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NectarineOk5636
2023-07-17 22:04:44
1,689,631,484
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['dating app', 'hinge']
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152fjzm
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Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/152fjzm/worst_dateof_all_time_you_decide/
1
Alright, so I have to tell you about this date I had in New York City that was an absolute disaster It was last Thursday night, and we decided to start with a walk through Central Park right after I finished work. We had met a few weeks back on I think Hinge or Fortune dating app, I don't recall which one because we st...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Worst date.....of all time?? (you decide)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152fjzm/worst_dateof_all_time_you_decide/
StrongRaiga
2021-02-22 00:11:49
1,613,952,709
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['matched', 'tinder', 'coffee meets bagel']
0
lpae4u
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lpae4u/i_ghosted_someone_and_apologized/
1
I’ve always believed that if I wanted to get anywhere or do anything, I should be as honest with people as possible. In this case, I messed up and I really want advice on how to move forward. For reference, here are the people that are relevant to this situation: Me (22,M), My Ex Cleo (23,F), and Violet (22,F). These a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I Ghosted Someone and Apologized
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lpae4u/i_ghosted_someone_and_apologized/
justaguy467
2020-12-31 22:36:45
1,609,454,205
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['matched', 'tinder']
0
knzn09
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/knzn09/girl_i_met_things_looked_promising_then_she/
1
I had this girl who comes to my store who at first coming in I could tell she had some type of interest in me I could tell by the way she was looking at me and asked for her number she said no because she had a boyfriend. Then all of a sudden she started to show up to my store we always talked casually after that and s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl I met things looked promising then she pulled back unexpectedly....
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/knzn09/girl_i_met_things_looked_promising_then_she/
Personal-Pie-9936
2022-10-29 21:17:45
1,667,078,265
null
['swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
ygv1tq
true
Question ❓
4
0
/r/dating/comments/ygv1tq/any_dating_apps_to_find_gamers/
1
I recently got out of a relationship where I met the girl via gaming although it seems unlikely I'll find someone that lives so close to me who has the same interests again. Are there any sites or apps that would be better rather than swiping endlessly on tinder to find a girl interested in gaming?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Any dating apps to find gamers?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ygv1tq/any_dating_apps_to_find_gamers/
thehippiehikingwitch
2023-04-12 15:41:22
1,681,314,082
0
['tinder']
0
12jq3tm
true
null
21
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12jq3tm/i_got_a_hickey_but_im_seeing_multiple_guys/
0
i (23f) am casually dating/hooking up w a few guys- kinda new to this after getting out of a 5 1/2 yr relationship about 6 months ago and finally downloading tinder about a month ago. anyway, one of these guys decided it was a good idea to give me a hickey during my first visit to his place the other night. now i’m kin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
i got a hickey but i’m seeing multiple guys…💀
0
0.36
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12jq3tm/i_got_a_hickey_but_im_seeing_multiple_guys/
jthibaud
2021-12-28 23:25:48
1,640,733,948
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'plenty of fish', 'okcupid']
0
rqstmb
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rqstmb/how_do_you_meet_potential_partners_in_the_real/
2
Hey folks! So this is an open-ended questions, I don't want it to be too specific to me personally but a little bit of background information. I am a 25 year old male who is in a good space and seriously looking for a partner. I have tried every online dating app you can think and have decent success. Tinder, bumble, h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you meet potential partners in the real world?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rqstmb/how_do_you_meet_potential_partners_in_the_real/
Ok_Fox_5394
2024-08-25 15:51:03
1,724,601,063
0
['online dating', 'dating platforms']
0
1f0zhkc
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0zhkc/online_dating_advice_for_a_19f/
0
I'm currently focusing on my studies and don't have much real-life interaction with men, so I'm looking for a casual relationship on online dating platforms. However, I don't want to sext all day or share pictures that only please them, even though I've agreed to something casual. How should I navigate this? I've told ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online dating advice for a 19f
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0zhkc/online_dating_advice_for_a_19f/
Sure_Faithlessness42
2021-02-17 07:23:23
1,613,546,603
null
['dating app']
0
llor5s
true
Venting
7
0
/r/dating/comments/llor5s/thoughts_from_a_singe_20yo/
1
I’m a a heterosexual college girl living in a college campus. I’ve been single for 5 years and it’s as if it has become a personality. I’ve been on a dating app for a little over a year and honestly nothing has worked out, no dates ever happened, nothing. Am I afraid of commitment? I always thought ppl should be friend...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Thoughts from a singe 20y/o
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/llor5s/thoughts_from_a_singe_20yo/
mrpickletookmynickel
2015-10-14 09:45:09
1,444,815,909
0
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'okcupid', 'match.com', 'eharmony']
0
3opcbq
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3opcbq/politically_correctness_does_more_harm_than_good/
0
I just want to say how as a minority male (east asian) I long believed that my ethnicity disadvantageously polarized me when it comes to assumptions, especially in the dating realm within the western world. Needless to say, I carried a bitter sentiment towards this belief, but in an attempt to invite optimism into my l...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Politically Correctness does more harm than good.
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3opcbq/politically_correctness_does_more_harm_than_good/
[deleted]
2013-05-09 07:24:10
1,368,084,250
0
['online dating']
0
1dzmid
null
null
0
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzmid/im_a_22_m_in_a_smaller_area_with_hardly_any_women/
1
Hello! I'm from a smaller metro area filled with ultra-conservative Christian women, and I'm... well, not. I have no problem talking to people and getting dates, but my experience with online dating is horrible right now, as everyone in the area blows me off for being agnostic. I've been out of a relationship for half ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm a [22 M] in a smaller area with hardly any women with my interests. Help?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzmid/im_a_22_m_in_a_smaller_area_with_hardly_any_women/
zoe_tmra22
2021-04-07 10:46:18
1,617,792,378
null
['online dating']
0
mlzcp8
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mlzcp8/how_do_you_deal_with_a_girl_who_looks_less/
2
How do you deal with a girl who looks less attractive than her online dating pictures?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you deal with a girl who looks less attractive than her online dating photos?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mlzcp8/how_do_you_deal_with_a_girl_who_looks_less/
rubyfiscus
2020-05-12 06:19:00
1,589,264,340
null
['dating apps']
0
gi5jkj
true
null
25
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gi5jkj/how_do_i_stop_getting_turned_off_by_nice_guys/
5
I (26F) am at the age where I feel ready for a serious relationship that eventuates in marriage and kids in my 30s. I know these things can't be rushed or forced, but lately when I have been dating I have met some really nice genuine guys that I can tell would be great husbands and fathers, but I just don't feel any pa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I stop getting "turned off" by nice guys
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gi5jkj/how_do_i_stop_getting_turned_off_by_nice_guys/
YouKnowNada
2018-07-20 03:31:43
1,532,057,503
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
90cjyd
true
null
33
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/90cjyd/i_want_to_get_back_out_there_but/
10
So I’m a 34 year old guy. It’s been 1.5 years since my ex-wife and I separated. A few months back I joined several dating apps because I felt it was time. I was on them for a little over a month and got zero matches which was completely demoralizing. The last time I dated and felt sexy, I was in my 20’s and 60lbs light...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
I want to get back out there but....
