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terrifiedandbroken | 2014-12-22 22:04:29 | 1,419,285,869 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 2q40c3 | null | null | 30 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2q40c3/abusive_ex_hacked_into_old_dating_profile_and_is/ | 14 | When I was 19 and fresh out of inpatient treatment, I met a 25 year old man on Okay Cupid. I wasn't in a place to date him seriously, as I was transitioning from having no control at all (treatment) to finally figuring myself out. However, he pressured me again and again to date exclusively, and we ended up in a two ye... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Abusive ex hacked into old dating profile and is baiting men to harass me. Terrified and alone. | 14 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2q40c3/abusive_ex_hacked_into_old_dating_profile_and_is/ |
herbzallround | 2021-04-25 00:33:26 | 1,619,310,806 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mxwvz9 | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mxwvz9/ok_to_text_an_ex_for_closure/ | 0 | Ok — so I dumped a guy I was seeing for a hot minute... who admittedly, in retrospect, was really no good for me. This chapter of my dating book is like 65% closed, but I feel like I could slam it shut potentially with one more convo — but I’m not sure if it’s a bright move ie my ego or vengeance or what lol. When we m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Ok To Text an Ex for Closure? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mxwvz9/ok_to_text_an_ex_for_closure/ |
[deleted] | 2021-03-08 05:05:52 | 1,615,179,952 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | m08dyr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m08dyr/what_dating_app_do_doctors_and_med_school/ | 1 | What dating app do doctors and med school students use? I am planning on applying to med school and want to date a doctor who understands what I am going through. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating app do doctors and med school students use? | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m08dyr/what_dating_app_do_doctors_and_med_school/ |
Henny199420 | 2023-05-29 02:36:28 | 1,685,327,788 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13uiiy3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 81 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13uiiy3/the_insane_cost_of_dating_apps/ | 73 | I'm on Tinder. Seeing there's 4 women swiped right on me but I can't swipe on them because their profile hasn't shown yet. I was gonna pay to see till I saw 22.99 for plus, 34.99 for gold, and 44.99 for platinum What the hell? I thought they charged more after you 30, not before. I don't even like using dating apps but... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The INSANE cost of dating apps | 73 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13uiiy3/the_insane_cost_of_dating_apps/ |
maxreddit0609 | 2022-05-21 15:37:33 | 1,653,147,453 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | uupml9 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uupml9/she_never_initiates_texts_but_always_says_yes_to/ | 0 | I don’t get it. Met this girl (25f) on Hinge who I like, we’ve been on 5 dates, each about a week apart over the last month or so. She has only initiated texting me first once, and at this point I’m tired of it because I almost feel like she isn’t interested, yet every time I ask if shes down to go out again she says y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She never initiates texts but always says yes to dates whenever I ask - we’ve been on 5. I don’t get it? (28m) | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uupml9/she_never_initiates_texts_but_always_says_yes_to/ |
PhishXD | 2021-06-27 17:42:46 | 1,624,815,766 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | o91tyr | true | Other | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o91tyr/im_not_100_sure_how_i_feel_or_how_i_should_feel/ | 1 | So a few things fist: this is my first reddit post ever and is probably going to be quite long, so my apologies if my formatting sucks or anything like that, I'm not 100% if this is NSFW so I'm just going to label it as so, and I can answer any questions on info I failed to include. Backstory: In my second to last seme... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm not 100% sure how I feel or how I should feel | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o91tyr/im_not_100_sure_how_i_feel_or_how_i_should_feel/ |
Odd_Outcome_4320 | 2023-09-26 22:14:54 | 1,695,766,494 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16t1xae | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16t1xae/how_come_i_keep_picking_the_wrong_guys_22f/ | 1 | Decided to turn this account into my dating diaries (see last post if you haven’t already 😅) I can’t tell what im doing wrong, maybe it’s just the fact that im using dating apps? (Hinge) Im trying so hard to figure out a common theme with the guys I pick but I can’t figure it out No one my age EVER approaches me… only... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How come I keep picking the wrong guys? 22F | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16t1xae/how_come_i_keep_picking_the_wrong_guys_22f/ |
o-m-g_embarrassing | 2023-06-29 22:03:14 | 1,688,076,194 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 14mhyjo | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14mhyjo/whats_going_on/ | 1 | I met this guy on eharmony 8 days ago. His first texted to me he seemed to be super enthusiastic. He was awesome to me too. Even though, he looked like my narcissistic ex and a friend that suicide 😕 . How does one manage to land two triggers, ffs. It's been eight days and he has not asked me out or moved it to another... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What's going on? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14mhyjo/whats_going_on/ |
4north1side2 | 2022-08-08 22:21:34 | 1,659,997,294 | null | null | 0 | wjm14x | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wjm14x/when_he_double_texts_you/ | 3 | https://youtu.be/G_WBJ2EfJnc 🤣🤣🤣 How true is this? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When he double texts you | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wjm14x/when_he_double_texts_you/ |
Loud-Development9286 | 2023-04-18 19:05:16 | 1,681,844,716 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12r0hxm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12r0hxm/hinge_date_gone_wrong_help/ | 0 | So, I met the prettiest Girl on Hinge and was impressed I even got her. She reminded me of the girl from "You" her name was Love. Now Back to the story. We went on 3 dates the first 2 dates were great we were kissing and touching and she wanted to come back to my house but I couldn't at the time. Then we went out the n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge date gone wrong help | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12r0hxm/hinge_date_gone_wrong_help/ |
anontarus | 2023-08-10 06:35:02 | 1,691,649,302 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15n4elf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15n4elf/our_23m_23f_first_date_went_stupidly_well/ | 1 | In case you're curious, this somewhat of an update to It's somewhat related, if you're interested. After I made that post, I actually ended up confessing to my fwb today, and surprise surprise, she does not feel the same. Ripping the bandaid hurt, and I wanted to sob, but whatever! I also mentioned in that post that I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Our (23M) (23F) first date went stupidly well | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15n4elf/our_23m_23f_first_date_went_stupidly_well/ |
cli48 | 2019-01-11 21:09:11 | 1,547,240,951 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | aezy39 | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aezy39/texting_behavior_and_his_interest_level/ | 12 | Hello! I am a female approaching 30 very soon and dating someone who is over 30. We matched on dating app and have gone a few dates(5) but no sex yet. He is very respectful and all the dates are Saturday night. However, he texts occasionally which differs from what I feel on the app. I guess initially he just wanted to... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | texting behavior and his interest level | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aezy39/texting_behavior_and_his_interest_level/ |
No-Mistake8081 | 2023-01-16 00:27:03 | 1,673,828,823 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10czw5s | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10czw5s/asking_out_an_old_colleague/ | 2 | Hey, little background. I've just come out of a serious relationship in October. This was my first and I was pretty sure I was in love but there were some serious problems with the relationship too. I'm not sure I'm totally over it, but I'm certainly not in as bad a state as I was last month. I've had a handful of tind... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking out an old colleague. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10czw5s/asking_out_an_old_colleague/ |
