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phantom_fanatic
2020-01-20 02:33:37
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25
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/r/dating_advice/comments/er6mg3/dating_app_pictures/
7
Hi all, I'm a recently single straight 23M and want to try using one of these dating apps to get back out there, but I'm stuck on getting decent pictures for the profile. What pictures should I include? Are there any poses/settings that tend to work well for guys? The basics I understand are that I need a standard head...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating App Pictures
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/er6mg3/dating_app_pictures/
Silent-Change110
2024-03-09 18:52:40
1,710,010,360
0
['matched', 'bumble']
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1bap2p4
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bap2p4/didnt_offer_to_pay_on_a_first_date_and_i_wonder/
1
I 30f went out with an old coworker 36m who I matched on bumble. He asked me out. We went out to like 3 diff bars and he paid each time, the first 2x he paid in a subtle way while I used the washroom I thanked him we moved on. At the 3rd place by my 4th or 5th drink I was quite drunk. he asked what im looking for out o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
didnt offer to pay on a first date and I wonder if thats why Hes not interested anymore
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bap2p4/didnt_offer_to_pay_on_a_first_date_and_i_wonder/
NoPersonality8740
2023-08-01 16:01:19
1,690,905,679
0
null
0
15fgnur
false
null
4
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/15fgnur/shouldnt_have_swiped_right_feeling_awkward/
1
Would appreciate some words of support. I feel very awkward right now. Saw a guy that I recognized as a bartender from a bar I go to occasionally. Swiped right because I always thought he was cute, I don’t hit on bartenders at work so that never occurred to me but when I saw him I thought why not? I’d talked to him a c...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Shouldn’t have swiped right, feeling awkward.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15fgnur/shouldnt_have_swiped_right_feeling_awkward/
threadbuster
2024-07-29 14:40:44
1,722,264,044
0
['matched']
0
1ef18cm
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ef18cm/it_feels_hopeless/
1
I (29F) recently got out of a year long situationship. I decided to use fb dating for the first time, and me, I don’t really like the idea of them considering I can’t really judge someone based on their looks, which seems to be the main thing on these sites. Well, I saw a cute guy liked me, and looked at his profile. I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
It Feels Hopeless
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ef18cm/it_feels_hopeless/
happinessinlatin
2016-09-24 19:54:26
1,474,746,866
0
['online dating', 'okcupid']
0
54br4o
null
null
48
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/54br4o/me_37f_new_to_online_dating_advice_on_when_to/
12
I am dipping my toe back into the dating pool (on OKCupid) after divorce (which has been finalized for almost a year.) I'm feeling ready to meet new guys and see where it goes, I think... but man, I have never online dated before, maybe this is how it is... but, some of these guys ask for my number IMMEDIATELY, and I'm...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Me: 37F, new to online dating. Advice on when to give my phone number to guys online?
12
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/54br4o/me_37f_new_to_online_dating_advice_on_when_to/
temalatailleduzeub
2024-08-16 18:24:21
1,723,832,661
0
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
1etw4ix
true
Success Story 🎉
19
0
/r/dating/comments/1etw4ix/lets_just_our_sex_life_for_shits_ans_giggles/
0
Lets do quick recaps of the people we slept with + details Dunno. I am bored. And curious. 29 , m , central European. I'll start. I don't do pua stuff, I just have my hobbies and sometimes meet cool people with my hobbies. So yeah, here is my journey 17 German f, me 17, German, my gf of 8 months, met at dance class 17 ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Lets just our sex life for shits ans giggles. ihavesex
0
0.2
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1etw4ix/lets_just_our_sex_life_for_shits_ans_giggles/
sarcynkel
2017-07-23 03:22:14
1,500,780,134
null
['pof']
0
6oz8hl
null
null
80
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6oz8hl/new_to_this_sub_i_hope_a_quick_rant_is_okay/
15
I had been messaging with a guy on POF for a couple weeks - not super consistently (my fault) because I get a stupid number of messages every day and sometimes I just don't feel like digging through them. Anyways, we decide to meet at a park (busy, lots of people, daylight - felt safe) to go for a walk and get to know ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
New to this sub - I hope a quick rant is okay!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6oz8hl/new_to_this_sub_i_hope_a_quick_rant_is_okay/
tommykmusic
2020-03-03 07:08:00
1,583,219,280
null
['tinder']
0
fcqxv0
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fcqxv0/other_opinions_please/
1
So I have been using Tinder so a few years ever since it came out but it wasn't until recently when I started to take a bit more serious. I am now 25 and haven't been on a date in almost 5 to 7 years. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I'd definitely like some second opinions on my tinder account. https://gotinder.c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Other opinions please!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fcqxv0/other_opinions_please/
brittslipstick
2017-11-18 02:33:45
1,510,972,425
null
['matched']
0
7dq0a8
false
null
36
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7dq0a8/age_related_hesitations/
22
I got divorced a couple of years ago. I played around, experienced datingoverthirty (was THAT ever hard to learn) had a rebound who fell in love with me, went on a few months long break to avoid hurting others while I was clearly not ready to settle down, and then tentatively stepped out again. I met my boyfriend. He i...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Age related hesitations
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7dq0a8/age_related_hesitations/
Admirable-Let3796
2024-09-25 00:10:11
1,727,223,011
0
['online dating']
0
1fordbl
true
I Need Advice 😩
20
0
/r/dating/comments/1fordbl/what_is_a_girl_to_do/
13
I’m currently 24, almost 25 and have been single all my life. This has generated some deep rooted sadness, bitterness, and a lack of self confidence. Every time I see friends/family/strangers in loving relationships, I feel bitter towards them, which ends up ruining my whole mood. Now I know that no one is perfect and ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What is a girl to do?
13
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fordbl/what_is_a_girl_to_do/
chipsfrischpaprika
2023-12-04 14:40:30
1,701,700,830
0
['online dating']
0
18all8p
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18all8p/i_29m_have_been_single_for_well_over_5_years_now/
18
2018 I got out of a 5 year relationship. She was my first everything and I haven't experienced anything with another Woman since then. Since the break up I kind of developed a real anxiety to the point that when I'm talking to a woman I try to find ways to leave the conversation asap, as it stresses me out completely. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [29m] have been single for well over 5 years now
18
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18all8p/i_29m_have_been_single_for_well_over_5_years_now/
burner_phone007
2021-05-31 19:54:18
1,622,490,858
null
['dating apps']
0
npbu6x
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/npbu6x/dating_apps_profile_what_does_this_even_mean/
4
(25m) I think it was early 2020 I had some dating apps and tried. Turned out to be no bueno. One thing I thought was weird was all of these things people were posting in their profiles. ABCD WXYZ Bi-Polynomial and I'm over here like am I supposed to know what that means? Is that normal? These are just examples, I can't...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps profile... what does this even mean?
