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NoMedium3005
2023-06-11 21:14:21
1,686,518,061
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1475ku4
true
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/1475ku4/online_dating_and_maybe_dating_in_general_is/
22
Thinking a lot about the experiences I've had in app dating over the past several months, things have really gotten less enjoyable and frustrating out there. Reading through the comments here and the very harsh way people view dating, it paints a bit of the picture why. I truly believe that online dating (and dating in...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Online dating (and maybe dating in general) is broken because people want to have the benefits of a relationship without putting in the effort, commitment or acknowledging the exclusivity of one. I'm also ending everything in my life.
22
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1475ku4/online_dating_and_maybe_dating_in_general_is/
RslWlsn3
2021-11-10 20:03:39
1,636,574,619
null
null
0
qr2uym
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/qr2uym/how_would_you_feel_about_a_dating_app_with/
0
What if you were able only able to send questions and responses from a big list of options (similar questions on OKC)? You would also be able to send gifs, emojis, and punctuations and add them to your questions and responses, just no text(besides the options in the app). The idea is that you can learn about the other ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How would you feel about a dating app with limited chatting?
null
0.46
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qr2uym/how_would_you_feel_about_a_dating_app_with/
largemeeech
2024-08-21 00:44:45
1,724,201,085
0
['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
1exc37z
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1exc37z/is_there_a_good_dating_app_thats_not_typical/
1
I've been using these apps for a while and I hate getting bombarded by these ridiculously high pay walls, and it hurts more when I get a match after about a month or so and it's just someone trying to promote their OF or trying to scam me. I just wanna find someone, man.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is there a good dating app that's not typical Tinder or Hinge?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1exc37z/is_there_a_good_dating_app_thats_not_typical/
Ok_Air_7892
2024-01-07 06:40:40
1,704,609,640
0
['matches']
0
190lzx6
true
null
19
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/190lzx6/should_i_have_stayed_with_my_fuck_buddy/
4
I broke things off with my fuck buddy last week because it was affecting my self esteem. I have never though I deserved anything more than just sexually serving a man so I did it for 5 years. I did enjoy making him feel good but it was not reciprocated. I didn’t ask for it, he didn’t offer and I was okay with that. I’m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I have stayed with my fuck buddy?
4
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/190lzx6/should_i_have_stayed_with_my_fuck_buddy/
reygunz5636
2016-12-14 09:03:10
1,481,706,190
0
null
0
5i9m4f
null
null
3
null
/r/OnlineDating/comments/5i9m4f/being_cliché/
2
Thinking about trying online dating again. Didn't have much luck in the past, but I have more realistic expectations now. In the past I had been given advice not to be cliché in my profile. I found it extremely hard to "stand out" and be honest. Now I'm thinking its all about the photos and if I'm cliché, so be it. Wha...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Being cliché?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/5i9m4f/being_cliché/
FairMind21
2022-02-28 01:45:43
1,646,012,743
null
['matches', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
t33nsr
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/t33nsr/should_i_m30_delete_or_hide_tinderbumble/
0
Hey everyone, hope you're well! I (M/30) was just considering deleting Tinder and Bumble as I feel like at this point it isn't helping me in dating. I signed up for the apps two months ago and found that I got matches on first day, and since then essentially got maybe 3 matches over the past couple of months with no co...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I (M/30) delete (or hide) Tinder/Bumble?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t33nsr/should_i_m30_delete_or_hide_tinderbumble/
MusicalDelights
2024-06-06 19:29:16
1,717,702,156
0
['swiped']
0
1d9qq9g
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9qq9g/girlfriend_seems_devious/
1
Hello. My (31m) girlfriend (29f) have been together for around 5 months officially. I asked her to be official after she insinuated it a few months prior. I stopped talking to any other girls a few weeks before I asked and kind of went all in (maybe too much). For a few months things were great. I saw a consistent male...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girlfriend seems devious.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9qq9g/girlfriend_seems_devious/
rddtllthng5
2024-09-09 02:48:09
1,725,850,089
0
null
0
1fcfdoc
true
null
1
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fcfdoc/cmm_women_will_complain_about_mirror_selfies_but/
1
Even if the women says she's looking for a serious relationship (aka all of them) and that she will swipe left on a guy who looks like he's only looking for a hookup, she will, in reality, swipe right on a thirst trap.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
CMM: Women will complain about mirror selfies but still swipe right if the guy is hot
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fcfdoc/cmm_women_will_complain_about_mirror_selfies_but/
porn_stashe
2018-07-23 14:37:15
1,532,356,635
null
['tinder']
0
917l9t
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/917l9t/nervous_about_first_tinder_hookup/
2
Hi, hope this is the right place to post this. (I also posted in /r/sex) I'm a 23M and I've got a date tomorrow night with a 21F. We're going to a low key bar down the street, and then to my place (we've already discussed this). Here's the thing: I'm a virgin. It's not for any weird/gross/creepy reason. I had strict re...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Nervous about first Tinder hookup
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/917l9t/nervous_about_first_tinder_hookup/
Excellent_Rip4125
2024-07-13 03:07:44
1,720,840,064
0
['facebook dating']
0
1e208a8
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e208a8/cheating_and_denies_love_stinks/
0
Is this eloquent enough ? I recently found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. I've had suspicions and very many red flags but couldn't find myself to separate because I am very much in love with him. We fool ourselves so easily.. I found out because he has been active on fb dating. A friend of mine messaged me h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Cheating and denies; love stinks
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e208a8/cheating_and_denies_love_stinks/
curlygirl507
2018-08-26 16:39:52
1,535,301,592
null
null
0
9agvw4
true
null
116
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/9agvw4/rant_why_i_quit_online_dating/
23
Hi. I see a lot of men talking about how terrible online dating is, that there aren't enough women, too many bots, that they feel they're just being used for free meals, and so on. Well, I'm a woman who recently quit online dating because it has been so terrible for me, too, and I just wanted to vent about it and maybe...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Rant: Why I quit online dating
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9agvw4/rant_why_i_quit_online_dating/
d01357
2018-08-28 16:09:33
1,535,472,573
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder']
0
9b07x7
true
Question
6
0
/r/dating/comments/9b07x7/i_need_advice_about_reasoning_of_dating_25male/
1
Long story short. I'm pretty popular with girls but I can't find inner drive to be interested in them. I am not gay I like normal porn and I like to have sexual relationships with girls. But I can't find anything that I would chase. That I would be interested in and want to know how everyday is going for her. Even at t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I need advice about reasoning of dating! (25Male)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9b07x7/i_need_advice_about_reasoning_of_dating_25male/
rising2power
2021-01-20 07:35:50
1,611,128,150
null
['online dating']
0
l14f1m
true
Tinder/Online Dating
19
0
/r/dating/comments/l14f1m/tired_of_one_week_dating/
4
I’m 25M and consider myself good looking, but besides my recent relationship that I was in because we both worked together, when it comes to online dating, me and the girl would talk for like a week or two and that’s it, we’ll never talk again. It’s like they lose interest super quick. Maybe it’s because with online da...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tired of one week dating
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l14f1m/tired_of_one_week_dating/
