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intrepidcaribou | 2021-06-12 01:31:58 | 1,623,461,518 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nxvfe4 | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nxvfe4/i_have_such_a_difficult_time_recognizing_flirting/ | 9 | I’ve literally had male friends and acquaintances tell me after the fact that they never asked me out because I didn’t respond to any of their flirting or signals. I had no idea. I actually liked these guys and was hoping they’d ask me out, but it never happened. Also, people will mention that people are flirting with ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have such a difficult time recognizing flirting both between other people and from other people to me. Tips? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nxvfe4/i_have_such_a_difficult_time_recognizing_flirting/ |
Unsure-noob | 2024-07-29 12:17:00 | 1,722,255,420 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1eey168 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eey168/advice_please_i_dont_know_whats_happening_here/ | 1 | Hello, sorry this is long. I (27F) matched with this guy (24M) on hinge. He messaged me and made it clear he's just looking for sex, doesn't have time for dating. PERFECT Exactly what I want, no stress, fun and no commitment and just sex. We only communicate on SNAP or in person. He did mention he'd like to talk to eac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice please, I don’t know what’s happening here. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eey168/advice_please_i_dont_know_whats_happening_here/ |
Cold_Cold_Coffee | 2021-03-14 21:41:09 | 1,615,758,069 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | m5504n | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m5504n/old_is_the_current_dating_generation_taking_the/ | 0 | Sometimes, I (31m) chat up with women I've dated in the past. Some of them are still single and looking for someone for over a year. Sometimes, I keep getting new likes from the same people I had matched with a year (or a few months) ago on different dating apps - people who had told me they didn't have enough time to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OLD : Is the current dating generation taking the "never settle for less" advice too seriously? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m5504n/old_is_the_current_dating_generation_taking_the/ |
bandalism77 | 2011-05-07 23:23:09 | 1,304,810,589 | 4 | ['dating site'] | null | h6d0y | null | null | 29 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/h6d0y/dating_a_gentlemanor_are_we_friends/ | 3 | UK Redditor here, with a new account for a new start. Bit of a backstory, broke up with my on/off SO of 18 months in January, great relationship but he said he only 'cared' for me, couldn't give me what I wanted and something was missing. Probably me being too generous I let him sleep on my sofa since as he had no wher... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating a gentleman...or are we friends? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/h6d0y/dating_a_gentlemanor_are_we_friends/ |
Lavendar264 | 2021-11-12 13:26:14 | 1,636,723,574 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qsb4nc | true | Support Needed | 107 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qsb4nc/how_do_you_accept_being_single_for_life_not_out/ | 54 | I'm a 30 year old female I tried dating apps for 7 years. I had the really occasssional short term relationship and that was it. This year I found out I have herpes. Just feels like even though I want a relationship it won't be possible for me. Has anyone been through something similar? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you accept being single for life not out of choice? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qsb4nc/how_do_you_accept_being_single_for_life_not_out/ |
tunamutantninjaturtl | 2021-06-25 18:07:30 | 1,624,644,450 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o7t47m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o7t47m/i_told_this_guy_from_tinder_that_im_not_looking/ | 3 | He’s not in my city at the moment but he’ll be coming back in a few weeks. Right now he’s visiting his parents... we talked on the phone once already and he wants to talk 1 or 2 times a week. I don’t love talking on the phone because I feel like I don’t get a sense of the person unless we meet IRL, but I guess he doesn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I told this guy from tinder that I’m not looking for anything serious, but I’m uncertain if he got that because he’s coming on very strong... not sure if this is a red flag or not | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o7t47m/i_told_this_guy_from_tinder_that_im_not_looking/ |
cappy1493 | 2022-01-15 17:37:17 | 1,642,268,237 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | s4pjmz | true | null | 115 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s4pjmz/keep_getting_guys_with_girlfriends_why/ | 72 | So I've been doing the whole online dating for a few months now. About 3 months ago I matched with a guy and we hit it off. Me being pretty nosy I looked him up on Facebook and what do you know? He has a girlfriend! So of course I went ahead and sent the receipts to her. (Checked her profile while writing this, they ar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Keep getting guys with girlfriends, why? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s4pjmz/keep_getting_guys_with_girlfriends_why/ |
The_Joker0719 | 2019-02-01 05:18:03 | 1,548,998,283 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | alyp0k | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/alyp0k/im_completely_lost_on_what_to_do_with_this_girl/ | 1 | I (18 M) matched with this girl (18 F) on Tinder a couple weeks back, and the conversation was really good and flirtatious. I soon got her number and we talked more through text, and I kept actively flirting with her, which she was honestly pretty receptive of. However, this person every now and then complains about we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m completely lost on what to do with this girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/alyp0k/im_completely_lost_on_what_to_do_with_this_girl/ |
thrownaway-187 | 2023-12-31 00:24:03 | 1,703,982,243 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18uub86 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18uub86/dating_a_well_known_person/ | 1 | Would like to get others’ thoughts on this. I have matched with someone that is fairly well known, he’s a bit of a television celebrity. Not a reality star (thank God) but people would likely know who he is if we were out together. Back in my 20s I used to date a well known sports star and it was difficult to date him ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating a well known person | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18uub86/dating_a_well_known_person/ |
saltonp | 2023-07-25 00:01:44 | 1,690,243,304 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 158rm5g | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/158rm5g/help_with_an_irl_crush_i_have_no_clue_what_im/ | 1 | I realized I have a strong attraction to my son's youth group leader which surprised the socks off of me. I wasn't into my son doing this particular teen religious activity but it turned out to be a really thoughtful, kind, group and very in line with my values... largely because of this man who runs it. He's got a gro... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Help with an IRL crush. I have no clue what I'm doing. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/158rm5g/help_with_an_irl_crush_i_have_no_clue_what_im/ |
vlm22 | 2020-05-04 03:07:30 | 1,588,561,650 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | gd3s9j | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gd3s9j/just_curious_has_anyone_developed_a_platonic/ | 7 | I was talking to a friend who met her boyfriend on bumble and they dated then became friends and now are boyfriend and girlfriend. so i was wondering have any of you had a platonic friendship that came from a dating app and how has it been going? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just curious has anyone developed a platonic friendship from a match on a dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gd3s9j/just_curious_has_anyone_developed_a_platonic/ |
morbidfanatic | 2023-06-13 14:26:59 | 1,686,666,419 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 148goy8 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/148goy8/lighthearted_card_games_for_first_dates/ | 1 | Does anyone know any card games to break the ice on a first date? I’m meeting a guy for the first time from a dating app and we’re having a picnic. I wanted to bring a card game similar to “We’re not really strangers” but I feel that the questions in the game are too deep for a first meeting. Any recommendations for so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Lighthearted Card games for first dates? | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/148goy8/lighthearted_card_games_for_first_dates/ |
