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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 M] parents [50s M/F] won't let my sister [25 F] take her boyfriend [26 M] to their house. He has been there a few times before and they think he's bad for her. Is the request valid? POST: My sister and her boyfriend have been together for a year now. She has had other boyfrien...	Parents wont let my sister bring her boyfriend to their house because my dad gets uncomfortable seeing him. They think he's not good for her. Is this a valid request?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can I turn my tax return into a profit? POST: The title of this post pretty much explains what I'm asking but I'll throw a little bit of my life story in here as well. To start off, my tax return wasn't nearly as much as I'd thought it be this year. I'm guessing that's due to the w...	Tax return wasn't as much as I'd thought it would be, fines due April 21st and I'm stressing about money. I need ideas to turn my return into a profit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my ex boyfriend [30 M] has never seen a future with me but considers me his best friend, is attracted to me, and always wants to cuddle after casual sex POST: wtf? together for over a year, I was his first everything. he claims he loved me and still cares about me (we...	Acts like he's my boyfriend when he's around me, says I'm his best friend but there's no future with me, and actively seeks other relationships only when I come back into his life. explanation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22, M] with my boyfriend [20, M] of one year broke up on my birthday. POST: This morning at about 12 AM, my boyfriend calls me, begins to cry and say he can't do it anymore. November 3rd would be a year. He says that I'm a good person, just that it feels distant and that he has d...	My boyfriend of nearly a year broke up with me on my birthday and a day before the year of us going out. How should I feel?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] am losing interest in GF [23 F] of 8 months, but do I have a larger problem of serially losing interest? POST: So I seem to be losing interest in my gf. I love her a lot, but the romantic spark doesn't seem to be there. It's quite strange though. I basically become obsessed ...	Losing interest, maybe it's because she's not sexy, maybe I'm Hitler. I get obsessed about interesting girls and their lives, but once I learn almost everything I get bored of them. Seems to happen often.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by opening Notepad POST: So I'm in year nine, first period multimedia. We're supposed to be finishing off some video, which I have already completed. So since it's gonna be another do-nothing lesson, I plug in my USB and start messing around with some lame scripts I made (editing especia...	Opened script with notepad, teacher saw and sent my USB off to the IT dudes to analyze. USB had some dodgy looking stuff on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] mother [50sF] doesn't like my gf [23F], am I dealing with this in the right way? POST: Basic info: We've been dating for over 2 years, and we both live with our parents. Let's say my girlfriend's name is Mary. My mother has narcissistic tendencies, and I've learned eventual...	Mother badmouths gf every time she comes up in conversation, and I just ignore it because it's the less troublesome way of dealing with it right now. Am I in the wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Young inexperienced and recently got a girlfriend, in need of assistance in controlling my feelings... POST: Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy who's recently got into a relationship, right now things are going pretty good, however I am sadly one of those people who can suddenly flip from bei...	In a new relationship, having sudden bursts of clingyness/neediness, in need of a few tips on how to control them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Credit Report Help - Rapid Repair POST: Hi, This is my first reddit post and I am in need of some communal advice/assistance. I'm starting a new job and I'm looking for apartments for myself, my wife and our 2 children to move in to. We've had issues before where a credit check ha...	$2000-$3000 Negative Accounts on Credit Report, In need of rapid repair to apply for apartment rentals this Spring.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Expressing my(27m) true feelings hurt hers(26f) POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now and it is my best relationship I every had. I truly like her and see a future with us together. I have never before got that feeling of "we will be together our whole li...	Its bothering me that i cant talk about this without hurting her, on the other hand i dont want to take her feeling away from her!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20 F] considering cheating on my girlfriend [21 F] of 2 years. POST: I have been dating my gf for almost two years now. We are planning on getting engaged over this winter. I am absolutely head-over-heels in love with her and couldn't imagine my life without her. Our sex is grea...	Do I have a one night fling and risk losing my S/O, or go the rest of my life not knowing what it's like having sex with a man?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the biggest/or most long term lie you have ever told? POST: So mine isn't too bad, but I know I'll have to keep it up for at least another 5 years if I don't want any repercussions for what I did. My friend invited me to go see musical comedian Bo Burnham last spring. Her and I ...	I stole over 80 dollars from my parents and lied to them about going to see Bo Burnham live and have to continue lying about it to this day. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [f18]&[m18] - Why a fight over speed limits on motorways could break up my relationship POST: Hi reddit, yesterday, my boyfriend of two months and I had a fight. It wasn't a discussion, we really fought and in the end he was mad at me and didn't speak to me for about half an hour, ...	My bf gets mad at me when we discuss about stupid issues and calls me self-opinionated and evil. He also expressed that he might leave me over a fight like that. WHAT DO<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Car+Ditch+Boulders POST: So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right...	My car slipped off the road in to a ditch, owners of the home had boulders there and damaged my car, can I sue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Fuck "Look at me now, bitch" - anyone have a good story about being bullied, only to have the bully apologize later on in life, to which you accepted and forgave? POST: I never got bullied in school, however once I was rounded up by a buch of guys on a beach when I was a teenager tauntin...	Got cornered by a group, walked away as too many to fight, ring leader comes to me 10 years later and apologizes in bar, we drink, laugh and play foozball.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [27m] am having a hard time with GF [24f] lack of cleaning habits POST: Been dating my 24f girlfriend for about 9 months, and now that she owns her own home she's constantly wanting me to come there, so I'm spending much more time at her house than ever before. Here's the t...	My gf is extremely messy and makes piles around the house, rather than cleaning. Only cleans when there's no room left in kitchen and has to. How do I address her lack of general cleaning or upkeep without being too rude?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Uh, hey guys, the wedding is postponed (rant) POST: So a little back story, my fiance and I have been together over 4 years now but we've know each other much longer. We've been engaged about a year and we bought a house together a couple months back. He has a well paying job and ...	my FH refuses to help me pay for the wedding and now I have to tell everyone it's been postponed indefinitely.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm leaving for one month, how do I manage my relationship with GF from 7500 miles away? POST: First off I'm not sure if this would be the right subreddit. I was going to post on r/LongDistance but it doesn't seem like too many people are active on there, and I need a rather quick re...	going on vacation 7500 miles away for one month. worried about being able to communicate with gf. any tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Not sure to either keep or quit my current part-time job POST: I have recently went through a painful emotional and slightly physical experience that I only had at least 1 day to recover. I managed to recover physically after going to the hospital. However, my emotions still felt...	Been through a painful experience and it is still affecting me now. Don't want to drag down the store but not sure whether I should keep it or not since it is a wonderful job.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [30M] dating for a year, he was previously engaged and has never told me. POST: Been together with my SO for a year now. I find myself in a slightly odd situation and I don't know if this is something I should bring up or feel concerned over. Due to social...	Boyfriend was previously engaged right before I met him but has never told me he was. Should I be concerned about this? Should I just tell him I know?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 4 months, told her I love her and I feel it was the worst time to do so POST: I have been with this wonderful woman for four months (known her for a little over a year), and over the course of our relationship I have come to know that I convincingl...	I told my girlfriend that I love her, but neither of us were completely sober, and now I'm worried she doesn't believe me and that I've cheapened what my feelings mean to her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (19/f) Having anxiety about my relationship with my bf (19) *again How do I stop this? POST: Last year our relationship was a roller coaster, I was diagnosed with depression/anxiety, so I had to deal with that, I lost about 10kg last year because I kept getting sick and wasn't ...	Having anxiety/trust issues with my bf, afraid they'll ruin our relationship again, how do I stop it and calm down<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Me 27f, Him 31m] Boyfriend won't work out and it is starting to affect our relationship…am I asking too much? POST: I've been with my boyfriend for six years but we have been having problems for the last year. I bring up our issues often and think of ways to work on them but they a...	In a long term relationship. Having multiple issues including dead bedroom and I want my S0 to get in shape because I think it would help. He refuses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend that I've been dating for 6 months goes through my phone and browsing history. POST: Everything has been going great up until about 3 weeks ago. I always keep my phone under my pillow to wake me up in the morning. Well one night I wake up in the middle of the night, r...	caught bf looking through my browsing history. asked him why and he brushes it off. Is this a red flag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Breaking up strategies for me [26 M] to end my 2 year relationship with my SO [30 F] POST: So I've been with my girlfriend 2 years and things have been fine. No major arguments etc. But after the first 7 or 8 months I gradually lost my physical attraction to her to where now I find r...	are there any ways I can end this thing without making her feel like she did something wrong? I want to minimize the hurt basically.