from his cell phone and give those files to his parents. To that end, he left his cell phone with the will and he wrote the passcode down so that I could open the phone. On the day that his father and I discovered his body, the police took the phone briefly then handed it over to his father. He took the phone away. I would not have stopped him, but I did expect to borrow the phone in the future. I did not tell him that, though; I just let him go. It was not appropriate to the time and it was not on my mind. I borrowed the phone for one day, to organize a wake at home, because Cayman's funeral was going to be held in his home town. His family wanted a private funeral and excluded me from it. So his cousin stole the phone from Cayman's mother's possession, let me use it to call people, and she knew that I planned to take all of the information regarding Cayman's drug dealers to the police--that I had further plans for the phone. Then at the wake, she and Cayman's sister took the phone away claiming they would return it later. But no one ever returned the phone. No one ever shared the music on the phone with me. And despite being the administrator of Cayman's estate (he named no executor), I have not received any cooperation from his family regarding my using the phone to identify his debts to friends who loaned him money, to have his friends phone numbers, to have any kind of information at all that is contained in the phone. What breaks my heart is that I want to have his musical recordings. His will tells me to share the music with his parents. Surely his intent, in leaving the phone in my possession, among everything he owned and specifically giving me the passcode, is that I would have access to the music, too. And photos that he took of the two of us together. His phone (an iPhone) was acquired as part of a family plan, and it was discounted as an upgrade for signing another two-year contract. That is what his family says when refusing to let me borrow the phone. He received the phone around Christmas of 2012, so there was only one month remaining on the contract when he killed himself. **tl;dr** My boyfriend killed himself and his will leaves his cellphone in my possession, along with the passcode to allow me to execute instructions to give musical files to his parents. I want those files for myself, but his parents simply took the phone and refuse to share. How can I get the phone? I am administrator of his estate, and I have been settling his very small estate without a lawyer. Thank you. | ea34dee6c064533b541fb28010e20d3ae25af92d105101d350639a906f9d6733 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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[New Jersey] My mom is possibly hiding medical information and prescriptions from me, Is this legal? I am a 17 year old female, turning 18 in a week. Earlier this year I went to get a checkup and after doing the standard things the nurse asked my mom to leave the room so he could ask me a few things. After asking me some questions, he asked if I had any. So I asked why is it that I have only had my period 2 times since I was 12 when I know it’s supposed to be monthly and I told him I was very concerned about it, I tried going to see a doctor for it sooner but my mom never allowed it and insisted I was fine. The nurse looked concerned and asked follow up questions and went back to talk to my mom, after some time, I was told I would come back in about a week to take some blood tests. The entire car ride home, my mom is just glaring at me and saying I shouldn’t be making a big deal out of it. A week later, I go in and have some blood taken so tests can be run. About two months pass and I do what the my doctor suggested, exercising more and avoiding fat/ sugary foods since it was possible that the problem could be my weight, still nothing. One day I’m looking through the mail and I see a letter for me. I couldn’t understand it much, but it was results of my blood test and then a small note that I couldn’t read before my mom toke it from my hands, angry at me for opening it. She told me to go to my room and I’m trying to remember what the note had said, definitely said prescription and had my doctors signature. Months have passed, and I’ve heard nothing from my mom about it. When I ask she denies that I ever got my test results. I know she’s very hesitant about medication and she has denied me getting anti depressants when I was prescribed them in the past. I want to know if she is keeping me from getting medication, is it illegal, and what can I do? | ca33b2728f084298f844b8145a84c733084bf21da71cdeda94c08785b42a68f1 | [