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/npbu6x/dating_apps_profile_what_does_this_even_mean/
Maibeitsmaibeline
2014-08-12 16:12:16
1,407,859,936
0
['online dating', 'tinder', 'pof']
0
2dcgeb
null
null
18
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2dcgeb/how_do_you_avoid_equating_your_physical/
12
Disclaimer: I'm not one of those females that men would do a double take when walking on the streets, or even pay much attention to most likely. It just seems that every resource for dating after college seems to be focused around physical appearance, which is largely out of my control (asymmetrical face, pear-shaped b...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How do you avoid equating your physical appearance with self worth when dating in your twenties?
12
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2dcgeb/how_do_you_avoid_equating_your_physical/
ratchat364
2024-05-07 09:28:44
1,715,074,124
0
['dating apps']
0
1cm7qyb
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cm7qyb/palatable_but_not_dateable/
1
Does anyone else have an issue with people liking you, but not seeing you as the best dating option? I'm okay with this outside dating apps, in say the music scene I'm in.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Palatable but not Dateable
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cm7qyb/palatable_but_not_dateable/
polybius2
2014-01-09 00:25:17
1,389,227,117
0
['okcupid']
0
1ur7ie
null
null
10
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ur7ie/am_i22f_too_picky/
1
My list is: actively tries to make awesome, interesting things good with words plans for the future ("I can't get hung over. I have work tomorrow." "I'm thinking I'd like to have X job in 5 years.") looking for a relationship a 5.5/10 or higher looks wise Is this doable? How do I find this person? Are they on OKCupid?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I(22/f) Too Picky?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ur7ie/am_i22f_too_picky/
Rex_Kwon_Doh
2020-08-22 18:28:04
1,598,120,884
null
['OLD', 'dating apps']
0
iennyc
true
null
8
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/iennyc/dating_apps_popularity_by_region/
3
For those of you who have used OLD apps for a while and moved during that time, was an app that was popular in one area dead in another area? Does a platforms popularity ebb and flow even in the same spot? I can only imagine the lower cost apps have the most selection, or is that false?
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Dating apps popularity by region
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/iennyc/dating_apps_popularity_by_region/
MyNewTransAccount
2023-03-02 01:40:39
1,677,721,239
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
11fp1c5
true
null
38
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11fp1c5/i_feel_bad_rejecting_guys_because_im_afraid_they/
13
I’m an adult woman who is coming to terms with her sexuality kind of late in life. I don’t have a lot of experience with men and that’s something I’ve been trying to explore through some online dating apps. But when I figure out I’m not interested or attracted to a guy I feel really guilty about letting them down plus ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I feel bad rejecting guys because I’m afraid they might turn into incels
null
0.59
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11fp1c5/i_feel_bad_rejecting_guys_because_im_afraid_they/
dan650
2022-08-04 00:39:35
1,659,573,575
null
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
wfn1my
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/wfn1my/the_old_fashioned_way/
3
So, as many of you can relate to, I’m about to my wits end with online dating. I’ve had several great conversations online that have led to fun dates in the city doing things like catching baseball games, getting out into the parks, and seeing movies. Still, nothing lasting has panned out. Every time I open up one of t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The “old fashioned” way?
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wfn1my/the_old_fashioned_way/
SammyZoza
2024-03-26 06:36:31
1,711,434,991
0
['dating apps']
0
1bo1570
true
Support Needed 🫂
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bo1570/tired_of_being_lonely/
1
I’m 26 and never had a girlfriend. There’s been attractive women interested me in the past, but most my life I had social anxiety that was so bad I could barely talk to a stranger without shaking, so I never had the courage to ask a women out in my high school and college days. My social anxiety is stilll there, not ne...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tired of being lonely
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bo1570/tired_of_being_lonely/
ithilras
2019-02-22 21:39:32
1,550,871,572
null
['tinder']
0
atn8gu
true
Tinder/Online Dating
8
0
/r/dating/comments/atn8gu/lets_talk_the_looks_its_05_for_men_and_510_for/
0
Come on. It's 2019. You know, gender equality, and that things. So, let's say that 5/10 means that 5 out of 10 of potential partners, will want you. So, average man would be somewhere between 0/10 and 1/10, depending on the local culture. While, average woman, would bee somewhere between 9/10 and 10/10. In fact, I got ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Let's talk the looks: It's 0-5 for men, and 5-10 for women, and that's beyond discussion.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/atn8gu/lets_talk_the_looks_its_05_for_men_and_510_for/
MNSnowboarder1817
2020-11-05 02:32:14
1,604,543,534
null
['tinder']
0
joajp3
true
Venting
2
0
/r/dating/comments/joajp3/should_i_even_try/
0
So I recently went through a tough rejection. It still hurts a lot but I figured getting myself out there again would help. I ended up lining up 3 dates this week which is now 2 because one got covid lol. Anyways I lined up getting drinks with one of them on Friday via tinder and I told her to text me. She did and I re...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I even try?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/joajp3/should_i_even_try/
ihavenoidea1391
2019-05-10 20:41:45
1,557,520,905
null
['tinder']
0
bn3ipj
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/bn3ipj/no_idea_where_i_am_with_this_girl/
1
Hi all I met a girl on Tinder last week. We are both in our twenties. We texted over the weekend and went on a date on Monday - a few drinks in various bars. It was a pleasant experience and I got good vibes off her. We ended the night with a kiss and both said that we had enjoyed ourselves. We kind of arranged to see ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
No idea where I am with this girl
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bn3ipj/no_idea_where_i_am_with_this_girl/
VergenceScatter
2023-12-21 21:45:37
1,703,195,137
0
['tinder']
0
18ny853
true
Question ❓
90
0
/r/dating/comments/18ny853/how_do_i_find_a_hookup/
1
I really want to lose my virginity in the next few months but I don't know how to do it. Tinder has failed me, there aren't any parties at my school, and I'm not old enough to go to bars. Is there anything else I can do?