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] my [20/f] is lying to me, possibly cheating POST: to premise.. ive been in a few relationships where ive been emotionally and physically cheated on. we've been together for 5 months. we spend pretty much every day together but there have been quite a few night recently ...	this guy is either hooking up with my girlfriend, or threatening to kill himself to keep her in his life. and i blew up about the whole thing<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] Should I end my turbulent relationship with my girl [18/f]? POST: So this girl is stuck between me and her bf [21/m], and she can't make up her mind. Over the last few months we've become very close but I've never been able to trust her, especially since she can't get th...	Should I look past all her issues while she's having a hard time, even though they're hurting me, or should I focus on self-preservation and let her go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Grandpa passed away two days ago, and left with, "Love is the difference" as his final words. I can't stop thinking about it. Any deep thinkers feel like weighing in? POST: Not trying to be corny, but it's Father's Day, and I'm feeling a little sentimental. To start- He was a very cool ...	Grandpa died on Friday. Our last conversation, he repeated the phrase "Love is the difference" over and over. Interpretations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Had a one night stand 8 months ago... never stopped thinking about him, he's suddenly contact me! POST: So I was thinking about him again last week for some reason unknown to me, and I threw his name into google and his linkedin popped up! So I was perusing and a day later I ha...	Thinking about my ONS 8 months later, find his linkedin, he adds me the next day with a message. Exchange some messages, thinking about adding him on facebook, unsure of how to navigate without being creepy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking an Earthquake just hit. POST: This actually happened last year, but I was reminded of it today. I'll set the scene: at the time, I was working in a call center so we all sat on long bangs about 10 across with another bank directly in front facing and one behind, and so on in...	I asked everyone if they felt the the earthquake, when it was actually a rather large woman who I made cry as a result.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having [17F] dreams about someone other than my BF [19M]? POST: So I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. My biggest fear with him is that when I go to college far from his college, by dating him I'll miss the person I'm "meant to be with". I'm not saying I don't love ...	Having nonsexual dreams about a budding romance with someone who's not my boyfriend. Does this say something about my relationship or is it an insignificant result of my subconscious?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think my friends is trying to cock-block me in the worst way possible. POST: I've been chatting up this girl i met from an internship for around a month now, and I mentioned her, in conversation, to a few of my friends from school. I think this may have been a mistake however...	I suspect that one of my friends is knowingly trying to get with the girl i like what should i do, confront him directly or just ignore the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is the best joke you've came up with that nobody got? POST: What is the best joke (or what you thought was) that you've came up with and left in silence? I was out doing errands today and remembered that I needed some Drain-O, and while I was at the store got som...	I bought Drain-O and some iced tea mix and mentioned making a mixed drink out of them, no response from my audience of one<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my [15 F] friend. I'm confused and apprehensive. More details in post POST: So I've known this girl for almost 2 years now, and its been really weird. She's quirky and we share a lot of interests and stuff, but I mean its just bizarre. We ended up in second year spanis...	Girl I've known for a while hurt me a while ago, might be falling for her again, not sure. Need some guidance<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24F) am very confused about whether my friend (33M) is interested in me romantically. Help! POST: I've been hanging out with this guy who does the same postgrad course as me for about a month now. It started when I asked him if he wanted to get drinks at some point because I was n...	Been hanging out with an guy on my college course for about a month; I'm really attracted to him but can't tell if he likes me the same way. Looking for advice on how to move forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18] keep on getting jealous when my girlfriend [18] hangs out with other guys. POST: Hey guys, My[18] girlfriend [18] have already been together for about a year. She's a really open person, and i'm quite shy and silent. She's really awesome, but there's always one thing that bug...	My girlfriend keeps on doing things with other guys and to other guys that I feel aren't really appropriate. Communicated this many times, but it keeps happening Am I in the wrong and being a jerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [mid 20sM] girlfriend's [mid 20sF] mother thinks I'm not tall enough and not good-looking enough, keeps urging her to break up with me. POST: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years and have known her half my life, we love each other very much. However, nothin...	Girlfriend's mother tells her to break up with me everyday because I'm not good looking and not as tall as she wants me to be. How do you reason with the unreasonable?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (M24) being paranoid or is she (24) acting strangely. POST: We've been dating for 8 years. So I don't know if this is just me being a little paranoid or if I am in the right here. My girlfriend started working at a new job about 5 months ago where she ran into an old male friend...	Girlfriend gets close with co-worker, goes out with him without me knowing, than gets snappy when its brought up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] new roommate [18F] has bulimia and throws up everywhere. What to do? POST: So I [20F] live in University housing, in a building comprised of three bedroom apartments. 4 weeks ago I finally transfered out of my old apartment away from my moderately messy old roommates. I was ...	got a new, university assigned bulimic roommate. Throws up everywhere. It's gross and I don't want to deal. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18F] with [18M] 5 Months, loves her boyfriend to death, but is afraid of the relationship setting her back from exploring the world. POST: Hello, I am making this post for my female friend. She has been in a relationship with this great guy for about 5 months. Now they were b...	Female friend loves her boyfriend, but is afraid of him holding her back from doing the things she wants to do in her young years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [24] and I [27] are going on a holiday with friends - 2 of the friends (both single) [F,25 & F,28] have decided to take the double bed - leaving us with 2 single beds - what should we do? POST: My wife [24] and I [27] are going on a holiday next week to a beach location with ...	Two of our single friends have taken the double bed in a hotel, and left us with 2 single beds. We are suprised, and don't know what to do. Please help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My BF uses Porn for Jacking off, Can someone explain and dissipate my fears? (repost from r/askreddit) POST: My BF and I have been together for a little over 6 months, we used to see each other every day or every other day so having regular sexytimes was not difficult BUT now because...	My BF uses porn for his personal sexy times and bothers me, someone please explain so I no longer have fears of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my classmate/acquaintance [20 F] 3 months, following a longterm relationship where do i go from here? POST: So let's start with the basics, I recently split with my girlfriend of 3 years, I left her because I saw that we had different goals in the relationship and were...	broke up with a long term girlfriend, now interested in an attractive classmate with similar hobbies, dont know how to talk to people im interested. I Would love some advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22/F] am falling for my good friend [23/M] but I am not sure he's even romantically interested in girls... What should I do? POST: Backstory: We have known each other for about 2 years, and go to school together (same major). I had actually originally thought he liked me a bit ba...	Starting to have romantic feelings for my friend who is ostensibly gay but has told me he is gay-leaning bi... How to proceed without ruining our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] am seeing my ex-gf's [27 F] friend post break up. Advice? POST: Me[28M] and my ex-gf [27F] dated for 6 years. We hard a few rough patches and breaks. A few months ago she leaves me for another guy. At first I try and convince her to reconsider and that we can work this out. ...	Girlfriend leaves me for another guy. I begin seeing her friend. She calls me the devil. Why is she mad and should I break it off with her friend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! BFF'S BF is a creeper. POST: Advice wanted. My (37F) inclination is to do nothing at all, and that is probably what I'm going to do, but just...yuck. So, one of my closest friends (37F) has a boyfriend (45M) whom I do not like at all. I am so tired of the things he says to me (...	my best friend's boyfriend says/does inappropriate things and I'm tired of it but don't know how to talk to her about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Need help house training my 7 months old cavapoo POST: We adopted our dog (male poodle x prince charles spaniel) when he was 6 months old. We immediately started crate training him as he was not being clean in the house at first. After 2-3 weeks, things were going well, he was almost ...	Dog was doing well at house training but reverted back to old habbit of pooping/peeing inside instead of outside<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Emotional issues. POST: I don't want to make this too lengthy, but here goes. I am friends with a guy that I have had a massive crush on since last year. I met him last year in the fall when I was a freshman in college and he was a junior. We became friends and hung out regular...	Head over heels for a friend I lost my virginity to, but he has a thing for another girl. How do I get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend [23 F] of six months because of my depression, anxiety, and anger issues... even though I've been seeing a doctor. POST: I've been seeing a gal I met on OKCupid (it works, people) for about six months now and, just like most rela...	Shitty mental conditions are impeding my ability to enjoy girlfriend's company (or anything, for that matter). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M] with my[26F] pregnant wife of 8 years are on the on the verge of divorce. Because I couldn't be honest. POST: This is a throwaway account and my first time every using reddit so sorry in advance. I'm really at my wits end. So 3 months ago I had to travel out of town for 2 m...	