Firm-Creme5004 | 2023-11-27 19:10:00 | 1,701,112,200 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 185av7x | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/185av7x/soft_let_down_or_a_genuine_case/ | 1 | Met the girl on tinder. I have been seeing this girl for 2 months, went on multiple dates, everything "clicked". Had sex about a dozen times...she was saying some st that was even weird to me, since girls I went out before with, were not that direct so soon. She confesed that she was feeling 'safe' with me, and she rea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Soft let down or a genuine case? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/185av7x/soft_let_down_or_a_genuine_case/ |
enersgy | 2024-08-13 14:42:46 | 1,723,560,166 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1er9n6u | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1er9n6u/when_to_text_for_a_second_time/ | 1 | So I matched with a girl on tinder and she's really pretty and seems interesting from her bio. I'd like to get to know her. Usually of I don't get an answer anymore I just leave it and call it a day. But idk I feel different about her. All we texted so far was just complimenting each other and me asking if she wanna ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When to text for a second time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1er9n6u/when_to_text_for_a_second_time/ |
kgmt10983 | 2023-12-12 19:35:15 | 1,702,409,715 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 18gu9ud | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18gu9ud/first_date/ | 1 | So I matched with a guy on a dating app, and we haven’t talked much this week, but agreed that we’d meet for a date today after 5 pm. I hadn’t heard from him yesterday, so i asked if we were still on and he said yes and asked where i was coming from, to try and find a place halfway. But no other texts with a location o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First Date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18gu9ud/first_date/ |
TheNeverEndingEnding | 2021-05-26 20:38:35 | 1,622,061,515 | null | null | 0 | nlqwhk | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nlqwhk/how_long_do_you_wait_for_someone_to_respond_to/ | 4 | I understand that people can be busy and I've just matched with them and the commitment levels aren't high. However, if they don't respond for a few days is that an obvious sign they're not really interested, or could it be they're just busy? Do you just leave the conversation to die or do you try to message them again... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How long do you wait for someone to respond to your message? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nlqwhk/how_long_do_you_wait_for_someone_to_respond_to/ |
NannersBoy | 2023-05-12 15:42:50 | 1,683,906,170 | 0 | null | 0 | 13fonh5 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13fonh5/is_rizz_real/ | 0 | Do you guys think what you say actually has any effect on whether a girl is down to go out | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is rizz real | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13fonh5/is_rizz_real/ |
BoardGent | 2020-12-02 01:51:27 | 1,606,873,887 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | k4zifz | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k4zifz/hinge_profile_review_and_advice_for_when/ | 1 | As the title says, I think I'm gonna take a break from dating until Montreal's quarantine is over. I went on two fun dates but I was just left exhausted after each. I barely have the energy to actually try and match with more people (I still do plenty of other stuff between work, climbing and zooming friends), so it's ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge profile review and advice for when quarantine is over | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k4zifz/hinge_profile_review_and_advice_for_when/ |
ImaginaryPersona | 2018-06-03 04:05:10 | 1,527,998,710 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8o63uq | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8o63uq/wish_me_luck/ | 25 | I've decided to jump into OLD. Created a Tinder account today, so we'll see how this goes. After reading here my expectations are appropriately tempered, but still hopeful. Plan for the worst and hope for the best and all that. Now to figure out what to say when it comes time to send messages. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Wish Me Luck | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8o63uq/wish_me_luck/ |
alostsou1 | 2022-02-20 19:22:14 | 1,645,384,934 | null | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | sx90gb | true | I Need Advice | 627 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sx90gb/do_guys_get_offended_when_women_insinuate_they/ | 541 | I was talking to a guy on coffee meets bagel who asked me to come over before I even went on a first date with him, and I told him I wasn’t going to do that when I hadn’t met him yet. He said he understood and then I said I liked tea, so he could buy me a tea with an emoji at the end. He then asked if I expected him to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do Guys Get Offended When Women Insinuate they Expect the Guy to Pay? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sx90gb/do_guys_get_offended_when_women_insinuate_they/ |
MoralityBypass | 2018-06-22 18:53:08 | 1,529,693,588 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8t3tku | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8t3tku/online_dating_question_for_women/ | 1 | Hello, Ok, totally confused. Many online dating profiles have a height requirement(fine i'm tall) but the weight requirement is usually out of whack with the height. It seems 6 foot 2 is fine but i'd have to be under 12.5 stone or about 175lbs. I have an athletic build so i'm more like 200/205lbs. I'm not fat at all bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating question for women | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8t3tku/online_dating_question_for_women/ |
Lopsided_Ask_3581 | 2024-08-25 17:04:06 | 1,724,605,446 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f1181n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f1181n/how_to_cancel_dates_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I have set up dates on apps with a couple of women but now I don't really want to meet up with them anymore. I asked them out and they said yes a couple of days ago and we were texting about when and where. But now I kind of don't want to meet up with them. A few days ago I met up with a girl and we had zero chemistry.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to cancel dates on dating apps? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f1181n/how_to_cancel_dates_on_dating_apps/ |
fruitloops32323 | 2021-06-11 14:56:31 | 1,623,423,391 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | nxhwwo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nxhwwo/how_to_politely_turn_down_a_date_that_i_was_setup/ | 1 | Backstory: I’m set-up on this blind date tomorrow on a boat. Double date scenario with a friend who met two women on hinge. However, I’m going on a 3rd date with this women tonight who I’ve really starting liking and I know if things go well tonight, then I would feel guilty going on a date with this other woman tomorr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to politely turn down a date that I was set-up on? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nxhwwo/how_to_politely_turn_down_a_date_that_i_was_setup/ |
JustinJiraiya | 2020-11-15 22:25:10 | 1,605,479,110 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | juuwrb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/juuwrb/dating_during_the_covid19_pandemic/ | 3 | Im a 24 year old male and I have not had alot of experience dating. Ive had 2 relationships that both lasted around a year. I met both partners from a mutal friend that set us up on a date. Im starting to feel rather lonley because ive been single for a year and before that i was single for 4 years. With the pandemic i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating during the COVID-19 pandemic | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/juuwrb/dating_during_the_covid19_pandemic/ |
Kingslayer_96 | 2024-07-16 10:11:34 | 1,721,124,694 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1e4kzao | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e4kzao/i_am_tiree_of_dating/ | 1 | It is probably one of the most cruel things in life. Probably at the same level as looking for a job. I recently matched with a girl. We went out on dates and up until Saturday I kept myself away from actually getting any sort of feelings for her because we both are leaving the city (I for the summer and she is permane... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am tiree of dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e4kzao/i_am_tiree_of_dating/ |
