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Do I (a 16 year old) have the right to decide what parent I live with? To preface I as of recently moved to Oklahoma, I lived in Alaska the majority of my life and it is where my mom lives. My mom had a lot of issues when i was little, despite this she loved me enough to know that I needed to stay with my dad as she wasn't in the right head space to raise me at the time. I'm 16 now, since then I've moved away from the state she's in and have stayed with my dad basically my entire life. As per how things have been going with him for the last few years (constant fighting, refusing to let me get a job despite getting good grades and doing all of my chores, forcing me to spend what is essentially 100% of my free time baby sitting my brother, refusing to let me go to the gym, not letting me go to church, not letting me see friends most of the time, etc etc etc.) I've decided it would be better for the both of us if I was able to live with my biological mom where none of that would no longer be an issue. I'm 18 in one and a half years and i'd like to spend that time working on myself and setting myself up mentally and financially to go to college and make something of myself one day. My mom is completely willing to let me live with her, but I haven't brought it up to my dad yet. In the event he says no what steps do I need to take to be with her? Am I even allowed to choose custody this late into my life? Am I screwed? Somebody please help me, I can't sit back and watch my life fall apart anymore | 9afff870735cc1deeea8739319368d62c3d91916c235d8d82e4f8f7a23e2b9d9 | [
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Lawyers of Reddit what are the laws for breast pumping at work? My spouse and I (18yrs both of us) work at a Sonic (Texas) together. It's small and the only "private" places for her to pump is a restroom. Is that allowed? | 91d007b1c39c027b48c41484469d8c14a09cd0143ca8d85ad78977f36f1c8c27 | [
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[NY] Wife was robbed at gunpoint, employer refused to fix security camera prior to robbery, is there any action we can take here? Hey guys, so my wife works at a pharmacy in a pretty ghetto area of upstate NY (Newburgh) and the store was robbed at gunpoint Sunday. They took 1000s of Percocet and Oxy as well as cash, the police were helpful and my wife is physically ok. The thing is, my wife’s employer refused to fix their security system (cameras) due to the cost. Now that the police are asking for the security tapes he can’t provide them. My question is , doesn’t her employer have a legal obligation to have working security equipment? Especially in a low income high crime area and especially since they deal with a lions share of the cities controlled substances. Is there anything we can do, I personally don’t feel good about her continuing to work there until proper security measures are taken. Also the area they are in has had 4 bank robberies and other armed robberies in the past year. So this isn’t a shocking thing to happen there. | 854b9402a2117d064f6893658ac86229a1c7751eeb33b19c2148fb5ef55469ec | [
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I found a complete, dead mouse in my spinage salad at my school cafeteria. My school has been trying to sweep it under the rug. As I said I found a complete, dead mouse inside my salad I bought from the school cafeteria at my university. The school has been trying to sweep it under the rug. The only thing they offered was $50 in school money. I brought it to the president of the university who also did not do anything while everyone in authority is acting extremely pissy with me for finally bringing the issue to the local media. I still have received 0 compensation besides being told I could get $50 to the school and that's it. Is there anything I can do here? | a19ddc40d6754b5ab88ab269d43951a8386488077a5216005f2171165f5187ce | [
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CT - Laid off in January, got an offer from former employer in July when I had another offer, employer reneged on the offer afterwards At the end of January, I was laid off from my former company due to budget cuts. I was provided a severance package for 16 weeks. I filed for unemployment with the state the following week (in CT you can collect unemployment while getting paid severance) which lasted till the last week of July. Since I left my former company, I have been aggressively searching for a comparable job within the area to no avail. In June, I was contacted by a potential employer and was offered a full time permanent position which I accepted. The following day, I was contacted by a Recruiter from my former company bout a Senior position being offered in my old office. It was a higher position for more pay, better benefits (they were not only going to reinstate my 401k and pension vesting schedules, they were going to turn the vesting schedule back on almost 3 months prior to my start date). I conducted my phone interviews for the position the next day, and the following day I was offered the role. I was to start working for my former company again literally one day before my unemployment was supposed