dirtbandit101 | 2021-06-17 11:54:34 | 1,623,930,874 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o1vfue | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o1vfue/lied_about_my_confidence_to_this_girl_now_i_have/ | 2 | So I have very bad social anxiety and I’m bad at social interactions, I have to get to know you well to be comfortable around you but I was speaking to this girl from Tinder and she asked me if I’m the type of guy that has a lot of energy because she wants to have fun with me and her friends and I said yeah I am, she s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lied about my confidence to this girl now I have to meet her and her friends | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o1vfue/lied_about_my_confidence_to_this_girl_now_i_have/ |
ThePissedOffRedneck | 2019-10-29 01:16:05 | 1,572,311,765 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | doiqz6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/doiqz6/i_could_use_a_little_help_on_this_one/ | 1 | People of reddit! I ask you for your help. I (22m) matched with a girl (21f) on tinder who is so far out of my league, we aren’t even playin the same game. So I ask, what do you say or do to make yourself more attractive to someone who is much more attractive than you? ETA: the ages of I and the girl in question. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I could use a little help on this one... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/doiqz6/i_could_use_a_little_help_on_this_one/ |
user10085 | 2018-05-08 13:47:29 | 1,525,787,249 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8hwszs | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8hwszs/using_dating_apps_while_traveling/ | 2 | I was out of town over the weekend, about 2.5 hours away in a larger city. I ended up matching with someone who I’m very interested in. She checks all the right boxes: attractive, career, etc. This was on Tinder where, in my experience, women rarely initiate the first message, but she did. I’m having very little succes... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | using dating apps while traveling | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8hwszs/using_dating_apps_while_traveling/ |
thatsthedrugnumber | 2024-06-17 06:03:46 | 1,718,604,226 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dhr57s | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dhr57s/fear_of_being_robbed/ | 3 | Ok so I just hooked up with a girl on a dating app and I’m a little scared to go to sleep because she knows I’m home alone and I’m worried she’s gonna like break in when I’m asleep and rob the place. We don’t have a security system either. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Fear of being robbed? | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dhr57s/fear_of_being_robbed/ |
confusedandunlucky | 2018-07-31 02:19:41 | 1,533,003,581 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 93ah4k | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/93ah4k/almost_met_in_person_now_i_am_totally_confused/ | 2 | So I (F, 27) feel completely lost and I will try to make this short. I could really use some advice of people who don't know me. I've been recently getting back into the dating world. Sometime ago I met a guy by chance online (non dating site stuff). We really hit it off. Talked all the time and rather quickly he plann... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Almost met in person, now I am totally confused. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/93ah4k/almost_met_in_person_now_i_am_totally_confused/ |
MaryAnneDamores | 2023-04-09 07:19:58 | 1,681,024,798 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12gc3s0 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12gc3s0/share_us_your_most_horrible_online_dating/ | 1 | Several questions \-What made it horrible? \-How did you react to the incident? \-What lesson did you learn? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Share us your most horrible online dating experience | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12gc3s0/share_us_your_most_horrible_online_dating/ |
raulz0r | 2021-01-27 10:11:37 | 1,611,742,297 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | l61gwy | true | Question | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l61gwy/why_is_height_so_important_for_women/ | 2 | I am seriously wondering why women are so obsessed with height of potential match on dating apps, I mean I found women of 5 ft 5 in, and they say they will not date anyone below 6ft, is this a consequence of how popular they are on the dating apps so they can afford to filter guys which are below the average height? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is height so important for women? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l61gwy/why_is_height_so_important_for_women/ |
LegendTemple | 2018-10-19 20:21:34 | 1,539,980,494 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9pnkg2 | true | null | 94 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pnkg2/would_you_date_someone_who_is_celibate/ | 10 | Hello Have not posted here before. This is a bit lenhy I am a 33(f) who has been separated and will finalize my divorce after the waiting period. I have not dated in about 8 years, as I was engaged/married during that time. I honesty don’t know when I will be ready to date again, but have discussed with friends and my ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Would you date someone who is celibate? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pnkg2/would_you_date_someone_who_is_celibate/ |
tejassuthar777 | 2020-08-08 07:43:29 | 1,596,872,609 | null | null | 0 | i5vabg | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/i5vabg/anyone_needs_the_innercircle_invite/ | 3 | Hmu if you are looking for invite. I need to invite 1 person to read all messages. Contact me with your name and email, that's the way invite works in app. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone needs The InnerCircle invite? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/i5vabg/anyone_needs_the_innercircle_invite/ |
Aginna | 2020-08-20 10:19:13 | 1,597,918,753 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | id7oxc | true | Question | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/id7oxc/are_dating_apps_how_most_of_us_will_someone/ | 15 | Hey, I am a 24F, and I havent dated anyone in about 3 years, the truth I just havent found someone i’m interested in. I’ve tried dating apps on and off but im tired of getting ghosted and also ghosting others if I get too bored with the conversations. I don’t have social media and honestly so many guys think I am a fak... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are dating apps how most of us will someone? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/id7oxc/are_dating_apps_how_most_of_us_will_someone/ |
dsmcygurl | 2017-06-28 01:13:14 | 1,498,612,394 | null | null | 0 | 6jx9v6 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/6jx9v6/smaller_city_running_into_exes_online/ | 1 | I live in a smaller metro area and I've been very hesitant to join an online dating community. Until today, I thought it was just because it wasn't my thing, but then I had an epiphany: I'm mostly scared that in this smallish dating pool I will inevitably run into THE EX (you all know the one, the one that makes you co... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Smaller city = running into exes online? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/6jx9v6/smaller_city_running_into_exes_online/ |
BlakHammar_5623 | 2022-09-20 14:32:38 | 1,663,684,358 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | xjaf6j | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xjaf6j/the_forbidden_coworker/ | 2 | Im currently a manager at a restaurant until i finish college. A server at the restaurant sometimes takes me home after work bc i need to do some things to my motorcycle. One of my coworkers things she might like me. But his advice isn’t always right. (Also me and her both went together to the bosses house for Christma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The forbidden coworker? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xjaf6j/the_forbidden_coworker/ |
thedayoflavos | 2021-02-12 15:40:46 | 1,613,144,446 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | lidk3k | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lidk3k/npr_on_falling_in_love/ | 175 | Has anybody else listened to on NPR? It's Hinge's "relationship scientist" discussing the pitfalls of modern dating; I especially liked her views on "The Spark" and how it often doesn't correlate with a good relationship at all. I also liked "The Maximizer" and how many perpetually single people are always trying to f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | NPR on falling in love | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lidk3k/npr_on_falling_in_love/ |
