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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my ex [21 M] we dated for 5 yrs on and off, feeling jealous and wanting to move on. POST: My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for a year now, going to be two in May. We broke it off because of a silly reason due to a terrible friend we had. Also he was the first ...
Ex bf got a new gf I'm feeling a little jealous im not sure how to move on, i am currently seeing someone but he doesnt know how to talk to me about this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: me (19F) with my boyfriend (19M). I can't control my feelings of jealousy because his sister is going to my dream school that I couldn't go to because it was so expensive. POST: So here's the deal: my boyfriend and I have been long distance for a year, together about 2 (we were high ...
BF's sister got into my dream college (i couldn't go bc I couldn't afford it.) he keeps talking about it. I want to kill him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my crush [17F]. Got friendzoned, best way to get over her? POST: So basically I've liked this girl since early December and she has known since mid Decemberish. About mid January we started properly speaking and at the beginning of February I took her on our first date ...
Didn't see crush for 2 weeks, come back and I've basically been friendzoned. Need advice on moving on quick as I have exams in 2 months!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How soon is too soon to say I love you? POST: So I've been dating this guy he's 35 really loving, caring, and thoughtful but it's only been a month since we started dating. Heres the back storey i met him through ok cupid i normally dont go on those site however my cousin signed me u...
Aaron said I love you 1 month into the relationship. Can I continue the relationship without saying it back? What to do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: 3m old going through Ponseti casting for clubfoot. HELP!? POST: Has anyone else gone through this? He started his treatment a little late, so every time he tries to move his leg and realizes he can't, he flips out. This results in TONS of crying, and him being overtired because he isn't...
3month old in a leg cast for the next six weeks and won't stop crying. How do I help him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 27 M with my ex 22F of 2 months, we broke up about 4 months ago. Is she trying to get back with me? POST: Earlier this year I was dating a girl and two months into the relationship I found out that she was still sleeping with her FWB. She lied to me couple times that she was hangi...
Broke up with ex 4 months ago. She leaves a voicemail apologizing for sleeping with another guy while we were dating. Not sure why. Should I give her another chance even though the trust is gone?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV:Changing The World POST: One person at a time. Yesterday, /u/LunarRarity posted about how she had inspired a friend to start seeking a healthier lifestyle. I thought that was really excellent, and an awesome testament to the domino effect that we can have by taking control of our own ...
Do what you are doing. Share what you are doing. You can have more of an affect than you could ever realize on the people who are in your life.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Worried that religion will affect my [21M] and my girlfriend's [22F] serious relationship of 2.5 years POST: The story of my girlfriend and I is a little non-traditional. She used to date one of my good friends in college. They broke up after a month which is when I realized I liked ...
How viable is a future with someone religious while I am not and she wants to raise (future) kids under one belief?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My roommate doesn't understand why I would want to be asleep in the wee hours of the morning. POST: I have class at 8 am. I had intended to sleep until 6 am as usual, but my roommate decided to start watching a movie at 3:45 am. Now, when I'm awake and he's asleep, I do this thing you...
My asshole roommate woke me up at 3:45 this morning, and I'm considering holding a pillow over his face.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My co-worker (f/25) and friend is dating my boss (m/37). How do I (f/27) explain to her that she is making the office awkward? POST: They've been dating for 2-3 months and it's gotten very serious over the last month and a half or so. They've actually handled it pretty well for the m...
co-worker is making the office awkward by flirting with the boss. How do I talk to her about it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A girl (17) really hurt me (17) but I am the only one that knows one of her biggest secrets which in a way explains why she handles things the way she does. Should I walk out or stay and help her? POST: This girl was a really good friend of mine to the point where we acted like we we...
a girl that I was more than just friends with hurt me but still claims that I am the only person who genuinely cares about her. Should I stay or should I go?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Still can't get over ex, years later. What do I do? POST: Ex and I are both females, mid 20's. Let me start by saying I am with someone now that I love very much, and I am about to move in with. I do sometimes have my doubts, but for the most part, we get along very well and treat e...
Still not over ex from years ago, moving in with new partner soon. What do I do to fix my feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 M] am not sure how to respond physically [18 F]. POST: I don't know how to respond physically. She has been incredibly tolerant of my inexperience so far; she declared that we are "dating". She's awesome, but this is the first time I've been in this type of situation. For one, ...
