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dkyuth | 2020-07-16 00:00:47 | 1,594,857,647 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | hrz6ve | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hrz6ve/get_me_off_of_old_the_messaging_is_too_much/ | 3 | My dating profile gets matches. I'm charming in person, if I do say so myself ) The problem is I don't want to take the time to do all of the banal back and forth that gets you from swipe to in person meeting. I'm starting to cringe and ghost when someone asks me how I'm doing. Is there a shortcut? Or are there any dec... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Get Me Off of OLD -- The Messaging is Too Much. Looking for an In Person Introduction Hack. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hrz6ve/get_me_off_of_old_the_messaging_is_too_much/ |
BlueberryConstant939 | 2024-04-07 05:02:32 | 1,712,466,152 | 0 | ['swiped', 'swipes', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1bxw5ul | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxw5ul/the_biggest_reason_online_dating_isnt_working_for/ | 1 | TLDR: finding people to date IRL, is way more accurate and appropriate, you get to continually see the whole package while they interact with others and there’s less of a chance of the ‘I’m attracted to them because they’re attracted to me bs’— plus men have a better shot if a woman can see the whole package, because p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The biggest reason online dating isn’t working for everyone and we should get more social | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxw5ul/the_biggest_reason_online_dating_isnt_working_for/ |
Arctelis | 2022-03-02 00:54:30 | 1,646,182,470 | null | null | 0 | t4negp | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t4negp/if_youre_religious_why_swipe_right_on_an_atheist/ | 36 | Got a match, even led to a conversation. A pretty rare event for me. Despite a lacklustre opener on her part, it started well enough. Talked about politics, and our mutual distaste for our current leader. Not common among ladyfolk in my parts, so I was getting fairly interested. I should add, she didn’t have any religi... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you’re religious, why swipe right on an Atheist if that’s a hard no? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t4negp/if_youre_religious_why_swipe_right_on_an_atheist/ |
Napkxng | 2022-07-04 12:04:12 | 1,656,936,252 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vr5w34 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vr5w34/really_nice_talking_stage_randomly_dying_out/ | 3 | I'm (23m) new to dating apps, never had one and don't have much dating experience either. This dating stuff is brutal 😭 It went from "I can talk to you forever"(word for word she texted) to taking forever to even talk everyday for a week and so many voice messages saying we can talk forever to now she replies in forev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Really nice talking stage randomly dying out | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vr5w34/really_nice_talking_stage_randomly_dying_out/ |
Fearless-Let-8352 | 2022-10-06 20:45:00 | 1,665,089,100 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | xxfsnn | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xxfsnn/dating_on_bumble_advice/ | 1 | So me 35M recently made a bumble account for dating. Im more of a blue collar’d worker than a white collar, and just about every girl on bumble has a degree and is a lawyer or in finance. Ive had very few matches n the matches i did get, they either dont say hi or they will say hi and i will say hi back n thats it. So ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating on bumble advice | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xxfsnn/dating_on_bumble_advice/ |
ShafordoDrForgone | 2022-11-21 22:03:50 | 1,669,068,230 | null | null | 0 | z1brkn | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z1brkn/have_you_ever_had_someone_give_you_a_neutral_or/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have you ever had someone give you a neutral or poor first impression, who over time made you change your mind such that you grew to love and admire them? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z1brkn/have_you_ever_had_someone_give_you_a_neutral_or/ |
[deleted] | 2022-01-12 23:33:50 | 1,642,030,430 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | s2kcmk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s2kcmk/ive_got_a_busted_nose/ | 2 | I've had a busted nose all thru my young adult life. It bends way far out to the left. Has always made me hate taking pictures and photographers have a hard time. I'm planning to get it fixed soon for health reasons. The point of this though is that I'm pretty certain this has also affected my dating life. My facial fe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've got a busted nose | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s2kcmk/ive_got_a_busted_nose/ |
TheHawkDoc | 2021-01-02 04:49:15 | 1,609,562,955 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kor2ey | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kor2ey/women_just_ghost_me_out_of_nowhere/ | 0 | I end up matching with people on various dating apps and everything is going great conversation is flowing well I think and then they just block me with no explanation and I'm just really confused. Is this just something that happens really often and I need to be prepared for or just bad luck? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women just ghost me out of nowhere | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kor2ey/women_just_ghost_me_out_of_nowhere/ |
thelastsapien | 2022-11-16 14:00:34 | 1,668,607,234 | null | null | 0 | ywu5xe | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ywu5xe/f32_he_suddenly_disappear/ | 1 | I rarely get essily connected with opposite sex, but this Greek guy totally swept off my feet. We talked for a month. We got close and talked every night yet suddenly, he stopped messaging me. A day after he told me his bestfriend got sick then two days after she died. We never talked much for a week. He said he needed... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | F/32: He suddenly disappear | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ywu5xe/f32_he_suddenly_disappear/ |
juanone12 | 2024-06-11 23:52:25 | 1,718,149,945 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ddsw9j | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ddsw9j/any_single_woman_in_the_inland_empire/ | 1 | Hey! I’ve been on dating apps but it seems not a lot of people go back on it once they make it or the conversations don’t lead much to anywhere, so if there’s any single woman out there or not. Relationship status doesn’t really matter just keeping it real,however Im looking for some long term fun, I got a good paying ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any single woman in the Inland empire ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddsw9j/any_single_woman_in_the_inland_empire/ |
HungryMay | 2023-12-15 01:46:09 | 1,702,604,769 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18iopzu | true | Question ❓ | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18iopzu/why_do_guys_become_dry/ | 7 | Ive been talking to this guy from bumble for a few days and we always sending long paragraphs however when we got to the topic of why we were both on a cursed app like bumble. His reason was looking for love and I didnt really give an answer i just said ive met some interesting people. Then we got on the topic of love ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do guys become dry? | 7 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18iopzu/why_do_guys_become_dry/ |
DayNight1234 | 2020-08-04 04:32:08 | 1,596,515,528 | null | ['swipe', 'bumble'] | 0 | i3cskb | true | Venting | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i3cskb/i_see_all_these_gorgeous_women_on_bumble_and_i/ | 7 | If I learned any lesson in this is that I have to be more disciplined with my diet and I have to exercise harder than I ever have. I don’t know if that’s going to solve anything but at least I’m doing something rather than doing nothing. I envy those extremely attractive guys who get a shit ton of women. I would switch... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I see all these gorgeous women on bumble and I know they are not going to swipe right | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i3cskb/i_see_all_these_gorgeous_women_on_bumble_and_i/ |
