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RedditSuggestName | 2021-04-12 02:48:47 | 1,618,195,727 | null | ['swiped', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | mp5bgr | true | Other | 62 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mp5bgr/im_proud_of_myself/ | 92 | Straight female here. Like most people here, have had a hard time dating. Went out a couple times with a guy I met through hinge, back in January. He ghosted me after I told him that getting STD tests was a big deal to me, and that if he had no intentions of getting it, that was a deal breaker for me. I was super confu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m proud of myself | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mp5bgr/im_proud_of_myself/ |
hawk_ry | 2020-03-14 15:28:08 | 1,584,199,688 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | fik23o | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fik23o/did_i_scare_her_off/ | 2 | I have been chatting with this woman on an online dating app. Over the past 5 days, we exchanged a few brief messages. In her last message, she apologized for delayed response. Some other small talk. Then she ask if I prefered to text. I relplied "I do prefer to text. My number is .... 2 days later I sent another messa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I scare her off? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fik23o/did_i_scare_her_off/ |
blue_hysteria | 2016-06-07 19:35:08 | 1,465,328,108 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 4n0uw2 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/4n0uw2/im_starting_to_think_this_girl_doesnt_care/ | 1 | So I met this girl on a dating app. We matched and I waited for her to make the first move. She finally did after about 3 days. Since then, we've been on 4 dates, and I've planned each one. The dates have been amazing, she's extremely attractive and sweet, and I can't stop thinking about her. What drives me crazy is th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm starting to think this girl doesn't care. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4n0uw2/im_starting_to_think_this_girl_doesnt_care/ |
throwaway34332492747 | 2021-05-17 08:23:32 | 1,621,239,812 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | neajgm | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/neajgm/first_time_dating_what_does_her_behavior_mean/ | 0 | So I (Male, 19) met this girl (Female, 19)online through bumble, like 2 months ago since she lives like an hour away from me and due to Covid we only could have a date twice. This is my first time doing something like this but it is like a Rollercoaster with her. We have a lot in common I mean really a lot, and the dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First time dating, what does her behavior mean? What should I do? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/neajgm/first_time_dating_what_does_her_behavior_mean/ |
antwon420 | 2022-09-07 00:21:02 | 1,662,510,062 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | x7qez2 | true | null | 79 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x7qez2/does_anyone_feel_depressedtired_from_online/ | 104 | For context, I’m a 27 y/o straight male living in the SF Bay Area and I’ve grown exhausted of online dating. I put in a decent amount of effort to go on a nice date with a girl around my age and nothing ever comes out of it. I consider myself lucky if I even get a match to message me back these days. I just feel really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does anyone feel depressed/tired from online dating and absolutely nothing coming out of it? | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x7qez2/does_anyone_feel_depressedtired_from_online/ |
Auslegeware | 2019-07-11 17:26:03 | 1,562,865,963 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cbygfn | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/cbygfn/i_blocked_my_tinder_match_he_found_my_workplace/ | 104 | Throwaway because I am paranoid that he reads here. This happened today so I might me incoherent. English is also not my mother tongue and I basically just need to get this off my chest. I hope this is the right place to post. After a long time being single, I tried my luck with Tinder and had some interesting conversa... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I blocked my Tinder match, he found my workplace and came to my office. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/cbygfn/i_blocked_my_tinder_match_he_found_my_workplace/ |
klaus_schulze_fan | 2023-10-04 18:05:25 | 1,696,442,725 | 0 | null | 0 | 16zu685 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16zu685/how_peoples_profiles_change_over_time/ | 1 | One of the stranger phenomena of online dating -- and there are a lot of them -- is seeing how the same profiles evolve over the months/years. Since I landed in my new city about two years ago I've seen a particular profile pop up every now and then. First time I saw it I think they were newly sober (they vaguely hinte... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How people's profiles change over time | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16zu685/how_peoples_profiles_change_over_time/ |
[deleted] | 2013-06-25 03:59:09 | 1,372,132,749 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1h0mfl | null | null | 203 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1h0mfl/why_will_a_lot_of_guys_sleep_with_most_anything/ | 0 | This is something I generally find really confusing about guys. I know that quite a lot of men can easily separate sex from love, so a guy might not necessarily want to date a woman in a long-term sense, but if she's hot enough, he'll sleep with her. I also know a lot of guys measure their masculinity by how much sex t... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why Will A Lot of Guys Sleep with Most Anything? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1h0mfl/why_will_a_lot_of_guys_sleep_with_most_anything/ |
TJPNL | 2022-01-06 13:12:12 | 1,641,474,732 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | rxeaw3 | true | Support Needed | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rxeaw3/i_really_need_to_vent/ | 4 | I (26M) am done with online dating for a while. I’m so, so done with it. So many times this happens to me; we have a match, we text along for a couple of days, quite long conversations. After a few days I ask the girl out, she says yes and proposes a date. We agree on the date, all things set. Then 1 or 2 hours before ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I really need to vent | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rxeaw3/i_really_need_to_vent/ |
GeekyGuyBrooklyn | 2024-05-20 13:11:02 | 1,716,210,662 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cwf81f | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cwf81f/are_dating_apps_the_only_option/ | 3 | I just want to know if people genuinely believe that dating apps are the only option since I often hear people use them anyway despite not liking them. Me included. I feel like it is possible to date organically through friends of friend or activities and such, it rarely happens. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciat... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are dating apps the only option? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cwf81f/are_dating_apps_the_only_option/ |
GaIois | 2024-02-26 07:10:40 | 1,708,931,440 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b0bh44 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b0bh44/why_do_i_always_see_this_pattern/ | 1 | 1. Person asks about how to find ugly women because he gets zero matches on dating apps 2. Everyone gets irrationally angry at the guy, claiming he needs psychological help and he doesn't get women because of his self esteem Like sure the guy could have and probably has some self esteem issues, but why do people get so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do I always see this pattern? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b0bh44/why_do_i_always_see_this_pattern/ |
Full_Chart_9404 | 2024-04-16 22:14:16 | 1,713,305,656 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1c5t144 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c5t144/help_me_understand_this_text/ | 1 | For some context, I (35 m, single dad with 1 kid) met this girl (36 single mom with two kids)on hinge almost a month ago. We went on three dates and we seemed to connect and had a lot in common. We didn't do anything physical except for the fact that I kissed on her cheek after our third date. Recently a lot has happen... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help me understand this text. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c5t144/help_me_understand_this_text/ |
