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Old_Mango_1867 | 2023-08-11 07:54:30 | 1,691,740,470 | 0 | null | 0 | 15o2fp6 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15o2fp6/female_28_i_told_my_crush_so_you_are_single_im/ | 1 | Okay I know I’m overthinking this. I’m 28 (F) he’s around my age. I’m just surprised he responded this way. He has been hard to read up till now. I have actually seen him on dating apps and once I liked his profile ages back. But nothing happened. Then we randomly ended up in an in person group a couple months ago that... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Female (28) I told my crush “so you are single, I’m single, wanna grab a coffee or something sometime?” He said, “I don’t like coffee but I can get on board with meeting up :).” Would you say that’s a good indicator he’s interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15o2fp6/female_28_i_told_my_crush_so_you_are_single_im/ |
strawberry_cream98 | 2022-11-09 02:15:11 | 1,667,960,111 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | yq5rys | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yq5rys/should_i_ask_this_guy_out_for_dinner/ | 0 | we’ve known each other 3 weeks now and met on bumble. i’m 24, he’s 25… we barely spoke last week because he wasn’t feeling mentally okay because of work. but today he reached out to me because he got his new job :) we are seeing each other sunday to see black panther 2. he told me he liked tulips so i wanted to give hi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | should i ask this guy out for dinner?? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yq5rys/should_i_ask_this_guy_out_for_dinner/ |
anonymousqueen820 | 2018-10-24 13:21:56 | 1,540,387,316 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 9qzlq3 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9qzlq3/anyone_else_struggling_to_find_someone_on_the/ | 2 | I’ve only ever had serious relationships as a (28 f) because I always knew I wanted a family and marriage and great career. I’ve taken positions in my career that were extremely difficult and complex and challenged myself because I knew I wanted to be secure enough to take on freelance work and eventually be a stay at ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone else struggling to find someone on the same page? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9qzlq3/anyone_else_struggling_to_find_someone_on_the/ |
TheLastSamurai1040 | 2021-11-09 17:48:07 | 1,636,480,087 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | qq93oj | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qq93oj/why_do_people_play_so_many_games/ | 1 | I've been seeing this girl I met on Hinge for a few Things started out great, and we were intimate. I thought we were headed somewhere. About 2 months in, she started pulling away. She said that she wasn't ready for a relationship, and we should just be friends for now. Also, she said that she could tell that I was sti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do people play so many games? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qq93oj/why_do_people_play_so_many_games/ |
Helios1138 | 2023-04-03 18:46:22 | 1,680,547,582 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 12atouv | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12atouv/36m_never_dated_and_have_no_wingman_i_need_some/ | 4 | So recently I decided that I was done messing with OLD and planned on going to a bar or a club or something and try to meet people the way my ancestors did. The thing is I have no idea what to do once I’m there. Do I just go up to random women and ask them if they want a drink? Do sit alone and wait for something to ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 36m never dated and have no wingman, I need some advice. | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12atouv/36m_never_dated_and_have_no_wingman_i_need_some/ |
manawydan-fab-llyr | 2024-07-14 13:49:13 | 1,720,964,953 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e32r5j | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1e32r5j/dating_apps_for_someone_in_their_40s_with_little/ | 4 | Well, the title just about says it all. I haven't dated all my life, work and all that crap. Never made time. Earlier this year tried with a woman I met, it didn't work out well. It lasted just less than 6 months. Now, I kind of miss having a connection with someone that's more than a friendship. This one taught me the... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating apps for someone in their 40s with little experience? | 4 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e32r5j/dating_apps_for_someone_in_their_40s_with_little/ |
RonaldYeothrowaway | 2021-05-09 09:52:24 | 1,620,553,944 | null | null | 0 | n8b0cg | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n8b0cg/how_long_do_you_guys_stay_on_the_dating_app/ | 2 | How long do you guys stay on the dating app before moving onto WhatsApp? I am talking to a few ladies from overseas and I find it very disappointing because the convo slowly dies out. But what I suggest WhatsApp, I find it strange in unusual ways. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How long do you guys stay on the dating app before moving onto WhatsApp? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n8b0cg/how_long_do_you_guys_stay_on_the_dating_app/ |
HighlySuspect_Me | 2020-09-12 20:15:58 | 1,599,941,758 | null | null | 0 | irjw43 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/irjw43/video_date/ | 2 | I got asked to do a video date and I’ve never had one before? Any advice? What do you do? Just talk over Skype? If you had one what did you do? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Video date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/irjw43/video_date/ |
sidifirjsjdhdh | 2021-02-11 06:29:30 | 1,613,024,970 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | lheq21 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lheq21/is_something_wrong_with_me/ | 6 | Hey I'm a 19M who was in a LTR with a girl for about 7 years until things fell apart and she broke up with me after having dramatically different ideas of what love was. It's been 6 months and I've felt ready to date and get out there , and I've been trying for quite awhile now but I've had no luck whatsoever. I wouldn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is something wrong with me? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lheq21/is_something_wrong_with_me/ |
tightsleeves500 | 2016-06-26 20:17:30 | 1,466,972,250 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4pzhyz | null | null | 24 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4pzhyz/have_dating_apps_like_tinder_raised_the_looks_bar/ | 18 | I first started online dating several years ago. Back then, I had a witty profile and would engage women with witty messages. Pics weren't a dealbreaker. Women would exchange flirtatious texts constantly even before meeting them. Dates were easy to get. There was far less flaking and ghosting. Now, pics are everything.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have Dating Apps like Tinder Raised the Looks Bar for Men? | 18 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4pzhyz/have_dating_apps_like_tinder_raised_the_looks_bar/ |
NRG_Factor | 2019-10-06 17:13:59 | 1,570,382,039 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | de64ia | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/de64ia/dating_apps_suck/ | 6 | So I know bumble and tinder arent the best Probably to best way to get out there is by bar hopping and the like right? Well thats fine I can do that but what am I supposed to do? Trying to figure out how to get a date is super stressful man... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps suck | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/de64ia/dating_apps_suck/ |
VirgohVertigo | 2022-12-21 07:53:48 | 1,671,609,228 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | zre06u | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zre06u/any_tips_for_dating_a_chinese_girl/ | 0 | Hi, I'm a 22 years old french guy living in southern France. I recently started chatting with a very nice Chinese girl who's been living in a city less than 100km away from mine for 2 years (met her via OkCupid). She has showed much interest in meeting me and I would like to know if you guys had any advices on what to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any tips for dating a Chinese girl ? | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zre06u/any_tips_for_dating_a_chinese_girl/ |
