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Ambitious-Nebula-938
2022-07-16 14:12:55
1,657,980,775
null
['matched', 'OLD', 'bumble']
0
w0hlv0
true
I Need Advice
13
0
/r/dating/comments/w0hlv0/dating_someone_in_an_open_relationship_dilemma/
3
(throwaway account because this is quite personal) I'm in a rather unorthodox situation, I matched with a cute girl on Bumble and from the off she was quite sexually flirtatious, which is not something I am used to but I enjoyed it, we talked about what we had in common and she asked if she was too good to be true, to ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating someone in an open relationship dilemma
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w0hlv0/dating_someone_in_an_open_relationship_dilemma/
excalib1062
2024-01-15 06:20:24
1,705,299,624
0
['hinge']
0
1971x5p
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1971x5p/what_should_i_do/
1
Hi, I am 25 M and while I was on the hinge I saw a high school crush on a hinge and then I guess she had an idea I once had a feeling for her but I couldn't confess my feelings to her then. Should I send her a like or would it be weird to send her a like now after 10 years? Please help I am confused
dating
t5_2qhb1
What should I do?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1971x5p/what_should_i_do/
stanleyThe
2019-08-28 19:29:28
1,567,020,568
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
cwpk8v
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cwpk8v/should_i_change_my_profile_pics_on_tinder_to_be/
10
Okay so I’m a good photographer and I know how to make people look good. I have really great pics on tinder that get me lots of matches but when it comes to getting second dates I suck. The reason I assume is down to the fact that women are slightly let down when they see me in real life (I’m not ugly but very average)...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I change my profile pics on Tinder to be less flatering?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cwpk8v/should_i_change_my_profile_pics_on_tinder_to_be/
Megusta_cheesecake
2016-12-06 03:35:51
1,480,995,351
0
['tinder']
0
5gqmoe
null
null
3
null
/r/dating/comments/5gqmoe/a_good_dating_web_site/
1
Whats a good dating website where I can meet men that are older than me? I'm (25/F) and not really looking for older than 45 but also not interested much in men my age. Or just generally where can I meet guys , my type is men who shop at home depot haha. And I absolutely do not like tinder other than to get free pizza ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A good dating web site
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5gqmoe/a_good_dating_web_site/
Sad-as-hell
2021-07-05 20:35:15
1,625,517,315
null
['online dating']
0
oefrcy
true
null
20
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/oefrcy/need_advice/
11
I'm actively online dating, and a non-negotiable for me is open communication. Obviously in the beginning, I shouldn't expect crazy amounts of communication, as the guy doesn't owe me that, and vice versa, but at what point can I see that if I continue talking to them, I won't get my needs met? Essentially, at what poi...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Need advice
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/oefrcy/need_advice/
[deleted]
2014-11-03 17:40:22
1,415,036,422
0
['okcupid']
0
2l6ait
null
null
22
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2l6ait/in_desperate_need_of_some_relationship_help_from/
5
Mid September I (F/21) got into my first relationship with my current boyfriend (M/19) Everything was pretty wonderful for the first 4 weeks of us knowing each other. We started talking on OkCupid on September 1st-2nd, met in person on the 13th, and became official by the 19th. So I guess you could say it was pretty fa...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
In desperate need of some relationship help from fellow women. (Relationship related, wall of text warning)
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2l6ait/in_desperate_need_of_some_relationship_help_from/
socks217
2024-06-24 01:02:36
1,719,190,956
0
['tinder']
0
1dn18f7
true
null
7
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dn18f7/advice_on_how_to_have_casual_sex_safely/
1
As much as I'm okay in principle with being a sexually liberated woman who has casual sex, in practice, the prospect of actually having sex with a near stranger is very anxiety-inducing to me. I'm in my early 20s, heterosexual, and I've had sex before, but only with a long-term partner with whom I had already built up ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Advice on how to have casual sex safely?
1
0.29
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dn18f7/advice_on_how_to_have_casual_sex_safely/
PapiLion81
2019-02-12 20:45:29
1,550,004,329
null
['OLD', 'dating site']
0
apy0pv
true
null
51
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/apy0pv/second_date_cancelled_an_hour_before/
0
Hey guys, Creating this post just to get this off my chest anonymously...cause it was no fun and it's hard to talk about with friends. I met a cool girl off OLD whom I was able to secure a first date with two weeks ago. She lives about 45-60 mins from me but I didn't think that was too bad considering Southern Californ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Second Date cancelled an hour before...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/apy0pv/second_date_cancelled_an_hour_before/
iridescent_skiess
2021-08-13 06:46:33
1,628,837,193
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
p3i5am
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/p3i5am/red_flags/
2
I (23 F) started talking to a guy (23 M) that I matched with on a dating app. it's been a few weeks and we've had about 5 calls and it's been great. he's initiating the calls and most texts which is a good sign. we vibe and connect really well, and there's great communication between us. it feels like we've been friend...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Red flags??
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p3i5am/red_flags/
Wheel_Prime8401
2021-06-01 01:28:31
1,622,510,911
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
npihoh
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/npihoh/going_on_tinder_for_the_first_time_and_not_having/
3
Hello. I am a 20M. I have only ever had one previous girlfriend and we have never had sex. I want to get back into dating as soon as possible, but there are a few potential problems I see. The main one is that I do not have a car yet. I do not have a car yet. I have problems with anxiety that have prevented me from get...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Going on Tinder for the first time and not having a car.
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/npihoh/going_on_tinder_for_the_first_time_and_not_having/
Deltadelta555
2019-04-30 19:15:16
1,556,651,716
null
['bumble']
0
bj7b40
true
null
4
0
/r/dating/comments/bj7b40/30f_unsure_about_new_guys_36m_female_30s_friend/
3
I messaged this guy on Bumble for about a week before meeting up with him. We went back and forth about all kinds of things and clearly had a lot in common. He loved to travel, so I asked him where his next trip would be — he said it would be a hiking trip in Denmark at the end of April; and that his hiking friend woul...
