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Training-Smell-7711
2024-02-15 05:17:35
1,707,974,255
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['bumble']
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1ar7zez
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Question ❓
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1ar7zez/i_texted_happy_valentines_day_to_a_girl_i_met_on/
1
We met on Bumble and I got her number after chatting on the site. She sends long detailed texts and said over text she's really looking forward to meeting me. But right now she's on a work trip so we couldn't meet at all this week. Anyway I texted her "Happy Valentine's Day :) Hope your trip is going well!". I haven't ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I texted "Happy Valentine's Day" to a girl I met on Bumble but haven't met yet. Was that a mistake?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ar7zez/i_texted_happy_valentines_day_to_a_girl_i_met_on/
carbonsombrero85
2023-05-11 22:34:03
1,683,844,443
0
null
0
13f2ex9
true
null
115
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/13f2ex9/does_anyone_else_feel_like_its_the_previous/
1
I know some may feel it's hard to blame them since no one could foresee the impact the internet, social media, and dating apps would have on society, but I think a lot about this and I feel like even if you ignore OLD, dating in general is bad for this generation and a lot of it is due to a lack skill-building that sho...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Does anyone else feel like it's the previous generation's fault/their parent's fault for a lot of their lack of success with dating/OLD?
1
0.51
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13f2ex9/does_anyone_else_feel_like_its_the_previous/
Aggressive-Cow-5464
2024-05-25 14:38:00
1,716,647,880
0
['matched']
0
1d0dfhb
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0dfhb/should_i_contact_him_again_after_he_ghosted_me/
1
So there was this guy I talked and FaceTimed to for a month or so we fell off and then I matched with him again and we met for the first time then he ghosted me. Went to his place on the first date kinda knowing we were gonna hook up and we did. It was my first time (didn’t tell him) he wasn’t too bad in bed but there ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I contact him again after he ghosted me after our hook up?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0dfhb/should_i_contact_him_again_after_he_ghosted_me/
kamigouki
2013-09-13 22:32:37
1,379,111,557
0
['online dating', 'pof']
0
1mcelt
null
null
11
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1mcelt/28m_never_dated_and_looking_to_start_what_do_i_do/
13
Hello and thank you for reading my post. My name is Nick, I am 28, and have recently returned to school to pursue my degree. I have moved around a lot in my life, having moved several times as a child and then joining the military. I am also an introvert, so all of this had lead to me never having had a girlfriend. The...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[28M] Never dated and looking to start, what do I do?
13
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1mcelt/28m_never_dated_and_looking_to_start_what_do_i_do/
AlenSplico
2019-08-09 19:16:03
1,565,378,163
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
co72fx
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/co72fx/getting_out_there/
1
I am 22 year old guy. I dont have friends and dont like going out in clubs. I enjoy swimming and going to the gym but there arent girls. I use dating apps but there I get almost no matches. At college every attractive girl is not single. So... Idk I always felt that I will meet the SO with time and without forcing anyt...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Getting out there?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/co72fx/getting_out_there/
SmoothSandwich
2023-04-16 16:49:34
1,681,663,774
0
null
0
12ogvx6
true
null
41
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/12ogvx6/clueless_about_flirting_nice_shy_guy_problem_in/
27
So, I 27m only had one GF but only for one month. I have been told by a straight forward girl that I am really bad at flirting 😅 When I chat, I ask questions to learn about the other but I think they all find it boring. In person I am way better at moving from small talk to deep talk or being funny and witty but God i...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Clueless about flirting - nice shy guy problem in OLD
27
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12ogvx6/clueless_about_flirting_nice_shy_guy_problem_in/
Turbulent_Ad7131
2021-04-10 22:09:58
1,618,092,598
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
moe7q8
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/moe7q8/advice_for_casual_dating/
2
I recently got back on Tinder and since I broke up with my boyfriend few months ago I was looking for something nice but casual. So I matched with this guy who on the pictures seemed like my type, and then we were texting and we hit it off immediately. We were sexting for a couple of days and it was so fun, we definite...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice for casual dating
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/moe7q8/advice_for_casual_dating/
MurphaWorph
2019-03-11 22:55:42
1,552,344,942
null
['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
b00422
true
Tinder/Online Dating
15
0
/r/dating/comments/b00422/weirdest_thing_you_discovered_on_tinderbumble/
5
I matched with a girl and she was super cool but then once I asked her out she said oh I gave a boyfriend just on here to make friends. Who goes on tinder or bumble to make friends? I know they have sections to just meet friends but still we matched on the dating portion. Wouldn't you be pissed if your gf was on these ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Weirdest thing you discovered on tinder/bumble?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b00422/weirdest_thing_you_discovered_on_tinderbumble/
dbd00
2021-02-14 22:43:48
1,613,342,628
null
['online dating']
0
ljzb8n
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ljzb8n/how_do_you_stop_getting_bitter_and_jaded_from/
2
I’m a 30 year old guy What that basically means is I’m disposable in terms of dating. I’ve never been wanted, never had a girl interested in me or attracted to me. I’ve never had anyone crush on me or reciprocate interest. Yes I’ve tried online dating. I’ve been on online dating for 10 years without success. Meanwhile ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you stop getting bitter and jaded from modern dating?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ljzb8n/how_do_you_stop_getting_bitter_and_jaded_from/
QuarterInside1010
2023-12-05 09:43:43
1,701,769,423
0
['matches', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
18b8hq4
true
Support Needed 🫂
5
0
/r/dating/comments/18b8hq4/hinge_experience/
1
I just moved to Australia and since in my country Hinge can’t be used this is my first time using it. I got about 55-60 matches in about 10 days of using it. I got asked by 7 guys to go on a date and I went with 1 but it ended up bad because he was asking me to hang out after dinner I thought it was genuine. I also tal...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Hinge experience
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18b8hq4/hinge_experience/
JasperGrizzly
2022-07-08 23:16:47
1,657,322,207
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
vunoc8
true
Support Needed
17
0
/r/dating/comments/vunoc8/dating_has_demolished_my_mental_health/
24
I have been actively using dating apps for the past three years and I've never been able to get past the 2nd or 3rd date. I've learned a lot from these failures and I can honestly say I've improved in terms of dating. When I first started, I didn't have the courage to make a single move. In fact, in one instance where ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating has demolished my mental health