Esnidy | 2019-11-27 21:15:47 | 1,574,889,347 | null | null | 0 | e2mya9 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/e2mya9/la_online_dating_scene/ | 3 | Hey I am 29 Caucasian (M) , I would say (without trying to be biased) I am average-above average looking to put conservatively . I am by no means a model or super fit . But I dress well , well groomed , have professional photos taken of me, have a picture of me scuba diving and in Japan to show lifestyle , and average ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | LA online dating scene? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/e2mya9/la_online_dating_scene/ |
jdublin32 | 2019-07-10 01:55:51 | 1,562,723,751 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cback9 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cback9/how_do_i_24f_tell_him_25m_that_i_dont_want_to/ | 1 | So I’ve never done this before and I have a hard time saying things that will hurt people’s feelings. I met this guy on a dating app about a month ago and things were going well until they just aren’t. We’ve hung out a ton in the past month, once for 72 hours straight. I liked him at first, I really did. But now everyt... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I [24F] tell him [25M] that I don’t want to continue talking or being friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cback9/how_do_i_24f_tell_him_25m_that_i_dont_want_to/ |
Key_Remote1 | 2024-05-05 05:56:42 | 1,714,888,602 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ckkev6 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1ckkev6/new_to_online_dating_after_a_ltr_whats_the/ | 1 | 37m here. First time dating using the apps. I’ve met a few really lovely women on the apps and whilst some conversations lead no where I have had some dates. My question is, what’s the expectations and protocols for dating multiple people at this early stage? I’ve met a woman I really like (I’ll call her Kate), and we’... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | New to online dating after a LTR. What’s the protocol for dating multiple people at early on? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1ckkev6/new_to_online_dating_after_a_ltr_whats_the/ |
RB7921 | 2019-07-29 00:31:36 | 1,564,360,296 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | cj3ttk | true | Discussion | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/cj3ttk/new_way_to_old/ | 5 | I downloaded Words with Friends 2 to play with my daughter. I've had a few men start games with me, and I'll play. At least 3 of them have messaged me in the last few days. Is this a flirt zone I didn't know about? 😆 | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | New way to OLD? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/cj3ttk/new_way_to_old/ |
conniggulden55 | 2020-10-19 15:48:47 | 1,603,122,527 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | je44u9 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/je44u9/dating_an_ex_during_covid/ | 2 | My ex and I broke up at the start of this year. I was the dumper because I had too much going on in my life with personal and work issues but thankfully that's all behind me now. I'd like to try get back together with her again now that my head is free from all that clutter. We're on friendly terms and message each oth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating an ex during Covid | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/je44u9/dating_an_ex_during_covid/ |
Time-Pollution7848 | 2023-11-11 09:57:47 | 1,699,696,667 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17srco2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17srco2/should_i_go_for_dating_apps/ | 1 | I'm 27M and couldn't date yet. A few girls approached but I didn't date any. Now I feel alone, friends are busy in their life and I'm all alone at my own. Should I go for dating apps? Not looking for hook ups but a true companionship. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I go for dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17srco2/should_i_go_for_dating_apps/ |
Aggressive-Radish498 | 2023-11-11 02:12:05 | 1,699,668,725 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17skbf9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17skbf9/i_26f_am_so_confused_26m_said_he_loved_me/ | 1 | Not sure if it’s attachment avoidance, dismissive avoided, narc behavior or... has this situation ever happened to them (Long distance) met on dating app/ He told me he loved me after 4 weeks but admitted to not showing empathy?🚩 I was hesitant because it was so fast. We texted everyday, called everyday, morning texts... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (26f) am so confused (26m) said he loved me | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17skbf9/i_26f_am_so_confused_26m_said_he_loved_me/ |
skinnylynnie80 | 2021-06-29 18:13:32 | 1,624,990,412 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | oadwqe | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/oadwqe/central_va_dating_app_recommendations/ | 2 | Hi friends, anyone out there close to Richmond, Va? If so, do you have any insight as to the online dating scene here. 50 female looking for a relationship and fun Thanks | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Central Va Dating App Recommendations | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/oadwqe/central_va_dating_app_recommendations/ |
traveler_chris | 2016-05-04 17:24:50 | 1,462,382,690 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 4hvkgc | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4hvkgc/what_should_i_do_now/ | 0 | So, I'm here for advice and I will try to be brief on the story. I met this guy a month ago, a little bit more. We started talking through one of this dating apps and it was different since the beginning, it all was like a perfect match from each other and a natural, fluent conversation that turned out to be very inter... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do now? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4hvkgc/what_should_i_do_now/ |
vajerk | 2015-03-12 03:07:40 | 1,426,129,660 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 2yr7bg | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/2yr7bg/i_29f_went_on_a_few_dates_with_a_guy_34m_who/ | 3 | We went on 2 dates. Both were fun. But then after the second date I never heard from him again and I didn't try to contact him. A month passed and he asked me out of the blue "what happened to me?" on the online dating site we met. He said he texted me but didn't hear back. Is he full of crap? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [29/f] went on a few dates with a guy [34/m] who disappeared and then reappeared. Is he full of it? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2yr7bg/i_29f_went_on_a_few_dates_with_a_guy_34m_who/ |
Direct-Candidate7804 | 2021-12-30 02:05:49 | 1,640,829,949 | null | null | 0 | rrpio2 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rrpio2/old_2021/ | 0 | What's in y'alls opinion the best dating app here in the end of 2021 ? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | OLD 2021 | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rrpio2/old_2021/ |
17734 | 2021-04-13 19:03:58 | 1,618,340,638 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | mq9497 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mq9497/am_i_bad_at_reading_signals_can_somebody_help_me/ | 1 | I matched with a guy on tinder a few weeks ago. I was originally on tinder for friends but wasn’t against anything else. I was just recovering from a previous relationship. The guy I matched with I knew of already, I knew him around the area so he felt trustworthy. He’s never pulled a move on me or made me feel uncomfo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I bad at reading signals? Can somebody help me out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mq9497/am_i_bad_at_reading_signals_can_somebody_help_me/ |
Prestigious-Ad5072 | 2023-11-14 23:25:03 | 1,700,004,303 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17vfhal | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17vfhal/when_is_the_right_time_to_talk_about_goals/ | 1 | I met an amazing guy that I click really well with. We talked for a couple weeks on a dating app and had our first date last Saturday. He’s coming over tomorrow for dinner. We haven’t been intimate yet but I can see us heading that way soon. However, I want to establish that I’m looking for a relationship and a partner... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When is the right time to talk about goals? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17vfhal/when_is_the_right_time_to_talk_about_goals/ |
Future_Carpenter_962 | 2024-07-13 21:32:11 | 1,720,906,331 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e2ldk3 | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e2ldk3/the_dating_scene_is_fucked/ | 42 | Hey, I’m 20 and new to dating, so I decided to put myself on some dating apps after putting pictures of myself on some Reddit forums and getting a decent amount of good feedback. Surprisingly, I’ve gotten a lot of matches in about 2 weeks and a half, but the problem is that all the women seem to just not care. They mes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The dating scene is fucked! | 42 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2ldk3/the_dating_scene_is_fucked/ |