dating
t5_2qhb1
(30f) Unsure about new guy’s (36m) female (30s?) friend overseas
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bj7b40/30f_unsure_about_new_guys_36m_female_30s_friend/
Astars26
2019-06-04 15:31:09
1,559,662,269
null
['dating apps']
0
bwq1tl
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bwq1tl/started_dating_a_girl_after_messaging_through_fb/
6
Perhaps a tip for scoring dates. I received advice from a friend a couple months ago to view some of the girls on the Facebook's "people you may know" slider and message them since they most likely know people on your friends list. He has done this about 3-4 times and got dates. I finally tried it about 2 weeks ago and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Started dating a girl after messaging through FB
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bwq1tl/started_dating_a_girl_after_messaging_through_fb/
MyVermontAccount121
2023-04-05 17:30:22
1,680,715,822
0
['matches', 'swipe', 'dating app']
0
12crpa1
true
Question ❓
16
0
/r/dating/comments/12crpa1/what_nonphysical_traits_do_you_look_for_in_a/
0
I’m working on a swipeless dating app. The design philosophy is to be fundamentally different than existing swipe models (which is, well, pretty much all of them). With that, one major design choice is no pictures. So that leaves out all current ways of searching hook ups. What I want to do from the launch of the app i...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What non-physical traits do you look for in a casual hook up?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12crpa1/what_nonphysical_traits_do_you_look_for_in_a/
morechaos
2016-11-18 21:22:07
1,479,504,127
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
5doxt4
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5doxt4/need_some_advice/
1
I'm 21M and I matched with a girl on Tinder Tuesday night. Wednesday night we had coffee together. It seemed like it was going pretty well. I asked her questions, she asked me questions, and I kept her laughing. We were steady texting between Tuesday and the coffee date. Fast forward to today, and we have texted a tota...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need Some Advice
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5doxt4/need_some_advice/
Lamb-manb
2021-02-17 23:50:23
1,613,605,823
null
['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge']
0
lm8b1m
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lm8b1m/only_sent_like_4_messages_online_dating_should_i/
5
So just started using hinge, liked a woman’s profile and she matched and asked me to start the conversation I started it. She gave me very boring half ass responses like: Me: do you play softball? Her: Yes I do Me: well you must be a pitcher because I’d hit it Her: oooo that’s really good, not a pitcher though ;) Me: d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Only sent like 4 messages (online dating) should I just ask her out.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lm8b1m/only_sent_like_4_messages_online_dating_should_i/
Chemical-Cycle4904
2024-08-13 18:16:27
1,723,572,987
0
['online dating']
0
1erf18x
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1erf18x/is_online_dating_a_good_indicator_or_irl/
0
Like if i match with attractive women, does that translate to irl?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is online dating a good indicator or irl attractiveness
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1erf18x/is_online_dating_a_good_indicator_or_irl/
Voyagethirty4
2014-03-20 02:25:37
1,395,282,337
0
['tinder']
0
20vb71
null
null
9
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/20vb71/the_girl_that_is_always_busy/
1
So I've lurked this subreddit for a while and the time has come for me to ask for a little advice. I'm a confident 24 year old guy who usually has no problems with women, but this one has me all confused. So I met her on Tinder (I know haha), and we seemed to enjoy talking and teasing. We eventually exchanged numbers a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The girl that is always busy?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/20vb71/the_girl_that_is_always_busy/
Gamer3166
2019-07-29 16:46:49
1,564,418,809
null
['dating app']
0
cjdtvy
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cjdtvy/ghosted_after_second_date_and_some_texting/
1
I met this girl on a dating app. We talked a bit then went on a date. We had a lot of fun the first date had flirted a lot. Making physical contact and messing with each other. The date lasted a long time and she commented on how it was one of the best dates she had been on and how the time flew by. We made plans for a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted after second date and some texting.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cjdtvy/ghosted_after_second_date_and_some_texting/
tclyclycylxlyyly
2022-06-21 13:36:19
1,655,818,579
null
['tinder']
0
vhdij3
true
Question
15
0
/r/dating/comments/vhdij3/omg_seriously_wtf_how_is_it_this_hard_to_get_a/
1
Straight, european, regular looking dude here. I go to gym, am 6’3, have a basic stable job from university degree. Being realistic, my facial features aren’t amazing, just average. I’m also bald at 27, been bald since 19. Skin and teeth perfect though. Can’t get a single goddamn match, it’s actually insane, I’ve had t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Omg seriously wtf how is it this hard to get a single match on tinder???
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vhdij3/omg_seriously_wtf_how_is_it_this_hard_to_get_a/
plummy_one
2019-10-02 22:30:29
1,570,055,429
null
['dating site']
0
dchqj4
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dchqj4/text_the_ex/
8
I'd been seeing a guy for 5 weeks. We had the exclusivity chat after sex on date 6, but a week ago I found he was still active on the dating site. Seems he spotted my profile, blocked me then ceased contact. Pointless asking him what happened; he clearly wanted to keep his options open. I simply sent him a text saying ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Text the ex!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dchqj4/text_the_ex/
teslac0i1
2021-06-19 23:41:04
1,624,146,064
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
o3sr8r
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o3sr8r/looking_for_advice_i_guess_m24/
3
Let me start off by saying that I don't blame people for not being "in" to me. But it sucks knowing that nobody is. Professionally, my life is good. A stable job, good $ (not rich, but doing well), at a job I love. Dating wise, I get nothing. I'm on multiple dating apps looking at women 22-26. No matches. I'm not the h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Looking for advice? I guess? M24
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o3sr8r/looking_for_advice_i_guess_m24/
joanna_nicole
2021-07-26 20:51:32
1,627,332,692
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
os7sl7
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/os7sl7/should_i_contact_or_wait/
1
Hey, what do you think, if I started to talk with someone on WhatsApp I matched with in Tinder and he asked me today earlier if he could call me, but I said I was busy but you can call me later. So he says that I could inform him when so I said probably/I believe at 6 pm and he said okay. So he didn't call, some people...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I contact or wait?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/os7sl7/should_i_contact_or_wait/
Safe_Anon88
2022-05-08 12:14:32
1,652,012,072
null
null
0
ul0fnc
true
null
50
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ul0fnc/how_long_do_you_guys_keep_using_online_dating/
21
I(M) have been actively using and going on dates through online dating apps for about six months now. Unfortunately none have ended up in a long term relationship, and at this point I feel kinda exhausted. The more I do it the more I feel that it's pointless and I will never find the one by doing this. It feels like I ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How long do you guys keep using online dating apps for?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ul0fnc/how_long_do_you_guys_keep_using_online_dating/
Ashenone0619
2022-07-20 20:24:32
1,658,348,672
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
w3wi3d
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/w3wi3d/going_on_a_second_date_this_weekend_need_advice/
3
So I meet up with a girl I matched with on tinder not too long ago and eventually we exchanged phone numbers before deciding to meet up for coffee and a walk down the beach and it was good. I then walked her back to her house and suggested we maybe meet again, didn’t want to come across as forceful or desperate so I pu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Going on a second “date” this weekend, need advice 25m
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w3wi3d/going_on_a_second_date_this_weekend_need_advice/
micjohnson78
2015-12-16 11:04:21
1,450,263,861
0
['dating sites']
0
3x2etw
null
null
0
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3x2etw/choose_the_best_millionaire_dating_sites/
0
Now a days millionaire dating has incredibly growing like a wild fire because of awareness to the people how millionaire dating is advantageous for those who dream of billionaires to marry. In the past you used to see advertisements in internet, magazine only, but in present scenarios you can’t escape from the dating a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Choose the Best Millionaire Dating Sites
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3x2etw/choose_the_best_millionaire_dating_sites/
[deleted]
2021-04-20 13:04:08
1,618,923,848
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
mupu2i
true
Tinder/Online Dating
4
0
/r/dating/comments/mupu2i/can_someone_type_me_all_top_5_dating_apps_for/
0
Hi, tinder is so bad and I don't get any likes anymore and idk what is happening, so can someone tell me other dating apps? Btw, idk why is bumble not available in my country - croatia?, like is that only me or? xd
dating
t5_2qhb1
Can someone type me all TOP 5 dating apps for finding relationships!
