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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (30/m) posted something on facebook about not celebrating Christmas for religious reason. My aunt got extremely upset POST: My family have know I don't believe in any religion for years. Yet I still come around and celebrate Christmas with them as a traditional thing. I've got a f...	Aunt got upset because I made it known I don't celebrate Christmas for religion reason. She chewed me out over it. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and Partner (both late twenties) How do you know if marriage is for you/ if you're ready for it? POST: Me and my partner have been dating for about 6 years, within the last few years we've been asked when we're looking to get married. It hasn't really bothered either of us- we've ...	Health issues are scaring me, making me rethink about marriage, how do you know if it's for you/when you're ready?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] introduced my best friend [20F] to a group of other friends POST: Hi! Something like 3 years ago, I met a girl in a club thanks to a close friend [F] of mine. We became friends and continued to meet regularly during the next times; Since 2 years I easily consider her my best ...	Introduced best friend to a group of other friends. She seems to be more attached to them than to me. It hurts me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the weirdest thing you've ever witnessed someone do? POST: I'm sure mine will be topped, but I'll still give it a go. Back in third grade there was this one weird kid who was in all my classes. (There's always that one weird kid) Anyways, one day, I suppose he was sick, he asked...	A kid in my class in third grade vomited in a folder that he then put back in his desk and trapped us in the room with his puke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, have you tried to be wingman/wingmom only to have it go horribly wrong? POST: For example, My girlfriend and I were at a new bar/restaurant that opened in town. We were having drinks, and our waiter would come over pretty often to check up on us. I'm thinking it's because he wan...	Tried to be a good Wingwoman, wrote dumb message to guy for friend while tipsy. Guy turns out to be married. Wingwoman fail.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (16/f) want to start talking to this boy(~16/m), circumstances makes it difficult. POST: first off, I'm sorry if this is wrong place to post because it's not really a relationship, but i want to start a relationship. also I apologise for any spelling/grammar mistakes I've missed. I'm...	can't talk to this boy I fancy because my brother and teachers are always around. how do I go about talking it to him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (29m) with my gf (28f), discussing marriage, she doesn't want to change her last name because of her heritage. POST: My girlfriend has a last name that is a very common hispanic last name. For instance, Garcia. I have a very obviously white last name. I am not at all saying that ...	GF and I are coming up against some issues with our last names, heading into marriage. We're not sure how to handle it, or if there are any ideas we haven't though of yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. POST: my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. i have almost 100,000 dollars in debt and it just growing because of interest.. i have a graduat...	my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wiser Redditors, is it too late for me (a broke college grad) to turn my life around and start living? POST: I am a 26 year old female living at home with my mother and stepfather in America with roughly $70,000 worth of student debt. I have a Bachelors of Science in Art Education. For ...	Typical college-grad not sure where to go with all of this debt. Wants to further education but is it unwise?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not wearing underwear all day POST: Throwaway account, obviously. This one is rather short as I'm on mobile and I don't really feel like writing an essay, and may not be much of a fuck up as the ending might not be what you expected, but I thought it was kinda silly and felt like shar...	went without underpants for a whole day, got my pubic hair stuck in zipper. Painfully removed half of it as I unzipped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by burning my hand on a microwave burger POST: This might not be the most interesting story and the title might be a bit vague but I'll try to explain. I was hungry and decided that I should cook one of the microwave burgers that are ready in 50 seconds because I'm lazy and it's somethi...	Put burger for too long in microwave, opened it, burnt my hand horribly, now wondering how much of an idiot I am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: my dog peed on my bed...again POST: So it happened again tonight, for about the 5th or 6th time. Shes a 50 lb boxer / lab mix, very playful, and is house trained. We leave her out during the day while we are at work and no accidents. I took her outside 30 minutes prior to discovering ...	dog keeps peeing in my bed and i was wondering if anyone knows of some common reasons why this may happen so we can stop the habit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Teenager that found himself in a ditch, now I have to dig myself out. One scoop at a time. POST: Hello, I'm Elijah and I'm a 5'6" 238lbs 15 year old male teenager from the northeast and I want to lose weight. I'll start with what I'm currently doing. Through 3 months of calorie counting p...	5'6" 238 lost 12lbs already with gym/calorie counting hoping to join a community of like minded individuals.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[28M] with my boss[50sM] of 10 years, I turned down a "promotion" and now he's targeting me POST: I've been with the same company for 10 years. My boss has moved me around a lot and I've basically turned everything that I've touched into gold. (I'm capable and willing whereas most ...	Turned down a salary position because it was a terrible offer and now my boss hates me and told me he could "replace me in 1 second".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21,F] trying not to over think potential relationship with [25,M]. POST: So I met this guy a couple weeks ago downtown with my friends. We hit it off instantly and spent a good hour talking/dancing and I gave him my number. He texted me the next day and we chatted back and forth and...	Me and guy have two great dates, bails twice on third date and hasn't responded to my invite for tomorrow's date.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm very bad at calming people down when they are in an emotional spiral. Right now my mother is very upset and suicidal. What should I do? POST: My parents had a fight this morning. To explain the situation here is some background info: My mother is a woman who listens to her husband ...	Mother upset because father doesn't treat her well. Now she locked herself in her room and is crying. Before that, she told me about her schemes of kicking the bucket. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my GF [22F] of 10 months. She brought up a sex story and thought I was the man in the story. I wasn't. Red flag or no? POST: Me and my girlfriend are currently in a long distance relationship for the summer. We're only really able to see each other every couple weeks fo...	Girlfriend made the mistake of bringing up a past sexual memory and thought I was a part of it. I wasn't.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28M] girlfriend [25F] has been depressed. I suggested counselling, and now she accuses me of not really loving her. POST: My girlfriend of 10 months goes through bouts of depression, and I've posted on here before under a throwaway on how I could be there for her. I've gotten a ...	I suggested counselling to my girlfriend for her depression that has been affecting us, and now she thinks I'm just trying to "fix" her. I don't know what to do anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my girlfriend I love her POST: Just for clarification purposes, this is a long distance relationship and we only see each other every 2 weeks or so, however we do Skype every single night. We had been seeing each other for about a month so far. And last night, as we were end...	I'm a pussy and said I love you really quickly at the end of a Skype call and now I'm lying in bed hoping our relationship is still in tact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I'[m] the problem with my relationship. POST: Ok, short and sweet. I have a girlfriend and she means the world to me. I love her with everything and I hope someday I marry this girl. She's everything. Our relationship is awesome. We never really "fight", we argue and disagree and ...	I'm a whiny bitch and I don't want to be anymore. It may hurt my relationship. Help me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: People of Reddit, when is it the time to grow up? POST: I want to have fun in life, get the most of it. I do want someone who knows how to have fun and don't judge that much or not at all. I do want a SO but thats least of my things I want. I fear that I will learn that I may not have th...	Love life but also wondering when is it the time to grow up and put childish thoughts away, also what do you consider "growing up?"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Could pay cash for a car, but leveraging 1.49% financing on some of it would allow me to pay off higher interest rate student loans. Is this a good idea? POST: I recently sold a car I was making payments on. The $400 monthly payment was well within my budget, but with $10,000 cash ...	Should I use a 1.49% auto loan rate to use less cash on a vehicle to in turn pay off higher interest student loans?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you ashamed of your countrymen/women? POST: So, I recently realized that some people hold that view that swedish men are "queery" and such, popular culture often makes Swedish men look douchy and ridiculous, wearing spraytan and hairextensions and whatnot, since the sw...	Swedes are sometimes stereotyped as skinny Jersey Shore type of men, what makes you feel ashamed of your countrymen?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20m) girlfriend (19f) is still "friends" with her rapist/ex-bf POST: My girlfriend of 4 months and friend of 1 year still talks to her ex-boyfriend who raped her repeatedly while she slept for 3 years (she woke up but he overpowered her/she froze up). This really upsets me and is...	Gf says she is committed to me but refuses to cut her rapist ex-bf out of her life because that would trigger her bad memories. She doesn't seem to want to get therapy or anything. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23f] friend [23f] thinks I'm in love with her. I have no idea why and it's making things weird. POST: Throwaway because friends know my Reddit. "Katie" and I been friends for five years and live on opposite coasts. She was supposed to visit me last week but cancelled last minute...	My friend apparently thinks I'm in love with her (I'm not). Should I find out why? What should I do after?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] want to connect with my brother [16M] but don't know how. POST: Hello r/relationships, My brother and I didn't always get along when we were kids. I would yell at him for messing with my stuff (we shared a room), exclude him when I was with my friends, etc. But at the end...	