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TerryTravis-DH | 2016-01-20 17:07:49 | 1,453,309,669 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 41v9e6 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/41v9e6/how_to_kiss_a_girl_incl_a_video/ | 0 | I wrote an article with video on how to kiss a girl. I'll write you guys a summary of the first part here. The video is more in depth of course. Hey, what’s your name? To kiss a girl you need to find one and make her like you enough to want to kiss you. You can find and meet girls everywhere. On a street, in a mall, in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to kiss a girl, incl a video | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/41v9e6/how_to_kiss_a_girl_incl_a_video/ |
TheStrangeReject | 2023-06-05 21:10:43 | 1,685,999,443 | 0 | null | 0 | 141rzd9 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/141rzd9/how_much_weight_race_has_in_your_swiping_decision/ | 3 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How much weight race has in your swiping decision? | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/141rzd9/how_much_weight_race_has_in_your_swiping_decision/ |
Dr-DeathSmile | 2022-04-24 05:24:34 | 1,650,777,874 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | uanl17 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uanl17/asking_if_she_did_anything_else_other_than_music/ | 2 | It sounds a bit ridicules but yeah. (M19) Question; does asking “so do you do anything else other than music” sound as if I was trying to hook up and was I a bit too quick to ask her that? (I did not intend to hook up) (Read below if you want some context) I matched with this pretty girl and recently I wait a day to se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking if she did anything else other than music, got unmatched. Accident or did she think that I was trying to hook up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uanl17/asking_if_she_did_anything_else_other_than_music/ |
JoseAmaya97 | 2020-12-08 13:57:11 | 1,607,435,831 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | k94l4h | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k94l4h/need_online_dating_advice/ | 2 | So I(23M) on tinder a lot and have had good matches with other gals. We text for a few days and then either they stop messaging me back or the other way around. Sometimes I’m just not feeling the person and a lot it’s the other way around. I’m just asking for advice on how to talk over text, mainly flirt I guess. I jus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need online dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k94l4h/need_online_dating_advice/ |
Ok-Quiet-44 | 2021-09-24 13:49:31 | 1,632,491,371 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | puk69y | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/puk69y/would_you_continue_to_date_someone_who_did/ | 3 | TRIGGER WARNING: talk of sexual assault and rpe Not sure if this is the right channel to be posting. Matched with this guy on Hinge who immediately I was having a very natural conversation with. We made plans to meet up, but my intuition told me to google him - I don’t use other forms of social media and i believe dati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | would you continue to date someone who did something so terrible? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/puk69y/would_you_continue_to_date_someone_who_did/ |
TheChazzReinhold | 2021-05-02 19:32:04 | 1,619,983,924 | null | null | 0 | n3dye4 | true | null | 81 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n3dye4/is_a_coffee_date_a_turnoff/ | 18 | I’ve had several of what seemed like great connections recently and after a couple days of talking I suggest coffee. I think a coffee date is ideal because you get a meet and greet and the chance to see what someone’s like and no one is trapped there for long periods if they decide they’re not into it. I’ll suggest it ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is a coffee date a turnoff? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n3dye4/is_a_coffee_date_a_turnoff/ |
Alternative-Sea2806 | 2024-01-11 08:17:29 | 1,704,961,049 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipe', 'bumble'] | 0 | 193wpty | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/193wpty/getting_matched_on_bumble/ | 1 | Alright I’ve been using bumble for a while and I’m not trying to sound like a douchebag saying this but it’s gonna come across that way anyway 😭 I get a lot of matches and it’s overwhelming keeping up with all these conversations… everyone I swipe right on I think I would get along with but than it just gets to be a l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting matched on bumble | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/193wpty/getting_matched_on_bumble/ |
LynRock | 2023-07-21 15:53:58 | 1,689,954,838 | 0 | null | 0 | 155rwnu | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/155rwnu/is_this_a_rebound/ | 3 | 33/M just started seeing this girl and its going great. No drama and we are having fun dates with chemistry. She asked me how long iv been out of a relationship and it was 3 years. I asked back and she said she ended a 7 year relationship 8 months ago but she is deff ready to pursue something serious (wasnt propisition... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this a rebound? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/155rwnu/is_this_a_rebound/ |
Throwawaydeeznuts691 | 2023-01-25 07:19:04 | 1,674,631,144 | null | null | 0 | 10ksxdr | true | null | 69 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10ksxdr/how_should_i_tell_her_its_a_bit_too_expensive_for/ | 19 | So for our fourth date we decided to play badminton but i realize renting a court for 2 hours is quite expensive. Now i don't know what to do. Should i tell her that the price is quite steep for me and suggest to her to split. My other option is to play 1hr and lie to her that there are only booking slots for 1hr. I'm ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How should i tell her it's a bit too expensive for me? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10ksxdr/how_should_i_tell_her_its_a_bit_too_expensive_for/ |
gloglo_jo | 2019-05-02 04:58:32 | 1,556,773,112 | null | null | 0 | bjr2rm | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bjr2rm/best_app_to_use_in_la/ | 6 | I know app popularity varies by city. I'm 28, f. Looking for more of a LTR than hookups. I feel like I've been on every app at one point or another and like/dislike different things about each. But what's hot in LA specifically? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best app to use in LA? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bjr2rm/best_app_to_use_in_la/ |
adamantsandler | 2022-04-23 17:02:24 | 1,650,733,344 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ua9vhn | true | null | 73 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ua9vhn/am_i_being_unrealistic_in_wanting_something_less/ | 47 | I’m 24f, averagely attractive, and I have a lot of interactions with men. Either on dating apps or in my day to day because I like talking and I like people. I feel like I have so much to offer but I’ve been increasingly put off from dating because things just turn so sexual so fast. And don’t get me wrong, I enjoy tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being unrealistic in wanting something less | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ua9vhn/am_i_being_unrealistic_in_wanting_something_less/ |
Ok-Cupcake5 | 2024-08-24 20:30:23 | 1,724,531,423 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f0eucc | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f0eucc/should_i_21fwait_until_i_lose_weight_to_date_again/ | 24 | I (21F) was raped last year and ate as a coping mechanism, and almost knew I was doing it so guys would ignore me. I am now 215 pounds and i’ve been going to the gym consistently for 4 months and trying to eat well but really not much luck in losing weight. I’m sure I messed up my body from starving, purging, etc…. I a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (21F)wait until I lose weight to date again? | 24 | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0eucc/should_i_21fwait_until_i_lose_weight_to_date_again/ |
Annoying2ask | 2016-03-13 06:29:02 | 1,457,850,542 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 4a7diw | null | null | 216 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/4a7diw/okcupid_users_what_are_your_profile_pet_peeves/ | 110 | I personally hate it when some random guy demands that I respond to his messages, when he has 0 info posted on his profile and his only picture is of his truck or something random. That, and the use of "partner in crime." What about you? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | OkCupid users: what are your profile pet peeves? | 110 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/4a7diw/okcupid_users_what_are_your_profile_pet_peeves/ |