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I find a hookup?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ny853/how_do_i_find_a_hookup/
Capital_Ad3663
2024-04-01 00:10:16
1,711,930,216
0
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
1bspcc4
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bspcc4/suggestions_on_appropriate_and_healthy_places_and/
1
Burner account I'm (31M) feeling lost on where to meet potential partners. My previous LTR did not pan out, and now years later I am struggling to meet someone else. Physically I'm nothing special, I know I'm not attractive enough to just stand around and wait for women to come to me, but I don't like to push the limit...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Suggestions on appropriate and healthy places and methods to approach women?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bspcc4/suggestions_on_appropriate_and_healthy_places_and/
86Nox
2024-08-29 04:33:37
1,724,906,017
0
['tinder']
0
1f3twui
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3twui/agrees_to_date_but_doesnt_text_me_back/
1
I was texting 24(F) I met on Tinder for a week and we had back and forth conversation during the first week, later I suggest we go on a date without being specific as to when, she agrees. Then next week she stops texting me back, I think whether to double text her to confirm if she is not interested anymore. I wait 3 d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Agrees to date but doesn't text me back
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3twui/agrees_to_date_but_doesnt_text_me_back/
driftingfog
2017-02-24 21:50:07
1,487,973,007
null
['dating apps']
0
5w0d5x
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5w0d5x/m29_i_do_everything_right_then_this_scares_them/
1
Rarely ever use reddit, but a close friend's significant other directed me here. I am a successful 29 year old USMC veteran who has it made. Started school in the service, graduated a year after and have a great career. You could say I am "good looking" in the classical sense. Here it is, my father and mother have both...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[M29] I do everything right, then this scares them away
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5w0d5x/m29_i_do_everything_right_then_this_scares_them/
saskianuoli
2020-02-07 17:53:24
1,581,098,004
null
['dating apps']
0
f0e32h
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f0e32h/advice_please/
1
Can someone please explain why I still get asked if I’m a boy or a girl on dating apps, especially Her where there are so many labels and they market it as so accepting. I’m so glad I can have a genuine discussion with people on reddit and twitter about these topics that weren’t even discussed a few years ago. I’ve spe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice Please?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f0e32h/advice_please/
Taker10K
2023-06-29 19:35:52
1,688,067,352
0
null
0
14me760
true
null
4
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/14me760/pictures/
2
How many pictures of myself should I have on my profile?. I don't have many pictures of myself, so I'm wondering how many I need to get.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Pictures
2
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14me760/pictures/
DoomBro1998
2024-01-11 23:01:38
1,705,014,098
0
['dating app']
0
194fav9
true
Support Needed 🫂
7
0
/r/dating/comments/194fav9/my_hope_is_broken/
2
I chatted with a girl thanks to a dating app. I proposed to have a date where we could meet in person and have a chat with something to drink and eat. Turns out she already has a boyfriend. How i hate that cliché.
dating
t5_2qhb1
My hope is broken
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/194fav9/my_hope_is_broken/
creatorcontent123
2019-08-19 14:05:29
1,566,223,529
null
['tinder']
0
cshj8y
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cshj8y/he_ghosted_and_blocked_me_after_seeing_him_on/
1
First of all- sorry for my Bad english and Long Text 😂 I Met a guy on tinder and it clicked instantly between us. He is in the Military so we could Not Meet often But we were texting each other 24/7 for weeks and he was so sweet and lovely and the nicest guy i came Across.We both made clear that we Are searching for a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He ghosted and blocked Me After seeing him on tinder
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cshj8y/he_ghosted_and_blocked_me_after_seeing_him_on/
lonelybananaboat
2019-04-04 04:45:13
1,554,353,113
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
b98d2d
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/b98d2d/to_ask_or_not_to_ask_him_out/
6
This guy and I work in the same building. We matched on tinder a while back, messaged a little then he went away for a while. When he came back but didn’t reach out, we bump into each other few times a week and we just make small talk. I can’t tell if he is interested. Should I ask him out for coffee?
dating
t5_2qhb1
To ask or not to ask him out
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b98d2d/to_ask_or_not_to_ask_him_out/
National-Drag2007
2024-05-06 01:10:28
1,714,957,828
0
['dating apps']
0
1cl6qx6
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cl6qx6/how_to_cope_with_not_being_that_attractive_so_i/
5
I am a 22 year old man who has had relative success in “pulling” girls off of dating apps with a balance of misses and scores (getting ghosted, left on delivered/read, no replies at all, with occasional instances of long-term interest in me/hookups). The people I tend to pull are usually either slightly younger than my...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to cope with not being that attractive so I don’t ruin my relationship? (Facecard)
5
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cl6qx6/how_to_cope_with_not_being_that_attractive_so_i/
Ballstrodomus
2018-09-08 10:07:33
1,536,401,253
null
['tinder']
0
9e39ow
true
null
28
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9e39ow/got_a_tinder_date_built_up_almost_zero_rapport_so/
69
I'm rusty when it comes to dating. Decided to finally get serious about dating after about 4 years of focusing on my career. While I'm not a social potato, having shallow conversation with clients and coworkers hasn't really done much for my abilities, so when I get a tinder date where we're basically just meeting on p...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Got a tinder date. Built up almost zero rapport so basically going in with virtually no ammunition except for the museum we're going to. Please help?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9e39ow/got_a_tinder_date_built_up_almost_zero_rapport_so/
Desmondeeds34
2019-07-30 22:27:16
1,564,525,636
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
cjz7bi
true
null
25
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cjz7bi/its_so_hard_to_get_women_is_your_an_average_guy/
0
I’ve used dating apps no luck time wasted and flaked on done an expieremenr with a guy who looks like a male model and got lots of matches hahaha sad the shallow world we live in getting women is impossible unless your very very very handsome as cold approaching hobbies and bars don’t work I’m doomed oh god
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
It’s so hard to get women is your an average guy??
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cjz7bi/its_so_hard_to_get_women_is_your_an_average_guy/
tuliprosesunflower
2023-12-14 03:06:31
1,702,523,191
0
['online dating']
0
18hywk2
true
I Need Advice 😩
36
0
/r/dating/comments/18hywk2/guy_went_from_calling_everyday_to_nothing_at_all/
33
25F trying to figure out if I should take this as the 30M is no longer interested or not. After we met and hung out, I felt comfortable giving him my real number and not the number I used when online dating for safety reasons. I explained why I used a text app number for safety reasons and he got mad. We continued to t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy went from calling everyday to nothing at all and got mad I gave him a textnow number when we first met.
33
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18hywk2/guy_went_from_calling_everyday_to_nothing_at_all/
[deleted]
2022-03-14 17:45:10
1,647,279,910
null
['swipe', 'OLD']
0
te38d9
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/te38d9/connections_in_old/
1
I want to throw in some genuine, fairly universal advice gleaned from a longer lifetime of experience. Lots of guys post here that they always swipe right, and its a numbers game. If you are gorgeous, that probably works to get hookups. Please enjoy The rest of us have to work harder at it. And even the gorgeous are un...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Connections in OLD
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/te38d9/connections_in_old/
purpurp13
2019-11-15 19:23:54
1,573,845,834
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
dwvjak
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dwvjak/i_23f_got_accused_of_being_a_catfish_by_a_guy_25m/
0
There’s a lot more to this story but the title is basically the TLDR. I’ve been using dating apps for months with decent success. All the people I’ve met have been quality people, we dated for a while, but things end due to external circumstances or lifestyle So a few weeks ago I met this new guy and we hit it off, we ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [23F] got accused of being a catfish by a guy [25M]
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dwvjak/i_23f_got_accused_of_being_a_catfish_by_a_guy_25m/
0680496
2016-10-28 18:05:25
1,477,677,925
0
['swipe', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'pof']
0
59vxn5
null
null
10
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/59vxn5/almost_impossible_to_get_into_a_srs_relationship/
0
The dating world in today's generation is messed up boys. All those sites like tinder POF is pretty much promoting the hook-up culture, and the worst thing about it is it benefits all the Chads in the world. It's the same thing as the notion that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, in this case the Chads get m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Almost impossible to get into a srs relationship these days (online dating ruined it)
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/59vxn5/almost_impossible_to_get_into_a_srs_relationship/
Deutschlandfuralles
2019-04-20 15:08:08
1,555,772,888
null
['matches', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
bfd5mn
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bfd5mn/i_pressured_my_girlfriend_into_sex_and_want_to/
1
M(23) and gf is f(19) Canada, we have been dating about a year and a bit, and long story short. We met in class at university and things started as friends but after a couple months things started to move quickly. I am basically that asshole jock guy that is surface cold hearted, but softer underneath my skin, but in t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I pressured my girlfriend into sex and want to make it up to her because she is the center of my world since I fell in love with her
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bfd5mn/i_pressured_my_girlfriend_into_sex_and_want_to/
F3ral0ne
2012-08-04 23:22:41
1,344,122,561
4
['facebook dating']
null
xovst
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/xovst/friend_zoned_and_being_strung_along/
0
I am going to try and put this out here as completely and fully as possible. How I met what I perceive is the girl that i am completely and utterly in love with. We will name her ((Chloe)) I was in high school at the time. I was always a loner never really had to many friends. I some how managed to land a beautiful gir...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Friend Zoned and being Strung along?