CuriousKittenuwu | 2024-08-13 23:04:40 | 1,723,590,280 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1erlrx1 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1erlrx1/im_frustrated_please_help_tt/ | 26 | I don't really know how to start it but to already summarize what will be following: Dating frustrates me. (And I'm sorry, my English isn't the best) I've never been in a relationship and I've never been in love. I'm not sure if I ever had a crush bcs it felt more like "I wanna be them" instead of "I wanna do them". Be... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm frustrated. Please help TT | 26 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1erlrx1/im_frustrated_please_help_tt/ |
Semi_Swoljeye | 2024-09-21 18:26:20 | 1,726,943,180 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fm9hg1 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fm9hg1/theres_a_girl_in_my_class_that_i_found_on_a/ | 1 | Hey so theres a girl in my stats class that I think is pretty but I found her on Hinge, I was planning on asking for her number regardless but would it be a better move to do it in person or message her on Hinge instead? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | There’s a girl in my class that I found on a dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fm9hg1/theres_a_girl_in_my_class_that_i_found_on_a/ |
WheresDaCoffee | 2021-02-27 05:24:38 | 1,614,403,478 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lth50i | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lth50i/meeting_women_in_rural_areas/ | 1 | (20m) I’m in a fairly rural area, about 2-3 hrs to any major city’s, and there’s a fairly disproportionate number of males in my age group in the area. I want to start dating but it feels like there are little to no eligible women around. I’ve tried typical things, dating apps, coffee shops, going out for lunch, church... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting women in rural areas | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lth50i/meeting_women_in_rural_areas/ |
irritabletrousers | 2022-05-23 16:59:06 | 1,653,325,146 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | uw4ug6 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uw4ug6/guy_ive_been_seeing_for_25_months_kind_of_feels/ | 1 | I've (24F) met this guy (28M) through OLD. I think I like him enough, he's funny and we've had great banters and convos from the get go. We're both busy people who live on opposite sides of the city though, about 1-2 hours away, so its been difficult planning meet ups. Took about 2 months of texting until we could fina... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy I've been seeing for 2.5 months kind of feels like he's interested in getting a girlfriend more than he is interested to get to know me as a person | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uw4ug6/guy_ive_been_seeing_for_25_months_kind_of_feels/ |
GregS332 | 2024-05-23 12:30:47 | 1,716,467,447 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cyrm5f | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cyrm5f/not_sure_if_i_like_a_girl_after_we_fooled_around/ | 1 | So I (29M) met a girl (25F) on a dating app and have met up with her 3 times over the past week or so. The most recent time we watched a movie at her place and cuddled on the couch, it was really nice. Anyway as the night progressed things got steadily more sexually charged and ended up with an act being performed upon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if I like a girl after we fooled around. | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cyrm5f/not_sure_if_i_like_a_girl_after_we_fooled_around/ |
MFRobots | 2020-05-02 12:14:21 | 1,588,421,661 | null | null | 0 | gc5h0h | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gc5h0h/meetup_as_a_method_of_dating/ | 3 | I don't know if anyone here ever used the Meetup site where people get together in real time,in a group, for a social event...or hiking...or paddle boarding...or dining out, etc. It was at once a pretty popular site for people to get together and make new friends ,but over time...the site has been so saturated with Mee... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Meetup as a method of dating... | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gc5h0h/meetup_as_a_method_of_dating/ |
TeachingSpecific6720 | 2023-02-26 23:24:52 | 1,677,453,892 | null | null | 0 | 11cw7qj | true | null | 89 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11cw7qj/thoughts_on_men_in_their_late_30s_dating_without/ | 22 | It just seems like such a red flag when men haven't got their career sorted out yet, they have no money and want attention from women. I'm currently on a christian dating website now, and there's lots of men with no jobs who don't even go to church. It's even more annoying, because they say that they go to "insert bigg... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Thoughts on men in their late 30s dating without a job? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11cw7qj/thoughts_on_men_in_their_late_30s_dating_without/ |
NJ_Yankees_Fan | 2019-02-16 13:49:40 | 1,550,324,980 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | ar8xev | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ar8xev/when_is_the_right_moment_to_ask_somebody_out/ | 1 | So basically, I'm in my mid 20s, in grad school, and I've never been on a date. Every single time I've grown to like a girl, I've tried to get to know her better, put myself out there and show I'm interested in the stuff that goes on in her life, and then I make the move to ask her out. But every, single, time, I've go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When is the right moment to ask somebody out? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ar8xev/when_is_the_right_moment_to_ask_somebody_out/ |
focusondoing | 2024-06-11 00:55:59 | 1,718,067,359 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dd1np7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dd1np7/help_understanding_my_situation/ | 1 | I'm an Indian who came to America 2 months ago. I ( 26 ) met this guy (27) on a dating app. We had been talking for 15 days when he came over to my place. I wanted physical intimacy as I want inactive for the last one and half year as in no kissing nothing. I lost my virginity to him when he came to stay at night for t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help understanding my situation | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dd1np7/help_understanding_my_situation/ |
itstherizzler96 | 2024-09-13 11:01:21 | 1,726,225,281 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ffrwy4 | true | null | 112 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffrwy4/what_are_your_biggest_icks_about_online_dating/ | 18 | I’ve explored dating apps and having conversations with some women, but what gives me the ick is when they suddenly ghost you or when they have a demeaning attitude. I know that dating apps made ghosting so common but I sincerely see it as disrespectful. Being honest about why you can’t go on with getting to know each ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are your biggest icks about online dating? | 18 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffrwy4/what_are_your_biggest_icks_about_online_dating/ |
insipidnesss | 2024-02-22 21:29:26 | 1,708,637,366 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1axiblu | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1axiblu/how_to_meet_someone_interesting_in_your_late_30s/ | 1 | I’m 38 and I tried using dating apps for 2 months recently and I’ve noticed that because of my age, people I’m interested in won’t see my profile. I look 10 years younger and I feel like I’m younger, I take really great care of myself and people often get shocked when they ask my age. I’m not really attracted to older ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet someone interesting in your late 30s | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1axiblu/how_to_meet_someone_interesting_in_your_late_30s/ |
whymetho12 | 2018-05-06 07:40:16 | 1,525,592,416 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 8hdqy4 | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8hdqy4/getting_ghosted_repeatedly/ | 8 | So an odd thing has happened recently. A few months ago I met a girl on a dating app, we only talked for like a day but we decided to meet up at a bar later that week. It went well, she ended up coming coming home with me for the night. The next day we texted a little bit, and I said we should go out again, she said gr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting Ghosted repeatedly | 8 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8hdqy4/getting_ghosted_repeatedly/ |
MashTaterChips | 2016-09-27 20:20:09 | 1,475,007,609 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 54slk7 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/54slk7/suspicious_notification_on_girlfriends_phone/ | 3 | Hey all, this is my very first post on Reddit ever, and am hoping that this could yield some answers for me. My girlfriend and I were cuddling on the couch and she was checking the messages on her phone. We joke all the time about looking at what the other is doing while they are doing it and the other trying to hide i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Suspicious Notification on Girlfriend's phone | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/54slk7/suspicious_notification_on_girlfriends_phone/ |