scottosaurus | 2019-08-09 22:41:45 | 1,565,390,505 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | co9r2g | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/co9r2g/am_i_wrong_in_asking_for_confirmation/ | 19 | I had been messaging a girl I met on a dating app since Monday of last week, but her messages back had always been pretty infrequent. Once a day at most. I knew that we played some of the same online games, so I had been at least trying to get her to play with me online and voice chat, just to know that I wasn't just g... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I wrong in asking for confirmation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/co9r2g/am_i_wrong_in_asking_for_confirmation/ |
asakyun | 2024-08-14 05:37:08 | 1,723,613,828 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ertqwl | true | null | 55 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ertqwl/are_my_standards_too_high/ | 7 | 27m, started dating this January. Looking for someone fit, interesting, good career/ambitious, conventionally attractive, with good values. I think I check the same boxes, other than being conventionally attractive (I'm Asian - I think I'm reasonably attractive but it's not the flavor people are looking for). I've gott... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are my standards too high? | 7 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ertqwl/are_my_standards_too_high/ |
Moxthrasher | 2022-08-31 07:17:02 | 1,661,930,222 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'badoo', 'okcupid', 'eharmony'] | 0 | x271ks | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x271ks/trying_to_figure_out_whats_wrong_with_me_31_m_in/ | 1 | So I’m on hinge, okcupid, MeetMe, Hily, hud, bumble, fb dating, eharmony, tinder, Badoo, and turn up. Hardly any responses. All I want is a metal chick. Also got ads up on metal dating pages on fb, subreddits, nothing | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to figure Out what’s wrong with me. 31 m in Northern Kentucky. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x271ks/trying_to_figure_out_whats_wrong_with_me_31_m_in/ |
Independent-Maize422 | 2024-03-07 06:33:36 | 1,709,793,216 | 0 | ['swipes', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1b8nq9u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b8nq9u/dating_app_controversy/ | 1 | I’ve been dating this guy I met organically for just over 2 months now. We’ve had the exclusive chat about 1 month in. I know he’s still been on dating apps and approached that subject, he said he just swipes but not actively speaking to anyone. After another month I noticed he’s still active on them (my accounts are s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app controversy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8nq9u/dating_app_controversy/ |
Curious_Owl_0405 | 2022-08-18 01:40:02 | 1,660,786,802 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wr6fmc | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wr6fmc/is_it_weird_to_feel_violated_when_someone_drops/ | 2 | So I (F, late 20s) had been in a chatroom with two other people (both F and late 20s) for about 3 months. I have met them in person once, but it was a quick and casual gathering so our interactions are primarily online through text and voice chats. One of the two, had just returned from an oversea vacation, and she men... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is it weird to feel violated when someone drops intimate sexual encounter stories in a conversation without any warning? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wr6fmc/is_it_weird_to_feel_violated_when_someone_drops/ |
RevolutionarySea9643 | 2022-11-04 07:25:47 | 1,667,546,747 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ylrre9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ylrre9/did_i_mess_this_up_or_was_it_really_an_external/ | 1 | Aloha reddit, I could use some honest thoughts and advice on this early dating situation that fizzled out. Mainly looking for areas of improvement. I (32M) was talking with a lady (35, let's call her M) that I matched with online for over a month before we could meet up for a date. We had different work schedules and I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I mess this up, or was it really an external factor? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ylrre9/did_i_mess_this_up_or_was_it_really_an_external/ |
brodentein | 2023-02-28 17:22:14 | 1,677,604,934 | null | null | 0 | 11eeaoi | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11eeaoi/gut_check_does_this_profile_seem_like_its_fake_my/ | 2 | I really can't tell if one of my matches who wants to meet is fake or not. The conversation has felt organic and non-robotic, and it's on Hinge, but what initially made me say hmmmm was that she asked if I wanted to meet up with short notice a couple weekends back after a conversation that wasn't too deep beyond surfac... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Gut check: Does this profile seem like it's fake? My friends are split both ways, | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11eeaoi/gut_check_does_this_profile_seem_like_its_fake_my/ |
RudolphMutch | 2024-01-10 07:54:06 | 1,704,873,246 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 19331tg | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19331tg/is_it_disgusting_asking_for_a_referral_to_female/ | 1 | I (30M) matched with a woman (29F) on Tinder a few days ago. We had a date planned for this week, but she cancelled, saying that dating doesn't feel right for her anymore. I wished her all the best and asked if she knew any single women in her friend circle who are open to building a relationship. If so, I would apprec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it disgusting asking for a referral to female friends after rejection? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19331tg/is_it_disgusting_asking_for_a_referral_to_female/ |
BSGSavedMe | 2018-12-18 05:39:41 | 1,545,111,581 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | a787pf | true | null | 280 | 1 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a787pf/does_anyone_feel_like_theyve_gotten_way_too/ | 380 | \\EDIT: Thank you all who read this post, who posted their own experience, shared advice or just commiserated. I posted this last night in a funk but, who knew, there's comfort and hope in solidarity. I feel a bit better, I hope you do too.\\ \thank you if you take the time to listen to me vent\ 32/f here. It's been a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone feel like they've gotten way too comfortable being single? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a787pf/does_anyone_feel_like_theyve_gotten_way_too/ |
heart_of_gold2 | 2021-11-11 05:21:02 | 1,636,608,062 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qrdr7q | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qrdr7q/how_come_the_guys_im_interested_in_never_like_me/ | 0 | I am 29/F, and I’ve noticed a trend that the guys I would be interested in never seem to return the same level of interest. Example: right now I’m actively messaging 3 guys from a dating app. So far, I don’t see anything developing with 2 of the 3. Although they’re consistent with messaging on a regular basis and showi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How come the guys I’m interested in never like me back? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qrdr7q/how_come_the_guys_im_interested_in_never_like_me/ |
needawayout99 | 2020-07-20 18:05:59 | 1,595,268,359 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | huq8pe | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/huq8pe/tinder_has_broken_me/ | 1 | Honestly I dont even know why Im writing this, but I need a form of outing that is not the inside of my mind or my journal. Im M24 and live in NYC. Tinder has broken me. At the very least it has brought up long lost trauma in me that I kept buried for years. When I was really young I fell for a girl and it wasnt mutual... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder has broken me | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/huq8pe/tinder_has_broken_me/ |
GuerreroNeeK | 2019-08-26 03:20:31 | 1,566,789,631 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | cvikoq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cvikoq/matched_and_textingsnap_chatting_with_this_girl/ | 1 | Hello so matched up w this girl and I want to see her. How do I go about doing it she lives by me. She lives with some friends and they smoke and drink a lot at her house. Can’t smoke sadly lol. But I still wanna meet up w her one time and see what she truly looks like. How do I do this? Every snap and posture she sent... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched and texting/snap chatting with this girl how do I ask her out for a meetup? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cvikoq/matched_and_textingsnap_chatting_with_this_girl/ |