I was a coward and instead of being honest hid txts because i believed it would be easier to let it blow over. I want to save our relationship but i can't even talk to her. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Spoiled sister is ruining her own and our lives. How do we get her on a volunteering program to show her what a really hard life is like. POST: Basically my sister is a nightmare she has spent the last 4 years making our home life miserable, stealing, lying and running up huge debts. Ser...	Sister = nightmare, my parents are about 10 mins from running away. We want her to do some 3rd world volunterring but we don't know where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are your thoughts on crediting people making the gifs we use? POST: I'm not saying we should credit folks. I realize this kind of a frivolous topic and something in my own head, but I just want to have more perspectives to chew on. I started Macro-ing & posting gifs lately in rep...	about Neil Tyson, Valve/GabeN, Rage Faces, Kittens, evy tyme, RPG, OAG, Obama, Rampart and Atheism.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sitting around naked in my room. (NSFW) POST: (I'm using a throwaway/different account for this, also male btw) This particular story takes place maybe 18 months to two years ago. During this period of my life I had just discovered how freeing it was to be naked and had been curious ...	I was naked in my room, I heard my dad call me from downstairs, I stood on and broke my glasses in surprise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: The-one-that-(might get)-away is leaving because there are no jobs for her here. POST: I am in a relationship with the love of my life and we are at a cross roads. I have one more year left to finish up my bachelors. She is graduating at the end of this semester. She is passionate about event...	Girlfriend can't find event planning job in/around Pennsylvania and it may be the death of our relationship. Please help us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] just found out my ex-girlfriend [19 F] is having sex with my former professor [28 M] whom I was extremely close to and whose class is where I met most of my friends. She is flying 2000 miles away to have sex with him again and it is all intentionally being hid from me and my ...	Ex-girlfriend is having sex with my former professor. They are intentionally deceiving me and my entire group of friends of which he is very close to. Do I confront my professor or tell anybody?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Owners of condo [M46 M36) are being terrorized by renter neighbor [F 30's]. What can we do? POST: We're owners/residents of a condo in a metropolitan area of NC. Neighbor/renter moved in about 5 months ago. We tried to make nice. Early into the "neighbor relationship", the neighbo...	We have a crazy neighbor in the condo next to ours. Have you ever had a nutzo neighbor and what did you do to resolve the situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you deal with your "First Love" being back in your life?... POST: Hey Reddit, Going to use a throwaway but I have a serious dilemma which is slightly frustrating to me. 3-4 years ago, I was at a conference for something or another and ran into this beautiful girl whom I felt inst...	Met "first love" 3 years ago, long distance didn't work, ran into her again, I'm in a GOOD relationship, feel regret about first love... Now what?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on my relationship of 4 years with my [20F] girlfriend. POST: My girlfriend of 4 years and I are in a long distance relationship. I love her, but the distance is getting hard for us. We have talked about marriage and future plans which makes this harder. I have recently...	I have a girlfriend of 4 years. Distance is hard on us. I'm starting to fall for another girl. But don't want to hurt my current girlfriends feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A guy I'm dating was physically assaulted recently. He's had trouble communicating with me. Help! POST: So I'm a 19 year old male and I met this guy at an event in another state about a month ago. He's the same age as I am. Though we live in different states, he's a great person and ...	Someone I've been dating for about a month was physically assaulted a couple weeks ago. How do I best help him and how do I give him his own space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GF (22/F) bought me (27/M) really thoughtful gifts and I didn't reciprocate. What can I do that will be special? POST: Basically, we both spent Christmas together since we were stuck far from family. But we weren't super close a that point so I didn't buy her a gift (we hadn't ...	GF gave me two amazing presents with a third incoming. I have not been able to reciprocate and am lost for ideas. Help me be thoughtful.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When is the appropriate time to ask her out? (15/M; Still new to the Dating thing) POST: Firstly, sorry if wall of text. Okay, so I'm still in High School where dating isn't really very "real", and I've been crushing on this Freshman girl (14) since school started a few months back ...	Should I ask out the girl I like now, or should I become really good friends with her, also only being of early High School age?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my ex [22 F] 6 years, she wants to remain friends and hang out still, should I? POST: So, I made a post yesterday describing my current situation: [Post is here] Please read that to get some context. Basically, my ex has done some shitty stuff to me recently, but I s...	ex wants to remain friends and hang out after 6 years, but I'm not sure. Any advice is appreciated!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Male cat urethra obstruction aftercare questions & guilt POST: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hosp...	My cat had a blocked urethra, I could only afford outpatient care and am worried that's not good enough.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to a party. POST: So this actually happened today about 2 hours ago.A buddy of mine is in a fraternity and he wanted us to show us around to his fraternity on what the college calls " thirsty thursday" a.k.a the day parties occur. So here's where the F.U starts, first we had to ...	went to a party, got into a conversation about plastics, lasted 45 mintues with it packed full of awkward/unacceptable social instances and i regret everything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: My [20F] Army boyfriend[20M] Wont talk about work & future plans POST: My boyfriend of almost a year work as a canadian reservist and he works in the office as well as doing training exercises. Before we dated I got to know him better because I wanted to join up as well because I was...	So what can I do to get him to open up more about work & future plans? I would love to be told things when he finds out so I can mentally prepare for things and learn more about what he does.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my friend [21 F]. Not sure if she's friendly or wants more POST: Hello /r/relationships A friend of mine, who I've known for a few months now has been giving me a lot of confusion about whether or not there's potential for a relationship. We met when she was going ...	Friend slept over, we cuddled; not sure how to interpret any signs she may/may not be putting out. pls help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my [21 F] 11 months together, just broke up with my girlfriend, confused about it POST: Before I begin, just want to point out this is my first post, so things will probably be incorrect or to long also this is my first girlfriend. So about a week ago, my girlfriend (n...	Me and girlfriend broke up last weekend, everything seemed fine then, she just wanted to break up with me, sad, confused, so many emotions. Any thoughts or advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Kids exposed to Leptospiriosis? POST: Okay, I can't believe I have let it come to this. My husband's grandparents live in filth. I've thought I was just being snobby or neurotic, but now I know I should have kept my son out of that house. I never said much because I really wanted to keep...	My 5 year old son was exposed repeatedly, unbeknownst to me, to leptospirosis. What do you know about this? Any advice or information would mean the world to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: About to apply for our first credit card, should I become an authorized user? POST: Hello everyone, My husband and I graduated from college in May of this year and have both been fortunate enough to get jobs in our fields pretty much right out of college. My husband took out a few...	I've never had credit history, husband and I are applying for our first credit card for either of us, should I become an authorized user or try to become a joint account holder?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can I ask my manager how much money she makes? POST: I'm not sure if this is the right sub for this question, but I have been working at a very large corporation for the last two years. This was my first fulltime job after college and I would say that I am significantly younger tha...	I work at a large corporation and am considering a move. But, I'd like to learn more about attainable salaries within my current organization. Can I ask my manager how much money she makes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/f] directly lied to my boyfriend [24/m] and he doesn't feel like he can trust anything i say anymore. what do i do? POST: We've been together for just over a year. We've worked really hard for our relationship, have had many fights and broken down our issues with each ot...	I promised to him I didn't play video games today, but he found out I did. He doesn't feel like he can trust what I say anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why Do I [21M] Always Pick Women Who Are Unfaithful? POST: This is a very broad and controversial post, but I really need advice. First, a bit about me. I'm 21, handsome, ambitious, driven, and a dreamer. I've already graduated college with a great degree, and already have a job tha...	every serious relationship i've been in has ended in me being cheated on despite me being a faithful and the farthest thing from abusive even when I date chicks who aren't my type. Why?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17F) bought a winter coat I liked. I was shocked to find out it was the same as the girl (18F) my LT boyfriend (18M) cheated on me with years ago. This isn't just about a coat. POST: I'm sorry if this doesn't really go with this sub, but I have no idea where else to put it. My boy...	Boyfriend cheated several times, and my new coat is the same as the other woman's, in a different color. Bringing back old, terrible feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] boyfriend [26 M] of six months struggles with a porn addiction. Could use some advice. POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, the longest relationship I have been in. He is one of the coolest guys I've met, we are very compatible it most aspects like sex, ...	I don't know much about porn addictions I'm just scared he could be using me for money and uses porn as a way to get by.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My girlfriend left me for another guy, I'm feeling worthless, stupid, and depressed what can I do? POST: My girlfriend (20) just left me (19) for another guy(25). This was one of those scenarios where there was one of her guy friends that I was kind of suspicious of but didn't really push...	