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/90cjyd/i_want_to_get_back_out_there_but/
IAmZBeast
2019-01-07 03:21:47
1,546,831,307
null
['matches', 'matched', 'bumble']
0
addh1o
true
Tinder/Online Dating
5
0
/r/dating/comments/addh1o/matches_on_bumble_never_message_me/
1
I [18M] have matched with about 8 girls on bumble, but not one of them have messaged me. I've used the extend 24hrs thing Everytime too. Is there anything I can do to increase my chances of them messaging me?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Matches on bumble never message me
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/addh1o/matches_on_bumble_never_message_me/
MrChrisSExy
2022-07-10 17:10:20
1,657,473,020
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
vvw1ga
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vvw1ga/advice_or_insight_on_being_randomly_ghosted/
1
so im 17 and a guy, and i just want to see if anyone might have some experience to give me some insight. recently moved to a new town and was on a app called yubo (basically tinder for teenagers, little cringe) and i matched with a girl and we talked for some amount of hours, and she was obviously interested, like flir...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
advice or insight on being randomly ghosted?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vvw1ga/advice_or_insight_on_being_randomly_ghosted/
redbaron14n
2023-02-20 00:35:00
1,676,853,300
null
['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
116syrs
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/116syrs/i_18m_can_never_tell_where_the_line_of_theyre/
1
I've been just kinda confused lately. I recently got on Tinder and Bumble and thought was doing kinda well, but can't stop overthinking stuff. I matched with this one girl, and we got along very well and maintained intermittent contact across a week - exchanging a few paragraphs every day or so. She said she's just a b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (18m) can never tell where the line of "they're busy" and "not interested" is.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/116syrs/i_18m_can_never_tell_where_the_line_of_theyre/
reallybadteeth2
2020-02-12 19:55:18
1,581,537,318
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
f2wzcc
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f2wzcc/should_i_23m_get_a_valentines_day_gift_for_my/
1
Hi everyone About 2 weeks ago, I [23M] matched with a lovely lady [23F] on a dating app. We started chatting, and about a week later, we went out for a few drinks after work. It went really well She seems really cool and fun, and the conversation flowed perfectly the whole time. So the next day (last Thursday), we deci...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I [23M] get a Valentine's Day gift for my date with someone [23F] that I only recently met?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f2wzcc/should_i_23m_get_a_valentines_day_gift_for_my/
skcussiht
2019-07-02 16:39:30
1,562,085,570
null
['OLD']
0
c8bgc2
true
null
43
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c8bgc2/any_one_else_get_this_compliment_somewhat_often/
14
I swear I get this compliment almost every time after a good first date, usually said around date 2 or 3 whether in person or over text. “You’re much more attractive in person than your profile and I am pleasantly surprised by you.” Or something to the general verbiage. I think it directly correlates to why I have succ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Any one else get this ”compliment” somewhat often?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c8bgc2/any_one_else_get_this_compliment_somewhat_often/
girlwithamystery
2024-04-02 06:21:09
1,712,038,869
0
['dating apps']
0
1btroa9
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1btroa9/familys_constant_pressure_to_date_im_so_done/
1
I have never presented a bf to my parents. I’ve had a few but never really been comfortable enough to present them to my family. Even my sister. I am quite shy and my family is very gossipy. They will start asking about sexual stuff, get pushy and it gets cringy for me, hence why I don’t like to introduce guys to them....
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Family’s constant pressure to date. I’m so done…
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1btroa9/familys_constant_pressure_to_date_im_so_done/
DirtVisual2246
2023-05-09 15:09:38
1,683,644,978
0
['dating apps']
0
13cujrr
true
Support Needed 🫂
88
0
/r/dating/comments/13cujrr/giving_up_dating_or_finding_my_life_partner/
106
I just turned 27(F), and as I have hit this year, I am becoming increasingly disappointed with my dating life or lack there of. I was in a long-term relationship while in college (2014-18) that I did not work out. And since then I have been going on dates here and there but never really connecting strongly with someone...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Giving up dating or finding my life partner.
106
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13cujrr/giving_up_dating_or_finding_my_life_partner/
Moody_GenX
2023-09-08 16:19:39
1,694,189,979
0
['tinder']
0
16dex7t
true
null
94
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16dex7t/well_we_are_back_together/
1
I had her blocked on everything. Even the gate guard to enter my apartment complex had instructions to not let her enter. She tried to come see me and after they refused to let her enter she left a letter for me. In it she apologized for the way she had been treating me and said she was wrong for having a poor attitude...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Well... We are back together.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16dex7t/well_we_are_back_together/
shankmobile
2018-03-30 19:45:35
1,522,439,135
null
['tinder']
0
88d547
false
null
11
0
/r/AskWomen/comments/88d547/why_do_some_of_you_ladies_take_selfies_with_one/
0
As I browse through tinder I see a fair amount of ladies do this any reasoning behind it?
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
Why do some of you ladies take selfies with one leg up on something (normally a bathroom counter)?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/88d547/why_do_some_of_you_ladies_take_selfies_with_one/
Kittech
2021-09-06 18:24:13
1,630,952,653
null
['bumble']
0
pj58e3
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/pj58e3/dating_other_people_while_dating_someone_that/
0
Long story short, I recently started dating a new guy. We are obviously attracted to each other and have fun when we hang out together and the sex is good. However, I don't really think our ideals really align, but it may be too soon to tell. For one, on paper, we are not very compatible. He's religious, conservative, ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating other people while dating someone that seems to have an expiration date?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pj58e3/dating_other_people_while_dating_someone_that/
lath0028
2022-02-01 21:55:57
1,643,752,557
null
null
0
si6tdl
true
null
8
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/si6tdl/chat_activity_that_fizzles/
3
I’m curious about other users average experiences. I get matches, we exchange hello’s. Then, I ask how’s it going or something simple. And then nothing. Are people just looking to say hello and nothing else? Kinda weird.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
chat activity that fizzles?