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mupu2i/can_someone_type_me_all_top_5_dating_apps_for/
Professional_Life_55
2024-06-07 16:43:43
1,717,778,623
0
['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
1dafde7
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1dafde7/dating_apps_to_use_in_the_uk_to_meet_east_asian/
3
Hello, I'm 27 (F) I use dating apps in the UK but I don't see many East Asian men on them? I live near two cities but I rarely see East Asian men? I have used bumble and hinge but there are very few East Asian men on them it seems. Is there another app I should be using? The only Asian app I know about is TanTan but I ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating apps to use in the UK to meet East Asian men?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dafde7/dating_apps_to_use_in_the_uk_to_meet_east_asian/
UnionFabulous564
2024-06-26 04:57:24
1,719,377,844
0
['hinge']
0
1doqgk8
true
Question ❓
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1doqgk8/he_said_he_needs_time_to_be_alone_is_this_bs/
1
So I 23F went on this date with a guy 24F I met on Hinge. We instantly clicked over text and got drinks shortly after matching. It went well, but I would say the best part was our make out sesh at the end of the date. We continued to text afterwards, but I had a feeling neither of us saw a serious relationship in our f...
dating
t5_2qhb1
He said he needs time to be alone. Is this BS?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1doqgk8/he_said_he_needs_time_to_be_alone_is_this_bs/
natbat2020
2020-12-13 20:39:00
1,607,891,940
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
kci9p2
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kci9p2/why_not_use_my_number/
3
So I had matched with a boy and before we first hooked up the first time he gave me his number. I used it so he had mine. The next few times he wanted to hook up he’d always communicate through the dating app even though he had my number. I found it weird but thought maybe he had deleted the text thread with it either ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why not use my number?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kci9p2/why_not_use_my_number/
Nicenastybuttercup
2023-11-01 23:19:39
1,698,880,779
0
null
0
17lpbq1
true
null
358
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17lpbq1/what_are_some_reasons_why_you_immediately_swipe/
50
I have some ridiculous ones. If you’re a blonde guy that’s a left swipe
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What are some reasons why you immediately swipe left?
50
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17lpbq1/what_are_some_reasons_why_you_immediately_swipe/
the_haawk
2019-01-26 04:53:24
1,548,478,404
null
['tinder']
0
ajxw4e
true
null
36
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ajxw4e/starting_over_at_36_after_16_years_together_can_i/
10
How does this sound? Successful, driven and goal oriented. Things I'm into: Adventure. Orange Theory workouts. Live music. Whole30 struggles. Craft 🍻 and local 🥂. Saying 'YES' to uncomfortable choices. Outdoor hikes and long drives along the lake. Personal values: Friendship. Honesty. Trust. Respect. Empathy. Pet lov...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Starting over at 36 after 16 years together. Can I get feedback on my tinder profile?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ajxw4e/starting_over_at_36_after_16_years_together_can_i/
SEWhomstMD
2024-01-28 06:20:08
1,706,422,808
0
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1acw3f0
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1acw3f0/whats_wrong_with_me/
1
TLDR: long streak of unsuccessful dates through dating apps that haven’t gotten past the first date that have seemingly gone well. Taken a big toll on me. Not sure where to start here since this post would be massive but… 25 M here. Live in a city that i moved to about 3 years ago for work but that’s kept me incredibly...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What’s wrong with me?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1acw3f0/whats_wrong_with_me/
CleanSocks28
2020-07-30 04:15:38
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/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i0fhcr/menwomen_of_dot_what_are_some_good_ways_to_meet/
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My interests and social circle have kept me in a bubble of mostly men and people significantly older than myself. I've always had to use the apps for relationships and figured I am probably not the first nor the last to be in this situation... So, what are some decent activities/places to meet new people of the opposit...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Men/women of DoT. What are some good ways to meet people of the opposite sex when Covid ends? I'd like to not have to rely solely on the apps.
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i0fhcr/menwomen_of_dot_what_are_some_good_ways_to_meet/
Dgdnen
2022-07-21 16:47:31
1,658,422,051
null
['online dating']
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w4lgrk
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I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/w4lgrk/places_to_meet_someone/
1
Kind of new to the dating scene and never had a girlfriend (22M). Online dating isn't working for me as expected. I would like to know where to meet someone especially now that it is summer. I have tried going to nightclubs with friends but my priority there is to have fun with friends. I live in a fairly big and known...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Places to meet someone
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w4lgrk/places_to_meet_someone/
khm059
2024-04-16 09:34:17
1,713,260,057
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['matched', 'tinder']
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1c5bxd9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c5bxd9/am_i_overthinking_too_much_thoughts/
2
So, 2 days ago I decided to give Tinder a shot. I matched with this stunning girl. Really, like exactly my type. Anyway, we started texting, nothing much. I asked for her IG and then we followed each other. I noticed that she has a lot followers, she got her lips done and there are some pretty provocative photos of her...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I overthinking too much? Thoughts?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c5bxd9/am_i_overthinking_too_much_thoughts/
Queenofallthatisgood
2024-03-06 09:34:01
1,709,717,641
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['online dating']
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1b7vnw6
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I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b7vnw6/36_year_female_never_been_in_a_relationship_what/
3
I've been dating online for 5+ years after being very shy in my 20s. I've gone to therapy for attachment style issues (avoidant) among other mental health problems. I'm in a good place now but still strugge to develop romantic relationships. I'm avarage looking and have many interests. I want to try meeting people thro...