Ornery_Enthusiasm529 | 2024-05-06 22:20:05 | 1,715,034,005 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1clvwwl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1clvwwl/ended_things_abruptly_and_im_not_sure_if_i_should/ | 1 | I was seeing a guy for 2-3 months, we had not talked exclusivity yet and we didn’t have sex, but did get pretty intimate one night. I could tell he was developing feelings for me. Basically, things got too close for me and I bailed. At the time, I thought I wasn’t into it, but now I can see I got spooked and ran. I end... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ended things abruptly and I’m not sure if I should apologize. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1clvwwl/ended_things_abruptly_and_im_not_sure_if_i_should/ |
deeohdoublegzzy | 2024-09-03 23:09:30 | 1,725,404,970 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f8e2fo | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f8e2fo/i_35m_asked_her_31f_for_a_second_date_am_i/ | 1 | I asked out a wonderful woman from online dating for a first date this weekend and we had a lot of fun. We grabbed coffee and went for a nice stroll that ended up being four hours long. She gave me her number at the end of the date (she is wary of giving her number out online) and I texted her back saying I would love ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (35M) asked her (31F) for a second date - am I getting mixed signals? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f8e2fo/i_35m_asked_her_31f_for_a_second_date_am_i/ |
[deleted] | 2019-10-31 14:51:14 | 1,572,533,474 | null | null | 0 | dpom6y | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/dpom6y/safety_tips_and_red_flags_to_recognize_on_online/ | 20 | I wanted to post this because I know online dating is a serious thing now and it is how most people are meeting now a days. These are my safety tips that I used when I was on OLD Online dating. Tips for a great profile: PHOTOS: ALWAYS use clear recent photos of yourself so that people know its really you. A few clothed... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Safety tips and red flags to recognize on Online Dating sites and apps. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/dpom6y/safety_tips_and_red_flags_to_recognize_on_online/ |
PhoneMessenger | 2016-02-12 03:28:02 | 1,455,247,682 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 45csht | null | null | 34 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/45csht/how_do_you_datehave_sexual_relationships_with/ | 0 | This isn't a topic specific to women, but I am one, I like to believe. So I wanna know how people like me do it. How do you get into intimate situations with people, without going to a service or scenario where the point is to find someone. So no clubbing or online dating or anything like that. No online anything. And ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How do you date/have sexual relationships with people without the social environments of school, work, dating/hookup spots, online dating, or clubbing? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/45csht/how_do_you_datehave_sexual_relationships_with/ |
justin_ad19 | 2021-01-31 17:36:04 | 1,612,114,564 | null | null | 0 | l9h7zd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/l9h7zd/i_keep_getting_unverified/ | 1 | On all my accounts (tinder, bumble, badoo) i keep doing the photo verification, it gets approved, then a few days later when i check back im no longer verified. Does anyone know whats up with this? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I keep getting unverified | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/l9h7zd/i_keep_getting_unverified/ |
MotherOfMetal | 2015-11-03 09:38:48 | 1,446,543,528 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3rc1m3 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/3rc1m3/i_want_to_put_myself_out_in_the_open_again/ | 3 | I got out of an 8-year long relationship almost a year ago now and I want to put myself back into play. Problem is, I've completely forgotten how to do the dating game... not that I ever know how to do it. I've only dated one guy since 14 and now that I'm single again it feels like I'm back to awkward middle school. On... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I Want To Put Myself Out in the Open Again | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3rc1m3/i_want_to_put_myself_out_in_the_open_again/ |
Maximum_Serve_3016 | 2023-07-12 23:32:10 | 1,689,204,730 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14y4e8b | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14y4e8b/questioning/ | 1 | Do you guys ever get so sexually aroused that you turn gay or is it that I might be bi? There are times when I am so aroused and since I got no game I dont really get women. After giving dating apps one more try, I turn to grindr in search of intimacy. But once I get off or have sex with a guy I cease any desire of hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Questioning | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14y4e8b/questioning/ |
yeoldgroudon | 2024-06-08 14:02:46 | 1,717,855,366 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1db3nqp | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1db3nqp/i_have_a_dumb_and_embarrassing_question_but_i/ | 2 | Hi I’m 24 male and have never had a gf because of my body image as I was born with a facial palsy (I was born with it not Bell’s palsy) causing an asymmetrical face (this resulted in body dysmorphia, anxiety, depression as well as an eating disorder form getting addicted to the gym thinking a good body will make up for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have a dumb and embarrassing question but I want to date but I’m scared of intimacy due to struggling with my body image in the past | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1db3nqp/i_have_a_dumb_and_embarrassing_question_but_i/ |
Nenori | 2017-02-03 09:18:35 | 1,486,113,515 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 5rsxz6 | null | null | 22 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5rsxz6/am_i_doing_this_dating_thing_right_22_black_f/ | 6 | I feel like I'm not going literally anywhere with anyone. I'm unfortunately a little socially awkward around large groups so I prefer to meet guys through tinder and bumble. But anyways I know what I want, I'm ambitious and I work 2 jobs and go to school and I want a guy I can spoil and spend time with but literally ev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing this dating thing right? 22 black f | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5rsxz6/am_i_doing_this_dating_thing_right_22_black_f/ |
SluggishSquid | 2024-08-23 19:38:01 | 1,724,441,881 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ezlpjn | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ezlpjn/does_anyone_else_feel_like_theyre_not_good_enough/ | 81 | I’m just a regular dude in his late twenties. I’m well put together generally speaking. Get along with everyone, have decent friend groups, a good career, plenty of money saved, a cute dog, and a few hobbies I do when I have free time, but nothing extreme. I’m hygienic, dress decently, socially adjusted, but maybe a bi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does anyone else feel like they’re not good enough to date? | 81 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ezlpjn/does_anyone_else_feel_like_theyre_not_good_enough/ |
Ibimseinsanis | 2018-02-15 22:01:36 | 1,518,732,096 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7xtyag | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7xtyag/voice_messages/ | 3 | Hey, i noticed a lot of women i met through a dating app use voice messages in WhatsApp occasionally. Even though we havent yet met in real life. Can this be seen as a sign of interest or am i reading too much into it? thanks. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Voice Messages... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7xtyag/voice_messages/ |
Bothsidesnow13 | 2021-09-17 02:19:03 | 1,631,845,143 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pprcdh | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pprcdh/i_cant_bring_myself_to_go_on_dates/ | 4 | Over the past few years, I've developed a really bad habit of agreeing to go on dates/hanging out with people and then never following through or cancelling at the last minute. Prior to the start of my last relationship in March 2019, I would sometimes follow through with the dates. Most of these were just single dates... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can't bring myself to go on dates. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pprcdh/i_cant_bring_myself_to_go_on_dates/ |
