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judgementalb | 2021-11-11 16:16:21 | 1,636,647,381 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qroppc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qroppc/tip_learn_to_apologize_correctly/ | 1 | Just recently realized that the all the guys I’ve enjoyed meeting and talking to on dating apps that fizzled on my end was this basic inability to genuinely apologize. This is something that obviously everyone can do but my experience is with just guys. If you do something that causes an issue, even if it’s small, take... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tip: Learn to apologize correctly | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qroppc/tip_learn_to_apologize_correctly/ |
summerrtime | 2022-02-20 20:06:36 | 1,645,387,596 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sxa21j | true | I Need Advice | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sxa21j/cutting_off_an_unspoken_fwb_relationship_when_you/ | 31 | For the last 12 weeks I’ve been seeing this guy who I met off Hinge. We have gone on about 8-10 proper dates and most have ended with us sleeping together. There hasn’t been a conversation where we have defined what is happening between us and last night when we were hanging out he mentioned something about us having a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cutting off an unspoken fwb relationship when you feel like you are no longer happy with the arrangement | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sxa21j/cutting_off_an_unspoken_fwb_relationship_when_you/ |
Dazedf | 2024-04-01 07:12:26 | 1,711,955,546 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bsx6d1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bsx6d1/ok_to_go_on_a_date_with_someone_else/ | 2 | So I (24M) Had my third date with this guy I met last week. So far it’s pretty casual and a little sexual, no “I love you’s” or anything yet but we do like each other. However, we aren’t official yet and he’s pretty quiet so I’m not entirely sure where we are. He does want to meet up again but it also doesn’t feel urge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ok to go on a date with someone else? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bsx6d1/ok_to_go_on_a_date_with_someone_else/ |
TreeHelp2022 | 2022-08-24 16:58:17 | 1,661,360,297 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | wwopml | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wwopml/when_to_kiss_on_third_date/ | 0 | I (25M) am not new to relationships, but am new to dating and OLD. I’m going on a third date with a girl (23F) tomorrow, still haven’t kissed her yet, and am unsure when I should do that on the date. Backstory: We met on Bumble, went on a first date that ended up lasting 5 hours, great vibes and mood at the end. I want... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to kiss (on third date)? | null | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wwopml/when_to_kiss_on_third_date/ |
illini02 | 2019-02-26 21:30:48 | 1,551,216,648 | null | ['swipe', 'pof', 'eharmony'] | 0 | av4uns | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/av4uns/best_paid_service_preferably_with_a_month_or_2/ | 1 | I'm really starting to get a bit tired of the swipe apps, and I hear POF is still kind of a dumpster fire. What are the best paid sites in your opinions and why? I did Match and eHarmony 6 or 7 years ago, and I'm sure they have changed since then. So if there any you guys like for any particular reason, please let me k... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Best paid service (preferably with a month or 2 free) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/av4uns/best_paid_service_preferably_with_a_month_or_2/ |
BumblingBeta | 2019-01-15 22:34:58 | 1,547,591,698 | null | null | 0 | age90y | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/age90y/does_anyone_else_have_much_more_success_on/ | 2 | I don't know whether it's just me, but all my success in online dating (albeit not that much) has come from OkCupid. I get likes from women - admittedly most of them are foreign women, from various places across the world like Brazil, Taiwan, Malaysia, USA, countries in Europe (I'm from UK myself). I've added a number ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does anyone else have much more success on OkCupid, compared to Plenty of Fish? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/age90y/does_anyone_else_have_much_more_success_on/ |
Caramel-Inevitable | 2023-07-14 01:42:26 | 1,689,298,946 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14z2vx3 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14z2vx3/need_thoughts_on_this_scenario/ | 1 | I started talking to someone I met on a niche reddit subreddit after I replied to his classifieds ad looking for a partner. The premise of the post was that he was looking for something long term, with someone who's interested in putting in the time. We are in our mid 30s. We connected a few months ago, but even though... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need thoughts on this scenario | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14z2vx3/need_thoughts_on_this_scenario/ |
doniaut54 | 2024-01-30 04:09:31 | 1,706,587,771 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1aefi36 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aefi36/hypervigilence_vs_naïveté_in_early_dating_long/ | 1 | Long story short: A guy I've been talking to for a couple weeks said he would call and then didn't and I need some different perspectives so I can have a more nuanced view of the situation. For reference, I am fearful avoidant in terms of attachment style, lots of childhood trauma, generally very prone to limerence and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hypervigilence vs. Naïveté in Early Dating (Long Distance) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aefi36/hypervigilence_vs_naïveté_in_early_dating_long/ |
DTrainSnusMan | 2020-12-15 05:11:01 | 1,608,009,061 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | kdfe4n | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kdfe4n/very_lost/ | 1 | Okay so I’m 22 years old I’m male So I’m just lost right now in all the relationship stuff. IV had about 6 girlfriends most lasted a year and 1 2 year. I treat every girl with respect and like a queen like I’m a very kind and loving person and I just don’t understand anymore. Like is it me or is it them because I never... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Very lost | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kdfe4n/very_lost/ |
sagittariusbaby_ | 2022-05-15 13:58:39 | 1,652,623,119 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uq6p6k | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uq6p6k/should_i_double_text_him/ | 1 | I (23F) have been texting this one guy (27M) from Tinder for 4 months. He made it very clear that he doesn't want a relationship but he treats me like I'm his girlfriend, we slept together a few times every time he came here to meet me. He's like 117 miles away from me. But then, one day I asked him whether we are on t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I double text him? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uq6p6k/should_i_double_text_him/ |
CompotePristine2121 | 2023-05-29 15:56:29 | 1,685,375,789 | 0 | ['swipe', 'bumble'] | 0 | 13uyp7w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13uyp7w/why_swipe_again_when_the_date_ended/ | 0 | Hi folks. I am on bumble. I went on date with ppl. Let them know clearly that I didn’t want to move forward. But they swipe me again on the apps. Why? Like bro we went on a date and it didn’t work, like don’t swipe right again. Why do ppl do this? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why swipe again when the date ended? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13uyp7w/why_swipe_again_when_the_date_ended/ |
ms_flxmingo | 2024-08-21 14:13:47 | 1,724,249,627 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1exqopz | true | Question ❓ | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1exqopz/what_should_i_do/ | 0 | I’m on a dating app (boo) but everyone there looks for casuals and no one looks for serious relationship. I’m being lonely and wanna get into a serious relationship. What should I do? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1exqopz/what_should_i_do/ |
URandRUN | 2019-09-28 22:16:53 | 1,569,709,013 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | dampcj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dampcj/22f_i_need_the_wisdom_of_those_whove_been_there/ | 0 | Hi everyone! I [22F] recently got out of a long relationship of almost 5 years. It was a tough breakup and it has been about 4 months and I’m proud to say I am doing very well and have come to a good place. I have dabbled in dating apps and while I have gotten matches and been asked on dates, I have found myself bailin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [22F] I need the wisdom of those who’ve been there | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dampcj/22f_i_need_the_wisdom_of_those_whove_been_there/ |
