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koromanian | 2019-08-31 12:13:37 | 1,567,253,617 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cxvboa | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cxvboa/guy25m_i22f_really_like_and_seemed_to_have/ | 0 | First time posting here and English isn't my first language so I would really appreciate if you guys understand! 2 months ago I met this guy on Tinder and we clicked almost instantaneously. We had a lot in common and for like 2 weeks we met almost every 2 days. By the end of the second week, we had sex and things were ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy(25M) I(22F) really like and seemed to have something is giving me mixed signals | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cxvboa/guy25m_i22f_really_like_and_seemed_to_have/ |
throw7z7t7p | 2023-01-30 05:37:17 | 1,675,057,037 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10otz2d | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10otz2d/what_is_the_correct_way_to_act_and_text_after_a/ | 1 | I (31M) blew things with a girl (24F) I went on a first date with last week. I really like her and this rejection really hurts. The date went well and the texting before hand was decent but a bit difficult due to the time difference as she was on vacation. Talking to my friends about my latest experience, everyone has ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the correct way to act and text after a match and after a date? I know it's subjective. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10otz2d/what_is_the_correct_way_to_act_and_text_after_a/ |
devwas96 | 2024-09-12 00:40:47 | 1,726,101,647 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1fepv1a | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fepv1a/m28_dating_f27_3_great_dates_so_far_but_havent/ | 0 | So about 3 weeks ago I matched with her o n a dating app. We texted for a few days then i asked to take her ona brunch date. Date was amazing and we shared a kiss at the end. About a week of texting followed until our next date where we went out for dinner and drinks. Another GREAT date and she invited me to stay at he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M(28) dating F(27) 3 great dates so far but haven’t heard from her in 2 days. | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fepv1a/m28_dating_f27_3_great_dates_so_far_but_havent/ |
AdDry7951 | 2024-02-18 21:51:24 | 1,708,293,084 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1au5zdz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1au5zdz/how_do_you_handle_texting_with_a_girl_on_tinder/ | 0 | I (29/M) am using Tinder nowadays a bit more than I used to. I am not complaining, I have dates, and options. But there is a scenario which happens nowadays a bit more than usual that I cannot handle. When I text a girl on Tinder, usually we continue on Instagram. After a few texting, I call them out. There are many ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you handle texting with a girl on Tinder, when you have one week until you two date? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1au5zdz/how_do_you_handle_texting_with_a_girl_on_tinder/ |
justwandering24-7 | 2022-01-19 13:35:07 | 1,642,599,307 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s7q9c0 | true | I Need Advice | 425 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s7q9c0/does_tinder_count_as_cheating_when_youre_in_a/ | 838 | I’m sorry if this has been asked before but I need to find validation. I (21) have recently found out my boyfriend (22) had a tinder account twice. We broke up 5 months ago over something completely unrelated and it lasted a week. Interesting enough, that’s when he decided to activate his old “high school” tinder, and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does tinder count as cheating when you’re in a relationship? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s7q9c0/does_tinder_count_as_cheating_when_youre_in_a/ |
Gail7108 | 2022-10-06 21:35:17 | 1,665,092,117 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | xxh1k4 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/xxh1k4/happy_and_sad_at_same_time/ | 30 | I have a good life. Great family, amazing friends, busy social life etc. Most of the time things are good but it’s those quiet times when I stop and think. All the things I do would be great to share with a partner but that seems elusive. Been on several dating sites, they are hard work and demoralising. I have a lot o... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Happy and sad at same time | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/xxh1k4/happy_and_sad_at_same_time/ |
Evolving922 | 2024-09-23 16:20:53 | 1,727,108,453 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fnohpr | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fnohpr/burned_out/ | 26 | Has anyone else gotten completely burnt out on OLD? I find myself mindlessly scrolling, mostly swiping left. If you have gotten to this point, what are other options to meet people? I am 50 years old and work in a female dominant profession with all women at my location. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Burned out | 26 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fnohpr/burned_out/ |
EmbarrassedHome5914 | 2022-04-17 02:37:16 | 1,650,163,036 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | u5dgof | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u5dgof/what_is_wrong_with_my_approach_when_using_dating/ | 1 | I have tried using a lot of dating apps and match with great looking girls, my friend who somehow manages to go on a date every now and then told me he hasn't been able to match with girls as good looking as I do. I would say I am attractive and my profile looks pretty good as well, the only problem comes from the way ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is wrong with my approach when using dating apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u5dgof/what_is_wrong_with_my_approach_when_using_dating/ |
Legitimate-Freedom22 | 2021-04-30 07:52:49 | 1,619,769,169 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | n1p1wu | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n1p1wu/what_is_a_good_dating_app_thats_most_popular/ | 1 | What specific dating app is the most popular today | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is a good dating app that's most popular | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n1p1wu/what_is_a_good_dating_app_thats_most_popular/ |
WoebegoneWarbler | 2024-08-10 23:39:18 | 1,723,333,158 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ep6o4l | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ep6o4l/scams/ | 16 | How often are people scamming? I just had someone who obviously done this before: matched on Hily. Wanted to talk on the phone. I did. “We can meet but I am leaving for Alabama tomorrow and I don’t have any gas. I won’t let you pick me up. I might work tonight because I need the money, but if you can help me out we can... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Scams | 16 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ep6o4l/scams/ |
Nicolas_Clinton | 2023-01-16 17:15:55 | 1,673,889,355 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10dkil9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10dkil9/are_dating_apps_just_a_dating_requirement_at_this/ | 2 | From what I've heard of the experiences of other guys, I think I do better than average on these dating apps. I'm not raking in likes left and right, but I do okay. Even had a brief relationship last year that started from a match. The thing is... it's just not for me. I'm not gonna crap on these apps. Many of my frien... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are dating apps just a dating requirement at this point? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10dkil9/are_dating_apps_just_a_dating_requirement_at_this/ |
G3ntl3man001 | 2018-12-17 01:45:32 | 1,545,011,132 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | a6v8l4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a6v8l4/tips_on_a_second_date/ | 1 | So I M(27) went on my first date with a lovely girl F(31) from Bumble, we had been talking for a while and had a lot in common so the time came. The first date went amazingly well, we were sat there for literally 6 hours just talking and laughing. Minimal contact really, brushed against each others arms a couple of tim... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips on a second date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a6v8l4/tips_on_a_second_date/ |
Athena66 | 2010-09-23 18:20:54 | 1,285,266,054 | null | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | dhy91 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dhy91/goddamnit_interwebz_im_trying_to_look_cool_and/ | 11 | I really just need a rant. I would post this in /r/relationships but my ex is a redditor (and posted about our break up on here too, yaaaaay). He dumped me nearly 3 weeks ago after nearly 2 years, without much warning. It still stings alot, but every day gets a little easier to deal. I am trying to be his friend and we... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Goddamnit interwebz, I'm trying to look cool and aloof! :( | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dhy91/goddamnit_interwebz_im_trying_to_look_cool_and/ |