throwsie123456 | 2019-03-21 22:14:55 | 1,553,206,495 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | b3wtpr | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b3wtpr/wants_kids_definitely_in_dating_profile_to_filter/ | 20 | Throwaway account. I'm a recently divorced father, 41 years old. Signed up for OLD (Match) and am seeing a lot of profiles of women my age (37-45) with the attribute of "Wants Kids - Definitely". I have had a vasectomy so that ship has sailed. Does "Wants kids - Definitely" ever mean someone else's? To complicate thing... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | "Wants kids - Definitely" in dating profile- To filter or not? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b3wtpr/wants_kids_definitely_in_dating_profile_to_filter/ |
FirstV1 | 2022-06-14 06:27:02 | 1,655,188,022 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | vbx231 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vbx231/im_down_bad_are_paid_versions_of_bumbletinder/ | 2 | I like to think I have a pretty decent profile. Some pics of me smiling, some serious, some with friends, out and about, in the gym, and some with a suit on. Bio mentions my ethnicities, and that I like to workout. Pretty much it, only gripe I have with my profile is the pics are a year or two old. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im down bad, are paid versions of Bumble/Tinder worth it? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vbx231/im_down_bad_are_paid_versions_of_bumbletinder/ |
throwaway178294556 | 2023-07-23 22:48:54 | 1,690,152,534 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 157suzo | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/157suzo/how_to_meet_girls_in_person/ | 1 | TLDR: I’m shy at first but am much better in person and want to find someone who will be nice to me and love me as much as I will love them. I (22m) wouldn’t say my situation is complicated but, it’s complicated. I’m a very outgoing person when I’m in person. I have a good sense of humor and I can use the tone of my vo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet girls in person | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/157suzo/how_to_meet_girls_in_person/ |
Formal-Newspaper-921 | 2024-05-05 11:04:21 | 1,714,907,061 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ckorth | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ckorth/he_said_lets_keep_in_touch_was_he_just_being_nice/ | 1 | I met this guy from a dating app, we went out for drinks and had so much fun together. The vibes between us were like we’ve been friends forever and I loved that feeling, I never had that feeling with anyone. Even friends I’ve known for years, it wasn’t that instant. Prior to meeting him I made it clear that I don’t ju... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He said “let’s keep in touch” was he just being nice after a hookup? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ckorth/he_said_lets_keep_in_touch_was_he_just_being_nice/ |
mmm831 | 2019-08-22 22:39:14 | 1,566,513,554 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | cu4wsr | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cu4wsr/how_do_i_find_a_woman_who_would_date_me_for_oral/ | 0 | M(55) tried to date but after women find out I only want to spread their legs to go down on them without intercourse, they lose interest. There is plenty of lesbians who do just that but when it comes from a man... Expectations are different. Does it really matter who does it if it feels good? On dating sites there isn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I find a woman who would date me for oral sex only? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cu4wsr/how_do_i_find_a_woman_who_would_date_me_for_oral/ |
colddrinkclink | 2024-09-13 11:18:27 | 1,726,226,307 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ffs75u | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ffs75u/advice_for_tinder_boy/ | 1 | i’ve been talking to this guy from tinder for about two weeks now and we had already established that we were both looking for relationships. we moved from tinder, to instagram and then i gave him my number after he asked me out on a date. the problem here is he lives 2 hours away. (idk how we even matched because i ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for Tinder Boy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ffs75u/advice_for_tinder_boy/ |
e30325i | 2013-03-12 23:31:17 | 1,363,131,077 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1a6i4x | null | null | 26 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1a6i4x/would_you_respond_to_an_okcupid_message_from/ | 1 | I don't have my pictures on my OKCupid profile due to privacy issues. I'm thinking of messaging a girl, and am happy to send her my pictures directly, but she wouldn't really see them unless she asked/I offered. If you got a message from someone with no pictures, would you reply to it? If so, at what point would it be ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Would you respond to an OKCupid message from someone with no pictures posted? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1a6i4x/would_you_respond_to_an_okcupid_message_from/ |
Cold_Cold_Coffee | 2021-04-29 23:57:38 | 1,619,740,658 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | n1hqz1 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n1hqz1/do_hot_guys_get_away_with_anything/ | 0 | I was talking to my ex yesterday. She is average (a 6) , her current bf (of 9 months) is a solid 9 - super hot and muscular. She is currently unemployed whereas he makes decent money in a stable job. I know that her boyfriend consistently cheats on her and she knows it. He doesn't mistreat her, but he doesn't care abou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do hot guys get away with anything? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n1hqz1/do_hot_guys_get_away_with_anything/ |
GoofyLooking | 2018-09-30 09:55:39 | 1,538,301,339 | null | null | 0 | 9k5665 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9k5665/reply_i_got_from_a_woman_on_ronlinedating_i_try/ | 0 | re: hi from PMmeForAFatGirlfrind sent 53 minutes ago Okay, I don't really know how to start on this, so bear with me. You're 42? That's almost 50. You are done with almost MORE THAN HALF of your life. You know, there are men who are fathers at your age, some are even grandfathers. GRANDFATHERS. And you haven't even see... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Reply i got from a woman on r/onlinedating. I try to be strong and keep my hopes up, but this is harsh. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9k5665/reply_i_got_from_a_woman_on_ronlinedating_i_try/ |
We_areall_bread | 2024-05-11 23:18:55 | 1,715,469,535 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cptzwf | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cptzwf/what_do_you_tell_people/ | 1 | When you're dating someone, that you've met through a dating app, what do you tell people? If you're embarrassed about using and meeting someone through an app, what have you told others, about how you met the person you're dating? Just curious 🤔 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you tell people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cptzwf/what_do_you_tell_people/ |
Frosty-Nectarine-926 | 2022-10-28 21:55:23 | 1,666,994,123 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | yg1q4v | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yg1q4v/is_my_boyfriend_cheating/ | 1 | I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 months. We’re both 27 and have had other relationships. Overall things have been great except the last few weeks where he’s gotten cold towards me and we’ve had communication issues. Last night we sat down and discussed the communication issue that keeps happening, what the other p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is my boyfriend cheating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yg1q4v/is_my_boyfriend_cheating/ |
Quick-Primary-7486 | 2023-12-19 18:10:17 | 1,703,009,417 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18m8bn9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/18m8bn9/men_how_do_you_deal_with_loneliness/ | 1 | I (25m) don't socialize much, I have a few good friends, but only other Men, no Women. I've tired online dating, but not much luck. Although I enjoy video games, movies, TV shows, music etc, it eventually gets boring and I'm reminded that I'm quite lonely. I've also currently unemployed (looking again after new years),... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men, How do you deal with loneliness? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18m8bn9/men_how_do_you_deal_with_loneliness/ |