AdTasty8536 | 2022-01-02 18:49:56 | 1,641,149,396 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'match.com'] | 0 | rugbj6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rugbj6/any_good_dating_sites/ | 0 | Ok so tinder, match.com and others need you to spend money to get a match.... are there any dating sites that dont require me to pay money? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any good dating sites? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rugbj6/any_good_dating_sites/ |
PeeB4uGoToBed | 2021-06-23 18:36:44 | 1,624,473,404 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | o6j205 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o6j205/what_am_i_doing_wrong_with_firstinitial_messages/ | 4 | So I decided to really get into online dating and took the time to make my profiles presentable and readable. All my first messages to people are usually based on stuff we have in common on their profiles or other things based on their profiles. I'm not rude or pushy and I don't do anything inappropriate. I can't even ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What am I doing wrong with first/initial messages that I don't get any replies at all? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o6j205/what_am_i_doing_wrong_with_firstinitial_messages/ |
emmalucesprucegoose | 2018-04-04 22:08:57 | 1,522,879,737 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 89u2rt | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/89u2rt/why_did_he_do_it/ | 2 | Started talking to a guy on tinder. We got on pretty well shared a lot of common interests and within a week we were speaking on the phone for 2 to 3 hours as well as video chatting . He would say things like 'I can't wait for us to go to the zoo together' and 'I can't wait to be boyfriend and girlfriend. We were due t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why did he do it? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/89u2rt/why_did_he_do_it/ |
vanelopevondutch | 2024-07-15 06:23:30 | 1,721,024,610 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1e3ntm6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e3ntm6/should_i_still_pursue_my_feelings_for_him/ | 1 | I am a female (27). I never dated nor entertained anyone in the past because I was too awkward with boys. So I tried using bumble were I met this guy (30). His profile doesn't say much but after talking with him for a while I know for a fact that he is a great guy. After a month of messaging each other, he ask me if we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I still pursue my feelings for him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3ntm6/should_i_still_pursue_my_feelings_for_him/ |
throwawaydo30 | 2021-08-25 23:50:42 | 1,629,935,442 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | pbnlie | true | null | 80 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pbnlie/first_date_at_my_house_did_i_overreact/ | 100 | So I (31 F) just encountered a situation I wanted your guys' take on. I was talking to this guy on an app and conversation was going well--good banter, he seemed smart and funny. He asked me at one point what I am looking for and I said that I was looking for a serious relationship, and he said that he was too. He said... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | First date at my house - did I overreact? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pbnlie/first_date_at_my_house_did_i_overreact/ |
altaccountskg | 2021-06-14 23:09:52 | 1,623,712,192 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nzzooj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nzzooj/if_youre_single_and_miserable_youre_probably_just/ | 6 | I (31f) have basically been single since I was 22. I have always been very much a goal oriented person. At that time, I was in college getting my masters and actively decided not to date while I finished college. I was just too busy to be a good partner, and I knew that was the reason my last relationship had failed. A... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you're single and miserable, you're probably just lonely and putting too much emphasis on dating | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nzzooj/if_youre_single_and_miserable_youre_probably_just/ |
Modern_Westernist | 2023-10-24 21:57:09 | 1,698,184,629 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17fomsi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17fomsi/will_women_do_a_reverse_image_search_if_i_include/ | 1 | Hello everyone. I have been attempting to put myself out there in the dating realm once again. I am currently looking for a girlfriend aged 18-25, and I understand that women are turned on by status symbols such as expensive watches and cars. I myself already dress in nice clothing and own a $3000.00 Seiko watch, but I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will women do a reverse image search if I include a picture of a car that is not mine on my dating profile? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17fomsi/will_women_do_a_reverse_image_search_if_i_include/ |
haildens | 2021-02-23 00:34:38 | 1,614,040,478 | null | null | 0 | lq4lof | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lq4lof/just_looking_for_an_honest_opinion_29m/ | 5 | Title says it all, looking for an honest opinion on my pictures and bio. And since I’m here, tinder hasn’t really been good to me so far, wondering what other kinds of apps people are using now-a-days. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just looking for an honest opinion (29m) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lq4lof/just_looking_for_an_honest_opinion_29m/ |
blueberryscones46 | 2023-11-24 12:14:12 | 1,700,828,052 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 182qt2z | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/182qt2z/too_scared_to_start_dating_women/ | 1 | I'm 26, have always known I wasn't straight but I've never tried to date women. I'm trying to get out there but I'm scared af. I tried 1 lesbian dating app, but I started getting more and more nervous the more I talked to them. Eventually I just stopped using it. On other apps like tinder and bumble I get no luck at al... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Too scared to start dating women | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/182qt2z/too_scared_to_start_dating_women/ |
Supercoolrobloxguy | 2022-04-13 21:01:17 | 1,649,883,677 | null | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | u309u2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u309u2/am_i_being_too_impatient/ | 1 | I was talking to this girl on hinge last night and everything seemed to be going well. I went to bed and I haven't heard back from her. Should I double text her eventually? Am I being way too impatient? Please help I'm lost when it comes to online dating | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being too impatient | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u309u2/am_i_being_too_impatient/ |
DarkParadise1 | 2017-12-20 16:19:17 | 1,513,786,757 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 7l2edr | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7l2edr/is_it_the_norm_now_to_send_nude_pics_when_dating/ | 1 | I'm really disappointed about this...Im a 33F and this is about a 41M. I started to talk to someone online a couple of days ago. We said what each of us are looking for and shared our frustrations with online dating and dating apps.I told him how a lot of the men are scummy, sending nude photos of themselves, and reall... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it the norm now to send nude pics when dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7l2edr/is_it_the_norm_now_to_send_nude_pics_when_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2020-06-27 09:29:14 | 1,593,250,154 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | hgqjv7 | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/hgqjv7/attn_empty_nesters/ | 6 | In general, is 49 considered a young empty nester? Divorced (was married 21 years) and just ended a 4 yr. relationship that began via Match.com. Going forward besides never dating a vegetarian/vegan ever again (I’d like to date a woman that eats steak or a burger for love of Pete) I also will request they be an empty n... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Attn: Empty Nesters | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/hgqjv7/attn_empty_nesters/ |
Embarrassed_Age9998 | 2023-05-02 01:41:54 | 1,682,991,714 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1357s41 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1357s41/guy_ghosting_me_texts_back/ | 1 | I matched with a guy on an online dating app and it went great for like about two weeks. He sounds like he's busy at work but we have so much in common and good chemistry. The ghosting started off as him saying oh I can't text u during the weekend I'm busy with work, which was totally fine because he told me in advance... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy ghosting me texts back | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1357s41/guy_ghosting_me_texts_back/ |