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xovst/friend_zoned_and_being_strung_along/
reddaj
2021-03-20 01:44:44
1,616,204,684
null
['online dating']
0
m8wph1
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/m8wph1/is_it_possible_to_shoot_yourself_in_the_foot_in/
1
I dunno why my interactions in online dating don't last, here's an exchange. Context: She points out in her profile that she likes naps so decided to poke fun of it in my opener: Me: I agree with you that siesta should be a thing at all offices but I guess we can get away with naps now that we are all stuck at home lol...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it Possible to Shoot Yourself in the Foot in an Interaction? (online convo included...)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m8wph1/is_it_possible_to_shoot_yourself_in_the_foot_in/
MusicjunkE
2020-07-30 12:31:35
1,596,112,295
null
['online dating', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
i0l7si
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i0l7si/met_a_girl_in_hinge_and_need_some_advice/
1
Hi everybody This is my first reddit post 😀 so I’ve been exploring a lot of the online dating world recently and have to admit I don’t have a lot of dating experience/ knowledge. So I’ve downloaded both Tinder and Hinge hoping to find some cool girls to talk to. I’m M(20) btw. So I met this girl on Hinge that seems re...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met a Girl in Hinge and need some advice
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i0l7si/met_a_girl_in_hinge_and_need_some_advice/
Picollo30
2015-04-20 16:07:22
1,429,546,042
0
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
338vnv
null
null
12
null
/r/dating/comments/338vnv/question_for_women_why_do_you_ignore_me_is_it/
0
i would really like a reality check. be brutally honest, dont patronize me and go saying is what the inside that counts, and those cliches as it just doesnt work with me. just cut to the chase. i wanna know, am i uninteresting as a male? dont have any remarkable features that makes you feel interested? is that it? I as...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Question for women: Why do you ignore me? Is it something in the looks department you want to share? Men i appreciate that you please avoid commenting
0
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/338vnv/question_for_women_why_do_you_ignore_me_is_it/
BlockMajestic8268
2022-05-29 01:16:59
1,653,787,019
null
['OLD']
0
v00nil
true
null
33
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/v00nil/stopping_before_you_start/
5
Twice divorced. Recently divorced in Jan. I read a lot of posts about OLD and some of the stories. It's making me nervous about getting out there. My question, is it normal, and how do you overcome it? Edit 1: Maybe because I'm not all in, I'm not exuding a connection???
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Stopping before you start.
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/v00nil/stopping_before_you_start/
underconfidant_soul
2024-04-17 08:20:59
1,713,342,059
0
['dating apps']
0
1c64j9k
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c64j9k/i_30f_had_been_seeing_a_guy_30m_for_last_two/
1
To give a little background, we had really really fun dates and good weekends together when we met. He said he really enjoys spending time with me when we are together. But when we are not together he doesn't feel the urge to send every little detail of his day and he knows he's capable of those feelings and it should ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I 30F had been seeing a guy 30M for last two months and chatted 2.5 months or so. But he ended things with me saying when we are not together he doesn't feel the urge to text me every little detail of his day. Is this how dating from dating apps is now? Should I want to have another discussion?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c64j9k/i_30f_had_been_seeing_a_guy_30m_for_last_two/
Boomshack100
2019-03-22 19:42:44
1,553,283,764
null
['tinder']
0
b49h1e
true
Venting
7
0
/r/dating/comments/b49h1e/how_do_you_find_time_as_an_adult_to_date_and_have/
4
I’m a 20M and since I’ve been in school, I’ve had to pay for it. So I’ve have to work 33 hours a week while going to school, which isn’t bad and allows me to get my school work done without stressing too much. What I’m stressing about is the fact that with work and school I have almost no time to date. I’ve talked to a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do you find time as an adult to date and have sex?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b49h1e/how_do_you_find_time_as_an_adult_to_date_and_have/
ravinNblazin
2021-06-21 15:26:10
1,624,289,170
null
['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
o4xoa6
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o4xoa6/old/
2
Why am I getting so many more matches on bumble and hinge vs tinder? I’m getting like 4 times the amount of matches on bumble and hinge vs tinder. Anyone else experience this? Basically have the exact same photos and bio on each app.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
OLD
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o4xoa6/old/
NoMedium3005
2024-01-12 01:02:45
1,705,021,365
0
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
194i2qs
true
Giving Advice 💌
45
0
/r/dating/comments/194i2qs/every_intro_message_on_bumble_is_just_hi_or_hey/
53
Women on dating apps: “I’m so tired of men not being able to put the bare minimum amount of effort into a conversation.” Also women on dating apps: Can’t be bothered on Bumble to write a first icebreaker message of substance that says anything more than just “hi” or “hey” and expects guys to not immediately take that a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Every intro message on Bumble is just “hi” or “hey”, confirming that when effort is left to the other half, there is none. And it deserves being called out.
53
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/194i2qs/every_intro_message_on_bumble_is_just_hi_or_hey/
inderio
2023-06-04 00:10:14
1,685,837,414
0
['dating app', 'bumble']
0
13zunih
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13zunih/goodmorning_and_goodnight_texts/
1
I don't want to give away too much info as I'm a little paranoid but regardless. I've been talking to this girl for a couple days now through a dating app (bumble) We both seem to be into each other and I don't know if it's appropriate to send a goodnight or goodmorning message ? I don't see the harm in doing so becaus...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Goodmorning and goodnight texts
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13zunih/goodmorning_and_goodnight_texts/
Significant_Top_8436
2021-08-25 22:36:32
1,629,930,992
null
['tinder', 'bumble', 'badoo']
0
pbm8ar
true
I Need Advice
49
0
/r/dating/comments/pbm8ar/rant_is_dating_officially_dead_what_happened/
0
Sex and discreet hook-ups got more accessible via these casual fling apps like Tinder, Badoo, Bumble, etc. and people’s interest in relationships/marriage went downhill. I’m currently feeling hopeless because I’m never able to attract the right person. There’s either no chemistry or they just eventually end up ghosting...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Rant: Is dating officially dead? What happened?
null
0.48
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pbm8ar/rant_is_dating_officially_dead_what_happened/
AcrobaticTurnover901
2023-12-06 11:36:13
1,701,862,573
0
['online dating']
0
18c232p
true
null
33
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18c232p/31f_feeling_physical_attraction_so_rarely_i_might/
32
I'm 31F. I have felt physical attraction to very few men in my life. Six men, exactly. I don't mean they were the ones I was most attracted to. I mean they were the ONLY ones. I didn't care about other ones. If all other men were women, I couldn't be less attracted to them. Just trying to explain how I feel in a way a ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
31F, feeling physical attraction so rarely, I might be doomed to be alone.