dating
t5_2qhb1
36 year female never been in a relationship what to do
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b7vnw6/36_year_female_never_been_in_a_relationship_what/
chaz_0097
2024-03-09 19:36:10
1,710,012,970
0
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1baq2tu
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1baq2tu/is_this_guy_just_after_a_hook_up/
1
I have been talking to this guy. We vibe really well. However I notice he’s always over complimenting me…he mentioned I was “fit” within the first few messages of us talking. Hes always saying how attractive I am, or pretty I am etc etc. He asks for pictures of outfits if im going out. I asked him to help me figure out...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is this guy just after a hook up?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1baq2tu/is_this_guy_just_after_a_hook_up/
witsend4966
2023-07-13 02:32:36
1,689,215,556
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['online dating']
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0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/14y88kf/whats_the_appropriate_time_to_start_dating/
1
When I was online dating after my divorce 15 years ago, it seemed like after the third date you were expected to sleep together. It’s like there are unwritten rules. Well, I finally met someone and then he died. It’s been a year. I was thinking about doing some online dating but it’s been 14 months since he passed and ...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
What’s the appropriate time to start dating?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/14y88kf/whats_the_appropriate_time_to_start_dating/
Autumnfa2
2024-01-30 15:53:22
1,706,630,002
0
['tinder']
0
1aerlm5
false
Question ❓
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1aerlm5/is_being_thick_an_issue_in_a_relationship/
1
I'm 29 met this guy on tinder we were cool he was really mature and i definitely loved his maturity perhaps because he was older. We went for a date night with his friends some of his friends tried getting my attention and they were obvious about it. After that night he changed sometimes he wouldn't even call me so i d...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is being thick an issue in a relationship
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aerlm5/is_being_thick_an_issue_in_a_relationship/
Charming-Snow4943
2024-09-18 19:46:26
1,726,688,786
0
['facebook dating']
0
1fk1r9t
true
Support Needed 🫂
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1fk1r9t/my_imposter_syndrome_ruined_my_chance_with_a_woman/
1
ChatGPT Automático Dijiste: Necesito que corrijas mi texto en inglés y que lo estructuras de mejor forma. Not long ago I was interacting with this girl I met through Facebook dating. We talked for a while and met in person. She was very pretty in my eyes and laughed at all my jokes and was openly interested in me. In f...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My imposter syndrome ruined my chance with a woman.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fk1r9t/my_imposter_syndrome_ruined_my_chance_with_a_woman/
DBC-DruggedBluCrab
2024-06-04 14:04:49
1,717,509,889
0
['dating apps']
0
1d7xzj3
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7xzj3/how_do_you_start_a_conversation_on_dating_apps/
2
I started using dating apps a few months ago and I have no idea how to start when I get a match. I have made a few (probably horrible) attempts that got ignored. I am socially awkward and have a hard time starting a conversation and keeping it going.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you start a conversation on dating apps?
2
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7xzj3/how_do_you_start_a_conversation_on_dating_apps/
Vice932
2022-09-11 10:50:36
1,662,893,436
null
null
0
xbfhjv
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null
20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/xbfhjv/just_some_general_frustrations_ive_had_this_year/
23
This isn't meant to be a rant about how I don't get enough matches or how girls need to lower their standards for me. I get plenty of matches and I've been on quite a few dates. The problem is the way these apps are just set up totally kills any and all romance for me and I find it hard to find either a girl that actua...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Just some general frustrations I've had this year
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xbfhjv/just_some_general_frustrations_ive_had_this_year/
Ok-Profession-6540
2023-10-20 21:29:29
1,697,837,369
0
['hinge']
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17cm0o7
true
null
1
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17cm0o7/how_do_men_hide_it_so_well/
1
I was talking to a guy I met off Hinge for a week and we had instant chemistry. We bonded over many similar things and had a lot in common. We spoke on the phone and our vibes were so there. I don’t want to go into too much detail, but I told him from the beginning that my time was full and limited and he responded it ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How do men hide it so well
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17cm0o7/how_do_men_hide_it_so_well/
SpecificFan5698
2023-12-20 18:38:15
1,703,097,495
0
['hinge']
0
18n1rjh
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18n1rjh/he_didnt_text_after_the_date/
1
I went on an amazing date last night. First good date I’ve been on in awhile. He was such a gentleman, could tell he respected women and had been raised right (which is unfortunately rare), he is a great conversationalist, has a great job, a car & his own apartment (I live in SF so this is rare). He was attractive, and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He didn’t text after the date
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18n1rjh/he_didnt_text_after_the_date/
[deleted]
2020-05-30 04:27:18
1,590,812,838
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
gt80wp
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/gt80wp/insecurity_and_doubt_stemmed_from_the_belief_that/
14
Few weeks ago, I met a girl on Tinder and we managed to hit it off and had some pretty good chats now and then. We quite enjoy each other's company, we talked about vulnerable topics such as depression and loneliness, she was happy to open up on her past relationships and life struggles in general. She's also the only ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Insecurity and doubt stemmed from the belief that you're an option
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gt80wp/insecurity_and_doubt_stemmed_from_the_belief_that/
jbow808
2021-03-29 20:36:29
1,617,050,189
null
['swiping']
0
mfyw72
true
Venting
102
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/mfyw72/maybe_im_just_not_built_for_dating_in_2021/
212
After being on the dating scene for the last 3 years, following my 20-year relationship with my ex I'm struggling to figure the new rules of dating. Maybe it the endless swiping, matching, and messaging only to be met with detached, disengaged, or guarded prospects. Perhaps it because my text game isn't up to par. I so...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Maybe I'm just not built for dating in 2021
null
0.97
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/mfyw72/maybe_im_just_not_built_for_dating_in_2021/
st4rsntea
2022-10-09 04:25:43
1,665,289,543
null
['dating app']
0
xzcey4
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xzcey4/i22f_hung_out_with_my_crush23m_yesterday_and_i/
1
he's from my class in college, I asked him for his number about 3 weeks ago. we've been talking after lab and text here an there(not as often as hes really busy and so am I with school). we both started showing our personalities over text slowly (stupid way.. sending dumb memes n just how we talk with friends. kind of ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I(22f) hung out with my crush(23m) yesterday and I can't tell if he just sees me as a friend or has some sort of interest
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xzcey4/i22f_hung_out_with_my_crush23m_yesterday_and_i/
heatflexinthestars
2024-08-28 13:35:20
1,724,852,120
0
['dating apps']
0
1f3aco0
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Giving Advice 💌
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1f3aco0/dating_older_women_can_have_its_positives_but_you/
0
I'll preface this by saying that I have no doubt if this applies to dating older men as well who date younger women, because I don't want to generalize it as being just women, but since I'm a guy who dates women, this is what I've observed from my experiences and gained wisdom from it. I receive a substantial amount of...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating older women can have its positives, but you should also be warned that they might also be really superficial, too (and that's why they go after younger guys)
0
0.14
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f3aco0/dating_older_women_can_have_its_positives_but_you/
sarahkotz
2015-04-09 18:52:14
1,428,605,534
0
['tinder']
0
3212gz
null
null
12
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3212gz/do_looks_matter_what_do_you_think_of_this_social/
5
Recently, I came across a Tinder social experiment highlighted on Elite Daily. Simple Pickup, hosted this social experiment to test the theory that: The 1 fear for women dating online is that they’re going to meet a serial killer The 1 fear for men is that the women they meet are going to be fat To see the YouTube vide...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do Looks Matter? What do you think of this social experiment?