triplewee
2020-05-12 06:22:51
1,589,264,571
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
gi5lfn
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gi5lfn/my_tinder_match_ignores_or_is_oblivious_to_my/
1
So I matched with this old friend of mine from my home town since I've moved back, and I cannot for the life of me think if we matched because he remembered me or if he actually is interested in me. I know I really should just outright ask him, but we text everyday and every flirty message he sends a non flirty joke ba...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My Tinder match ignores or is oblivious to my flirting
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gi5lfn/my_tinder_match_ignores_or_is_oblivious_to_my/
NoConstruction5005
2021-05-17 04:11:27
1,621,224,687
null
['bumble']
0
ne6ci2
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ne6ci2/me_26m_and_this_girl_ive_been_seeing_29f_single/
3
So I've been seeing this girl now for about a two months, whom I met off of bumble. We hit it off very well, before our first date she told me how she had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship with the her baby's daddy (kid is 5) and was not looking for anything and was just curious? I was cool with that because I t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Me (26m) and this girl I've been seeing (29F) single mom confused on what she actually wants her actions don't match her words.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ne6ci2/me_26m_and_this_girl_ive_been_seeing_29f_single/
Conscious-Shock-8
2023-06-16 02:29:08
1,686,882,548
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
14ako3u
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/14ako3u/dating_advice/
1
I am a 34yo lesbian. My long-term ex dumped me after I had a clinical diagnosis. Meanwhile a lot of things happened in my life and I've had a couple dates. The issue is that the kind of woman I feel attracted to are difficult cases: - Case 1 - I had a date with a married woman and we're going on a 2nd date soon. She sa...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating advice
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14ako3u/dating_advice/
AcanthisittaFun5598
2022-02-01 12:18:13
1,643,717,893
null
null
0
shtnaq
true
null
2
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/shtnaq/venting_scammer_sending_me_d_pic/
0
Not sure if any of you can relate but. So I matched with this guy on a dating app. I feel a bit strange that he wanted to take the convo elsewhere but I agreed because the chat on the app wasn't that great. He started off nice but then he asked me to do some kind of crypto trading with him. I didn't think it was normal...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Venting - scammer sending me d pic.
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/shtnaq/venting_scammer_sending_me_d_pic/
catmeowpur1
2024-04-10 14:55:42
1,712,760,942
0
null
0
1c0nk2y
true
null
42
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c0nk2y/why_are_people_dming_me_on_this_app/
16
Do people use Reddit for dating? I would say I am fairly new to this app only been on this for a year for the communities. I keep getting private message requests from random men. I am confused as to why this is happening. I wonder how they even found me. Is this normal?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Why are people DMing me on this app?
16
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c0nk2y/why_are_people_dming_me_on_this_app/
totramar
2023-08-06 02:46:27
1,691,289,987
0
['tinder']
0
15jea6p
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15jea6p/went_on_two_dates_with_a_girl_both_went_extremely/
1
So I went on two dates with a girl that I met on tinder. Both times we went for dinner and there was a lot of chemistry and honestly everything went very well. After each date she would text me to thank me and to tell me she had a wonderful time. However, when I try to keep texting her the next day she becomes quite co...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Went on two dates with a girl, both went extremely well but she is distant when texting after
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15jea6p/went_on_two_dates_with_a_girl_both_went_extremely/
topknot78
2022-05-05 02:38:15
1,651,718,295
null
['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping']
0
uinahi
true
null
59
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/uinahi/swiping_right_frequency/
12
F/44 in California - My break from apps was short lived. I’m back on and I’m noticing I rarely ever swipe right It’s a small pool where I am as it is - even still I set my age and distance filters and I’d gotten to the end of everyone and only swiped right like 5-7 times 😳 What in the world?? In the real world I see g...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Swiping right frequency?
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/uinahi/swiping_right_frequency/
SunriseFitVibes
2024-06-27 15:25:45
1,719,501,945
0
['tinder']
0
1dptzwr
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dptzwr/did_i_enter_the_friend_zone_because_the_sex_wasnt/
1
I (42f) joined Tinder for the sole reason to find a monotonous relationship with someone I enjoy hanging out with, but am not working toward anything serious/permanent. I just want a boyfriend I have chemistry with 😊 So I met this guy (40m) liked him, went out twice and we slept together. It was awesome the first time...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I enter the friend zone because the sex wasn’t great?
1
0.42
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dptzwr/did_i_enter_the_friend_zone_because_the_sex_wasnt/
eating_at_ihop
2024-01-18 03:27:43
1,705,548,463
0
['dating apps']
0
199gcds
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/199gcds/where_to_meet_christian_singles/
3
Hello people of Reddit , I would love to enter the dating scene. My faith is very important to me. Unfortunately, I go to a small church where there are barely any people my age (late 20s) and most are not single. What would you do in this situation, it seems odd to change churches just to expand my dating pool. Are mo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Where to meet Christian singles
3
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199gcds/where_to_meet_christian_singles/
Most-Worldliness-669
2021-04-14 03:03:19
1,618,369,399
null
['matches']
0
mqhwgj
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/mqhwgj/looking_for_tips_on_how_to_date_again_its_been/
1
Im a 25m my last relationship ended about 4 years ago and ive started to try and date again. Im not very straight forward nor am i great at conversations due to my horrid fear of boring people. Ive had no luck on apps mostly just ghost matches or i start a decent convo to then get unmatched in the next hour. Im very sl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Looking for tips on how to date again. Its been about 4 years for me.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mqhwgj/looking_for_tips_on_how_to_date_again_its_been/
Con-Sordino
2024-07-07 02:56:49
1,720,321,009
0
['tinder']
0
1dx6kg0
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1dx6kg0/i_want_creative_women_only/
0
I'm a composer and I've also worked as a videogame designer, so I am very creative. And I have thus come to the conclusion that I only want creative (as in art and creation) women. This is not only so that we have a "common language", but also because of the fact that if a creative person is together with an uncreative...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I want creative women only
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dx6kg0/i_want_creative_women_only/
SirAggravating141
2023-08-04 12:00:48
1,691,150,448
0
null
0
15hy6mb
true
null
64
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15hy6mb/should_i_text_the_guy_who_vanished_after_date_2/
1
Basically went on 2 dates with a guy I met online. He seemed genuinely nice and into me. However, I am an anxious person and I told him as such since I knew I can come off a bit odd when nervous. I also told him I like to take things slow, ie It takes me a while to get comfortable with physical touch or anyone invading...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I text the guy who vanished after date 2?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15hy6mb/should_i_text_the_guy_who_vanished_after_date_2/
Protomize
2021-04-17 23:28:44
1,618,702,124
null
null
0
mt1lgb
true
null
82
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/mt1lgb/physical_attraction_is_the_most_important_trait/
99
Why? Because most relationships start because both people are physically attracted to each other. Then, personality and life value compatibility retains that relationship. Plenty of times there could be two people who are an excellent match in terms of companionship and core values but will never get to know one anothe...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Physical attraction is the most important trait.
