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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update]Me [36 F] with my Husband [39 M] (15years married), I found out that my husband has a secret family, i dont know if i can stay with him. POST: 1st Post *** Today i had lunch with the other woman. Shes only fucking 23... Lets call her Candi(She looks like a Candi). Candi is ...
Met babysmom for lunch. she said to much. and i punched her in the face, in the middle of Panera bread.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Budding programmer needing some advice. POST: I'm about done with the school system. Not "finished", but just done. I'm almost done with my second year of university (Applied CS major), and I don't know how much longer I can stick with it. I had problems with school my entire life and al...
School isn't going too well and I need more options. What are the steps I need to take to be hirable if I can't get my degree?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My ex best friend/ crush got a friend with benefit... POST: So some background knowledge, this girl (i'm a guy btw) was my best friend last year and we had a massive fight that resulted in us trying to avoid each other. Whilst in the middle of the fight i started to become inte...
ex best friend/crush has a friend with benefit, my heart is broken, i still like her, and i'm drinking the pain away.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by seeing my own mistakes POST: So not a fuck up from today but over a period of time. Last weekend my SO came at my place and told me we need to talk, I knew where this was going she had been given hints in her texting and body language. I said i'm not ready to give up something that s...
insecure guy so almost dumps me see she's the love of my life blast trough my wall with tnt see where i was wrong now i probably lost ly SO<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [29M] with [30F] sweet, cute, got-her-stuff-together, new dating prospect. Issue: Minimal to zero mutual hobbies or cultural interests. What do? POST: Hello reddit, I am a single 29M freshly into a "new" dating market thanks to a move back to my hometown (large midwestern city). I m...
how do you have a relationship if you like each other but have none of the same hobbies and like none of the same shows, movies, music, or books<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] with my BF [23/M] 9 months, should I just tell him I love him? POST: I [F23] have been my boyfriend [M23] for over 9 months now. Things are going well, and he has recently invited me over for the holidays. At the beginning of relationship he told me he has never told any o...
Been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, yet to exchange I love you. Should I just say it? How long is waiting for too long?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: What am I doing wrong (F, 28)? POST: Hi reddit people! I thought asking your advice would have been a good idea as I am a bit lost. I'm a 28 year old girl. I'm very independent, I work, I have a lot of hobbies and loads of friends. According to the people who know me, I'm nice to t...
My dating life is a mess and all the guys I go out with disappear after a few dates. What am I doing wrong?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [UK] I don't think I've passed my 2nd year at Uni. Contract for new flat says I must be a student to live there, but I don't think I will be...does this negate it? POST: I have just finished my second year at university in another city, and I have some exams this week I need to pass in...
Don't think I've made it into my next year of uni, can I get out of the contract on my flat?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I [F26] don't know how to deal with my workplace bully [F23]. POST: About a year ago a girl that I work with tried to have me fired from my job. On paper this girl ought to be my best friend, and I thought we would socialise outside of work; but she made it clear very quickly that s...
a girl at work tried to get me fired and has gone out of her way to make me feel shit about myself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Online harassment advice POST: This has been going on for over a year now and it's reached ridiculous levels. Story goes like this: About a year and a quarter ago, I joined a gaming community, all was well. I ended up doing well, got on with the owner, ended up in a position of responsibil...
Idiots I fell out with still bothering me a year and a quarter later, don't want to just keep letting it slide, what are my options?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: By Letting My Dog Sleep Between My Legs And Farting POST: So i want to start of by saying, typically when i sleep, i lay on my stomach, when i sleep like this,my dog sleeps between my legs. He usually puts his head just above my knee on my leg. He loves this spot as it is directly in fr...
Dog sleeps between my legs, taco farts startled dog, as he is freaking, accidentally bags me, i rolled over, my leg knocks dog of the bed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] and socially challenged/insecure guys who befriend me and then our friendship dies? Am I a "Nice girl" for the "Nice guys". POST: First and foremost, there is nothing wrong with being nice, I am nice to everyone I meet and treat everyone equally. I think socially awkward gu...
Weird" guys always befriend me and cling to our friendship and then ask me out, which kills our friendship. Does kindness=flirtation?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to stop my girlfriends ex from using the internet against us? POST: So my girlfriend has started to get weird texts and phone calls from alot of people she dosn't even know. They all said that they saw a post on 4chan from someone claiming she was a "cheating liar and needs to be pun...