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/si6tdl/chat_activity_that_fizzles/
meltMyStoneToHeart
2018-06-18 19:40:27
1,529,350,827
null
['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
8s2do1
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8s2do1/first_date_with_a_guy/
1
Hi. I posted this on r/bisexual too but wanted to see what you guys though. So I’m a 22 year old guy and I very recently accepted that I was bisexual or at least think I am, still trying to figure things out. Since then I’ve been exploring by talking to people on Kik and doing... you know... well before then I’ve never...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First date with a guy
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8s2do1/first_date_with_a_guy/
_Vanilla_Spice_
2024-01-20 10:40:27
1,705,747,227
0
['OLD']
0
19b92zh
true
null
102
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/19b92zh/starting_my_new_life/
51
I’m F56 coming out of a 32 year marriage, and I’m ready and excited to start my new life. I’m looking for to meeting new people and having new experiences. I have friends and family that are looking to play match maker with me. My question is do you prefer meeting people through OLD or through friends and family in an ...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Starting my new life
51
0.98
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/19b92zh/starting_my_new_life/
A_Violent_Encounter
2018-02-19 17:48:51
1,519,062,531
null
['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
7yohjf
false
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7yohjf/need_advice_please/
3
Hey, new here. I'm a 26 years old man who can't attract any woman, is it normal for other men that use dating apps as Tinder that you maybe get a like, not a match, a single like per week-ish? (I have no friends so I can't ask other men how their experience is on those kind of dating apps) I've been going to the gym fo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need advice, please.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7yohjf/need_advice_please/
Speedometer12
2020-04-06 14:19:01
1,586,182,741
null
['dating apps']
0
fvzji5
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fvzji5/should_i_put_my_height_in_the_dating_apps/
2
I am 5'8 175lb Indian guy, but I think I am handsome and muscular to compensate for it. Would it be a turn off to put my height in? I don't want the girls to be disappointed if we actually meet up.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I put my height in the dating apps?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fvzji5/should_i_put_my_height_in_the_dating_apps/
matthewmspace
2017-03-15 06:51:16
1,489,560,676
null
['matches', 'dating sites', 'okcupid']
0
5zhvfe
null
null
1
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5zhvfe/m20_but_21_in_two_weeks_how_to_talk_to_matches_on/
1
I've been using Okcupid and Zoosk lately since they seem to give me the best matches and have good filters. My question is how do I chat with one of my matches? I'm an introvert and bad at starting conversations both online and in the real world, regardless of the situation. What's a good way to start a conversation wi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[M20 (but 21 in two weeks)] How to talk to matches on dating sites?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5zhvfe/m20_but_21_in_two_weeks_how_to_talk_to_matches_on/
PurplePilgrimShoe
2018-01-09 06:25:00
1,515,479,100
null
['tinder']
0
7p59bg
false
null
35
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7p59bg/new_guy_thinks_im_not_attracted_to_him_so_he/
4
Been single for a month now. Met new guy, "Lars", on Tinder. We're both well over 30 (hell, who am I fooling? I'm well over 40 and he's well over 50). I vowed to myself that I will wait at least 3 dates until I French kiss and at least 4 dates until I had sex. Reason being that I have foolishly kissed and had sex with ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
New guy thinks I'm not attracted to him so he doesn't want to see me anymore.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7p59bg/new_guy_thinks_im_not_attracted_to_him_so_he/
HieiYouki
2018-12-28 10:41:10
1,545,993,670
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
aa99mx
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/aa99mx/am_i_22m_going_to_be_alone_unless_i_change_i_need/
1
I will really appreciate if someone could read my post and provide some feedback. I thank whoever reads and replays to me from the bottom of my heart. A little about myself, I'm 22 years old, I work as a programmer and study part time in a university and I'm generally a shy introvert. My hobbies are training for powerl...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I (22M) going to be alone unless I change? I need to share my first two date with a girl (20F)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aa99mx/am_i_22m_going_to_be_alone_unless_i_change_i_need/
adjur
2017-11-17 02:48:09
1,510,886,889
null
['OLD']
0
7dhr6s
false
null
11
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7dhr6s/does_he_want_to_dtr_or_end_things/
6
EDIT: UPDATE https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7dw87g/update_does_he_want_to_dtr_or_end_things/ Been dating a guy I met through OLD for almost 7 months. We text all day every day and spend weekends together. We've taken a trip together. We haven't had the DTR talk and haven't really introduced one anot...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Does he want to DTR or end things?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7dhr6s/does_he_want_to_dtr_or_end_things/
KikkoAndMoonman
2019-02-16 15:08:33
1,550,329,713
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
ar9knk
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/ar9knk/reaching_a_mental_block_with_sending_messages_to/
7
I’ve realised I’ve reached a mental block and could do with some advice. I’ve found myself, in the last few months, finding it very difficult to actually initiate conversations on Tinder when I match with someone who I feel is very attractive. I spend so much time trying to think of an opening that will make them want ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Reaching a mental block with sending messages to new matches; overthinking openers
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ar9knk/reaching_a_mental_block_with_sending_messages_to/
apothyk
2024-04-10 07:34:01
1,712,734,441
0
null
0
1c0fvef
true
null
2
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c0fvef/way_to_link_extended_bio/
1
I’m a gay dude and sadly the most used app is Grindr which has a teeny profile/bio section as far as characters allowed. I’m looking for something more than a hookup, so have typed out a decent sized bio describing myself and what I’m looking for. I was wondering if anyone knows if there’s a site / service where you ca...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Way to link extended bio?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c0fvef/way_to_link_extended_bio/
Nightshade8
2018-05-20 03:53:29
1,526,788,409
0
['online dating']
0
8kqcdu
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8kqcdu/gay_m25_not_sure_if_im_doing_this_dating_thing/
2
Hey there everyone. Not sure if this is the best place to put this, cause I usually see only straight advice, but I have connected with many posts on here so I figured why not. So gather all ye fellow daters for the wondrous tale of my dating history. So a bit of background work so you know what your working with. To t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Gay M(25) not sure if I'm doing this dating thing right anymore.
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8kqcdu/gay_m25_not_sure_if_im_doing_this_dating_thing/
RedditAcccount2798
2024-06-08 21:20:46
1,717,881,646
0
null
0
1dbd4rn
true
null
19
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dbd4rn/i_feel_bad_for_this_girl/
11
Met this German woman that was very depressed and lonely, very sad about her life and I just felt sorry for her. We both had a lot in common, we were both nerds about Star Wars, history and whatever and I’m like “ wow, I never met anyone with this much common with me “ My feelings for her were complicated but we did li...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I feel bad for this girl
11
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dbd4rn/i_feel_bad_for_this_girl/
Serious_Percentage16
2023-07-02 11:58:26
1,688,299,106
0
['tinder']
0
14omjcg
false
null
81
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/14omjcg/my_bf_texted_me_he_was_on_tinder_to_to_look_up_a/
38
I asked what that meant. Perhaps he was drunk. He sent texts about banal other subjects . Then later replied to my text inquiring re: Tinder with “I never said that.” I sent the screenshot and asked if there was another interpretation. He did not reply. You folks are good at telling me when I have overreacted. My bf’s ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
My bf texted me he was on tinder to “to look up a location”
38
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14omjcg/my_bf_texted_me_he_was_on_tinder_to_to_look_up_a/
Hugh-G-Rection696969
2024-06-02 17:41:02
1,717,350,062
0
['hinge']
0
1d6iq4g
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d6iq4g/hinge_dilemma/
1
So I have thyroid cancer and I’m gonna be totally fine but I have this scar from surgery on the front of my neck. Obviously if a girl sees the scar I can’t avoid it or lie. My uncle was also over yesterday who is 34 years older than me (I’m 24) and said paying makes a big difference. I’m just wondering if I should wait...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hinge Dilemma
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d6iq4g/hinge_dilemma/
Stoic0001
2022-07-01 11:39:15
1,656,675,555
null
['dating app']
0
voyrkq
true
null
197
1
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/voyrkq/situationship_break_up_we_ghosted_each_other/
116
7-8 weeks of whirlwind and confusing romance with this guy i met through dating app.. We dated and we slept with each on the 5th date, I was smitten by him but after I slept with him my attraction towards him skyrocketed.. so I asked him if he was looking for exclusivity with me while we figure out if we want to be in ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Situationship break up - We ghosted each other..