MightyPancake2049 | 2024-04-19 18:54:39 | 1,713,552,879 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c84rs7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c84rs7/how_to_become_more_emotional_mature/ | 1 | I met a wonderful girl on Tinder. We've been meeting regurarly for 3 months. A few time she told me I need to open up more and she isn't sure, whether we can be in a relationship because we are on different emotional levels. We had an honest conversation a week ago, when I told her about my past, why I may be so shy et... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to become more emotional mature? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c84rs7/how_to_become_more_emotional_mature/ |
Admirable-Chart8614 | 2024-05-31 10:34:12 | 1,717,151,652 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d4shcv | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d4shcv/best_dating_apps/ | 2 | Suggest me any 5 or more dating apps for internationally or locally | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best dating apps | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d4shcv/best_dating_apps/ |
ScaleComprehensive70 | 2024-05-29 02:52:20 | 1,716,951,140 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d320bh | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d320bh/first_date/ | 6 | F (19) going on my first ever date with a guy I met on a dating app a few days ago. And I'm super nervous. We hit it off well and have been talking for past few days. He asked me to go on a date with him the first day we started talking and I agreed because I'd rather just get to know him in person and see if we actual... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d320bh/first_date/ |
rebelvanilla | 2022-12-31 01:06:28 | 1,672,448,788 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zzh6i4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zzh6i4/quick_advice_needed_call_or_not_to_call/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to a guy for a month after meeting on a dating app, we want the same things as in serious commitment. We have been on 3 dates over the past 2 weeks which went well. He told me on the third date (this Tuesday) that he has a family thing on Friday (the day we were meeting up) so would need to be back ho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Quick advice needed. Call or not to call? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zzh6i4/quick_advice_needed_call_or_not_to_call/ |
thewetnoodle | 2024-02-19 22:39:04 | 1,708,382,344 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1av126w | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1av126w/i_asked_out_a_woman_in_person_today_it_went_great/ | 53 | She said no, and that she has a boyfriend. No hard feelings. I'm 30m and this is probably the fourth time ever asking someone for their phone number. Rejected every time. I keep reading that women think it would be nice to be asked in person or that it improves your chances. One occurrence isn't a great sample size tho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I asked out a woman in person today It went great | 53 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1av126w/i_asked_out_a_woman_in_person_today_it_went_great/ |
henselderic | 2019-10-13 02:59:59 | 1,570,935,599 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dh51g6 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dh51g6/constant_heartbreak/ | 1 | I'm 19 (M) and I've been dating for a few years now, but every relationship I get into, I get dumped after a few months. My longest relationship was 3 months. I've also been cheated on in almost every relationship. I've tried dating apps with no luck. How should I try to meet someone that will actually be looking for t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Constant heartbreak | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dh51g6/constant_heartbreak/ |
justaladfromkendal | 2019-05-03 09:23:49 | 1,556,875,429 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'happn'] | 0 | bk6fjl | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bk6fjl/is_this_a_dick_move/ | 1 | So I’m recently out of a long term relationship and decided to get back on the single scene and meet some new girls for drinks, dates whatever. Tried some of the dating apps, tinder, bumble and Happn for a bit and they are all pretty terrible, matched with people that I had basically no connection to and nothing really... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this a dick move? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bk6fjl/is_this_a_dick_move/ |
KittyKat980 | 2020-08-26 23:53:49 | 1,598,486,029 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof'] | 0 | ihaez0 | true | null | 118 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/ihaez0/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_us_over_40_year/ | 20 | I'm 46(F) I've tried Match, POF, Bumble and Hinge. They all suck! 😂 Where are the decent men hiding? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What is the best dating app for us over 40 year olds? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ihaez0/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_us_over_40_year/ |
Pretty_Excitement_90 | 2023-05-29 08:31:33 | 1,685,349,093 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13up06a | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13up06a/what_to_do_when_a_girl_cancels_a_date_without/ | 1 | Hello guys, Two weeks ago I had the first date with a girl I met on Tinder. Everything went fine, and since that day we talk thought Whatsapp everyday. We schedule a second date this last weekend, but on Thursday she said her company asked her to go to a course abroad all weekend. We rescheduled the date to Monday, and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do when a girl cancels a date without rescheduling? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13up06a/what_to_do_when_a_girl_cancels_a_date_without/ |
slugdonor | 2023-07-19 03:56:26 | 1,689,738,986 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 153jxup | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/153jxup/new_to_dating_went_on_a_first_date_think_i_got/ | 1 | Dating strangers is new to me (25M). I've been on 2 first dates in my life, and the 2nd was this past weekend. The day after, I texted her that I had a great time and would love to meet up again. No response after 24+ hours, so I'm assuming I've been ghosted. My question is, how can I use this experience to improve? Es... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to dating. Went on a first date. Think I got ghosted. How can I learn from this and improve w/o feedback? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/153jxup/new_to_dating_went_on_a_first_date_think_i_got/ |
Reckless_coyote | 2024-07-27 20:53:29 | 1,722,113,609 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1edqcw4 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1edqcw4/single_for_5_years_and_have_no_luck/ | 1 | Hello my friends of reddit, I'v been single for about 5 or so years now and have no idea how to get back into the game im 25 years old. Anywho the type pf person I am is shy and a little quiet at first which I know play a big factor in everything. I have also tried tinder, bumble, and hinge to no avail, granted I dont ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single for 5 years and have no luck | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1edqcw4/single_for_5_years_and_have_no_luck/ |
Smooveness | 2023-12-13 16:45:46 | 1,702,485,946 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18hl1pv | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18hl1pv/alone_but_wanting_to_date/ | 1 | I’m a 43 year old male, I’ve been married and divorced now I live alone with 2 little girls I have on the weekends. I work 2nd shift blue collar job. I want a relationship with a woman but it’s not easy with my schedule or maybe I’m just afraid to put myself out there to date because I’ve tried dating apps but nothing ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Alone but wanting to date | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18hl1pv/alone_but_wanting_to_date/ |
Avacado_Fucker | 2020-09-26 23:05:23 | 1,601,161,523 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | j0fwqq | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j0fwqq/take_accountability_for_your_actions/ | 78 | If you're a dude, on a dating app, and your first instinct is to send a message about their tits, or any kind of sexually charged message, don't try and blame HER for being uncomfortable. This is not how real life works. This is how you end up sad and alone. By not respecting the person behind the fucking screen. By tr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Take accountability for your actions. | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j0fwqq/take_accountability_for_your_actions/ |