fxf09 | 2023-01-26 18:29:16 | 1,674,757,756 | null | ['OLD', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 10lyqzx | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10lyqzx/one_last_hail_mary_shot_at_messaging_to_former/ | 1 | Like everyone else, New Year came around and I wanted to finally keep pushing through the OLD and find a girlfriend, someone who fits well with me. It happened to be that on New Years Day, I saw a girl on OkCupid who looked familiar. I read through the profile and it really stood out to me because of how similar we wer... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | One last Hail Mary shot at messaging to former classmate? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10lyqzx/one_last_hail_mary_shot_at_messaging_to_former/ |
Automatic-Life7378 | 2024-04-17 21:20:56 | 1,713,388,856 | 0 | ['swipe', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c6ll05 | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c6ll05/whats_up_with_people_not_verifying_themselves_on/ | 1 | i’m currently on hinge and noticed most guys don’t verify themselves. do they just not realize? are these really all catfishes? if they’re not verified i almost immediately swipe left because it worries me. thoughts? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what’s up with people not verifying themselves on apps? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c6ll05/whats_up_with_people_not_verifying_themselves_on/ |
n-goat | 2019-02-23 18:53:02 | 1,550,947,982 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | atyobx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/atyobx/online_dating/ | 1 | Which site/app has been most successful? And did you pay for a subscription? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/atyobx/online_dating/ |
IAPark | 2020-07-28 16:04:36 | 1,595,952,276 | null | null | 0 | hzhbgq | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hzhbgq/any_advice_on_this_profile_would_be_appreciated/ | 3 | Look I know the answer might just be to cut my hair, dress better, and work out more, and I am trying, but I'm also interested if any of you see obvious problems with this profile https://imgur.com/a/LF8pVuS Edit replaced old album link seen here https://imgur.com/a/Uyruz9Y. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any advice on this profile would be appreciated | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hzhbgq/any_advice_on_this_profile_would_be_appreciated/ |
sad_bod | 2020-07-01 15:05:45 | 1,593,615,945 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hjbz3u | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hjbz3u/women_how_do_you_actually_want_to_be_approached/ | 68 | Im tired of online dating since it seems like its mostly just people bored and passively participating. I want to try approaching women IRL in a non-threatening but confident way. However, EVERY woman I know has been harassed or cat-called multiple times, and i don't want to be part of the problem. Can any women give m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women: How do you actually want to be approached in bars. clubs, or even bookstores. etc. ? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjbz3u/women_how_do_you_actually_want_to_be_approached/ |
ArcadeAndrew115 | 2024-03-16 04:05:05 | 1,710,561,905 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bfxflu | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bfxflu/im_pretty_sure_i_was_sexually_assaulted_by_a/ | 2 | So context here: I’m 27M and I went on a date last night to meet a girl from bumble.. and we were talking in her car at one point and then out of nowhere she puts her head on my lap, I’m CLEARY not comfortable with this but I don’t really say anything, then she starts sucking on my fingers and I REALLY don’t like it an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m pretty sure I was sexually assaulted by a bumble date but I’m not sure..? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bfxflu/im_pretty_sure_i_was_sexually_assaulted_by_a/ |
BulldogBrandon | 2020-12-12 18:28:45 | 1,607,797,725 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | kbu2k9 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kbu2k9/how_long_until_i_should_have_the_talk_about/ | 1 | We (24M and 30F) matched on Bumble about a week ago. The conversation has been relatively consistent. I am definitely interested, but she gives mixed signals. Originally she wasn’t sure what she looking for, but I was hoping for this to potentially turn romantic? When is an appropriate amount of time to have that kind ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long until I should have the talk about intentions? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kbu2k9/how_long_until_i_should_have_the_talk_about/ |
Khoaskingllll | 2020-04-18 23:53:26 | 1,587,254,006 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | g3xqvy | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g3xqvy/looking_to_date_when_working_on_yourself_at_the/ | 1 | M/24 . Started working on myself just shy of a yr ago after a breakup. At a healthier lbs again. And doing things for me again... more so relearning myself. It was pretty good for a while until I realized the next part of that Journey involves dating again. I haven't dabbled in dating since the breakup and while I don'... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looking to date when working on yourself at the same time. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g3xqvy/looking_to_date_when_working_on_yourself_at_the/ |
Wurly2890 | 2020-07-18 16:26:47 | 1,595,089,607 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | htjdxb | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/htjdxb/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_you_are_dating_says/ | 2 | 25f with 24m. Met on tinder during quarantine, talked for 3 months, met up a month ago and have been on 4 dates and we slept together yesterday. I brought up the whole “where do you see this going” question and he replied saying that he doesn’t know what he wants but he knows that he enjoys spending time with me and do... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does it mean when a guy you are dating says he doesn't know what he wants but still wants to continue seeing you as he enjoys spending time with you? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/htjdxb/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_you_are_dating_says/ |
Averagecluelessness | 2016-05-28 08:19:52 | 1,464,423,592 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4lf10d | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4lf10d/20m_how_to_meet_people_in_a_college_town_but_no/ | 2 | I had no clue how to word this, I apologise. So basically I just moved into a college town, no friends here or anything moved only for a good job opportunity. Which brings me to an issue: I dislike drinking, smoking, and I have a non-existent sex drive. I have my associates in nursing, I'm in great shape, and I like to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20M] How to meet people in a college town but no alcohol | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4lf10d/20m_how_to_meet_people_in_a_college_town_but_no/ |
Sidebrowns12 | 2020-02-15 23:26:19 | 1,581,809,179 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | f4hovs | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f4hovs/actually_meeting_people/ | 4 | I (22m) have grown rather tired of the modern dating scene. I'm a lover of technology but I cannot stand the impersonal nature of any and all dating apps. I have had a small handful of dates over the years, two relationships (one four year and one three month) from them. However the amount of time taken to even get to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Actually meeting people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f4hovs/actually_meeting_people/ |
Klubbis | 2024-08-30 04:58:10 | 1,724,993,890 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f4n3hf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f4n3hf/i_get_overstimulated_by_being_on_dating_apps_and/ | 3 | I never get approached either. I’m too scared to approach other people. I’m never really in the setting of getting approached (hence title, I very rarely go outside). I wouldn’t exactly call myself unattractive, maybe not the most spectacular looks but I’d say I look decent enough. When I’m on dating apps there’s too m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I get overstimulated by being on dating apps and I’m too introverted to go outside, how will I ever meet someone? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4n3hf/i_get_overstimulated_by_being_on_dating_apps_and/ |