SenorSiete77 | 2024-05-23 22:13:36 | 1,716,502,416 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cz5a63 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cz5a63/dating_one_of_my_best_friends/ | 1 | So a great friend of mine, who I went to college with back in 2010, and I have been hanging out and talking or whatever you wanna call it now. Since 2010 we have kept up, since I’m also a client of hers where she works. It’s an interesting dynamic to mesh two different people together (this great friend of 14 years + t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating one of my best friends | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cz5a63/dating_one_of_my_best_friends/ |
mranonymous16 | 2019-08-30 16:39:33 | 1,567,183,173 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | cxjff8 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cxjff8/shall_i_just_cut_to_the_chase/ | 0 | Matched with a stunning girl on Tinder yesterday, literally said a couple of things to each other and I thought she un-matched me. In had to reset my tinder not long after because it started acting funny and I noticed her profile was no where to be seen. This led me to believe she deleted it instead of un-matching me. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Shall I just cut to the chase? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cxjff8/shall_i_just_cut_to_the_chase/ |
Sticks0808 | 2020-01-31 15:30:02 | 1,580,484,602 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ewq1nt | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ewq1nt/she_didnt_text_back/ | 2 | Back in the “dating game”. Been out of it for about 7 years. Man have things changed. Anyways, been on a couple dating apps for the first time. Hit it off with a girl and got her number. We texted for a few days and each night at about 10pm she didn’t text back until the next morning. I asked her out and she said yes b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She didn’t text back | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ewq1nt/she_didnt_text_back/ |
turnedondigital | 2022-02-12 11:08:25 | 1,644,664,105 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | sqp8dy | true | null | 210 | 1 | /r/AskWomen/comments/sqp8dy/how_do_you_respond_you_look_prettier_than_your/ | 87 | In an OLD context when you meet the person. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How do you respond: “you look prettier than your photos”? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/sqp8dy/how_do_you_respond_you_look_prettier_than_your/ |
Supercharged777 | 2024-09-22 16:04:00 | 1,727,021,040 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1fmwq63 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fmwq63/self_sabotage_or_bad_signs/ | 0 | I am posting to try to get some advice or thoughts on how to handle this situation. Here is a little backstory. I’m (33F) from America and he is Arabic (31M). We matched on a dating site and have talked for about two months. We have met twice for about 5 hours total. We live about an hour and a half away and it’s hard ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Self sabotage or bad signs? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmwq63/self_sabotage_or_bad_signs/ |
xink37 | 2019-02-02 20:44:46 | 1,549,140,286 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ami6r5 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ami6r5/is_she_trying_to_tell_me_something/ | 5 | Hi guys So I recently tried to network in real life after years of online dating. I created my own meet up group for shy people and on my first event I met a really nice girl. We messaged a bit on the app then she gave me her number .... I invited her to see a show in town last weekend and hopefully gonna see her again... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she trying to tell me something? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ami6r5/is_she_trying_to_tell_me_something/ |
Drcockopus1 | 2023-06-15 04:56:30 | 1,686,804,990 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 149t64r | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/149t64r/how_much_did_you_lose_by_not_dating_in_high/ | 3 | Tl;Dr not dating during school was a mistake I remember the first two kids to start dating in my class. It was in the 5th grade, and one of my worst bullies started dating another one of our classmates. It was still pretty weird in 5th grade, but by 8th grade, it wasn't weird to have dated someone. By 12th grade, it wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How Much Did You Lose by Not Dating in High School/College? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/149t64r/how_much_did_you_lose_by_not_dating_in_high/ |
dac1030 | 2020-07-08 21:19:34 | 1,594,243,174 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hnptt5 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hnptt5/not_sure_what_to_do/ | 1 | Alright so this is my first post on reddit and I’m on mobile so sorry if this isn’t right. I’ll start off by saying I just can’t get over this girl I dated for a few months. I haven’t seen her in like 2 months but I still think about her almost every day. Ive never been so hurt and sad in my life and the way things end... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what to do | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hnptt5/not_sure_what_to_do/ |
2020notmyyear | 2020-03-20 00:57:10 | 1,584,665,830 | null | null | 0 | fllnsu | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fllnsu/park_dates_in_late_spring_covid19/ | 1 | Gonna wait till late spring as there isn’t much point, is there? Will go back online then, then I’ll probably suggest drinks in the park where we can actually talk in person, albeit a few metres apart, but not be in a crowded environment where you could easily catch it. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Park dates in late spring (COVID-19) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fllnsu/park_dates_in_late_spring_covid19/ |
pinkelectron | 2019-11-09 06:14:30 | 1,573,280,070 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dts8nf | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dts8nf/delaying_sex_until_long_term_commitment_bring_up/ | 12 | I had a broken engagement last year. Learned many things from that experience, including my need to hold off on sex until it’s clear that me and the guy have shared values. My EX was hot. We hooked within 6 weeks, and we were immediately exclusive. I put up with his drinking, etc instead of bailing. Anyway, I’m now on ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Delaying sex until long term commitment: bring up on first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dts8nf/delaying_sex_until_long_term_commitment_bring_up/ |
TomTomClimbs | 2023-09-26 08:27:43 | 1,695,716,863 | 0 | null | 0 | 16shy3q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16shy3q/on_which_dayshours_notto_like_someone_or_message/ | 1 | I couldn't find an answer to this question :) On which days and hours is it better to like someone? On which days and or hours it's not effecive to like someone?! Are mornings ok?, noon? I guees really late comes off as creepy unless it's a party vibe thing... Are weekdays better or weekends? Thanks | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | On which days/hours not/to like someone or message them? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16shy3q/on_which_dayshours_notto_like_someone_or_message/ |
always_pizza_time | 2024-02-22 06:51:05 | 1,708,584,665 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1awzz1d | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1awzz1d/girl_flaked_twice_in_a_row_should_i_respond_or/ | 5 | So I've been texting this girl I matched with on Bumble. We switched to text pretty quickly after matching, and she would reply with high interest but would take a long time to reply (24-48 hours between texts). Eventually I asked her out on a first date last week. The day before the date, she texted me saying she forg... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl flaked twice in a row. Should I respond or just leave her on read? | 3 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1awzz1d/girl_flaked_twice_in_a_row_should_i_respond_or/ |
Alternative_Wing4668 | 2024-08-19 14:33:25 | 1,724,078,005 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ew3chw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ew3chw/confused_about_how_to_react_to_this_girl/ | 1 | So i matched a girl (F29, im M32) on Tinder, messaged a bit and set up a date at my place the next day. We vibed pretty good, laughed a lot, i asked her how long she is single and she said she is looking for something serious, she just came out of a "6 year friendship plus" thing. We had sex on that date but the sex wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Confused about how to react to this girl | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ew3chw/confused_about_how_to_react_to_this_girl/ |