buttavia000 | 2019-09-04 18:00:15 | 1,567,620,015 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | czoe4x | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/czoe4x/online_dating_makes_me_feel_unsafe_and_anxious_as/ | 0 | I don't trust online dating at all. I am in Bumble but I just go through profiles without liking anyone because it shows my exact location and I live in a very small town, so a potential crazy stalker would find me easily and that scares me. Then I am on Tinder and I got some guys asking me to date, but I don't trust t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating makes me feel unsafe and anxious as hell. But I have no chances of meeting guys offline. What to do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/czoe4x/online_dating_makes_me_feel_unsafe_and_anxious_as/ |
BerserkinGherkin | 2022-12-16 22:17:50 | 1,671,229,070 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | znqqsw | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/znqqsw/tldr_make_sure_you_ask_hardball_questions_before/ | 1 | There's this girl that started working with me a few weeks ago. When we first met and started talking, I didn't really feel a spark, but because I live in a small town and thus it's hard to meet people (especially if you're under 21 like me since most social spots are bars), I didn't rule out the idea of eventually dat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | TL;DR: make sure you ask hardball questions before setting up a date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/znqqsw/tldr_make_sure_you_ask_hardball_questions_before/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-10 01:18:36 | 1,402,363,116 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 27qyau | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/27qyau/how_can_i_make_an_infj_like_me_long_description/ | 1 | So, here is the story... I met this guy on OkCupid on my birthday. I was literally crying that day because this another guy (NOT A BF) that I have loved for more than three years didn't give a shit about me. I logged on OkCupid later that night and saw an attractive visitor. I went to his profile and he was really good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I make an INFJ like me? (long description inside) | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/27qyau/how_can_i_make_an_infj_like_me_long_description/ |
Wooden-Conclusion867 | 2024-06-15 18:12:56 | 1,718,475,176 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dgnyuy | true | Success Story 🎉 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dgnyuy/i_finally_deleted_the_apps/ | 24 | I've wasted SO much time this past year just to get ghosted, led on, or lusted after. I never had the courage to delete the apps because I was afraid of being alone and....forgotten. I am glad to say that I've deleted my dating apps and plan to use my time wisely. I want to travel, make money, improve my health, and en... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I FINALLY DELETED THE APPS | 18 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dgnyuy/i_finally_deleted_the_apps/ |
sadowlite | 2021-03-03 04:43:41 | 1,614,746,621 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lwlfvv | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lwlfvv/is_there_anyone_willing_to_chat_and_postpone/ | 7 | Hi guys, Since the pandemic, I’ve always stayed at home as I live with my aunt’s family and her husband’s lungs have problems so he’s waiting for a transplant. That being said, if I went out and caught the virus, it’d be dangerous to him. And that being said, I’ve been single and don’t hang out any time for a year now.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there anyone willing to chat and postpone meeting until the pandemic is over? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lwlfvv/is_there_anyone_willing_to_chat_and_postpone/ |
Lopiop | 2024-05-29 11:43:28 | 1,716,983,008 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d3a5rn | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d3a5rn/should_i_use_my_real_name_or_fake_name/ | 1 | Completely new to this and was wondering as a male should I use my real first name or a nickname on tinder . I don't have much social media presence so there's pretty much not much to look up if they were curious . | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I use my real name or fake name? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d3a5rn/should_i_use_my_real_name_or_fake_name/ |
Venemizer | 2023-10-20 00:44:48 | 1,697,762,688 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17byhgd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17byhgd/did_i_26m_make_the_correct_decision_about_24f_her/ | 1 | 2 months ago I met this girl on Tinder and we hit it straight off for two weeks on text until she had time to go on a date at my place. The date was perfect that she barely wanted to go home so we scheduled another one next week, and from there we ended up seeing each other 1-2 two each weeks for around 1.5 month inclu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I (26M) make the correct decision about (24f) her and I? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17byhgd/did_i_26m_make_the_correct_decision_about_24f_her/ |
jtnn6 | 2019-11-26 23:16:16 | 1,574,810,176 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | e26jft | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e26jft/i_23_f_went_on_a_second_date_with_a_guy_25_m_from/ | 1 | So a couple months ago, I went on a date with a guy from Bumble that was a little awkward, but we ended up making out in my car by the end of the date. He texted saying he had fun, but then turned me down when I asked if he'd be interested in meeting again, saying he didn't know what he was looking for and that he felt... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [23 F] went on a second date with a guy [25 M] from Bumble who had previously rejected me. Is he just not that interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e26jft/i_23_f_went_on_a_second_date_with_a_guy_25_m_from/ |
hesperawinter | 2022-02-19 15:27:46 | 1,645,284,466 | null | null | 0 | swcikd | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/swcikd/is_this_going_anywhere/ | 5 | I (31 F) have kind of gotten discouraged in finding someone that matches my spirituality, interests, politics, etc. I'm looking for someone who is well read, geeky and nerdy, and a Christian who is a little more on the liberal side. And who is halfway decent looking? Lol So after being discouraged about finding someone... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this going anywhere? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/swcikd/is_this_going_anywhere/ |
FanRepresentative985 | 2024-01-17 23:55:58 | 1,705,535,758 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 199btpt | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/199btpt/is_there_such_thing_as_texting_too_much/ | 6 | I (23F) have been talking to this guy (24) from hinge for about a week and we finally swapped numbers yesterday bc we have been hitting it off so well. Even though it’s not normal for me, I’ve been very excited when I talk to him and I’m thinking of asking him out on a date in the next couple days if he doesn’t ask me ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there such thing as texting too much? | 6 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199btpt/is_there_such_thing_as_texting_too_much/ |
Probability-Bot | 2020-04-03 01:28:42 | 1,585,877,322 | null | null | 0 | ftyzjb | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ftyzjb/pof/ | 1 | Logged on a little bit an theyve updated their format. Looks completely new now. Ive also noticed a "spike in activity." Although i think thats just them trying to get me to sign up for a subscription. Anyone else noticed this? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | POF- | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ftyzjb/pof/ |
IndifferentExistance | 2024-05-27 05:22:08 | 1,716,787,328 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d1k7mb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d1k7mb/its_insane_how_somehow_every_girl_ive_ever_dated/ | 2 | I really am not trying to actively do this, but somehow every single girl I've ever been in a relationship, a few of the girls I've hooked up with and a lot I've seriously talked to or met up with on online dating have had names that start with C or K and mostly make the same sound. I don't understand it. Is this someh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | It's insane how, somehow, every girl I've ever dated has had a name start with the C or K sound. | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d1k7mb/its_insane_how_somehow_every_girl_ive_ever_dated/ |