ryoko5296 | 2020-04-09 15:10:14 | 1,586,445,014 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | fxu3fz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fxu3fz/i_25fusa_met_a_guy_25fjapan_says_he_likes_me_but/ | 1 | I have been traveling for the past year, and matched with a guy from Japan. I was planning on staying there for three months so we planned to meet up. We talked everyday for a month and got along really well, counting down the days until I got to Japan. This all happened a little before the virus became a thing. (I am ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25F/USA) met a guy (25F/Japan). Says he likes me but doesn’t want a serious relationship because of Corona and distance. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fxu3fz/i_25fusa_met_a_guy_25fjapan_says_he_likes_me_but/ |
[deleted] | 2015-01-07 15:30:05 | 1,420,644,605 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 2rmvgl | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2rmvgl/she_24f_told_me_26m_to_stop_sex_got_really_quiet/ | 7 | tl;dr: Met an awesome girl, on our second date she came over to my place and we drank and we ended up having sex that she stopped, then got quiet and left and we haven't communicated since. I think she's pretty amazing and want to hangout with her some more but don't know how to approach things. --- I met this girl two... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She (24f) told me (26m) to stop sex, got really quiet, then left... What do I do? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2rmvgl/she_24f_told_me_26m_to_stop_sex_got_really_quiet/ |
Hashanadom | 2020-04-11 19:20:04 | 1,586,632,804 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | fzfcgt | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fzfcgt/is_there_a_general_guide_to_dating_sites/ | 1 | A general dos and don'ts would be appreciated. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there a general guide to dating sites? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fzfcgt/is_there_a_general_guide_to_dating_sites/ |
StrawberryCreamSwirl | 2019-05-02 00:26:27 | 1,556,756,787 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | bjomcz | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bjomcz/frame_of_attractive_men/ | 4 | So I noticed that I’ve been going for guys that aren’t too attractive because I don’t feel so insecure. Then out of no where I started not feeling insecure being told I was pretty and stunning. I was curious to know if it was okay to go for guys I found physically attractive? I never wanted to judge someone that way, b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Frame of attractive men | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bjomcz/frame_of_attractive_men/ |
KillingThymeOnline | 2023-02-16 22:56:23 | 1,676,588,183 | null | null | 0 | 1143qnw | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1143qnw/im_only_getting_offers_for_ons_and_fwb_and_i_dont/ | 5 | ...and it's becoming quite depressing. I'm close to giving up, but I'm so lonely, so I can't give up. So, I've stated in my profile that I'm after a long-term relationship and have added info on my profile about me. It seems no one is reading my profile though, as I'm just getting offers of sex and yes, I want sex, but... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm only getting offers for ONS and FWB and I don't understand why. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1143qnw/im_only_getting_offers_for_ons_and_fwb_and_i_dont/ |
ZuluXray10 | 2020-08-28 18:59:41 | 1,598,641,181 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | iid5y8 | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iid5y8/why_play_games/ | 1 | So I (31M) matched with a 30F through OLD. We exchange msgs and eventually move the convo to snap. No big deal. Everything seems to flow and we find common ground on quite a few things. We trade msgs for a couple more days to the point where a meet up would be good. Nothing too crazy just meet f2f and walk and talk and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why Play Games | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iid5y8/why_play_games/ |
Patascent | 2022-12-30 18:54:22 | 1,672,426,462 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | zz8ap0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zz8ap0/why_do_women_change_their_attitude_so_quickly_for/ | 0 | This post is going to be quite long since I want to discuss a few situations so I apologize in advance. I (26m) have only started dating about 3 years ago because when I was 18 I was SA'ed by a girl who drugged me at a party and it made me not trust women. When I was 23 I met this girl (20 at the time) I'll call her A.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do women change their attitude so quickly for apparently no reason? | null | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zz8ap0/why_do_women_change_their_attitude_so_quickly_for/ |
AngelicAntidote | 2023-08-22 21:30:19 | 1,692,739,819 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15yja15 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15yja15/duh_my_sucky_dating_life_makes_sense/ | 1 | So I grew up with no friends… or for the least I can say I grew up with people pretending to be my “friends” or half-ass friending me. I was the type of kid to go to school and basically go straight home( very focused on studying) I was also homeless all Throughout my high school Years so my priorities were much differ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Duh! My Sucky Dating Life Makes Sense | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15yja15/duh_my_sucky_dating_life_makes_sense/ |
SKILLEDKILLAH | 2020-05-02 02:27:00 | 1,588,386,420 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | gbyb0d | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gbyb0d/any_descent_apps_to_meet_egirls/ | 0 | Alright before y'all judge me; egirls are just my weakness and they're cute as hell. Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge have some but idk. Are there any websites or any other apps y'all would recommend? Thank you. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any Descent Apps To Meet Egirls? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gbyb0d/any_descent_apps_to_meet_egirls/ |
Pj3727272 | 2019-08-03 22:34:01 | 1,564,871,641 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | clouap | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/clouap/want_a_girlfriend_im_gonna_die_forever_alone/ | 0 | This is the only advice I get and I’ve replied to them in steps Litreally give up a lot of these people’s contradictno advice 1.try dating apps-been on all of them for years they suck then they’ll tell me dating apps suck and go out and approach women 2.cold approaching—no success all flake or not interested 3.its your... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Want a girlfriend I’m gonna die forever alone? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/clouap/want_a_girlfriend_im_gonna_die_forever_alone/ |
classyokgirl | 2024-03-22 23:17:20 | 1,711,149,440 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1bld9rl | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1bld9rl/just_another_dick/ | 38 | F55 in OK can’t get over how on OLD this is the best I’m getting. First message out of the box ‘Are you looking for a big Richard’. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🚩 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Just another Dick | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1bld9rl/just_another_dick/ |
icantkeeponsmiling | 2016-02-02 22:25:02 | 1,454,451,902 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 43wo1u | null | Support | Trigger | 4 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/43wo1u/i_cant_take_this_anymore_support/ | 4 | I've become an inspiration to my friends, family, coworkers, strangers, customers, and random people on the internet. I lost 40 lbs in the past 7 or so months. I have been working on myself so hard and always seem happy to the point where it's become like I'm desensitized to all the bad shit that has happened to me. I ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I can't take this anymore [Support] | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/43wo1u/i_cant_take_this_anymore_support/ |
Wooden_Cry7846 | 2024-02-03 00:12:10 | 1,706,919,130 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ahikub | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ahikub/how_do_i_get_women_to_like_me/ | 1 | I’m (19M) in University and I don’t know how to get women to like me. I have a handful of female friends and I’d say overall my close friendship circle is a 50:50 split of men and women, so I have no issue speaking to them. I’m quite short at only 5”6 so ik my height is a turn off for women taller than that, but even w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I get women to like me? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ahikub/how_do_i_get_women_to_like_me/ |