] talking to him about anything else takes effort, and he never tries to contact me. I want to be there for him if he needs to talk to someone. How do I build a relationship with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/M) don't know if I'm overreacting to my new girlfriend (21/F) and her roommate (21/F) mocking me through classroom doodles. POST: I've been dating my girlfriend Brianna (21/F) for a couple of months now. Up until today she's been pretty respectful of me aside from the occasiona...	Girlfriend and her roommate were doodling pictures of me that I considered somewhat disrespectful. How do I handle this without looking like a psycho?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying marijuana POST: This actually happened a few months back, but I thought it might be a fun story to share. My friend had gotten his hands on some "Lemon Haze" and said that we we're going to smoke it together. So we get together in a group of four guys and smoke about 3-4g. At...	I got high and tripped balls. 2 of my friends tried to help me and one just laughed at my misery.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Gf [20 F] of three years, coexistence gone wrong. POST: Hello, thanks in advance for reading this. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, and we moved to an apartment in town a couple of days ago, due to economical reasons,and it turned out to be r...	Problems sharing space with my girlfriend because she won't clean her own mess, and is reluctant to help me with the chores.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description POST: Me [30F] with my SO [29M], been together a year. He had a bitter breakup with his ex about a year before we started dating. (She broke up with him, he was devasated). She has started texting him again recently. He d...	Boyfriend texting ex about old times, but I only know b/c I snooped. Is this a red flag and should i say anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my ex [19M] almost 2 years, I broke up with my ex over a week ago, what is a normal recovery? POST: Hey everyone First post, so excuse if this comes off strange at any point! I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years. We were in a long-distance, long-term r...	how to get over a breakup? what's a normal recovery process? (long distance, long term, first love)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm an international student [23F] with no relationship experience before, and I'm not sure what relationship it is between me and an American guy [24]. Please help me figure out... POST: I'm an international student [23F], and I never had a relationship before. I met the guy [24] se...	Should I cuddle and kiss a guy even if we are not really in a relationship? Should I develop a relationship with the guy when I cannot keep him company?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm a very anxious flyer & right before we were about to take off, a man projectile vomits all over the people in front of me & on my stuff. A nice guy offered me his seat near the front of the plane. What has someone done for you during a shitty situation that made it better? PO...	I'm a crazy hypochondriac. Got to thank guy at baggage claim for his kindness & serving in the military.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm lost, nothing is going right. POST: I'm 27, 3 years out of college and I havent worked full time for over 2 years of it. I got a good degree (computer science) from a good university (University of California) with pretty decent grades (3.3gpa). My first job I worked for 8 months before...	What kinds of jobs could a heavy introvert with a CS (B.S.) do that isn't website/mobile app/social networking?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Plagiarism of self: Do you think less of somebody who quotes things without crediting the source? POST: How do you feel when someone quotes verbatim, a news article, philosophy, or story from a source you know of? A lot of my topics of conversation are stories I read on reddit. And whe...	Do you think it would make you think less of a person if they plagarize their conversations? Is it a "got'cha" moment? Would you ever call somebody on it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] told my best friend's [22 F] mom about her sleeping problems, and now she's pissed at me. POST: Throwaway because she uses reddit. I've known my best friend Kat for 8 years now, and she's pretty much my sister. I'm really close with her entire family, especially her mom. W...	I told my best friends mom, who's like my second mom, that my best friend was dealing with her rapist and having nightmares. Best friend is now pissed at me but I feel like I did the right thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Is it always wrong to snoop your boyfriend's phone/e-mail/computer? POST: I confess, I am a snooper. My reasoning is, when I snoop, I usually find something I don't like. For example, last night I looked at my boyfriend's phone and saw that he's meeting up with a "girl" friend ...	is it okay to snoop if it seems every time you do, you find something you don't like? Or does it not matter either way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Not sure if I'm reading to much into this? POST: Her: 24 Me: [almost] 22 I met this awesome girl that I attend school with and we (and a few other people) all became very quick friends. We all go out together and have a really good time, and somewhere along the line I developed a s...	Met this girl. Secret Crush. She's in an obvious unhappy relationship. Do I tell her I have this crush, or just stay friends? How do I tell her if I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[17M] still have feelings for my ex [17F] and feel very bad about relationships now. POST: About 5 months ago I broke up with a girl who was pretty much my first major (or important to me) relationship. She said she left me, because she is gay. However, another reason that she did...	Girlfriend broke up with me a while ago and I still love her. Remembering the break-up makes me fear entering new relationships. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (18/F) going away to college, boyfriend (18/M) feels like I could care less, I feel scared it might end, need help POST: I am moving away to college tomorrow and I don't want to leave on bad terms with my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for almost 9 months and current...	Going off to college tomorrow, boyfriend is upset I don't initiate sex or hanging out, don't know how to proceed since is turning into LDR<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making whale noises at a girl POST: This one was at about 12:10 AM today, so it just barely counts as today! So there was this big art/music festival in my town that lasts all night. There was this awesome band playing that the whole audience was really getting into. During the show ...	Danced with a cute girl. She tried to talk to me and in response I shrieked at her like a whale.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] and [31M] together one year, I take my anger/anxiety out on him. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for one year and are moving in together. I don't really have friends and am currently unemployed for the last 2 weeks. He is away for the next 3 days on a trip with all...	I take my anxiety and anger out on my SO and I feel it is hurting my relationship. Has anyone experienced these feelings, on either side?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Are there healthy, low calorie alternatives to fast/premade food? POST: Howdy! I had a really rough year in school and it resulted in a lot of negative things in my personal life, so as a means of keeping myself occupied and working on improving myself, I'm hoping to lose between 50 and 70l...	Are there fast, low effort recipes/packaged instant foods that I could replace microwave meals with? I have some obvious ideas like salads but I'm looking for a bit more variety!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am trying to make the girl I have feelings for [21F] see that her ex is not the only man n the world for her... and failing POST: So a little while ago I started hanging out with this girl, she is smart and beautiful and sarcastic and everything I love but, she can not get ov...	Want to date this chick but she is married and hung up on her ex. I'm insane for trying to do anything but in too deep to back out now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 M] have been in love with my best friend [16 F] for years, I recently confessed, hoping to be rejected and to get it all over with, the opposite happened. POST: I have known her for years, 5 years to be exact and for about 3 of them I have been in love with her. I never said an...	I'm 15 and unable to fall out of love with the person that could very well be the love of my life. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [F24] live with my best friend [F23] and my ex-boyfriend [M23]. Shit's fucked. Help. POST: I posted something similar a while ago under a different name, just in case anybody remembers. Anyways, we live in the same apartment with a fourth roommate who's also a friend. I broke up ...	I live with my two closest friends, one of whom is an ex of a year ago. There's romantic feelings between them, and I realized I still like him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure what to think of this situation with female coworker. POST: OK so to start off I [19 M], have been playing around with and joking with a female[24] coworker of mine. I see us as more friends than lovers or being in a relationship, I think she does as well but then she do...	I think a female coworker may have a crush on me, everyone I work with thinks so as well(but they can be assholes).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Cheated on...and it doesn't hurt. POST: I found out 2 weeks ago that the woman that I dated for 3 years, the one I had a ring for, the one I saw my future with...cheated on me. And the strangest thing? It is such a relief. Let me explain. When she called and broke up with me, it was...	Girlfriend of 3 years breaks up with me randomly. I feel guilty. Turns out she's a cheater. Guilt absolved, feels good.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26/F] friend [29/F] is always high when we hang out and I don't have fun with them anymore. POST: Her mother is currently in the slow process of dying, which is a hell of a lot to deal with especially considering this girl already has clinical anxiety that's undiagnosed and untre...	friend is high, I don't want to be around them like that, how do I tell her, if at all?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend deletes my posts on his fb...? 23 POST: So I've dated him since Jan this year and before then we dated for over two years. We broke up for nine months and now are back together.... He still hasn't told his parents and deletes everything to do with me off social medi...	my bf hasn't told many ppl about us and deletes my posts to his social media, should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Petty Revenge on a horrible teacher. POST: This isn't my story, but a friends. Now a little backstory, Our school is big, therefore needs a lot of ventilation, so the air vents are massive. The reason why? I don't know. But anyway, onto the present day. We have a teacher who, for t...	