DismalIce225 | 2024-01-18 12:14:54 | 1,705,580,094 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 199othn | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/199othn/28m_23f_i_think_dating/ | 1 | So that’s pretty much the title. I think this guy and i are dating but his texting style is so garbage. We had a full blown conversation on multiple occasions and i really like speaking to him and having meaningful conversations. We spoke about intentions and stuff and have decided to date. We’ve only met in person thr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28M 23F I think dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199othn/28m_23f_i_think_dating/ |
empty80 | 2019-09-20 13:18:31 | 1,568,985,511 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | d6usn4 | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d6usn4/dating_app_without_pictures_at_first/ | 1 | Title says it. Does anybody know of a dating app which either doesn't require a profile picture or will show my picture only when I explicitly allow somebody to see it? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating app without pictures (at first)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d6usn4/dating_app_without_pictures_at_first/ |
justthatgal | 2019-09-04 16:47:00 | 1,567,615,620 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cznezw | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cznezw/how_to_turn_a_good_guy_down_when_im_just_not/ | 1 | I downloaded a dating app a month after my break up and I thought I was ready, but I just can’t get on board with the whole dating app thing. Dating has been such a chore, that I just want to step away from it for a while. If I were to meet someone in person who I clicked with, that would be different, but dating has m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to turn a good guy down, when I’m just not ready to date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cznezw/how_to_turn_a_good_guy_down_when_im_just_not/ |
SweatyCockroach8212 | 2023-10-16 18:27:11 | 1,697,480,831 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 179cx1u | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/179cx1u/first_date_outcomes/ | 1 | A little background. My wife passed three years ago. About six months after, I started dating a local acquaintance. After the first date, I was just "meh" about it, but she invited me out again and we started dating for a little while. It ended and about a year later, I went on a first date with another local friend. A... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | First Date Outcomes | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/179cx1u/first_date_outcomes/ |
franklinEtempleton | 2017-01-01 08:33:09 | 1,483,259,589 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5lec45 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/5lec45/why_does_getting_ghosted_suck_so_much/ | 3 | I decided to "try out dating" for the first time in about 9 months or so a couple of weeks ago via tinder. I met a girl within about a half hour and she was the first person I matched and we hit it off really well pretty much immediately. We had a lot of the same hobbies etc. We texted for a couple of weeks and really ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | why does getting ghosted suck so much? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5lec45/why_does_getting_ghosted_suck_so_much/ |
zzzzzz7 | 2023-02-04 09:05:41 | 1,675,501,541 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10tas0r | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10tas0r/tinder_experiment_in_sydney/ | 2 | well maybe this is not something ethical but i consider it as a social (?) experiment so here we go... (and this is kinda a throwaway account anyway... so i am a single male in his 20s in Sydney and no luck so far particularly regarding OLDs, no date (well one or two actually), no kiss, no hookup, no relationship. i wo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder experiment in Sydney | null | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10tas0r/tinder_experiment_in_sydney/ |
AMP5288 | 2022-12-30 16:44:47 | 1,672,418,687 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | zz53jt | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zz53jt/why_do_men_with_children_not_disclose_that/ | 0 | I'm newly single so I created an OLD (Online Dating Profile). I came across my ex's profile and I noticed he had two pictures with him and his daughter but in the questionnaire, he didn't check off the box that he has children. So women might assume that he is with a niece or a family member in those pictures. Then, ab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do men with children not disclose that information in their dating profiles? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zz53jt/why_do_men_with_children_not_disclose_that/ |
TrashBrash | 2024-02-17 01:50:42 | 1,708,134,642 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps', 'dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1asq5s4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1asq5s4/dating_for_mild_hikikomoris_with_trauma/ | 5 | So I'm sitting here (26M) wondering how I'm gonna find true love at this age. Yeah, I was alone on Valentine's Day and kinda depressed. Any advice is appreciated. Bold stuff is for the more important info To set the stage I guess, \- I'm a high functioning autistic (aspergers syndrome) ADHD user with a traumatic childh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating for mild hikikomoris with trauma | 4 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1asq5s4/dating_for_mild_hikikomoris_with_trauma/ |
chrobbin | 2024-04-21 17:39:34 | 1,713,721,174 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c9nqc8 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c9nqc8/weirdly_funny_observation_after_a_little_bit_of/ | 4 | Anyone else notice that the people found on apps at this age range are often one extreme or the other when it comes to traveling? Like it’s either A. Profile pic from time in Thailand, bio prompt response mentioning time in Finland, and plans stated to go to Argentina here soon, or B. By all accounts have never left th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Weirdly funny observation after a little bit of time on the major dating apps re: travel (as an M30s) | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c9nqc8/weirdly_funny_observation_after_a_little_bit_of/ |
[deleted] | 2021-10-25 21:44:19 | 1,635,198,259 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | qfr7sv | true | null | 136 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qfr7sv/i_just_deleted_all_my_dating_apps_and_felt_an/ | 1,618 | It's like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. The pressure of having to respond to some girl before she loses interest is gone. The sadness of not getting matches is gone. The loneliness is still there but at least I don't have an app reminding me how utterly alone I am. I think for the foreseeable future I'm ju... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just deleted all my dating apps and felt an instant sense of relief | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qfr7sv/i_just_deleted_all_my_dating_apps_and_felt_an/ |
no202 | 2023-03-29 23:54:20 | 1,680,134,060 | null | null | 0 | 12653m0 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12653m0/is_it_ok_that_i_refuse_to_put_group_pictures_on/ | 12 | I see so many people use them so I feel weird since I don’t. I don’t think it’s fair to put pictures of people online (especially on a dating profile) without their permission. And I hate looking at group photos on other people’s profiles. I have a good mix of selfies and full body shots, but they’re just with me by my... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it ok that I refuse to put group pictures on my profile? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12653m0/is_it_ok_that_i_refuse_to_put_group_pictures_on/ |
DueFinish1333 | 2023-02-11 18:26:41 | 1,676,140,001 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10zu9b6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10zu9b6/no_idea_what_im_doing_over_text/ | 2 | Basically, I feel more comfortable when it comes to in person, I crack jokes try to have a good time etc. But when it comes to trying to have conversations on dating apps and stuff I’m very….boring. Any tips on how I can stand out or just have good conversations? Been described as “You have the controller, but no batte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No idea what I’m doing over text | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10zu9b6/no_idea_what_im_doing_over_text/ |