My girlfriend's ex is jelly, got mad, and is using 4chan to bully us. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Screwing things up for me [21/F] and bf [23/m] POST: Where to begin... My boyfriend and I are both motivated individuals that intend to pursue our education and both go to graduate school. However, we now know that we are going to separate schools that are very far away from o...
In a situation where breaking up with my bf is inevitable, ended up emotionally cheating on him, now my body is in a fit of emotional turmoil.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [20F] 2 years, Odd absence of conflict POST: Okay, so we have been together for two years, as said in the title, and we never fight. The closest thing that we have had to a fight, is one night she came to my place after spending the day together, though I...
So my question is, is it weird, wrong, or bad that we don't fight or argue with one another?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15F] with my Boyfriend [16 M] of a year, I'm really confused and extremely regretful POST: Last December I cheated with my boyfriend by letting a guy masturbate to me on webcam with me participating. Yes he's in Texas (the friend whom participated and I'm in NY) and yes he's neve...
I let someone else masturbate to me and and am extremely regretful about it. Need advice on what I should do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird for Me [20F] to have feelings for someone 10 years older than me? [30M] POST: I met somebody in August and have really clicked with him. I genuinely enjoy hanging around with him, I like talking with him, and he listens to me (etc.). We flirt a lot and I'm pretty sure he...
I am a short girl and I have a crush on a tall guy 10 years older than me. Worried about pursuing it for fear of people thinking the age difference is 'too much' or 'creepy'<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] dated a friend [24F] briefly, and decided to be friends. She responds to all of my messages, but briefly / not full-heartedly. POST: The title says most of it. I [24M] dated a friend [24F] for 3 weeks. The morning after having sex for the first time, and talking about exclusi...
dated briefly, decided to be friends, now she barely talks to me. what do i do? should i try to meet in person?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Knee problem POST: I went from never having done any running to running 140 km (according to runkeeper) within 3 weeks, culminating in a half marathon. I realise this is against the recommendations of any sensible training plan, and I found out why. By the third week of training, I'd not...
ran a lot in short time, knee got sore. Is ok after rest, but comes back almost instantly when I run again<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What should I (34 M) do about signs of unavailability in otherwise-fun, two-month relationship (32 F)? POST: I've been seeing a girl for a little over two months now and have been getting mixed signals. I'm getting both red flags about her history (and future) of unavailability as we...
New relationship is fun now. She thinks she might want to settle down but has a long history of uprooting which makes me nervous. Should I ride it out or call it off?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Was delivered a tank of home heating oil, was left bill in someone else's name. What should I do? POST: Just bought a house. Was delivered a tank of home heating oil, was left bill in the previous owner's name. I'm kinda curious here I stand. The elderly couple that sold the house to u...
Was a delivered a tank of heating oil billed to someone else's name. Should I try to be a dick and try to get it for free because I didn't order it. Curious where I stand.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by returning 2DS systems to Walmart. POST: Today I fucked up when I tried to return some 2DS systems to Walmart. It all started with this limited edition green 2DS. I saw it. I wanted it. I told my friend about it and they wanted them too. I saved up some extra dollars to be able to ...
Tried to trick Walmart into returning 2DS systems, Walmart tapped its acrylic nails in disappointment and told me to fuck off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: FMIL and money POST: Hello everybody, I have read that when you are planning the wedding, you should ask your families if they are willing to contribute. I asked my family and they are helping with the invitations and my stepdad paid for the dress. When we came over to my FH fami...
We talked to FMIL about the cake, she said ok, then offered to pay for honeymoon, and hasn't mentioned it since. How do we nicely remind her? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by chasing a dwarf in Asda POST: Obligatory "not today, blah blah blah", but anyway here goes. The title is pretty self explanatory. When I was about 3 years old, my mother took my me shopping to Asda (UK Walmart). I was always looking to play with people in my young age and I found a k...
When I was 3, I chased a dwarf around Asda (UK Walmart) thinking he was another kid to play with.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking a guy was hitting on me at Tim Hortons POST: This actually happened a while ago, but after sharing the story with friends and still cringing at the event months later, I think it is Reddit worthy. And maybe I can finally get some catharsis from the embarrassment I still feel....