throwaway19192827272 | 2019-06-15 17:43:39 | 1,560,620,619 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c0zylu | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c0zylu/accidentally_met_my_hookups_dad/ | 4 | So I’m in quite the pickle now and I’m hoping someone out there has been in a similar situation. I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks. Let’s call him Jim. I really like him and we hit it off immediately. Long story short, he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship and I do. We keep seeing each other multipl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Accidentally met my hookup’s dad | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c0zylu/accidentally_met_my_hookups_dad/ |
jlovesit1 | 2022-12-18 06:32:56 | 1,671,345,176 | null | null | 0 | zos280 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zos280/need_opinionsadvice/ | 1 | Heyyy so I just need some opinions: long post ahead I was talking to this guy I met on a dating app. Everything seemed to be going well. We had a lot of the same interests, both had chill personalities, and he was my type. We were talking about where he was from and the city I live in now, and just getting to know each... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need opinions/advice | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zos280/need_opinionsadvice/ |
Alarming-Introvert44 | 2024-09-17 20:44:35 | 1,726,605,875 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fjabmv | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 63 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fjabmv/first_confrontational_experience_on_a_dating_app/ | 60 | I (23F) replied to a guy's picture on his hinge profile of him standing on land in the middle of a body of water and said "i'm confused, how did you get there?", he said "that's for me to know and you to never find out" so i responded "womp womp :(" (which to me was lighthearted) then he said "That was clever, oh wait ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First confrontational experience on a dating app | 60 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fjabmv/first_confrontational_experience_on_a_dating_app/ |
SarcastiCommenter | 2024-09-17 08:55:42 | 1,726,563,342 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1fiu5hi | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fiu5hi/job_descriptions_on_dating_apps/ | 6 | I am conflicted on what I should do. I don’t want to use wealth/status to attract women so on dating apps I just put that I work in healthcare when I am actually a regional director of a multimillion dollar company. While I am getting quite a few matches, nothing is materializing into actual dates. I feel that if I had... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Job descriptions on dating apps | 6 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fiu5hi/job_descriptions_on_dating_apps/ |
aaman44 | 2019-04-01 04:33:58 | 1,554,093,238 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | b7xda2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b7xda2/hows_dating_going_meet_anyone_new_general_chitchat/ | 2 | [23M] Matched with a [21F] woman yesterday on OkCupid. Got her number and we've been chatting all day. Workin on scheduling a date this weekend. So far from the texting, she seems pretty intrested, so I'm definitely stoked to meet her. Took a break from dating a little while so I'm pretty optimistic. Anyhow, what's up ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How's dating going? Meet anyone new? General Chit-Chat | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b7xda2/hows_dating_going_meet_anyone_new_general_chitchat/ |
Exciting_Engineer536 | 2024-08-29 22:17:10 | 1,724,969,830 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1f4f6ml | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f4f6ml/im_nobodys_type/ | 1 | I’m so angry and depressed I just can’t seem to be anybody’s type I try to talk to a lot of people in rl, bumble, tinder you name it. Although I have a preference, I am pretty much open to everyone all body types, complexions and ages, I struggle to find someone who TRULY likes me. I am a 31f, 168cm tall, have green ey... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m NOBODY’S TYPE | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f4f6ml/im_nobodys_type/ |
FeedBig3015 | 2024-01-20 21:18:45 | 1,705,785,525 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19bm6x1 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19bm6x1/i_found_a_fake_profile_of_my_therapist_on_a/ | 2 | The reason I know it is fake is the information is inaccurate. His pictures are real but name, height, and some other details are incorrect or slightly modified. His location is also incorrect. Should I let him know? I know he is in a happy relationship which makes me more certain that someone else is using his picture... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I found a “fake” profile of my therapist on a dating app, should I tell him? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19bm6x1/i_found_a_fake_profile_of_my_therapist_on_a/ |
SummerWorking4464 | 2022-07-10 18:03:49 | 1,657,476,229 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vvx78u | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vvx78u/he_never_has_the_time/ | 1 | okay so i (19F) matched with a guy (21M) about a month ago and it's been two weeks since we're planning to meet but whenever he's free im not and vice versa and in the meanwhile he just keeps ghosting and reappearing im honestly tired should i even meet him? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | he never has the time | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vvx78u/he_never_has_the_time/ |
SnazzySaxophoneGuy | 2018-02-19 22:23:23 | 1,519,079,003 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7yqrqa | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7yqrqa/i_keep_getting_rejected/ | 2 | I have been trying to get into the dating world since 12 years, but I keep getting rejected by females. Everytime I fall in love with an attractive girl and ask her out she tells me that she either is not interrested or that she has a boyfriend. Dating apps like tinder also won't work because I don't get any matches. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I keep getting rejected | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7yqrqa/i_keep_getting_rejected/ |
Popular-Studio-1565 | 2022-12-22 02:03:01 | 1,671,674,581 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zs8wei | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zs8wei/harmless_or_dangerous_behavior/ | 0 | I’m gonna withhold some details just in case this person is on Reddit So I recently dated a guy for 3 weeks. We met on a dating app and he seemed great on the first date, but quickly became obsessive, needy, controlling, and all sorts of red flags started popping up. Naturally, I ended things bc I’ve learned the hard w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Harmless or dangerous behavior? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zs8wei/harmless_or_dangerous_behavior/ |
thefishonwallstreet | 2019-10-05 04:04:37 | 1,570,248,277 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ddibc5 | true | Venting | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ddibc5/23_and_just_tired_of_the_grind/ | 3 | I haven't had an actual relationship since middle school, if those even count. I've never had sex and am pretty much a lost cause when it comes to dating. I've tried multiple dating apps but they just make me feel worse. It's the same thing over and over. Hit it off with a girl and then over time get ghosted or they ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 23 and just tired of "the grind" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ddibc5/23_and_just_tired_of_the_grind/ |
tokkieface | 2018-06-08 13:55:25 | 1,528,466,125 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 8pk25p | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8pk25p/help_outside_of_old/ | 2 | Hello all I know there are posts of other DOTers getting burnt out by OLD and have moved it to the real world. I would love more opinions about this. I have terrible issues connecting with people generally and even more so on dating apps. A little about me: I am very introverted and painfully shy/quiet when I am uncomf... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Help outside of OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8pk25p/help_outside_of_old/ |