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/voyrkq/situationship_break_up_we_ghosted_each_other/
reallyjustfrustrated
2017-12-26 21:25:15
1,514,323,515
null
['dating site']
0
7mag3f
false
null
1
0
/r/dating/comments/7mag3f/28m_one_after_another_hang_and_bang_denied_a/
2
Im really in a pickle Reddit. Im a 28 year old guy, Im attractive, intelligent, confident, and charismatic. Ive never had any issues meeting women, getting numbers, going on dates etc. What I do seem to run into, time and time again, is women denying me an actual relationship. Here's some backstory: I got out of a long...
dating
t5_2qhb1
28M, One after another hang and bang, denied a relationship
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7mag3f/28m_one_after_another_hang_and_bang_denied_a/
button7654
2022-04-17 18:13:50
1,650,219,230
null
['OLD']
0
u5src9
true
null
25
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u5src9/does_the_act_of_men_going_after_younger_women/
26
I (23, F) have been dating my boyfriend (25) for about 3 years. A while back I was hanging out with him at his apartment along with his roommates and their friends (all 24-26 M). These guys had always been nice to me and my friends (but definitely a bit on the douchier side), so I was a bit surprised and grossed out wh...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Does the act of men going after younger women bother you?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u5src9/does_the_act_of_men_going_after_younger_women/
gay_syi-gui701
2023-09-20 11:27:21
1,695,209,241
0
['tinder']
0
16nitpr
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16nitpr/what_to_put_in_bio/
1
So at the start of the year I downloaded tinder and met a guy I liked pretty quickly, we were together for about 3 months then stopped seeing each other. It’s been a couple of months now and I want to get back on tinder but I honestly have no idea what to put in my bio. Can anyone help me out?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to put in bio?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16nitpr/what_to_put_in_bio/
Ok-Cattle-9594
2023-12-28 14:13:28
1,703,772,808
0
['bumble']
0
18suuga
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/18suuga/should_i_21f_give_him_23m_another_chance/
4
I met this guy on bumble about a month and a half ago. So far we’ve spent a lot of time together and have became physically involved. He’s from my college town but I’ve been home for winter break about an hour and a half away. I decided to go back early to see him because we’ve been talking about how much we miss each ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I (21F) give him (23M) another chance?
4
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18suuga/should_i_21f_give_him_23m_another_chance/
Alarming-Introvert44
2024-04-07 02:57:03
1,712,458,623
0
['matches']
0
1bxtu6f
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxtu6f/cant_get_a_date/
2
I've (25F) been on the apps for about 2 weeks now. Gotten 70 matches and 30 conversations. All the conversations have either started with something sexual from the guy so i don't respond and the others i just don't get a message back. Is this just how the apps are or is there something i should be doing? I keep seeing ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can't get a date
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxtu6f/cant_get_a_date/
MyLeftMostHand
2022-06-21 00:28:18
1,655,771,298
null
['matches', 'dating apps', 'okcupid']
0
vh065b
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vh065b/xpost_because_i_didnt_know_about_this_sub_advice/
1
I've been Seriously Looking since about January of this year, but I've kind of always been looking. My first instinct when I wanted to try more seriously to find a partner was dating apps; I'm now on 5 different ones after deleting OkCupid when it was only bots. It is... bleak. 3() matches in 2 months, only one of whic...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
(x-post because I didn't know about this sub) Advice for dating in a small town? I (30 cishet m) have never dated and I'm at a loss.
null
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vh065b/xpost_because_i_didnt_know_about_this_sub_advice/
Peregrine2976
2018-12-17 19:02:01
1,545,073,321
null
['matches', 'tinder', 'okcupid']
0
a72qmb
true
Venting
9
0
/r/dating/comments/a72qmb/honestly_beginning_to_lose_hope/
4
26 (soon to be 27) male. Super geeky, PC gaming, web programming, Star Trek, etc. Was with a girl for 7-ish years, since the tail-end of high school, before she broke it off a few years ago. At this point I've been trying to date for a coupe years. Trying to find someone with at least \_some\_ common geeky ground to sh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Honestly Beginning to Lose Hope
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a72qmb/honestly_beginning_to_lose_hope/
worldtraveler42
2019-08-26 02:05:00
1,566,785,100
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app']
0
cvhrp6
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cvhrp6/matched_with_someone_i_see_every_day_but_no/
1
Basically I matched with a coworker on a dating app (no rules against it, no boss subordinate relationship, no professional interaction) but we have never spoken in person just seen each other casually in passing but not even a hi. I saw them, swiped right for kicks, and we matched. I thought at best we are interested ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Matched with someone I see every day but no response
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cvhrp6/matched_with_someone_i_see_every_day_but_no/
tendiesforlife4242
2022-06-08 14:03:09
1,654,696,989
null
['swiping', 'tinder']
0
v7qech
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/v7qech/i_am_just_confused/
1
I (M25) and this woman (F25), have been kind of seeing each other for the last couple months. She broke up with her last boyfriend a few months ago and is not ready for anything serious right now. Simple, right? Not for my overthinking brain. We spend a solid week cuddling and making out, nothing past first base, and t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I am just confused
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v7qech/i_am_just_confused/
Accomplished_Pie_99
2024-02-07 14:58:02
1,707,317,882
0
['matches']
0
1al4th8
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1al4th8/should_i_ever_let_a_date_know_im_a_cam_model/
1
I’m not sure if I should tell my dates this or not also I’m bi so I’m not sure if men or women would react differently if at all since it’s not a everyday thing. thank you.I’m in my early 20s most my matches I plan to date are older 40+ for men and all ages for women any advice is appreciated
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I ever let a date know I’m a cam model?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1al4th8/should_i_ever_let_a_date_know_im_a_cam_model/
Top-Chard864
2024-08-02 03:30:21
1,722,569,421
0
['online dating']
0
1ei02ch
true
Support Needed 🫂
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1ei02ch/online_dating_show/
1
Im starting a online dating show and I need contestants, all you need is a camera and a microphone, and a discord account. If you are interested shoot me a message with your discord and I'll send you a google form to fill out to make sure I match you with good contestants.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online Dating Show
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ei02ch/online_dating_show/
Dynamicthetoon
2024-01-29 22:26:33
1,706,567,193
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1ae868d
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ae868d/how_to_stop_getting_text_anxiety/
3
I matched with a girl on hinge 2 days ago, today the conversation went great, lots of flirting back and forth, pretty much instant replies then got her number and went to whatsapp where it continued, went on for about 4 hours during the day when we were both at work, a few hours later after work I text her again and th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to stop getting text anxiety
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ae868d/how_to_stop_getting_text_anxiety/
Ukelele-in-the-rain
2016-09-22 06:47:50
1,474,526,870
0
['dating app']
0
53xrbu
null
null
19
null
/r/AskMen/comments/53xrbu/when_meeting_someone_from_a_dating_app_on_which/
0
The first date when you are just meeting for coffee and finding out if you click seems very presumptuous to me.