Sea_Sky4981 | 2021-02-03 23:23:49 | 1,612,394,629 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | lc1faj | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lc1faj/dating_profiles_specially_plenty_of_fish/ | 2 | I literally had a guy thought my dating profile was fake and asked for my photos and straight up thought I was a model. He thought there is no way that is you and I know your profile is fake . I wish there is a way on plenty of fish to verify on my account that it is me and I’m not catfishing anyone because I’m suppose... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating profiles specially Plenty of fish | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lc1faj/dating_profiles_specially_plenty_of_fish/ |
Somebodyunkown2022 | 2023-10-24 08:25:32 | 1,698,135,932 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17f7wh3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17f7wh3/just_some_ramblings/ | 1 | Im sitting here thinking what all I wanna say and more how to put them in the right order, so here it is. Dating as a man in today's society is rough, I believe that's something we can all agree on. But for some reason unbeknownst to be I find it incredibly difficult, I'm not sure why even though I meet half of the cri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just some ramblings | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17f7wh3/just_some_ramblings/ |
CS_n_golf | 2023-10-16 01:59:56 | 1,697,421,596 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 178v3p3 | true | Success Story 🎉 | 35 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/178v3p3/ladies_take_note/ | 93 | Just matched with a girl on bumble, and her opening line was and I quote “you are so cute! And I’m also a big fan of new girl haha”. Y’all have no idea. After college I’ve been dating some because I really want to find my person and I haven’t had the best go. 2 times I’ve been in months long situationships with emotion... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ladies take note😩 | 93 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178v3p3/ladies_take_note/ |
my2nddirtyaccount | 2024-03-30 21:24:48 | 1,711,833,888 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1brssmf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1brssmf/my_new_dating_rule/ | 1 | No more dating women who are only children. And none that come from divorced parents. Daddy issues and getting your way all the time is a bad recipie for a long lasting relationship In my experience, the women that come with this upbringing, as we all do, look to model what our parents did in their relationship, and if... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | My new dating Rule | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1brssmf/my_new_dating_rule/ |
usual-performance | 2021-10-19 13:48:27 | 1,634,651,307 | null | null | 0 | qbbw3u | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qbbw3u/how_should_i_talk_to_potential_girlfriends_vs/ | 9 | I just had a hookup request on a dating app and the conversation was much more flirty and direct. It's like we're not wasting any time with smalltalk but just getting to the point. This contrasts with my conversations where I'm looking for a relationship. I generally look for something on her profile that interests me ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How should I talk to potential girlfriends vs hookups? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qbbw3u/how_should_i_talk_to_potential_girlfriends_vs/ |
KingGorillaKong | 2024-06-16 14:25:55 | 1,718,547,955 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dh8pxw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dh8pxw/meeting_women_local_to_me/ | 306 | I'm a 34M, getting back out into dating. I live in a rather well populated city, but dating apps are rather... sparse in terms of finding potential dates that live near me. Most of the profiles shown are young woman outside of my age range, partiers (heavy drinking, house parties, bar hopping frequently), or have a var... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting Women Local to Me? | 306 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dh8pxw/meeting_women_local_to_me/ |
FrazettaXI | 2020-02-22 22:17:40 | 1,582,409,860 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f7zur7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f7zur7/how_could_i_propose_a_friends_with_benefits_kind/ | 0 | I met this girl from Tinder, there was never really a romantic spark, but we became good friends. We've gone out some 10 times as friends. I was thinking this is fun, but sex would make it more so. I've never done this. How would you approach it? over text, in person? maybe bring up the theme of sex in general to see i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How could I propose a ''friends with benefits'' kind of thing? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f7zur7/how_could_i_propose_a_friends_with_benefits_kind/ |
Rune_Thane | 2021-04-16 14:50:37 | 1,618,584,637 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ms4rrg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ms4rrg/been_dating_a_friend_for_a_month_ghosted_or/ | 1 | I've been talking to a friend of friends from Tinder, someone I've met several times in the past few years, slept on her sofa a few times, etc. We shared overlapping social circles from living in the same small town for a bit. We've been talking for 3-4 weeks, had a couple dates (online), been texting memes, occasional... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Been dating a friend for a month, ghosted or depressive episode? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ms4rrg/been_dating_a_friend_for_a_month_ghosted_or/ |
[deleted] | 2018-11-10 15:06:01 | 1,541,862,361 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 9vuyky | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9vuyky/i_asked_a_girl_out_on_second_date_she_accepts_i/ | 1 | I met a nice girl on Bumble. We went on first date, it went pretty well. She and I had a lot in common. We talked for around 4 hours. Later that night, I asked her out on next date, which she agreed. The day before our agreed second date, I was feeling not so great about going ahead with it. There's no specific reason ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I asked a girl out on second date. She accepts. I cancelled a day before, as I "was not feeling it." | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9vuyky/i_asked_a_girl_out_on_second_date_she_accepts_i/ |
TheyCameWalking | 2024-04-04 16:52:49 | 1,712,249,569 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bvs822 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bvs822/realizing_that_my_entire_body_count_has_been_self/ | 1 | I don't know if this is the right place to share. I don't really have anyone else to share this with. But the older I get, the more I feel like I've undergone some dark things throughout my sexual history. I don't know if any of it is really quantifiable as sexual abuse, I've always had too much of a problem asserting ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Realizing that my entire body count has been self harm | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bvs822/realizing_that_my_entire_body_count_has_been_self/ |
DatDude2012 | 2014-11-22 03:41:39 | 1,416,627,699 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites', 'pof'] | 0 | 2n1vbw | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/2n1vbw/im_a_guy_and_im_currently_using_pof_as_an_ego/ | 0 | I've had it up for 1 day. I've had close to 40 profile views, and 12 messages sent first from women. I feel sort of bad, because I'm not really using POF to get a date..Honestly I think online dating is weird...but I must admit that it's a nice ego boost when a flood of girls show interest in you. Should I feel bad? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm a guy and I'm currently using POF as an Ego Booster tool like most girls use online dating sites for. Should I feel bad? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2n1vbw/im_a_guy_and_im_currently_using_pof_as_an_ego/ |
Willmatic1028 | 2021-07-27 19:16:53 | 1,627,413,413 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ost9be | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ost9be/32m_inexperienced_lonely_afraid_and_trying_to/ | 48 | Warning this is a quite tl;dr but I'm very appreciative of anyone who reads this. This is my first created topic on reddit and its taken a lot of time and energy and emotional strain to get this out. Before I get into it background about me: 32M. Decent job. Have an advanced degree. Living on my own as of 4 months ago.... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 32M - Inexperienced, Lonely, Afraid and Trying to figure it all out | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ost9be/32m_inexperienced_lonely_afraid_and_trying_to/ |