My girlfriend of 5 years left me for another guy. how can I manage the memory of past and rebuild what I wanted in the future?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Endlessly frustrated with the gf and her general apathy... need help. POST: I am a 24/m dating a 21/f. We have been together on and off for about 3 years now and are finally getting serious and settling down in the relationship. Recently she's been exhibiting signs of Hodgkins Lympho...	I care so much for this girl that I can't let her waste away, but she insists on doing nothing but and I need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm fifteen and I've had a crush on a 16 year old for almost two years now, but about 3 months ago something happened and I thought I was done but I guess not POST: I've liked this girl (let's call her Jessica) for nearly two years and I figured eh it's just a crush it'll go away in ...	I've liked a girl for 2 years she did something, we haven't talked for 3 months, thought I didn't like here, I do, I want to apologize to become friends again. Do I or do I not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Site Coordinator Rant POST: Hi guys! So I'm planning a destination wedding (may 27, 2017) on a tiny island in the Bahamas. I'm getting pretty frustrated with the responsiveness and general lack of solid information from our site coordinator. She is the GM of the resort. Two weeks...	Site coordinator takes forever to respond. Don't know if I'm being unreasonable. Should I call her out in a nicely worded email? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [23 M] move on [19 F] her POST: * TL;DR:	Told a girl I liked her and asked her out, she said yes. She is quieter around me now than before. Is talking to her about it a terrible idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just ate dinner with my gf's family. Introduced as her "friend," not sure how to take that... POST: So I've been dating my gf for just over a year. We're both 24, she's white, I'm black, and her family is totally cool with interracial relationships. I've hung out with her immediate f...	Was introduced to girlfriend's grandma and priest as her "friend" after dating for a year, not sure how to take it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Other woman[23F] with married man [30M] with secret affair - but why does he keep risking it? POST: Cheating for over a year with a married man both with lots to lose. We both know it needs to stop but keep indulging. Sometimes I have doubts about if I want it to end because of the t...	In a secret affair. Need to understand why he keeps doing it, and what it will take for him to want to really end it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21F) am crazy into this guy (24M) who I've been hooking up with. advice please?? POST: So I'm pretty good friends with this guy and I've always thought he was extremely attractive. We have both just recently become single in the last 3 months(after 3+ yrs each) so we have been tal...	I(21F) have been hooking up with this guy(24m) and have caught feelings for him. Do i tell him or no?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Damage, repairs, and liability POST: Location: Montgomery Co., Maryland, USA Background: My girlfriend (now wife) moved into an apartment in June, 2013. It is the basement of a house in a very nice neighborhood. The owners live upstairs. The apartment has a separate entrance, and we ...	Dog tore up carpet. While fixing that, carpenter screwed up existing, good carpet. Now I'm getting billed for re-carpeting the entire room.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I've lost faith in my writing abilities. Why? Because I cannot, for the life of me, take constructive criticism. I really can't. POST: I'm in a workshop-based creative nonfiction class and I went today, as in, my work was assigned and the class read it and discussed it today. My teacher...	Had a creative nonfiction workshop class today, class read my essay, feel like I'm not a good enough writer because I only focus on the "critical" feedback and what I could've done better.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm a smart guy, but back in college, I was immature and lazy and only got a 3.2 GPA. I graduated in 2008 with a BS. I'd like to get my PhD now. Am I doomed? POST: So I graduated in 2008 with a BS in Computer Science and a minor in history. Today, I'm working as a software developer with...	I'm smart, but my grades sucked because I was lazy. I have a cushy job writing code now, but I want to go back to school. Is it possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21/f] scared I'm losing hope in relationships? POST: I've been in 2 long relationships. One was mindblowingly passionate and emotionally charged - I felt more "in love" than I ever have. BUT he treated me terribly and was emotionally abusive, so we broke up for good reason. The ...	I don't know how to be open-minded to relationships without being jaded about the entire process now that i have been either heartbroken or not as into the person as I'd like to be<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girlfriend and I split up. How can we continue talking as "friends" without actually being interested in each other? POST: So, me and now ex have split up after about 5-6 months. (Yes I know, it's short). Most of the time on a day to day basis we were always together. To get t...	girlfriend and I split up. Can we continue talking as mutual friends and how? Or what should I do to not lose talking to her as a person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] broke up with my [19F] girlfriend and I feel awful about it. Was it the right thing to do? POST: We had been together for 8 months and during this time we had our fair share of fights, mostly brought on by her being a VERY emotion person. She would over react or take a lot of...	Broke up with my girlfriend because I thought it was getting too serious and I was tired of baby sitting her emotions. Was it the right thing to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I don't mind the fact that my wife is having a scheduled C-section but partly for selfish reasons. POST: My wife is soon having our second child. I am thrilled and excited. She is a wonderful mother, a wonderful wife. She is more then I deserve. Our first child came via an emergency C-...	I am happy we have a scheduled C-section for preventing legitimate health concerns but also because my wife's lady parts will stay cute and small.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] am having a hard time accepting the fact that my GF [23F] of 2 years is going to study abroad for half a year. POST: As the title explains, my GF is leaving the country within a week for half a year. (A 12 hour flight) Not a completely unfamiliar situation for a lot of people...	GF of 2 years is leaving the country for half a year. I'm facing money issues to visit her in a country I don't even like and I'm a mental mess. How can I be happy for her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you have an idea for an EE master's thesis? POST: I'm currently in a bit of a problematic situation. We had to submit or choice for master's thesis. I got my hands on a subject related to NMR imaging. Sadly my promoter / advisor came down with a bad case of not responding to emails. B...	I'm an electronic engineering student and my master's thesis subject got cancelled and I need to come up with a new subject that has some academic value.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I (17/f) get out of going to a wedding next week with my parents. POST: So from August 7th to August 9th one of my aunts having her wedding ceremony, shes already been married since Febuary of this year they're just having the ceremony. The trip is a 4 hour drive from wher...	Don't want to attend my aunt's wedding. How should I get my parents to let me skip it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (18F) not responding to a conversation with me (21M) that she started for no reason. What could she be thinking? POST: The other day i bumped into a girl who I have had been on and off messaging for a while. Long story short we talked for 10 mins and I asked her to coffee the ne...	Crush started a conversation with me for no reason (good sign I think) but now is not replying after only two pretty pointless short messages from her. What givessss?? :)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: When Should I (28F) Tell the Guy (32M) I'm Dating That my Brother is a Convicted Pedophile? POST: Throwaway account because, well, do I need to explain? First, some history on my brother. He was convicted of viewing and downloading child porn 5 years ago in 2012. He served 6 months ...	brother is convicted pedo who still has tendencies towards ogling young girls; do I tell the guy I've been dating for 3 months yet?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Should I delete Facebook? (I apologize for this question) POST: I'm sorry, I know...Facebook, but I'm at a crossroads and am unsure how to proceed. I don't spend time on it AT ALL, I don't even have a picture and from what I see the people don't post the stupid things Reddit makes fun of it ...	Part of me is hoping to reconnect when things level out and part of me want to just take it out of the equation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my possible love interest [21 F], friends for 3 years, but having second thoughts POST: I'm sure this situation comes up quite a bit, but here's my story. I am currently in Senior year of college. I'm friends with this girl whom I have been friends with since Junior y...	Semi-close friend of a few years started showing attraction to me, not sure if I'm interested and don't want to upset her feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I'm secretly spiteful and relish my revenge fantasies. POST: On the outside I'm the calm, relaxed, easy going guy who cracks a few jokes now and then. I make jokes out of everything (probably a coping mechanism) and never seem to take anything too seriously. I'm the last guy the people I know...	I'm filled with spite towards certain people, and constantly find myself playing out revenge fantasies in my head. Scared that a part of me wants to live one out for real.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [30m] and [28f] why does it feel she has gone cold POST: I recently went out with a colleague for drinks, we had a great time talking, flirting and at the end of the night kissed. I was staying at hers and we spent the day on the couch cuddling and taking turns to fall asleep whils...	went for drinks with colleague, kissed and spent following day together cuddling, had a few texts that night, but we haven't spoken since. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 2 months of what I[23f] thought was casual dating, guy[24m] shows signs I interpret as clingy and rushing. Help me sort myself out? POST: I started getting friendly with my girlfriend's friends from home after we graduated college (we went to college locally so we live about ha...	Thought I was casually dating a guy, but his "clingy" actions tell me otherwise and it's scaring me away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Professor's Cube Parity Error (5x5x5) POST: I know a thing or two about rubix cubes. I did start out by learning the algorithms for the 3x3, but i said f that and decided to figure out what the algorithms actually do. Worked out great and was actually able to traslate that knowledge to s...	I'm trying to see if anyone knows how to avoid the parity errors for 5x5x5 rubix cubes.