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vunoc8/dating_has_demolished_my_mental_health/
lordbaltimore1
2019-01-07 07:55:33
1,546,847,733
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
adfj77
true
null
11
0
/r/dating/comments/adfj77/been_on_4_dates_having_a_hard_time_getting_a_read/
5
Hey all, I'm 26M and have been on 4 dates with a 29F. We live 90 minutes apart. She's a Christian and I am as well, and she hasn't been in a relationship in over 5 years. She's mentioned that she's looking for something that will eventually lead to marriage but would rather be single than be in the wrong marriage. We m...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Been on 4 dates, having a hard time getting a read on this girl. Or might be reading too much into it.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/adfj77/been_on_4_dates_having_a_hard_time_getting_a_read/
random_jackass_here
2024-08-29 19:48:19
1,724,960,899
0
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof', 'facebook dating']
0
1f4bn7d
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f4bn7d/how_to_get_back_out_there/
1
I am a 42 yr old male, since 2004 I have been in two long term serious relationships. the first one ended years before the end, there were kids envolved so i stuck around for them. The second one started up just at the end of the first one, and it got serious quick. that lasted until 2021. I am now 3 years alone reflec...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
how to get back out there?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f4bn7d/how_to_get_back_out_there/
777ponzu
2023-10-23 09:32:13
1,698,053,533
0
['dating apps']
0
17egd4o
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17egd4o/boyfriend_has_shown_so_much_growth_and_is_amazing/
1
I sometimes have moments I feel incredibly insecure around my boyfriend. I get sad around him even though he is super sweet and doing everything amazing in the present but I can not shake off the insecurity I developed when he’s said certain things out of lack of awareness or lied to me at the beginning. His past has b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Boyfriend has shown so much growth and is amazing to me but I still feel incredibly insecure because of his past and the beginning of our relationship.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17egd4o/boyfriend_has_shown_so_much_growth_and_is_amazing/
DamnFine_CoffeeDiane
2019-09-18 04:06:35
1,568,779,595
null
['OLD']
0
d5sdsk
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/d5sdsk/introverts_in_the_dating_world_please_tell_us_how/
1
I'm clearly an extrovert. I'm energized being around people. Crowds and groups can be ok and fun, but I'd prefer just a scintillating intimate conversation with one incredible person. I didn't understand how emotionally draining being around people can be. A recent ex girlfriend had a hard time explaining how exhaustin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Introverts in the dating world, please tell us how being an introvert effects how you date, who you date, what's a compatible lifestyle, and what you want from a partner.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d5sdsk/introverts_in_the_dating_world_please_tell_us_how/
LadyThrowOfAway
2020-07-21 16:22:14
1,595,348,534
null
['dating apps']
0
hvae7u
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/hvae7u/im_transgender_and_i_dont_understand_how_im/
7
I'm a trans woman. I have been looking for a serious romantic relationship for years now, but below are literally the only reasons anyone messages me on dating apps: They don't know I'm trans. They assume I've had a million surgeries to turn me into a "real woman." They deliberately want to abuse/mess with me. They onl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm transgender and I don't understand how I'm supposed to date
null
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hvae7u/im_transgender_and_i_dont_understand_how_im/
Worried_Plum1373
2023-12-26 17:45:02
1,703,612,702
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
18rdm00
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18rdm00/how_to_approach_dating_after_getting_out_of_a_7/
1
A few months ago, my ex-gf left me after 7 years. I’m not in the position to want to enter into another serious relationship anytime soon however I would like to be able to enjoy the company of a woman. Hangout over drinks or food, friendship, and potentially of course sex. I’ve matched with two women on Tinder, one wo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to approach dating after getting out of a 7 year relationship
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18rdm00/how_to_approach_dating_after_getting_out_of_a_7/
Turtymcturtfayce
2023-03-01 19:01:05
1,677,697,265
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
11fcp2h
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/11fcp2h/how_to_ask_if_theyre_nmlnm_or_wlw/
0
Ok so I(20nb) matched with someone(20nb) almost two weeks ago now on bumble, we’ve been chatting mostly every day since. They sent me a message first saying they thought we have compatible weird and strange vibes. Their looking for setting says they’re looking for a relationship. Like a week ago I noticed in one of the...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to ask if they’re nmlnm or wlw
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11fcp2h/how_to_ask_if_theyre_nmlnm_or_wlw/
hobosexualrobutt
2022-12-31 04:40:31
1,672,461,631
null
['hinge']
0
zzljpf
true
null
85
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/zzljpf/same_faces/
122
Do you see the same profiles on hinge? I have x some men on the app multiple times, but their profile comes back next week. How do i fix this?
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Same Faces
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/zzljpf/same_faces/
Alphabeta_cal
2016-12-11 21:34:20
1,481,492,060
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
5hsk4c
null
null
31
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/5hsk4c/what_dating_app_have_you_had_the_most_success_with/
0
I'm currently back to dating after ending a LTR. I recently had a really shitty date and now I'm feeling down about online dating. It's the best way for me to meet new people as I refuse to date colleagues or friends or friends. So my question to you ladies (and occasional men that respond on this subreddit, what datin...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
What dating app have you had the most success with?
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/5hsk4c/what_dating_app_have_you_had_the_most_success_with/
quack-and-slash
2021-06-29 00:20:41
1,624,926,041
null
['dating sites']
0
o9wzfo
true
null
101
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o9wzfo/im_so_fed_up_with_men_being_pushy_on_dating_sites/
314
Sometimes I’ll get messaged by a guy and I won’t respond right away. Sometimes I’m busy, sometimes I just don’t feel like talking. What REALLY makes me feel like not talking is when an hour or so passes and I get another message saying “oh. guess I’ll leave you alone then.” or “oh. am I annoying you already? guess I’ll...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I’m so fed up with men being pushy on dating sites.
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o9wzfo/im_so_fed_up_with_men_being_pushy_on_dating_sites/
cardboardstripes-20
2024-07-31 00:38:35
1,722,386,315
0
['matched', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble']
0
1eg9pgs
true
null
33
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1eg9pgs/back_into_online_dating_i_feel_like_im/
18
I just got back into dating apps, and I’ve matched with a few guys. I’m trying really hard to keep conversations going, but the guys are just not asking follow up questions, I feel like I’m interviewing them. Like for example, I matched with a guy on bumble, sent him a message with a comment about his profile and then ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Back into online dating, I feel like I’m interviewing, they don’t ask follow up questions, why?!