to run out. After passing my former company’s background and drug tests, I reneged on my acceptance of work at the other company that offered me a job. Although I tried to remain professional, it became apparent that reneging on the role had severed opportunities for me there. A week later, the recruiter from my former company contacted me indicating that "due to the state of the economy, brexit, and the stumbling stock prices, they can’t afford to have me and need to rescind the offer made." My former company took away work from me twice in the same year. I was left once again unemployed with no prospects on the table. My former company also made an error and told the state that I had started working for them again on the day I was supposed to (after telling me a week and a half earlier that the offer was cancelled). I had to contact the state, get my former company to correct the error (and I got it in writing from the state that it was my former company’s error). I’ve been unemployed ever since trying to find compatible work. I’ve tried talking to a few lawyers, but they each couldn’t assure me of having a case but wanted me to pay for their research (which as unemployed, I couldn’t do). I tried legal aid from the state, but they don’t cover my type of case. Can anyone tell me if I really have a case or not? My former company has essentially ruined my life numerous times this year and I’m still struggling to find work. I have everything in writing (except for the vesting schedules being reinstated prior to my start date). Thanks in advance. | cb62e4a9969405026ecf933459b9a0152067a38f4cf17dadd4e4d608355fcdbe | [
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Am I legally allowed to use pepper spray on someone that lives with me if they physically assaulting me? (Closed fist strikes, chokehold, etc) This is the only realistic way I can defend myself as this person is much stronger and bigger than me. I’m scared that even if I get beaten blue the police will take the aggressors side(which has happened in the past). What are, if any, any legal repercussions? Do I need video evidence of the person in question striking me before I can even consider obtaining pepper spray to defend myself? The obvious answer is to just get myself out of this current situation however that is not presently possible, nor will be for some time. | 4aa05c9b0fdad7be1e602521c6500be40e538086eadd7154cd9e00e5045ec5c5 | [
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[Ontario, Canada] My (28F) mother (62F) has taken out a second mortgage to finance a romantic interest that she's never met. She's obviously being scammed. What can I do to help? My family hasn't been in the greatest financial situation since my dad passed away 6 years ago. My mom has been lonely and is very naive. Recently, after meeting a man online, my mother told me that she's sent him upwards of $200 000 to "help him with fees" so that he can come to Canada. The mortgage is in her name only. I am livid. My brother (26M) and I have constantly warned her of the dangers of meeting someone online. What irritates me most is that she made such a huge decision without consulting her grown children. We all live together and help with living expenses as much as we can. My brother and I are finally becoming more financially stable. I don't know what type of recourse I have here. I also don't know the details of their communication, or whether she'd be willing to share the details at this point. She's embarrassed, but still believes that this man cares for her. She's even trying to ask us for $5000, which is the last sum needed for him to come here and "fix all of our financial worries". I know that we're at a loss, and I've refused to give her any money to support this situation. We've also been trying to sell our house, so this has a huge effect on the return that we would receive. Would the authorities be able to help? Should I speak to a lawyer? TL; DR: My mom sent a scammer a large amount of money because she is lonely and very naive. I don't know what to do. | ec75b1920fe9ffb9489e1727007df0f25c75bf56145cab84033c64c69e92e74a | [
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[CO] Cop Neighbor Shooting Guns in his Backyard within City Limits of Denver My next door neighbor is a police officer with the Denver Police Department. I believe his job choice has allowed him to feel entitled to do basically what ever he wants, for example, his girlfriend breaks up with him about once a month he then spends several nights playing his electric guitar with the door open after 10 pm which violates Denver sound ordinances (Denver Code of Ordinances, Ch 38,Art IV, Division 1, Section 38-101). But even more concerning than that, generally around the 4th of July he decides to go into his back yard and shoot his guns (Denver Code of Ordinances, Ch 38,Art IV, Division 1, Section 38-121). Last night was the night he decided to do this again, and from the sound of it he is discharging several different firearms. I am concerned, I have kids that could be injured or killed by his stupidity. I don't know if this is the right place to post this, I just didn't know where to go. I'm not exactly sure what the options are. I have a very healthy distrust of the police as is, so who are you supposed to call when the illegal activity is being perpetrated by a cop? I don't want to call 911 (I don't believe in calling the cops anyway) because I am worried that he would be able to find out who reported him to his buddies. Are there any methods of legally reporting him without involving the cops? | 4db95a02f079239fec3d085e116962bb844500a9dc7a7f91589617db39b88d24 | [