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 M] parents [50s M/F] won't let my sister [25 F] take her boyfriend [26 M] to their house. He has been there a few times before and they think he's bad for her. Is the request valid? POST: My sister and her boyfriend have been together for a year now. She has had other boyfrien...	Parents wont let my sister bring her boyfriend to their house because my dad gets uncomfortable seeing him. They think he's not good for her. Is this a valid request?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can I turn my tax return into a profit? POST: The title of this post pretty much explains what I'm asking but I'll throw a little bit of my life story in here as well. To start off, my tax return wasn't nearly as much as I'd thought it be this year. I'm guessing that's due to the w...	Tax return wasn't as much as I'd thought it would be, fines due April 21st and I'm stressing about money. I need ideas to turn my return into a profit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my ex boyfriend [30 M] has never seen a future with me but considers me his best friend, is attracted to me, and always wants to cuddle after casual sex POST: wtf? together for over a year, I was his first everything. he claims he loved me and still cares about me (we...	Acts like he's my boyfriend when he's around me, says I'm his best friend but there's no future with me, and actively seeks other relationships only when I come back into his life. explanation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22, M] with my boyfriend [20, M] of one year broke up on my birthday. POST: This morning at about 12 AM, my boyfriend calls me, begins to cry and say he can't do it anymore. November 3rd would be a year. He says that I'm a good person, just that it feels distant and that he has d...	My boyfriend of nearly a year broke up with me on my birthday and a day before the year of us going out. How should I feel?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] am losing interest in GF [23 F] of 8 months, but do I have a larger problem of serially losing interest? POST: So I seem to be losing interest in my gf. I love her a lot, but the romantic spark doesn't seem to be there. It's quite strange though. I basically become obsessed ...	Losing interest, maybe it's because she's not sexy, maybe I'm Hitler. I get obsessed about interesting girls and their lives, but once I learn almost everything I get bored of them. Seems to happen often.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by opening Notepad POST: So I'm in year nine, first period multimedia. We're supposed to be finishing off some video, which I have already completed. So since it's gonna be another do-nothing lesson, I plug in my USB and start messing around with some lame scripts I made (editing especia...	Opened script with notepad, teacher saw and sent my USB off to the IT dudes to analyze. USB had some dodgy looking stuff on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] mother [50sF] doesn't like my gf [23F], am I dealing with this in the right way? POST: Basic info: We've been dating for over 2 years, and we both live with our parents. Let's say my girlfriend's name is Mary. My mother has narcissistic tendencies, and I've learned eventual...	Mother badmouths gf every time she comes up in conversation, and I just ignore it because it's the less troublesome way of dealing with it right now. Am I in the wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Young inexperienced and recently got a girlfriend, in need of assistance in controlling my feelings... POST: Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy who's recently got into a relationship, right now things are going pretty good, however I am sadly one of those people who can suddenly flip from bei...	In a new relationship, having sudden bursts of clingyness/neediness, in need of a few tips on how to control them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Credit Report Help - Rapid Repair POST: Hi, This is my first reddit post and I am in need of some communal advice/assistance. I'm starting a new job and I'm looking for apartments for myself, my wife and our 2 children to move in to. We've had issues before where a credit check ha...	$2000-$3000 Negative Accounts on Credit Report, In need of rapid repair to apply for apartment rentals this Spring.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Expressing my(27m) true feelings hurt hers(26f) POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now and it is my best relationship I every had. I truly like her and see a future with us together. I have never before got that feeling of "we will be together our whole li...	Its bothering me that i cant talk about this without hurting her, on the other hand i dont want to take her feeling away from her!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20 F] considering cheating on my girlfriend [21 F] of 2 years. POST: I have been dating my gf for almost two years now. We are planning on getting engaged over this winter. I am absolutely head-over-heels in love with her and couldn't imagine my life without her. Our sex is grea...	Do I have a one night fling and risk losing my S/O, or go the rest of my life not knowing what it's like having sex with a man?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the biggest/or most long term lie you have ever told? POST: So mine isn't too bad, but I know I'll have to keep it up for at least another 5 years if I don't want any repercussions for what I did. My friend invited me to go see musical comedian Bo Burnham last spring. Her and I ...	I stole over 80 dollars from my parents and lied to them about going to see Bo Burnham live and have to continue lying about it to this day. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [f18]&[m18] - Why a fight over speed limits on motorways could break up my relationship POST: Hi reddit, yesterday, my boyfriend of two months and I had a fight. It wasn't a discussion, we really fought and in the end he was mad at me and didn't speak to me for about half an hour, ...	My bf gets mad at me when we discuss about stupid issues and calls me self-opinionated and evil. He also expressed that he might leave me over a fight like that. WHAT DO<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Car+Ditch+Boulders POST: So this morning on my way to school taking a shortcut through a neighborhood where the roads had not been salted what so ever, and it it was pretty icy out, I was driving as slowly and carefully as I could. Turning the corner the car start slipping and went right...	My car slipped off the road in to a ditch, owners of the home had boulders there and damaged my car, can I sue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Fuck "Look at me now, bitch" - anyone have a good story about being bullied, only to have the bully apologize later on in life, to which you accepted and forgave? POST: I never got bullied in school, however once I was rounded up by a buch of guys on a beach when I was a teenager tauntin...	Got cornered by a group, walked away as too many to fight, ring leader comes to me 10 years later and apologizes in bar, we drink, laugh and play foozball.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [27m] am having a hard time with GF [24f] lack of cleaning habits POST: Been dating my 24f girlfriend for about 9 months, and now that she owns her own home she's constantly wanting me to come there, so I'm spending much more time at her house than ever before. Here's the t...	My gf is extremely messy and makes piles around the house, rather than cleaning. Only cleans when there's no room left in kitchen and has to. How do I address her lack of general cleaning or upkeep without being too rude?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Uh, hey guys, the wedding is postponed (rant) POST: So a little back story, my fiance and I have been together over 4 years now but we've know each other much longer. We've been engaged about a year and we bought a house together a couple months back. He has a well paying job and ...	my FH refuses to help me pay for the wedding and now I have to tell everyone it's been postponed indefinitely.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm leaving for one month, how do I manage my relationship with GF from 7500 miles away? POST: First off I'm not sure if this would be the right subreddit. I was going to post on r/LongDistance but it doesn't seem like too many people are active on there, and I need a rather quick re...	going on vacation 7500 miles away for one month. worried about being able to communicate with gf. any tips?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Not sure to either keep or quit my current part-time job POST: I have recently went through a painful emotional and slightly physical experience that I only had at least 1 day to recover. I managed to recover physically after going to the hospital. However, my emotions still felt...	Been through a painful experience and it is still affecting me now. Don't want to drag down the store but not sure whether I should keep it or not since it is a wonderful job.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [30M] dating for a year, he was previously engaged and has never told me. POST: Been together with my SO for a year now. I find myself in a slightly odd situation and I don't know if this is something I should bring up or feel concerned over. Due to social...	Boyfriend was previously engaged right before I met him but has never told me he was. Should I be concerned about this? Should I just tell him I know?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 4 months, told her I love her and I feel it was the worst time to do so POST: I have been with this wonderful woman for four months (known her for a little over a year), and over the course of our relationship I have come to know that I convincingl...	I told my girlfriend that I love her, but neither of us were completely sober, and now I'm worried she doesn't believe me and that I've cheapened what my feelings mean to her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (19/f) Having anxiety about my relationship with my bf (19) *again How do I stop this? POST: Last year our relationship was a roller coaster, I was diagnosed with depression/anxiety, so I had to deal with that, I lost about 10kg last year because I kept getting sick and wasn't ...	Having anxiety/trust issues with my bf, afraid they'll ruin our relationship again, how do I stop it and calm down<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Me 27f, Him 31m] Boyfriend won't work out and it is starting to affect our relationship…am I asking too much? POST: I've been with my boyfriend for six years but we have been having problems for the last year. I bring up our issues often and think of ways to work on them but they a...	In a long term relationship. Having multiple issues including dead bedroom and I want my S0 to get in shape because I think it would help. He refuses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend that I've been dating for 6 months goes through my phone and browsing history. POST: Everything has been going great up until about 3 weeks ago. I always keep my phone under my pillow to wake me up in the morning. Well one night I wake up in the middle of the night, r...	caught bf looking through my browsing history. asked him why and he brushes it off. Is this a red flag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Breaking up strategies for me [26 M] to end my 2 year relationship with my SO [30 F] POST: So I've been with my girlfriend 2 years and things have been fine. No major arguments etc. But after the first 7 or 8 months I gradually lost my physical attraction to her to where now I find r...	are there any ways I can end this thing without making her feel like she did something wrong? I want to minimize the hurt basically.