18
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eg9pgs/back_into_online_dating_i_feel_like_im/
Sea_Examination_120
2024-09-13 23:40:32
1,726,270,832
0
['matches', 'matched']
0
1fg8vpw
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1fg8vpw/howwhen_to_communicate_things_are_going_too_slow/
2
We've had two dates. Both were fun. We had brunch at a pretty upscale restaurant. We went and saw a cover band at a speak easy. We kissed after date two. I asked for a third date for this weekend a week ago. She deflected. She has something going on and it's legit... ? Maybe? She has a going-to-college party lined up f...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How/when to communicate things are going too slow?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fg8vpw/howwhen_to_communicate_things_are_going_too_slow/
idk2297
2021-01-22 05:06:06
1,611,291,966
null
['tinder']
0
l2gmla
true
Venting
2
0
/r/dating/comments/l2gmla/body_image_makes_dating_even_worse/
4
I've (23F) been generally open about being bi since I was about 14 but still haven't really dated women much aside from a few first dates once in a while - I'm generally pickier with them for some reason and it's just harder to find them in general, plus flirting always feels weird cause I guess I'm used to guys being ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
body image makes dating even worse
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l2gmla/body_image_makes_dating_even_worse/
hail2daEggs
2022-04-22 00:33:09
1,650,587,589
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
u91t0z
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u91t0z/struggle_online_messaging/
2
As the title suggests I (21F) struggle responding and starting a conversation in online dating apps. I have no problem keeping small talk in person, and would consider my self sociable, but it doesn’t come as easy online. I also have no problem having text convos with people I have already met in person, even if we jus...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Struggle online messaging
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u91t0z/struggle_online_messaging/
Outrageous_Bird9297
2023-09-07 12:18:11
1,694,089,091
0
['dating app']
0
16cedan
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16cedan/do_you_want_to_date_rich_guys/
1
We are thinking to make an app, where you can only get rich guys in the dating app.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Do you want to date rich guys?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16cedan/do_you_want_to_date_rich_guys/
captainasianderp
2019-01-08 05:50:10
1,546,926,610
null
['online dating', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish']
0
adr7c0
true
Venting
4
0
/r/dating/comments/adr7c0/online_dating_sucks/
1
A coworker of mine suggested I should try online dating to find someone. Funny enough I actually had a crush on that coworker but she was seeing someone else. That's a different story. I have dabbled into Tinder before and uninstalled it after having no luck with it. Recently I just got back into it and a whole bunch o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating sucks
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/adr7c0/online_dating_sucks/
Dizzy_Fall8097
2024-09-23 05:15:40
1,727,068,540
0
['matched', 'swipe', 'bumble']
0
1fnd18y
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fnd18y/why_is_he_talking_to_me_again/
0
I (26f) was talking to this guy (24m) for a few months but we ended things in August. Our relationship had developed kind of fast, he was inviting me to stuff with his family, planning trips together, sleeping over every weekend, gaming almost every week night. In August he told me he was too fucked up to be in a relat...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is he talking to me again?
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fnd18y/why_is_he_talking_to_me_again/
AppropriateAd2334
2022-04-25 18:23:43
1,650,911,023
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
ubrrgv
true
Support Needed
5
0
/r/dating/comments/ubrrgv/dating_apps_have_ruined_real_life_flirting_for_me/
3
What I'm saying is: you meet a guy at work, at school or at a mutual friend's birthday. You're into him. Normally you wait for a second interaction:do I actually like his personality? You start subtly flirting. He starts flirting back. Or is he? Basically, before a first date there is time to build tension. Hard to do ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating apps have ruined real life flirting for me
null
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ubrrgv/dating_apps_have_ruined_real_life_flirting_for_me/
Usual-Pudding3183
2023-09-03 05:54:38
1,693,720,478
0
['dating sites']
0
168oy63
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/168oy63/looking_for_love/
1
I don't think anyone is out there for me. I've been on dating sites and nothing. Am I destined to be alone
dating
t5_2qhb1
Looking for love
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/168oy63/looking_for_love/
shochenkotaras
2017-12-25 06:25:53
1,514,183,153
null
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid']
0
7m00qh
false
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7m00qh/what_do_you_think_of_my_m_22_change_in_dating/
1
I’m actually quite tired and sick of failures in my social life. I’m a guy turning 23 next year in March. I have never been in relationship whatsoever. I have been getting rejected by girls from time to time. 1) I’m not an introvert and shy. I can effortlessly talk to people. 2) I having trying online dating websites a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What do you think of my [M 22] change in dating preferences?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7m00qh/what_do_you_think_of_my_m_22_change_in_dating/
icy235322
2021-05-18 17:51:10
1,621,360,270
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
nfh9oq
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nfh9oq/advice_on_a_situationship/
2
I’m in a very shitty situation and I don’t know what to do and I have nobody I can talk to about this. I was 18 when I started dating this guy in September. Keep in mind that I never had a boyfriend, went on a date, had my first kiss and was a virgin. I rejected him 3 times because I was afraid of catching feelings for...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice on a situationship
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nfh9oq/advice_on_a_situationship/
throwaway135456ss
2020-05-31 07:25:03
1,590,909,903
null
['OLD']
0
gtumwb
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gtumwb/how_to_progress_with_a_logical_numberloving_slow/
2
This is a throwaway obviously, because I dont feel like sharing this info on a main acc. TLDR: I met a girl (OLD - texting- calling - two coffee dates), I like her, I think she likes me. I need ideas for our third date to allow for more physicality, since I dont wanna end up in the friendzone. Im an Eastern European, s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to progress with a logical (number-loving, slow to trust) girl I met from OLD and have been on two coffee dates with? (24M - 21F)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gtumwb/how_to_progress_with_a_logical_numberloving_slow/
Impressive_Choice857
2024-02-29 02:07:31
1,709,172,451
0
['dating apps']
0
1b2omjc
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b2omjc/hi_im_looking_for_advice_from_women_on_if_theyd/
1
I posted some pics on my profile for reference if you’re willing to click away. Just to see if based on looks alone you’d be okay with it. I’ve never walked up to a girl at the bar before, I think it’s kinda creepy but I also wanna meet people more genuinely then on dating apps. So it’s time to start showing interest f...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hi I’m looking for advice from women on if they’d appreciate me walking up to them at a bar or not. More below 👇
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b2omjc/hi_im_looking_for_advice_from_women_on_if_theyd/
teabaggins33
2018-12-06 01:35:54
1,544,060,154
null
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'pof', 'eharmony']
0
a3j3o0
true
null
26
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a3j3o0/most_successful_online_dating_site/
6
Title says it all. I'm wondering what dating apps people have found to be successful. I've tried POF, found a lot more bots and fakes over real people, although i have made a few friends off of it. I've tried OKC, didn't have much luck on that. I'm not looking to dish out money (eharmony) in order to have no one messag...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Most successful online dating site?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a3j3o0/most_successful_online_dating_site/
TheUltimateVorager
2020-09-11 21:19:31
1,599,859,171
null
['tinder']
0
iqzjr4
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/iqzjr4/how_slow_to_take_things/
3
Yeah guys so this new girl I’m talking to seems into me (even both got the same passion). But the thing is that I don’t have much dating experience, only sex. Like in college girls want to have sex a lot so usually we would just talk and I’d get them to come over and we’d get it on. But with this girl it’s different to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How slow to take things?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iqzjr4/how_slow_to_take_things/
KitanaFury
2022-06-10 00:05:34
1,654,819,534
null
['online dating']
0
v8uo91
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/v8uo91/online_dating_what_are_red_and_green_flags_when/
2
I'm struggling greatly with dating so I'm now taking on the adventure of online dating, but I'm so lost on the etiquette and rules. I need advice from you guys on what is good to put on my profile to make it more appealing to men, I'm a female and I'm honestly just not good at online dating. I dont get any responses, n...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online Dating, what are red and green flags when you read a dating profile??