32
0.74
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18c232p/31f_feeling_physical_attraction_so_rarely_i_might/
Chickenkima
2017-06-16 15:35:55
1,497,627,355
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
6hn9nf
null
null
9
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6hn9nf/postponed_second_date_at_the_last_minute_telling/
2
I am new to the dating world so will list out minor details as well. Matched with this girl on tinder. Went for coffee the very same night and had a good time with her. Texted her the same night and she was up for a second date. On the day of the second date, I texted her the place and time we are supposed to meet and ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Postponed second date at the last minute telling she have to meet some friends. Should I ask her out again?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6hn9nf/postponed_second_date_at_the_last_minute_telling/
[deleted]
2013-09-16 13:47:34
1,379,339,254
0
['online dating', 'okcupid']
0
1mi0l1
null
null
0
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1mi0l1/had_the_best_first_date_of_my_life_friday_but_i/
1
Me - 25/F, had a date with 30/M. Story time! So Friday over my lunch break at work, I decided to peruse OkCupid while enjoying a delicious sandwich. I stumbled across a fairly interesting profile for the first time in forever (there are so many guys that are no where near my type where I live, so I've just about given ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Had the best first date of my life Friday, but I fear commitment and moving too fast. And now I'm freaking out.
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1mi0l1/had_the_best_first_date_of_my_life_friday_but_i/
SpecialistFar9228
2024-09-04 20:47:46
1,725,482,866
0
['tinder']
0
1f947x5
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f947x5/girl_i_met_on_tinder_i_realised_is_actually_a/
1
Hi about half a year ago I met a girl on tinder which I was compatible with it said (since she gave me a like). We were texting and gave each other our IGs and realized we know each other. She was my back then classmates girlfriend. Well not to make it so long since I’m a specialist at that..😅😆. She moved quite near ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl I met on Tinder I realised is actually a really close stranger back then.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f947x5/girl_i_met_on_tinder_i_realised_is_actually_a/
iplaykontrabass
2023-01-04 00:35:51
1,672,792,551
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
102orrb
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/102orrb/nervous_exploration/
2
I'm (28m) on dating apps like hinge, and I occasionally will match with people older than I am, sometimes they're 10 years older, but recently, I've been talking to someone who is 49. I'm not sure how I feel about this, but my thought process is that I would be up front about my intentions as soon as it comes up, which...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
nervous exploration
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/102orrb/nervous_exploration/
annlew
2023-04-30 14:14:53
1,682,864,093
0
['dating apps']
0
133t2l4
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/133t2l4/im_feeling_hopeless/
4
I’m turning 29 this year, still a virgin too. I work as a teacher so my time just revolves on my work and being at home to rest. Recenty I have applied for a Master’s degree program to elevate my work experience/expertise. Meeting men is hard for me because I don’t really like going out plus me choosing to be childfree...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’m feeling hopeless
4
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/133t2l4/im_feeling_hopeless/
Due_Pineapple9286
2024-08-24 23:44:12
1,724,543,052
0
['hinge']
0
1f0izr1
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0izr1/i_30f_am_confused_by_this_man_28m_and_not_sure/
1
I (30F) am confused by this man (28M) and want to know if I should send a follow up message? I met a guy on Hinge recently and we went on a date. It was amazing and I literally felt the most comfortable and relaxed with him I’ve ever felt on a date. He made several comments such as that he feels like he’s known me fore...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (30F) am confused by this man (28M) and not sure what to do
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0izr1/i_30f_am_confused_by_this_man_28m_and_not_sure/
Imconfused200
2019-04-11 18:39:13
1,555,007,953
null
['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
bc3gsr
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bc3gsr/i_need_some_dating_relationship_advice/
1
So theres this girl in my class that kept eyeing me and not like once she did it 5+ times every lesson we had. She even started copying my style with the way i have my socks and the way i take my pictures. Her girlfriend also looked at me when i looked at her and i also think i heard her saying "did he ask you already"...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I need some dating/ relationship advice
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bc3gsr/i_need_some_dating_relationship_advice/
AidanK062603
2021-09-13 04:13:29
1,631,506,409
null
['dating site', 'tinder']
0
pn85p6
true
Tinder/Online Dating
21
0
/r/dating/comments/pn85p6/dating_at_18/
2
Why is it that every time I match with someone on tinder or any other dating site that its always a person who drinks like a fish and can't handle one night of being sober or a person who is a major dope head and the only thing they can talk about is about smoking a fat one?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating at 18
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pn85p6/dating_at_18/
Crazy_Ad1600
2022-12-05 05:52:23
1,670,219,543
null
['tinder']
0
zcyhbl
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zcyhbl/do_guys_who_are_on_the_long_run_take_things_slow/
1
For the context I (27F) am dating a guy (27M) for two months now. We have met on tinder, both had unfilfilling relationships before from which both got trust issues. Me-one sided commitment, him-being cheated on previous 2 relationships. Things went smoothly from the beginning, we both felt like we were supposed to mee...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do guys who are on the long run take things slow? The guy I am dating is taking things very slow and he expressed on the first date that he is looking for a wife.🤷‍♀️
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zcyhbl/do_guys_who_are_on_the_long_run_take_things_slow/
lightnh
2019-03-11 17:26:19
1,552,325,179
null
['matched']
0
azw3tx
true
null
28
0
/r/dating/comments/azw3tx/worst_date_yet_banged/
2
OK, I am a guy and here goes my experience. Matched this girl in the morning and decided to hangout same noon. She was strange and wanted me to kiss her from the first 5 minutes, but I decided against it.. She asked me to bite her on breast which I tried to resist but oh well you only do it once so I did what any honor...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Worst Date yet banged
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/azw3tx/worst_date_yet_banged/
TheBigIch
2018-10-02 00:13:03
1,538,439,183
null
['tinder']
0
9klup8
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9klup8/is_it_possible_for_a_girl_to_be_so_tired_or/
1
Because I’m on a coffee date with a girl from tinder (wants to date, not hookup) and we’ve been really flirty texting so much this whole week, and we both talk every few minutes, but the rest of the time we’re literally so silent that I have the time to write this post . Fuck me :(
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it possible for a girl to be so tired or introverted that she barely wants to talk on a first date and is on her phone the whole time?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9klup8/is_it_possible_for_a_girl_to_be_so_tired_or/
Lazy-Ad2196
2021-09-10 19:53:04
1,631,303,584
null
['matched', 'OLD']
0
plsccl
true
Seeking Advice
42
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/plsccl/should_i_wait_for_him_to_ask_to_meet/
6
Hi beautiful people, (41F) So I matched with a guy on OLD, we’ve been chatting for a couple of days. Everything is great, do I ask him if he’d like to meet ? Or should I wait? Honestly, i would just ask, but after my experiences on OLD, it seems like its all about the right moves in the right time. Thank you!