timeshifter76 | 2023-08-02 01:18:24 | 1,690,939,104 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15futes | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15futes/anyone_know_how_to_avoid_the_slow_fade_or_getting/ | 1 | Hi, I wanted to know your experiences on this. Especially regarding the matches that seem to be very good and responsive in the beginning. But as time goes on, they either take more days to reply and even just stop responding altogether. Is there any tips you have to avoid being ghosted or have them slowly fade away? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone know how to avoid the slow fade or getting left on read? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15futes/anyone_know_how_to_avoid_the_slow_fade_or_getting/ |
DueMacaron7789 | 2021-10-10 20:29:49 | 1,633,897,789 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | q5g2ij | true | I Need Advice | 102 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q5g2ij/doing_quick_background_checks_on_dates/ | 18 | I have been on a lot of bad dates lately. Some guys seemed weird, I’ve gotten sexually assaulted twice this year on dates in public ! Both shoved their hands down my pants in public after I kissed them. I don’t know how common it is for people to do a background check on someone before a date, but I know nothing about ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Doing quick background checks on dates | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q5g2ij/doing_quick_background_checks_on_dates/ |
Isthmus123 | 2022-12-17 15:41:46 | 1,671,291,706 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | zo8xfc | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zo8xfc/what_kind_of_old_message_gets_your_attention/ | 11 | Hey guys in their 40s who date women! I'm curious what gets your attention these days in those first few messages on the apps. Do y'all like flirty messages right off the bat? Do you like a compliment or does that seem disingenuous? Does a "hi there" ever make you respond? Just trying to guage if there are general pref... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What kind of OLD message gets your attention? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zo8xfc/what_kind_of_old_message_gets_your_attention/ |
rjiedn | 2018-12-12 05:48:15 | 1,544,593,695 | null | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | a5fc55 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a5fc55/exeperience_with_coffee_meets_bagel/ | 0 | I (23F) got the app a while ago with the hope of finding something serious. The app seems cool, but the thing which bothers me is that many of the guys there seem too good to be true. I've seen quite a number of decent-looking or attractive guys with fit bodies who seem to either come from wealthy families or have well... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Exeperience with Coffee meets Bagel | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a5fc55/exeperience_with_coffee_meets_bagel/ |
givemeyourinputthx | 2020-03-09 13:55:29 | 1,583,762,129 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ffv0e6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ffv0e6/i_22m_have_almost_no_dating_experience_and_have_a/ | 1 | So I made a Tinder about a week ago now and matched with this girl (19F) and basically set up a date. Everything seems to line up for this to be really good. She’s in a stem major like me, very much my type physically, and is around my area even though we don’t live close to our university. The problem is the last time... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22M) have almost no dating experience and have a date this Friday | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ffv0e6/i_22m_have_almost_no_dating_experience_and_have_a/ |
throwawaya00208356 | 2024-02-21 21:38:32 | 1,708,551,512 | 0 | null | 0 | 1awo6fq | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1awo6fq/describing_your_education_and_work_title_in_your/ | 1 | I'm wondering why people list their education and work tile in their profile Are they trying to warn people that the only things they care about is where they went to school and what they do for work , and that's their personality? All dating apps have sections to choose where you went to school and choose what your wo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Describing your education and work title in your profile | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1awo6fq/describing_your_education_and_work_title_in_your/ |
throwawayRA_climber | 2020-04-11 02:57:34 | 1,586,573,854 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fyv4e8 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fyv4e8/met_a_fabulous_dude_on_tinder_but_were_quarantined/ | 1 | Hi everyone hope you’re all healthy, happy and thriving as much as possible I’m (24f) recently (2 months) out of a painful 7 year relationship. I decided to download Tinder for the first time a couple weeks ago since we are all quarantined and I figured it’d be fun. Well, pretty soon afterward I met a sweet dude, he’s ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | met a fabulous dude on tinder, but we’re quarantined | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fyv4e8/met_a_fabulous_dude_on_tinder_but_were_quarantined/ |
Old-Telephone-2560 | 2023-09-13 14:03:55 | 1,694,613,835 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 16hnw7l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16hnw7l/is_texting_too_much_before_the_first_date_harming/ | 1 | I (23F) have not had a lot of luck dating. I get matches and dates but they don't go anywhere after that. Now granted, I have only had about 4-5 dates this past year but they always fizzle out after we meet. I think my texting habits might be contributing to that. A lot of guys want to text for a few days nonstop befor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is texting too much before the first date harming my chance at a second date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16hnw7l/is_texting_too_much_before_the_first_date_harming/ |
ElegantBonus | 2021-10-01 23:22:19 | 1,633,130,539 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | pzjm03 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pzjm03/need_some_help/ | 0 | I'm a 14 year old male who is looking for like tinder or something for young adults the reason is because all the females around my area is not my type | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some help | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pzjm03/need_some_help/ |
firestarterkanti | 2022-05-29 16:17:42 | 1,653,841,062 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v0ekf5 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v0ekf5/guy_im_talking_to_said_that_it_seems_like_i_dont/ | 1 | I've been talking to this guy that I met on tinder for a few weeks now. We went on a first date and it went well. We had lunch and walked on a nature trail and held hands and made out a bit. We live an hour away from each other and he said that he usually doesn't drive an hour to meet someone, and that he got out of a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy I'm talking to said that it seems like I don't want to put in any effort and just jump to us being in a relationship | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v0ekf5/guy_im_talking_to_said_that_it_seems_like_i_dont/ |
chroma_sparkles | 2019-06-15 18:59:56 | 1,560,625,196 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | c10stv | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c10stv/everyones_relatives_are_always_sick_andor_dying/ | 6 | Ugh. Just got cancelled on a couple hours before a scheduled date with the old "my [insert relative] is suddenly very ill and I can't make it." This shit is the worst. I was just ghosted by 2 other potentials yesterday. Literally probably have had at least 200 matches between Bumble and Tinder over the past week, and n... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Everyone's relatives are always sick and/or dying | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c10stv/everyones_relatives_are_always_sick_andor_dying/ |
MessedPastry | 2021-08-25 19:16:00 | 1,629,918,960 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pbi79q | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/pbi79q/dating_over_40_ranting/ | 27 | What happens after 40? Can't you just date as if you were 30? As if you met in a bar and just chatted casually? It's getting to serious. All the questions in regards to work, income, plans, insurances.. OLD is complicated and I'm slowly dying inside. I want to have fun, feel the chemistry and then, if feelings and prac... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating over 40 ranting. | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/pbi79q/dating_over_40_ranting/ |