How do I lose my inhibitions to make physical contact? I don't know how to push physically without discomforting her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: School problems regarding a movie shot inside it POST: Hi everyone, first time posting here and I'm coming to your help as you guys are my last chance of making this one out. So it all began on 27 nov in my sport class at which I arrived 5 minutes late and I wasn't allowed to enter. Toghet...
We tried to escape from our gym class by jumping trough the windows and over a fence, we got filmed by another coleague and the headmaster found out about it . How to we settle this down ? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[22f] bf [22m] of six months just asked me a pointless question. Am I overreacting to take this as a red flag? POST: We've been dating for six months, it's been great and no problems in particular. For background information though, we've never met each other's parents, but we do k...
Boyfriend asked me what I would do if his mom told me to lose weight. Am I overreacting to think that he's the type of guy who can't stand up to his mom?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Any doctor husbands/boyfriends out there? My (24/m) girlfriend (23/f) worries about my profession... POST: So the rumor is doctors are usually busy and "married to medicine". She wonders about whether she can deal with me being missing on most nights because I'll be flying out to att...
I'm going to be in a very busy profession and gf is worried about her needs not being met in the future. Both of us are committed to make it work. Any tips to help ease the process?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: At what point does being a gentleman signal a lack of interest? POST: So I recently moved to a relatively large city in Texas and the easiest way to meet people is through apps like Bumble and Tinder. I have met quite a few guys through both Apps and either nothing transpired because...
Met a guy on Bumble; we hung out; he didn't make a move. Was he being a gentleman or just not interested?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my Ex [17 F] 4 years of dating, we're trying to be friends POST: Basically, we dated for 4 years, broke up for 5 months got back together, changed a lot and I treated her bad so we broke up. We've spent a good 20% of my life and almost a fourth of hers dating Most of m...
In love with my ex, but can't love her. She loves me, but can't love me. We want to stay friends but I don't know how to just be friends with her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I have 5000$, am about to quit my job, and am looking for adventure. POST: I have recently just graduated with my master's degree in Science, and have never really just dropped everything and travelled. At the moment, i work two jobs, anywhere from 50 to 65 hours a week, 7 days ...
I have 5000-7000$ to spend on an epic trip and need suggestions. Dog friendly, North American road trip ideas are welcomed too!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] with my ex [31 M] 6 years together. 10 weeks since break. I'm so mental tired. POST: Hi Reddit. I thought I would post to you because I've had such amazing support. My ex broke up with me 10 weeks ago after a 6 year relationship. I have my ups and downs, I'm a lot better ...
10 weeks break up after 6 years, I'm just so tired of trying to be strong and tell my self to be strong.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: What is considered an "out of town" guest? POST: Might seem like somewhat of a silly question, but for my particular situation, it's useful. For initial context, I'm the groom and we're planning it together and things are going very well so far. We currently live in 2 different ci...
We live an hour apart and have friends local to us in our respective cities. Want to invite them all but don't know how far is "too far" to drive for a wedding.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I suspect that my [26M] girlfriend [26F] got out of an abusive relationship, does this add up? POST: I've known her for a very long time. She had a relationship for about 3 years that I never really made any of my business. That ended, a few months after we became involved. We've bee...
girlfriend is worried I'll get mad at her for things that I don't even worry about, think it was her ex that did this?"<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Laptop Advice? POST: Ok, so I'm starting a masters degree in October. I'm going to invest in buying a new laptop. I have a budget of ~€500 (~$650 USD/£410/$670 CAD)). I'm not entirely sure what i'm looking for, I will be using the laptop everyday pretty much so I guess reliability, ease ...
Buying a new laptop, advice on brands? Specific Laptops? Where to buy?...Dont want a mac. ~€500 budget ($650 USD)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I handle this credit card company? POST: Bit of back story- I am speechless and just not sure where to go from here. I have a credit card where the monthly payment is due on the 8th. I made the payment and according to the account the payment was posted to the account 2 days later...
Credit card company charged me a late fee for a payment that was on time, said it was my fault for not knowing how their payment system worked.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[23M] with my GF [23F] of 6 month just started long distance thinks I'll cheat on her POST: I've been with this amazing girl for the past 6 months or so, but now we're going to be doing long distance for at least 2 years due to different job locations. After a month of texting ever...
just had to start long distance with gf, she thinks I'm going to eventually cheat on her and get hurt. How can I make her feel safe?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Should I chip in for a gift to a friend's girlfriend? POST: My friend John has a girlfriend, Jane. Jane's birthday is coming up and John wants to give Jane a present worth $700. John cannot afford the gift alone, so he asks friends (of both John and Jane) to pool money together to be able t...