guyinpain555 | 2016-12-05 23:56:11 | 1,480,982,171 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5gphv5 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/5gphv5/should_i_25m_continue_to_pursue_her_27f/ | 0 | So I met this girl on OKCupid and we chatted for almost a month (one message per day) before I asked her out. We went out to dinner and I think it went relatively well. We both texted each other that we'd want to meet up again, and we did the following week. We had dinner again, no actual activity, and again I think th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I (25M) continue to pursue her (27F)? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5gphv5/should_i_25m_continue_to_pursue_her_27f/ |
SomeoneSeeksPurpose | 2016-07-13 19:30:52 | 1,468,438,252 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4sozrv | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4sozrv/my_life_revolves_around_girls_how_do_i_stop_this/ | 0 | I am a 23 year old male, and I have a problem. I have been spending the majority of my free time the last two years obsessing over getting girls, trying to get sex and finding a girlfriend. Every time I have a mildly good looking girl slightly interested in me, I am on cloud nine. When she eventually finds out she is n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My life revolves around girls. How do I stop this obsession? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4sozrv/my_life_revolves_around_girls_how_do_i_stop_this/ |
Run-Additional | 2023-12-19 21:12:56 | 1,703,020,376 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18mcos8 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18mcos8/too_weird_for_love/ | 1 | This isn’t a fishing post. I’m looking for encouragement, people who understand, and maybe some ideas I guess. I feel like I might be too unusual to find love. I'm almost 40, non-religious, black, hippie-ish, single mom with 2 kids living in a rural area with a population of about 6,000. There is no diversity here and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Too weird for love? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18mcos8/too_weird_for_love/ |
CarbonDancer777 | 2023-01-25 04:33:44 | 1,674,621,224 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10kq4b0 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10kq4b0/scenealtemo_redditors_how_and_where_did_you_find/ | 1 | I can’t find a scene guy for the life of me, Tinder and Bumble haven’t worked! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Scene/Alt/Emo Redditors, how and where did you find your S.O? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10kq4b0/scenealtemo_redditors_how_and_where_did_you_find/ |
omzieee | 2021-12-28 21:58:45 | 1,640,728,725 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rqqv0g | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rqqv0g/howwhere_did_you_first_meet_your_current_partners/ | 2 | At college ? Through a dating app ? At the gym ? At a club ? Etc… It would be interesting to know what are the places/activities with higher chances of success when it comes to dating. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How/where did you first meet your current partner(s) and your exs ? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rqqv0g/howwhere_did_you_first_meet_your_current_partners/ |
lizard81288 | 2022-07-09 17:29:14 | 1,657,387,754 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vv6nwz | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vv6nwz/where_can_introverts_meet_other_introverts/ | 2 | I'm a introvert, but also want a girlfriend. Online dating has only lead me to a committed relationship with crippling depression and anxiety. I get ghosted often, generally after I ask someone out on a date. I also never here from 99.9% of the people I liked. On the slim chance we do match, they never reply back. I'm ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where can introverts meet other introverts? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vv6nwz/where_can_introverts_meet_other_introverts/ |
daddydilly694-20 | 2023-06-04 10:47:05 | 1,685,875,625 | 0 | null | 0 | 1409901 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1409901/im_seeing_someone_today_might_end_up_staying_the/ | 0 | For context, we are both young (19). I have a hard time getting rid of the jitters when first meeting someone, I'm a bit nervous and always feel stressed until we end up becoming physically intimate. Not trying to sound like an ass, but sex is a good way to break the ice for me. However, I never expect it and don't eve... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm seeing someone today, might end up staying the night. | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1409901/im_seeing_someone_today_might_end_up_staying_the/ |
viennezewaltz | 2020-12-27 08:50:49 | 1,609,059,049 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | kl0g6f | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kl0g6f/who_here_hates_the_process_of_sorting_out_photos/ | 2 | The entire process gives me anxiety. Mainly because I hate how I look in photos. I go through all my iphone photos and out of 50, I maybe see 10 usable ones. Out of those 10 usable ones, maybe only 2 are good ones. But I'm not one of those people endlessly taking photos of myself. It takes months and sometimes even yea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Who here hates the process of sorting out photos for a dating profile? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kl0g6f/who_here_hates_the_process_of_sorting_out_photos/ |
poprocks150 | 2022-06-09 16:19:22 | 1,654,791,562 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | v8khl4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v8khl4/are_these_mixed_signals_what_should_i_do_to_show/ | 2 | Texting this person for a month from a dating app. No flirting since I said I just wanted friends (and they are okay with it, still talking to me even though I said that). But I “shot my shot” really discrete and friend like and they were happy, they texted me all day for like 4 days but then I didn’t text them again f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are these mixed signals? What should I do to show my interest? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v8khl4/are_these_mixed_signals_what_should_i_do_to_show/ |
Edge_Remote | 2023-11-09 15:33:10 | 1,699,543,990 | 0 | null | 0 | 17rfk9w | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17rfk9w/vetting_tips/ | 1 | Any tips for vetting folks to make sure they want something serious? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Vetting tips | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17rfk9w/vetting_tips/ |
timeforspring | 2024-02-16 18:06:33 | 1,708,106,793 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1asf8yu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1asf8yu/dating_app_help/ | 1 | On multiple occasions, I’ve (24F) had guys on dating apps ask me out on dates and then unmatch before we actually go out. I even had one guy politely explain to me that he felt like the conversation was very one-sided and forced, so he didn’t think it was a good idea to go on the date after all. I suck at online dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1asf8yu/dating_app_help/ |
KinkyMasta | 2022-03-01 13:08:37 | 1,646,140,117 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | t47jv7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t47jv7/yesterday_i37m_had_a_big_fight_with_my_ex_29f/ | 7 | Pretty much the title is self-explanatory. I am divorced and have a son in common with my ex. I try to keep it civil but sometimes we discuss because of him. Yesterday we had a big fight, because she refuses to let me video-call to my son. Because of this, I haven't been able to talk to him since last thursday. This si... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Yesterday I(37M) had a big fight with my ex (29F) Today I have a date with another woman and I don't feel like it. Should I cancel and reschedule? Or should I go anyway and explain her? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t47jv7/yesterday_i37m_had_a_big_fight_with_my_ex_29f/ |
marja1903 | 2022-10-31 09:35:49 | 1,667,208,949 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yi6cva | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yi6cva/how_to_know_if_hes_interested/ | 0 | Hey. I was on a first date with this guy i met on OLD yesterday. We had texted everyday for a week and it seemed like we had a lot in common: similar interests, dreams and communication style. I felt like we had great chemistry when we met: the conversation felt natural, he hugged me many times and there was laughter t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to know if he's interested? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yi6cva/how_to_know_if_hes_interested/ |