Jesus_jeremy_christ | 2018-06-03 06:37:16 | 1,528,007,836 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8o6u0r | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8o6u0r/ive_forgotten_what_dating_is_like_outside_of/ | 39 | So, I met a guy through a group event who asked me out for coffee after the event. I know this guy went through a big break up maybe a year ago from a very long term girlfriend. It's come up every time I've met him, how he struggled through it and of course a lot of his stories involve this girl because they dated for ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I've forgotten what dating is like outside of online dating now. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8o6u0r/ive_forgotten_what_dating_is_like_outside_of/ |
MolassesSubstantial1 | 2023-08-13 16:26:31 | 1,691,943,991 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15q38e1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15q38e1/i_feel_like_i_turned_him_off/ | 1 | I (23F) am on hinge and have been going on dates. I am currently consistently going out with 2 men. I’ve been on four dates with the first one (29M) and two with the other (26M). I like both of them and have expressed my intention to have a serious relationships down the line but wanting to take things slow in my decis... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like I turned him off | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15q38e1/i_feel_like_i_turned_him_off/ |
Gloomy_Baker6899 | 2024-06-09 22:17:04 | 1,717,971,424 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dc5we7 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dc5we7/please_add_a_fucking_bio_on_tinder_yes_proper/ | 1 | Im on tinder trying to message these women i match with but all i got to go on is the “😊” or “Fuck off” or empty bio every single woman has. Complaining us guys are bad and dry when messaging when you give nothing at all to go on?? Im meant to know if i could like you when i swipe I shouldn’t have to realise you’re a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please add a FUCKING BIO ON TINDER Yes proper advice but little rant | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dc5we7/please_add_a_fucking_bio_on_tinder_yes_proper/ |
mmissymolecule | 2024-06-06 14:47:58 | 1,717,685,278 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d9jz1b | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d9jz1b/im_nbsb_and_i_really_want_to_start_dating_but_idk/ | 4 | First thing first, I don’t want to do speed dating by using Tinder or meet someone online, I am a (20F) I am pretty shy and awkward but I’m a great conversationalist, I don’t know why but I tend to think ‘I don’t want to’ whenever things get serious between me and other male or a friend tried to hook me up with a frien... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m NBSB and I really want to start dating, but idk how. | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d9jz1b/im_nbsb_and_i_really_want_to_start_dating_but_idk/ |
MiserlyTraveler | 2021-02-09 06:03:26 | 1,612,850,606 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | lfw2pe | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lfw2pe/didnt_have_a_job_wasnt_attractive_and_felt/ | 1 | All that has changed between now and a month ago on my various online dating profiles (Tinder, Bumble, POF, OkCupid, Hinge, Facebook) was one thing, that I was an employed professional working for a government entity in an office setting. This is a rural area without a very large number of people like myself. I conside... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Didn't have a job, wasn't attractive and felt desperation; but now have a job, am attractive, but am disinterested. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lfw2pe/didnt_have_a_job_wasnt_attractive_and_felt/ |
legend503 | 2019-07-19 10:59:44 | 1,563,533,984 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | cf64ts | true | null | 117 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cf64ts/how_to_get_over_the_one/ | 128 | How do I get over someone who was literally everything I was looking for. The only person I have fallen in love with in 11 years. Met my life values. Physical attraction was my perfect. She only wants to be friends and I'd like that too since good people today is hard too find (. And honestly if you can't agree to that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get over "the one" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cf64ts/how_to_get_over_the_one/ |
[deleted] | 2020-06-01 01:13:58 | 1,590,974,038 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | gub4lv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gub4lv/online_dating_work_so_hard_and_then_nothing/ | 3 | why is this? 🙏 you send hundreds of genuine messages, maybe a few respond, then of those few, 1-2 phone numbers, date is setup and then poof they cancel LAST MINUTE. like really. wtf. makes me so mad | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | online dating - work so hard and then nothing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gub4lv/online_dating_work_so_hard_and_then_nothing/ |
GeneralFig6053 | 2023-08-04 23:58:36 | 1,691,193,516 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15ig7dx | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15ig7dx/he_proposed/ | 1 | Been dating my boyfriend / now fiancé for 8 months now. We meet at a tech conference where he was hosting the event. Tonight, he took me out on what I thought was a normal date for us at a beautiful restaurant and then took me to a hotel which I thought was strange as we could just go back to, he’s place (we do not cur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He proposed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15ig7dx/he_proposed/ |
RichHomieLon | 2017-06-01 13:39:56 | 1,496,324,396 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6emsl6 | null | null | 42 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6emsl6/girl_ive_been_talking_to_for_a_month_wants_to/ | 1 | Hey all, So I just completed sophomore year of college last month, and I've been talking to this one girl at my school [20F] for a whole month now. I heard that she had liked me thru a mutual friend, and she confirmed it a few days later, and we've been talking ever since. Literally a month-long Snapchat streak, numero... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I've been talking to for a month wants to fuck other guys and it's REALLY annoying the everliving fuck outta me [20M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6emsl6/girl_ive_been_talking_to_for_a_month_wants_to/ |
Zestyclose_Rise7936 | 2023-12-09 12:06:09 | 1,702,123,569 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18ec916 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ec916/dating_app/ | 1 | What do you think of a dating app that allows about 6 people to gather in a room and voice talk for about an hour like a clubhouse? AI bots will be the hosts and ask questions one by one to one of the participants | dating | t5_2qhb1 | dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ec916/dating_app/ |
TheCrystalPrincess | 2022-02-01 01:22:56 | 1,643,678,576 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | shi66c | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/shi66c/dating_apps_make_me_want_to_pull_my_hair_out/ | 6 | As a 27 yr old woman on the autism spectrum, the realm of dating is pretty difficult for me. I’ve tried multiple dating apps but what bugs me about it is that I make my profile , add my pics (I’m no supermodel by any stretch I’m a bit of a plain Jane), introduce myself and what I’m looking for along with some facts in ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating apps make me want to pull my hair out! | null | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/shi66c/dating_apps_make_me_want_to_pull_my_hair_out/ |
West_Roof | 2023-10-05 04:34:52 | 1,696,480,492 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1708slv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1708slv/is_it_normal_for_a_guy_to_become_jaded_with/ | 1 | I'm writing this following a failed hookup. I'm a 25M. Me and my ex broke and i immediately felt i was ready to work to get to hookup for the first time in my life. I was always an ugly scrawny guy and I knew I'd have a hard road to getting into hooking up but i was excited for the challenge. I gym-maxed all this year,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal for a guy to become jaded with "Hookup Culture" now that he's attractive enough to participate? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1708slv/is_it_normal_for_a_guy_to_become_jaded_with/ |