Attention hog teacher tries to stop friend from getting an award, gets it anyway and gets her to thank him and congratulate him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Question to medical personnel/physical therapy/ medical supply/or anyone at all with a similar experience.. POST: so, my 60 year old mom fell and ended up breaking her left wrist in two places and her right shoulder. Needless to say, my dad and I have been feeding her, cleaning her, wipi...	mom fell, broke left wrist & right shouder, has no use of her arms for 6 weeks, there's gotta be some sort of device or doo-dad for folks who can't use arms.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Just starting M/21/6'1 220. POST: Hey /r/loseit I'm just about to start my very own weight loss routine. I know I'm not huge and I'm not exactly ridiculously overweight for my body type, but its time to trim up. I feel unhealthy and I feel lazy and i find that even 35lbs overweight makes ...	About to start my own weight loss routine. Aiming at losing 35lbs by march, by cutting out wheat and sugar and swimming. Any Tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] hurt my LDR Girlfriend's [20 F] feelings and I'm seeking advice POST: This is my first post so here goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, with the past 2 being long distance for most of the year. We go to different colleges and are able to see one ano...	My LDR Girlfriend and I took jokes too personally and I hurt her feelings. Days later there is tension between us, I want her to be happy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 F] just got into a heated discussion about vaccinations with my boyfriend [30 M]. Not sure what else we need to discuss before marriage. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 3 years. Everything is wonderful aside from the occasional argument about his farts s...	Just found out my boyfriend isn't and won't get vaccinated. Wondering what other potentially game-changing topics need to be addressed before we get married.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by picking my nose at the dentists office POST: This was pretty embarrassing. I went to the dentist after work to have my teeth cleaned and as usual they bring you back to the chair and the assistant cleans your teeth then leaves you be till the dentist arrives. I work in an industry...	Picked my nose as the dentist walked behind me and offered a handshake as I had a booger in my hand and I tried hiding the fact that I pick my nose daily by saying I work in a dirty industry<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Long distance relationship problems, need some advice please. POST: I'm a 20 year old male in a long distance relationship with a soon to be 19 year old female. I haven't seen her in about a year since she moved away (known for 3 in total) and we've been doing this online relationshi...	In a long distance relationship. Girlfriend is unsure about the relationship and growing tired of it. She messages a guy living nearby her placing him as backup. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [update]my [28m] ex[27f] just moved across the country to the same city as me, i'm a little freaked out and pissed off. POST: here is a link to the orginal post so its been a month since i last posted so here is a quick update. I have been so busy with work and school that i had co...	been to busy with life to focus on that fact my ex is now living in this area. Haven't hung out with my friends since she moved here, but part of that is due to our conflicting schedules<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: House training help! (Dog refuses to go in front of us) POST: We purchased a 4 1/2 month old Mini Australian Shepherd last week, and frustration is at an all time high. This puppy refuses to go to the bathroom in front of anyone. I take her out every half hour ALL day and she will no...	Puppy refuses to go potty in front of me and shits and pisses in crate or porch when not looking.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Far Away From Home For a Long Time. 6 months in Europe, What Should I Expect? POST: I did a search but I could only find budget stuff, and the blog post on the sidebar. I'm looking for what to bring and what to get at home or there. So I'm going to be living in a major city in Europe for 6 ...	I am unsure of what I should bring and what to expect for such a long time period, and I'm asking for more experienced opinions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Almost got duped by a crafty scam, wanted to share to prevent others from falling for it. POST: I was in Las Vegas this past weekend and stayed at a no-name hotel slightly off the strip to save some cash. It had good reviews and was basic, but was clean and got the job done. Sund...	Someone called my hotel room pretending to be the manager and said their system was down and wanted my info including credit card to confirm and reimburse me for the trouble. Was a total scam and tough to trace, be careful!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Girlfriend [24 F] both agree that waiting till marriage to have sex is the best choice but we are both sexually frustrated and I fear it is coming between us. POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. We are very open with each other and a...	Girlfriend and I both have a lot of sexual frustration and don't know how to deal with it since we want to wait until marriage.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21M) keep looking at a girl (20F) while having a girlfriend (19F). My girlfriend asks why but I don't even know the answer myself. POST: Hello everyone. I keep looking up a girl I liked two years ago before while I have a girlfriend. I don't think I am into this girl anymore but...	Why do I look up girls on Facebook when I don't feel anything for them? My girlfriend asks but I cannot answer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/M] Her parents don't want her [19/F] dating non-muslims and are pretty strict POST: So couple of weeks ago, I started talking with this girl from OkCupid and we really hit it off. She's cute, we get along, we have many similar interests and we generally think the same way. ...	Started seeing a girl but her parents don't want her dating a non-muslim guy so she has to lie to see me and can't see me for long periods of time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a friend diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. Anyone have any experience with this disorder? I don't know how best to help/support him as he deals with this. POST: As stated in the title, one of my close friends has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. We live together, with one ot...	My good friend has bi-polar, looking for firsthand advice on how I can help/support/be there for him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Father-in-Law wants advice for how to talk to his son (my husband). POST: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person...	husband doesn't want to fix a relationship with his parents, he just doesn't want one. How to convert this to parents?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years are both in college. Is it really the thought that counts? POST: We are both juniors and majors at her school are notoriously difficult this semester. Combine that with the fact that her school is an hour away from where our hometown is ...	Bought my girlfriend a back to school jewelry set for $6. Does money spent matter? Also what is "geuine mother of pearl?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is it possible to get an apartment without a job? Need advice. POST: Tonight was extremely stressful. My parents tried to kill each other (literally). This isn't the first time they've fought, but tonight was so much more extreme than it ever has been. I'm looking to move out with ...	have money saved, need to move, don't have a job yet, want to know if it's possible to get an apartment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you perceive time when you sleep? POST: I was talking with my friends about sleeping and how we dream every night, even when we don't remember our dreams, unless time passes instantly when we sleep. They said that I was wrong, and I asked them if time just passes instantly when the sl...	My friends say that they don't perceive time when they sleep, and I have only once had a full night's sleep that seemed instant. Is anyone else like me, or am I just a freak?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: On the verge of getting back with an ex. Your input is appreciated. POST: So I dated this girl in high school for three years (on and off). We went to different high schools. She is 2 years younger than me and I am 21 right now. We broke up when I was 19 and she was 17 due to us ...	Dated a girl for three years when we were younger and barely spoke since we broke up (2 years ago). Is it a good idea to date her again considering we both still have strong feelings for each other?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Parents who really dislike my current girlfriend of almost a year POST: Hello Redditors, as a student going to a university, I got together with my girlfriend 19F M19 last septemeber. As she's a Hispanic poor American with almost no money but a full ride scholarship, I come from a up...	Family hates my current due to poor hispanic girlfriend and money driven..I am stuck in the middle and hurting our current relationship by my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23M]My ex [22F] who I still have feelings for has changed her sexuality. POST: First, let me preface this by saying that I am completely and totally for equality and support gay rights wholeheartedly. Secondly, I understand that a person cannot change who they have feelings fo...	My ex went from heterosexual to a homosexual relationship. I am hurt by the length of time that it took her to get over our relationship. I would appreciate help in getting past that and being there for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [F21] is manipulative and is always right. and I [M23] don't know how to deal with it POST: So I've been seeing this girl for about 6 months now, and she's great and all that. However, she's got a tendency to get very bossy. Whenever she asks me to make plans with her (...	My girlfriend doesn't allow me to change our plans and tries to control me with fear, and whenever I call her out on it she takes on a victim-role and makes me look like the bad guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Hooked up with someone to get over my ex (F19). Now I (M20) immensely regret it. Has anyone got advice on dealing with the guilt? POST: So my ex dumped me three days ago. She was my first love, so I feel devastated. Yesterday, I decided to go partying with friends in order to get over her...	First love broke up with me, and I hooked up with someone to cope with it. Now I feel terrible about it. Has anyone got tips on dealing with the guilt?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] have developed feelings for my close friend [16 F] and am unsure if i should act upon these feelings or not POST: Over the past year we developed a close friendship. She is one of the most incredible people I have met throughout my 3 years of high school and she brings a lot...	Developed feelings for a close friend, don't know if i should/if it's worth letting her know i have feelings for her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking my Fiancee and my Father to Pebbles POST: TIFU by doing as it says in the title... Well my father isn't gay or anything, he just like to embarrass me, my brothers, our girlfriends/fiancee's, even his own damn mother. Well, I took her out on a date... Sadly I didn't have my lice...	