transparentfortress | 2021-07-13 01:40:16 | 1,626,140,416 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | oj5gfb | true | null | 100 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/oj5gfb/my_bil_mansplained_why_he_doesnt_have_a/ | 547 | Today I was venting to my BIL about some issues I’m having with my close girlfriends and he started talking about how women are so dumb and always create problems for no reason and this is why he doesn’t have a girlfriend (you and I both know that’s not why…). Well I commented that no, that’s not the point of what I wa... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My BIL mansplained why he doesn’t have a girlfriend to me and… I just can’t make this shit up. | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/oj5gfb/my_bil_mansplained_why_he_doesnt_have_a/ |
Alwaysalone117 | 2022-09-24 20:38:39 | 1,664,051,919 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | xn3ec1 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xn3ec1/how_does_a_guy_like_me_ever_lose_his_virginity_or/ | 0 | I'm an old man at this point and never dated or had sex. I've heard most women "don't like sex" so I've been trying to kill my sexuality for the most part. I've asked women out on dates but they always say no, and say it's because of the way I look (I'm deformed) so I've tried asking out crippled women, or women who ar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how does a guy like me ever lose his virginity or ever get a first date? | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xn3ec1/how_does_a_guy_like_me_ever_lose_his_virginity_or/ |
ericalionsfan | 2019-11-11 00:22:00 | 1,573,431,720 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | duk319 | true | Discussion | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/duk319/what_do_you_do_to_get_out_more_and_try_and_meet/ | 35 | Just as the title says. I'll start. I've used OLD apps (and am still on Match) off and on for many years having hit and miss success on them but nothing that ever morphed into any LTRs except one. After many failed one-and done dates, I started to get depressed and was a homebody for a couple of years. I knew I needed ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What do you do to get out more and try and meet new people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/duk319/what_do_you_do_to_get_out_more_and_try_and_meet/ |
Jean_McClane | 2023-11-10 14:25:54 | 1,699,626,354 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17s5424 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/17s5424/she_wrote_me_a_letter_and_i_didnt_respond_how_she/ | 1 | Hi guys, So I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months, now. We met on Bumble, she straight up wanted to come to my place, and we hooked up, the night of. Then she went on a long trip, we texted a bit, but the vibe wasn't off the charts. I thought we'd see each other for the summer, but that's about it. We had a... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | She wrote me a letter, and I didn't respond how she wanted/gave her validation | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/17s5424/she_wrote_me_a_letter_and_i_didnt_respond_how_she/ |
BigSlickNick | 2016-04-27 09:38:41 | 1,461,749,921 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4gnqjn | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/4gnqjn/just_ended_a_relationship_with_my_fiance_how_the/ | 10 | I lost contact with my friends, which I used to have a TON of. Now, I am like the only person and don't talk to anyone else. I am in between jobs and my old work friends are too far away. What the hell do I do? Is online dating still good/working? No idea what my next steps are. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just ended a relationship with my fiance, how the hell do I talk/meet people | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4gnqjn/just_ended_a_relationship_with_my_fiance_how_the/ |
Aggravating_Ad3015 | 2021-02-16 02:36:04 | 1,613,442,964 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | lktoxg | true | Venting | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lktoxg/id_rather_meet_people_in_person/ | 140 | Too much of the interaction you have on dating sites feels scripted and rehearsed. And people of all demographics are clearly pulling from the same basic frame of reference when trying to write about themselves. Oh you’re an introverted nerd? Huh. Haven’t seen that before except literally 5 seconds ago because the last... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’d rather meet people in person | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lktoxg/id_rather_meet_people_in_person/ |
mrpersistent | 2024-06-01 07:50:24 | 1,717,228,224 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1d5hvm7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d5hvm7/blocked_after_date/ | 1 | Hi all, so I was on a first date last night and thought I ran it pretty well. We went for drinks at a few places before ending up in the beach for a while where we chilled for a bit and made out. I got good vibes off her the whole time, broke the touch barrier as soon as the date started, sat next to her in the pubs, h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Blocked After Date | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d5hvm7/blocked_after_date/ |
mutantninja001 | 2021-07-11 13:51:39 | 1,626,011,499 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | oi4tma | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/oi4tma/dating_apps_comparison_asking_for_suggestions/ | 16 | What are you favorite apps for finding a serious (or at least exclusive, somewhat long-term) relationship? Edit: I would like one that does as much of the filtering for me as possible, so that I ideally would only need to look through about 5 of the best profiles for me each day and would hopefully like two of them. I ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating apps comparison; asking for suggestions | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/oi4tma/dating_apps_comparison_asking_for_suggestions/ |
anon26582 | 2023-11-06 19:45:40 | 1,699,299,940 | 0 | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17pb72z | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17pb72z/help_on_dating/ | 1 | Hi want a bit of help on dating. I’m 25 m, and I’ve pretty much used hinge for my dating. Which is where I’m probably going wrong to start with. I don’t usually speak to girls when I’m out anywhere cause I don’t want to be that guy who bothers girls or even just people in general. I have been told that I give off the i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help on dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17pb72z/help_on_dating/ |
wintergirl1996 | 2024-08-28 14:51:20 | 1,724,856,680 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f3c6qu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f3c6qu/guy_keeps_inviting_me_over/ | 0 | I went on one date with a guy from my hometown I met on Hinge and he’s asked me to come over twice since. I’m looking for something serious and between that and our conversations I just don’t think we’re a match. Question is should I ghost him or let him know I’m not interested in a hookup? I just got on the apps so th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy Keeps Inviting Me Over | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3c6qu/guy_keeps_inviting_me_over/ |
Key-Computer | 2023-07-12 13:36:24 | 1,689,168,984 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 14xotef | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14xotef/not_getting_many_responses_from_dating_sites/ | 1 | I’m right now signed up for Facebook dating and hinge, but I have not had any luck getting responses back even when my first messages aren’t boring af but something about their profile with humor. I’ve noticed girls who say they’re serious in their profile end up just ghosting the conversation as well out of the blue. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not getting many responses from dating sites | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14xotef/not_getting_many_responses_from_dating_sites/ |
Lexdaddy270 | 2023-11-13 07:45:48 | 1,699,861,548 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17u5ors | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17u5ors/i_32m_giving_up_on_dating_apps_advice_for/ | 1 | I’m 32 soon to be 33, I’m above average as far as attractiveness goes & I’m heavily tattooed.. I live in Kentucky and I feel as if I’m just not the “Type” women in my area go to. The women I do tend to attract are superficial are just seem troubled.. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I was in a nearly decade long r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (32M) giving up on dating apps. Advice for alternative dating approaches? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17u5ors/i_32m_giving_up_on_dating_apps_advice_for/ |