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mt1lgb/physical_attraction_is_the_most_important_trait/
Whale31777
2023-02-21 16:32:12
1,676,997,132
null
['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1188r7v
true
Question ❓
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1188r7v/my_experience/
2
I’m writing this post just to see if my dating experience is the same as others. As a man, I’ve had a fair number of dates. Been in a few relationships. Patterns that I’ve seen are: Most women want to be single. Women are generally much pickier about who they date, let alone who they start a relationship with. I think ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My experience.
null
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1188r7v/my_experience/
Tovar203
2024-04-03 20:02:58
1,712,174,578
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1bv2nwx
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bv2nwx/do_i_make_a_move/
1
I (22m) matched with this girl on Tinder from my college a few years back and although she was interested, I decided to let the conversation fizzle out as I wasn’t extremely interested. Flash forward to finding her account again, and she had an incredible glow up -I’d love to talk to her again but it’s been a few weeks...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do I make a move?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bv2nwx/do_i_make_a_move/
invisaligns
2020-07-03 21:51:20
1,593,813,080
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
hkrpty
true
Question
5
0
/r/dating/comments/hkrpty/does_texting_correlate_with_interest/
2
The guy I'm seeing (nothing official, it's been about a week since we first matched on Bumble) rarely texts. He prefers snapchatting (goodnight snaps, photos with brief text) and we only use texting to arrange dates. We hung out on Tuesday and it was great. We got to know more about each other and he was very affection...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does texting correlate with interest?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hkrpty/does_texting_correlate_with_interest/
Hilpert765
2024-01-24 04:11:40
1,706,069,500
0
['dating app']
0
19e8ado
true
I Need Advice 😩
45
0
/r/dating/comments/19e8ado/she_came_on_a_date_with_a_list_of_questions_and/
19
I've been going on dates for a few months now but never really succeeded yet. However, recently I met this girl on a popular dating app and invited her on a date to the restaurant. I think we liked each other but there is a catch: We sat down and I immediately noticed that she acted a little weird, often opening her ph...
dating
t5_2qhb1
She came on a date with a list of questions and recorded everything I said. How do I approach this?
19
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19e8ado/she_came_on_a_date_with_a_list_of_questions_and/
RachzellaDawn
2022-06-21 11:43:23
1,655,811,803
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder']
0
vhbde3
true
null
50
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vhbde3/what_to_do_with_unsolicited_junk_pictures_from/
10
Hey, weird question I know. I am not even 100% sure if it’s allowed, I hope it is. Yes I read the rules, Also I don’t mean to insult or judge. Anyhoot I started my online dating profile on tinder. 20F Which went okay, but I get a lot of my matches asking if I could add them on snap, or they add me on insta. They feel t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to do with unsolicited junk pictures from men I met online
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vhbde3/what_to_do_with_unsolicited_junk_pictures_from/
Ancient_Ad_1667
2022-12-12 02:12:08
1,670,811,128
null
['bumble']
0
zjjc7c
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zjjc7c/is_it_normal_when_your_fwb_is_clingy_around_you/
3
I'm 22 (F) and now currently in a fwb relationship with the guy I met on bumble, we're seeing each other for months now, during our first meet yeah he was clingy but not like how he act like the last time we saw each other (last week) this one's more intense, when im sleeping lying down right after fucking he usually l...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
is it normal when your fwb is clingy around you?
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zjjc7c/is_it_normal_when_your_fwb_is_clingy_around_you/
ValentineVision2020
2023-03-27 18:48:15
1,679,942,895
null
null
0
123wc35
true
null
51
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/123wc35/women_who_dont_list_their_mothers_on_their_page/
2
Gentlemen of OLD. What are your thoughts on when matching with a young lady who isn't forthcoming that she is mother? Whether that she doesn't tell you right away or doesnt list or identify it on her page publicly.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Women Who Don't list their Mothers on their page....
null
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/123wc35/women_who_dont_list_their_mothers_on_their_page/
necondaa
2019-04-11 23:57:55
1,555,027,075
null
['tinder']
0
bc6zuo
true
Question
6
0
/r/dating/comments/bc6zuo/talking_to_a_girl_who_i_have_mix_feelings_about/
1
Recently I've been talking to this girl I met through tinder,we're both seniors in high school and she's pretty cute. We've been talking about how she'd be way too much for me and that she has s different style,but I'd love her for the way she is. Is that too much to ask? Should I continue to pursue for her?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Talking to a girl who I have mix feelings about
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bc6zuo/talking_to_a_girl_who_i_have_mix_feelings_about/
overlytalkativegirl
2024-08-12 03:57:46
1,723,435,066
0
['swiping', 'dating apps']
0
1eq43rw
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1eq43rw/lost_hope_on_dating/
2
I’m a 30F and have had 2 failed relationships in less than 2 years because the men didn’t see value in putting effort into the relationship. Anyway, after a lot of self reflection and therapy, I got back on the dating apps a few months after my most recent break up. Text conversations either don’t go anywhere or things...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lost hope on dating
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eq43rw/lost_hope_on_dating/
IAmZBeast
2019-07-04 03:31:22
1,562,211,082
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
c8xmjj
true
null
23
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/c8xmjj/i_asked_a_bumble_match_to_tell_my_about_her/
8
I'm not even exaggerating. Her opening line was "on a scale of 1 to popping open a bottle of champagne, how excited are you that we matched?" And I said "what flavor of champagne is it?" And we joked about that for about 3 messages each. Then I asked her "so tell me a bit about ya. Hobbies, your career, etc." And then ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I asked a bumble match to tell my about her hobbies, career, etc. and then she unmatched me. What did I do wrong???
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c8xmjj/i_asked_a_bumble_match_to_tell_my_about_her/
venus-is-trapped
2022-07-14 16:30:55
1,657,816,255
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
vz02ey
true
Tinder/Online Dating
3
0
/r/dating/comments/vz02ey/dating_app_is_a_misnomer/
1
I’m female. My experience with both known and unknown dating apps has been awful. I haven’t been able to arrange dates with the massive amount of people who are only focused on hooking up and/or keeping me in some grey area in which we cannot move further. I hold firm on my boundaries of not wanting to fuck a complete ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
“Dating app” is a misnomer
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vz02ey/dating_app_is_a_misnomer/
sensispace
2023-11-30 17:36:28
1,701,365,788
0
['matches']
0
187o6mm
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/187o6mm/totally_new_to_dating/
1
I don't specifically want to date somebody now, i am in my college (20M), and the thing is I don't understand the concept behind dating, like how can i just go out with a random girl and then fall in love with her, it's like an alien thing to me, if i am anywhere wrong, please guys and girls whoever are reading this po...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Totally new to Dating
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/187o6mm/totally_new_to_dating/
Thrownawaytoday1313
2022-04-03 09:39:55
1,648,978,795
null
['tinder']
0
tv5lqz
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/tv5lqz/i_hate_mixed_signals/
2
I met this girl on tinder and we have gone on two dates but been chatting for a while and all has been going super well. Last night she finally started sending kissing emojis and generally being a bit more flirty. We have been chatting on messenger. Just checked tinder though and she has suddenly changed a load of phot...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I hate mixed signals
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tv5lqz/i_hate_mixed_signals/
Express-Ad1368
2024-06-18 19:02:33
1,718,737,353
0
['OLD', 'hinge']
0
1diyl3g
true
null
53
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1diyl3g/disappeared_mid_convo_a_rant/
13
Recently have been trying OLD again,and joined hinge a couple of months ago and hadn't had much success so far. Last ten days have been messaging a lot with one person. We got on really well and he sent me a message this morning wishing me a great day. I went to reply this afternoon (ironically was going to suggest a m...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Disappeared mid convo -A rant
13
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1diyl3g/disappeared_mid_convo_a_rant/
empyreanhaze
2011-12-14 00:51:15
1,323,823,875
2
['okcupid']
null
nbq9z
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/nbq9z/how_does_a_date_escalate_past_a_platonic_activity/
7
I'm 30 (M) and I haven't dated in a long time. Basically assume I've never really dated. I've been on a good number of dates through friends and OKCupid but I seem to get stuck in a situation where the dates feel platonic. I've managed a couple of goodnight kisses and hugs. My questions: - I have the vague sense that I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How does a date escalate past a platonic activity?