Moist_Revolution8693 | 2024-07-04 21:25:52 | 1,720,128,352 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dvhru7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dvhru7/facebook_dating_age_filter_shadowbanning/ | 0 | For context im 39/m. Today i logged in to fb dating, with the message "that's all for now" and not being able to swype for matches. I removed all filters and still no possible matches, even tho i am still able to swype on friendship, but not dating. Ok weird no way i swiped on everyone within a 250 mile radius but ok I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | facebook dating age filter shadowbanning? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dvhru7/facebook_dating_age_filter_shadowbanning/ |
MysticAtexx | 2022-01-04 06:41:46 | 1,641,278,506 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rvnyex | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rvnyex/first_tinder_date_got_any_tips/ | 1 | Hey so I’m 18 and tomorrow I’m goin on my first date as an “adult”. Got any tips. Anything to calm the nerves. I’m usually pretty good with etiquette and manners and have a reasonably good dress sense for a guy my age. But to be honest my small talk and awkwardness could use some work. Got any tips how to navigate the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First Tinder date, got any tips | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rvnyex/first_tinder_date_got_any_tips/ |
Current-Ordinary-419 | 2022-01-31 18:18:55 | 1,643,653,135 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | sh80e7 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sh80e7/is_there_a_good_guide_for_making_dating_profiles/ | 3 | 36(M)I haven’t had much luck at all on Tinder/Bumble/okcupid lately. My profile must not be great, but I have no idea how to improve it. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a good guide for making dating profiles? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sh80e7/is_there_a_good_guide_for_making_dating_profiles/ |
hihohihotheylittered | 2015-12-01 17:35:27 | 1,448,991,327 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 3v0tg5 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3v0tg5/i_24_f_hooked_up_with_this_guy_30m_with_what_was/ | 2 | I decided to be spontaneous and do something I'd never done- try a casual thing with an attractive guy who I had no intention of Getting serious with due to his being very sexually and romantically experienced. So I found said guy on a dating app and we met up and fucked for the night (after just meeting) and stayed up... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [24 F] hooked up with this guy [30M] with what was supposed to be a no strings attached thing. How can I keep it so that there are no emotions while continuing this, especially since he doesn't think I like him? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3v0tg5/i_24_f_hooked_up_with_this_guy_30m_with_what_was/ |
eb942 | 2022-05-04 18:00:01 | 1,651,687,201 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | uicj93 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uicj93/struggling_to_meet_new_people_at_uni/ | 2 | I’m a 20M and was in a 2 year relationship up until September last year. That broke down and was naturally quite tough on me. This was my only relationship and it’s the only time I initiated and it worked. We met at school and I only date her. Since the breakup I feel unconfident and don’t know how to initiate anymore.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to meet new people at uni | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uicj93/struggling_to_meet_new_people_at_uni/ |
1NightWolf | 2023-06-14 21:41:11 | 1,686,778,871 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 149k0us | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/149k0us/me33m_why_is_the_male_the_one_that_has_to_be_the/ | 1 | I know it’s not alway the case but I feel like most of the time I’m the one making the initial move and then they respond with whether they’re interested or not. There’s bumble but damn you can’t even see who likes you without paying! It sucks sometimes because I want to do with without being awkward and at the same ti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me[33M] why is the male the one that has to be the one that makes the first move? There could be women interested that I wouldn’t have any idea 🤷♂️ | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/149k0us/me33m_why_is_the_male_the_one_that_has_to_be_the/ |
BlueRibbon998 | 2019-06-13 01:20:49 | 1,560,388,849 | null | null | 0 | bzzivb | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bzzivb/whats_your_reason_for_ghosting/ | 1 | Ghosting has become a very big norm in online dating which in turn has become one of the biggest complaints about online dating. Let's lay it all on the line. To all current and former online daters, what were your reasons for ghosting a match? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's Your Reason For Ghosting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bzzivb/whats_your_reason_for_ghosting/ |
EbbPotential2356 | 2024-03-04 21:24:58 | 1,709,587,498 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b6mnm5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b6mnm5/ive_let_a_guy_lead_me_on_for_an_entire_year_and_i/ | 11 | I let myself fall in love with a 28-year old alcoholic player who promised me the world in the beginning and treated me great, then abruptly did a 180 turn after one month and said he wanted to experiment before settling down, but he would want to be with me one day. I was naive and thought if I kept seeing him (just f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I've let a guy lead me on for an entire year and I don't now how to move on | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b6mnm5/ive_let_a_guy_lead_me_on_for_an_entire_year_and_i/ |
cremetown | 2017-03-06 20:41:40 | 1,488,832,900 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 5xvrcb | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5xvrcb/as_the_internet_mirrors_real_life_more_and_more/ | 2 | I've been using okcupid off and on since maybe 2009. Started off pretty slow, but around 12'-14' after moving out of home to a bigger city, I had a lot more success. I even had, not only attractive, girls(I'm a dude), but girls that were into the things I liked sending me the first message. I had my first big committed... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | As the internet mirrors real life more and more, who are dating sites for? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5xvrcb/as_the_internet_mirrors_real_life_more_and_more/ |
pizzalovingking | 2021-10-25 16:10:15 | 1,635,178,215 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | qfk4me | true | null | 203 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/qfk4me/should_i_do_anything_different_with_what_appears/ | 225 | So I (M37) matched with a woman on hinge (F33) about 1.5-2 weeks of really lenhy messages back and forth, a few times a day for each of us. Seemed very pleasant, had lots in common. I had asked for a date after a week but had to wait until the next weekend. For the date I suggested a few ideas but she preferred to just... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Should I do anything different with what appears to be a soft let down? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qfk4me/should_i_do_anything_different_with_what_appears/ |
TechNeck78 | 2023-05-25 15:50:37 | 1,685,029,837 | 0 | null | 0 | 13rlbes | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13rlbes/man_or_woman_swipe_left_without_below_shoulder/ | 0 | Do you find it deceiving if someone posts pictures with only the neck or shoulders up? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Man or woman: swipe left without below shoulder pics? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13rlbes/man_or_woman_swipe_left_without_below_shoulder/ |
Tunka | 2018-06-05 00:42:31 | 1,528,159,351 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 8omiu8 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8omiu8/cant_get_tall_women_to_reply_to_messages/ | 2 | Some background first: I'm 31M and a touch under 6'-3", in decent shape (a bit on the skinny side, but not much); I have a decently active lifestyle and have pics of me doing a few different things, like playing basketball, hiking, and horseback riding. Judging by my success on OLD though, I'm not in the top 15% of men... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can't get tall women to reply to messages | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8omiu8/cant_get_tall_women_to_reply_to_messages/ |