madamecheriexx | 2023-12-25 22:54:54 | 1,703,544,894 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18qt8p6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18qt8p6/should_i_double_text/ | 1 | about two weeks ago I (23f) went on a date with a guy (23m) i matched with on hinge. It was a bit awkward at the start, as first dates usually are but i thought the date went very well. Loads of good chat, laughs, a bit of flirting, and especially loads of hints about seeing eachother again. But, he didn’t kiss me afte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | should i double text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18qt8p6/should_i_double_text/ |
Exciting-Sweet9059 | 2024-05-14 12:41:32 | 1,715,690,492 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1crr69d | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1crr69d/im_not_sure_if_this_means_that_were_over/ | 1 | I made another post earlier but deleted it because i wanted to provide more context for my current situation. In the past, the guys I’ve talked to only want me for sex. Luckily, I never met up with them because I wanted to lose my virginity to someone special who cared about me and who I cared about. About 6 months ago... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m not sure if this means that we’re over. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1crr69d/im_not_sure_if_this_means_that_were_over/ |
jerrywheels | 2020-01-15 17:45:50 | 1,579,110,350 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ep5j7g | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ep5j7g/i_have_a_terrible_track_record_with_men_help_me/ | 2 | I’m going crazy over here. 20f, haven’t had any romance in my life since July (when my boyfriend cheated on me lol love life). Previously, I had a best friend who I fell for after hanging out a lot, but he didn’t want me like that. Even more in the past, I initiated things with a boy who I had always crushed on... he o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have a terrible track record with men. Help me improve | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ep5j7g/i_have_a_terrible_track_record_with_men_help_me/ |
OmegaMale12 | 2018-07-31 23:44:49 | 1,533,080,689 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 93jqsx | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/93jqsx/i_wish_i_had_a_wingman_to_help_me_get_girls/ | 5 | I'm (21M) can't attract females. I don't know what to say (to both girls and boys) and I can't make any friends. I tried all dating apps and I can't match with anyone. Idk if it's I'm facially not attractive to woman or if I'm a potato. The only types of girls that are interested is the one type I can't handle. While I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I wish I had a wingman to help me get girls. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/93jqsx/i_wish_i_had_a_wingman_to_help_me_get_girls/ |
Bigj_710 | 2024-01-28 17:22:40 | 1,706,462,560 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ad7q2i | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ad7q2i/open_marriage/ | 1 | Recently me and my wife started having an open marriage and I'm not a fan of the dating apps/websites what is the best way to get out there and find someone? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Open Marriage | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ad7q2i/open_marriage/ |
[deleted] | 2020-05-24 16:28:40 | 1,590,337,720 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gpslls | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gpslls/who_should_text_first/ | 1 | Hiii! Idk if this counts as relationship advice but this question has been bugging me for ages. Who do you think should text first and why? I am mainly referring to a virtual kind of relationship, such as a match on tinder maybe. So basically I’m speaking about two people who have never met or spoken to each other befo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Who should text first? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gpslls/who_should_text_first/ |
christahhh | 2024-06-07 03:17:19 | 1,717,730,239 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1da0wg3 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1da0wg3/to_like_or_not_like/ | 2 | I spotted my coworker on Hinge and I find him very attractive. I want to him his picture to match with him but I don’t want it to be awkward when we do see each other in person or what would happen. Part of me wants to go for it and like his pic and another part of me is afraid. Some people are saying don’t shit where ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To like or not like? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1da0wg3/to_like_or_not_like/ |
RaysForDays88 | 2022-12-15 19:11:41 | 1,671,131,501 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | zmtayt | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zmtayt/do_guys_like_fancy_first_dates/ | 0 | Hi I’ve been chatting with a guy remotely since he was out of town when we matched. When he gets back, though, I wanted to do a more proper first date, like a high tea. He made a comment about how he really likes tea, so this wouldn’t be too random. It’s not crazy expensive (though I’d pay for everything - it’d be ridi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do guys like fancy first dates? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zmtayt/do_guys_like_fancy_first_dates/ |
Careful_Feedback_168 | 2023-05-18 17:59:59 | 1,684,432,799 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13l5xy3 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13l5xy3/where_are_the_redheads_at/ | 0 | Hello everyone! Can you people please help me out? Unfortunately I do not find any other girls with different colour hair apart from natural red hair attractive. I will not go into detail why I don’t find any other hair colour attractive as it’s too personal and private. I live in the country with the 2nd largest popul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where are the redheads at? | 0 | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13l5xy3/where_are_the_redheads_at/ |
wcmortimer | 2015-08-15 00:33:49 | 1,439,598,829 | 0 | ['online daters'] | 0 | 3h1lz9 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3h1lz9/great_ebook_for_midlife_online_daters_also_a_few/ | 1 | http://goo.gl/sC9yBf | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Great ebook for midlife online daters also a few good laughs | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3h1lz9/great_ebook_for_midlife_online_daters_also_a_few/ |
Sweet_Voice | 2023-07-10 05:55:32 | 1,688,968,532 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14vl9ko | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14vl9ko/need_a_reality_check_if_i_am_being_stupid_or_not/ | 1 | Context: Recently I got rejected by collegue when I asked her out for a date. One thing she mentioned is that she felt a bit ovrrwhelmed and the rest of the story you can find on the posts on my page, if intrested. Btw I did vent quite a bit in one of the post, but thst was just the worst of me and I just needed to get... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need a reality check if I am being stupid or not | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14vl9ko/need_a_reality_check_if_i_am_being_stupid_or_not/ |
Splatmate22 | 2022-07-09 17:05:41 | 1,657,386,341 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vv66i5 | true | Question | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vv66i5/what_can_i_do_that_i_get_tons_of_match_on_dating/ | 0 | i seen a lot of guys not being confident through online dating apps that i have tried. they seem to be has similar. one guy sent two text saying , generic hi, and after hi , he said do you think i am Handsome and i did blocked him and other guys on dating apps that i got could of match or not match. other guys that i s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What can I do that I get tons of match on dating apps but none men seem to be not unconfident? | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vv66i5/what_can_i_do_that_i_get_tons_of_match_on_dating/ |
somedudewithocd5944 | 2024-01-08 22:19:54 | 1,704,752,394 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 191xw10 | true | Question ❓ | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/191xw10/is_it_actually_common_for_people_to_not_end_up/ | 1 | This mainly applies with dating apps but could apply "the old fashioned way too" and I'm not talking about settling either but like for example me and my gf met on Tinder and we hit it off which I'm glad I don't wish we were with other people whats so ever. But I think about how we were talking to other people even aft... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it actually common for people to not end up with their first choice | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/191xw10/is_it_actually_common_for_people_to_not_end_up/ |