tristian_lay | 2021-01-12 16:36:25 | 1,610,469,385 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | kvv32b | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kvv32b/dating_apps_vs_in_person_attraction/ | 1 | We all know dating apps are like window shopping..like the look swipe right. Real superficial and your profile has to be on point. I’ve never had much luck on apps and don’t get many matches as a guy. What’s odd is an attractive girl on the app who wouldn’t “swipe right” on me would put out flirty vibes to me in public... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps vs in person attraction | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kvv32b/dating_apps_vs_in_person_attraction/ |
dubbbyac | 2020-04-05 18:01:00 | 1,586,109,660 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fvi3ky | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/fvi3ky/whats_your_embarrassing_social_media_story/ | 6 | Ever see something on social media you KNOW they didnt mean to share publicly? Soo.. quick story time. I met a gal on tinder over the summer. We went on one date.. she had self admitted "substance abuse issues" among other red flags (that I actually recognized). So I told her let's remain freindly.. and we have. We rar... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What's your embarrassing social media story,? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fvi3ky/whats_your_embarrassing_social_media_story/ |
prismeeveelution | 2018-11-05 03:18:58 | 1,541,387,938 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9ua1c3 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ua1c3/is_there_anything_i_can_do_to_combat_this_women/ | 13 | So, I'm a very competitive person with most things in life, but competing over women I find just tiring, annoying, and unsatisfying. This is probably the nature of the OLD beast; even if they don't tell me, I can usually tell the women are talking to who knows how many guys. I'm the type of guy who is very commitment o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is there anything I can do to combat this? Women (or men) talking to multiple people. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ua1c3/is_there_anything_i_can_do_to_combat_this_women/ |
anonfives | 2023-09-14 14:37:36 | 1,694,702,256 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16ik57s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16ik57s/confess_or_move_on/ | 1 | I've been dating a guy I met on a dating app and we've been on 3 dates now. We clicked pretty quickly, have similarities I've never shared with anyone and I feel incredibly safe and comfortable with him. I really like him. I feel like I've known him my whole life. He is the first person I've ever dated, I struggle to s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | confess or move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ik57s/confess_or_move_on/ |
Sea-Razzmatazz-4702 | 2024-08-18 17:33:21 | 1,724,002,401 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1evewa6 | true | Discussion | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1evewa6/central_arkansas/ | 0 | Has anyone experienced challenges finding educated, professionals who are attractive, with good hygiene that are not into hunting, fishing, 4-wheelers, etc. Not intending criticism, but have found it impossible to meet men with my interests here. OLD a total flop! | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Central Arkansas! | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1evewa6/central_arkansas/ |
psychie | 2016-01-26 01:38:26 | 1,453,772,306 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 42p379 | null | Support | 48 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/42p379/i_24f_went_on_a_first_date_and_felt_violated_for/ | 0 | I met a guy off a dating app. I have been on plenty of dates with different guys off dating apps and websites so it wasn't too weird for me. We met at a bar and I had about 1 and a half drinks there. He finished the rest of the second one. The date was going fine at the first bar, we got along very well. As we got to t... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I (24/F) went on a first date and felt violated for the first time in my life. I just wanted to share my story. | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/42p379/i_24f_went_on_a_first_date_and_felt_violated_for/ |
ndcreates | 2024-01-03 12:43:08 | 1,704,285,788 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18xijm4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18xijm4/what_to_reply_when_he_says_not_to_wait_for_him/ | 1 | I was speaking with this guy every day for around six weeks. We chatted on the phone for hours at night, he messaged every morning and showed a lot of affection. The conversations flowed really well and for the first time, I felt secure and as if I had found someone who would treat me right. Two days after our fourth d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to reply when he says not to wait for him… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18xijm4/what_to_reply_when_he_says_not_to_wait_for_him/ |
AlarmingAd4107 | 2023-03-24 04:23:33 | 1,679,631,813 | null | ['swiped', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1208x64 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1208x64/stop_quitting_because_old_isnt_working_for_you/ | 0 | As a guy OLD wasn't really working for me and was drastically fucking with my self esteem. So I took a break to fix my mental health and once I felt comfortable enough I started trying other options. I signed up for a coed softball league, went out with my friends more, made connections through these other options and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Stop quitting because OLD isn't working for you. Delete it and try something else and save your mental health. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1208x64/stop_quitting_because_old_isnt_working_for_you/ |
Competitive-Aide315 | 2024-07-04 11:00:14 | 1,720,090,814 | 0 | ['badoo'] | 0 | 1dv47dh | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dv47dh/first_date_questions/ | 1 | Hello guys I need a piece of advice. So, today I'm meeting a guy I met on Badoo and we agreed to go for a drink for the first date. Since I haven't had a real date in a while, I don't know what kind of questions should I ask him? We didnt text too much cause it is just a waste of time for me, I'd rather talk about evey... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date questions | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dv47dh/first_date_questions/ |
klavierwerke | 2015-11-16 17:34:55 | 1,447,695,295 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3t1kf0 | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3t1kf0/she_chose_the_other_guy/ | 23 | So here's the story: I met this girl on tinder 2 months ago. We started chatting pretty quick and tinder went to connecting through Facebook, instagram, snapchat you name it. It didn't take long until we went on and had a couple of drinks and we kissed that very same night. The same day as we met she posted a picture o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She chose the other guy. | 23 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3t1kf0/she_chose_the_other_guy/ |
lovejerseyboys2018 | 2024-08-31 10:12:25 | 1,725,099,145 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f5jynz | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5jynz/i_feel_im_not_lovable/ | 1 | I've been single for almost two years. My ex broke up with me because he thought I was nice, but he couldn't feel the same way he did with his ex. I got back into dating this year and had two very short-lived experiences. I met the first person on Tinder, and everything was terrific at first. However, when we talked ab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel I'm not lovable | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5jynz/i_feel_im_not_lovable/ |
SubaruToyotaFan1986 | 2019-07-29 13:45:16 | 1,564,407,916 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cjbfsx | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cjbfsx/some_questions_on_basic_flirtingwhere_to_meet/ | 1 | I'm 33, and from Lancashire, England, United Kingdom. I've got some three different questions, but rather than write three specific topics, I'll condense it into one post. I should add, I don't want to use online dating, tried it in 2017 but it never really worked for me. Question 1. How can I flirt effectively without... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Some questions on basic flirting/where to meet specific types of people and gay dating outside the gay scene? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cjbfsx/some_questions_on_basic_flirtingwhere_to_meet/ |