liltofu95 | 2018-12-17 09:21:57 | 1,545,038,517 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | a6yatq | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a6yatq/getting_out_thereventing/ | 3 | Frustrated with meaningless sex, I’ve (f23) decided to stop having sex with people who don’t care. It’s been hard, 9 months now, but I want to get back out there, dating wise. But I don’t want to use dating apps. Been there, done that, hated it. I feel like dating apps don’t have any quality people, or at least people ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting out there/venting | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a6yatq/getting_out_thereventing/ |
thekittykaboom | 2023-12-14 22:51:50 | 1,702,594,310 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 18il3b1 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18il3b1/do_you_think_hell_come_back/ | 1 | I (31, non-binary femme) just tried OLD for the first time in September. I matched with a guy(30 M). The connection was instant. Same interests, mutual friends. He checked all my boxes, even the picky ones. So this lead to us talking non-stop every day. It never got dull or awkward. Felt like I'd known him for forever.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think he'll come back? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18il3b1/do_you_think_hell_come_back/ |
Waldestat | 2024-09-16 22:15:07 | 1,726,524,907 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fihpyo | true | null | 75 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1fihpyo/how_many_first_dates_did_you_have_to_go_on_from/ | 20 | Having a debate with some friends. I've been on about a dozen first dates and have yet to had anything last more than a few dates either due to me or them cutting it off. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How many first dates did you have to go on from dating apps before getting a girlfriend? | 20 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fihpyo/how_many_first_dates_did_you_have_to_go_on_from/ |
Baby_OJ | 2023-01-07 21:38:57 | 1,673,127,537 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1060gqv | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1060gqv/how_to_get_over_the_fear_of_going_on_dates/ | 4 | Hello, I am 23[M]and while I have had relationships I have never really been on many dates witnin them or to begin with. This is kinda leaving me nervous to meet girls and go on dates. I am quite good looking and tall and I do get lots of matches with girls on dating apps but I never really follow through with meeting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get over the fear of going on dates | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1060gqv/how_to_get_over_the_fear_of_going_on_dates/ |
GingerCat4711 | 2019-05-30 19:32:10 | 1,559,244,730 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | buxfls | true | Discussion | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/buxfls/old_men_reach_peak_attractiveness_at_50/ | 12 | According to this article, , men reach their peak desirableness on dating apps at age 50. Is this true? I went on a date the other night with a man who mentioned that he gets messages from women younger than him, because they think he has money. He is 56 and looks his age. I am a 50f and I know that I edge out of a l... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD - Men reach peak attractiveness at 50 | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/buxfls/old_men_reach_peak_attractiveness_at_50/ |
smallbutsharp | 2017-12-07 13:57:47 | 1,512,655,067 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7i6lyj | false | null | 23 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/7i6lyj/how_long_were_you_on_tinder_before_meeting_your_so/ | 5 | Just getting myself ready to get back out there in the New Year after being dumped last month (27/f). Downloaded the app a few weeks ago and have a few leads and one definite date booked in for Jan but it seems so unpromising so far... So how long were you on it before finding someone? And how many tinder frogs did you... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How long were you on Tinder before meeting your SO? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/7i6lyj/how_long_were_you_on_tinder_before_meeting_your_so/ |
YoungerMan220 | 2020-04-07 00:39:35 | 1,586,219,975 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | fwamkc | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fwamkc/have_dating_apps_ruined_anyone_elses_self_esteem/ | 11 | I’ve been using apps like Tinder, Hinge, Match etc for about a year seriously now and I can’t help but feel like I’ll never be good enough for anyone. I swipe through so many beautiful women, even those who are moderately attractive and yet I match with none of them. Then I think to myself...someone obviously is going ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have dating apps ruined anyone else’s self esteem? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fwamkc/have_dating_apps_ruined_anyone_elses_self_esteem/ |
Bubblesteam13 | 2019-07-21 19:55:53 | 1,563,738,953 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cg3a8v | true | Venting | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cg3a8v/dae_hate_being_asked_what_are_you_looking_for_on/ | 9 | Like why tf do you think I’m on here?? If we have a good conversation maybe we’ll meet and if we have chemistry maybe things will go further than that. Is this not the case for literally anyone on a dating app? Once someone asks me this question I find it ruins the vibe of any conversation we had going and it automatic... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | DAE hate being asked ”what are you looking for” on dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cg3a8v/dae_hate_being_asked_what_are_you_looking_for_on/ |
lovelacelolita | 2021-07-23 09:03:12 | 1,627,030,992 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | opyjm6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/opyjm6/answer_honestly/ | 3 | Is there still single people out there who are not on dating apps? You can throw in dating sites too, but mainly apps. I’m very anti apps and websites. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Answer honestly | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/opyjm6/answer_honestly/ |
Ter-it | 2024-01-26 20:37:43 | 1,706,301,463 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1abs9id | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1abs9id/how_much_messaging_is_too_much/ | 1 | So I (26m) matched with a girl (23f) on Hinge about 5 days ago. We've messaged off and on every day pretty much. She agreed to a date pretty quickly, though that date isn't for another 5 days due to scheduling conflicts. The last few days we messaged a lot up until wishing each other good night. However we didn't messa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How much messaging is too much? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1abs9id/how_much_messaging_is_too_much/ |
SaltDragonfruit7102 | 2024-08-06 07:53:54 | 1,722,930,834 | 0 | null | 0 | 1elbys2 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1elbys2/is_it_okay_to_match_with_a_girl_just_to_ask_about/ | 0 | it feels mean | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it okay to match with a girl just to ask about a friend in her photo? 😭 | 0 | 0.24 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1elbys2/is_it_okay_to_match_with_a_girl_just_to_ask_about/ |
pp604977 | 2022-08-18 01:13:25 | 1,660,785,205 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wr5uxe | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wr5uxe/general_question/ | 5 | I am 35M and lands date occasionally through dating apps. Since I am in my mid 30s, I ask out girls after a few texts. If they are game, good. If not, well next. Once in a while I connect with someone who would say, yes to going on a date and I lock down the place and time. Then, 2 days later, I check in if we are on f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | General Question | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wr5uxe/general_question/ |
Puffen0 | 2019-11-27 06:51:35 | 1,574,837,495 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | e2c5qd | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e2c5qd/do_i_keep_talking_with_this_girl/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on tinder and we've been talking for a couple days now. At first it was a kinda fun and interesting conversation but her last few messages sound dry and are short responses. Idk if she's not feeling it and she's slowly backing out or not. Here's the link to our talk http://imgur.com/gallery/... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I keep talking with this girl? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e2c5qd/do_i_keep_talking_with_this_girl/ |