AdvancedBumblebee4 | 2019-11-07 18:10:20 | 1,573,150,220 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dt1lnz | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dt1lnz/how_to_tactfully_find_out_if_a_friend_is/ | 5 | I've had a crush on a friend for a while. It hasn't gone anywhere because I doubt he's interested in me and also we're co-workers. But he has asked me a couple of times recently whether I'm back on Tinder (context: I recently broke up with my boyfriend). Granted, this was in the context of chatting about other life stu... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to tactfully find out if a friend is interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dt1lnz/how_to_tactfully_find_out_if_a_friend_is/ |
logancake | 2024-05-11 00:28:11 | 1,715,387,291 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1cp4oag | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cp4oag/dating_app_advice/ | 1 | So I was recently convinced by a buddy that I should try online dating, I have a hard time getting out without planning for it so it seemed reasonable, but of course me being inexperienced I gotta wonder what are my chances? Relatively speaking of course. Please and thank you. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app advice? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cp4oag/dating_app_advice/ |
sonovadoyle | 2015-05-02 19:59:52 | 1,430,596,792 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 34niqg | null | null | 22 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/34niqg/guys_from_dating_sites_tracking_me_down_on/ | 9 | This is the second time this has happened, and I'm kinda weirded out by it. So, the first time, a guy I spoke to briefly on OKCupid randomly sent me a friend request on Facebook. I had not invited him to do this, nor had I told him my name. I ignored it. The second time, a guy I'm not even sure I've spoken to at all se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys from dating sites tracking me down on Facebook? | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/34niqg/guys_from_dating_sites_tracking_me_down_on/ |
IlluminationRock | 2017-08-14 16:35:57 | 1,502,728,557 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6tnlnn | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6tnlnn/27m_taking_a_girl_23m_from_tinder_out_for_our/ | 9 | Hey all, Just wanted a little advice. I've done my fair share of online dating in the past, ended up giving up on it for awhile. Figured I'd give dating another go so I downloaded Tinder because it's the easiest one to get started on. Anyway, over this last week I've been talking back and fourth with this one girl in p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27/M, taking a girl (23/M) from Tinder out for our first date tomorrow night | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6tnlnn/27m_taking_a_girl_23m_from_tinder_out_for_our/ |
Glum_Glass_6308 | 2024-02-27 02:07:03 | 1,708,999,623 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b1000l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b1000l/anyone_else_not_struggle_to_get_matches_but/ | 1 | I have no trouble getting matches but it seems like 80% result in no response and the other 20% fizzle out after like 2-4 text. Anyone else deal with this? I hear so many stories about dates coming from apps and everyone always suggests dating apps whenever someone is struggling. How do y’all get meetups from dating ap... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone else not struggle to get matches but majorly struggle to get responses | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1000l/anyone_else_not_struggle_to_get_matches_but/ |
Asleep-Panda2235 | 2022-05-06 19:34:28 | 1,651,865,668 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | ujvcfd | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ujvcfd/i_just_cant_seem_to_get_any_dates_no_matter_how/ | 1 | Not so much asking for dating advice. I can’t even seem to land a date at all. A little about myself: I just the average guy I think. Im currently in college which will soon come to an end for me, assuming all goes well. I don’t have close friends but I have acquaintances. I’m not tall, I’m only 5’6”. I’m 21 years old.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just can’t seem to get any dates no matter how much I try | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ujvcfd/i_just_cant_seem_to_get_any_dates_no_matter_how/ |
arion1123 | 2016-04-08 00:04:18 | 1,460,073,858 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 4dtxbq | null | null | 12 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4dtxbq/my_girlfriends_parents_will_never_approve_of_me/ | 1 | Hello twoxchromosomes, Over the years I’ve been on reddit and gone through many threads, I have come to an understanding that you guys have some of the most genuine and best advice for those who are in serious need of help. I come before you today, broken and depressed by the situation I find myself in. I wasn’t going ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My Girlfriend's Parents will never approve of me | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4dtxbq/my_girlfriends_parents_will_never_approve_of_me/ |
Luci8647 | 2022-04-02 16:20:11 | 1,648,916,411 | null | null | 0 | tumly5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tumly5/tinders_a_bit_different/ | 5 | I decided to get back into online dating after a year of working on myself and notice some changes on tinder. Super likes can’t be used unless you pay $25 to subscribe it, you can’t just buy a pack of 5 or get 1 free super like a day anymore. You don’t get a free boost when you first join. FINALLY, you can only use you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinders a bit different… | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tumly5/tinders_a_bit_different/ |
Beauty2218 | 2024-09-30 20:16:36 | 1,727,727,396 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ft5eh2 | true | null | 110 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ft5eh2/dating_apps/ | 10 | Hello all, Just wanted to ask for opinions please. I’m 54F and recently separated (since May) still living in the same home as my ex (can’t leave until all legal papers are signed). I’m considering getting on some dating apps and wanted to know from you all what the possible potential for a great relationship in these ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Dating apps | 10 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ft5eh2/dating_apps/ |
Erintonsus | 2022-01-02 16:06:05 | 1,641,139,565 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | rucohc | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rucohc/i_dont_have_a_dog_and_i_use_an_ereader_so/ | 0 | I'm getting weary of OLD and I don't know where, outside of what I mentioned, are considered "acceptable" places to meet women as a 31 year old man. I'd go to a brewery or a bar but most of my social circle lives fairly far from me and I'd rather do that with one or two other people with me for moral support. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't have a dog and I use an e-reader so bookstores aren't much of an option. Where are good places to meet women outside of OLD? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rucohc/i_dont_have_a_dog_and_i_use_an_ereader_so/ |
Forward_East_9498 | 2023-08-16 03:06:09 | 1,692,155,169 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15sdqb8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15sdqb8/24m_where_to_look_for_dating/ | 1 | I'm 24 and I work a lot, only have a bit time to spare. The dating apps aren't working as I expected and can never seem to pull my self to going up to someone in the gym. Any advise? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 24M Where to look for dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15sdqb8/24m_where_to_look_for_dating/ |
Adventurous_Lab1516 | 2023-09-04 19:15:57 | 1,693,854,957 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16a13gz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16a13gz/guy_cancels_the_first_date_because_hes_sick_i/ | 2 | Hi, I (29F) have been talking with a guy (28M) on Hinge since the last few weeks. We decided to meet on Saturday but he cancelled a few hours earlier saying he has stomach ache, asking if we can postpone it to Sunday. I said no problem, hope you feel better and lmk if you need anything. Then he thanked me, he said he r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy cancels the first date because he’s sick, I need advice | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16a13gz/guy_cancels_the_first_date_because_hes_sick_i/ |