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3212gz/do_looks_matter_what_do_you_think_of_this_social/
stellacleo4
2023-10-25 19:48:18
1,698,263,298
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
17gdbyk
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17gdbyk/other_people_datingmet_somebody_from_another/
1
I'm dating a guy in my "neighbor country". (I don't want any posts saying "find someone closer, it's never gonna work" - I'm not stupid and I'm aware of that it's hard). It's a messy trip, takes approx. 6 hours to travel with train. But it's doable. Are there other people here who met their partner from another country...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Other people dating/met somebody from another country?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17gdbyk/other_people_datingmet_somebody_from_another/
DeadestTitan
2019-01-08 04:26:08
1,546,921,568
null
['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
adqj0x
true
Tinder/Online Dating
6
0
/r/dating/comments/adqj0x/i_havent_had_a_match_since_august_26m/
1
I don't use Tinder super often. Maybe once a week or so, I'll flip through and swipe right on women who's profiles seem interesting. I'll do the same on apps like OKC as well, but with a little less frequency. I've been in a good spot the last few weeks and I've been too busy to notice something until today: I'm swipin...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I haven't had a match since August (26M)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/adqj0x/i_havent_had_a_match_since_august_26m/
Neither-Till-5792
2024-08-16 06:03:15
1,723,788,195
0
['matches', 'online dating']
0
1ethdwt
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ethdwt/whats_the_point_of_online_dating_as_a_hetero_man/
1
So, out of 7 matches in 4 days, at least 4 ended the chat with less than 10 messages, simply after greetings and talking/asking about their interests/hobbies. Does it feel like they did it more than anything because they found someone better? What's the point of using apps as a straight man? average or below average if...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What's the point of online dating as a hetero man if the way most of them works is make you just something replaceable for the womens there?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ethdwt/whats_the_point_of_online_dating_as_a_hetero_man/
Bakka_girl
2024-08-10 19:26:46
1,723,318,006
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1ep17a4
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
99
1
/r/dating/comments/1ep17a4/my_experience_on_dating_apps/
155
I installed a dating app and received a lot of likes. That could be because of my gender. I matched with around 25 guys. As I'm a bit more mature, I didn’t expect to find a life partner but hoped to at least find a friend or a friend with benefits. I don't know if it’s my luck or if dating apps, in general, attract onl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My experience on dating apps 🙂
155
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ep17a4/my_experience_on_dating_apps/
AnotherMasterYiSkin
2022-12-09 03:09:18
1,670,555,358
null
null
0
zgl4mn
true
null
34
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/zgl4mn/whats_the_rationale_behind_not_responding_but_not/
6
30M having little luck with OLD, hoping to get some insights mainly from females but any valuable insight is welcome. For example, I match with a female in CMB (she "liked" me after I did) but she doesn't start the conversation so I do. Whatever I sent didn't get her attention so she doesn't respond- fine, happens to m...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What's the rationale behind not responding, but not unmatching either?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zgl4mn/whats_the_rationale_behind_not_responding_but_not/
Addibla
2020-07-17 06:30:40
1,594,967,440
null
['tinder']
0
hsqrfr
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hsqrfr/bfm26_of_2_years_flaking_on_me_after_myf21_dad/
1
For the context let me clarify that I live in Eastern Europe where things are still a little bit old fashioned. I met my current bf on Tinder 2 years ago, we hit it off right away and have been together ever since. We even had to do a long distance when I went abroad on an exchange program for a little bit and survived...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
BF(M26) of 2 years flaking on me after my(F21) dad passed away 2 weeks ago
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hsqrfr/bfm26_of_2_years_flaking_on_me_after_myf21_dad/
Lipfit309
2023-03-09 17:21:05
1,678,382,465
null
['matches']
0
11mxx9d
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11mxx9d/how_to_find_someone_whos_sex_drive_matches_yours/
5
I’m 30F who’s currently single and dating. One thing that I’ve noticed with the last few men I’ve met is that in casual conversation whenever sex comes up they will say they have a high sex drive and then as we progress I realize high to them is bottom tier for me. Sex is very very important and I keep finding that I e...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to find someone who’s sex drive matches yours?
null
0.73
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11mxx9d/how_to_find_someone_whos_sex_drive_matches_yours/
ratbastard007
2023-07-21 12:47:22
1,689,943,642
0
['dating apps']
0
155n2v0
false
Support Needed 🫂
1
0
/r/dating/comments/155n2v0/i_feel_so_hopeless/
1
Dating now just seems impossible as a man. I just hit 30 yesterday, and im more depressed than ever now. Im not conventionally attractive, so I dont have a shot in hell on dating apps. A recent dating thread about how much a man earns is a big deal. I work as a social worker making only 50k a year. So money wise, im no...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I feel so hopeless
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/155n2v0/i_feel_so_hopeless/
No_Challenge_6051
2023-04-06 23:02:58
1,680,822,178
0
['dating app']
0
12e196s
true
I Need Advice 😩
22
0
/r/dating/comments/12e196s/i_dont_understand_what_happened/
1
Me F, met this guy on a dating app. We went on a few dates and things seemed pretty normal, he seemed like a shy guy but I was also wondering if he had hesitations about me. He was still pretty sweet and we kept texting pretty much all day. I am not the best at texting and I work long hours but still tried my best. Thi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I don’t understand what happened
1
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12e196s/i_dont_understand_what_happened/
jokmcskag01
2018-01-11 19:14:42
1,515,698,082
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
7pqh0a
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7pqh0a/old_why_so_far_away/
1
Been OLD for a few years now. Without much joy unless you call a string of terrible first dates success. 2016/17 was the worst though not a single match within a 30 mile radius (total of 6 dates, travelled over 300 miles) Now it’s 2018 and had 3 matches so far and they are at least 48 miles away. Is OLD now just for lo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
OLD, why so far away?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7pqh0a/old_why_so_far_away/
salabie
2024-03-18 12:27:43
1,710,764,863
0
['dating apps']
0
1bhpi9w
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bhpi9w/at_what_point_do_you_disclose_you_have_a_child/
1
I've been going on dates in another state. I'm not looking for any serious, just trying to get practice talking to men after a toxic marriage that led to divorce. One guy consistently text me good morning, now I'm wondering if I'm obligated to tell him I have an 8 yr old (50/50 custody)? My plan was to tell him after 2...