DataSittingAlone | 2024-08-19 22:41:33 | 1,724,107,293 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ewfhhl | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewfhhl/are_you_or_do_you_know_any_guy_who_was_overweight/ | 9 | I'm sorry this is kind of a stupid question to ask but it's been almost a year of using online dating and I'm trying to figure out why things never go anywhere. This is just one of my theories I was wanting to ask about. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are you or do you know any guy who was overweight and had success with online dating? | 9 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewfhhl/are_you_or_do_you_know_any_guy_who_was_overweight/ |
Baseball_bossman | 2023-09-10 17:58:19 | 1,694,368,699 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating sites', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 16f6tvh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16f6tvh/eharmony_is_unethical/ | 1 | There are many different dating sites out there, but when it comes to those you pay for, if I need/want to cancel I prefer to be able to cancel. Eharmony has demonstrated a lot of issues unlike other dating apps I have used, but the biggest one is how difficult they make it to cancel. Unfortunately I have spent 100’s o... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Eharmony is unethical | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16f6tvh/eharmony_is_unethical/ |
smeggieh | 2018-08-02 17:52:51 | 1,533,232,371 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 941jlt | true | null | 90 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/941jlt/which_messages_do_you_respond_to_when_old/ | 9 | Someone posted a TED talk in this sub the other day, and I found it very helpful. In it, the speaker mentioned that she set some criteria for the type of dating sites that she used and the types of messages that she responds to. I've been pretty haphazard about my OLD experience. I respond to most messages that I recei... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Which messages do you respond to when OLD? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/941jlt/which_messages_do_you_respond_to_when_old/ |
Meronas | 2019-05-14 10:34:25 | 1,557,830,065 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | boh73d | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/boh73d/feeling_like_i_cant_compete_with_other_guys_on/ | 12 | So this feeling in general began to rise when I was using Tinder for the third time in my life (been using it back in 2014 and 2017 after two breakups). Even though I had multiple girlfriends in the past and even hookups here and there, I had tiny to zero success this time. It's not like my profile isn't on point or my... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling like I can't compete with other guys on dating apps / in real life anymore. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/boh73d/feeling_like_i_cant_compete_with_other_guys_on/ |
darkbluedarz | 2015-01-28 17:42:24 | 1,422,466,944 | 0 | null | 0 | 2tzen9 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/2tzen9/ever_been_online_dating_before_whats_the_main/ | 1 | Hi there, I'm Darragh (Dara), everyone gets it wrong so it's alright. This is not a post on advice for how to use online dating but I'm looking for people that have used it and maybe might be up for an interview - either Skype or through a messenger. I'm a student at Cardiff University currently in my final year. I'm d... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ever been online dating before? What's the main differences? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/2tzen9/ever_been_online_dating_before_whats_the_main/ |
SpaceGhostPurrpppp | 2019-11-25 20:24:41 | 1,574,713,481 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | e1m2hw | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e1m2hw/girl_said_she_cant_meetup_with_me_this_week/ | 3 | Me and this girl met on dating app (we're both 18 in college). Anyways we had our first date on Thursday but I didn't call it a date I just referred to it as a meetup. The "Date" went well and I asked if she wanted to meet up again sometime this week and she said definitely. Okay so yesterday I asked her what day is be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl said she can't meetup with me this week because she has to study for exams? Is she flaking on me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e1m2hw/girl_said_she_cant_meetup_with_me_this_week/ |
throwawayricksin | 2022-01-21 04:26:54 | 1,642,739,214 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | s921gd | true | I Need Advice | 314 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s921gd/26_year_old_virgin/ | 194 | Hi, I’m a 26 year old virgin, almost 27. I have never had any romantic experience at all. I mean no dates, no dances, nothing like that. I really gave online dating my best shot (used various profile consultants, help from friends, new photos etc etc) but got no results. I have been quite busy in my life so far and wil... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 26 year old virgin | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s921gd/26_year_old_virgin/ |
yoooYAKWTFGO | 2019-08-14 17:31:10 | 1,565,803,870 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | cqcxag | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cqcxag/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_start_looking_again/ | 1 | I (24M) broke it off with my ex recently after about 1.5 years dating. I knew the breakup was coming so i legitimately have not had any regrets or felt just overly sad about us ending it. It was just time for it to end. Anyways, some friends want me to go to a party this weekend and they’re already trying to set me up ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How soon is too soon to start looking again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cqcxag/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_start_looking_again/ |
aivlis-pasta | 2019-11-06 00:11:12 | 1,572,999,072 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ds82fi | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ds82fi/he_lied_about_his_height_is_it_a_redyellow_flag/ | 0 | I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub. I matched with a guy on Tinder and after messaging each other for a few times we moved on Instagram. We talked almost incessantly for two days during which he "confesses" to being kind of short for a guy (5'4'') and of having being ghosted on Tinder after revealing it. I tell him he'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He lied about his height. Is it a red/yellow flag? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ds82fi/he_lied_about_his_height_is_it_a_redyellow_flag/ |
junksm | 2023-06-15 06:23:37 | 1,686,810,217 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 149ur9t | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/149ur9t/met_someone_who_i_have_a_stronger_compatibility/ | 1 | Tldr: ex(29f) cheated on me (29m) after being together for 12 years. Met someone with OLD and been together 10 months and even though it’s long distance, it’s the happiest I’ve been in quite a while. This has been marked NSFW, because it will mention sex in a little bit of detail. Chapter 1: The past No place better to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Met someone who I have a stronger compatibility with than my ex of 12 years. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/149ur9t/met_someone_who_i_have_a_stronger_compatibility/ |
Zero_Beat | 2014-03-12 22:25:18 | 1,394,663,118 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 209omg | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/209omg/how_to_decide_between_dating_two_great_girls_long/ | 0 | I'm 23 years old on Friday and up until now I've never been in a relationship and I'm still a virgin (for now). I've been trying online dating for a while now but have never had much luck until recently. This time last year I had never been on a single date and now by some miracle I've ended up in a situation where I'm... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to decide between dating two great girls (long post) | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/209omg/how_to_decide_between_dating_two_great_girls_long/ |
Wordlywhisp | 2023-03-28 02:56:45 | 1,679,972,205 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 124aebr | true | Question ❓ | 236 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/124aebr/do_i_tell_them_im_straight_edge_upfront/ | 87 | So I have been seeing a weird trend. I get asked out for drinks. I’m at the point in my sobriety that I can sit at the bar and order my usual cranberry and ginger ale. If I tell my date before hand I don’t drink but don’t mind if they do I get told it won’t work, if I tell it to them during the date they get all weird ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I tell them I’m straight edge upfront? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/124aebr/do_i_tell_them_im_straight_edge_upfront/ |