Thought a guy was asking for my number at Tim Hortons. Turns out he meant the order number on my receipt.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25f) really want to believe him (30m) but th evidence is damning POST: Might be long. I have been acquainted with this guy for years. Never knew him well. I recently became single, and around the same time he informed me he was single as well. We went on a couple dates, thing...
pretty sure I found his girlfriend on Facebook, he's saying it's a glitch in Facebook among other excuses, not sure if over reaction or proper reaction. Help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] is frustrated with my GF[18F] because she is a terrible communicator. POST: My SO of about 13 months is awful at communication. She rarely gets back to me when I text her, she never asks me to hang out, and we haven't even talked face to face since Thursday. The last time we...
GF doesn't communicate well, gives me impression that she might be losing interest, and in general this makes me feel quite terrible.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [30 M] husband pretty much had an emotional affair and I [30 F] don't know how to deal POST: I was recovering from a serious surgery when I found out my husband was talking to another woman (that he met out at a bar) for hours everyday behind my back. I felt like he screwed me ove...
Reddit, should I feel 'bad/guilty' for talking to someone (nothing serious just making convo) and maybe meeting up to hang out with someone after my husband's emotional affair?!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by suggesting my Latin class have an orgy POST: It's 1996, I'm in my 6th grad Latin class taught my Mr. Melee (he pronounced it like Mealy, but come on, that's a kick ass last name). I had wanted to take latin ever since I began to read the Asterix and Obelisk graphic novels. For those o...
6th grade latin class, for language festival I suggested having an orgy, meaning a traditional Roman party, at the time had no idea it also referred to sex with everybody in the room.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can I help out my sister? She wants to go to university for creative writing and does not see that this would be a bad idea. POST: Her logic is that she doesn't want to end up 'in a boring desk job'. I've been trying to convince her that if she takes creative writing, odds are she wi...
Sister wants to major in creative writing. What might I tell her to convince her that this might be a bad idea? What alternatives might there be for her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [30/M] considering breakup up with my girlfriend [25/F] who I've lived with for three years while grieving the loss of my mom. I don't know if I can trust my emotions right now. POST: Basically my girlfriend has always needed to lean more on me than I have on her. Typically this ...
My girlfriend needs a lot of support I can't provide right now due to grieving my mom's death. Can I trust my emotions right now??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I(25F) think my bf(26M) settled for me? POST: We've been together for almost 2 years which makes me think that if he had settled he wouldn't have stuck around for so long. Here's some stuff from the last 3 months that makes me think that he might love me but not be "in love" wi...
I think my bf is just keeping me around because it's better than being alone/good enough for now. What are some signs to know if we can still work things out or if it's completely over?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (22 F) I'm pregnant and I think my boyfriend (25 m) may break up with me. POST: We've been together for over 3 years, and have had our ups and downs. Last night he told me he didn't know if he wanted to be with me anymore, and that he needed some time to figure it out. I'm 2 months...
boyfriend of 3 years doesn't know if he still wants to be with me. 2 months pregnant and he doesn't know. I'm now stuck in a bad situation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Teenager trying to find a job, not working out. Help me out? POST: I'm 17, and I live in Myrtle Beach, SC, so I essentially live in a tourist trap where almost everywhere only hires during the big holiday seasons, and those jobs are instantly taken up by family/friends of the managers. R...
I live in a tourist trap city, everywhere I look only hires friends/family, I have no friends/family in retail/service industry, need money for a very expensive instrument.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (25M) and I (23F) broke up over alcohol POST: Boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and lived together about 6 months. He told me he was uncomfortable about alcohol and would rather me not drink around him. Ok so i did that, also he said I can't have alcohol in ...
Boyfriend and I broke up because he says i don't respect his opinions and I need to do what he says to make the relationship work<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My[18/m] girlfriend[19/f] is great but we seem to have very different interests. POST: My girlfriend is really nice and helpful but we don't seem to have a lot of common interests. She spends most of her time involved with the LGBT Center at our university. I support gays being...
My girlfriend is great but she spends a lot of her time in an organization that I don't care to become involved with and I feel neglected that she doesn't want to spend time with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dear 17-25 year olds of reddit, what common misconceptions about your generation that older folks have piss you off? POST: * we were born wrapped in bubble wrap. I remember in more than one occasion having bb gun battles with my friends and other kids. Not wearing helmets, knee-pads, et...
if you're a 30+ person claiming that you "had it better", come here to prove it to me. I am willing to bet you're a shelterd anti-social person.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25/M] My girlfriend [25/F] of 7 years broke up with me 2 months ago and I'm still heart broken. Should we be friends? POST: About 2 months ago my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me after falling in love with her coworker whom of which I dont think she likes after all. Although i...