9
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nbq9z/how_does_a_date_escalate_past_a_platonic_activity/
Fylgja
2011-06-03 18:37:54
1,307,126,274
0
['matches']
null
hqxze
null
null
4
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/hqxze/how_can_i_better_defining_what_im_looking_for/
1
Hi there, 22 M here. I feel that I'm in a peculiar situation, hoping to get a bit of advice. I've never been great at approaching girls, romantically or otherwise. In fact, I've only ever successfully asked 1 girl out, and that ended rather quickly (dumb freshman relationship, never even went on any 'real' dates). I ha...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I better defining what I'm "looking for?"
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hqxze/how_can_i_better_defining_what_im_looking_for/
PaleBlueDot9
2019-05-05 14:47:19
1,557,067,639
null
null
0
bkyj14
true
null
18
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/bkyj14/am_i_the_only_one_not_getting_my_teeth_whitened/
5
This is a serious issue if you ask me. I dont know how many guys get it done, but it seems like just about every woman that shows a smile in her photos has her teeth whitened. And I guarantee that if a woman is getting her teeth whitened, and she meets up with me the first time, she is probably disgusted with my teeth ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Am I the only one not getting my teeth whitened?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bkyj14/am_i_the_only_one_not_getting_my_teeth_whitened/
freudian_slip1
2019-06-18 18:21:07
1,560,882,067
null
['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble']
0
c25snr
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/c25snr/turning_negativity_and_loneliness_into_something/
38
We see so much negativity and hopelessness on this sub, I wanted to share a positive story. While those negative emotions are a part of dating, we can’t forget that sometimes things feel positive too. Throughout my late teens, I trapped myself in a series of awful, manipulative relationships. I settled for someone who ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Turning negativity and loneliness into something positive
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c25snr/turning_negativity_and_loneliness_into_something/
martoniousblockus
2022-09-13 14:48:33
1,663,080,513
null
['tinder']
0
xd9jm2
true
I Need Advice 😩
22
0
/r/dating/comments/xd9jm2/frequency_of_contact/
2
I (f33) met a guy my age on tinder a few weeks ago. We’ve gone on four dates. Last time I saw him I mentioned I noticed our chats disappeared on tinder. He said he had deleted the app because “he’s not looking for anyone else”. I asked what it was he was looking for and he said dating with the goal of it turning into a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Frequency of contact?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xd9jm2/frequency_of_contact/
metallica11
2018-02-27 16:03:16
1,519,747,396
null
['online dating']
0
80nj85
false
null
24
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/80nj85/those_that_have_had_enough_and_made_the_concious/
24
Finding someone is no gaurantee. It often follows no discernable pattern of effort versus reward. good people get their hearts broken, while bad people that put no effort in seem to have everything just""fall in their laps". Often times, the root cause of ones' issues is not clear. how can you fix it if you don't know ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Those that have had enough and made the concious decision to not put any more energy into trying to find someone.....how are things? what is your new "life" like?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/80nj85/those_that_have_had_enough_and_made_the_concious/
WannabeOceanBoi
2020-06-02 23:35:03
1,591,140,903
null
['online dating']
0
gvilyw
true
Question
1
0
/r/dating/comments/gvilyw/hey_yall_got_any_advice_on_where_to_start_where/
1
I've only ever tried to date the people around me but now that I've joined the military I don't really have any way of meeting anyone I can pursue, since I don't want to date another service member. What would be the best places for me to get into the online dating world? Thanks!
dating
t5_2qhb1
Hey yall, got any advice on where to start where dating?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gvilyw/hey_yall_got_any_advice_on_where_to_start_where/
eobardthawne19
2022-09-22 21:46:54
1,663,883,214
null
null
0
xleekj
true
null
4
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/xleekj/i_get_a_fair_amount_of_matches_but_irl_i_get/
2
I’m a 22 male I get a fair amount of matches on online dating and have been on 2 dates that wast bad but I’ve noticed I get anxiety/shy if I decide to go up to a women so I can ask them out and because of that I’m thinking about deleting the dating app until I improve on asking a woman out IRL what do y’all think? ?? I...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I get a fair amount of matches but IRL I get anxiety/shy when it comes to asking a woman out
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xleekj/i_get_a_fair_amount_of_matches_but_irl_i_get/
SpicyBagadonuts
2023-12-26 21:35:34
1,703,626,534
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
18riwu3
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/18riwu3/my_date_got_awkward_and_i_wonder_if_i_handled_it/
2
Hi all. I'm a lonime lurker, first-time poster here, so hopefully I'm doing this correctly. Background on me: I (28M) am definitely no Casanova, but I'm at least seeing some activity on the dating front. I use dating apps to meet people - I'm much more comfortable approaching someone on a dating app than in real life, ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My date got awkward and I wonder if I handled it well.