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] my [20/f] is lying to me, possibly cheating POST: to premise.. ive been in a few relationships where ive been emotionally and physically cheated on. we've been together for 5 months. we spend pretty much every day together but there have been quite a few night recently ...	this guy is either hooking up with my girlfriend, or threatening to kill himself to keep her in his life. and i blew up about the whole thing<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] Should I end my turbulent relationship with my girl [18/f]? POST: So this girl is stuck between me and her bf [21/m], and she can't make up her mind. Over the last few months we've become very close but I've never been able to trust her, especially since she can't get th...	Should I look past all her issues while she's having a hard time, even though they're hurting me, or should I focus on self-preservation and let her go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Grandpa passed away two days ago, and left with, "Love is the difference" as his final words. I can't stop thinking about it. Any deep thinkers feel like weighing in? POST: Not trying to be corny, but it's Father's Day, and I'm feeling a little sentimental. To start- He was a very cool ...	Grandpa died on Friday. Our last conversation, he repeated the phrase "Love is the difference" over and over. Interpretations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Had a one night stand 8 months ago... never stopped thinking about him, he's suddenly contact me! POST: So I was thinking about him again last week for some reason unknown to me, and I threw his name into google and his linkedin popped up! So I was perusing and a day later I ha...	Thinking about my ONS 8 months later, find his linkedin, he adds me the next day with a message. Exchange some messages, thinking about adding him on facebook, unsure of how to navigate without being creepy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking an Earthquake just hit. POST: This actually happened last year, but I was reminded of it today. I'll set the scene: at the time, I was working in a call center so we all sat on long bangs about 10 across with another bank directly in front facing and one behind, and so on in...	I asked everyone if they felt the the earthquake, when it was actually a rather large woman who I made cry as a result.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having [17F] dreams about someone other than my BF [19M]? POST: So I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. My biggest fear with him is that when I go to college far from his college, by dating him I'll miss the person I'm "meant to be with". I'm not saying I don't love ...	Having nonsexual dreams about a budding romance with someone who's not my boyfriend. Does this say something about my relationship or is it an insignificant result of my subconscious?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think my friends is trying to cock-block me in the worst way possible. POST: I've been chatting up this girl i met from an internship for around a month now, and I mentioned her, in conversation, to a few of my friends from school. I think this may have been a mistake however...	I suspect that one of my friends is knowingly trying to get with the girl i like what should i do, confront him directly or just ignore the situation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is the best joke you've came up with that nobody got? POST: What is the best joke (or what you thought was) that you've came up with and left in silence? I was out doing errands today and remembered that I needed some Drain-O, and while I was at the store got som...	I bought Drain-O and some iced tea mix and mentioned making a mixed drink out of them, no response from my audience of one<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my [15 F] friend. I'm confused and apprehensive. More details in post POST: So I've known this girl for almost 2 years now, and its been really weird. She's quirky and we share a lot of interests and stuff, but I mean its just bizarre. We ended up in second year spanis...	Girl I've known for a while hurt me a while ago, might be falling for her again, not sure. Need some guidance<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24F) am very confused about whether my friend (33M) is interested in me romantically. Help! POST: I've been hanging out with this guy who does the same postgrad course as me for about a month now. It started when I asked him if he wanted to get drinks at some point because I was n...	Been hanging out with an guy on my college course for about a month; I'm really attracted to him but can't tell if he likes me the same way. Looking for advice on how to move forward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18] keep on getting jealous when my girlfriend [18] hangs out with other guys. POST: Hey guys, My[18] girlfriend [18] have already been together for about a year. She's a really open person, and i'm quite shy and silent. She's really awesome, but there's always one thing that bug...	My girlfriend keeps on doing things with other guys and to other guys that I feel aren't really appropriate. Communicated this many times, but it keeps happening Am I in the wrong and being a jerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [mid 20sM] girlfriend's [mid 20sF] mother thinks I'm not tall enough and not good-looking enough, keeps urging her to break up with me. POST: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years and have known her half my life, we love each other very much. However, nothin...	Girlfriend's mother tells her to break up with me everyday because I'm not good looking and not as tall as she wants me to be. How do you reason with the unreasonable?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (M24) being paranoid or is she (24) acting strangely. POST: We've been dating for 8 years. So I don't know if this is just me being a little paranoid or if I am in the right here. My girlfriend started working at a new job about 5 months ago where she ran into an old male friend...	Girlfriend gets close with co-worker, goes out with him without me knowing, than gets snappy when its brought up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] new roommate [18F] has bulimia and throws up everywhere. What to do? POST: So I [20F] live in University housing, in a building comprised of three bedroom apartments. 4 weeks ago I finally transfered out of my old apartment away from my moderately messy old roommates. I was ...	got a new, university assigned bulimic roommate. Throws up everywhere. It's gross and I don't want to deal. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18F] with [18M] 5 Months, loves her boyfriend to death, but is afraid of the relationship setting her back from exploring the world. POST: Hello, I am making this post for my female friend. She has been in a relationship with this great guy for about 5 months. Now they were b...	Female friend loves her boyfriend, but is afraid of him holding her back from doing the things she wants to do in her young years.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [24] and I [27] are going on a holiday with friends - 2 of the friends (both single) [F,25 & F,28] have decided to take the double bed - leaving us with 2 single beds - what should we do? POST: My wife [24] and I [27] are going on a holiday next week to a beach location with ...	Two of our single friends have taken the double bed in a hotel, and left us with 2 single beds. We are suprised, and don't know what to do. Please help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My BF uses Porn for Jacking off, Can someone explain and dissipate my fears? (repost from r/askreddit) POST: My BF and I have been together for a little over 6 months, we used to see each other every day or every other day so having regular sexytimes was not difficult BUT now because...	My BF uses porn for his personal sexy times and bothers me, someone please explain so I no longer have fears of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my classmate/acquaintance [20 F] 3 months, following a longterm relationship where do i go from here? POST: So let's start with the basics, I recently split with my girlfriend of 3 years, I left her because I saw that we had different goals in the relationship and were...	broke up with a long term girlfriend, now interested in an attractive classmate with similar hobbies, dont know how to talk to people im interested. I Would love some advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22/F] am falling for my good friend [23/M] but I am not sure he's even romantically interested in girls... What should I do? POST: Backstory: We have known each other for about 2 years, and go to school together (same major). I had actually originally thought he liked me a bit ba...	Starting to have romantic feelings for my friend who is ostensibly gay but has told me he is gay-leaning bi... How to proceed without ruining our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] am seeing my ex-gf's [27 F] friend post break up. Advice? POST: Me[28M] and my ex-gf [27F] dated for 6 years. We hard a few rough patches and breaks. A few months ago she leaves me for another guy. At first I try and convince her to reconsider and that we can work this out. ...	Girlfriend leaves me for another guy. I begin seeing her friend. She calls me the devil. Why is she mad and should I break it off with her friend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! BFF'S BF is a creeper. POST: Advice wanted. My (37F) inclination is to do nothing at all, and that is probably what I'm going to do, but just...yuck. So, one of my closest friends (37F) has a boyfriend (45M) whom I do not like at all. I am so tired of the things he says to me (...	my best friend's boyfriend says/does inappropriate things and I'm tired of it but don't know how to talk to her about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Need help house training my 7 months old cavapoo POST: We adopted our dog (male poodle x prince charles spaniel) when he was 6 months old. We immediately started crate training him as he was not being clean in the house at first. After 2-3 weeks, things were going well, he was almost ...	Dog was doing well at house training but reverted back to old habbit of pooping/peeing inside instead of outside<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Emotional issues. POST: I don't want to make this too lengthy, but here goes. I am friends with a guy that I have had a massive crush on since last year. I met him last year in the fall when I was a freshman in college and he was a junior. We became friends and hung out regular...	Head over heels for a friend I lost my virginity to, but he has a thing for another girl. How do I get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend [23 F] of six months because of my depression, anxiety, and anger issues... even though I've been seeing a doctor. POST: I've been seeing a gal I met on OKCupid (it works, people) for about six months now and, just like most rela...	Shitty mental conditions are impeding my ability to enjoy girlfriend's company (or anything, for that matter). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M] with my[26F] pregnant wife of 8 years are on the on the verge of divorce. Because I couldn't be honest. POST: This is a throwaway account and my first time every using reddit so sorry in advance. I'm really at my wits end. So 3 months ago I had to travel out of town for 2 m...	