dating
t5_2qhb1
At what point do you disclose you have a child?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bhpi9w/at_what_point_do_you_disclose_you_have_a_child/
throwaway96888888
2022-12-04 22:38:20
1,670,193,500
null
['dating app']
0
zco8du
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zco8du/m_unsure_if_i_should_peruse_the_relationship_20m/
3
Throwaway because yes I’ve recently met this girl on a dating app and we’ve been talking everyday day for about week and a half, I know we haven’t talked that much but I feel that the way we talk is very caring. Personally I’ve met many people but I can tell she cares. I’ve got to know a little more about her, and she ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
’m unsure if I should peruse the relationship (20M) (19F)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zco8du/m_unsure_if_i_should_peruse_the_relationship_20m/
Dry_Reputation5774
2024-09-08 22:02:50
1,725,832,970
0
['online dating']
0
1fc9lpl
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fc9lpl/how_do_you_stop_overthinking_everything_when_it/
1
I’m a 29F and I haven’t had a boyfriend before. I didn’t start dating until I was 27 due to several personal reasons. I have made a lot of progress with dating in the past couple of years and I know now what I am looking for in a partner. I live in a large city so I attend singles events and other social events several...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you stop overthinking everything when it comes to dating?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fc9lpl/how_do_you_stop_overthinking_everything_when_it/
SelfCare2019
2019-07-22 04:56:07
1,563,771,367
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
cg8uh4
true
Requesting Advice
28
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/cg8uh4/i_dont_know_whats_changed/
10
I [43f] can't land a date to save my life. Only difference I can think of is my age since the last time I tried OLD and even then I wasn't beating them off with a stick, but I did have dates. Met my most recent ex online and a friendship turned romantic for about a year. Then, it went to hell. So, last 3+ months I have...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
I don't know what's changed...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/cg8uh4/i_dont_know_whats_changed/
Lopsided_Wolf4022
2022-02-22 12:47:40
1,645,534,060
null
null
0
symsq7
true
null
6
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/symsq7/hookup_box/
3
Ok this is a 2 part question. I recently hear this term “hookup box” while it’s very self explanatory I want to know more from both men and women on what exactly puts someone in this box. Is the box real? Is this dependent on the person you’re hooking up with or on what you’re currently seeking? Does someone ever get o...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Hookup Box
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/symsq7/hookup_box/
Short-Conflict-7029
2023-04-10 00:10:36
1,681,085,436
0
null
0
12h0stp
true
null
18
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/12h0stp/much_needed_break/
4
Just wanted to offer up some encouragement, and remind everyone it’s okay to take a break from the apps. I have taken a break for a few days as of the moment and it’s honestly nice. My mental health feels a little better and I don’t have as much anxiety about “well what if I miss the window of talking to a match?” So, ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Much needed break
4
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12h0stp/much_needed_break/
fortunately_here
2023-02-20 03:55:16
1,676,865,316
null
null
0
116x0hu
true
null
10
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/116x0hu/tinder_accidentally_liked_a_message_in_the_chat/
0
I know this is paranoia, but yeah, after the girl sent me her number and we had set up a date, I was looking through our initial chat again and accidentally liked one of the most recent messages she had sent (from earlier today). Since she probably got the notification now, how bad will this look/should I be worried?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
[Tinder] Accidentally ‘liked’ a message in the chat with a girl after having set up a date and gotten her number. Did I fuck up?
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/116x0hu/tinder_accidentally_liked_a_message_in_the_chat/
IHadTacosYesterday
2024-05-12 19:23:21
1,715,541,801
0
null
0
1cqfpas
true
null
17
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cqfpas/what_are_people_thinking_when_they_have_5/
28
Seriously.... What is your motivation? You're seriously going to honeypot me with 5 pictures of you looking fit, young and sexy, and then mix in one more picture at the end that has you looking fat, old and frumpy? Why waste peoples time like that? What does this get you? Do you think somebody will just look at 3 or 4 ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What are people thinking when they have 5 pictures of them looking young & hot, and then a final old & fat picture?
24
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cqfpas/what_are_people_thinking_when_they_have_5/
ms_macattack
2021-02-02 18:46:39
1,612,291,599
null
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
lb33zx
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lb33zx/when_to_take_the_convo_off_a_dating_app_and/
2
Hi everyone. I’m a little rusty when it comes to dating so I just wanted to get some advice about when you leave the dating app and just text normally with someone. I’ve had 2 men so far try to exchange numbers before we’ve had a date or done any video/phone call through the Hinge app. 1 gave me his number and said to ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When to take the convo off a dating app and exchange numbers?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lb33zx/when_to_take_the_convo_off_a_dating_app_and/
CryMental6073
2024-09-12 02:29:38
1,726,108,178
0
['dating apps']
0
1fes0yf
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fes0yf/20m_isolated_for_most_of_my_life_and_not_knowing/
0
This is my first Reddit post so I’m not sure exactly how to ask for advice on this. I have lived in the same small town in Ohio for my entire life, and have been socially isolated for most of it. I didn’t have a great time in high school, I was extremely anxious and socially awkward and as a result I was bullied and os...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
(20M) Isolated for most of my life and not knowing how to put myself around any girls.
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fes0yf/20m_isolated_for_most_of_my_life_and_not_knowing/
gregsoney
2023-04-22 12:12:48
1,682,165,568
0
['hinge']
0
12v454k
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12v454k/ghosted_by_a_girl_who_was_really_into_me/
1
Okay so this girl liked me on Hinge and I couldn’t believe she did because she was super pretty. Anyways, our chat is going really well, we move onto voice notes, then off the app to whatsapp and continue from there. She said ‘I have something to text you since this is going really well’ - it was that she had a 2yo son...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted by a girl who was really into me?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12v454k/ghosted_by_a_girl_who_was_really_into_me/
AlexMalygris
2023-11-16 23:54:58
1,700,178,898
0
['bumble', 'hinge']
0
17x1evd
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17x1evd/stupid_games_stupid_price/
1
I’m going out with a girl I meet on Hinge. We’re exclusive but stupid me keep looking at the bumble app and then pausing it every time. I put it back to guide my mother to set an account. This morning I looked and found someone new. The girl I’m going out with :( we have a date tomorrow and I don’t know how will I hand...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Stupid games, stupid price
1
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17x1evd/stupid_games_stupid_price/
Crohny101
2024-04-07 22:05:40
1,712,527,540
0
null
0
1bygw9h
true
null
29
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bygw9h/any_recommendations_for_apps_for_the_average_dude/
9
Facebook dating sort of worked for me. But it disappeared from the app for me. Tinder, hinge and bumble I get 0 matches. I'm 5'6'' 170lbs buff. In person I look taller and more attractive. That is the downfall with dating apps for me.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Any recommendations for apps for the average dude?