Asked to participate ($25) in a gift-pool for a friend I have only met 5 times. Yes or no?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 20M, girlfriend (20) asking questions I can't answer POST: Background- started dating end of junior year. She was coming out of an emotionally abusive relationship (crazy ex who couldn't let go) and we both sort of fell into it. Despite this being my first relationship, we got ...
Girlfriend asks whether I would be happier with someone else despite this being my only relationship. It's making me feel uncertain.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] with my husband [34M], married two years, together for 6. Is ignorance bliss? POST: At the end of the year last year, I decided to open my husband's credit card statement. I had no inkling that anything was going on. We are very happy and tell each other we, love each othe...
open husbands credit card statement, he's getting erotic massages. wish I had never opened the statement. very upset and don't know how to confront him (or even if I should).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21/F] coworker [20/F] doesn't seem to be doing any work when no one's around. Is this something I shouldn't stick my nose in? POST: This is a really minor issue compared to everything else in this sub haha. I'm a student worker in a small Human Resources office. I really like the...
My coworker doesn't seem to be doing any work during her shifts alone and I don't know how or if I should butt into it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (Ex)Boyfriend (32M) gave me (24F) money for an abortion and wants me to pay him back half since he dumped me POST: I'm a student working about 20 hours a week for $12 an hour. Three months ago, the birth control failed and we got pregnant. He always wanted an abortion and I di...
ex boyfriend wants his $500 back that he gave me for an abortion there weeks ago. We broke up. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: [PSA] on Wanderable.com Registry POST: FH and I registered for several excursions on Wanderable.com for our honeymoon and it has been great so far--except for one thing. We registered for a $700 half day private charter and someone gifted us $140 towards it. We had received severa...
Wanderable is awesome, but don't register for things that you can't actually afford in case you have to pay the balance.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: In a relationship of 9 months, I've always had trust issues POST: I have had problems with trusting people even before this relationship began. We met at a party through mutual friends, and at the time she was dating some kid from a distant state. We continued to hang out, and she ...
Been with my gf for almost 9 months now and I still have problems trusting her despite our happy relationship and our love for eachother<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: First time Gumbo maker POST: Hey r/cooking! I decided to attempt to tackle Gumbo for the first time this weekend and have some friends over to try it out. I've read up on different recipes and thoughts on how to prepare the roux, etc, but I'm starting to get a little anxious that it will...
Making gumbo tomorrow- confused by all the recipes and variations. Don't know what sides will compliment the dish. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 F] went on a first date with him [34 M] and it seemed to go really well. I asked him if he wanted to come over tonight for something important and he said he wasn't around. What does that mean? POST: Long story short, we met through our jobs (I'm a pharmaceutical vendor--his co...
even after a great first date, if a man tells you that he's "not around" this weekend after you ask him if you can talk, does that mean he's not interested?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by flashing my Android phone POST: This didn't happen today, it happened somewhere in August. So I was trying to get deeper into the Android rooting hypetrain. My phone was already rooted, but I thought that wasn't enough, so I found this patch that improves on some things. I was really ...
Found this patch which required flashing, tried to apply it, didn't work, re-applied it, phone didn't boot up, realizes how stupid I am, sends phone to get a replacement, gets one.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] told my friend [24M] (who treats me as his little brother he never had) off without thinking. POST: Me and "J" have known each other for about 3-4 months now and met thru his closest friend; which is also my cousin. "J" spend most of his free time during the first couple mont...
I told my friend off over the phone when he was willing pick me up and spend the rest of his day with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (27/m) recently broke up with my GF (29/f). We're both having a hard time with this, but she keeps reaching out to me. How do I tell her to stop? POST: Like the title says, I recently broke it off after a year and 3 months. Long story short after 7 months of weekly fights an...
I broke up with my GF a couple weeks ago. We're both hurting, but she won't stop emotionally beating on me. How do I make it stop?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to deal with my [18F] boyfriend [29M] who is so insecure about how I dress? POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and our relationship has been fantastic so far. He has treated me really well and so far we've gotten along like no other bf I've had before. The only thin...