KaiBannon | 2021-01-13 17:18:58 | 1,610,558,338 | null | null | 0 | kwl13k | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kwl13k/first_time_help/ | 5 | Hey all, Im about to give a couple apps a go this weekend and was just wondering if anyone could share some basic first timers advice. Im 24 M and haven’t dated for about 5 years and I am VERY distant from social media for my age so im a little nervous. I know not to expect much and Im going to get my friends to take a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | First Time Help | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kwl13k/first_time_help/ |
cherubrock7 | 2022-09-22 19:41:51 | 1,663,875,711 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xlb51f | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xlb51f/being_the_one_to_initiate_everything_with_a_shy/ | 3 | I’ve been talking to a guy for the past 5 days (we met on a dating app, both looking for a serious relationship) but it feels it’s been longer since we chat all the time which is great but he’s not flirty and hasn’t initiated anything. I asked if he’s interested in me romantically just to be sure and he said yes. So th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being the one to initiate everything with a shy guy | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xlb51f/being_the_one_to_initiate_everything_with_a_shy/ |
cybhunter | 2017-02-21 12:54:18 | 1,487,681,658 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 5vbbfy | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating/comments/5vbbfy/in_a_rut_need_a_sounding_board_28_m/ | 1 | (28 m). Hey everyone. For the past four or so years I've been unsuccessful in dating. Predominately I've been using OKC, match, tinder, Bumble, CMB. To date I've only connected with four women (IE actually met in person). It all comes back to the classic "You're a nice guy but..." or as of been stood up (twice within t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | In a rut, need a sounding board (28 m) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5vbbfy/in_a_rut_need_a_sounding_board_28_m/ |
bouchandre | 2020-09-22 18:23:07 | 1,600,798,987 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ixt3d7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ixt3d7/ghosted_after_great_chemistry_need_advice/ | 2 | I 24m matched with this girl 22f about 10 days ago. We hit it off really well and have so much in common. The signs were all there that she enjoyed talking to me, she would write long detailed replied and she even initiated moving to a different platform to talk and even video call. We video called twice for about 3-4h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after great chemistry? Need advice | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ixt3d7/ghosted_after_great_chemistry_need_advice/ |
FoilMasterRace | 2020-05-24 07:07:34 | 1,590,304,054 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gplafk | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gplafk/how_do_i_get_this_right/ | 1 | Alright. Quick overview. Right now, I'm a 20M college student, so I got time, I suppose, but by this point, I haven't even held a girl's hand. Maybe because of me, maybe because I haven't found the right girl, but who knows. I've made 10 attempts to get a girl, all with losses. Oh oh. The worst and best one was when th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I get this right ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gplafk/how_do_i_get_this_right/ |
emperorpalazzo | 2019-05-04 09:31:35 | 1,556,962,295 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bkjg3t | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bkjg3t/when_is_she_my_girlfriend/ | 3 | Okay, let me explain my kinda weird situation, were both 20 btw: I am dating a girl and our situation is a little strange. We met through a dating app but we started talking a lot when she flew 2000km away for an intern ship. She was there for 2 months and we met shortly after she came back (this week). Before we met w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When is she my girlfriend? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bkjg3t/when_is_she_my_girlfriend/ |
Picky_Princess123 | 2023-01-27 16:05:34 | 1,674,835,534 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10mohoa | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10mohoa/do_women_really_need_to_tie_the_knot/ | 37 | I'm 25 and I dont necessarily feel like I'm in the right mind space for marriage. However I'm made to feel like if i dont settle now, I wont find a man ever. With all the social media nonsense, dating apps, I'm exhausted trying to find love I feel clueless and helpless. Loving a suitable dude that my parents find for m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Do women really need to tie the knot? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10mohoa/do_women_really_need_to_tie_the_knot/ |
DawgsWorld | 2020-06-02 00:55:50 | 1,591,059,350 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | gux726 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gux726/do_dating_apps_topload_the_most_attractive_women/ | 2 | I’ve found that with Bumble, Tinder, and now Hinge the first few selections are attractive women, but are quickly followed by obese and unattractive ones. Is this common? Is there something I can do with app settings? Is it my city perhaps? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do dating apps top-load the most attractive women? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gux726/do_dating_apps_topload_the_most_attractive_women/ |
Terrible-Weird-4244 | 2024-04-22 13:10:02 | 1,713,791,402 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1caadck | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1caadck/title_seeking_advice_where_to_meet_north_east/ | 1 | Title: Seeking Advice: Where to Meet North East Asian Men in Bangalore? Hey everyone, I'm a 22-year-old woman from Bangalore currently studying. I've been in a few relationships, but I haven't felt a strong attraction to any of them. Lately, I've found myself very drawn to North East Asian men and genuinely want to dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Title: Seeking Advice: Where to Meet North East Asian Men in Bangalore? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1caadck/title_seeking_advice_where_to_meet_north_east/ |
Aarongoco | 2023-08-01 21:23:40 | 1,690,925,020 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | 15fpa5p | false | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15fpa5p/i_m32_feel_uneasy_about_getting_back_into_old_as/ | 1 | I started using tinder in in 2020, and for a year + or so I went on a lot of dates, like a lot. No struggles getting dates but it went just ok, a lot of 1st dates and some second dates, and the occasional 3rd date. I felt more or less confident and I had no issues getting matches at all. I had pretty good photos, proba... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (M32) feel uneasy about getting back into OLD as I’m feeling more insecure/unattracrive | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15fpa5p/i_m32_feel_uneasy_about_getting_back_into_old_as/ |
kinkystudent1 | 2021-05-22 06:14:34 | 1,621,664,074 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | nic858 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nic858/first_date_in_a_long_time/ | 3 | So, I matched with a girl on Tinder some 2.5 years back and we went on a date. Never went afterwards (not that we didn't want to but never got time off work) but kept in touch with each other on Instagram. Cut short to today (and still reeling fom my heartbreak), I got a text from her saying that she's back in town and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date in a long time | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nic858/first_date_in_a_long_time/ |
CutMonster | 2021-06-21 22:27:02 | 1,624,314,422 | null | null | 0 | o57cgu | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/o57cgu/disliking_picky_eaters/ | 1 | Sometimes on a profile I see them say they dislike picky eaters. Those of you who say this, do you purposely want to filter out those with with legitimate health concerns with food because they are either allergic or sensitive? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Disliking picky eaters | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/o57cgu/disliking_picky_eaters/ |