Foreign-Manner-5076 | 2024-07-24 10:15:22 | 1,721,816,122 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1eaxuuy | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eaxuuy/broken_cell_phone_camera/ | 2 | So I recently joined this dating app; TanTan. I have matched with a few women and started talking to them. Then they ask to move to a messaging service, WhatsApp, signal, google chat. We move over there and start talking, exchanging photos. But when I bring up doing a video call, I get the same excuse, my phone is brok... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Broken cell phone camera | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eaxuuy/broken_cell_phone_camera/ |
passepar2t | 2014-10-30 18:32:20 | 1,414,693,940 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2kt0i9 | null | null | 24 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2kt0i9/if_i_dont_want_to_use_online_dating_services/ | 6 | I've gotten most of my hookups either through the internet or friends of friends. But all my friends and their friends are now married so that's out. Also, I'm tired of the hoops I have to jump through on the internet, so I'd rather just approach women the old fashioned way. But with the latest debate about harassment ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | If I don't want to use online dating services anymore, what's a good venue to hit on women? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2kt0i9/if_i_dont_want_to_use_online_dating_services/ |
natbat2020 | 2021-01-30 05:41:10 | 1,611,985,270 | null | null | 0 | l8ezkw | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/l8ezkw/ive_always_wondered_if_this_was_true/ | 2 | Some guys when messaging on dating apps say text me/snap me and give out their info and say it’s bc they are going to delete the app soon... and usually within a few house to a day their profile disappears.. When a guy says that is he really deleting his profile or is he just unmatching? Just curious | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I’ve always wondered if this was true.. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/l8ezkw/ive_always_wondered_if_this_was_true/ |
notaclevername1188 | 2018-04-04 19:15:20 | 1,522,869,320 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 89sjzh | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/89sjzh/texting_trouble/ | 1 | Hello, so I (23M) matched with this girl on tinder from my high school a few weeks ago. We had a date planned but she had to cancel. Later that week she gave me her number and we texted for for a little over a week before we had the chance to meet up. Went to the zoo and boardwalk. It went well, kissed at the end and a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting trouble | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/89sjzh/texting_trouble/ |
RefrigeratorDry495 | 2021-08-09 23:48:40 | 1,628,552,920 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | p1dj6v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p1dj6v/22m_been_single_for_two_years_but_heres_the_catch/ | 1 | I’m a 22 year old L(G)BT male who’s been single for two years. When on apps such as Tinder, Grindr, Jack’d, OkCupid, Hinge, and others it’s not long for me to get spammed with messages and matches with other guys. The problem is? They’re only interested in sex or just being friends and I’m not interested in anything sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22M been single for two years but here’s the catch that I don’t understand | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p1dj6v/22m_been_single_for_two_years_but_heres_the_catch/ |
the_iconik | 2024-01-07 18:43:39 | 1,704,653,019 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 190z2rr | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/190z2rr/how_do_i_increase_my_female_interaction/ | 1 | I'm 22M. I have zero female interaction (irl). I have chatted with females online, mostly for helping them/sharing memes etc. I am not a loner writing this. I do have lot of male friends and I enjoy time talking to them, but for the last couple of months, I feel the void of female interaction. It's like everyday me and... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I increase my female interaction? | 1 | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/190z2rr/how_do_i_increase_my_female_interaction/ |
bagbagbuy | 2020-04-21 11:06:46 | 1,587,467,206 | null | null | 0 | g5d8nx | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/g5d8nx/dating_latino_a/ | 0 | Hi there, I would like to hear from you guys the experience of online dating with the latino community. I think they tend to be more straightforward than the average girls here in Europe. Do you guys offer any advice and any good website targeting only gringos looking for latinas? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating Latino (a) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/g5d8nx/dating_latino_a/ |
shuflearn | 2021-12-29 15:15:04 | 1,640,790,904 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | rraemf | true | null | 152 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/rraemf/its_time_30m_profile_review_thank_you/ | 186 | EDIT: Thanks again for the feedback, everyone My profile is much improved Thanks in advance for any feedback on my Hinge profile. I'm looking to appeal to women aged 25-35 in the Toronto area. I've been on Hinge for a little while now, and I do get some matches, but, having spent some time on this sub, I'm pretty sure ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | It's time. 30M Profile Review. Thank you. | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/rraemf/its_time_30m_profile_review_thank_you/ |
Ghostgamer934 | 2023-12-29 01:03:14 | 1,703,811,794 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18ta18o | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ta18o/i_need_help/ | 3 | I have been single for 8 years now and I have been trying to find someone but no one is interested, I also have dating apps, bumble, hinge, tinder, farmers only, and I still can’t find anyone not a single person, am I that ugly?? Why is it so hard to find someone?? What am I doing wrong?? I don’t even know what to do a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need help | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ta18o/i_need_help/ |
Specialist-Gur | 2020-09-03 15:01:56 | 1,599,145,316 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | ilv258 | true | Question | 72 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ilv258/i_didnt_realize_online_dating_would_be_so_hard_is/ | 33 | I thought since I’m a girl, what I’ve heard is.. girls get a lot of matches and get a lot of dates. Look, I know it’s Covid.. but I’m so disheartened by how few people want to talk to me and how even fewer ask me out on a date. (I know I could ask them.. and I do when I think there is clear interest.. which is rare) I’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I didn’t realize online dating would be so hard. Is this experience common? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ilv258/i_didnt_realize_online_dating_would_be_so_hard_is/ |
Western-Atmosphere13 | 2023-10-22 08:17:42 | 1,697,962,662 | 0 | null | 0 | 17dohl2 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17dohl2/is_this_weird_behavior/ | 1 | I 25m matched with 20f on bumble. We talked a little on there but it was a slow back and forth. We switched to texting and snap when she apologize for the slow response on the app. We talked for about a week and talked about meeting up but with work and her having school and a full time job there was no specific day se... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this weird behavior? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17dohl2/is_this_weird_behavior/ |
MysticCherryBlossom | 2022-03-18 16:44:06 | 1,647,621,846 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | th5po8 | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/th5po8/rant_why_do_i_keep_dating_cowards/ | 1 | So, I was dumped this week by my boyfriend. I honestly have no idea what day or time it was over since the asshole ghosted me. We have been together for almost 6 months, we had a date planned for this Friday/Saturday, and he texted me on Tuesday wishing me a great day with a little heart emoji, and have not heard from ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Rant: Why do I keep dating cowards?! | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/th5po8/rant_why_do_i_keep_dating_cowards/ |
MFRobots | 2021-06-29 11:32:43 | 1,624,966,363 | null | null | 0 | oa6fbd | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oa6fbd/i_used_to_contact_women_based_on_things_in_common/ | 12 | The recent post of the gentleman going on a lot of first dates that lead to nothing beyond that had me thinking. There was a time, say in the early to mid-2000s...that I closely vetted women based on how much we had in common. If the profile was vague about themselves, I'd even pass on them...or I'd contact them to SEE... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I used to contact women based on things in common, but now... | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oa6fbd/i_used_to_contact_women_based_on_things_in_common/ |