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Can I be fired if my medical leave isn't approved on time for surgery? [Wyoming] I am scheduled for surgery as soon as next week, however the company that handles HR for my company hasn't finished processing my medical leave paperwork. I was informed I had to put the application in under 30 days to the surgery or it would be automatically denied. So I waited until the 22nd of August when I had my pre-op appointment so I would have a better idea for what restrictions I would be under. This turned out to be three weeks off before being cleared to work without restrictions. However, to get to the point, this company hasn't finished processing the application yet. Hopefully this will finally get processed on Monday, but there is a chance it wouldn't be approved by the time I both have my surgery and would be expected to work this weekend. My insurance has approved the surgery, and it is deemed medically necessary. However trying to talk to my manager about this she refuses to take me off the schedule, and just tells me to talk to the company. She won't take me off the schedule, and abscesses would be treated as unauthorized. However I am being told this might take another week or two to be approved. Is there anything I can do to protect my job while this application is being done? Isn't there supposed to be protection for medically necessary medical procedures? | ba4ee8ef3fac51b076072f700ab672e7583e86163c250797820f497e9123a245 | [
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Psychiatrist is refusing to let me transfer services (RI) I moved to Rhode Island this past September, and have been seeing this guy since maybe mid-September. I didn't care for the dude the first visit, but I had a lot on my plate and it had been hard enough to find a doctor at all, so I figured it would be okay. From September to now, he's had me on Celexa, Prozac, Zoloft, and wrote me a 'script for Klonopin. There have been several changes in mg in between as well. He started me out on twice the maximum recommended dose for Prozac. And really none of them have worked, or they have worked but not for long. In my last visit with him, he asked how I was doing, and I told him--terrible. Suicidal nearly all the time. He scoffed and said "At some point you're going to have to realize the medicine can only do so much and you have to do the rest yourself." This might be a perfectly acceptable response in some situations, but it felt at the time like he was handing me a death sentence because I cannot fix a chemical imbalance in my brain by myself. I have been working for years on my various mental illnesses with noticeable results, which he would know if he had ever bothered to ask in the collective forty-five minutes we've been together in his office since September. I asked him what he suggested; I asked what am I supposed to do when I am anxious for three days straight with no inciting incident, how I am supposed to deal with that and he literally threw his hands up in the air and said "You're not!" I went into panic mode for a little while after that meeting, thinking if this is a physiological problem and nothing more can be done, I basically have a terminal mental illness because I struggle so so hard not to kill myself on a way-too-regular basis. I do everything I can to ensure my safety by letting people know when i feel this way, surrendering medications to my bf, extreme (but necessary) things like that. If that isn't 'doing the rest myself,' I don't know what is. I called another office, but they are in the same system. A system that more or less has the monopoly on psychiatric care in RI, and they have a policy that my current doctor and I must come to a mutual agreement to terminate services and transfer to someone else. I find this policy ridiculous, but I emailed him right away and told him I wanted to transfer, and why. He gave me a not-apology and said he wanted to continue to work with me. I am uncomfortable being seen by this man. I was uncomfortable prior to the last visit. That was just the last straw. So I reiterated that I still wanted to transfer. And he responded that he still wanted to talk about options. (He also mimicked my sentence structure, which may or may not have been purposeful.) I am not giving this dude any more of my time. I do not wish to pay to see him again. He is overbooked until July, yet is still accepting new patients, which results in two minute office visits, sometimes not even that. I just want free of this fool, and I don't know what my next step could even be. I am open to non-legal courses of action as well (not illegal, but ones that do not involve legal action, haha) and anything anyone can suggest will be so appreciated. TL;DR My psychiatrist is holding me medically hostage and won't allow me to transfer services after he basically gave me the ol' "have you tried not being depressed?" bit. | ceaf8b3176c8b7093415c7098445e5f2573e14b1ae4ca376a350707111be2389 | [