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Should I wait for him to ask to meet?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/plsccl/should_i_wait_for_him_to_ask_to_meet/
Seaweed_collector
2020-04-25 19:11:01
1,587,841,861
null
['matched']
0
g7zcm9
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/g7zcm9/virtual_activities_to_do_with_your_date/
2
I matched with a guy in the end of March, and we've been talking on FaceTime for hours for the last 10 days. He's absolutely amazing, and he's always suggesting things to do together: - Working out together on FaceTime - Playing games (on apps) such as Scrabble and poker - Playing games on HouseParty - and he reads me ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
(Virtual) activities to do with your date?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g7zcm9/virtual_activities_to_do_with_your_date/
palashrc0945
2017-04-22 09:51:04
1,492,854,664
null
['online dating']
0
66v772
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/66v772/im_22m_met_a_24f_while_travelling_how_to_datemove/
1
While travelling through Europe, I met a girl and made friends with her (in 1 and a half days). I asked her out on a date which she agreed to but told me beforehand that she had to attend a birthday party which was already planned for that evening (I asked her out in the evening). Still she squeezed out 1 hour. We coul...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm [22/m], met a [24/f] while travelling, how to date/move ahead? Is it worth it? (X-post from /r/relationship_advice)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/66v772/im_22m_met_a_24f_while_travelling_how_to_datemove/
minniemu123
2021-08-12 04:29:55
1,628,742,595
null
['hinge']
0
p2slez
true
null
19
0
/r/AskMen/comments/p2slez/guy_i_have_not_talk_to_for_months_asked_to_go_to/
2
Out of the blue, he texts me and in the middle of our convo, he asks if I'd be interested in going to this gala event with him. He said he is not talking to anybody and I was the 1st person he asked and that it would be fun to go with a date. Here's some backstory. We work at the same place (we never see each other) an...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Guy I have not talk to for months asked to go to a Gala event with him. What does that mean?
null
0.62
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/p2slez/guy_i_have_not_talk_to_for_months_asked_to_go_to/
idkwhat1234567891011
2024-01-25 04:51:25
1,706,158,285
0
['dating app']
0
19f1b2u
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/19f1b2u/got_ghosted_by_ldr_bf_since_three_days_ago/
1
Hi, I got ghosted by him since three days, idk what's going on with him but it did really affect me bad, I was wondering to download dating app again just for fun, should I do it or be patient? Ik it's not good but thinking about him drives me more crazy
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Got ghosted by ldr bf since three days ago
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19f1b2u/got_ghosted_by_ldr_bf_since_three_days_ago/
Damsel-under-stress
2024-08-02 21:35:44
1,722,634,544
0
['bumble', 'hinge']
0
1eilz1y
true
I Need Advice 😩
61
0
/r/dating/comments/1eilz1y/why_is_dating_so_hard_as_a_plus_size_woman/
0
I am 25f and 280lbs. It’s been impossible to find a man who actually interested in me and who wants more than just sex. The very few that are can barely take care of themselves and I am not going to be another babysitter. I have tried everything. Going to bars, speed dating, I have all the apps Bumble, Hinge, etc. But ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why is dating so hard as a plus size woman?
0
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eilz1y/why_is_dating_so_hard_as_a_plus_size_woman/
BoTN124
2021-03-17 05:03:26
1,615,957,406
null
['online dating', 'tinder']
0
m6sptx
true
Venting
9
0
/r/dating/comments/m6sptx/im_aggravated_with_online_dating/
1
I created a fake tinder profile with a photo of a good looking guy with the same bio as my real profile. I wanted to see if anyone would compliment my bio and surely enough a lot of women did. They messaged my fake profile and mentioned how they like my bio, how it’s original and funny. That really pisses me off. I hav...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’m aggravated with online dating
null
0.54
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m6sptx/im_aggravated_with_online_dating/
No_Daikon_6797
2023-12-29 00:43:04
1,703,810,584
0
['tinder']
0
18t9l21
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/18t9l21/how_much_do_you_talk_in_the_talking_stage/
1
I’m recently back in the dating game after a bad and toxic marriage. I’ve been talking to a guy I met on Tinder. He lives around my area but works “on the road” for a month at a time. We talked on Tinder and then he asked for my number. We were texting for a few days and everything was going great and we seemed to be o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How much do you talk in the “talking stage”??
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18t9l21/how_much_do_you_talk_in_the_talking_stage/
SirHammyTheGreat
2016-06-09 23:36:43
1,465,515,403
0
['tinder']
0
4ndlim
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4ndlim/m19_should_i_put_pictures_of_me_and_my_ex_on/
1
I'm supposing not, but if any of you think it isn't that big of a deal I might. I don't have many pictures of myself because I just don't take selfies, and the ones I do include her. What do?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
M/19 Should I put pictures of me and my ex on tinder if they're good?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4ndlim/m19_should_i_put_pictures_of_me_and_my_ex_on/
ExplorerStunning8436
2024-09-09 06:02:29
1,725,861,749
0
['matched']
0
1fcim68
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcim68/29m_achieved_everything_in_life_money_good_car/
1
I am writing this post right now heartbroken, defeated, beaten down and honestly shattered. A little about me: I am 29M, have achieved whatever i wanted in life. Good Money, A fancy car, MBA from a top B school, a very supportive group of friends, a job with pays me way better than my peers, proud parents--- but but i ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
29M: Achieved everything in life - Money, Good Car, Amazing Job but I still couldnt get her
1
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcim68/29m_achieved_everything_in_life_money_good_car/
TermDisastrous9904
2024-03-09 05:25:58
1,709,961,958
0
['tinder']
0
1baa2ga
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1baa2ga/help_i_need_advice_like_fr/
1
So I’ve been talking or whatever we went on a couple dates we FaceTime every night sleep on the phone It feels like kinda like borderline bare minimum I’m in but I don’t know if I’m one being the over reactive one but then again he seemed more invested then me I’ve been hurt and playing it safe we both went through a l...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Help! I need advice like fr
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1baa2ga/help_i_need_advice_like_fr/
RealRickAstley93
2018-06-19 21:09:17
1,529,442,557
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
8scifv
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8scifv/should_i_m24_tell_this_girl_how_i_feel_f23/
1
So I matched with this girl on Tinder ages ago and we really hit it off (doesn't really happen all that often) she's really cute and down to earth and such. I don't really know why but I was extremely forthcoming with her, I told her a lot of things about myself that I maybe shouldn't have, she was understanding but ki...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I [M24] tell this girl how I feel [F23]
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8scifv/should_i_m24_tell_this_girl_how_i_feel_f23/
Blinxkx
2024-05-17 09:09:15
1,715,936,955
0
['tinder']