AskMen
t5_2s30g
When meeting someone from a dating app, on which date would you want to be informed that they are married, in an open r/s and only looking a fwb situation?
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/53xrbu/when_meeting_someone_from_a_dating_app_on_which/
liveintheforest4ever
2020-05-20 23:55:22
1,590,018,922
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
gnm1i7
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gnm1i7/im_confused_about_a_guy/
1
So I matched with a guy on tinder a while ago, and I wrote to him first. We started writing long messages to each other and the conversation flowed well. We got to know each other somewhat and I think he's a really cool guy and that we have a lot in common and similar interests. For some reason neither of us were flirt...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
im confused about a guy
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gnm1i7/im_confused_about_a_guy/
buddha619
2019-07-02 03:57:30
1,562,039,850
null
['dating apps']
0
c84hbz
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/c84hbz/is_it_time_to_bin_dating_26m/
3
Been single since 2015, came out of a 4 year relationship which was very toxic at the end. Ever since then I haven’t been able to maintain a connection with anybody, saw a few people, connected with them and got real close but always just petered out into nothing or they just ghosted me. Don’t do dating apps cause they...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it time to bin dating? (26M)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c84hbz/is_it_time_to_bin_dating_26m/
Pretty-General-4043
2023-11-17 16:17:42
1,700,237,862
0
['matched']
0
17ximzx
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17ximzx/4_days_no_contact_do_i_give_up/
1
Hoping for some advice. I met a guy on an app, but he was more of a gentleman..wasn’t sending inappropriate pics and asking for crazy favors. We are both divorced to give context. We messaged for a couple of days, and he expressed that he looked forward to our convos more than he expected. I decided to leave the app, b...
dating
t5_2qhb1
4 Days no contact. Do I give up?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ximzx/4_days_no_contact_do_i_give_up/
NonstickPhysics
2017-11-02 17:27:05
1,509,643,625
null
['dating apps']
0
7ad2it
false
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7ad2it/things_move_to_fast_am_i_doing_something_wrong/
1
I’m a 23 year old guy. I didn’t date for a long time because I was focused on school and work. I’m now in the dating world, still busy because of jobs and establishing my career so I have gone the Internet dating route. Now I have no problems talking to girls or starting the first conversation. The problem is after we ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Things move to fast. Am I doing something wrong?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7ad2it/things_move_to_fast_am_i_doing_something_wrong/
MasterFasterBlaster
2023-10-01 04:46:50
1,696,135,610
0
['dating sites']
0
16wrwyv
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16wrwyv/i_absolutely_do_not_understand_dating_women/
1
I just dont get it. I go out and have an absolute blast with this girl twice. Same/similar interests, motives, life goals. We stay out with each other FAR longer than we planned having a great time talking and laughing literally non-stop for hours on end. Both times ive seen her its been non-stop fun and good conversat...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I Absolutely Do Not Understand Dating Women
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16wrwyv/i_absolutely_do_not_understand_dating_women/
[deleted]
2013-02-25 04:59:02
1,361,768,342
0
['pof']
0
196bu2
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/196bu2/im_20_and_hes_20_were_both_on_pof_and_went_to/
2
Which would you do? We didn't hang out a lot in school just said hi and walked away.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm [20] and he's [20] we're both on POF and went to school together. He's on my fb too. He asked earlier on his status if anyone wants to go to a concert and no one has answered. I thought about it but wonder which way is better to start talking to his, FB or POF?
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/196bu2/im_20_and_hes_20_were_both_on_pof_and_went_to/
Zanzar1
2019-09-30 17:47:08
1,569,865,628
null
['tinder']
0
dbfa3v
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dbfa3v/moving_on_is_allways_the_best_option/
3
about a month ago i downloaded tinder and started meeting and sleeping with girls there. it allways go something like that , we meet at some place , talk and laugh for a while , start making out , and then i cut the date of to leave them with taste for more , i find it that once i start to kiss and makeout , usually th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Moving on is allways the best option ?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dbfa3v/moving_on_is_allways_the_best_option/
Lisaabethh
2022-10-28 02:02:11
1,666,922,531
null
['dating sites']
0
yfamkl
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
94
0
/r/dating/comments/yfamkl/at_this_point_sex_toys_are_cheaper_than_dating/
172
I am 25(F) dating usually one male at a time. Once I drove 30 miles just to drop off dinner and went to the store to buy a guy medicine because he was sick and we were dating. I would always buy food or snacks and invest my time in our dates, long phone calls, texting everyday. Because we agreed we were interested in e...
dating
t5_2qhb1
At This Point Sex Toys Are Cheaper Than Dating
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yfamkl/at_this_point_sex_toys_are_cheaper_than_dating/
SarahNaGig
2019-05-25 19:32:41
1,558,812,761
null
['dating sites']
0
bsyioj
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bsyioj/how_do_you_decide_whether_or_not_to_go_on_a/
3
I have been single almost five years now and am becoming increasingly hopeless, wondering what the problem is. I go on dates every few months, so eversince I've been single, I've been on probably about 20-something dates maybe? Mostly online platforms (since I am extroverted but extremely shy about flirting/asking out)...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you decide whether or not to go on a second date?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bsyioj/how_do_you_decide_whether_or_not_to_go_on_a/
mayflowersummer
2024-06-06 20:39:24
1,717,706,364
0
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
1d9sh0k
true
null
24
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9sh0k/dating_sucks_as_a_pansexual/
1
okay i’m on hinge which is a pretty good dating app considering the prompts and stuff and honestly looks wise id give my profile 8/10, personality wise maybe a 7? not too bad idk. but my profile is kinda catered towards gaming and stuff because i enjoy it and i’m looking for someone who does too ?! but rn i’m more spec...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
dating sucks as a pansexual
1
0.47
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9sh0k/dating_sucks_as_a_pansexual/
cozzo123
2023-04-03 16:13:16
1,680,538,396
0
['tinder']
0
12ap4xx
true
Support Needed 🫂
3
0
/r/dating/comments/12ap4xx/woman_i_was_sweet_on_blew_things_off_and_i_cant/
3
I (M26) met this woman (F31) through tinder and while talking through text and on our first date I was immediately impressed by everything about her. She has a great career, owns her own home, is smart, completely independent, has cool hobbies and is very pretty. She’s also quiet and introverted like I am. I’m also ind...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Woman I was sweet on blew things off and I can’t stop thinking about why I wasn’t not good enough