Faulky1x | 2024-08-11 23:08:04 | 1,723,417,684 | 0 | null | 0 | 1epyaah | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1epyaah/blocked_and_confused_about_it/ | 1 | So for reference, I met this girl on an app and after exchanging numbers we switched over to Instagram. We video called, called and shared pictures. It was all going well and this was non stop for a week. I'm quite a jokey person as is my family, so when I speak to people I dont really know I try to make sure I dont sa... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Blocked and Confused about it | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1epyaah/blocked_and_confused_about_it/ |
BiGuyShi24 | 2024-07-06 05:51:02 | 1,720,245,062 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1dwinfe | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dwinfe/bisexual_virginish/ | 1 | So, I (32M), am bisexual, polyamorous, and have one partner to whom I am legally married (30M). I’m just kinda frustrated that no matter what I do I can’t seem to find female partners. I know I’m a walking red flag but it’s really starting to take a toll on me mentally that I’ve never had sex with a woman. I’m consider... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bisexual Virgin(ish) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dwinfe/bisexual_virginish/ |
crushlibs | 2022-06-14 10:58:15 | 1,655,204,295 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vc0v8u | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vc0v8u/help_with_confidence_after_dating_a_guy_who_did_a/ | 1 | Hey all I'm 33 \[F\] and have been single since December, I started getting back onto dating apps in April and I did actually match with someone who I spoke to for a month, then we met around a month ago and it was great, great chemistry - connection/similar likes and interests and genuinely into each other. He also in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help with confidence after dating a guy who did a complete 180 on me | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vc0v8u/help_with_confidence_after_dating_a_guy_who_did_a/ |
isleepinahammmock | 2019-06-11 23:57:19 | 1,560,297,439 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | bzk2l8 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bzk2l8/should_i_get_a_tinderbumbleother_dating_app/ | 2 | I'm currently a student at a university in NYC, and I'll be a senior this upcoming year. After I graduate, I'm outta here. Gonna go live in Vietnam/Thailand/somewhere else and travel around for a while. Because of this, I'm not looking for a super serious relationship, but I'm also not looking to just bang. I'm working... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I get a tinder/bumble/other dating app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bzk2l8/should_i_get_a_tinderbumbleother_dating_app/ |
xianquo | 2018-04-17 10:24:18 | 1,523,960,658 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 8cvhn9 | false | null | 72 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8cvhn9/does_anyone_else_get_a_little_tired_of_the_basic/ | 19 | So here's the thing. I've had four first dates recently, all of which seemed to go reasonably well. All of whom, at the end, said they'd like to see me again. All of whom then made further plans with me. All of whom then cancelled at short notice. And when I say short notice, I'm talking an hour or so before we're due ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone else get a little tired of the basic lack of politeness in OLD? | 19 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8cvhn9/does_anyone_else_get_a_little_tired_of_the_basic/ |
Embarrassed-Layer-66 | 2024-04-15 22:27:08 | 1,713,220,028 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1c4zlvq | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c4zlvq/i_have_a_crush_on_a_guy_who_i_know_is_bad_for_me/ | 1 | I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for a few years. We first met on bumble and we hit it off, but I was talking to someone else who’s now my ex and at the time our connection was a lot more stronger. That relationship lasted about 2 years, then the crush and I started talking again briefly until he told me that he co... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have a crush on a guy who I know is bad for me | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c4zlvq/i_have_a_crush_on_a_guy_who_i_know_is_bad_for_me/ |
Cyberjandry | 2023-06-21 09:59:19 | 1,687,341,559 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14f3eoz | true | Seeking Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14f3eoz/my_old_in_london/ | 2 | Hi all, F42 in London UK, have been dating for a year a men 48 from Hinge and finally discovered he was a pathological liar. He lied for everything, even of not being on social media while he was always on Instagram. He basically said that he lives in France and come to London every week for work, that he’s looking for... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | My OLD in London | 2 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14f3eoz/my_old_in_london/ |
MistyToYourAsh | 2024-06-15 03:18:48 | 1,718,421,528 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1dg8nmm | true | Seeking Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dg8nmm/something_feels_off_with_the_guy_that_i_matched/ | 1 | I decided to try out Bumble and matched the a guy a few days ago. He was really talkative in the beginning which was great because that is a quality that I’m looking for, but things are starting to feel off and I’m unsure as to why. The first thing that caught my attention is that during our first phone conversation he... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Something feels off with the guy that I matched with, but I’m worried that I just might be overthinking it and need some advice. | 1 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dg8nmm/something_feels_off_with_the_guy_that_i_matched/ |
ChemistryForFun | 2023-09-25 03:34:55 | 1,695,612,895 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | 16rhdu9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16rhdu9/what_should_i_be_doing_here_struggling_to_tell_if/ | 1 | So I matched with this woman on a dating app a week ago and we’ve talked every day since. However, her messages are often VERY short, there can be a few hours between responses, etc. and it sometimes doesn’t seem like she’s interested. I honestly questioned whether or not she accidentally swiped right on me and felt to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I be doing here? Struggling to tell if a woman [34F] is interested in me [32M]. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16rhdu9/what_should_i_be_doing_here_struggling_to_tell_if/ |
trepanning83 | 2018-10-12 00:02:32 | 1,539,302,552 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'plentyoffish'] | 0 | 9nfceb | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9nfceb/looking_for_advice_where_have_you_found_success/ | 2 | Thanks for checking out my post. Without going too far into my backstory, I was in a long term relationship from my mid twenties until my early 30's. I've since waded back into the dating pool, but have had very little luck with the online dating scene. Which from my perspective (I could be wrong), is where the majorit... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Looking for advice. Where have you found success (online dating)?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9nfceb/looking_for_advice_where_have_you_found_success/ |
throwawaydates69 | 2024-07-16 20:48:13 | 1,721,162,893 | 0 | null | 0 | 1e4zgeb | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1e4zgeb/should_i_include_a_group_photo_pic/ | 1 | So what are the consensus of group photos? Is it recommended that i include atleast one or can i just not include any? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should i include a group photo pic | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e4zgeb/should_i_include_a_group_photo_pic/ |
DaitoRB | 2024-01-22 11:42:57 | 1,705,923,777 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 19ctrk3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19ctrk3/busy_to_meet/ | 1 | She is busy to meet up, what to do? I (32M) met a girl (30f) in hinge we met 1 time and we kissed. She was married 9 years and I was her first “first date”. What would you answer to this message after “wishing her all the best” and after 2 stand ups? First was because of her period, second because semi ghosting. “Hey, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Busy to meet | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19ctrk3/busy_to_meet/ |
anom645 | 2023-09-09 09:45:43 | 1,694,252,743 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16e1o2y | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16e1o2y/guy_didnt_text_me_for_some_time/ | 1 | I matched with this guy on Tinder. We texted each other for four days and then two days ago I ended our four day convo by saying I’m going to bed. He hasn’t texted me since. Should I wait for him to text me? Does it mean he isn’t interested anymore? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy didn’t text me for some time | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16e1o2y/guy_didnt_text_me_for_some_time/ |