Don't take ANYONE who is willing to embarrass you so bad that they will do anything to the store with you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my SO [16] 8 Months, Is it inappropriate? POST: Basically, I'm not sure if what I'm doing is "inappropriate" or not. My best friend is a girl my age. We're very close, and talk to eachother about literally everything. We're very open to eachother and we fulfill a weird ...	Best friend [F] and I [M] see eachother naked regularly, my SO doesn't know. What should I do, if anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend? [25 F] when is a good (the best?) time to have the "what are we" talk and how? POST: So I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. Regularly hanging out, dates, netflix, hiking, regular sex and it seems to be going pretty well. But I'm not real...	things seem to be going well but I don't know how or when to have the "what are we" talk.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm experiencing the worst jet lag of my life. Anybody out there with some advice? POST: I'm originally from the US, Pacific Time. I work leading adventure trips into the outdoors, and my job leaves me exhausted at the end of the day. Basically, Ive spent the last 6 months working in the...	Just traveled east (a 9 hour difference in time zones) and experiencing worsening jet lag, despite following all the usual advice to the T. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend (26,F) and I (23, M) of 1.25 years are going through a rough time and trying to figure out if we should stay together or not even though we both love each other. POST: So this past week I've noticed she's been more distant and she is a grad student. She was busy but also s...	GF thinks we're at two different parts of life, thinks I can't give her memorable moments, but still says she loves and cares about me so much. I want go preserve what we have and prove her wrong. How?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I Really Love Life. POST: Long-time Lurker. First-time poster. I have been thinking for so long about Life lately and how amazing and bizarre and wonderfully weird it is. I love everything about it so damn much. Have you ever been in one of those moods where everything just seems to fl...	Life is amazing and so are people. We should all love each other and make everyones days better. The little things make a big difference.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [18F] support my mother [50F] through getting a divorce from my cheating father [60M]? POST: My parents have been married for 20 years. Won't go too into depth about my father's affair, but long story short he was planning to just leave us hanging next year and run away wit...	Mum feels shitty because she gave up her entire life for my father and it didn't pay off, how can I help her get through this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33F] with my boyfriend [30M] of ~6m, he said something that upset me when I woke up today, can't figure it out wtf is going on POST: Today I woke up from a late nap and my boyfriend was laying in bed with me (he was on break from work). I sleepily asked him "whatcha doing?" and h...	out of nowhere, bf said he was thinking of all the times I was mean to him while I was sleeping and I dk wtf to do/say<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF (20 F) loves dance, but I (21 M) really hate it. POST: We live in Cali, Colombia, and this city is known as the "salsa capital", because the dance history in here, and the love that the people have to latin music. So, yeah, everyone loves dance around here. In addition, we are ...	I don't know if it worth doing things that I don't want for my girlfriend when I don't feel that she do the same.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 3 months; communication advice POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for three months, and I can tell that I care for him much more than anyone else I have dated in the past. We were friends for about nine months before we started dating, so we k...	I have been dating my bf for 3 months and am struggling to have hard or emotion conversations because of my communication skills (or lack thereof). Any advice/recommendations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My future and how my grades determine it POST: Do grades really completely determine your future? Is the future, mostly the near future involving college, earning degrees, and getting a job that you don't hate as monolithic as people make it to be? I am passionate about Physics, Technolog...	Do grades determine your future and is the future as monolithic as people point it out to be? What are some jobs that I could get that fulfill my passions? At this point I'll take any advice. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Rescued a lab three weeks ago, he's showing symptoms of Distemper Virus. HELP! POST: Long time lurker, first time posting. A black Labrador followed me home three and a half weeks ago. I called nearby shelters, hung flyers, put ads up on craigslist, and more, searching for his owner. After tw...	rescued dog, has multiple symptoms of Distemper virus, broke until Friday, has a vet appointment scheduled for Saturday, scared he may not live to go to vet. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Been in a relationship once (and it crashed and burned), but have no idea how to date. Dumb as a brick when it comes to social intelligence. Suggestions? POST: Really, when it comes to picking up signals, body language and, well, conversation, in general, I'm blind as a fucking bat. ...	I have no idea what I do IRL when talking to girls but whatever I do does the opposite, and still fails doing the opposite successfully. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When is the best time/place/method to ask someone out? POST: (Throwaway and names changed) For the past summer I [16F]have been spending some time trying to befriend/date a guy named Alex [16M]. We met at the end of the school year through a mutual friend, who plays video games wi...	wondering when is the best time to ask someone out since I've tried to ask a friend out but not sure if I should ask him out at a party this Friday after inviting him to group activities<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: (ex-)GF broke up with me after 2.5 years. We are in a Long Relationship and now she is super friendly to me! What do I do? I can't be phony! POST: 18-M I live in US since 2011., 19-F (She lives in Brazil).We used to be a very good couple, happy etc. But one day she cheated on me and told ...	I mean, she broke up with me, start to be BETTER than it was as a GF. And I can't be the good guy that I was before.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my SO [24M] and Ex- Husband [26M] Am I being insensitive/ Is this inappropriate? POST: Back story: My ex-husband was injured in Afghanistan about 5 years ago. His mental state afterwards had declined so much (he admitted to cheating, didn't want to stop, and had become ...	Am I being insensitive by going to hang out with my kids and ex-husband without my boyfriend for my daughter's birthday?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 F] am having conflicting thoughts about my relationship with my boyfriend [22 M] POST: I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I love him a lot. We get along incredibly well and hardly ever fight. We both understand each other very well and are very, very com...	I love my bf, but our sex life isn't satisfying me anymore and I want to have sex with other people.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel threatened by male attention. POST: I have never felt comfortable with sexual male attention. I am not an unattractive woman, and I know that men look at me. As soon as a conversation switches from being platonic and pleasantly flirty (which I thoroughly enjoy because I ...	Feel disgusted, vulnerable by male sexual attention. I feel uncomfortable being wanted. How do I feel differently about being the center of someone's sexual attention?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] and my gf [23 F] of 4 years are at different points in our lives POST: So I've been with my gf for 4 years and we're quite happy when we're together. However she has really protective parents that don't allow her to come over to my place or spend the night together anywhere...	I'm becoming independent and want to spend more time with gf. She is becoming increasingly dependent on her parents who don't like us being together for more than a couple of hours at a time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friendship ended over stupid misunderstanding, should I do anything to fix it? POST: Details: me 27f friend 41m. For Americans substitute tube=subway and pub=bar, if it makes it easier. So yesterday I was meant to be meeting a friend, someone I consider(ed) a good friend (we've know...	Friend ended a friendship over a miscommunication, should I try to fix it or just let it go? Feel free to ask for further details.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not having enough alcohol POST: I really fucked up this time, About two days ago i was having a few afternoon drinks at my house because it was a mates birthday and was going to go clubbing later that night, the four of us that where drinking together finished a carton of beer extreme...	Went to my grandfathers house to steal alcohol, knock and vomit on my grandmothers urn and feel extremely guilty without know one else knowing other then my friends who were there.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend doesn't want me on the title to the house. POST: My girlfriend (F26) of 6 years and I (M27) have decided to buy a home, she inherited a good amount of money from a relative's passing. We negotiated a decent price, and her father has agreed loan us the remainder on the pric...	Girlfriend makes down-payment, her and her family don't want me on the title at all while paying my 1/2 of every mortgage/bill.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend could be pregnant, what do you guys think? POST: Hey guys, We've got a bit of a dilemma here. My girlfriend could be pregnant, but we're not sure. She didn't have a "stop-week" with the pill for the last 9 weeks until a week ago (last sunday). Normally she has quite a blo...	Girlfriend has minimal blood loss in her menstrual cycle, last (and only) time this happened she was pregnant, first stop week (from the pill) in 9 weeks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me ( 36M ) with my GF ( 32F ) of a little over a year, she has trouble dealing with my ( sexual ) past. POST: Alright so like the title says, my girlfriend can't deal with my sexual history. Let me say our relationship is pretty much perfect aside from this issue, she's very kind, an...	Im quite a bit more experienced than my partner, she seems to resent me for it, how do I help her move past this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/M] with my Friend [27/F] of 4 years, looking to become'real' with her. POST: I'm 28. I've been friends with a girl for about 4 years and she's always seen me as a dick and smooth talker, and has always hated me for it...a few months ago we had a random weird hangout with just ...	Girl wants me to be open and real with her, not sure how to become more real and less of the actor I'm used to being with women.