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12ap4xx/woman_i_was_sweet_on_blew_things_off_and_i_cant/
Defiant-Statement-51
2023-02-10 18:11:01
1,676,052,661
null
['tinder']
0
10yynnj
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/10yynnj/how_can_i_tell_if_someone_is_love_bombing_as_a/
2
So I (22, F) have a tendency of attracting narcissists. This has been a pattern of mine for god knows how long and now that I’m finally aware of this pattern and the trauma that’s causing this pattern, I’m consciously trying to stay away from men that project narcissistic behaviour. A few months ago, I was fucked over ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How can I tell if someone is love bombing as a narcissist or is genuinely just interested in me?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10yynnj/how_can_i_tell_if_someone_is_love_bombing_as_a/
DemonFuzz95
2022-08-31 21:47:31
1,661,982,451
null
['tinder']
0
x2pnx4
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x2pnx4/struggling_with_girls_losing_interest_ultra_fast/
2
I'll try not to make this one too long guys hopefully and thanks. I'm a 26m who's just starting dating and gettin in the game, My whole life I never felt interest in goin out with women and having sex due to depression, isolation and anxiety. I did lose virginity at 22 with a girl I hung out twice back in college but t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Struggling with girls losing interest ultra fast
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x2pnx4/struggling_with_girls_losing_interest_ultra_fast/
Lost_Tiger_213
2023-08-08 08:34:23
1,691,483,663
0
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
15lc2q4
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15lc2q4/looking_on_opinions_how_to_prepare_mentally_for/
2
I have matched with a girl on dating apps a while ago. We have started talking and quickly realized how much we share in terms of our views, and it seems to be going well between us. We live at a distance which is manageable to have a get together pretty easily, and have been planning for it on and off over the time we...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Looking on opinions how to prepare mentally for my date
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15lc2q4/looking_on_opinions_how_to_prepare_mentally_for/
chaosdunk69
2023-01-28 22:15:39
1,674,944,139
null
['dating apps']
0
10nr6a6
true
null
31
0
/r/AskMen/comments/10nr6a6/how_do_you_meet_potential_partners_in_yours_30s/
0
Title says it all. I turn 32 this year. Overall things in life are pretty good for me (career is fine, finishing grad school in May, good friend circles, invested in a couple hobbies with friends there as well and I live in a decently big city area) but, i've been single a few years now and I hate dating apps (have tak...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How do you meet potential partners in yours 30's without the use of dating apps and going to bars?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/10nr6a6/how_do_you_meet_potential_partners_in_yours_30s/
ClimbingHighClimbUp
2019-08-27 23:55:52
1,566,950,152
null
['dating app']
0
cwcs66
true
null
6
0
/r/dating/comments/cwcs66/in_need_of_some_advice/
1
I'm a 22 year old male who's been out of dating for many years. I have the confidence and social skills to talk to random women and have them reciprocate back. I tried dating in my college last year, but it seemed that almost nobody wanted to reciprocate this time around. I had welcoming body language, a sense of humor...
dating
t5_2qhb1
In need of some advice
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cwcs66/in_need_of_some_advice/
Skolis
2019-05-27 16:50:09
1,558,975,809
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
bto9sn
true
Venting
14
0
/r/dating/comments/bto9sn/dont_give_up/
30
So I just discovered my previous 8 year relationship was very abusive, I say discovered because I am in therapy for the recent death of my bio dad and the Dr basically laid it out for me. I am trying to fill a hole in my heart I have had for the last 10 years. I am so lonely and depressed normal things that would bring...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Don't give up...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bto9sn/dont_give_up/
EVILRAFFAM
2024-08-03 22:07:34
1,722,722,854
0
['matches', 'online dating', 'facebook dating']
0
1ejfb6m
true
Question ❓
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1ejfb6m/online_dating_has_left_me_feeling_really/
1
M (24) here and been lucky in the past and met my second GF from facebook dating. I returned this year as my ex gf and I spilt and I got to be honest, online dating seems really tough. I am around average looks and get matches, but everyone just ghosts. I got 3 dates in 2 months and every one just bailed on me the week...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating has left me feeling really disillusioned, is this normal?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ejfb6m/online_dating_has_left_me_feeling_really/
cyclingjuicetren
2023-12-04 17:12:19
1,701,709,939
0
['dating apps']
0
18aov5p
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/18aov5p/what_is_the_best_way_to_say_to_someone_who_we/
1
I think I’ve finally gone through the sleeping around phase as a guy, and can say that I’ve learned a lot about myself.. including not being able to have casual relationships/FWB So when I moved to my new state, I made it out for myself to just meet up with more girls and go on more dates. Prior to this I’ve only been ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What is the best way to say to someone who we originally wanted to keep it casual, but caught feelings for?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18aov5p/what_is_the_best_way_to_say_to_someone_who_we/
itsmysecret123
2024-02-09 16:26:54
1,707,496,014
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1ams1m6
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ams1m6/im_25f_having_a_hard_time_getting_to_go_on_an/
1
So I (25F) use Hinge a lot. I've never seemed to have much trouble with it before but early last year, I moved to a new city and it's been hard. Last year ended up going by fine, and then I took a 4-5 month dating break because I was busy and just got back on a couple weeks ago. I'm having SUCH a hard time these past f...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm (25F) having a hard time getting to go on an actual date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ams1m6/im_25f_having_a_hard_time_getting_to_go_on_an/
nycthrowaway338
2022-09-06 01:16:03
1,662,426,963
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
x6x0f3
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x6x0f3/was_i_ghosted_if_so_when_is_it_safe_to_double_text/
1
I (25 M) matched with two girls on Hinge recently. Let me just get right into it. Girl 1: after matching with me Friday night, she asked me what I like about her neighborhood and I responded honestly. Two days later, I responded “wbu? Are you a fan?” context: her neighborhood is an upscale hotspot for (mainly) locals a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Was I ghosted? If so, when is it safe to “double text”?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x6x0f3/was_i_ghosted_if_so_when_is_it_safe_to_double_text/
rgx14
2023-09-26 23:38:37
1,695,771,517
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
16t43k2
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16t43k2/wwyd_need_advice_he_asks_for_number_then_says_hes/
1
Header kind of explains it all. Matched with a guy on tinder a couple weeks ago (he’s 28 I’m 24). Chatted for a couple days then he asks for my number. he texts me, we throw out a couple places to meet up for a first date. He asks when I’m free - I say that particular weekend I was .. he then says he’s busy.. for the n...