I was a coward and instead of being honest hid txts because i believed it would be easier to let it blow over. I want to save our relationship but i can't even talk to her. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Spoiled sister is ruining her own and our lives. How do we get her on a volunteering program to show her what a really hard life is like. POST: Basically my sister is a nightmare she has spent the last 4 years making our home life miserable, stealing, lying and running up huge debts. Ser...	Sister = nightmare, my parents are about 10 mins from running away. We want her to do some 3rd world volunterring but we don't know where to start.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are your thoughts on crediting people making the gifs we use? POST: I'm not saying we should credit folks. I realize this kind of a frivolous topic and something in my own head, but I just want to have more perspectives to chew on. I started Macro-ing & posting gifs lately in rep...	about Neil Tyson, Valve/GabeN, Rage Faces, Kittens, evy tyme, RPG, OAG, Obama, Rampart and Atheism.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sitting around naked in my room. (NSFW) POST: (I'm using a throwaway/different account for this, also male btw) This particular story takes place maybe 18 months to two years ago. During this period of my life I had just discovered how freeing it was to be naked and had been curious ...	I was naked in my room, I heard my dad call me from downstairs, I stood on and broke my glasses in surprise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: The-one-that-(might get)-away is leaving because there are no jobs for her here. POST: I am in a relationship with the love of my life and we are at a cross roads. I have one more year left to finish up my bachelors. She is graduating at the end of this semester. She is passionate about event...	Girlfriend can't find event planning job in/around Pennsylvania and it may be the death of our relationship. Please help us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] just found out my ex-girlfriend [19 F] is having sex with my former professor [28 M] whom I was extremely close to and whose class is where I met most of my friends. She is flying 2000 miles away to have sex with him again and it is all intentionally being hid from me and my ...	Ex-girlfriend is having sex with my former professor. They are intentionally deceiving me and my entire group of friends of which he is very close to. Do I confront my professor or tell anybody?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Owners of condo [M46 M36) are being terrorized by renter neighbor [F 30's]. What can we do? POST: We're owners/residents of a condo in a metropolitan area of NC. Neighbor/renter moved in about 5 months ago. We tried to make nice. Early into the "neighbor relationship", the neighbo...	We have a crazy neighbor in the condo next to ours. Have you ever had a nutzo neighbor and what did you do to resolve the situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you deal with your "First Love" being back in your life?... POST: Hey Reddit, Going to use a throwaway but I have a serious dilemma which is slightly frustrating to me. 3-4 years ago, I was at a conference for something or another and ran into this beautiful girl whom I felt inst...	Met "first love" 3 years ago, long distance didn't work, ran into her again, I'm in a GOOD relationship, feel regret about first love... Now what?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need advice on my relationship of 4 years with my [20F] girlfriend. POST: My girlfriend of 4 years and I are in a long distance relationship. I love her, but the distance is getting hard for us. We have talked about marriage and future plans which makes this harder. I have recently...	I have a girlfriend of 4 years. Distance is hard on us. I'm starting to fall for another girl. But don't want to hurt my current girlfriends feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A guy I'm dating was physically assaulted recently. He's had trouble communicating with me. Help! POST: So I'm a 19 year old male and I met this guy at an event in another state about a month ago. He's the same age as I am. Though we live in different states, he's a great person and ...	Someone I've been dating for about a month was physically assaulted a couple weeks ago. How do I best help him and how do I give him his own space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GF (22/F) bought me (27/M) really thoughtful gifts and I didn't reciprocate. What can I do that will be special? POST: Basically, we both spent Christmas together since we were stuck far from family. But we weren't super close a that point so I didn't buy her a gift (we hadn't ...	GF gave me two amazing presents with a third incoming. I have not been able to reciprocate and am lost for ideas. Help me be thoughtful.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When is the appropriate time to ask her out? (15/M; Still new to the Dating thing) POST: Firstly, sorry if wall of text. Okay, so I'm still in High School where dating isn't really very "real", and I've been crushing on this Freshman girl (14) since school started a few months back ...	Should I ask out the girl I like now, or should I become really good friends with her, also only being of early High School age?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my ex [22 F] 6 years, she wants to remain friends and hang out still, should I? POST: So, I made a post yesterday describing my current situation: [Post is here] Please read that to get some context. Basically, my ex has done some shitty stuff to me recently, but I s...	ex wants to remain friends and hang out after 6 years, but I'm not sure. Any advice is appreciated!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Male cat urethra obstruction aftercare questions & guilt POST: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hosp...	My cat had a blocked urethra, I could only afford outpatient care and am worried that's not good enough.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to a party. POST: So this actually happened today about 2 hours ago.A buddy of mine is in a fraternity and he wanted us to show us around to his fraternity on what the college calls " thirsty thursday" a.k.a the day parties occur. So here's where the F.U starts, first we had to ...	went to a party, got into a conversation about plastics, lasted 45 mintues with it packed full of awkward/unacceptable social instances and i regret everything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: My [20F] Army boyfriend[20M] Wont talk about work & future plans POST: My boyfriend of almost a year work as a canadian reservist and he works in the office as well as doing training exercises. Before we dated I got to know him better because I wanted to join up as well because I was...	So what can I do to get him to open up more about work & future plans? I would love to be told things when he finds out so I can mentally prepare for things and learn more about what he does.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my friend [21 F]. Not sure if she's friendly or wants more POST: Hello /r/relationships A friend of mine, who I've known for a few months now has been giving me a lot of confusion about whether or not there's potential for a relationship. We met when she was going ...	Friend slept over, we cuddled; not sure how to interpret any signs she may/may not be putting out. pls help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my [21 F] 11 months together, just broke up with my girlfriend, confused about it POST: Before I begin, just want to point out this is my first post, so things will probably be incorrect or to long also this is my first girlfriend. So about a week ago, my girlfriend (n...	Me and girlfriend broke up last weekend, everything seemed fine then, she just wanted to break up with me, sad, confused, so many emotions. Any thoughts or advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Kids exposed to Leptospiriosis? POST: Okay, I can't believe I have let it come to this. My husband's grandparents live in filth. I've thought I was just being snobby or neurotic, but now I know I should have kept my son out of that house. I never said much because I really wanted to keep...	My 5 year old son was exposed repeatedly, unbeknownst to me, to leptospirosis. What do you know about this? Any advice or information would mean the world to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: About to apply for our first credit card, should I become an authorized user? POST: Hello everyone, My husband and I graduated from college in May of this year and have both been fortunate enough to get jobs in our fields pretty much right out of college. My husband took out a few...	I've never had credit history, husband and I are applying for our first credit card for either of us, should I become an authorized user or try to become a joint account holder?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can I ask my manager how much money she makes? POST: I'm not sure if this is the right sub for this question, but I have been working at a very large corporation for the last two years. This was my first fulltime job after college and I would say that I am significantly younger tha...	I work at a large corporation and am considering a move. But, I'd like to learn more about attainable salaries within my current organization. Can I ask my manager how much money she makes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/f] directly lied to my boyfriend [24/m] and he doesn't feel like he can trust anything i say anymore. what do i do? POST: We've been together for just over a year. We've worked really hard for our relationship, have had many fights and broken down our issues with each ot...	I promised to him I didn't play video games today, but he found out I did. He doesn't feel like he can trust what I say anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why Do I [21M] Always Pick Women Who Are Unfaithful? POST: This is a very broad and controversial post, but I really need advice. First, a bit about me. I'm 21, handsome, ambitious, driven, and a dreamer. I've already graduated college with a great degree, and already have a job tha...	every serious relationship i've been in has ended in me being cheated on despite me being a faithful and the farthest thing from abusive even when I date chicks who aren't my type. Why?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (17F) bought a winter coat I liked. I was shocked to find out it was the same as the girl (18F) my LT boyfriend (18M) cheated on me with years ago. This isn't just about a coat. POST: I'm sorry if this doesn't really go with this sub, but I have no idea where else to put it. My boy...	Boyfriend cheated several times, and my new coat is the same as the other woman's, in a different color. Bringing back old, terrible feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] boyfriend [26 M] of six months struggles with a porn addiction. Could use some advice. POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, the longest relationship I have been in. He is one of the coolest guys I've met, we are very compatible it most aspects like sex, ...	I don't know much about porn addictions I'm just scared he could be using me for money and uses porn as a way to get by.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My girlfriend left me for another guy, I'm feeling worthless, stupid, and depressed what can I do? POST: My girlfriend (20) just left me (19) for another guy(25). This was one of those scenarios where there was one of her guy friends that I was kind of suspicious of but didn't really push...	