Continue being her friend although it makes me feel better or just drop the situation so she want gain anything out of it and just deal with the heart-ache?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28F] want to get to know a man [30] but don't know how - ok to use facebook? POST: I am 28 f and have a crush on a 30 m. We do not know each other but during my recent (January) clinical training at the hospital he works I occasionally saw him and sometimes worked the same operati...
I have a crush on a man that I hardly know, is it okay to use facebook to contact him to get to know him? Your thoughts?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's something a doctor has done that has really pissed you off? POST: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm unde...
My doctor thought I was absuing pils, I took a drug test to prove I wasn't, she spilled my urine and then refused to see me again.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26/M] just broke up with my LDR [22/F] gf of six months... I don't know whether to talk to her POST: Her: A recent graduate from a nursing school. She lives in Brazil and has zero interest in moving to the US. On a gap year before starting a masters in nursing, hopes to work in ge...
Broke up with long distance love interest, but should I talk to her even though she really just wants to right the ship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [49F] says I [24M] cannot join in on family vacation POST: My mom [49F], dad [45M], brother [16M], and sister [12F] are taking a week long vacation to the mountains in a few weeks. I [24 M] am not invited. I live in another state, but will be visiting back home while they will...
family are taking a vacation and I'm not invited, it hurt my feelings but maybe I'm too sensitive. Should mention my feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [M21] too dependent on others POST: So last year I joined the military and currently I'm stationed in Germany. I never knew until recently how dependent I was on having other people involved in my day-to-day life. By this, I don't mean friends and co-workers, because I've become ...
I just don't feel at home and am extremely lonely because I am dependent on having other people in my life on a consistent basis.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Young divorcees of Reddit, what happened? POST: **I know this isn't a super pointed question, but I was hoping some under-30 divorcees wouldn't mind sharing their experience going through a divorce at such a young age. What happened?** In this Redditor's humble opinion, it seems dishe...
Was wondering young divorcees experience going through a divorce at such a young age, yet still I see so many young people getting married. Feels hopeless.*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19/F) feel jealous of my SO's (18/M) new sex toy POST: So, recently, after breaking up with my boyfriend of almost two years, I started talking a friend of mine and long story short, we are going to start dating next week (when he is here, long-distance relationship). We are prett...
SO got a new fleshlight for himself, loved it so much, much more than his previous sexual experiences. Now I don't feel enough for him and feel really jealous. How to get over myself?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is your closest encounter of getting caught with drugs? POST: I'll start. I was a freshman in college and my boyfriend, who was a senior in high school, invited me to his prom. We took a limo with about 5 other couples and had liquor on the way to prom. The limo driver found out and...
Went to prom with my boyfriend, had drugs on us, thought we were going to be searched and question and only had to shake hands with the principals.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have any of you ever gone from ready to completely take on the day to completely demotivated/demoralized after overhearing something at work? POST: Been at the same job over a year now and no raise. Been thinking about asking for a while. Recently a lot more responsibility has been added...
went up to ask for raise, got shut down before even asking, now I'm demotivated/demoralized.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 19F with my boyfriend 19M 8 months, I did something shitty in the early stages of our relationship and I feel guilty about it POST: Hey eveyone! I've lurked on here before and now I'm in need of help. I had to change the ages just a bit so hopefully it wouldn't be noticeable to pe...
I hungout with a friend and was flirty and cuddly with him during the beginning of my relationship with my current boyfriend. I feel real guilty and need advice!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] can't deal with the sories about my gf [26F] and her ex boyfriends and men she had bfore we met. POST: Hey reddit. Again you're my last sanctuary. Throwaway bc my gf knows my reddit name. TL;DR:
I can't handle stories of my gf of other men before we met and I don't know what to do. I feel lost and heartbroken. Please help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [25F] try to get back in touch with my ex [24M]? It's been a week but I am still devastated over it. POST: It's been a week since we broke up. He basically stopped contacting me and closed off most of our usual ways of talking. I'm afraid to just call him. Should I even do i...