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18riwu3/my_date_got_awkward_and_i_wonder_if_i_handled_it/
sayitwithurchester
2023-11-24 04:17:48
1,700,799,468
0
['matches']
0
182jcws
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/182jcws/the_guy_im_making_makes_me_feel_kinda_insecure/
1
I'm (26) a black woman, currently giving a nice guy (36 also black) a try. I met this man 2 years ago and we've been friends ever since. As he got to know me, he realized he had feelings for me but I was in a relationship so he always respected my boundaries and never professed or acted on his feelings until a year ago...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The guy I'm making makes me feel kinda insecure
1
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/182jcws/the_guy_im_making_makes_me_feel_kinda_insecure/
prettyfacefangurl666
2021-05-16 21:39:48
1,621,201,188
null
['tinder']
0
ndyouo
true
I Need Advice
22
0
/r/dating/comments/ndyouo/going_on_tinder_as_soon_as_i_turn_18/
0
I (17f) have been in love. Or any of the other stuff that come with that. I have only had 1 boyfriend and I don't think he counts because we were 12. It made me not want to date anybody else though. So up until I went to college. Then covid hit in March. So yh... I was think about going on tinder because I'm curious ab...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Going on tinder as soon as I turn 18?
null
0.47
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ndyouo/going_on_tinder_as_soon_as_i_turn_18/
Mr_Jek
2023-04-20 02:26:35
1,681,957,595
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
12siu6f
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
4
0
/r/dating/comments/12siu6f/a_conversation_with_a_tinder_match_got_sexual_and/
3
I’m 24 and never had sex and I think for some reason I have some really weird hang ups about it. I’m always too scared to approach any woman I find attractive because I think they’ll see me as a total creep no matter what, I assume any interest is a big practical joke on me and get really nervous when I realise someone...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A conversation with a tinder match got sexual and it made me realise that for some reason I just don’t see myself as being attractive to anyone
3
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12siu6f/a_conversation_with_a_tinder_match_got_sexual_and/
SeizureSalad151
2019-01-26 09:54:44
1,548,496,484
null
['tinder']
0
ajzngf
true
null
118
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ajzngf/i_lost_my_virginity_to_a_random_guy_from_tinder/
334
Heyo I don’t know if anyone remembers or not but I’m the girl who made a post freaking out about losing her virginity to a random tinder hookup. I deleted that post a couple of hours after I made it because I was really embarrassed by it. But long story short, I went through with it last Sunday night. Some thoughts tha...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I lost my virginity to a random guy from Tinder
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ajzngf/i_lost_my_virginity_to_a_random_guy_from_tinder/
hmmm321123
2016-12-23 17:20:59
1,482,513,659
0
['online dating', 'dating site']
0
5jy77d
null
null
4
null
/r/dating/comments/5jy77d/dating_advice/
3
Hi All, I'm wondering if you could help me out. I met a great girl through an online dating site. We've gone on a couple dates, and I have even went out with her and a couple of her friends one night. That was actually the last time we went out, about a week ago. On the site, one of the questions is about personal spac...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating advice
3
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5jy77d/dating_advice/
rosebud1997
2019-11-25 22:49:47
1,574,722,187
null
['tinder']
0
e1oad9
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e1oad9/no_second_datewhats_wrong_with_me/
1
I (21f) went on a date with a guy(21m) I met on tinder. I had met him before at my job so I felt comfortable meeting him in person- plus we had something in common/something to talk about. We got drinks at a swanky bar he picked. The date went fine- I thought. But it’s been 2 weeks since we went out and I would have th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
No second date...what’s wrong with me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e1oad9/no_second_datewhats_wrong_with_me/
ADHD_Misunderstood
2024-05-04 00:59:25
1,714,784,365
0
['dating apps']
0
1cjo53h
true
null
17
0
/r/AskMen/comments/1cjo53h/how_do_you_meet_women_after_30/
12
I'd like some romance back in my life. I mean. I still have some personal stuff to work through. I probably won't be ready for a lil while. But I just dont know how to meet people anymore. Most women I've been with I met through school or a bar. But I've been out of school for like 10 years now and I don't drink anymor...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How do you meet women after 30
10
0.73
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cjo53h/how_do_you_meet_women_after_30/
127648bluepaper
2019-05-15 19:57:32
1,557,950,252
null
['dating app']
0
bp2o0h
true
null
5
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bp2o0h/decided_to_stop_dating_completely_need_some/
5
So after many abusive, terrible relationships that have emotionally destroyed me as a person I’ve decided to finally just stop. It’s honestly terrifying to stop when you’re a serial dater. I just date constantly hoping something will work and nothing does. I’ve lost every single piece of myself and I barely know anythi...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Decided to stop dating completely. Need some support.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bp2o0h/decided_to_stop_dating_completely_need_some/
jes113
2022-03-14 04:53:21
1,647,233,601
null
null
0
tdphul
true
null
48
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/tdphul/bumble_replies/
23
I see a lot of posts about how people don't respond on OLD. Here is the thing. Most of the time I see the comments are from men saying that they match with woman and bubble but they don't reach out. I joined bumble with the hopes of nit having to deal with as many scammers. I have to say there are less but they are sti...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
bumble replies
null
0.97
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tdphul/bumble_replies/
Adorable-Natural6847
2023-12-22 04:58:02
1,703,221,082
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
18o6yj8
true
null
23
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/18o6yj8/41m_need_advice/
4
41 m I just recently found myself single, not by choice. But I never really dated. I don’t go to clubs/bars. Don’t know how to meet women who are available in my area… I’ve tried dating apps and well they all suck to me.. I don’t want to spend money on an app to even see or message matches.. I consider myself decently ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
41m need advice..
4
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18o6yj8/41m_need_advice/
Kmlee2773399
2023-04-26 02:20:49
1,682,475,649
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble']
0
12z3k6l
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12z3k6l/met_on_bumble_and_became_friends_now_i_want_to/
1
Last summer I (32f) moved to a new town where I knew no one. I was really hesitant about dating someone when first moving here because I wanted to make friends first. I put on my dating app profile that I was looking for friends but was open to something becoming more. I matched this this guy "Mike" (37m) online and me...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met on Bumble and Became friends. Now I want to ask him out
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12z3k6l/met_on_bumble_and_became_friends_now_i_want_to/
Super_Chilled_Reader
2023-11-08 20:22:42
1,699,474,962
0
['bumble', 'hinge']
0
17qund8
true
Seeking Advice
162
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/17qund8/going_to_try_hinge_now_help_please/
36
Deleted Bumble, that ended up being a dumpster fire. Going to give Hinge a try, please be kind and let me know if my profile looks good. I'm sure I'll be deleting by the weekend 🤦🏻‍♀️ https://imgur.com/a/PwnbFWv
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Going to try Hinge now... Help please.