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[CO] Cop Neighbor Shooting Guns in his Backyard within City Limits of Denver My next door neighbor is a police officer with the Denver Police Department. I believe his job choice has allowed him to feel entitled to do basically what ever he wants, for example, his girlfriend breaks up with him about once a month he then spends several nights playing his electric guitar with the door open after 10 pm which violates Denver sound ordinances (Denver Code of Ordinances, Ch 38,Art IV, Division 1, Section 38-101). But even more concerning than that, generally around the 4th of July he decides to go into his back yard and shoot his guns (Denver Code of Ordinances, Ch 38,Art IV, Division 1, Section 38-121). Last night was the night he decided to do this again, and from the sound of it he is discharging several different firearms. I am concerned, I have kids that could be injured or killed by his stupidity. I don't know if this is the right place to post this, I just didn't know where to go. I'm not exactly sure what the options are. I have a very healthy distrust of the police as is, so who are you supposed to call when the illegal activity is being perpetrated by a cop? I don't want to call 911 (I don't believe in calling the cops anyway) because I am worried that he would be able to find out who reported him to his buddies. Are there any methods of legally reporting him without involving the cops? | 4db95a02f079239fec3d085e116962bb844500a9dc7a7f91589617db39b88d24 | [
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Neighbor across the street has a homeless camp in the backyard and is drug dealing all day and night My grandma’s neighbor is a drug user and usually out of his mind. He is now running a homeless camp in his backyard and sharing needles/doing drugs. All day and night more and more people show up and walk in between the house to the backyard. They always have black baggies and needles in their hand and when they walk out they can barely keep their balance. My grandma lives alone and is getting nervous about the people coming around because they are starting to take interest in her home. We’ve called the police, they said they can’t do anything, we called the city and they’ve come out twice but didn’t do anything. It’s to a point where homeless people are showing up and walking in between the wrong house looking for the right backyard. I’m in California for reference. Is there anything we can do? I’m concerned for my grandmas safety, she can’t go out to water anymore because she’s afraid. | a8be201040c3dd75664e8a405a614840e12254f64b69a5d40e2a0e7dab08a7f3 | [
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Neighbor across the street has a homeless camp in the backyard and is drug dealing all day and night My grandma’s neighbor is a drug user and usually out of his mind. He is now running a homeless camp in his backyard and sharing needles/doing drugs. All day and night more and more people show up and walk in between the house to the backyard. They always have black baggies and needles in their hand and when they walk out they can barely keep their balance. My grandma lives alone and is getting nervous about the people coming around because they are starting to take interest in her home. We’ve called the police, they said they can’t do anything, we called the city and they’ve come out twice but didn’t do anything. It’s to a point where homeless people are showing up and walking in between the wrong house looking for the right backyard. I’m in California for reference. Is there anything we can do? I’m concerned for my grandmas safety, she can’t go out to water anymore because she’s afraid. | a8be201040c3dd75664e8a405a614840e12254f64b69a5d40e2a0e7dab08a7f3 | [
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[PA] Neighbor kid got bit by stray cat that hangs out in our backyard and had to get rabies shots. Parents want us to pay. So, me and my boyfriend live together in a row home. There's a narrow alley in back that runs down the length of our street, and like most alleys in this neighborhood, there are stray cats that hang out there. Our block has one cat in particular that I'm pretty sure is feral because it has a clipped ear and starts hissing as soon as it sees a human. It likes to sun itself on our patio table. We see it in our yard most days, but we never feed it or put out bedding or toys for it or anything like that. Last week, our next door neighbor knocked and told me that the cat had been in her yard and it bit her son. She wanted to know if it had its rabies shot. I told her that I didn't know because it was a stray, the clipped ear usually means it had a shot at some point, but I think they need boosters after a while. She