Fozzie1988 | 2019-05-01 04:27:55 | 1,556,684,875 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | bjd4f4 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bjd4f4/i_would_like_to_thank_my_ex_for_breaking_up/ | 34 | I would like to thank him for making me realize there were certain things that we were not getting from each other out of the relationship. Since breaking up I have found two new hobbies and am now loving myself first. I do have some dating apps up. I have reviewed my profile, made some changes. I wrote two paragraphs ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I would like to thank my ex for breaking up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bjd4f4/i_would_like_to_thank_my_ex_for_breaking_up/ |
skitzophr3nic | 2014-07-02 00:04:41 | 1,404,259,481 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 29lwal | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/29lwal/advice_for_meeting_a_girl_on_tinder/ | 0 | Alright so some back story. I'm 23 and a male, recently moved to a new city. Since I don't really know anybody here, a few guys from work suggested I should try out Tinder. I recently got matched with a 20 year old female bartender, things started off slow with a day between each of our messages. I didn't think anythin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for meeting a girl on Tinder | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/29lwal/advice_for_meeting_a_girl_on_tinder/ |
herheiniedanger | 2020-07-23 11:46:11 | 1,595,504,771 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hwe7tz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hwe7tz/tips_or_advice_27_male_wants_to_start_dating_or/ | 2 | I've been in a cycle where I try to get a gf or at least a girl to talk to and fail. Then I go into several months or sometimes years of self improvement in order to have better results. Well it's that time again. I'm 27 and never been in a relationship or even have friends that are girls. I'll be honest I know I shoul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips or advice 27 male wants to start dating or at least "talking" to girls. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hwe7tz/tips_or_advice_27_male_wants_to_start_dating_or/ |
This_Pirate8147 | 2024-05-06 05:15:34 | 1,714,972,534 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1clb7y7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1clb7y7/am_i_cooked/ | 1 | Ok so I’ve been trying to get into a relationship for a while now. (Im 18, male) I’m not ugly (I’ve got brown curly hair, a good jawline, hazel eyes, been working out , I take care of my skin and have good hygiene, and I dress well (old money aesthetic)) but that doesn’t seem to matter. I’ve had 3 failed talking stages... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I Cooked? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1clb7y7/am_i_cooked/ |
PinkBat01 | 2023-10-08 22:46:30 | 1,696,805,190 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 173cbc2 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/173cbc2/dating_apps_are_the_worst/ | 1 | I look at dating apps, and they’re fine and all, but no one seems they truly want to date, with all the blank profiles or all the lists of what they’re looking for. I don’t care what you’re looking for, that’s only for you to know I need to know who you are to see if you’re what I’m looking for I specifically use bumbl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are the worst! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/173cbc2/dating_apps_are_the_worst/ |
forward_only | 2019-08-15 16:32:51 | 1,565,886,771 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | cqs8na | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cqs8na/is_it_possible_to_offline_date_anymore_is_there/ | 33 | As someone who is sick of dating apps, I am a male with a radical fantasy that I will meet a woman offline and then offline date her. However, I have no idea how or where I would start a conversation with a woman. I'm asking as someone who is a college graduate who is not invited to parties. It seems like the general c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it possible to "offline date" anymore? Is there an acceptable way to start a conversation with a stranger? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cqs8na/is_it_possible_to_offline_date_anymore_is_there/ |
clayh8 | 2023-02-03 15:04:38 | 1,675,436,678 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10smgc6 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10smgc6/dating_process/ | 1 | Curious how many of you relate to this process. Match on dating app, message for a day or two, move to texting, maybe have one phone call or video call, meet for a first date (about a week or so since matching on the app). If both parties are interested, have a second date within another week. Third date is cooking at ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating process? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10smgc6/dating_process/ |
polly-1 | 2020-11-16 18:32:16 | 1,605,551,536 | null | ['dating app', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | jvc4ve | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jvc4ve/matching_with_an_acquaintance_on_dating_app/ | 2 | So made a profile on facebook dating just for curiosity's sake and soon after, I received that a guy I went to primary school with liked me. Tbh I'm not really interested in him romantically... We've never really talked, or at least not since I was around 8 years old! haha Has this happened to you? Would you still send... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matching with an acquaintance on dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jvc4ve/matching_with_an_acquaintance_on_dating_app/ |
Physical-Pudding-107 | 2023-06-14 20:26:00 | 1,686,774,360 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 149i61n | true | Question ❓ | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/149i61n/why_am_i_getting_rejected_so_much_online/ | 2 | So im not a bad looking dude, (18m) a little short but it seems that women are more interested in me in person versus online. About 99% of women i message on tinder or instagram either never respond or are impossible to hang out with. Is there something im doing wrong? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why am i getting rejected so much online?? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/149i61n/why_am_i_getting_rejected_so_much_online/ |
shortEverything_ | 2022-05-13 03:36:06 | 1,652,412,966 | null | null | 0 | uois78 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uois78/do_average_guys_still_use_old_for_hookups/ | 0 | Just curious, because I’ve completely stopped a while ago since I’m grossed out by the current available pool. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do average guys still use OLD for hookups? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uois78/do_average_guys_still_use_old_for_hookups/ |
[deleted] | 2022-10-21 22:31:28 | 1,666,391,488 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ya6r2i | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ya6r2i/why_in_a_dating_life_a_man_who_sleep_with_100/ | 0 | I (M24) just got into the stupidest fight with my gf (F22). And that question has been bugging me for a few days. Few days ago I noticed my gf has been giggling and chatting all night, I asked her what's up with that then she told me one of her friend went on another Tinder date and slept with the guy. Now that girl se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why in a dating life, a man who sleep with 100 people will be considered a red flag but a woman who does the same won't? | null | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ya6r2i/why_in_a_dating_life_a_man_who_sleep_with_100/ |
keirax3 | 2022-10-20 19:26:13 | 1,666,293,973 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | y97ewn | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y97ewn/im_scared_of_leading_guys_on_from_the_dating_app/ | 0 | I came out of a situationship two months ago n it really hurt me a lot because the guy has a whole ass gf the whole time I was seeing him for 3 months and I was committed wholly to him n then I had to end it after I found out bout it (he’s a lot older than me /10 years ) I have been going out with several guys after hi... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I’m scared of leading guys on from the dating app n in real life | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y97ewn/im_scared_of_leading_guys_on_from_the_dating_app/ |