0
1cu0r6z
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cu0r6z/32m_why_do_i_feel_guilty_of_trying_to_approach/
1
I quit my ex last fall after being cheated on, after a 15 year relationship with no kids. I've met someone [31F] through tinder 1 month after the breakup, I got attached too quickly which kind of scared her away. She wasn't too reassured by the fact that my breakup was very recent, I told her all the infidelity mess. S...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[32M] Why do I feel guilty of trying to approach other women ?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cu0r6z/32m_why_do_i_feel_guilty_of_trying_to_approach/
aforgottenmind
2019-11-01 08:35:40
1,572,597,340
null
['matched']
0
dq1gv2
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dq1gv2/why_cant_we_be_together/
1
Me (25f) and this guy (28m) been seeing eachother for 4 months. Have spoken everyday since we matched. I’ve fallen in love with him and he replied that he really likes me too (not love). We can’t be together bc we’re 2 different religions yet we’ll act like a couple in public and have some damn good sex. When I’m with ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why can’t we be together?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dq1gv2/why_cant_we_be_together/
beccajh107
2020-06-29 02:27:48
1,593,397,668
null
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
hhrl90
true
Venting
31
0
/r/dating/comments/hhrl90/guys_seem_to_want_me_as_an_unknowing_side_chick/
16
25F for reference. This has happened to me twice in like the past year and a half year. I talk to a guy for at least a couple months (once it went on for 9 months). After much talking with long flirtatious conversations, being told how much they like me, how much they miss me, how they haven't been with anyone else in ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys seem to want me as an unknowing side chick. Do honest, caring, genuine people not exist on dating sites?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hhrl90/guys_seem_to_want_me_as_an_unknowing_side_chick/
Womaninblack
2024-01-09 10:40:17
1,704,796,817
0
['dating app']
0
192bve2
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/192bve2/im_talking_to_a_man_and_i_dont_know_whether_to/
2
I'm (25) talking to a 36 year old man from a dating app right now. He liked me 3 months ago and I ended up matching with him after taking a break from the app, meaning he's on there regularly. He doesn't have a bio. He has bad adhd (so do I) and is always seeking exciting things to do. He had a kid young but isn't in t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm talking to a man and I don't know whether to get my hopes up
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/192bve2/im_talking_to_a_man_and_i_dont_know_whether_to/
gigantocypris
2024-03-08 04:39:06
1,709,872,746
0
null
0
1b9fbhp
true
null
30
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9fbhp/advice_on_attracting_younger_men_as_an_older_woman/
1
Hello, I’m a 34 year old woman. I look younger for my age and am in good shape. After being openminded and dating men from ages 21-55, I have learned that I enjoy dating men in their early 20s the most. The chemistry and conversations are the best. Funny enough I have a lot more to talk about with them, and dating is j...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Advice on attracting younger men as an older woman?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9fbhp/advice_on_attracting_younger_men_as_an_older_woman/
Tee-dus_Not_Tie-dus
2024-08-02 19:12:05
1,722,625,925
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
1eiihk4
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1eiihk4/single_flower_on_first_date/
1
This weekend I'm going out to dinner with a girl I recently matched with on Hinge and I was thinking about bringing a single flower, but I wasn't sure if that was weird. Neither of us has explicitly acknowledged it being a date, but we did meet on a dating app and both our profiles indicate we are looking for long term...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Single flower on first date?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eiihk4/single_flower_on_first_date/
cafeaulait_13
2014-02-13 22:59:21
1,392,332,361
0
['online dating', 'dating sites', 'plenty of fish']
0
1xufzo
null
null
23
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/1xufzo/how_do_you_do_online_dating_as_a_feminist/
4
Are there feminist dating sites? How do you screen for feminist matches on OK cupid or Plenty of Fish?
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
How do you do online dating as a feminist?
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1xufzo/how_do_you_do_online_dating_as_a_feminist/
skbugco
2024-01-24 20:55:22
1,706,129,722
0
['swiping', 'OLD']
0
19er15a
true
null
73
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/19er15a/hair_advice_i_guess/
16
Hi all. I’m a 55m. After taking a long break after a 20yr relationship/ marriage, I’m working up the nerve to jump back into dating. I’ve spent a lot of time lurking this sub, some others, and chatting with people I know are OLD IRL. Seems like a huge thing, apparently especially for guys, is getting your profile pics ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Hair advice (I guess)
16
0.79
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/19er15a/hair_advice_i_guess/
Ekaj_B
2015-09-02 22:34:24
1,441,233,264
0
['tinder']
0
3jf0sn
null
null
39
null
/r/AskMen/comments/3jf0sn/men_who_have_low_numbers_how_do_you_stop_being/
7
Things were going well with a girl on tinder recently but she brought up a sore area - Numbers of partners, despite the fact that she was six years younger, she'd been with double the people I had. I couldn't deal with it and pushed her away (even though she was still interested, to be honest it made it worse that she ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Men who have low "numbers", how do you stop being insecure about it?
7
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3jf0sn/men_who_have_low_numbers_how_do_you_stop_being/
tuesdayswithmorie
2024-09-15 23:14:07
1,726,442,047
0
null
0
1fhq34f
true
null
66
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fhq34f/what_are_some_of_your_superficial_icks/
14
Mine is anyone in a fedora, idk I can’t explain why lol
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What are some of your superficial icks (non-physical) that automatically make you swipe left on someone’s profile?
14
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fhq34f/what_are_some_of_your_superficial_icks/
ManyPaintbrushes
2019-07-29 00:09:23
1,564,358,963
null
['coffee meets bagel']
0
cj3kz4
true
null
17
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cj3kz4/communication_snafus/
1
I just had to laugh at this one. Was chatting with a guy on Coffee Meets Bagel last week, and we switched over to text. I entered his name into my phone right away so I did not notice his area code but assumed 415 (San Francisco, where he lives). It was getting late so I asked him to call me the following day at a spec...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Communication snafus
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cj3kz4/communication_snafus/
RaidoDiecry
2022-07-29 01:52:14
1,659,059,534
null
['matches', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
warx23
true
Tinder/Online Dating
3
0
/r/dating/comments/warx23/after_a_year_of_tinder_i_found_what_i_was_looking/
12
I'd like to briefly describe my experience using Tinder. Maybe someone will find this useful or interesting. I used Tinder for 1 year (covid) after breaking up with my ex girlfriend a few months before. The goal was to find a relationship with a smart, confident an pretty girl. After some experimenting around with my p...
dating
t5_2qhb1
After a year of Tinder, I found what I was looking for, but...