Ex cut off all contact. It's been a week and I still want to get back together. Should I bother? If not, how can I get over this faster?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (22f)Breaking up with my girlfriend (22f) of five years. Am I doing the right thing? POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for five years. It hasn't been the easiest of relationships, but it's certainly had it's good times. During our five years of being together, I have m...
girlfriend of five years refuses to tell her family and friends about me and I'm thinking of breaking up with her because of it. Am I doing the right thing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My upstairs neighbours (Fs, early 20s) scare me (23F) at night and keep me awake regularly POST: I live in a house that is informally divided up into 2 flats. I share the downstairs with a girl, and about 5 people live upstairs. I say it's informally divided because there's nothing p...
a person I assume is my neighbour pounds on the front door and screams in the middle of the night. I'm scared, losing sleep, and unsure what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors! Help! I'm on a coffee rush - how do you avoid a caffeine crash? Any tips? POST: So I met a friend for coffee this morning. I was waiting in the wrong coffeeshop, so ended up downing my double espresso when I got the call. I'm not normally a big coffee drinker (that's probably ...
Laughably low caffeine tolerance has left me a gibbering idiot. Help. Thankyouthankyouthankyou.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [17/m] How do I restore closeness with my girlfriend? (17/f) POST: So, me and my best friend were very close. We would tell each other everything we went through and thought. Also, I was in love with her. I know, immature teenage love, but that's irrelevant. Long story short, w...
I started dating my best friend, and she doesn't feel like she can be as open with me. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 f] grandma [65ish f] has gotten really negative, but can't see it. POST: She's suffering from really bad flare up from fibro myalgia and arthritis. That's why it's happening, i think, as well as stress (my sister who reactive attachement disorder) I love her, and she's invalu...
grandma not reacting well to pain and stress - would like to know what to do, for our sakes, and hers.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M/] with my ___ [18 F] 19 months, she asked for a brake (pause) POST: After a year and a half, my GF asked for a "brake" because she was feeling there was missing something. Its been a week now and she texted me one night if I was going well. We had a normal conversation ye...
she asked for a break and it's been a week. Feels like she is not interrested in talking.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone successfully avoided Sprint's ETF? I have no idea if my reason for leaving with waive the ETF. POST: Basically it's this. I have a the HTC Arrive on Sprint. I LOVE wp7 and it's heartbreaking to hear Sprint's not loving them back. Not too heartbreaking since their terrible spe...
My Sprint phone doesn't do something the manual says it does. Will this allow me to get out of my contract ETF-free and get a provider that offers better speeds, coverage, and wp7 devices?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My gay friend is threatening to tell my fiancee about gay sex we used to have, how do I stop him? POST: He's my best friend and we grew up together and used to do pretty typical sexual experiments. We'd watch porn and jerk off together at 10. Then that proceeded to mutual touching, then ...
my gay best friend I fooled around with as a kid is threatening to break up my engagement if I don't tell my fiancee about childhood gay sex acts, this can't happen.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my ex-SO [27M] of one year. Is it breaking NC to return items without seeing/talking to the him? Also, what do I do when I see him at work functions? And other questions POST: I broke up with my SO for the final time last week after an extremely draining and difficult r...
Should I drop my ex's stuff off at his house without communicating with him? How do I handle it (and not go back to him) when I see him out?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (24m) made a drunken pass at a friend last night. Need advice about how to tell my 7 month gf (21) about it. POST: Been in a relationship for seven months, and overall it's going great. Last night I went out with a group of friends without the gf, and I've had a crush on one of them ...
confessed feelings I've had for a friend at a bar, freaking out about how to tell my girlfriend and salvage the relationship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think I have a problem. POST: I cant talk to my s/o about this because he already thinks im crazy and i dont have good enough friends who actually keep their mouths shut about other people, so here i am. I am 22/f. I have been in LTRs since i was 16 years old, with people of all p...
having issues with current boyfriend while having insecurity issues due to past relationships, he wont communicate and just calls me crazy. Advice needed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28m] am thinking about asking my gf [29f] to move in, but my ideas of a living arrangement aren't traditional POST: My girlfriend and I have been together over a year, and my roommate is planning on moving out soon, and it feels like it's time that my girlfriend and I move in toge...
Want my girlfriend to move in, but I want us to have our own rooms for nights when we could theoretically enjoy ourselves or be more productive on our own than with the other.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23 M) think my gf (22 F) is more than just friends with her "bff", what do I do? POST: So I have been seriously dating this girl for 4 years now who I met in college and actually lives in the town next to mine, and until this summer things were good. Hell they were great. Now she ...