got kind of upset and asked why we were letting a cat that might have rabies hang out on our property, we should have called animal control or trapped the cat and turned it into the animal welfare society. I wasn't really sure how to respond at the moment, so I said something like 'oh, yeah, maybe someone should do that' and pretended someone was calling me. Yesterday, both of the kid's parents came to the door. The husband told me that their son had to get a bunch of shots to prevent rabies and it was expensive, and that they felt that my boyfriend and I needed to reimburse them for it. They said he still needs one more shot next week, and they'd bring us the final bill then. I said again that it's not our cat, but he said that we had accepted responsibility for it by letting it stay on our property. I pointed out that it's not like the cat lives exclusively in our yard, I see it in other people's yards and under their cars and stuff all the time. He said 'I'm not here to argue, you know what you need to do, we'll drop the bill off sometime next week' and left. Are we actually responsible for this stupid cat??? I could maybe see their point if were doing stuff to attract it, but like I said, we're not. Unless you count having a patio table as a cat magnet. It's true that we haven't done anything to get rid of it, but then, it seems nobody else has either. I don't see how we would have any more responsibility to control it than the rest of the neighbors, although I'm not an expert in cat law. Do we need to pay them for the rabies shots? Are we legally required to call animal control for strays, or to somehow get rid of them? Please help! | 8e9323db8898f512888f42b03ea97f73f7463d0c8cf591f65f124dbf2f7574b4 | [
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[PA] Neighbor kid got bit by stray cat that hangs out in our backyard and had to get rabies shots. Parents want us to pay. So, me and my boyfriend live together in a row home. There's a narrow alley in back that runs down the length of our street, and like most alleys in this neighborhood, there are stray cats that hang out there. Our block has one cat in particular that I'm pretty sure is feral because it has a clipped ear and starts hissing as soon as it sees a human. It likes to sun itself on our patio table. We see it in our yard most days, but we never feed it or put out bedding or toys for it or anything like that. Last week, our next door neighbor knocked and told me that the cat had been in her yard and it bit her son. She wanted to know if it had its rabies shot. I told her that I didn't know because it was a stray, the clipped ear usually means it had a shot at some point, but I think they need boosters after a while. She got kind of upset and asked why we were letting a cat that might have rabies hang out on our property, we should have called animal control or trapped the cat and turned it into the animal welfare society. I wasn't really sure how to respond at the moment, so I said something like 'oh, yeah, maybe someone should do that' and pretended someone was calling me. Yesterday, both of the kid's parents came to the door. The husband told me that their son had to get a bunch of shots to prevent rabies and it was expensive, and that they felt that my boyfriend and I needed to reimburse them for it. They said he still needs one more shot next week, and they'd bring us the final bill then. I said again that it's not our cat, but he said that we had accepted responsibility for it by letting it stay on our property. I pointed out that it's not like the cat lives exclusively in our yard, I see it in other people's yards and under their cars and stuff all the time. He said 'I'm not here to argue, you know what you need to do, we'll drop the bill off sometime next week' and left. Are we actually responsible for this stupid cat??? I could maybe see their point if were doing stuff to attract it, but like I said, we're not. Unless you count having a patio table as a cat magnet. It's true that we haven't done anything to get rid of it, but then, it seems nobody else has either. I don't see how we would have any more responsibility to control it than the rest of the neighbors, although I'm not an expert in cat law. Do we need to pay them for the rabies shots? Are we legally required to call animal control for strays, or to somehow get rid of them? Please help! | 8e9323db8898f512888f42b03ea97f73f7463d0c8cf591f65f124dbf2f7574b4 | [