GenuineCompanies | 2016-10-22 18:26:42 | 1,477,160,802 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 58ug9g | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/58ug9g/free_video_and_audio_dating_site/ | 0 | Genuine Heels And Shoes,LLC www.genuineheelsandshoes.com 6 Months "Free Membership!" FREE VIDEO AND AUDIO CHAT. 3D Chat with customizable rooms. Gift System Private Instant Messaging. Winks No Credit Card Needed Many more features... www.genuineheelsandshoes.com | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Free Video and Audio Dating Site! | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/58ug9g/free_video_and_audio_dating_site/ |
AttachedTooEasily | 2019-03-02 13:20:35 | 1,551,532,835 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | awhp8e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/awhp8e/snapchat_collecting/ | 8 | It's starting to seem like guys are just on dating apps to have a collection of girls snapchats. Multiple times I've had decent conversations with guys that lead to them asking for my snapchat, so I end up giving it to them happy to move off the app. We end up exchanging maybe 2 messages on snapchat and then they just.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Snapchat collecting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/awhp8e/snapchat_collecting/ |
DadJoke_Mod_Reindeer | 2023-08-03 16:36:24 | 1,691,080,584 | 0 | null | 0 | 15h90is | false | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15h90is/why_do_women_do_this/ | 1 | When they are happy and everything is going in their favor they adore you. But as soon as the slightest thing goes wrong or they get any hint of something about you they dont like ALL that goes out the window? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do women do this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15h90is/why_do_women_do_this/ |
JeremiahLucas | 2019-02-15 02:19:54 | 1,550,197,194 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | aqrqjz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aqrqjz/i_am_unsure/ | 1 | Obligatory I’m on mobile, sorry for the format. I met this attractive girl through an online dating, and we chatted a bit through the app. She only had one picture in her profile, but I didn’t think much of it. After a bit of back and forth, she said she would like to meet up some time. We exchanged numbers, and chatte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am unsure | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aqrqjz/i_am_unsure/ |
RemarkableTension300 | 2024-04-29 20:00:20 | 1,714,420,820 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cg8rpm | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cg8rpm/should_i_break_up_with_him/ | 1 | Mid-30s f, bf is 39m, we met on a dating app about 5 months ago. I was with my kids father for 10+ years previously, had other semi-serious relationships before that. Was really slow to start dating again because I was genuinely enjoying my solitude… got… ehhh.. lonely (off and on) started casually dating with the apps... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Should I Break Up with Him? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cg8rpm/should_i_break_up_with_him/ |
Yukiiiqwq | 2023-04-04 16:33:35 | 1,680,626,015 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 12bohvv | true | Question ❓ | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12bohvv/men_if_youve_got_a_match_you_really_interested_in/ | 2 | I’m so curious about it. Cause if I am in this situation, I might be polite and distant to other matches to show I’m not interested anymore lol 😂 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men, if you’ve got a match you really interested in, what would you do to other matches | 2 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12bohvv/men_if_youve_got_a_match_you_really_interested_in/ |
Zeddy001 | 2019-12-11 23:37:11 | 1,576,107,431 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | e9fa6y | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e9fa6y/dating_apps_used_for_what/ | 2 | So I’m of the impression that dating apps are for casual hookups? Which I’m Gucci with, however I’m looking for more of a relationship type stuff. Any recommendations? I don’t really want to pay like £40 a month or whatever to go on one of the websites etc... however can you find meaningful relationships on dating apps... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps used for what? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e9fa6y/dating_apps_used_for_what/ |
Busy_Maybe_6304 | 2024-07-22 22:11:25 | 1,721,686,285 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1e9r1vd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e9r1vd/dating_locally_or_online/ | 1 | I recently purchased my first home. I really wanted one close to my work for an easy commute. I didn’t really consider it at the time but it’s in a bit lower income area. I really like it, neighbors are mostly older who have lived there for decades. They check on me and are nice. Downside is I’ve found 90% of women in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating locally or online | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e9r1vd/dating_locally_or_online/ |
Moorseluj | 2023-06-16 21:03:17 | 1,686,949,397 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 14b80vr | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14b80vr/having_a_hard_time_getting_over_being_violated_a/ | 40 | Few years ago I met this dipshit on tinder. Yes …I know. We dated for 3 months and I can confidently say he’s the reason I stopped online dating and I’ve never been happier. Long story short , he was really immature and awful. It’s clear I was just sex for him and he didn’t actually like me. I’m over him, I could care ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Having a hard time getting over being violated a few years ago | 40 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14b80vr/having_a_hard_time_getting_over_being_violated_a/ |
[deleted] | 2020-10-07 19:38:20 | 1,602,099,500 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | j6xrbr | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j6xrbr/girls_what_height_range_are_you_setting_on/ | 4 | Don’t be shy | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls, what height range are you setting on hinge/bumble and why | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j6xrbr/girls_what_height_range_are_you_setting_on/ |
Aniolel1 | 2022-10-15 16:16:23 | 1,665,850,583 | null | null | 0 | y4rxj2 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y4rxj2/would_this_be_shallow/ | 3 | Hey guys, As a someone who is enjoys sporty, athletic activities, I go after those some one who has mutual interests in that. And because athletes typically have slim, thin body structure, that is why it is my type. Being physically active helps. Also, this means I don't want someone who smokes or is a strong drinker. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would this be shallow? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y4rxj2/would_this_be_shallow/ |
no1willmarryou | 2019-06-23 11:34:59 | 1,561,289,699 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | c436e2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c436e2/had_an_amazing_sex_filled_weekend_now_hes_come_to/ | 0 | Long story short I met this guy on hinge and we had two amazing nights. He talks alot but I beared with it. I happen to be staying (temporarily) near to the city he's from, and he's been visiting home recently, so he took the train up to stay with me and meet his old buddies. It's been two nights, and I feel like shit ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Had an amazing sex filled weekend, now he's come to visit me and won't sleep me with, or even kiss me properly | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c436e2/had_an_amazing_sex_filled_weekend_now_hes_come_to/ |
august-blade | 2021-08-20 01:50:24 | 1,629,424,224 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | p7slu6 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p7slu6/need_some_advice_for_preparation_for_second_date/ | 2 | So I matched with this girl on dating app about two weeks ago. Last weekend we went out for a date. It was my first time dating a stranger so I watched tons of videos on the subject. In the end, despite some room for improvement, it went better than I expected. During conversation she said we could cook at home for sec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some advice for preparation for second date at her home | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p7slu6/need_some_advice_for_preparation_for_second_date/ |
BruhBruhette | 2015-06-07 14:54:31 | 1,433,688,871 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 38wv3y | null | null | 10 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/38wv3y/boyfriend_of_4_years_broke_my_heart_on_my_21st/ | 0 | A little back story. My now ex and I had been dating since June 2011, end of our junior year of high school. We have stayed together through everything. He was, and is my first true love. It wasn't always perfect and we did break up in December 2014 to figure some things out. But we quickly reconciled in January when h... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Boyfriend of 4 years broke my heart on my 21st birthday. Not really sure how to react. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/38wv3y/boyfriend_of_4_years_broke_my_heart_on_my_21st/ |