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/warx23/after_a_year_of_tinder_i_found_what_i_was_looking/
OcelotDAD
2024-09-19 23:14:56
1,726,787,696
0
['hinge']
0
1fkxysy
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fkxysy/i_35m_am_dating_a_woman_34f_that_is_completely/
0
I met this woman back in March through Hinge. We hit it off immediately and had a wonderful first date. I realized we had fantastic chemistry right away and I still feel the same way, 6 months later. I also realized right away that she would be considered to be “out of my league” by 9 out of 10 people, probably. And I’...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (35M) am dating a woman (34F) that is completely out of my league in every sense and I can’t stop feeling insecure about it
0
0.44
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fkxysy/i_35m_am_dating_a_woman_34f_that_is_completely/
Dsg1695
2024-06-21 01:58:28
1,718,935,108
0
['dating apps']
0
1dksoqj
true
null
4
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dksoqj/is_it_only_expected_for_a_woman_thats_considered/
1
Or if she’s attractive enough, should it be assumed quality guys/dating opportunities would come to her naturally? 29F and I’m on and off the dating apps, I get the matches/msgs but a lot of the time it doesn’t really go to the next level for number of reasons. I’m told I’m “attractive” but never get asked out or appro...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Is it only expected for a woman that’s considered “attractive” to be single if she’s laid back in her approach?
1
0.53
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1dksoqj/is_it_only_expected_for_a_woman_thats_considered/
julianwolf
2016-07-25 03:53:54
1,469,418,834
0
['matches', 'tinder']
0
4ugodo
null
null
4
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4ugodo/tinder_bio_contents/
0
I'm planning on starting to use Tinder again , but what should I put in my bio if I'm not looking for a hookup? I've had maybe 1 or 2 matches tops since the beginning of the year, so I've taken a break. I blame my lack of good pictures, but I'd still like to tweak my bio.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder bio contents
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4ugodo/tinder_bio_contents/
ApprehensiveOnion295
2024-06-18 20:30:00
1,718,742,600
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
1dj0ocm
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dj0ocm/difficulty_sensing_feelings_after_getting_back/
1
My roughly year and a half relationship ended about two months ago. While I wasn't the one to end things, I felt myself losing feelings for him about two months prior to the relationship ending. I put myself back on some online dating apps and have now been talking to someone for about 3 weeks and we've been on two dat...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Difficulty Sensing Feelings after Getting Back Out There
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dj0ocm/difficulty_sensing_feelings_after_getting_back/
MiRoHa94
2024-05-04 09:32:21
1,714,815,141
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1cjwffz
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cjwffz/i_regret_ending_it_on_the_fifth_date/
1
I regret ending it with a guy on the fifth date. Little backstory to explain why I ended it so abruptly. Back in October, I met a guy on a hike. We exchanged numbers, went on a hiking date. On the second date at his place, he told me he's currently not looking for a relationship. I told him I actually am. We hooked up ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I regret ending it on the fifth date.
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cjwffz/i_regret_ending_it_on_the_fifth_date/
KoalaTime2024
2024-02-16 06:00:12
1,708,063,212
0
['bumble']
0
1as1h1t
true
Question ❓
73
0
/r/dating/comments/1as1h1t/is_a_one_night_stand_risky/
44
Within an hour of matching with this older woman on bumble, we arranged for a meet up at her place tomorrow night and she says that she wants to start sex right away when I get there. I barely know her, but I also like sex, have you an experience like this? Did it end well?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is a one night stand risky?
42
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1as1h1t/is_a_one_night_stand_risky/
misterflocka
2024-04-14 02:43:14
1,713,062,594
0
['dating apps']
0
1c3j5r7
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1c3j5r7/21m_completely_wasted_dating_opportunities_in/
1
I just graduated from university and I am working in the field I want to be in! From age 16-21 I focused on building my career and finances. I’ve kind of been isolated my whole life, did a lot online classes in college and commuted all years, 50 miles of driving daily. Adjusting from college to starting my first job wi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
21M. Completely wasted dating opportunities in high school and college. What now?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c3j5r7/21m_completely_wasted_dating_opportunities_in/
neuronhunter_
2023-06-30 22:03:45
1,688,162,625
0
['online dating', 'hinge']
0
14ndkd8
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/14ndkd8/tips_for_online_dating/
1
I started using Hinge again to date. However I find that I get less and less likes and people who do aren’t actually my type. Am I that ugly?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tips for online dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14ndkd8/tips_for_online_dating/
Professional_Box_704
2021-09-12 21:04:45
1,631,480,685
null
['dating sites']
0
pn14h8
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/pn14h8/love_in_the_time_of_covid/
1
Male 40-I have wanted to start dating again, been single two years, feeling lonely, wanting to have a woman in my life ,a friendship, just a real connection with substance. Doing that now feels like such a difficult process, I don't enjoy dating sites and going out to meet a woman seems almost impossible with all the f...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Love in the time of covid
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pn14h8/love_in_the_time_of_covid/
wallaced85
2020-09-13 22:45:21
1,600,037,121
null
['dating sites']
0
is8jg2
true
I Need Advice
30
0
/r/dating/comments/is8jg2/35m_i_feel_pressured_sometimes/
12
Well I am a 35 year old man, and I guess I'm an old-fashioned kind of guy. Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend, and we had talked about marriage and the our decisions we has made regarding other friends, and well he had decided to separate from our group to be more with his family instead of just partying and ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
(35M) I feel pressured sometimes....
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/is8jg2/35m_i_feel_pressured_sometimes/
ChemistArmy
2019-05-29 01:27:41
1,559,093,261
null
['dating apps']
0
bu8h0x
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bu8h0x/first_date_tonight/
1
I (34M) wanted to take some time to not date anyone on the dating apps because it was such a horrible experience. I went to a lovelytheband concert and I met a gorgeous (29F) there. She is way out of my league. I didn’t think anything would come of it. I think I had confidence because I wasn’t in my head. We exchanged ...
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t5_2s4kl
First date tonight....
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Significant-Report16
2023-09-24 17:53:48
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/r/dating_advice/comments/16r41i2/m24_met_f24_on_dating_app_but_she_wants_to_start/
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Recently matched with a girl on a dating app, and we starting chatting, exchanged socials etc. After a few exchanges, I asked her on a date to which she replied that she is not ready to meet anyone yet as she is still getting over her breakup and wants to chat more as friends first. Fair enough. I'd like to believe she...
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t5_2s4kl
[M24] met [F24] on dating app, but she wants to start as friends first.
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JellyT1996
2024-06-23 12:47:25
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1dmldn5/a_girl_im_visiting_in_a_different_state_for_the/
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Should I ask her for a kiss or even go for a kiss if she’s giving me zero vibes she wants to be kissed? I’ve been talking to this girl on a dating app (long distance) and I decided to fly to her state to meet her for the first time. So far, she’s giving me zero vibes she wants to be kissed but should I still try to go ...
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t5_2s4kl
A girl I'm visiting in a different state for the first time ever this weekend is giving zero vibes she wants to be kissed. Should I still try to kiss her or go for a kiss this weekend if she's not giving off any vibes?
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skriker03
2018-08-29 06:31:58
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/r/dating_advice/comments/9b6tl0/are_people_still_embarrassed_about_meeting_people/
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I was wondering if people are still embarrassed about meeting people online these days? To me it seems like the norm now, I remembered a few years ago when it wasn't. However even a few of my friends have started to see someone from a dating app like tinder. Even my cousin found his recent GF on bumble. I know most of ...
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t5_2s4kl
Are people still embarrassed about meeting people online?
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