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v8uo91/online_dating_what_are_red_and_green_flags_when/
Littleteapotcat
2019-10-24 12:14:14
1,571,919,254
null
['online dating']
0
dmfj9z
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dmfj9z/online_dating_reaching_out_postghosting/
1
New to the world of online dating, have a ton of questions. I apologize if this has been asked thousands of times. What are your thoughts on reaching out when you've met someone in real life, had a great time, exchanged numbers, sent the text to make plans for a 2nd date, but then hear nothing? Do you just delete their...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online dating: reaching out post-ghosting
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dmfj9z/online_dating_reaching_out_postghosting/
fatemmy
2021-05-11 05:45:44
1,620,711,944
null
null
0
n9pyvf
true
null
6
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/n9pyvf/tinder_just_shows_the_same_few_men/
2
I downloaded Tinder last night, but have noticed the same few men keep coming up (some I swipe left on, some right). I’ve been on it for about 30 minutes this morning and the same profiles have been reappearing 10/11 times. It’s literally just the same handful of men- have I somehow broke it or just live in the dryest ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Tinder just shows the same few men
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n9pyvf/tinder_just_shows_the_same_few_men/
ElWeezLord24
2023-12-07 03:31:11
1,701,919,871
0
['dating apps']
0
18cmd90
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18cmd90/getting_off_dating_apps/
1
Looking for advice on approaching women in-person. I like most people have fallen into the rabbit hole of dating apps. After many years and zero success I have decided to get off and try to throw myself out there. Only issue is that I am a huge homebody and I'm extremely introverted. I don't think I'm the best looking ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Getting off dating apps
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18cmd90/getting_off_dating_apps/
andrefsbernardo
2021-12-23 14:57:50
1,640,271,470
null
['matches', 'hinge']
0
rmxemj
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rmxemj/i_reset_my_hinge_account_and_something_is_not/
0
I need your bright opinion and a profile review. Why haven't I gotten one single match since I reset my account? I get shown many female good looking profiles, I leave a nice/flirty comment in all of them (instead of just liking) and zero matches so far and it has been 3 days. Need a profile review, like is there anyth...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I reset my hinge account and something is not right…
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rmxemj/i_reset_my_hinge_account_and_something_is_not/
DellowFelegate
2016-04-13 02:57:47
1,460,516,267
0
['dating site']
0
4ejo24
null
null
5
null
/r/dating/comments/4ejo24/ghosted_by_a_coworker/
1
I went on a couple dates with a co-worker recently, who I’ve known for a couple years. Anyways, we went on three dates, all pretty decent, I even got a text back within thirty minutes thanking me for a good afternoon on the third one. After that, the text for the fourth date got ghosted. I sent her a text a couple days...
dating
t5_2qhb1
ghosted by a co-worker
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4ejo24/ghosted_by_a_coworker/
anxiouscs6524
2018-12-23 19:08:40
1,545,592,120
null
['OLD', 'bumble']
0
a8xcff
true
null
129
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a8xcff/gut_check_are_my_standards_too_high/
38
I know that if I sit back and not put in any effort into dating that my chances of finding a LTR will not be great. Of course, it could happen but being passive does seem to reduce the odds. Numbers, right? I have put myself out there in the six months I’ve been single. Have met some new people here and there. Casually...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Gut check: are my standards too high?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a8xcff/gut_check_are_my_standards_too_high/
tiredandtiredand
2024-01-12 20:20:41
1,705,090,841
0
['bumble']
0
1954qbq
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1954qbq/im_scared_hell_find_out_i_like_him_but_i_also/
1
crush and I met on Bumble while traveling in Vienna. we talked a bit and he asked me for coffee but I declined because of time restriction. we just exchange IG. i feel like he's just being friendly and he said we can go to a "Before Sunrise" tour when I visit Vienna again but I feel like he's just friendly. I feel like...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm scared he'll find out i like him but i also desparately want him to know i like him.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1954qbq/im_scared_hell_find_out_i_like_him_but_i_also/
blueandblackandblue
2020-02-09 02:58:35
1,581,217,115
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
f12hwe
true
Question
16
0
/r/dating/comments/f12hwe/is_one_date_really_enough_to_gauge_chemistry/
8
Guy here in his mid-30s, and I recently had a date, and it was my first date in a long while, so I was excited and felt good going into it. The date went as well as I could hope for in a first time meeting between two strangers who'd connected on a dating app, so I was a little surprised when she texted me later that n...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is one date really enough to gauge chemistry?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f12hwe/is_one_date_really_enough_to_gauge_chemistry/
OrenKC
2022-09-15 20:38:11
1,663,274,291
null
['online dating']
0
xf7aa3
true
null
56
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xf7aa3/am_i_automatically_disqualifying_myself_by_saying/
15
So when filling out online dating profiles one prompt I mentioned that travel is not high on my to-do list. I get the concept of broadening your horizons and experiencing different cultures, but I never felt fulfilled by doing that nor did it get me excited. It just gives me stress and wears me out, I'd rather stay in ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I automatically disqualifying myself by saying I don't like to travel?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xf7aa3/am_i_automatically_disqualifying_myself_by_saying/
Squanch773
2023-08-01 03:18:49
1,690,859,929
0
['tinder']
0
15f0psp
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15f0psp/lost_24m_going_on_25_soon_needing_advice_just/
1
Ending a 2.5 year relationship. My significant other is 24 going on 25. Dating from junior year college to now. She moved with me to a different state for work and I gotta move again to New York and this time she doesn’t want to go. She misses home and her friends and I won’t lie I fucked up big time with how I treated...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lost 24M going on 25 soon needing advice just overall.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15f0psp/lost_24m_going_on_25_soon_needing_advice_just/
PsychologicalDot5555
2021-12-15 08:09:29
1,639,555,769
null
['tinder']
0
rgu5dy
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rgu5dy/being_female_and_the_leaderdominant_in/
0
I have been dating this guy for few months now. Me (F24) and he is M (25) some context - we met on tinder. he is unemployed and living at home at the moment. Most dates we have been on lately I have been the one to organise. I come up with the idea of what to do. He always is responsive and keen to hang but he never ta...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Being female and the leader/dominant in relationship
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rgu5dy/being_female_and_the_leaderdominant_in/
lightupcocktail
2023-05-29 19:12:40
1,685,387,560
0
['matches', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
13v3onh
true
Giving Advice 💌
7
0
/r/dating/comments/13v3onh/stop_paying_for_tinder/
9
It's a racket. I hate never trusted the apps, so I did an experiment. I paid for pro while I drove across the country this week and made a very cis profile. I then blind swiped across Canada from BC to Ontario, then again from Michigan to Washinon via yellowstone. 2 matches, both bots. I meet way more people on Reddit....