36
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17qund8/going_to_try_hinge_now_help_please/
educated_farts
2022-06-08 04:26:45
1,654,662,405
null
['tinder']
0
v7gsuz
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/v7gsuz/no_romantic_connection_after_second_date/
1
So I (28M) met a nice lady (36F) on Tinder. She said she was looking for a serious relationship. I was all about it We talked for a while. I complimented her a few times, and she never once complimented me on anything, but she would send me good morning texts practically every day for two weeks (which I thought was coo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
No romantic connection after second date?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v7gsuz/no_romantic_connection_after_second_date/
Ajohnson62
2024-06-10 03:24:33
1,717,989,873
0
['dating app', 'bumble']
0
1dcbzdb
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dcbzdb/is_it_really_too_much_to_expect_guys_to_message/
1
Hey there! I am on a dating app called upward. I used to be on more but eh. Fizzled out. My rule with messaging first except for bumble is if they match with me I would like them to message me. But if I match with them I’ll message them. Is that like to unreasonable to expect or even ask for?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it really too much to expect guys to message first? More explanation in post
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dcbzdb/is_it_really_too_much_to_expect_guys_to_message/
Cooley-High
2022-10-21 16:59:10
1,666,371,550
null
null
0
y9yr5c
true
null
19
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/y9yr5c/its_annoying_how_low_girls_sex_drives_are/
0
Yet idiots on here will constantly try to assert that they are even a fraction as horny as men, it’s really a fucking joke.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
It’s annoying how low girls sex drives are compared to men, they are literally completely unphased by most sex talk and imagery
null
0.09
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y9yr5c/its_annoying_how_low_girls_sex_drives_are/
tummarakastaja
2023-01-26 20:40:20
1,674,765,620
null
['tinder']
0
10m1vu4
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10m1vu4/starting_a_f2f_conversation/
0
So me and couple of my single friends have been wondering lately about the state of so called dating, all of us enjoy talking with and meeting people from tinder / other apps but none of us is going to chat with a cute lady if we happen to bump into one f2f shopping/cafe/on the streets. How common is this? Is it just u...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Starting a f2f conversation
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10m1vu4/starting_a_f2f_conversation/
Forward-Jicama-4421
2024-09-07 07:01:52
1,725,692,512
0
['hinge']
0
1fb146u
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fb146u/weird_reply_after_we_set_up_the_date/
1
Het, Met a guy on Hinge. We planned on seeing each other this Saturday. We didn’t text every day, but more like once every 3 or 4 days. So Tuesday I texted him what about Saturday? Any suggestions? What time and place? Got a message back on Friday at 11pm and he said “I’m free next Saturday.” Like wtf? What shall I sen...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Weird reply after we set up the date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fb146u/weird_reply_after_we_set_up_the_date/
UafwRwkV
2023-10-01 08:47:48
1,696,150,068
0
['dating apps']
0
16wvywk
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16wvywk/approaching_women_outside_of_dating_apps/
1
I (32m) have been single for 2 years and am slowly ready for a partner again. However, I was never interested in dating apps. I definitely have hobbies that would allow me to get to know new women. The problem, however, is that I somehow have the feeling that we live in a time where speaking to women in real life is no...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Approaching women outside of dating apps...
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16wvywk/approaching_women_outside_of_dating_apps/
Former_Conclusion_17
2022-11-17 03:57:30
1,668,657,450
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
yxfu9r
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/yxfu9r/should_i_text_him_based_off_this_context/
1
Hi all, throwaway account because im completely stuck on what to do. Around a year ago, I matched with this guy who I find extremely attractive on Hinge. He asked me out on a date twice, and both of those dates went wonderfully (at least they did in my opinion). At the end of date 2, he asked to kiss me. Then, afterwar...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I text him based off this context?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yxfu9r/should_i_text_him_based_off_this_context/
MonkeyLovesMe
2020-09-21 09:12:20
1,600,679,540
null
['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'tinder']
0
iwwynu
true
Discussion
29
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/iwwynu/is_tinder_purely_a_hookup_app_now/
2
When Tinder was first launched (2012) I don’t remember it being marketed as a hookup platform. Back in the day, I matched with a number of guys who claimed they were looking for love/a relationship, some of which I had dates with and one of which I started a relationship with. I also have a couple of friends that have ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Is Tinder purely a hookup app now?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/iwwynu/is_tinder_purely_a_hookup_app_now/
Rude_Bid642
2022-11-28 19:30:41
1,669,663,841
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
z75vrq
true
I Need Advice 😩
9
0
/r/dating/comments/z75vrq/is_it_weird_that_i_think_im_too_young_for_dating/
0
Hear me out😂 I’m a 23f and I feel like people my age usually meet others through social media. I don’t have social media because it’s just bad for my mental health. And I haven’t had it since high school. Also, I recently came out as bi last year and I’m looking to date girls and I’m just not sure if using dating apps...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it weird that I think I’m too young for dating apps
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/z75vrq/is_it_weird_that_i_think_im_too_young_for_dating/
Euphoric-Shine6701
2023-10-04 11:41:01
1,696,419,661
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid']
0
16zkx1i
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16zkx1i/is_it_a_good_decision_to_sign_up_on_a_dating_app/
1
I've reached a point where I'm curious to start dating. I'm in my early twenties, but I haven't had a relationship or even a real date so far. I don't go out much apart from my classes (university), and there's no one there who has caught my interest yet. Since I'm mostly introverted and have introverted friends, I can...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it a good decision to sign up on a dating app without prior relationship experience?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16zkx1i/is_it_a_good_decision_to_sign_up_on_a_dating_app/
Natare04
2018-03-21 17:29:04
1,521,653,344
null
['pof']
0
863ysp
false
null
4
0
/r/dating/comments/863ysp/how_to_handle_a_guy_leading_with_sex/
2
I'm a 32 y/o female who's been out of a relationship for 2 yrs's and have been talking to this 36 y/o guy I met online POF since Fri, who is not originally from the area, doesn't know very many people and has been single for a yr. Btw it was me who msg'd him first... we have quite a bit in common but he's been leading ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to handle a guy leading with Sex?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/863ysp/how_to_handle_a_guy_leading_with_sex/
narwhalk021
2023-10-07 04:09:20
1,696,651,760
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
171wxqb
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/171wxqb/was_i_in_the_wrong_for_not_wanting_to_talk_to/
1
So I matched with this girl on bumble and I thought we got along pretty well. I asked her out for coffee and she seemed very enthusiastic to get coffee and we made plans. The thing was, the first time she canceled she said she needed to be with her friend because her friend was going through stuff. I understood and I s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Was I in the wrong for not wanting to talk to girl again after she canceled plans to get coffee at least 3 times?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/171wxqb/was_i_in_the_wrong_for_not_wanting_to_talk_to/
Magicbythelake
2021-06-08 06:09:11
1,623,132,551
null
['swiping']
0
nuxvt4
true
null
98
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nuxvt4/should_i_keep_seeing_a_guy_who_said_he_doesnt/
50
Curious how other people have managed similar situations. Part of me was interested in this for myself because I think it can take a lot of pressure off a situation. I tend to have high ideals and expectations for a romantic partner, and I was thinking that seeing other people could help minimize those expectations a l...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Should I keep seeing a guy who said he doesn't want to be exclusive and has other romantic prospects?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nuxvt4/should_i_keep_seeing_a_guy_who_said_he_doesnt/
Throwaway_12_13
2018-10-08 15:22:41
1,539,012,161
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
9mfscd
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9mfscd/girl_ive_been_seeing_for_the_past_2_weeks_has_a/
1
This will probably sound ridiculous to most people on this sub, but want to discuss it anyway and see if there's people who have been in similar situations or who can provide a refreshing opinion. I matched this girl on Tinder 2 years ago -- I then started dating with the girl who became my girlfriend, so we never met ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl I've been seeing for the past 2 weeks has a boyfriend. Not sure as how to play this going forward.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9mfscd/girl_ive_been_seeing_for_the_past_2_weeks_has_a/
TAg1191
2020-11-26 23:32:09
1,606,433,529
null
['dating app']
0
k1pws2
true
Tinder/Online Dating
2
0
/r/dating/comments/k1pws2/a_guy_gave_me_his_phone_number_and_then/
2
This guy (24) found me on this dating app and complimented me because of my looks, in a kind of particular way which I really appreciated. We started texting and I thought we were really on the same page, I was totally feeling it, and thought it was the same for him. In fact he underlined the fact we were alike in some...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A guy gave me his phone number and then disappeared?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k1pws2/a_guy_gave_me_his_phone_number_and_then/
Xaero0101
2023-06-06 10:58:57
1,686,049,137
0
['swipe', 'bumble']
0
142c7xz
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/142c7xz/should_i_like_a_work_colleague_on_bumble/
1
I (M28) have been spending some time on Bumble since I am single after a long relationship. Today I saw a colleague (F26) that I find attractive both physically and as personality on the same app. She also came out of a long relationship and looks for something long term. We have several things in common. Should I like...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I like a work colleague on Bumble?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/142c7xz/should_i_like_a_work_colleague_on_bumble/
daisey27
2020-11-09 01:16:52
1,604,884,612
null
['OLD']
0
jqny7i
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jqny7i/feeling_defeated_should_i_take_a_break/
0
I (31F) have been on OLD for almost a year now. Met a couple of guys but it didn’t work out. One guy was interested but was always so busy to hang out. I finally started talking to two guys with a lot of potential. We had a lot in common and seemed to hit it off right away. I exchanged numbers with one guy and a day la...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feeling defeated. Should I take a break?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jqny7i/feeling_defeated_should_i_take_a_break/
AlarmedBug9099
2022-03-29 00:26:17
1,648,513,577
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
tqndpp
true
Question
8
0
/r/dating/comments/tqndpp/why_are_people_okay_with_wasting_their_time_and/
8
I know the usual answer to this has been, “because they’re lonely/want an ego boost”, but this makes no sense to me. It would honestly make me feel worse and lonelier to be texting someone I never really plan to meet. I’ve definitely asked guys out before instead of waiting to be asked out, but after dating a few guys ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why are people okay with wasting their time and chatting for weeks online without ever seeing someone?