hotstuffcomingthrgh | 2024-04-11 01:07:42 | 1,712,797,662 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1c125p6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 125 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c125p6/dating_in_your_30s_is_filled_with_single_mothers/ | 110 | This is a small vent but as a single guy, it's so hard to date in your mid 30s. Everyone I match with is a single mom and I don't think this should be held against me but I'm not ready to jump into a situation where I'm a stepdad. I attempted to date a single mom and it just wasn't the right fit. Timelines and schedule... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating in your 30s is filled with single mothers. | 110 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c125p6/dating_in_your_30s_is_filled_with_single_mothers/ |
xSwoop | 2024-08-30 06:04:33 | 1,724,997,873 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f4o4oz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f4o4oz/unsure_of_the_next_steps/ | 1 | I matched with a girl on tinder that I used to know back in highschool about a month ago and we hit it off, exchanged phone numbers right away and talked pretty often for a week or two before going on our first date. We met up for coffee and had a great conversation about relationships and what we’re looking for and it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure of the next steps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f4o4oz/unsure_of_the_next_steps/ |
MQDigital | 2023-02-04 02:16:24 | 1,675,476,984 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof', 'okcupid', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 10t2dql | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10t2dql/i_28m_am_so_frustratedburnt_outdisheartened_right/ | 9 | Dating right now is absolutely taking it out of me right and it has me so hopeless. Quick background. I recently left my small college town where I had a good job after school and moved back home which is a fairly large city in my state. Both of my exes (the most recent relationship ending last March) I met at my previ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (28M) am so frustrated/burnt out/disheartened right now. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10t2dql/i_28m_am_so_frustratedburnt_outdisheartened_right/ |
smilehiya | 2024-05-25 04:41:50 | 1,716,612,110 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1d044j8 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d044j8/the_guy_im_talking_to_told_me_hes_talking_to/ | 1 | I (22F) met this guy (22M) on hinge last month, we stopped talking for a bit because stuff happened and I kind of left him on read. Anyway last week we started talking again (he initiated) and I apologise for being MIA the past week and told him that Im interested in him even though it may not seem like it, he accepted... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The guy I’m talking to told me he’s talking to someone else and idk how to respond. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d044j8/the_guy_im_talking_to_told_me_hes_talking_to/ |
Sudden_Mycologist_15 | 2023-12-26 18:17:55 | 1,703,614,675 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18redy3 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18redy3/confused_on_not_looking_for_anything_serious/ | 1 | Meet her on tinder a little over a month ago and we have been talking daily ever since, she will FaceTime me daily just to talk sometimes for hours at a time. We met a few days after talking doing things like going shopping at the mall or getting coffee we also hooked up at my apartment .She seemed pretty interested in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused on "Not Looking for Anything Serious" | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18redy3/confused_on_not_looking_for_anything_serious/ |
Clean-Philosopher633 | 2023-11-23 13:41:10 | 1,700,746,870 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1821fr6 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1821fr6/date_ghosted_me/ | 1 | So i matched with this girl on Hinge and we talked and exchanged Insta IDs, number and all that. We decided that we’d go out for dinner or a movie this weekend but she ghosted me this week, Hasn’t replied since Monday. Should i text her asking about that plan? Or as a matter of fact should i text her at all? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date ghosted me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1821fr6/date_ghosted_me/ |
CullenLA | 2023-10-25 04:50:51 | 1,698,209,451 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 17fx0bl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17fx0bl/women_just_dont_want_me/ | 1 | So I’m a 27 year old male. Never had a girlfriend, virgin. I have been severely depressed lately over being single lately so I thought I’d try online dating again. Same story as always. I’ll get like 100+ matches in 2 weeks or so. Lots of dates, numbers, compliments, flirting, etc. And every single one either ghosts me... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women just don’t want me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17fx0bl/women_just_dont_want_me/ |
Proudwomanengineer | 2024-08-14 14:28:47 | 1,723,645,727 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1es31kp | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1es31kp/should_i_stop_saying_him/ | 1 | So, a couple of months ago, I (21F) met this guy (27M) on Facebook dating. I thought that he was good looking and he also had a few things in common with me. One of them being that he was in tech and I am studying engineering, so I thought that was really cool. Anyways, we started chatting pretty much instantly and aft... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I Stop Saying Him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1es31kp/should_i_stop_saying_him/ |
Effective_Composer25 | 2024-02-22 22:54:00 | 1,708,642,440 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1axkfke | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1axkfke/honesty/ | 1 | This one is mainly for the guys, but of course it could go both ways. So I met a girl 5 days ago on Tinder. We talked for a few days and she was a virgin before last night. Initially she wanted to be in a relationship and for it to be someone she loved already. I told her im not ready for a relationship but I would sti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | honesty | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1axkfke/honesty/ |
bluebellheart111 | 2022-04-20 17:55:22 | 1,650,477,322 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | u82ccy | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/u82ccy/mental_health_awareness_as_a_descriptor/ | 5 | On Tinder, folks can pick a few keywords about themselves such as camping, dancing, blm, lqbtq+, tacos, movies, reading etc. One of the choices is Mental Health Awareness. What do you think that means? Thanks! | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Mental Health Awareness as a descriptor… | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/u82ccy/mental_health_awareness_as_a_descriptor/ |
traceableAnon | 2021-02-25 14:46:16 | 1,614,264,376 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ls83n7 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ls83n7/i_27m_dated_this_girl_23f_and_now_shes_feeling/ | 2 | This started late last year. We met on Tinder, I got her number shortly after. We spoke for a few weeks, got to know each other, it was great. However, we never met in person because I lived in a different state so we were on and off while texting. I moved to her state 1-2 months after talking, not for her, but because... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (27M) dated this girl (23F) and now she's feeling overwhelmed. Thoughts? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ls83n7/i_27m_dated_this_girl_23f_and_now_shes_feeling/ |
nnamzzz | 2022-12-05 01:51:41 | 1,670,205,101 | null | null | 0 | zct7lh | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zct7lh/what_is_this_age_thing/ | 2 | I’m lost, y’all 😅 What is the explanation for these dating profiles that say “I’m not (listed profile age here), I’m actually (reported actual age here)? Edit: Thanks, guys. I had no idea why people did this, and I was so confused. Thanks for the quick feedback. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What is this “age” thing? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zct7lh/what_is_this_age_thing/ |
BlackWidow1990 | 2020-08-26 00:07:09 | 1,598,400,429 | null | null | 0 | igoa0u | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/igoa0u/so_this_happened/ | 0 | About 2 weeks ago I matched with someone, but I was having horrible WiFi problems so I never answered him because my connection wasn’t working. So a few days later I fixed the problem but I never went back on the app because I honestly completely forgot about the app. Every time I get an alert about someone liking me, ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | So this happened: | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/igoa0u/so_this_happened/ |