Boyfriend gets angry and passive aggressive whenever I wear a tank top or dress in public, saying I'm asking for other men to look at me. How do I deal with this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Confused about losing my virginity [19F] to BF of 2 years [18M] - NSFW POST: We've been sexually intimate for a while now through exchanges such as oral and dry sex however, not penetration. I do enjoy the intimate side of our relationship and do not feel the need for penetration. I ...
penetration is so daunting that it's weighing down my relationship with BF of 2 years. I've been raised with conservative values and have been feeling a lot of discomfort and slight pain when attempting fingering (even when lubed).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Taught to lie when I was young. POST: Growing up as a kid my parents always would tell each other lies here and there so in my eyes it was normal. Now the lies weren't big lie it was always over stupid things that most normal people wouldn't lie about. It wasn't until I meet my wife t...
Taught to lie at a young age. Nearly ruined my marriage. Disgusted with myself cause I lied yesterday over nothing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my BF [26 M] 2 years, I know we're drifting apart but how do I end it with the least amount of self-torture? POST: I know, and I've known for a while, that we're not going to end up together. I thought really and truly that we were for a while, but now I'm seeing who h...
I know i eventually need to break up with my BF. They say "distract yourself," how do you do that when you don't have any distractions?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to deal with a jealous boyfriend? POST: Me 23F Him 25 - Just starting dating, been official for a little over a month. My last relationship was about a year ago, lasted for 2 years, so I've been used to being single and having that freedom. His last was about 6 months ago I'd say...
My new boyfriend gets jealous of me going out with my gay roommates to gay clubs. He's been cheated on before, how can I convince him that he has nothing to worry about?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How important is that butterfly feeling when starting a new relationship? POST: I (24F) have been casually seeing a new person (28M) for about a month. He is cute and funny, I enjoy spending time with him, and we're having great sex. Based on a couple things he has said and some conv...
Just starting to date great guy, but the intense attraction I'm used to in new relationships isn't there. He wants to commit, what should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Today I became a father for the first time. My newly adopted son is five years old and has ADHD POST: Reddit, my wife and I signed the papers today to adopt a 5 year old boy from Children's Aid. It's all surreal right now, but it's been a blast so far, but it's like the honeymoon. I'...
Adopted a 5 year old boy w/ADHD. Need advice and suggestions to work on his concentration. Please. :)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am in love with a girl [15 F] who doesn't believe love exists POST: Okay so here goes: I met this girl in school about a month ago through a mutual friend. I liked her instantly because we seemed to have a lot in common. We met once in school where we basically said "Hi" and...
I'm in love with a girl who is essentially in love with me too, except she doesn't believe in the idea of love and is frankly kinda scared of it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26M) younger sister (24F) of four years hasn't returned my texts since I admitted to dating a younger girl (18F) last year POST: February 2nd, I was catching up with my little sis by text message. We were making plans to meet that weekend, as we hadn't seen each other in a while....
Reconnecting with sister; Learn she has a new boyfriend; Mentioned that I dated a younger girl last year; Radio silence.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone out there who is over 16 and still have a bunch of imaginary friends? POST: So I'm gonna get a lot of WTF's from this. I may get downvoted into oblivion and this is a MAJOR throwaway but I just want to know if someone is like me. So I am older than 16(female) and I have a bunch o...
I am an over 16 year old girl who pretends some of my school mates live with me. And my friends are inconsiderate assholes.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Other guys keep hitting on my gf. How do I deal with this? POST: My GF has a very friendly personality and is all smiles to everyone, even ones who annoy her. A lot of guys take that as a come on and will on and hit on her, even when I'm there. At first, I would kinda politely let them...
a lot of guys hit on my gf who is friendly to everyone. she's annoyed too. i'm annoyed. what to do<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My apartment got burglarized by neighbor's kids. I found evidence all over their backyard. I'm scared that they will harass me endlessly after cops are done with them. POST: I came back from a week long work seminar to find my apartment burglarized. A bunch of stuff was missing, DSLR, lapto...
Kids broke into my apartment. Afraid they will do it again, or vandalize my car or apartment, and in general make it a huge hassle to keep living here. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Rushing a Preflight Walk Around POST: Well this actually happened last summer. I'm a flight student and, at the time, was training for my commercial pilot license. I got onto the ramp and to the airplane a little late and my instructor would be there soon. I did a quick walk-around...