dating
t5_2qhb1
Stop paying for tinder
9
0.77
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13v3onh/stop_paying_for_tinder/
musicalattes
2020-01-05 20:58:18
1,578,257,898
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
ekj09v
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ekj09v/what_should_i_do_should_i_get_back_into_online/
1
So about a year ago I (F, 25) made a promise to myself to take a year break from online dating. It was one of the best years for me in terms of dating, and I did end up meeting and seeing people without the use of dating apps- which felt really great. I'm still seeing two of those people- one more casual than the other...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What should I do? Should I get back into online dating?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ekj09v/what_should_i_do_should_i_get_back_into_online/
ohsayxx
2017-11-03 20:22:32
1,509,740,552
null
['dating app']
0
7am2m6
false
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7am2m6/how_can_i_turn_a_sex_only_relationship_into/
1
So VERY long story short I met this guy on a dating app he is 34 and I am 24 f. The beginning of our date went very smoothly until I basically got extremely drunk and put out all the moves on him. The next morning I was obviously mortified by my slutty behavior.. surprisingly he was a total gentleman about it and made ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I turn a sex only relationship into something more?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7am2m6/how_can_i_turn_a_sex_only_relationship_into/
burning_cupid
2024-01-08 01:41:25
1,704,678,085
0
['dating apps']
0
191936v
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/191936v/meaningful_connection/
1
Hi everyone I’m just looking for some friendly advice no judgment please. I’m a single white male 22 I live and go to school in California for context. I’ve struggled during my entire dating history of finding a girlfriend that is genuine and can communicate. I’m single at the moment and I’ve been on about 7 or 8 dates...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Meaningful connection
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191936v/meaningful_connection/
hf0207
2019-08-07 16:20:02
1,565,194,802
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
cn7wgd
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cn7wgd/how_to_not_get_attached/
2
So I've recently gone on my first date ever a few days ago (I'm a 21F) and it was with someone I matched with on a dating app. The date went well and we talked about potentially going on a second. Because it went so well, I can't help but feel excited and like I'm getting "attached" to this person. It was my very first...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How To Not Get Attached?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cn7wgd/how_to_not_get_attached/
Yamrollz
2017-12-29 05:19:21
1,514,524,761
null
['online dating']
0
7msasx
false
Support | Trigger
706
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/7msasx/so_i_decided_to_message_my_rapist_today/
6,591
I honestly still feel strange calling him a rapist. I don't think he's an evil person, I don't think he would have done what he did if he wasn't so drunk. In a nutshell, we met online dating a few years ago. Our first date he refused to take no for an answer when I said he couldn't come inside. He had walked me home. P...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
So, I decided to message my rapist today.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/7msasx/so_i_decided_to_message_my_rapist_today/
interracialseekers
2017-11-13 09:05:00
1,510,563,900
null
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
7clxvc
false
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7clxvc/dating_tips_for_the_love_seekers/
1
We know how fast today world is.we need to run with the time.The most of the people spending most of the time to earn money,they forgetting their feelings of love and affection but some of the people would like to looking of their love.the age between 20 to 40 people mostly prefers online ,this is the one of the most a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating tips for the Love Seekers
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7clxvc/dating_tips_for_the_love_seekers/
AchtungPanzer3456
2020-01-24 17:36:33
1,579,887,393
null
['tinder']
0
etdn4t
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/etdn4t/19m_never_had_a_girlfriend_dont_know_where_to_go/
2
Hello guys, the title says a lot here. So I just turned 19 a few days ago and reality just reminded me out of nowhere; I'm a 19-year-old man who's never had a girlfriend, on top of that, I've never been kissed, never held hands with a girl, never been on a date, yadda yadda yadda. I'm trying to convince myself that it'...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
(19M) Never had a girlfriend, don't know where to go from here...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/etdn4t/19m_never_had_a_girlfriend_dont_know_where_to_go/
rockii02
2022-10-12 21:03:27
1,665,608,607
null
['tinder']
0
y2ffyi
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/y2ffyi/i_had_sex_with_a_girl_then_she_started_ghosting_me/
3
About a week ago, I met up with a girl I’d been texting for about 2 weeks from Tinder. I went over to hers and we had sex. Before I left she made plans to see me again and she seemed really eager as well. Then when I went home her replies started getting really dry. I was only getting a reply maybe once a day. She said...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I had sex with a girl then she started ghosting me.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y2ffyi/i_had_sex_with_a_girl_then_she_started_ghosting_me/
Hot-Aerie2206
2023-04-03 19:16:44
1,680,549,404
0
['OLD']
0
12aull1
true
Question ❓
7
0
/r/dating/comments/12aull1/what_are_your_old_boundaries/
10
There are a lot of people in OLD who waste my time, don't actually want to meet, are creeps, or are not what I’m looking for. A lot of these things are not explicit. I’m wondering what your boundaries are so you can avoid these folks faster? Some of mine are: 1. Make plans to meet/video chat within a week. 2. Phone num...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What are your OLD boundaries?
10
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12aull1/what_are_your_old_boundaries/
BenchPressErr
2023-02-17 20:09:52
1,676,664,592
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
114wa47
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/114wa47/dealing_with_lonelinesstrying_to_find_the_one/
1
I’ll try not to drag out this explanation and just keep to the main issues right now. However this will be a bit of a read. So I’m a 28 year old male and I’m getting really frustrated with still being single and at this time don’t have any options to date anyone. I’m not a bad looking guy, but I guess part of my proble...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dealing with loneliness/trying to find the one
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/114wa47/dealing_with_lonelinesstrying_to_find_the_one/
RonaldTheTimeless
2024-01-03 08:00:58
1,704,268,858
0
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
18xe40m
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18xe40m/i_am_70_years_old_and_i_just_started_dating_again/
1
Hi everyone, I am 70 years old, and have recently decided that I want to date again. So far, my chosen method has been online dating, but I do not like the idea of have to pay a subscription to find my true love. I created a SilverSingles account, but it turns our that SilverSingles is completely useless unless I pay f...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I am 70 years old, and I just started dating again.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18xe40m/i_am_70_years_old_and_i_just_started_dating_again/
homely_badger
2024-04-22 18:54:56
1,713,812,096
0
null
0
1caiwwb
true
null
8
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1caiwwb/advice_on_healthy_dating/
5
Hey! I'm looking for people with similar habits to share their experiences. I've been "single" for 2 years now, following an 8 year relationship. (I'm 29m) The first few months I went in head first and had up to 5 dates a week, which burned me out pretty fast since I am quite introverted, but it was new and exciting. T...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
advice on healthy dating
5
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1caiwwb/advice_on_healthy_dating/
ZerosPhantom0425
2021-08-30 04:41:02
1,630,298,462
null
['tinder']
0
peb3we
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/peb3we/i_21m_feelings_for_a_girl_20f_that_gives_off/
4
So her and I met on tinder and we always just talked through snapchat for a year. We got to know each other on a somewhat personal level and eventually we went out for the first time. We had a lot of fun and after I dropped her off at her building, she stayed in my car for 2 hours just talking and eventually making out...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (21M) feelings for a girl (20F) that gives off mixed signals
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/peb3we/i_21m_feelings_for_a_girl_20f_that_gives_off/
Je1ce_
2021-06-20 15:50:34
1,624,204,234
null
['tinder']
0
o48jwm
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o48jwm/what_should_i_do/
3
I met this girl on tinder and asked if she wanted to go on a date, we facetimed and exchanged numbers, she seemed really nice and I was looking forward to meeting her. Date night comes and I arrive at the restaurant to find that she is already seated and has ordered appetisers. She welcomes me and we both are scrolling...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What should I do?