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (30/m) posted something on facebook about not celebrating Christmas for religious reason. My aunt got extremely upset POST: My family have know I don't believe in any religion for years. Yet I still come around and celebrate Christmas with them as a traditional thing. I've got a f...	Aunt got upset because I made it known I don't celebrate Christmas for religion reason. She chewed me out over it. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and Partner (both late twenties) How do you know if marriage is for you/ if you're ready for it? POST: Me and my partner have been dating for about 6 years, within the last few years we've been asked when we're looking to get married. It hasn't really bothered either of us- we've ...	Health issues are scaring me, making me rethink about marriage, how do you know if it's for you/when you're ready?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] introduced my best friend [20F] to a group of other friends POST: Hi! Something like 3 years ago, I met a girl in a club thanks to a close friend [F] of mine. We became friends and continued to meet regularly during the next times; Since 2 years I easily consider her my best ...	Introduced best friend to a group of other friends. She seems to be more attached to them than to me. It hurts me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the weirdest thing you've ever witnessed someone do? POST: I'm sure mine will be topped, but I'll still give it a go. Back in third grade there was this one weird kid who was in all my classes. (There's always that one weird kid) Anyways, one day, I suppose he was sick, he asked...	A kid in my class in third grade vomited in a folder that he then put back in his desk and trapped us in the room with his puke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, have you tried to be wingman/wingmom only to have it go horribly wrong? POST: For example, My girlfriend and I were at a new bar/restaurant that opened in town. We were having drinks, and our waiter would come over pretty often to check up on us. I'm thinking it's because he wan...	Tried to be a good Wingwoman, wrote dumb message to guy for friend while tipsy. Guy turns out to be married. Wingwoman fail.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (16/f) want to start talking to this boy(~16/m), circumstances makes it difficult. POST: first off, I'm sorry if this is wrong place to post because it's not really a relationship, but i want to start a relationship. also I apologise for any spelling/grammar mistakes I've missed. I'm...	can't talk to this boy I fancy because my brother and teachers are always around. how do I go about talking it to him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (29m) with my gf (28f), discussing marriage, she doesn't want to change her last name because of her heritage. POST: My girlfriend has a last name that is a very common hispanic last name. For instance, Garcia. I have a very obviously white last name. I am not at all saying that ...	GF and I are coming up against some issues with our last names, heading into marriage. We're not sure how to handle it, or if there are any ideas we haven't though of yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. POST: my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. i have almost 100,000 dollars in debt and it just growing because of interest.. i have a graduat...	my life is a mess. 100k debt. unethical therapist in past. lawyers can't or won't help me. not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wiser Redditors, is it too late for me (a broke college grad) to turn my life around and start living? POST: I am a 26 year old female living at home with my mother and stepfather in America with roughly $70,000 worth of student debt. I have a Bachelors of Science in Art Education. For ...	Typical college-grad not sure where to go with all of this debt. Wants to further education but is it unwise?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not wearing underwear all day POST: Throwaway account, obviously. This one is rather short as I'm on mobile and I don't really feel like writing an essay, and may not be much of a fuck up as the ending might not be what you expected, but I thought it was kinda silly and felt like shar...	went without underpants for a whole day, got my pubic hair stuck in zipper. Painfully removed half of it as I unzipped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by burning my hand on a microwave burger POST: This might not be the most interesting story and the title might be a bit vague but I'll try to explain. I was hungry and decided that I should cook one of the microwave burgers that are ready in 50 seconds because I'm lazy and it's somethi...	Put burger for too long in microwave, opened it, burnt my hand horribly, now wondering how much of an idiot I am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: my dog peed on my bed...again POST: So it happened again tonight, for about the 5th or 6th time. Shes a 50 lb boxer / lab mix, very playful, and is house trained. We leave her out during the day while we are at work and no accidents. I took her outside 30 minutes prior to discovering ...	dog keeps peeing in my bed and i was wondering if anyone knows of some common reasons why this may happen so we can stop the habit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Teenager that found himself in a ditch, now I have to dig myself out. One scoop at a time. POST: Hello, I'm Elijah and I'm a 5'6" 238lbs 15 year old male teenager from the northeast and I want to lose weight. I'll start with what I'm currently doing. Through 3 months of calorie counting p...	5'6" 238 lost 12lbs already with gym/calorie counting hoping to join a community of like minded individuals.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[28M] with my boss[50sM] of 10 years, I turned down a "promotion" and now he's targeting me POST: I've been with the same company for 10 years. My boss has moved me around a lot and I've basically turned everything that I've touched into gold. (I'm capable and willing whereas most ...	Turned down a salary position because it was a terrible offer and now my boss hates me and told me he could "replace me in 1 second".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21,F] trying not to over think potential relationship with [25,M]. POST: So I met this guy a couple weeks ago downtown with my friends. We hit it off instantly and spent a good hour talking/dancing and I gave him my number. He texted me the next day and we chatted back and forth and...	Me and guy have two great dates, bails twice on third date and hasn't responded to my invite for tomorrow's date.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm very bad at calming people down when they are in an emotional spiral. Right now my mother is very upset and suicidal. What should I do? POST: My parents had a fight this morning. To explain the situation here is some background info: My mother is a woman who listens to her husband ...	Mother upset because father doesn't treat her well. Now she locked herself in her room and is crying. Before that, she told me about her schemes of kicking the bucket. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my GF [22F] of 10 months. She brought up a sex story and thought I was the man in the story. I wasn't. Red flag or no? POST: Me and my girlfriend are currently in a long distance relationship for the summer. We're only really able to see each other every couple weeks fo...	Girlfriend made the mistake of bringing up a past sexual memory and thought I was a part of it. I wasn't.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28M] girlfriend [25F] has been depressed. I suggested counselling, and now she accuses me of not really loving her. POST: My girlfriend of 10 months goes through bouts of depression, and I've posted on here before under a throwaway on how I could be there for her. I've gotten a ...	I suggested counselling to my girlfriend for her depression that has been affecting us, and now she thinks I'm just trying to "fix" her. I don't know what to do anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling my girlfriend I love her POST: Just for clarification purposes, this is a long distance relationship and we only see each other every 2 weeks or so, however we do Skype every single night. We had been seeing each other for about a month so far. And last night, as we were end...	I'm a pussy and said I love you really quickly at the end of a Skype call and now I'm lying in bed hoping our relationship is still in tact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I'[m] the problem with my relationship. POST: Ok, short and sweet. I have a girlfriend and she means the world to me. I love her with everything and I hope someday I marry this girl. She's everything. Our relationship is awesome. We never really "fight", we argue and disagree and ...	I'm a whiny bitch and I don't want to be anymore. It may hurt my relationship. Help me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: People of Reddit, when is it the time to grow up? POST: I want to have fun in life, get the most of it. I do want someone who knows how to have fun and don't judge that much or not at all. I do want a SO but thats least of my things I want. I fear that I will learn that I may not have th...	Love life but also wondering when is it the time to grow up and put childish thoughts away, also what do you consider "growing up?"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Could pay cash for a car, but leveraging 1.49% financing on some of it would allow me to pay off higher interest rate student loans. Is this a good idea? POST: I recently sold a car I was making payments on. The $400 monthly payment was well within my budget, but with $10,000 cash ...	Should I use a 1.49% auto loan rate to use less cash on a vehicle to in turn pay off higher interest student loans?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you ashamed of your countrymen/women? POST: So, I recently realized that some people hold that view that swedish men are "queery" and such, popular culture often makes Swedish men look douchy and ridiculous, wearing spraytan and hairextensions and whatnot, since the sw...	Swedes are sometimes stereotyped as skinny Jersey Shore type of men, what makes you feel ashamed of your countrymen?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20m) girlfriend (19f) is still "friends" with her rapist/ex-bf POST: My girlfriend of 4 months and friend of 1 year still talks to her ex-boyfriend who raped her repeatedly while she slept for 3 years (she woke up but he overpowered her/she froze up). This really upsets me and is...	Gf says she is committed to me but refuses to cut her rapist ex-bf out of her life because that would trigger her bad memories. She doesn't seem to want to get therapy or anything. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23f] friend [23f] thinks I'm in love with her. I have no idea why and it's making things weird. POST: Throwaway because friends know my Reddit. "Katie" and I been friends for five years and live on opposite coasts. She was supposed to visit me last week but cancelled last minute...	My friend apparently thinks I'm in love with her (I'm not). Should I find out why? What should I do after?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] want to connect with my brother [16M] but don't know how. POST: Hello r/relationships, My brother and I didn't always get along when we were kids. I would yell at him for messing with my stuff (we shared a room), exclude him when I was with my friends, etc. But at the end...	