Downtown-Present9000 | 2024-01-17 16:53:20 | 1,705,510,400 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1991abu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1991abu/how_do_i_get_better_at_casual_conversation_in_the/ | 2 | Just wanted to say a few things about me which should help you understand my situation better. I'm 23 male. I moved to the UK about 5 years ago. English is not my first language. Since moving to the UK all my attention was focused on getting a degree, so I've done almost 0 socialising for the past 5 years. I wanted to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I get better at casual conversation in the dating context and in general | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1991abu/how_do_i_get_better_at_casual_conversation_in_the/ |
No-Machine5764 | 2024-03-28 09:42:08 | 1,711,618,928 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bprihs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bprihs/so_ive_met_this_girl/ | 118 | And to start things off for whoever decides to read this, i'm usually someone who overthinks a lot of things, it's been better throughout the years, but now when i've fallen in love with this girl my brain is going crazy, and i'm going to explain why. The story until now is. We met through one of the many dating apps, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So i've met this girl... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bprihs/so_ive_met_this_girl/ |
bgfinkel | 2015-11-26 07:44:19 | 1,448,523,859 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3ubm4m | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3ubm4m/do_you_enjoy_dating_how_do_you_make_it_more_fun/ | 11 | Does anybody here genuinely enjoy dating? I've been on 1-3 dates with a LOT (15+, mostly via tinder/okc/CMB) of girls over the past 1.5 years since getting back from college and I try to enjoy it but without fail one of us isn't feeling it for whatever reason (bored, etc.) and the fade-away happens. I find it exhaustin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you enjoy dating? How do you make it more fun? | 11 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3ubm4m/do_you_enjoy_dating_how_do_you_make_it_more_fun/ |
[deleted] | 2014-04-19 01:01:26 | 1,397,869,286 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 23eifk | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/23eifk/33f_eharmony_mail_did_i_screw_up/ | 1 | I joined eHarmony very recently, and I find that maybe every other day I get matched with someone who wants to go through the guided correspondence. I'm very comfortable with this formula because deep down I really want to take things slow, establish a friendship first and not put all my eggs in one basket. At the same... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [33/f] eHarmony mail: Did I screw up? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/23eifk/33f_eharmony_mail_did_i_screw_up/ |
BackgroundDry637 | 2024-02-22 18:12:38 | 1,708,625,558 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1axdaki | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1axdaki/why_is_she_blocking_and_unblocking/ | 1 | So I hooked up with a female on a dating app and so on ? TLDR : I met this girl on this app long story short we hung out one time and slept together but she blocks me on and off and sends me an occasional nude with just not saying anything . Last night she called me then hang up after I said hello Should I contact her ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why is she blocking and unblocking | 1 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1axdaki/why_is_she_blocking_and_unblocking/ |
StatisticianAnnual13 | 2021-08-04 11:32:09 | 1,628,076,729 | null | null | 0 | oxqqg5 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oxqqg5/how_much_does_online_dating_reflect_your/ | 3 | People talk about confidence and self improvement. The simple brutal fact though is that your success on online dating apps can sometimes be a measure of your attractiveness... Or at least give you that impression. If on online dating, you realize that certain populations, races, 'quality' of men and women do not find ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How much does online dating reflect your attractiveness in reality | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oxqqg5/how_much_does_online_dating_reflect_your/ |
-my-name-jeff | 2022-09-25 21:25:18 | 1,664,141,118 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xnzk7x | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xnzk7x/how_do_i_ask_out_a_girl_ive_never_met/ | 3 | Recently I (21M) saw a girl (19F) on my tinder feed that goes to my same college and I followed her on Instagram (she did fb). I would love to get to know her but have no idea if I should just DM her out of the blue or even if I should DM her at all. I’m a fairly liked and alright looking guy so I don’t think I’m shoot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I ask out a girl I’ve never met? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xnzk7x/how_do_i_ask_out_a_girl_ive_never_met/ |
greatpleb | 2023-05-08 16:59:39 | 1,683,565,179 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13bxwlo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13bxwlo/when_do_i_ask_for_her_number/ | 0 | 27M, I have been online dating for awhile, not that succesful... this last week I have had a great match, great vibe and good conversations. Already planned our first date coming sunday... the only problem I have is asking her number or any form of social media. How can I best procceed? Do I ask her number after our da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When do I ask for her number? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13bxwlo/when_do_i_ask_for_her_number/ |
Agentbolt | 2023-02-02 03:31:29 | 1,675,308,689 | null | null | 0 | 10rfhnw | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10rfhnw/folks_its_not_over_when_you_hit_40_im_seeing_a/ | 87 | First, I am simply an anecdote, and there’s no guarantee my current relationship will go the distance. Nothing I’m going to say is gospel. But, I can tell you guys that there is love after 40. I’ve been on all the apps for years, it’s produced a few short relationships but nothing that ever felt powerful or durable. On... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Folks, it’s not over when you hit 40. I’m seeing a lot of people say it’s “too late” to find a partner, but I promise you it’s not. | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10rfhnw/folks_its_not_over_when_you_hit_40_im_seeing_a/ |
[deleted] | 2021-03-18 17:56:34 | 1,616,090,194 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | m7wo1x | true | Giving Advice | 276 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m7wo1x/if_the_majority_of_popular_dating_experts_you/ | 1,000 | I've been diving into online dating culture as a part of a research piece I'm doing, and have been struck by the amount of popular dating experts and life coach guru's who have messy personal lives but are eager to dish out a step by step process of how to find your person and settle down (with a price tag of course). ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If the majority of popular dating experts you watch are single, and are teaching you how to NOT be single... they probably shouldn't be taken too seriously. | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m7wo1x/if_the_majority_of_popular_dating_experts_you/ |
IdyllicLotus | 2023-05-19 08:02:09 | 1,684,483,329 | 0 | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 13loucr | true | Seeking Advice | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13loucr/send_a_message_or_not/ | 18 | I want to start by acknowledging that this could be considered creepy. I’m trying to figure out how to not be I (40F) am brand new to online dating after getting out of a 20 year long marriage. I saw this guy on an app that seems amazing: his values, hobbies, education, career, looks, they’re all what I’m looking for i... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Send a message or not? | 18 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13loucr/send_a_message_or_not/ |
rkuchiki123 | 2024-05-07 13:06:33 | 1,715,087,193 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cmbgyk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cmbgyk/bad_at_texting_vs_not_interested/ | 1 | I've been on 3 dates with this guy from Tinder. From the beginning, he'd often take hours to reply, unless we were making plans. When we switched from Tinder to text, I noticed he had read receipts on and had a habit of reading my texts immediately but then not replying until way later (never more than a day though). H... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bad at texting vs not interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmbgyk/bad_at_texting_vs_not_interested/ |