allspiceisnice | 2020-02-03 02:48:49 | 1,580,698,129 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ey03dq | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ey03dq/terrified_of_dating_again_after_exiting_a_seven/ | 58 | Hello all, I (38F) left a seven-plus year relationship last winter. I've been single for the past 11 months, and have had no real desire to date during this time, up until recently. For the first couple of months after my breakup, I was honestly just too shellshocked at my relationship ending to even contemplate dating... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Terrified of dating again after exiting a seven year relationship. Advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ey03dq/terrified_of_dating_again_after_exiting_a_seven/ |
FrancescocsecnarF | 2022-02-14 13:05:20 | 1,644,843,920 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | ssa5pf | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ssa5pf/she_unmatched/ | 4 | I’m 22M Yesterday I got a match in a dating app (bumble), this girl start the conversation with me and seems to be really interested, we messaged all day but she stop responding me at 9 p.m., I thought she was busy and didn’t text her again.. This morning I opened the app and still no answer, I’ll decide to wait a litt... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She unmatched | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ssa5pf/she_unmatched/ |
Whitemoonblu | 2024-01-14 00:33:34 | 1,705,192,414 | 0 | ['tinder', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 1962r48 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1962r48/anyone_have_success_using_a_match_maker/ | 1 | I have used tinder... Coffee meets bagel... Dressed cute going to the grocery... Did my best to "sweat pretty" at the gym and still no luck. I stopped looking found other stuff/interests and did a fair amount of solo travel recently hoping to run to into my nomadic lover... 😂 Dating is such a burden to me now. I'm try... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone have success using a match maker? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1962r48/anyone_have_success_using_a_match_maker/ |
LongBoardsAreBest | 2021-04-14 05:49:38 | 1,618,379,378 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | mqk9pl | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mqk9pl/i_feel_like_dating_is_impossible_ive_never_felt/ | 6 | Let me start with some context: I'm 27/m. Live in USA/California. I was a bit of a late bloomer and didn't start dating until my early 20s, but had a (somewhat) active dating life from about age 22 to 26 or so. My last relationship, which was a very short term one (3 months), ended in June 2020. Even though this was a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like dating is impossible. I've never felt so defeated or hopeless before and its making me depressed | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mqk9pl/i_feel_like_dating_is_impossible_ive_never_felt/ |
lubu222 | 2020-11-30 08:53:16 | 1,606,726,396 | null | null | 0 | k3s98t | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/k3s98t/finding_people_to_talk_to/ | 1 | I live alone and I don’t have many people I talk to, so when I go on dating sites, the main thing I am looking for is people to have a conversation with. That is why I prefer Plenty of Fish, because it shows you exactly who is online at that moment, and it lets you message them directly. Mostly l want to meet someone w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Finding people to talk to | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/k3s98t/finding_people_to_talk_to/ |
NoInstruction8466 | 2022-06-23 14:04:25 | 1,655,993,065 | null | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vixp5t | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vixp5t/losing_hope_in_dating/ | 3 | Ever since I was 27 or 28 years old, I have been feeling anxious about not finding the right person before turning 30 and settle down. I turned 30 this month and instead of feeling anxious, I think I'm starting to lose hope. I deem myself to be fit and not bad looking. I have a professional career that makes decent inc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Losing Hope in Dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vixp5t/losing_hope_in_dating/ |
crayZpants | 2023-02-16 13:36:34 | 1,676,554,594 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 113qsgn | true | null | 102 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/113qsgn/appropriate_or_not/ | 65 | So, I have had three disappointing OLD experiences/short term relationships in a row. It started in September with the love bombing professor, next was the cowardly ghosting accountant and finally the most recent was a comical guy but I think a lifetime member on OLD. He was also the cheapest, and I do not mean thrifty... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Appropriate or not? | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/113qsgn/appropriate_or_not/ |
Sheliesawake | 2020-06-13 14:41:50 | 1,592,059,310 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | h88rx9 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/h88rx9/i_give_up/ | 4 | I’m done. I’m not putting anymore effort into dating. After my divorce 5 years ago. I met a man. I fell in love. We moved in together 2 years later that went horribly south. He was never loving or affectionate and ended with his daughter and the daughters grandmother trying to get me arrested ( very long story). We had... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I give up. | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/h88rx9/i_give_up/ |
slayergeralt25 | 2024-01-29 14:31:39 | 1,706,538,699 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1adwnmz | false | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1adwnmz/heres_something_i_found_out/ | 1 | I've been on dating apps for a while now (3 ish years)... What I found out is that 90q of the girls on those apps had a lazy eye. I want you to pay attention the next time you're swiping. It's just an observation. Let me know if you've encountered the same thing | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Here's something I found out | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1adwnmz/heres_something_i_found_out/ |
Khamzatsfacescar | 2024-08-15 19:22:17 | 1,723,749,737 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1et3z10 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1et3z10/using_social_media/ | 1 | I’ve (M23) never dated or been in a relationship mostly due to focusing on school/career. Now I’m putting in more effort into dating, but one question that keeps coming to mind is the use of social media. When I go to Reddit and read about this topic, the large majority of people say don’t bother using things like IG t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Using Social Media | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1et3z10/using_social_media/ |
i_love_toki | 2023-09-26 18:19:01 | 1,695,752,341 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16svj9j | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16svj9j/heartbroken_and_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 1 | TLDR up top, cause this got annoyingly long. Tale as old as time. Girl meets boy. Boy comes on reeeeal strong for two months. Situation is complicated. Boy turns on a dime after minor discussion and leaves girl sitting in the dust crying. To quote Nancy Kerrigan, "WHYYYYYYY??" Sorry in advance for the word salad that I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Heartbroken and not sure what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16svj9j/heartbroken_and_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
tommy5555666 | 2020-03-12 12:57:04 | 1,584,017,824 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fhfx1o | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fhfx1o/think_im_making_the_wrong_decision/ | 0 | I am 39 and started dating this girl who is 41 about a year ago. I am divorced twice. No kids. We started dating roughly 8 months after my divorce. Met on a dating app and hit it off we had a lot in common. Stuff came up with family , marriage and kids and I always said I am 50/50 because for me , I have to keep my opt... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Think I'm making the wrong decision... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fhfx1o/think_im_making_the_wrong_decision/ |
Methuselbrah | 2020-03-05 02:47:14 | 1,583,376,434 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fdokho | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fdokho/i_am_struggling_bad_to_hold_a_conversation_with/ | 10 | My social life is TERRIBLE. I am an extremely quite guy. I have been shy my whole life and have lacked self confidence. I've gotten to the point where I have been on a 3 dates from dating apps and all have ended horribly. Im 29(m), and I have been in two relationships in my life. One lasted 3 weeks after I mentioned ex... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am struggling bad to hold a conversation with girls. I am mentally exhausted from thinking about it, why am I like this. Need advice from girls, or anyone that can help. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fdokho/i_am_struggling_bad_to_hold_a_conversation_with/ |