Girlfriend of 4 years and her male "bff" who dislikes me are increasingly getting closer while her and I drift apart.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] feels like I need a girlfriend. I feel desperate. POST: So, i'm an 18 year old freshman in college and I feel so lonely. I feel like I need to be in a relationship to be happy. I've only been in one real relationship and it really screwed me up. I'm over her now. But now, I f...
I feel like I need a girlfriend and I feel sad/lonely. What's going on? What should I do? Why am I like this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: By ordering Pizza POST: So this happened a couple of weeks back, around one or two. Now how could a human being possible cause a fuck up from ordering Pizza? Well when you have parents who put so much effort into cooking you food and leaving it in the fridge for you to eat it later.......
Ordered Pizza, Paid with Credit card, Parents arrive home at same time as Pizza guy, Parents take Pizza and eat it in front of me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Cat attack! POST: Ok so my girlfriends Cat Is 2.5 years old. She was always slightly aggressive and would lunge randomly. So I suggested she go get fixed and it may help. Well nope, it got worse. Now she hisses and bites at anyone after being totally fine. She will lay in bed with us all nigh...
CAT WAS AGGRESSIVE. CAT GOT FIXED. CAT IS NOW WAY MORE AGGRESSIVE AND ATTACKS UNPROVOKED. HELP.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend admitted to having "urges and curiosities". Help me, Reddit. POST: Okay so a little background: My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now. We're both 19 and have changed from a very clingy relationship to a more open one. By open, I mean hanging out with d...
My girlfriend of over a year wants to try and kiss someone else in an attempt to re-energize our relationship and give us more direction. I am afraid of the consequences.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with a girl [15 F] How do I meet a girl whom I havent met and dont have any good mutual friends? POST: About 3 years ago, when I was always walking to the train station, and girl would get off the bus which stopped at the station. She was really cute but didn't catch my tra...
How can i meet a girl whom I only seen from a distance who I find really cute without her thinking I am a creep when the only mutual friend between us doesnt want to be friends with me anymore.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I want to spend a year on the West Coast before college, but I have no idea where to start POST: I am set to graduate highschool this year, but Im not sure what I should do afterwards. Up until today, I had been planning on going straight to college after I finished my senior year, but no...
A rising senior in highschool wants to spend a year on the west coast, making art, friends, and memories before heading to college and getting tied down, but has no idea where to start.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Former interest [F22] now wants to see where things go with me [M24] after prior, failed attempts. POST: Back in HS, I had this one girl who I always had a crush on, even if I had other girlfriends or was single, she always knew a part of me wanted her. And I still believe part of he...
Former romantic interest now has desire to get together after I put myself out there a while back. How should I handle it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21/M] dating [19/F] missionary gone for 6 months POST: I started this very plootanic relationship 7 months ago with the girl that is now my gf. We've been together officially for 4 months this week, but last month she started a missionary program. Needless to say she is now on th...
gf is away for a mission trip and on top on our relationship starting to dim, I can't get a new girl out of my thoughts.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Areas of weight loss POST: Basically lost just over a stone in the past 5 months slowly but surely. I'm now 154 pounds and a height of 5"10 - 5"11 I can never tell haha But basically i've noticed a few things since losing this weight, the very vast majority was my stomach, I lost some from ...
Lost weight a stone (was only chubby) only visible with very distinct ribs showing whilst rest still chubby. Help me :)<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19M] and my girlfriend [19F] of 1.5 years: Lack of any form of PDA now. Makes me think she doesn't want to commit anymore. POST: Last summer my girlfriend and I went through a very rough patch over the summer; both of us went home from college and we were about 2000 miles apart. We'...
Girlfriend and I used to hold hands and stuff in public, now it's down to zero PDA and it worries me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Annoyed and confused, not sure what to think. Would love some feedback. POST: I got a text from my cousin a few days ago. I was thrilled, he was going to be in town and wanted to meet up. I had this image of us meeting up and getting to know one another better. We only talk during big f...
not sure if relative really wants to spend time with me because they want to or if it's because they feel obligated.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (18f) am 'hanging out' with a guy (20'sM) this weekend and need advice POST: I've talked to this guy multiple times recently and he seemed really interesting and we have a lot in common. We've known each other in passing for awhile but only introduced ourselves a month ago and star...