dating
t5_2qhb1
WWYD- NEED ADVICE 🥹 he asks for number then says he’s busy for a few weeks, but is still interested? It’s been 2 weeks since I heard from him
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16t43k2/wwyd_need_advice_he_asks_for_number_then_says_hes/
_anon_qui_qui
2023-11-16 07:14:30
1,700,118,870
0
['matches', 'swipe', 'dating sites', 'tinder']
0
17wgvru
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17wgvru/why_hasnt_anyone_been_able_to_compare_to_him/
1
I (32F) have only recently started making an effort to put myself out there and date. I’ve had a couple serious relationships in the past, but it’s been a few years now. I’m not lacking in experience by any means, but after years of random hook-ups and short term flings, I took a break from it all to focus on myself (s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why hasn’t anyone been able to compare to him?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17wgvru/why_hasnt_anyone_been_able_to_compare_to_him/
hausubbnozes
2020-02-24 20:34:16
1,582,576,456
null
['tinder']
0
f8xmya
true
null
4
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/f8xmya/have_you_ever_slept_with_someone_pretty_soon/
0
I broke up with my LDR bf of one-year. The relationship was very toxic and on/off, especially towards the end. After breaking up with him, I got on Tinder (he downloaded Tinder too from what he told me) and I met up and slept with a stranger (we were safe). The sex and even the chemistry was amazing actually. We didn’t...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Have you ever slept with someone pretty soon after a breakup? If so, how did you feel afterwards?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/f8xmya/have_you_ever_slept_with_someone_pretty_soon/
Jalicat
2021-03-26 14:00:17
1,616,767,217
null
['online dating', 'bumble']
0
mdpa5m
true
Seeking Advice
133
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/mdpa5m/cut_him_loose_or_wait_it_out/
39
I’m going on a fifth date this weekend with a guy I met on Bumble. He’s wonderful - kind, thoughtful, proactive about planning dates, good communicator - and I find him attractive, but my feelings for him haven’t really grown any stronger during the time we’ve been seeing each other - I really liked him on our first da...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Cut him loose or wait it out?
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/mdpa5m/cut_him_loose_or_wait_it_out/
rory9879
2022-03-08 10:52:47
1,646,736,767
null
['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
t9e977
true
null
59
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t9e977/need_help_interpreting_this_35_year_old_man/
0
Basically we met on the apps 3 years ago, spent a year chatting online before meeting up a few times but unfortunately he wasn't in a place to date/didn't want to pursue it. We remained online friends, and basically he pursued me to the point that I confessed to still being interested in him. He basically didn't acknow...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Need help interpreting this 35 year old man.
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t9e977/need_help_interpreting_this_35_year_old_man/
[deleted]
2012-04-04 18:11:22
1,333,563,082
1
['okcupid']
null
rt8ei
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/rt8ei/3_dates_not_feeling_it_break_it_off_in_person_or/
1
Hey y'all. I'm a 27/f, met a 27/m on okcupid a couple of weeks ago and have been on 3 dates and had sex twice. We are not official or exclusive or anything like that. The guy (let's be creative and call him "John") is really nice and sweet, but is moving too fast for me, and I'm also a little bit annoyed by some of his...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
3 dates and not feeling it. Break it off in person or phone?
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rt8ei/3_dates_not_feeling_it_break_it_off_in_person_or/
DMTD3MON
2023-02-16 19:53:00
1,676,577,180
null
['tinder', 'hinge']
0
113ze4o
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/113ze4o/had_great_first_date_but_no_spark_or_chemistry/
2
Some context: Met this girl on hinge a week ago, got her number, texted back and forth a bit. FaceTimed for a few hours and got a date set up for Valentine’s Day On the day of our date I showed up with flowers ( might be extra but she loved the gesture) had dinner and went to an arcade afterwards and got a few drinks. ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Had great first date but no spark or chemistry, what went wrong?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/113ze4o/had_great_first_date_but_no_spark_or_chemistry/
highlygalactic
2024-03-18 00:59:22
1,710,723,562
0
null
0
1bhe5g8
true
null
13
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bhe5g8/am_i_being_slow_faded_or_am_i_overthinking/
4
Hello! I (21F) started talking to this guy (22M) about three weeks ago, and we went on our first date on Thursday. I thought it went well and he said it did as well. Ever since that date, though, he has barely talked to me. Prior to that, we texted all the time and he would ask me how my day went, blah, blah. Now it's ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Am I Being Slow Faded, or Am I Overthinking?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bhe5g8/am_i_being_slow_faded_or_am_i_overthinking/
SpectralFlash
2017-05-13 14:38:20
1,494,686,300
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
6ay53i
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6ay53i/first_date_went_very_well_why_the_sudden_loss_of/
2
I (25M) Matched with this girl (21F) on tinder. (We've both made it clear we're both looking for something more than a hookup). We talked for a couple days, exchanged numbers and texted for a couple more and set up a time/place for our first meet-up. It was nice out so we grabbed some ice cream and went down to a local...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First date went very well! Why the sudden loss of interest?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6ay53i/first_date_went_very_well_why_the_sudden_loss_of/
dowhatyoulove4u
2021-02-02 21:10:59
1,612,300,259
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD']
0
lb6ixt
true
Tinder/Online Dating
5
0
/r/dating/comments/lb6ixt/21m_old_newbie_with_questions/
1
Hey so I am 21 M, have never done OLD before, nor Reddit. I just got out of a long term relationship, any advice for a (probably) below average looking guy, who's strenhs are mainly in my personality? Also, everybody here says that the average girls get seemingly hundreds of matches while the average guys get barely an...
dating
t5_2qhb1
21M OLD newbie with questions!
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lb6ixt/21m_old_newbie_with_questions/
Unhappy-Might2777
2024-08-15 21:10:24
1,723,756,224
0
['dating site']
0
1et6m3e
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1et6m3e/slightly_racist_bf_help/
0
so im only 18F years old half black and half white and hes 21M half mexican half Honduras, been talking for maybe 2 months now and we met on a dating site that he quickly deleted when we started hanging out. he was quick to ask to me exclusive and everything else has been going great. he reassures me, he gets me food a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
slightly racist bf?? help
0
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1et6m3e/slightly_racist_bf_help/
matitsarichie
2019-09-17 17:37:46
1,568,741,866
null
['bumble']
0
d5kcdl
true
null
120
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/d5kcdl/take_care_of_yourself_like_you_would_of_himherthem/
2,672
I used to treat my significant other so wonderfully that I’d always put myself second. I went to the airport to pick up a Bumble date and got him his favourite food when he wouldn’t even ask how I was when I lost my voice due to illness. I cared so dearly for an abusive ex that I took care of him when I found out he ha...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Take care of yourself like you would of him/her/them
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d5kcdl/take_care_of_yourself_like_you_would_of_himherthem/
BigGirlsDontKrye23
2021-10-09 14:28:31
1,633,789,711
null
['tinder']
0
q4mf39
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/q4mf39/starting_to_think_a_casual_hookup_is_starting_to/
0
Hey Reddit! I’m having a little trouble trying to navigate myself through this. I (31M) have been single for the last 8 months. I was previously in a very serious 8 year relationship and the landscape of dating has changed so much since then. I decided to dip my toe back into the dating pool, not looking for anything s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Starting to think a casual hookup is starting to want more.