8
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bygw9h/any_recommendations_for_apps_for_the_average_dude/
GenuineArtist
2023-07-18 07:52:12
1,689,666,732
0
['dating apps']
0
152rw96
false
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/152rw96/what_to_mention_about_myself_on_dating_apps/
1
Hi collective wisdom of reddit. Me 30's M. Old enough that I never had to use dating apps before. I recently tried and failed and looking for advice. I assume there is a sea of guys on these apps so I want/need to stand out. I figured some achievements in life would be a good start. I've got a PhD in STEM, figured out ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What to mention about myself on dating apps?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152rw96/what_to_mention_about_myself_on_dating_apps/
Strix924
2021-09-23 23:28:52
1,632,439,732
null
['bumble']
0
pu7ezg
true
null
3
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/pu7ezg/laverne_and_shirley_the_bully_episode/
11
Trigger warning for attempted sexual assault The other night I wanted to watch some Happy Days out of the blue. I found this website called PlutoTv that seems to broadcast television. I saw there was only 45 minutes of Laverne and Shirley to get through until 2 episodes of Happy Days would come on, so I decided to sit ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Laverne and Shirley: The Bully episode
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/pu7ezg/laverne_and_shirley_the_bully_episode/
CarelessCritter
2023-08-29 15:00:54
1,693,321,254
0
['hinge']
0
164ktdh
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/164ktdh/should_i_bring_up_intimacy/
1
Hi I’ve been going out on 4-5 dates with this guy I met on Hinge, he’s great but on our second date he casually mentioned sexual intimacy is important to him, and I’m not a big fan of that as I’m more conservative, but I brushed it off at that time as we were still getting to know each other and I saw it as an topic th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I bring up intimacy?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/164ktdh/should_i_bring_up_intimacy/
SanOK_
2021-11-24 00:13:28
1,637,712,808
null
['dating apps']
0
r0rauz
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/r0rauz/i_recently_started_a_dating_podcast_where_the/
8
We don't specifically give tips but you're likely to find something new for your social interactions. You can find it here:
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I recently started a dating podcast where the co-hosts are people I meet on dating apps.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r0rauz/i_recently_started_a_dating_podcast_where_the/
Ok_Topic3020
2023-08-06 23:27:03
1,691,364,423
0
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
15k3zyh
true
null
17
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15k3zyh/i_deleted_bumble_bff/
1
I now understand why my friends are so frustrated with dating apps. This is a small vent and also an apology for the times I've said the apps "can't be that bad". I've been using Bumble BFF for a few weeks. I've watched and chatted with tons of folks, but... Once it came time to actually meet up in person POOF Gone I'd...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I deleted Bumble BFF 🙃
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15k3zyh/i_deleted_bumble_bff/
omeletteofbacon2
2023-07-21 05:30:09
1,689,917,409
0
['tinder']
0
155eijp
false
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/155eijp/casual_but_not_physical/
1
Went on a first date with this girl from Tinder. We got drinks then walked around downtown. Vibes were pretty decent. I was a little touchy and put my arm around her while we sat down. She said she’s not comfortable with a lot of touch because she’s a private person, so I told her I understand pulled back. She told me ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Casual but not physical?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/155eijp/casual_but_not_physical/
calvincloud9
2020-11-05 06:35:48
1,604,558,148
null
['swipe', 'swipes', 'tinder']
0
joe1aa
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/joe1aa/how_would_you_react_if_the_person_you_were/
1
I finally gave in and decided to make a Tinder to see for myself what I haven't been missing (most of my friends have told me the app is garbage). Just a few swipes in and I came across a profile with a one sentence bio that caught my attention in a negative fashion As you can see from her bio, she states that she'll o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How would you react if the person you were interested in tells you they'd "only text you back once every 3 days" and to "take it or leave it"
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/joe1aa/how_would_you_react_if_the_person_you_were/
DiscombobulatedHoe
2019-04-01 21:56:34
1,554,155,794
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
b89tyd
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/b89tyd/should_i_24f_continue_to_see_him_28m_if_he_still/
1
Met this awesome guy about a month ago. He is not my type whatsoever but I kinda developed a crush on. Just a quick backstory: matched on hinge, had our first date and got instantly lost in conversation. That night he was showing me something on his phone when someone started to call him and I was like "oh hey here's y...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I [24F] continue to see him [28M] if he still talks to an ex who lives in another state everyday?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b89tyd/should_i_24f_continue_to_see_him_28m_if_he_still/
HitRefresh34
2024-03-01 04:19:02
1,709,266,742
0
['dating apps']
0
1b3l89c
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b3l89c/stuck_in_dating_limbo_i_dont_want_to_date_but/
1
After a string of bad relationships since I started dating, I realized I have too much I need to work on to date anybody right now. I've been making a lot of progress and even my therapist is hinting I should get back out there. I usually get dates from dating apps. However, I noticed I can't keep my profile up for mor...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Stuck in dating limbo. I don't want to date but miss having a bf.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b3l89c/stuck_in_dating_limbo_i_dont_want_to_date_but/
ThisisSparta3270
2015-04-03 21:09:29
1,428,095,369
0
['tinder']
0
31cqq4
null
null
6
null
/r/dating/comments/31cqq4/should_i_go_out_with_this_girl/
8
Hey guys, so I need some help I (24M) am going on a date tonight with a beautiful, smart, girl (24F) I met on Tinder last weekend. We talked all week and decided tonight would be a good night for a Date. We're going to a hockey game and then going out for drinks. Everything sounds perfect. However, she just dropped on ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I go out with this Girl?
8
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/31cqq4/should_i_go_out_with_this_girl/
brooklynwalker1019
2023-09-21 13:20:35
1,695,302,435
0
null
0
16ofs46
true
null
20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/16ofs46/should_i_24m_date_if_i_am_not_working/
1
So I’ve recently moved to a new country and am currently waiting to start my job in November of 2023. I have a pretty good amount saved up (that can let me maybe 4.5 to 5 years), so financially I’m okay. I’m spending most of my time learning the language but otherwise I’m not making any money and have no income source....
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I (24m) date if I am not working?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16ofs46/should_i_24m_date_if_i_am_not_working/
kqshizzle
2020-08-12 22:45:13
1,597,272,313
null
['dating apps']
0
i8o23r
true
I Need Advice
7
0
/r/dating/comments/i8o23r/i_need_help_asking_a_guy_out/
3
So I (25f) am I really into this guy (31). We have known each other for around three years and he's always been flirtatious with me, though I am so bad at reading people. He has straight up asked me to hold hands with him in the past so I feel like he's always had a thing for me. Anyway, my feelings for him have escala...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I need help asking a guy out!
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i8o23r/i_need_help_asking_a_guy_out/
dwu1977
2023-03-04 00:55:33
1,677,891,333
null
null
0
11hkroi
true
null
1
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/11hkroi/language_localization/
0
How important is language localization in a dating app? For an app concentrating in Canada/Usa/Uk, what languages should be available?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Language localization
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11hkroi/language_localization/
Same-Spite-9308
2024-05-28 19:08:59
1,716,923,339
0
['matched']
0
1d2rl6c
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1d2rl6c/havent_been_on_a_date_for_quite_a_long_time_need/
1
So, I've got a date lined up with someone I matched with on Iris dating, and I'm feeling pretty nervous. Any cool tips to chill out and make a good impression? Hit me up with your best advice!" plzzzzzz
dating
t5_2qhb1
Haven't been on a date for quite a long time, need your advice
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d2rl6c/havent_been_on_a_date_for_quite_a_long_time_need/
elle_em345
2022-06-26 16:49:42
1,656,262,182
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
vl8yeu
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vl8yeu/matched_with_a_guy_who_asked_me_on_a_date_but/
1
I matched with a guy on a dating app earlier this week. We chatted for a few hours and he asked me on a date for this Sunday, and he set the time and place. It’s in a few hours, but I haven’t heard from him any further since that initial convo at the start of the week when we matched. He hasn’t started any new covnos (...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Matched with a guy who asked me on a date but haven’t heard from him in a week. Should I consider it canceled?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vl8yeu/matched_with_a_guy_who_asked_me_on_a_date_but/
[deleted]
2014-09-17 00:51:41
1,410,915,101
0
['tinder']
0
2gm5vp
null
null
17
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2gm5vp/how_and_when_should_i_ask_if_hes_seeing_other/
3
I met this guy on Tinder last month and we've seen each other twice and I'm going to be seeing him this Friday as well. We talk almost everyday. Only a few messages a day sometimes but still. We had sex on the first date and I've been trying to give him time to think about his wants but im slowly becoming more and more...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How and when should I ask if he's seeing other people?