] talking to him about anything else takes effort, and he never tries to contact me. I want to be there for him if he needs to talk to someone. How do I build a relationship with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/M) don't know if I'm overreacting to my new girlfriend (21/F) and her roommate (21/F) mocking me through classroom doodles. POST: I've been dating my girlfriend Brianna (21/F) for a couple of months now. Up until today she's been pretty respectful of me aside from the occasiona...	Girlfriend and her roommate were doodling pictures of me that I considered somewhat disrespectful. How do I handle this without looking like a psycho?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying marijuana POST: This actually happened a few months back, but I thought it might be a fun story to share. My friend had gotten his hands on some "Lemon Haze" and said that we we're going to smoke it together. So we get together in a group of four guys and smoke about 3-4g. At...	I got high and tripped balls. 2 of my friends tried to help me and one just laughed at my misery.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Gf [20 F] of three years, coexistence gone wrong. POST: Hello, thanks in advance for reading this. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, and we moved to an apartment in town a couple of days ago, due to economical reasons,and it turned out to be r...	Problems sharing space with my girlfriend because she won't clean her own mess, and is reluctant to help me with the chores.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description POST: Me [30F] with my SO [29M], been together a year. He had a bitter breakup with his ex about a year before we started dating. (She broke up with him, he was devasated). She has started texting him again recently. He d...	Boyfriend texting ex about old times, but I only know b/c I snooped. Is this a red flag and should i say anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my ex [19M] almost 2 years, I broke up with my ex over a week ago, what is a normal recovery? POST: Hey everyone First post, so excuse if this comes off strange at any point! I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years. We were in a long-distance, long-term r...	how to get over a breakup? what's a normal recovery process? (long distance, long term, first love)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm an international student [23F] with no relationship experience before, and I'm not sure what relationship it is between me and an American guy [24]. Please help me figure out... POST: I'm an international student [23F], and I never had a relationship before. I met the guy [24] se...	Should I cuddle and kiss a guy even if we are not really in a relationship? Should I develop a relationship with the guy when I cannot keep him company?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm a very anxious flyer & right before we were about to take off, a man projectile vomits all over the people in front of me & on my stuff. A nice guy offered me his seat near the front of the plane. What has someone done for you during a shitty situation that made it better? PO...	I'm a crazy hypochondriac. Got to thank guy at baggage claim for his kindness & serving in the military.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm lost, nothing is going right. POST: I'm 27, 3 years out of college and I havent worked full time for over 2 years of it. I got a good degree (computer science) from a good university (University of California) with pretty decent grades (3.3gpa). My first job I worked for 8 months before...	What kinds of jobs could a heavy introvert with a CS (B.S.) do that isn't website/mobile app/social networking?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Plagiarism of self: Do you think less of somebody who quotes things without crediting the source? POST: How do you feel when someone quotes verbatim, a news article, philosophy, or story from a source you know of? A lot of my topics of conversation are stories I read on reddit. And whe...	Do you think it would make you think less of a person if they plagarize their conversations? Is it a "got'cha" moment? Would you ever call somebody on it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] told my best friend's [22 F] mom about her sleeping problems, and now she's pissed at me. POST: Throwaway because she uses reddit. I've known my best friend Kat for 8 years now, and she's pretty much my sister. I'm really close with her entire family, especially her mom. W...	I told my best friends mom, who's like my second mom, that my best friend was dealing with her rapist and having nightmares. Best friend is now pissed at me but I feel like I did the right thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Is it always wrong to snoop your boyfriend's phone/e-mail/computer? POST: I confess, I am a snooper. My reasoning is, when I snoop, I usually find something I don't like. For example, last night I looked at my boyfriend's phone and saw that he's meeting up with a "girl" friend ...	is it okay to snoop if it seems every time you do, you find something you don't like? Or does it not matter either way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Not sure if I'm reading to much into this? POST: Her: 24 Me: [almost] 22 I met this awesome girl that I attend school with and we (and a few other people) all became very quick friends. We all go out together and have a really good time, and somewhere along the line I developed a s...	Met this girl. Secret Crush. She's in an obvious unhappy relationship. Do I tell her I have this crush, or just stay friends? How do I tell her if I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[17M] still have feelings for my ex [17F] and feel very bad about relationships now. POST: About 5 months ago I broke up with a girl who was pretty much my first major (or important to me) relationship. She said she left me, because she is gay. However, another reason that she did...	Girlfriend broke up with me a while ago and I still love her. Remembering the break-up makes me fear entering new relationships. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (18/F) going away to college, boyfriend (18/M) feels like I could care less, I feel scared it might end, need help POST: I am moving away to college tomorrow and I don't want to leave on bad terms with my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for almost 9 months and current...	Going off to college tomorrow, boyfriend is upset I don't initiate sex or hanging out, don't know how to proceed since is turning into LDR<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making whale noises at a girl POST: This one was at about 12:10 AM today, so it just barely counts as today! So there was this big art/music festival in my town that lasts all night. There was this awesome band playing that the whole audience was really getting into. During the show ...	Danced with a cute girl. She tried to talk to me and in response I shrieked at her like a whale.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] and [31M] together one year, I take my anger/anxiety out on him. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for one year and are moving in together. I don't really have friends and am currently unemployed for the last 2 weeks. He is away for the next 3 days on a trip with all...	I take my anxiety and anger out on my SO and I feel it is hurting my relationship. Has anyone experienced these feelings, on either side?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Are there healthy, low calorie alternatives to fast/premade food? POST: Howdy! I had a really rough year in school and it resulted in a lot of negative things in my personal life, so as a means of keeping myself occupied and working on improving myself, I'm hoping to lose between 50 and 70l...	Are there fast, low effort recipes/packaged instant foods that I could replace microwave meals with? I have some obvious ideas like salads but I'm looking for a bit more variety!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am trying to make the girl I have feelings for [21F] see that her ex is not the only man n the world for her... and failing POST: So a little while ago I started hanging out with this girl, she is smart and beautiful and sarcastic and everything I love but, she can not get ov...	Want to date this chick but she is married and hung up on her ex. I'm insane for trying to do anything but in too deep to back out now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 M] have been in love with my best friend [16 F] for years, I recently confessed, hoping to be rejected and to get it all over with, the opposite happened. POST: I have known her for years, 5 years to be exact and for about 3 of them I have been in love with her. I never said an...	I'm 15 and unable to fall out of love with the person that could very well be the love of my life. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [F24] live with my best friend [F23] and my ex-boyfriend [M23]. Shit's fucked. Help. POST: I posted something similar a while ago under a different name, just in case anybody remembers. Anyways, we live in the same apartment with a fourth roommate who's also a friend. I broke up ...	I live with my two closest friends, one of whom is an ex of a year ago. There's romantic feelings between them, and I realized I still like him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure what to think of this situation with female coworker. POST: OK so to start off I [19 M], have been playing around with and joking with a female[24] coworker of mine. I see us as more friends than lovers or being in a relationship, I think she does as well but then she do...	I think a female coworker may have a crush on me, everyone I work with thinks so as well(but they can be assholes).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Cheated on...and it doesn't hurt. POST: I found out 2 weeks ago that the woman that I dated for 3 years, the one I had a ring for, the one I saw my future with...cheated on me. And the strangest thing? It is such a relief. Let me explain. When she called and broke up with me, it was...	Girlfriend of 3 years breaks up with me randomly. I feel guilty. Turns out she's a cheater. Guilt absolved, feels good.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26/F] friend [29/F] is always high when we hang out and I don't have fun with them anymore. POST: Her mother is currently in the slow process of dying, which is a hell of a lot to deal with especially considering this girl already has clinical anxiety that's undiagnosed and untre...	friend is high, I don't want to be around them like that, how do I tell her, if at all?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend deletes my posts on his fb...? 23 POST: So I've dated him since Jan this year and before then we dated for over two years. We broke up for nine months and now are back together.... He still hasn't told his parents and deletes everything to do with me off social medi...	my bf hasn't told many ppl about us and deletes my posts to his social media, should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Petty Revenge on a horrible teacher. POST: This isn't my story, but a friends. Now a little backstory, Our school is big, therefore needs a lot of ventilation, so the air vents are massive. The reason why? I don't know. But anyway, onto the present day. We have a teacher who, for t...	