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o48jwm/what_should_i_do/
usctrojan415
2017-12-19 06:41:45
1,513,665,705
null
['online dating']
0
7krjzy
false
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7krjzy/how_to_decide_whether_or_not_to_use_that_photo_of/
0
https://imgur.com/XmFetuo
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to decide whether or not to use that photo of yours for your online dating profile...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7krjzy/how_to_decide_whether_or_not_to_use_that_photo_of/
Constvnzv
2024-08-01 23:04:09
1,722,553,449
0
['dating app']
0
1ehul1c
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ehul1c/whats_the_worst_thing_thats_happened_to_you_on_a/
1
I once went out with a boy who wanted to sell my eyes xd
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What's the worst thing that's happened to you on a dating app?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ehul1c/whats_the_worst_thing_thats_happened_to_you_on_a/
pempyoooyoo
2023-09-27 17:09:14
1,695,834,554
0
['dating apps']
0
16tq78r
true
Support Needed 🫂
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16tq78r/flaked_on_by_5_dates_in_5_weeks/
1
Title. Early 20s M in college. Met these 5 women through a combination of dating apps, meeting people in college, and even by approaching one of them on the street. 4 of the 5 had almost the exact same pattern of events - they seemed excited for me to set something up, but the night before we were scheduled to meet the...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Flaked on by 5 dates in 5 weeks
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16tq78r/flaked_on_by_5_dates_in_5_weeks/
Juniperarrow2
2023-08-14 22:48:37
1,692,053,317
0
['OLD']
0
15r9v7b
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15r9v7b/turning_down_second_date/
1
I met someone off OLD this past weekend who was nice but overweight and appeared 5-ish years older than his photos. I was not attracted to his appearance but wanted to give him a brief chance, especially since he drove over an hour to meet me, so I proceeded with the date plan. We had coffee, checked out a hobby store ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Turning down second date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15r9v7b/turning_down_second_date/
xenxens
2019-10-19 22:05:55
1,571,522,755
null
['online dating', 'hinge']
0
dkagwu
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dkagwu/feelings_and_communication_suddenly_fizzled_out/
2
tl;dr - I (f 22) went on a couple dates with a dude (m 26) and it was great, but now suddenly it kinda feels like we both aren't into it. Any words of wisdom? So we met on Hinge and we really hit it off, chatted for a while, and had a really fun first date where the conversation really clicked. The next day we went on ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feelings and communication suddenly fizzled out and I'm confused
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dkagwu/feelings_and_communication_suddenly_fizzled_out/
Mister_Ch4n-6390
2024-07-18 01:48:50
1,721,267,330
0
['hinge']
0
1e5zp6p
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1e5zp6p/i_cant_tell_if_hinge_match_18f_is_being_sarcastic/
0
Hey everyone So I(21M) decided to talk to a person on hinge (18F) because I found her pretty. For context she liked my photo (it was was cat photo i took from the internet, and she commented if i own a cat) and i responded to her (with unfortunately no). To which she responds "kys 🥰" , I was surprised by her response ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I can't tell if Hinge match (18F) is being sarcastic or not
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e5zp6p/i_cant_tell_if_hinge_match_18f_is_being_sarcastic/
junegloom23
2020-04-28 02:53:10
1,588,042,390
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
g9f7fd
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/g9f7fd/how_to_slide_into_the_dms_as_a_girl/
1
So I (21f)don’t wanna give away too much personal info, but I’m in South America studying abroad right now and the first week I got here (in February) I matched with this dude (24m) on tinder. We talked every day for a few weeks and the day we were supposed to meet was when the quarantine started, so it didn’t happen. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to slide into the dms as a girl?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g9f7fd/how_to_slide_into_the_dms_as_a_girl/
Melimelo3220
2023-09-08 18:31:43
1,694,197,903
0
['dating app']
0
16di9rn
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16di9rn/is_he_a_red_flag/
1
I(27f) met this guy(34) on a dating app, we share the same humor which it’s a first for me, the first time I saw him in person I have to admit he was very good looking, the type of guy which girls would take a look when he is walking by.. He is an Ivy League graduated, who owns his own company, and basically has his li...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he a red flag?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16di9rn/is_he_a_red_flag/
YMMVSPSFD
2018-05-29 18:45:17
1,527,619,517
0
['okcupid']
0
8n1k67
false
null
15
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8n1k67/omfg_date_lab/
34
Okay - I know I've posted here sporadically, but I'll give the TL;DR first: In DC, there's a newspaper that has a section called "Date Lab" where they set people up on blind dates and then post the aftermath in an article. Anyway, today I just got this email after being told my original date declined to continue with ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
OMFG [Date Lab]
34
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8n1k67/omfg_date_lab/
averagejoe12o
2022-12-19 15:29:34
1,671,463,774
null
['tinder']
0
zpul42
true
null
46
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zpul42/not_physically_attracted_to_my_gf/
0
I (23m) have been with my gf (22f) for 3 months now. We met on tinder and I thought her face was cute. We hit things off perfectly. She’s great conversation and we texted each other paragraphs for 2 weeks before we met up. I couldn’t talk to her enough. We met up and she was wearing jacket which made her look a little ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Not physically attracted to my GF
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zpul42/not_physically_attracted_to_my_gf/
notdomoduro
2014-01-30 16:42:30
1,391,100,150
0
['online dating', 'online daters', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
1wkehv
null
null
59
null
/r/AskMen/comments/1wkehv/online_daters_of_am_if_you_were_to_design_a/
5
Saw the original post , and I thought it'd be interesting to see how our responses compare to the women's. Based on a previous AW discussion, message based sites seem to suffer from the same downward spiral: Creepy men spam women with gross PMs Said women are overwhelmed by the volume of messages that even responding t...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Online daters of AM: If you were to design a dating site, how would you ensure that it would be an enjoyable experience for men? (copied from /r/askwomen)
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1wkehv/online_daters_of_am_if_you_were_to_design_a/
KookyPerception84
2024-02-27 11:06:45
1,709,032,005
0
['dating apps']
0
1b19aff
true
Success Story 🎉
162
1
/r/dating/comments/1b19aff/fck_dating_apps_ive_been_approaching_women_in/
189
Ok given, I’m a (very) tall and good looking guy. But fuck dating apps, I’ve decided to start approaching beautiful women in the street. I’ve approached two women in the last week, and I’m waiting to see how these connections progress. But so far so good Both have been flattered and seemed willing to chat. Once you sta...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Fck dating apps, I’ve been approaching women in person
189
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b19aff/fck_dating_apps_ive_been_approaching_women_in/
thelastirishsnake
2018-07-09 04:30:49
1,531,110,649
null
['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
8x85cs
true
null
39
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8x85cs/education_level_of_your_partner_important_to_you/
9
There's only so much room for info with a dating app like tinder or bumble. Using that space to describe my healthcare job was not beneficial. Displaying a picture of me wearing scrubs, a normal work outfit for many professions, has been very beneficial. The scientist, corporate attorney, and librarian with a masters d...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Education level of your partner important to you?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8x85cs/education_level_of_your_partner_important_to_you/