BZNintendo | 2019-11-02 14:44:24 | 1,572,705,864 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | dql3uv | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dql3uv/ive_been_really_motivated_to_lose_weight_because/ | 1 | I (23M) have been trying to lose weight for years now and have slowly been losing 1 pound every 2 weeks. Then 2 weeks ago I connected with this girl (27F) on facebook dating and had my first ever date in my life with her. I think we hit it off well and agreed to meet up for a second date that lasted all day from mornin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've been really motivated to lose weight because of this girl I'm dating. Do I tell her or is it too soon? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dql3uv/ive_been_really_motivated_to_lose_weight_because/ |
Kooky-Signature509 | 2022-03-03 16:12:53 | 1,646,323,973 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | t5v2t8 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/t5v2t8/tips_on_how_to_overcome_commitment_issues/ | 0 | Hi all Preamble I just met a really nice woman through OLD, and things immediately clicked. We're very much into each other and have a very similar concept of a healthy relationship. We've both stated how we would like to do things well. Also, she smells good. :) I work a lot on myself. I do a lot of self-awareness and... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Tips on how to overcome commitment issues? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t5v2t8/tips_on_how_to_overcome_commitment_issues/ |
kf110 | 2014-05-05 14:34:42 | 1,399,300,482 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 24rzqc | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/24rzqc/anyone_have_any_tips_with_online_dating_or/ | 11 | looking see what other approaches some of you might take as far as starting the conversation, what you might say in your messages or even ask. haven't been having much luck lately, and looking to try a new approach. Maybe even take a break | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone have any tips with online dating or meeting people online in general? | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/24rzqc/anyone_have_any_tips_with_online_dating_or/ |
j_c_snipes | 2020-01-28 03:00:39 | 1,580,180,439 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | euzgs1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/euzgs1/someone_talk_some_sense_into_me_need_advice/ | 1 | I (22M) have only ever had one girlfriend, for 9 months back in high school. I went all of college without a relationship, and didn't really "hook up" much either. In general, I didn't go on dates or really muster up the courage to ask anyone out either. Now, 8 months after graduating, I have come to realize that post-... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Someone talk some sense into me... need advice. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/euzgs1/someone_talk_some_sense_into_me_need_advice/ |
Majestic-Display-927 | 2024-06-24 18:58:18 | 1,719,255,498 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dnlbm9 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 155 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dnlbm9/arent_you_scared/ | 108 | Questions for men on dating apps. Aren’t y’all scared of STI’s, STD’s or HIV in casual hookups? Yes condoms are there but even they aren’t risk free. I know in that case, sex is risky in general but when it comes to doing it so often, aren’t y’all scared of the ones spread through mouth? I know a lot of you don’t like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Aren’t you scared?? | 108 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dnlbm9/arent_you_scared/ |
Ps4gal94 | 2020-03-03 22:40:33 | 1,583,275,233 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fd2yhz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fd2yhz/do_you_suggest_dating_apps_to_find_a_relationship/ | 0 | I’ve had no luck with them, I don't know how else to meet people | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you suggest dating apps to find a relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fd2yhz/do_you_suggest_dating_apps_to_find_a_relationship/ |
Badbeech4life | 2024-08-18 14:34:14 | 1,723,991,654 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1evap0m | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 376 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1evap0m/i_need_a_boyfriend_lol/ | 215 | Y’all I’m really tired of swiping aimlessly on dating apps. I have a very busy schedule but I go out every now and then and I still haven’t met anyone. F (26) I really need to get into a serious relationship. I’m tired of being lonely 😭 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need a boyfriend lol | 215 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1evap0m/i_need_a_boyfriend_lol/ |
clockstocks | 2024-05-04 04:37:42 | 1,714,797,462 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cjs32c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cjs32c/might_be_going_on_a_date_with_a_wheelchair_user/ | 1 | Hi all As the title says, I met this guy on a dating app, we’re both in our 30s and I’m really into him, he seems like such a breath of fresh air compared to the recent man I met on dating apps. We’re trying to set up a date soon, he’s a wheelchair user and I’ve never been out with someone on a wheelchair so I’m alread... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Might be going on a date with a wheelchair user - need tips | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cjs32c/might_be_going_on_a_date_with_a_wheelchair_user/ |
Black-Chocobo | 2018-03-13 17:20:44 | 1,520,961,644 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 845x5t | false | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/845x5t/nobody_reads_this_anyway_on_dating_apps/ | 57 | I've come across a lot of profiles on dating apps that say "nobody reads this anyway" in their bio text and then may or may not go on to add more to the profile anyway. This tends to come off with a tiny bit of spite. The implication is that people tend to feel annoyed when they have to restate things that they've alre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | "Nobody Reads this Anyway" on dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/845x5t/nobody_reads_this_anyway_on_dating_apps/ |
throwawayshygirl13 | 2019-08-27 18:43:57 | 1,566,931,437 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | cw8nhh | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cw8nhh/i_really_like_someone_i_just_met_and_now_i_am/ | 3 | I 31F was one of those, that went on dates with reasonably cute, educated guys, fit guys and all, but for some reason, I didnt want to kiss them or they just werent into the same things I was...or they were into the same things and I wasnt attracted to them for a reason. I have probably gone on 20 dates or so in my lif... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really like someone I just met and now I am waiting for him and getting anxious! help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cw8nhh/i_really_like_someone_i_just_met_and_now_i_am/ |
[deleted] | 2014-03-29 20:11:17 | 1,396,123,877 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 21ozz1 | null | null | 28 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/21ozz1/if_you_turned_down_a_guy_for_a_second_date_and_he/ | 3 | Asked this in AskMen, and their opinions split the room, so I figured I'd ask you too. Had two great first dates in the last two months. Both women knew what I looked like beforehand (one had met me before, one was an OKCupid date), both had lots of great conversation and laughing, both went on way later than planned, ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | If you turned down a guy for a second date, and he asked for feedback on how he could do better, would you tell him? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/21ozz1/if_you_turned_down_a_guy_for_a_second_date_and_he/ |
jujuparkkk | 2022-03-07 13:50:55 | 1,646,661,055 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | t8pniu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t8pniu/talking_to_a_great_guy_from_a_different_country/ | 0 | Just met this amazing guy a few weeks ago on Hinge, and it's been great so far. He's really sweet and funny and we have a lot of things in common. I've never felt this giddy over someone in a long time, and I can see myself falling for him. The problem is we're thousands of miles away from each other, and both establis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking to a great guy from a different country. Should i nip it in the bud before we get attached? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t8pniu/talking_to_a_great_guy_from_a_different_country/ |