PaleontologistItchy | 2021-09-01 00:02:06 | 1,630,454,526 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating platforms', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | pfi3e8 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pfi3e8/need_advice_on_online_dating/ | 2 | Hey so I used a bunch of different online dating platforms such as tinder,bumble and hinge I do get a decent amount of matches on tinder however they dont tend to end in any kind of conversation. So basically I need tips to get more matches or more so matches that result in at least a conversation. Also some additional... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice on online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pfi3e8/need_advice_on_online_dating/ |
thatsOKbro | 2019-05-28 06:26:45 | 1,559,024,805 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | btwm3g | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/btwm3g/is_it_considered_rude_to_smoke_butts_on_a_date/ | 0 | Just in case I feel the need to light one up, I just want to know I’m not making a dumb decision | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it considered rude to smoke butts on a date even if I said on tinder that I don’t smoke? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/btwm3g/is_it_considered_rude_to_smoke_butts_on_a_date/ |
yinzgirl | 2019-07-16 19:40:52 | 1,563,306,052 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ce1xf2 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ce1xf2/i_35f_just_got_out_of_2_back_to_back/ | 0 | Background I was in two back to back relationships within those 5 years and have two kids (15 m, 10m) I’m not interested in dating right now because I’m so busy with them so I’m just looking into meeting people new people and hanging out nothing serious. My most recent relationship ended about a month ago he (32m) move... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (35f) just got out of 2 back to back relationships and not sure what to do now. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ce1xf2/i_35f_just_got_out_of_2_back_to_back/ |
DEADLYOVERLORD1 | 2024-04-07 05:32:00 | 1,712,467,920 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bxwnr1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxwnr1/dating_in_a_place_with_a_lowish_population/ | 1 | So I'm having a lot of trouble finding a date where I live, and unfortunately one factor that lowers the odds is the low population and general isolation of where I live. For context I live in Tasmania, the island state of Australia with a total population of around 500k, which is mostly people well above my age range,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in a place with a low-ish population. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxwnr1/dating_in_a_place_with_a_lowish_population/ |
BrightLives | 2020-02-05 05:56:51 | 1,580,882,211 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ez4sg0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ez4sg0/what_are_your_opinions_on_online_dating/ | 1 | I [20M] haven't tried online dating due to me not being a fan of chatting with several people while looking for someone to get into a serious relationship to (This might just be me, but I feel like it should be one on one even if we aren't dating yet; like how weird would it be if one person is flirting with several pe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are your opinions on online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ez4sg0/what_are_your_opinions_on_online_dating/ |
waves-360 | 2022-10-18 23:52:43 | 1,666,137,163 | null | null | 0 | y7mxgh | true | null | 90 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y7mxgh/women_do_you_ever_message_mem_first_or_just_wait/ | 13 | There isn't a right or wrong answer. I'm just curious to know and would like to have an open discussion | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women, do you ever message mem first or just wait for men to message you first? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y7mxgh/women_do_you_ever_message_mem_first_or_just_wait/ |
LaymanLegacy | 2021-02-20 20:34:12 | 1,613,853,252 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | log1k6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/log1k6/feel_like_this_person_is_playing_games_am_i_being/ | 1 | So I’ve found myself in a weird situation where I hit it off with this girl I matched with on Hinge. She’s probably a solid 9/10. She had a complete profile for that matter and I’ve matched with other pretty girls in the past so I went with it. She seemed interested in going on a date and I asked her if she knew any go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feel like this person is playing games. Am I being catfished? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/log1k6/feel_like_this_person_is_playing_games_am_i_being/ |
[deleted] | 2014-01-26 07:15:50 | 1,390,720,550 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1w6h3g | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1w6h3g/what_is_the_deal/ | 1 | Let me lay myself out first... the 3 big categories... 21y/o Looks: I am 6' tall, good build (not skinny/not overweight), no deformities or anything. I am a redhead though. Try my hardest to be fashionable...always improving...typically dress in business casual (khakis/jeans/button down/polo). I'm for sure not dressed ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the deal? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1w6h3g/what_is_the_deal/ |
nanobot4_1 | 2018-11-18 08:14:04 | 1,542,528,844 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 9y4ek6 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9y4ek6/advice_on_how_to_get_back_out_there/ | 1 | 25F here, I'm trying to get back in to dating. I've never been in a long term relationship and I'm nervous about playing the field. Any advice? I dont even know where to begin or how to go about it. I'm basically a hot mess. Help me! Any little bit of trivia or advice is helpful. Any dating sites I should seek? Apps? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on how to get back out there. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9y4ek6/advice_on_how_to_get_back_out_there/ |
eaglesnation11 | 2022-07-09 18:52:52 | 1,657,392,772 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vv8eh5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vv8eh5/should_i_pause_my_apps/ | 1 | So I’ve been talking this girl for a month and a half I’m not ready for the exclusivity talk yet and neither is she. But the reason I’m considering pausing is that I’m okay with my options at this point. She is my lead option, I have another girl that’s away until August, but we text every now and then and I’m enjoying... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I pause my apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vv8eh5/should_i_pause_my_apps/ |
No-College6481 | 2023-12-24 04:31:57 | 1,703,392,317 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18pnhep | true | Question ❓ | 54 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18pnhep/women_would_you_delete_your_instagram_if_your_man/ | 1 | I was watching a podcast clip and a woman said she is going to delete her Instagram because it is "basically just another dating app". She said that men end up in her Dm's all the time and she doesn't want her husband to worry about that stuff... I thought it was interesting because even though Instagram isn't marketed... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women, would you delete your Instagram if your man asked you to? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18pnhep/women_would_you_delete_your_instagram_if_your_man/ |
jayphilly610 | 2022-09-07 04:38:26 | 1,662,525,506 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | x7vrt6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x7vrt6/bumble_girl_cancels_date/ | 1 | I met this girl on bumble and we talked for about a week. We were set to meet yesterday for our first date. But, she texted me on Monday saying that she felt sick and needed to reschedule. I let her know it was fine and suggested we meet up at the end of the week. She didn't reply to my text Should I follow up at some ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bumble Girl Cancels Date | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x7vrt6/bumble_girl_cancels_date/ |