Meb2x
2020-09-07 06:31:54
1,599,460,314
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
io2g72
true
Other
2
0
/r/dating/comments/io2g72/no_luck_in_the_dating_world_and_i_m24_honestly/
9
I know how pathetic this sounds, but I’m honestly about to give up on the whole idea of dating. I had one relationship that ended badly because of me, I’m way to awkward to ask out girls in person, and I don’t get any matches from online dating. At the point, I really just want a girl that I can talk to, even knowing t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
No luck in the dating world, and I (M,24) honestly just want to talk to a girl at this point
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/io2g72/no_luck_in_the_dating_world_and_i_m24_honestly/
objective_n
2024-08-21 16:36:27
1,724,258,187
0
['dating app']
0
1exuaga
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1exuaga/how_to_approach_my_f33_date_f36_turning_into_a/
3
2 months ago I (F33) started talking to her (F36) on a dating app, and initially it was great. Looking back, it was so because I was asking personal questions to determine our compatibility, but such questions tend to draw people closer and create chemistry. I also used to flirt often because I liked her replies and he...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to approach my (F33) date (F36) turning into a friend fast?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1exuaga/how_to_approach_my_f33_date_f36_turning_into_a/
GolfIsLife598
2022-07-19 11:16:32
1,658,229,392
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
w2q81c
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/w2q81c/are_these_signs_that_i_should_give_up_for_good/
2
I’m a 27M. I’ve had several experiences in my life that have made me truly believe I’m undatable. I’ll tell a couple here. When I was in high school (ages 14-15) I had a huge crush on a girl. She always smiled at me and played with her hair when she knew I was looking. Then she had me help her with homework all the tim...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Are these signs that I should give up for good?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w2q81c/are_these_signs_that_i_should_give_up_for_good/
Junior_Ad_5133
2023-11-30 05:01:45
1,701,320,505
0
['dating apps']
0
187adr7
true
I Need Advice 😩
73
0
/r/dating/comments/187adr7/im_a_5_ft_9_woman_is_it_wrong_to_not_want_to/
1
Just turned 30 a month ago. And it's got me thinking about where I want to see myself in 5 or 10 years. I told myself in my 20s that I knew what I wanted, and that was a tall, 6 figure man who is handsome. However, I've been trying dating apps for a long time and SOOO many guys are under 6 ft 3 from what I've seen. I'm...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm a 5 ft 9 woman. Is it wrong to not want to settle for a guy under 6 ft 3?
1
0.22
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/187adr7/im_a_5_ft_9_woman_is_it_wrong_to_not_want_to/
Marvis_T_White12
2023-08-08 12:16:32
1,691,496,992
0
null
0
15lgjx1
true
null
6
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15lgjx1/hello_friends/
1
I am a single ❤️ girl looking for a seriousl relationship and reliable not someone that needs my nudes always
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Hello friends
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15lgjx1/hello_friends/
thechodesnose
2023-07-17 03:27:49
1,689,564,469
0
['swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
151qclx
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/151qclx/i_27f_am_deleting_my_dating_apps_your_experience/
1
I can’t do another dating app. I can’t keep swiping just to have a 3 message exchange with someone that leads to nothing. I think I’m ready to go app-less but I am scared of dying alone because I am pretty shy irl and I don’t know anyone in my new city. What has been your off app dating experience (from the last 8 year...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (27F) am deleting my dating apps. Your experience?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/151qclx/i_27f_am_deleting_my_dating_apps_your_experience/
Playful_Way1815
2024-01-10 08:56:07
1,704,876,967
0
null
0
1933xpl
true
null
27
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1933xpl/have_you_ever_rematched_with_someone_online/
8
I had this happen recently with the same result, disappearing after a couple night’s conversation. Has this happened to you?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Have you ever rematched with someone online?
8
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1933xpl/have_you_ever_rematched_with_someone_online/
Sea-Square-5403
2024-01-28 18:47:59
1,706,467,679
0
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
1ad9s42
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ad9s42/was_it_a_date/
1
I am a 29m and have been talking to this 31f on hinge for about two weeks now. After one week I sent the following message. "Hey, if you're free this Saturday or Sunday would you wanna go to a cafe? I've heard some good things about one called Fox in the Snow." She responded that it sounded fun and so we met yesterday ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Was it a date?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ad9s42/was_it_a_date/
ostentika
2019-12-06 05:51:07
1,575,611,467
null
['OLD']
0
e6uimm
true
null
11
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e6uimm/whats_meant_to_be_yours_will_be_yours/
4
Good Friday, dear all DOTs - I’ve been struggling with some thoughts as of late. Long story short, the guy I’m in love with (and my gut tells me he feels the same) doesn’t know if he is able to come back to my country, and hence I think we are both choosing not to let each other know our feelings cos a relationship jus...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What’s meant to be yours, will be yours?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e6uimm/whats_meant_to_be_yours_will_be_yours/
EyepatchKitten
2023-09-09 10:49:11
1,694,256,551
0
['dating app']
0
16e2pc5
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16e2pc5/dating_worries_as_divorced_40yo_with_one_child/
1
Hi all. I'd really appreciate some opinions, as I tend to overthink a lot and worry in advance a lot. I (40f)'ve been single for more than a year now, with a 4yo and on cordial terms with ex husband. He loves his child a lot, they have a great relationship. The child is really attached to me, he has spent now and then ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating worries as divorced 40yo with one child
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16e2pc5/dating_worries_as_divorced_40yo_with_one_child/
Conyta95
2021-03-10 18:15:03
1,615,400,103
null
['tinder']
0
m24cmt
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/m24cmt/is_he_a_poor_soul_in_distress_or_just_an_ashole/
0
Hi, I'm a f30 I've been talking with this m29 during quarantine for almost 1 year ago. (We met on online classes, that wasn't online at first lol) He have many fbw, swears hasn't seen anyone in these months despite they keep flirt with him or inviting him to hook up, says Im first on his list and would even consider be...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he a poor soul in distress or just an ashole?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m24cmt/is_he_a_poor_soul_in_distress_or_just_an_ashole/
harpooncatz
2018-03-16 02:59:27
1,521,169,167
null
['tinder']
0
84sdc3
false
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/84sdc3/guy_i_slept_with_once_keeps_making_plans_with_me/
3
It's happened twice in the span of two months. The first time we met was on tinder. We had an immediate connection based on a similar sense of humor and a shared love of oversharing. We talked on the phone for like 4 hours that night. We met up and had a date, then slept together and it seemed like we both enjoyed each...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy I slept with once keeps making plans with me but then canceling last minute
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/84sdc3/guy_i_slept_with_once_keeps_making_plans_with_me/
Happy-Tears
2018-04-12 09:33:52
1,523,525,632
0
['swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble']
0
8bow0y
false
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8bow0y/should_i_swipe_right_on_a_friends_brother/
1