Ms_LovelyAnne | 2024-02-21 21:02:49 | 1,708,549,369 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1awna7x | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1awna7x/is_it_normal_for_a_27_yrs_old_lady_to_be_a_nbsb/ | 1 | When I was in my teenage years I’m okay without suitors or relationship, I don’t mind at all. When I’m in my early 20’s, I am actually longing to have someone so I tried exploring the dating apps, name it, I’ve tried almost all dating apps already but still it didn’t work out. Although I met a lot of guys however we al... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal for a 27 yrs old lady to be a NBSB (no boyfriend since birth)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1awna7x/is_it_normal_for_a_27_yrs_old_lady_to_be_a_nbsb/ |
MRSNLT | 2022-11-23 18:06:36 | 1,669,226,796 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | z2w1ms | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z2w1ms/i_got_cancelled_on_twice/ | 1 | So I was gonna meet a tinder date on Friday 18 Nov. They pulled out cause they were too sleep deprived and rescheduled for Wednesday 23 Nov. I got to where we were supposed to be meeting and they weren’t there. Then I got a message from them saying that they’d fallen asleep and only just woken up and had to cancel agai... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got cancelled on. Twice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z2w1ms/i_got_cancelled_on_twice/ |
Eievu | 2019-05-07 00:24:31 | 1,557,188,671 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bljwp5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bljwp5/need_some_help_with_my_tinder_bio/ | 1 | I Had the tinder app for months. I didn't really use it since I was still thinking about my ex a lot. Now I'm move on and trying to figure out a good bio for my profile. I pretty much put the things i like, one characteristic, and tranfering to another college someday. All I can think of is this: A quiet guy that love ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some help with my tinder bio | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bljwp5/need_some_help_with_my_tinder_bio/ |
Kindly-Path-5897 | 2023-05-24 06:11:00 | 1,684,908,660 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 13qd83i | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13qd83i/thinking_about_expanding_my_distance_on_dating/ | 1 | As an alternative and autistic women is very hard to find someone with that “like me”factor. The options within like a 30 mile radius aren’t doing it for me. Like on Facebook dating’s lucky pick, I see guys that are 100% what I’m looking for and see that they live in Massachusetts or Canada (I live on li ny). It’s like... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Thinking about expanding my distance on dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13qd83i/thinking_about_expanding_my_distance_on_dating/ |
Zafjaf | 2023-04-06 04:34:34 | 1,680,755,674 | 0 | null | 0 | 12d94fp | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12d94fp/dating_and_graduate_school/ | 0 | I applied to attend graduate school about 4 hours from where I live now. Would dating be pointless knowing I'm planning to move for the program? I don't want to waste anyone's time. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating and graduate school | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12d94fp/dating_and_graduate_school/ |
Responsible-Fox1146 | 2021-01-13 14:53:24 | 1,610,549,604 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | kwhxmi | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/kwhxmi/not_sure_what_to_think/ | 8 | Met someone really nice online early last week. So much in common, so many shared interests, and just good conversations. He's a little reserved, but former military and does military-style work now, so I kind of expect that. He mentioned maybe meeting face-to-face last weekend, maybe meeting for an afternoon in the mo... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Not sure what to think.... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/kwhxmi/not_sure_what_to_think/ |
woah_itsan_alien | 2021-03-17 02:07:42 | 1,615,946,862 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | m6pk6y | true | Venting | 82 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m6pk6y/is_it_just_me_or_is_every_other_profile_on_tinder/ | 52 | Seriously, beforehand I would see couples here and there and it was a mild annoyance, but lately, its almost every other swipe No, you are not "happily married" if you're looking for a third. No, you're not "just looking for friends" if you're on tinder. And no, I don't want to be your third Im still here trying to fin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it just me, or is every other profile on tinder a couple?? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m6pk6y/is_it_just_me_or_is_every_other_profile_on_tinder/ |
throwaway43565467 | 2023-07-30 14:51:50 | 1,690,728,710 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15dnhvj | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15dnhvj/i_am_attractive_but_unaware/ | 1 | I’m 30M, always been a hermit, a nerd whose hobby is playing videogames, I also work in IT, so it’s pretty male-dominated. Throughout my life I thought I was ugly and unlovable, also been pretty socially awkward, like I couldn’t hold a conversation with a girl and my palms were sweating until I was like 19. I’ve had gi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am attractive but unaware | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15dnhvj/i_am_attractive_but_unaware/ |
throwaway0045511 | 2021-05-16 23:33:08 | 1,621,207,988 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | ne11ee | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ne11ee/would_this_be_creepy_or_stalkerish/ | 0 | There's this guy who I was really interested in on Tinder because he had a lot of the same niche interests that I did. He was a rare combination of PC gamer + roller coaster enthusiast which very strangely aligns with my tastes completely lol. But after I super liked him I didn't get any response back for a few days...... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would this be creepy or stalker-ish? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ne11ee/would_this_be_creepy_or_stalkerish/ |
iamcag07 | 2020-10-06 03:31:16 | 1,601,955,076 | null | null | 0 | j5xzpf | true | null | 221 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j5xzpf/match_35m_got_mad_at_me_31f_for_calling_out_a_lie/ | 74 | TIA for reading tl;dr: Guy said he was moderate on his profile. I matched with him based on first impression from his profile. The more I chatted with him, the more something felt off and like “a ruse.” Finally asked him if he was Republican, and he said yes and that he lied on his profile to get more matches. Then got... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match (35M) got mad at me (31F) for calling out a lie in his political beliefs and then not wanting to continue talking with him. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j5xzpf/match_35m_got_mad_at_me_31f_for_calling_out_a_lie/ |
da_test1 | 2021-02-03 16:41:43 | 1,612,370,503 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | lbrpp5 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lbrpp5/my_first_real_hookup/ | 1 | Hello everyone, I just had my first hookup a few days ago and I met this girl through hinge and she told me from the get go that she’s only down for casual hookups and told me that she was still keeping her options open. It’s weird because at one point she was down to hookup more than once but then told me again that s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My first real hookup | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lbrpp5/my_first_real_hookup/ |
Far-Phrase-824 | 2022-02-22 07:38:04 | 1,645,515,484 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | syhp31 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/syhp31/first_date_suggestions/ | 1 | First date with someone I’ve only been talking to for about week and half now from tinder. No red flags, follow each other on Instagram and Snapchat… pretty open to answers and questions. He is suggesting we go for lunch and then watch movies back at my place. Is this too soon? Or should I just do lunch and see where i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date suggestions | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/syhp31/first_date_suggestions/ |