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tqndpp/why_are_people_okay_with_wasting_their_time_and/
Electrical_Day7227
2022-06-17 04:45:11
1,655,441,111
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
ve4w83
true
Support Needed
11
0
/r/dating/comments/ve4w83/ive_avoided_tinder_like_the_plague_it_makes_me_so/
3
You go on there make a profile to make some people attracted to you. And once you’ve matched: the best part. You have to try and finesse your way into each others lives or for attention I matched with like 3 decent looking girls in a day and Almost 10 hours later out of sheer loneliness I mustered up a “hey how are you...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’ve avoided tinder like the plague it makes me so uncomfortable
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ve4w83/ive_avoided_tinder_like_the_plague_it_makes_me_so/
No-Dimension-6297
2020-12-12 04:55:13
1,607,748,913
null
['tinder']
0
kbj388
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/kbj388/suddenly_ghosted_after_a_date/
3
I am 21 M college student. I went out with this girl I met on Tinder recently and it all seemed to be going very well both during the date and also before the date(e.g. texting). At the end when we were about to go separate ways she said how she really liked meeting me and that she’ll text me and if she doesn’t then to...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Suddenly ghosted after a date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kbj388/suddenly_ghosted_after_a_date/
FuelTransitSleep
2022-10-20 04:52:57
1,666,241,577
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
y8oqwt
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/y8oqwt/matched_with_someone_on_one_dating_app_who_id/
1
So yeah, we've been chatting for a few days now after matching on Hinge and so far it hasn't come up but back in April I'd previously matched with this same person on OKCupid. We'd chatted a bit then, but nothing really came of it. So far this time around, there seems to be a bit more chemistry and I'm happy to see whe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Matched with someone on one dating app who I'd previously matched with months ago on a different dating app, how to play it if it comes up?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y8oqwt/matched_with_someone_on_one_dating_app_who_id/
kahaanihistory
2023-09-01 21:19:14
1,693,603,154
0
['bumble', 'hinge']
0
167jfk6
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/167jfk6/i_made_an_app_to_level_up_your_bumble_or_hinge/
1
y'all, i have been on the apps off and on for years, so I know the struggle that is coming up with an authentic, attractive, UNIQUE bio and answers to prompts. So I wanna share with you an app i'm building with a team. We created Jeannie, an AI that helps you ultimately go on more dates She is able to look at your whol...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
i made an app to level up your bumble or hinge profile!
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/167jfk6/i_made_an_app_to_level_up_your_bumble_or_hinge/
[deleted]
2022-07-10 23:20:09
1,657,495,209
null
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
vw3xz9
true
null
66
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/vw3xz9/how_long_is_appropriate_to_wait/
12
I have been on online dating sites for a long time, however, haven't met many men. They fade out quickly (either I get bored or they disappear). I (40 this month eek) finally found a man (43) that I am actually interested in, lots of things in common, not clingy, we talk on the phone pretty much everyday for hours. He'...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How long is appropriate to wait?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vw3xz9/how_long_is_appropriate_to_wait/
riverridges
2020-01-29 22:43:50
1,580,337,830
null
['dating apps']
0
evushh
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/evushh/how_do_you_let_someone_down_gently/
2
I've been on a few dating apps recently and a couple of dates. I wasn't really feeling a connection but dont want to make the person feel bad as it genuinely isnt them I'm just not interested. Seems simple but: I tried to break it off with someone after a couple of dates a while back and they ended up stalking me and n...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you let someone down gently?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/evushh/how_do_you_let_someone_down_gently/
shannon94danelle
2019-01-14 23:10:02
1,547,507,402
null
['dating app']
0
ag1piw
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ag1piw/moving_on_to_quickly_after_recent_break_up_24f/
1
So I was dating this guy from April 2017 till December 26, 2018. We went on a break for like two weeks around September. And I never officially told him we were back together, I was living with him. But I told him I needed time because he severely disrespected me and I wanted to try to work things out. Well in that tim...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Moving on to quickly after recent “break up”? 24(f)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ag1piw/moving_on_to_quickly_after_recent_break_up_24f/
Labyrinthwalker100
2016-10-05 03:55:52
1,475,639,752
0
['match.com']
0
55xou1
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/55xou1/what_should_i_do/
4
I joined match.com and I prepared a pretty complete profile, thing is while liking pics and sending emails to see if a woman would be interested, one actually did I sent more emails to speak with her and for one small part of 1 night we talked a bit, however I sent an email that night continuing the conversation and sh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What should I do?