iluvborabora | 2021-06-11 15:19:44 | 1,623,424,784 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nxighn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nxighn/would_it_be_weird_to_decline_face_timing_someone/ | 0 | Hello, I've been talking to someone on a dating app for a few weeks and they want to facetime. The thing is I feel very awkward on facetime and I look hideous on a facetime camera. I am not videogenic at all and I would rather meet in person. Is there a way to decline facetime without them thinking I'm a catfish? Shoul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would it be weird to decline face timing someone you are talking to online? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nxighn/would_it_be_weird_to_decline_face_timing_someone/ |
9465throwaway7429 | 2022-01-23 20:43:48 | 1,642,970,628 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | sb3d2r | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sb3d2r/person_who_ghosted_me_returned_from_beyond_the/ | 1 | Hey guys, looking for some advice here. Is a bit wall of text-y so here's a TL;DR: A girl I was seeing for a few dates ghosted me and now returned from beyond the grave to apologize. I don't buy her story (reasons below). I kind of feel indifferent about her as I'm seeing other people now and moved past her, but I don'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Person who ghosted me returned from beyond the grave | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sb3d2r/person_who_ghosted_me_returned_from_beyond_the/ |
[deleted] | 2021-09-15 16:08:03 | 1,631,722,083 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | pot55e | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pot55e/getting_back_in_the_game/ | 5 | To be brief, I was in a relationship for a while. Had a really emotional awful break up. And for about a year I haven't wanted to put myself out there. I am a 30 y/o hetero male. I have a good job, good intentions. I am very outdoorsy and active/fit. I would like to think I am some what attractive. Because it's been so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting back in the game | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pot55e/getting_back_in_the_game/ |
zzzzzz7 | 2023-06-12 23:40:30 | 1,686,613,230 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 14810b9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14810b9/do_the_young_generation_still_enjoy_some_old/ | 1 | i know the title might be confusing or contradictory... so when it comes to hobbies or things that i enjoy i found myself really "old school" (and i am 26 btw). i love classical music, opera, ballet, oil painting and i practise them myself as well, i play the violin, do acrylic painting. and then comes to dating or fin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | do the young generation still enjoy some "old school" hobbies and stuffs ? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14810b9/do_the_young_generation_still_enjoy_some_old/ |
Rooster-Lifter23 | 2023-11-20 09:12:51 | 1,700,471,571 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17zkhuh | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17zkhuh/genuinely_lost_attraction_to_women_my_age/ | 1 | Ive been feeling this awhile whilst im sexually attracted to women, i just cant help but feel the juice is worth the squeeze anymore, its so hard to even get someone to have a conversation with and be attracted to them. i’m a 24 year old man who’s never been in a relationship and yes while i am the common denominator i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Genuinely lost attraction to Women my age. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17zkhuh/genuinely_lost_attraction_to_women_my_age/ |
london4526 | 2020-10-30 17:24:42 | 1,604,078,682 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jl13h8 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/jl13h8/old_how_different_is_it_since_covid_better_or/ | 5 | I am newly single \ filed for divorce the DAY before the COVID shutdown clearly not knowing what was coming down the line, then had to live in the house until May until I finally could get out. With that said I am new to OLD and curious \ how has it changed pre Covid compared to now? Are there more quality profiles? Le... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD how different is it since COVID? Better or Worse? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/jl13h8/old_how_different_is_it_since_covid_better_or/ |
princessL1996 | 2020-06-22 10:07:01 | 1,592,820,421 | null | null | 0 | hdpl5c | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hdpl5c/how_to_cut_things_off_with_other_guys/ | 3 | Im not good at using the dating apps like tinder and stuff. I have found someone I would like to date but don’t know how to politely convey to the other guys ive been casually texting that I won’t be able to talk to them anymore. I just don’t want to upset or offend anyone. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to cut things off with other guys | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hdpl5c/how_to_cut_things_off_with_other_guys/ |
AaronWatersShow | 2017-08-21 03:31:25 | 1,503,286,285 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6v0dxx | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6v0dxx/is_he_too_nice_to_ghost/ | 1 | Met a guy on tinder and went out with him. The following day he asks if I'd be interested in doing something else another time. Now, from the time we matched on tinder, exchanged numbers and texted, I've found he's awful at responding. Like 2-3 texts per day and never really asking anything specific or interesting exce... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he too nice to ghost? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6v0dxx/is_he_too_nice_to_ghost/ |
PicaresquePicture | 2024-03-31 03:05:48 | 1,711,854,348 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1bs08fj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bs08fj/is_this_an_appropriate_age_gap/ | 2 | A bit of an unconventional question. I've never tried 'online dating' before. All of my significant others I met in person. But when I was a teenager until about 21 I would stream a lot of anime on websites and they had this little chatroom that people who visited the webpage would frequent and socialize in. For a time... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this an appropriate age gap? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bs08fj/is_this_an_appropriate_age_gap/ |
Rich-Championship260 | 2023-06-21 13:19:12 | 1,687,353,552 | 0 | null | 0 | 14f7kfz | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14f7kfz/how_often_do_you_meet/ | 8 | I started chatting to a girl back in February and since then we have only met once. Admittedly our schedules don't mesh too well since she's a nurse but I tried to see if we could manage a day a week to start with but no, we have had a couple of cancelled dates and I just wondered if this was something people had been ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How often do you meet? | 8 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14f7kfz/how_often_do_you_meet/ |
pusssinboots | 2023-01-05 20:30:40 | 1,672,950,640 | null | null | 0 | 10499fy | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10499fy/what_do_you_say_when_you_have_asked_him_what_are/ | 3 | I (26F) have been dating this guy (25M) for over the last month and a bit, an extremely bad texter from day 1 but whenever we meet he is a gentleman - he always insists on paying the bill, puts my needs first and does nice gestures but when it comes to texting, his infrequency creates anxiety in me due to my past negat... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do you say when you have asked him “what are you doing this weekend” and he answers with “literally nothing lol what about you?” | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10499fy/what_do_you_say_when_you_have_asked_him_what_are/ |
Angry-Canadian-sorry | 2024-03-23 17:08:48 | 1,711,213,728 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1blx8mu | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1blx8mu/is_it_less_appropriate_to_ask_strangers_for_help/ | 2 | Given my extreme social anxiety and tendency to overanalyze everything to the point of paralysis, I wonder if the proliferation of dating apps and services has made it less acceptable to approach strangers in person. Here are my current thoughts on the matter: Worker Interaction: When someone is at work, especially in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is It Less Appropriate to Ask Strangers for Help in Person with the Proliferation of Dating Apps and Sites? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1blx8mu/is_it_less_appropriate_to_ask_strangers_for_help/ |
Gettmore | 2020-11-03 16:03:15 | 1,604,419,395 | null | ['swipe', 'okcupid'] | 0 | jncwau | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/jncwau/i_am_looking_for_my_husband_and_other_profile/ | 2 | Just swipe through a whole bunch of profiles. I picked up some interesting cliches besides the usual "fluent in sarcasm" and "looking for a partner in crime". "I try everything once". This means to say you are adventurous and open-minded, up to a certain degree. But I read it as you do things to check off the box. Or y... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | "I am looking for my husband" and other profile cliche | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/jncwau/i_am_looking_for_my_husband_and_other_profile/ |