Attention hog teacher tries to stop friend from getting an award, gets it anyway and gets her to thank him and congratulate him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Question to medical personnel/physical therapy/ medical supply/or anyone at all with a similar experience.. POST: so, my 60 year old mom fell and ended up breaking her left wrist in two places and her right shoulder. Needless to say, my dad and I have been feeding her, cleaning her, wipi...	mom fell, broke left wrist & right shouder, has no use of her arms for 6 weeks, there's gotta be some sort of device or doo-dad for folks who can't use arms.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Just starting M/21/6'1 220. POST: Hey /r/loseit I'm just about to start my very own weight loss routine. I know I'm not huge and I'm not exactly ridiculously overweight for my body type, but its time to trim up. I feel unhealthy and I feel lazy and i find that even 35lbs overweight makes ...	About to start my own weight loss routine. Aiming at losing 35lbs by march, by cutting out wheat and sugar and swimming. Any Tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] hurt my LDR Girlfriend's [20 F] feelings and I'm seeking advice POST: This is my first post so here goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, with the past 2 being long distance for most of the year. We go to different colleges and are able to see one ano...	My LDR Girlfriend and I took jokes too personally and I hurt her feelings. Days later there is tension between us, I want her to be happy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 F] just got into a heated discussion about vaccinations with my boyfriend [30 M]. Not sure what else we need to discuss before marriage. POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 3 years. Everything is wonderful aside from the occasional argument about his farts s...	Just found out my boyfriend isn't and won't get vaccinated. Wondering what other potentially game-changing topics need to be addressed before we get married.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by picking my nose at the dentists office POST: This was pretty embarrassing. I went to the dentist after work to have my teeth cleaned and as usual they bring you back to the chair and the assistant cleans your teeth then leaves you be till the dentist arrives. I work in an industry...	Picked my nose as the dentist walked behind me and offered a handshake as I had a booger in my hand and I tried hiding the fact that I pick my nose daily by saying I work in a dirty industry<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Long distance relationship problems, need some advice please. POST: I'm a 20 year old male in a long distance relationship with a soon to be 19 year old female. I haven't seen her in about a year since she moved away (known for 3 in total) and we've been doing this online relationshi...	In a long distance relationship. Girlfriend is unsure about the relationship and growing tired of it. She messages a guy living nearby her placing him as backup. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [update]my [28m] ex[27f] just moved across the country to the same city as me, i'm a little freaked out and pissed off. POST: here is a link to the orginal post so its been a month since i last posted so here is a quick update. I have been so busy with work and school that i had co...	been to busy with life to focus on that fact my ex is now living in this area. Haven't hung out with my friends since she moved here, but part of that is due to our conflicting schedules<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: House training help! (Dog refuses to go in front of us) POST: We purchased a 4 1/2 month old Mini Australian Shepherd last week, and frustration is at an all time high. This puppy refuses to go to the bathroom in front of anyone. I take her out every half hour ALL day and she will no...	Puppy refuses to go potty in front of me and shits and pisses in crate or porch when not looking.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Far Away From Home For a Long Time. 6 months in Europe, What Should I Expect? POST: I did a search but I could only find budget stuff, and the blog post on the sidebar. I'm looking for what to bring and what to get at home or there. So I'm going to be living in a major city in Europe for 6 ...	I am unsure of what I should bring and what to expect for such a long time period, and I'm asking for more experienced opinions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Almost got duped by a crafty scam, wanted to share to prevent others from falling for it. POST: I was in Las Vegas this past weekend and stayed at a no-name hotel slightly off the strip to save some cash. It had good reviews and was basic, but was clean and got the job done. Sund...	Someone called my hotel room pretending to be the manager and said their system was down and wanted my info including credit card to confirm and reimburse me for the trouble. Was a total scam and tough to trace, be careful!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Girlfriend [24 F] both agree that waiting till marriage to have sex is the best choice but we are both sexually frustrated and I fear it is coming between us. POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. We are very open with each other and a...	Girlfriend and I both have a lot of sexual frustration and don't know how to deal with it since we want to wait until marriage.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21M) keep looking at a girl (20F) while having a girlfriend (19F). My girlfriend asks why but I don't even know the answer myself. POST: Hello everyone. I keep looking up a girl I liked two years ago before while I have a girlfriend. I don't think I am into this girl anymore but...	Why do I look up girls on Facebook when I don't feel anything for them? My girlfriend asks but I cannot answer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/M] Her parents don't want her [19/F] dating non-muslims and are pretty strict POST: So couple of weeks ago, I started talking with this girl from OkCupid and we really hit it off. She's cute, we get along, we have many similar interests and we generally think the same way. ...	Started seeing a girl but her parents don't want her dating a non-muslim guy so she has to lie to see me and can't see me for long periods of time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a friend diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. Anyone have any experience with this disorder? I don't know how best to help/support him as he deals with this. POST: As stated in the title, one of my close friends has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder. We live together, with one ot...	My good friend has bi-polar, looking for firsthand advice on how I can help/support/be there for him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Father-in-Law wants advice for how to talk to his son (my husband). POST: My husband (24) does not have a good relationship with his parents (40s). They were emotionally and mentally abusive when he was a child, and as an adult, they have made no real effort to get to know the person...	husband doesn't want to fix a relationship with his parents, he just doesn't want one. How to convert this to parents?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of 3 years are both in college. Is it really the thought that counts? POST: We are both juniors and majors at her school are notoriously difficult this semester. Combine that with the fact that her school is an hour away from where our hometown is ...	Bought my girlfriend a back to school jewelry set for $6. Does money spent matter? Also what is "geuine mother of pearl?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is it possible to get an apartment without a job? Need advice. POST: Tonight was extremely stressful. My parents tried to kill each other (literally). This isn't the first time they've fought, but tonight was so much more extreme than it ever has been. I'm looking to move out with ...	have money saved, need to move, don't have a job yet, want to know if it's possible to get an apartment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you perceive time when you sleep? POST: I was talking with my friends about sleeping and how we dream every night, even when we don't remember our dreams, unless time passes instantly when we sleep. They said that I was wrong, and I asked them if time just passes instantly when the sl...	My friends say that they don't perceive time when they sleep, and I have only once had a full night's sleep that seemed instant. Is anyone else like me, or am I just a freak?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: On the verge of getting back with an ex. Your input is appreciated. POST: So I dated this girl in high school for three years (on and off). We went to different high schools. She is 2 years younger than me and I am 21 right now. We broke up when I was 19 and she was 17 due to us ...	Dated a girl for three years when we were younger and barely spoke since we broke up (2 years ago). Is it a good idea to date her again considering we both still have strong feelings for each other?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Parents who really dislike my current girlfriend of almost a year POST: Hello Redditors, as a student going to a university, I got together with my girlfriend 19F M19 last septemeber. As she's a Hispanic poor American with almost no money but a full ride scholarship, I come from a up...	Family hates my current due to poor hispanic girlfriend and money driven..I am stuck in the middle and hurting our current relationship by my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23M]My ex [22F] who I still have feelings for has changed her sexuality. POST: First, let me preface this by saying that I am completely and totally for equality and support gay rights wholeheartedly. Secondly, I understand that a person cannot change who they have feelings fo...	My ex went from heterosexual to a homosexual relationship. I am hurt by the length of time that it took her to get over our relationship. I would appreciate help in getting past that and being there for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [F21] is manipulative and is always right. and I [M23] don't know how to deal with it POST: So I've been seeing this girl for about 6 months now, and she's great and all that. However, she's got a tendency to get very bossy. Whenever she asks me to make plans with her (...	My girlfriend doesn't allow me to change our plans and tries to control me with fear, and whenever I call her out on it she takes on a victim-role and makes me look like the bad guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Hooked up with someone to get over my ex (F19). Now I (M20) immensely regret it. Has anyone got advice on dealing with the guilt? POST: So my ex dumped me three days ago. She was my first love, so I feel devastated. Yesterday, I decided to go partying with friends in order to get over her...	First love broke up with me, and I hooked up with someone to cope with it. Now I feel terrible about it. Has anyone got tips on dealing with the guilt?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] have developed feelings for my close friend [16 F] and am unsure if i should act upon these feelings or not POST: Over the past year we developed a close friendship. She is one of the most incredible people I have met throughout my 3 years of high school and she brings a lot...	Developed feelings for a close friend, don't know if i should/if it's worth letting her know i have feelings for her<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking my Fiancee and my Father to Pebbles POST: TIFU by doing as it says in the title... Well my father isn't gay or anything, he just like to embarrass me, my brothers, our girlfriends/fiancee's, even his own damn mother. Well, I took her out on a date... Sadly I didn't have my lice...	