3
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2gm5vp/how_and_when_should_i_ask_if_hes_seeing_other/
Spasiboi
2022-06-19 23:22:00
1,655,680,920
null
['dating app']
0
vg7gph
true
null
34
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vg7gph/mail_order_bride_bad_idea/
0
That makes it sound a little worse than it is but I (28m) from the USA have met a girl from Russia (29f) through a dating app. We are meeting in person in Turkey next month for the first time. We’ve already phone and video called on multiple occasions. Both of us want to get married quickly. She and I are very similar ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Mail Order Bride, Bad Idea?
null
0.46
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vg7gph/mail_order_bride_bad_idea/
Desmondeeds34
2019-08-01 03:28:11
1,564,630,091
null
['dating apps']
0
ckiwt0
true
null
45
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ckiwt0/meeting_women_is_so_impossible_why_do_people_make/
1
1.dating apps are a waste of time and yield no chance of success so many flaky women 2.cold approach don’t work they’ll either say they say a boyfriend or flake (I know from expierence) 3.hobbies my only hobbies are swimming swim and long walks and you don’t meet women through these things and I’m not going to join a g...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Meeting women is so impossible why do people make it sound so easy?!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ckiwt0/meeting_women_is_so_impossible_why_do_people_make/
Omario169
2019-03-06 14:42:47
1,551,883,367
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'tinder']
0
axzjrl
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/axzjrl/long_distance_tinder_match/
1
Me (21M) matched with this girl (19f). She's from the same city as me (how we matched), but has to go London for university. She said she wants to go on a date when she's back in like 3 weeks. The initial conversation was good. I have a sense of what she's like as a person and we have similar interests. I would've pref...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Long distance tinder match.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/axzjrl/long_distance_tinder_match/
SnarkyMalarcky
2018-09-13 16:36:19
1,536,856,579
null
['matches', 'okcupid']
0
9fjjs6
true
null
32
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9fjjs6/profile_pictures_stay_the_same_on_okc_for_years/
31
I just reopened an OKCupid account after taking some time off of dating. But the biggest thing that I noticed is that, in the five years I’ve been on and off of OKCupid, when I sort people based on match percentage, the ones that show up have had the same profile pictures for five years! In all seriousness, I don’t kno...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Profile pictures stay the same on OKC for years!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9fjjs6/profile_pictures_stay_the_same_on_okc_for_years/
lluviasol
2020-12-04 15:47:50
1,607,096,870
null
['hinge']
0
k6nc3l
true
null
5
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/k6nc3l/been_happily_dating_for_a_short_time_anxious/
1
Hi, I(32F) met this guy(35M) on Hinge, five weeks ago. He's American, I'm European and we met in Mexico, where both of us are based for a few months (escaping lockdown). Since the day we met we haven't really been apart. We spent every single day together for two weeks, then we moved in together three weeks ago- Both ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Been happily dating for a short time, anxious about the future - Advice please!
null
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/k6nc3l/been_happily_dating_for_a_short_time_anxious/
spf_1989
2018-04-24 03:55:38
1,524,542,138
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
8ehm4u
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8ehm4u/online_dating_burnout_what_to_do/
5
Hey guys or gals, I was wondering if anyone feels this way. I've been using a lot of the different dating apps for roughly three years now. For the first couple of years I was going on a lot of dates, however, only a small percentage turned into a second date with the same girl, smaller for third dates and so on. It wa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online Dating Burnout - What to do?
5
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ehm4u/online_dating_burnout_what_to_do/
Motor_Bonus
2020-10-24 20:32:17
1,603,571,537
null
['matches']
0
jhg57l
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jhg57l/why_is_being_nice_1_only_an_insult_for_men_and_2/
0
"Nice" seems like it has become the default insult applied to any man who isn't succeeding in dating. Not getting any matches? It's because you're too "nice." Ghosted on the day of the date? It's because you're too "nice." Etc. Yet calling someone "nice" as an insult seems to only apply for men and only in dating. When...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is being "nice": (1) only an insult for men and (2) only an insult in dating? This whole concept seems like blatant BS and gaslighting.
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jhg57l/why_is_being_nice_1_only_an_insult_for_men_and_2/
leoguy26
2020-06-20 02:28:03
1,592,620,083
null
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
hce363
true
Venting
11
0
/r/dating/comments/hce363/my_gf_maybe_talking_to_another_guy_on_ig_update/
6
I'm (22)m and she's (21)f. We met on a dating app called hinge a couple months ago, we started seeing each other and dating. Not too long ago, i met her family too. So recently i haven't been really hearing from her alot like i usually do, she text me good morning and things and she haven't really been texting or calli...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My GF maybe talking to another guy on ig (update)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hce363/my_gf_maybe_talking_to_another_guy_on_ig_update/
Seskiandikit
2022-06-18 09:36:12
1,655,544,972
null
['online dater']
0
vf2oau
true
null
38
0
/r/AskMen/comments/vf2oau/men_whats_your_intentions_if_you_constantly_text/
0
I hooked up w this guy a few days ago, a friend’s friend who I met at her place when I went over. He had JUST broken up, but he hit on me so smoothly and I figured why not and went for it. We had a few real moments and idk the sparks were real he brought it up himself saying so. But we live almost at opposite ends of t...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Men, what’s your intentions if you constantly text a girl after a hookup after making it clear to her it’s just a one time fling?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/vf2oau/men_whats_your_intentions_if_you_constantly_text/
Ill-Acanthisitta1040
2023-07-01 16:46:36
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/r/dating_advice/comments/14nzoqg/he_ignores_me_after_our_sex/
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For context, I met with this guy two weeks ago through Bumble. We kissed on the 1st date and we had sex on the 3rd date, all led by him, I was always passive. 3rd date was literally yesterday and today I see his location on Bumble, which means he went on Bumble today. He also turned down my offer to hang out today, and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He ignores me after our sex
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14nzoqg/he_ignores_me_after_our_sex/
LongjumpingSurvey116
2024-09-07 17:01:11
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbbos3/do_long_distance_relationships_have_a_sense/
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I'm using a dating app for south Asian people and unfortunately the people I match are always too far. Continent distance. I'm looking for long term and I have written that in my profile as well but I really feel I am just wasting my time. What do you think about long distance relationships?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do long distance relationships have a sense?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbbos3/do_long_distance_relationships_have_a_sense/
Mammoth_Battle8915
2024-08-04 13:59:30
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ejvwwl/femboy_19_i_need_a_girlfriend_plzzzzzz/
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I need a girlfriend to talk about feminine stuff with
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Femboy 19 I need a girlfriend plzzzzzz
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ejvwwl/femboy_19_i_need_a_girlfriend_plzzzzzz/