ramennoodles35 | 2022-04-25 23:38:59 | 1,650,929,939 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ubyttg | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ubyttg/talking_points/ | 1 | I met this guy on tinder about a month ago and we have been hanging out very often multiple times a week. We hit it off and we like each other immediately and had deep convos and always had a good time together . He’s such a gentleman plus he can make me nut like a champ lol 😂.But I keep having this fear that we will ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Talking points | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ubyttg/talking_points/ |
StrivingPenguin | 2023-10-15 18:49:50 | 1,697,395,790 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 178m3sx | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/178m3sx/to_those_who_say_i_get_x_matches_per_week/ | 1 | I \[M38\] have been on dating apps for a while, so I am familiar with them, but I try to be very thoughtful about whom I reach out to and don't have it in me to get to know multiple people at once. A comment I see often, especially in gauging one's success on an app, is "I get X matches per week". To this, others would... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | To those who say "I get X matches per week" | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178m3sx/to_those_who_say_i_get_x_matches_per_week/ |
eyewant2bleve | 2019-05-18 01:12:16 | 1,558,141,936 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bpzbas | true | Venting | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bpzbas/gave_someone_my_number_on_a_dating_appthey_texted/ | 14 | Ugh. Feels like there's no winning dating as a woman. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Gave someone my number on a dating app...they texted, "Always give out your number that fast?" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bpzbas/gave_someone_my_number_on_a_dating_appthey_texted/ |
[deleted] | 2013-01-08 19:30:39 | 1,357,673,439 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1676gn | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1676gn/i_f21_have_connected_with_two_guys_m27_m28_that_i/ | 1 | I met both of these guys through online dating. I met "Jason" first, and "Alan" a week or so later. Jason and I had a crazy connection the first time we met. We had the normal chat and get to know you, but by the end of the date we were kind of cuddling and expressing how much we liked each other. He ended up inviting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [F21] have connected with two guys [M27] and [M28] that I really like. I need help sorting out the situation and getting some insight if you all don't mind! | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1676gn/i_f21_have_connected_with_two_guys_m27_m28_that_i/ |
hijkaylen | 2022-05-05 00:03:11 | 1,651,708,991 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | uikatz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uikatz/should_i_reach_out/ | 2 | Been talking to this guy from a dating app for a month and a half. First time we texted we FaceTimed for almost 7 hours. We had our first date a week after that and he drove 1.5 hours to see me. We messed around but didn’t have sex. He told me originally he didn’t want to “hit it and quit it” and that he wanted to “dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uikatz/should_i_reach_out/ |
intriguedcherry | 2023-08-31 19:14:03 | 1,693,509,243 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 166k3mu | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/166k3mu/now_they_want_instant_video_call/ | 1 | I mean this is taking it to a new level. Now unfiltered pictures aren't enough. Just to have initial basic small talk, i need to go instantly on video call? Are they doing this to everyone or just me? I really can't understand. I like to talk a little bit get to know the person is minimumly compatible before going on v... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Now they want instant video call? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/166k3mu/now_they_want_instant_video_call/ |
burntoutattorney | 2022-03-12 04:40:44 | 1,647,060,044 | null | null | 0 | tc8l99 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tc8l99/if_you_want_a_serious_relationship_then_dont/ | 0 | It's all about acting on the intent you profess to have. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you want a serious relationship, then don't waste your time and energy on relationships you don't take seriously. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tc8l99/if_you_want_a_serious_relationship_then_dont/ |
randman78 | 2019-01-04 05:05:19 | 1,546,578,319 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | acer0v | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/acer0v/rejection_in_your_30s_vs_your_20s/ | 6 | I'm actually 40, but I'm curious, as for both men and women, do you find you get rejected more, less, or about the same as you did than when you were younger? This is based on the initial asking out stage, and more in real life rather than OLD. For women, do you tend to give guys more of a chance now that you're older ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Rejection in your 30s vs your 20s | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/acer0v/rejection_in_your_30s_vs_your_20s/ |
1fuzzyminx | 2024-01-12 13:14:08 | 1,705,065,248 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swipes', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 194uror | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/194uror/why_swipe_then_unmatch_and_other_questions_re/ | 1 | Here to be educated lol…or at least to absorb other perspectives. I’ve read a lot of how the dating apps are tipped in favour of women, but I have to say my experience hasn’t supported this. I get a LOT of swipes from guys. I know this because I’m a paid member on a couple of them. From this I know the apps aren’t grea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why swipe then unmatch? And other questions re online dating! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/194uror/why_swipe_then_unmatch_and_other_questions_re/ |
dkmjr | 2022-11-16 08:46:48 | 1,668,588,408 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | ywob7d | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ywob7d/how_do_you_determine_what_kind_of_dating_style/ | 0 | I don't have much dating experience but I'd like that to change. A lot of women at my age have already experienced love and heartbreak, as well as intimacy. Maybe they've already had kids or recently got divorced. Either way, they know what to expect when dealing with a significant other (or multiple ones) on a continu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you determine what kind of dating style you want when you've only been on a small handful of dates at age 26? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ywob7d/how_do_you_determine_what_kind_of_dating_style/ |
soentwinedsofree | 2017-11-20 17:32:00 | 1,511,199,120 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 7eaiei | false | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7eaiei/why_do_you_unmatch_or_dont_unmatch/ | 3 | What are your reasons for unmatching, or reasons you don’t unmatch people who sent you a decent enough opening message that you don’t respond to? If you realize you’ve lost interest, why do you keep the matches around? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Why do you unmatch or don’t unmatch? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7eaiei/why_do_you_unmatch_or_dont_unmatch/ |
OnenutFellow | 2018-03-27 16:50:25 | 1,522,169,425 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 87jz7n | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/87jz7n/dating_seems_like_its_damn_near_impossible/ | 9 | I just don't understand it. I'm on 6 different dating sites/apps which I'm on daily at least and do message a good number of women, I'm a pretty public figure where I live and am seen by a lot of people on a daily basis and talk to people in real life as much if not more than I do online and yet I haven't gotten a sing... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating seems like its damn near impossible... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/87jz7n/dating_seems_like_its_damn_near_impossible/ |
ChiquiChiq88 | 2023-06-25 16:11:52 | 1,687,709,512 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 14iq2nz | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14iq2nz/rejected_second_date_pulled_the_plug_too_early/ | 1 | I (F34) went on a first bumble date with a guy (M37) I was not too excited about. The date was ok, but overall I felt like we were too different. I am very empathetic and intuitive (INFJ), he seemed more of a pragmatic ambitious type of person (I assume ISTP). And it was not a "opposites attract" type of thing, but mor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rejected second date. Pulled the plug too early? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14iq2nz/rejected_second_date_pulled_the_plug_too_early/ |