Don't take ANYONE who is willing to embarrass you so bad that they will do anything to the store with you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my SO [16] 8 Months, Is it inappropriate? POST: Basically, I'm not sure if what I'm doing is "inappropriate" or not. My best friend is a girl my age. We're very close, and talk to eachother about literally everything. We're very open to eachother and we fulfill a weird ...	Best friend [F] and I [M] see eachother naked regularly, my SO doesn't know. What should I do, if anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend? [25 F] when is a good (the best?) time to have the "what are we" talk and how? POST: So I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. Regularly hanging out, dates, netflix, hiking, regular sex and it seems to be going pretty well. But I'm not real...	things seem to be going well but I don't know how or when to have the "what are we" talk.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm experiencing the worst jet lag of my life. Anybody out there with some advice? POST: I'm originally from the US, Pacific Time. I work leading adventure trips into the outdoors, and my job leaves me exhausted at the end of the day. Basically, Ive spent the last 6 months working in the...	Just traveled east (a 9 hour difference in time zones) and experiencing worsening jet lag, despite following all the usual advice to the T. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend (26,F) and I (23, M) of 1.25 years are going through a rough time and trying to figure out if we should stay together or not even though we both love each other. POST: So this past week I've noticed she's been more distant and she is a grad student. She was busy but also s...	GF thinks we're at two different parts of life, thinks I can't give her memorable moments, but still says she loves and cares about me so much. I want go preserve what we have and prove her wrong. How?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I Really Love Life. POST: Long-time Lurker. First-time poster. I have been thinking for so long about Life lately and how amazing and bizarre and wonderfully weird it is. I love everything about it so damn much. Have you ever been in one of those moods where everything just seems to fl...	Life is amazing and so are people. We should all love each other and make everyones days better. The little things make a big difference.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [18F] support my mother [50F] through getting a divorce from my cheating father [60M]? POST: My parents have been married for 20 years. Won't go too into depth about my father's affair, but long story short he was planning to just leave us hanging next year and run away wit...	Mum feels shitty because she gave up her entire life for my father and it didn't pay off, how can I help her get through this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33F] with my boyfriend [30M] of ~6m, he said something that upset me when I woke up today, can't figure it out wtf is going on POST: Today I woke up from a late nap and my boyfriend was laying in bed with me (he was on break from work). I sleepily asked him "whatcha doing?" and h...	out of nowhere, bf said he was thinking of all the times I was mean to him while I was sleeping and I dk wtf to do/say<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF (20 F) loves dance, but I (21 M) really hate it. POST: We live in Cali, Colombia, and this city is known as the "salsa capital", because the dance history in here, and the love that the people have to latin music. So, yeah, everyone loves dance around here. In addition, we are ...	I don't know if it worth doing things that I don't want for my girlfriend when I don't feel that she do the same.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 3 months; communication advice POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for three months, and I can tell that I care for him much more than anyone else I have dated in the past. We were friends for about nine months before we started dating, so we k...	I have been dating my bf for 3 months and am struggling to have hard or emotion conversations because of my communication skills (or lack thereof). Any advice/recommendations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My future and how my grades determine it POST: Do grades really completely determine your future? Is the future, mostly the near future involving college, earning degrees, and getting a job that you don't hate as monolithic as people make it to be? I am passionate about Physics, Technolog...	Do grades determine your future and is the future as monolithic as people point it out to be? What are some jobs that I could get that fulfill my passions? At this point I'll take any advice. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Rescued a lab three weeks ago, he's showing symptoms of Distemper Virus. HELP! POST: Long time lurker, first time posting. A black Labrador followed me home three and a half weeks ago. I called nearby shelters, hung flyers, put ads up on craigslist, and more, searching for his owner. After tw...	rescued dog, has multiple symptoms of Distemper virus, broke until Friday, has a vet appointment scheduled for Saturday, scared he may not live to go to vet. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Been in a relationship once (and it crashed and burned), but have no idea how to date. Dumb as a brick when it comes to social intelligence. Suggestions? POST: Really, when it comes to picking up signals, body language and, well, conversation, in general, I'm blind as a fucking bat. ...	I have no idea what I do IRL when talking to girls but whatever I do does the opposite, and still fails doing the opposite successfully. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When is the best time/place/method to ask someone out? POST: (Throwaway and names changed) For the past summer I [16F]have been spending some time trying to befriend/date a guy named Alex [16M]. We met at the end of the school year through a mutual friend, who plays video games wi...	wondering when is the best time to ask someone out since I've tried to ask a friend out but not sure if I should ask him out at a party this Friday after inviting him to group activities<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: (ex-)GF broke up with me after 2.5 years. We are in a Long Relationship and now she is super friendly to me! What do I do? I can't be phony! POST: 18-M I live in US since 2011., 19-F (She lives in Brazil).We used to be a very good couple, happy etc. But one day she cheated on me and told ...	I mean, she broke up with me, start to be BETTER than it was as a GF. And I can't be the good guy that I was before.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my SO [24M] and Ex- Husband [26M] Am I being insensitive/ Is this inappropriate? POST: Back story: My ex-husband was injured in Afghanistan about 5 years ago. His mental state afterwards had declined so much (he admitted to cheating, didn't want to stop, and had become ...	Am I being insensitive by going to hang out with my kids and ex-husband without my boyfriend for my daughter's birthday?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 F] am having conflicting thoughts about my relationship with my boyfriend [22 M] POST: I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I love him a lot. We get along incredibly well and hardly ever fight. We both understand each other very well and are very, very com...	I love my bf, but our sex life isn't satisfying me anymore and I want to have sex with other people.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel threatened by male attention. POST: I have never felt comfortable with sexual male attention. I am not an unattractive woman, and I know that men look at me. As soon as a conversation switches from being platonic and pleasantly flirty (which I thoroughly enjoy because I ...	Feel disgusted, vulnerable by male sexual attention. I feel uncomfortable being wanted. How do I feel differently about being the center of someone's sexual attention?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] and my gf [23 F] of 4 years are at different points in our lives POST: So I've been with my gf for 4 years and we're quite happy when we're together. However she has really protective parents that don't allow her to come over to my place or spend the night together anywhere...	I'm becoming independent and want to spend more time with gf. She is becoming increasingly dependent on her parents who don't like us being together for more than a couple of hours at a time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friendship ended over stupid misunderstanding, should I do anything to fix it? POST: Details: me 27f friend 41m. For Americans substitute tube=subway and pub=bar, if it makes it easier. So yesterday I was meant to be meeting a friend, someone I consider(ed) a good friend (we've know...	Friend ended a friendship over a miscommunication, should I try to fix it or just let it go? Feel free to ask for further details.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not having enough alcohol POST: I really fucked up this time, About two days ago i was having a few afternoon drinks at my house because it was a mates birthday and was going to go clubbing later that night, the four of us that where drinking together finished a carton of beer extreme...	Went to my grandfathers house to steal alcohol, knock and vomit on my grandmothers urn and feel extremely guilty without know one else knowing other then my friends who were there.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend doesn't want me on the title to the house. POST: My girlfriend (F26) of 6 years and I (M27) have decided to buy a home, she inherited a good amount of money from a relative's passing. We negotiated a decent price, and her father has agreed loan us the remainder on the pric...	Girlfriend makes down-payment, her and her family don't want me on the title at all while paying my 1/2 of every mortgage/bill.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend could be pregnant, what do you guys think? POST: Hey guys, We've got a bit of a dilemma here. My girlfriend could be pregnant, but we're not sure. She didn't have a "stop-week" with the pill for the last 9 weeks until a week ago (last sunday). Normally she has quite a blo...	Girlfriend has minimal blood loss in her menstrual cycle, last (and only) time this happened she was pregnant, first stop week (from the pill) in 9 weeks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me ( 36M ) with my GF ( 32F ) of a little over a year, she has trouble dealing with my ( sexual ) past. POST: Alright so like the title says, my girlfriend can't deal with my sexual history. Let me say our relationship is pretty much perfect aside from this issue, she's very kind, an...	Im quite a bit more experienced than my partner, she seems to resent me for it, how do I help her move past this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/M] with my Friend [27/F] of 4 years, looking to become'real' with her. POST: I'm 28. I've been friends with a girl for about 4 years and she's always seen me as a dick and smooth talker, and has always hated me for it...a few months ago we had a random weird hangout with just ...	Girl wants me to be open and real with her, not sure how to become more real and less of the actor I'm used to being with women.<\|endoftext\|>