Enber38 | 2020-12-27 09:37:36 | 1,609,061,856 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | kl0ys2 | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kl0ys2/what_do_i_do_if_i_feel_like_getting_on_dating/ | 1 | So, as I said in my title, I just got out of a pretty serious 6 month relationship hardly 2 weeks ago. Though, I'm tempted to get on dating apps just so I can talk to random girls (I don't know why, but I just don't like talking to guys online unless I know them IRL. [I'm a guy, myself]). But I feel that I need to be o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do I do if I feel like getting on dating sites just to talk to random people, if I just got out of a 6 month relationship and know that I want to eventually be ok being single? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kl0ys2/what_do_i_do_if_i_feel_like_getting_on_dating/ |
safetyalwaysoff5000 | 2019-04-26 04:42:29 | 1,556,253,749 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | bhibxn | true | Question | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/bhibxn/tattoos_attractive_or_repulsive/ | 12 | Just wondering what the DOF community thinks. How obvious tattoos figure into OLD profiles. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Tattoos, attractive or repulsive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/bhibxn/tattoos_attractive_or_repulsive/ |
FanOfHOME-Resonance | 2023-01-15 20:09:51 | 1,673,813,391 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10ctill | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ctill/are_these_facts_that_a_first_date_went_wellshe_is/ | 0 | I (25M) went yesterday on a first date with this girl (23F) I met on Tinder. We spent a total of 7 hours getting drinks and having a walk around the city, talking about our lives and interests. She told me she would make me her favourite meal (as she is a great cooker), go out party with me at her favourite club (as we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are these facts that a first date went well/she is interested? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ctill/are_these_facts_that_a_first_date_went_wellshe_is/ |
Devine97 | 2023-10-06 21:14:06 | 1,696,626,846 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 171ny8u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/171ny8u/how_to_handle_a_person_whos_being_just_plain/ | 1 | I matched with a cute girl on hinge earlier in the week and during our chats, it’s been a fight to get any info out of her and I’m unable to learn anything about her. Should I just be patient and keep trying, cut my losses or bring this up to her ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to handle a person who’s being just plain short in messages during talking stage ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/171ny8u/how_to_handle_a_person_whos_being_just_plain/ |
RunAway1972 | 2019-12-02 13:39:45 | 1,575,293,985 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e4z81e | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e4z81e/getting_complimented_as_a_guy_feels_surreal/ | 312 | So I'm a 19 year old nursing student and had finish my placement of three weeks where I meet a bunch of cool girls and a guy. This year was my breakthrough year in terms of finding hobbies, finding my personal values, finding my clothing ultimately finding me. So I had a dinner with my nursing colleagues who were from ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting complimented as a guy feels surreal | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e4z81e/getting_complimented_as_a_guy_feels_surreal/ |
DandyPandy | 2020-05-31 20:02:25 | 1,590,955,345 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gu5uin | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gu5uin/i_became_a_widower_last_july_i_was_wondering_why/ | 137 | Here’s the very abbreviated story. Married almost 14 years. Super dysfunctional relationship. Very enmeshed, codependent. She was an addict and had many health issues. I wanted to leave but stayed out of fear of what would happen to her because I was her caretaker, how much hell she would make my life, and being afraid... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I became a widower last July. I was wondering why everyone seemed to ghost after that came up and had a epiphany... | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gu5uin/i_became_a_widower_last_july_i_was_wondering_why/ |
[deleted] | 2016-10-29 23:49:47 | 1,477,784,987 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5a3dzo | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/5a3dzo/deleting_online_dating_accounts/ | 1 | So I have just finished deleting all of my online dating accounts. phew what a relief, that was toxic. I had no dates in 16 months and it was exhausting constantly trying. Anyone else had similar experiences? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Deleting online dating accounts | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5a3dzo/deleting_online_dating_accounts/ |
Flaky-Impact-2428 | 2022-10-28 06:07:54 | 1,666,937,274 | null | null | 0 | yffybr | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yffybr/when_did_you_decide_to_delete_the_apps/ | 8 | 30M: I've been using them for few years now. I consider myself well traveled, well versed, and achieved several things over the decades including a stable job, hobbies, and loving friends. I'd say average to above average looking. Fit, as I hit gym regularly. Coming to the point- no matter I try my best: changing appro... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When did you decide to delete the apps? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yffybr/when_did_you_decide_to_delete_the_apps/ |
radishwizard | 2022-06-19 16:15:51 | 1,655,655,351 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | vfymkf | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vfymkf/third_date_ideas/ | 0 | I started talking to a girl I (24M) met on a dating app. We went out twice to two breweries she mentioned were good, and I had a blast. We hooked up after the second date and we talk every day. For a third date, I have no idea what to do. I exhausted her suggestions, and I’m not sure what direction to go with a third d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Third Date Ideas | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vfymkf/third_date_ideas/ |
bawbi428 | 2023-10-29 21:25:03 | 1,698,614,703 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 17jd26c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17jd26c/how_on_earth_to_i_got_about_dating_as_an/ | 1 | I'm a 23m, and most of my personality is extremely feminine. I enjoy romance manga and movies/anime, My favorite colors are pink/purple, I sleep with about a million stuffed animals, and I cross dress in my free time and cosplay girl characters at conventions (and for what its worth I do think I look pretty good doing ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How on earth to I got about dating as an extremely feminine straight guy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17jd26c/how_on_earth_to_i_got_about_dating_as_an/ |
-tahir2 | 2022-09-03 12:36:28 | 1,662,208,588 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | x4tep9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x4tep9/ive20m_matched_with_a_couple_of_girls_but_non_of/ | 0 | This is my first experience with with tinder and I got like 6 ro 7 matches but non of the girls replied. I don't send them cheesy lines or the cheap ones. This is the part that I hate , I mean if you are not interested then why did you even swiped right. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've(20M) matched with a couple of girls but non of them replied | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x4tep9/ive20m_matched_with_a_couple_of_girls_but_non_of/ |
Pete_D_301 | 2023-12-25 16:57:05 | 1,703,523,425 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18qmbq8 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 134 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18qmbq8/i_personally_feel_as_a_man_who_is_30_and_still/ | 125 | I (30M) have been single ever since I was 19 and without a kiss from a woman for 6 years, and I personally feel emotionally and mentally demoralized as a result of it. I feel extremely lonely on a daily basis, and that loneliness sometimes triggers my depression. From my past experience with dating apps, I've been take... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I personally feel, as a man who is 30 and still single, worthless. | 125 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18qmbq8/i_personally_feel_as_a_man_who_is_30_and_still/ |
Arbibi321 | 2023-08-11 20:30:04 | 1,691,785,804 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15ojrc8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15ojrc8/i_dont_know_what_to_do_now/ | 1 | My apologies if I'm making many post, since I'm on the autistic spectrum knowing what is best to do is tricky, I (20M) met someone in a dating app and he was a flat earther, when we agreed about a place to meet since he did not show up and did not even wrote any explanation in WhatsApp now I placed the chat in hidden c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know what to do now | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15ojrc8/i_dont_know_what_to_do_now/ |