I rushed my preflight inspection of the airplane and missed an item check. This resulted in the flight school charging me $250 for training that we didn't even get to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/M] feel not ready to marry my GF[30/F] of 3 years but I have to if I want to keep her. Long distance, visa, and other issues involved. POST: Hello Reddit, I am seeking advice (or comfort?) on a matter in which I know only I can decide, but still, I want to hear your thoughts, s...
My 30 years old GF's visa is expired and she wants to marry so that we could live together. I am 23 years and do not feel ready to commit yet, knowing that have mostly lived a Long distance relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24M) girlfriend (26F) keeps asking me to break up with her. What should I do? POST: So here's the thing. We have been together for 6 years now. About 5 months ago, I moved to a different city when I was offered the job I was looking for. We have been in a long distance relationsh...
My girlfriend of 6 years keeps asking me to break up with her and I don't know if she means it. Help!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF[24F] descirbed me [23M] as a "cold" person in general. How to improve? POST: Hello. So today me and my GF sat around talking about peoples behaviour, how we see people and so on. I asked her how she saw me in general and she told me "You can be a very cold person. You have a atti...
GF describes me as a cold, manipulative empahty lacking person. How can I know if it's true and how can I improve?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If your boyfriend watches excessive porn, is it cheating? Here is my dilemma.. POST: Lately, for shits an giggles ill scroll through my boyfriends history to see if I can maybe find some research of presents for me or things he may want for Xmas, and almost every friggin time I do it the...
how do I bring this up to him ? I don't want to break up but I don't think I can deal with this. Am I over reacting?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm moving out with my 21M friend, he's getting the bigger bedroom with the en-suite and I'm getting the smaller double, even though he said he'd let me have it. POST: When we went to look at this place he initially said that he didn't mind if he had the smaller bedroom as I have the...
Friend told me I could have bigger bedroom, turns out he's paying more rent so said he's getting it instead, won't talk about it, haven't signed contracts yet.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17M] am deciding between colleges and wondering how much I should value my year long relationship with my GF [17F] POST: I [17M] am picking between colleges this week and I'm currently deciding between a private school in SoCal which is ranked extremely highly and my state school...
I have to decided between a good school far away from my girlfriend and a close school which is slightly worse. I need advice on how much to value my strong relationship when making the decision.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [18M] girlfriend [18F] of 7+ months has seemed distant the last few weeks but insists nothing is wrong, advice? POST: This is really my first actual post since I've been more of a lurker in my short time as a redditor, but I figured I'd give a post a shot (on mobile so I apologize...
My [18M] girlfriend [18F] of 7 months seems indifferent towards me and has been for the past 3 weeks.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What secret hobbies or interests do you have that you keep from people for fear of being ridiculed? POST: So two years ago back in my senior year of college I had to take a PE prerequisite in order to fulfill a GE requirement. Sadly, bowling was full and only 'latin dance' was available....
I take salsa lessons. I LOVE IT but I feel I'd be emasculated amongst my friends if they ever found out!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Need advice on whether or not to get in touch with someone I dated on Tinder last year POST: I dated a girl on Tinder just before christmas last year and as far as I'm aware it went well, we got on naturally, it wasn't awkward and we both left with the intention to have a second date...
Should a message a girl I dated once 8 months ago if I still have strong feelings for her and we had a decent first date which didn't go anywhere?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend's [19/M] comments about his own body are making me [18/F] uncomfortable POST: I don't think I need much background for this, but I'll give a little. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, we're semi-long distance (I'm away at university and he's at home wor...
Boyfriend's comments about how he thinks his own body hair is disgusting make me feel incredibly self conscious about my own body hair and what I do about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22M] Concerned with with My GF's [21F] Weight. Worried About Loss of Attraction. Long Term Relationship POST: Hi guys, This is my first post, on my throwawayish account cause sensitive subject... (don't judge too hard on my username!) So essentially I'm worried that I'm losing at...
Worried losing attraction to gf cause weight gain, don't want to end relationship down the road if future trends continue.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] with my boyfriend [31 M] of 3 months, just had our first fight and not sure if I should go back POST: So about 2 weeks ago I lost my job and I am living with my sister. I have not been able to find a job in the city where she lives so I decided to go back with my parents wh...
boyfriend was sweet but yelled/cursed at me. Should I go back, he is begging me and I still like him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 F] with my Husband [32 M] together for 14 years, married 8, recently discovered he has a porn addiction that is threatening our family. POST: I always knew he was looking at porn but never wanted to be "that girl", until I found evidence that he's been soliciting sex acts onli...