My girlfriend of 5 years left me for another guy. how can I manage the memory of past and rebuild what I wanted in the future?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Endlessly frustrated with the gf and her general apathy... need help. POST: I am a 24/m dating a 21/f. We have been together on and off for about 3 years now and are finally getting serious and settling down in the relationship. Recently she's been exhibiting signs of Hodgkins Lympho...	I care so much for this girl that I can't let her waste away, but she insists on doing nothing but and I need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm fifteen and I've had a crush on a 16 year old for almost two years now, but about 3 months ago something happened and I thought I was done but I guess not POST: I've liked this girl (let's call her Jessica) for nearly two years and I figured eh it's just a crush it'll go away in ...	I've liked a girl for 2 years she did something, we haven't talked for 3 months, thought I didn't like here, I do, I want to apologize to become friends again. Do I or do I not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Site Coordinator Rant POST: Hi guys! So I'm planning a destination wedding (may 27, 2017) on a tiny island in the Bahamas. I'm getting pretty frustrated with the responsiveness and general lack of solid information from our site coordinator. She is the GM of the resort. Two weeks...	Site coordinator takes forever to respond. Don't know if I'm being unreasonable. Should I call her out in a nicely worded email? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [23 M] move on [19 F] her POST: * TL;DR:	Told a girl I liked her and asked her out, she said yes. She is quieter around me now than before. Is talking to her about it a terrible idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just ate dinner with my gf's family. Introduced as her "friend," not sure how to take that... POST: So I've been dating my gf for just over a year. We're both 24, she's white, I'm black, and her family is totally cool with interracial relationships. I've hung out with her immediate f...	Was introduced to girlfriend's grandma and priest as her "friend" after dating for a year, not sure how to take it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Other woman[23F] with married man [30M] with secret affair - but why does he keep risking it? POST: Cheating for over a year with a married man both with lots to lose. We both know it needs to stop but keep indulging. Sometimes I have doubts about if I want it to end because of the t...	In a secret affair. Need to understand why he keeps doing it, and what it will take for him to want to really end it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21F) am crazy into this guy (24M) who I've been hooking up with. advice please?? POST: So I'm pretty good friends with this guy and I've always thought he was extremely attractive. We have both just recently become single in the last 3 months(after 3+ yrs each) so we have been tal...	I(21F) have been hooking up with this guy(24m) and have caught feelings for him. Do i tell him or no?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Damage, repairs, and liability POST: Location: Montgomery Co., Maryland, USA Background: My girlfriend (now wife) moved into an apartment in June, 2013. It is the basement of a house in a very nice neighborhood. The owners live upstairs. The apartment has a separate entrance, and we ...	Dog tore up carpet. While fixing that, carpenter screwed up existing, good carpet. Now I'm getting billed for re-carpeting the entire room.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I've lost faith in my writing abilities. Why? Because I cannot, for the life of me, take constructive criticism. I really can't. POST: I'm in a workshop-based creative nonfiction class and I went today, as in, my work was assigned and the class read it and discussed it today. My teacher...	Had a creative nonfiction workshop class today, class read my essay, feel like I'm not a good enough writer because I only focus on the "critical" feedback and what I could've done better.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm a smart guy, but back in college, I was immature and lazy and only got a 3.2 GPA. I graduated in 2008 with a BS. I'd like to get my PhD now. Am I doomed? POST: So I graduated in 2008 with a BS in Computer Science and a minor in history. Today, I'm working as a software developer with...	I'm smart, but my grades sucked because I was lazy. I have a cushy job writing code now, but I want to go back to school. Is it possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21/f] scared I'm losing hope in relationships? POST: I've been in 2 long relationships. One was mindblowingly passionate and emotionally charged - I felt more "in love" than I ever have. BUT he treated me terribly and was emotionally abusive, so we broke up for good reason. The ...	I don't know how to be open-minded to relationships without being jaded about the entire process now that i have been either heartbroken or not as into the person as I'd like to be<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Girlfriend and I split up. How can we continue talking as "friends" without actually being interested in each other? POST: So, me and now ex have split up after about 5-6 months. (Yes I know, it's short). Most of the time on a day to day basis we were always together. To get t...	girlfriend and I split up. Can we continue talking as mutual friends and how? Or what should I do to not lose talking to her as a person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] broke up with my [19F] girlfriend and I feel awful about it. Was it the right thing to do? POST: We had been together for 8 months and during this time we had our fair share of fights, mostly brought on by her being a VERY emotion person. She would over react or take a lot of...	Broke up with my girlfriend because I thought it was getting too serious and I was tired of baby sitting her emotions. Was it the right thing to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I don't mind the fact that my wife is having a scheduled C-section but partly for selfish reasons. POST: My wife is soon having our second child. I am thrilled and excited. She is a wonderful mother, a wonderful wife. She is more then I deserve. Our first child came via an emergency C-...	I am happy we have a scheduled C-section for preventing legitimate health concerns but also because my wife's lady parts will stay cute and small.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] am having a hard time accepting the fact that my GF [23F] of 2 years is going to study abroad for half a year. POST: As the title explains, my GF is leaving the country within a week for half a year. (A 12 hour flight) Not a completely unfamiliar situation for a lot of people...	GF of 2 years is leaving the country for half a year. I'm facing money issues to visit her in a country I don't even like and I'm a mental mess. How can I be happy for her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do you have an idea for an EE master's thesis? POST: I'm currently in a bit of a problematic situation. We had to submit or choice for master's thesis. I got my hands on a subject related to NMR imaging. Sadly my promoter / advisor came down with a bad case of not responding to emails. B...	I'm an electronic engineering student and my master's thesis subject got cancelled and I need to come up with a new subject that has some academic value.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I (17/f) get out of going to a wedding next week with my parents. POST: So from August 7th to August 9th one of my aunts having her wedding ceremony, shes already been married since Febuary of this year they're just having the ceremony. The trip is a 4 hour drive from wher...	Don't want to attend my aunt's wedding. How should I get my parents to let me skip it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (18F) not responding to a conversation with me (21M) that she started for no reason. What could she be thinking? POST: The other day i bumped into a girl who I have had been on and off messaging for a while. Long story short we talked for 10 mins and I asked her to coffee the ne...	Crush started a conversation with me for no reason (good sign I think) but now is not replying after only two pretty pointless short messages from her. What givessss?? :)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: When Should I (28F) Tell the Guy (32M) I'm Dating That my Brother is a Convicted Pedophile? POST: Throwaway account because, well, do I need to explain? First, some history on my brother. He was convicted of viewing and downloading child porn 5 years ago in 2012. He served 6 months ...	brother is convicted pedo who still has tendencies towards ogling young girls; do I tell the guy I've been dating for 3 months yet?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Should I delete Facebook? (I apologize for this question) POST: I'm sorry, I know...Facebook, but I'm at a crossroads and am unsure how to proceed. I don't spend time on it AT ALL, I don't even have a picture and from what I see the people don't post the stupid things Reddit makes fun of it ...	Part of me is hoping to reconnect when things level out and part of me want to just take it out of the equation.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my possible love interest [21 F], friends for 3 years, but having second thoughts POST: I'm sure this situation comes up quite a bit, but here's my story. I am currently in Senior year of college. I'm friends with this girl whom I have been friends with since Junior y...	Semi-close friend of a few years started showing attraction to me, not sure if I'm interested and don't want to upset her feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I'm secretly spiteful and relish my revenge fantasies. POST: On the outside I'm the calm, relaxed, easy going guy who cracks a few jokes now and then. I make jokes out of everything (probably a coping mechanism) and never seem to take anything too seriously. I'm the last guy the people I know...	I'm filled with spite towards certain people, and constantly find myself playing out revenge fantasies in my head. Scared that a part of me wants to live one out for real.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [30m] and [28f] why does it feel she has gone cold POST: I recently went out with a colleague for drinks, we had a great time talking, flirting and at the end of the night kissed. I was staying at hers and we spent the day on the couch cuddling and taking turns to fall asleep whils...	went for drinks with colleague, kissed and spent following day together cuddling, had a few texts that night, but we haven't spoken since. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 2 months of what I[23f] thought was casual dating, guy[24m] shows signs I interpret as clingy and rushing. Help me sort myself out? POST: I started getting friendly with my girlfriend's friends from home after we graduated college (we went to college locally so we live about ha...	Thought I was casually dating a guy, but his "clingy" actions tell me otherwise and it's scaring me away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Professor's Cube Parity Error (5x5x5) POST: I know a thing or two about rubix cubes. I did start out by learning the algorithms for the 3x3, but i said f that and decided to figure out what the algorithms actually do. Worked out great and was actually able to traslate that knowledge to s...	I'm trying to see if anyone knows how to avoid the parity errors for 5x5x5 rubix cubes.<\|endoftext\|>