MeYouAndLondonToo | 2018-12-13 13:17:46 | 1,544,707,066 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a5tex5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a5tex5/i_dont_know_how_to_be_causal_on_a_date_help/ | 3 | Having had a couple of LTR then been married and divorced I’ve lived out a whole life of relationships at each level and lately I’ve had a dry spell, it’s either been tinder dates that went nowhere or mr. Wrong who I’ve had feelings for, for years and now I’ve been asked for drinks tomorrow by a guy who I know loosely ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t know how to be causal on a date HELP! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a5tex5/i_dont_know_how_to_be_causal_on_a_date_help/ |
tictactaupe | 2018-09-24 13:06:46 | 1,537,794,406 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9ihr8i | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ihr8i/tinder_with_kids/ | 10 | Where do you mention you have kids? Should that always be in your bio? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Tinder with kids? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ihr8i/tinder_with_kids/ |
Inside-Aromatic | 2024-08-23 06:38:03 | 1,724,395,083 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ez5yai | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ez5yai/got_ghostedkinda/ | 0 | Let’s start from the beginning. We had our first date a few months ago. It was quite awkward, and she didn’t enjoy herself much. The next day, she texted me, saying she didn’t want to continue but would be open to staying friends. Two weeks later, on a whim, I decided to reach out to her again. To my surprise, she resp... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got Ghosted(Kinda?) | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ez5yai/got_ghostedkinda/ |
notsofatnomore | 2018-03-30 22:29:30 | 1,522,448,970 | null | ['swipe', 'swipes', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | 88eb5h | false | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/88eb5h/i_call_this_one_tinder_roulette/ | 6 | To keep the OLD grind interesting, I sometimes get a little creative with my swipes. For example: No picture, no profile. Just an age and a distance. I call that one Mystery Meat. Swipe right and see what happens. Tonight's new one is Tinder Roulette First picture is 2 girls. One girl you'd go out with, the other... no... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I call this one: Tinder Roulette. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/88eb5h/i_call_this_one_tinder_roulette/ |
valcarni | 2019-08-05 15:36:00 | 1,565,019,360 | null | null | 0 | cmchx0 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cmchx0/best_place_to_look_for_testers_for_independently/ | 0 | Hey I am the main coder of a dating/chat app that I have been developing for nearly 4 years now. It is independently owned and has been designed and coded in-house. I plan for the app to always be free to message other users (unlike a lot of apps). The app has now been released but is currently in early access beta so ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best place to look for testers for independently owned Dating/Chat app that just launched on Google Play? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cmchx0/best_place_to_look_for_testers_for_independently/ |
cookiesandmilk23 | 2023-12-22 21:59:51 | 1,703,282,391 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18oq2r2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18oq2r2/found_my_coworker_crush_on_bumble_should_i/ | 1 | Hi I joined a new job very recently. First day on the job I end up meeting a new hire as well and we grabbed lunch together. We really hit it off and I thought he was super cute. We seemed to have a lot in common. For our jobs, we sometimes travel a lot, so after that 2 months went by and we didn't see each other again... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Found my co-worker crush on bumble? Should I message or let things flow in IRL | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18oq2r2/found_my_coworker_crush_on_bumble_should_i/ |
noot_noot231 | 2018-11-05 20:33:00 | 1,541,449,980 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9uhb0h | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9uhb0h/just_got_my_first_tinder_date/ | 2 | I haven't been asking around for advice here in a while but I guess some of the previous tips stuck to the back of my head lol. She seems super nice and I can't wait! Thanks guys :) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just got my first tinder date! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9uhb0h/just_got_my_first_tinder_date/ |
lollyvae | 2023-10-04 06:45:47 | 1,696,401,947 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16zg2ef | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/16zg2ef/men_what_are_your_tips_for_babyfaced_women_who/ | 1 | Okay so hopefully I can explain this correctly. I have a ‘baby-face’ where I’ve had people confuse me for 17 or so. (I’ve had so many people apologize for cursing in front of ‘a kid like me’ or asking why i’m not in school. 🫡) I have been trying to talk to more guys (in person and over dating apps) but have little suc... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men, what are your tips for ‘baby-faced’ women who can’t attract men? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16zg2ef/men_what_are_your_tips_for_babyfaced_women_who/ |
Chard-Artistic | 2024-08-29 09:12:02 | 1,724,922,722 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f3xwlg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f3xwlg/in_person_vs_online_dating/ | 1 | Hello all, I'm a Male (26) based in London. When I was 25, I decided to pursue dating. But, I started via the apps and not in person. So far, the results have been good and bad. But every female I've interacted on the apps have a form of mental health. To the females, how do you feel being approached in person? I decid... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In person vs Online dating | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3xwlg/in_person_vs_online_dating/ |
Persona00 | 2023-06-27 04:34:45 | 1,687,840,485 | 0 | ['swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | 14k3gdm | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14k3gdm/experience_with_dating_coaches/ | 1 | I'm a 33 y/o M that has been using OLD as the main method of meeting new people to date for the past few years. I understand that it can be a useful tool in dating but personally I'm not a huge fan of it. Between the endless swiping, ghosting, and fake accounts things can get pretty demoralizing. I'm hoping to meet peo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Experience with Dating Coaches? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14k3gdm/experience_with_dating_coaches/ |
blactrick | 2023-02-24 04:37:16 | 1,677,213,436 | null | null | 0 | 11ailis | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11ailis/guys_what_are_your_thoughts_on_women_who_look/ | 0 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys, what are your thoughts on women who look different without makeup? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11ailis/guys_what_are_your_thoughts_on_women_who_look/ |
85398032934 | 2013-08-08 23:52:17 | 1,376,005,937 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1jzqaq | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1jzqaq/at_what_point_would_you_want_to_know_about_a/ | 3 | Throwaway account. I would appreciate some outside perspective on my situation. I'm a 21 F who most commonly meets men through online dating lately. I have a minor skin problem, eczema, that can affect any part of my body except my face, genitals, palms of my hands and soles of my feet, but occurs most often around my ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | At what point would you want to know about a minor skin issue? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1jzqaq/at_what_point_would_you_want_to_know_about_a/ |
lovetolash | 2020-01-09 03:20:26 | 1,578,540,026 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | em3t0y | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/em3t0y/does_he_like_me_idk/ | 5 | First of all, here is some background on me and my love life history which will come into the story later. I have never been in a relationship my whole life and I’m 23, I have only had sex with one man twice, and that was almost 2 years ago so I have been celibate for almost 2 years. Not to sound conceited, but Im a pr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does he like me? Idk | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/em3t0y/does_he_like_me_idk/ |