Discovered husband's porn addiction is threatening the monogamy of our marriage. I need help coping with my feelings as his spouse, while he seeks treatment of his own.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Should I send a follow up / Thank You Email to my phone interviewer? If so, what are some things I should say? POST: Yesterday I had my phone interview for an IT position in a non-profit. I made the cut of 8 out of 125 possible applicants. According to the interviewer I seemed like the best c...
I had a phone interview yesterday. It could have went better. Should I send a follow up / thank you email?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: HUGE NSV, but epic fail for weight goal and starting MyFitnessPal, help? POST: So today I ran my first half marathon! I finished at 2:39:10 and could not be more happy. I even signed up for my next one and hope to get my time down to 2:35:) (I have exactly 3 months til race day!) On to the...
Lost 30lbs, plateaued all month, new-ish runner, need MyFitnessPal help. I feel like a lost cause and I'm way too scared to not have my trainer anymore:(<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (32/m) am getting fed up with my long time friend (34/m) Due to his women hating! POST: I have been friend with this guy for a long time. Last few years, he had been nothing but very hateful toward women. He would occasionally bring it up but, he usually shut up after he saw that n...
My long time friend had become a women hater and now want to talk about nothing but putting women down. I'm tired of this!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [24M] found out recently that this girl [26F] has deep issues with trusting guys. Not sure how to proceed. POST: I met this girl a little over a month ago through a friend. She was at a party at my place (Miami), we ended up sleeping together after coming home from the bars....
I completely fell for girl who has trust issues with guys. I want to date her, but I feel like this might be a huge mistake. Advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30M] with my lady [35F] 4yrs and my mother (60) childcare arguments and guilt. POST: My little girl is 21 months old. She's our whole world. We both work full time and also do a lot of work at home. My mother looks after my girl one day a week. Occasionally (like once/month) mist...
Grandmothers care for my daughter isnt good enough by my partners standards causing a divide. And i have to handle it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 3 months, I'm having issues with her past relationships. POST: Hey there. My current girlfriend just referred her ex to me for a website, and I'm willing to do it. However, her and I spoke of her past in great depth where she went through a "n...
Current girlfriend referred an ex of hers to me for freelance work. She said that never slept with anyone quickly, but she told me she slept with him and they only dated for a month.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Help me sort this out please! [16F] and [16M] POST: I'm a 16 year old girl, who's been hanging out with this awesome guy since January. We get along great and share a lot of common interests. We hang out every so often at school, and at least once a week outside of school since we've...
Great friends with this guy who seems to like me but has no time for a relationship and is sending me mixed signals. Should I bring up the topic of a relationship or let it go and move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My summer full-time job STILL hasn't paid me. What do I do, now it's getting stupid. POST: Hey guys! To cut a long story short, I'm in a mess here. I'm 15, UK, and I had a full-time job in the summer. I wasn't doing mindless paperwork, I was working on websites for their clients, as wel...
I got screwed over by my summer work placement, and I'm out £100 with little-to-no documents/proof of working there. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by seeing Book of Mormon POST: So last weekend I saw Book of Mormon. And all week I've had the songs stuck in my head non stop. They're all so damn catchy. In an ironic twist of TIFU fate, For the last few hours I've been making obnoxious "hasa diga eebowai" comments in various TIFU p...
Saw Book of Mormon ... told boss I have maggots in my scrotum. Hasa diga eebowai :/<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/F] with [24 M] dating for about a week intensely and exclusively, now it seems he's suddenly backing off??? POST: I rarely post but here goes: Long story short I've been in a very low place in my life and decided along with therapy and medication to make some positive change...
Meet incredible, respectful guy, spend tons of time with him and have a blast, then it seems like he's backing off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My aunt is in a bad marriage and doesn't know what to do. POST: My aunt just moved to the US from South America and married a US citizen (also latino). They have been married since March of this year. Her now-husband had promised her the moon and the stars back when they were dating while ...
Aunt married an asshole that threatens to divorce her "to keep her in line" or else she will have to go back to South America and she feels she doesn't have many options.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Ex/Bestfriend[22/F] 8 Months, Broke up but kinda don't know whats happening POST: So, me and my girlfriend/bestfriend talked for like a year before we started dating and it started in October and ended at the end of November and its a long distance relationship and ...