LotsovLizards | 2023-12-02 20:25:22 | 1,701,548,722 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 189cank | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/189cank/asking_out_customer/ | 1 | I (27M) work at a local small business. A couple weeks back, a girl came in needing help finding something. I helped her, we chatted for a minute, and she left. At first I didn’t think much of it but she had a really bubbly and cheery disposition that I thought was nice. A few days later she came back in wanting to exc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Asking out customer? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/189cank/asking_out_customer/ |
voodoovegan2000 | 2021-02-04 23:32:04 | 1,612,481,524 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | lcthpb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lcthpb/what_are_the_pros_cons_of_online_dating/ | 2 | I've grown really close to a friend of mine, and we're getting closer than friends. We've been friends for about 5-6 years, and have meet in person on 2 occasions. To those who have done online dating before, what are the pros and cons? Thank you. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What Are the Pros and Cons of Online Dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lcthpb/what_are_the_pros_cons_of_online_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2014-09-30 22:47:07 | 1,412,117,227 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2hxpb3 | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating/comments/2hxpb3/just_had_a_lunch_date_with_someone_amazing/ | 6 | I'm 21, about to be 22 and she is 19. I found her on tinder and we immediately hit it off. After a day of talking, I asked her out to a lunch date. She agreed then suggested we exchange numbers. That was all her idea btw. After talking for another day via texting and her wishing me a good night, we had lunch at a nice ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just had a lunch date with someone amazing. | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2hxpb3/just_had_a_lunch_date_with_someone_amazing/ |
we_deal_in_lead | 2019-03-27 22:13:35 | 1,553,724,815 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | b6am0a | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b6am0a/i_30m_have_no_idea_what_im_doing/ | 18 | So I met my now ex-wife freshmen year of college, she was just about my first everything (I'd kissed a girl before but it was at a party and we were both drunk). I thought we would be together forever but 2 months after our first child was born she began an affair which I discovered 2 months after that point (you can d... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (30m) have no idea what I'm doing | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b6am0a/i_30m_have_no_idea_what_im_doing/ |
Revanite331 | 2024-02-05 21:46:25 | 1,707,169,585 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ajskzm | false | null | 46 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajskzm/is_having_money_a_red_flag/ | 1 | Hey 31m here and just curious what you all think about this. I make good money, not millions or anything but easily enough to take care of a family, go on vacations, and save for the future on my own. I make it clear that when I look for a girl I don’t necessarily look for a career because to me she could be unemployed... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is having money a red flag? | 1 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajskzm/is_having_money_a_red_flag/ |
bigsun1116 | 2021-01-09 19:27:16 | 1,610,220,436 | null | null | 0 | ktxitk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ktxitk/wanna_know_if_its_a_scam/ | 0 | I m talking to this cam girl for a bit and when she asked me to pay her like $60 to help her get out of cam for the day to meet her quota, she sent me this link Is this a scam. In general she seems a bit genuine with certain suspicious features. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Wanna know if its a scam | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ktxitk/wanna_know_if_its_a_scam/ |
Loud_Ad8323 | 2024-04-05 23:09:28 | 1,712,358,568 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1bww6c5 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bww6c5/online_dating_same_guy_keeps_liking_my_photo/ | 1 | He doesn’t message me once I accept the match. It’s happened twice before and liked me again recently. Should I accept it and message him? Is it just for his ego? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating- Same guy keeps liking my photo | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bww6c5/online_dating_same_guy_keeps_liking_my_photo/ |
BigSun6576 | 2024-04-02 22:48:21 | 1,712,098,101 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bucgow | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bucgow/consent_letter_to_a_man/ | 1 | We have met on a dating app and text to get to know each other. We are trying to align our schedules to meet for the first time in person. We text about food, you say "I'm gonna eat you next". I shrug to myself and think about how many times I've been told what is gonna be done to me. Different style of word choice, pe... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Consent - Letter to a man | 1 | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bucgow/consent_letter_to_a_man/ |
tay86b | 2021-07-24 21:49:09 | 1,627,163,349 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | oqyy02 | true | Other | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oqyy02/anyone_else_just_crave_good_conversation/ | 9 | Subject line sums it up. 34 single female and honestly just truly miss having a good conversation with someone thats even slightly interested. I have tried OLD before and the conversations are so ..blah.. miss the days of throwing on some music and laying in bed talking for hours about anything and everything. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone else just crave good conversation | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oqyy02/anyone_else_just_crave_good_conversation/ |
disiuncta | 2024-08-04 17:52:47 | 1,722,793,967 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ek1an8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ek1an8/frustrations_over_a_small_infatuation/ | 1 | I have been online dating for a few weeks now, and I met this really nice guy. Now, my past relationship (about a year ago it ended) was a long distance once, and things got really hard and we had to put a stop. However, he was an awesome person. The fact that I met someone similarly super nice, has kind of made me inf... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Frustrations over a small infatuation. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ek1an8/frustrations_over_a_small_infatuation/ |
TheProphesizer | 2018-12-18 22:01:34 | 1,545,170,494 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | a7frzg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a7frzg/is_there_a_freecheap_dating_site_that_bases/ | 3 | I've looked into a few free apps but none of them really looked for people with similar personalities. They included a simple description and whatnot, but you still saw a bunch of random people. Is there a sight that will search for people with similar interests and then let you sort through those? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there a free/cheap dating site that bases things off of personality traits? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a7frzg/is_there_a_freecheap_dating_site_that_bases/ |
Its_just_ham | 2018-01-07 02:43:34 | 1,515,293,014 | null | null | 0 | 7onznm | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/7onznm/good_sites_to_start_online_dating/ | 3 | I think I'm ready, however I'm not sure which sites/apps to use. I'd like some suggestions, please. Edit: I forgot to mention that I'm looking for girls who are into more geeky-type shit like Animation, Sci-Fi, Gaming, Model-Making stuff like that, not specifcally them. Are there any places out there more specific on t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Good sites to start Online Dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/7onznm/good_sites_to_start_online_dating/ |
ShoulderOk7843 | 2021-08-23 03:19:55 | 1,629,688,795 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | p9rc52 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p9rc52/just_went_on_a_date_really_good_time_and_nice_and/ | 1 | We got lunch and the date lasted less than 3 hrs. Fun and easygoing guy/date. He’s the first guy who wanted to see me ASAP again after our date. Y’all think he’s super interested? Or.. I’m not very good at reading because I feel like why would a guy like me. Though I get like hundreds of matches. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just went on a date. Really good time and nice and genuine guy. He wants to see me again this week. Super fast. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p9rc52/just_went_on_a_date_really_good_time_and_nice_and/ |