nicchamilton | 2023-06-17 16:48:39 | 1,687,020,519 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14bvr60 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14bvr60/i_m32_thought_things_were_going_good_with_f24_i/ | 8 | TLDR; Met a girl on hinge. Hung out several times while she expressed how much fun she had and wanted to keep doing it. Only to find out she didn’t want anything serious. Confused and honestly hurt. Need advice or support. So, 3 weeks and hanging out 7 times you’d think I could get over here fast and wouldn’t care. But... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (m32) thought things were going good with (f24) i was going on dates with (7 dates). Turns out it was not. Really confused. Need support on if I did the right thing. | 8 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14bvr60/i_m32_thought_things_were_going_good_with_f24_i/ |
blueberrycutiepie | 2024-04-09 15:49:59 | 1,712,677,799 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1bzviif | true | Question ❓ | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bzviif/should_i_ask_my_exfwb_if_he_wants_to_catch_up/ | 3 | So I (25F) had a fwb (27M) last year for about 3-4 months (we hungout a lot and it wasn't even with the intention to have sex. If sex happened, it happened, and it was totally normal if it didn't either). Things had to be cut off because I got needy and this created issues (He was my only friend in the area. I had move... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I ask my ex-fwb if he wants to catch up? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bzviif/should_i_ask_my_exfwb_if_he_wants_to_catch_up/ |
Putrid-Sherbet | 2021-11-12 15:02:27 | 1,636,729,347 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | qsd1oo | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qsd1oo/whats_the_best_way_to_get_okcupid_premium_for/ | 0 | I'm located in Italy and I'm 23 years old. I know they do different pricing based on age and sex and I don't like that. What's the best way to get Premium for cheap? Can I pretend to be 18 years old female and then change my birthday? Please let me know | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's the best way to get Okcupid premium for cheap? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qsd1oo/whats_the_best_way_to_get_okcupid_premium_for/ |
AudaciousPanther | 2023-07-27 19:53:23 | 1,690,487,603 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15bblw2 | false | null | 18 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15bblw2/can_someone_explain_the_psychology_of_my_friend/ | 1 | I have a friend. She's 5'2 and 250ish pounds. She met a guy on Hinge. They've been dating for one year. On their first date she said 'the chemistry was off the charts.' They got drinks, made out and had sex in his car. They then starting going on a date a week that would always lead to sex. If she was on her period, he... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Can someone explain the psychology of my friend? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15bblw2/can_someone_explain_the_psychology_of_my_friend/ |
Impossible_Carry_611 | 2024-07-06 19:01:20 | 1,720,292,480 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dwwvv9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dwwvv9/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | i met a women on tinder when i was in a business trip in another country, we are both 29, i really liked her so much, she lives 5 hours away and i came to see her also for the second date by taking the bus, we didn't kiss but i kissed her on her forehead and cheeks. she texted me this yesterday: ...Well, on one hand, I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what should i do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dwwvv9/what_should_i_do/ |
KeksimusMaximusLegio | 2024-06-25 18:40:01 | 1,719,340,801 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1dodbna | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dodbna/gf_of_10_years_left_me_trying_to_get_back_into/ | 1 | I basically just need some pointers on where I should start, I'm 26 with no friends, only friend was my gf since I struggle talking to people. Only human contact I really have is people at work and most of the time they only talk to me when they need something. Should I just try using dating sites or is it worth going ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Gf of 10 years left me, trying to get back into the dating scene. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dodbna/gf_of_10_years_left_me_trying_to_get_back_into/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-28 05:48:22 | 1,409,204,902 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2esrur | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2esrur/advice_on_how_not_to_feel_nervous_on_dates_with/ | 6 | I go on a fair amount of OkCupid dates- and I seldom feel any nervousness at all on first dates, but if the date goes well and we seem to like each other, I tend to feel nervous at the beginning of the second date. As we talk, I feel like myself pretty quickly, once the conversation gets rolling. If I feel like it's go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on how not to feel nervous on dates with women I'm actually into? [30M] | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2esrur/advice_on_how_not_to_feel_nervous_on_dates_with/ |
vohedriux | 2023-10-23 02:06:31 | 1,698,026,791 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17e9knw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17e9knw/how_to_let_free_and_start_dating/ | 1 | Hi! Long story short, I found someone on Hinge, we dated, 1 month later she told me to take things slow, be friends, get to know each others. At first we would message each others like crazy. Now? She doesn't reply as often and so bland. Like almost to 0 interest. We haven't went out in almost two weeks. I told her I w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to let free and start dating. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17e9knw/how_to_let_free_and_start_dating/ |
oceansofpeople | 2013-04-29 06:57:19 | 1,367,218,639 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1dbp9k | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/1dbp9k/meeting_new_people/ | 1 | It is now possible for anyone to be able to join http://www.oceansofpeople.com dating site and get involved because of the proliferation of the 100% free. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Meeting new people | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dbp9k/meeting_new_people/ |
raybanshee | 2022-06-30 13:26:30 | 1,656,595,590 | null | null | 0 | vo8di3 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/vo8di3/any_tips_for_first_video_chat/ | 0 | A woman I've been chatting with on Tinder wants to do a video chat to see if there's a vibe before meeting in person. While I generally make a good first impression on in-person dates, I'm a little intimidated by video chat. Any tips on how to put my best foot forward? Outdoors vs indoors? Lighting etc? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any tips for first video chat? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/vo8di3/any_tips_for_first_video_chat/ |
AsianAssHitlerHair | 2022-07-27 06:01:42 | 1,658,901,702 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w96rpz | true | I Need Advice | 642 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w96rpz/how_to_bring_up_splitting_checks_on_dates/ | 459 | I met a woman on a dating app. Went out on 1 date for drinks and had a great time. I ended up paying for everything which is fine. First date. It was only a few drinks. I asked her if she wanted to hang out again. I suggested food/drinks. How do I bring up paying separately? I'm not in a financial situation to be const... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to bring up splitting checks on dates? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w96rpz/how_to_bring_up_splitting_checks_on_dates/ |
FartingInElevators5 | 2021-03-28 02:05:26 | 1,616,897,126 | null | null | 0 | mes78l | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mes78l/app_dating_two_thumbs_down/ | 1 | I don't know what it is, but I have come across nothing but crazy women on app dating. I am respectful, more old school (only 36 years old) with my approach. I'm not out there just telling a woman I want to eat her ass like the less experienced. The first dates have gone well. After is when the craziness starts. We exc... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | App Dating Two Thumbs Down | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mes78l/app_dating_two_thumbs_down/ |
ohthatsbrian | 2021-08-24 16:22:46 | 1,629,822,166 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | paqnfn | true | Question | 82 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/paqnfn/why_do_you_use_old/ | 22 | honest question. it seems most people, when they talk about online dating, only have negative things to say about it. I've seen this on other dating-related subreddits, too. are there any real positives to using OLD? personally, i stopped using it a year ago because it was screwing with my mental health. and, as a typi... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Why Do You Use OLD? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/paqnfn/why_do_you_use_old/ |