Talked for a year, dated for a month, got depressed for the holidays and we broke up, continued friendship and I'm wondering if theres a chance we'll get back together? (Long distance)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Got hit on a parking lot, when the other driver was backing out. Old car, not big damage. Worth filing insurance claim? POST: I have been hit on the parking lot by a driver who was backing out. I took photos, and insurance information of other driver, but didn't call police. I also do no...
Got hit by backing up driver. Debating if it is worth filing insurance claim, or just suck it up and let go.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: How do I assure my pregnant wife that she's still sexually appealing? POST: I'm 32 and my wife is 27. This is her first pregnancy. She is about 16 weeks pregnant right now and showing. She's not huge, but there's no hiding that she's pregnant anymore. She also has stretch marks, wh...
I think my wife is sexy, but at this stage of her pregnancy, she doesn't feel it. How can I assure her that I really do find her sexy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 M] don't consider my friend [17 M] too close to me anymore and with college coming up, am feeling pressure choosing roommates. POST: Me and my friend (let's call him Joseph) are both from the same high school, going to the same college. We've known each other for 8 years and ar...
Going to college, I have two very good friends, one not-so-close friend that I feel an obligation towards, and the two good friends don't want to room with the not-so-close friend.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It's been a year and I [18M] am still in love with a girl. I could use some advices. POST: It's been a year now that I abruptly ended a relationship with my friend [18F], who I have been talking to for three years. I felt really close to her, she did too, but didn't see me as her boy...
Went away from a very important girl a year ago, I'd love to talk to her again. Not sure how.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my [19F]... complicated. POST: Using a throwaway cause she uses reddit I think. I knew this girl for 4-5 years, and we always got on. Early in our friendship we developed feelings and this eventually lead to 'love' (was it love or not you ask... I'm too young to tell)...
Mutual love with a girl, never entered a relationship due to lack of commitment. Willing to try it with her again...thoughts?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My buddy is a cheap ass. Reddit, what should I get him for his wedding? POST: So I'm a groomsmen in my buddy's wedding. We were really good friends in high school, but haven't seen each other much in the past 6 years. Each groomsman had to pay for their own dress clothes (expected, so ...
My friend gave me a bag of snacks for being a groomsman in his wedding. What should I get him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 80/20 Careers Pareto Principle. POST: Hey guys, Didn't really know where to post it. So I thought here might be good? So I'm a huge fan of Tim Ferriss, love him or hate him, I followed his Slow Carb Diet, lost a ton of weight, put it all back on again (because I wanted to) and I'm...
What jobs or careers are out that that can be applied to the 80/20 Pareto principle. 20% of work producing 80% of income.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, 30 years from now what do you think will be the equivalent to a "classic rock radio station"? POST: This is a very ambiguous question but was just wondering the other day what kind of music will have taken the place of classic rock today when I'm 50 (so in 30 years), and what the...
When I'm an old fart, what music is going to define my generation and how am I going to listen to it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can I be like the US and borrow my way to a lavish lifestyle? POST: Recently, I have found out about my parents credit card debt. They've been accruing high interest on them for many years... They had varying cards, multiple interest rates, just a mess to keep track of it all. I decided ...
I have mountains of debt and live poorly. What are the **potential consequences** of amassing even more debt to live lavishly only paying towards interest to keep my account in good standing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most immature way you've been dumped? POST: Since our relationship was long distance (temporarily 1,200 miles apart), my now ex-boyfriend's friend had been sending me "proof" via messenger that my bf was cheating on me for about a month. I kept giving my bf the benefit of the ...
ex-boyfriend is a cheating doucherocket who blocked me on FB because he can't handle the drama he causes.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] been with my [25F] girlfriend for 7 years, but I can't handle it anymore in a sense. POST: For starters I'm only holding on because we have kids, growing up in a single parent home I hated it. We've fallen apart over the past year, she's throwing around marriage idea and I'm ...
Doesn't want to end longterm relationship because ofor kids, doesn't see any easy way to end it where she doesn't go crazy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By dropping 3 hours of labor on the floor POST: (Sorry for shitty formatting, I'm on mobile) (Also, this is the first TIFU I've posted) So this happened about 15 minutes ago. I'm a high school senior and for my senior project I decided to intern at the analytical lab at the nearby U...
dropped samples me and another guy spent 3 hours grinding, only to drop them all on the floor. Tomorrow I have to start over. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [28M] How do I care about dating again? POST: With the rise in casual sex (facilitated by Tinder, the change in our culture, etc.), I just can't get worked up about dating anymore. I still respect women and want to make sure their emotional needs are respected, but dating no longer ...