jack_smith12345678 | 2021-06-27 07:54:30 | 1,624,780,470 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | o8smit | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o8smit/22m_wants_to_better_himself_ready_for_uni_and/ | 1 | Hiya, so as I’m trying to get back into dating I’m also trying to become the best version I am so that I’m ready and actually bring stuff to the table when it comes to dating. As I know I can’t expect anything when I don’t offer anything in return. My type is the girl next door, attractive and cute but not overly attra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22m wants to better himself ready for uni and dating and so I stand out from others But how? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o8smit/22m_wants_to_better_himself_ready_for_uni_and/ |
papercurls | 2019-05-21 02:25:18 | 1,558,405,518 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | br4soh | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/br4soh/trying_to_put_yourself_out_there/ | 2 | Hi everyone I stopped dating for 5 months now and took some steps into feeling better on my own. Everything seems in order, I seem more sure of myself and I finally feel great alone. YAY I haven't really dated in a long time and I'm now thinking of putting myself out there, but it seems I have a lot of difficulty at do... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to put yourself out there. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/br4soh/trying_to_put_yourself_out_there/ |
marleyx64 | 2021-10-24 01:44:57 | 1,635,039,897 | null | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | qeie0l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qeie0l/we_matched_again_years_later_on_a_different/ | 1 | He did not recognize me. I am a little sad and wanted to just go off and tell him: REALLY? but then I realized wait Should I make an opportunity of this or just simply tell him the truth. Need female advice and males what would you want to happen? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We matched again years later on a different dating site | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qeie0l/we_matched_again_years_later_on_a_different/ |
Dangerous-Presence93 | 2024-05-24 01:05:19 | 1,716,512,719 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1cz8swg | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cz8swg/what_does_it_mean/ | 1 | Asking for a friend... This gorgeous guy and I matched and talked for a few weeks, shit went on , we stopped talking. He still is following me on Instagram, sees my stories, etc. What does it mean? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does it mean | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cz8swg/what_does_it_mean/ |
auxiliary_otter | 2023-10-02 19:30:58 | 1,696,275,058 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16y5w24 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16y5w24/trouble_interpreting_friendship_with_a_new_female/ | 1 | Input from Germans and other Europeans especially appreciated :D I (M31) am from the US but have been living in Germany for a few years now, speak pretty fluent German but need some practice, and matched with a German woman (F32) via a language tandem website for the purpose of finding language exchange partners. (in o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trouble interpreting friendship with a new female acquaintance, complicated further by German customs | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16y5w24/trouble_interpreting_friendship_with_a_new_female/ |
WingsNSauce | 2020-03-04 19:39:06 | 1,583,350,746 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fdif2z | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fdif2z/should_i_let_this_one_go/ | 1 | So I (24M) matched with a girl (23F) on tinder. We were vibing and talking back and forward for a decent bit of time. Things seemed to be going well, good conversation, same interests etc. Eventually I asked her out and she accepted. She picked the day and time but the morning of our date, she asked if we could resched... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I let this one go? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fdif2z/should_i_let_this_one_go/ |
Lifes_Debris | 2018-04-22 12:17:35 | 1,524,399,455 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8e2w69 | false | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8e2w69/my_first_surprising_24_hours_on_bumble/ | 12 | Late Friday night, I had my one and only married guy friend over (the same friend who told me about my upstairs neighbor on my other post), and he convinced me to sign up to Bumble. I created a profile, made a joke about being bald for my opening sentence, talked about seeing my daughter half of the time, and I wanted ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | My first surprising 24 hours on Bumble | 12 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8e2w69/my_first_surprising_24_hours_on_bumble/ |
yourwhippingboy | 2016-08-03 15:51:11 | 1,470,239,471 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 4vz671 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4vz671/22mgay_and_transgender_do_i_stand_a_chance/ | 3 | I'm a 22 year old guy and I was "born female". I've been on testosterone hormone replacements for 2 years and unless I told you, you would just assume I was like any other guy. I'm attracted exclusively to men. I've had top surgery (removal of breasts and restructuring to make them look more male) but not a phalloplast... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22/M/Gay and transgender. Do I stand a chance? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4vz671/22mgay_and_transgender_do_i_stand_a_chance/ |
Asking4afriend93 | 2019-05-08 00:39:54 | 1,557,275,994 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | blyo0b | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/blyo0b/my_grandmother_passed_away_over_the_weekend_and/ | 1 | The title pretty much says it all. I matched on Hinge with this girl, and we've been talking consistently for the past three weeks. We had our first date last week, and it went really well. We even planned the second one, which is tomorrow, and I'm pretty excited about it. However, my grandma passed away over the weeke... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My grandmother passed away over the weekend and it's been a rough couple of days. I have a second date coming up tomorrow with someone I really like and I don't know if/how to address my grandma's passing when it comes up. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/blyo0b/my_grandmother_passed_away_over_the_weekend_and/ |
RemarkableAnybody822 | 2024-04-20 12:24:57 | 1,713,615,897 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c8oqbz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c8oqbz/need_advice_bf_38m_disappears/ | 1 | I have been exclusive with a man for 3 months. Everything has indicated he is serious about me - what he says, how he treats me etc. Last few weeks have been going well minus a minor hiccup (came across an old dating app that was still active but no activity) We’ve been spending a lot of time together and we were suppo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice: BF (38M) disappears | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c8oqbz/need_advice_bf_38m_disappears/ |
MyLonelyDude | 2022-10-25 16:27:29 | 1,666,715,249 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | yd90x0 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yd90x0/i_21m_have_been_having_no_success_with_dating/ | 2 | Hey there. I'm a 21m and from the title you can tell that I have been having issues with dating apps. I've managed to match with a few people but either I've been ghosted or there was literally no chemistry between us. It kinda feels ruff just texting someone rather than just being in person hanging out. But after mont... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [21m] have been having no success with dating apps. Anyone have any advice? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yd90x0/i_21m_have_been_having_no_success_with_dating/ |
Mental-Draw3103 | 2023-06-05 00:29:49 | 1,685,924,989 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 140w5bt | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/140w5bt/found_out_im_dating_a_felon/ | 8 | I (24F) having been going out with someone (M25) for a couple months. We meet through a dating app and we hit it off. We would spend 2-3 days a week together either going out or just spending time together at one of our apartments. He is a great guy and has treated me better than anyone I have ever gone out with before... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found out I'm dating a felon | 8 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/140w5bt/found_out_im_dating_a_felon/ |
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