Hanging out with a guy I like this weekend. What should we do and how should I communicate this to him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What if all this North Korean propaganda was to take our focus off a real, more present threat? POST: In light of all the DPRK (North Korea) propaganda recently about how they are "planning and all out attack on U.S." or that they have the ability to "fire nuclear-armed missiles that cou...
North Korea has been training teams of "hack warriors". Propaganda of sending nukes could be taking focus off the real threat: Cyber warfare.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: (CA) I signed up for health insurance with my employer I was told benefits would start in July. Still no benefits. POST: So basically I signed up for health insurance with a benefits counselor for my employer. I was told I was enrolled and my health insurance would be effective 07/01. ...
company told me I was getting health benefits, I'm still not enrolled despite being told I was several times and now HR is dodging me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M/] with my wife [21 F] 5 years, doesnt care about looks? POST: On my phone so please excuse formatting. This is a weird one, I'm sure. It feels really petty but I cant shake the feeling. My wife alleges that she doesnt have a type. We've talked about it before and I've alw...
Wife admitted that physical attraction wasnt a part of the equation when she fell in love with me, and i makes me feel shitty. I dont know what to think.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Is it wrong for me (~24/f) to hide depression/issues from bf (25/m) if everything else is going well and he's happy with the relationship? POST: I think I have chronic depression and disassociative disorder (talked with a shrink for the first time and while she said I seem pret...
i have lots of issues and don't open up to bf since i think it is my own personal issues to be dealt with with a shrink only, if anyone. is that okay?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) want to live separately from my so (20 M), to get out of our comfort and get the spark back. POST: Me (20 F) and my boyfriend (20 M) have been dating for 2 years 7 months and have moved abroad to study. We've been living together in London for nearly 2 years. Our friends and...
we've been living together with my so and I'd like to live separately to get out of our comfort zone and get our spark back, he says it's like breaking up and we should give it more time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice POST: Ok so long story short my girlfriend [f 19] and I [m 20] (together now for 4 years) were having some issues in our relationship. Distance from going to separate colleges is to blame and her fears to commit added into that sort of scared her. After being on a br...
My relationship was having problems, but we are now working through it. However, my mom talks badly about it behind my back saying that my gf has found someone else when that is not the case.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: ELI5 what being in a long lasting relationship is like POST: OK so I have been going out with this girl for 8mo so far, things for most part are pretty good (hard to say what amazing really is..can any of you? ). However we both got jobs in Oregon (currently in MN), and in the moving pr...
Describe what your long lasting relationship is like from your perspective and from your SO if you can, curious to know other peoples experience<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am 5 months out of a 7yr relationship, my friend [22F] is into me, not sure if I should ask her out. (HELP) POST: So I'm 25, have only been with one woman and that was a 7 year relationship. My ex cheated on me and left me for another if you consider that important. I've been...
Interested in a friend who's definitely into me. Only 5 months out of 7 year relationship. I therefore lack dating experience and am second guessing if my feelings are genuine. Should I ask her out?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] have a crush on my friends brother [30 M] POST: So not really sure what to do here. I have a crush on my friends brother. We are both single, I am just getting out of a pretty long marriage. The other, kind of sticky issue is that I am friends with their mom, who has essent...
My friend gave me her brothers number, dont know if i should text him or not and if so what to say.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by messing with a makeshift ramp POST: A long time ago, when I was a kid, my neighbors and I were outside playing. We were riding our bikes today, and decided to make a ramp using wood and a cinderblock. We were having fun taking turns going up the ramp and jumping off the other side. ...
messed with a makeshift ramp, friend went up it, and got 5 feet of asphalt road rash. Got called out on it, lied, and ran off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Hey Reddit, can you please help me out? (Details inside and through link) POST: Hey Reddit, could do me a huge favour and Vote for this NON-Profit organization that I support? (Link below) V.E.T.S Canada reaches out to homeless and at-risk military veterans in Canada (as well as The States)....
Please vote for us, we're a Non-profit for Homeless Veterans. We're in a competition and have a good chace at winning $5000 for our non-profit!"<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (17/f) am trying to decide whether to break up with my boyfriend (18/m) POST: My life/relationships are usually reminiscent of a shitty soap opera, but this is getting annoying and awful. I (17/f) am dating a guy (18/m), and have been for 7 months. We were really happy. But ...