throwaway040702 | 2021-03-29 13:43:28 | 1,617,025,408 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | mfpusk | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mfpusk/i_dont_believe_dating_apps_are_gonna_work_for_me/ | 16 | People keep saying when you stop trying to find love it'll find you. What ends up happening for me though is that every time I meet somebody I really like, they're unavailable for one reason or another. For example, after COVID hit, I lost interest in dating for like over a year, and I started focusing on a career oppo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dont believe dating apps are gonna work for me but I also have terrible luck with meeting people naturally. Idk what to do. | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mfpusk/i_dont_believe_dating_apps_are_gonna_work_for_me/ |
Ika_bunny | 2017-01-23 22:20:48 | 1,485,210,048 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 5ps4xw | null | null | 3 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/5ps4xw/so_i_have_a_boyfriend/ | 0 | I have been single since 2014 less make that 2012 (because the last 2 years of my past relationship hardly count as a relationship) and I have moved a lot. I was fine being single and just having flings here and there but it was beginning to feel a tad empty one day I was bored just checking my dating app and this guy ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | So I have a boyfriend... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/5ps4xw/so_i_have_a_boyfriend/ |
wenprawfessor | 2023-01-25 13:16:36 | 1,674,652,596 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10kye4k | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10kye4k/a_man_27m_back_and_forth_on_me_34f/ | 0 | We met through friend’s parties. I (34F) knew he’s (27M) married when I met him. I didn’t have intentions for married men and wanna rack a family. We (including his wife 30F) always go to the same parties. After meeting a few times, we realized that we share the same life philosophy, common values, career topics and et... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A man (27m) back and forth on me (34f) | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10kye4k/a_man_27m_back_and_forth_on_me_34f/ |
Poopkitty | 2013-05-06 01:42:51 | 1,367,804,571 | 0 | ['online dating', 'plenty of fish', 'match.com', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 1drkv7 | null | null | 12 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1drkv7/have_you_had_any_success_with_online_dating_what/ | 7 | I'm a girl, but I'm married and have been for 15 years. My male BFF is recently divorced after over a decade and trying to get back in the dating game. I'm trying to help him with his profile and such, but he's having no luck. He's using Match.com and has tried OKC and Plenty of fish, I recommended eHarmony (but have n... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Have you had any success with online dating? What do you look for in a profile? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1drkv7/have_you_had_any_success_with_online_dating_what/ |
serious_lady | 2016-06-12 00:15:17 | 1,465,690,517 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4nnzgu | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/4nnzgu/advice_on_declining_the_second_date/ | 5 | Last night I went out with a guy I'd met on Tinder. While he was nice and interesting, he told me almost right away that his short-term plan is to find a girlfriend and only then consider travelling and so on. That's entirely different from my plan as I had just moved to a new country for one year and want to explore a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on declining the second date | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4nnzgu/advice_on_declining_the_second_date/ |
Interview-Realistic | 2024-03-05 19:37:30 | 1,709,667,450 | 0 | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1b7ebkh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b7ebkh/how_to_move_forward/ | 1 | I've been talking with this guy for three weeks and things are going really well. We have been talking every day, we have had three video calls all 1-3 hours long, and we will go on our third in-person date in a few days. We text regularly, and though he is a bit of a slow responder sometimes, he puts in a lot of effor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to move forward? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7ebkh/how_to_move_forward/ |
TaurusHeart | 2023-11-16 23:04:19 | 1,700,175,859 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'OLD', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17x09iu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17x09iu/i_asked_my_friend_out_on_a_date_but_its_next_month/ | 1 | Really sorry about the long backstory first: One day a couple weeks ago, I invited my friend to go to dinner with me. She agreed. Yes I knew this was just us being friends, we used to go to lunch/dinner with just us occasionally. The next day, I see her on an OLD app, one where you can send a message and then "swipe ri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I asked my friend out on a date but its next month? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17x09iu/i_asked_my_friend_out_on_a_date_but_its_next_month/ |
Konalinguess | 2024-08-22 20:46:26 | 1,724,359,586 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eyu43h | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eyu43h/how_effective_is_tinder_platinum_for_those_that/ | 0 | Is it worth the money or are the results essentially the same as not buying the tier membership? Thank you | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How effective is Tinder Platinum for those that are already attractive? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eyu43h/how_effective_is_tinder_platinum_for_those_that/ |
Imsober56 | 2023-01-15 20:30:11 | 1,673,814,611 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10cu0q8 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/10cu0q8/how_do_i_take_my_tinder_match_out_on_a_date_when/ | 1 | Need help | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I take my tinder match out on a date when the conversation is really dry | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/10cu0q8/how_do_i_take_my_tinder_match_out_on_a_date_when/ |
[deleted] | 2011-09-27 14:38:51 | 1,317,134,331 | 0 | ['online dating'] | null | ksyxl | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/ksyxl/some_advice_needed/ | 4 | So I’ve been doing the online dating thing for a few months now. Went out with a couple girls, but things have fizzled out. And I think what is hurting me is my dating history, or lack there of. I’m 28, but haven’t been in a serious relationship since I was 18. When I was out with the last girl and relationship history... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Some advice needed.... | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ksyxl/some_advice_needed/ |
Neogalik | 2019-01-14 04:22:02 | 1,547,439,722 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | afs112 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/afs112/little_help/ | 4 | So I’m a 27 year old white male and I consider myself to be a little on the uglier side (maybe a 4/10 or 3/10). I am on the tall and slim side (6’ and 160 lbs). I have a heart of gold and I give my partner all the love and attention I could give to make up for my shortcomings of not being so attractive. I’m a very anxi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Little Help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/afs112/little_help/ |
otoglomba | 2021-04-28 19:06:11 | 1,619,636,771 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | n0m7ph | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n0m7ph/i_didnt_tell_the_full_truth_but_i_still_think_i/ | 1 | -I (M20) met a girl (F19) a year ago on Tinder, she lives far away and we proceeded as friends, we text all the time, call and everything, we really work as friends and I didn't think about falling for her at all. -A few months ago she started sending stuff like hearts and uwu in messages, being sort of flirty so I res... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I didn't tell the full truth but I still think I did the right thing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n0m7ph/i_didnt_tell_the_full_truth_but_i_still_think_i/ |