manithedetective | 2024-03-19 16:53:36 | 1,710,867,216 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bip1zr | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bip1zr/crying_over_no_legal_protection_on_sa/ | 2 | the possibility of getting sexually assaulted has become very real to me recently cause I have constantly gotten sexually harrased by women on dating apps. I just found out there are no laws in my country (India) cause the law surrounding same-sex sex being illegal got taken down, so has any law regarding sexual assaul... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Crying over no legal protection on SA | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bip1zr/crying_over_no_legal_protection_on_sa/ |
Bolt_Lightning | 2014-07-26 22:20:31 | 1,406,413,231 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2bt9pm | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2bt9pm/a_downside_to_online_dating_at_least_in_my/ | 6 | Perverts and douchebags ruin online dating, not just for women, but for men also. Because of the sheer volume of (indecent) messages they send to women, which the woman can't or won't all reply to, the messages from nice men, like myself, seem to get ignored too. The datingsite I'm active on has a fairly simple "no int... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A downside to online dating. (at least in my experience). | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2bt9pm/a_downside_to_online_dating_at_least_in_my/ |
kiki2031 | 2024-03-25 17:10:18 | 1,711,386,618 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bniz7g | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bniz7g/double_text/ | 1 | I (M40) matched with a very very beautiful girl (26F) we moved to WhatsApp. She was very enthusiastic in meeting by I was away travelling last week and was planning to see her when I came back (but didn’t actually set a date, I know bad move). Anyway her last replies suddenly got shorter (Tuesday) I texted her on Satur... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Double text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bniz7g/double_text/ |
Already_Deleted_2 | 2018-01-27 19:58:35 | 1,517,083,115 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 7tf57l | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7tf57l/fairly_certain_shes_interested_but_how_best_to/ | 1 | I [23M] have known this girl [21F] for about a year now, but just recently started hanging out with her (always in groups). We've had some playful banter, but nothing that seemed more than platonic. To be honest though, I've had a small crush on her since the first time I met her, which was also the first time I hung o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Fairly certain she's interested, but how best to proceed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7tf57l/fairly_certain_shes_interested_but_how_best_to/ |
Thrwawy222256 | 2015-12-14 03:27:36 | 1,450,063,656 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 3wqi0p | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3wqi0p/24m_interested_in_dating_older_females/ | 1 | Hi all, I was having a casual browse around a dating site the other day (mostly cos I'm curious about what the online dating scene is really like), and couldn't help but notice that most dating sites (and indeed most members) really only focus on matching with people of a similar age... Fair enough, I'm sure that's wha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [24M] interested in dating older females | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3wqi0p/24m_interested_in_dating_older_females/ |
Educational-Coat5277 | 2024-04-15 13:38:25 | 1,713,188,305 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1c4mg1d | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c4mg1d/i_m42_have_a_2nd_date_f38_booked_2_weeks_out_how/ | 1 | Matched with a woman a few months ago, the chat went dark then she saw me on a different app so came back to our previous conversation. We chatted for a day or 2 and I asked her out, which was 5 days later. I sent a few follow up texts on the app that week but that was it, she does not seem like a big texter. We had an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (m42) have a 2nd date (f38) booked 2 weeks out. How to keep the spark | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c4mg1d/i_m42_have_a_2nd_date_f38_booked_2_weeks_out_how/ |
Dkfrzr | 2022-01-22 06:49:27 | 1,642,834,167 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s9wfjw | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s9wfjw/did_i_screw_up/ | 2 | So I recently got a Tinder match and I asked her on a date and she agreed. We exchanged numbers and chatted for a couple days prior to when we were going to meet. The morning before our date she texted me and said she didn't feel well and we'd have to reschedule after I got back from my trip to Colorado next week. I sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I screw up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s9wfjw/did_i_screw_up/ |
Hearttoocold | 2023-10-26 01:20:40 | 1,698,283,240 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17gksub | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17gksub/a_guy_said_i_have_to_wear_a_dress_on_the_first/ | 1 | We met on tinder and he is extremely attractive, more attractive than most on tinder. He asked me out on a date and I was excited. Then about 2 hours before our date he said “what dress you wearing for me tonight?” I asked “do I have to wear a dress?” And he said “yeah, you’d look pretty in one lol. It doesn’t have to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy said I have to wear a dress on the first date. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17gksub/a_guy_said_i_have_to_wear_a_dress_on_the_first/ |
frogmicky | 2024-04-15 15:15:00 | 1,713,194,100 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1c4oq5v | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c4oq5v/why_is_everyone_on_facebook_dating_childless/ | 1 | I mean be for real you've got to be kidding. I think everyone has gone sterile there's no making this up. Out of 20 women's profiles they were all childless lol. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is everyone on Facebook dating childless? | 1 | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c4oq5v/why_is_everyone_on_facebook_dating_childless/ |
Vivid-Set3824 | 2022-07-09 05:14:17 | 1,657,343,657 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | vuub0j | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vuub0j/do_i_just_suck_at_texting/ | 1 | Met this guy from Bumble. We haven’t met in person because he works a lot. At the beginning, I was very interested in him. The conversation was flowing a lot. But as days passed, I started noticing that he would just have an “I don’t care” attitude. I would tell him about something and he would be like “yeah, I don’t c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do i just suck at texting???? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vuub0j/do_i_just_suck_at_texting/ |
crystalsays | 2018-02-23 11:58:57 | 1,519,387,137 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 7znjda | false | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7znjda/did_my_hook_up_buddy_just_want_me_to_hook_him_up/ | 7 | Been hooking up w/ a guy I met on bumble since last summer (June?) we were hooking up about once a week-week and a half up until this year started. He had disappeared for like 3 weeks and then texted me asking me for a favor (wanted to buy something from me). I said I guess I could help him out but that I hadn’t seen h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did my hook up buddy just want me to hook him up?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7znjda/did_my_hook_up_buddy_just_want_me_to_hook_him_up/ |
Ratchiana | 2020-09-09 11:27:25 | 1,599,650,845 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ipe2w0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ipe2w0/my_f25_sexdrive_is_suddenly_nowhere_to_be_found/ | 1 | Little background info, I’m 25 years old, have a history of working in a club, partying a lot, drugs, that also ended in having sex with quite a lot of people. (I feel ashamed now in how big my list is because of that), didn’t even gave myself a change of falling in love, you could say I treated guys as an object. Beca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My [F25] sexdrive is suddenly nowhere to be found as it used to be? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ipe2w0/my_f25_sexdrive_is_suddenly_nowhere_to_be_found/ |