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Psychiatrist is refusing to let me transfer services (RI) I moved to Rhode Island this past September, and have been seeing this guy since maybe mid-September. I didn't care for the dude the first visit, but I had a lot on my plate and it had been hard enough to find a doctor at all, so I figured it would be okay. From September to now, he's had me on Celexa, Prozac, Zoloft, and wrote me a 'script for Klonopin. There have been several changes in mg in between as well. He started me out on twice the maximum recommended dose for Prozac. And really none of them have worked, or they have worked but not for long. In my last visit with him, he asked how I was doing, and I told him--terrible. Suicidal nearly all the time. He scoffed and said "At some point you're going to have to realize the medicine can only do so much and you have to do the rest yourself." This might be a perfectly acceptable response in some situations, but it felt at the time like he was handing me a death sentence because I cannot fix a chemical imbalance in my brain by myself. I have been working for years on my various mental illnesses with noticeable results, which he would know if he had ever bothered to ask in the collective forty-five minutes we've been together in his office since September. I asked him what he suggested; I asked what am I supposed to do when I am anxious for three days straight with no inciting incident, how I am supposed to deal with that and he literally threw his hands up in the air and said "You're not!" I went into panic mode for a little while after that meeting, thinking if this is a physiological problem and nothing more can be done, I basically have a terminal mental illness because I struggle so so hard not to kill myself on a way-too-regular basis. I do everything I can to ensure my safety by letting people know when i feel this way, surrendering medications to my bf, extreme (but necessary) things like that. If that isn't 'doing the rest myself,' I don't know what is. I called another office, but they are in the same system. A system that more or less has the monopoly on psychiatric care in RI, and they have a policy that my current doctor and I must come to a mutual agreement to terminate services and transfer to someone else. I find this policy ridiculous, but I emailed him right away and told him I wanted to transfer, and why. He gave me a not-apology and said he wanted to continue to work with me. I am uncomfortable being seen by this man. I was uncomfortable prior to the last visit. That was just the last straw. So I reiterated that I still wanted to transfer. And he responded that he still wanted to talk about options. (He also mimicked my sentence structure, which may or may not have been purposeful.) I am not giving this dude any more of my time. I do not wish to pay to see him again. He is overbooked until July, yet is still accepting new patients, which results in two minute office visits, sometimes not even that. I just want free of this fool, and I don't know what my next step could even be. I am open to non-legal courses of action as well (not illegal, but ones that do not involve legal action, haha) and anything anyone can suggest will be so appreciated. TL;DR My psychiatrist is holding me medically hostage and won't allow me to transfer services after he basically gave me the ol' "have you tried not being depressed?" bit. | ceaf8b3176c8b7093415c7098445e5f2573e14b1ae4ca376a350707111be2389 | [
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Psychiatrist is refusing to let me transfer services (RI) I moved to Rhode Island this past September, and have been seeing this guy since maybe mid-September. I didn't care for the dude the first visit, but I had a lot on my plate and it had been hard enough to find a doctor at all, so I figured it would be okay. From September to now, he's had me on Celexa, Prozac, Zoloft, and wrote me a 'script for Klonopin. There have been several changes in mg in between as well. He started me out on twice the maximum recommended dose for Prozac. And really none of them have worked, or they have worked but not for long. In my last visit with him, he asked how I was doing, and I told him--terrible. Suicidal nearly all the time. He scoffed and said "At some point you're going to have to realize the medicine can only do so much and you have to do the rest yourself." This might be a perfectly acceptable response in some situations, but it felt at the time like he was handing me a death sentence because I cannot fix a chemical imbalance in my brain by myself. I have been working for years on my various mental illnesses with noticeable results, which he would know if he had ever bothered to ask in the collective forty-five minutes we've been together in his office since September. I asked him what he suggested; I asked what am I supposed to do when I am anxious for three days straight with no inciting incident, how I am supposed to deal with that and he literally threw his hands up in the air and said "You're not!" I went into panic mode for a little while after that meeting, thinking if this is a physiological problem and nothing more can be done, I basically have a terminal mental illness because I struggle so so hard not to kill myself on a way-too-regular basis. I do everything I can to ensure my safety by letting people know when i feel this way, surrendering medications to my bf, extreme (but necessary) things like that. If that isn't 'doing the rest myself,' I don't know what is. I called another office, but they are in the same system. A system that more or less has the monopoly on psychiatric care in RI, and they have a policy that my current doctor and I must come to a mutual agreement to terminate services and transfer to someone else. I find this policy ridiculous, but I