I don't know how to decide whether to break up with my boyfriend or not, because I don't know if I have feelings for him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Are we just bad at texting or is there something wrong? POST: So I'm dating this guy (gay) who is a year younger than me (16) and we've been together for almost a month. I love everything about him, he's a seriously awesome guy and he's amazing and when we're together, we cuddle and ...
I love texting him but I always feel like I bug him when I do, we never have a huge amount to talk about but we love spending time together and I don't know if it's normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17F] with my guy [18 M] long time, I don't know what to do.... POST: I have a long distance relationship with a guy, it's not labeled as boyfriend/girlfriend because we both realize long distance is hard, but we treat eachother as though we're dating. I've told him everything, al...
I have, basically a boyfriend, that is long distance, got lonely, talked to other guys. Now they won't stop talking to me, and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28/m) should have known better then to let her (25/f) back into my life. POST: We had a terrible break up last November and its taken me this entire year to get over it. Finally when I was back up on my feet and feeling good about everything and was dating again she gave me a cal...
My ex came back into my life for a week and then left just as fast. I feel like I'm right back where I started.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Think my sister is back on drugs... POST: Hey Reddit, I'm an 18 yo with two older sisters (25, 27). My middle sister has always been a ~~drama queen~~ problem child, going through a rough high school life, getting to college, getting into cocaine and never graduating. As far as I know, s...
I want some advice on how to confront my sketchy sister on her drug abuse/addiction when I know she will probably jus tile or write me off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24/M] have a lingering trust problem with her [28/F] fidelity/attention POST: Been dating this person since August with a few ups and downs; nothing I can't reconcile after talking and thinking. One topic that has come up every once and a while is that she sometimes has this overw...
How do I bring this topic up in a direct way and have her understand that I just want to trust her more and not being accusatory?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I drop one of my credit cards? POST: I have never had a balance, I have a small financing on my car solely for credit purposes, many years of living in cash saved up, 800+ credit score. Never missed a payment on anything ever. I have 3 personal cards: Two of them are rewa...
Should I close a credit card account to increase my average account age from 8.25 to 9.33 years, at the expense of my credit line going from 27k to 23k?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Having trouble choosing what I want to go to school for POST: I (20f) have been thinking about what path I'd like to take with my schooling for about two years now. Three years ago I was taking two of the bare minimum pre-requisites required, English and Algebra. Then some family issues cam...
Can't decide whether to follow the money or follow the dream with my schooling. Need help and input of others who were in similar situations.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [22 M] is struggling with dating after a long relationship. POST: In 2012 I left an extremely long relationship 5+ years (she cheated with more than one guy alongside a healthy dose of emotional manipulation to me over a few years). After about 6 months of being single and g...
I'm actually beginning to fear that I won't find someone because my romantic personality and my hope of having something other than just a physical relationship. What should I do r/relationships_advice ?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Questions about entertaining neighborhood children on Halloween night POST: First off, I apologize if this is not the appropriate place to ask this, but I figured parents are the people I need to talk to so I came here first! If there is another subreddit where this would be better suite...
Own a princess party business; want to advertise in my neighborhood on Halloween by dressing up as a princess. What should I do to engage the neighborhood kids other than just handing out candy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] was referred to date a colleague [25F], but I'm not interested. How do I let her know without it backfiring? POST: A few months back a few colleagues asked me to "hangout" after work, but this hangout was actually a match making date they had planned without asking me. I was...
Referred to date a colleague, but I'm not interested. I'm not sure how to let her down without hurting the work environment. She moves 3 hours away at the end of June.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Asked a girl for her name, shyness drowned out her answer. POST: She (24?) has been coming in to my small restaurant for a year or so. She wears glasses; which is a turn on. I (31) also like how she occupies herself during her meal - If she's reading a funny book (the books are all...
Asked her for her name, didn't quite catch it. May have come off rude, shyness is my excuse.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19/m] am too attached to my [20/f] girlfriend. POST: We have been dating for 2 years and were talking on the phone the other night and she told me that I don't give her enough space to be her own self outside of our relationship. I usually text/call her a fair amount becaus...
I am too attached to my girlfriend and need to give her more of her own space, but i'm struggling with it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] desperately need to stop being hung up on this guy [25M]. POST: Long story short: I met a very long-time internet friend for the first time while away on business this summer. Things went really, really, really well. So well, in fact, that we talked very seriously about mak...
I'm hopelessly hung up on this guy. What can I do to change that beyond what I've already tried?<|endoftext|>