Sweet_Cheetah_4342 | 2024-07-25 04:20:49 | 1,721,881,249 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1eblvii | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eblvii/rebound_relationship/ | 1 | I really need some advice here. Recently met this girl on Tinder over a month ago and we decided to get into a relationship fast and she’s very beautiful and I’ve honestly never been in a relationship and Im a 24M. I’ve basically fallen in love with her and I feel overly attached. Which is kind of hurting me. Honestly ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rebound relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eblvii/rebound_relationship/ |
BottleRocket007 | 2019-03-29 09:34:21 | 1,553,852,061 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | b6v5nd | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b6v5nd/need_advice_dealing_with_a_lack_of_female_interest/ | 7 | I'm a 21 year old college student, never been on a date or done anything with a girl. I've legit never met a girl who was interested. I've tried a plethora of dating apps such as Bumble and OkCupid but I literally got 0 matches and replies. I've been clubbing numeorus times but the girls are always either with someone ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice dealing with a lack of female interest | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b6v5nd/need_advice_dealing_with_a_lack_of_female_interest/ |
Present_Peak7679 | 2022-11-30 18:35:43 | 1,669,833,343 | null | null | 0 | z8z60o | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z8z60o/from_los_angeles_online_looking_for_somebody_from/ | 0 | Hello everyone. I'm 22yrs, a naturally submissive person, 5'9", 98lbs, brown eyes eyes, tan/honey skin, light brown/ blonde hair, and cute cheeks. Looking for someone to roleplay with to calm my nerves and calm my anxiety with deep fun; I just get so obsessed and needy i just need someone to get down with and trade som... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | From Los Angeles online looking for somebody from Reddit to sext with n Casual fun | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z8z60o/from_los_angeles_online_looking_for_somebody_from/ |
Virgo2708 | 2023-08-19 12:58:11 | 1,692,449,891 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15vfmri | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15vfmri/need_advice_regarding_taking_time_off_dating/ | 1 | I've been in a situationship for a while, and now i'm planning on ending it in about a month if nothing changes. I know that most likely nothing's gonna change (he did give off some signs and say some things that seemed like something might change the past couple of times we've seen each other, but idk if i'm just seei... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice regarding taking time off dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15vfmri/need_advice_regarding_taking_time_off_dating/ |
Strict-Corgi-4914 | 2024-08-30 13:50:58 | 1,725,025,858 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f4vro1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f4vro1/advice_needed/ | 2 | I’m 21(f) and I went out two times with this guy.(I met him on hinge )He seemed sweet and not an f-boy. The problem is that he is so shy, he didn’t talk for a long time and I had to ask most of the questions. On the contrary , I’m pretty talkative, when I asked him why he doesn’t want to talk like I do he told me it wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice needed | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4vro1/advice_needed/ |
Unique_Drive_3131 | 2022-08-24 05:03:07 | 1,661,317,387 | null | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | wwahhb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wwahhb/i_wrote_a_guy_a_letter/ | 4 | guys- i met this guy on bumble and we talked nonstop for a week. we made a bunch of first date plans which never really worked out and then i drunk texted him one day and was supposed to go over to his. he even ended work early for me. but then when i got home to get rdy to go to his, i got a migraine and couldn’t go s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I wrote a guy a letter... | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wwahhb/i_wrote_a_guy_a_letter/ |
Chris_Hansen_AMA | 2015-08-19 22:31:13 | 1,440,023,473 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3hn7ra | null | null | 64 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3hn7ra/what_online_dating_service_do_you_use_and_what_do/ | 47 | I'm starting to believe that most single people are using some sort of online dating service, what do you think? Which ones do you use? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What online dating service do you use and what do you see as the pros and cons of each? | 47 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3hn7ra/what_online_dating_service_do_you_use_and_what_do/ |
ellilan | 2023-11-28 14:04:34 | 1,701,180,274 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 185wsur | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/185wsur/how_much_do_you_share_with_your_youngadult/ | 8 | Assuming you have a good relationship with them and they’re open to conversation! Do you show them OLD matches? Debriefs after first dates? Share your hopeful feelings, anxieties, or sadness when things don’t work out? (I’m talking early dating). Ask their advice? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How much do you share with your young-adult children about your dating life? | 8 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/185wsur/how_much_do_you_share_with_your_youngadult/ |
Brave_Okra_9415 | 2022-11-15 02:48:03 | 1,668,480,483 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | yvkomc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yvkomc/hooked_up_on_first_date_and_now_i_want_more_than/ | 1 | I matched a guy on a dating app and didn’t think we would be into each other, but he was a really good person and even though we didn’t have insane chemistry we had sex multiple times throughout the night. We texted after about how it was a bit intense to hookup without barely knowing each other and that we will need t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hooked up on first date and now I want more than just that. What to do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yvkomc/hooked_up_on_first_date_and_now_i_want_more_than/ |
TK_Warlord | 2023-12-27 05:19:25 | 1,703,654,365 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18rsq3b | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18rsq3b/online_or_offline_dating_which_has_been_more/ | 1 | Just asking out of curiosity how has the online dating scenario been to all? Has dating apps given you any meaningful partners? Or it has helped you find more partners for Hookup's? Do you feel maybe Dating/Matrimonial apps could bring in activities or games in app that you both could finish together? would things like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online or Offline Dating. Which has been more fruitful. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18rsq3b/online_or_offline_dating_which_has_been_more/ |
havesumblu | 2017-07-30 19:42:44 | 1,501,443,764 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 6qje3h | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6qje3h/35m_can_i_please_get_some_feedback_on_this_date/ | 1 | Hi So, the other day, I met this girl on a dating site, seems really nice, is my intellectual type and whatnot, and asked her out on a date after about a week of talking. She said yes, and we planned a "mini date" as we were both somewhat time restricted on the weekend, but she was super enthusiastic to book it in on S... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [35m] Can I please get some feedback on this date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6qje3h/35m_can_i_please_get_some_feedback_on_this_date/ |
MaybeARunnerTomorrow | 2021-02-23 05:49:40 | 1,614,059,380 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lqap4v | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lqap4v/texting_too_much_or_too_little/ | 2 | Hello! Just looking for some perspective :) Last week I matched with a girl on tinder and we exchanged numbers and moved to texting - we've talked pretty much daily since then. I planned a date for the upcoming weekend ,and based on her responses she is excited and it's been all positive. My question is pretty much how... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting too much or too little? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lqap4v/texting_too_much_or_too_little/ |