emailed him right away and told him I wanted to transfer, and why. He gave me a not-apology and said he wanted to continue to work with me. I am uncomfortable being seen by this man. I was uncomfortable prior to the last visit. That was just the last straw. So I reiterated that I still wanted to transfer. And he responded that he still wanted to talk about options. (He also mimicked my sentence structure, which may or may not have been purposeful.) I am not giving this dude any more of my time. I do not wish to pay to see him again. He is overbooked until July, yet is still accepting new patients, which results in two minute office visits, sometimes not even that. I just want free of this fool, and I don't know what my next step could even be. I am open to non-legal courses of action as well (not illegal, but ones that do not involve legal action, haha) and anything anyone can suggest will be so appreciated. TL;DR My psychiatrist is holding me medically hostage and won't allow me to transfer services after he basically gave me the ol' "have you tried not being depressed?" bit. | ceaf8b3176c8b7093415c7098445e5f2573e14b1ae4ca376a350707111be2389 | [
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Ex is cutting child support payments in half because he's already Voluntarily Terminating his Rights... Basically the title. Ex decided he was going to voluntarily terminate his rights. Nothing has been filed. He's just messaged and informed me of this recently. I'm honestly thrilled however I was hoping that he'd continue to pay the full amount of child support ordered while he's still legally my child's other parent. He's stating that sending something is better than sending nothing at all. He doesn't take his visits. He doesn't call. The one area he was contributing to was resources. And now he's refusing to pay the court ordered amount. What can I do here? ​ Edit: I'm in KS. | f35987f11850cee9af32664ce6318ebb06460736d0f5a7a64199592a3542bd51 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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My cousin (an unmarried adult, 27) passed away and my drug addict aunt wants to bury evidence related to his death. Can I or his sister request the police to run a toxicology report? Hey all. We’re from California. My cousin died in Santa Clarita a few hours ago. My cousins and I strongly believe he passed from a drug overdose. But my aunt is the one that found him. My aunt is addicted to meth and so is my cousin. She is usually his supplier. My other cousins (his sisters) all had to run away from home to get away from their abusive mother and brother. My cousins and I want a toxicology report done. Are we within our rights to ask the police to do one or at least get the results? My aunt will try to bury it and is already telling everyone it is a heart issue. My cousins think this is bullshit because I’m the only one in our entire family with heart problems and not one of them had an issue. We all strongly believe he overdosed. Are toxicology on a 27 year old male common? If not can we request one? My aunt left the scene to supposedly “call for help” we’re pretty confident it was to get rid of the drugs and she came back and reported “found her son” to the police 2 hours from their home. My cousin and aunt had a terrible addiction. But I take my aunts sayings with a grain of salt. However if there is a chance there is an underlying condition I and his sisters feel like we have the right to know. My aunt is talking about an quick cremation. | 395b87858844e114abe552e9f9f3d04a411e05802cb819acbfd24a2e673478f6 | [
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I'm being sued for a car that got repoed 2yrs ago (IN/USA) So about two years ago my stable job of three years decided to lay everyone off and it made me unable to make my car payment and the car, a 2005 Ford Mustang GT with less than 25k miles on it, was repossessed and sold. I thought that was the end of it. Fast forward the present I've received a summons from the bank saying I owe them close to $5000 for what I had left on the loan. I know for a fact that they made up money when they sold the car as it's worth was well over that. To make matters worse I was out of state when my brother accepted the summons and I only have two days now to write out a reply and take it to the clerk's office. I only make $9/hour and I just had a baby so I can't really afford a default judgement on this case. I'm going to write the letter tonight does anyone have any advice for me? | 01b6ea052f8860795f0f23f0703a2e5488f165ee738d7314fe3fe43b784d775b | [