Zealousideal_Click11 | 2024-01-19 17:58:53 | 1,705,687,133 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 19ap8rm | true | null | 267 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19ap8rm/i_dated_15_different_girls_in_the_last_4_months_i/ | 79 | Im a white male (25yo) who lives in London. I go to the gym and practice martial arts regularly but by no means I’m extremely lean, nor fat. I’d rate myself a solid 7/10. I work as a software engineer and I have many different hobbies and interests. I’ve been in self improvement for a while and I’m very happy with the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dated 15 different girls in the last 4 months, I think I need to improve my dating strategy/game. | 79 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19ap8rm/i_dated_15_different_girls_in_the_last_4_months_i/ |
byronhunt37 | 2022-01-21 12:52:32 | 1,642,769,552 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | s9a22y | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s9a22y/someone_help/ | 0 | I turned 18 recently, got on a few dating apps. (of course I got insta-banned on tinder as soon as I put in my phone number) Bumble has seemed like the most user friendly, but after a couple days literally nothing. Is my account too boring, did I put the wrong pictures in. If someone would like to PM me and help, it wo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Someone help | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s9a22y/someone_help/ |
Chance-Damage-1313 | 2022-07-25 23:37:35 | 1,658,792,255 | null | null | 0 | w83w5h | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/w83w5h/anyone_else_on_luxy_i_cant_figure_it_out/ | 1 | I’m used to bumble and hinge and can navigate those just fine I’ve never been on Luxy and my profile just got approved. I have 13 likes, but I can’t see who it is or message anybody Is paying for the premium options the only way to use the app? The free option is giving me much and I don’t want to pay. Not very impress... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone else on Luxy? I can’t figure it out! | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/w83w5h/anyone_else_on_luxy_i_cant_figure_it_out/ |
failguy_cg | 2014-06-02 19:37:40 | 1,401,737,860 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 274y5m | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/274y5m/recently_single_facebook_dating_protocol/ | 1 | So I'm recently single, and the basis of the situation is there is a particular person I'm FB friends with, but we dont hang out much. We met through a job we both previously held, and now we dont see each other. We don't talk, but we have some overlapping interests and we do regularly post/comment on each others statu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Recently single - facebook dating protocol? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/274y5m/recently_single_facebook_dating_protocol/ |
annebonnys | 2019-01-01 16:01:50 | 1,546,358,510 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | abj7lc | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/abj7lc/being_in_someones_league/ | 10 | I’m a girl, mid twenties and inexperienced. As a girl on tinder I get easy matches and a fair share of messages. There’s two guys I’ve been talking to lately who are both really hot. I feel like sometimes hot guys on tinder message girls below their leagues if they’re bored and want easy sex. I also think guys are less... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Being in someone’s ‘league’ | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/abj7lc/being_in_someones_league/ |
Bitter_Tie879 | 2022-03-01 16:21:32 | 1,646,151,692 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | t4bouc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t4bouc/i_fooled_around_and_i_fucked_up/ | 3 | Met a girl on Bumble, with no intentions of getting with, texted for a couple of days, said she's coming to meet me. We met up, she's really into me, she had genuine feelings. I took her out to have food, took her around the place, made sure she enjoyed her time here. All because I felt bad for playing around, my frien... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I fooled around and I fucked up | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t4bouc/i_fooled_around_and_i_fucked_up/ |
boilerspartan | 2019-10-12 17:27:33 | 1,570,901,253 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | dgy4i2 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dgy4i2/feedback_on_profile_31m/ | 0 | In my 20s I was pretty successful on Bumble and IRL. However, in the last year I've pretty much hit a brick wall. Bumble has pretty much dried up (maybe 1 match a week) and I will get a few matches a week on Hinge, which usually don't go anywhere :(. I did stop drinking around the same time, which makes suggesting a fi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Feedback on Profile 31m | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dgy4i2/feedback_on_profile_31m/ |
henker220 | 2020-07-05 23:43:15 | 1,593,992,595 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | hlwv1r | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hlwv1r/what_to_do_when_online_dating_is_my_22m_only/ | 5 | Hey, I’m a 22 year old autistic male and needless to say, trying to date IRL has gone horribly for me. When I was in college, I tried walking up and talking to dozens of women and none of them were interested. A few even cussed me out and accused me of harassing them. Because talking to women IRL is frowned upon appare... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to do when online dating is my (22M) only option? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hlwv1r/what_to_do_when_online_dating_is_my_22m_only/ |
Minni_NUGG22 | 2024-04-19 04:06:20 | 1,713,499,580 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c7nncl | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c7nncl/should_i_cheat_f24_m21/ | 1 | Me F (24) and my fiancé M (21) have been together for 3 years. We have a 8 month old daughter together. Back to when she was 2 weeks old. My partner started hanging outside our apartment a lot more now hanging out with the neighbors. Meanwhile I’m inside trying to breastfeed, and tend to our baby and keep the place cle... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I cheat? F24 M21 | 1 | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c7nncl/should_i_cheat_f24_m21/ |
Kaniwai | 2021-04-27 11:45:22 | 1,619,523,922 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mzmlqy | true | Venting | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mzmlqy/cant_get_a_date_nobodys_asking/ | 0 | I live on a island was married 20 plus years I’m a widow now and can’t get a date I am a pretty woman a phenomenal one at that. But it seems nobody ever asks me out. And I believe part of it is my husbands family is so big and he was respected so much. And I wouldn’t date his family members anyway. I would make a joke ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t get a date nobody’s asking! | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mzmlqy/cant_get_a_date_nobodys_asking/ |
sharky2358 | 2024-06-26 12:29:29 | 1,719,404,969 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1doxeqv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1doxeqv/cant_get_her_out_of_my_head/ | 1 | So around 2 months ago I (26m) went on a date with a girl(27f) from tinder. I usually have zero success with dating apps and went into the date expecting nothing but we ended up having a really good vibe. No awkward moments, laughed at each other's jokes etc. After the date seemed over we ended up back at my place and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't get her out of my head | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1doxeqv/cant_get_her_out_of_my_head/ |
euphramjsimpson | 2020-11-13 18:58:37 | 1,605,293,917 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jtltf1 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/jtltf1/where_to_begin_on_old/ | 11 | I am recently divorced after a nearly two-year separation. I was with my ex for 17 years and she and her friends were all very clique-y and not very nice to my friends' spouses so I spent most of my time with her friends. She left me after I followed through with a career change that took me away from the home and is n... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | where to begin on OLD? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/jtltf1/where_to_begin_on_old/ |
dontmindme2340 | 2023-10-17 19:49:53 | 1,697,572,193 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17a6ybv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17a6ybv/why_did_he_match_with_me_on_multiple_dating_apps/ | 1 | Long story short, I went to college with this guy and was good friends with his roommates. I spent many days a week hanging out at their house as a group. I dated one of the guys we were all friends with and ended up not speaking to the group anymore when we broke up. It’s been over 7 years now and I get a like on an a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did he match with me on multiple dating apps just to unmatch me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17a6ybv/why_did_he_match_with_me_on_multiple_dating_apps/ |
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