I met this guy (lets call him Rob) at a halloween party last year (I'm semi-friends with his brother (Tim). Semi because he's good friends with my good friend's fiancé. And we've hung out a few times). Anyways, I hooked up with Tim's friend (Bill - also good friends with my friend's fiancé) a few years ago, but we neve...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I swipe right on a friend's brother?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8bow0y/should_i_swipe_right_on_a_friends_brother/
route12
2018-10-18 07:35:25
1,539,848,125
null
['tinder']
0
9p72r7
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9p72r7/met_a_girl_on_tinder_made_plans_to_hangout_but/
1
So I guess this isnt really a big deal, just kind of looking for advice as this is my first time I have ever really been “ghosted” I guess. Long story short I met this girl on tinder yesterday. We live an hour apart. She said tuesday night that she wanted to hang thursday night when I get off work. We were going to han...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met a girl on tinder, made plans to hangout. But she has randomly stopped messaging me.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9p72r7/met_a_girl_on_tinder_made_plans_to_hangout_but/
rofljay
2014-09-19 08:55:06
1,411,116,906
0
['online dating']
0
2gugd5
null
null
1
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2gugd5/19m_im_not_meeting_anyone_in_college_im_thinking/
1
I'm a Sophomore in college. Freshmen year I had my very first girlfriend, and it was nice but it didn't last long. We are friends now. The only other girl here that I like is dating someone else, so obviously I'm putting that out of my mind. I'm really disillusioned right now, I hoped that I'd find someone I really lik...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[19m] I'm not meeting anyone in college, I'm thinking about trying an online dating website. Should I do it? If so, what are some good sites?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2gugd5/19m_im_not_meeting_anyone_in_college_im_thinking/
srslyqueen
2021-01-28 04:52:48
1,611,809,568
null
['tinder']
0
l6oduc
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l6oduc/frienddating_advice_needed/
1
So basically I’ve been speaking to this guy for almost a few months now (im 24 and he’s 23) ...a little backstory I was about to delete tinder ( I had paid for a subscription 🤦🏾‍♀️) and I saw said guy , he is not normally my type of guy but I decided why not? So we start chatting on there for a few days and exchange ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Friend/Dating advice needed
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l6oduc/frienddating_advice_needed/
ThrowRA904808
2023-07-06 22:10:27
1,688,681,427
0
['dating app']
0
14snk6j
false
null
96
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14snk6j/feeling_ashamed_and_overwhelmed_after_getting/
644
I have never had any romantic or sexual experiences previously. I downloaded a dating app around a month ago because I'm moving away soon and I guess it just got to the point I was curious because I've never received any attention from men before. I've spoken to a couple of guys on there now, one of them spoke to me ev...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Feeling ashamed and overwhelmed after getting carried away on first date ever
644
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14snk6j/feeling_ashamed_and_overwhelmed_after_getting/
Safety_Even
2020-07-26 10:16:34
1,595,758,594
null
['tinder']
0
hy4lgk
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hy4lgk/why_do_people_jump_back_on_tinder_after_a_great/
5
So I met this guy on Tinder had a great second date. He even asked to see me again and I thought great maybe he’s not like the others. In the past I could see some guys I was talking to or went on a date with they’d open Tinder as you can see the miles change. Anyway...so I checked his and yes he clearly opener the app...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why do people jump back on Tinder after a great date?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hy4lgk/why_do_people_jump_back_on_tinder_after_a_great/
dancinincircles
2021-09-20 19:43:36
1,632,167,016
null
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
ps26yp
true
Question
8
0
/r/dating/comments/ps26yp/when_people_get_matched_on_dating_apps_do_they/
5
I’m assuming they do if the conversation is flowing. But how much is it really, in the beginning? I’m unaware with the back and forth discord between people on dating apps and my best friend recently started using them. It just seems like I hear nothing from him lately and he says it’s because he’s talking to another g...
dating
t5_2qhb1
When people get matched on dating apps, do they just jump into constant talking?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ps26yp/when_people_get_matched_on_dating_apps_do_they/
Successful-Piece-471
2022-05-28 22:58:26
1,653,778,706
null
['tinder']
0
uzy90b
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/uzy90b/when_do_i_cut_ties_with_a_casual_hookup_after/
3
Just got into casual dating and on Tinder. Honestly, went way better than expected. I've met up with a girl three times now basically just for casual sex. We meet up, usually after 10:00, drink beer and smoke cigarettes and then go back to my house and hookup. Neither of us has have expressed an interest in exclusivity...
dating
t5_2qhb1
When do I cut ties with a casual hookup after becoming interested in someone else?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uzy90b/when_do_i_cut_ties_with_a_casual_hookup_after/
heeeeeeeeezy
2024-06-01 17:23:48
1,717,262,628
0
['hinge']
0
1d5s0t1
true
null
39
0
/r/AskMen/comments/1d5s0t1/men_how_do_you_let_go_of_the_one/
1
Met a girl on Hinge who I instantly fell in love with and knew was the one. We’ve hit it off like crazy and are legitimately perfect for each other, but she’s very angry at me for a mistake I made and I’m not sure it is recoverable.. my friends drug me to a bar and I neglected to tell her beforehand. We’ve only been to...
AskMen
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Men, how do you let go of “the one”?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1d5s0t1/men_how_do_you_let_go_of_the_one/
lostboyirwinn
2023-07-25 03:53:42
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Just Venting 😮‍💨
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/r/dating/comments/158ww8t/cant_do_dating_apps_cant_date_in_general/
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When I (21F) first started having sex, I used dating apps for hookups. I have an avoidant attachment style so I never got easily attached to any hookups. However, I get very anxious when meeting new people no matter the situation (yes even a hookup), so I stopped using them. Moreover, some guys don’t get the hint that ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Can’t do dating apps/ can’t date in general
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1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/158ww8t/cant_do_dating_apps_cant_date_in_general/
Unicorn_Princess95
2024-05-06 11:23:38
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1clgm1k/autistic_f28_how_do_you_appropriately_break_up/
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Hello, I am autistic and struggle with a lot of things that may come naturally or easy to others. I am wanting to breakup/end things with my partner ‘M38’ I have written a letter due to personal struggles with voicing things allowed. I am not sure how I should go about ending things or the proper way to allow him to kn...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Autistic F28 how do you appropriately break up with partner M34?
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1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1clgm1k/autistic_f28_how_do_you_appropriately_break_up/
Reaper0fGrim
2024-03-07 23:43:30
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1b9936r/should_i_ask_for_exclusivity_after_4_dates/
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I’ve been on 4 dates with a girl that I’m really into. We haven’t slept together, but we’ve kissed on every date and held hands on the most recent date. I tend to let all dating apps and other people fall by the wayside when I start genuinely being interested in someone and she’s expressed that she hates modern dating ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should i ask for exclusivity after 4 dates?
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1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b9936r/should_i_ask_for_exclusivity_after_4_dates/