Dating, while fun, no longer "drives" my life. The availability of casual sex I suspect has dampened the mystique of women. What should I do -- pretend to care about dating?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my friend [19 F] thinking of asking her out, but unsure if she's interested POST: So I met this girl 3 weeks ago at the start of uni at a lecture. We got on well, I got her number, and I've texted her most days to meet up to walk to lectures together. We've done this m...
Thinking of asking out my friend of 3 weeks who I'm unsure if she's interested in me or not. She may have a thing for someone else and/or just being friendly to me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Convince me to pay extra on my student loans POST: Be gentle, PF, first post here. I know the math says always pay extra on loans when you can, but I'm balancing that advice against peace of mind lost or gained, and overall quality of life. So here are some numbers: *35 y/o *$34,0...
In terms of "cash anxiety" is it worth it to pay extra on my student loans now, or just wait until I can pay them off completely?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Identity theft/fraud or a mistake? POST: Looking for opinions from people knowledgeable about identity theft or have dealt with it. A couple months back I had some fraudulent charges on a credit card I rarely use. I thought it was weird that someone got my card number when I never...
There's a credit card on my credit report that I didn't open with a $3,000 balance. Is this a possible mistake or fraud?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: No one insults my Grandma and gets away with it POST: When my mum was a kid, money was tight. Not quite paycheck-to-paycheck, but not far off. When my mother was in primary school (about 6 or 7 years old), she was invited to a birthday party for one of the kids in her year. While she...
Rich snobby girl makes fun of my mother for having a homemade dress; my mother causes her to have all her hair cut off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hey! I'm [24M] in limbo with my ex [23 F] any advice? POST: Here's the story: I met a girl in college. We fell hard for each other and things got serious quickly. She began having doubts and this scared me so I broke it off. The breakup was super messy. After a few months I realized ...
rekindled things with "the one that got away" but am leaving for foreign country for two years and things are anything but a sure thing with her<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my brother [32 M] and his girlfriend [32F] have both let me know they have worries in the relationship. Anything I can do to get them to talk? POST: I'll keep this short. My brother and his girlfriend have both texted me over the past month that they have concerns ab...
brother and his girlfriend have both texted me about worries in the relationship (completely different worries), and I would like to somehow let them both know they need to sit down and talk.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23/m) broke up with the perfect girl (23/f) for me... POST: This girl is amazing. Everything I possibly could want in a girl she had. And most of all she loved me immensely. She would have loved me no matter what, in good health and bad. Yet, I could never say I love you back. Sh...
I broke up with the perfect girl because I didn't love her as much as she loved me. Did I do the right thing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why is it bad to tell a girl that she should dress more modestly because she might get raped? POST: Okay guys, your immediate answer is somewhere along the lines of, "Because rape is not a womans fault hurrderr!" But lets look at a very similar situation. (Hypothetical situation, before...
You would tell a JEW not to go to Iran, but you won't tell a woman to not go to parties.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] matched with an ex [23M] on tinder... POST: Sorry in advance if this seems like a stupid situation/question/whatever. Anyway, the beginning of this year I met this guy and we ended up dating for a few months. However, neither of us was really sure what we wanted and he wasn't...
Matched w a guy I used to date on tinder. Would like to talk to him but I don't know what to say!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [25 M] and my best friend [25 F] explain to her mom ["49" F] that I will be her daughter's "Man of Honor" POST: My best friend of 8, nearly 9 years is engaged to a great guy and she has asked me to be her maid of honor. The catch is, I am a dude. Her fiance is happy with t...
How do I explain to a mother who wants a traditional wedding for her daughter that there is going to be a "man of honor?"<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm pretty sure that the baby next door is crying way too much. And sometimes it sounds like pure, incessant agony. POST: It's 2pm in the afternoon on a Sunday and all I can hear is a baby crying and screaming next door. I live in a terraced house in West London, England, in a town calle...
A baby is crying constantly next door. I need to know how I can determine if it definitely isn't getting abused.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Is beer worse than other types of calories for weight loss? POST: Question's in the subject. I was doing great last year, but fell off the wagon around March and have been struggling to turn it around since. Last week, I made the necessary changes and got back on the path to continuing to l...
If I can find room in my daily calorie intake for a 200 calorie beer, is there any reason I can't have it?<|endoftext|>