No-Foundation-3030 | 2021-06-27 22:29:28 | 1,624,832,968 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o976gg | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/o976gg/asked_on_dates_on_sunday_but_not_friday_or/ | 37 | Newly back on the dating apps. This past week I was asked out 4 times by 4 different guys for Sunday but not once for Friday or Saturday. I’m trying not to read too much into this. But it has me wondering... am I only the Sunday date type? Is this the new normal with coming out of the pandemic? Or is it all just a coin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Asked on dates on Sunday but not Friday or Saturday? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/o976gg/asked_on_dates_on_sunday_but_not_friday_or/ |
emmawoolford | 2016-11-13 16:45:10 | 1,479,055,510 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5cqqbk | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5cqqbk/ex_texts_me_out_of_the_blue_what_do_i_do/ | 2 | She wasnt actually my ex. We met on Tinder and we were seeing each other for three weeks. In those three weeks things went pretty fast and we ended up having sex and she spent about £42 overall to come and see me. She seemed like she liked me. Then I kind of freaked out about something and my emotions took over. I show... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ex texts me out of the blue what do I do? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5cqqbk/ex_texts_me_out_of_the_blue_what_do_i_do/ |
ThePhunkyPhantom13 | 2020-09-16 18:45:08 | 1,600,281,908 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | iu1r88 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/iu1r88/is_this_scenario_me_or_do_i_seem_to_be/ | 2 | So I had a date setup Friday afternoon for just sitting down and getting some coffee. I got there looked around at the empty joint decided to order myself a cup of coffee and wait. I enjoy sip my done up coffee which is a rare treat since I am now down 90 pounds since this time last year and don't often indulge as much... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is this scenario me or do I seem to be interpreting this correctly? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iu1r88/is_this_scenario_me_or_do_i_seem_to_be/ |
maplemagician | 2020-01-05 00:37:21 | 1,578,184,641 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ek5a4w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ek5a4w/can_you_trust_your_gut_feelings_from_texting_only/ | 1 | TLDR: This is actually a two part question. When you haven't actually met someone yet and you've only texted. If your getting a weird vibe about them, do you find that your gut instinct over text can be relied upon? Second part, is it okay to ghost them if you haven't even met yet? This online dating thing can be so we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can you trust your gut feelings from texting only? (29M) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ek5a4w/can_you_trust_your_gut_feelings_from_texting_only/ |
i-hav-questions | 2019-02-05 02:48:57 | 1,549,334,937 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | an9n3e | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/an9n3e/how_does_a_man_go_on_dates_outside_of_college_no/ | 23 | I am 23. Graduated college in April 2018 - so gone are all the classes, clubs, parties, etc. that were chalk full of girls to talk to. I want to go on a date - how do I go on one? How can I ask girls out? Please no apps (Tinder, OkCupid, etc.) Thanks in advance for your help Note: I did a google search for speed-dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does a man go on dates outside of college? (No Apps, please) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/an9n3e/how_does_a_man_go_on_dates_outside_of_college_no/ |
samiamari | 2017-08-08 22:32:25 | 1,502,231,545 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6sh56o | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6sh56o/not_sure_if_tinder_girl_is_interested_in_actually/ | 3 | So I met a girl on tinder. I got her snapchat and we have a 7 day snap streak. She usually responds to my snaps relativity fast. When snapback its because she hasn't read it yet. Sometimes I will ask a question and she will completely ignore the question but snapback. I told her I don't like when people stop responding... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if tinder girl is interested in actually going on a date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6sh56o/not_sure_if_tinder_girl_is_interested_in_actually/ |
ROBOTTTTT13 | 2021-09-07 18:55:29 | 1,631,040,929 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | pjtehf | true | I Need Advice | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pjtehf/cant_find_a_date_yes_i_compare_myself_to_others/ | 13 | I (M25) have sporadically posted on dating subreddits for more than two years. That's how long I've been looking for a date. I've taken my shot at girls a bunch of times and got rejected 5 times in a little over a year. My tinder was active at first but to people that I didn't find too attractive so I never went on a d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can't find a date. Yes, I compare myself to others. Yes, it is the comparison itself that's hurting me. Now what? | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pjtehf/cant_find_a_date_yes_i_compare_myself_to_others/ |
girlboss420 | 2020-10-19 02:24:20 | 1,603,074,260 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | jdtewf | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jdtewf/unbelievable/ | 4 | this story is so wild i thought people would enjoy. started talking to a guy on hinge like two months ago, he asked me out (the night we started talking) for a drink and i had to decline as i was busy. that night i went for dinner (i live in one of the biggest cities in the world) with friends and who strolls in but th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Unbelievable | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jdtewf/unbelievable/ |
pocketyodafreed | 2020-03-14 04:13:14 | 1,584,159,194 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fictph | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fictph/ladies_whats_your_favorite_dating_app/ | 1 | And why? If it helps narrow listing, I live in LA | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies what's your favorite dating app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fictph/ladies_whats_your_favorite_dating_app/ |
Infinite-Internal418 | 2023-01-02 16:58:31 | 1,672,678,711 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 101hff3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/101hff3/date_cancelled_did_i_do_something_wrong/ | 1 | I (22M) was talking to someone I met on hinge (22F) for about two weeks. We had good convos with good energy. After about a week I asked for her number and got it. Soon we planned to meet for the first time which ended up being about 10-12 days away. I got an extra day off work and asked if she would want to meet on th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Date cancelled, did I do something wrong? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/101hff3/date_cancelled_did_i_do_something_wrong/ |
Infamous_Potato3198 | 2024-01-09 10:29:41 | 1,704,796,181 | 0 | null | 0 | 192bpyd | true | null | 140 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/192bpyd/hinge_how_many_women_are_really_serious_about/ | 14 | i get the feeling most are not serious? Also why do so may women say they go to the gym. is it some way of saying that they have great bodies? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hinge - how many women are really serious about finding a guy? how many just want the attention? | 14 | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/192bpyd/hinge_how_many_women_are_really_serious_about/ |
Emma_Eve8 | 2019-05-23 22:55:52 | 1,558,652,152 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | bs9hdd | true | Requesting Advice | 37 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/bs9hdd/freaking_out/ | 29 | Just had my 1st encounter with a con artist/scammer. Met a guy on Hinge. We are both in Florida. He supposedly is an 1.5 hour away. We’ve been messaging on the website. Yesterday he asked for my number. Today we’ve been texting. Find out he’s “in Alabama.” He calls me after work....he acts like it’s a bad connection, h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Freaking out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/bs9hdd/freaking_out/ |
ilenayz | 2020-07-24 02:31:53 | 1,595,557,913 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hwtjoc | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hwtjoc/how_do_you_know_they_are_also_looking_for_a/ | 1 | Hi this guy and i (f 19 almost 20) have been talking for almost a month and we are planning on going on our third date. Ive never been in a relationship so im learning how mature dating works as i go. I noticed he deleted his tinder account (at least im hoping its that since it doesnt show up anymore or he either unmat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you know they are also looking for a serious relationship? And for those who have been in a relationship how long were you in the talking phase before being official. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hwtjoc/how_do_you_know_they_are_also_looking_for_a/ |