pichaelthompson69 | 2024-03-18 13:24:57 | 1,710,768,297 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bhqngj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bhqngj/i_27m_keep_getting_broken_up_with_fairly_early_on/ | 1 | I can get dates left and right by meeting girls in real life at bars, get all sorts of matches on hinge. Then I’m able to get second, third, etc dates with them after that. Im tall and good looking, funny the life of the party with all my friends and family. Good career. I almost married my childhood best friend in 202... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I 27M keep getting broken up with fairly early on in relationships and I don’t know what the hell im doing wrong. | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bhqngj/i_27m_keep_getting_broken_up_with_fairly_early_on/ |
3DollarCabernet | 2015-10-03 15:41:29 | 1,443,886,889 | 0 | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3ncoi6 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3ncoi6/am_i_overthinking_things/ | 2 | So, this past Friday, I met a girl through a dating website, OKCupid to be exact. We really hit it off, she even offered to give me her number to show me some more photos of herself when I jokingly said that she wasn't smiling in any of her photos. By Sunday night, were were talking about how we really wanted to meet, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overthinking things? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3ncoi6/am_i_overthinking_things/ |
Keerrtana | 2024-04-06 02:17:56 | 1,712,369,876 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bx072q | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bx072q/stranger_danger/ | 1 | So there was a guy i was texting on bumble for 2-3 days and we vibed so well and we exchanged numbers and shifted to whatsapp .. i realised he didn’t have a profile picture so i asked him about it.. he said he doesn’t wanna put one (fair?idk) i asked him for a photo of himself.. he said nope.. i asked if we could have ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stranger danger | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bx072q/stranger_danger/ |
beetlejuul | 2023-10-30 02:17:46 | 1,698,632,266 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17jj2gk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17jj2gk/caught_feelings_for_my_fwb_how_can_i_deepen_our/ | 1 | I (23F) met a guy (25M) on a dating app three months ago. We’ve had a fwb/ fuck buddies type thing going on since but I’ve now unexpectedly caught feelings. We’re both kinda shy so we’ve had a hard time “connecting” and since I had no intention of dating him I didn’t really put in an effort. We don’t even text out of w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Caught feelings for my fwb. How can I deepen our relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17jj2gk/caught_feelings_for_my_fwb_how_can_i_deepen_our/ |
kkdwn | 2024-07-09 23:55:14 | 1,720,569,314 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dzhib7 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dzhib7/is_anyone_else_feeling_numb_towards_dating_apps/ | 51 | I am a 27 year old female that has been on and off dating apps for the past two years. I've had a few dates, but they haven't gone past the second one. Each one feels very forced like there isn't a spark or a connection there. Everyone around me is having amazing luck with dating apps, and I can't even bring myself to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is anyone else feeling numb towards dating apps? | 51 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzhib7/is_anyone_else_feeling_numb_towards_dating_apps/ |
Due_Definition_3763 | 2024-06-25 17:14:54 | 1,719,335,694 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dobame | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dobame/how_does_online_dating_differ_between_between_big/ | 1 | I've seen people mentioning the size of the city they live in when talking about their experience on for example tinder. Why does that matter? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does online dating differ between between big cities and smaller towns? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dobame/how_does_online_dating_differ_between_between_big/ |
Roblyle | 2017-05-11 04:34:46 | 1,494,477,286 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6ahzk6 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6ahzk6/need_a_second_opinion/ | 2 | So I met this girl while I was traveling last year. We met on the beach and talked for a couple hours before going our separate ways. Later that night we both ended up at the same club with separate groups of friends. Eventually we crossed paths and started talking again. Neither of us were particular fond of the club ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need a second opinion... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6ahzk6/need_a_second_opinion/ |
ultracheese1 | 2024-09-01 09:31:45 | 1,725,183,105 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f6aibx | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6aibx/hookup_but_i_want_more/ | 0 | Hello. Bit of a story here but I would really appreciate the input. I (F21) recently moved From my home country to the US to study. Right before I left, I slept with a guy (M26). I met him through hinge and he’s a foreigner who lives in the US (san Francisco). But spends a few months a year in India for work. We had no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hookup but I want more | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6aibx/hookup_but_i_want_more/ |
cycloniccliff | 2020-03-05 13:51:23 | 1,583,416,283 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fdvisj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fdvisj/how_do_i_23_m_do_the_online_dating_thing_and_just/ | 1 | I've done the whole creative, unique to their profile starters before, but seldom get replies at a rate of maybe 1 in 100. It can take a toll on my sanity doing so, as there is no way to "force" someone to have a conversation with you online like you can in real life (what I mean by that is, you can go up to anybody in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I [23, M] do the online dating thing and just get conversations started, that is my only issue and only goal im working on. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fdvisj/how_do_i_23_m_do_the_online_dating_thing_and_just/ |
Jonstew1398 | 2021-04-21 01:08:04 | 1,618,967,284 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mv51p3 | true | null | 110 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mv51p3/ladies_what_are_some_of_the_reasons_you_ghost/ | 36 | Just curious to know what things contribute to a man being ghosted early. I’ve been struggling on dating apps recently because it seems like no matter what I say I usually get ghosted withen the first few messages. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies, what are some of the reasons you ghost dudes early on? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mv51p3/ladies_what_are_some_of_the_reasons_you_ghost/ |
Zasquatch_69 | 2024-09-18 16:12:02 | 1,726,675,922 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1fjwomj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fjwomj/25m_here_and_theres_this_girl/ | 1 | There's this girl, same age as me, that I've known since college. We don’t really talk because I was in my first-ever relationship at that time, so we're basically strangers now. Recently, I found her Instagram, and I've been liking some of her stories, and she sometimes likes mine too. Does that mean she's interested ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25M here and there's this girl | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjwomj/25m_here_and_theres_this_girl/ |
chessman6500 | 2022-03-13 07:54:40 | 1,647,158,080 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | td20t4 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/td20t4/tried_initiating_a_meetup_with_the_girl_i_like/ | 1 | I need some advice. There is this girl I have been talking to for around 2 months now. We met on a Facebook dating group. I asked her to meet up a couple times and she agreed but then she started seeming like she was backing out, she told me me she had too much anxiety to meet, etc she even told me she was too fat for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tried initiating a meetup with the girl I like, she did not follow through. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/td20t4/tried_initiating_a_meetup_with_the_girl_i_like/ |
ilovebulldogs555 | 2021-01-08 09:42:51 | 1,610,098,971 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | kszc2y | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kszc2y/to_the_men_out_there_what_makes_you_swipe_right/ | 1 | Main question: What makes you swipe right- is it a cute selfie, bikini picture, something written in her bio, her style? So, first off, I live in LA. This city is riddled with models, hot girls, etc. On top of that, girls are spending tons of money getting filler, hair extensions, and all types of procedures to compete... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | TO THE MEN OUT THERE: What makes you swipe right on a dating app? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kszc2y/to_the_men_out_there_what_makes_you_swipe_right/ |