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Wrongfully arrested at work for unpaid child support payments. I don't have a child. Was let go by employer as a result. Who do I sue? Alright I'm pissed as hell. Last week out of the blue cops came and told me that I'm under arrest for unpaid child support. I told them that I don't have a child and they said they don't care and they have to arrest me. I asked to see the arrest warrant but they pushed me to the wall and handcuffed me and took me. I work at a credit union. This happened in front of people. Later that day, they let me go telling me this has been a mistake. I asked for details but the officer told me to "count myself lucky" and "don't push my luck" and "get the hell out of here". I came back the next day to my job only to learn the I was being let go because the union needs to save face. Boss told me that he's sorry but this is a policy and they let people go at the first sight of issues with law that are brought to work. My contract was at will. Boss also said that he's sorry but he's going to have to inform anyone who seeks references of what he observed (in other words, my career is ruined as nobody will hire me anymore). This is ridiculous. They can't do this to my life and get away with it. Do I have any rights? This has resulted in me losing a job, probably ruined career and reputation. Who do I sue for damages? Location: New York | d299a39e493ba8b1753c04a43f41f05d15295a2f5aa0f135bdccb30f3e29cdec | [
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My credit was affected because of a medical bill I didn’t know about. For 2 years it went unpaid, went to collection, but the insurance finally figured it & paid it (all without me knowing the bill even existed.) I only discovered this because we are trying to buy a house. How can I fix my credit? | cadef20c0e5d15e4de547c9847cd3cb91f377b6e694fef80bb6ada222fc351b4 | [
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[Florida] Father owes my mother $450k+ from divorce/alimony/child support. Need advice on how to proceed Florida Will try to make this concise as possible. My mom currently has a judgment for $50k in the state of NC. She is trying to get a judgement for another $400k~ . This is a can't lose case. She is owed this money from the divorce and there is no way around it. Currently, we are having a lot of trouble in serving him (my dad) the papers. He currently lives in Florida and has for the past 12 years. So what needs to happen is the NC judgement needs to be transfered to FL. And we also need to get him served with the new lawsuit in the state of Florida, that would be for around $400k. Again, my mother cannot lose this case. My father has the funds to pay, but is avoiding this at all costs . We have tried multiple process servers and even a PI, but none of them are able to find him. Earlier this week we went to his home in Florida to scope it out and see if we could locate him ourselves, but we cannot seem to find him. At his home in FL. the only person that we can see is his GF. We have also been informed that he has permanently relocated to Costa Rica (by his former lawyer, who recused himself after my father would not legally cooperate, and by my dad himself after I called him on the phone.) Now, this is most likely not the case, because his GF of 12 yrs is living in his home in FL. and it seems very doubtful he would leave without her. (also other inconsistencies.. such as me asking him what city he lived in in costa rica and he not being able to give me an answer) I am guessing he is just hiding out in his home or in another part of FL. We have hired 2 lawyers, one in NC and one in FL., but we cannot proceed if we cannot locate him. We also do not have much money and can no longer afford to pay the lawyers at this point. What can we do? | 10dd31f488078c36875a9da3b9794fee88a6a80307432e82acfb61587cc6bf5d | [
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Step-father’s lawyer subpoenaed my bank records in parents divorce Parents are getting divorced and it’s turned a bit ugly; they are currently in Discovery phase. I received a notice from my bank two days ago that they had received a subpoena from my step father’s divorce lawyer. I have to respond by Sept 19 through the court or else they are sending the records. I feel this is a huge invasion of my privacy because I have nothing to do with their divorce or finances. My stepfather called me (after my mother called him quite furious and chewed him out) and he claims that he didn’t know they did that. He was very upset because he didn’t want to drag the kids into it. The “kids” are all adults in our 40s and 50s, and neither of my brothers records were subpoenaed, just mine. He was so upset in fact, he actually fired his lawyer immediately after finding out. He and my mother apparently had come to a settlement agreement the day before so the whole thing is somewhat moot anyway. My two part question- 1) Is it legal (or normally accepted) to subpoena bank records of an adult child in a divorce? They have only been married five years and I felt if they thought my mother was funneling money to me to hide it, they would see that in her outgoing regardless and my info still wouldn’t be necessary. Also, I have reached out to the law firm who filed the subpoena to explain, and see if they will rescind/quash and I’m waiting to hear back. 2) Do I have any recourse if they do not correct this in time and my irrelevant bank records are still sent to the law firm? Even if they never look at them, I feel this is a huge invasion of my privacy. Thanks for any help. | 7ba23c6067af84195017a3a963035cb7078977a7b69c804414d7277886b2b207 | [