toss-it-out-nao | 2022-05-31 16:27:44 | 1,654,014,464 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | v1u63v | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v1u63v/i_think_i_ruined_my_budding_relationship_and_now/ | 2 | This is going to be long so please bear with me. I think I fucked up. I (29M) and my new gf (28F) have been dating for a little over a month. First, some context. We matched online in March and talked for a few weeks, then started seeing each other exclusively around April. In the beginning everything was amazing, I ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I ruined my budding relationship and now it feels off. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v1u63v/i_think_i_ruined_my_budding_relationship_and_now/ |
SuperJason18 | 2018-08-11 22:10:02 | 1,534,025,402 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 96kbnm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/96kbnm/lost_feelings/ | 1 | Hi guys and gals. I met this girl on Tinder right at the end of the semester before the summer (I'm 19 btw) and went on a few dates and loved them. We didn't have all of the same interests but had a lot that made it easy for us to talk. Then Summer came along. We do not live close at all so we never saw each other duri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lost feelings? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/96kbnm/lost_feelings/ |
starfruitfriend | 2016-06-28 04:05:28 | 1,467,086,728 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4q7j3y | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4q7j3y/i_dont_know_how_to_meet_people/ | 8 | I went to college out of state, I was too sick to work/take care of myself and moved in with my grandparents right after I graduated. I was chronically ill for three years and lost my social life. I spent a lot of that alone time, learning about myself and growing. I am finally healed, and started working again. I work... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know how to meet people | 8 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4q7j3y/i_dont_know_how_to_meet_people/ |
MagikN3rd | 2024-04-17 00:27:51 | 1,713,313,671 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1c5w2xv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c5w2xv/too_open_too_boring/ | 1 | Basically, (30M) who wants to settle down. Had 2 really rough breakups in the past year and just trying to put myself back out there, and am using dating apps. In my profile I've expressed what I'm looking for (long-term relationship/life partner) and eventually hoping to get married and have children. I think I'm a pr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too open? Too boring? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c5w2xv/too_open_too_boring/ |
orangecountyuser | 2024-06-16 04:33:41 | 1,718,512,421 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dgzrll | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dgzrll/after_2nd_date_how_to_proceed/ | 1 | Me (26M) met girl on hinge (22F) and I planned first two dates. Before the first date we talked on hinge back and fourth for days and she was building rapport. Planned and went on second date with minimal rapport in between on her part. Second date went well I thought. She hasn’t texted after and we didn’t plan a third... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | After 2nd Date - how to proceed. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dgzrll/after_2nd_date_how_to_proceed/ |
[deleted] | 2020-01-30 11:24:27 | 1,580,383,467 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ew3y68 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ew3y68/how_has_the_purpose_of_relationships_or_dating/ | 16 | I've been thinking about the recently. And hindsight is 20/20. When I started dating I really only pursued people who I thought were "less challenging," basically people who I thought were kind of socially off. After that phase, I did OLD and went on a million dates, kind of as learning experiences but was always bumme... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How has the purpose of relationships or dating changed in your life over time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ew3y68/how_has_the_purpose_of_relationships_or_dating/ |
Amazing-Guitar2197 | 2023-04-17 11:43:47 | 1,681,731,827 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12pcxzy | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12pcxzy/how_do_i_go_about_including_the_fact_that_i_dont/ | 11 | So, for context I (F/26) have no interest in having children of my own - or dating someone with kids. I’m wanting a serious, long term relationship. But I also have found that selecting the “don’t want” option on Hinge doesn’t work. Guys don’t seem to read my profile and will still attempt to comment on a prompt of min... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I go about including the fact that I don’t want children into my Hinge profile? | 11 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12pcxzy/how_do_i_go_about_including_the_fact_that_i_dont/ |
[deleted] | 2016-11-12 18:59:26 | 1,478,977,166 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5cluaf | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5cluaf/is_this_girl_seeking_attention_or_is_she/ | 2 | I am a 23 year old male who had recently matched with a 21 girl on tinder. We started talking and within a few minutes she gave me her number. I started to text her and somehow the conversation ended up being sexual. She asked me to come over and see her and followed up that message by saying that she's looking for a s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this girl seeking attention or is she genuinely confused about what she wants? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5cluaf/is_this_girl_seeking_attention_or_is_she/ |
kayaretea | 2019-04-17 17:07:12 | 1,555,520,832 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | beaans | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/beaans/how_do_i_get_him_out_of_my_head/ | 2 | please help me understand why i can’t get this guy off my mind. so first time i “met” him was on a school ski trip in first year (we are finishing second year now, he is 20 and i’m 21F), but he was there with his girlfriend and that weekend was full of a lot of drinking and little sleep so i honestly couldn’t remember ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how do i get him out of my head? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/beaans/how_do_i_get_him_out_of_my_head/ |
AmiableRobin | 2023-05-08 00:55:05 | 1,683,507,305 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13b8srn | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13b8srn/my_27f_boyfriend_30m_is_treating_me_like_a/ | 308 | I'm in the beginning stages of a new relationship with someone I met using online dating. We naturally fell into dating, from just seeing each other almost every day, to referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend before any official question passed between us. Today we finally just joked about picking our own ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My (27F) boyfriend (30M) is treating me like a valuable human instead of a pleasure object | 308 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13b8srn/my_27f_boyfriend_30m_is_treating_me_like_a/ |
Samat93 | 2022-09-07 10:22:34 | 1,662,546,154 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | x81gv4 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x81gv4/about_a_guy_i_would_really_like_some_opinions/ | 1 | I always thought that if a guy is really interested in a girl, they’ll make alot of effort to communicate with them In my experience it’s often been like that where a guy texts me all the time and lovebombs me and all that, but I realize it ends up all being fake and it dies not too long later as he starts to get dista... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | About a guy, I would really like some opinions | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x81gv4/about_a_guy_i_would_really_like_some_opinions/ |
corksncoffee | 2020-10-26 19:05:15 | 1,603,739,115 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | jikuoy | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jikuoy/im_26f_finally_trying_to_date_after_being_single/ | 4 | I (26F) have been single my whole adult life. My last relationship ended in my senior year of high school, right after I had just turned 18 and was about to go off to college. Other than my last couple years of college, I haven’t actively tried to date. I don’t mind the quietness and independence, and so far, I’ve spen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm (26F) finally trying to date after being single for my whole adult life, and I have no clue how this supposed to work. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jikuoy/im_26f_finally_trying_to_date_after_being_single/ |
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