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q4mf39/starting_to_think_a_casual_hookup_is_starting_to/
Dear-Boysenberry-822
2024-05-07 15:56:17
1,715,097,377
0
['dating apps']
0
1cmfai8
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmfai8/am_i_missing_something/
1
I'm a 32m, I've been separated from my boys mother for almost 2 years now. We were together for almost 10 years and have 2 kids together. I've been trying to get back out in the dating world and it just seems impossible. Dating apps, fb dating and things like that seem just pointless. No matter who I like or message I ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I missing something?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmfai8/am_i_missing_something/
MichaelEmouse
2020-02-19 00:20:58
1,582,071,658
null
['tinder']
0
f61tmo
true
Question
16
0
/r/dating/comments/f61tmo/does_anyone_else_feel_like_being_friends_first/
2
Everything I (36M) want in a friend, I would want in someone I date, although the converse isn't true. It feels like going from stranger/acquaintance to dating is too much too fast for me. I don't know that person and we're supposed to trade DNA within a few hours of meeting? It's expected we'll have sex within about a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does anyone else feel like being friends first?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f61tmo/does_anyone_else_feel_like_being_friends_first/
ahhhtoomuchpressure
2019-08-18 05:06:41
1,566,104,801
null
['dating apps']
0
crx5nn
true
null
13
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/crx5nn/i_wish_men_would_understand_that_just_because/
0
I just need to vent. Haha. But I am a bigger girl, but I’m mostly hourglass shaped. So I get a lot of guys on dating apps that message me about my boobs or my curves. I am generally happy with myself, but I am kind of self conscious about my body, and when guys mention it, even with a “compliment” I feel really uncomfo...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I wish men would understand that just because they like our bodies doesn’t mean we want to talk about it
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/crx5nn/i_wish_men_would_understand_that_just_because/
RightSea1508
2024-07-06 07:08:35
1,720,249,715
0
['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
1dwjuab
true
Support Needed 🫂
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1dwjuab/he_said_he_isnt_ready_to_date_and_i_saw_him_on/
3
Hahaha, that sucks :( His life is kinda busy and hectic, so we decided to stop dating. We were exclusive and dated for 3 months. He literally said he doesn't want to date right now, his life is so preoccupied that he doesn't have the extra time to be in a healthy relationship. This was just 2 weeks ago. And then I saw ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
He said he isn‘t ready to date and I saw him on hinge and bumble
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dwjuab/he_said_he_isnt_ready_to_date_and_i_saw_him_on/
JSaturn8
2022-01-12 05:43:08
1,641,966,188
null
['dating sites']
0
s1yn87
true
I Need Advice
15
0
/r/dating/comments/s1yn87/dating_sites_here_i_come/
6
Any advice/tips you have for me...my friends keep telling me to get back out there and try these sites- I'm nervous and I guess a bit curious...any tips for me? One better than the other? Ty in advance!
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating sites here I come...
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s1yn87/dating_sites_here_i_come/
GeneralClumsy
2020-07-10 11:45:53
1,594,381,553
null
['okcupid']
0
honhh9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/honhh9/am_i_doing_something_wrong/
1
So I'm (24m) new to the whole dating thing, I downloaded okcupid a little more then a week ago and I've messaged a couple women and I haven't even gotten a response from any of them so far. Now I wouldn't say I'm unnatractive but I'm an average looking gamer so I've tried using gaming as an icebreaker since the women I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I doing something wrong?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/honhh9/am_i_doing_something_wrong/
[deleted]
2015-08-12 22:40:12
1,439,419,212
0
['plenty of fish']
0
3gs3et
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3gs3et/cuddling_girl_sending_many_mixed_signals_that_i/
0
So I'm 17 and recently (6 months or so) became friends with an already established friend group. One of the girls in this friend group I immediately thought was cute and started talking to her more and more to the point where we both trust each other. This sort of increased talking started around 3 months ago before su...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Cuddling. Girl sending many mixed signals that I have no idea how to interpret.
0
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3gs3et/cuddling_girl_sending_many_mixed_signals_that_i/
pyramidsofgeezer
2021-07-20 16:13:56
1,626,797,636
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
oo57ur
true
Success!
63
0
/r/dating/comments/oo57ur/success_i_think/
486
So I matched with a guy on a dating app and we had been chatting for a while (I know this is usually a bad idea before meeting, but we live far apart, and he happened to be visiting my area). Anyway we met up and I really liked him Our coffee date turned into a whole day together He was so interesting to talk to, funny...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Success I think
null
0.98
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oo57ur/success_i_think/
Leftkimakabhochda
2024-01-27 21:03:45
1,706,389,425
0
['tinder']
0
1ackyoy
false
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ackyoy/i_want_to_leave_the_girl_i_am_dating/
1
I am a 27M Indian guy dating an American girl 21F. Initially, we met on Tinder. I went on a few dates and it was lovely. She is weed smoker and I hate it. This is also my fault for selecting 420 friendly without actually checking. For a month now, I don't have any money or a job or a car to support myself. I deny every...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I want to leave the girl I am dating
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ackyoy/i_want_to_leave_the_girl_i_am_dating/
Soggy_Ambassador_827
2022-04-26 02:33:37
1,650,940,417
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps']
0
uc29al
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/uc29al/is_it_working_for_you_open_question/
1
I’ve been on the online dating apps for quite long.. you might say 2-3 years now, looking for someone to meet, genuinely like and fall in love together. I’m a 28 yo guy who now has started feeling the pressure of relatives for marriage. I can hardly take 2-3 years before they start pushing me really hard for it. By the...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it working for you? (open question)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uc29al/is_it_working_for_you_open_question/
plutonamer
2018-11-04 15:32:17
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/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9u4703/dating_anxiety/
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Does anyone else feel like they have more anxiety around dating than others? Sometimes I just feel like I'm not cut out for this and it makes me sad. I've been dating on OLD on and off for a few years now. Recently I was feeling burnt out but then I actually had a great first date. I'm having a hard time just enjoying ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Dating anxiety
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9u4703/dating_anxiety/
throwthisawayy33t
2021-01-21 13:35:31
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l1yk09
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/r/dating_advice/comments/l1yk09/please_help_im_a_clueless_schmuck/
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So basically: I (M) met this girl a couple years ago in the hospital, we were in the same unit and I was able to get to know her a bit, we clicked and I really wanted to get to know her better, but due to personal reasons for both of us, we couldnt start the relationship, and we ended up ghosting on our messages. Thats...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please help, I'm a clueless schmuck
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l1yk09/please_help_im_a_clueless_schmuck/
iScubaSteve
2016-01-30 19:25:04
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43fhra
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/r/dating_advice/comments/43fhra/nerd_needs_matchcom_first_message_help_im_dumb/
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So this girl (20yr) and I have pretty much all the same interests (a 97% match, if that matters) and I've been wanting to send a message for awhile now. I don't want to come across as "hey, we like all the same stuff, we're perfect for each other" and I'm really shy and always overthink things and don't know how to mov...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Nerd needs Match.com first message help (I'm dumb)
3
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/43fhra/nerd_needs_matchcom_first_message_help_im_dumb/
Blunk9
2021-03-16 23:13:59
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/r/dating_advice/comments/m6m5sy/im_joining_a_dating_app_and_i_have_zero/
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(M24) I also have pretty bad social anxiety and low self esteem. If I manage to get a match, what should I do to quell my anxiety and catch their attention?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm joining a dating app and I have zero experience dating.
null
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m6m5sy/im_joining_a_dating_app_and_i_have_zero/