CranberryFew8000 | 2024-05-11 02:20:33 | 1,715,394,033 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cp6twk | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cp6twk/hinge_issue/ | 1 | (43 f) I am on Hinge and paid for the Hinge X subscription. I cancelled the renewal of the subscription as I don’t want to be locked in. I thought I would have unlimited likes and I get prompted by the app to buy roses. I had some matches but they weren’t a good fit. Since then I’ve only had one or two. Is this some ki... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hinge issue | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cp6twk/hinge_issue/ |
stormi-webster | 2021-05-07 07:23:29 | 1,620,372,209 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | n6suyy | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n6suyy/why_is_it_hard_for_me_27f_to_get_over_someone_27m/ | 2 | 2-3 years ago (yes that long ago) I dated someone for around 3 months (yes that short) who treated me badly. We dated TWICE actually (yes I’m an idiot). We stopped dating the first time then he texted me asking to be ‘friends’ and I gave in. I think we dated around 2-3 months the second time too. By treat me badly I me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it hard for me [27F] to get over someone [27M] who treated me badly? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n6suyy/why_is_it_hard_for_me_27f_to_get_over_someone_27m/ |
OkCheesecake7067 | 2024-08-11 00:21:10 | 1,723,335,670 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ep7ivf | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ep7ivf/why_is_it_so_common_for_people_to_be_friends_with/ | 0 | I know I might get a lot of downvotes for this but I really don't agree with "friends with benefits". I've tried it before and I ended up catching romantic feelings for the person. There are also some people who claim to just wanna be friends with benefits but then they would act suddenly act possessive, jealous or ins... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it so common for people to be "friends with benefits"? | 0 | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ep7ivf/why_is_it_so_common_for_people_to_be_friends_with/ |
newteverything | 2019-09-13 18:39:40 | 1,568,399,980 | null | ['dating app', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | d3tllt | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d3tllt/how_do_i_get_over_the_anxiety_i_feel_at_the/ | 26 | I'm 28 and feel like I'm ready to try dating for the first time after an abusive relationship that ended when I was 20. I've considered downloading tinder or bumble or something similar, but as someone who has never really dated and whose friends and acquaintances kind of see as an eternally single person, I get really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I get over the anxiety I feel at the thought of people I know seeing me on a dating app/site? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d3tllt/how_do_i_get_over_the_anxiety_i_feel_at_the/ |
Madllib | 2024-07-20 14:51:30 | 1,721,487,090 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e7xe7h | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e7xe7h/how_to_handle_non_exclusivity/ | 1 | Been on 4 dates with one girl over the past month. We’ve really been clicking. I believe she is talking to others as our last date I did see a hinge notification pop up. I’m probably in the minority here but I like to date one person at a time. However, I do not expect the person I’m seeing to do the same! That’s perfe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to handle non exclusivity | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e7xe7h/how_to_handle_non_exclusivity/ |
palmarni | 2020-10-12 20:21:46 | 1,602,534,106 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | j9yq72 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j9yq72/what_can_i_messagedo_to_gauge_her_interest/ | 1 | So I matched with a girl on a popular dating app. We started messaging each other and it was cool. We had a virtual date last Friday. It kinda start off ackward but developed natural with each passing minute. Since yesterday she hasn't really initiated any messages and her messages are short. I know this might signify ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What can I message/do to gauge her interest? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j9yq72/what_can_i_messagedo_to_gauge_her_interest/ |
NoodlePoodleA | 2023-05-11 04:42:47 | 1,683,780,167 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 13ed6sj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13ed6sj/breakupdate/ | 1 | So I’m in a tough situation. My ex and I broke up like 5 days ago. We dated for three years and it was a hell of a roller coaster. We loved each other but it was sometimes hell or Heaven. No in between. There was stuff I begged him to change however he never changed and I was tired of begging. It got so toxic we broke ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Breakup/Date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13ed6sj/breakupdate/ |
smartgirl94 | 2020-11-15 15:02:05 | 1,605,452,525 | null | null | 0 | jun59e | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jun59e/is_it_ok_to_date_few_guys_at_the_same_time/ | 6 | I have match with two really good looking guys. One of them is crossfit lover, looks like Apolon, nice guy and we had good conversation. He asked me to have a drink next week. Another one is tall, handsome guy, more casual than the first one, not that gentle like the first one but I feel good chemistry and we flirt muc... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it ok to date few guys at the same time? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jun59e/is_it_ok_to_date_few_guys_at_the_same_time/ |
Sad-Carrot6503 | 2022-12-24 23:18:12 | 1,671,923,892 | null | null | 0 | zulcvw | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zulcvw/enough_with_the_filters/ | 9 | Really, stop it. I was just looking at a profile and the woman was complaining how much online dating sucks. She looked pretty good so I was a little surprised. Then it happened. I scrolled thru picture after picture of a woman with perfectly smooth skin and complexion until the one picture she forgot to filter. Litera... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Enough with the filters | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zulcvw/enough_with_the_filters/ |
TemperatureRegular14 | 2024-01-27 17:51:14 | 1,706,377,874 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1acgj4u | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1acgj4u/how_to_improve_my_dating_practices/ | 1 | On Friday before last, I went on a date with someone I met on Bumble. We had a good time and had a lot of fun on the date just talking and playing games at Dave & Buster’s. We both had busy lives and I respected that. We FaceTimed every other day since that date since we both had stuff going on. When we couldn’t talk, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to improve my dating practices | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1acgj4u/how_to_improve_my_dating_practices/ |
rainingdx | 2016-04-18 03:04:52 | 1,460,948,692 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'happn', 'coffee meets bagel', 'match.com', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 4f9wna | null | null | 25 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4f9wna/what_was_your_experience_going_from_free_to_paid/ | 9 | It's pretty hard to meet single people my age (27). I'd rather not date at work (not like there's anyone there anyways) and my group of friends is not helping either so I've been using free dating apps like Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble, Tinder, Happn, etc but have not been very satisfied. I feel people are just fucking a... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What was your experience going from free to paid online dating sites/apps? | 9 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4f9wna/what_was_your_experience_going_from_free_to_paid/ |
Gettmore | 2017-05-04 17:08:28 | 1,493,917,708 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 698ttd | null | null | 27 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/698ttd/lets_hook_up/ | 10 | If you have seen my posts, you know I have been doing online dating for, oh geez, about a year, with little success. I'm getting frustrated. Now I'm tempted to create a Tinder profile that just says "I'm an awesome dude. Let's hook up". Yeah, why not? Not that I'm not looking for LTR, I am. But I also want to get laid.... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Let's hook up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/698ttd/lets_hook_up/ |
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