lalapopii | 2024-05-22 22:36:32 | 1,716,417,392 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cydghw | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cydghw/is_there_a_reason_why_i_only_get_approached_by/ | 2 | I’ve never dated before and am almost 23, but it seems as though the only men that approach me are twice my age or older. I don’t really go out much to be fair, and don’t use dating apps but I’ve still hit on in gas stations, coffee shops, and even the gym by only men much older when I’m alone which I’m flattered but I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a reason why I only get approached by men twice my age? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cydghw/is_there_a_reason_why_i_only_get_approached_by/ |
mov5029 | 2018-03-22 02:29:59 | 1,521,685,799 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 868745 | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/868745/am_i_overthinking/ | 5 | This guy that goes to my gym and I matched on tinder. We finally met up at the bar this past weekend, I showed up 10 mins before the bar closed but we hung out for about another hour before I offered to drive both him and his friend home. We ended up hooking up and he took me out for breakfast the next morning. I’ve be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overthinking? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/868745/am_i_overthinking/ |
TKInstinct | 2023-09-08 23:09:11 | 1,694,214,551 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 16dpdpc | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16dpdpc/how_to_approach_people_who_arent_fortch_coming_on/ | 1 | So a little background on me. I'm 31 and I started trying to date seriously for the first time within the last year. I've been on Bumble for a while and I've gotten some hits but not a lot of talk, more matches that never respond beyond the initial match. I've hit a few people who do talk but they seem really distant a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to approach people who aren't fortch coming on apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16dpdpc/how_to_approach_people_who_arent_fortch_coming_on/ |
PhiladelphiaPhreedom | 2023-10-27 01:16:31 | 1,698,369,391 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17hbza6 | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17hbza6/i_went_on_a_date_that_i_should_have_never_gone_on/ | 1 | I recently decided to fire up the good old dating app. I’ve been single for a very long time, but I’ve been missing intimacy, so I thought, f-it. I just want to find someone f@ble. I matched with this guy, close to my neighborhood, he was cute, so we decided to meet up. I figured since he was polite over text and he di... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I went on a date that I should have never gone on | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17hbza6/i_went_on_a_date_that_i_should_have_never_gone_on/ |
Masalic | 2024-03-04 13:47:38 | 1,709,560,058 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1b6bacx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b6bacx/am_i_right_in_thinking_these_are_my_options/ | 1 | I'll try to make this brief, I had a talk with another group of people in regards to how I should approach dating which basically to do stuff I'm interested in and not go in with the intent of having a fling or a one night stand. Problem. I've gotten so accustomed to my own company, that the only place I can think of t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I right in thinking these are my options? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b6bacx/am_i_right_in_thinking_these_are_my_options/ |
Creative-Citron-8883 | 2023-04-22 21:46:39 | 1,682,199,999 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12vkjo4 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12vkjo4/dating_makes_me_nervous/ | 2 | I've been single for about 4 and a half years now. I've had maybe 2 or 3 short lived flings but not anything I'd describe as a serious relationship. I've been working on myself, my mental health and learning to love myself, and my kids. I've come very far in my journey and am now in a home I own and a decent full time ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating makes me nervous | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12vkjo4/dating_makes_me_nervous/ |
No-Willow9568 | 2024-08-13 15:02:21 | 1,723,561,341 | 0 | null | 0 | 1era5c3 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1era5c3/spent_the_weekend_together_havent_heard_from_him/ | 21 | We’re in our 30s and this is a long distance match. He flew in Friday night to meet me. We spent the entire weekend together and had an amazing time. Both opened up about personal things and seemed to have great chemistry. He got a hotel for the stay. We did not have sex. Before leaving he did invite me up there, and I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Spent the weekend together. Haven’t heard from him since. | 21 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1era5c3/spent_the_weekend_together_havent_heard_from_him/ |
gojo_satarou | 2021-08-21 06:39:33 | 1,629,527,973 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | p8mn3z | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p8mn3z/some_advice_on_dating_ignoring_playing_games/ | 4 | It's for both men and women. Don't have this notion that if you ignore the opposite sex you like and text them very less (intentionally) or playing games, will make them like you more is a false strategy. Moreover after a certain extent, it just turns your crush off badly and they might not wanna talk to you the next t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Some advice on dating: ignoring, playing games, mixed signals, dating multiple people, treating them as an option ain't great. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p8mn3z/some_advice_on_dating_ignoring_playing_games/ |
Fear-Vital | 2022-10-16 20:52:16 | 1,665,953,536 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | y5rkde | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/y5rkde/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ | 2 | I (18M) been fairly lonely, I been working on myself but want to try dating apps. I’m a average looking guy, could hit the gym more but overall I have a great personality. I’m adventurous, loving, in touch with how I feel and all of that. I find people who aren’t looking for what I’m looking and that’s to just settle d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What am I doing wrong? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y5rkde/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ |
Littledickbigballs | 2021-03-01 16:36:32 | 1,614,616,592 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | lvdo0r | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lvdo0r/after_a_4_year_relationship_then_failing_on_the/ | 1 | My dear redditor who's here to help me or seek help in the comments through me, I was dating a woman for 4 years, then it got ugly and she ended things, which I still believe was a good thing for me. After her, I started to focus on myself, then asked this girl out in a book store, something which I've never done befor... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | After a 4 year relationship, then failing on the next one in a week of it which could've been something special if I knew what to do in a relationship, I'm kind of in a slump. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lvdo0r/after_a_4_year_relationship_then_failing_on_the/ |
Own-Background-2598 | 2023-02-09 21:19:08 | 1,675,977,548 | null | ['matched', 'dating sites', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10y6j0z | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/10y6j0z/matched_with_someone_i_spoke_to_before_and_saw_in/ | 7 | Wondering if it would be creepy or okay bringing up that someone I just (re)matched with I very likely saw out in public and they very likely saw me too? He was with a group of friends at my work, and I was sitting across the room working. I have terrible anxiety so I didn't look for eye contact or try to approach. Nei... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | matched with someone I spoke to before and saw in public | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/10y6j0z/matched_with_someone_i_spoke_to_before_and_saw_in/ |
geeamithepostergirl | 2020-05-14 17:21:04 | 1,589,476,864 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | gjqont | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gjqont/too_soon_to_date_again/ | 1 | I (23F) ended things with my ex of three years (26M) during quarantine. As far as breakups go, it was the least dramatic, most amicable, no-BS breakup I’ve ever been in. Long story short, we were more roommates than lovers. The “spark” had been gone for at least a year and a half, and I had been wanting to move back to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too soon to date again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gjqont/too_soon_to_date_again/ |
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