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[TX] Sister’s ex boy friend has been harassing her, and is now claiming he can get her fired if she doesn’t get back with him. Changing some details to obscure my sisters identity. My sister just started an awesome job, three or so months ago working with children as a teacher. She loves the job, and wants to make a career out of it. Last month, she broke up with her Ex after a rocky relationship. Last week, the ex started sending her nonstop calls and texts from random numbers (at least 4 different phones afaik), she blocked some but doesn’t have time to check her phone or block numbers while she works. She’s told him repeatedly to leave her alone. Last night, he sent her a text/call, saying he was going to show up at her work to talk with her. My sister never saw him, but this morning he sent texts that said, “I’m going to get you fired from your job if you don’t talk with me” and “you know I can, too.” I’ve told my mom and sister she needs to file for a restraining order or something... but does she have enough of a reason to do so? How do we get this dude to leave her alone? | f5ffd8b087c15eba011cbaa6a0ba87c94c654e26665973c8af83de141cc98713 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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If people who work at a restaurant purposely give a customer food they are allergic to could they get arrested? This wasn’t me but I'm asking because something like this happened at the restaurant where I work. A customer told my co worker she was allergic to something and apparently also showed him her medical alert bracelet. The waiter told her they were extra careful with her food but she had an allergic reaction to it anyway and an ambulance had to come for her. We thought it was just an accident but another waiter went to the cops and said he heard the waiter who served her and the cook complaining about people making up allergies and saying they were going to give her the stuff anyway. The cops came and interviewed the people who were working that night today and got the manager to give them stuff from the security cameras. If the cops do get evidence that the cook and the waiter purposely gave her food she was allergic to could they get arrested? If yes then what would they be charged and sent to jail? Just wondering because we were debating it and none of us know the answer. Oh, and the restaurant is in Florida. | ff275b6791aecf32c9506dcd9038b143ec431898256ab81aed7678080bcddde7 | [
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I was prescribed a drug that I'm allergic to and put me in the ER ,NYS On August 20th, I went to an urgent care facility for a sinus infection. When they took me to the room the MA came in took my vitals, and asked if I had any allergies. The only thing I am allergic to is amoxicillin. The MA walked out, as the PA walked in. He felt my sinus, confirmed I had a sinus infection. He told me he was going to be prescribing me Augmentin. I pick it up from the pharmacy next door. I Take it for a week as prescribed. My allergy to amoxicillin is a delayed hypersensitivity response. So the allergic reaction doesn't being i finish the round of amoxicillin. So on August 28 the day after my last pill of Augmentin, I notice hives on my feet. Never really thought much of it, got dressed for work and left. About 12pm I notice the hives were my fore arms now too. So I look up Augmentin to see what chemicals they use in the antibiotic. What's the first ingredient? Freaking amoxicillin. So I left work to go back to the urgent care to get some prednisone going. After they got me an exam room an MA comes in take my vitals, asks what I was in for. As I start telling her about how they prescribed me a drug I was allergic to. She looks at my chart, and she said it was literally the only item I had listed as a known allergy. A PA comes in gives me a shot of prednisone, and wrote a script for oral prednisone and apologized for her colleagues screw up. So I go home with the prednisone. So yesterday I woke up with my eyes swelling shut, as well as my throat. My wife rushed me to the ER, and they treated me with some kind of mix of like 4 or 5 different vials they injected me with a banana bag. My esophagus is still swollen today. I'm just wondering if it would be worth the fight for malpractice? | 92e9c01013ee4f1dcf108768c57c8abc1b8b566f9d6204867bd29ef0ac683656 | [
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Can I sue a restaurant for medical expenses after warning them about a food allergy? Location: San Francisco, California My wife has a severe shellfish allergy. A few months ago we ate at a restaurant and a few minutes into the meal she had a severe allergic reaction and had to use her EpiPen and call an ambulance. Prior to ordering we warned the server about her allergy and confirmed that the dishes we ordered did not contain that ingredient. The server also made a note on the order to the kitchen to prevent cross contamination. This is standard procedure for us when we eat out due to the severity of her allergy and we generally avoid restaurants that serve a lot of shellfish regardless. I reached out the the restaurant to ask them to cover our out of pocket medical expenses (Co-pay and deductible after insurance). We have decent insurance so the total out of pocket for the ambulance and emergency room visit was less than $2000, our insurance covered everything else. When I initially reached out, the restaurant representative was open to paying our expenses. However once the bills came and I got the final amount, they are saying they don't believe they are liable since they investigated and did not find any evidence of wrongdoing on the part of their staff. They verbally offered me a smaller amount if I would sign a release of liability but nothing in writing. I didn't want to sue them and was hoping we could just work this out so they paid the medical bills but