winegirl97 | 2024-09-02 23:44:03 | 1,725,320,643 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | 1f7lk8f | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f7lk8f/is_it_fd_up_of_me_to_swipe_rightlike_a_guy_who/ | 1 | I’ll admit I thought the resemblance was wild at first and I swiped because of that but he’s a really nice guy. Am I overthinking it that people will see that he followed me on Instagram and see that he looks exactly like my ex?? Is this bad of me?? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it f’d up of me to swipe right/like a guy who looks very much like my ex? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f7lk8f/is_it_fd_up_of_me_to_swipe_rightlike_a_guy_who/ |
DadJoke_Mod_Reindeer | 2024-04-14 02:02:17 | 1,713,060,137 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c3if3e | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c3if3e/help/ | 1 | This girl i met keeps messaging me at around 9 every night and shares 2 to 3 messages and disappears. I don't know how to keep a relationship going this way so any advice is welcome | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c3if3e/help/ |
NefariousnessTop9062 | 2022-11-02 12:41:34 | 1,667,392,894 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | yk4804 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yk4804/have_i_messed_this_up/ | 1 | So I matched this girl on a dating app and weve been chatting for a little over 3 weeks Things were going really well. We'd pretty much speak throughout the day with the occasional voice note and phone call. Only issue was that she would always dodge any attempt to meet up and things always seemed a little platonic. I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have I messed this up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yk4804/have_i_messed_this_up/ |
throwRAtumbleweed12 | 2023-10-30 14:03:10 | 1,698,674,590 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17ju4qf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17ju4qf/feel_like_i_30f_lost_the_perfect_person_for_me/ | 1 | A few months ago I got talking to someone on a dating app. We quickly got onto a call and the call lasted hours. We matched up in terms of our childhood, future values, requirements for long term relationship and most importantly we could talk so easily for ages. The only thing that concerned me then was how much empha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feel like I 30F lost the perfect person for me 30M after a 6 hour + long date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ju4qf/feel_like_i_30f_lost_the_perfect_person_for_me/ |
justaguy1959 | 2020-07-08 02:27:00 | 1,594,175,220 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | hn8mnb | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/hn8mnb/is_it_easier_for_men_or_women_to_date_online/ | 10 | My personal opinion as a guy is that it’s easier for a woman to date online. As far as I can tell, it seems like women can just kind of pick and choose from the guys that contact them and then meet with the ones that matches most of their criteria. The guy has to contact alot of women, most of whom don’t reply to our e... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Is it easier for men or women to date online? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/hn8mnb/is_it_easier_for_men_or_women_to_date_online/ |
spicy_simba | 2021-05-22 08:50:17 | 1,621,673,417 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | niebs5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/niebs5/things_to_keep_in_mind_when_using_online_dating/ | 3 | This post is not against online dating, it is against certain misconceptions of its use and expectations from it First things first: 1) Online dating is not a substitute for meeting people the regular way. Online dating apps is not the new dating, it only creates the illusion of it for commercial purpose, online dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Things to keep in mind when using Online dating apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/niebs5/things_to_keep_in_mind_when_using_online_dating/ |
LMHPyQbg2 | 2012-07-31 21:58:17 | 1,343,771,897 | 1 | ['okcupid'] | null | xgzgi | null | null | 7 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/xgzgi/please_help_me_understand_why_this_girl_seemed/ | 6 | Hi AskWomen, Male here. I've had an interesting encounter with a woman recently. I don't know what to make of it, other than the typical guy excuse, "I'll never understand women." See below for TL;DR. I met this girl on OKCupid. She wanted to meet up, so we did, and she was really cool so we continued texting each othe... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Please help me understand why this girl seemed both very interested and also not interested at all. | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/xgzgi/please_help_me_understand_why_this_girl_seemed/ |
StaticNocturne | 2023-04-30 02:17:02 | 1,682,821,022 | 0 | null | 0 | 133dd53 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/133dd53/those_of_you_who_quit_dating_apps_for_a_while_how/ | 10 | First of all what was the straw that broke the camels back and convinced you to quit using them? Did you the your mental health improved a bit? Did you have more time and energy to reconnect with hobbies or friends? Did you try to focus on meeting people the old fashioned way? Was it harder or easier than you predicted... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Those of you who quit dating apps for a while, how did that go for you? | 10 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/133dd53/those_of_you_who_quit_dating_apps_for_a_while_how/ |
Even-Leader-5188 | 2023-06-16 16:48:46 | 1,686,934,126 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14b1s7j | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14b1s7j/was_this_just_a_hookup/ | 0 | Okay so I went out with this guy that I’m pretty into. We had a first date two months ago and I was actually surprised when he asked me out for a second date. On the first date my guy friend was in town and was calling me back to back so im sure that left a bad impression. He did ask me out again for later that week bu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was this just a hookup? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14b1s7j/was_this_just_a_hookup/ |
ApprehensiveCrab9561 | 2022-06-02 05:26:06 | 1,654,147,566 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | v31l8p | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v31l8p/texting_troubles/ | 1 | Hey everybody Hope your doing great. I (M19) just got tinder and other dating apps so im really new to this stuff. So pretty much what always happens to me with girls that I matched with but are “out of my league” will be fine. Like we message and our convos are amazing and we vibe. But the girls will ALWAYS take forev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting Troubles | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v31l8p/texting_troubles/ |
tossmysaladoverboard | 2021-05-08 03:12:44 | 1,620,443,564 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | n7fzsf | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/n7fzsf/how_do_i_avoid_the_mental_issues_that_caused_the/ | 15 | Throwaway account due to reasons. 43M and separated, working out a divorce, no chance of rekindling. She has Borderline Personality Disorder, it continuously got worse until she got violent and I ended things. After 11 years/3 married. My question is this: How do I move forward in the dating scene, whether that be OLD ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How do I avoid the mental issues that caused the demise of my current marriage? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/n7fzsf/how_do_i_avoid_the_mental_issues_that_caused_the/ |
Snoo-8101 | 2023-09-05 17:46:26 | 1,693,935,986 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16auvx3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16auvx3/we_matched_she_was_replying_straight_away_but_now/ | 1 | The last message she answered she liked anything cheesy or American regarding tv series , I replied I like the office which fits that category She hadn’t replied in 30 mins do I send another message or just leave it | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We matched she was replying straight away but now hasn’t responded in 30 mins do I send another message | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16auvx3/we_matched_she_was_replying_straight_away_but_now/ |
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