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Step-father’s lawyer subpoenaed my bank records in parents divorce Parents are getting divorced and it’s turned a bit ugly; they are currently in Discovery phase. I received a notice from my bank two days ago that they had received a subpoena from my step father’s divorce lawyer. I have to respond by Sept 19 through the court or else they are sending the records. I feel this is a huge invasion of my privacy because I have nothing to do with their divorce or finances. My stepfather called me (after my mother called him quite furious and chewed him out) and he claims that he didn’t know they did that. He was very upset because he didn’t want to drag the kids into it. The “kids” are all adults in our 40s and 50s, and neither of my brothers records were subpoenaed, just mine. He was so upset in fact, he actually fired his lawyer immediately after finding out. He and my mother apparently had come to a settlement agreement the day before so the whole thing is somewhat moot anyway. My two part question- 1) Is it legal (or normally accepted) to subpoena bank records of an adult child in a divorce? They have only been married five years and I felt if they thought my mother was funneling money to me to hide it, they would see that in her outgoing regardless and my info still wouldn’t be necessary. Also, I have reached out to the law firm who filed the subpoena to explain, and see if they will rescind/quash and I’m waiting to hear back. 2) Do I have any recourse if they do not correct this in time and my irrelevant bank records are still sent to the law firm? Even if they never look at them, I feel this is a huge invasion of my privacy. Thanks for any help. | 7ba23c6067af84195017a3a963035cb7078977a7b69c804414d7277886b2b207 | [
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Ex-husband is giving child support to 12 year old in cash/bank account he has access to. Refusing to pay me. My ex-husband is in arrears and after reading some thing on the internet has decided to ignore a court order to pay me ( he is an independent contractor so there is no employer to garnish. He gets paid by multiple people, not a single company). Our children are 5, 7 and 12. I work but he barely sees the children and definitely doesn't pay their insurance or schooling so I asked and was granted child support when we divorced 6 years ago. I have sole custody as he had some issues with a thing that really isn't relevant and I won't mention but it lead to me feeling the need to petition for sole custody and I was awarded it. He has visitation. He has this brilliant idea because the thought of paying me directly is appalling to him that he started a bank account and gave access to the 12 year old. He gave the kid a card which he is not allowed to show me at all. My 12 year old is excited, of course, because he has been told he can spend all that money on anything he wants for him and his siblings. My ex-husband will also give my 12 year old cash and have him sign a receipt saying he was given the money. Ok. Here is my issue: 1) That is ridiculous. It is stupid to give a 12 year old access to $400 a month and expect them to spend it on anything related to their upbringing. He buys stuff, basically. Not shoes or clothes or pays for aftercare cost for after school. He buys games, and food, hobby related items. 2) My ex isn't really understanding the concept of child support here. I am already paying for the daycare, the after school programs, the house payment, the medical insurance, the vaccinations, the food, the clothes, BEFORE he even hands over any money. So that money is meant to help reimburse me for a portion of those items. I really, really want to avoid going to court again. He constantly calls my 12 year old to speak for him and I know, he of all the children, remembers when daddy was around and things were better, and it kills me inside to have him even remotely feel like he has to defend anyone or pick a side. I don't want to drag him or anyone through that again. My ex-husband is claiming that because it is known that child support is for the child then it is perfectly and legally acceptable for him to pay a 12 year old. I know I need to contact a lawyer. I plan on it but while I make the call and wait for an appointment, I thought someone might know if this is really the loophole he thinks it is? He also has an idea about starting an "escrow" account where we can only make approved purchase that have been approved by both parents, starting a trust with all the child support that is payable to them on their 18th birthday and he just provides me with proof of deposit a month, etc. Basically, anything to get out of writing me a check at the end of every month. Are any of these legitimate alternatives to traditional child support that would generally be accepted by the court? Edit: Also, because he has mentioned it. Can a minor waive child support for the custodial parent? I am going to say no but honestly I've been wrong a lot in my life so I am not going to make an ass out of myself by assuming. | aa288dcf03bc793ccb5637786ef5e12752ea79611fa2a6c7716e380c04c3c826 | [
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