since they want to play hard ball I am exploring my options. If we file in California small claims court do we have any hope of winning this case? What type of evidence would the judge be looking to see? It's obviously difficult to prove conclusively that the food had shellfish and in the rush of getting to the ambulance it never occurred to me to save a sample of it. The manager did admit while I was on the phone with 911 that we had disclosed the allergy to their server, so I could potentially get those recordings. Edit: It's worth noting this is a fairly high end and successful restaurant (Think $100+ per person) and they have several locations. So it's not like it's a tiny Mom and Pop place that can't afford it. | 82e3aa2f1d46b510af4ab4fcde9210e953d4c68e42aa2c82995d185483fb27b0 | [
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Can I sue a restaurant for medical expenses after warning them about a food allergy? Location: San Francisco, California My wife has a severe shellfish allergy. A few months ago we ate at a restaurant and a few minutes into the meal she had a severe allergic reaction and had to use her EpiPen and call an ambulance. Prior to ordering we warned the server about her allergy and confirmed that the dishes we ordered did not contain that ingredient. The server also made a note on the order to the kitchen to prevent cross contamination. This is standard procedure for us when we eat out due to the severity of her allergy and we generally avoid restaurants that serve a lot of shellfish regardless. I reached out the the restaurant to ask them to cover our out of pocket medical expenses (Co-pay and deductible after insurance). We have decent insurance so the total out of pocket for the ambulance and emergency room visit was less than $2000, our insurance covered everything else. When I initially reached out, the restaurant representative was open to paying our expenses. However once the bills came and I got the final amount, they are saying they don't believe they are liable since they investigated and did not find any evidence of wrongdoing on the part of their staff. They verbally offered me a smaller amount if I would sign a release of liability but nothing in writing. I didn't want to sue them and was hoping we could just work this out so they paid the medical bills but since they want to play hard ball I am exploring my options. If we file in California small claims court do we have any hope of winning this case? What type of evidence would the judge be looking to see? It's obviously difficult to prove conclusively that the food had shellfish and in the rush of getting to the ambulance it never occurred to me to save a sample of it. The manager did admit while I was on the phone with 911 that we had disclosed the allergy to their server, so I could potentially get those recordings. Edit: It's worth noting this is a fairly high end and successful restaurant (Think $100+ per person) and they have several locations. So it's not like it's a tiny Mom and Pop place that can't afford it. | 82e3aa2f1d46b510af4ab4fcde9210e953d4c68e42aa2c82995d185483fb27b0 | [
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[FL] At the urgent care clinic I work at the senior RN will sometimes tell patients he's a doctor. I called him out on it and when I tried to go above his head they fabricated a day I was late and took me off the schedule for a week. I think my best option is to just quit and not put them down as a reference but it sucks losing almost a year of job experience. | 8f7ff41371cbb85540bda9482410a6e7fffa8b6ad8dc22cab3bf85a351e134e0 | [
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[PA] I told Urgent Care I would only make a visit if it was completely free. They promised me I wouldn’t have to pay a dime after they ran my insurance, so I went in. Weeks later, my insurance billed me. Hey all, apologies if formatting is weird, I’m on mobile. So about two months ago I visited Urgent Care. I asked the lady working at the desk if I would get charged for a simple inspection, and I wouldn’t go in if it meant I would be charged either by Urgent Care or by my insurance company. She ran my insurance card and told me that this type of inspection is completely covered by the insurance company and I wouldn’t have to pay anything. So I went in believing it was free, as that is what she told me. About a month later, I get a bill from my insurance company charging me for that visit, saying they can’t cover all of it because of the type of visit that it was. I’ve tried calling Urgent Care’s billing company with no call back, and have tried emailing them as well but they claim that the bill is not their responsibility and that I am responsible for paying the remaining fee. I insisted that I would not receive a service unless it was completely free (covered by my insurance), and Urgent Care promised me that it would be. This means that I received a service thinking it wouldn’t cost me anything, and Urgent Care should be responsible because they convinced me that this would be the case. Where can I go from here? | 70155be5df4f1a4262baa93746a0c687106fd478bf3af832136ba9bd7d7c9878 | [
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