PalpitationFull4868 | 2022-11-25 19:46:13 | 1,669,405,573 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | z4mart | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z4mart/guy_im_seeing_doesnt_initiate_anything/ | 15 | I’ve gone on 3 dates in 3 weeks with this guy from hinge. Im 25 he’s 31. He initiated and planned our first date, second date i initiated but he planned, and third date i both initiated and planned. We have been intimate two of the dates and slept over both times. We really do not text between dates which he told me on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I’m seeing doesn’t initiate anything | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z4mart/guy_im_seeing_doesnt_initiate_anything/ |
filthy_scrubscrub | 2024-08-09 04:32:06 | 1,723,177,926 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1enqsoo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1enqsoo/i_miss_him_so_much_should_i_reach_out/ | 1 | 21, F. I met a guy on a dating app and we ended up having sex on the first night. Initially, I thought it was just a one-time thing, but then he seemed to show concern for me and we started talking regularly. In one of our conversations, he admitted that he sees me more than someone he sleeps with and doesn't want us t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I miss him so much. Should I reach out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1enqsoo/i_miss_him_so_much_should_i_reach_out/ |
formerlyknownaslurk | 2020-07-15 03:41:49 | 1,594,784,509 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hrgegz | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hrgegz/any_tips_or_tricks_for_finding_someone_you_like/ | 2 | Basically the title. I feel like I am struggling to find the right connection. I get asked out a lot, but either there are fundamental compatibility differences (e.g. wanting kids or not) or the spark isn't there. And when a guy catches my eye, he is likely already taken, non-responsive (on dating apps/sites) or a fuck... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any tips or tricks for finding someone you like who also likes you? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hrgegz/any_tips_or_tricks_for_finding_someone_you_like/ |
unsaintedheretic | 2019-10-26 07:44:54 | 1,572,075,894 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | dnasbj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dnasbj/some_pointers_to_get_over_a_breakuprejection/ | 12 | I posted this as a reply but thought I'd share it as a post too... (hope this fits here, otherwise I'll remove it) I'm going through the worst breakup I could've ever imagined right now and I just thought I'd share some things that help me get through it at the moment... And I think this all also fits if you get reject... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Some pointers to get over a breakup/rejection | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dnasbj/some_pointers_to_get_over_a_breakuprejection/ |
pugskreationz | 2017-02-24 19:32:57 | 1,487,964,777 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5vzjxx | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/5vzjxx/tinder_help/ | 2 | To keep things short, I matched with a girl about 2 months ago and I never got to messaging her until 6 days ago saying "too late to say hi". She messaged me back today at 3 in the morning saying "too late for me to say hi?". Im not sure if she is referring to herself texting me at night or questioning who my message w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5vzjxx/tinder_help/ |
tutorquestion90 | 2023-06-01 13:39:15 | 1,685,626,755 | 0 | null | 0 | 13xhvco | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13xhvco/seeing_where_a_scam_goes/ | 0 | Has anyone stuck out a scam for a bit to see where it goes? I’m pretty sure I mildly fell for one for a very short time. After an afternoon of messaging it seemed off. Fairly convincing profile so it seemed ok. But then she wanted me to add her snap. I’ve had that happen enough where they were real so I dabbled and wan... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Seeing where a scam goes | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13xhvco/seeing_where_a_scam_goes/ |
realpawel | 2021-06-17 21:21:09 | 1,623,964,869 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | o287ge | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o287ge/first_messages/ | 1 | When it comes to messaging a girl either, or pof would you tell a girl something to the style of "hey you caught my attention, I think you're (really) attractive, I don't expect a reply soon, you must be getting blown up with dms" I(33m) already have a basic idea of convo starters, talk about things in her(29f) profile... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First messages | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o287ge/first_messages/ |
Littlemaxerman | 2023-05-07 01:06:53 | 1,683,421,613 | 0 | null | 0 | 13a85qw | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13a85qw/first_like_one_week_after_my_paid_hinge_account/ | 0 | I'm a decent looking guy...in the face. I'm not fit. I'm the type of guy woman looking for bigger guys go for. so online dating has been mostly me saying I'm online dating. I've had a few dates, multiple dates, even. None of late, but I'm not really trying either. Anyway, I went on Hinge a few months ago. Did the paid ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | First like one week after my paid Hinge account expires. | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13a85qw/first_like_one_week_after_my_paid_hinge_account/ |
neutermeplz | 2020-08-20 02:29:53 | 1,597,890,593 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | id1ycb | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/id1ycb/anyone_use_facebook_dating_thoughts/ | 3 | Was wondering if FB dating was worth looking into. I only use tinder and bumble at the moment. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone use Facebook dating? Thoughts? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/id1ycb/anyone_use_facebook_dating_thoughts/ |
92_Explorer | 2021-09-30 20:41:30 | 1,633,034,490 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | pysf3m | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pysf3m/what_advice_do_you_have_for_making_a_long_lasting/ | 1 | I (29 M) am going on a first date with girl (28 F) that I’ve been speaking to for the last two months very frequently. We live about 6 hours apart via car and are both very busy professionals in the same high stress line of work. I already know her to a relatively good degree since we’ve been talking a lot these last t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What advice do you have for making a long lasting impression on a first date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pysf3m/what_advice_do_you_have_for_making_a_long_lasting/ |
adamka25 | 2022-01-10 10:39:43 | 1,641,811,183 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | s0h5o8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s0h5o8/im_loosing_hope/ | 3 | I'm almost 32 never had any relationship with a women. I have tried everything that I could I went to two different therapist they came to the same conclusion there is nothing really wrong with me. I might have slight autism but there is not much you can do about it. And it's not like I'm not trying to anything about i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm loosing hope. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s0h5o8/im_loosing_hope/ |
wazgirl | 2022-11-25 18:34:30 | 1,669,401,270 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | z4kkgh | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z4kkgh/is_it_unfair_of_me_to_expect_the_guy_im_seeing/ | 3 | I’ve gone on seven dates with this guy over the span of 1.5 months. Everything is great so far. He always initiates the dates, texts me everyday, super generous on these dates, and has shown a lot of interest. We haven’t had the exclusivity talk, and last date (Date 7) I told him I don’t get intimate with someone I am ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it unfair of me to expect the guy I’m seeing not to download a new dating app? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z4kkgh/is_it_unfair_of_me_to_expect_the_guy_im_seeing/ |
Lil_Stanks | 2020-02-05 17:22:14 | 1,580,923,334 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ezcwup | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ezcwup/am_i_naive_should_i_force_myself_to_adapt/ | 1 | Hey I'm (24F) just looking for some advice. I'm constantly popping in and out of the dating scene (mainly through dating apps since my introverted nature makes meeting men organically more difficult) and have run into the same problem over and over again. It's always one or two dates until the topic of sex comes up. I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I naive? Should I force myself to adapt? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ezcwup/am_i_naive_should_i_force_myself_to_adapt/ |
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