4
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/55xou1/what_should_i_do/
FlamingHotOatmeal
2024-02-26 20:09:52
1,708,978,192
0
['matched']
0
1b0rb5d
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b0rb5d/how_the_fuck_do_i_get_over_a_vacation_fling_who/
3
i came back from a holiday in spain a couple of days ago and during all this time at home i’ve had this extreme physical discomfort that doesn’t seem to go away. i haven’t felt like this in a while since i very rarely attach to a person quickly. so anyway, one evening, during sunset i was visiting the local dunes with ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
how the fuck do i get over a vacation fling who i'll never see again?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b0rb5d/how_the_fuck_do_i_get_over_a_vacation_fling_who/
SkyLock89730
2024-01-07 07:18:51
1,704,611,931
0
['dating apps']
0
190mltz
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/190mltz/so_we_broke_up_and_im_trying_to_get_back_into/
1
So me and my girlfriend of a good few months just ended kinda out of the blue. We had moved into my place together and after a few months of that she kinda just fully moved out when I was at work. It was kinda a dick move and I didn’t get much explanation but I’m in a sort of newer area and I’m not too familiar with th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
So we broke up and I’m trying to get back into things
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/190mltz/so_we_broke_up_and_im_trying_to_get_back_into/
Icey_Girl
2023-07-23 04:11:41
1,690,085,501
0
null
0
1574kl6
false
null
45
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1574kl6/i_might_be_at_my_wits_end_with_these_dating_apps/
1
I might be at my wits end. I might say goodbye to these apps for good, I’m tired of meeting the wrong people/bad people! Flakey or just wanting sex. I can no longer waste anymore of my precious time on this earth believing anyone on these apps are actually good people. It must be 1 and a million chance when people do f...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I might be at my wits end with these dating apps..
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1574kl6/i_might_be_at_my_wits_end_with_these_dating_apps/
Treebeard_Jawno
2020-01-28 23:09:50
1,580,252,990
null
['dating apps']
0
evdiuq
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/evdiuq/do_you_guys_have_a_dating_checklist/
2
TL;DR - Are dating checklists a guiding force in dating or do they limit you from being flexible and finding somebody special? Hey folks, I'm (M28) fairly newly single. My ex and I were together for 8 1/2 years, married for 3, and split up last April. Still kind of getting used to not being in a relationship, which aft...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do you guys have a "dating checklist"?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/evdiuq/do_you_guys_have_a_dating_checklist/
needaliladvicethanks
2021-06-06 00:35:58
1,622,939,758
null
['matched', 'online dating', 'tinder']
0
nt9ipk
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nt9ipk/is_he_a_catfish_has_a_girlfriend_or_is_he_just/
1
So I’m currently online dating, I’ve been actively going on first dates but either the guy and I don’t click as well as we did online, in person. Or they just want sex. I’ve been messaging this guy (Snapchat and Instagram) that I matched with from tinder for over a month now. (He’s 24 I’m 22) We have a 41 day streak on...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he a catfish? Has a girlfriend? Or is he just too insecure to meet me??
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nt9ipk/is_he_a_catfish_has_a_girlfriend_or_is_he_just/
Time-Light
2023-03-21 03:43:08
1,679,370,188
null
['matches']
0
11x5tp6
true
Question ❓
2
0
/r/dating/comments/11x5tp6/23_guy_in_college_working_but_i_live_with/
3
And I don’t think bringing a girl back to my place would be possible at all in this situation. I really want to start dating again, I downloaded the apps a few days ago and I already have a few matches, but I also feel like I shouldn’t even try until I’m living on my own, and that’s at least 2 years away. Where I live,...
dating
t5_2qhb1
23 guy, in college, working. But I live with extended family.
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11x5tp6/23_guy_in_college_working_but_i_live_with/
White_Nike_JoJo03
2024-06-06 00:57:10
1,717,635,430
0
['dating apps']
0
1d95wgk
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d95wgk/any_advice/
1
Hello, I've tried to start using dating apps since the beginning of this year, but it's just not working out. They either just stop talking to me or they don't live near me. Tbh I don't get out much at all during the school year so I barely know anyone at my college. I usually get like 40, 50+ likes on dating apps so I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any Advice?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d95wgk/any_advice/
AcusticC
2022-07-23 13:32:38
1,658,583,158
null
['online dating', 'dating site']
0
w644xg
true
null
38
0
/r/AskMen/comments/w644xg/whats_an_online_dating_site_where_you_can_find/
0
I’ve tried searching for one for a while now with little to no luck. Any suggestions?
AskMen
t5_2s30g
what’s an online dating site where you can find actual milfs?
null
0.44
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/w644xg/whats_an_online_dating_site_where_you_can_find/
ASKRIX
2020-04-10 01:12:52
1,586,481,172
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
fy4yva
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fy4yva/girl19f_i_matched_with_on_dating_app_doesnt_want/
1
So I recently re-downloaded(19M) apps(cuz, you know, coronavirus)and I matched with this really cool girl last week. We spoke for a good bit and then exchanged each other's ig's. We'd talk every other day and then we spoke over the phone for around two hours on Sunday night. Then we texted a bit on Monday night and I s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl(19F) I matched with on dating app doesn't want to talk anymore
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fy4yva/girl19f_i_matched_with_on_dating_app_doesnt_want/
AlexVan123
2019-09-17 20:19:45
1,568,751,585
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['matches', 'swipe', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
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d5mljs
true
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22
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/r/dating_advice/comments/d5mljs/re_dating_apps_dont_work_for_any_male_less_than/
17
(This post is more indicated for guys, but girls who also struggle on Tinder might be able to get some helpful advice out of it too. Sorry if you don't - I don't have a lot of experience on women's side of online dating.) Title says it, but I disagree wholeheartedly. It can be harder, but at the same time you've got to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
RE: "Dating apps don't work for any male less than 8/10." I disagree.
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null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d5mljs/re_dating_apps_dont_work_for_any_male_less_than/
GorillaDck
2022-11-08 00:59:55
1,667,869,195
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['online dating']
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yp6o65
true
I Need Advice 😩
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0
/r/dating/comments/yp6o65/reaching_mid_age_and_never_been_in_a_relationship/
21
Idk, never been able to get past the talking phase currently working 6 days a week so not much time to meet people now mainly just doing online dating. Any tips to change that?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Reaching Mid age and never been in a relationship.
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yp6o65/reaching_mid_age_and_never_been_in_a_relationship/
tastefulbasicfluff
2017-11-12 02:31:25
1,510,453,885
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['dating app']
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7cct3o
false
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20
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7cct3o/im_30f_wondering_what_the_best_dating_app_is_im/
1
I’m having a hard time meeting new people but I’ve been wary of signing up for a dating app because everybody makes them sound like hook up apps which is the last thing I want. There was one that sounded ok but I can’t remember the name of it. Thanks in advance!
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’m (30f) wondering what the best dating app is. I’m not desperate to be in a relationship or anything but i don’t want to just hook up.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7cct3o/im_30f_wondering_what_the_best_dating_app_is_im/
iwillarriveandgonow
2023-12-04 11:47:13
1,701,690,433
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['dating app']
0
18aij3r
true
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0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18aij3r/how_to_deal_with_anxiety_of_dating/
1
I have arranged a date with a woman - we are both in our twenties - but I am anxious as this is my first date (although have been in a relationship before). Even though I feel, I have a lot to offer, I am also super anxious, as this girl seems to be my type of girl. We set up a "coffee date" via a dating app, and she h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to Deal with Anxiety of Dating?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18aij3r/how_to_deal_with_anxiety_of_dating/