Mcheetah2 | 2015-08-10 21:05:56 | 1,439,240,756 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 3giew1 | null | null | 20 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3giew1/why_are_most_white_women_on_dating_sites/ | 0 | As in, they refuse to date outside their race under any circumstances. Or, if they do consider themselves "open-minded" (in their eyes), they'll never date Black or Asian men. (Even the majority of non-white women seem to have these same requirements.) This is a serious question. I never understood how a seemingly good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why are most White women on dating sites extremely racist? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3giew1/why_are_most_white_women_on_dating_sites/ |
holycropp | 2023-12-11 20:57:39 | 1,702,328,259 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18g406a | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18g406a/recently_had_a_great_first_date_but_no_reply_yet/ | 1 | I (23M) had a first date with a girl (22F) from Hinge this weekend that I thought went really well. For context, I was fully prepared for it to be a booty call. She texted me day-of to drive up and “smoke and watch movies” because she wasn’t in the mood to go anywhere, but after hanging out with her for a while we were... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Recently had a great first date, but no reply yet. Is it worth following up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18g406a/recently_had_a_great_first_date_but_no_reply_yet/ |
SaraservesJustis88 | 2021-05-01 20:01:11 | 1,619,899,271 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | n2q59d | true | Venting | 444 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n2q59d/why_does_it_matter_what_type_of_phone_i_have/ | 569 | So I recently matched with some guy on tinder. We exchanged numbers and have been texting back and forth for about a day. Today he tells me that he doesn't think it will work because I have an android? Like...wtf? Does it really matter that much to some people? Previous to what he said, he mentioned that I seemed perfe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does it matter what type of phone I have? | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n2q59d/why_does_it_matter_what_type_of_phone_i_have/ |
User810077 | 2024-08-15 04:36:10 | 1,723,696,570 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1esmeim | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1esmeim/do_looks_really_matter/ | 1 | I guess I’m appealing to look at and have several women approach me throughout my life. They must be into my personality than my looks. Some women were attractive and some were not. I of course rejected them because I wasn’t ready to date yet. To be honest my life situation isn’t good. I’m poor, work two dead end jobs,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do looks really matter? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1esmeim/do_looks_really_matter/ |
Square_Yesterday_658 | 2024-07-23 18:32:40 | 1,721,759,560 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1eaf9vx | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eaf9vx/i_wish_i_was_gay/ | 1 | I don't get matches on dating apps, women don't reply to me, and in person I'm invisible to women. I guess a big reason is that I'm shorter than the average man. However, whenever I'm on dating apps, still somehow I'll have guys reach out to me (as long as it's not an app that requires you to match before messaging). T... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I wish I was gay. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eaf9vx/i_wish_i_was_gay/ |
robertbenja | 2019-09-04 05:25:11 | 1,567,574,711 | null | null | 0 | czgk6w | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/czgk6w/pof_username_search_link_to_search_pof_username/ | 1 | — Meet and chat with loving ones by search. POF dating site is one of the most popular online dating sites for singles and seniors. Ways to Do a POF Username Search POF dating site is free, to avail advance services you have to upgrade to paid services. 1: Private Search — You can privately search POF users on pof.com.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | POF Username Search Link to Search POF Username - pixiefinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/czgk6w/pof_username_search_link_to_search_pof_username/ |
sassyflower95 | 2020-05-28 03:13:34 | 1,590,635,614 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | grycye | true | Venting | 33 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/grycye/im_the_last_single_friend_and_i_dont_know_how_to/ | 34 | Excuse me as I vent. My two best friends and I (25/24F) are all very close. However, the both of them are now in very happy, committed and loving relationships. I really am so happy for them. But I’ve been through so many failed “talking” stages that I’ve completely deleted all my dating apps bc I don’t want to deal w ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m the last single friend and I don’t know how to deal with it | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/grycye/im_the_last_single_friend_and_i_dont_know_how_to/ |
Ravenclaw92 | 2019-07-05 07:16:07 | 1,562,310,967 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | c9d0q9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c9d0q9/i_feel_like_a_completely_broken_person_and_i_dont/ | 1 | There are a lot of things, involving aspects that correlate towards my career, my family life (sense of belonging), and my love life: For whatever reason, I subconsciously assume that there will always be someone better than me, in ANY situation; one specific example is me feeling inadequate in the bedroom. A lot of li... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like a completely broken person and I don’t know if I will ever recover in this lifetime. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c9d0q9/i_feel_like_a_completely_broken_person_and_i_dont/ |
dwydner | 2020-10-31 23:06:48 | 1,604,185,608 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | jls2hh | true | Giving Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jls2hh/men_just_say_youre_6_feet_tall/ | 5 | Alright, so I've been using this one dating app, off and on for about a year. Ordinarily, not much happens on it - I get a match about once per month, about half of the girls respond; honestly nothing too unusual that's typical for me and most of my friends who use this app. Anyway, I get bored yesterday and think to m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men - Just Say You're 6 Feet Tall | null | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jls2hh/men_just_say_youre_6_feet_tall/ |
smackessy110 | 2021-10-10 02:05:01 | 1,633,831,501 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | q4yziv | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q4yziv/26m_bisexual_dating_advice/ | 2 | 26m first relationships? Well, I’m not really sure where to start other than I’m a 26 year old, bisexual male, who hasn’t been very successful in the dating field. For a long time, I’ve been very contented with the company of friends and family, not having a significant other never really bothered me. I’ve been on dati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 26m, bisexual - dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q4yziv/26m_bisexual_dating_advice/ |
throwaway627351 | 2023-02-08 22:33:38 | 1,675,895,618 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10xd2my | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10xd2my/whats_the_best_way_for_an_18yearold_to_mee_girls/ | 0 | I haven’t tried Tinder yet but I would like to try other methods before Tinder. I went on my first date with a girl who’s a friend of my friend but it seems like that thing went south so I would like to talk to new girls. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s the best way for an 18-year-old to mee girls his age? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10xd2my/whats_the_best_way_for_an_18yearold_to_mee_girls/ |
ffuser9 | 2021-11-08 17:31:27 | 1,636,392,687 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | qpij88 | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/qpij88/do_over_fifty_singles_use_tinder/ | 19 | I've always thought of Tinder as hook up site for younger people, not really OLD per se. Do any of you use it? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Do over fifty singles use Tinder? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/qpij88/do_over_fifty_singles_use_tinder/ |
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